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EP 477: Heauxs Can Get Married Too! · Decisions, Decisions

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  Speaker 1: Oh, where are we going?
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  Speaker 2: Oh, Decisions Decisions With glasses on, you look like you're
• 0:17
  Speaker 2: in the wedding man, bitch, I can't see if Stevie
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  Speaker 2: wonder who Welcome here, everybody to another episode of Engaged Decisions. Bitch,
• 0:29
  Speaker 2: we is here today like a holy matrimony, uh, to
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  Speaker 2: bring the love together the I'm your girl, Mandy Bee
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  Speaker 2: aka the unengaged one.
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  Speaker 1: Bitch, my name is Weezy a k A. I'm still
• 0:46
  Speaker 1: not scared to lose a nigga? How about that? Still
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  Speaker 1: ain't scared to lose a nigga? But you in love
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  Speaker 1: it here? What way can I tell y'all secrets? I
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  Speaker 1: hate that at the same time, like I want people
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  Speaker 1: to still believe me when i'd be like, I hate niggas.
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  Speaker 1: Fuck these niggas.
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  Speaker 2: Oh my god, aymore not fine, No, they're gonna start
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  Speaker 2: talking about you like the city girls and the girl around.
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  Speaker 1: But I'm gonna tell you right now, I'll be inside
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  Speaker 1: of his dick skin, curled up, and then I pulled
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  Speaker 1: the dick skin back, and I really be sitting there
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  Speaker 1: on the phone with my bitches while I'm in the
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  Speaker 1: dick skin.
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  Speaker 2: Like bitch niggas ship. She was worried about the music. No,
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  Speaker 2: we're unmonetized. Just for this first intro Nigaga Dick Skin.
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  Speaker 3: Well, that didn't make it any better.
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  Speaker 2: I could be alive. And I also know they're gonna
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  Speaker 2: listen to this and be like all of these bleeps.
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  Speaker 2: Why do you all do this? Hey, guys, you want
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  Speaker 2: to hear the unbleeped versions over the Patriot except the
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  Speaker 2: one I.
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  Speaker 1: Got No One can't love You? Okay, where y'all want
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  Speaker 1: me to start? Be?
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  Speaker 4: I mean I think we should start.
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  Speaker 2: Do you want to start with the engagement or quick
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  Speaker 2: recap of the live show?
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  Speaker 4: Like where do you want?
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  Speaker 2: Let's do a live show and then it's fresh, you know,
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  Speaker 2: very fresh, very very cute, very dimy, and you introduced.
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  Speaker 4: The audience to the man, so the man.
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  Speaker 1: We had such a good live show last Tuesday. Thank
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  Speaker 1: you for everybody that came. Lex surprised us.
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  Speaker 4: Yes, I did not know she was coming.
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  Speaker 1: I knew and Alex what I fucking stole the show,
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  Speaker 1: which they forgot where they were there.
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  Speaker 2: Hello.
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  Speaker 1: But the most amazing thing to me was like this
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  Speaker 1: was a show where if you didn't know, now you know,
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  Speaker 1: I unleashed my engagement and he came out on stage
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  Speaker 1: and we played a game together. I was more nervous.
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  Speaker 1: We played for a crowd three times this size PC
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  Speaker 1: you know what I mean, and no worries. But I
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  Speaker 1: think what makes it scary is I'm just like, you know,
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  Speaker 1: you just don't know if things will be well received
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  Speaker 1: and if people will show you love. And it was
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  Speaker 1: just I was already filling the love with with like
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  Speaker 1: from people giving it to us that day, so it
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  Speaker 1: just felt even better. But I think for me, the
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  Speaker 1: main thing is, you know, my I almost say boyfriend.
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  Speaker 1: He don't have no fucking Instagram. He barely takes photos
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  Speaker 1: in his phone. We go on vacation. We could be
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  Speaker 1: anywhere in the world and be like, oh okay, that
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  Speaker 1: looks nice. Held just it's a very like simplistic person
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  Speaker 1: in that way that's just detached from what I would
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  Speaker 1: say is like new age culture and live shows is
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  Speaker 1: a part of new age shit.
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  Speaker 2: I also want to call cap this nigga was backstage,
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  Speaker 2: he was producing us.
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  Speaker 1: He's like, you know, I don't do this. I'm just
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  Speaker 1: a civilian.
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  Speaker 2: And then we get backstage and he's like, no, so
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  Speaker 2: I think you should do it this way. And then
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  Speaker 2: I come out like this, and I said, but you're
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  Speaker 2: just a civilian, but you're producing us nigga.
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  Speaker 1: You know what? Well, now I could share His family
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  Speaker 1: came and most of them didn't know that came that
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  Speaker 1: we were engaged. That was a nice pride for real.
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  Speaker 1: H yeah, I think only two of them did. And
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  Speaker 1: then he invited six people. Only one knew. Wow, So
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  Speaker 1: that was why he was like, okay, like for this show,
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  Speaker 1: like how nast are you and Vandy about to get
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  Speaker 1: Like are you gonna be talking about how Biggs dog
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  Speaker 1: you're out? Like bitch, can you can off yourself down?
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  Speaker 2: And I will say, like there was, uh, there was
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  Speaker 2: a conversation that me and him had before going on
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  Speaker 2: stage because now that like we cool, I said, dang,
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  Speaker 2: I guess I gotta respect this bitch.
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  Speaker 4: So like again, you already know how we you know,
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  Speaker 4: used to be.
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  Speaker 2: And so I went to him and I was like, hey,
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  Speaker 2: is there anything that you don't want said?
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  Speaker 4: Like, because this is y'all's moment.
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  Speaker 2: And I know we're up there doing jokes and we
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  Speaker 2: nasty and we free codes and all this, but is
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  Speaker 2: there anything you don't want said? And because I do
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  Speaker 2: know your family is coming. I didn't know what family members.
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  Speaker 2: And it's funny because he did say he said, the
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  Speaker 2: only thing if you could just if you could just
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  Speaker 2: not say like how big of a host she was
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  Speaker 2: before she got with me, Like because I don't want
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  Speaker 2: my family to like, I just don't want them to like,
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  Speaker 2: just don't say dary.
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  Speaker 1: Bitch, holes get bad, holes.
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  Speaker 4: Get bad, Like don't talk about how big about home.
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  Speaker 1: And that's the first thing, let said.
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  Speaker 2: Hold On, so Lex come up on stage and bro
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  Speaker 2: I almost cringe. So Lex, Lex, of course was not
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  Speaker 2: a part of this conversation with me and him, but
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  Speaker 2: that's the one thing he asked.
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  Speaker 4: So Lex comes up with a bottle of champagne.
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  Speaker 2: It's like, Dre can't be here, but this is from
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  Speaker 2: me and Andrea and I just want to let air
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  Speaker 2: about to know.
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  Speaker 1: Hold did get married too, And I was like, oh lord,
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  Speaker 1: but you know, it's interesting. It's never a policing of
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  Speaker 1: the pod. It's like, oh shit, like they're about to
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  Speaker 1: be right there looking, you know what I mean. And
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  Speaker 1: I think that gave him a lot of anxiety, and
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  Speaker 1: he would never say it did, but I get it
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  Speaker 1: because he's just like, fuck it, she's entertaining on her
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  Speaker 1: show whatever. But I think what it really is because
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  Speaker 1: anytime I say someone show, hey, can I say this,
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  Speaker 1: is gonna talk about us doing this whatever. Spoon shit,
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  Speaker 1: y'all find out saying I can't believe you did that.
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  Speaker 1: He more so is like I don't give a fuck.
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  Speaker 1: But that night, I think it's like, oh, now I
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  Speaker 1: gotta sit in front of them. When you do it,
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  Speaker 1: it's just like youth. But luckily you know it always chill.
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  Speaker 1: I really actually wouldn't change a fucking thing about life now.
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  Speaker 4: I'm not gonna lie.
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  Speaker 2: Sorry horror Hive for anyone who missed it, this was
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  Speaker 2: by the best show that we've ever done.
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  Speaker 1: And I will tell you I don't even think I
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  Speaker 1: had to do with the engagement there.
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  Speaker 4: No, I mean just the flow of it.
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  Speaker 2: By the way, guys, comedians going in the profile don't
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  Speaker 2: look like this.
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  Speaker 4: I don't like this.
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  Speaker 3: I don't like this.
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  Speaker 4: I don't like it.
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  Speaker 1: Oh, I don't like it. I don't like it. No, No,
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  Speaker 1: you were great. Nadi shut out to Howard Nandi tex
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  Speaker 1: I had I felt like I watched a comedy show
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  Speaker 1: and I was like.
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  Speaker 2: I had bits. Guys, I practiced my jokes. And here's
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  Speaker 2: the thing. When we go on tour, a lot of
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  Speaker 2: it is improv because we were doing like fucking fifteen
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  Speaker 2: plus cities. So I said, joking, if I got to laugh,
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  Speaker 2: I said, at the next city, this was like a
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  Speaker 2: one time shot. So I've actually been preparing these jokes
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  Speaker 2: for the last two weeks. And so we think, like,
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  Speaker 2: what are we gonna talk about it? And I said, we'll
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  Speaker 2: have jokes. She's like, bitch, what do you mean you
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  Speaker 2: have a set? And I said, I got a set, bitch.
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  Speaker 4: And they laughed. The jokes here like.
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  Speaker 2: I just talked about how I have a little dick
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  Speaker 2: if I were this is not what Canadians do bad?
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  Speaker 1: Do you think? Is this my bit?
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  Speaker 4: Am I gonna go live?
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  Speaker 1: I'm gonna to my ft Do you think about it?
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  Speaker 1: I shut the funk up? What is tiding my man's face?
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  Speaker 1: And your joke? We filmed?
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  Speaker 2: Wait, we filmed the whole show? Is it going up?
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  Speaker 2: We'll do some clips.
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  Speaker 4: I just thought, I my funny ass jokes.
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  Speaker 1: Don't get me because the conversation. We're not doing another
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  Speaker 1: goddamn live show.
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  Speaker 3: Okay, Ever, we're approaching.
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  Speaker 1: A voice message I got from my friend my thoughts
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  Speaker 1: about the jokes.
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  Speaker 2: Wait, and I'm trying to I got a review in
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  Speaker 2: a voice note.
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  Speaker 1: Stop. Also, he said something and I was like, oh bitch,
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  Speaker 1: this is fucking we're using this fucking quota's works as merch.
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  Speaker 1: What is it?
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  Speaker 4: Put it?
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  Speaker 1: And I didn't want to just you know, like babes
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  Speaker 1: be pulling up the church and ship that. She felt like, I, God, damn,
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  Speaker 1: sex church. That's what I want to call our show
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  Speaker 1: a sex church.
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  Speaker 4: We can't.
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  Speaker 2: That's that's almost like Saint John. He has like sex cult. Huh,
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  Speaker 2: sex church, sex cult, same thing.
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  Speaker 1: We can't make that merch. Sex church, sex church.
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  Speaker 4: That's all he said. I thought you were gonna get something.
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  Speaker 1: Oh no, no, no no. He left a three minute one. I
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  Speaker 1: can't find the part where he said you were funny.
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  Speaker 1: That just got into that part.
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  Speaker 3: It's there, though, it's definitely there.
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  Speaker 1: It was a three minute voice message of.
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  Speaker 4: By the way, your friend is also serial killer?
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  Speaker 3: What do you mean?
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  Speaker 4: Three minute voice notes? Unacceptable?
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  Speaker 1: This? Have you heard my I asked for these? You
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  Speaker 1: never heard my greeting?
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  Speaker 4: Have you not right?
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  Speaker 1: The way?
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  Speaker 2: Weezy does not accept my boundaries, even though we are
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  Speaker 2: in a good space.
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  Speaker 3: This bitch rarely.
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  Speaker 1: This bitch refuses to not send me voice notes.
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  Speaker 2: I do not open voice notes. I actually transcribe them.
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  Speaker 2: But you know how bad Apple is. It transcribing gets
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  Speaker 2: the words wrong all the time. Then I gotta go
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  Speaker 2: back and listen, because what the fuck are you talking about?
• 9:19
  Speaker 1: It's just me, No I ask people. I'm trying to
• 9:22
  Speaker 1: play it. But Apple will be taken forever. But in
• 9:24
  Speaker 1: my voice notes, it's gonna get my voicemail thing.
• 9:27
  Speaker 4: Deep jobs like the Apple is really not what it
• 9:29
  Speaker 4: used to be.
• 9:30
  Speaker 1: Well, what am I supposed to go to? The green text?
• 9:34
  Speaker 3: That is fair?
• 9:36
  Speaker 4: He looked destroyed you.
