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Nollywood Actor John Okafor, Mr Ibu's Family Drama · DidiLawren

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Hello and welcome back to another episode of bunted.
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Lauren. See, how are you all doing?
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I hope you're doing great happy weekends.
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Now, if you're in Nigeria or if you're in Nigerian or in all the
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would love on social media, you would know that social media has
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been buzzing over Nollywood actor know Hollywood legendary
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actor. Mr. Evil also known as or
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Gianluca for also known as mr. Abu now, John O'Connor for has
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maintained kind of a very good clean image.
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Although he was married before this was pretty social media.
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So we didn't really know what happened, but he was kind of an
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icon. It not only a comedy icon on
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Nollywood, so we all love Jonica for regardless of Wars going on
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in his private life. For some time, he kind of got
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out of circulation, he was no longer making movies.
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He gradually interview to say that he has been sick.
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He has been going through her some health challenges poison
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and all those kind of things and that has been going on for some
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time. And we in fact there was a time
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that people wanted to make donate money for him and he said
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no that every he is okay. He is fine.
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He is managing properly now. We just sitting there, minding
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our business, his daughter, Jasmine Chalmers, who car for
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got married to somebody, she met two weeks after she met them
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online and then they got married and then the marriage kind of
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dissolved because she found out that the man is married was
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married with Children after the issue is Jasmine after Jasmine
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came out to say that Miss table is had that people started
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making different interviews me. Able to bounce back into the
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Limelight. She said I doing skits with
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Jasmine, it was on Tick, Tock, he was on YouTube.
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I looked at my side, but then I was like, wow.
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This man just got another lease of life, because he were from
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looking really old too kind of looking younger.
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It was having different headquarters, and he was taking
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better care of himself, which I credited to Jasmine.
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Because I mean, we grew up watching Hollywood movies.
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And most of us we forgot we know Messiah, but we know he's
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committed a comedic actor. But I think we just forgotten
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about that era of Nollywood and that era of Comedy.
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But Rama kind of brought him back into our Limelight because
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she was making thick top videos with him.
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She was having YouTube. She has a YouTube channel where
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they do videos and this generate I've watched some of those
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because Messiah be is very funny.
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Other than even need to say anything before you start
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laughing. So, that's generated a whole lot
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of views. Now, the bone of contention,
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we're just sitting there minding our business, I woke up this
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morning and then I realized that his second wife Stella Maris who
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careful posted the video on social media, where she claimed
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that mr. Abel wanted to assault her,
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according to the video from the the content of The video he was
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asking her. I think she said something about
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your mama saying, that all Chama is his girlfriend, so he was, he
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was fired up. He was like, why, who is trauma
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to me? Who is trauma, as in?
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You could tell that he was trying to get her to say what
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she said before, making the recording.
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Now, I want you to watch this. Tell me who is trauma now.
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You know United biggie man. Talk to me, talk to me.
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Talk to me now. Talk to me, talk to me.
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Now. Give me a signal.
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After posting this video, she also reached out to just lava
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from what she sent to just lava. I mean, it's a very long-winded
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text. I'm not even going to read for
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you right now. But what she said in the summer
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is just that missed. Abu is not the father of Jasmine
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new car for like Jasmine just popped out of nowhere.
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She's not managing his accounts all his money and everything
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that she gets, only, what Jasmine wants him.
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Once hard to get. You were talking about 65
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million property that she according to her, Jasmine wants
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to sell that just want to sell this house.
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Jasmine is dating mr. Abu like it was just a read it
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and you Thing, that came to my mind was that this is just about
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money because I didn't see me sideways not working, Jasmine
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literally is one trying to put me stable back into the
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Limelight and this woman is just concerned about money.
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I mean, I am not even trying to judge put that from the tone of
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what she was saying. That was what it appeared.
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So after this whole incident we just love her.
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Jasmine reached out to Daddy freeze for an interview.
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Which he granted. And during the interview, the
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children were there to kind of defend their father, which is
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Miss table. And I mean, the two songs were
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there plus Jasmine, who will now realize that she is an adopted,
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there's nothing wrong with adopting a child.
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I mean, it's just this Africa mentality that if you don't
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birth a child, then that child does not belong to you.
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I will never understand it, I don't get it but apparently,
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they are trying to make him look.
