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- 0:26If you're a Christian, do you have questions occasionally or maybe even often about whether you believe in the resurrection of Jesus Christ and if it's real?
- 0:36Or do you question does God even exist?
- 0:39Do your questions about Christianity feel like a crisis of faith?
- 0:43Many have doubts about what they've told and what they've learned.
- 0:47Today's guest, Pedro Garcia is a former atheist who helps skeptics pursue God.
- 0:53And the conversation explores taking our faith from our head to our heart.
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- 2:02Today's conversation is with Pedro Garcia, the outreach director of the Dominican Fellowship, a Christian church located in Nashville, Tennessee, that focuses on discipleship, community, and outreach to talk about his book for those who doubt, is it because of Jesus?
- 2:20Pedro, welcome so much to the Ten Penny Files.
- 2:23Thank you so much for joining me here today.
- 2:25Absolutely.
- 2:26Thank you for having me.
- 2:27And uh just to clarify the the name of the church is the Donaldson Fellowship.
- 2:33And it's fine because I know Dr.
- 2:35Timpenny, you're interviewing so many people, no worries at all.
- 2:39The the name of the church is the Donaldson Fellowship.
- 2:42But yeah.
- 2:44Yeah, what did I say?
- 2:45What did I say?
- 2:47The Dominican.
- 2:48Oh, yes.
- 2:49Well, thank you for clarifying that.
- 2:51So we got the right church in the right group there in Tennessee.
- 2:54Absolutely.
- 2:54Thank you for thank you for the clarification.
- 2:56I appreciate that.
- 2:57Oh, yeah.
- 2:58Your spiritual life went from being an atheist to a devout follower follower of Jesus.
- 3:04Your book describes that atheists all have different reasons for their non-belief in God.
- 3:10Why is it that they're those their opinions vary?
- 3:14Well, um, an interesting way to put this, uh, I mean, it's it's uh it's funny, it's a fun way to say it.
- 3:21Uh, it's that atheism has denominations.
- 3:25And yeah, well, it's it's just a way to communicate an idea that it's very simple.
- 3:30So if you become an atheist uh in a culture like let's say Spain or England or France, you're not going to be the same atheist because of uh how culture functions and the context, the social cultural context in your country and society.
- 3:47So um here in Tennessee's south of the United States, I would say in the United States in general, Christianity is more culturally expected.
- 4:01So when an atheist becomes when a person becomes an atheist in a let's let's say specifically in Tennessee, they're going to be people that in general will will know the Bible pretty well because uh their churches everywhere, and there's uh there's something about them in general always.
- 4:20We could I cannot generalize, but usually people become atheists in this culture because there's something emotionally happened to them and uh that you know it was hard, and then they spend lots of time to build walls around them, walls that usually are you know, the tendencies to build uh how do you say this?
- 4:48Uh intellectual shielding, which is just building intellectual arguments around the broken heart so that you look rational in your non-belief, but what you're doing is actually uh protecting a broken heart.
- 5:02So it depends on the person, of course.
- 5:04This is I'm overgeneralizing here, but in my 10 years having conversations with non-believers here in Nashville, that's a common uh threat that that I've seen.
- 5:16So they something terrible happens to them or something difficult happens to them, and they say, how can there possibly be a God if that was allowed to happen?
- 5:25Is that is that sort of the framework?
- 5:27Exactly.
- 5:28Yeah, and usually, because I I went through the same thing in Spain.
- 5:32Uh something bad happened to me, and I didn't have the, you know, I wasn't rational enough at the at the time, I was 13 to know how to distinguish between the people who claim to follow God and God himself.
- 5:45So you put all of them in one place and then you reject the whole thing.
- 5:50So yeah.
- 5:51That's interesting that there's different denominations of the Church of Satan.
- 5:55I guess there would be.
- 5:56I mean, why wouldn't there be?
- 5:57I mean, there's different denominations in the in, you know, in Christian faith, you know, there's Baptists and Methodists and you know um non-denominational churches.
- 6:06I guess that would be so.
- 6:08But does so does that mean that the Church of Satan has different types of doctrines?
- 6:15Well, uh that uh as I said, as I said, it's just a way, it is a way analogically to understand, because we're saying when a person says I'm an atheist, they're saying that they don't believe in God, but the their journey to get to that belief of not uh not believing is going to be completely different.
- 6:33So as I said, a person that becomes an atheist in Spain, they actually are more apatheist, which is apathetic about God more than I'm an active atheist, and I wake up every day finding arguments to reassure that my non-belief is rational.
- 6:51Someone from Spain, they live in a culture that is very secular, and the big questions in life are not prominent at all.
- 6:58They're not prevalent in the in their lives.
- 7:00Their lives, so they they wouldn't know even what Jesus did for them on the cross.
- 7:00So they they wouldn't know even what Jesus did for them on the cross.
- 7:04While an atheist from the South, they would know what Jesus did on the cross, but they're still rejects, you know.
- 7:04While an atheist from the South, they would know what Jesus did on the cross, but they still reject this, you know.
- 7:10So it depends on the culture.
- 7:10So it depends on the culture.
- 7:13Yeah.
- 7:13Yeah.
- 7:13So that's what I meant by it.
- 7:13So that's what I meant by, yeah.