• 9:37
  Speaker 1: It's crazy you think I'm not gonna deal with the
• 9:39
  Speaker 1: bar spinning around like the deal bro.
• 9:42
  Speaker 4: I got another line. I got a whole other phone.
• 9:45
  Speaker 2: So when I got to upgrade, I said, I'm not
• 9:46
  Speaker 2: gonna do two Apples this time. I'm gonna get the
• 9:49
  Speaker 2: Android that like flips and folds. Bitch, that shit is
• 9:54
  Speaker 2: on a table. Never turned on you. It's just too
• 9:59
  Speaker 2: much like and then it's like it's it's a square,
• 10:04
  Speaker 2: it's a square.
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  Speaker 3: And then I open it.
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  Speaker 2: But it's like my anxiety of learning a whole new
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  Speaker 2: type of screen.
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  Speaker 1: Miss is the keyboard. Oh but anyway, my voice message
• 10:14
  Speaker 1: basically says, hey, I'm popular to the contrary, I love
• 10:16
  Speaker 1: voice messages or some shit like leave me a voice message,
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  Speaker 1: like to make me laugh, Like I say that on
• 10:21
  Speaker 1: my greeting, and then what it's your greeting. That's what
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  Speaker 1: I say. Hey, you've reached voicemail, wheezy, like, may.
• 10:27
  Speaker 2: Wait till the voicemail, but you got three rings. I'm
• 10:30
  Speaker 2: not making it to your voicemail because I wouldn't leave
• 10:32
  Speaker 2: you a voicemail.
• 10:33
  Speaker 1: I don't leave voice I love voicemails. It's just nostalgia.
• 10:36
  Speaker 4: It's always fucking.
• 10:39
  Speaker 1: Anyway, really quick. But we had four kingsters, which we've
• 10:46
  Speaker 1: never had before. I actually would probably do three next time.
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  Speaker 1: Just one opener, but now the two openers. We I
• 10:51
  Speaker 1: liked having two openers and then one minute. So much kink.
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  Speaker 4: It was so much kink.
• 10:55
  Speaker 1: It was great, so so much kink. Oh, let's talk
• 10:59
  Speaker 1: about the game created. Let's talk about that.
• 11:01
  Speaker 4: Oh okay, so we played.
• 11:05
  Speaker 2: If you've been to our show, We've done like blind
• 11:06
  Speaker 2: date games, We've done dating games. This one was based
• 11:10
  Speaker 2: off of my Unicorn story in No Holds Bard.
• 11:14
  Speaker 4: If you guys don't know.
• 11:16
  Speaker 2: We are also celebrating our baby turning a year and
• 11:20
  Speaker 2: it kind of like what happens when a baby do
• 11:22
  Speaker 2: something new.
• 11:22
  Speaker 4: Maybe it got its teeth.
• 11:24
  Speaker 2: So baby, basically our baby is now also available in
• 11:27
  Speaker 2: paperback form. I'm trying to relate our book to a baby.
• 11:30
  Speaker 1: Boy. Run that through chat?
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  Speaker 4: What you don't like the you don't like the joke?
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  Speaker 3: You got the go joe?
• 11:35
  Speaker 1: First off?
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  Speaker 4: Last night, you know you know my jokes.
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  Speaker 2: I did not run through chat, bitch.
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  Speaker 4: I ran through with my nigga and he helped punch
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  Speaker 4: me up?
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  Speaker 1: Which one?
• 11:44
  Speaker 4: And then I don't do that? You number one, number
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  Speaker 4: one nigga?
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  Speaker 1: So yes, no holds. Bard is basically what we based
• 11:52
  Speaker 1: some of the themes off of last night. This was
• 11:54
  Speaker 1: a completely brand new show, which is probably what made
• 11:56
  Speaker 1: it more fun too. We brought Howad Tree to life. Yeah. Well,
• 11:59
  Speaker 1: by the way, I just want to run this really quickly.
• 12:02
  Speaker 1: I do not believe y'all didn't get it. No, I
• 12:04
  Speaker 1: can't believe nobody got this. Really shows how cultured all
• 12:07
  Speaker 1: of you are. Okay, no one got this.
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  Speaker 2: Let's see how fast the audience can get it. I
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  Speaker 2: think it's how I read it. I don't like how
• 12:14
  Speaker 2: you read it. Don't do the same thing. You don't
• 12:16
  Speaker 2: you make me let's see you're ready? Do you make
• 12:20
  Speaker 2: me holler? Do you make me sweat? I can't get
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  Speaker 2: your tenderness still, I can't get you off my mind?
• 12:30
  Speaker 1: What is it about you? Baby? Well? Do you know?
• 12:34
  Speaker 1: Oh wow, I'm still in love with you. Boy? Well,
• 12:39
  Speaker 1: I'm a hustler and a player, and you know I'm
• 12:42
  Speaker 1: not a stayer.
• 12:44
  Speaker 4: That's just what the fuck?
• 12:47
  Speaker 1: I hate? Laugh? Boy? You make you know? It's crazy
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  Speaker 1: when everybody knew every word.
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  Speaker 3: Everybody knows like.
• 12:59
  Speaker 2: Mama Wolf is, Like, I think he's a little young.
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  Speaker 2: He's well, don't you grabbed its?
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  Speaker 3: Fucking Mike. I ain't taking no disrespect. Thirty one, thirty three,
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  Speaker 3: I'm thirty one.
• 13:13
  Speaker 1: What grew up with that song?
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  Speaker 4: First off, your fucking DJ now that GPS.
• 13:19
  Speaker 1: You know the song?
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, I do know the song, but that's the video.
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  Speaker 4: I can't say like I got that that day that
• 13:28
  Speaker 4: did that.
• 13:29
  Speaker 3: But I'm from Texas though, that ship, ain't you.
• 13:31
  Speaker 1: Know what I mean? Oh that's right?
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  Speaker 3: Uh dancing.
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  Speaker 1: Okay, sorry, okay, this is this is okay. So basically
• 13:50
  Speaker 1: we did it brand new show No Holds Barred was
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  Speaker 1: part of our Kinsters, so I worked off the chapter
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  Speaker 1: my Dom chapter, and Mandy did her Unicorns in Mexico, which.
• 14:00
  Speaker 2: Means we had three audience members come up and they
• 14:03
  Speaker 2: had to shoot. They shot, so they had to do
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  Speaker 2: a pickup line, talk about how they would set the
• 14:09
  Speaker 2: mood and the meal they would cook if they hosted
• 14:12
  Speaker 2: a night in their home, and then of course I
• 14:15
  Speaker 2: made them do lock dances.
• 14:17
  Speaker 1: So before the show started, I literally said to Mandy,
• 14:21
  Speaker 1: you know it would be fun. Why don't we just
• 14:23
  Speaker 1: bring my boyfriend up. This is before I was engaged.
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  Speaker 4: I know, I want you all to know.
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  Speaker 1: I was like, fuck, that Weezy is really Coe, even
• 14:29
  Speaker 1: though she.
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  Speaker 4: Don't want to admit it.
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  Speaker 2: She literally didn't post her engagement video online. And she said,
• 14:36
  Speaker 2: uh uh, I want to bring them out. We're gonna
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  Speaker 2: announce it a live show. I said, okay, you're gonna
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  Speaker 2: hold off a week just so She said, yeah, you know,
• 14:44
  Speaker 2: like I want to introduce her. I said, oh, bit,
• 14:46
  Speaker 2: you Oe.
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  Speaker 1: You know what you're not.
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  Speaker 4: You be acting like you're private and you really care
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  Speaker 4: about the internet.
• 14:52
  Speaker 1: That was private, We're not posting it. Yeah. That was
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  Speaker 1: just five hundred people anyway, not thinking I was engaged,
• 15:01
  Speaker 1: I'm like, fuck it. And then I had this idea
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  Speaker 1: of like, let's get a guide to do it with
• 15:05
  Speaker 1: me and then see if just like not say it
• 15:08
  Speaker 1: with my boyfriend, just be fun and cheeky and so
• 15:10
  Speaker 1: literally a few days later, I called Mandy on FaceTime, y'all,
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  Speaker 1: which if I called Mandy to tell her my engagement,
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  Speaker 1: I ain't called many people. That's how you did it.
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  Speaker 1: I felt so special.
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  Speaker 2: I come into the room and if she started telling people,
• 15:23
  Speaker 2: I said, oh, bitch, I'd before all these people.
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  Speaker 1: She called me.
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  Speaker 2: When I'm in the bed with a nigga, and so
• 15:31
  Speaker 2: she said are you up right now?
• 15:32
  Speaker 4: And I said.
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  Speaker 2: No, And then she's like, no, we should really talk
• 15:38
  Speaker 2: about the live show.
• 15:38
  Speaker 4: I have an idea. I said, weezy, I'm not up.
• 15:42
  Speaker 2: And then finally she sends me the ring and said, bitch,
• 15:45
  Speaker 2: I was calling to tell you I was engaged. Then
• 15:47
  Speaker 2: I FaceTime back, but the fact that she thought I
• 15:49
  Speaker 2: was gonna FaceTime it.
• 15:51
  Speaker 1: I actually facetimed a little bit of everybody that I called,
• 15:54
  Speaker 1: you know how. The craziest reaction actually was Cammy Crawford, like, really,
• 16:00
  Speaker 1: really screamed, I only hit her because she and I
• 16:02
  Speaker 1: were engaging in the combo about Bridle. Shit, we're not
• 16:06
  Speaker 1: super close, but it was nice to show that mom
• 16:07
  Speaker 1: or her. But okay, so here's what happened. I have
• 16:10
  Speaker 1: worked that day. Everybody asked me, did you know what
• 16:13
  Speaker 1: was gonna happen? We picked up, but you thought it
• 16:16
  Speaker 1: was gonna happen four times before we really me not
• 16:20
  Speaker 1: getting engaged on my birthday was crazy.
• 16:22
  Speaker 4: No, the way or Christmas.
• 16:25
  Speaker 1: You gonna happen, It's gonna happen.
• 16:27
  Speaker 3: Would you have preferred on your birthday? Yeah?
• 16:28
  Speaker 1: Like like to know the difference in the moments. So
• 16:32
  Speaker 1: he had that mindset like most people do have, like
• 16:35
  Speaker 1: s let the birthday be to birthday.
• 16:36
  Speaker 4: But I was like, okay, I'm not mad at that.
• 16:38
  Speaker 3: I agree.
• 16:38
  Speaker 4: I actually agree with that.
• 16:39
  Speaker 1: I actually think it's special on a birthday. It was
• 16:41
  Speaker 1: a big birthday. It was thirty fifth birthday, so but.
• 16:44
  Speaker 2: Then it takes away from the big birthday. Yeah, you
• 16:47
  Speaker 2: get the birthday and engage. I love I love that
• 16:50
  Speaker 2: he didn't make it like a holiday or birthday because
• 16:52
  Speaker 2: then you know, I'm not I don't put.
• 16:55
  Speaker 1: No, I didn't even realize like in one year of
• 16:57
  Speaker 1: the book, and how it was tied to my engagement.
• 16:59
  Speaker 1: We'll talk about that. Oh okay, I don't know if
• 17:02
  Speaker 1: you know that. Oh yeah, it was intentional, Okay, let
• 17:05
  Speaker 1: me tell y'all. So I did think it was going
• 17:07
  Speaker 1: to be around my birthday, and then I did have
• 17:09
  Speaker 1: a hint, and I'm glad it didn't happen this way.
• 17:11
  Speaker 1: My father's birthday is June first, and he was saying
• 17:17
  Speaker 1: how he wanted to be there for his birthday, and
• 17:19
  Speaker 1: then I remember thinking he told me that month ago.
• 17:20
  Speaker 1: I was like, he would propose to me on my
• 17:22
  Speaker 1: dad's birthday at the nursing home, which actually, wow, was
• 17:27
  Speaker 1: my first guess. Okay, which he was going to do
• 17:31
  Speaker 1: when I got there on my birthday or no, when
• 17:33
  Speaker 1: his parents came. My dad was just kind of having
• 17:37
  Speaker 1: an episode that I thought was a real reality, and
• 17:39
  Speaker 1: thank god it didn't end up being that way. But basically,
• 17:41
  Speaker 1: he saw my mom and I that day, and you
• 17:43
  Speaker 1: know when people have dementia and they're feeling sick, that
• 17:45
  Speaker 1: just just happens. He literally said, nobody else is coming
• 17:49
  Speaker 1: here except for you too. I don't want to see
• 17:51
  Speaker 1: anyone else. Don't bring any other people here because sometimes
• 17:54
  Speaker 1: we do. I bring Brionda, Brian whatever, and I'm just
• 17:57
  Speaker 1: like what And so I'm saying to my dad my
• 18:00
  Speaker 1: boyfriend's name, so I can't ring him nobody. He's yelling
• 18:02
  Speaker 1: at me, and it was like really tough on me
• 18:05
  Speaker 1: because my boyfriend's parents flew there expecting to meet Godda.
