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- 0:00It will go with the poison we drink, hoping others will suffer, disassemble
- 0:06this myth with a ceneca, and turn your fury into wisdom. Stoic in
- 0:09this ever- changing life. Our emotions are often challenged. Anger, fear,
- 0:15and pain seem like natural reactions to difficult situations. But we are really
- 0:22governed by these emotions, or we have the right to choose a different path
- 0:27or answer. In fact, each of us has the right to choose,
- 0:31choose, be angry or stay calm, choose, be afraid or embrace courage,
- 0:37choose, feel pain or experience joy. But what choice is effective to
- 0:44bring peace to the soul and not add more burdens to life. Faced with
- 0:48this truth, the circumstances around you will not simply change because of your emotions.
- 0:54The situation does not react to your pain or joy. This opens a
- 0:58new path to self- control, an art of living, a first step
- 1:02in the way of applying philosophy. Stoic towards a peaceful and happy life controlling
- 1:08natural reactions. As you embark on this journey, remember that each of your
- 1:14emotional choices is not only an immediate reaction to circumstances, but also an important
- 1:19step on the road to personal improvement. Anger, fear, and pain can
- 1:26easily dominate your mind, but when you learn to choose calmness, courage,
- 1:30and joy you change how you face the world and open a new direction for
- 1:37yourself. This is a valuable lesson from Ceneca and stoicism. It is not
- 1:42a question of changing circumstances, but of changing how we react to those circumstances.
- 1:49You are ready for the journey to control the IRA through ten lessons from
- 1:53Ceneca. If you have prepared a strong and resilient spirit, pay special attention
- 1:59to this one saw that it will come as a ring to your finger and
- 2:04focus your attention on the next ten lessons that I will tell you next and,
- 2:08if you need it, I advise you to see it several times.
- 2:10You' re ready for this adventure. Let' s start with number one.
- 2:15Learn to wait for the right moment. Patience is a precious virtue,
- 2:20especially in the lesson of controlling the Ceneca IRA. A great Stoic philosopher who
- 2:25pointed out that in the depths of the IRA and makes an opportunity to rediscover
- 2:30ourselves through simple but powerful action. Just waiting for this is not advice to
- 2:38avoid or evade, but a profound strategy. It is a reminder that true
- 2:44power comes from actively controlling our reactions before being swept away by the storm of
- 2:51emotions. When the IRA rises like a whirlwind, waiting becomes a Lifesaver is
- 2:55a momentary pause that allows us to take a deep breath, reassess the situation
- 3:01rationally and decide how to behave in a way that more accurately reflects our values
- 3:08and principles. Seneca advises that during this time we focus on understanding the root
- 3:15cause of the IRA and ask ourselves whether immediate reaction is truly necessary and justified.
- 3:23Waiting It is a journey from the inside of the soul to the outside,
- 3:28where we learn to face our emotions without being overwhelmed by them. When
- 3:31we apply this lesson, we not only find peace within ourselves, but also
- 3:37develop problem- solving skills with intelligence and compassion. This not only reduces the
- 3:44negative consequences that the IRA can cause, but also helps us become the best
- 3:47version of ourselves. According to the American Psychology Association, deep breathing is one
- 3:55of the fastest ways to reduce the intensity of IRA. Even just wait or
- 4:01count to ten or repeat a calm word or phrase for yourself such as relaxing,
- 4:08letting go or quiet. All of these can help calm the feeling of
- 4:13IRA in daily life. Applying the Council of Ceneca to wait helps us rediscover
- 4:18the latent power within ourselves. It is the power of self- control,
- 4:26patience and deep understanding of oneself and the world around us. Through this we
- 4:30learn that every moment of waiting is an opportunity to create a positive change,
- 4:36not only in how we react to the world, but also in how the
- 4:41world reacts to us. Number two Put yourself in the other' s place.