- 7:14Yeah.
- 7:15That's important information for people that, you know, if if I think many people have atheists or agnostics in their life and they're not really sure what that comes from.
- 7:15That's important information for people that, you know, if if I think many people have atheists or agnostics in their life, and they're not really sure what that comes from.
- 7:25You know, I've had a lot of guests on the show that have talked about um.
- 7:25You know, I've had a lot of guests on the show that have talked about um the educational system here in the country.
- 7:32And on the 10 penny files, and they've written about uh many times they've talked and talked about, you know, their their children are raised in a Christian home, and then they go off to college and then they come home for Christmas break and they go, Who are you?
- 7:45And what did you do?
- 7:46What happened to my child?
- 7:48And they have this whole conversation.
- 7:51The child, the the 20-something-year-old brings up this whole conversation about I've decided to deconstruct my Christianity.
- 7:59Explain what that really means to one's faith.
- 8:03Yeah, so well, that this is a term that is kind of new in this type of conversation.
- 8:09And what happens is so you have a faith that could have could have been usually people that deconstruct, not always, but most of them have a what is called a borrowed faith, which is a faith that you gain from someone next to you, let's say your father, your mother, a brother, someone that you love, but you're not rooted in your faith yourself.
- 8:31So the actual root of the faith is another person.
- 8:34So when they go, let's say this happens a lot, they go to college and they start seeing many, you know, if different experiences and freedom, whatever.
- 8:43So what they do with the deconstruction is um I'm going to go um belief by belief, say and see if I if I actually support the belief belief itself.
- 8:56If I don't like it, then I'm going to remove it.
- 8:59So they go, uh, do I believe that Jesus resurrected?
- 9:02Yes.
- 9:02No.
- 9:02Um let's say that he says yes, yes.
- 9:05I grew up in a legalistic home.
- 9:07Is that the way Jesus wants us to be?
- 9:10No.
- 9:10Okay, then that one needs to go.
- 9:12That's not that is not what Jesus wants us to be.
- 9:15Then what about signs and faith?
- 9:16It could be anything.
- 9:18So at the end of it, what you have done is to deconstruct, which I'm using the same term.
- 9:23Um, my apologies for that, but it's like unbuild a house to rebuild it, hopefully, to a faith that is closer to Jesus, that is far far from it.
- 9:35The problem is that many people deconstruct, and when they try to build the the house back, they're not Christians anymore.
- 9:42So they become, I don't know, it could be they don't have a faith at all, or they become new age followers of the universe, wants me to be happy.
- 9:51Uh, it could be, you know, there are many options, but that's what deconstruction means.
- 9:56And it's a process of that requires lots of sincerity and honesty, because many uh say I'm deconstructing, but they actually know the goal that they want to achieve, which is I want to leave Christianity.
- 10:11But uh a true process of deconstruction would mean I'm going to deconstruct, but I'm going to deconstruct towards Jesus because I still love him, so that I become closer to him.
- 10:22So that's a way to explain it.
- 10:25You know, your book for those who doubt, it's um it's written in a really unique way that just kind of draws people in because it starts uh just uh uh for the audience for listener, you know, it starts with two friends.
- 10:40One is obviously a strong Christian, and the other one you come, they have coffee, and the uh the one says, you know, I'm not even sure how to say this to you, but I I'm deconstructing my faith, and I'm not, I think that maybe I only believe in God and Christianity because my parents did, and I'm not so sure that I do.
- 10:58And then your entire book is this journey that they take together of the one character, Peter, who's talking to Thomas, which I think is so unique, the doubting Thomas, you know, that you do that of talking through all of the different elements of where people generally run into impediments in their faith.
- 11:19And I think that that's really it, and it's such a unique way to write because it's so much better than just you know, like paragraph form, this, you know, that there's a lot of books like that.
- 11:30But your book with this conversation really, you know, a couple things.
- 11:34One is it brings out different elements of the of the of what they're talking about, that you can you can make your point.
- 11:41The other thing is I'm sure that people who read this can see some of the conversations they may have had with their children or their neighbor, their friend or whatever, and you offer them a way to respond to that.
- 11:54So, how did you come up with that idea?
- 11:57And what were some of the questions that were addressed in the conversation between Peter and the doubting Thomas in your book?
- 12:04Absolutely.
- 12:04Yeah, thank you for the questions.
- 12:06Here's the book.
- 12:07And so what the book does for those who doubt, is it because of Jesus is you know, I had conversations with non-believers and Christians who were doubting for almost 10 years.
- 12:17And the one thing that I realized about this was that no one ever told me I left Christianity because of Jesus.
- 12:25No one ever said that to me.
- 12:28So I said, This is not because that would be the actual reason.
- 12:31The best reason to leave Christianity is would be I just don't like or don't believe in Jesus.
- 12:39Leaving Christianity for any other reason, it's almost like you're not leaving real Christianity.
- 12:44So I realized that this question was so important that I started asking this question to some friends, and they actually, yeah, they told me I no, actually, Jesus wasn't the main reason, and and it this moved me so much, and that's why I wrote the book, so that they if there's a Christian who is doubting, they can read the book, and the book is a story, it's narrated in the present tense, so that people feel that they that it's just that it's happening, and they're part of this table where these two characters are having conversations.