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See, yes, Jasmine because you are adopted you are not his
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biological child so you don't have any rights or something
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like that. Anyway during that interview the
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he was asked how many children he has and he said 14 and I was
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like excusez-moi, 14 children mystery.
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Boo has 14 children 13 biological children and Jasmine
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who is an adopted Third child. Now, according to their
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arguments, this woman has three children mystery.
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Boo already has eleven children before he married her.
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He has a great. He has grandchildren at this
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point in time. So they were saying that all she
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wants is money or she's talking about selling the house.
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She's talking about taking over his social media accounts
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because she could see that money is now coming in, she did not
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have problem with him when he was an actor, making money.
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Shoot, she has never walked according to mr.
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Boone, since America has never walked, he has been the one
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taking care of her and her family.
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So, according to them now, they own mr.
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Boo, this man has 14 children. Not just three children that he
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has with his second wife. Both from what's evil.
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According to them, they gave her a million naira and within two
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weeks. She was coming back.
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Back to ask for another. I think it was 12,000 night.
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Like, I don't get it. But, according to mr.
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Abu and the children, they said, you just have three.
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Why dad had 11 Hood before he married?
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You, he has other children that he needed to take care of now.
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If he, he gave her 1 million error and in two weeks time, she
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was coming back to ask for another 12,000 that in fact,
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that mr. Becerra selling properties to be
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able to me, Also had demands because right now, he's no
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longer walking, but since he has a real working with Jasmine,
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doing skids, Instagram, Tick-Tock, and some time making
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money. In fact, according to Jasmine,
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any money, the money that they made of tick-tock she called,
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and that money was transferred to her.
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They made about 250,000 during the life Tick Tock and they gave
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her that money like the two thousand and fifty thousand and
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give this woman notwithstanding that that this is not the only
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children that he has. So if he is selling properties,
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just to make Stella Maris happy. How does that work now before
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you could say? Jack Stella Maris mr.
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It was second wife went on live, to explain how one side of the
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story. Now, watch how one side of the
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story. What?
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Major liability King personally to Regions Bank.
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Bring him back. That's why I want him to come
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back now. I've been given to the jail
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several times and December December 8th with then.
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My brother-in-law was yet, he will bear me with this.
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I when they were living apart because they came with our 25th,
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they came on transcripts for visiting.
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So when they were leaving are not holding her baby, come back
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now. When are you coming back?
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He said I are gonna finish what she was doing.
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I say I woke up. I Are you doing?
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He said, very small I said, okay, I don't want to First you
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image and everything. I hope you are the one in
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charge. I hope you are.
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You are, you know, standing you are letting your father know
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that you are a man. Now you can close in as well.
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Like before as you said, Stepmom.
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He's not after his dad say this is coming.
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Back is for his selfish interest and I've called him was tied
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again. I said, biggie, do you know that
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this decision was about life being recognized?
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You with your elder, brother is Africa to destroy your family.
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Remember that this thing we have personally in the nearest
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Future. He said he doesn't care.
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That I won't mention that he spent time in shown it to grab,
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whatever he wants that he is selfish right now, doesn't care
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about the mother, he doesn't care about his stepmother.
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He doesn't care about the father watching all these listening to
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both side. Tell their own story and
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everything. I just couldn't believe that
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people are fighting over properties.
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Possession of Somebody that is living breathing and able to
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communicate according to Stella Maris, oh, my husband is he has
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memory loss. He has this, he has that, and I
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did not see any of that in that if his interview, because he was
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even the one correcting, the sun.
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This is all said he had 13 children.
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He said, we said, we said no that, I asked 14 children
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because he was obviously counting just me.
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Men as a child. So when the boy was interesting,
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he said mood, I asked 14. So what I am getting from this
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whole thing is Stella Maris, his wife is trying to take
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possession of mr. Abu to say that.
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Okay, this man he is not see is no longer functioning his, he
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has memory loss. He doesn't know what he's doing,
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but from all indication, from what I mean, it's very good that
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he was. Out on life because he could
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explain yet, he was not like talking because he's an elderly,
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man. I mean, he would not, I wouldn't
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even want him to come and start, you know, blabbing all those
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things. So, the children did most of the
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talking but he was correcting them, or he was kind of making
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impute in things that they said that he knew the exact answers
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to that does not seem like somebody who has Memory loss.
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He might be suffering from some kind of illness according to the
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children. He has cholesterol.
