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We Got Your Hot Nuts · The Jim Colbert Show

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  Speaker 4: Really Hi you guys, doing today? Good Thursday. Until about
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  Speaker 4: a minute ago, what happened well?
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  Speaker 5: Good.
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  Speaker 7: I was wondering because then I tried to reopen my
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  Speaker 4: No no, send the email all right? Now does it
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, Jack, I think I told you about it. Still happening,
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  Speaker 4: Really what happened? Oh no, yeah, it was a shower
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  Speaker 4: talk yesterday. Yeah no, no, I wish what kind of sore?
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  Speaker 4: All right, off, brit let's go.
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  Speaker 7: Might be able to see some of the did you fall?
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  Speaker 7: Gaping wounds on the ice no ice, Now what did
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  Speaker 7: you do?
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  Speaker 4: Did you find a bobcat? A cat?
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  Speaker 5: You got the cat part right?
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  Speaker 7: Tangled with the new cat this morning, new new Remember
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  Speaker 7: the new cat Christopher that we adopted.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, because you name your cats after real people names.
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  Speaker 5: Dog when he came to us with that name, the.
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  Speaker 6: Real people name is Fine, a real person who currently
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  Speaker 6: lives with.
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  Speaker 5: You, Warrior who shares the same name.
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  Speaker 7: It's hard to yellow Christopher without them both responding.
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  Speaker 5: Yeah.
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  Speaker 7: So, uh, you know, third morning in a row, waking
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  Speaker 7: us up before five am?
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  Speaker 5: And uh yeah me, no, Lakey.
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  Speaker 4: No like. So what happened to take a swing at
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  Speaker 4: him and he swung back?
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  Speaker 7: Oh no, I went to go pick him up, to
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  Speaker 7: go put him in the guest bathroom. And I don't
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  Speaker 7: think he's been held a lot before, because again keep
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  Speaker 7: in mind, he's only a year and a half old,
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  Speaker 7: and he spent pretty much his first year in a
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  Speaker 7: shelter or a pet store, So he may have been petted,
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  Speaker 7: but I don't think he was ever really held. So
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  Speaker 7: he gets real squirrely or real quick. The thing is,
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  Speaker 7: I can't show you all the scratches.
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  Speaker 4: Oh, because you sleep naked.
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  Speaker 7: Wait, I was wearing his shirt. But that doesn't stop
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  Speaker 7: cat nails. Let's just say it's a it's a perfect outline.
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  Speaker 4: Are you serious?
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  Speaker 5: I am totally serious.
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  Speaker 4: Booed up.
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  Speaker 5: Humph, he boomed me up.
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  Speaker 3: Damn dude, I will not have a I will not
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  Speaker 3: voluntarily have an animal that can scratch my fudge.
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  Speaker 7: Got to protect him, right, protect you gotta protect those fudgies.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, Lord of Mercy, that's crazy. You had a much
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  Speaker 3: different morning than I did.
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  Speaker 4: I spent my.
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  Speaker 5: Morning cat scratched fever at your house.
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  Speaker 3: I spent my morning warning people to live up in
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  Speaker 3: the uh up north about this storm coming.
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  Speaker 7: Oh yeah, well you've got family and your wife is traveling.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, man, you know I got some Uh, I got
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  Speaker 3: some family up in northern Mississippi. When I say northern Mississippi,
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  Speaker 3: it is a driver seven iron to Memphis. It is
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  Speaker 3: literally five miles from the from the line there to
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  Speaker 3: Horn Lake, Mississippi. And uh my my in laws, my
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  Speaker 3: wife's parents are actually moving up there. My father in
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  Speaker 3: law is already up there.
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  Speaker 8: Now.
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  Speaker 3: My father in law is not a news guy. He's
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  Speaker 3: not like a he's not like a media guy. He
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  Speaker 3: doesn't really watched he or anything like that. He just
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  Speaker 3: reads and stuff. He just doesn't read a whole I mean,
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  Speaker 3: he reads all the time. It doesn't really watch a
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  Speaker 3: lot of TV. So I, you know, to be honest
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  Speaker 3: with you, I called, I text my mother in law
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  Speaker 3: and I said, hey, look, you need to let John
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  Speaker 3: know that you know, there's a gnarly storm coming that way.
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  Speaker 5: And it's kind of scary, isn't it.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, it's a gnarly storm coming that way. It needs
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  Speaker 3: to be very careful. And I looked at the Uh,
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  Speaker 3: I didn't really know how bad it was going to
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  Speaker 3: be there.
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  Speaker 4: Just in Memphis. We're not talking that's just at the
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  Speaker 4: very edge of the bad stuff.
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  Speaker 3: Anything north of that is really bad, right, And I said, yeah,
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  Speaker 3: they're expecting uh, you know, maybe a you know, a
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  Speaker 3: quarter inch of ice almost over everything, and temperatures it's
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  Speaker 3: not going to get.
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  Speaker 4: Above freezing up there for like three straight.
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  Speaker 7: Days, which means if you lose power because of all
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  Speaker 7: that heavy ice, you're not going to be getting it back.
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  Speaker 4: For quite a while.
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  Speaker 3: That's what I'm saying, is like, if he has a fireplace,
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  Speaker 3: I'm like, you know, you need to load up on
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  Speaker 3: wood and stuff and make sure that you're going to
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  Speaker 3: be able to stay warm and all my other families
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  Speaker 3: up there. I warned him as well, because I just
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  Speaker 3: don't know how much they pay attention. They're all very
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  Speaker 3: busy people, and although it is in the southern part
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  Speaker 3: of them, they are gonna get hit.
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  Speaker 4: What a hero you are? Not a hero?
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  Speaker 8: Jack?
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  Speaker 4: Yeah? Do you talk to your family up there. They're
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  Speaker 4: gonna get kicked there. You have a.
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  Speaker 3: Kid, you have a daughter or a sister of New York.
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  Speaker 3: They're expecting more snow in New York than they've seen
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  Speaker 3: in years.
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  Speaker 4: Dude him, Okay, dude, this guy. They're grown up. This guy.
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  Speaker 3: If there was a hurricane coming your way, and if
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  Speaker 3: they didn't think that you paid attention and they made
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  Speaker 3: a call, you'd appreciate that.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, they call it. Oh by the way, I hear
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  Speaker 4: there's it's like, yeah.
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  Speaker 5: We're fine, Jersey love man.
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  Speaker 9: Yeah.
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  Speaker 4: With a friend like Jack exactly, don't enemies all right?
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  Speaker 3: Four oh seven nine one six one four one Again,
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  Speaker 3: guys have actually talked Collette?
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  Speaker 4: Oh yeah, yeah, so this is my first first experience
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  Speaker 4: with her.
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  Speaker 3: I'm not I'm not really I'm not met her before anything.
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  Speaker 3: I know that she has that podcast she started with
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  Speaker 3: Tom and Dan, or an association with Tom and Dan
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  Speaker 3: called Love Thy Neighbor.
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  Speaker 8: Yeah.
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  Speaker 5: Yeah.
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  Speaker 4: She is a couple's therapist and a relationship expert.
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  Speaker 3: She wrote a book that I think is is really
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  Speaker 3: really applicable for sure.
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  Speaker 7: Yeah, no, without a doubt, you know, still one of
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  Speaker 4: Air in front of Tom and Dad.
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  Speaker 5: It felt pretty good. Yeah, hey, you don't mind if
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  Speaker 5: we buirow word.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, you know.
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  Speaker 5: The funny thing is and a lot of people don't
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  Speaker 5: know here, so cool about it.
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  Speaker 3: A lot of people don't do this anymore. But you know,
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  Speaker 3: I don't know her. We would have only met her
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  Speaker 3: through Tom and Dan. So I felt it necessary when
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  Speaker 3: I invited her to come back on and possibly make
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  Speaker 3: this kind of a segment where she comes back, you know,
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  Speaker 3: maybe once a month or something like that. I called,
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  Speaker 3: you know, text Daniel as a hey, are you guys
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  Speaker 3: cool with this?
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  Speaker 10: Mean?
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  Speaker 5: Oh yeah?
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  Speaker 4: And uh I just felt like, yeah, yeah, absolutely, that's
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  Speaker 4: why you're a hero. Oh my god, this guy.
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  Speaker 5: Don't give him the nerve that he knows to.
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  Speaker 4: It's three h nine. It's three to nine and twice
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  Speaker 4: already we have a theme.
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  Speaker 5: I could give you my cat scratch.
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  Speaker 4: We won't do that.
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  Speaker 3: Got a good case today from Glenn Clausman for Corbert Court.
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  Speaker 3: Danny will be in for Date Night done right. We
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  Speaker 3: do have the Froggers football forecast. Had Froggers lunch today.
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  Speaker 3: I tried their Cuban sandwich. Was absolutely wonderful.
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  Speaker 4: Oh yeah, I think they make their pickles in the house.
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  Speaker 4: I may have to try that next week.
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  Speaker 3: I'm serious running out of football games. I think for lunch,
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  Speaker 3: I think we've hit the entire menu. I think next
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  Speaker 3: week will be the last part of the menu.
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  Speaker 7: I'm had but to follow your lead and try the
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  Speaker 7: Cuban sandwich.
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  Speaker 5: That looked quite goos.
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  Speaker 4: Real roast pork.
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  Speaker 3: It was delicious, man, really good numbs. We do have
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  Speaker 3: a bunch of stuff to talk about today. I did
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  Speaker 3: want to kind of hit something real quick first, because
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  Speaker 3: I find this kind of amazing everything from the healthiest
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  Speaker 3: fast food burger today most most satisfying convenience store experiences.
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  Speaker 3: Disney's got some stuff coming up as well we'll be.
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  Speaker 5: Talking about I'm glad I didn't put that in the No, no, no,
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  Speaker 5: I mean it's.
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  Speaker 4: The Oscar noms are coming up as well.
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  Speaker 3: But so I think most people think they know what
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  Speaker 3: the number one selling album of all time is, right,
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  Speaker 3: I believe.
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  Speaker 4: So what do you think it is? Jackson Thriller? Yeah,
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  Speaker 4: Michael Jackson's Thriller. No, it's not.
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  Speaker 5: I thought it was Bob Marley Legends.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, not anymore.
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  Speaker 3: One of a big news story today was finally something
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  Speaker 3: surpassed Michael Jackson's album Thriller, that, since nineteen eighty two,
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  Speaker 3: has been the best selling album in US recorded music history.
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  Speaker 4: It is now not that another band has taken that over.
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  Speaker 4: That's a low key Toto album. It is not a
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  Speaker 4: low key Toto album.
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  Speaker 3: It is Michael Jackson's Thriller is Oh, yeah, you're right,
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  Speaker 3: but a new album took it over forty million units.
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  Speaker 3: This album has sold. I think Michael Jackson sold thirty
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  Speaker 3: seven million.
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  Speaker 4: Or something like that.
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  Speaker 5: Is it a Taylor Swift thing?
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  Speaker 4: It is not a.
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  Speaker 3: Taylor Swift record, and it makes it makes perfect sense.
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  Speaker 4: Oh oh, Demon Hunters.
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  Speaker 3: No, and I can't even tell you what kind of
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  Speaker 3: album it is, it'll give it away immediately, believe specifically
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  Speaker 3: to Jack soundtrack.
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  Speaker 5: Oh, Bruce Springsteen.
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  Speaker 4: No, is it a movie soundtrack. It's not a movie soundtrack,
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  Speaker 4: you know.
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  Speaker 3: And that's a fair guess because Saturday Night Fever and
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  Speaker 3: what we've learned about, you know, you know, just the
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  Speaker 3: streaming world is at any given moment, a song that
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  Speaker 3: hasn't been on the air for thirty years can all
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  Speaker 3: of a sudden top the Billboard charts because it gets
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  Speaker 3: hit with stranger things or OK, yeah, right, some other
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  Speaker 3: movie or show will bop it up there.
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  Speaker 6: It's not, oh gosh, it's because of a recent movie
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  Speaker 6: or show that used the music.
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  Speaker 4: You know what.
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  Speaker 3: It doesn't say that that is, but I will tell you,
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  Speaker 3: I know this album has been a solid top one
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  Speaker 3: hundred sellar for a very long time.
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  Speaker 4: So I think it's just a matter of fact. Fifty years,
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  Speaker 4: fifty years, seventy six, seventy five, seventy six, not Queen
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  Speaker 4: Eagles Greatest Hits.
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  Speaker 3: From nineteen seventy one to nineteen seventy five is the answer.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, Eagles.
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  Speaker 3: The Eagles Greatest Hits is now the greatest selling American
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  Speaker 3: album ever, over forty million units. And that's a new
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  Speaker 3: certification from the Recording Industry Association of America.
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  Speaker 4: Aka the r IAA.
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  Speaker 3: Everybody knows that Hotel California on that out on that album,
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  Speaker 3: of course, But and you think about how impressed it
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  Speaker 3: of that. That's just four years. So what's that like
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  Speaker 3: three albums or something like that, three or four albums
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  Speaker 3: for those guys they pulled.
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  Speaker 4: These hits from.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, and on top of that, when you factor in
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  Speaker 3: just Hotel California as as a song, when it comes
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  Speaker 3: to the album, it has outsold like almost every other
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  Speaker 3: single in the world. Like, it's crazy how much this
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  Speaker 3: record has done considering how long it's been out. Uh,
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  Speaker 3: and they're doing shows that the sphere. I guess they
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  Speaker 3: launched that residency at September twentieth.
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  Speaker 4: On twenty twenty four.
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  Speaker 3: But yeah, man, they were all inducted in the Hall
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  Speaker 3: of Fame in ninety eight and their hits include everything
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  Speaker 3: from you know, Hotel California to Take It Easy. Just
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  Speaker 3: so many great songs on that album and it is
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  Speaker 3: now the number one best selling record of all time.
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  Speaker 3: I had that CD back in the age. Oh yeah,
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  Speaker 3: it was just perfect. And you know what's really Jack,
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  Speaker 3: you asked how it got up there, and this is
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  Speaker 3: what it is now. I don't know if this is new.
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  Speaker 3: You can actually tell me. You probably know more about
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  Speaker 3: this than I do. How many how many streams of
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  Speaker 3: an album do they do? They call an album sale? Oh,
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  Speaker 3: this is where this happened. I believe you asked a
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  Speaker 3: very good question, Jack, and this is exactly what happened.
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  Speaker 3: So I guess on YouTube, Spotify of course, our iHeartRadio app.
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  Speaker 3: You know all of that stuff. Right when you play
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  Speaker 3: that album, if it gets played, for every fifteen hundred
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  Speaker 3: times that album gets streamed, they give that album credit
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  Speaker 3: for selling one record. Fifteen hundred streams is the answer.
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  Speaker 3: Oh wow, So for every fifteen hundred streams that equals
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  Speaker 3: one album sell And I believe that's how they wound
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  Speaker 3: up getting above it. Ah, there you go. What's got news?
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  Speaker 3: What you got for news?
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  Speaker 10: Just wanted to let you know that my sister has
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  Speaker 10: been bugging me about going to see BTS for a year,
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  Speaker 10: and this morning from Detroit, she got online and she
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  Speaker 10: got a sicket to the Tampa show, so we're actually
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  Speaker 10: gonna go. I know nothing about BTS, so I have
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  Speaker 10: two weeks to learn Spanish to see Bad Bunny and understand,
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  Speaker 10: and now I've got two months to figure out K pop.
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  Speaker 4: So we're going. Yay, Ran, Good for you. That's exciting. Yeah.
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  Speaker 7: I went to a Taylor Swift show without really knowing
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  Speaker 7: any of her music.
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  Speaker 4: Great Joe, but you understood the language.
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  Speaker 5: Yeah, I did, absolutely. That is a big difference.
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  Speaker 3: All right, won't be an issue for BT's but the
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  Speaker 3: Bad Bunny maybe a little bit.
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  Speaker 9: Wow.
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  Speaker 1: This this guy gotta put his name on everything.
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  Speaker 4: It's in my contract ed.
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  Speaker 1: Here's the news on the Jim Colber.
• 15:00
  Speaker 7: Show and JCS News is brought to you by that
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  Speaker 7: mortgage guy don. A sprawling snowstorm is set to slam
• 15:07
  Speaker 7: millions of Americans from Texas to New York this weekend.
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  Speaker 7: Local and state leaders like Georgia Governor Brian Kemp are
• 15:14
  Speaker 7: taking this very seriously, with Kemp declaring a state of emergency.
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  Speaker 11: As always, our state team will be pre treating and
• 15:22
  Speaker 11: prepared for the worst and hoping for the best.
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  Speaker 7: People in the path of this potentially historic storm are
• 15:28
  Speaker 7: being worn to prep for snow, ice, and freezing rain,
• 15:31
  Speaker 7: which could all lead to deadly road conditions along with
• 15:34
  Speaker 7: prolonged power outages. Heavy snow or ice is forecast. Do
• 15:38
  Speaker 7: you know for how many states?
• 15:39
  Speaker 5: Jimmy twenty jack nineteen thirty three.
• 15:46
  Speaker 7: Damn thirty three states, and that number could grow.
• 15:50
  Speaker 3: I saw the They have a blob, a map that's
• 15:53
  Speaker 3: got a big blog that shows you where the cold
• 15:55
  Speaker 3: air is, basically the entire middle of the US.
• 15:57
  Speaker 4: Yeah, is going to get its ass kicked.
• 15:59
  Speaker 7: And even though we're going to be enjoying like literally
• 16:02
  Speaker 7: near record warmth this weekend with highs potentially in the
• 16:05
  Speaker 7: mid to upper eighties, next week the bottom drops out
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  Speaker 7: for us again. Like I think Wednesday the high is
• 16:10
  Speaker 7: going to be fifty nine.
• 16:12
  Speaker 4: No room for gloating, room for floating. Absolutely, I think
• 16:14
  Speaker 4: it's colder than that. I think the house supposed to
• 16:16
  Speaker 4: be like fifty one.
• 16:17
  Speaker 3: Oh no, Yeah, it's really chilly next week, well, thank you.
• 16:20
  Speaker 7: This storm all begins tomorrow, when snow, sleet, and freezing
• 16:24
  Speaker 7: rain is expected to hit the planes, including parts of
• 16:26
  Speaker 7: Kansas where my brother lives, Oklahoma, and Texas. Storm expected
• 16:31
  Speaker 7: to linger Monday throughout much of the northeast. The ground
• 16:34
  Speaker 7: keeps shaking in Utah after yet another earthquake struck this
• 16:38
  Speaker 7: morning near the Wyoming state line. The United States Geological
• 16:42
  Speaker 7: Survey reports this latest quake registered a four point seven
• 16:46
  Speaker 7: magnitude with a eight point five mile depth, so eight
• 16:51
  Speaker 7: and a half miles down. It's struck about twenty five
• 16:53
  Speaker 7: miles south of Everston, Wyoming. What number earthquake. Is this
• 16:59
  Speaker 7: in Utah and the last five days?
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  Speaker 3: God, I know they've had a bunch of them. I'll go, uh,
• 17:03
  Speaker 3: it's like forty five or something, isn't it.
• 17:05
  Speaker 7: Oh it's not that, Craig Cray, No, because this is
• 17:07
  Speaker 7: just the last five days.
• 17:08
  Speaker 4: Oh, I'll get forty four.
• 17:12
  Speaker 5: It's six it is.
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  Speaker 8: Yeah.
• 17:14
  Speaker 4: Wait, what did they hear? There's a lot of maybe
• 17:16
  Speaker 4: it may be trimmers or something. I don't know. I
• 17:18
  Speaker 4: read a bigger number than that.
• 17:19
  Speaker 7: Yeah, well, this is just earthquakes over the last five days.
• 17:23
  Speaker 7: But this is the first one that has reached a
• 17:25
  Speaker 7: magnitude over three.
• 17:27
  Speaker 3: Check threw's hands. Yes, by the way, Jack threw's hands
• 17:29
  Speaker 3: in the air for that game. Literally like you ran
• 17:32
  Speaker 3: a marathon, like.
• 17:34
  Speaker 4: You broke the tape. Unbearable today already, oh sweet, unbearable.
• 17:42
  Speaker 4: Not even on drugs, all right.
• 17:43
  Speaker 7: Orlando International Airport quick, someone get them some is launching
• 17:47
  Speaker 7: a major expansion project. Plans include two multi story garage
• 17:53
  Speaker 7: expansions at Terminals A and C, which are set to
• 17:57
  Speaker 7: be complete within the next year or so. The airport
• 18:00
  Speaker 7: also wants to convert fifteen hundred parking spaces in the
• 18:04
  Speaker 7: terminal top parking garage.
• 18:05
  Speaker 5: To reserved parking.
• 18:07
  Speaker 7: Really, yeah, a small parking guidance system will be installed
• 18:12
  Speaker 7: in all four garages.
• 18:13
  Speaker 4: You charge them, they will pay, they won't pay. Here's
• 18:16
  Speaker 4: the thing.
• 18:16
  Speaker 3: I mean, they can build that garage and it'll be
• 18:18
  Speaker 3: paid off by the next weekend. Because I mean, my
• 18:21
  Speaker 3: White parks, there's like fifty six dollars a day or
• 18:23
  Speaker 3: something like that when you park on the damn thing. Now, look,
• 18:26
  Speaker 3: the convenience is unbelievable. She parked next to an elevator
• 18:28
  Speaker 3: last time, she said, I legit, walked out of the elevator,
• 18:31
  Speaker 3: hit my button, and I have my stuff in my
• 18:33
  Speaker 3: car and I was on the road within like six minutes.
• 18:35
  Speaker 4: I was gone.
• 18:36
  Speaker 5: But you pay for that, Yeah, you do pay for that,
• 18:39
  Speaker 5: you do.
• 18:40
  Speaker 7: But when you're doing that kind of traveling, that kind
• 18:42
  Speaker 7: of convenience kind of you know, explains itself.
• 18:44
  Speaker 4: Especially if you can force a company to pay for it.
• 18:47
  Speaker 4: And that's exactly what you said.
• 18:48
  Speaker 5: Oh yeah.
• 18:49
  Speaker 7: Details about the project can be found online at flymco
• 18:53
  Speaker 7: dot com slash elevating Mco. In the meantime, Winter Garden
• 18:58
  Speaker 7: commissioners are going to vote on a new retail and
• 19:01
  Speaker 7: dining destination today. If approved, the historic Citrus Packing Plant
• 19:06
  Speaker 7: would be transformed into a major shopping hub called the
• 19:10
  Speaker 7: Old Packing House.
• 19:11
  Speaker 4: In winter Garden.
• 19:12
  Speaker 5: In Winter Garden, I know exactly where that is.
• 19:14
  Speaker 7: Yeah, the building would be repurposed into art and retail shops, restaurants,
• 19:18
  Speaker 7: and business offices. I think that's like one of the
• 19:21
  Speaker 7: last historic buildings really in Winter Garden, isn't that.
• 19:23
  Speaker 3: I believe that's part of the complex where I used
• 19:25
  Speaker 3: to do business. You know that the guy had the
• 19:27
  Speaker 3: continuous form shop. I think it's a whole brick building.
• 19:29
  Speaker 3: It's just a storage where house are centrius if I
• 19:31
  Speaker 3: remember right.
• 19:32
  Speaker 7: While a natural history museum is also a part of
• 19:35
  Speaker 7: the plan, which I think is really cool as well.
• 19:37
  Speaker 7: Construction could wrap up by the summertime.
• 19:40
  Speaker 5: Now.
• 19:40
  Speaker 7: On the flip side, Daytona Beach officials are asking questions
• 19:43
  Speaker 7: about the city's plans to spend millions of dollars. City
• 19:47
  Speaker 7: Commission met yesterday to discuss buying the Cruising Cafe at
• 19:51
  Speaker 7: Main Street and a NA for almost four and a
• 19:54
  Speaker 7: half million dollars.
• 19:55
  Speaker 8: Nothing.
• 19:55
  Speaker 4: He's been there forever, hasn't it.
• 19:57
  Speaker 7: Yeah, And then the building would be demolished as part
• 19:59
  Speaker 7: of this city's plans to then build an entertainment district.
• 20:02
  Speaker 7: City Commissioner Stacey Canto says her research shows that property
• 20:07
  Speaker 7: is only worth about half of what the city is
• 20:10
  Speaker 7: offering to pay for it.
• 20:11
  Speaker 4: Really, yeah, interesting, So.
• 20:13
  Speaker 7: The commission voted to get the property appraised again and
• 20:17
  Speaker 7: to get the city to release more details on its plans.
• 20:20
  Speaker 7: You know, with FAFO running around the state of Florida,
• 20:23
  Speaker 7: you want to watch your p's and q's.
• 20:26
  Speaker 3: That's a desired effect, right, Hey, yeah, you better double check.
• 20:30
  Speaker 4: Yeah, absolutely, you know, yeah.
• 20:32
  Speaker 5: Absolutely absolutely all right.
• 20:34
  Speaker 7: A man hurt in a murder suicide in Orange County
• 20:37
  Speaker 7: is marking a milestone in his recovery. This is the
• 20:40
  Speaker 7: only bit of good news out of this story. But
• 20:42
  Speaker 7: he was released from the hospital yesterday after he was
• 20:45
  Speaker 7: stabbed Monday in Winter Park and an office building on
• 20:48
  Speaker 7: Lee Road. The Sheriff's office says Michael Smith, who had
• 20:51
  Speaker 7: spent several years in prison for rape and for using
• 20:54
  Speaker 7: a knight, stabbed his former therapist, Rebecca White and a
• 20:58
  Speaker 7: patient of hers ten times before taking his own life.
• 21:02
  Speaker 7: White died unfortunately, but her patient did survive and is
• 21:05
  Speaker 7: now home recovering. His father tells New Six his son
• 21:08
  Speaker 7: feels bad because he couldn't do more to save White.
• 21:12
  Speaker 5: Yeah, awful, It is awful.
• 21:14
  Speaker 7: But in that story, I learned about the different levels
• 21:17
  Speaker 7: of therapy and how some like Ms White, you know,
• 21:20
  Speaker 7: literally gave her life to work with troubled offenders. She
• 21:25
  Speaker 7: was specialty, one of her specialties, so she worked with
• 21:28
  Speaker 7: the court system. She worked with defendants in court cases.
• 21:33
  Speaker 7: And I believe from what I heard on local news
• 21:35
  Speaker 7: stations her website described her work as as a no
• 21:38
  Speaker 7: judgment zone, like she because she worked with a troubled individuals.
• 21:43
  Speaker 5: Absolutely, Man, I don't know about that.
• 21:45
  Speaker 3: That's like, could you imagine being married to a woman
• 21:47
  Speaker 3: who is doing that, like, you know, every single day
• 21:50
  Speaker 3: or every other day in their office there's a violent
• 21:53
  Speaker 3: offender in could be?