- 13:15There are many other characters in the book.
- 13:16The book is very raw, like it's not like you know, it's like a very raw uh novel.
- 13:23Hard, funny sometimes, but hard.
- 13:26And um the reason why I I wrote it that way is because I want people to feel that they are part of the conversations because many Christians don't have opportunities or they don't feel prepared to sit down and have these conversations.
- 13:41So I want them to uh I wanted uh them to have an opportunity to do so, but in a way that feels safe for them, and also um the book uh tries to help the Christian who is doubting to get to the end of the book in a way that they need to face the question themselves.
- 14:00Face the question themselves.
- 14:02Is it because of Jesus?
- 14:02Is it because of Jesus?
- 14:03Many times many friends and people at church and other people outside of the church, they tell me, Pedro, I have my brother, I have my mom or my father, they're doubting.
- 14:03Many times uh many friends and people at church and other people outside of the the church, they tell me, Peter, I have my brother, I have my mom or my father, they're doubting, I don't know what to do, my son.
- 14:13I don't know what to do.
- 14:15My son.
- 14:15And of course, I love to hang out with all of them and listen to their story.
- 14:15And of course, I love to hang out with all of them and listen to their story.
- 14:20But the main reasons why I wrote this book is so that this is the type of book that you give to this person.
- 14:20But they the main reasons why I I I wrote this book is so that this is the type of book that you give to this person, so that this person is reading a story that is going.
- 14:26So that this person is reading a story that is going to lead them to ask themselves the question, is it because of Jesus at the end?
- 14:38Yeah, that really does open up your heart space from a different perspective.
- 14:42What took you along your journey from being an atheist to a Christian?
- 14:46How did that transpire?
- 14:49Yeah, so um I was I was raised nominal Catholic, which that that and being secular are almost like the same thing in Spain.
- 15:00And um, you know, I was a saxophone player all my life, a musician, and I got to be a finalist on Spain's Got Talent, the TV show in Spain.
- 15:11With the saxophone, and that allowed me to travel all around the world teaching at universities and playing.
- 15:17So they invited me at to pla to be a guest professor at MTSU in Murphy's bro in Tennessee.
- 15:24And that's when I became I I started being in contact with Christians.
- 15:29Even though I was a musician, my passion was always the big questions in life.
- 15:33I would have loved to study philosophy instead.
- 15:35So I had a passion, even though I didn't believe in God, I it was undeniable to me looking up to the stars and seeing the universe just there, uh, wanting to be explained.
- 15:45It was very hard for me.
- 15:47There's nothing, and this is just mere you know, pure chance that we are all here, yet I didn't believe in God.
- 15:54So I was in contact with some Christians, and some of them, because Christianity entered in my brain first before it came to to the heart, which which by the way, it's not the best way for it to happen because that means that I didn't understand the cross well.
- 16:12I didn't understand it.
- 16:13It was more intellectual uh uh ascent at the at the beginning.
- 16:17But well, I met uh my father-in-law, which uh at that time wasn't my father-in-law, was a Bible translator, so he he was an expert on Aramaic, Hebrew, and Greek, and then I was so you know, with the big questions.
- 16:33I met someone that actually cared, it wasn't like, oh yeah, believe in God because he exists, and if not, then you're you know, but that the simplistic answers.
- 16:42So he opened my mind to linguistics to history and then my passion with uh philosophy as well.
- 16:49I started reading, I I started, you know, uh delving more into the rationality of believing God, and then I realized that throughout history in the Western civilization, like in interacting with the with the question of God is an actual but like they respected thing to do.
- 17:06I was very ignorant about this, whether you believe in it or not.
- 17:10So that kept opening my mind to it till I read the Sermon of the Mount.
- 17:15Oh Matthew 5, 6, and 7.
- 17:17When I read that, Sherry, I thought I want the world to be like this, first of all, clearly, and I want to be like this.
- 17:27Second, the person that was relating the Sermon of the Mount claimed to be God, and third, he claimed to have conquered my biggest fear, which is death.
- 17:39All of this came to me like a shock.
- 17:44So it was the Sermon of the Mount what brought me to my knees and said, Okay, Jesus, uh I'm going, I don't understand any of this, but I'm going to follow you.
- 17:53And my life is not mine anymore, it's yours.
- 17:55But I know that you're giving my life back with such love because I belong to you.
- 18:01And after that, you know, process of sanctification.
- 18:05We're not perfect in the letter of first John, it's expected that we're going to sin, but we're not slaves of sin anymore.
- 18:14We run back to the Father, and he forgives us, and this is the process on sanctification, becoming better and more like Jesus every day.
- 18:23And that's, you know, I don't play music anymore.
- 18:26I I'm just full-on ministry.
- 18:29I do ministry with um well here at the church, I'm a translator too, and I've uh I'm currently working with the Bible projects.
- 18:38I don't know if you have heard about them with the Bible projects, they just make animation videos.
- 18:43Oh, yes, yes, yes, yes.
- 18:44Yeah, so I'm a translator for them, English to Spanish.
- 18:48Oh, wow.
- 18:48Yeah, so everything that I do and now with the book and what what I do in social media with like short videos to help Christians help those who are doubting, uh, to analyze what they say from a more like a psychology perspective to help them help the person behind the comment.