• 18:10
  Speaker 1: So I came home and I was in tears and
• 18:12
  Speaker 1: I was like, yo, I don't know what this is
• 18:17
  Speaker 1: going to be like anymore. And he's like, listen, we'll
• 18:19
  Speaker 1: just have to plan things out. When he's having a
• 18:20
  Speaker 1: great day, then I'll come over. But it's just a
• 18:22
  Speaker 1: bad day. It's just a bad day. I was like,
• 18:24
  Speaker 1: I don't want you to see him for a while
• 18:25
  Speaker 1: because I feel like now that intensity is the next
• 18:28
  Speaker 1: person he sees. So he didn't come to LA from
• 18:32
  Speaker 1: it has birthday, so I guess the only time he
• 18:35
  Speaker 1: felt like he could do it was before I leave
• 18:37
  Speaker 1: to LA because he wanted me to show my dad
• 18:40
  Speaker 1: and have that moment alone. So I had work that
• 18:43
  Speaker 1: day and I was having a terrible day. I woke up.
• 18:46
  Speaker 1: I'm not even joking, y'all. I literally get up, threw up,
• 18:49
  Speaker 1: and shit and this is at this point it was normal.
• 18:53
  Speaker 1: It's just normal for you. And I was like, oh
• 18:54
  Speaker 1: my god, my period started. I've peptobysmo on the counter.
• 18:58
  Speaker 1: The pink is dripping because I was rushed out the
• 19:00
  Speaker 1: door for work. I get to work and I'm with Dave,
• 19:04
  Speaker 1: who's been a longtime debutf Poenia employee and also is
• 19:07
  Speaker 1: my main photographer, who my man knows. Apparently my man
• 19:12
  Speaker 1: wanted to ask Dave to take pictures, but when he
• 19:14
  Speaker 1: found out I was with Dave, he was scared to
• 19:15
  Speaker 1: text him because he knew would be ruined, and he
• 19:18
  Speaker 1: was very sensitive about me finding out because bitch, I'm nosy.
• 19:22
  Speaker 1: So he was like, oh, let's go to Central Park.
• 19:24
  Speaker 1: After I'm like, oh, my blood is so thick, I
• 19:27
  Speaker 1: can feel it. But britch, I didn't know it all
• 19:29
  Speaker 1: my five roys after that, so I don't get out
• 19:32
  Speaker 1: of work till four. I was supposed get off at one,
• 19:34
  Speaker 1: and he's like, let's still go to the park. And
• 19:35
  Speaker 1: he was like, you're about to leave. We're about to
• 19:37
  Speaker 1: go to Europe, Like you gotta go. I still didn't
• 19:40
  Speaker 1: think nothing because of how shitty I was feeling. Then
• 19:43
  Speaker 1: we meet up where my job is on the city bikes.
• 19:46
  Speaker 1: He's got Nina. It's like, oh no, that's our shit.
• 19:49
  Speaker 1: And I'm like, oh, that's such a bad movie. He's like,
• 19:51
  Speaker 1: why you're period. I'm like, there was a clip plosted
• 19:54
  Speaker 1: on a blog and it was I was like, it
• 19:57
  Speaker 1: just makes us look like gossipy bitches. It makes the
• 20:00
  Speaker 1: fucking cache of the Showa.
• 20:02
  Speaker 2: You're literally you're literally like, I'm gonna be off the
• 20:04
  Speaker 2: internet for the rest of the day.
• 20:05
  Speaker 1: I sat, I was like, I can't look at it.
• 20:08
  Speaker 1: I can't.
• 20:08
  Speaker 2: The man you was laughing, got mind you mind you.
• 20:11
  Speaker 2: She not only does she say I'm off the internet,
• 20:14
  Speaker 2: she she hops in the slack. It starts cutting off
• 20:16
  Speaker 2: the team.
• 20:23
  Speaker 1: Okay, So we get to the park and you know,
• 20:26
  Speaker 1: in New York's weather just flocks up. It was super
• 20:29
  Speaker 1: hot and suddenly it got cold, and I was like, ah, bitch,
• 20:34
  Speaker 1: what's the point. Let's ask going. He's like, yo, we're here.
• 20:39
  Speaker 1: Then he he didn't want to make a spectacle of
• 20:42
  Speaker 1: it because we're in Central Park, and he goes, let's
• 20:44
  Speaker 1: go under the shade. And I was like huh and
• 20:46
  Speaker 1: he's like, oh, okay, okay, let's just He's like, fuck it,
• 20:48
  Speaker 1: let's just go in the center then, but I'm still
• 20:51
  Speaker 1: not picking it up. He gave no clues away except
• 20:54
  Speaker 1: for one thing. We passed that Central Park boathouse tavern
• 20:57
  Speaker 1: on the Green and he goes because he knew how
• 20:59
  Speaker 1: a bad day. Do you want to get a glass
• 21:01
  Speaker 1: of wine or something to relax? And I was like no.
• 21:06
  Speaker 1: He's like, are you sure you don't want something? And
• 21:07
  Speaker 1: he never offers me alcohol. It still doesn't sound it's no,
• 21:11
  Speaker 1: But that was just the only off thing. Then we
• 21:13
  Speaker 1: laid down on other thing and he's like, let's take
• 21:15
  Speaker 1: some deep breaths, which is actually still normal for him.
• 21:18
  Speaker 1: But he wanted to bring me down from the anger,
• 21:21
  Speaker 1: so he proposing me a Central Park because in No
• 21:25
  Speaker 1: Holes barred obviously he wanted to do it with my
• 21:28
  Speaker 1: father there. But the second best thing was in No
• 21:31
  Speaker 1: Holds bard I said, love doesn't look like I'm paraphrasing
• 21:34
  Speaker 1: what you think. It's not some guy that kicks the
• 21:37
  Speaker 1: soccer ball and stays I'm like, oh, will you spend
• 21:39
  Speaker 1: the rest of your life for me, have a happily
• 21:40
  Speaker 1: ever after? It's the nigga you fuck with bitches that
• 21:42
  Speaker 1: you met on hinge and so he was like, no,
• 21:45
  Speaker 1: you can't have a happily ever after. So he wanted
• 21:48
  Speaker 1: to do that whole thing with a soccer ball and
• 21:50
  Speaker 1: role play and whatever. But the reason he didn't we
• 21:53
  Speaker 1: start playing Uno. And this part to me was very
• 21:57
  Speaker 1: spiritual and very connected. And I don't care if you
• 22:00
  Speaker 1: think this is woo woo whatever, you're woo woo. So
• 22:02
  Speaker 1: how we're lucky numbers five five five. I'll talk about
• 22:04
  Speaker 1: this often, okay. He said that the day he woke up,
• 22:08
  Speaker 1: he sat in the house. He said out loud, he
• 22:09
  Speaker 1: said him Nino was on the couch, and he said,
• 22:11
  Speaker 1: if I'm not supposed to do this, send me a sign,
• 22:14
  Speaker 1: a strong sign, And if I'm supposed to do this,
• 22:16
  Speaker 1: show me five five five. All Day said he didn't
• 22:20
  Speaker 1: see the number. He said he was riding on a
• 22:22
  Speaker 1: bike with me looking at licensed places, and at one
• 22:24
  Speaker 1: point he said, I have to stop looking for it.
• 22:25
  Speaker 1: I stopped looking for it, and he said he was
• 22:27
  Speaker 1: getting annoyed because he still wasn't seeing me. We played Uno.
• 22:30
  Speaker 1: We always played three rounds of Uno, and on the
• 22:32
  Speaker 1: final round of UNO, I won on the numbers five
• 22:34
  Speaker 1: five five. Shut the fuck up on my grandmother on
• 22:39
  Speaker 1: my auntie. That is exactly how I won. His face
• 22:43
  Speaker 1: was so strong, and I've never seen him cry.
• 22:47
  Speaker 4: Because that's about to make me cry because that's cute.
• 22:49
  Speaker 2: It was real wooloo, real WITCHI. But that's because that's cute.
• 22:53
  Speaker 2: It makes I about to cry because that's like, that's
• 22:56
  Speaker 2: really cute.
• 22:56
  Speaker 1: Because I think I'm not a religious person, but you
• 22:59
  Speaker 1: know how like some time going down, you just need
• 23:03
  Speaker 1: to see something that makes you feel like you're going
• 23:05
  Speaker 1: in the right way. And something about my partner that
• 23:10
  Speaker 1: I haven't ever been through pain. He's never hurt me.
• 23:14
  Speaker 1: I've just been hurt a lot. Damn, I'm not trying
• 23:17
  Speaker 1: to get to the moment, but without getting too upset,
• 23:22
  Speaker 1: I've been hurt a lot and feel like people try
• 23:26
  Speaker 1: to make me feel thank you, like I don't really
• 23:28
  Speaker 1: deserve love and this isn't really about getting married more
• 23:32
  Speaker 1: than it is about like getting something you want. Thank you.
• 23:36
  Speaker 1: So I really really felt it in that moment too,
• 23:44
  Speaker 1: And let me build on that for a second. I
• 23:49
  Speaker 1: have been through really bad relationships, not like in the
• 23:54
  Speaker 1: way of tormenting, but like they give me this feeling
• 24:00
  Speaker 1: of like this is just how people are not even
• 24:03
  Speaker 1: meant this is how people are. People will disappoint you
• 24:05
  Speaker 1: to the point where I get used to the feeling,
• 24:07
  Speaker 1: and I know there's someone listening that we have this
• 24:08
  Speaker 1: like wall up in this bridge up because you're like,
• 24:11
  Speaker 1: I'm used to being hurt, so we make sure I
• 24:13
  Speaker 1: act a certain ways so niggas won't hurt me. And
• 24:15
  Speaker 1: some of you have even accused me of being no
• 24:17
  Speaker 1: monogamous for that just so that I don't get hurt,
• 24:20
  Speaker 1: or I would like to fuck a bunch of people
• 24:21
  Speaker 1: just so I won't feel pained. That's absolutely not true
• 24:24
  Speaker 1: that two are separated. And the main thing I could
• 24:27
  Speaker 1: say about this person is like he's never heard me.
• 24:30
  Speaker 1: I've never had to call my homegirls asking for help
• 24:32
  Speaker 1: and blah blah blah, and that you know, maybe that
• 24:35
  Speaker 1: day will call my hope it doesn't. But I've been
• 24:37
  Speaker 1: disappointed by him, but never just broken. And so when
• 24:41
  Speaker 1: that five five to five thing happened, it's the number
• 24:43
  Speaker 1: we see a lot, and he's always said like, I
• 24:46
  Speaker 1: don't know who, and our ancestors want us together real bad.
• 24:48
  Speaker 1: But the last time I was in Sheep's Meadow in
• 24:51
  Speaker 1: Central Park, there's a butterfly that came on my face
• 24:54
  Speaker 1: and I have a tattoo that says butterfly my ankle
• 24:56
  Speaker 1: for my aunt, and the tattoo the butterfly wouldn't leave
• 24:59
  Speaker 1: my face to the point where other people were taking
• 25:00
  Speaker 1: photos of me, like this is so crazy, this is
• 25:02
  Speaker 1: so crazy, and I was like, damn, is it my aunt?
• 25:04
  Speaker 1: So when the five five five moment happened in the
• 25:06
  Speaker 1: same spot, now I feel like there's a portal in
• 25:08
  Speaker 1: the ground. God anyway, so he just kept going like whoa, whoa,
• 25:15
  Speaker 1: like a little too much, and I was like, do
• 25:17
  Speaker 1: with this, nigga. So he didn't do it then, I guess,
• 25:19
  Speaker 1: because he still wanted to let the thing play out.
• 25:22
  Speaker 1: A few seconds later, a few minutes later, I said, man,
• 25:26
  Speaker 1: I was not having a good day, and like, right now,
• 25:29
  Speaker 1: I'm just having such a good day. I got my baby,
• 25:32
  Speaker 1: I got who know, fucking Nina's chilling. Honestly, I could
• 25:35
  Speaker 1: just if we have some cheese right now, That's all
• 25:37
  Speaker 1: I need, not cheese. Then that's when he pulled the
• 25:41
  Speaker 1: ring off, bitch, and he was like, this is making
• 25:45
  Speaker 1: it better. Whatever the fuck he said, don't remember, and
• 25:47
  Speaker 1: I just mind you this is I didn't know what ring.