• 21:54
  Speaker 7: I mean, they do normally have some safety you know, uh,
• 21:59
  Speaker 7: steps in play, there's a doorbell you have to ring,
• 22:02
  Speaker 7: the business goal you look through this right. Yeah, And
• 22:06
  Speaker 7: this guy had just finished his therapy session and was
• 22:08
  Speaker 7: leaving when this whole altercation ensued. All right, Florida Democrats
• 22:12
  Speaker 7: are once again trying to restore abortion access by launching
• 22:16
  Speaker 7: the Reproductive Freedom Act in both the State House and Senate.
• 22:19
  Speaker 7: On this fifty third anniversary of the Supreme Court's Row
• 22:24
  Speaker 7: versus Way decision.
• 22:26
  Speaker 12: Restrictions are dangerous when a woman, a family, or you know,
• 22:29
  Speaker 12: each pregnancy requires a different type of care, all of
• 22:32
  Speaker 12: which should be decided between a woman in consultation with
• 22:36
  Speaker 12: her physician, her faith, and her family, not politicians.
• 22:40
  Speaker 7: House Democratic Leader Fantries Driscoll calls the current six week
• 22:43
  Speaker 7: abortion ban dangerous. Along with abortion access, the bills would
• 22:47
  Speaker 7: ensure access to birth control and IVF and protect those
• 22:51
  Speaker 7: who help people receiving reproductive care. All right, well, we
• 22:55
  Speaker 7: know over in Bivard County, or actually in Orange County,
• 22:58
  Speaker 7: they're planning to close possible up to seven schools. Yes,
• 23:01
  Speaker 7: Bervard County they've closed the only school over in Cape Canaveral.
• 23:05
  Speaker 7: Duval County is also looking at closing at least six schools.
• 23:08
  Speaker 7: And now you can add Broward County, which also plans
• 23:11
  Speaker 7: to close six schools. This is going on all over
• 23:14
  Speaker 7: in the state of Florida.
• 23:16
  Speaker 5: It really, really is.
• 23:17
  Speaker 7: The school board in Broward voted yesterday to close four
• 23:20
  Speaker 7: elementary schools, a middle school, and a high school due
• 23:25
  Speaker 7: to low enrollment. You wouldn't think that would be the case, really,
• 23:27
  Speaker 7: anywhere in Florida when you see all the construction going
• 23:30
  Speaker 7: under right, right, you.
• 23:31
  Speaker 6: Know, unless it's all migrat school choice, school choice, charter
• 23:35
  Speaker 6: charter schools, Yep, exactly, they're defunding public education and they
• 23:40
  Speaker 6: can't keep buildings open if it's under what FI enrollment
• 23:44
  Speaker 6: or yeah, believe is the number.
• 23:46
  Speaker 7: Exactly, which is what specifically is going on in Bervardel.
• 23:50
  Speaker 7: These changes will go into effect for the twenty twenty
• 23:53
  Speaker 7: six twenty seven school year and the district.
• 23:55
  Speaker 6: And don't let it be a surprise. This is a
• 23:58
  Speaker 6: desired outcome for so oh well, they want to privatize. Say,
• 24:02
  Speaker 6: they've been trying to privatize the public school system for
• 24:04
  Speaker 6: a while. So, yes, that's the end, that's that's what
• 24:06
  Speaker 6: they're trying to do.
• 24:06
  Speaker 7: Well, the district expects to save how much money a
• 24:09
  Speaker 7: year by closing these these six schools three million?
• 24:13
  Speaker 4: Seven eight?
• 24:15
  Speaker 7: Oh wow, yeah, eight million. But still, yeah, what we
• 24:18
  Speaker 7: save today we might lose in tomorrow.
• 24:20
  Speaker 5: You know what I'm saying.
• 24:22
  Speaker 4: Go find yourself an employee with an education bill.
• 24:24
  Speaker 5: Oh yeah, good luck with that.
• 24:26
  Speaker 7: Florida firefighters face more than flames when they battle a blaze.
• 24:30
  Speaker 7: Florida CFO and State Fire Marshall Blaze and Golia. What
• 24:34
  Speaker 7: a cool name when you're the fire marshal Right, Blaze,
• 24:38
  Speaker 7: Blaze and Golia in Hialea today to combat cancer among
• 24:42
  Speaker 7: firefighters with a one and a half million dollar grants.
• 24:45
  Speaker 5: They breathe it in, they're contaminating their lungs.
• 24:48
  Speaker 1: It is much much different.
• 24:50
  Speaker 4: We have found links between certain cancers and specifically fighting
• 24:54
  Speaker 4: the fires because of those chemicals and those carcinogens.
• 24:57
  Speaker 7: So he says, the money is going to go to
• 24:59
  Speaker 7: purchase equipm and to decontaminate firefighters who are exposed to
• 25:02
  Speaker 7: chemicals and plastics. Because keep in mind, you know, they say,
• 25:06
  Speaker 7: you know, part of what makes fighting home fires so
• 25:08
  Speaker 7: much more dangerous now is because of all of the
• 25:11
  Speaker 7: treated fabrics on our couches, the treated woods that burn.
• 25:15
  Speaker 5: I mean, it's so much.
• 25:16
  Speaker 7: More dangerous to fight a house fire these days than
• 25:18
  Speaker 7: it was in the past. And unfortunately, all of those
• 25:21
  Speaker 7: carcinogens cling to their gear and their trucks which they've
• 25:25
  Speaker 7: been bring back to the firehouse and everyone gets exposed
• 25:28
  Speaker 7: to it. So and we hear a lot of cases
• 25:31
  Speaker 7: of firefighters being diagnosed with cancers from fighting the fires
• 25:35
  Speaker 7: on the job.
• 25:35
  Speaker 4: Yeah for sure.
• 25:36
  Speaker 7: So while also he says PTSD and suicide are just
• 25:40
  Speaker 7: as destructive for those first responders as cancer. I believe,
• 25:43
  Speaker 7: like down in Brower County they've lost their third active
• 25:46
  Speaker 7: firefighter in seventeen months.
• 25:48
  Speaker 5: Due to suicide.
• 25:48
  Speaker 4: Am damn.
• 25:49
  Speaker 7: Yeah, I did not realize in the fire fighting field
• 25:53
  Speaker 7: that suicide was so prevalent.
• 25:54
  Speaker 4: Yeah, me either. I knew in the you know, obviously
• 25:56
  Speaker 4: with police officers, we have known of that because you know,
• 26:00
  Speaker 4: you know, talking to Detective Barb for so many years
• 26:02
  Speaker 4: and her saying that you just simply don't understand what
• 26:04
  Speaker 4: cops have to take home every single day. You just
• 26:06
  Speaker 4: see a couple couple stories on TV, but you don't
• 26:09
  Speaker 4: see ninety eight percent of them. And you know it
• 26:11
  Speaker 4: was specially to handle it. Even if we did well,
• 26:13
  Speaker 4: all first responders are exposed to that.
• 26:15
  Speaker 5: Paramedic Yeah, yeah, exactly.
• 26:18
  Speaker 4: Of course.
• 26:18
  Speaker 7: Military, Yeah, so I mean talk about the stressors of
• 26:22
  Speaker 7: the job.
• 26:22
  Speaker 5: Yeah, all right.
• 26:24
  Speaker 9: Uh.
• 26:24
  Speaker 7: And NASA astronaut Sonny Williams is retiring after a twenty
• 26:27
  Speaker 7: seven year career. According to an announcement from NASA, Williams's
• 26:31
  Speaker 7: retirementic effect at the end of December, and it follows
• 26:34
  Speaker 7: a career filled with record setting achievements, even if she
• 26:37
  Speaker 7: didn't plan to make some of them. Because do you
• 26:40
  Speaker 7: remember the name Sonny Williams.
• 26:42
  Speaker 4: Oh, yeah, she was the she's the diaper lady. No,
• 26:46
  Speaker 4: she was the diaper lady. Okay, Sonny Williams was stuck.
• 26:50
  Speaker 4: Sonny and Butch were oh yeah, yeah, yeah, ye station yeah.
• 26:53
  Speaker 7: Imagine going to college, becoming an astronaut, making it to space,
• 26:57
  Speaker 7: and then you're known as the diaper lady.
• 26:59
  Speaker 5: Yeah yeah, yeah, some stars, how they fall?
• 27:02
  Speaker 3: Well now, I mean no, I mean lisaid noahk. I
• 27:04
  Speaker 3: mean she kind of earned the tes she did. Yeah, yeah,
• 27:07
  Speaker 3: she cuckoo for cocoa puffs.
• 27:09
  Speaker 4: As a matter of fact, that ABC, they're doing a
• 27:11
  Speaker 4: documentary about it. They really and they interviewed Russ this
• 27:14
  Speaker 4: week for it. Oh did they really? Yeah? Yeah? For
• 27:17
  Speaker 4: what though? That's interesting. They were going back.
• 27:20
  Speaker 6: They wanted, Uh the director of it was a UCS
• 27:24
  Speaker 6: student and he remembers hearing about okay, yeah, that's being
• 27:27
  Speaker 6: discussed on real radio, and so he wanted to kind
• 27:30
  Speaker 6: of get some uh let's.
• 27:31
  Speaker 4: Kind of be back. That's bad. Ask you for him?
• 27:34
  Speaker 7: Well, Williams has logged six hundred and eight days in
• 27:37
  Speaker 7: space since joining NASA in nineteen ninety eight, which is
• 27:40
  Speaker 7: the second most by a NASA astronaut, and she holds
• 27:43
  Speaker 7: the record for the most spacewalk time by a woman,
• 27:45
  Speaker 7: with sixty two hours across nine spacewalks. Her final mission
• 27:49
  Speaker 7: with the agency was on that test flight of Boeing Starliner,
• 27:53
  Speaker 7: which also showcased the astronaut's resilience as it was only
• 27:56
  Speaker 7: intended to last over a week and was extended to
• 27:59
  Speaker 7: more than nine months due to technical issues.
• 28:02
  Speaker 5: Unbelievable, man, I know.
• 28:03
  Speaker 7: And then finally, real quick, A Canadian man accused of
• 28:06
  Speaker 7: posing as a pilot or flight attendant to get hundreds
• 28:10
  Speaker 7: of free flights is pleading not guilty because honestly, that
• 28:14
  Speaker 7: just takes Cojon's. Thirty three year old Dallas Perkrnick was
• 28:18
  Speaker 7: in court Tuesday in Honolulu on federal criminal charges. Prosecutors
• 28:23
  Speaker 7: say he managed to lie his way onto flights managed
• 28:26
  Speaker 7: by Hawaiian Airlines, United Airlines, American Airlines, and Air Canada
• 28:32
  Speaker 7: over the course of how long.
• 28:35
  Speaker 4: I think I saw a blurb on this, like seven
• 28:38
  Speaker 4: years or something, maybe maybe even longer than I'll go
• 28:41
  Speaker 4: seven years.
• 28:42
  Speaker 7: Oh Jack shot him the wrong way, Jacke. It was
• 28:48
  Speaker 7: over the course of about four years, four years.
• 28:52
  Speaker 3: Still, I wonder if they're gonna they're trying to if
• 28:54
  Speaker 3: they're going to try to get him for restitution. I
• 28:56
  Speaker 3: don't like every one of those flights hitting for like
• 28:58
  Speaker 3: that four eight hundred dollars or whatever.
• 29:00
  Speaker 7: It's amazing because these aren't like low cost airlines that
• 29:03
  Speaker 7: you think would make the mistake of not noticing a
• 29:05
  Speaker 7: pilot was credentialed or a flight attendant for four years unreal.
• 29:10
  Speaker 7: If convicted, he faces up to twenty years in prison.
• 29:13
  Speaker 3: Shocking when you think, no, well, I think somebody's gonna
• 29:15
  Speaker 3: lie their way on an airplane like I'm a pilot,
• 29:18
  Speaker 3: Like I guess you got me?
• 29:20
  Speaker 4: Okay, come on board. You want to send first class
• 29:24
  Speaker 4: free drink.
• 29:25
  Speaker 7: And he's the one flying your plane just so he
• 29:28
  Speaker 7: can get on for free.
• 29:29
  Speaker 8: Almighty damn.
• 29:31
  Speaker 5: And that makes it think twice, doesn't it?
• 29:33
  Speaker 7: And either way that concludes your JCS news.
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• 30:38
  Speaker 4: More specifically, we're talking.
• 30:39
  Speaker 6: Ovido, Mount Dora, a Popka and I'll com on Springs.
• 30:43
  Speaker 4: Thanks for lunch today.
• 30:44
  Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, it was great.
• 30:45
  Speaker 4: I had that Cuban sandwich which was absolutely delicious. I did.
• 30:48
  Speaker 6: I got ross and you got me onto these boneless
• 30:51
  Speaker 6: chicken wings and you just they're like popper, Yes.
• 30:54
  Speaker 4: You know, you're like, this is so easy, yeah yeah,
• 30:57
  Speaker 4: yeah yeah, and they're tasty as well. So thanks again,
• 30:59
  Speaker 4: best blue ches. He's in the business.
• 31:00
  Speaker 5: Yeah, I got a tub of it today.
• 31:03
  Speaker 4: Yeah.
• 31:04
  Speaker 5: I could actually eat it with a spoon today.
• 31:06
  Speaker 4: That bas for ext revolutes.
• 31:08
  Speaker 3: All right, So we are going to do it a
• 31:09
  Speaker 3: little bit differently this week because we do have we
• 31:12
  Speaker 3: only have the two games that we're trying to pick.
• 31:15
  Speaker 3: So not only are we going to pick the winners
• 31:17
  Speaker 3: and losers, we're also going to pick the total points
• 31:19
  Speaker 3: for each game as well.
• 31:20
  Speaker 6: Yeah, and we'll see who's closer. We'll take it all,
• 31:23
  Speaker 6: not just for diebreaker. We'll just added all up and
• 31:26
  Speaker 6: then we'll see who's closest with the point differential. And
• 31:30
  Speaker 6: I have Ross's picks. He has sent them to me,
• 31:33
  Speaker 6: so he is now log I have made my picks.
• 31:36
  Speaker 4: But there's only two games.
• 31:37
  Speaker 6: You got Patriots taken on the Denver Broncos in Denver, Denver,
• 31:43
  Speaker 6: and then you have Seattle Seahawks hosting your Los Angeles.
• 31:50
  Speaker 3: All right, let's go with the Denver Patriots game first.
• 31:53
  Speaker 3: Remember Denver's quarterback is out.
• 31:55
  Speaker 5: Yeah, point Patriots, Yeah, they're.
• 31:57
  Speaker 3: Going with the backup quarterback. It is going to be
• 32:00
  Speaker 3: I don't know how the weather's going to be up there
• 32:01
  Speaker 3: this Sunday.
• 32:01
  Speaker 8: It can't be.
• 32:02
  Speaker 5: Great, no, but Patriots are used to that.
• 32:04
  Speaker 7: Yeah, yeah, whether it won't be a factor for them,
• 32:06
  Speaker 7: You're right, altitude could be.
• 32:08
  Speaker 4: Yeah.
• 32:10
  Speaker 7: What what's been the uh what's been their history with
• 32:13
  Speaker 7: Denver this season?
• 32:14
  Speaker 4: Well?
• 32:15
  Speaker 3: I do the Patriots have a real weird thing with
• 32:17
  Speaker 3: Denver at if I remember right, Brady went in there
• 32:19
  Speaker 3: twice during the playoffs during his run, like in that
• 32:21
  Speaker 3: last and he lost. I think he's only one for
• 32:24
  Speaker 3: three against the Broncos. So the Patriots have a weird
• 32:27
  Speaker 3: thing with the Broncos. I don't know what it is,
• 32:29
  Speaker 3: but they do. All Right, weather should not be a factor.
• 32:32
  Speaker 3: We are looking at high around forty nine the day.
• 32:35
  Speaker 4: That's piece cake. Yeah, all right, very good.
• 32:37
  Speaker 5: Who'd you go with? Jack?
• 32:38
  Speaker 4: I have Patriots. Yeah, I'm also taking the Patriots.
• 32:41
  Speaker 3: I think if bo Nix was in the game, it
• 32:43
  Speaker 3: would probably make this decision a little harder. I'm not
• 32:46
  Speaker 3: saying this guy stid him as any bad is not good.
• 32:49
  Speaker 3: Matter of fact, everything I've heard about him, he's supposed
• 32:51
  Speaker 3: to be a pretty good player. But this is the
• 32:53
  Speaker 3: you know, this is the championship game, and you know,
• 32:55
  Speaker 3: guy hasn't played a snap in a while, so you
• 32:57
  Speaker 3: can't expect him to go out there and run the
• 32:59
  Speaker 3: full blown off and deal with this team, the Patriots
• 33:02
  Speaker 3: that are on one a little bit.
• 33:03
  Speaker 4: I like the Pats.
• 33:04
  Speaker 3: Yeah scores, what do you think deb total points?
• 33:09
  Speaker 4: Thirty eight? Ooh lo, that's a low scoring game, right
• 33:14
  Speaker 4: The line is forty two and a half. Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. Oh,
• 33:17
  Speaker 4: it just means you're under It's a big deal. Yeah yeah, I'm.
• 33:19
  Speaker 5: Gonna going between forty three and thirty eight.
• 33:22
  Speaker 4: I'm gonna go fifty four.
• 33:23
  Speaker 7: Jack, I'm gonna go forty three. I'm changing for my
• 33:26
  Speaker 7: thirty all right.
• 33:27
  Speaker 3: I'm going fifty four. Debs going forty three, copy me, right, alright,
• 33:32
  Speaker 3: Let's go to the other game, the Rams and the Seahawks.
• 33:37
  Speaker 3: I'm taking the Seahawks. It's not even close. I think
• 33:39
  Speaker 3: they are going to absolutely blow the Rams completely out
• 33:42
  Speaker 3: of that place. I think it's gonna be gross. Yes,
• 33:45
  Speaker 3: the Seahawks are unbelievably good. That defense is crazy in
• 33:50
  Speaker 3: The Rams literally stumbled through both of their games in
• 33:53
  Speaker 3: the playoffs, to get to where they are now. Yeah,
• 33:55
  Speaker 3: so I think the I think the Seahawks are going
• 33:57
  Speaker 3: to beat the complete hell out of them. I think Seahawks.
• 34:00
  Speaker 3: I'll go, I'll go, uh, I'll go. I'll go fifty
• 34:06
  Speaker 3: four in that game as well.
• 34:07
  Speaker 7: Nice, I am going Seahawks and I will go fifty two.
• 34:11
  Speaker 9: Nice.
• 34:12
  Speaker 5: What's the line on that game.
• 34:14
  Speaker 4: That is forty six and a half.
• 34:16
  Speaker 5: Oh okay, I'm feeling comfortable.
• 34:18
  Speaker 6: And I will say, between me and Ross, one of
• 34:21
  Speaker 6: us as the Seahawks.
• 34:22
  Speaker 4: The other one took the rams no way.
• 34:25
  Speaker 5: Really really really he took the Rams? Didn't he did?
• 34:29
  Speaker 4: Why would he take the Rams against that team? Did
• 34:31
  Speaker 4: you see them play?
• 34:32
  Speaker 10: No?
• 34:32
  Speaker 5: The Vegas. He always goes with those Vegas odds.
• 34:36
  Speaker 4: It's in Seattle, is it not? It is there. They
• 34:40
  Speaker 4: can't be a dog at home against this football team.
• 34:42
  Speaker 4: Not a dog.
• 34:43
  Speaker 5: Do we know what the what Vegas is saying about
• 34:46
  Speaker 5: the game.
• 34:46
  Speaker 4: It's gonna be like three and a half or something
• 34:48
  Speaker 4: and a half.
• 34:48
  Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, Seattle, obviously it's gotta be.
• 34:51
  Speaker 6: Now, Patriots are minus four and a half and Seattle's
• 34:54
  Speaker 6: minus two and a half.
• 34:55
  Speaker 3: Okay, Wow, that's crazy that that don't that spread is
• 34:59
  Speaker 3: only like that.
• 35:00
  Speaker 9: God.
• 35:00
  Speaker 4: Did anybody says he I'll play.
• 35:03
  Speaker 3: God, Oh, Budy Maybe they said Sean McVay and the
• 35:07
  Speaker 3: Rams will have their number.
• 35:08
  Speaker 4: Yeah, maybe, so I guess. Well, there you go. That's
• 35:10
  Speaker 4: all picked up.
• 35:11
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• 35:21
  Speaker 3: picked the winners correctly but also had had the points
• 35:24
  Speaker 3: correctly as well.
• 35:25
  Speaker 4: Yeah, crazy business man.
• 35:27
  Speaker 7: Thanks don't follow my lead from last week when it
• 35:29
  Speaker 7: comes to points.
• 35:30
  Speaker 4: Thanks Rogers. We appreciate that. Again.
• 35:31
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• 35:34
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• 35:49
  Speaker 3: Danny Meering in next from Orlando Date Night Guide to
• 35:51
  Speaker 3: find out what's going on in Orlando this weekend.
• 35:53
  Speaker 5: She's already downstairs working. That's working, Shoure.
• 35:56
  Speaker 3: We had a meeting with her today one o'clock. Here,
• 35:58
  Speaker 3: we get done in the meeting, We're like, we'll see
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  Speaker 3: you into and a half hours. We'll see a few minutes, and.
• 36:02
  Speaker 5: She's probably been downstairs working the whole time.
• 36:04
  Speaker 4: Jack, you have plans to watch games anywhere? Just at
• 36:07
  Speaker 4: the house. Oh yeah, Sunday Championship Sunday.
• 36:10
  Speaker 3: I'm usually right on my couch and it's a it's
• 36:12
  Speaker 3: a late game in the night game, right.
• 36:13
  Speaker 4: Yeah, it at the three o'clock and then the six
• 36:16
  Speaker 4: or whatever. Yeah, yeah, for sure.
• 36:18
  Speaker 5: Where are you going?
• 36:19
  Speaker 3: I'll be at home. I mean, I'm not gonna I'll
• 36:20
  Speaker 3: be at home watching football. I think some of the
• 36:23
  Speaker 3: kids are coming over and we're gonna just pile up
• 36:25
  Speaker 3: and watch football.
• 36:26
  Speaker 4: That's what I think. Probably gonna cook playing golf that morning.
• 36:29
  Speaker 5: This is the second to last weekend.
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  Speaker 4: I can't wait.
• 36:32
  Speaker 5: Heart's already breaking for you.
• 36:33
  Speaker 7: Guys, except for you Jack, because you're going to be
• 36:36
  Speaker 7: hearing the crack of a bat soon.
• 36:37
  Speaker 4: Yeah. So oh when the spring printing.
• 36:39
  Speaker 5: Start February, pitchers are called in.
• 36:42
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• 36:45
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  Speaker 4: I'm Jim. There's Deba. Hello, Jack's here as well. Let's
• 37:52
  Speaker 4: do date night. Done right right. Goodnowd for Ram is
• 38:03
  Speaker 4: Danny Mury.
• 38:07
  Speaker 3: Here courtesy of Orlando datenightguide dot com and Orlando hyphen
• 38:11
  Speaker 3: Parenting dot Com as well.
• 38:12
  Speaker 4: Good morning, good afternoon. How are you, young lady.
• 38:15
  Speaker 14: I am, I'm wonderful, I'm happy. Whatever time it is.
• 38:18
  Speaker 4: Yeah, it's in a whole bunch of you today.
• 38:21
  Speaker 14: Ah, yes, yeah, thirty extra minutes.
• 38:24
  Speaker 3: Yeah, I got a meeting a little bit earlier for
• 38:25
  Speaker 3: a gig. Possibly coming up is we're gonna collab with
• 38:27
  Speaker 3: some stuff this year, which is kind of cool. Danny
• 38:29
  Speaker 3: drops by every Thursday around four o'clock. Let us know
• 38:32
  Speaker 3: some cool things happening in the city. And this is
• 38:35
  Speaker 3: everything from nice dinners to just family gathering stuff and again,
• 38:38
  Speaker 3: everything we say here you can find in the pages
• 38:41
  Speaker 3: of Orlando Date Night Guide. And if you didn't hear
• 38:43
  Speaker 3: something you like, just go over to the site. Plenty plenty,
• 38:45
  Speaker 3: plenty of choices. We're just highlighting some stuff that Danny
• 38:48
  Speaker 3: likes herself. What you got for us this week?
• 38:49
  Speaker 14: Yeah, So it is an exciting time in Orlando as
• 38:52
  Speaker 14: we get ready to kick off Orlando Beer Week. So
• 38:56
  Speaker 14: that kicks off this weekend and then goes all the
• 38:58
  Speaker 14: way into next week and and so different breweries are
• 39:01
  Speaker 14: doing all kinds of things. So it's a cool social time.
• 39:05
  Speaker 14: I guess it's time to throw dry January out the
• 39:07
  Speaker 14: windows last week of January.
• 39:08
  Speaker 15: Scirit.
• 39:09
  Speaker 3: That's so interesting seen the news on social. On social,
• 39:12
  Speaker 3: I have seen a lot of breweries, like their presence
• 39:15
  Speaker 3: has been a lot bigger. I didn't know that there
• 39:17
  Speaker 3: was quote an Orlando Beer Week, but I know ten
• 39:19
  Speaker 3: ten has been very active. They have their their rib
• 39:21
  Speaker 3: fest like a couple of weeks ago, but they've been
• 39:23
  Speaker 3: on doing a lot of stuff on social. So and
• 39:25
  Speaker 3: that's a legit og like Orlando Brewery, you know, and
• 39:29
  Speaker 3: the hottest spot in town.
• 39:30
  Speaker 14: Like yeah, yeah, that's definitely a good one, one one
• 39:33
  Speaker 14: of our favorites. So one of the things that's happening
• 39:36
  Speaker 14: is Saturday from six pm to eight pm is the
• 39:39
  Speaker 14: Orlando Beer Week meet up at Zymerium Metery. So this
• 39:43
  Speaker 14: is Orlando's first metory. They've been around two or three
• 39:46
  Speaker 14: years now. Such a cool, cool place and if you
• 39:50
  Speaker 14: haven't tried mead, it's not like just sipping on honey,
• 39:54
  Speaker 14: Like there's different flavors, different nuances, and it's gluten free.
• 39:59
  Speaker 14: So of people that can't do gluten appreciate this option.
• 40:03
  Speaker 14: So Saturday six pm to eight pm an evening of conversation,
• 40:08
  Speaker 14: connection and craft beverages and just kind of sets the
• 40:12
  Speaker 14: tone for the full beer week that'll be coming up
• 40:16
  Speaker 14: and kicking off. We do have a plethora of events.
• 40:21
  Speaker 14: We'll talk about some when I'm on next week, but
• 40:23
  Speaker 14: you can go to Orlando Date nightguide dot com and
• 40:27
  Speaker 14: and you can check out this month's guide so you
• 40:29
  Speaker 14: can see some of the upcoming stuff happening. Also, Saturday,
• 40:33
  Speaker 14: eleven am to eight thirty pm is Starry Starry Night,
• 40:38
  Speaker 14: a celebration of art and science at Bachtower Gardens. You know,
• 40:43
  Speaker 14: I love mentioning Backtower Gardens. It is a heck of
• 40:46
  Speaker 14: a drive, but once you get there, it's it is
• 40:49
  Speaker 14: paradise on Earth.