- 19:07I just love Jesus so much, so that's what I'm doing.
- 19:10Wow, that's beautiful.
- 19:11You know, you said you like psychology, and you actually do presentations on the psychology of doubt.
- 19:17Yeah, tell us a little bit about that.
- 19:19Yeah, so what I do um on social media to help people, and um I do some presentations too as a speaker, is you know, I go on online and I find the most mocking, outrageous fears comments about Christianity.
- 19:40So I I take them out of their videos, and then I analyze them.
- 19:45I analyze what we the tendency, Sherry, is to see the comment and to interact with the with the intellect.
- 19:54No, no, Jesus resurrected, let me give you evidence.
- 19:57So no, no, science, this or that.
- 19:58Whoa, so I'm trying to help people see that behind the comment with that mockery or whatever it is, the comment is fears.
- 20:08There is a person that had a journey that took him to make that comment.
- 20:12Wow.
- 20:13And usually the comment is not the in the intellect of the comment is not the reason why they put the comment there.
- 20:22It's because there's something that is not working in them, and that is the person that I like to reach with Jesus.
- 20:32So what I do is an analysis of you know, a little bit of philosophy theology just to answer, but then I go, hey, but what is the person behind?
- 20:41And then analyzing, you know, the journey of the person to get to that type of comment and mockery or whatever they are saying.
- 20:48So yeah, just trying to help people.
- 20:50Um, you know, we would all be better served if we thought about all the comments we sought online that way.
- 20:57We would just be, you know, the the spouting off or the anger or you know, the slander or whatever that they're doing.
- 21:00Off or the anger or you know the slander or whatever that they're doing, we would all be better served if we said, wait a second, what's going on with this person that prompted them to put that post on X or on Instagram or whatever.
- 21:05We would all be better served if we said, wait a second, what's going on with this person that prompted them to put that post on X or on Instagram or whatever?
- 21:15That's really beautiful.
- 21:15That's really beautiful.
- 21:16Um you also say that followers of Jesus live in a continual paradox.
- 21:16Um you also say that followers of Jesus live in a continual paradox.
- 21:21What does that mean?
- 21:21What does that mean?
- 21:23Well, um, the scripture itself is is so paradoxical that.
- 21:23Well, um the scripture itself is is so paradoxical that I mean the nature of Christianity is we are walking saved because of his grace, what he did on the cross, but yet we wake up in the morning and we've experienced fear because of someone that we love is you know sick, or this email that I sent, I'm not getting an answer to whatever.
- 21:53Uh life is very hard because Christianity doesn't promise happiness, it promises joy through suffering.
- 22:01Uh that's the promise.
- 22:02So it's paradoxical in nature because we know that we're saved.
- 22:06We know that when heaven and earth unite again, we're good, it's everything's going to be incredibly good because of Jesus and because of God in the spirit.
- 22:15Yet on this side of eternity right now, we need to deal with fear, inconsistencies, our uh, you know, shortcomings as people.
- 22:27And it's paradoxical in nature because those two things are happening at the same time.
- 22:34What are some of the reasons that uh people start to question their faith?
- 22:38If they've been raised in a in a Christian home, they've been in church, they've been gone to summer camps, they've done all the things that they've done.
- 22:46What are some of the reasons that people start to question what they believe?
- 22:52So, yeah, there are many, many, many reasons, but the most common ones I would say is um when a person is like grows up in grows in in the church, meaning is you know, goes to church all their lives, and they they're kind of they're treating church like a maybe a social club, like a bubble, a bubble where you are there, everything is fine, you are just hanging out with people that think like you, and you're you're not being challenged, challenged in the way, like, hey, the world doesn't look like this at all.
- 23:27So, for example, many parents are spending time with their kids every day with this beautiful opportunity to disciple them, like Jesus discipled his disciples, which is in a way that they would bring them to difficult situations to show them that the world is very difficult.
- 23:46And after showing the difficulty, show them the way of Jesus, he would show them that what the way the thing that he would do.
- 23:53Parents could do this, for example, with their kids, but usually disciple making is not happening at home as much as we want to.
- 24:00So, what happens is that when a kid goes to college and they face reality, they just don't have the tools to face it because their faith was like something social.
- 24:11It wasn't something that it was that was rooted in their heart.
- 24:15I would say that even though people want to show that doubts are rooted in intellect, they're rare rarely solely an intellectual tendency.
- 24:28It usually it's something that emotionally broke in their heart.
- 24:34Could be a relationship, it could be a comment from a pastor, it could be something at church, it could be anything.
- 24:40Rarely, we're talking about intellectual doubts only.
- 24:43You know, I read a post on Facebook, this was a while back, of uh a teacher that was teaching at a Christian school, and he she realized that these kids were not being taught why they believe what they believe.
- 25:00They were taught to memorize Bible verses and understand, you know, the Christian stories and know the Ten Commandments, and but they weren't taught why.
- 25:10And so she took it on herself.
- 25:11This is a true story.
- 25:12This is a gal that was posting on Facebook that she took it on herself to she had gone to a a uh a Christian teachers conference, and she was ran across a book or two about teaching kids why they believe what they believe.