• 25:50
  Speaker 1: We looked at rings together. I recommend this to everyone.
• 25:52
  Speaker 1: I didn't know what ring it would be. I also
• 25:54
  Speaker 1: didn't think it's gonna be there big because he was
• 25:56
  Speaker 1: complaining about it. He was like, how much is hen complain?
• 25:58
  Speaker 1: Let me use not speak, but I remember him being
• 26:01
  Speaker 1: like oh, and she was like this one is this
• 26:03
  Speaker 1: much and this much. He's like, I think that's actually
• 26:05
  Speaker 1: too much. I was like, no, it's not. I'm a
• 26:07
  Speaker 1: big personality. I need a big ring. I'm a big
• 26:09
  Speaker 1: person I'm not energy. I need a big ring. So
• 26:11
  Speaker 1: the fact that he was big when you opened that box,
• 26:13
  Speaker 1: I was like, ooh. But basically, so he proposes to me,
• 26:19
  Speaker 1: and I started like really having a deep reaction, which
• 26:22
  Speaker 1: I thought I would be cute see and shit, but
• 26:24
  Speaker 1: I was just like damn, and I think everything flashed.
• 26:27
  Speaker 1: I immediately knew it was a no holds barred thing,
• 26:30
  Speaker 1: and I felt that it was thoughtful. I'm sure that
• 26:32
  Speaker 1: in some world someone could think this was a cheap proposal.
• 26:35
  Speaker 1: He should have a fucking hell up for whatever. It
• 26:37
  Speaker 1: was so meaningful to my relationship and my work. And additionally,
• 26:42
  Speaker 1: and the thing that makes me cry too is like
• 26:45
  Speaker 1: everyone has made me feel like my job and what
• 26:47
  Speaker 1: we do will not get you deserving of love. Yeah,
• 26:50
  Speaker 1: this job and that book is exact. Mandy calls it
• 26:52
  Speaker 1: her baby. That is exactly what brought me to that moment,
• 26:55
  Speaker 1: you know, And for him to know it was in
• 26:57
  Speaker 1: his chapter, it was just so dope. I don't even
• 26:59
  Speaker 1: remember what he said. I know he ain't asked me, bitch.
• 27:01
  Speaker 1: He told me you're gonna be and then he remember,
• 27:05
  Speaker 1: He just goes okay, and I was like, yeah, okay,
• 27:09
  Speaker 1: Thank god for bitches in New York City. I'm gonna
• 27:13
  Speaker 1: put the pictures here, but some girls noticed it was happening,
• 27:16
  Speaker 1: just took some photos so we could relive that moment.
• 27:18
  Speaker 1: Nina's in there. So let's talk about the crazy ass
• 27:23
  Speaker 1: day after the engagement, bitch. I get so excited. I'm
• 27:27
  Speaker 1: so happy, and I said, I know you don't want
• 27:29
  Speaker 1: me to be on my phone right now. Can please
• 27:31
  Speaker 1: just tell my mom? And he goes, okay, Sure, I
• 27:34
  Speaker 1: call my mom. Oh my god, congratulates. I'm so happy.
• 27:38
  Speaker 1: I love you I so much. Two seconds later, don't
• 27:40
  Speaker 1: get upset. I'm locked out of the house. Oh my god,
• 27:47
  Speaker 1: I'm locked out. Mind you. I'm like, there's no key,
• 27:51
  Speaker 1: we have an electric thing. The fucking shit added die.
• 27:55
  Speaker 1: Oh it died out of all days, nigga, no fucking
• 27:58
  Speaker 1: thing dies. So you know how to So I'm.
• 28:01
  Speaker 2: Not going to get the big you gotta get the
• 28:03
  Speaker 2: big battery. I yeah, it happened.
• 28:05
  Speaker 1: To me, but it's because it came out the box.
• 28:06
  Speaker 1: We weren't thinking, mind you. It said low battery that morning,
• 28:08
  Speaker 1: and I thought, well, I'll be there tomorrow.
• 28:11
  Speaker 3: Are you one of those?
• 28:13
  Speaker 1: I didn't think it would die in one day, but
• 28:14
  Speaker 1: I'm not gonna lie you one of those.
• 28:15
  Speaker 2: I feel like it said no people think low battery,
• 28:20
  Speaker 2: like when the gas like come on. People would be like,
• 28:23
  Speaker 2: I got my mom a low battery Like no, that
• 28:27
  Speaker 2: was not even me with the remote, I could know.
• 28:30
  Speaker 4: I could see it stopped working and I'm just gonna hear.
• 28:32
  Speaker 3: It yo me, I'm not.
• 28:34
  Speaker 1: I couple times before I need to change the battery.
• 28:38
  Speaker 4: Oh that's why I know she would have just let this.
• 28:41
  Speaker 1: I'm mad at my mom, but it really ain't her fault.
• 28:43
  Speaker 1: I'm like, okay. So I was like, he was like,
• 28:47
  Speaker 1: let's just have somebody else do I was about to
• 28:49
  Speaker 1: ask a friend. I was like, let's just get the
• 28:51
  Speaker 1: locksmith because they're about to be in the house, gonna
• 28:53
  Speaker 1: have to send this out. Let's just do this. So
• 28:54
  Speaker 1: we try to do the locksmith at the same time,
• 28:56
  Speaker 1: getting close, and then finally I'm like, nothing's gonna in
• 29:00
  Speaker 1: this day. Let's just go, let's leave the park. Let's
• 29:02
  Speaker 1: let's let's walk. We found a locksmith, walk out out
• 29:04
  Speaker 1: the park. I'm still crying, I'm still happy. And I screamed,
• 29:07
  Speaker 1: and then I click on Instagram. For some reason, even
• 29:11
  Speaker 1: though he told me don't be on my phone.
• 29:12
  Speaker 4: Yes, and you said you weren't gonna be on the
• 29:14
  Speaker 4: rest of the day.
• 29:15
  Speaker 1: I think it was just like a he was doing
• 29:19
  Speaker 1: something with the dog that clicks. I see a message
• 29:22
  Speaker 1: from a girl name to Posso. Shout out to Tiya.
• 29:24
  Speaker 1: We went to school together as kids. Congratulations. Wait Tiya,
• 29:29
  Speaker 1: we used to Twitter. Yes, Holy Ship. Now why I
• 29:36
  Speaker 1: don't know, bitch, I don't know. Congratulations g Lee, I'm
• 29:40
  Speaker 1: so happy for you, blah blah blah. And I'm like, huh,
• 29:44
  Speaker 1: your mom posted it on Facebook.
• 29:46
  Speaker 2: Oh yo, bitch, because yeah, she's locked out of the house,
• 29:54
  Speaker 2: but she posted it on Facebook.
• 29:56
  Speaker 1: I want to read all the faith. Oh, I know
• 29:59
  Speaker 1: you will moms. Well, I am so excited everyone. My
• 30:04
  Speaker 1: daughter is now engaged. Bitch, it's a I caught it
• 30:09
  Speaker 1: at eleven minutes. Oh my god, congratulations Gila, we love you.
• 30:12
  Speaker 1: Congratulations to your daughter. Oh my god, I'm so happy.
• 30:14
  Speaker 1: I can't wait to contact Wheezy. What bitch cannot spill
• 30:17
  Speaker 1: my own fucke teo girl. So then I called my
• 30:21
  Speaker 1: mom and then actually, this is the first time I
• 30:22
  Speaker 1: saw my being kind of upset with my mom. He
• 30:24
  Speaker 1: was like, yo, I haven't even told my mom.
• 30:26
  Speaker 4: Like, oh no, I put that on the internet.
• 30:28
  Speaker 1: Now someone else is gonna know. I want to tell
• 30:30
  Speaker 1: my parents before you even posted. And I was like,
• 30:32
  Speaker 1: I got it. I gotta got it. I called my
• 30:33
  Speaker 1: mom a speaker. Mom, sat that shit down. Mom, what
• 30:37
  Speaker 1: it's so hot out here? When's the locksmith coming? Mom?
• 30:40
  Speaker 1: Why would you post it on Facebook? I can't. I
• 30:43
  Speaker 1: can't do anything right right, damn it? She goes, how
• 30:48
  Speaker 1: I delete it? I said, the same way you posted it.
• 30:50
  Speaker 1: Figure it up. Call what your little friends? Okay, So
• 30:53
  Speaker 1: we get on the train.
• 30:55
  Speaker 4: Now, how do I delete it?
• 30:57
  Speaker 1: I don't want to beleeve it. So we get on
• 30:59
  Speaker 1: the train and we're a Central Park and I just
• 31:02
  Speaker 1: want to say, my man hates the subway. He'll take
• 31:04
  Speaker 1: the city bike or drive his car. He does night
• 31:07
  Speaker 1: like the train for whatever reason. I don't know if
• 31:08
  Speaker 1: it's some PTSD from him living in Bronx and what
• 31:11
  Speaker 1: we get on the train, We bake it two stops,
• 31:15
  Speaker 1: so we are at a halt for about I would
• 31:16
  Speaker 1: say about twenty five minutes. That's very long, but we're like,
• 31:22
  Speaker 1: you know what, it's like, Hey, we're having a good day.
• 31:24
  Speaker 1: Finally we're having an issue with someone on the tracks
• 31:28
  Speaker 1: at West Forest Street. Bitch, I'm at Central Park. I'm back.
• 31:30
  Speaker 1: I'm about the Museum of National History. Okay, it's going
• 31:33
  Speaker 1: to be another thirty Bays fish and it's underground. So anyway,
• 31:36
  Speaker 1: luckily it opens. We jump out. There's so much congestion
• 31:40
  Speaker 1: from people running out. Now I'm at Herald Square, which
• 31:42
  Speaker 1: is already shit show. If you live in New York,
• 31:43
  Speaker 1: you know where that is. We get out. As we're
• 31:46
  Speaker 1: getting out, it's been about thirty minutes. So the locksmith came.
• 31:50
  Speaker 1: The locksmith told us he would be one fifty. How
• 31:52
  Speaker 1: much is he He's like, hey, I'm here in this
• 31:54
  Speaker 1: is how he said it. I'm here in the house
• 31:56
  Speaker 1: with your mom. It's now open. It'll be two seventy five.
• 32:00
  Speaker 1: So now I'm freaking out. I'm like, this man went
• 32:02
  Speaker 1: up on the price and he's in the house. I'm
• 32:03
  Speaker 1: in gras the phone. He's like, this is disgusting, this
• 32:06
  Speaker 1: is scamming business. You never said this such. You said
• 32:09
  Speaker 1: one hundred and fifty dollars. You should be sticking by you, right,
• 32:11
  Speaker 1: Da da da. While he's on the phone going off
• 32:13
  Speaker 1: in a locksmith because I want to cuss him out,
• 32:14
  Speaker 1: but he's like trying. My man is very calm out.
• 32:16
  Speaker 1: All of you met him. You know this. He's not
• 32:18
  Speaker 1: someone who gets hype like I do. Like you do
• 32:20
  Speaker 1: you you? I know you get a little so bitch.
• 32:23
  Speaker 1: While he's on the phone with the locksmith, a homeless man,
• 32:26
  Speaker 1: I swear to God, is literally doing this, and I'm like,
• 32:35
  Speaker 1: fuck now, other people, you lie, manny. I couldnot wait
• 32:40
  Speaker 1: for him to tell you how this This is not exaggerations.
• 32:42
  Speaker 1: This has never happened to me. Bro, I've had home like, well,
• 32:45
  Speaker 1: approach me.
• 32:46
  Speaker 4: I never you've lived here for like fifteen years?
• 32:49
  Speaker 1: No never? Are you kidding? Mind you? It's so right, bitch.
• 32:53
  Speaker 1: She was crazy We get in the car and we're
• 32:56
  Speaker 1: just sitting there like this, it's only been an hour
• 33:01
  Speaker 1: al engagement, and so he's like, let's just go to
• 33:04
  Speaker 1: our favorite restaurant, right, So we go there, we're eating,
• 33:07
  Speaker 1: we're decompressing, and they bring our champagne and I'm feeling
• 33:10
  Speaker 1: good and I'm like, oh, I was did tonight? I'm
• 33:12
  Speaker 1: a fuck. He's so exhausted, not the fuck out. I
• 33:17
  Speaker 1: don't know if it was the emotion, like when they
• 33:19
  Speaker 1: say people don't fuck on any wedding day. I don't
• 33:20
  Speaker 1: know if they fuck on the engagement either. Maybe they
• 33:22
  Speaker 1: didn't get chased by homeless people. But it was crazy,
• 33:25
  Speaker 1: my bruh. It was intense. So there was my engagement.