• 40:50
  Speaker 4: Yes, corgeous and the Santas just mentioned building they're about
• 40:53
  Speaker 4: to build a build something new at Bog Tower, Like
• 40:56
  Speaker 4: they're building like a two hundred and fifty year memorial
• 40:58
  Speaker 4: for the US or something out there.
• 41:00
  Speaker 14: Good yeah, yeah, okay, you were going to mention a
• 41:02
  Speaker 14: toll road.
• 41:02
  Speaker 4: No no, no, no, no, no, it's they're adding stuff
• 41:07
  Speaker 4: to Bock Tower. And again, if you haven't been there.
• 41:10
  Speaker 5: It is gorgeous.
• 41:11
  Speaker 3: Everybody I know there's ever been out there says it's great.
• 41:13
  Speaker 3: They do luncheons out there sometimes there's all kinds of
• 41:15
  Speaker 3: cool events going on, and of course it's just a
• 41:17
  Speaker 3: beautiful spot to begin with.
• 41:18
  Speaker 14: Yeah, So this particular event, it starts off at eleven,
• 41:22
  Speaker 14: but the key highlight is that they're going to be
• 41:24
  Speaker 14: open till eight thirty pm, which is rare. They're going
• 41:27
  Speaker 14: to have telescopes and so when you're out there, you know,
• 41:30
  Speaker 14: even with the urban sprawl, it's still one of the
• 41:32
  Speaker 14: best places with a nice dark sky, So you're gonna
• 41:35
  Speaker 14: have astronomers there. They're going to have space themed presentations,
• 41:40
  Speaker 14: which is pretty cool considering we've got Artemis two on
• 41:42
  Speaker 14: the horizon. So it's a neat time to kind of
• 41:46
  Speaker 14: get your nerd on and be into that space stuff. Happening.
• 41:51
  Speaker 14: Also Saturday at noon is Science on Tap at the
• 41:55
  Speaker 14: Orlando Science Center. So this is their huge annual craft
• 41:59
  Speaker 14: beer nomenon helps raise money for the Orlando Science Center itself.
• 42:05
  Speaker 14: VIP if you get that is at noon. If you
• 42:07
  Speaker 14: do general admission, it's from one pm to four pm.
• 42:10
  Speaker 14: They're gonna have lawn games and food trucks. Thirty different
• 42:13
  Speaker 14: breweries are participating again, another cool way to sort of
• 42:16
  Speaker 14: kick off Orlando Beer Week. They do say miners sixteen
• 42:20
  Speaker 14: years or older must have a valid designated driver, no
• 42:25
  Speaker 14: alcohol ticket, and b with a paying twenty one in
• 42:28
  Speaker 14: up guest to enter. Sounds like they might have something
• 42:32
  Speaker 14: go down.
• 42:35
  Speaker 5: One way to keep the kids away.
• 42:37
  Speaker 4: That sounds like we learned a lesson rules old.
• 42:45
  Speaker 16: Let's see.
• 42:45
  Speaker 14: So another Saturday event seven pm to two am is
• 42:51
  Speaker 14: the Electric Dog Carnival. So this is eedc with dogs
• 42:57
  Speaker 14: at bark Haven, which is near Mills and Ivanhoe area.
• 43:01
  Speaker 4: Yeah, what are they doing.
• 43:04
  Speaker 14: It's like a dog race.
• 43:06
  Speaker 5: So that's all you need is your dog tripping.
• 43:09
  Speaker 4: So we're just gonna see dogs with pasties and jean shorts.
• 43:13
  Speaker 14: You might they might be a matching dog and owner
• 43:17
  Speaker 14: costume situation.
• 43:18
  Speaker 5: That's scary.
• 43:20
  Speaker 14: So they describe it as an ed M fueled dog
• 43:23
  Speaker 14: friendly carnival, high energy, electric treknonic music, electronic music. Let
• 43:29
  Speaker 14: me try that again, immersive lights and a foam filled
• 43:33
  Speaker 14: atmosphere for a one of a kN I can't do it.
• 43:39
  Speaker 14: I'm losing it. A one of a kind night built
• 43:41
  Speaker 14: for dogs and they're humans with a live DJ set
• 43:45
  Speaker 14: by Chasten Space.
• 43:47
  Speaker 4: Okay, so there you go, all right. That sounds yeah,
• 43:54
  Speaker 4: it sounds lonely sounds.
• 43:59
  Speaker 8: You know.
• 44:01
  Speaker 3: Maybe I'll go up there and take my dog and
• 44:04
  Speaker 3: get him a doctor Seus's had or something amazon.
• 44:08
  Speaker 4: A glow necklace and let him rip it. Someone getting
• 44:11
  Speaker 4: Apollo out of the foam pit.
• 44:17
  Speaker 14: You might want to wear long sleeves and long pants
• 44:19
  Speaker 14: for this.
• 44:19
  Speaker 7: When that's all yeah, I can't imagine putting a foam
• 44:23
  Speaker 7: covered dog back in your car.
• 44:27
  Speaker 14: All right, moving right along the I want to go
• 44:31
  Speaker 14: just to watch, don't.
• 44:32
  Speaker 4: I want to go as well a little bit.
• 44:35
  Speaker 14: I hope they have a webcam or something. Happening. Saturday
• 44:39
  Speaker 14: and Sunday is the Orange City Blue Spring Manatee Festival.
• 44:44
  Speaker 14: So last weekend Crystal River had their huge Manatee festival.
• 44:49
  Speaker 14: We're having our own, smaller one Saturday and Sunday in
• 44:52
  Speaker 14: Orange City. This is at Valentine Park, which I think
• 44:56
  Speaker 14: is a cute name considering the time of year. Yeah,
• 44:59
  Speaker 14: it is twelve dollar for adults, three dollars for kids,
• 45:02
  Speaker 14: and obviously family friendly stuff happening there. Wildlife education, environmental exhibits,
• 45:09
  Speaker 14: local vendors, food and live entertainment, and then something for
• 45:14
  Speaker 14: wellness or for you know, happy wife, happy life situation.
• 45:18
  Speaker 14: Or Lando Girls Walk Club is happening on Sunday at
• 45:22
  Speaker 14: nine a m. At Harbor Park in Baldwin Park.
• 45:25
  Speaker 4: Okay, that's cool.
• 45:26
  Speaker 14: So this will be a two point five mile walk
• 45:29
  Speaker 14: around the lake.
• 45:31
  Speaker 16: It's free.
• 45:32
  Speaker 14: It's just a great option for you know, girls to
• 45:35
  Speaker 14: have a moment, to have some time. You know, I
• 45:38
  Speaker 14: always am a better wife when I get a little
• 45:41
  Speaker 14: bit of self care time. So this is a good
• 45:44
  Speaker 14: suggestion for that.
• 45:45
  Speaker 4: Cool walk too.
• 45:46
  Speaker 3: By the way, I mean that we live there, you
• 45:48
  Speaker 3: shed walk around that lake all the time. It's a
• 45:50
  Speaker 3: really nice stroll, to be honest with you. Yeah, the
• 45:52
  Speaker 3: last part of it, if you start right there at
• 45:54
  Speaker 3: that park and go right the last part of it.
• 45:56
  Speaker 4: Kind of goes through these trees.
• 45:58
  Speaker 3: It's almost like a tunnel of trees, which is actually
• 46:00
  Speaker 3: very cool, but it is. It's really nice out there,
• 46:03
  Speaker 3: and of course there are plenty of places once you're
• 46:04
  Speaker 3: done you can pop in for some food or drink
• 46:06
  Speaker 3: whatever you want to do.
• 46:07
  Speaker 14: Yeah, I'm a sucker for a good tree cannic.
• 46:09
  Speaker 4: Oh, Yeah, for.
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  Speaker 3: She's doing all right. She's trying to get the hell
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  Speaker 3: White Tails, and they're up there trying to sell into
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  Speaker 3: different vendors all throughout the US and stuff. So that's
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  Speaker 3: kind of what her job is out there. But she's
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  Speaker 3: just trying to get the hell out of Dodge because
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  Speaker 3: she doesn't want to get stuck in Dallas. She even
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  Speaker 3: we're renting a car and we're driving. Her boss actually said,
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  Speaker 3: just rent the car and let's go, Like, let's just
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  Speaker 3: I said, Tori, I said, driving maybe just as dangerous
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  Speaker 3: as fine.
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  Speaker 5: Oh yeah, I said, I.
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  Speaker 3: Mean, I don't know if you understand it's supposed to
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  Speaker 5: Especially if you've never driven in snow.
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  Speaker 4: Or ice.
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  Speaker 7: You can't underestimate just how dangerous that can be.
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  Speaker 4: It's brutal.
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  Speaker 5: Man.
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  Speaker 3: When we live in West Virginia, even for that short
• 52:38
  Speaker 3: period of time that I lived up there, I was
• 52:40
  Speaker 3: old enough to be cognizant enough to know that. You know,
• 52:43
  Speaker 3: it's dangerous. And it's so funny because the storm that's
• 52:46
  Speaker 3: soppos to be coming through, or it will be coming through.
• 52:48
  Speaker 4: They're worried because it's ice. It's not that it's just snow.
• 52:51
  Speaker 4: It's ice.
• 52:52
  Speaker 3: And of course it's gonna put a they said, if
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  Speaker 3: it could put a quarter to a half an inch,
• 52:55
  Speaker 3: you know, coat of ice over everything. I've actually experienced
• 52:59
  Speaker 3: a small version of that when I lived in West Virginia.
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  Speaker 3: We did have an ice storm. Now it only put
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  Speaker 3: like an eighth of an ench, just to barely a codium,
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  Speaker 3: but it's over everything, like loose gravel. It doesn't matter
• 53:11
  Speaker 3: if it has a surface yep, and rain can get
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  Speaker 3: to it. It has a coating of ice over it.
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  Speaker 3: And it's a nightmare. I mean, we even with I
• 53:19
  Speaker 3: remember what we had to go do something that day
• 53:22
  Speaker 3: and my dad had the spikes in the in the tires, right, yeah,
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  Speaker 3: not the chains, but the tires actually had these little
• 53:29
  Speaker 3: spikes like golf shoes. Even with that, we as we
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  Speaker 3: were going up this one hill that the truck just
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  Speaker 3: gave loose and just slid down sideways down the hill
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  Speaker 3: until it came to the bottom.
• 53:40
  Speaker 4: It just would not stop it.
• 53:42
  Speaker 3: And imagine that over a swath of you know what,
• 53:45
  Speaker 3: nine ten twenty five states. Actually, yeah, I don't know
• 53:49
  Speaker 3: if it's gonna get that bad in all thirty three though, But.
• 53:51
  Speaker 7: I mean, it doesn't have to get that bad, especially
• 53:54
  Speaker 7: those states that aren't used to right, dealing with that
• 53:56
  Speaker 7: kind of winter weather. You know, they don't have the snowplows,
• 53:59
  Speaker 7: they don't have this s machines, they don't have this
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  Speaker 7: stuff to even get the first responders back out on
• 54:04
  Speaker 7: the roads.
• 54:05
  Speaker 3: And it's already a fifteen hour drive. And I said,
• 54:07
  Speaker 3: at fifteen hours at highway speeds, tour, you're not gonna
• 54:10
  Speaker 3: be able to go highway speeds with all that.
• 54:12
  Speaker 4: Mess out there. So I'm praying to God that she
• 54:14
  Speaker 4: doesn't do that.
• 54:14
  Speaker 3: I begged her last night not doing She ain't having it.
• 54:17
  Speaker 3: I don't know if you guy, I don't know if
• 54:18
  Speaker 3: you guys know anything. She didn't listen to me, we know, yeah,
• 54:21
  Speaker 3: she she just wasn't having it. But anyway, I called
• 54:25
  Speaker 3: to talk about this yesterday. We talked about the sleep divorce, yes,
• 54:29
  Speaker 3: because I text her and I was like, I was like,
• 54:31
  Speaker 3: I just sleep, and she's a oh god, so good
• 54:33
  Speaker 3: all exclamation points, and then I said away from you, yeah,
• 54:36
  Speaker 3: yeah yeah. Then I said, oh my god, you know
• 54:38
  Speaker 3: we're gonna wind up getting two different beds. Lol, you know, joking,
• 54:42
  Speaker 3: Joki joke she and she typed back the lowercase.
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  Speaker 5: Lol, right, the equivalent of huh.
• 54:47
  Speaker 3: Yeah, exactly. This morning, asked her first thing, It's like,
• 54:50
  Speaker 3: how'd you sleep last night? And I almost stopped myself
• 54:53
  Speaker 3: because I didn't want to hear the answer before I
• 54:56
  Speaker 3: even got the damn question outt great all. Didn't want
• 55:01
  Speaker 3: to get up, head, hit the pillow, fell straight asleep.
• 55:05
  Speaker 3: Why don't you I'm gonna tell you, buddy, if she
• 55:08
  Speaker 3: comes home and she starts pitching this thing.
• 55:11
  Speaker 4: Before you go to that extreme, unless it's something you want,
• 55:14
  Speaker 4: it might be a good thing, But why don't you
• 55:17
  Speaker 4: investigate the pillows and the blankets, have her take pictures
• 55:23
  Speaker 4: of the tags.
• 55:24
  Speaker 3: Maybe it's the betting, Oh wow, maybe it's the mattress.
• 55:28
  Speaker 3: But we have a really nice mattress.
• 55:30
  Speaker 4: Sure you do, we do that. Apparently she's not sleeping
• 55:32
  Speaker 4: as well. It's got nothing to do with the mattress.
• 55:34
  Speaker 9: I know what it is.
• 55:35
  Speaker 4: It's me or the dog.
• 55:36
  Speaker 3: And I told her the dog is the worst because
• 55:38
  Speaker 3: when the when she leaves, of course the dog, dog said,
• 55:41
  Speaker 3: you're the worst.
• 55:42
  Speaker 4: The dog.
• 55:42
  Speaker 3: The dog, because you have to understand, the dog is
• 55:44
  Speaker 3: imprinted on her. It's I mean, if my wife had
• 55:47
  Speaker 3: a pouch, the dog would never come out of it.
• 55:49
  Speaker 3: It's it's like that, right, very clingy. And when she sleeps,
• 55:54
  Speaker 3: the dog cramms herself like in the crease that she
• 55:57
  Speaker 3: creates between her body and the and the man. Well,
• 56:01
  Speaker 3: it's a pain in the ass. And I tell her,
• 56:02
  Speaker 3: I said, one of the reasons you probably don't sleep
• 56:04
  Speaker 3: well here at the house is because of this damn dog.
• 56:07
  Speaker 3: So you know she's been gone and I'm sleeping with
• 56:09
  Speaker 3: this dog, and let me tell you it sucks. The
• 56:12
  Speaker 3: dog does not have boundaries, dude. The dog does not understand.
• 56:16
  Speaker 3: Get the blank away from me, because your body took
• 56:18
  Speaker 3: dog's temperatures already hotter than us covered in fur. So
• 56:21
  Speaker 3: I wake up and I've got this sweat patch on
• 56:23
  Speaker 3: my side from when she's sleeping next to me, and
• 56:25
  Speaker 3: she doesn't understand go away.
• 56:28
  Speaker 4: She thinks you're playing.
• 56:29
  Speaker 3: So in the middle of the night, when I grab
• 56:30
  Speaker 3: her by her stomach and I push her to the
• 56:32
  Speaker 3: other side of the bed, that's a game, like I
• 56:34
  Speaker 3: can see her playing around, then jumping back in and
• 56:36
  Speaker 3: doing the same thing.
• 56:37
  Speaker 4: So then now it's two forty am and I'm fighting
• 56:40
  Speaker 4: with my dog. She thinks I'm playing. I'm not playing.
• 56:43
  Speaker 4: I just wanted to get away from me. She ain't
• 56:45
  Speaker 4: having it, you know, eh, cat scratch you.
• 56:49
  Speaker 6: I can't put her on the grate that you can
• 56:51
  Speaker 6: run a household and not pay for it, and just.
• 56:53
  Speaker 4: You know, kind of a game. I'd just be the
• 56:57
  Speaker 4: one in charge. We'll just do everything you want. I'm
• 57:00
  Speaker 4: microwave for food. What her in another room?
• 57:02
  Speaker 8: Dude?
• 57:03
  Speaker 4: She would glued.
• 57:06
  Speaker 3: I told Tory before this all started, I said, we're
• 57:08
  Speaker 3: not letting the dogs sleep in the bed with us.
• 57:10
  Speaker 3: And the reason why it is because once the dog
• 57:13
  Speaker 3: gets a taste of sleeping in the bed with us,
• 57:15
  Speaker 3: it's never going to want to sleep anywhere else. Right,
• 57:17
  Speaker 3: I said, let's make the dog sleep in a kennel,
• 57:19
  Speaker 3: just like everybody else. Put her in the kennel, go
• 57:21
  Speaker 3: to sleep. Once she gets used to it, she'll actually
• 57:24
  Speaker 3: want to go in the kennel. She lets the dog
• 57:26
  Speaker 3: sleep with us one time as a puppy. Done done, done, dude.
• 57:33
  Speaker 3: I guess what you said at the start of the
• 57:34
  Speaker 3: segment is true. What my wife doesn't listen to me,
• 57:38
  Speaker 3: the dog doesn't either, all right, four seven nine one six.
• 57:42
  Speaker 3: It's funny because there was a hotel once. It's when
• 57:45
  Speaker 3: we went to back in two thousand and one trip
• 57:49
  Speaker 3: to Los Angeles.
• 57:51
  Speaker 4: I remember we stated at an hotel. I had a
• 57:53
  Speaker 4: pillow in that hotel, and this is our rage trip.
• 57:56
  Speaker 4: I had a pillow and I've been thinking about that
• 57:58
  Speaker 4: pillow for the next twenty years. I finally found the
• 58:01
  Speaker 4: pillow I like, but I would always think of all
• 58:04
  Speaker 4: that pillow.
• 58:04
  Speaker 3: Jack and I wondered what these people did to make money,
• 58:06
  Speaker 3: because they put us up at one of the nicest
• 58:08
  Speaker 3: hotels in downtown LA. And by the way, downtown La sucks.
• 58:12
  Speaker 3: It is it is crazy, and it's actually not much
• 58:15
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• 58:17
  Speaker 3: really isn't. But we got a really nice hotel in there,
• 58:20
  Speaker 3: and Jackie one hundred percent right. The sheets and the
• 58:23
  Speaker 3: pillows in the bed were like next level.
• 58:25
  Speaker 7: It's like staying at a Ritz Carlton, between the carpet
• 58:27
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• 58:30
  Speaker 7: the duvet.
• 58:31
  Speaker 5: Yeah, you just don't want to leave.
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  Speaker 19: So here I am again, at least in Maldora. We're
• 59:00
  Speaker 19: gonna be toasty warm, with the highs in the eighties.
• 59:03
  Speaker 19: By Monday morning, we're looking around thirty eight, which isn't
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  Speaker 19: You'll be fine. And then we get past that and
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  Speaker 19: it starts going up again. We're gonna be good. Everybody
• 59:22
  Speaker 19: north of us that's screwed.
• 59:25
  Speaker 3: Yeah, I did lose a couple of flowering plants during
• 59:28
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  Speaker 3: that would every time that we talk about this alike,
• 1:00:51
  Speaker 3: that's wild that judges would have conversations and dinners and
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  Speaker 3: social time with attorneys that they'll have cases in front of.
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  Speaker 8: That's true, that's true. It's groups. It's a group of
• 1:01:01
  Speaker 8: judges and a group of lawyers. And I mean I
• 1:01:04
  Speaker 8: have lunch every now and then with certain judges that
• 1:01:07
  Speaker 8: I know. Not a problem.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, And that's never brought up in the in the
• 1:01:12
  Speaker 3: sense that it's never used like, hey, this guy has
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  Speaker 3: lunch with this judge. How can we guarantee this judge
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  Speaker 3: isn't you know, looking on him favorably?
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  Speaker 8: Well hopefully, hopefully here she.
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  Speaker 3: Is stuff playing the game right, all right?
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  Speaker 9: All right?
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  Speaker 3: Glenn is a personal injurytorney here in Central Forida and
• 1:01:32
  Speaker 3: has been for years. Actually we were just talking practicing
• 1:01:35
  Speaker 3: in this area for over fifty years.
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  Speaker 4: Not yet fifty quite though close.
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  Speaker 8: But you know, I am what's called the judicial liaison,
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  Speaker 8: so I do have an obligation to be able to
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  Speaker 8: meet with judges every now and then for the organization
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  Speaker 8: that Central Fund of Trial or so.
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  Speaker 4: And you just got another accommodation, did you.
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  Speaker 8: Know, accommodation like where I stay?
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  Speaker 4: Yeah?
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  Speaker 3: No, no, no, like you got another aimation a commendation
• 1:01:58
  Speaker 3: there you can I say it wrong?
• 1:02:00
  Speaker 8: Yeah I did?
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, what'd you get?
• 1:02:03
  Speaker 8: I got a notification again? Am a super lawyer?
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  Speaker 4: Nice? That means it can fly.
• 1:02:09
  Speaker 8: It's better than not. Ye put it that way. It's reviewed,
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  Speaker 8: so it's a good thing.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah.
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  Speaker 8: Yeah.
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  Speaker 4: Do that stuff work out? I mean when you tell
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  Speaker 4: clients that, do they you know, do they give it weight?
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  Speaker 8: I don't know. You know, I have it on my website.
• 1:02:22
  Speaker 8: Maybe they look at it, maybe they don't. I give
• 1:02:24
  Speaker 8: them a copy in my resume. But they never say,
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  Speaker 8: you know, what kind of super lawyer stuff can you do?
• 1:02:29
  Speaker 3: Yeah, but you don't. You don't apply for this, right,
• 1:02:31
  Speaker 3: it's just to apply for it. They just apply for
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  Speaker 3: They just nominate you, and you're in.
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  Speaker 8: They nominate you. They question other lawyers they question judges,
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  Speaker 8: and that's how they claim that they come up with
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  Speaker 8: who's going to be a super lawyer?
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  Speaker 4: Very nice?
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  Speaker 3: Well, congratulations again, congratulations. Glenn always brings a case in.
• 1:02:48
  Speaker 3: That's part of the bit that we do here. We'll
• 1:02:50
  Speaker 3: read this case. It's usually a case that Glenn is
• 1:02:52
  Speaker 3: either arguing or is considering arguing. We will kind of
• 1:02:55
  Speaker 3: go around the room trying to figure out exactly what
• 1:02:57
  Speaker 3: we think should happen, and then Glenn can give us
• 1:02:59
  Speaker 3: an idea of what actually does happen. One of the
• 1:03:01
  Speaker 3: reasons we do this segment is just so you can
• 1:03:04
  Speaker 3: get a better idea of how things actually work when
• 1:03:06
  Speaker 3: it comes to the legal nature of arguing cases. Sometimes
• 1:03:10
  Speaker 3: you think you've got a case, and maybe you don't.
• 1:03:12
  Speaker 3: Sometimes you think you're innocent, maybe you aren't. And sometimes
• 1:03:16
  Speaker 3: it works out really well in your favor if you
• 1:03:18
  Speaker 3: just pay.
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  Speaker 4: Attention to the facts and stuff. So you guys, ready, yeah,
• 1:03:21
  Speaker 4: here we go.
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  Speaker 3: Jeff and Susie are friends and two months ago were
• 1:03:26
  Speaker 3: in Jeff's car when another car blew through a stop
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  Speaker 3: sign and t boned Jeff's car. Jeff and Susie are
• 1:03:32
  Speaker 3: both injured and both went to an emergency room, and
• 1:03:35
  Speaker 3: both are continuing to get medical treatment from doctors for
• 1:03:38
  Speaker 3: their neck and back injuries from the crash. Both hired
• 1:03:41
  Speaker 3: lawyer X. So they both hired the same attorney.
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  Speaker 5: Okay, all right.
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  Speaker 3: Two passengers that were in the other car were also
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  Speaker 3: injured and have made claims. The driver of the vehicle
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  Speaker 3: that ran the stop sign has insurance with a limit
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  Speaker 3: to pay twenty thousand dollars for all of the injuries
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  Speaker 3: he caused. Lawyer X is telling Jeff and Susie they
• 1:04:01
  Speaker 3: should each agree to accept five thousand dollars as their
• 1:04:04
  Speaker 3: final settlement. Susie wants another option. What would you advise
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  Speaker 3: her to do? So there's twenty k for the injuries
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  Speaker 3: and for some reason, this all you're saying you should
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  Speaker 3: abcept five each? Was only ten total?
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  Speaker 8: Yeah, because there's four claimings. So she wanted a second
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  Speaker 8: opinion as to what you know. That's the question. She
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  Speaker 8: wants the second opinion. What do you suggest for.
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  Speaker 3: Okay, So, hold on, Does Jeff have insurance on his car?
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  Speaker 8: Jeff has insurance on his car with no uninsured motors, car.
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  Speaker 4: With no uninsured motor. Does she have uninsured motors?
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  Speaker 8: She does not have an inture motive, she doesn't own
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  Speaker 8: a car. They're both college kids, are they really? Yeah?
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  Speaker 5: I was going to say, how deep into this case
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  Speaker 5: are they?
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  Speaker 8: Because not much the action happened two months ago.
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  Speaker 7: Then I say, hire another attorney. That's what I would say.
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  Speaker 7: This is one of those cases where folks don't need
• 1:04:51
  Speaker 7: to believe they need to stick with someone just because
• 1:04:54
  Speaker 7: they've started the paperwork necessarily.
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  Speaker 4: And that's interesting.
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  Speaker 3: I don't know that we've had a case where it
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  Speaker 3: mentioned in the case that the two people involved or
• 1:05:02
  Speaker 3: two the people involved hired the same attorney.
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  Speaker 4: And this is even more unique because it was the
• 1:05:05
  Speaker 4: two people that were in the same vehicle. Is that rare?
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  Speaker 4: And do you recommend that?
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  Speaker 8: It just depends? And that's a real good question. That's
• 1:05:13
  Speaker 8: where you know this case is kind of going. I
• 1:05:16
  Speaker 8: don't know, if you want to want me to expound
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  Speaker 8: on an hour, let Jack jump in, Well.
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  Speaker 4: No, yeah, we let Jack jump in.
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  Speaker 3: But I just wanted to kind of make it around
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  Speaker 3: like I don't remember us ever experiencing a situation like
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  Speaker 3: that where both people in the car hired the same
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  Speaker 3: exact attorney, And I don't know if that's an advantage
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  Speaker 3: or not.
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  Speaker 4: Jack, what do you think?
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  Speaker 6: Yeah, we've done this so many times. I don't remember
• 1:05:32
  Speaker 6: if we've done it before or not like this specific scenario.
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  Speaker 6: But I do believe you have to look for alternate
• 1:05:39
  Speaker 6: ways to get money, and you also don't have to settle.
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  Speaker 6: You can go for a bigger piece of the twenty
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  Speaker 6: thousand dollars. You don't have to agree to split it
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  Speaker 6: with the two shlubs in the other car. You know
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  Speaker 6: what I'm saying.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, that's the other thing is like, you know, the
• 1:05:54
  Speaker 3: two passengers in the other car, the guy caused the accident.