- 25:27And she started having them look at the Bible and looking at their lessons from a different perspective and writing essays and doing things to really support why they believe what they believe.
- 25:39And it transformed everything.
- 25:41And she and she and the kids were different.
- 25:44And one day the um the principal at the school called her into the office and said, What are you teaching these kids?
- 25:50She's and so she was like, she was at first like really kind of scared, like maybe she was going to get chastised, and she laid it out for the principal.
- 25:58The principal said, You're right, we need to do more of that.
- 26:01So they changed the whole school.
- 26:03This was a Christian school.
- 26:04They changed all of it, they changed the curriculum, and it just created all these young disciples because they really understood, not intellectually, like what you were talking about, not intellectually about um just the mechanics of the Bible, but really understanding why the whole gift of what what Jesus did for us, the whole gift from God, the whole uh uh principle of our faith about why we believe it, not just that we do.
- 26:34So it was really interesting.
- 26:36Yeah, that is beautiful, and yeah, what I've I've mentioned in this conversation the intellect a few times, not in the most um, you know, not in the most prettiest of ways, we could say it that way.
- 26:50I'm not saying that the intellect is bad at all, right?
- 26:53Right.
- 26:54I'm just saying that when a person says, you know, uh, I hate Christianity because of this or that, the most important word of that comment is hate.
- 27:05Anything that comes after that, it's just walls that's rational, we call them rational, that we're trying to build around the heart that is inside, you know.
- 27:17So that's what I mean.
- 27:18Apologetics, uh theology, beautiful.
- 27:21I love it, I love it myself.
- 27:24But a person, a person is not just uh a composition of molecules wanting to learn the mechanics of the universe and the scripture, scripture's goal is for us to form a relationship with the actual person that created us, like that's the and everything is in the context of relationship.
- 27:43So that's why that I wanted to clarify just in case that someone is listening.
- 27:47No, but that's really true.
- 27:48I mean, even but you need your intellect to even understand the why.
- 27:51So you're right, there's nothing wrong with that.
- 27:53Well, hold that thought for just a second, Pedro.
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- 35:12Liberty and Justice for all the Well, welcome back, everyone.
- 35:25Well, welcome back, everyone.
- 35:26Today's conversation is with Pedro Garcia, the outreach.
- 35:26Today's conversation is with Pedro Garcia, the outreach director at the Donaldson Fellowship, the Chris uh Christian Church located in Nashville, Tennessee, that focuses on discipleship, community, and outreach.
- 35:39We're talking about his incredibly important book, uniquely written for conversations to talk to your friends and family members who are starting to doubt their faith.
- 35:51His book, for those who doubt, is it because of Jesus?
- 35:56Let me tell you just a little bit more about our guest today.
- 35:58Pedro Garcia is not just a skeptic, but he was a self-proclaimed atheist that changed as he started a multi-year journey to prove Christianity is nothing more than a crutch for the ignorant.
- 36:11That what he discovered was quite the opposite.
- 36:14Soon he began hosting public conversations through his ministry and podcast, Ask and Wonder, encouraging open discussions about faith.
- 36:24Pedro, welcome back to the show.
- 36:26I'm so grateful to have you here with us today.
- 36:29Absolutely.
- 36:30Thank you so much.
- 36:31You know, just the name of your podcast, Ask and Wonder to encourage open conversations, because I think most of the Christian community sort of shuts that down.
- 36:40Like with something that you had said previously about just you know, knee-jerk answers, you know, like you can't question it because if you question it, you're going to go to hell.
- 36:50You can't question it.
- 36:51Yeah.
- 36:52And suddenly you've you've created a space to open that up for a great conversation.
- 36:57Yes.
- 36:58Yeah, absolutely.
- 36:59And that that was a ministry I was doing for for uh 10 years.
- 37:03It was to ask and wonder.
- 37:04And I had a podcast and also had this uh public meetings where I bring I would bring Christians and atheists together to have conversations, and it was beautiful right now because of uh the the question that has truly changed um you know my ministry and uh now the podcast is called Is It Because of Jesus, and that's what I'm trying to do is uh as I said, Sherry is to help people analyze the psychology of doubt to really know what is behind the commons and what is behind the intellects.
- 37:35But yeah, no, uh it has been quite a journey uh meeting people that doubt Christianity, all those that are Christians that are starting to have doubts, and they have this tendency of uh secluding, self-secluding because they don't want to share that they're doubting because of the fear of rejection, and most of them they don't share it, and they start building resentment because they feel that they cannot share it, even though it usually is not true.
- 38:04There are some situations where it's true, some people don't have anyone to share this because they would be ostracized, but in general that is not the case.
- 38:12So that is the reason um for the book, and just to help people truly say, hey, read this book because it's gonna take you through story uh to the moment of uh the most important moment in your doubt journey is asking if all of this is happening because of Jesus, because if it's not, then you could you can go back to Jesus with the most refreshed and deepest of all of relationships, you know.
- 38:40You know, it's really hard, you know.
- 38:42The statistics are pretty dismal.
- 38:44The fact that you know, less than 30% of people in America are going to church even once a month, and the Gen Zs are really doubtful about and Gen Z is like from age 14 to 25, sort of that age group, they're really doubtful because they're very discouraged about the state of life and the in their future, uh, given the economy and the price of everything and the job market and all of that.