• 33:29
  Speaker 1: I get to LA. He doesn't plan on coming. While
• 33:34
  Speaker 1: I'm there, I'm like, you know what, I would like
• 33:36
  Speaker 1: to do a shoot because the one you guys got
• 33:39
  Speaker 1: to watch before this video, because if we're gonna tell
• 33:41
  Speaker 1: it at the live show, someone's gonna post this somewhere.
• 33:43
  Speaker 1: Let's shit. I want to spill my whole team. So
• 33:46
  Speaker 1: he's like, I'm sending pictures. He's like, this is corny.
• 33:49
  Speaker 1: I'm like, oh my god, New York Pizza. I love it.
• 33:51
  Speaker 1: Let's get the pizza, let's do the hot shots, Let's
• 33:53
  Speaker 1: get our favorite bars. And he's like, well, I don't
• 33:55
  Speaker 1: feel like this is screaming us, Like we don't really
• 33:58
  Speaker 1: like I don't know something about it and click for me.
• 34:00
  Speaker 1: I was like, well, what's the most us thing? He said, music,
• 34:03
  Speaker 1: and I don't know if we could depict that. And
• 34:04
  Speaker 1: he was like, and the only thing we've ever created
• 34:06
  Speaker 1: is our house in La. So he flies to La
• 34:10
  Speaker 1: and the day before the shoot, oh, it was the
• 34:13
  Speaker 1: day of him leaving. Yes, I wake up looking at
• 34:18
  Speaker 1: my ring. I'm playing Always in Forever and I'm like,
• 34:21
  Speaker 1: oh my god, I want to put my ring over
• 34:22
  Speaker 1: the dress like a movie. And then I'm like, oh,
• 34:26
  Speaker 1: it's not here. Dress isn't here. Where the fuck is
• 34:31
  Speaker 1: the dress? So then I'm going through the hangar piece,
• 34:34
  Speaker 1: pot piece. I'm like, okay, I would have hung up right.
• 34:38
  Speaker 1: Maybe now I'm checking a laundry bitch. I've never worn
• 34:40
  Speaker 1: the dress girls, So I started freaking out, where where
• 34:43
  Speaker 1: did this dress come from? The dress I ordered for
• 34:46
  Speaker 1: my birthday and it was not supposed to be in white.
• 34:48
  Speaker 1: It was supposed to be in black, and it came
• 34:51
  Speaker 1: in white. It came in white. Look at the fucking
• 34:55
  Speaker 1: and I was like, what am I going to do
• 34:56
  Speaker 1: with this? And then it was too late to return.
• 34:58
  Speaker 1: It was a seven day return, and I was like,
• 35:00
  Speaker 1: I can I'll just keep it one day. Maybe I'll
• 35:01
  Speaker 1: use it for an engagement photo and then boom. So
• 35:05
  Speaker 1: now I'm freaking out. And I realized it's not in
• 35:07
  Speaker 1: La like I thought, because that's where my birthday was.
• 35:09
  Speaker 1: It's in New York. I must have brought it back
• 35:11
  Speaker 1: to New York. So I called Simone. It was my assistant,
• 35:15
  Speaker 1: and I want to say, it's maybe nine in the morning.
• 35:19
  Speaker 1: I don't know what time. What time was it was early,
• 35:22
  Speaker 1: so my man has to catch a flight at two
• 35:25
  Speaker 1: no three. He's upstate Ish. Yeah, that's west Chester, OKAYO
• 35:33
  Speaker 1: the Bronx. And so I called him and I'm like,
• 35:35
  Speaker 1: I don't think the dress is here today. He's like,
• 35:38
  Speaker 1: I'm not gonna be able to make it. I'm working
• 35:39
  Speaker 1: doing shit with the properties and Connecticut. How the fuck
• 35:41
  Speaker 1: is this gonna happen. Brianna's gone, she's not in New York.
• 35:46
  Speaker 1: So now I'm like, holy fucking shit. I'm like Simone,
• 35:50
  Speaker 1: who's also never been to my house. By the way
• 35:52
  Speaker 1: I call him. I'm like, I'm not trying to freak out,
• 35:55
  Speaker 1: but I need you to go to my apartment, get
• 35:57
  Speaker 1: the key with that Trap pals. Go into Trap, get
• 36:00
  Speaker 1: the key, go in my apartment, find this dress, then
• 36:03
  Speaker 1: put in an uber to send him. She's like, Okay,
• 36:05
  Speaker 1: it's not gonna be a big deal, and I'm like,
• 36:06
  Speaker 1: we're doing good. On time. She gets to Trap, She's like,
• 36:10
  Speaker 1: what should the key look like? And that's when I
• 36:12
  Speaker 1: knew the key when he wasn't there. Oh shit, I'm like,
• 36:16
  Speaker 1: it's there. It sure, look for two keys. She's sitting
• 36:19
  Speaker 1: me big ass key that open storeagju'd is big super
• 36:22
  Speaker 1: and I'm like, right, what the fuck is going on?
• 36:24
  Speaker 1: So the Super's not answering the phone. Now I'm having
• 36:26
  Speaker 1: a panic attack. Mind you, I'm not on the first
• 36:28
  Speaker 1: floor or anything. You can't get into my apartment even
• 36:31
  Speaker 1: through a ladder or some shit. I'm just like, oh
• 36:33
  Speaker 1: my god, this bitch is gonna have to so maybe
• 36:34
  Speaker 1: I'll call the second locksmith now. So Brianda moved the
• 36:39
  Speaker 1: key because she believed people would take the key from
• 36:41
  Speaker 1: Trap or something back. I guess she put it in
• 36:43
  Speaker 1: a safer place. I was like, the key to your
• 36:44
  Speaker 1: house shouldn't be a trap.
• 36:47
  Speaker 3: But you're smart, really fair, palid, really really fair.
• 36:49
  Speaker 1: So I call the super who's like, huh, okay, I
• 36:54
  Speaker 1: guess I'll look. He's a super for five buildings. He's like, yeah,
• 36:57
  Speaker 1: it's not working. I said, I need you to go
• 37:00
  Speaker 1: back and double check your work. You're telling me that
• 37:03
  Speaker 1: a super to the building doesn't have a key to
• 37:06
  Speaker 1: every unit. I think you need to start putting the
• 37:09
  Speaker 1: keys in the whole sirt And bitch, I was right,
• 37:13
  Speaker 1: my key was mismarked. Okay, So someone gets to my
• 37:16
  Speaker 1: apartment and then this bitch said it's not here, wheezy.
• 37:21
  Speaker 4: Why was it not there?
• 37:23
  Speaker 1: Why was it not there? Because?
• 37:24
  Speaker 5: Okay, so if Weasley doesn't have a lot of white clothes, right,
• 37:28
  Speaker 5: it's a lot of like colorful black. So like, if
• 37:31
  Speaker 5: I'm looking for a white dress, if I'm looking for
• 37:33
  Speaker 5: an important dress, you would think it'll be out in
• 37:35
  Speaker 5: the open, like it'll be where you can see it.
• 37:37
  Speaker 5: If it's my engagement dress, I wanted to be where
• 37:39
  Speaker 5: I could see it.
• 37:39
  Speaker 2: But it wasn't an engagement dress. But it was just
• 37:42
  Speaker 2: a white birthday dress that came in the wrong color.
• 37:44
  Speaker 1: Okay, that's a bad point. It was not my engagement
• 37:46
  Speaker 1: dress at that moment. That's the moment was fair.
• 37:48
  Speaker 5: But okay, the story I'm looking for it. I'm poking
• 37:51
  Speaker 5: up everything white. It's like one white dress, but it's
• 37:54
  Speaker 5: a little dingy something like this is not a little
• 37:56
  Speaker 5: you know, I know what you're talking about. So so
• 37:58
  Speaker 5: I call her a boyfriend. I'm like, hey, what does
• 38:00
  Speaker 5: the dress look like? He's like, oh, I don't know,
• 38:02
  Speaker 5: because why what do he know? But he just we's
• 38:05
  Speaker 5: in stretches were very vague. She said, just get the
• 38:07
  Speaker 5: white dress. She just said the white dress.
• 38:10
  Speaker 4: She didn't even want to shot.
• 38:13
  Speaker 1: I don't know what the dress looks like.
• 38:15
  Speaker 5: I don't know where dress said, but I just knew
• 38:20
  Speaker 5: I don't have white dresses.
• 38:21
  Speaker 2: I was like, she's gonna find get the white dress,
• 38:23
  Speaker 2: and then she found it.
• 38:25
  Speaker 5: I did because at this one, I'm panicking because it's
• 38:27
  Speaker 5: almost like twelve, like, oh my gosh, like it's not
• 38:30
  Speaker 5: gonna make it to LA. He's gonna miss his flight.
• 38:32
  Speaker 5: So I'm taking all of her clothes out. You know,
• 38:34
  Speaker 5: you have clothes in the like closet for a long time.
• 38:37
  Speaker 5: They like start drooping off the hangar and they start falling,
• 38:39
  Speaker 5: so I'm just throwing clothes.
• 38:40
  Speaker 1: The dress finally falls.
• 38:42
  Speaker 5: I'm like, look at God, like it was a sign
• 38:44
  Speaker 5: from God.
• 38:44
  Speaker 1: And it looks like an engagement dress.
• 38:46
  Speaker 5: Yes, I was okay, this is it, Like this has
• 38:48
  Speaker 5: to be it. She only has a couple of white dresses, like,
• 38:49
  Speaker 5: this is it. She finally gets out of class, She's
• 38:51
  Speaker 5: like la la.
• 38:52
  Speaker 1: La la la l. Somebody like, hey, what stop, y'all
• 39:00
  Speaker 1: have a good day.
• 39:01
  Speaker 5: I'm like, weezy, like I'm over here, panic, like you're
• 39:03
  Speaker 5: not about to get this dress?
• 39:04
  Speaker 1: Like answering the phone. I just felt like it was
• 39:06
  Speaker 1: really gonna happen. And you know, it's funny what you
• 39:09
  Speaker 1: said to me that I actually think it's funny. I
• 39:11
  Speaker 1: was like I'm panicking. I'm like are you And You're like, no,
• 39:13
  Speaker 1: it's gonna be okay. And then once I heard her panic,
• 39:16
  Speaker 1: I was like, oh wait, hold on, I have to
• 39:18
  Speaker 1: be the anxiety. But she was about to go to
• 39:21
  Speaker 1: the airport for me to meet him. It was a
• 39:23
  Speaker 1: whole thing, so I was really grateful for that. We're
• 39:31
  Speaker 1: all wrap it up is the moment we really did
• 39:35
  Speaker 1: get to have with my dad. We get there to
• 39:38
  Speaker 1: tell my dad, and I actually told my dad on
• 39:42
  Speaker 1: his birthday when I was there with him solo, and
• 39:44
  Speaker 1: it was really cute because I'm starting to notice how
• 39:47
  Speaker 1: my dad's dementia affects. I had to tell him a
• 39:50
  Speaker 1: few times and he was just like, this is a
• 39:53
  Speaker 1: very interesting thing. I actually talked to my therapist about it.
• 39:56
  Speaker 1: His first thing he said when I said, Daddy, I'm
• 39:57
  Speaker 1: getting married, was you know, And he was talking about, oh,
• 40:01
  Speaker 1: this makes me very emotional. My first boyfriend that I
• 40:04
  Speaker 1: moved out with put his hands on me. And I
• 40:07
  Speaker 1: never told my dad. However, after what my dad said
• 40:10
  Speaker 1: to me, I know my mom must have told him.
• 40:12
  Speaker 1: Years later, he said to me, when I said I'm
• 40:14
  Speaker 1: getting married, he goes, you know, I'm not so strong
• 40:16
  Speaker 1: right now. But if I would have known like, I
• 40:21
  Speaker 1: would have taken care of you. And then he said
• 40:22
  Speaker 1: to me, you don't need any other man to take
• 40:24
  Speaker 1: care of you. I'm going to live to be one
• 40:26
  Speaker 1: hundred and twenty. I'm gonna see your children. I'm a
• 40:30
  Speaker 1: very strong man, you know, I'm a very strong man.
• 40:32
  Speaker 1: My dad can't walk by the way or barely push
• 40:34
  Speaker 1: the wheelchair and I'm like, I know, daddy, that's his
• 40:37
  Speaker 1: reaction to me getting married. The second time I try
• 40:39
  Speaker 1: to say it to him again, he says the same
• 40:41
  Speaker 1: thing to me, you never need to leave us. You know,
• 40:46
  Speaker 1: men are going to treat you good and or men
• 40:51
  Speaker 1: are supposed to treat you good and like reinforcing to
• 40:53
  Speaker 1: me this thing that I realized bitches in back in
• 40:56
  Speaker 1: the day had to get married for money, They had
• 40:59
  Speaker 1: to get married for security protection, And that is where
• 41:03
  Speaker 1: is going to his brain, Like, Oh, you must think
• 41:06
  Speaker 1: you need to be safe with a man, and you don't.
