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- 0:00Speaker 1: Welcome to We Talk Back Podcast, the production of iHeartRadio
- 0:04Speaker 1: and the Black Effect Network.
- 0:08Speaker 2: So we're just two unapologetically black women with an opinion
- 0:12Speaker 2: who talks.
- 0:17Speaker 3: What's up y'all? Is your girl a j holiday? What's up?
- 0:20Speaker 3: Tam bizil?
- 0:22Speaker 2: Hey not tam bizil. I love y'all. I missed y'all.
- 0:26Speaker 2: Thank you for coming back again this week.
- 0:29Speaker 1: How was your weekend? Girl?
- 0:33Speaker 3: Oh?
- 0:33Speaker 1: It was the fourth of July, right, it was. I
- 0:38Speaker 1: went to my best friend's house. She had like a
- 0:40Speaker 1: little get together at her dad's house, a lot of drinking.
- 0:44Speaker 1: I didn't drink any liquor, but I drunk wine and
- 0:47Speaker 1: still ruined my Sunday because I just was slow and
- 0:50Speaker 1: fucking lethargic.
- 0:52Speaker 3: Yeah, so that's all. It was eating.
- 0:54Speaker 1: And I still was kind of like trying to stick
- 0:56Speaker 1: to my lived not diet.
- 1:00Speaker 3: Get it.
- 1:01Speaker 1: Yeah, I lived there, so I was still trying to
- 1:05Speaker 1: stay away from carbs and sugar child.
- 1:07Speaker 3: So whatever that looked like for a holiday weekend.
- 1:12Speaker 2: Let me say, I had all these plans, Like Karsha
- 1:14Speaker 2: was at STATS on Sunday, I was like, yeah, I'm
- 1:17Speaker 2: outside this weekend. I had plans to go to barbecues,
- 1:21Speaker 2: pool parties. I didn't go to ship. I did not
- 1:25Speaker 2: go to nothing Like. I just could not be bothered.
- 1:27Speaker 2: Like it was so hot, it was next level hot
- 1:31Speaker 2: and I was like, I'm not I can't move and
- 1:35Speaker 2: I didn't. After I got off work, I took a shower.
- 1:37Speaker 2: I was like, Yeah'm gona take a shower, take a
- 1:38Speaker 2: power nap. I woke up. It was the next day.
- 1:41Speaker 3: Yeah, you gotta lay down on your body, tell you too.
- 1:43Speaker 2: Yeah.
- 1:44Speaker 3: So THEA ain't a bad thing.
- 1:47Speaker 1: STATS is like the longest running club now at this
- 1:49Speaker 1: point in Colombia, right, Yeah, that's been opened.
- 1:53Speaker 3: Like a good ten years now. Yeah, that's they're doing. Really.
- 1:59Speaker 2: Yeah, they're having a good run. And they still bring
- 2:02Speaker 2: out all the miss artists and it's big inside, you know,
- 2:06Speaker 2: so they can pack it out. Yeah, but I mean
- 2:10Speaker 2: I ain't seen it.
- 2:12Speaker 1: It has seen mormon are like she was performing or
- 2:16Speaker 1: it was just like a meet and greet. It was
- 2:18Speaker 1: just like hosting. She just been in the standing around. God, yeah, Dan,
- 2:25Speaker 1: send a little bit. I'm sure got it.
- 2:29Speaker 3: Well let's get into sins.
- 2:31Speaker 2: Let's put into it.
- 2:34Speaker 1: So I saw this article. Listen, I don't know what's
- 2:37Speaker 1: really what's fake on the Internet. I feel like some
- 2:39Speaker 1: of these headlines it just matched stupid Internet news. Whether
- 2:42Speaker 1: it's real or not, it's stupid shit sins. So this article,
- 2:49Speaker 1: and I do believe that this is an accurate or
- 2:52Speaker 1: real article, but it says one third men in America
- 2:57Speaker 1: are not working or looking for a job right now now.
- 3:00Speaker 1: The male labor force participation rate dropped to sixty seven percent,
- 3:07Speaker 1: So it says a growing share of American men and
- 3:09Speaker 1: this is not just black men, Okay, So I'm becoming
- 3:11Speaker 1: for us. A growing share of American men are sitting
- 3:15Speaker 1: outside the workforce entirely, raising new concerns about the direction
- 3:20Speaker 1: of the US economy and the long term social effects
- 3:23Speaker 1: of men becoming disconnected from work. According to recent labor data,
- 3:28Speaker 1: the male labor force participation rate has fallen to sixty
- 3:31Speaker 1: to around sixty seven percent from men ages sixteen and older,
- 3:34Speaker 1: meaning roughly one in three men are not working and
- 3:38Speaker 1: are not actively looking for a job. The labor force
- 3:42Speaker 1: participation rate counts people who either have a job or
- 3:45Speaker 1: are actively seeking one, so men outside that group are
- 3:49Speaker 1: not counted as unemployed, they are considered out of the
- 3:52Speaker 1: labor force. So if you are sixteen plus and they
- 3:56Speaker 1: don't see you working anywhere. The assumption is that you
- 4:00Speaker 1: don't work, or you're not generating, you're not producing. The
- 4:05Speaker 1: decline is part of a decades long trend. Federal labor
- 4:08Speaker 1: projection show that men ages sixteen and older had a
- 4:11Speaker 1: labor force participation rate of seventy three point three and
- 4:14Speaker 1: twenty twenty four, I mean, excuse me, two thousand and
- 4:16Speaker 1: four sixty nine point two percent, and twenty fourteen and
- 4:19Speaker 1: sixty eight percent in twenty twenty four. The Bureau of
- 4:23Speaker 1: Labor Statistics projects that that figure could fall to sixty
- 4:26Speaker 1: five point eight by twenty thirty four. And I probably
- 4:31Speaker 1: should have just skipped some of this, but I just
- 4:33Speaker 1: wanted to understand why this is happening, right, So it
- 4:35Speaker 1: says several factors are driving the drop.
- 4:39Speaker 3: More older men.
- 4:40Speaker 1: Are retiring, Some younger men are staying in school longer.
- 4:44Speaker 1: That's a good thing. Some have disabilities or health issues
- 4:50Speaker 1: and are seeking and excuse me, that are keeping them
- 4:53Speaker 1: from seeking work. There's also a mismatch in the labor market.
- 4:58Speaker 1: Many of the fastest growing jobs are and feels like
- 5:00Speaker 1: health care and education, while some traditionally male heavy industries
- 5:05Speaker 1: have faced slower growth or job loss. Yeah, the headline
- 5:11Speaker 1: can sound like an unemployment crisis, but it's different from
- 5:14Speaker 1: the unemployment rate. A man who is not working but
- 5:18Speaker 1: is also not searching for work is not counted as unemployed.
- 5:22Speaker 1: That means the unemployment rate can stay relatively low even
- 5:25Speaker 1: while millions of men are no longer participating and.
- 5:29Speaker 3: The force at all. So do we think they're well,
- 5:32Speaker 3: you know, these are these what are scamming ass niggas
- 5:34Speaker 3: at that. I say, it's.
- 5:36Speaker 2: Funny that you mentioned is because I went to brunch
- 5:39Speaker 2: with my homegirl on a Tuesday afternoon and it was
- 5:44Speaker 2: like packed as fuck, and I was like, why is
- 5:48Speaker 2: nobody that word? Why people at brunch on a Tuesday
- 5:53Speaker 2: at eleven o'clock and I'm talking, it was all kinds
- 5:56Speaker 2: of people in there. I'm like, nobody works anymore, No,
- 6:00Speaker 2: nobody works.
- 6:01Speaker 1: I've always thought a long time that white men didn't
- 6:04Speaker 1: work because they oftentimes they're they're investing, right, They're like
- 6:07Speaker 1: day day traders and stuff like that. You see them
- 6:10Speaker 1: out in the middle of the day all the time.