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  Speaker 4: But they didn't. They were passengers. Yeah, yeah, they're also victims. Yeah, yep,
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  Speaker 4: they're also victims in this. But I think you also
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  Speaker 4: have to look at where else can you get money?
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  Speaker 4: Where is he coming from, what's a relationship, who owns
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  Speaker 4: the car? And see if there's another opportunity out there
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  Speaker 4: more than the twenty k that's on the table. Do
• 1:06:19
  Speaker 4: we know that? Do we know? How?
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  Speaker 8: I mean?
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  Speaker 4: How much Jeff and Suzie's medical bills are right now?
• 1:06:24
  Speaker 4: I mean the emergency root trip alone is like fifteen hundred,
• 1:06:27
  Speaker 4: isn't it.
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  Speaker 8: Well, you know they've got ten thousand dollars each to
• 1:06:30
  Speaker 8: pay towards their own medical bills. I don't know that
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  Speaker 8: they've used ten thousand dollars each. This was a call
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  Speaker 8: I got where I didn't delve deep into it at
• 1:06:38
  Speaker 8: this point because I saw there was other problems I
• 1:06:41
  Speaker 8: needed to talk to this young lady about who called,
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  Speaker 8: and I didn't delve deep into it yet.
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  Speaker 4: Hmmm. So they have the opportunity to split the other
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  Speaker 4: ten as well, the people who are who were run into.
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  Speaker 8: Yeah, here's the way it works. They have their Jeff
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  Speaker 8: has his car insurance that will pay ten thousand dollars
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  Speaker 8: towards his medical bills. Susie doesn't have any car insurance,
• 1:07:04
  Speaker 8: doesn't live with a relative, she's not on appearance policy,
• 1:07:06
  Speaker 8: but she gets ten thousand dollars in medical bills paid
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  Speaker 8: for under Jeff's insurance. Also. So then there are two
• 1:07:14
  Speaker 8: of them and the two passengers in the other car,
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  Speaker 8: the four victims. There's twenty thousand dollars to pay all
• 1:07:19
  Speaker 8: four claims. And the insurance company is saying we'll get
• 1:07:23
  Speaker 8: the twenty thousand dollars. You all figure out how to
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  Speaker 8: split it up, and Susie saying, I want another opinion.
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  Speaker 3: Okay, do we know if the other people. It says
• 1:07:32
  Speaker 3: the other people were also injured and have made claims.
• 1:07:34
  Speaker 3: Do we know the depth of the injuries for the
• 1:07:36
  Speaker 3: other two We do not. Yeah, but they're only entitled.
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  Speaker 3: So if they did these split evenly four ways, each
• 1:07:44
  Speaker 3: of those people would get the five where it would
• 1:07:47
  Speaker 3: be fifteen in Susie's car for both people.
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  Speaker 4: Right, exactly. That's what I was saying earlier, his insurance
• 1:07:53
  Speaker 4: that the driver who was not at fun.
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  Speaker 3: But it leads me to believe the way the question
• 1:07:57
  Speaker 3: is asked, though, is that there's a possibility that Susie
• 1:08:00
  Speaker 3: and Jeff are actually that they should get more of
• 1:08:04
  Speaker 3: the other money, Because I mean, if Susie's looking for
• 1:08:07
  Speaker 3: an option, this wouldn't even be a question if there
• 1:08:09
  Speaker 3: was no problem. So what they're basically saying is they
• 1:08:12
  Speaker 3: don't think the twenty should be split evenly.
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  Speaker 6: You can negotiate that based on the injuries and say, listen,
• 1:08:17
  Speaker 6: you know they were in the other vehicle, they were
• 1:08:20
  Speaker 6: with the person, And I don't know if it makes
• 1:08:23
  Speaker 6: one that the people in the other cart more of
• 1:08:26
  Speaker 6: a victim because they had no connection with the person. Again,
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  Speaker 6: I don't know if there was any where they were
• 1:08:33
  Speaker 6: coming from, or any other factors of other sources of income. Yeah,
• 1:08:38
  Speaker 6: with money available would be playing.
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  Speaker 8: Yeah, it's always good to look at other sources of income.
• 1:08:42
  Speaker 8: And Susie did not know whether the other people went
• 1:08:45
  Speaker 8: to the emergency room and ambulance didn't come for any
• 1:08:47
  Speaker 8: of them. But you know, she doesn't know. She just
• 1:08:51
  Speaker 8: thinks that she's getting the short end of it. She's
• 1:08:54
  Speaker 8: still hurting, and she doesn't think she should have to
• 1:08:57
  Speaker 8: take five grand and walk away.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, the lawyer X could say, I'm sorry Susie and
• 1:09:01
  Speaker 4: the other prey, they're more injured and deserve more of
• 1:09:04
  Speaker 4: that twenty thousand. It's not an even split. They weren't
• 1:09:07
  Speaker 4: injured evenly. Yeah, that's that's kind of what I would say.
• 1:09:10
  Speaker 3: I mean, I'm serious, That's kind of what I was
• 1:09:11
  Speaker 3: thinking that initially, is like I think they just needed
• 1:09:14
  Speaker 3: to renegotiate the split because maybe the other two aren't
• 1:09:17
  Speaker 3: injured as bad because they were.
• 1:09:18
  Speaker 6: You know, and was the t boning on the passenger
• 1:09:21
  Speaker 6: side on susie side.
• 1:09:22
  Speaker 3: T bone was on a passenger side sushi. Yeah, so
• 1:09:24
  Speaker 3: she took the brunt of it. Hey, Yeah, that's what
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  Speaker 3: I say. I say that you you know, obviously Susie
• 1:09:30
  Speaker 3: needs to renegotiate the twenty thousand dollars split and use
• 1:09:34
  Speaker 3: the severity of her injuries to negotiate a bigger cut
• 1:09:37
  Speaker 3: of that pie because she was the one that had
• 1:09:39
  Speaker 3: took the brunt of the crash.
• 1:09:41
  Speaker 8: That's what I think, right right, And here a lawyer
• 1:09:43
  Speaker 8: is saying, the insurance company says, here's the twenty thousand
• 1:09:46
  Speaker 8: dollars pot. You four people, split it up. We don't
• 1:09:50
  Speaker 8: have anything else to do with it. And Susie's saying,
• 1:09:52
  Speaker 8: I want another opinion from the other than what lawyer
• 1:09:54
  Speaker 8: Rex is telling me that I need to take five
• 1:09:56
  Speaker 8: grand and walk away, because of course she doesn't get
• 1:09:59
  Speaker 8: five grands, she's got to pay it. Lawyer right, yeah, yeah,
• 1:10:01
  Speaker 8: one third? And you know, right right right.
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  Speaker 4: What do you deb or what's your final answer on this?
• 1:10:06
  Speaker 7: Well, I go back to, you know, the example of Patrick,
• 1:10:10
  Speaker 7: a client that Glenn had, you know, a listener to
• 1:10:12
  Speaker 7: the show, you know, had gone to someone else who
• 1:10:15
  Speaker 7: had said, Yep, nope, your policy doesn't cover this. We're
• 1:10:19
  Speaker 7: so sorry, you're not going to be able to have
• 1:10:21
  Speaker 7: any restitution. Patrick brings the case to Glenn. Glenn knows
• 1:10:25
  Speaker 7: you need to look here, here, and here in someone's
• 1:10:27
  Speaker 7: insurance policy and ended up finding that place for his
• 1:10:31
  Speaker 7: injuries to be covered. So I think, to me, it
• 1:10:34
  Speaker 7: sounds like lawyer X is just taking the easiest way out. Yeah, yeah,
• 1:10:38
  Speaker 7: there should be and probably is. More money is available,
• 1:10:41
  Speaker 7: They just don't have the legal representation to know where
• 1:10:44
  Speaker 7: to look. So I say, fire lawyer X, go to
• 1:10:47
  Speaker 7: Glenn Clausman and get the money that you need.
• 1:10:49
  Speaker 4: Plot twist. What if Glenn was lawyer X.
• 1:10:51
  Speaker 5: Not possible? Not possible, and you would do too much work.
• 1:10:56
  Speaker 5: He wouldn't do this.
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  Speaker 3: And haven't we heard arguments that that when this does happened,
• 1:11:00
  Speaker 3: that there is like a sliding scale that the person
• 1:11:04
  Speaker 3: that received the most injuries does get most of the
• 1:11:07
  Speaker 3: money out of it.
• 1:11:07
  Speaker 4: I mean even after the fact.
• 1:11:09
  Speaker 8: Yeah, well the person with the most damages should get it.
• 1:11:12
  Speaker 8: And you know, another factor we don't know is the
• 1:11:14
  Speaker 8: two people in the other card that A heard is
• 1:11:16
  Speaker 8: their uninsured MOTI strategies that can fall back on. Right,
• 1:11:18
  Speaker 8: So she doesn't know or it didn't give her all
• 1:11:20
  Speaker 8: that information. She doesn't know.
• 1:11:22
  Speaker 5: Layer X isn't interested in finding it out.
• 1:11:24
  Speaker 3: Yeah, so obviously you would advise her to at least
• 1:11:26
  Speaker 3: get another returney and to get another opinion because you
• 1:11:28
  Speaker 3: think there's money being left on the table.
• 1:11:30
  Speaker 8: Here's what I would advise, This is what I said
• 1:11:32
  Speaker 8: to her. First of all, when two people are in
• 1:11:36
  Speaker 8: an accident and you're going after someone else, if it's
• 1:11:39
  Speaker 8: husband and wife, there's no problem. They don't have a
• 1:11:41
  Speaker 8: conflict with each other. Here. As soon as the other
• 1:11:43
  Speaker 8: lawyer found out. As soon as lawyer finds out, there's
• 1:11:47
  Speaker 8: only one pot of money. And now I've got two
• 1:11:50
  Speaker 8: clients that potentially are fighting over the same pot of money.
• 1:11:54
  Speaker 8: At that point, that lawyer's got a conflict. And unless
• 1:11:57
  Speaker 8: he has Susie and Jeff agreeing under standing, there's a conflict.
• 1:12:01
  Speaker 8: Both of us are going after the same pot. Jeff's
• 1:12:04
  Speaker 8: interests and Susie's interest don't necessary are not necessarily the same.
• 1:12:08
  Speaker 8: Jeff may not be willing to say Susie gets more
• 1:12:11
  Speaker 8: money than me, and Susie's not going to say Jeff
• 1:12:13
  Speaker 8: gets more money than Susie. So at that point, the
• 1:12:16
  Speaker 8: lawyer's got a problem. He's representing two clients that have
• 1:12:19
  Speaker 8: a he's got a conflict of interest with both.
• 1:12:21
  Speaker 3: They're trying to get money out of the same pot
• 1:12:22
  Speaker 3: and one thinks they deserve more than the other, and
• 1:12:24
  Speaker 3: there's no way he could represent both of them equally
• 1:12:26
  Speaker 3: and be fair, right.
• 1:12:27
  Speaker 8: Right, I mean, how are you going to zealously represent
• 1:12:29
  Speaker 8: Jeff and jealously represent Susie when they're both going after
• 1:12:32
  Speaker 8: the same pot of money. So at that point, that
• 1:12:34
  Speaker 8: lawyer's got a problem. And if Susie and Jeff had
• 1:12:37
  Speaker 8: not agreed once they knew that there's one pot of
• 1:12:40
  Speaker 8: money that they've got to go after and it's limited,
• 1:12:43
  Speaker 8: then he's got a problem continuing to represent both of them.
• 1:12:47
  Speaker 4: Wow.
• 1:12:48
  Speaker 8: So you know, I explain to her, you know the situation.
• 1:12:52
  Speaker 8: You know, I don't know very much about it, but
• 1:12:54
  Speaker 8: I explained, you know, you need to have a discussion
• 1:12:56
  Speaker 8: with him about this. And I think the lawyers at
• 1:13:01
  Speaker 8: the point where he's got to say, you know, if
• 1:13:04
  Speaker 8: Jeff and Susie don't agree, I'm gonna have to get
• 1:13:06
  Speaker 8: out of this skyah yeah. Yeah.
• 1:13:07
  Speaker 3: And they called you after the fact, so they already
• 1:13:10
  Speaker 3: knew this was the case. So they've already talked to.
• 1:13:12
  Speaker 8: One lawyer about this, right right, So well, they hired
• 1:13:14
  Speaker 8: this guy, they hired him, Yeah, they hired him.
• 1:13:16
  Speaker 3: Oh, Wow, so this is just not an opinion. They
• 1:13:18
  Speaker 3: actually they hired him.
• 1:13:21
  Speaker 8: Yeaheah, they hired him in The insurance company saw, there's
• 1:13:23
  Speaker 8: only twenty grand ago around. We got four people that
• 1:13:25
  Speaker 8: are injured. They too went to the emergency room. I
• 1:13:27
  Speaker 8: don't know what the others did, but here's the twenty
• 1:13:29
  Speaker 8: thousand dollars. The insurance company's position is, we're done with it,
• 1:13:32
  Speaker 8: don't We only have to pay twenty here it is
• 1:13:35
  Speaker 8: you four split it up.
• 1:13:36
  Speaker 3: So Susie should just lawyer up and go for the
• 1:13:38
  Speaker 3: entire thing then, or go for the biggest chunk of
• 1:13:40
  Speaker 3: it and there because you're right, we don't know that
• 1:13:42
  Speaker 3: that's the only money, because we don't know that the
• 1:13:43
  Speaker 3: other passengers have auto insurance that includes uninsured, which would
• 1:13:47
  Speaker 3: also up the pot as well.
• 1:13:48
  Speaker 8: Well, it wouldn't up to the pot for Susie, but they
• 1:13:51
  Speaker 8: may not need to get the five grand if they
• 1:13:53
  Speaker 8: got one hundred thousand dollars in under Sure motors coverage
• 1:13:55
  Speaker 8: and are not hurt that bad.
• 1:13:56
  Speaker 4: Right, Yes, Susie could have it all at that point.
• 1:13:58
  Speaker 8: Yeah.
• 1:13:58
  Speaker 4: Are Susi and Jeff Susie and Jeff sure? Yeah? Yeah?
• 1:14:00
  Speaker 4: Are they romantically involved?
• 1:14:01
  Speaker 10: No?
• 1:14:02
  Speaker 8: Just college kids that were going downtown and you know,
• 1:14:05
  Speaker 8: had an accident.
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  Speaker 4: Wow, yeah, how big? I mean how fast were they
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  Speaker 4: going to the impact?
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  Speaker 8: I mean, you know what, her airbags did not deploy
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  Speaker 8: on the side, so I don't know, if you know,
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  Speaker 8: she didn't know the car whether it had a side
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  Speaker 8: airbag or not. It was a side on her side,
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  Speaker 8: but more toward the front right fender.
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  Speaker 4: Oh I see, so yeah, yeah, so she just got
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  Speaker 4: jostled around quite a bit.
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  Speaker 8: Yeah, she good neck and back problems. And you know
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  Speaker 8: she's young. Yeah, absolutely, college kid. Yeah, yeah, went to
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  Speaker 8: the emergency room. Most college kids when you get an
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  Speaker 8: action that they're not going to the emergency room, that's
• 1:14:35
  Speaker 8: it hurt pretty bad?
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  Speaker 4: No, no, no, yeah.
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  Speaker 8: Yeah.
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  Speaker 4: And what does this stop sign runner have to say
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  Speaker 4: for himself? Glenn who knows?
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  Speaker 8: Who knows, probably say, I'm sorry, I didn't notice that
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  Speaker 8: stop signed well.
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  Speaker 4: Kind of vigor theian, uh like a little car or something.
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  Speaker 8: Yeah, I didn't go into if she told me, I
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  Speaker 8: didn't make a difference.
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  Speaker 4: Is this where you went down today?
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  Speaker 8: Is this the no? No, yeah, it's just that's another accident.
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  Speaker 8: I went and looked at the sequence of the lights.
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  Speaker 3: That's kind of wild, right that you have to do
• 1:14:59
  Speaker 3: all that stuff. You have to go and look at
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  Speaker 3: lights to make sure the timing is changes at the
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  Speaker 3: same time so.
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  Speaker 4: It matches up with it.
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  Speaker 8: In this other case, I got person saying I turned
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  Speaker 8: on a green arrow, and the other person says I
• 1:15:10
  Speaker 8: had a solid green. So my thinking is probably the
• 1:15:13
  Speaker 8: person that turned in front of the person with the
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  Speaker 8: solid green also had a solid green, didn't realize it
• 1:15:18
  Speaker 8: and turned in front of the person with the solid green.
• 1:15:20
  Speaker 8: So I was looking at a timing sequence on the
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  Speaker 8: You know when it turns green arrow, when it stops
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  Speaker 8: the green arrow, how much of a pause there is
• 1:15:27
  Speaker 8: before the other car comes.
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  Speaker 6: You would have to do it at the same time
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  Speaker 6: in the day, I presume, because they glare.
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  Speaker 4: Well, no, like at night.
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  Speaker 6: It might be a different timing power the congestion level.
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  Speaker 8: Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, you do. It's not much different daytime.
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  Speaker 8: At night it might be different, but ere was, they're
• 1:15:50
  Speaker 8: not much difference.
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  Speaker 3: It's funny because I thought you were going to say
• 1:15:53
  Speaker 3: the glare there are a number of lights out by
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  Speaker 3: where I live. The right time of day, you can't
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  Speaker 3: see it at all. I mean when I say you
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  Speaker 3: can't see it at all. Even if you put your
• 1:16:01
  Speaker 3: hand up and try to block the sun, you cannot
• 1:16:03
  Speaker 3: see the light. Yeah, you have to wait for the
• 1:16:06
  Speaker 3: other vehicles to move and just hope they got it right.
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  Speaker 8: I've had plenty of cases where someone turns in front
• 1:16:10
  Speaker 8: of someone and they said the sun was in my eyes.
• 1:16:12
  Speaker 8: I couldn't see the light. You know, I turned in
• 1:16:15
  Speaker 8: front of them, and you know I didn't see the
• 1:16:16
  Speaker 8: light because of the sun. To blame the sun, Yeah,
• 1:16:19
  Speaker 8: blame the sun.
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  Speaker 3: You have to go back and look at it, though,
• 1:16:20
  Speaker 3: I mean, you have to go back and see them.
• 1:16:22
  Speaker 3: Does that hold up in court?
• 1:16:23
  Speaker 8: Yeah? Well no, I had one not that long ago
• 1:16:25
  Speaker 8: where this that exact thing happened downtown on a church street,
• 1:16:28
  Speaker 8: on a little bit on the west side, and I
• 1:16:29
  Speaker 8: went and took a look at it, and yeah, you know, yeah,
• 1:16:32
  Speaker 8: and at that time of morning, the sun was in
• 1:16:35
  Speaker 8: the person's eyes. But you don't turn when you don't
• 1:16:37
  Speaker 8: see you don't turn, do you see you oncoming car?
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  Speaker 3: And also in rural areas that happened sometimes. I believe
• 1:16:42
  Speaker 3: there's at least one of these out where we live.
• 1:16:44
  Speaker 3: That vegetation can grow in front of a sign, whether
• 1:16:47
  Speaker 3: it be a speed speed limit sign and a stop sign,
• 1:16:49
  Speaker 3: whatever the case may be, and of course it's the
• 1:16:51
  Speaker 3: county's responsibility to keep that clear.
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  Speaker 4: Do those cases hold up?
• 1:16:55
  Speaker 3: Like if you were to go through a stop sign
• 1:16:57
  Speaker 3: and say, well, man, I didn't even see the thing.
• 1:16:59
  Speaker 3: The vegetation for from the from the you know, the
• 1:17:02
  Speaker 3: road covered up the sign and I didn't see it
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  Speaker 3: at all.
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  Speaker 8: I don't know where you live, I don't. I've never
• 1:17:06
  Speaker 8: seen that. I've never serious. I've never seen vegetation covering
• 1:17:08
  Speaker 8: up stop signs.
• 1:17:09
  Speaker 3: Overhanging trees that's in a four stock corner, overhanging trees,
• 1:17:14
  Speaker 3: limb grows too far and grows down and grows in
• 1:17:16
  Speaker 3: front of the sign.
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  Speaker 8: Maybe. I mean, I just haven't had a case like that.
• 1:17:19
  Speaker 8: I mean, you know, it's uh, I just have an
• 1:17:22
  Speaker 8: ad a case that I've had cases where, of course,
• 1:17:25
  Speaker 8: the vegetation We've talked about this before. Somebody will have
• 1:17:28
  Speaker 8: shrubs or vegetation where you pull up to turn and
• 1:17:31
  Speaker 8: you can't see what's going on because all the hedges
• 1:17:33
  Speaker 8: are vegetation.
• 1:17:34
  Speaker 3: Yeah, we had that little thing in publics that happened
• 1:17:37
  Speaker 3: there where you pull out there you had to stuck.
• 1:17:38
  Speaker 3: You have to stick your car so far out in
• 1:17:40
  Speaker 3: the intersection to see from MAT's coming because the vegetation.
• 1:17:43
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• 1:17:45
  Speaker 3: on the on the on the bike trail.
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  Speaker 8: Yep, yep. And I remember Sean when he was over
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  Speaker 8: on the you know, the public's on seventy ninety two.
• 1:17:51
  Speaker 8: He said they were accidents there all the time because
• 1:17:53
  Speaker 8: the shrubs are too high and you can't see. Didn't see.
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  Speaker 4: So quick question.
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  Speaker 4: all occasionally will imbibe in a fast for fast food burger,
• 1:20:25
  Speaker 4: will we not?
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  Speaker 10: Yeah?
• 1:20:26
  Speaker 4: Now, do you have your favorite fast food burger? Is
• 1:20:29
  Speaker 4: its Culver's? Yeah?
• 1:20:31
  Speaker 5: I do like a Culver.
• 1:20:32
  Speaker 4: You get the butter burger like a true Wisconsin girl.
• 1:20:35
  Speaker 4: You need to ask some cheese kurts to go along.
• 1:20:38
  Speaker 5: No, all right, No, I like my cheese kurts fresh jack.
• 1:20:41
  Speaker 4: What is your go to when you're gonna cheat? You're
• 1:20:44
  Speaker 4: gonna have that that fast food burger. Who is it
• 1:20:46
  Speaker 4: for you? It would probably be a big Mac. A
• 1:20:49
  Speaker 4: big Mac.
• 1:20:49
  Speaker 8: Yeah.
• 1:20:50
  Speaker 6: I mean there's places I'll go for a burger that
• 1:20:53
  Speaker 6: you know that I have a really good bugger.
• 1:20:56
  Speaker 4: But you couldn't call I couldn't call them fast food.
• 1:20:58
  Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, yeah, man, I gotta tell you, it's a
• 1:21:00
  Speaker 3: couple for me. I actually did not have any relationship
• 1:21:03
  Speaker 3: with the Culver's Burger until they built one, not even
• 1:21:06
  Speaker 3: two miles from my house. And the Culvers Burger is
• 1:21:09
  Speaker 3: a good burger. But to me, the Culver's experience, it
• 1:21:14
  Speaker 3: really does kind of hinge on the fact of how
• 1:21:17
  Speaker 3: they cook their fries, because sometimes you can get the
• 1:21:20
  Speaker 3: fries and are cooked a lot, so they're real crispy,
• 1:21:22
  Speaker 3: and sometimes they're not that crispy, and that does change
• 1:21:25
  Speaker 3: the texture of that entire experience.
• 1:21:27
  Speaker 5: To me, without a doubt, it used to be.
• 1:21:30
  Speaker 3: It used to be Steak and Shake. The problem with
• 1:21:32
  Speaker 3: Steak and Jay burgers is the flavor is great. I
• 1:21:34
  Speaker 3: can eat one in three bites because they're not they're
• 1:21:37
  Speaker 3: really not that big, but they're so good. Here's the
• 1:21:39
  Speaker 3: question of the burgers that we like. I would say
• 1:21:42
  Speaker 3: that my my guilty pleasure burger is probably a quarter pounder,
• 1:21:46
  Speaker 3: which I get one about every two weeks. I'll get
• 1:21:49
  Speaker 3: a quarter pounder with cheese and a ten piece nugget,
• 1:21:51
  Speaker 3: and that is my you. You are a terrible person meal.
• 1:21:54
  Speaker 3: And I'm not saying because the food's bad. It's just
• 1:21:56
  Speaker 3: because it 't the best for you. But I love
• 1:21:59
  Speaker 3: the taste of a quarter pound when I do that.
• 1:22:00
  Speaker 3: And occasionally Wendy's right, I'll do like a Wendy's dollar.
• 1:22:03
  Speaker 7: Yeah, And sometimes there is that burger hangar that only
• 1:22:07
  Speaker 7: a McDonald's product can.
• 1:22:09
  Speaker 5: Tell you, or the quarter pounds or.
• 1:22:11
  Speaker 4: Something about that.
• 1:22:12
  Speaker 8: All right, yep.
• 1:22:13
  Speaker 3: Now, the reason I asked this is who do you
• 1:22:16
  Speaker 3: think makes the most healthy fast food hamburger? And by
• 1:22:20
  Speaker 3: the way, some of the ones mentioned today are definitely
• 1:22:23
  Speaker 3: on the list. There are seven burgers they tried, and
• 1:22:26
  Speaker 3: I'll give them to you real quick, and you can
• 1:22:27
  Speaker 3: tell me which one you think.
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  Speaker 9: This is, in no.
• 1:22:29
  Speaker 3: Particular order, all right, the Wopper Junior, right, Wendy's Junior, Hamburger, Classic,
• 1:22:36
  Speaker 3: McDonald's Burger in and Out Burger, Culver's Burger, what Burger Junior,
• 1:22:43
  Speaker 3: or the shake check Hamburger not cheeseburger Hamburger because we're
• 1:22:47
  Speaker 3: going for healthy here, so we're trying to cut the
• 1:22:49
  Speaker 3: calories as much as possible, so they nicked the cheese.
• 1:22:52
  Speaker 4: I guess. Seeing I think there are two on the
• 1:22:54
  Speaker 4: list that I think are near the front end.
• 1:22:57
  Speaker 3: It would be Culver's and Wendy'sing Culvers, I'll go Burger
• 1:23:05
  Speaker 3: King very interesting.
• 1:23:07
  Speaker 4: Culvers is next to last.
• 1:23:09
  Speaker 3: Really, Culver's, out of seven burgers, comes in number six,
• 1:23:13
  Speaker 3: but their butter.
• 1:23:13
  Speaker 4: Burger butter but burger.
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  Speaker 5: But this stuff of life.
• 1:23:18
  Speaker 3: The highest calorie count without extra toppings is the is
• 1:23:21
  Speaker 3: the Culver's Butterburger at almost four hundred calories without any
• 1:23:26
  Speaker 3: cheese or any extra toppings.
• 1:23:27
  Speaker 5: Explains why I'm a butter ball.