• 41:09
  Speaker 1: And I really appreciate that because I don't know if
• 41:12
  Speaker 1: a lot of us perpetuate that in society. There is
• 41:15
  Speaker 1: so much conversation about marriage being safety. We protect you
• 41:20
  Speaker 1: from being a baby mama, You gotta be married. You know,
• 41:24
  Speaker 1: it's bullshit. I'm happy to be married because of love.
• 41:28
  Speaker 1: What the fuck protection? If anything, marriage could put you
• 41:31
  Speaker 1: at risk, you know what I mean. But I do
• 41:33
  Speaker 1: think marriage is beautiful for the act of love and
• 41:36
  Speaker 1: what it can honor. But the idea that we are
• 41:40
  Speaker 1: better and that's my one promise to the whorehive. I
• 41:43
  Speaker 1: do not think marriage is a status symbol of place
• 41:47
  Speaker 1: in life. I don't think it makes you better, and
• 41:50
  Speaker 1: I actually really feel that more right now, maybe because
• 41:53
  Speaker 1: I realize I'm not like other Ah no, sir, actually,
• 41:58
  Speaker 1: but I don't even did I say a god you
• 42:03
  Speaker 1: said sad people because they do. They do to the
• 42:07
  Speaker 1: point where one of my homegirls literally told asked me
• 42:10
  Speaker 1: for advice and this said I wasn't married, so I
• 42:11
  Speaker 1: wouldn't get it. Like this is just so stupid. We've
• 42:14
  Speaker 1: all dated in our lives. Just this idea that your
• 42:16
  Speaker 1: better is like really fucking dumb, because behind every single
• 42:19
  Speaker 1: person is a bitch who really didn't take nothing. Yep,
• 42:21
  Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying, Like I didn't take shit
• 42:23
  Speaker 1: from a nigga. What I can't see in your relationship
• 42:25
  Speaker 1: is that your nigga could beating you, hurting you, mismanaging
• 42:27
  Speaker 1: your money, all reasons to lose a nigga. Fuck the fact,
• 42:31
  Speaker 1: I'm sorry you mismanage our funds to the point where
• 42:34
  Speaker 1: you put me in the whole and ruin my life. Fuck,
• 42:36
  Speaker 1: you were out curious, and my man should feel the
• 42:38
  Speaker 1: same if I did some shit with his property, what
• 42:40
  Speaker 1: if I put his playing of hands. There's certain things
• 42:43
  Speaker 1: that's like I'm out, he should be out too, Like, hello,
• 42:47
  Speaker 1: we should not do that. And when I say do
• 42:49
  Speaker 1: not be scared to lose somebody, it's because what's for
• 42:51
  Speaker 1: me is for me, and I really don't think sticking
• 42:53
  Speaker 1: by someone for the sake of it being marriage. Please.
• 42:56
  Speaker 1: If I was ever truly in pain to the point
• 42:59
  Speaker 1: where this man ruined me, it would turn into a
• 43:02
  Speaker 1: five carrot necklace? Bitch?
• 43:04
  Speaker 4: Are you keeping it?
• 43:06
  Speaker 1: You know? If he did something wrong to me. But
• 43:10
  Speaker 1: what I'm saying, if I did something wrong him, he
• 43:12
  Speaker 1: got my finger, give it. I think that's when you're
• 43:16
  Speaker 1: like a you cheek or something. No, if the engagement
• 43:20
  Speaker 1: like engagement ring.
• 43:25
  Speaker 2: Well, I think if a nigga, well it doesn't matter
• 43:27
  Speaker 2: because you're not. But but I really think, wait, but
• 43:31
  Speaker 2: but now, just like generally you think that that rule is.
• 43:36
  Speaker 1: A real good question. Like generally I think, I think
• 43:39
  Speaker 1: if they cheated on you, you keep the ring. I
• 43:41
  Speaker 1: think that the nigga lied, you keep the ring. I
• 43:43
  Speaker 1: think if you are haul and you ain't ship and
• 43:45
  Speaker 1: you'n funked up on a nigga, I think if you
• 43:47
  Speaker 1: were unloyal, I think if you did some shady ship,
• 43:49
  Speaker 1: I think then you.
• 43:49
  Speaker 2: Give it back, but like whoever if it just doesn't work,
• 43:53
  Speaker 2: But sometimes it just doesn't work.
• 43:54
  Speaker 1: Melted down. But that idea of losing nigga, right to me,
• 44:00
  Speaker 1: it has to be equal in not being scared to
• 44:03
  Speaker 1: lose somebody. And I think the idea of being scared
• 44:06
  Speaker 1: to lose you stop honoring yourself. And that's the shit
• 44:10
  Speaker 1: I had did in Nol's bard shout out to the paperbacktor
• 44:13
  Speaker 1: just came out last week. You're when I know I
• 44:15
  Speaker 1: say too long. I will never do that again in
• 44:18
  Speaker 1: my life. I am going to absolutely uphold my marriage honors,
• 44:23
  Speaker 1: keep our weekly check or bi weekly check in, be
• 44:26
  Speaker 1: a loyal person, be honest. I think because we're nominogamist,
• 44:28
  Speaker 1: it makes it a lot easier to be open and
• 44:30
  Speaker 1: talk and always be there to support each other. But
• 44:34
  Speaker 1: I think the idea that we have to stick through
• 44:36
  Speaker 1: marriage when it's bad and someone's painting you is awful.
• 44:39
  Speaker 1: And that is why I don't believe it is a
• 44:41
  Speaker 1: status symbol, because marriage can be a really bad place
• 44:45
  Speaker 1: for some If forty percent of marriages end up in divorced,
• 44:48
  Speaker 1: I think it is like who is to say that
• 44:49
  Speaker 1: we are holding that status in a high regard. Single
• 44:52
  Speaker 1: people generally have left a situation that wasn't good, and
• 44:55
  Speaker 1: we don't get a fucking you know, pat on our
• 44:57
  Speaker 1: back for choosing ourselves. Yep. So like to me, me,
• 45:00
  Speaker 1: getting engaged is literally because I embodied choosing myself, like
• 45:05
  Speaker 1: I remember how it felt. By the way, before I
• 45:08
  Speaker 1: got here, Old Bay's sister left a comment saying, I'm
• 45:12
  Speaker 1: so happy you found your person. And I'm not gonna lie.
• 45:18
  Speaker 4: You know, we just talked about it.
• 45:20
  Speaker 2: Family members will tell you exactly who someone is and
• 45:24
  Speaker 2: the way that I'm the.
• 45:26
  Speaker 1: Same, and you got a beepret right now, she wrote
• 45:32
  Speaker 1: from me and then put like her son's name, and
• 45:35
  Speaker 1: I was like, wow.
• 45:36
  Speaker 2: But family like the way someone shows up in their
• 45:40
  Speaker 2: family or for their family or says a lot about
• 45:43
  Speaker 2: a person to me.
• 45:44
  Speaker 1: So I told h my, that sounds so.
• 45:52
  Speaker 3: Man, my man, my man.
• 45:52
  Speaker 1: Okay. So I told him, and uh, He's like what
• 45:58
  Speaker 1: why what does she leave? What does she say? And
• 46:00
  Speaker 1: when I said it to him, I was like, listen,
• 46:02
  Speaker 1: I spent time with her, I spent holidays with her.
• 46:04
  Speaker 1: I've shared like sisterhood with her, and he doesn't have
• 46:08
  Speaker 1: a sister, you know what I mean? His sister in
• 46:10
  Speaker 1: laws that I get to share in love with. But
• 46:11
  Speaker 1: I said, literally, she knows I'm a good person, and
• 46:14
  Speaker 1: like that I didn't deserve to be in pain or
• 46:16
  Speaker 1: be hurt. And he was like, damn, I don't know
• 46:21
  Speaker 1: how I would feel if that was the opposite, Like
• 46:22
  Speaker 1: if my family members like, yeah, go you like, damn,
• 46:25
  Speaker 1: just be happy as silace No. And I was like, nah,
• 46:26
  Speaker 1: but when your brother, if you watched it, if you
• 46:30
  Speaker 1: watched your brother fuck somebody over.
• 46:32
  Speaker 4: But also like that's the thing about family members. A
• 46:35
  Speaker 4: lot of the times, I don't.
• 46:37
  Speaker 1: Think she's being phony.
• 46:38
  Speaker 2: No, but it's not that she's being phony, but a
• 46:42
  Speaker 2: lot of family members women including they they ignore and
• 46:48
  Speaker 2: kind of like shelter men who treat other women bad
• 46:52
  Speaker 2: if they just because of just who they are as
• 46:54
  Speaker 2: a family member. Right, So like there's moms who knows
• 46:57
  Speaker 2: that their sons are cheaters. There's sisters that all the
• 47:00
  Speaker 2: girlfriends and stay quiet. Like a lot of women family
• 47:05
  Speaker 2: members kind of don't hold men accountable for how they
• 47:09
  Speaker 2: actually treat other women.
• 47:10
  Speaker 1: My first boyfriend ever that put his hands on me,
• 47:13
  Speaker 1: I told his mother what he was doing to me.
• 47:17
  Speaker 1: May she rest in peace. I swear to you. She
• 47:20
  Speaker 1: said this to me. I said, how do I make
• 47:23
  Speaker 1: him stop? And she said, I don't know why he's
• 47:25
  Speaker 1: like this. I don't know if it's a Napoleon thing
• 47:27
  Speaker 1: because he was short. I don't know where he gets
• 47:30
  Speaker 1: this from. I'm so sorry.
• 47:32
  Speaker 4: Wait, that was it.
• 47:34
  Speaker 1: I think she was so uncomfortable in acknowledging that she's
• 47:39
  Speaker 1: such a good woman. I'm not just saying that because
• 47:41
  Speaker 1: she passed like she was a great woman. I genuinely
• 47:45
  Speaker 1: think it's a hard thing or a pill to swallow
• 47:47
  Speaker 1: when your kid is fucked up or someone you love
• 47:50
  Speaker 1: is fucked up. One of my homeboys recently really did
• 47:52
  Speaker 1: his girl dirty, and I was like, oh God, it
• 47:54
  Speaker 1: was breaking my heart when, like I was hearing the
• 47:58
  Speaker 1: details from him now her see.
• 48:00
  Speaker 4: The crash documentary.
• 48:01
  Speaker 2: Yes, bro, Sometimes parents, oh don't take I mean, and
• 48:06
  Speaker 2: sometimes they don't feel like they have to take accountability
• 48:09
  Speaker 2: because humans are humans, and maybe they don't feel at
• 48:12
  Speaker 2: fault for their children being evil, fucked up, manipulative, all
• 48:17
  Speaker 2: of those things right, And I just think that parents
• 48:20
  Speaker 2: have a hard time taking the accountability that they're the
• 48:23
  Speaker 2: reason this person is the way they are.
• 48:26
  Speaker 1: You don't think so I mean, maybe not always, but
• 48:29
  Speaker 1: I won't say always think no, no, no, you're not
• 48:31
  Speaker 1: the reason. But you're just like, how did this happen?
• 48:34
  Speaker 1: We could raise great people that could do bad things,
• 48:36
  Speaker 1: like he came from a good She was a good person,
• 48:39
  Speaker 1: I think, really in her head and soft, like a
• 48:41
  Speaker 1: very soft, huggy loving type of mom. So to see
• 48:44
  Speaker 1: that was so weird, and that's why I felt comfortable
• 48:47
  Speaker 1: enough to talk with even stuff like that.
• 48:49
  Speaker 2: Maybe it wasn't her fault, and I don't know, there's
• 48:52
  Speaker 2: a lot of times with upbringing where the men in
• 48:56
  Speaker 2: the picture were this example, so it's not always on
• 48:59
  Speaker 2: the woman, you know what I mean.
• 49:01
  Speaker 4: Maybe she endured abuse, he saw.
• 49:03
  Speaker 2: It from a man, and maybe maybe that was the
• 49:05
  Speaker 2: way that men were now that maybe that's.
• 49:08
  Speaker 1: What I'm saying. Now. This is also seventeen years ago, right,
• 49:10
  Speaker 1: so maybe he's become a better person. I hope so.
• 49:13
  Speaker 1: But the thing that I would acknowledge as a parent
• 49:17
  Speaker 1: is checking your child. And that crash documentary disgusted me.