- 6:12Speaker 1: They play golf in the middle of the day. So
- 6:15Speaker 1: I think maybe a lot more, you know, a lot
- 6:20Speaker 1: more black men, maybe getting into stock market that type
- 6:24Speaker 1: of stuff, or they're aren't you that doesn't.
- 6:27Speaker 2: Require you to sit in an office or at a desk,
- 6:31Speaker 2: right or.
- 6:33Speaker 1: Something like that, So technically they're not unemployed. I just
- 6:36Speaker 1: wonder how they collect the data for real, right, right?
- 6:42Speaker 1: Or maybe they go off of like taxes and stuff
- 6:44Speaker 1: like that, because if you're not filing taxes or taxes
- 6:47Speaker 1: being taken out of a paycheck by way of a
- 6:49Speaker 1: company you're working at, like how kind of off the
- 6:52Speaker 1: radar basically?
- 6:55Speaker 3: So I don't know. I mean, I've been one of them.
- 6:58Speaker 2: That's a lot of women in there too.
- 7:01Speaker 1: Women probably be working from home, and it's just to
- 7:04Speaker 1: be dipping out, you know what I'm saying, dipping out
- 7:06Speaker 1: on the job.
- 7:07Speaker 3: Who knows, I don't know. Probably my hair.
- 7:10Speaker 2: I have clients in there with two laptops and they
- 7:13Speaker 2: lab working two jobs at the same time while they
- 7:15Speaker 2: getting their hair done.
- 7:16Speaker 1: So yeah, so I don't know. I don't know, but
- 7:20Speaker 1: it's kind of telling though, you know what I'm saying, Like,
- 7:23Speaker 1: you got women who are making their standards even more higher, right,
- 7:29Speaker 1: and then the men.
- 7:30Speaker 3: Are complaining about it.
- 7:32Speaker 1: Because there are certain qualifications to get kouchie that you know,
- 7:37Speaker 1: women are now just now trying to enforce and they
- 7:41Speaker 1: be mad because they don't got the money for the pussy.
- 7:49Speaker 2: I got the money for the I got for the money.
- 7:56Speaker 2: I don't know.
- 7:56Speaker 3: Y'all, niggas better get to work.
- 7:58Speaker 1: And this is not just black people, black men, this
- 8:00Speaker 1: is just the total sum of American men.
- 8:03Speaker 3: What the fuck y'all doing playing video games?
- 8:06Speaker 1: You know?
- 8:06Speaker 3: I think, wasn't this the goal though?
- 8:09Speaker 1: Wasn't this the whole goal with AI was for you know,
- 8:12Speaker 1: people to not have to do like all these trivial
- 8:14Speaker 1: type jobs anymore. Like a I would take care of
- 8:16Speaker 1: it so we can spend more time being creatives. And
- 8:20Speaker 1: everybody's a yeah, everybody's a social media influencer now.
- 8:26Speaker 2: But I saw this, a video of an AI of
- 8:28Speaker 2: a robot trying to shove a snow hilarious.
- 8:33Speaker 3: We're not there yet.
- 8:34Speaker 2: We were from where we need to be for AI,
- 8:37Speaker 2: the AI takeover.
- 8:39Speaker 1: They at least trying to get the those the self
- 8:44Speaker 1: driving eighteen wheelers and stuff like that, which is very
- 8:47Speaker 1: scary to me. Get spamage an eighteen wheeler can cause
- 8:51Speaker 1: it's terrifying. When I was in Atlanta, in Atlanta for
- 8:54Speaker 1: the live show. I could not believe all the all
- 8:57Speaker 1: these what do you call it on ton miss cars
- 9:01Speaker 1: driving around like people actually getting them allowing these cars
- 9:04Speaker 1: to drop.
- 9:05Speaker 3: Never get never This is total recall.
- 9:09Speaker 2: First of all, I need somebody else's life on the
- 9:12Speaker 2: line with me, not just mine, right, like.
- 9:17Speaker 3: What and then what ef you see?
- 9:19Speaker 1: This is my mind going take shit even further, Like
- 9:21Speaker 1: we already know a certain amount of people gotta die
- 9:23Speaker 1: every year, right, so now you you you calculating all
- 9:27Speaker 1: the cars now have computers in there where they can
- 9:30Speaker 1: make your brakes fuck up, or they can cut your
- 9:32Speaker 1: engine off while you're driving out an interstate causing accident.
- 9:34Speaker 1: Now you hopping in the car with a robot uh
- 9:38Speaker 1: driving whoever?
- 9:39Speaker 3: You know the car is driving by itself.
- 9:41Speaker 1: What if they just need to take a few people
- 9:43Speaker 1: out today, we're gonna we're gonna do y'all in these.
- 9:48Speaker 2: The hell and it would be so simple, won't get me?
- 9:52Speaker 3: Like an accident? Yeah next to at least let me
- 9:56Speaker 3: get in the driver seat. Yeah, I'm grabbing.
- 10:00Speaker 2: Will Yeah, so I can I can take over it?
- 10:03Speaker 2: Shit jump off, like that should be an option, Like
- 10:06Speaker 2: you just sit in the driver's seat.
- 10:08Speaker 3: No, you're sitting in the bank. These people nuts man, No,
- 10:15Speaker 3: all right, so.
- 10:15Speaker 2: Listen to this study reveals that women are often right
- 10:18Speaker 2: in arguments. Yes, not that we needed to study to notice,
- 10:21Speaker 2: but here we are, all right. According to a study
- 10:26Speaker 2: by the University of Cambridge involving over three hundred thousand
- 10:30Speaker 2: participants across fifty seven country, found that women excel in
- 10:34Speaker 2: understanding emotions, which aids in resolving conflicts. The study, using
- 10:38Speaker 2: the Reading the Mind and the Eyes tests, revealed that
- 10:41Speaker 2: women score higher on tests measuring emotional awareness and empathy.
- 10:45Speaker 2: This ability allows them to interpret emotional cues more accurately,
- 10:48Speaker 2: improving their communication and problem solving skills. During arguments, Women's
- 10:52Speaker 2: heighten emotional insight helps them make informed decisions, giving them
- 10:56Speaker 2: an advantage in conflict resolution. Yeah, I mean they wasted
- 11:01Speaker 2: time doing this study. Needn't know that women are better
- 11:05Speaker 2: at this, you know, And that's.
- 11:07Speaker 1: Why men hate it because they don't be having a
- 11:09Speaker 1: response for the shit. Right. It usually be some shit
- 11:11Speaker 1: like man, you're crazy, Like when we let me talk
- 11:17Speaker 1: the problem, you won't let me talk, and they don't
- 11:20Speaker 1: say nothing, but go ahead, I'm gonna say nothing.
- 11:24Speaker 2: And then instead of actually talking all you're gonna do?
- 11:26Speaker 2: Is can keep saying, I don't let you talk?
- 11:29Speaker 1: Oh a nigga is schedule a talk with you, like
- 11:31Speaker 1: we need to talk, and then you end up the
- 11:33Speaker 1: only person talking.
- 11:34Speaker 3: I know you said we need to talk. Why am
- 11:36Speaker 3: I the only.
- 11:37Speaker 1: Person expressing all my grievances and you have zero to say?
- 11:41Speaker 3: Right? What the hell? We don't need to talk?
- 11:44Speaker 1: Actually, I'm talking to myself out this relationship.
- 11:47Speaker 3: That's what's happening. Listen.