• 1:23:28
  Speaker 3: The shake check Hamburger is the worst, really, it says,
• 1:23:33
  Speaker 3: piled with toppings, special sauce, it isn't your best option
• 1:23:36
  Speaker 3: to change. Classic Hamburger is a healthier choice for a
• 1:23:39
  Speaker 3: fast food burger. We're talking twenty four grams of carbs,
• 1:23:43
  Speaker 3: eight grams of saturated fat, eight hundred and fifty milligrams
• 1:23:46
  Speaker 3: of sodium.
• 1:23:49
  Speaker 9: Not good.
• 1:23:50
  Speaker 3: The number one burger, the healthiest burger out there, is
• 1:23:55
  Speaker 3: the Wendy's Junior Hamburger. Really, Yeah, that's right. The Wendy's
• 1:23:59
  Speaker 3: Junior Hamburger had a two hundred and thirty count calories,
• 1:24:03
  Speaker 3: low salt, four grams of saturated fat, twelve grams of protein,
• 1:24:08
  Speaker 3: and just twenty four grams of carbs. So, if you're
• 1:24:10
  Speaker 3: getting a fast food burger and you want to keep
• 1:24:12
  Speaker 3: it as healthy as possible, the Wendy's Junior Hamburger is
• 1:24:15
  Speaker 3: the best one.
• 1:24:16
  Speaker 5: Well, it's probably just you know, ketchup mustard and pickles.
• 1:24:19
  Speaker 4: And you picked out the number two. The Burger King
• 1:24:21
  Speaker 4: Wopper Junior is the second healthiest burger.
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  Speaker 5: That's the meal I get as a Whopper Junior meal.
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  Speaker 4: That's funny. My wife a little My wife only eats
• 1:24:29
  Speaker 4: kids meals well, same year, Yeah, because she can't eat
• 1:24:32
  Speaker 4: the whole thing, and she can tell you she barely
• 1:24:33
  Speaker 4: finishes the kids meal. Yeah.
• 1:24:36
  Speaker 3: The classic McDonald's burger is the third healthiest. The In
• 1:24:40
  Speaker 3: and Out Burger is the fourth, Waburger Junior is the fifth,
• 1:24:43
  Speaker 3: and then of course going into the Butterburger and then
• 1:24:46
  Speaker 3: into the shake check Hamburger.
• 1:24:48
  Speaker 4: I think you just say shake check and it's automatically
• 1:24:50
  Speaker 4: bad for you.
• 1:24:52
  Speaker 3: That way, I don't need to I don't think you
• 1:24:54
  Speaker 3: could be the shake check napkin is his worst for you.
• 1:24:58
  Speaker 4: And anytime you walk asked a like a, what's the
• 1:25:03
  Speaker 4: really five guys?
• 1:25:04
  Speaker 8: Oh?
• 1:25:04
  Speaker 3: Yeah, man, there's a five guys on an end cap
• 1:25:07
  Speaker 3: in that in a shopping center that we have near
• 1:25:09
  Speaker 3: us Jack. And when you drive by that thing, you
• 1:25:12
  Speaker 3: just drive by it and you're like, how do people
• 1:25:15
  Speaker 3: even go inside? Like it just smell just because the
• 1:25:18
  Speaker 3: frying oil of the fries and everything, it just and
• 1:25:21
  Speaker 3: it smells unbelievable. I mean, but you just know when
• 1:25:23
  Speaker 3: you walk in there what you're getting. Yeah, because I
• 1:25:25
  Speaker 3: think that triple burger or whatever is one of the
• 1:25:27
  Speaker 3: worst ones for you, right, one of the worst fat.
• 1:25:29
  Speaker 5: Ones, which means it's the most delicious.
• 1:25:31
  Speaker 4: It is the most delicious.
• 1:25:32
  Speaker 3: I haven't had a five guy since I lived in
• 1:25:34
  Speaker 3: Baldwin Park. Yeah, it's one hundred calories just the park.
• 1:25:41
  Speaker 3: And it's funny, Like I read this list, I was like, man,
• 1:25:44
  Speaker 3: I gotta tell you, I think every one of these
• 1:25:46
  Speaker 3: burgers holds up. They don't none of them have cheese, Like, well,
• 1:25:49
  Speaker 3: there's not cheese, and they're all hamburgers, and I don't
• 1:25:51
  Speaker 3: eat hamburgers.
• 1:25:52
  Speaker 7: Well that and that lends itself to the question, if
• 1:25:56
  Speaker 7: you're gonna cheat with a burger, a fast food burger
• 1:25:59
  Speaker 7: in the first place, just get the cheeseburger and skip
• 1:26:03
  Speaker 7: the other toppings. But I don't if it's not really
• 1:26:07
  Speaker 7: that healthy for you in the end, then just have
• 1:26:09
  Speaker 7: a little bit of fun with it.
• 1:26:10
  Speaker 3: What is your what is your your fast food experience?
• 1:26:12
  Speaker 3: Like when when you guys do crave something, is it?
• 1:26:16
  Speaker 3: Do you have a favorite fast food?
• 1:26:17
  Speaker 14: Is?
• 1:26:18
  Speaker 4: Is it always the Big mac Jack if I'm going
• 1:26:20
  Speaker 4: to McDon no, it's not.
• 1:26:22
  Speaker 6: Sometimes I mean like my uh my daughter turns me
• 1:26:26
  Speaker 6: onto some of the special meals where it's like these
• 1:26:29
  Speaker 6: five dollars specials, or you can do like hey, it's
• 1:26:33
  Speaker 6: a burger. It's like four nuggets and a drink and stuff,
• 1:26:36
  Speaker 6: and it's like it's like, ah, I never would have
• 1:26:39
  Speaker 6: looked at that.
• 1:26:39
  Speaker 4: Really, she speaks, well, you always, I always, you know,
• 1:26:44
  Speaker 4: you get what you know.
• 1:26:45
  Speaker 6: And they when they change around those value I don't
• 1:26:49
  Speaker 6: delve into the value menu so much. And I know
• 1:26:52
  Speaker 6: that's one of the things that the fast food places
• 1:26:55
  Speaker 6: have been focusing on, is trying to get more attention
• 1:26:59
  Speaker 6: back to their value meal because they it kind of
• 1:27:02
  Speaker 6: went away.
• 1:27:03
  Speaker 4: They used to have, like I think they did away
• 1:27:06
  Speaker 4: with it, the dollar stuff, right.
• 1:27:07
  Speaker 5: They did. Now they're bringing it back.
• 1:27:09
  Speaker 4: Yeah, but because they saw that drop off.
• 1:27:11
  Speaker 3: Well, one of the things that happened, like about three
• 1:27:13
  Speaker 3: or four months ago is people started kind of posting
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  Speaker 3: the cost of eating at fast food restaurants when we
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  Speaker 3: are feeling this crunch of you know, food costs, and
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  Speaker 3: people are like, you know, it just cost me seventeen
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  Speaker 3: dollars for a number two at McDonald's people were like,
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  Speaker 3: what for burger and fries and to drink seventeen bucks
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  Speaker 3: or whatever? And that was when the big blowback, and
• 1:27:30
  Speaker 3: then all the fast food places started kind of catching
• 1:27:33
  Speaker 3: on that that, you know, sales were down because their
• 1:27:36
  Speaker 3: their food prices were expensive. And I believe McDonald's was
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  Speaker 3: the first company to kind of reach out and do
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  Speaker 3: a ten dollars meal or eight nine ninety nine or whatever.
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  Speaker 3: That's what brought Chili's back to life, by the way, Yeah,
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  Speaker 3: was it Chili's not Chili's, No, it was Chili's. Chili's
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  Speaker 3: did that nine to ninety nine burger deal right, drink
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  Speaker 3: and you couldn't even get a.
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  Speaker 4: Better deal at a at a drive through.
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  Speaker 6: Yeah, to go in and sit down at a you know,
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  Speaker 6: a restaurant, what fast casual? Yeah right, yeah, yeah, get
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  Speaker 6: a meal for under ten buns and some service. Only
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  Speaker 6: problem is you have to tip it. Don't tip it
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  Speaker 6: drive throughs. I mean that's the only thing.
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  Speaker 4: There's deb Hello. Jack is here as well.
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  Speaker 9: Yeah.
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  Speaker 3: Uh, this young lady came in to talk to you
• 1:29:04
  Speaker 3: guys when I wasn't around, and I think that was
• 1:29:06
  Speaker 3: the reason, because I wasn't around. Yeah, that happens for sure,
• 1:29:09
  Speaker 3: you guys give it up. Good laugh for Collette Fair.
• 1:29:11
  Speaker 4: What do you say, couples therapist and relationship expert.
• 1:29:18
  Speaker 16: Here to do therapy on you, to know expert?
• 1:29:21
  Speaker 5: She says, Wow, she can spot a case from a blocker.
• 1:29:24
  Speaker 4: Yeah, she is.
• 1:29:25
  Speaker 3: She's one of these people when you say her name
• 1:29:27
  Speaker 3: and then you there, you know, you get the comma
• 1:29:29
  Speaker 3: and then there's just letters. Right, It's just so many letters.
• 1:29:32
  Speaker 3: It's like your name, comma alphabet. Can you explain some
• 1:29:37
  Speaker 3: of the professional accolades that you have so we can
• 1:29:39
  Speaker 3: kind of justify you being here, young lady.
• 1:29:41
  Speaker 16: Sure to prove myself.
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  Speaker 18: It's so true though, and it means nothing to other people,
• 1:29:46
  Speaker 18: but you work so hard for these damn letters.
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  Speaker 9: Right.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah.
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  Speaker 18: So, in Florida, the typical licenses for mental health counselors
• 1:29:53
  Speaker 18: or people who practice therapy. You can be a psychologist,
• 1:29:56
  Speaker 18: you can be a social worker, you can be a
• 1:29:58
  Speaker 18: licensed mental health counselor you can be a licensed marriage
• 1:30:01
  Speaker 18: and family therapist. I am the two latter, okay, And
• 1:30:04
  Speaker 18: all of those things allow you to sit with clients
• 1:30:07
  Speaker 18: the privilege and honor, and I really do believe that
• 1:30:10
  Speaker 18: it's very much a mission driven career. I think of
• 1:30:13
  Speaker 18: sitting with people and helping them with whatever they're going through.
• 1:30:17
  Speaker 4: Yeah, you know, it's interesting. I do want to ask
• 1:30:19
  Speaker 4: you a quick question.
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  Speaker 3: This has nothing to do what we're going to talk about,
• 1:30:22
  Speaker 3: but I do find your opinion of it interesting. Here recently,
• 1:30:24
  Speaker 3: there was a therapist that had an unfortunate encounter with
• 1:30:27
  Speaker 3: a former client of hers, and it was you know,
• 1:30:31
  Speaker 3: it was a tragic story in your job because you
• 1:30:35
  Speaker 3: do deal with so many volatile situations between couples, between
• 1:30:39
  Speaker 3: you know, anybody that has a relationship issue like that.
• 1:30:42
  Speaker 3: I mean, do you ever run into situations where it
• 1:30:44
  Speaker 3: gets so heated you have to kind of like do
• 1:30:47
  Speaker 3: something to kind of cool the room a bit.
• 1:30:48
  Speaker 18: Yes, absolutely, And I used to have more of that
• 1:30:52
  Speaker 18: earlier in my career. I don't know if like I've
• 1:30:55
  Speaker 18: just gotten more seasoned or my client population has changed,
• 1:30:59
  Speaker 18: but I definitely have had some difficult situations early on
• 1:31:03
  Speaker 18: where even something kind of explosive, remember anything where I
• 1:31:06
  Speaker 18: feared for my life. But I have had clients that
• 1:31:10
  Speaker 18: I've worried about safety a little bit in the past
• 1:31:13
  Speaker 18: and not wanted to work at night or be alone
• 1:31:16
  Speaker 18: in the building. Wow, yeah, not so much anymore. But
• 1:31:19
  Speaker 18: your point is valid. It is a really fraught situation.
• 1:31:23
  Speaker 18: I work mostly with couples, so sometimes someone is there
• 1:31:27
  Speaker 18: to end a relationship and people get very upset and
• 1:31:31
  Speaker 18: it's triggering and anything can happen.
• 1:31:33
  Speaker 3: And can you tell immediately when a couple comes in
• 1:31:36
  Speaker 3: and the entire goal of at least one part of
• 1:31:38
  Speaker 3: the couple is to use you as a tool as
• 1:31:43
  Speaker 3: a tool to I.
• 1:31:44
  Speaker 18: Think most people think their partner is more a fault
• 1:31:47
  Speaker 18: than they are. I know I did in my first marriage.
• 1:31:50
  Speaker 16: Actually I do even now in.
• 1:31:51
  Speaker 4: My current marriage.
• 1:31:54
  Speaker 16: I think that's how we work and nature.
• 1:31:58
  Speaker 18: But I do think a lot of people come in
• 1:32:01
  Speaker 18: with this, even if they wouldn't say it so explicitly.
• 1:32:04
  Speaker 16: Can you fix my partner?
• 1:32:06
  Speaker 18: And part of my job is to help people realize
• 1:32:09
  Speaker 18: that they can only turn the lens around and look
• 1:32:11
  Speaker 18: at and work on themselves, because no matter what, even
• 1:32:14
  Speaker 18: if your partner's ninety percent. Let's just say of the problem,
• 1:32:18
  Speaker 18: there's always something, it's a system, and there's always.
• 1:32:21
  Speaker 16: Something you're contributing, and you can do better at.
• 1:32:23
  Speaker 4: Right right right now. I know that you wrote a book,
• 1:32:25
  Speaker 4: and I do find it fascinating. What's the name of
• 1:32:28
  Speaker 4: your book?
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  Speaker 16: The Cost of Quiet?
• 1:32:30
  Speaker 18: How to have the hard conversations that create secure, lasting love.
• 1:32:34
  Speaker 9: Yeah.
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  Speaker 3: Now, I have a little bit of experience in a
• 1:32:38
  Speaker 3: situation of this nature, you know, from past relationships, and
• 1:32:40
  Speaker 3: my whole thing is this. I am not You're probably
• 1:32:43
  Speaker 3: gonna find this little odd, guys, but I'm not really
• 1:32:45
  Speaker 3: a confrontational person.
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  Speaker 4: I do not enjoy it at all. And I do
• 1:32:49
  Speaker 4: know people who are very good at it and they
• 1:32:51
  Speaker 4: lean into it. I do not.
• 1:32:52
  Speaker 3: If I have to do it, I will, but it
• 1:32:54
  Speaker 3: is not my favorite thing to do. I am a
• 1:32:56
  Speaker 3: person who likes to placate for the sake of peace,
• 1:33:00
  Speaker 3: and that is a real date I learned that is
• 1:33:02
  Speaker 3: a very very dangerous trait to have. And the thought
• 1:33:08
  Speaker 3: process is, well, if I bring up this very difficult scenario,
• 1:33:12
  Speaker 3: it's going to cause a giant argument that's going to
• 1:33:14
  Speaker 3: cause a rift in my relationship. That's going to be
• 1:33:16
  Speaker 3: irrepaarable when the whole time, it's the quiet that's causing
• 1:33:20
  Speaker 3: the rift that winds up being irreparable.
• 1:33:22
  Speaker 16: You hit the nail on the head.
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  Speaker 18: That's really the central thesis of my whole book. I
• 1:33:26
  Speaker 18: use quiet as a euphemism for avoiding conflict. And what's
• 1:33:29
  Speaker 18: interesting I've noticed over my career. I mean, I have
• 1:33:32
  Speaker 18: a lot of clients who are trial attorneys and in
• 1:33:35
  Speaker 18: these jobs that are let's say, the most confrontational job
• 1:33:38
  Speaker 18: you could have, and they still don't want to address
• 1:33:41
  Speaker 18: conflict at home. And it's because our primary romantic partner
• 1:33:45
  Speaker 18: in adulthood, that is our closest attachment bond, and exactly
• 1:33:49
  Speaker 18: what you said, we're reluctant to do anything that could
• 1:33:52
  Speaker 18: jeopardize that bond. But at the same time we have
• 1:33:56
  Speaker 18: to deal with those issues because that's where emotional intimacy
• 1:33:58
  Speaker 18: comes from a deeper connection. Otherwise, you either have a
• 1:34:02
  Speaker 18: surface marriage and all this quiet quitting where people passively
• 1:34:05
  Speaker 18: disengage because they don't know each other anymore, or you
• 1:34:09
  Speaker 18: have this rise of gray divorce now in particular that
• 1:34:12
  Speaker 18: people are just a strange for years, that there's no
• 1:34:15
  Speaker 18: connection left anymore. And the reason I wrote the book,
• 1:34:18
  Speaker 18: is that most people are not fighting and yelling. They're
• 1:34:21
  Speaker 18: really not Most people are not saying much at all, right,
• 1:34:24
  Speaker 18: and they're filled with resentment or they're passive aggressive. So
• 1:34:27
  Speaker 18: I'm really giving an actionable roadmap for how to do
• 1:34:30
  Speaker 18: it diplomatically and constructively.
• 1:34:33
  Speaker 3: And would you agree that, Like, I think maybe the
• 1:34:35
  Speaker 3: other guys can chime in here with their parents and
• 1:34:37
  Speaker 3: stuff and their own relationships. But it is kind of
• 1:34:42
  Speaker 3: a it's a unique thing because you don't want to
• 1:34:46
  Speaker 3: upset that person. But in the same sense, what you're
• 1:34:48
  Speaker 3: doing is is actually making the issue bigger because you're not.
• 1:34:52
  Speaker 3: And again it's culturally. I think we've been programmed to think, well,
• 1:34:56
  Speaker 3: that couple fights all the time, got it, They're they're
• 1:34:59
  Speaker 3: probably on the verge of de as opposed to seeing
• 1:35:01
  Speaker 3: a couple go into church every day, blah blah blah.
• 1:35:03
  Speaker 3: But you watch them at dinner and they don't talk,
• 1:35:04
  Speaker 3: they don't engage.
• 1:35:05
  Speaker 16: The dining dead.
• 1:35:06
  Speaker 4: They look great, the dining dead.
• 1:35:09
  Speaker 16: That's not my own term, that comes from Eternal Sunshine.
• 1:35:13
  Speaker 4: Yeah, but you look at them and you go, oh,
• 1:35:15
  Speaker 4: look at them, They're so cute.
• 1:35:17
  Speaker 3: But in reality, their relationships and shambles, and the people
• 1:35:20
  Speaker 3: who are arguing are actually learning more about each other
• 1:35:23
  Speaker 3: and they're hashing those issues out. Therefore the relationships are
• 1:35:26
  Speaker 3: actually stronger, even though it doesn't seem that way.
• 1:35:28
  Speaker 16: You are spot on.
• 1:35:29
  Speaker 18: This is so true, and I think we confuse conflict
• 1:35:32
  Speaker 18: with contentiousness and arguing and yelling and blaming and all
• 1:35:37
  Speaker 18: this kind of stuff that isn't really great.
• 1:35:39
  Speaker 5: That just means you're not Italian.
• 1:35:41
  Speaker 7: Well, so you know, a loud arguing household is I mean,
• 1:35:46
  Speaker 7: that's a sign of love.
• 1:35:47
  Speaker 16: Exactly, and the sign that you're engaged.
• 1:35:49
  Speaker 18: I will say, when people are arguing, it does mean
• 1:35:52
  Speaker 18: they're invested. But we've got to really come from the
• 1:35:55
  Speaker 18: place of getting that internal clarity first about what you're
• 1:35:58
  Speaker 18: actually feeling, why matters, what's bothering you, and then you
• 1:36:02
  Speaker 18: can come forward when you're emotionally regulated and actually say
• 1:36:06
  Speaker 18: the truth. This is just about revealing more of your
• 1:36:09
  Speaker 18: inner world to somebody. It's scary, we're all scared to
• 1:36:12
  Speaker 18: be vulnerable, but it does. It does sap the relationship
• 1:36:16
  Speaker 18: of all of its strength if you don't do it,
• 1:36:18
  Speaker 18: and it's a matter of learning how it really is
• 1:36:20
  Speaker 18: an emotional muscle.
• 1:36:22
  Speaker 4: Talking to call it fair. She is a relationship expert
• 1:36:24
  Speaker 4: here in Central Florida. Deb Yeah, clete.
• 1:36:26
  Speaker 7: I wanted to ask how much does differing styles of
• 1:36:30
  Speaker 7: communication way in on helping couples find their way back
• 1:36:34
  Speaker 7: to each other, because you know, I'm a strong personality,
• 1:36:38
  Speaker 7: my fiance is not, and it's finding that balance where
• 1:36:42
  Speaker 7: I'm not that overpowering perfume in the room, you know
• 1:36:45
  Speaker 7: what I'm saying, and taking all of the all of
• 1:36:48
  Speaker 7: the air out of the room, you know, from him.
• 1:36:51
  Speaker 7: So how do you how do you help couples balance
• 1:36:54
  Speaker 7: just being two different weirdos?
• 1:36:58
  Speaker 16: And you're right, that should be my tagline.
• 1:37:01
  Speaker 18: This is where you could be happiest to different weirdos
• 1:37:03
  Speaker 18: because it's so true.
• 1:37:05
  Speaker 16: So I'm more like you, which side note is also why.
• 1:37:08
  Speaker 18: It's so interesting that I was so conflict avoidant in
• 1:37:11
  Speaker 18: such a people pleaser, like I'll say a lot, I'm Italian,
• 1:37:14
  Speaker 18: I'm outspoken. It's ironic that my book is called anything
• 1:37:17
  Speaker 18: with Quiet in it because I'm never quiet. But when
• 1:37:20
  Speaker 18: I'd get a signal that someone wasn't happy with me,
• 1:37:23
  Speaker 18: or that it could really take the relationship into a
• 1:37:25
  Speaker 18: bad place, then all of a sudden, I wanted to
• 1:37:28
  Speaker 18: play Kate and appease. So I think we can still
• 1:37:30
  Speaker 18: have that forceful personality but represent both sides. Now, I
• 1:37:35
  Speaker 18: don't think there's anything wrong with being that way. You're
• 1:37:38
  Speaker 18: probably with your partner in part, you too, are attracted
• 1:37:41
  Speaker 18: to one another because of that oppositeness. So I would
• 1:37:44
  Speaker 18: be more curious, you know, does he feel like you're
• 1:37:47
  Speaker 18: taking all the oxygen in the room. He might not,
• 1:37:50
  Speaker 18: you know, he might be perfectly content with that balance
• 1:37:54
  Speaker 18: and the dynamic. Now if he feels like he can't
• 1:37:56
  Speaker 18: get a word in edgewise, and that would be really
• 1:37:59
  Speaker 18: up to him, then that's something we would talk about
• 1:38:02
  Speaker 18: in therapy to make sure that there's space for both
• 1:38:04
  Speaker 18: people to be heard. But a lot of times, like
• 1:38:07
  Speaker 18: my husband doesn't talk and he's perfectly happy that way,
• 1:38:10
  Speaker 18: I am too.
• 1:38:13
  Speaker 6: Collect Do you ever have a couple in therapy and
• 1:38:16
  Speaker 6: the husband, for you know, just to pick one makes
• 1:38:19
  Speaker 6: a really good point and you kind of give him
• 1:38:22
  Speaker 6: credit and you just see it on his face.
• 1:38:24
  Speaker 4: So that was the first time in its relationship he
• 1:38:26
  Speaker 4: might have just won an argument.
• 1:38:28
  Speaker 16: Yes, yes, And you know it's funny.
• 1:38:31
  Speaker 18: Some people don't like this, but the type of therapy
• 1:38:34
  Speaker 18: I do, which is called emotionally focused couples therapy, and
• 1:38:37
  Speaker 18: it is the gold standard and evidence space treatment for couples,
• 1:38:41
  Speaker 18: so it's got the highest efficacy rates and it's all
• 1:38:43
  Speaker 18: based on attachment science, meaning that we really do need people,
• 1:38:47
  Speaker 18: we need relationships to feel safe and secure, and that
• 1:38:51
  Speaker 18: most of the time, what we're skipping over in conflict
• 1:38:53
  Speaker 18: and why it goes bad is that we get dysregulated,
• 1:38:56
  Speaker 18: we get signals of danger and we go into fight
• 1:38:59
  Speaker 18: or fly and we forget to address the need for
• 1:39:02
  Speaker 18: reassurance and comfort. Right, most things aren't so much about
• 1:39:06
  Speaker 18: the issues as that, and in this type of therapy,
• 1:39:08
  Speaker 18: we do not take side.
• 1:39:10
  Speaker 16: So I really validate peop. That was a long way
• 1:39:17
  Speaker 16: to answer, I don't take that.
• 1:39:18
  Speaker 18: But it's more like I'm putting myself in your shoes
• 1:39:21
  Speaker 18: and helping to get at what's important about what you're
• 1:39:25
  Speaker 18: trying to say and that it doesn't come out in
• 1:39:27
  Speaker 18: a way that's destructive, because if you're blaming or criticizing,
• 1:39:32
  Speaker 18: or what most people do is they'll say, well, I
• 1:39:34
  Speaker 18: feel like you don't care, I feel like you don't
• 1:39:37
  Speaker 18: listen to me, I feel like you don't do anything
• 1:39:40
  Speaker 18: that's really your interpretation, those are not your feelings. If
• 1:39:43
  Speaker 18: you say I'm hurt, and the story I tell myself
• 1:39:48
  Speaker 18: is that you don't care, right, and then there you
• 1:39:51
  Speaker 18: leave room for that other person to hear you more
• 1:39:54
  Speaker 18: easily and then to say, you know what, I really
• 1:39:56
  Speaker 18: do care.
• 1:39:56
  Speaker 16: I can see why you thought that, but that's not true.
• 1:39:59
  Speaker 16: And now we've got to discussion.
• 1:40:00
  Speaker 3: And I think that's super important because a lot of
• 1:40:02
  Speaker 3: time it is just a perception. And you know, deb
• 1:40:05
  Speaker 3: made a very good point, like if you have somebody
• 1:40:06
  Speaker 3: and they're very quiet, they don't really share a lot.
• 1:40:09
  Speaker 3: You know, you can perceive what you think they're thinking
• 1:40:11
  Speaker 3: because they're not really sharing that with you, and then
• 1:40:13
  Speaker 3: you build a perception of that of him being upset
• 1:40:16
  Speaker 3: or being in you know, you're constantly hey, are you okay?
• 1:40:18
  Speaker 9: Oh?
• 1:40:18
  Speaker 4: You are okay? And that drives people crazy. I've been there.
• 1:40:21
  Speaker 4: It's good.
• 1:40:21
  Speaker 16: Like nine percent of what goes wrong. I call it
• 1:40:23
  Speaker 16: the negative partner story.
• 1:40:26
  Speaker 18: You will the brain's and meaning making machines, so you
• 1:40:28
  Speaker 18: will interpret and the brain runs negative, right, yea, yeah,
• 1:40:31
  Speaker 18: so you're exactly right, and.
• 1:40:33
  Speaker 4: You never go to the best case scenario.
• 1:40:34
  Speaker 11: Never.