- 39:09So you've got a really big job, and I'm really glad that you've taken it on to make this outreach even bigger because it's so important to be able to reach people where they are, and that's that's what your book does in this conversational style that you wrote in.
- 39:25Yeah, absolutely.
- 39:27So you also say that one of the that you write about all the great figures in scripture experienced doubt at some point in time, like Abraham, Jacob, Job, David, you know, they all had experienced doubt.
- 39:42What set them apart from the rest of us?
- 39:46Well, um, the one thing I would say about uh doubts when someone is doubting Christianity, the many people think that they're very unique in their doubt.
- 39:58Oh wow, yeah.
- 39:59And and we're not unique.
- 40:02I would say there are two ways to doubt.
- 40:04You can doubt away from God, or you can doubt towards God.
- 40:10And many people in scripture did that, they were doubting, but they were doubting towards God.
- 40:16Just to give you one example, Sherry.
- 40:18The last prophet of the old testament was John the Baptist.
- 40:23I mean, if there is a person that you would you wouldn't expect to doubt that this is him.
- 40:29He doubted.
- 40:30He saw this period descending over the waters, the baptism, he saw everything.
- 40:36He was in jail, and he doubted.
- 40:39He sent his disciples, go and and ask Jesus.
- 40:43Are you the one that was supposed to come?
- 40:46He didn't know.
- 40:47He he was doubting.
- 40:48And what Jesus, what did Jesus do?
- 40:51He actually praised after he answered, see the deaf hearing and the blind seeing.
- 41:00And then the disciples left of John, and then he turned to the crowd and he said, John is one of the greatest.
- 41:08So uh Jesus is not ostracizing John because of the doubt.
- 41:13He's celebrating because John decided to bring the doubt to him.
- 41:18Instead of just building resentment with it, or uh, you know, bring it to people that are not Christians or whatever, you bring it to Jesus, and there are many people like that.
- 41:30Elijah in the mountain, he was asking God, please kill me now.
- 41:35I mean, it is it truly like doubting is not new in the Great Commission, last chapter of Matthew.
- 41:42All the disciples are missing Jesus in Galilee in a mountain, and there was a this small comment.
- 41:50Everyone was there, everyone was excited, you know, I'm paraphrasing, but there's a there's a uh there's a uh small phrase, but some doubt it.
- 42:01You go, wow, like they're seeing Jesus resurrected, but some people still doubt it.
- 42:01You go, wow, like they're seeing Jesus resurrected, but some people still doubt it.
- 42:06And the script scripture is not afraid to show us you know that doubt is part of the journey.
- 42:07And the script scripture is not afraid to show us.
- 42:12You know, that doubt is part of the journey.
- 42:15But if we doubt towards Jesus, then the relationship is going to get deeper and deeper as those doubts are satisfied in who he is, what he did, and what he keeps doing.
- 42:15But if we doubt towards Jesus, then the relationship is going to get deeper and deeper as those doubts are satisfied in who he is, what he did, and what he keeps doing.
- 42:29You know, in
- 42:29You know, in your book, you also say in your book, for those who doubt, is it because of Jesus?
- 42:35Why do you encourage us not to worship theology?
- 42:39Yes.
- 42:40So many times we think that in order to reach a person, what we need to do is to learn so much information, you know, to try to convince them to try to make Christianity sound so rational and super intellectual.
- 42:56I would say it is, and it can be, but that is not what uh what it really helps a person that is doubting.
- 43:04A person that is doubting feels alone, feels that there's no place or person to go.
- 43:12And nowadays, with the internet, you can listen to the most incredible thinkers in the world.
- 43:20You don't your friend Bobby or your friend Sarah, you can meet with them, they're not going to give you the videos, the content that you can see at home on YouTube, but by great thinkers.
- 43:34We cannot do this anymore.
- 43:35What we lack is an actual relationship, and that is exactly what Jesus gave to people that were broken.
- 43:42It wasn't, hey, let me tell you why I'm God.
- 43:45Let's go through the old testament scriptures, the old covenant to show you.
- 43:49He would show them that he loved them first, and after love, that this type of love feeling seen, then he would bring the the arguments or the you know, the old covenant uh conversation to see that he was the Messiah.
- 44:07You know that that um what you just mentioned about you know, John the Baptist questioning, and Jesus said, Well, he's the greatest.
- 44:14It's almost as though he's inviting us to ask and the question.
- 44:20Is that correct?
- 44:21Exactly.
- 44:21Yeah.
- 44:22I mean, the the name Israel in Hebrew, it means the wrestler, the one that wrestles with God.
- 44:28Like it is truly expected.
- 44:30On the we're not in Eden, we're outside of Eden.
- 44:34So we are going to be going through things that we really don't understand.
- 44:38Sherry, I was seeing two years ago, I was seeing my father dying right in front of me at a hospital in Spain.
- 44:45And I was asking the Lord, please don't let him go.
- 44:49I love him so much.
- 44:50And I usually, when I pray, I always say, always, always always say anything to for anything, I say, but please, Lord, may your will be done, not mine.
- 45:01But when I was praying that over my father, I really didn't want to say it.