- 11:51Speaker 1: I remember being in in a couple's therapy like we
- 11:54Speaker 1: were there to stay together. I well, he was there
- 11:57Speaker 1: to stay together. I really went a couples there to
- 12:00Speaker 1: therapy to break up. Yeah, And once I sat and
- 12:05Speaker 1: told this therapist our story and the things that had
- 12:08Speaker 1: transpired over the years, it took approximately four hours to
- 12:12Speaker 1: do so, and we had to pay that man. Well, right,
- 12:15Speaker 1: once I sat there, he had no objections, like he's
- 12:17Speaker 1: on the phone too, Like he had nothing to say,
- 12:20Speaker 1: like you lie in nothing, no objections to any of
- 12:24Speaker 1: the ship I was fucking saying for four hours. And
- 12:27Speaker 1: after I said all those things out loud, I'm like, okay, yeah,
- 12:29Speaker 1: this is this is it.
- 12:30Speaker 3: Now I feel stupid. I feel stupid. Regurgitating this is bullshit.
- 12:37Speaker 1: And he had nothing to say, no arguments, no objections,
- 12:41Speaker 1: you know, ad drug grievances, and what's the problems you
- 12:43Speaker 1: got with me?
- 12:44Speaker 2: He like, you got it?
- 12:47Speaker 3: You got it. It's like all this shit is fucking true.
- 12:52Speaker 1: Men, I don't know man, And now a nigga who
- 12:55Speaker 1: can't argue with you, like now we calling them sack.
- 13:00Speaker 3: See.
- 13:01Speaker 2: I hate to go back and forth with this nigga.
- 13:06Speaker 3: Right, it's exhausting.
- 13:09Speaker 2: You get your way actual points and data and articles.
- 13:15Speaker 1: The ship still be skewed though, Like when people start
- 13:17Speaker 1: sending you like articles and she's like, listen, I can
- 13:20Speaker 1: also find some shit online that supports what.
- 13:22Speaker 2: You can find some ship online to support anything.
- 13:26Speaker 1: Yes, So I mean you still don't have a point
- 13:29Speaker 1: a nigga. I argue your nigga to the death. I
- 13:32Speaker 1: argue anybody to the death. Actually, I get tired. I
- 13:37Speaker 1: turned into a nigga. You got it, you got it,
- 13:40Speaker 1: you got it. I was just telling my mom a
- 13:43Speaker 1: couple of weeks ago, like the difference between her and
- 13:45Speaker 1: I is that like she gets so flustered and upset
- 13:47Speaker 1: to where she can't even articulate with her points. Right,
- 13:50Speaker 1: I get mad because I know I have overly over time. Also,
- 13:56Speaker 1: in this moment and in previous moments, I have explicitly
- 13:59Speaker 1: stated that expectations, all these things, and you act like
- 14:02Speaker 1: you don't understand. That's when I get fucking mad. That's
- 14:05Speaker 1: when I started yelling like I'm at least tell you
- 14:08Speaker 1: what tom is or what I expect and you got
- 14:10Speaker 1: the opportunity to also do the same.
- 14:12Speaker 3: I get frustrated and start yelling when a nigga act
- 14:15Speaker 3: like they don't understand that. That gets some of my
- 14:16Speaker 3: damn nerves.
- 14:18Speaker 2: Well, sometimes people be committed to misunderstanding you, and that's
- 14:21Speaker 2: why you just got to like be like you got it,
- 14:25Speaker 2: because some people are literally their commitment is more to
- 14:28Speaker 2: misunderstanding than understanding.
- 14:30Speaker 3: I agree, y'all.
- 14:32Speaker 1: Beyonce Daddy is out here on Beyonce Internet saying we've
- 14:36Speaker 1: been had that check.
- 14:37Speaker 3: When Beyonce was.
- 14:39Speaker 1: He said nineteen eighty eighty one, two three forty five,
- 14:43Speaker 1: Like Beyonce grew up in a nice ass house.
- 14:45Speaker 3: We had one of the biggest.
- 14:46Speaker 1: Hair salons, best hair salons in Houston, Texas. I invested
- 14:49Speaker 1: in my wife and that's how we were able to
- 14:51Speaker 1: create Destiny's child, because I guess for years people have
- 14:55Speaker 1: been telling him or you know, insinuating right that the
- 15:01Speaker 1: Knowles family wasn't successful up until you know, destiny.
- 15:07Speaker 2: Like Desney's child made them rich. And he said, uh,
- 15:10Speaker 2: I was had a million in Beyonce was four. Please
- 15:13Speaker 2: don't play me, let me pop my ship.
- 15:16Speaker 1: But I'm trying to figure out what the hell was
- 15:18Speaker 1: he doing on TS Madison.
- 15:21Speaker 3: Podcast.
- 15:23Speaker 2: Yeah that was How did that happen?
- 15:25Speaker 3: And why? I have no idea. I have no idea.
- 15:29Speaker 3: I wish he would come on.
- 15:30Speaker 1: We talked back for sure, me too, don't give me
- 15:34Speaker 1: one second ship?
- 15:37Speaker 3: What the hell?
- 15:39Speaker 2: But Matthey knows you might suck around and be giving
- 15:42Speaker 2: Beyonce a brother.
- 15:45Speaker 3: Beyond.
- 15:46Speaker 1: He got like a younger kid, right, Yeah, he got
- 15:50Speaker 1: like a younger kid, like a little girl. I guess
- 15:54Speaker 1: that they really don't funk with like that that he
- 15:56Speaker 1: made while still marrying.
- 15:58Speaker 3: I thought I was a little boy, or maybe he
- 16:01Speaker 3: got both. I'm pretty sure it was a little girl though.
- 16:04Speaker 3: But yeah, he like.
- 16:08Speaker 1: No, I definitely I do. I like him, and you know,
- 16:11Speaker 1: after Tina knowles last divorce, I'm like, girl, you might
- 16:15Speaker 1: be the problem because I would watch.
- 16:17Speaker 3: Some of the interviews between her and her ex husband.
- 16:21Speaker 2: Mm hmm.
- 16:21Speaker 3: She just she just randomly said at landa ship and.
- 16:25Speaker 1: She make a motherfuckers feel this little and that man
- 16:29Speaker 1: was fine as hell, okay, not saying looks at everything.
- 16:31Speaker 1: I don't know what else he had, he's an actor,
- 16:34Speaker 1: mm hmm. But it just seemed like fine, yes, like the.
- 16:39Speaker 2: Fine old man. How do you find how you fumble him?
- 16:42Speaker 2: But Tina fine too, She's fine for life.
- 16:44Speaker 3: Extra.
- 16:44Speaker 2: I heard that gumbo was hitting on ship and uh, rodeo,
- 16:52Speaker 2: but the fire started. A mass produced gumbo though, like
- 17:01Speaker 2: and just have it consistent. I think it should be
- 17:05Speaker 2: one of the easiest things. No, I mean, it's just
- 17:07Speaker 2: really feel like it's hard to get like big gass
- 17:11Speaker 2: benches enough to feed the rodeo to all taste consistent. Well,
- 17:15Speaker 2: I don't know, maybe I'm wrong.
- 17:16Speaker 3: I don't know. I ain't never made gumbo before.
- 17:19Speaker 1: I mean me either, but I made like okra soup
- 17:22Speaker 1: and stuff like that, and I mean, really, it's seen
- 17:25Speaker 1: all your vegetables and then it just boils down to
- 17:28Speaker 1: your seasoning.
- 17:29Speaker 3: Right for real. But that's the part though. She probably
- 17:33Speaker 3: was making that white lady gumbo.
- 17:37Speaker 2: Right, the white side, because I know it's a little
- 17:40Speaker 2: white mixing in there.
- 17:44Speaker 3: Don't say because you know what I have white.
- 17:47Speaker 2: I know it's white people that listen to the show
- 17:48Speaker 2: and be like they hate us, but we don't. Y'all know,
- 17:51Speaker 2: y'all don't be putting that much season on you.