• 1:40:35
  Speaker 3: For the record, you will never, ever, ever go you
• 1:40:37
  Speaker 3: know what, I bet, I bet she just loves me
• 1:40:38
  Speaker 3: so much. She just caught up in it and it's
• 1:40:40
  Speaker 3: got her tongue tied. You can't tell me at all
• 1:40:42
  Speaker 3: how she loves me. That's got to be it one
• 1:40:44
  Speaker 3: of the four agreements. Don't assume yeah, yeah, yeah, you
• 1:40:46
  Speaker 3: always go negative.
• 1:40:47
  Speaker 4: Yeah.
• 1:40:48
  Speaker 18: It's so true, and it applies to all things in life, right,
• 1:40:52
  Speaker 18: which is why it's one of the four agreements, which
• 1:40:53
  Speaker 18: I love, by the way, But it really comes up
• 1:40:56
  Speaker 18: in our romantic relationships a lot, because there's so much
• 1:41:00
  Speaker 18: at stake, they're so important to us.
• 1:41:02
  Speaker 16: We get a signal of danger so easily. All it
• 1:41:05
  Speaker 16: takes is a ton of voice.
• 1:41:06
  Speaker 18: To change an expression to harden right, and all of
• 1:41:10
  Speaker 18: a sudden, you're off to the races.
• 1:41:11
  Speaker 3: And especially if you need the if you have the need,
• 1:41:14
  Speaker 3: like you know, to be loved and liked, like you know,
• 1:41:17
  Speaker 3: my need for my wife is like you.
• 1:41:19
  Speaker 4: I need you to desire me.
• 1:41:20
  Speaker 3: I need you to look at me like you know,
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  Speaker 3: like I'm the only dude out there. And I don't
• 1:41:24
  Speaker 3: mean that superficially.
• 1:41:25
  Speaker 4: I need to feel it. I don't need you to
• 1:41:27
  Speaker 4: pawn all over me and everything like I just need.
• 1:41:29
  Speaker 3: To feel in the house that you know, true, that
• 1:41:31
  Speaker 3: I that you know, I got you, you know, and
• 1:41:33
  Speaker 3: sometimes we you know, we've lost a couple of times
• 1:41:36
  Speaker 3: around relationship, We've lost that vision and had to kind
• 1:41:39
  Speaker 3: of readjust to get back in there. The one thing
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  Speaker 3: I answer I wanted to ask you is this, when
• 1:41:43
  Speaker 3: you go into relationship issues, how.
• 1:41:45
  Speaker 4: Deep do you go?
• 1:41:46
  Speaker 3: Because I kind of believe that one of the reasons
• 1:41:49
  Speaker 3: I'm the way I am is because how my dad was.
• 1:41:51
  Speaker 3: My dad was an incredibly overbearing, borderline kind of abusive
• 1:41:55
  Speaker 3: personality where he was just so dominant in there no
• 1:42:00
  Speaker 3: ever the way to say it without getting real deep overbearing,
• 1:42:03
  Speaker 3: and it was constant contact or conflict in our house.
• 1:42:06
  Speaker 3: There was never a good moment. There was never like
• 1:42:08
  Speaker 3: every time he walked through the door, it was immediate
• 1:42:11
  Speaker 3: tension and anxiety because he was never in a good mood,
• 1:42:14
  Speaker 3: never had anything good to say, never was positive about anything.
• 1:42:17
  Speaker 3: It was perpetually negative. And then he was like that
• 1:42:20
  Speaker 3: toward my mother as well. So I think maybe my
• 1:42:23
  Speaker 3: defense mechanism is I don't want to be that way.
• 1:42:25
  Speaker 3: I don't want to ever be perceived that way that
• 1:42:28
  Speaker 3: I'm that that person and I think that drove some
• 1:42:31
  Speaker 3: of the issues I had in my former relationship and
• 1:42:34
  Speaker 3: some of the ones that we would have sprinkled into
• 1:42:36
  Speaker 3: the one I am in now.
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  Speaker 18: Absolutely, I relate to that so much because these childhood
• 1:42:41
  Speaker 18: patterns are so formative. You know, my parents are wonderful people,
• 1:42:46
  Speaker 18: but they fought a lot before they got divorced. And
• 1:42:48
  Speaker 18: I remember lying there listening to them argue and thinking,
• 1:42:52
  Speaker 18: I am going to grow up and have the happiest
• 1:42:53
  Speaker 18: marriage and we're never gonna ark right, right, right.
• 1:42:56
  Speaker 16: And my first marriage was like that. I mean, I
• 1:42:58
  Speaker 16: it does condition to say, uh oh, people are getting upset.
• 1:43:02
  Speaker 16: What can I do?
• 1:43:03
  Speaker 18: I was that played that role in the family, which
• 1:43:05
  Speaker 18: no surprise, I'm a therapist of trying to okay mom's upset,
• 1:43:09
  Speaker 18: Let me make her feel better, let me help dad
• 1:43:11
  Speaker 18: understand what mom really meant. You know, I was doing
• 1:43:14
  Speaker 18: that as a child, right right. And I was a
• 1:43:16
  Speaker 18: child in some cases, I was nine years.
• 1:43:18
  Speaker 16: Old doing this. So you know, it's not ideas I
• 1:43:23
  Speaker 16: was born for this or I was made into it.
• 1:43:26
  Speaker 18: But in my first marriage I picked somebody who really
• 1:43:29
  Speaker 18: we never argued, I mean we never Everybody thought we
• 1:43:32
  Speaker 18: were the perfect couple. We had a great what I
• 1:43:35
  Speaker 18: call surface marriage. It's wonderful from the outside. We had
• 1:43:38
  Speaker 18: a nice life, lifestyle, friends, the kiss, the whole thing,
• 1:43:42
  Speaker 18: but there was no connection.
• 1:43:44
  Speaker 4: None I felt.
• 1:43:44
  Speaker 3: That is exactly when we told her mom that we
• 1:43:49
  Speaker 3: were getting divorced, she did not believe us. She thought
• 1:43:52
  Speaker 3: it was a joke because we had never showed a
• 1:43:54
  Speaker 3: fisher in a relationship at all.
• 1:43:56
  Speaker 4: No one saw us get at each other. All they
• 1:43:58
  Speaker 4: saw was the good stuff. We never argued. There was
• 1:44:00
  Speaker 4: never any strife, none of that. It was completely fake.
• 1:44:03
  Speaker 4: The entire thing was completely.
• 1:44:04
  Speaker 16: Fake, exactly exactly.
• 1:44:06
  Speaker 18: And you know, now I don't have a flawless relationship,
• 1:44:09
  Speaker 18: but I have a real relationship.
• 1:44:10
  Speaker 4: I'm in it.
• 1:44:11
  Speaker 16: I say how I feel. My husband has come a
• 1:44:14
  Speaker 16: long way.
• 1:44:15
  Speaker 18: I mean, he's an accountant, CPA, he works as a CFO, so.
• 1:44:18
  Speaker 16: This is like way out of his comfort zone.
• 1:44:20
  Speaker 18: But he's done so much work to learn to communicate
• 1:44:24
  Speaker 18: and share more about what he feels, be more vulnerable.
• 1:44:27
  Speaker 16: It's really hard for.
• 1:44:28
  Speaker 18: Men too, because society has not done men any favor,
• 1:44:32
  Speaker 18: and how we've conditioned men to be strong and silent.
• 1:44:35
  Speaker 16: We have to change that. Men feel just as much
• 1:44:38
  Speaker 16: as women.
• 1:44:38
  Speaker 9: And what you.
• 1:44:39
  Speaker 18: Described about being desired and knowing your wife loves you,
• 1:44:42
  Speaker 18: that felt sense.
• 1:44:44
  Speaker 16: That's an attachment need. We do need to feel that.
• 1:44:47
  Speaker 16: We need to feel safe. We need to feel secure, loved, valued, accepted, desired.
• 1:44:52
  Speaker 18: When those things are good, the little arguments, the little stuff,
• 1:44:57
  Speaker 18: it gets figured out. Sixty nine percent of a couple's
• 1:44:59
  Speaker 18: problems are not even solvable, meaning you'll argue about the
• 1:45:02
  Speaker 18: same for.
• 1:45:03
  Speaker 4: The remainder of your life.
• 1:45:04
  Speaker 16: Yes, and that's.
• 1:45:04
  Speaker 18: Research based, longitudinal research from the Gotmans, who are at
• 1:45:08
  Speaker 18: the top of the food chain in couples therapy. So
• 1:45:11
  Speaker 18: it's really more about having a conversation about your feelings,
• 1:45:15
  Speaker 18: feeling heard, feeling accepted and understood, and then the solvable
• 1:45:19
  Speaker 18: problems will get addressed and they'll get worked out.
• 1:45:21
  Speaker 3: Col A Fair here with us. We'll tell you more
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  Speaker 3: about her book in a second, so stay tuned. We'll
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  Speaker 3: tell you where you can get it. It actually hasn't
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  Speaker 3: even dropped yet, so people are asking about the book.
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  Speaker 4: Uh, you can pre order. Yeah, the release is coming
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  Speaker 4: up soon and you can pre order real quick.
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  Speaker 8: Jack.
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  Speaker 3: People in the Texan service are asking you, know you
• 1:45:35
  Speaker 3: being in a relationship as a therapist is that a
• 1:45:38
  Speaker 3: unique thing. You've already mentioned your husband, you know, not
• 1:45:41
  Speaker 3: being such a you know, not chiming in a whole bunch.
• 1:45:44
  Speaker 3: Do you do you find that you analyze your own
• 1:45:47
  Speaker 3: relationship too much to be in your own relationship.
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  Speaker 16: I would not say too much.
• 1:45:52
  Speaker 4: I think it's just right.
• 1:45:54
  Speaker 18: But I mean this is like I live and breathe
• 1:45:56
  Speaker 18: this stuff, so I am definitely always thinking about it.
• 1:45:59
  Speaker 18: But I also own my own stuff, and I try
• 1:46:02
  Speaker 18: to be really real about the fact that I also
• 1:46:05
  Speaker 18: can be reactive or say the wrong thing, and this
• 1:46:07
  Speaker 18: is why we have repair.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, that's beyond your education, right, that's who you are
• 1:46:10
  Speaker 3: as a person. That's beyond your education, and.
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  Speaker 16: It's being human.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, that was my question. Oh are you serious?
• 1:46:18
  Speaker 6: I was like in conversation with your husband there you
• 1:46:22
  Speaker 6: get to a point where it's like, that's what the
• 1:46:24
  Speaker 6: therapists would say.
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  Speaker 4: I have to not do that.
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  Speaker 16: I don't do that. I really try not to do that.
• 1:46:30
  Speaker 4: Well, does your husband say that to you?
• 1:46:32
  Speaker 3: That's the thing, like you saying to yourself is one thing,
• 1:46:33
  Speaker 3: but your husband going, hey, you're getting all therapy on me.
• 1:46:37
  Speaker 18: I don't think so, it's interesting he's listening, right, now
• 1:46:40
  Speaker 18: I think from work, so I wonder what.
• 1:46:42
  Speaker 16: He would say.
• 1:46:43
  Speaker 18: But I think for the most part, maybe at the beginning,
• 1:46:47
  Speaker 18: when I first became a therapist, I was really into
• 1:46:49
  Speaker 18: always trotting out everything I learned.
• 1:46:52
  Speaker 16: But I think now I'm sure it permeates because it is.
• 1:46:55
  Speaker 9: What I do.
• 1:46:56
  Speaker 18: But for the most part, I'm bringing my own vulnerability.
• 1:46:59
  Speaker 18: I have my own in securities, my own fears, my
• 1:47:02
  Speaker 18: own doubts.
• 1:47:03
  Speaker 16: So I'm just reacting like a human being.
• 1:47:05
  Speaker 18: And this is where and why I wrote the book
• 1:47:07
  Speaker 18: to give you a process because it's not.
• 1:47:10
  Speaker 16: But this is not fixed how you communicate.
• 1:47:13
  Speaker 18: You have your personality and you'll have your instinctive reaction
• 1:47:16
  Speaker 18: based on your personality. But then overriding that and being
• 1:47:20
  Speaker 18: more evolved and being more emotionally mature, everyone can do.
• 1:47:24
  Speaker 16: I mean, I am a New York Italian. I used
• 1:47:25
  Speaker 16: to throw things and scream.
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  Speaker 1: I don't do that.
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  Speaker 4: I should start it again. That's a different angle for therapy.
• 1:47:32
  Speaker 5: I got the next book that's screen therapy.
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  Speaker 3: Have you ever had a couple in and while the
• 1:47:38
  Speaker 3: session is going on, you know for a fact it's
• 1:47:40
  Speaker 3: not going to work, Like you know for a fact
• 1:47:41
  Speaker 3: that there's so far apart that just the ideology that
• 1:47:44
  Speaker 3: they have as people is so far apart. There's really
• 1:47:48
  Speaker 3: no shared space where they can have enough room in
• 1:47:52
  Speaker 3: there for a relationship.
• 1:47:53
  Speaker 4: And if so, what do you do?
• 1:47:55
  Speaker 16: Oh, it's such a good question.
• 1:47:56
  Speaker 18: So the way I really approach it, and I think
• 1:47:59
  Speaker 18: most good therapists approach it, is I will definitely have
• 1:48:02
  Speaker 18: my own kind of instinctive opinion about, well, maybe this
• 1:48:05
  Speaker 18: one's not going to work, or this is tough, or.
• 1:48:07
  Speaker 16: There's so many issues. But if a couple, if both.
• 1:48:10
  Speaker 18: Parties want it and they're willing to work at it,
• 1:48:13
  Speaker 18: to me, that's where the hope lies. I have seen
• 1:48:16
  Speaker 18: situations where there's so much damage, there's been so many
• 1:48:19
  Speaker 18: betrayals and injuries, but both people want it. In fact,
• 1:48:22
  Speaker 18: I got a text message last night from a former
• 1:48:25
  Speaker 18: client saying, it's our ten year anniversary. They've moved out
• 1:48:29
  Speaker 18: of state. We're renewing our vals. Thank you so much
• 1:48:32
  Speaker 18: for what you did. You saved our marriage. We were
• 1:48:35
  Speaker 18: on the brink of divorce, and of course I didn't
• 1:48:37
  Speaker 18: do it. They did the work I facilitated. But there
• 1:48:39
  Speaker 18: are times when I think this is a hot mess,
• 1:48:42
  Speaker 18: and then it comes back what I cannot do anything
• 1:48:45
  Speaker 18: with is when one person is really really checked out
• 1:48:49
  Speaker 18: and they're kind of dragged to therapy because they think
• 1:48:52
  Speaker 18: they should or their partners made them come and this.
• 1:48:54
  Speaker 4: Happened, or they just want to be able to say
• 1:48:57
  Speaker 4: they did it yes.
• 1:48:58
  Speaker 7: Or even worse, they're just going because they're waiting for
• 1:49:02
  Speaker 7: you to get fixed because it's not me.
• 1:49:05
  Speaker 5: I'm not the problem, right, And that doesn't work.
• 1:49:07
  Speaker 16: That doesn't work.
• 1:49:08
  Speaker 18: Both people have to really say, Okay, I think you're
• 1:49:10
  Speaker 18: the problem, but okay, I'm willing to look at me,
• 1:49:12
  Speaker 18: but no, you're the Probably it's a messy process, but
• 1:49:14
  Speaker 18: if you're not really wanting the really you don't have
• 1:49:17
  Speaker 18: to be sure it will work.
• 1:49:18
  Speaker 16: I think most people feel some ambivalence, but you have
• 1:49:21
  Speaker 16: to be willing to really try. And I think you
• 1:49:23
  Speaker 16: still have to love your spouse.
• 1:49:25
  Speaker 18: This is why emotional connection and why I'm saying lean
• 1:49:28
  Speaker 18: into conflict, but do it well, because that's what creates
• 1:49:32
  Speaker 18: the emotional connection. When the connection's gone, it's very hard
• 1:49:36
  Speaker 18: to resuscitate.
• 1:49:37
  Speaker 4: What's your schedule like today? My schedule yea, yea yeah.
• 1:49:40
  Speaker 16: Oh I only saw one client today.
• 1:49:42
  Speaker 3: Yeah, okay, are you open for a little bit I mean,
• 1:49:44
  Speaker 3: what I'm saying is we have trivia, but I would
• 1:49:46
  Speaker 3: love to keep you around for another segment because we're
• 1:49:48
  Speaker 3: we're out of the time that we have allotted for you.
• 1:49:49
  Speaker 9: Yeah.
• 1:49:49
  Speaker 16: Yeah, I thought you meant am I going back to therapy?
• 1:49:52
  Speaker 2: Yeah?
• 1:49:52
  Speaker 3: No, if you can you stick around little bit totally okay,
• 1:49:54
  Speaker 3: So we do trivia and then we come back at
• 1:49:56
  Speaker 3: the top of the hourard six o'clock and we can
• 1:49:57
  Speaker 3: do a little bit more.
• 1:49:58
  Speaker 4: Are you okay with that? Thanks for hanging out.
• 1:50:00
  Speaker 3: I appreciate that. Call up fair here with us. She's
• 1:50:01
  Speaker 3: gonna do another segment at the top of the hour.
• 1:50:03
  Speaker 3: If you have a question, man, shoot it over seven
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  Speaker 3: seven zero three one. That's our texting service. We're getting
• 1:50:07
  Speaker 3: tons of them, so I'm gonna review these during the
• 1:50:09
  Speaker 3: break and then we'll ask call it some questions. Because
• 1:50:11
  Speaker 3: I want to get into sex, okay, all right, And
• 1:50:14
  Speaker 3: I mean, you know, not with anybody in the room,
• 1:50:16
  Speaker 3: but I want to get into the physical nature relationships
• 1:50:19
  Speaker 3: and the impact of that when it's there too much
• 1:50:22
  Speaker 3: and they're not enough. And if you, as a therapist,
• 1:50:25
  Speaker 3: can tell if somebody still has a physical relationship, if
• 1:50:28
  Speaker 3: their emotional relationship, can make it through and vice versa.
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  Speaker 4: I love it all right, we'll do that in just
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  Speaker 4: twenty minutes. Load them up.
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  Speaker 3: On this day in nineteen sixty eight, celebrity chef, author,
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  Speaker 3: television personality and.
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  Speaker 5: Host Guy Fieria has his own.
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  Speaker 4: Distinct look and he's the mayor of Flavor Town. Guy
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  Speaker 4: Fieri was born on this day. Here are three fun
• 1:53:04
  Speaker 4: facts about Guy and one triple fried lie. All right,
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  Speaker 4: so we're talking about Guy Fieri. Which one of these
• 1:53:10
  Speaker 4: is not true?
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  Speaker 3: Number one, he used to raise peacocks on his California
• 1:53:14
  Speaker 3: ranch to handle the rattlesnak population. Number two, guy Fieri
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  Speaker 3: used to compete in the rodeo. He actually broke his
• 1:53:20
  Speaker 3: arm after being thrown off of a bowl. Number three,
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  Speaker 3: his first shot at the food business was a pretzel cart.
• 1:53:26
  Speaker 3: He started at just ten years old. Or lastly, he
• 1:53:30
  Speaker 3: does not eat eggs or sushie, which of those is
• 1:53:33
  Speaker 3: a lie? Number three, No, that's absolutely true. He did
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  Speaker 3: take the first shot of his food business. At ten
• 1:53:41
  Speaker 3: years old, he had his very own pretzel cart, smart
• 1:53:45
  Speaker 3: and did.
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  Speaker 4: Quite well with it. I'll tell you more about that
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  Speaker 4: a little bit later. All right, One or excuse me, two?
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  Speaker 4: Three or five? Let's go to two. Is John John
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  Speaker 4: How you doing, Buddy good? Jim good, buddy.
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  Speaker 3: We're talking about Guy Fieri here. Which one of these
• 1:53:59
  Speaker 3: is not true? Route number one?
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  Speaker 4: He used to raise peacocks on his California ranch to
• 1:54:02
  Speaker 4: handle the rattlestink population.
• 1:54:04
  Speaker 3: Number two, Guy Faery used to compete in rodeos. He
• 1:54:06
  Speaker 3: actually broke his arm after being thrown off a bull.
• 1:54:09
  Speaker 3: Or lastly, he does not eat eggs or sushi.
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  Speaker 20: Let's go number two.
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  Speaker 3: No, that's absolutely true. As a kid, he rode in
• 1:54:18
  Speaker 3: the rodeo and actually defied his parents to do it
• 1:54:20
  Speaker 3: because he wanted to do it. And when he went
• 1:54:22
  Speaker 3: to the rodeo, he wrote a bull, the bull throw
• 1:54:24
  Speaker 3: him off, and it broke his arm. And then he
• 1:54:26
  Speaker 3: hid the broken arm from his parents for as long
• 1:54:27
  Speaker 3: as he could.
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  Speaker 5: He gonna say, don't want to tell mom and dad
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  Speaker 5: about that.
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  Speaker 4: He showed them. Yeah, all right, deb three or five?
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  Speaker 5: Let's go three.
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  Speaker 4: Three is Chris Chris how you doing.
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  Speaker 3: Man, good, buddy, you got a fifty to fifty shot
• 1:54:41
  Speaker 3: here going to the Jackie Sack.
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  Speaker 4: We're talking about Guy Fieri. Which one of these isn't true?
• 1:54:46
  Speaker 3: Number one he used to raise peacocks on his California
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  Speaker 3: ranch to handle the rattlestink population.
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  Speaker 4: Or lastly, he doesn't eat eggs or sushi.
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  Speaker 8: Was first one.
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  Speaker 3: No, that's absolutely true. Yeah, yeah, So that means, Lynnette,
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  Speaker 3: how you doing.
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  Speaker 12: I'm doing great.
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  Speaker 4: You're doing great. Now tell me if it's true he
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  Speaker 4: does not eat eggs or sushi.
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  Speaker 5: That's a lot.
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  Speaker 17: That is a lot.
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  Speaker 4: It's funny. That's a bit of a swerve. But for
• 1:55:16
  Speaker 4: years that was part of his thing. He did not
• 1:55:19
  Speaker 4: eat eggs.
• 1:55:19
  Speaker 3: He actually does eat egs occasionally now, and he eats
• 1:55:22
  Speaker 3: sushi all the time, so it's definitely not true. A
• 1:55:24
  Speaker 3: couple other things you may not know about Guy Faery
• 1:55:26
  Speaker 3: before we get at the top of the hour and
• 1:55:27
  Speaker 3: a little bit more time with Collette Fair Here, he
• 1:55:29
  Speaker 3: saved all of his money from the pretzel cart for
• 1:55:32
  Speaker 3: six years so that he could pay for his own
• 1:55:37
  Speaker 3: trip to Paris, France.
• 1:55:38
  Speaker 4: To go to cooking school at sixteen years old.
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  Speaker 5: Wow, that's when you know, you know your life's passion.
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  Speaker 3: If anybody ever crashes on Guy Faery in front of you,
• 1:55:47
  Speaker 3: you let him know. Yeah, he may be a little goofy,
• 1:55:50
  Speaker 3: but that dude has got mad respect in the food business.
• 1:55:52
  Speaker 4: It didn't start out that way though, but.
• 1:55:54
  Speaker 3: A bunch of people came around on him and realized
• 1:55:56
  Speaker 3: what a good person he was and then really kind
• 1:55:58
  Speaker 3: of doubled down on, you know, helping him out. Guy
• 1:56:01
  Speaker 3: owns and operates how many restaurants worldwide?
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  Speaker 5: Eighty six, one hundred and twenty four?
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  Speaker 8: What do you think?
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  Speaker 16: What like twenty two?
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  Speaker 4: Yeah?
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, Jackson closest ninety what Yeah, he's actually got a
• 1:56:14
  Speaker 3: bunch on cruise ships.
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  Speaker 4: Wow.
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  Speaker 16: Okay, see I didn't even think that.
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  Speaker 3: And the funny thing is Carnival wanted him as part
• 1:56:20
  Speaker 3: of their brand so bad. They wanted to do a
• 1:56:22
  Speaker 3: barbecue restaurant. But that's where he started. Actually, he's a
• 1:56:25
  Speaker 3: championship barbecue guy, right, And he said, I won't do
• 1:56:28
  Speaker 3: it because you're not gonna be able to do it
• 1:56:29
  Speaker 3: the way it's supposed to be done. So they say, well,
• 1:56:31
  Speaker 3: we'll build a smoker on our boat, something we've never
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  Speaker 3: done before.
• 1:56:35
  Speaker 4: He goes, well, now, I'm interested.
• 1:56:36
  Speaker 3: Toured out there with him, met with Carnival, told him
• 1:56:38
  Speaker 3: exactly what they should do, and they built a smoker
• 1:56:41
  Speaker 3: on a cruise ship so that Guy Fiery could have
• 1:56:44
  Speaker 3: actual smoke food in.
• 1:56:45
  Speaker 4: His cruise ship barbecue joint. How about that and keep
• 1:56:48
  Speaker 4: it real?
• 1:56:48
  Speaker 3: And then lastly here his name is not Guy Fieri, really,
• 1:56:52
  Speaker 3: his name is Guy Ramsey Ferry.
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  Speaker 4: Fe r r Y.
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  Speaker 5: I see why he changed He changed.
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  Speaker 9: It to.
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  Speaker 4: To honor his grandfather's Italian heritage.
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  Speaker 5: I'm just sure that was why.
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  Speaker 12: I like it.
• 1:57:06
  Speaker 9: I like it.
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  Speaker 3: I've heard it pronounce it's actually d if you read
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  Speaker 3: how he says it, it's fetti.
• 1:57:12
  Speaker 4: Yeah, it's pronounced like.
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  Speaker 11: F E D d y.
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  Speaker 7: Why don't we ask the Italian New Yorker in the
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  Speaker 7: room how it should be pronounced.
• 1:57:19
  Speaker 4: We got her name, right, Well, yeah you did.
• 1:57:22
  Speaker 18: And I have my husband's German name, but my maiden
• 1:57:27
  Speaker 18: name was Yako Bellis with an I, and people don't
• 1:57:30
  Speaker 18: even believe it's Italian, but it's one hundred percent Italian.
• 1:57:33
  Speaker 18: I mean, I think once if you really were to
• 1:57:35
  Speaker 18: say it with the Italian accent there, it would be
• 1:57:38
  Speaker 18: more like that, right, But we tend to americanize everything.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, change the names.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, all right for seven nine, I got another keyword
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  Speaker 3: for for you now and a little bit more time
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  Speaker 3: of coll that fair.
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  Speaker 4: We'll do that next.
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  Speaker 5: How do you get a cyclone name Harry to wipe
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  Speaker 5: out her?
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  Speaker 8: Damn it?
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  Speaker 4: Sicily?
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  Speaker 8: You know?
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  Speaker 13: Does I don't know anything about Harry being Italian?
• 1:58:06
  Speaker 1: You know?
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  Speaker 5: Maybe a anthony?
• 1:58:07
  Speaker 8: Why you why?
• 1:58:08
  Speaker 4: Why you want to? Why you want to mess with Sicily?