- 4:46The philosopher Seneca pointed out that the IRA often arises from overestimating oneself and
- 4:50refusing to accept being treated in the same way that we easily treat others with
- 4:56their advice to put us in the position of or those who provoke. Our
- 5:00anger is not only a lesson in humility, but also an effective method for
- 5:05managing anger. In trying to see us from the offender' s perspective,
- 5:12we begin to understand that every action, every word we utter, could have
- 5:16caused pain to others. This not only fosters empathy for those around us,
- 5:19but also helps us to understand that, like us, everyone has mistakes and
- 5:25deserves forgiveness. Ask yourself. You' ve ever put yourself in the place
- 5:30of the person you' re angry with. You' ve ever acted in
- 5:34a similar way to them under different circumstances. The answer is usually yes.
- 5:41We often forget that we could also be the cause of someone else' s
- 5:45anger. Realizing that we can also be offending, we begin to understand the
- 5:49value of containment and the need for fair treatment. This not only helps us
- 5:55to manage our IRA, but also opens the way to healing and reconciliation.
- 6:00To practice this start by reflecting on the moments when you have hurt others,
- 6:05whether intentionally or not. Remember how you felt when you realized your mistake and
- 6:12wished forgiveness by applying this understanding and tolerance to every situation that causes IRA,
- 6:17not only do you decrease the IRA, but you also contribute to building a
- 6:21healthier and more positive environment. Finally, consider yourself as an offender. It
- 6:29is not only an exercise in humility, but also a reminder of the common
- 6:32bond of humanity. We are all emotional beings, sometimes guided by uncontrollable passions.
- 6:40Recognizing this not only helps us control the IRA, but also fosters deeper
- 6:44empathy and a connection with those around us number three. The IRA is a
- 6:50destructive poison that corrodes you inside. Seneca illuminated the destructive nature of the IRA
- 6:58by describing it as follows. We will prevent ourselves from becoming angry if we
- 7:04repeatedly place before our eyes all the defects of the IRA and form a proper
- 7:10judgment of it. With deep wisdom, Zénega pointed out that the IRA is
- 7:15not just cloudy. Reason but it also feeds a chain of negative consequences leading
- 7:19to repentance and loss. The IRA, if not controlled, often does us
- 7:25more harm than the injury that causes it. He emphasized the importance of controlling
- 7:30the IRA to maintain rationality and self- control. Consider an example of real
- 7:35life. A father, after a stressful and exhausting day at work, returns
- 7:40home to discover that his son accidentally broke a dear old vase. In an
- 7:47instant, the IRA emerges leading to harsh words and punitive actions that it later
- 7:53laments. Not only is the vase broken, but the relationship between father and
- 7:58son is deeply wounded. His son, seeking comfort and understanding from his father,
- 8:03now feels fearful and alone. However, when the IRA decreases, the
- 8:09father realizes his mistake. She wondered whether an inanimate object was worth more than
- 8:13her child' s feelings and trust. The IRA instantly obscured perception and sensible
- 8:20judgment, leaving a wound in both hearts. In this case, the IRA
- 8:26not only caused material repercussions, but also created a spiritual distance between father and
- 8:31son, demonstrating that the IRA can steal from us the most precious assets of
- 8:35life, relationships and Seneca love advises us to seek containment not only for our
- 8:43personal benefit, but also to protect and nurture the relationships around us. Perhaps
- 8:50the greatest lesson the IRA teaches us is not only its consequences, but also
- 8:54the importance of cultivating patience, compassion and self- control. To face and
- 9:01overcome the IRA, we need to learn to identify triggers, apply relaxation and
- 9:07deep breathing techniques and, most importantly, cultivate an open and forgiving heart.
- 9:15Through the consciousness and control of the IRA, we pave the way for inner
- 9:18peace and harmony in relations. Through the Council of Ceneca. Not only do
- 9:26we learn to handle our own emotions, but we also become peacemakers, both
- 9:31within ourselves and in our daily lives. If you' ve come this far,
- 9:39it' s because you want to master your anger. Write down my
- 9:41anger as a testimony to your determination, subscribe and advance on your journey to
- 9:46stoic self- control. We are here to accompany you in every step towards
- 9:52emotional mastery. We' re still number four. Don' t look for
- 9:56reasons to always be angry. N n n N n R s or s
- 9:58two on the journey towards the search for inner peace, rather than seeking reasons
- 10:03to get angry. It' s an important step. Seneca once said you
- 10:09are indignant when a slave also responds to you a libertarian your wife or a
- 10:15client through his cenic advice wants us to understand that anger often arises from situations
- 10:18or actions that we perceive as not meeting our expectations. However, being angry
- 10:26is truly a decision that often robs us of peace and happiness in our lives.