- 17:54Speaker 1: I feel like black people overseasoned things. So I'm kind
- 17:57Speaker 1: of like in the middle with it. They you know,
- 17:59Speaker 1: we we will put every season in the cabinet, and
- 18:02Speaker 1: that's not cooking. It's not cooking if you put in everything.
- 18:05Speaker 1: Why everything tastes like lorries, you know what I'm saying.
- 18:08Speaker 1: Why everything tastes like seasoning salt.
- 18:10Speaker 3: Let me tell you something.
- 18:12Speaker 2: I was at one of my white friend's house and
- 18:15Speaker 2: I was making chicken, and I think like I had
- 18:18Speaker 2: something to prove with the seasoning, so I went a
- 18:20Speaker 2: little crazy. Both of us had that chicken down, like,
- 18:26Speaker 2: give me some water.
- 18:27Speaker 3: Got that it was salty?
- 18:29Speaker 2: Yeah it was too salty. Yeah it was on my
- 18:32Speaker 2: It was my fault because I was just like, they
- 18:34Speaker 2: don't season and I just I went too far. The
- 18:37Speaker 2: ancestors told me to stop, and I said more.
- 18:40Speaker 1: Yeah, like I feel like you can season more with
- 18:42Speaker 1: like your herbs and vegetables and stuff like that too,
- 18:46Speaker 1: like I use a lot of onions garlic, like I
- 18:50Speaker 1: don't use a whole bunch of salt in my food.
- 18:54Speaker 1: And then black people be having multiple multi seasonings that
- 18:57Speaker 1: already had and sodium min in. So now you're adding
- 19:01Speaker 1: regular assault plus every all these other mixed seasons. You
- 19:04Speaker 1: adding to some shit also got salted it like girl
- 19:07Speaker 1: salting right right?
- 19:09Speaker 2: And then't wonder why we got uh, what is it?
- 19:13Speaker 2: Congestive halt failure exactly?
- 19:15Speaker 1: High blood pressure, leada, goddamn accent alone the MSG. Anyway, y'all,
- 19:24Speaker 1: let's get into this week's episode. So every week something
- 19:27Speaker 1: new is dominate in social media lite. But the trends
- 19:30Speaker 1: are not random, and I, you know, I do think
- 19:33Speaker 1: it's like it's social programming as far as I'm concerned.
- 19:36Speaker 3: But they do reveal what.
- 19:38Speaker 1: We're afraid of, what we're chasing, who we idolize, okay,
- 19:43Speaker 1: and what we're willing to overlook for the sake of entertainment.
- 19:49Speaker 1: So this episode asks whether today's VIRON moments are entertaining
- 19:53Speaker 1: us or exposing us.
- 19:55Speaker 2: Let's talk about it, all right, Let's get into it.
- 19:58Speaker 2: We'll be right back.
- 20:04Speaker 3: All right, y'all. So we're back, and let me ask
- 20:09Speaker 3: you this, Tammy.
- 20:10Speaker 1: What was a trend that made you think we're losing
- 20:14Speaker 1: our fucking minds?
- 20:17Speaker 3: Anything you could think of.
- 20:18Speaker 2: You know what, this is not necessari necessarily social media,
- 20:24Speaker 2: but like with door dash and uber eats, having people
- 20:30Speaker 2: leave your food on the ground, there.
- 20:33Speaker 3: Was a time you ain't talking, that's those your favorite things.
- 20:38Speaker 2: Exactly, but there was a time if a delivery person
- 20:41Speaker 2: left your food on the ground, you would be livid done.
- 20:46Speaker 2: You would be all right, why is my pizza on
- 20:49Speaker 2: the ground? Now it's normal, put my pizza on the
- 20:52Speaker 2: grounds and I'll meet it there. That's you know, that's
- 20:56Speaker 2: weird that that's normal. Now.
- 21:00Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't do the uber eat and all that
- 21:02Speaker 1: stuff because I just don't know how these people cars are.
- 21:05Speaker 1: I mean, recently, I hadn't ants in my car because
- 21:07Speaker 1: I was parking by aunt nests and was raining daily.
- 21:09Speaker 1: I had Hella ants in my card to fumigate my car.
- 21:13Speaker 1: So I can only imagine you have people who have
- 21:15Speaker 1: cockroaches in their car. Right, You don't know how these
- 21:18Speaker 1: people cars look, how their hands look like. I just
- 21:20Speaker 1: it's already enough that somebody else is cooking my food
- 21:23Speaker 1: in the restaurant. Now I'm trusting somebody to put it
- 21:25Speaker 1: in their car and bring it while they picking bookers
- 21:27Speaker 1: and digging. They ass to drop it off on my
- 21:30Speaker 1: porch where more ants and bugs and a dog can
- 21:33Speaker 1: possibly come grab it.
- 21:34Speaker 3: Like it's just yeah cool on that trend.
- 21:37Speaker 2: Listen, they staple the bags now, they staple it shut
- 21:41Speaker 2: you can't get into it.
- 21:42Speaker 3: Or they use the receipt it like tape it clothes.
- 21:44Speaker 2: Yeah, so you can just been tampered with. Because I
- 21:48Speaker 2: know one time somebody ate half of my food. I
- 21:50Speaker 2: could tell, like.
- 21:53Speaker 3: Your missing.
- 21:54Speaker 2: It wasn't even fries, it was like chicken over rice,
- 21:58Speaker 2: and it looked like they ate half of it. And
- 22:01Speaker 2: then they took like a fork and like smoothed what
- 22:04Speaker 2: was left out and to make it look full because
- 22:07Speaker 2: it was so lightweight, and I would order this meal
- 22:09Speaker 2: all the time, so I knew, like what the portion
- 22:11Speaker 2: size looked like, girl, what definitely half of my food?
- 22:16Speaker 2: Sh fucking fat ass.
- 22:23Speaker 3: Let me see.
- 22:23Speaker 1: I think when we started doing like the Create challenge
- 22:26Speaker 1: that's now durn durn h covid, that's really when people
- 22:30Speaker 1: lost their mind, as the fucking most because people was
- 22:32Speaker 1: in the house and just doing anything on the internet
- 22:36Speaker 1: for clicks, likes and shears.
- 22:37Speaker 3: I swear to.
- 22:38Speaker 1: God, that got damn crate challenge. How y'all niggas that
- 22:41Speaker 1: was doing that?
- 22:42Speaker 3: She ain't have no healthcare. You got broken bones? Now,
- 22:45Speaker 3: I think one girl got.
- 22:47Speaker 2: Broke her neck?
- 22:49Speaker 3: Like, what was that?
- 22:51Speaker 2: Boredom?
- 22:53Speaker 3: What was that?
- 22:54Speaker 1: Like? Why were y'all climbing out those damn creeks like
- 22:57Speaker 1: that in the building pyramids?
- 22:58Speaker 2: I'm talking about tall as. It's crazy.
- 23:01Speaker 3: What the fuck y'all got the grades from? What are
- 23:04Speaker 3: you from?
- 23:05Speaker 2: Exactly? I haven't seen stupid ass up there.
- 23:09Speaker 1: The only place I remember seeing crates like that was when, uh,
- 23:13Speaker 1: you know, working at my Aunt restaurant when I was
- 23:16Speaker 1: a kid.
- 23:16Speaker 3: And I don't even think they have crates like that anymore.
- 23:18Speaker 3: For sodas. What the hell y'all got those crates from?
- 23:23Speaker 3: I don't know.
- 23:25Speaker 2: Twenty twenty because it's like twenty twenty twenty one. Where
- 23:29Speaker 2: did y'all find him?
- 23:30Speaker 3: Crazy?
- 23:30Speaker 1: Yeah, and like for people to think that they just
- 23:34Speaker 1: all of a sudden, just somebody said, hey, let's do this,
- 23:37Speaker 1: and then it just went viral.
- 23:39Speaker 3: I just don't agree, right, I think the first person.