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So that does not mean he cannot function, which is trying to do
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right now with Jasmine. But according to just me, the
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wife and the wife's family sisters are saying that she is
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not biologically related to miss table.
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So why should she be the one handling the page?
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Why should she be the one using him to get Fame?
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I don't know. One thing I would say is that I
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think Jasmine believes that this table is her father.
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This is a young woman with a child, a an eight-year-old child
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so obviously she knows what fatherhood means, she knows what
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he or she experiences. It's more for her to come out
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and say that this is my father. I don't think that should be
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taken away from her in any way, shape or form, just because he
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is not her biological dad. Now, if this adopted daughter,
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is the one trying to put your, your husband, or your father
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back into the Limelight. I don't think that should be a
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problem. I think what they're trying to
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do is to take possession of mr. Abel because mystery book, He's
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a living legend. There is no video that is going
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to appear in by do going to go viral.
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They know that he is a good mind, shyama Jasmine understands
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that and it's tapping into that, but that does not make it a bad
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thing when she will not doing it.
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He was just there going from one hospital to the other without
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because not only will they are no longer giving him scripts.
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So what do you want him to do? He is selling properties.
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To appease his wife to Patron. Happy called when we tell people
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don't marry at all the age. This man is just supposed to be
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sitting down right now and drawing cup of tea cup of coffee
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because I don't think you should be drinking.
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To be honest, if you have high cholesterol with that stomach,
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you shouldn't be drinking more. Let's just assume you're just
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sitting there with a glass of wine or glass of whatever you're
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sitting down. Drinking.
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You shouldn't be worried about school fees.
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At that age. He has grandchildren.
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He has grandchildren. So sometimes when you see people
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saying oh, a man, a man can marry as any age.
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A man is a man among her father children.
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These are can issues. These are the issues at your
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age, you have children under 10 years old, you have
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grandchildren who are as old as your children and then your wife
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is dragging. You left right center is, is I
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think it's just sad because from the look of things he he really
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tried to kind of make peace, but I think that relationship has
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been over because according to the children, he left the house
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over a year ago, so Stella Maris is.
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The magic is done. I don't understand.
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This is this is where II don't really know what she wants.
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She says she wants her husband back.
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The marriage is not what the mind is not working.
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I don't think she wants her husband.
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I think she wants everything. I think she want the brand of
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mystery boo. She wants to take possession of
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that brand. She wants to be the one to
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manage and control the brand. Not really him as a husband.
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Now that is a problem because if maybe she Read the brand.
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Not Jon Acuff, or maybe she married.
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Mr. Abu, not John Okafor. And now since mr.
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Boo has kind of resurrected, and is now making money?
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She wants mr. It will back not junk car for
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calling to mr. Bush is always insulting him
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when he doesn't have money, she's always getting a family
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members to fight him when he doesn't have money or when she
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died. He tries Any time you request
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form, she requests for money. He goes out borrow if he doesn't
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have, he make sure that he borrows money and give to her,
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this whole drama right now is over 12,000, naira, 12,000 era.
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After he gave a 1 million in the space of two weeks, she was
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demanding for 12,000 naira and this whole drama is over 12,000.
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Now, it is just sad, it is sad. All I would say is that, anybody
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thinking about polygamy, anybody thinking about, Having multiple
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children with multiple women, having everything.
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How do we think? Because you might be admissible,
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have 14 children from. I am very sure.
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Maybe three, four, baby mamas but one is dragging.
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You one is you're always going to have that wound that will
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drag you that one that will drag you so those are those are
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really pay. Anyway, thank you very much for
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watching today's episode. And once we bring you more
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updates as this story unfolds, or hopefully fingers crossed,
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this should be the last social media drama involving you
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couple's family because I mean, this is Family Matter.
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This is family issues. If they should go and resolve
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their still have an gay job, that is what mr.
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Bundy children are telling you to do.
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I think she doesn't get that yet.
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She thinks she can just call and get money whenever she, you know
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this entitlement. In Behavior, like, Guan cell
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line to give me money. I need money, your children's
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school fees. How about you?
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I think this whole thing is about, you know, telling her to
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get in trouble, making her to, actually do something for
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herself. She is not understanding that
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yet, but hopefully she gets that.
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So, thank you very much for watching today's episode, please
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Bye, bye.