- 45:06Because that that phrase meant something very important and urgent in that moment.
- 45:12But I had to say it because I love him.
- 45:15I love him, and I know that he's with us.
- 45:17So it is it is all based in relationship, it is all based in uh in the emotional encounter with the person that created us, and the intellect comes like that.
- 45:32Yeah.
- 45:33You know, I did an interview with a with a gentleman that was on my show.
- 45:37Um he's been on the show a couple of times.
- 45:40He wrote a book called Is My Child Saved.
- 45:43And he talked about this uh conversation about um just like all the things we've already been saying.
- 45:50Kids go away, they come back from college, and they're like, I'm an atheist, I don't believe in any of this stuff anymore.
- 45:55And then the parents or the grandparents are like, wow, what does that mean?
- 46:00And the the bottom line of that book, which really meant a lot to me, was he said, you know, there's a difference between a relationship and fellowship.
- 46:10And relate, he said it's sort of like you can get married and have a great relationship that kind of dwindles over time, which means you're still married, you haven't gotten divorced, you're still married, that's your relationship, but you've lost the fellowship.
- 46:24And what Jesus really wants from us is the fellowship.
- 46:27You know, once once you've accepted him as your savior, you know, it's once saved, you know, he's nothing's gonna snatch us from his hands, you know, even from the worst condition.
- 46:36But what he really wants is fellowship with us, and that that conversation that I had with him about that book, I've gone back to it and listened several times because just laying it out in that language in those ways made a lot of sense.
- 46:51You know, you can meet Jesus and have a relationship, but it's over time, spending time with that relationship that you're developing the fellowship.
- 47:00Wow, that is beautiful, Sherry.
- 47:02Wow, I want to think about that.
- 47:04Yeah, it's really it was really, really good.
- 47:06I can I can have him send you the link on that podcast that we did because it was really good.
- 47:10The title of his book was Is My Child Saved?
- 47:13It was really good.
- 47:14So, how do you address atheists and agnostics who use the argument that science doesn't support the presence of God?
- 47:24Uh this might be one for people, one of the most difficult questions to answer, to answer, yet for me is one of the easier, easiest ones because um I mean when I discovered, not because I'm super smart, but because people that are smarter than me told me that there is a written language in the universe through which we can understand it, and we can get to it through mathematics.
- 48:01That I mean so the universe is written in a language that we cannot see, but people with with brains, we can through through the graphs of mathematics, we can get to determine what the universe is, how it functions, and we can actually determine things that are going to happen in the future at the physical level because of mathematics.
- 48:26I mean, there is order everywhere, and in order to understand order, you need you need intellect, and we happen to have intellect to understand that order.
- 48:37Meaning the the question of creation being the will of someone is so clear to me.
- 48:46It is so clear to me.
- 48:47So the question of science gets to the, you know, the when the battle happens is when you know, for example, you have people at the hospital, and they say, Hey, it's actually a doctors who are uh, you know, healing your mom.
- 49:00They say, hey, it's actually a doctors who are uh you know healing your mom.
- 49:06It's it's not your prayer, you're just sending thoughts.
- 49:06It's it's not your prayer, you're just sending thoughts.
- 49:08But the ones that are doing this are people that are there, right?
- 49:08But the ones that are doing this are people that are there, right?
- 49:12So, and you get to these false dichotomies, because the rescue involves both the prayer and the people that are actually helping your mom survive.
- 49:12So, and you get to these false dichotomies, because the rescue involves both the prayer and the people that are actually helping your mom survive.
- 49:23These two things are happening at the same time.
- 49:23These two things are happening at the same time.
- 49:26The people that are doctors uh don't know why they exist.
- 49:26The people that are doctors, uh, don't know why they exist.
- 49:30They just showed up in the world and now taking care of your mom, and they're studying a world that can be studied.
- 49:37There are patterns that they recognize in a body that is made with mechanisms that we can also understand.
- 49:44I mean, the question of intelligence is just inescapable.
- 49:48So I would say uh it's like out there, it's very conceptual, but truly.
- 49:54Uh, Psalm 19 begins with uh the the universe speaks a language that that we cannot see, and then ends talking about the law of God with special revelation.
- 50:08So in the Belgian confession of Christianity, we have the book of nature and the book of scripture, and if there is any some type of tension between those two, is because we need to do a better job to understand how they merge, not because of uh those two uh having a problem to coincide, you know.
- 50:29So very good.
- 50:30What advice would you give someone who's question starting who's questioning their faith?
- 50:35Where should they begin?
- 50:38I would say, I would say the first question that they should uh wonder about is it because of Jesus?
- 50:46Because if it's not, then they might be they might be moving away from something they think it's Christianity, but it's not.
- 50:56The first question should always be, is it because of Jesus?
- 50:59If the answer is no, then they should do their best to bring their questions and their doubts to Jesus first.
- 51:07The second thing I would say, please, please don't isolate yourself.
- 51:14If you are in an environment where maybe there's a church that unfortunately they don't they don't acknowledge doubts or they don't want to hear questions, then I would gently consider move to a different church.
- 51:28Find someone that really wants to listen to you instead of fixing you with sudden immediate theology.
- 51:37That is not what you need.