- 23:42Speaker 1: Who did it was a fucking CIA agent.
- 23:47Speaker 3: And then y'all niggas picked it up on the internet.
- 23:50Speaker 1: We aren't creating these trends oftentimes, right because because why
- 23:56Speaker 1: I don't know. But I even think, like during COVID,
- 23:59Speaker 1: like what pick ball?
- 24:01Speaker 3: Right?
- 24:01Speaker 1: Pickle ball became very popular then, But I know words
- 24:06Speaker 1: have power, So I'm like, is this like a trigger
- 24:09Speaker 1: word for something? Because how is it all of a
- 24:11Speaker 1: sudden everything and it's still.
- 24:14Speaker 3: Everything? Is Ain't.
- 24:18Speaker 2: That's jail ship tennis?
- 24:20Speaker 3: Right?
- 24:23Speaker 1: Yes, Like it's just like it's almost like a trigger
- 24:26Speaker 1: word for something to then happen and there and there's
- 24:28Speaker 1: another word.
- 24:29Speaker 3: I refuse to say, soda. Soda, so soda.
- 24:34Speaker 1: So remember on Tik Tik TikTok it was like this
- 24:38Speaker 1: is so what was how did people say it? D
- 24:44Speaker 1: E m u r e oh yes, yes, I refuse
- 24:51Speaker 1: to say that ship because what was that? I saw
- 24:55Speaker 1: where it started with a guy on TikTok? Yeah, makeup
- 25:01Speaker 1: artist was he just like this is very I'm like,
- 25:04Speaker 1: but why did why did that become a trend?
- 25:07Speaker 3: Like how six seven six seven six seven?
- 25:13Speaker 2: There is no rhyme or reason, like you even asked
- 25:15Speaker 2: the kids why and they don't even know why.
- 25:17Speaker 1: It's just that's what I'm saying. Have you ever listened
- 25:19Speaker 1: to the song that six seven she came from? Yes,
- 25:23Speaker 1: and it's not good.
- 25:25Speaker 2: So I thought it was a guy who I thought
- 25:27Speaker 2: it was like LaMelo Ball or one of those ball niggas,
- 25:30Speaker 2: and they was asking him how tall he was, like
- 25:31Speaker 2: like six six sixty seven.
- 25:34Speaker 3: No, it's a song associated with that six seven?
- 25:36Speaker 2: Shit? Did it come before that conversation or after?
- 25:41Speaker 1: I think after I mean, or maybe before I don't know,
- 25:45Speaker 1: I don't know. Yeah, but yeah, those are those are
- 25:49Speaker 1: the trends that made me like I anytime people everybody
- 25:53Speaker 1: going left, I'm going right and vice versa every time
- 25:57Speaker 1: because I know that this this people see everything mostly
- 26:01Speaker 1: surface level and this this ship is not happenstance nothing.
- 26:05Speaker 3: We all lived in the Truman Show.
- 26:07Speaker 1: So you think you just arbitrarily doing arbitrarily doing this
- 26:10Speaker 1: thing is just it's not.
- 26:11Speaker 3: You're not just doing it.
- 26:12Speaker 1: Something that is making you do this, and you're essentially yeah,
- 26:19Speaker 1: because you're a follower, like for real in real life.
- 26:23Speaker 2: But were there any trends that you did jump on
- 26:26Speaker 2: their mannequin challenge had a Nigga's like, let's little mannequin challenge.
- 26:30Speaker 2: I should wait to be a mannequin.
- 26:33Speaker 3: I never did it. You did it.
- 26:38Speaker 2: We're a mannequin at least seven times with seven different
- 26:41Speaker 2: groups of motherfuckers.
- 26:45Speaker 3: Baby, I love the freeze.
- 26:47Speaker 2: I still be doing that ship with somebody on FaceTime
- 26:49Speaker 2: and they ask me for some ship, I will get
- 26:51Speaker 2: frozen real quick.
- 26:51Speaker 3: Like why was that song associated with stopping and freezing? Hm?
- 26:58Speaker 1: Hm?
- 27:00Speaker 3: The video wasn't about the video wasn't about it about that? What?
- 27:06Speaker 3: Why was being a mannequin? Right?
- 27:09Speaker 1: A fake person, a fake thing? Nothing associated with that song?
- 27:16Speaker 1: And why was that the song for it for the
- 27:17Speaker 1: mannequin challenge? That's what I'm saying, Like this shit is
- 27:22Speaker 1: fucking weird to me, and I just don't understand.
- 27:25Speaker 3: Why don't nobody else think like that.
- 27:27Speaker 1: I don't understand, like y'all not y'all not doing these
- 27:30Speaker 1: things because y'all want to. Some other examples of like, uh,
- 27:37Speaker 1: viral trends is like soft life, soft life content.
- 27:41Speaker 2: Mm hmm, it's soft life even real. I think it's
- 27:44Speaker 2: just content. Yeah, they're same people will be like doing
- 27:48Speaker 2: all this soft shit and then as soon as they
- 27:50Speaker 2: start they screaming at set.
- 27:52Speaker 3: The fuck damn you kids are driving me crazy. Yeah,
- 27:56Speaker 3: it is it healing or is it just like luxury marketing?
- 28:00Speaker 1: It's constantly Basically I like to see people living good,
- 28:04Speaker 1: you know, So if I subscribe to any trends online,
- 28:06Speaker 1: it would be like the high fashion. They want to
- 28:10Speaker 1: call it soft life. Because my homegirl, Alana Elena whatever
- 28:14Speaker 1: her name is the Russian, she is fucking pregnant bitch.
- 28:17Speaker 3: She posted yesterday. I'm so happy anytime I see it.
- 28:21Speaker 1: Listen, they be trying to say she's thirty nine, forty girl,
- 28:23Speaker 1: by okay, this is the old bitch.
- 28:25Speaker 3: She got too much crows feet to say she ain't
- 28:27Speaker 3: forty five.
- 28:28Speaker 2: But she pregnant white though, so it'd be like a
- 28:31Speaker 2: little different sometimes with Dell and she.
- 28:34Speaker 1: Got a face full of fillers, So I mean, she
- 28:36Speaker 1: just doesn't look young, but she pregnant, and I'd be
- 28:42Speaker 1: happy anytime.
- 28:43Speaker 3: I'm old bitch pregnant me too.
- 28:46Speaker 1: Yes, And she got her dream house or her dream relationship,
- 28:49Speaker 1: her husband, Like that is the content I love to consume. Yeah,
- 28:54Speaker 1: like the nice house, the mansion, the fucking Rose Royce
- 28:57Speaker 1: Park outside.
- 28:58Speaker 3: Yes, but I follow a lot of it just like
- 29:00Speaker 3: that who she.
- 29:01Speaker 2: Makes everything from scratch and she talks like this and
- 29:03Speaker 2: then oh, you know you're talking about.
- 29:07Speaker 3: I don't know her, guy, I follow her too, I know.
- 29:10Speaker 2: Her kid is. She just revealed that she had heard
- 29:12Speaker 2: a baby his childhood cancer and it's just crazy and
- 29:15Speaker 2: it makes you feel like because she is like feeding
- 29:17Speaker 2: that baby perfect.
- 29:18Speaker 3: You know, yes, yes, still Nara, her name is Nara.
- 29:24Speaker 3: You know. The thing is you have to consider other things, right, so, yes,
- 29:28Speaker 3: you could do.
- 29:29Speaker 1: You we are making food from scratch, but these ingredients
- 29:32Speaker 1: a lot of times aren't aren't natural, not derived from
- 29:36Speaker 1: natural sources. So really, if you even smallest, breaking down
- 29:42Speaker 1: to the smallest thing, fucking acid rain or you know
- 29:45Speaker 1: what's coming out of our atmosphere that's raining onto the soil,
- 29:47Speaker 1: it's the soil even because even if you're growing some
- 29:49Speaker 1: shit at the house. It's just like America is a project.