• 49:22
  Speaker 1: Bro Oh, the moment where she was like she didn't
• 49:24
  Speaker 1: even really she wasn't even really close to the other one.
• 49:26
  Speaker 2: Bruh. It was no, it was disgusting. But also I
• 49:30
  Speaker 2: think that that's another thing. Even in that documentary, right,
• 49:33
  Speaker 2: the relationship was really toxic. And again people like view
• 49:39
  Speaker 2: like obsessiveness and toxic behavior like that is love. And
• 49:43
  Speaker 2: so to say that you're even in a relationship where
• 49:45
  Speaker 2: you haven't been hurt, a lot of people assume that
• 49:48
  Speaker 2: love has to hurt, yes, and it doesn't.
• 49:51
  Speaker 1: Like I do, think love has embodied itself for me
• 49:57
  Speaker 1: as recovery from pain. When I I have overcome something
• 50:01
  Speaker 1: with a partner that was tough, I thought, Wow, we
• 50:04
  Speaker 1: really love each other. Really, I just didn't put up
• 50:08
  Speaker 1: a boundary. Now, I will say this. I have a
• 50:10
  Speaker 1: friend of mine that went back to an X, and
• 50:12
  Speaker 1: her and I were having a conversation where she told
• 50:15
  Speaker 1: me she thought I was being shady for saying that
• 50:17
  Speaker 1: my man had never caused me pain. They'd been separated
• 50:21
  Speaker 1: for a minute, and one of the things I said
• 50:22
  Speaker 1: to her was like, Hey, I think that if you
• 50:25
  Speaker 1: both take the time to like it's not like you
• 50:28
  Speaker 1: stuck through you dated other people, you tried. If you
• 50:30
  Speaker 1: come back together like things can happen. This isn't, by
• 50:32
  Speaker 1: no means me shading that. I was like, but I
• 50:34
  Speaker 1: think The reason I'm really not shading it is because bitch,
• 50:37
  Speaker 1: you at least left right. You know what I'm saying,
• 50:40
  Speaker 1: You at least left, and you set your boundary and
• 50:42
  Speaker 1: sometimes we find our ways back to people. That's just
• 50:45
  Speaker 1: fortunately not part of my story in this moment. But
• 50:47
  Speaker 1: what I can say for previous relationships, I never broke
• 50:51
  Speaker 1: up with them. I just kept going through the cycle,
• 50:54
  Speaker 1: you know what I mean. I think the best breakup
• 50:56
  Speaker 1: I ever had with scissors because we were never intention
• 51:00
  Speaker 1: hurting each other. We were mismatched in that moment, and
• 51:02
  Speaker 1: we broke up at a great time to where we
• 51:04
  Speaker 1: love each other so much. One writing herds at the wedding,
• 51:07
  Speaker 1: by the way, I know you are because you wanted
• 51:10
  Speaker 1: to invite to the baby shower.
• 51:14
  Speaker 4: I think that's a little crazy, and I think it
• 51:16
  Speaker 4: I think you overlook.
• 51:17
  Speaker 2: Things because of same sex. In no way would anyone
• 51:20
  Speaker 2: think it's okay to invite an X to a wedding.
• 51:22
  Speaker 2: I think that you look at it because it's same sex, bro,
• 51:25
  Speaker 2: like you're doing a double standard thing. Yo, Nigga could
• 51:28
  Speaker 2: not invite any of his excesses to y'all's wedding.
• 51:31
  Speaker 1: Bro, Well, I brought it up this morning. And because,
• 51:34
  Speaker 1: by the way, so to know when we're taping this,
• 51:35
  Speaker 1: we read the live show. Thank you. You see what
• 51:38
  Speaker 1: I mean?
• 51:38
  Speaker 4: That should be crazy, but.
• 51:41
  Speaker 1: We're also so fluid. Bro't he didn't even bad an eye? Like, yeah,
• 51:46
  Speaker 1: of course maybe because we fucked other people at the wedding,
• 51:51
  Speaker 1: But you.
• 51:51
  Speaker 2: Wouldn't invite Beard Bay because he's a man, right, bro?
• 51:58
  Speaker 2: You see what I mean? Like the double is you
• 52:00
  Speaker 2: inviting an X to a wedding? Is on some real
• 52:03
  Speaker 2: poly shit. I shouldn't be but that ship is weird.
• 52:09
  Speaker 1: Okay, let me tell you what else we talked about.
• 52:12
  Speaker 1: There a girl he fucks did I'm a fan of
• 52:15
  Speaker 1: a little bit and I was like, damn she she
• 52:18
  Speaker 1: would be great entertainment at the butddy, she'd be a
• 52:20
  Speaker 1: great deal sh if it ain't Rihanna. No. But one
• 52:23
  Speaker 1: of the things we said it was like, if we're
• 52:24
  Speaker 1: gonna invite someone we slept with, there's gotta be someone
• 52:26
  Speaker 1: fun together except for scissors. That's my one, and if
• 52:31
  Speaker 1: you want that one, it could be that DJ bitch
• 52:33
  Speaker 1: because she fine. You can't pick which ex he want
• 52:35
  Speaker 1: to buy it? Hell, I can't. He could pick mine?
• 52:38
  Speaker 4: You did you just said, you know what.
• 52:39
  Speaker 1: I'm honest with y'all. I think the scissors so fine.
• 52:41
  Speaker 1: And he never met her, He's probably like, I think
• 52:44
  Speaker 1: it's like damn, and I'll look at you.
• 52:45
  Speaker 4: You just bro, you are so I'm.
• 52:48
  Speaker 1: One hundred percent making out with people at my wedding.
• 52:51
  Speaker 2: No, I didn't say none of that. You're bringing an X.
• 52:53
  Speaker 2: That's that's crazy. I'm sorry, that's crazy. And we have
• 52:56
  Speaker 2: a podcast where bitch, I'm gonna call it out.
• 52:58
  Speaker 1: She's just the one everyone knows.
• 53:01
  Speaker 2: You literally wrote a love letter in the book. I
• 53:04
  Speaker 2: wrote that in his bed.
• 53:05
  Speaker 1: He didn't care. He gets it.
• 53:07
  Speaker 2: And now she get to come to the wedding, but
• 53:09
  Speaker 2: she drew the boundary her niggag and lets you come
• 53:11
  Speaker 2: to the baby showerpropriate.
• 53:17
  Speaker 1: Well, let me see if I had another note or
• 53:21
  Speaker 1: the ship to tell y'all. Oh. The one thing that
• 53:23
  Speaker 1: I thought was cool and funny before we close out
• 53:26
  Speaker 1: was he asked his parents, not permission, Well maybe he did.
• 53:31
  Speaker 1: He called them both separately and said, what do you
• 53:34
  Speaker 1: think of Gila? I want to ask her to marry me.
• 53:36
  Speaker 1: And one of the questions is dad asked him, was
• 53:39
  Speaker 1: so funny? He said his dad got real serious. I
• 53:41
  Speaker 1: was like, does she like African food? And you don't
• 53:45
  Speaker 1: bitch at all?
• 53:46
  Speaker 4: Oh no, I went I went to La last time.
• 53:50
  Speaker 4: He got bruh.
• 53:53
  Speaker 2: So I go to La right, and this is like
• 53:56
  Speaker 2: a couple of weeks, maybe maybe a month black market
• 53:59
  Speaker 2: for you after I come back from Ghana and I've
• 54:02
  Speaker 2: been in the gym.
• 54:03
  Speaker 4: I've been to Ghana twice. Anyways, I love African food.
• 54:06
  Speaker 2: But I went to the African truck at black market
• 54:08
  Speaker 2: fleet they didn't have Okra soup.
• 54:10
  Speaker 4: So I was like, man, I ain't getting the ship.
• 54:13
  Speaker 2: He went to the African truck and got joel off
• 54:15
  Speaker 2: rice and like chicken, and so we get to go.
• 54:19
  Speaker 2: So we get back to the house. He eats it
• 54:21
  Speaker 2: up and he asked if I want something, And I
• 54:23
  Speaker 2: sit at the table. He's sitting at the end of
• 54:26
  Speaker 2: the table. I'm sitting round in front of him. Don't
• 54:27
  Speaker 2: fucking that food up? He said, Do you see how
• 54:30
  Speaker 2: easy this could be?
• 54:31
  Speaker 1: Weazy? He was like, you like it right? I said, oh,
• 54:40
  Speaker 1: I love this ship.
• 54:41
  Speaker 2: He's like and he's like, you know, she don't like
• 54:43
  Speaker 2: my food from my country, and start saying.
• 54:46
  Speaker 1: Bro, he brought this up. Bro a little too much.
• 54:49
  Speaker 1: You run a plane. He literally looked at me. I'm
• 54:52
  Speaker 1: holding our child, Meana in my fucking hands, and he's like,
• 54:56
  Speaker 1: I love you. It was like I love you too. Man.
• 54:58
  Speaker 1: I cannot believe man he was talking.
• 55:01
  Speaker 3: I said, damn, this what is the issue? Though?
• 55:05
  Speaker 1: All right, I'm tay. He's well, it's called palm oil. No,
• 55:12
  Speaker 1: I realized there's only certain foods. I'm like, it's got
• 55:16
  Speaker 1: this scent, it's almost fishy, and they have a lot
• 55:18
  Speaker 1: of fish stock in Nigerian food they do.
• 55:23
  Speaker 4: Is way too You like Asian foods, they do.
• 55:25
  Speaker 1: The same thing.
• 55:26
  Speaker 2: No, I don't like the oyster sauce. Sometimes I don't
• 55:29
  Speaker 2: they use a lot of fish.
• 55:30
  Speaker 1: Well, I don't need that one, all right. I don't
• 55:33
  Speaker 1: like the old smelling fish. Sometimes it's too intense for me.
• 55:36
  Speaker 2: But anyway, he said, he caught the fleet and told
• 55:38
  Speaker 2: his dad, Oh, she just can't handle these prices.
• 55:40
  Speaker 1: I couldn't. I couldn't bear to tell him it was
• 55:42
  Speaker 1: the taste. So he said that. Both of his brother
• 55:47
  Speaker 1: and his mother said, the thing that they love about
• 55:49
  Speaker 1: me the most is how I take care of my parents,
• 55:51
  Speaker 1: and that let me know that's also a cultural thing.
• 55:53
  Speaker 1: He's like, they both brought it up, and he said
• 55:55
  Speaker 1: his dad was like, are you sure this is serious?
• 55:58
  Speaker 1: Marriage is serious? He said his dad was super serious.
• 56:00
  Speaker 1: He said the questions that his mom and his dad
• 56:02
  Speaker 1: both asked him to see if he was sure were
• 56:04
  Speaker 1: the exact same, okay, And He's like, I could tell
• 56:07
  Speaker 1: that values must be important to them both because the
• 56:11
  Speaker 1: things they asked, specifically going through a tough time together,
• 56:15
  Speaker 1: et cetera. And I think also my family dynamic is
• 56:18
  Speaker 1: one too, hey, like her parents are older, or maybe you're.
• 56:24
  Speaker 3: An only child.
• 56:24
  Speaker 1: I'm an only child, you know, So I think it's
• 56:27
  Speaker 1: great to have this blended family now. And yeah, it
• 56:31
  Speaker 1: just was a dope experience in seeing how non traditional
• 56:36
  Speaker 1: people do shit right, because literally he was just he
• 56:38
  Speaker 1: did to tell his parents. I think for a few
• 56:40
  Speaker 1: days after that really wanted to soak in that, like which,
• 56:45
  Speaker 1: by the way, everybody keeps saying wedding stuff. Next, it's
• 56:50
  Speaker 1: I ain't known know as you. I wanted to get
• 56:52
  Speaker 1: married in a warehouse, and I looked up ninety nine
• 56:54
  Speaker 1: Scott and added everything I want up. It was one
• 56:57
  Speaker 1: thousand dollars. Yep, that's my house. But that's the thing.
• 57:01
  Speaker 1: So we did do it a little backwards. We got
• 57:03
  Speaker 1: our house first, but I was sitting there and I
• 57:05
  Speaker 1: was like, damn for nine nine Scott, but one hundred
• 57:09
  Speaker 1: thousand dollars for.
• 57:09
  Speaker 4: A wedding isname them?
• 57:11
  Speaker 3: No?
• 57:12
  Speaker 1: You know? So, Liz, what I'm looking for? If anybody
• 57:16
  Speaker 1: work at one, y'all want to sponsor a web and
• 57:17
  Speaker 1: y'all want to do shit, That's what I want to do.
• 57:21
  Speaker 2: And the reason it's expensive because the shit I want,
• 57:23
  Speaker 2: she said, she'll give you a Bravo special. I want
• 57:25
  Speaker 2: to wear a house rajor wait, what do you want
• 57:28
  Speaker 2: to wearhouse rager.