- 10:33Let' s go back to the story of reading an office worker.
- 10:37At an important meeting, a colleague inadvertently expresses an opinion completely contrary to his
- 10:43own. Leo' s initial instinct might be to react immediately with anger and
- 10:50a desire to defend his point of view, but following the Council of Ceneca
- 10:54he pauses for a moment and thinks this is necessary. An immediate anger reaction
- 11:00will solve the problem or only worsen the situation. By not looking for reasons
- 11:05to be angry. Leo chooses to listen patiently and try to understand the perspective
- 11:11of his colleagues and even find solutions or common points on which they can agree.
- 11:16This action not only helps to reduce attention, but also opens up opportunities
- 11:20for cooperation and mutual understanding. Every time we choose not to look for reasons
- 11:28to be angry, we are choosing a more positive response, choosing understanding and
- 11:35empathy about anger. This not only helps us maintain inner peace, but also
- 11:39builds healthier and more sustainable relationships with those around us. Every time we choose
- 11:46not to look for reasons to be angry, we are choosing a more positive
- 11:52response, choosing understanding and empathy about anger, This not only helps us maintain
- 11:56inner peace, but also builds healthier and sustainable relationships with those around us.
- 12:03Seneca advises that in every situation we should strive to remain calm and not let
- 12:09anger consume our minds when we seek no reason to be angry. We pave
- 12:16the way for peace, deep understanding and, most importantly, progress towards a
- 12:20happier life. So leave any comments under the video to encourage yourself to stop
- 12:28justifying your anger number five. Recognize the triggers of your anger and learn to
- 12:35control yourself. Recognising triggers and learning to control them is the most important step
- 12:41on the road to calmness and full attention. He emphasizes that each of us
- 12:46has personal weaknesses, emotional pressure points that, when touched, can easily provoke
- 12:52anger. He says that the best course of action is to treat the disease
- 12:58as soon as it becomes evident at that time, one should also limit freedom
- 13:03of expression and control emotions. But the question is how we recognize and regulate
- 13:11ourselves against these triggers. Step one self- observation and identification. Start by
- 13:16writing down the moments when you feel angry. What triggered this emotion It was
- 13:22a discussion with a colleague, an unjustified delay or an inconsiderate comment from someone
- 13:30else. When you begin to identify specific situations, you will notice a common
- 13:35denominator pattern of these stimuli. Step two analysis and confrontation. Once you have
- 13:41identified triggers, take time to reflect on why they have such a significant impact
- 13:48on you is because they touch a vulnerability, an old wound, or unresolved
- 13:54fear. Understanding the source of emotions will help you control them better. Step
- 14:01three, build coping strategies. Once you understand it triggers your anger, it
- 14:07' s time to develop a plan to deal with it. This could involve
- 14:11focusing on your breathing, using meditation techniques, or simply allowing you to pause
- 14:16before reacting. Ceneca advises that in times of tension you remember that you have
- 14:22the power to choose your answer. Step four, practice and patience. As
- 14:28Seneca said, there is no favorable wind for the sailor who does not know
- 14:33where to go. Learning to control anger is not a one- night stand.
- 14:37It requires daily practice and patience. Remember that every time you manage your
- 14:43Wrath, you are not only protecting your relationships, but also fostering personal growth.