• 1:58:11
  Speaker 5: Forget about it.
• 1:58:12
  Speaker 4: You're doing the wrong thing there, but Harry, forget it.
• 1:58:21
  Speaker 5: That's a little taste of weird for you on a Thursday.
• 1:58:23
  Speaker 3: Read the news that cyclone name Harry, and that's it
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  Speaker 7: I'm trying my best to avoid Welcome back on Jen,
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  Speaker 7: there's deb Hello.
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  Speaker 4: Jack is here as well.
• 1:58:45
  Speaker 3: Yeh and Collette Farris stuck around kindly for another segment.
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  Speaker 3: As we hang out, a couple's therapists and relationship expert
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  Speaker 3: talk about your book Real Quick.
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  Speaker 5: The Cost of Quiet Cost of Quiet.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, if you go to the real radio slash watch,
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  Speaker 3: I have it up right now. It's called the Cost
• 1:59:04
  Speaker 3: of Quiet. And the entire idea of this is how
• 1:59:07
  Speaker 3: to have hard conversations to create secure, lasting love. I
• 1:59:11
  Speaker 3: can tell you from experience that is absolutely the truth.
• 1:59:14
  Speaker 3: The easy path is never the right one.
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  Speaker 20: Yep.
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  Speaker 16: Short term discomfort for long term gain.
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  Speaker 8: Yeah.
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  Speaker 18: And the whole mission with the book is really to
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  Speaker 18: show people that we're all kind of conflict avoid at
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  Speaker 18: most of us, right, even if we're like hot tempered
• 1:59:27
  Speaker 18: when it comes to it, we don't really want to
• 1:59:29
  Speaker 18: be vulnerable because it's scary, it's uncomfortable.
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  Speaker 16: We're not used to it.
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  Speaker 18: Almost nobody grew up with parents who modeled healthy, constructive
• 1:59:37
  Speaker 18: conflict right right. But it would either sweeping under the
• 1:59:39
  Speaker 18: rug and avoid it, or like lose your temper and
• 1:59:42
  Speaker 18: then not talk for three days. So I really want
• 1:59:45
  Speaker 18: to make this easy for people and for people to
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  Speaker 18: realize that once you start to learn the formula for how,
• 1:59:51
  Speaker 18: and it starts with your internal connection to yourself, I
• 1:59:54
  Speaker 18: call it self connected communication. You need that clarity about
• 1:59:59
  Speaker 18: what you're actually to name your emotions, not your story,
• 2:00:03
  Speaker 18: not your projection.
• 2:00:04
  Speaker 16: And really get clear about what you.
• 2:00:05
  Speaker 18: Might need in the moment, often comfort, reassurance, to know
• 2:00:09
  Speaker 18: that your value, to know that you're desired, to know
• 2:00:11
  Speaker 18: that you're loved. Then you can come forward to your
• 2:00:13
  Speaker 18: partner in a way that feels safe, that creates connection
• 2:00:17
  Speaker 18: instead of more problems.
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  Speaker 3: So let me ask then, because that all sounds great,
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  Speaker 3: and I agree it does, right, Yeah, but what happens
• 2:00:24
  Speaker 3: when that instant doesn't work out? Like the book reads?
• 2:00:27
  Speaker 3: Like you read the book, you go, you know what,
• 2:00:29
  Speaker 3: this is hundred percent right, and by the way, it
• 2:00:31
  Speaker 3: is okay. And then I take all the things I've
• 2:00:34
  Speaker 3: learned from the book and I approach my loved one
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  Speaker 3: and I go, hey, listen in and talk for a second.
• 2:00:40
  Speaker 3: You know, I've read this book and it's opened my eyes.
• 2:00:42
  Speaker 3: I have been quiet about some things that you do
• 2:00:45
  Speaker 3: that have really caused some problems with me that I
• 2:00:47
  Speaker 3: think you need to know. It's not fair for me
• 2:00:48
  Speaker 3: to keep quiet because I think this is going to
• 2:00:51
  Speaker 3: cause a long term issue.
• 2:00:52
  Speaker 4: And I want you to know this.
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  Speaker 3: That person shares and then the other person does not
• 2:00:57
  Speaker 3: take it well, they react what we call a versely.
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  Speaker 8: What do you do?
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  Speaker 20: Then?
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  Speaker 18: Yeah, tell you, well, I do address this very thoroughly
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  Speaker 18: in the book, because this is the reality. You know,
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  Speaker 18: you can't guarantee even if you tee it up really
• 2:01:11
  Speaker 18: well and you're saying, hey, I'm coming to you because
• 2:01:12
  Speaker 18: I really care about the relations the world. Yes, and
• 2:01:16
  Speaker 18: your your tone of voices even and you're talking about
• 2:01:18
  Speaker 18: your own feelings. People are complicated, right they We all
• 2:01:21
  Speaker 18: have triggers. You might say something that inflames the other person. Yes,
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  Speaker 18: I call it the bad communication report card in the book.
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  Speaker 18: The most common responses that derail communication defensiveness, dismissiveness, distancing
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  Speaker 18: and fixing, three d's and an F. That's why I
• 2:01:38
  Speaker 18: call it a bad orport card. Right, it's the most
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  Speaker 18: common thing. You try to share something immediately the person
• 2:01:44
  Speaker 18: gets defensive.
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  Speaker 16: So this is going to happen right now. What I
• 2:01:48
  Speaker 16: will say is that if.
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  Speaker 18: You're really vulnerable and clear, you have a much better chance.
• 2:01:52
  Speaker 18: Because vulnerability does invite vulnerability.
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  Speaker 16: We have mirror neurons.
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  Speaker 18: So if you're really coming to someone without any armor
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  Speaker 18: and saying, you know, this hurt my feelings, it's a
• 2:02:01
  Speaker 18: lot harder to be like F you and right, it's
• 2:02:04
  Speaker 18: just not natural. But if your partner gets triggered right.
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  Speaker 18: First of all, that's their responsibility. It doesn't feel good,
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  Speaker 18: it's not ideal, and it is part of mature adult life.
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  Speaker 18: And in that case, you would say to your partner,
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  Speaker 18: you know, you might take a pause if they're triggered,
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  Speaker 18: and I don't mean triggered like a big trauma, I
• 2:02:21
  Speaker 18: just mean activated in the moment, and say, you know, listen,
• 2:02:24
  Speaker 18: I'm really trying to express this very clearly, but it
• 2:02:26
  Speaker 18: seems like I've hit a nerve. Let's take a break
• 2:02:29
  Speaker 18: and we'll try again. And if you're repeatedly this is
• 2:02:32
  Speaker 18: part of the mission of the book too. If you
• 2:02:34
  Speaker 18: are repeatedly doing everything on your side of the street,
• 2:02:37
  Speaker 18: to be clear, to be fair, to be honest, you're
• 2:02:40
  Speaker 18: not blaming, you're not criticizing, and your partner cannot or
• 2:02:43
  Speaker 18: will not meet you there, then that's valuable information with
• 2:02:47
  Speaker 18: which to make decisions.
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  Speaker 16: Yeah, it's not going to be any different if you
• 2:02:50
  Speaker 16: don't say it.
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  Speaker 4: Right, it won't change it all.
• 2:02:52
  Speaker 3: That's the one thing that's kind of I think that
• 2:02:53
  Speaker 3: maybe is the hardest lesson to learn is either way,
• 2:02:57
  Speaker 3: it's going to wind up in the same spot. So
• 2:02:59
  Speaker 3: you might as well go ahead and take your shot,
• 2:03:01
  Speaker 3: because you know where that road ends to begin with. Yeah,
• 2:03:04
  Speaker 3: this is the only opportunity to create a fork that
• 2:03:06
  Speaker 3: one of you, you know, that you can take and
• 2:03:08
  Speaker 3: you know, and move toward a different path.
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  Speaker 16: I believe exactly.
• 2:03:11
  Speaker 18: And you know, it's really hard to face that reality
• 2:03:15
  Speaker 18: if somebody just isn't emotionally available at all. Some people
• 2:03:18
  Speaker 18: aren't they've been too wounded. You know, there are personality factors.
• 2:03:23
  Speaker 18: Some people are so scared of conflict. They just you know,
• 2:03:27
  Speaker 18: no matter what you say or how you say it,
• 2:03:29
  Speaker 18: they don't feel good about themselves.
• 2:03:31
  Speaker 3: And let me tell you something else too. What I've noticed,
• 2:03:33
  Speaker 3: and you know we're not talking about the reciprocal action
• 2:03:36
  Speaker 3: that happens with that. Here, this is what I've learned.
• 2:03:39
  Speaker 3: Like women like strong men. I know that women do
• 2:03:42
  Speaker 3: like men that are decisive and they have and they're strong, right,
• 2:03:45
  Speaker 3: And I think what happens is this is because this
• 2:03:48
  Speaker 3: has happened to me before.
• 2:03:49
  Speaker 4: And I'll tell you that.
• 2:03:50
  Speaker 3: And obviously in my life I've done things that you
• 2:03:52
  Speaker 3: can look at and go okay, well, relatively decisive, can
• 2:03:55
  Speaker 3: make decisions, can move through in life, can do the
• 2:03:57
  Speaker 3: things that need to be done to get the job done.
• 2:03:58
  Speaker 3: Blah blah blah blah. Right, I've got I've got the
• 2:04:00
  Speaker 3: receipts to show that I can do that.
• 2:04:02
  Speaker 9: Right.
• 2:04:02
  Speaker 3: But in that same sense, if I don't want conflict
• 2:04:06
  Speaker 3: with my wife and she's doing something that I don't
• 2:04:08
  Speaker 3: care for, the more that I don't say it and
• 2:04:11
  Speaker 3: I and then I simp to it, the less respect
• 2:04:14
  Speaker 3: you get from that woman because she kind of feels
• 2:04:16
  Speaker 3: that something isn't right, but she wants you to say it.
• 2:04:19
  Speaker 3: If you don't say it, she's going to lose respect
• 2:04:21
  Speaker 3: for you. She was not going to look at you
• 2:04:23
  Speaker 3: the same way if you don't do that.
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  Speaker 16: I love that. It's so true. It is one You
• 2:04:27
  Speaker 16: feel it instinctively.
• 2:04:28
  Speaker 4: You know it for a fact.
• 2:04:29
  Speaker 3: I could, and every dude out there listening to me
• 2:04:32
  Speaker 3: knows it. You ignore it, you know it for a fact.
• 2:04:34
  Speaker 3: It's the way she talks to you as she looks
• 2:04:36
  Speaker 3: at you, the way she reacts when when something happens
• 2:04:38
  Speaker 3: in the house that it doesn't it isn't the way
• 2:04:40
  Speaker 3: it's supposed to be, and what's happening is is the
• 2:04:44
  Speaker 3: more that you ginflect to that mindset of not being
• 2:04:49
  Speaker 3: confrontational for the sake of peace. What you're doing is
• 2:04:52
  Speaker 3: is you're showing a great weakness that women can't stand.
• 2:04:55
  Speaker 18: It's so true, and it builds resentment. It does all sides,
• 2:04:58
  Speaker 18: which is poison. It's drinking poison and expecting someone else
• 2:05:02
  Speaker 18: to die. I mean one thing that I would say,
• 2:05:04
  Speaker 18: I see in therapy that men really don't believe until
• 2:05:08
  Speaker 18: they experience it. But every time, even if it's a criticism,
• 2:05:12
  Speaker 18: a complaint, and dissatisfaction, every time, in fourteen years I've
• 2:05:15
  Speaker 18: been doing this a man, I can help someone get
• 2:05:18
  Speaker 18: underneath all the stuff, the thoughts that the surface stuff,
• 2:05:23
  Speaker 18: and get into their feelings and they actually turn to
• 2:05:25
  Speaker 18: their partner, let's say their wife, and share what they're feeling,
• 2:05:29
  Speaker 18: and they're vulnerable.
• 2:05:30
  Speaker 16: Every time.
• 2:05:31
  Speaker 18: The wife loves it, even if it's a criticism of
• 2:05:34
  Speaker 18: her or something they're upset.
• 2:05:36
  Speaker 16: They are like, oh my god, I've been waiting for
• 2:05:38
  Speaker 16: this my whole life.
• 2:05:39
  Speaker 4: You actually told me something.
• 2:05:42
  Speaker 16: About your inner world.
• 2:05:43
  Speaker 4: They're so excited, you can't imagine.
• 2:05:46
  Speaker 3: I've had a couple of epiphanies like that over the
• 2:05:48
  Speaker 3: last couple of years in my relationship. As you know,
• 2:05:50
  Speaker 3: as you get together and you've been at it, for
• 2:05:52
  Speaker 3: twenty years, you grow and learn. Mixed Mixed families aren't
• 2:05:55
  Speaker 3: easy either. So all of these things create stress points
• 2:05:58
  Speaker 3: that you have to deal with. And again, you you
• 2:06:01
  Speaker 3: you're I think your nature sometimes is to run and
• 2:06:04
  Speaker 3: hide and protect yourself. Yes, you know, and and of
• 2:06:07
  Speaker 3: course you can't do head in a marriage.
• 2:06:09
  Speaker 4: And if you want to, where are you gonna run
• 2:06:11
  Speaker 4: and hide?
• 2:06:12
  Speaker 3: You're in a marriage. Man, you know you've made the commitment.
• 2:06:15
  Speaker 3: So yeah, all that stuff is completely valid, one hundred percent.
• 2:06:18
  Speaker 3: I've experienced most of it.
• 2:06:19
  Speaker 16: So me too, Me too.
• 2:06:20
  Speaker 18: You know, I lived this myself, and my first marriage
• 2:06:23
  Speaker 18: was a disaster. And I looked at the role I played,
• 2:06:26
  Speaker 18: which is that I didn't communicate. I didn't do my part.
• 2:06:29
  Speaker 16: And that's why I became a couple therapist to help people.
• 2:06:31
  Speaker 16: And really this is why I wrote the book.
• 2:06:33
  Speaker 3: Well, I did want to get into the physical aspect
• 2:06:34
  Speaker 3: of relationships, and we do get We did get a
• 2:06:36
  Speaker 3: bunch of questions.
• 2:06:37
  Speaker 4: When you ask me, careful because you will receive it.
• 2:06:40
  Speaker 4: Says here.
• 2:06:40
  Speaker 3: My husband and I've been married for five years. We
• 2:06:43
  Speaker 3: haven't been intimate. We've only been intimate for about three
• 2:06:45
  Speaker 3: times since then. He says, he just hasn't.
• 2:06:49
  Speaker 4: Really have a libido.
• 2:06:50
  Speaker 3: I've asked him to go the doctor and get his
• 2:06:51
  Speaker 3: testosterone check and it was very low. He's been trying
• 2:06:54
  Speaker 3: some stuff, but it isn't really working, and it's very,
• 2:06:56
  Speaker 3: very frustrating. Do you want to break it to her?
• 2:07:00
  Speaker 16: What were you going to break to her?
• 2:07:02
  Speaker 4: What would she say to that? I don't I don't
• 2:07:08
  Speaker 4: know if it's a libido thing. Like I think what
• 2:07:11
  Speaker 4: happens is this.
• 2:07:12
  Speaker 3: I know that you can get into a relationship that
• 2:07:14
  Speaker 3: gets so dysfunctional that you don't find the person attractive anymore.
• 2:07:19
  Speaker 16: That's very true, and I can happen, and I.
• 2:07:22
  Speaker 3: Think it can happen to the severity of being incapable
• 2:07:25
  Speaker 3: of physically having a physical relationship that you are so
• 2:07:29
  Speaker 3: turned out or off by your loved one because of whatever.
• 2:07:33
  Speaker 4: It doesn't matter.
• 2:07:34
  Speaker 3: Maybe you fell out of love, maybe you just found
• 2:07:36
  Speaker 3: something you don't care for, maybe you have stresses. But
• 2:07:39
  Speaker 3: sometimes it does happen that way.
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  Speaker 16: Oh, absolutely that does happen.
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  Speaker 18: But I will say this might not be that, like,
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  Speaker 18: it really could be a physical issue. I mean, one
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  Speaker 18: thing I've learned is that there's so many factors to
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  Speaker 16: So we don't know enough about what's going on with
• 2:07:57
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• 2:07:59
  Speaker 16: could be depressed, he could be a low libido individual
• 2:08:02
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  Speaker 18: He could be dissatisfied, he could be having an affair, right,
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  Speaker 18: I mean, we could go on and on, but I
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  Speaker 18: do think what I'd want to know is like, how
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  Speaker 18: this poor person is coping with this, because it's really
• 2:08:14
  Speaker 18: hard to be on the other side of that.
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  Speaker 4: She says, she's very frustrated.
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  Speaker 3: Of course, you imagine in five years you love a person,
• 2:08:20
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  Speaker 3: I mean that's I mean, that's infrequent, even in the
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  Speaker 6: Collect How would you rate Jimmy as a counselor immediately
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  Speaker 6: going to the worst case scenario?
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  Speaker 4: Well, let me, I didn't think of that.
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  Speaker 9: Jack.
• 2:08:42
  Speaker 4: Jack's better therapist than I am. He figured it out.
• 2:08:44
  Speaker 18: But actually it's probably not that because when that happens,
• 2:08:46
  Speaker 18: there's usually still sad.
• 2:08:47
  Speaker 9: Yeah.
• 2:08:48
  Speaker 3: But the reason I say that is this Jack, and
• 2:08:50
  Speaker 3: you know what, you make a good point, and you're right.
• 2:08:52
  Speaker 3: I probably went I probably came in a little hot
• 2:08:54
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  Speaker 4: Here's my thing. It's five years, dude.
• 2:08:56
  Speaker 3: Yeah, it's just a five year old relationship and they've
• 2:08:59
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• 2:09:02
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• 2:09:05
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• 2:09:06
  Speaker 16: But that's pretty extreme.
• 2:09:08
  Speaker 18: So this is where there could be a lot going
• 2:09:10
  Speaker 18: on with this guy physically, mentally, and emotionally that might
• 2:09:14
  Speaker 18: have nothing to do with the partner.
• 2:09:15
  Speaker 16: Okay, also not having I mean that's what we call.
• 2:09:17
  Speaker 18: A hyposexual relationship, which is technically defined as like less
• 2:09:22
  Speaker 18: than ten times a year. But I hate to pathologize
• 2:09:25
  Speaker 18: these things because one thing that I have discovered from
• 2:09:28
  Speaker 18: doing so much couples therapy is that a lot of
• 2:09:30
  Speaker 18: people aren't having sex. Now, it's a very important part
• 2:09:33
  Speaker 18: of a relationship. I have had a few couples where
• 2:09:36
  Speaker 18: they're not sexual for a variety of reasons, and they're
• 2:09:38
  Speaker 18: both content with it.
• 2:09:40
  Speaker 16: Sometimes there's a lot of trauma on both sides.
• 2:09:42
  Speaker 18: There's so many complications, But for the most part, most couples,
• 2:09:46
  Speaker 18: more than eighty five percent, are mismatched libido. One person
• 2:09:52
  Speaker 18: wants it a lot more than the other, and it's
• 2:09:54
  Speaker 18: not always the man. Sometimes it's the woman. So whether
• 2:09:57
  Speaker 18: it's five times in a year or twenty five times.
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  Speaker 18: Usually partners are not oh wit, not usually, but often
• 2:10:05
  Speaker 18: partners are not so aligned. And this is something that
• 2:10:09
  Speaker 18: back to communicating. The pathway to figuring out a robust
• 2:10:14
  Speaker 18: physically intimate life is really starting to be able to
• 2:10:18
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• 2:10:23
  Speaker 18: to most couples is they slowly stop having sex, where
• 2:10:26
  Speaker 18: they have it less often, they don't talk about it.
• 2:10:29
  Speaker 18: Then even the muscle for having sex atrophies, and then
• 2:10:32
  Speaker 18: it becomes like weird after a while, we haven't had
• 2:10:35
  Speaker 18: sex for six months. Now, nobody's approaching anyone. No one
• 2:10:39
  Speaker 18: wants to get rejected, and you can get frozen in
• 2:10:42
  Speaker 18: that place where you're not having sex at all, and
• 2:10:45
  Speaker 18: it can become and it doesn't sound like that's the
• 2:10:47
  Speaker 18: case here because they weren't having sex at the beginning,
• 2:10:49
  Speaker 18: but this is a huge problem.
• 2:10:51
  Speaker 3: You also start asking yourself question, you know, what's going
• 2:10:54
  Speaker 3: on with me? Are you having an affair? Are you
• 2:10:56
  Speaker 3: attracting somebody else? And then you start really having you
• 2:10:59
  Speaker 3: know again the worst case thoughts.
• 2:11:01
  Speaker 16: Yes, and can accept your confidence because.
• 2:11:03
  Speaker 3: As a man, obviously you know the idea that that's
• 2:11:07
  Speaker 3: part of a part of a relationship is being physical.
• 2:11:09
  Speaker 3: And if you, as a man, are trying to have
• 2:11:11
  Speaker 3: relationship with your wife and your wife doesn't seem to
• 2:11:13
  Speaker 3: be into it, you're not gonna go. Well, I guess
• 2:11:15
  Speaker 3: maybe her past is coming back to haunt a little bit.
• 2:11:17
  Speaker 3: The first thing you think is, oh, I'm a fat
• 2:11:19
  Speaker 3: piece of s and she doesn't want.
• 2:11:21
  Speaker 4: To sleep with me anymore. I mean, it's never anything else.
• 2:11:24
  Speaker 4: For dudes, Jack, are you on me? Are you with
• 2:11:26
  Speaker 4: me on this one?
• 2:11:27
  Speaker 9: Or no? Yes?
• 2:11:30
  Speaker 4: He doesn't even know what I'm saying now I do.
• 2:11:33
  Speaker 3: And yes to a guy, if you are getting it
• 2:11:37
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• 2:11:41
  Speaker 4: Yeah, it makes a blow to your ear.
• 2:11:43
  Speaker 5: And the same thing as that, the same thing as
• 2:11:45
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• 2:11:46
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  Speaker 16: I don't know time, I mean, if.
• 2:11:51
  Speaker 5: The sex that's desired and Chase staff right, So if.
• 2:11:54
  Speaker 18: Your partner is a man and you're a woman and
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• 2:11:58
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• 2:12:03
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• 2:12:13
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• 2:12:19
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• 2:12:21
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  Speaker 4: is our question of today, where do you guys go
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  Speaker 4: to your what's your favorite convenience store? And the reason
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  Speaker 4: I asked that is there was a study they did.
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  Speaker 3: It says the most satisfying convenience store in Florida. And
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  Speaker 3: I almost don't know what they mean by satisfying. I
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  Speaker 3: could just say that maybe every aspect of your visit
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  Speaker 3: is good.
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  Speaker 7: Jack, tell them what's the most satisfying there? You go,
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  Speaker 7: you think Wawa is I mean their breakfast sandwiches. I
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  Speaker 7: don't actually go to wahwas very you know, very often. Yeah,
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  Speaker 7: but it's an experience.
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  Speaker 4: That case say.
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  Speaker 6: They just I mean, the quality of the food for
• 2:17:54
  Speaker 6: a convenience store is fantastic. If you are one of
• 2:17:57
  Speaker 6: the reasons it's so loved.
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  Speaker 3: If you were to ask me, I would say I
• 2:18:00
  Speaker 3: would say probably my favorite. And I guess say it's weird.
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  Speaker 3: It's it's favorite. Is always odd with convenience stores because
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  Speaker 3: it's in the name. It's like, what's there? You know,
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  Speaker 3: I'm not going to drive an extra seven miles to
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  Speaker 3: have a racetrack experience, not because I don't have anything
• 2:18:15
  Speaker 3: against racetrack.
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  Speaker 4: It's just that most convenience stores are the same.
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  Speaker 3: But I will tell you what you guys are saying
• 2:18:20
  Speaker 3: about wah Wah is exactly the case, because if I
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  Speaker 3: need gas and I'm a little hungry, I will drive
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  Speaker 3: past other stores and go straight to wah Wah because
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  Speaker 3: I do believe, like you guys say that their food
• 2:18:30
  Speaker 3: is the absolute best.
• 2:18:30
  Speaker 4: I mean, it's like a little restaurant there. It is.
• 2:18:32
  Speaker 6: I always color you know that destination dining. It is
• 2:18:38
  Speaker 6: like you could go there just for food. You don't
• 2:18:40
  Speaker 6: need gas. It's not that you need a convenience store.
• 2:18:43
  Speaker 6: You can go there just to get something easy.
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  Speaker 3: And I've seen that happen, the one that's right up
• 2:18:46
  Speaker 3: here off seventeen ninety two Jack on the way to
• 2:18:48
  Speaker 3: your house. I've seen people on those tables outside, like
• 2:18:51
  Speaker 3: show up for dinner time, get a sub and sit
• 2:18:54
  Speaker 3: there and have dinner like kids doing homework, just like
• 2:18:57
  Speaker 3: they're at somewhere else.
• 2:18:58
  Speaker 6: Plus they're coffee their whole coffee situation. Yeah, it's pretty
• 2:19:02
  Speaker 6: good at a reasonable price.
• 2:19:04
  Speaker 4: If you have the app.
• 2:19:05
  Speaker 3: They usually have perks and stuff where you can get deals.
• 2:19:09
  Speaker 3: It's uh, it's good.
• 2:19:10
  Speaker 5: I like it.
• 2:19:11
  Speaker 8: Yeah.
• 2:19:11
  Speaker 3: The American Customer Satisfaction Index has released the latest scores
• 2:19:15
  Speaker 3: for customer satisfaction and convenience stores nationwide. Uh, and and
• 2:19:19
  Speaker 3: a lot of people say, you guys are missing one
• 2:19:21
  Speaker 3: that's not even come up now. It said nationwide. But
• 2:19:23
  Speaker 3: the funny thing is it says, uh it said the
• 2:19:25
  Speaker 3: most in Florida. But it's kind of funny because the
• 2:19:28
  Speaker 3: list actually is, I believe the national list. And the
• 2:19:32
  Speaker 3: reason why I say that is because I'm not familiar
• 2:19:34
  Speaker 3: with Like, I'm not familiar with the one that won, Like,
• 2:19:38
  Speaker 3: I've not heard of it before. Can't tell you until
• 2:19:41
  Speaker 3: you tell you, Yeah, I don't. Have you ever heard
• 2:19:43
  Speaker 3: a Quick Trip?
• 2:19:45
  Speaker 5: Oh that does sound.
• 2:19:48
  Speaker 4: Yeah, quick Trip.
• 2:19:49
  Speaker 3: Apparently is the winner. Quick Trip with eighty they had
• 2:19:52
  Speaker 3: the eighty four score out of one hundred. Have you
• 2:19:56
  Speaker 3: ever heard of a company called Sheets? Yes, ag Etz,
• 2:20:01
  Speaker 3: I just I went to one in Pennsylvania and it
• 2:20:03
  Speaker 3: was yeah, next level.
• 2:20:05
  Speaker 4: They like hot nuts, Yeah, bar you can buy that.
• 2:20:07
  Speaker 4: It was great.