- 51:38You need someone to listen to you because the doubt, as I said in this in this conversation many times, the doubt is rooted probably in something that is emotional first, it's not intellect only.
- 51:54And yeah, so is it because of Jesus?
- 51:58Don't isolate yourself, and I would say doubt towards God instead of away from him.
- 52:05That's good, because the Bible is our instruction manual, and if you know it's good for teaching and and and you know, it and instruction, and it's all there for us.
- 52:15All we have to do is dig in and look.
- 52:17And while you're reading, ask the Holy Spirit to direct you to find the to find your answers and lead you to the right place, or you might have read that same verse 20 times, but the Holy Spirit can open your eyes to go, I never saw that before.
- 52:32Exactly.
- 52:33And how it implies differently.
- 52:34Well, Pedro, this conversation has just been great.
- 52:37And I think that we've given your book for those who doubt, is it because of Jesus a pretty good overview?
- 52:43But what reason would you say that people really need to uh get this book, read it and really digest it and have it be part of their part of their armamentarium?
- 52:54So this book uh primarily is for I'm just talking to the to the listener uh right now, which is the audience, is for that person you've been praying for for so many years.
- 53:07You really don't know what to do anymore.
- 53:10This book is for that person.
- 53:12I wrote that book for that person.
- 53:13That person you feel sometimes I I actually feel I don't want to pray for them anymore, not because I don't want to, because nothing is happening, you know.
- 53:23That is that is the person I wrote this book to.
- 53:26There's a second person I wrote this book to, which is Christians who want to understand what's going on in the most difficult questions so that they can learn how to approach them.
- 53:36So any anyone that would like to help those people and they feel they don't know what to do anymore.
- 53:43For those who doubt, is it because of Jesus?
- 53:46This is the reason exactly why I wrote the book.
- 53:49Because the book is gonna bring this person that you love to face the ultimate question through the story, which is it because of Jesus.
- 53:57If they want to also interact with this, my social media handle is is it because of Jesus on TikTok and Instagram, Facebook, and also uh YouTube.
- 54:10And I'm sharing videos where there's a fierce, uh a very uh fiery comment mocking Christianity, but then I kind of dismantled the the comment to focus on the person that is behind and the journey that might have taken a person to say something like this, focusing on the heart.
- 54:30Oh, that's beautiful, and it's really really great.
- 54:32Say your social media again so people can certainly come and follow you.
- 54:36Well, thank you, Sherry.
- 54:37If the handle is, is it because of Jesus?
- 54:40If you type that, both I have a podcast to help Christians help others who are doubting, and also social media handle, is it because of Jesus to uh to to keep helping that way.
- 54:52Well, Pedro Garcia, thank you so much for being here today.
- 54:56You are uh certainly a blessing to your church for sure to be the leader there because um what you have a great uh a huge uh you you've been tasked, the Lord's given you something to do that's very very important, and you're following through with it, which is you know what we all hope that we hear someday, well done, good and faithful servant.
- 55:15Well, you are actually walking in those steps to really try to meet people where they are who are questioning their faith, questioning God, questioning whether or not I should believe in this, um, like Hoval Horry Hurari says from the World Economic Forum, you know, the big mythical thing in the sky that we can we can start believing of.
- 55:37And you've taken on the great commission of making disciples and meeting people where they are and leading them to the world to the Lord.
- 55:43So God bless you for that.
- 55:45And thank you.
- 55:46Thank you for writing this book.
- 55:47And you could find his book at our bookstore, which is bookstore.drtempedi.com, bookstore.dr tempetty.com, because we put all of the books from all of our authors there, so it makes it easy to find.
- 55:59So in case you've you're watching this today or you're watching this sometime, you know, in the future after this has been posted, you can go back and find all of that in one place.
- 56:00You've you're watching this today, or you're watching this sometime, you know, in the future after this has been posted.
- 56:05You can go back and find all of that in one place.
- 56:08So I want to close out with all one of my favorite verses from the Bible.
- 56:08So I want to close out with all one of my favorite verses from the Bible.
- 56:11I close all of my podcasts with, whether they are live or pre-recorded, which is Romans 12 12.
- 56:11I close all of my podcasts with, whether they are live or pre-recorded, which is Romans 12 12.
- 56:17Rejoice in hope, be patient in trouble and be persistent in prayer.
- 56:17Rejoice in hope, be patient in trouble, and be persistent in prayer.
- 56:21Remember to lean into God for everything.
- 56:21Remember to lean into God for everything.
- 56:23He will never let you down.
- 56:23He will never let you down.
- 56:24His time frame may not be your time frame, but he promised he will never leave you.
- 56:24His time frame may not be your time frame, but he promised he will never leave you.
- 56:29He will always be.
- 56:29He will always be right there with you.
- 56:31So thank you for joining us here today.
- 56:33It's been such a pleasure to talk with you, Pedro, and it's been such a pleasure to share this information with my audience.
- 56:39So we'll see you.
- 56:40So I wish you to have a great rest of your day.
- 56:42We will see you tomorrow or the next time, right here at 3 p.m.
- 56:46Eastern, Monday through Friday at the 10 Penny Files.
- 56:49Have a good rest of your day, everybody.
- 56:51Goodbye and God bless.
- 56:52Amen.
- 56:53Thank you.