- 14:48IRA dominance is not achieved overnight. It is a journey of self-
- 14:54discovery and development marked by moments of triumph and failure. But with goat by
- 15:00step. Given your conscience, you will come closer to the calm shores of
- 15:03emotional balance. Number six. Practice self- reflection. Understanding and controlling IRA
- 15:11is more than just a reflection. It is a deep adventure in the inner
- 15:16world of ourselves. Imagine being in front of a mirror in the dark and
- 15:20the light only shines when you use your sincere heart. Self- reflection is
- 15:24not just looking to the past, but an opportunity to explore the mind and
- 15:30understand oneself. On the way to understanding and managing the IRA. We face
- 15:35not only the dark emotions of the past, but we also delve deep into
- 15:39the soul, where mysteries and discoveries await. When we take the time to
- 15:46rest, find peace within our minds and ask questions, we not only pray,
- 15:52but also create a quiet space for thoughts and emotions to continue. We
- 15:58sit not only to wonder why I feel angry, but also to take the
- 16:03time to listen to the answers that our soul provides what I can do to
- 16:11control my anger. This is not just a question, but a call to
- 16:15enter into oneself to discover the patience and hidden strength within each of us from
- 16:19where it comes from This feeling is not just a question, but an opportunity
- 16:25to explore the origin of emotions and clarify our thoughts and actions. During this
- 16:32time you don' t need to judge or evaluate yourself. Instead, accept
- 16:37every thought and feeling, naturally, while maintaining a calm heart and an open
- 16:42mind. In this way we have the opportunity to learn from our experiences and
- 16:49develop empathy and patience towards ourselves. This process not only helps us understand the
- 16:56causes of anger, but also helps us develop the skills to control and manage
- 17:00emotions. Number seven learns to heal rather than punish, rather than seek revenge
- 17:08for a wound. Revenge wastes a lot of time and exposes you to more
- 17:15injuries than the first one that caused it. The IRA always beats pain.
- 17:19It is better to take the opposite path. Ceneca' s question about healing
- 17:23rather than punishing raises an extremely important issue in the control of the IRA and
- 17:29the construction of healthy relationships. Instead of spending time and energy seeking revenge,
- 17:34seeking reconciliation and healing not only helps us overcome loss or injury, but also
- 17:40strengthens mental resilience and social relationships. When we choose the path of healing rather
- 17:48than punishment, we demonstrate depth and intelligence in the management of relationships. Healing
- 17:55can generate more positive results not only for yourself or n o n ns but
- 17:59also for those around us. For example, imagine that you work in an
- 18:06organization and feel angry with a colleague because his unprofessional actions have caused discomfort or
- 18:11damage to the project you are working on. Instead of reacting strongly or criticizing
- 18:17immediately, you decide to approach the problem wisely and constructively. You have a
- 18:23private conversation with that colleague, showing care and willingness to listen to the reasons
- 18:29behind his actions. By understanding your colleague' s perspective and sharing your point
- 18:33of view, kindly, you help them to recognize the consequences of their actions
- 18:38and find ways to rectify the situation. As a result, not only is
- 18:44disagreement resolved peacefully, but the relationship between you and your colleague is also strengthened
- 18:49based on mutual respect and understanding. In conclusion, healing often brings more positive
- 18:56results than punishment, an expression of intelligence, compassion, and the ability to
- 19:03control anger. Choosing this path not only helps us to progress on the path
- 19:08of personal development, but also contributes to peace and happiness in the social community.
- 19:15Comment on whether you agree with this perspective and practice healing instead of punishment.
- 19:22Number eight. Use art and music to calm your mind. The use
- 19:26of art and music is not only a means of entertainment, but also a
- 19:30powerful tool to calm and balance the cenic mind emphasizes not only the control of
- 19:37emotions, but also the search for inner peace in each situation. Art and
- 19:42music are not mere forms of expression, but also means by which we can
- 19:47find deep connections with ourselves and the world around us. Faced with a work
- 19:53of art or a musical melody, we are not only observers, but also
- 20:00participants, creators of meaning that connect us with our deepest emotions. For example,
- 20:06in a psychological session to learn how to manage anger, tools such as
- 20:11art and music are often used to help customers relax and understand their anger.
- 20:17The emotions and feelings that the work of art and music bring can help people
- 20:22find balance and inner peace, thus helping them to better manage anger and face
- 20:27everyday life with confidence and tranquility. By diving into the space of art and
- 20:34music, we can find comfort, openness and freedom that nothing else can compare.