- 29:53Speaker 1: There are things here that are not allowed anyplace else
- 29:55Speaker 1: in the world. Right, there are things in our foods,
- 29:58Speaker 1: things in our face products here all this ship like
- 30:01Speaker 1: it's just like, let's see if the Americans can live
- 30:04Speaker 1: through this.
- 30:05Speaker 3: It's like just like lab rats.
- 30:07Speaker 2: I saw that, like Sweden when they sent their feet
- 30:10Speaker 2: for team. They sent food with them. They sent a
- 30:14Speaker 2: whole bunch of food because they didn't trust the American
- 30:17Speaker 2: food to feed their team.
- 30:19Speaker 1: Imagine that, y'all, Imagine that another country is sending the
- 30:23Speaker 1: motherfucking free lunch for they.
- 30:30Speaker 3: Don't trust the trash.
- 30:32Speaker 2: I really enjoyed the videos of all the other countries
- 30:35Speaker 2: like America. The food is so good.
- 30:37Speaker 3: I see why y'all so fat. Yeah, because it's full
- 30:41Speaker 3: of bullshit.
- 30:42Speaker 1: It's full of things that make you think it tastes
- 30:44Speaker 1: good mm hm, and it really doesn't, like you're eating
- 30:48Speaker 1: a bunch of dead ship even they say in the.
- 30:51Speaker 3: Lettuce the salad is fucked up over here, like god
- 30:54Speaker 3: damn man.
- 30:55Speaker 2: You know they recently on bags of lettuce that said
- 30:59Speaker 2: it had not e coli. What's the other one that's
- 31:03Speaker 2: really with the s? I think it starts samonella. Let
- 31:07Speaker 2: us got salmonella?
- 31:08Speaker 3: That's from boodioles. How do let us get salmonella? Somebody?
- 31:15Speaker 2: More like with flashing meat and stuff like that.
- 31:18Speaker 3: Mm hmm.
- 31:19Speaker 2: Maybe you just yeah to pray. That's why I say,
- 31:21Speaker 2: just pray over it, because it don't matter. That's you know,
- 31:25Speaker 2: you can door dash it, you could grow it.
- 31:28Speaker 3: It might be booty hole on it.
- 31:30Speaker 2: Well, you know, like.
- 31:34Speaker 3: A little hint.
- 31:35Speaker 1: You know. Another trend that is really disgusting right now
- 31:40Speaker 1: is the my homegirl. We always like swapping music. Anytime
- 31:43Speaker 1: we have a fly song, we send in the link,
- 31:45Speaker 1: right and I'm like, girl, if you send me another
- 31:47Speaker 1: AI artist, I automatically know somebody's an AI artist when
- 31:50Speaker 1: you go to their album. There's no album and there's
- 31:53Speaker 1: just one song that's viral on TikTok. Right, So now
- 31:57Speaker 1: what I'm seeing and this is how I feel about it.
- 31:59Speaker 1: They are stealing soul. Y'all know, white people cannot fuck
- 32:03Speaker 1: around with Black people, our voices, our talent, Like now
- 32:07Speaker 1: they have created there now that now they're using AI
- 32:10Speaker 1: to create soul, you know what I'm saying. So they
- 32:15Speaker 1: don't need the black artists anymore either. And this is
- 32:18Speaker 1: basically what Janet was talking about. Was it Janet at
- 32:21Speaker 1: the BAT Awards? No, No, this was no, this wasn't Janet.
- 32:27Speaker 1: It was Lauren Hill at the BET Awards, like she
- 32:30Speaker 1: she touched on the AI ship and stuff like that,
- 32:32Speaker 1: like they are literally now first it was now y'all
- 32:35Speaker 1: going to the Afrobeats artists, right, y'all outsourcing y'all don't
- 32:39Speaker 1: need us like that because rap is following like rap.
- 32:43Speaker 3: Like, it's not charting like it used to be.
- 32:45Speaker 1: No, and now you have these AI R and B
- 32:49Speaker 1: artists that people are creating out of thin air and
- 32:51Speaker 1: going viral, getting million dollar deals and.
- 32:54Speaker 3: Ship like that.
- 32:54Speaker 1: This is not even a real person, y'all putting a
- 32:58Speaker 1: voice behind and then you can also make AI lyrics.
- 33:00Speaker 3: So now you're making these amazing songs with this amazing
- 33:04Speaker 3: voice and it's not a real person, but we know her.
- 33:08Speaker 3: They're mimicking. It's us.
- 33:09Speaker 2: Well, that's the same thing they did with like musicianship
- 33:13Speaker 2: like instruments. They used to play real instruments. Now it's
- 33:15Speaker 2: all digital instruments. Nobody's actually playing dues. Yeah, So that's
- 33:21Speaker 2: the world we live in, and before you know it,
- 33:23Speaker 2: all of our entertainment will be made by computers.
- 33:28Speaker 3: Even actors like cgi. Like you look at the girls.
- 33:33Speaker 2: I was just saying, like I was on Revolve and
- 33:35Speaker 2: the girl it was the same bitch in different outfits
- 33:38Speaker 2: a million times.
- 33:39Speaker 3: The girl for one picture.
- 33:42Speaker 2: She did not have to change clothes every time they
- 33:44Speaker 2: put their clothes on her, so she don't get paid
- 33:46Speaker 2: for all.
- 33:47Speaker 1: Of that, right, she just getting one for her selling
- 33:49Speaker 1: their likeness, so they no longer own their likeness. You
- 33:52Speaker 1: know the one girl who models for Fashion Over, she's
- 33:54Speaker 1: like the biggest model they got, y'all. You know the
- 33:56Speaker 1: face I forgot her name, the heavy, the full figure one,
- 33:59Speaker 1: all the cute one, the small fatiguet like fake.
- 34:04Speaker 3: But she's a real person. But I remember her.
- 34:07Speaker 1: I saw a post one day and she was like,
- 34:10Speaker 1: you know, basically crying saying she don't own her image,
- 34:13Speaker 1: she doesn't own her likeness anymore. They basically can generate
- 34:17Speaker 1: these images. They're not taking all these pictures. So now
- 34:20Speaker 1: models that that that profession is about to be obsolete
- 34:25Speaker 1: unless you're doing a fashion show, right, and.
- 34:28Speaker 2: They don't have a robot bitch walking down without.
- 34:33Speaker 1: But for print, you know what I mean exactly because
- 34:35Speaker 1: the models already be walking like robots. They look alike,
- 34:38Speaker 1: you know, so I can see that happening.
- 34:41Speaker 2: This is thinking of that.
- 34:42Speaker 3: Did you see that robot that was like doing karate
- 34:44Speaker 3: and accidentally.
- 34:45Speaker 2: Kick that ke.
- 34:50Speaker 3: You're stupid on what what was that?
- 34:53Speaker 2: Oh my god? It was like an exhibition of support
- 34:57Speaker 2: and it was like children standing around and the robot
- 34:59Speaker 2: was doing karate and it got too close to the.
- 35:02Speaker 3: Edge and it was like, yeah, I see that.
- 35:13Speaker 1: These AI generator relationships and these fixed fixtitious stories online too,
- 35:18Speaker 1: I keep seeing the same one. It's like everybody got
- 35:21Speaker 1: the same story about Uh, it's like an older woman,
- 35:24Speaker 1: but it's a different woman, right, older woman who was like,
- 35:28Speaker 1: was in a bad relationship. Yeah, and they workout and
- 35:32Speaker 1: now they got the six pack and like it's it's
- 35:34Speaker 1: AI generated.
- 35:35Speaker 3: Yes, it is the first one.