• 57:30
  Speaker 1: In uh suits, suited gowns. We're fucking partying hard literally
• 57:37
  Speaker 1: a musical sonic journey. This is the one thing we
• 57:39
  Speaker 1: agree on, probably like a mix of eight to ten DJs,
• 57:41
  Speaker 1: because we like so many different genres of music. If
• 57:44
  Speaker 1: you want to go to Durban and here Guaham. If
• 57:46
  Speaker 1: you want to go to South Africa and near a'm
• 57:47
  Speaker 1: a fiano Chicago House Detroit and techno atl and get
• 57:51
  Speaker 1: you know, southern hip hop like I love neo. So
• 57:54
  Speaker 1: if you want to go to Philly, like I really
• 57:55
  Speaker 1: want to take people on that sonic journey. However, I
• 57:57
  Speaker 1: also need caviar as well, and that we are because bitch,
• 58:02
  Speaker 1: I'm not going to have your warehouse wedding and not
• 58:04
  Speaker 1: class it up somehow. Literally, that's that's the name of
• 58:09
  Speaker 1: the wedding, bitch.
• 58:13
  Speaker 4: If I see it on the flower.
• 58:16
  Speaker 1: Charge, I wanted a direction. Let me go. Wait, you
• 58:21
  Speaker 1: know it's crazy. Shout out to Shack dass Us, your
• 58:23
  Speaker 1: director of Trap Techno DJ. I'm a really big fan
• 58:25
  Speaker 1: of uh. We read it the other day out at
• 58:28
  Speaker 1: Elsewhere and he was like, warehouse rager. Fuck. Yeah, so
• 58:31
  Speaker 1: you're in charge, you need to like do tickets. And
• 58:33
  Speaker 1: I was like, no, I wanted to feel like that.
• 58:36
  Speaker 1: So you know, no, that's so taxic, it's so tacky. No, no, no.
• 58:41
  Speaker 1: But I was like, now I see what he means
• 58:42
  Speaker 1: because I keep saying a warehouse rager and I'm like, oh,
• 58:44
  Speaker 1: maybe it really look.
• 58:45
  Speaker 4: Like keeping wedding. We're happy and Joela, I love it.
• 58:50
  Speaker 1: I'm also had this idea sometimes talk too much everyone,
• 58:54
  Speaker 1: I'm gonna have a buzzer or I'm gonna ask a
• 58:56
  Speaker 1: mirror to do the drums to like get people along stage,
• 59:00
  Speaker 1: give him ninety seconds like the oscars get the mother
• 59:02
  Speaker 1: that you told everybody.
• 59:03
  Speaker 4: I don't get.
• 59:05
  Speaker 3: You don't get to do a speech.
• 59:06
  Speaker 1: I don't even get she already told everybody. Less man,
• 59:08
  Speaker 1: I don't get to do his speed. Man, he's gonna go.
• 59:10
  Speaker 4: You give her a one minute set, what set? Thank you,
• 59:13
  Speaker 4: I'll have it scripted.
• 59:14
  Speaker 2: You guys say that same clip joke, the clip joke
• 59:18
  Speaker 2: whatever they want to dig joke at a wedding, bro
• 59:22
  Speaker 2: my wedding herself, new material, Babe, I'm a professional. Okay,
• 59:29
  Speaker 2: it'll be an exclusive set.
• 59:30
  Speaker 1: Oh you know what, I want to walk down the
• 59:32
  Speaker 1: aisle to what sheesall?
• 59:35
  Speaker 2: No, you're not queen because he's actually African? What bit
• 59:39
  Speaker 2: she wanted to do that you cannot do coming to
• 59:41
  Speaker 2: a mayor?
• 59:42
  Speaker 1: You know what? God?
• 59:43
  Speaker 3: Yep, literally one of my favorites.
• 59:45
  Speaker 1: I'm gonna be honest. His parents are chill as fuck,
• 59:48
  Speaker 1: but the Aunti's gonna hate us. His parents are very
• 59:51
  Speaker 1: I think they already know where a bag of fucking wackendoodles.
• 59:54
  Speaker 1: So I did, They're just like whatever, These motherfucker's kind
• 59:56
  Speaker 1: of crazy. And then that day his mom was on
• 59:58
  Speaker 1: the YouTube and what is this? I just want to
• 1:00:03
  Speaker 1: see how what I think she's already figured out something's off,
• 1:00:07
  Speaker 1: so you know, but I will do another episode of
• 1:00:10
  Speaker 1: waiting shit later. Let's let's said her, and can we
• 1:00:13
  Speaker 1: be on the bascheloret Committee? And then I was like,
• 1:00:16
  Speaker 1: you know what, I kind of imagine this small bachelorette,
• 1:00:19
  Speaker 1: But it can't be like Vegas with Monica Bitsh not
• 1:00:21
  Speaker 1: able to all going a fine. Oh y'all go to
• 1:00:23
  Speaker 1: Petron to hear about this ship.
• 1:00:25
  Speaker 4: Yeah, it can't be like Vegas.
• 1:00:26
  Speaker 1: Okay, this is I'm gonna tell you this. I want
• 1:00:28
  Speaker 1: to go to my homeland. Where is that?
• 1:00:30
  Speaker 4: You can't go to Israel?
• 1:00:31
  Speaker 1: No? Oh? Yeah?
• 1:00:33
  Speaker 4: What your homeland?
• 1:00:34
  Speaker 1: Oh my god, bitch, Like have you seen Gwyneth Paltrow
• 1:00:38
  Speaker 1: fucking doing Israeli luxury ads? And let me tell you
• 1:00:41
  Speaker 1: really pissed off. I already can't eat Chick fil a
• 1:00:43
  Speaker 1: Goop kitchen is the best takeout. And now you're a Zionist.
• 1:00:47
  Speaker 1: I'm an independent, not talking about doing a bachelorret party
• 1:00:49
  Speaker 1: in Orlando. So what is homeland?
• 1:00:51
  Speaker 4: I don't know what you're talking about.
• 1:00:52
  Speaker 1: One more guest, bitch, Where do I go? Always go Mexico?
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  Speaker 4: Yes, oh my god?
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  Speaker 1: And I want you guys to get me a little
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  Speaker 1: Mexican small man stripper. That's Mexican small man sugar. I
• 1:01:06
  Speaker 1: didn't want to say the N word. No, here's what
• 1:01:09
  Speaker 1: I'm thinking. We're all gonna do a little ayahuasca. Say
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  Speaker 1: oh hell hell noe, we'll go to that s what
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  Speaker 1: you gonna come back a new person and you about
• 1:01:19
  Speaker 1: to get No, you can't do no, no, no no, we'll
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  Speaker 1: do it right before the drugs and alcohol.
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  Speaker 2: That's before the drugs, the drugs and alcohol, drugs and alcohol.
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  Speaker 1: I don't think so fine.
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  Speaker 2: We could just do we're just doing you're just doing shrew.
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  Speaker 1: No, we'll just do Molly man. You have to do
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  Speaker 1: Molly Molly on that crew.
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  Speaker 2: You want to say the edit because we're paying for
• 1:01:38
  Speaker 2: clips is getting taken down?
• 1:01:39
  Speaker 1: What no more drug clips?
• 1:01:41
  Speaker 4: Adding I saw she took it down.
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  Speaker 1: No no, no, wasn't me who took it down. One of
• 1:01:44
  Speaker 1: the names that said Nelip later but I want to
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  Speaker 1: give but what no, no, no, Let's do Molly like
• 1:01:51
  Speaker 1: we did on that one cruise. Remember how much fun.
• 1:01:55
  Speaker 2: Bro that The the one cruise that we were too
• 1:01:58
  Speaker 2: young to order liquor, so all of the liquor we
• 1:02:00
  Speaker 2: drank tasted like shampoo because sham poo bottles bro we
• 1:02:05
  Speaker 2: were drinking soapy tequila for a week.
• 1:02:08
  Speaker 1: And guess what it worked. Additionally, you've done.
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  Speaker 2: I didn't do Molly until we got back from the
• 1:02:13
  Speaker 2: crew in this car. Molly, I like, goddam no, it's
• 1:02:19
  Speaker 2: too much fitting on going around. I just want shrooms, Nandy.
• 1:02:21
  Speaker 1: Hello, do you think I don't get from the best
• 1:02:23
  Speaker 1: dealers that test I have the tusk hits. I've actually
• 1:02:25
  Speaker 1: tossed out drugs before when they're coming inconclusive. But anyway,
• 1:02:28
  Speaker 1: that's been on the point. So I was thinking about
• 1:02:30
  Speaker 1: big Villa, get my gaze, get my girls. We only
• 1:02:33
  Speaker 1: have gas and the girls. Let's do four days. I'm
• 1:02:36
  Speaker 1: gonna do seven too long? Oh, I actually want one
• 1:02:40
  Speaker 1: and a half half the third party on the first night,
• 1:02:45
  Speaker 1: relax the night party again on day three.
• 1:02:49
  Speaker 4: Let me party two nights and then go that's what.
• 1:02:52
  Speaker 1: But I want to get one of those nice ones
• 1:02:54
  Speaker 1: I want to give, you know, the little shift. I
• 1:02:55
  Speaker 1: wanna get fucked up, but we did need a money night.
• 1:02:58
  Speaker 1: I really want to do some weird like okay, all right,
• 1:03:02
  Speaker 1: what I hear you?
• 1:03:05
  Speaker 2: Well, do the relaxed domn day through and then Mandy,
• 1:03:07
  Speaker 2: you have to walk because don't know how to use
• 1:03:08
  Speaker 2: the DJ. You don't, Oh my god, well y'all if
• 1:03:11
  Speaker 2: y'all want more vlogs, somebody sound weezy how to work
• 1:03:14
  Speaker 2: the DJ.
• 1:03:16
  Speaker 4: And she was like, no, we haven't.
• 1:03:18
  Speaker 1: One content day and no mo. So there's the story.
• 1:03:22
  Speaker 1: And I hope you guys are happy into the bitch
• 1:03:24
  Speaker 1: named Nisha. You know what I bet she's saying. Now, Well,
• 1:03:29
  Speaker 1: she's not married yet, you'll never get married, and you're done.
• 1:03:33
  Speaker 1: I married. It's more than just Nica, it's the whole internet. Yeah,
• 1:03:39
  Speaker 1: and guess what. The second you guys see a photo
• 1:03:41
  Speaker 1: of me, my nigga and the bitch kissing on us
• 1:03:44
  Speaker 1: at the wedding, you're gonna be like, oh, I don't
• 1:03:45
  Speaker 1: never wane. Oh my god, this is disgusting. And then
• 1:03:50
  Speaker 1: when I'm fucking pregnant and I get on this podcast
• 1:03:53
  Speaker 1: and say we were, Oh my god, your nigga's sucking
• 1:03:58
  Speaker 1: another bitch?
• 1:03:58
  Speaker 4: How about that?
• 1:04:00
  Speaker 1: How about that? And on that you don't even know
• 1:04:02
  Speaker 1: you invited them in the womb. At least I brought
• 1:04:04
  Speaker 1: the bitch in there.
• 1:04:06
  Speaker 3: Yeah, wow, you.
• 1:04:08
  Speaker 4: Have anything else to get off your chest?
• 1:04:10
  Speaker 3: Congratulations?
• 1:04:11
  Speaker 1: Thanks dude, I can not wait to talk shit about
• 1:04:19
  Speaker 1: married people want I'm married. They're all weird except for
• 1:04:22
  Speaker 1: being well. If y'all want to hear.
• 1:04:25
  Speaker 2: The birth of everything you just heard today because you
• 1:04:28
  Speaker 2: haven't read No Holds Barred, it is now available paperback, babe,
• 1:04:32
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• 1:04:33
  Speaker 1: Hey, go out and get that. Thanks on this No
• 1:04:35
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• 1:04:38
  Speaker 4: Look at you, Donnie, You're making the wool.
• 1:04:41
  Speaker 1: Was here the whole time.
• 1:04:42
  Speaker 4: See the book is seeing hell guy, it's our book
• 1:04:46
  Speaker 4: is holding up the monitor.
• 1:04:47
  Speaker 1: Oh my god, used our book to raise the monitor.
• 1:04:51
  Speaker 4: WTF is kind of crazy.
• 1:04:52
  Speaker 3: It's a metaphor really, because it's holding the production up.
• 1:04:55
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• 1:04:59
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• 1:05:07
  Speaker 2: bitch until next time, Until next week puts the whole
• 1:05:11
  Speaker 2: we I Bye, guys,