- 20:41Music can especially penetrate the mind and calm anger and attention. From the
- 20:45soft melodies of classical music to the soft notes of jazz and the animated rhythms
- 20:52of pop music. Each genre of music generates a unique state of mind,
- 20:56from serenity and relaxation, you have ta tas the excitement and enthusiasm. Music
- 21:02is not only a form of interpretation, but a language of the soul,
- 21:07a way of communicating and understanding emotions that words cannot express number nine Choose your
- 21:14friends wisely, according to the latest psychological research, the people with whom you
- 21:19communicate and make decisions determine up to ninety- five percent of your success or
- 21:25failure in life. However, Seneca acknowledged this truth thousands of years ago.
- 21:33The IRA spreads faster than the fire surrounds you with morally upright companions. Seneca
- 21:38believed in the importance of surrounding himself with morally upright individuals who demonstrated wisdom,
- 21:45courage, justice and kindness. These friends serve as positive role models and guides
- 21:51to help you overcome life' s challenges with calmness and perseverance. Toxic relationships
- 21:56characterized by drama, negativity and volatility can exacerbate feelings of anger and brain disappointment?
- 22:06Do you advise not to associate with people who exhibit reckless behaviors or who
- 22:12frequently incite conflicts? Instead, it prioritizes relationships that promote tranquility and self-
- 22:18discipline. These friends serve as positive role models and guides to help you overcome
- 22:23life' s challenges with calmness and perseverance. Toxic relationships characterized by drama,
- 22:30negativity and volatility can exacerbate feelings of anger and séneca disappointment? Do you advise
- 22:38not to associate with people who exhibit reckless behaviors or who frequently incite conflicts?
- 22:45Instead, it prioritizes relationships that promote tranquility and self- discipline. Imagine a
- 22:52scenario in which Johan, a passionate follower of stoicism, struggles to control his
- 22:56irascible temperament, despite his best efforts to keep calm, is easily provoked by
- 23:03the antics of his volatile and confrontational friend Mike. Miike' s tendency to
- 23:10engage in heated discussions and provocative behavior angers John, leading to tense interactions and
- 23:15emotional turbulence. Recognizing the detrimental impact of his friendship on his stoic journey,
- 23:23John decides to reassess his social relationships, gradually distance himself from harmful influences such
- 23:30as Mike and seeks companions who share values of tranquility and self- discipline with
- 23:37him, as he surrounds himself with virtuous friends who serve as role models for
- 23:41stoic principles. John experiences greater inner peace and finds it easier to control his
- 23:45number ten anger to learn to laugh at yourself Seneca challenged us to reflect on
- 23:52how a wise person should behave when under pressure in a world full of challenges
- 23:57and tensions. Or using self- critical humor becomes an effective method to relieve
- 24:03pressure and eliminate negative emotions. It is especially crucial to deal with moments of
- 24:11anger. Using self- critical humor instead of reacting with anger or tension helps
- 24:15us to approach each situation with a lighter attitude, allowing us to regulate our
- 24:22emotions in a flexible and effective way. Seneca emphasized the need to keep our
- 24:27minds open and ready to consider problems from multiple perspectives. By applying self-
- 24:34critical humor, we can confront and control negative emotions and see ourselves and situations
- 24:40from a new perspective, helping to reduce stress and create a positive space for
- 24:45us and those around us. In addition, integrating self- critical humor into
- 24:52daily life not only helps us understand ourselves and our resilience, but also transforms
- 24:57challenges into joys, thus improving patience and flexibility in thought. Finally, understanding
- 25:07and using self- critical humor not only helps eliminate negative emotions, but also
- 25:12contributes to building sustainable social relationships. Humor becomes a powerful bridge that facilitates cheerful
- 25:19and safe interaction with others. From the perspective of Ceneca and stoic philosophy,
- 25:26we can see that controlling the IRA is not only an art, but also
- 25:30an important lesson in life. Seneca has provided us with deep and practical advice
- 25:37to confront and overcome these negative emotions. IRA, soul destroyer or catalyst of
- 25:42change, The choice is yours armed with the stoicism of Ceneca, transform your
- 25:48inner storm into a beacon of wisdom. See you at our next stoic meeting
- 25:55for winners, where we will continue to explore the riches of stoic wisdom applied
- 26:00to modern life, until we meet again remember you are the sole owner of
- 26:07your perception, the creator of your peace and the warrior of your own battle.
- 26:14This is the legacy of stoicism, the art of being invincible.