- 35:39Speaker 2: The first I was like, I'm so proud of you, bitch.
- 35:42Speaker 1: Yeah, this is not real, same story, different person. So
- 35:47Speaker 1: are we missing out on money while we complaining? Because
- 35:49Speaker 1: should we be generating? The AI is something? So we
- 35:51Speaker 1: really don't have to do the work, right, Yeah, y'all
- 35:55Speaker 1: gonna come on here in a couple of weeks.
- 35:57Speaker 2: What's up, y'all? Thank y'all tell it. I love y'all,
- 36:03Speaker 2: And it's gonna be an AI version of me. I
- 36:05Speaker 2: ain't even here.
- 36:07Speaker 1: We should do an AI episode for real, See what
- 36:12Speaker 1: the fuck they come up with.
- 36:14Speaker 3: I might work on that.
- 36:19Speaker 1: Because like we contracted do fifty two episodes a year, child,
- 36:22Speaker 1: we might be faking.
- 36:23Speaker 3: Down to twenty five.
- 36:24Speaker 1: Right, they be realistic though, the only thing is it's
- 36:30Speaker 1: always the hands, always giving away. It's an extra thumb
- 36:33Speaker 1: or some shit, the mushed together. They get lazy when
- 36:38Speaker 1: they get to the hands. Yeah, filming strangers instead of
- 36:46Speaker 1: helping people. That's disgusting to me, right, Or when you're
- 36:50Speaker 1: helping your filming, Like I understand one part of it, like, yeah,
- 36:52Speaker 1: you want to encourage, you know, watchers to also do
- 36:56Speaker 1: the same, like to help somebody in need. But it's
- 36:59Speaker 1: just it's always weird to me that that is content.
- 37:03Speaker 3: Yeah, but people don't.
- 37:04Speaker 2: Like half the time, people don't even want your help. Like,
- 37:08Speaker 2: it was so hot and I seen this black lady,
- 37:10Speaker 2: old black lady walking down the street past my house,
- 37:12Speaker 2: and I felt compelled to go outside. And she had
- 37:15Speaker 2: heavy bags too, And I got in my car and
- 37:19Speaker 2: I was like, I hollowed out the window.
- 37:24Speaker 3: You need a ride? I said, hey, ma'am, you need
- 37:27Speaker 3: it all the time.
- 37:29Speaker 2: And it's like, oh, you're so sweet, No, thank you,
- 37:33Speaker 2: it's okay. But then I got in my car and
- 37:36Speaker 2: I kept and I drove. I was like, ma'am, you
- 37:38Speaker 2: sure it's so hot out here, it's dangerously hot. She
- 37:41Speaker 2: was like it is. She's like, but I'm scared because
- 37:44Speaker 2: I don't know you. M.
- 37:46Speaker 3: I was like, I'm scared too, getting in an all, right,
- 37:52Speaker 3: are you coming?
- 37:53Speaker 2: And she's like, I just live right there, It's fine.
- 37:55Speaker 1: I was like, a girl, I'm at the gas station
- 37:59Speaker 1: just yesterday, took two teenage boys home because first of all,
- 38:02Speaker 1: y'all at the gas station actsing for donations for football
- 38:05Speaker 1: camp and we'll be in July school start back?
- 38:08Speaker 3: What football camp boy? When I tell you?
- 38:10Speaker 1: I get his little boy twenty dollars, And he pulled
- 38:12Speaker 1: out the biggest nod out of his pocket and put
- 38:14Speaker 1: my money in it. I said, y'all just out here foranessa.
- 38:18Speaker 1: So now I'm pulling off. Here comes a second little boy. Hey,
- 38:21Speaker 1: you can give us a ride right down the street
- 38:23Speaker 1: to whatever.
- 38:25Speaker 3: Get in and could y'all? I guess y'all done finessing
- 38:28Speaker 3: for today?
- 38:29Speaker 2: Right?
- 38:30Speaker 3: Hell of money for the summer?
- 38:31Speaker 2: Give me dollars?
- 38:33Speaker 1: Right? I should have robbed a low ass writch him
- 38:36Speaker 1: a lesson by getting the right pull your pistol from
- 38:43Speaker 1: under the seat.
- 38:44Speaker 3: But shit might have one too.
- 38:46Speaker 1: Right that bar, little skinny ass low ass boys dirty too,
- 38:50Speaker 1: with a pocket full of money for nassin. Listen, I'm
- 38:55Speaker 1: not mad at them. However, you gotta get it, man.
- 38:57Speaker 1: At least you ain't out here hurting anybody. You're asking
- 38:59Speaker 1: people and they giving it to you.
- 39:01Speaker 2: A little nigga ran up on me in a Walmart
- 39:03Speaker 2: parking lot selling a book that he wrote, and it
- 39:06Speaker 2: was like, I know, I bought it.
- 39:09Speaker 3: Yes.
- 39:09Speaker 1: I was like, if you got something, yeah, even if
- 39:13Speaker 1: it's a picture some bullshit you drew, like, give me
- 39:15Speaker 1: get it, d I'll give you the money.
- 39:16Speaker 2: Yeah. I bought it and it was highest, but I
- 39:19Speaker 2: was like, you know what, try five dollars for this
- 39:24Speaker 2: little picture book? Motherfuck?
- 39:27Speaker 3: Was it handcone or was it published?
- 39:28Speaker 2: Oh? It was published. It was look and he said
- 39:31Speaker 2: his mama helped him. And he was like fifteen or sixteen,
- 39:36Speaker 2: and he was like slick with his little mouth. I'm
- 39:39Speaker 2: talking about I know you ain't but nineteen, but maybe
- 39:43Speaker 2: you could afford to get this book.
- 39:50Speaker 3: Oh he's he good.
- 39:58Speaker 1: I remember recently I commented on somebody's polls. You know,
- 40:01Speaker 1: you come across shit on your timeline. People don't even follow.
- 40:05Speaker 1: But it's a grown man who he took his mom,
- 40:10Speaker 1: his estranged mom who didn't raise him who gave him
- 40:13Speaker 1: up at birth. He took her out to lunch and
- 40:16Speaker 1: then he was recording her and like her interaction with him, like.
- 40:20Speaker 3: She's like, man, what the fuck you want from me?
- 40:21Speaker 1: At least I had you, Like you keep bothering me,
- 40:24Speaker 1: And like he's making content out of how much his
- 40:27Speaker 1: mama doesn't fuck with him.
- 40:29Speaker 3: And this is a grown man. This man has to
- 40:30Speaker 3: be in his thirties. I seen.
- 40:33Speaker 1: Somebody was commenting, somebody was out the second video I
- 40:37Speaker 1: saw it was a celebrity out.
- 40:39Speaker 2: Oh it was.
- 40:41Speaker 1: What's the girl from Love and Hip Hop Atlanta? The
- 40:43Speaker 1: one who at the baby for Stevie, not Jack, not
- 40:49Speaker 1: not Joscelyn, not Joscelyn. The other one from Atlanta Memi Mimi.
- 40:54Speaker 1: It was Mimi in another video, and she was saying,
- 40:57Speaker 1: you know, basically trying to urge this grown woman to
- 41:00Speaker 1: talk to her now adult son and.
- 41:02Speaker 3: She's like, no, I did, like obviously, like I couldn't
- 41:05Speaker 3: fuck with you then I don't fuck with you.
- 41:07Speaker 1: Now be happy I gave birth to you. Like I
- 41:09Speaker 1: don't know what transpirt. Maybe I don't know, maybe he
- 41:12Speaker 1: was conceived got of Oh.
- 41:13Speaker 2: And they were like outside of the parking lot.
- 41:15Speaker 1: Yes. The first one was they were in a restaurant,
- 41:18Speaker 1: and then the second one it was outside in the
- 41:19Speaker 1: parking lot, parking lot, and I remember commenting.