• 2:20:08
  Speaker 3: Yeah, Wala comes in number three nationally she does yeah,
• 2:20:18
  Speaker 3: yeah she So it's Wallac comes in number three. Now
• 2:20:21
  Speaker 3: they tied with Sheets with the overall score.
• 2:20:24
  Speaker 9: Yeah.
• 2:20:24
  Speaker 3: But the one that really shocked everybody that wasn't at
• 2:20:27
  Speaker 3: the top was seven eleven BUCkies. Oh dude, everybody was
• 2:20:31
  Speaker 3: freaking out that BUCkies didn't make it. Seven eleven is
• 2:20:34
  Speaker 3: so far down on the.
• 2:20:35
  Speaker 4: List, dude.
• 2:20:36
  Speaker 6: It's the oldest, I think, right, I don't know, but
• 2:20:40
  Speaker 6: so is BUCkies. It's a convenience store on steroids. But
• 2:20:47
  Speaker 6: are they prevalent enough and are they.
• 2:20:50
  Speaker 7: Con I mean they're satisfying to the traveler who wants
• 2:20:53
  Speaker 7: a wall of jerky yeah and beaver nuts.
• 2:20:56
  Speaker 6: It seems like more than the convenience store is like
• 2:20:59
  Speaker 6: quick off the road, you know, it's it's convenient.
• 2:21:01
  Speaker 4: Yeah.
• 2:21:02
  Speaker 3: In other words, you gotta get on a highway to
• 2:21:03
  Speaker 3: go to a BUCkies, right yeah, or get off the highway, yeah,
• 2:21:07
  Speaker 3: get one of the you know.
• 2:21:08
  Speaker 6: It's just when you pull into a BUCkies you're doing
• 2:21:12
  Speaker 6: a little driving because you got to get around one
• 2:21:14
  Speaker 6: hundred gas pumps, right exactly, you know, and then you're
• 2:21:17
  Speaker 6: gonna walk.
• 2:21:17
  Speaker 4: A little from the car. It just seems more like
• 2:21:19
  Speaker 4: you're going to a Walmart, yeah, than you are seven Elive.
• 2:21:22
  Speaker 3: Because it's like a home goods with gas and food.
• 2:21:24
  Speaker 3: Because I mean it's got They got clothing, They.
• 2:21:27
  Speaker 4: Have like Christmas ornaments, they have all kinds of stuff,
• 2:21:30
  Speaker 4: public cressrooms you're gonna find oh yeah, it's crazy loves
• 2:21:33
  Speaker 4: is up there.
• 2:21:34
  Speaker 3: Now that's a truck stop. Yeah, that's not a convenience store.
• 2:21:36
  Speaker 3: That's kind of weird. And the ones that I think
• 2:21:38
  Speaker 3: you'll recognize here. Racetrack tied for number seven. Yeah, and
• 2:21:43
  Speaker 3: I think Racetrack does a good job.
• 2:21:44
  Speaker 4: Yeah. Ex on mobile stations they came, they tied for seventh.
• 2:21:49
  Speaker 4: And the thing that kills me the most is, man,
• 2:21:51
  Speaker 4: how does how does seven eleven come in seventeenth?
• 2:21:55
  Speaker 7: I think, like Jack said, because they're the oldest the least.
• 2:21:58
  Speaker 7: I mean, the only thing really that seven eleven is
• 2:22:02
  Speaker 7: kind of up their game on in the last several
• 2:22:04
  Speaker 7: years has been the coffee that they offer. And it's
• 2:22:06
  Speaker 7: still not coffee like you go to a I mean,
• 2:22:09
  Speaker 7: you can get a really great breakfast sandwich at Wah
• 2:22:11
  Speaker 7: Wah that isn't rolling on rollers.
• 2:22:13
  Speaker 4: Yeah. I think that's where.
• 2:22:14
  Speaker 3: I think that is where seven eleven has fallen behind,
• 2:22:17
  Speaker 3: because they're still kind of relying on that small food
• 2:22:19
  Speaker 3: bar thing that they have and everybody else is just
• 2:22:22
  Speaker 3: kind of diving into the full blown experiences of you know,
• 2:22:25
  Speaker 3: fresh soup, salads, you know, homemade subs, hot or cold.
• 2:22:28
  Speaker 3: I mean, all of that's there in the same footprint.
• 2:22:31
  Speaker 3: That's the crazy part. Like in the same exact like
• 2:22:33
  Speaker 3: square footage. Other stores are turning out fresh food and
• 2:22:36
  Speaker 3: seven eleven is doing like, you know, pizza's been sitting
• 2:22:39
  Speaker 3: there for a while, and you know, hot dog rollers.
• 2:22:41
  Speaker 5: Hey, landscapers like to eat something, you know, the tiqitos.
• 2:22:44
  Speaker 3: And I'm not even slamming it because I'll tell you
• 2:22:46
  Speaker 3: I lived on seven eleven hot dogs for a while.
• 2:22:48
  Speaker 3: But the problem is is they just got lapped, like
• 2:22:52
  Speaker 3: the game just lapped them. You know, when they when
• 2:22:54
  Speaker 3: they brought wabah in to town. My wife had experienced
• 2:22:56
  Speaker 3: a wah wah while traveling before, and I said, and
• 2:22:59
  Speaker 3: I remember the story because I was going to talk
• 2:23:01
  Speaker 3: about it, and I'm like, have you ever heard of
• 2:23:02
  Speaker 3: wah wah? And dude, she snapped around like Linda Blair.
• 2:23:05
  Speaker 3: She's like, where are they coming? And I'm like, well,
• 2:23:07
  Speaker 3: they're building a wah wah And I forget where it was.
• 2:23:09
  Speaker 3: I want to say it was the one they built
• 2:23:10
  Speaker 3: on Lee Road and Silver Star. That thing's been there forever.
• 2:23:13
  Speaker 6: There's one a little further their south because I was
• 2:23:16
  Speaker 6: there for their ten year annivers Oh really, yeah, I
• 2:23:19
  Speaker 6: got to do that. So it's been a little over
• 2:23:21
  Speaker 6: ten years that you know, they've been around twelve thirteen years. Yeah,
• 2:23:26
  Speaker 6: And she told me, she goes, she says, wait till
• 2:23:28
  Speaker 6: you go into one of these things, you're not going
• 2:23:30
  Speaker 6: to believe how good the food is.
• 2:23:32
  Speaker 4: I literally mocked her. She goes.
• 2:23:34
  Speaker 3: And by the way, their atm doesn't charge charges. Like
• 2:23:37
  Speaker 3: that's another thing for them. If you go to their atm,
• 2:23:39
  Speaker 3: there is no there can't get cash back there. So
• 2:23:42
  Speaker 3: their atm does not charge you a fee, so you
• 2:23:44
  Speaker 3: can get you can get money with no fee.
• 2:23:47
  Speaker 7: I know that when people in the northeast heard that
• 2:23:50
  Speaker 7: wahwas were opening, it was like a new Chick fil A.
• 2:23:53
  Speaker 8: Yeah.
• 2:23:53
  Speaker 5: People would be sleeping out in front and they're real lying.
• 2:23:56
  Speaker 4: Oh yeah.
• 2:23:56
  Speaker 7: Because that was a huge deal up in the northeast,
• 2:24:00
  Speaker 7: Wahwah started moving down south.
• 2:24:02
  Speaker 5: All of the transplants were like, yes.
• 2:24:04
  Speaker 4: Real wah Wah. Yeah.
• 2:24:06
  Speaker 3: And Cumberland Farms is even lower than seven eleven. But
• 2:24:09
  Speaker 3: I think they're owned by the same company, aren't they.
• 2:24:12
  Speaker 3: I thought seven eleven and Cumberland Farms were owned by
• 2:24:14
  Speaker 3: the same company at Southland at one point I believe
• 2:24:16
  Speaker 3: owned seven eleven. I don't know if they still own them. Yeah,
• 2:24:19
  Speaker 3: I'm not using the NAP to order food at either
• 2:24:21
  Speaker 3: one of those two joints, but I will do it
• 2:24:23
  Speaker 3: at Wahwah. Yeah, yeah, for sure, that's crazy. Marathon is
• 2:24:26
  Speaker 3: down there as well. Shell stations, but those are all
• 2:24:28
  Speaker 3: like gas stations that had to kind of acclimate to
• 2:24:32
  Speaker 3: offering some food products after the fact. I mean, they
• 2:24:34
  Speaker 3: weren't really built on the concept of, hey, we're going
• 2:24:37
  Speaker 3: to do both of these equally.
• 2:24:38
  Speaker 6: Well, my first experience with convenience stores, it was just
• 2:24:41
  Speaker 6: a convenience store. It didn't have gas. Oh really gas garden.
• 2:24:45
  Speaker 6: It's just you know, it was a seven eleven. You
• 2:24:48
  Speaker 6: pull in and you know, like a Garden State was
• 2:24:52
  Speaker 6: one we used to have up there in New Jersey,
• 2:24:54
  Speaker 6: which was the Garden State.
• 2:24:55
  Speaker 4: Was like a convenience store. You'd go there to get
• 2:24:57
  Speaker 4: your milk or or whatever. Ice.
• 2:25:00
  Speaker 3: Yeah, there was a locally owned chain up in North Florida,
• 2:25:03
  Speaker 3: either called Handyway or Jiffy I think it's both of those,
• 2:25:08
  Speaker 3: and it was the same thing.
• 2:25:09
  Speaker 4: They did not have gas.
• 2:25:10
  Speaker 3: They actually added the gas after the fact because all
• 2:25:13
  Speaker 3: the other stores started offering gasoline and it was more
• 2:25:16
  Speaker 3: than just a convenience store. And I also heard that
• 2:25:19
  Speaker 3: one of the reasons while I started doing this is
• 2:25:21
  Speaker 3: because the margin on gas is so low that even
• 2:25:24
  Speaker 3: if you have like thirty thirty pumps or whatever, you're
• 2:25:26
  Speaker 3: not really making as much money as you can make
• 2:25:28
  Speaker 3: inside the store when you're selling a soda for three
• 2:25:31
  Speaker 3: and a half dollars and it's costing you a nickel.
• 2:25:33
  Speaker 6: So one of my early jobs as I was a
• 2:25:36
  Speaker 6: petroleum dispersial engineer, I pump gas in New Jersey. Yeah,
• 2:25:41
  Speaker 6: because you have to right at a golf station. But
• 2:25:44
  Speaker 6: it was a garage, you know, it was a three
• 2:25:46
  Speaker 6: bay garage, and you know, we were a gas station.
• 2:25:49
  Speaker 13: That was it.
• 2:25:50
  Speaker 4: We weren't a convenience star.
• 2:25:52
  Speaker 6: We didn't sell anything else except I was trying to
• 2:25:54
  Speaker 6: sell you a quota oil for your car.
• 2:25:56
  Speaker 3: That's yeah, you were selling oil or anti freeze or
• 2:25:58
  Speaker 3: anything like that, right wiper blades.
• 2:26:00
  Speaker 4: Yeah, Yeah, that was it.
• 2:26:02
  Speaker 3: It's you know, and nowadays, where do you get gas
• 2:26:05
  Speaker 3: where it's not connected to a store where you can
• 2:26:07
  Speaker 3: buy just about everything else. Yeah, and even the small
• 2:26:10
  Speaker 3: stores like the one that we have up there where
• 2:26:11
  Speaker 3: it's that little shotgun store where you walk in it
• 2:26:14
  Speaker 3: just offers like sodas, water coffee, and it's really the footpt.
• 2:26:17
  Speaker 3: It's really small, like even those have you know, they're
• 2:26:20
  Speaker 3: offering that. But I remember Jack is right, there's a
• 2:26:23
  Speaker 3: company in there called Highway Oil I think.
• 2:26:25
  Speaker 4: And it was a full.
• 2:26:26
  Speaker 3: Service gas station and they didn't offer you could even
• 2:26:28
  Speaker 3: buy gum, and I had nothing else.
• 2:26:31
  Speaker 4: Nothing. It was just gas oil and stuff for your car.
• 2:26:34
  Speaker 4: That was it.
• 2:26:34
  Speaker 3: It was always full service. Yeah, convenience stores have come
• 2:26:38
  Speaker 3: a long way. Yeah, overall, Bucketing number five seventy nine
• 2:26:43
  Speaker 3: points tiling when Midwater a Midwestern gas giant loves, which
• 2:26:46
  Speaker 3: is kind of weird. They even throw Loves in there
• 2:26:48
  Speaker 3: because it's I mean, it is a convenience store, gas place,
• 2:26:52
  Speaker 3: but primarily built for truckers, is it not.
• 2:26:55
  Speaker 4: Yeah, that and Flying Jay and Pilot.
• 2:26:57
  Speaker 6: Yeah, but it's also I mean you could almost say
• 2:26:59
  Speaker 6: this saying for BUCkies.
• 2:27:01
  Speaker 3: Yeah, I guess you could, but I mean, you know,
• 2:27:02
  Speaker 3: it's just they got the you know, bat with showers,
• 2:27:07
  Speaker 3: but the wall of jerky. Yeah, but they also have
• 2:27:10
  Speaker 3: sometimes they have restaurants in them, like just you know,
• 2:27:14
  Speaker 3: small versions of other restaurants.
• 2:27:17
  Speaker 4: Or is pizza is seven eleven the only one that
• 2:27:20
  Speaker 4: offers pizza, like Wawa doesn't offer pizza, do they do?
• 2:27:24
  Speaker 5: They really?
• 2:27:25
  Speaker 8: Yeah?
• 2:27:25
  Speaker 3: Oh I didn't know that. I've never seen a pizza
• 2:27:26
  Speaker 3: and woah oh we did a whole campaign on its.
• 2:27:29
  Speaker 4: Yeah did we really? Couple years ago. I do not
• 2:27:31
  Speaker 4: remember it.
• 2:27:32
  Speaker 3: Even going in and getting subs. I always get their
• 2:27:35
  Speaker 3: Italian sub is like so good, and their bread is good.
• 2:27:38
  Speaker 6: Not every wah wah has pizza, has the pizza oven,
• 2:27:41
  Speaker 6: but they may have changed that because they've been go
• 2:27:43
  Speaker 6: through a process and the two around me they've just
• 2:27:47
  Speaker 6: finished is they've been renovating them where they close the
• 2:27:50
  Speaker 6: inside that you can still get gas, but they've changed
• 2:27:53
  Speaker 6: the you know, the kitchen and drink area and stuff.
• 2:27:56
  Speaker 6: So they've been like redoing these wah wahs.
• 2:27:59
  Speaker 4: And they have soup too, right they do.
• 2:28:01
  Speaker 3: Oh my god, I'm it's the corn chowder, baby, I'm
• 2:28:03
  Speaker 3: gonna stopping at a soup and sandwich thing. I think
• 2:28:05
  Speaker 3: I love their corn chowder, dude, it's so good, all right?
• 2:28:09
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• 2:28:13
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• 2:28:17
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• 2:28:18
  Speaker 5: I did I did.
• 2:28:19
  Speaker 4: I did commercials for their pizza on this show.
• 2:28:22
  Speaker 5: Yeah, that's right.
• 2:28:24
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  Speaker 20: Talking about fast food prices. My fiancee and I stopped
• 2:29:35
  Speaker 20: at Taco build the other night, it was late, we
• 2:29:37
  Speaker 20: were hungry, didn't play cooking, bought seven items, one of
• 2:29:40
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  Speaker 16: Twenty three damn dollars.
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  Speaker 20: In the bitches, I was still hungry when we got
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  Speaker 20: done eating. YEA, Luckily my fiance eats like a bird,
• 2:29:51
  Speaker 20: so I had half of one of her things. But
• 2:29:54
  Speaker 20: twenty three dollars for two people to leave hungry at
• 2:29:56
  Speaker 20: Taco Bell is ridiculous.
• 2:29:57
  Speaker 4: That is ridiculous.
• 2:30:00
  Speaker 5: I agree.
• 2:30:01
  Speaker 4: Welcome back to the Jim Colbert Show. We're already one
• 2:30:03
  Speaker 4: to four point one.
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  Speaker 8: I'm Jim.
• 2:30:05
  Speaker 3: There's deb Hello. Jack is here as well. Yeah, I'm
• 2:30:08
  Speaker 3: another keyword for you. At the top of the hour.
• 2:30:12
  Speaker 3: Jack and I like to urinate together. It happens we
• 2:30:15
  Speaker 3: do it a lot.
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  Speaker 4: You did work with someone for long enough you end
• 2:30:18
  Speaker 4: up on the same cycle. Are you familiar with that?
• 2:30:20
  Speaker 5: Who looks first?
• 2:30:22
  Speaker 4: Nobody looks.
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  Speaker 8: We don't need to look. We're men.
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  Speaker 4: We do have good conversations there.
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  Speaker 5: Your men, which means you obviously look. You got that
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  Speaker 5: a little flipped around.
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  Speaker 4: I do like the new watches. Worry though, thank you
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  Speaker 4: appreciate that. A all right, so I want to do
• 2:30:35
  Speaker 4: this real quick before we get to news because we
• 2:30:37
  Speaker 4: didn't get it to it today and we probably won't
• 2:30:39
  Speaker 4: cover it tomorrow.
• 2:30:39
  Speaker 3: Epcot's Garden Rocks Concert. You know, this is the season,
• 2:30:43
  Speaker 3: the festivals, the concert season. So we talked about the
• 2:30:46
  Speaker 3: Sea World Ones. I was like, that's a pretty impressive lineup.
• 2:30:49
  Speaker 3: Disney's like, hold my beer real quick. The music of Abba,
• 2:30:55
  Speaker 3: which is going to be a cover band doing Abba songs,
• 2:30:57
  Speaker 3: simple plan. Remember those guys, Jack, Yes, Billy Ocean is
• 2:31:02
  Speaker 3: going to be a wow. Hermans, Hermott's thirty eight special,
• 2:31:04
  Speaker 3: Chubby Checker, Sugar Ray Information Society.
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  Speaker 4: Remember those guys, Jack. I want to know.
• 2:31:11
  Speaker 3: Rick Springfield, Berlin, the Commodores Air Supply, Flock of Seagulls,
• 2:31:18
  Speaker 3: Plain White Tea's the Spinners, Queen's Rich is gonna be
• 2:31:24
  Speaker 3: there as well. I mean, it is a pretty crazy lineup. Man,
• 2:31:27
  Speaker 3: if you like music and you want to get close,
• 2:31:29
  Speaker 3: the one good thing I say one, there's a bunch
• 2:31:31
  Speaker 3: of them. But the really cool thing about a lot
• 2:31:33
  Speaker 3: of these smaller shows is you really get close.
• 2:31:36
  Speaker 8: To the artists.
• 2:31:37
  Speaker 3: So if you've been a fan of these artists and
• 2:31:38
  Speaker 3: when they were hot, you can only go to the
• 2:31:40
  Speaker 3: big arena shows and not get close. This allows you
• 2:31:43
  Speaker 3: to pay way less and get real close. And they
• 2:31:45
  Speaker 3: mix these shows perfectly. By the way, the sound systems
• 2:31:48
  Speaker 3: at these parts are as good as touring sound systems.
• 2:31:51
  Speaker 3: So you're gonna see them in their full regalia.
• 2:31:53
  Speaker 5: Nothing says Disney to me like Queen's right.
• 2:31:55
  Speaker 3: Oh yeah, man, yeah, yeah, yeah man. It's some cool stuff.
• 2:32:00
  Speaker 6: White the lineup from all three Disney Universal and see
• 2:32:03
  Speaker 6: what unbelievable this year.
• 2:32:05
  Speaker 4: They're saying, here's something to listen though.
• 2:32:07
  Speaker 3: Listen to this Eighties run right here, Rick Springfield, Berlin,
• 2:32:10
  Speaker 3: the Commodores. Yeah, like boom boom boom, three weeks in
• 2:32:12
  Speaker 3: a row. You can really live your entire eighties life
• 2:32:15
  Speaker 3: right there.
• 2:32:16
  Speaker 5: And still be home by ten, and.
• 2:32:17
  Speaker 4: Still be home by ten. You're right, Yeah, Sugar Ray
• 2:32:21
  Speaker 4: would be a good show.
• 2:32:22
  Speaker 3: They got a lot of good songs, and back when
• 2:32:23
  Speaker 3: they were like a punk man, I wonderf they're gonna
• 2:32:25
  Speaker 3: do any of that stuff like I mean.
• 2:32:27
  Speaker 4: They used to have.
• 2:32:28
  Speaker 3: I mean they were really hard before they kind of
• 2:32:30
  Speaker 3: turned pop and started doing Disney tunes. Firehouse is going
• 2:32:34
  Speaker 3: to be there as well. Very cool, all right, four
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  Speaker 3: seven nine one six four one dead.
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  Speaker 4: Let's get some news.
• 2:32:42
  Speaker 1: Good time for You heard it here first on The
• 2:32:45
  Speaker 1: Jim Colbert Show.
• 2:32:47
  Speaker 7: Former Uvaldi, Texas school police officer Adrian Gonzalez has been
• 2:32:51
  Speaker 7: found not guilty of failing to protect students during the
• 2:32:54
  Speaker 7: deadly twenty twenty two mass shooting at rob Elementary School.
• 2:32:58
  Speaker 5: Brett Cross, who's.
• 2:32:59
  Speaker 7: Ten year old son died in the shooting, says the
• 2:33:02
  Speaker 7: verdict is a slap in the face to families.
• 2:33:04
  Speaker 19: I thought, for us, that's with a second, maybe maybe
• 2:33:08
  Speaker 19: we might have just a little little bit of justice,
• 2:33:10
  Speaker 19: maybe just a touch of accountability.
• 2:33:13
  Speaker 1: Yeah, but that went away is as fast as a.
• 2:33:17
  Speaker 7: Game now it In all, the shooting left nineteen students
• 2:33:20
  Speaker 7: and two teachers dead. Yesterday's verdict followed about seven hours
• 2:33:24
  Speaker 7: of jury deliberations, capping a two week trial.
• 2:33:27
  Speaker 4: Yeah. I mean, he wonted the courtroom, but we know
• 2:33:28
  Speaker 4: where he really lost.
• 2:33:30
  Speaker 8: Well.
• 2:33:30
  Speaker 7: You know again, the only thing I could think when
• 2:33:33
  Speaker 7: I saw this headline is why are we spending money
• 2:33:36
  Speaker 7: on school resource officers? At the end of the day,
• 2:33:40
  Speaker 7: the ones with the gun didn't stop the bad guy
• 2:33:42
  Speaker 7: with the gun. That is money our school districts can't afford.
• 2:33:45
  Speaker 4: What are you there for it?
• 2:33:46
  Speaker 5: And if at the end you're going to be acquitted.
• 2:33:48
  Speaker 5: Then why why are you there?
• 2:33:49
  Speaker 4: Unbelievable.
• 2:33:50
  Speaker 7: This is a second case. First Parkland and now you've aaldi.
• 2:33:53
  Speaker 7: I don't understand it all right. Blue Origin is starting
• 2:33:57
  Speaker 7: a satellite communications network to rival Starline.
• 2:34:00
  Speaker 5: I guess they just want to cover all the sky.
• 2:34:02
  Speaker 4: Good look.
• 2:34:03
  Speaker 7: The space company founded by Amazon's Jeff Bezos, announced that
• 2:34:06
  Speaker 7: it will deploy over fifty four hundred satellites into Earth's
• 2:34:09
  Speaker 7: orbit for a communications network that will serve data centers, businesses,
• 2:34:13
  Speaker 7: and governments. Blue Origin says the satellite deployment will begin
• 2:34:17
  Speaker 7: in the last quarter of twenty twenty seven. And get this,
• 2:34:20
  Speaker 7: the new network will have quote data speeds of up
• 2:34:23
  Speaker 7: to six terabytes per second anywhere on Earth end quote.
• 2:34:29
  Speaker 7: The Jeff Bezos network, called Tero Wave, will compete with
• 2:34:33
  Speaker 7: Elon Musk's Starlink, which currently has about ten thousand satellites.
• 2:34:38
  Speaker 4: Yeah in low Earth orbit, I mean six terabytes a second.
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  Speaker 5: Wow, that sounds like almost undoable, right.
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  Speaker 6: And it's so they have to be replaced, right, So
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  Speaker 6: with Starlink it's ten thousand now, but since they started,
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  Speaker 6: they know.
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  Speaker 3: They've replaced some because they only have like an eight
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  Speaker 3: year cycle or something like that, and they fall out.
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  Speaker 6: Then if they now funk, then they burn up and
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  Speaker 6: they so they just keep putting them out there.
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  Speaker 4: It's amazing to me that this is making money.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, well the Starling should I mean, the subscriptions will
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  Speaker 3: definitely do that. But I mean, obviously they they must
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  Speaker 3: be money makers, because why would you build an entire
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  Speaker 3: business and launch more against the company that's already established, right.
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  Speaker 6: Or you want to be in control, to have that
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  Speaker 6: level of control. Like so the power right now that
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  Speaker 6: Starlink has anywhere in the world. Oh, they're fighting in
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  Speaker 6: Ukraine and they cut the power. Well, now I can
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  Speaker 6: give you internet. Oh yeah, how valuable. Oh my god,
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  Speaker 6: get out of here to any So what a terrible
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  Speaker 6: thought just to be able to provide internet to anyone
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  Speaker 6: in the world at your whim.
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  Speaker 4: Unbelievable.
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  Speaker 8: Yeah.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah.
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  Speaker 7: And the other thing too is it's you know, getting
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  Speaker 7: in the way of astronomers watching out for things that
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  Speaker 7: are you know, could be coming for the plant by
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  Speaker 7: the time you get the download.
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  Speaker 5: The whole time, exactly, all right.
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  Speaker 7: Sterling Heights, Michigan City Leader are approving a program to
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  Speaker 7: use drones as first responders Sterling Heights Police Captain Mario
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  Speaker 7: Bastianelli says they'll be able to send a drone to
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  Speaker 7: the location of an emergency to use the cameras as
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  Speaker 7: an eye in the sky. So City Council approved the
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  Speaker 7: five years, six hundred seventy nine thousand dollars program. They're
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  Speaker 7: going to have three drone docking stations throughout the city
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  Speaker 7: and an officer at the station will fly the drone
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  Speaker 7: from a computer depending on where the emergency is.
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  Speaker 4: Question of the day.
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  Speaker 6: Uh yeah, a little different than you asked. So I
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  Speaker 6: threw up which burgers do you prefer? Because we were
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  Speaker 6: talking about burgers. Yeah, time, it's fine, okay, McDonald's, Burger King,
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  Speaker 6: Wendy's are culvers.
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  Speaker 4: Oh is a clear winner, win a clear loser, and
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  Speaker 4: then the other two were you know, win Wendy's.
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  Speaker 6: Wendy's has twenty four percent and they tie with Burger
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  Speaker 6: King Culvers.
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  Speaker 4: Culver's had thirty seven percent. Yeah, it's a good burger.
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  Speaker 4: Donald's last place at sixteen.
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  Speaker 9: Wow.
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  Speaker 4: Yeahs a great burger.
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