- 41:21Speaker 3: I was like, I was like, yo, not all women
- 41:24Speaker 3: are mothers.
- 41:26Speaker 1: You should be grateful she gave you to you know,
- 41:29Speaker 1: although I know there's a hole he's trying to fill.
- 41:32Speaker 1: There's a gap in his life he's trying to fill. Right,
- 41:34Speaker 1: She's not going to be able to do that for you,
- 41:37Speaker 1: and not in this lifetime. All right, she's still dealing
- 41:40Speaker 1: with you.
- 41:41Speaker 3: Shit, yes, multiple times. So why are you now? You're wrong?
- 41:45Speaker 1: You dad asked fucking wrong now for making this content.
- 41:49Speaker 1: And if I was his mom, I'd sue the shit
- 41:51Speaker 1: out of him. I would suit him. I don't know,
- 41:54Speaker 1: because I'm not asking to be put on the Internet
- 41:57Speaker 1: on camera because at this point, like Internet, Instagram, that
- 42:01Speaker 1: shit is like television.
- 42:02Speaker 3: Can I not get a check? Somebody put me in
- 42:04Speaker 3: some shit? I did not sign up for this. That's like,
- 42:09Speaker 3: what do you call it? Mom?
- 42:14Speaker 2: The other housewife of Atlanta King.
- 42:16Speaker 1: Oh Kenya, Yeah, her family when she pulled up, Yeah,
- 42:19Speaker 1: like you can't do that. And I think I think
- 42:22Speaker 1: in that situation where Kenya. I think she I think
- 42:25Speaker 1: really with some incest something going on, like her mom
- 42:29Speaker 1: was maybe violated when he when she had the dad
- 42:31Speaker 1: is extremely older and she has some type of relationship
- 42:35Speaker 1: with that person, but the mama is not fucking with it.
- 42:39Speaker 3: I think that's what.
- 42:39Speaker 2: Happened to my like my grandfather, honestly, like because his
- 42:44Speaker 2: mom my mom's dad, his mom had him and then
- 42:49Speaker 2: left him with his mom, her mama and moved away
- 42:54Speaker 2: and then had started another family and had four more
- 42:57Speaker 2: kids and name one of them the same name as
- 43:01Speaker 2: my grandfather.
- 43:04Speaker 1: Something broadly happening, And you know that's in the black community.
- 43:07Speaker 1: It's taboo. We talk all this shit about white folks
- 43:09Speaker 1: and the incests and all the different things. And this
- 43:12Speaker 1: one's sleeping with the daughters. That should happens in the
- 43:14Speaker 1: black community, for sure, we just don't talk about it.
- 43:18Speaker 1: And then you just let we just let these bad
- 43:20Speaker 1: people just fester in the family and people keeping the secrets.
- 43:24Speaker 2: And got to sit at the Thanksgiving table with your
- 43:27Speaker 2: abuser exactly.
- 43:30Speaker 1: And we see those kinds of videos too, We see
- 43:32Speaker 1: that type of shit go viral too, and Thanksgiving, we're
- 43:36Speaker 1: a bitch just feeling froggy and like not to let
- 43:38Speaker 1: this nigga live another day, and she's exposing around the internet.
- 43:41Speaker 1: I've seen that too. Is that for the internet though?
- 43:44Speaker 1: Should that be content? I do think in those cases
- 43:47Speaker 1: these type of people should be ostracized.
- 43:50Speaker 2: They should be because some people do it all kinds
- 43:53Speaker 2: of shit, like beating your child on the internet for content.
- 43:58Speaker 2: I would never embarrass my kid, your kid like shaving
- 44:01Speaker 2: their head and putting it like on the internet. I
- 44:05Speaker 2: don't believe in that. Yeah, now I would shave a
- 44:09Speaker 2: kid's head, but I wouldn't put it on the internet.
- 44:16Speaker 1: If he was my best friend. All of a sudden,
- 44:18Speaker 1: thought cut off, you know, the thought cut, like the
- 44:21Speaker 1: shave and the hair on the top. She cut that nigga,
- 44:23Speaker 1: she mads she gave him the Caesar.
- 44:25Speaker 2: Yeah, or if you know he was like so and so,
- 44:29Speaker 2: like in love with his hair, but was making fun
- 44:30Speaker 2: of someone who was sick and they didn't have hair
- 44:34Speaker 2: or something like that. Yeah, you're getting a low cut
- 44:37Speaker 2: because your relationship to your hair is unhealthy. And if
- 44:40Speaker 2: you think it's okay to make fun of people who
- 44:42Speaker 2: don't have hair, then you're not gonna have it either.
- 44:44Speaker 2: So you can see how I feel. So you can
- 44:46Speaker 2: learn some empathy.
- 44:47Speaker 1: I don't know if I'm doing that. That is so devastating. Yeah,
- 44:51Speaker 1: so it's so a sickness that issating.
- 44:55Speaker 3: So you need to Your hair is.
- 44:56Speaker 2: Gonna grow back. This person's may not. You know, you
- 44:58Speaker 2: need to learn a lesson. It's sometimes a heart lesson
- 45:01Speaker 2: is what you need. Now, Will I put it on
- 45:03Speaker 2: the internet? No?
- 45:04Speaker 3: Will I make you look ugly?
- 45:06Speaker 2: No, I'm not gonna give you. I'm not gonna make
- 45:09Speaker 2: you look like mister t a ball, you know, or
- 45:12Speaker 2: nothing like that as a child. But I will cut
- 45:14Speaker 2: your hair off if you think you're better. Yeah, you
- 45:18Speaker 2: need to learn.
- 45:19Speaker 1: I might send them to school with a bunch of
- 45:21Speaker 1: good wool clothes on with that haircut. Like, I'm not
- 45:26Speaker 1: gonna do some permanent even if it's temporary permanent. I'm
- 45:30Speaker 1: not gonna do that, I think, but I would definitely
- 45:32Speaker 1: I find a different way to do shit. Your room dirty,
- 45:35Speaker 1: I'm putting that on Facebook.
- 45:39Speaker 3: I'm not gonna pump my daughter. You I had poper
- 45:41Speaker 3: shit and your fucking bathroom dirty? Okay. No, I wasn't embarrassed.
- 45:48Speaker 1: Like I remember being in school and people the parents
- 45:52Speaker 1: would come to class and make their child stand in
- 45:54Speaker 1: front of the class and give them a public beating
- 45:57Speaker 1: or you know, reprimand them publicly. I would never like
- 46:01Speaker 1: that type of shit stuff my mama did to me privately,
- 46:05Speaker 1: stole haunting me today. I would never do no shit
- 46:09Speaker 1: like that in front of in front of a school,
- 46:13Speaker 1: like you can't. And then the Internet now people doing it.
- 46:15Speaker 1: It's not just thirty kids in the classroom. Now people
- 46:17Speaker 1: doing shit on the Internet. And it's not fucking pencil.
- 46:21Speaker 1: You cannot erase it.
- 46:22Speaker 3: It's pen is.
- 46:23Speaker 1: There forever you can find on the archives out of work,
- 46:26Speaker 1: like you always be able to find anything you post online.
- 46:29Speaker 2: Yeah, I was about to say something, but then people
- 46:36Speaker 2: might go looking.
- 46:36Speaker 1: So I got some shit from my teenage years. Okay,
- 46:43Speaker 1: Black Planet and shit like that. Somebody stole my page
- 46:47Speaker 1: on Black Planet girl, a bitch stole my page. And
- 46:50Speaker 1: our first year at Benedict first, I mean, like the
- 46:53Speaker 1: first week at Benedict somebody hacked my Black Planet play
- 46:58Speaker 1: page and basically like change you know back then you could.
- 47:01Speaker 1: We was really like programmers, like we was putting all
- 47:04Speaker 1: type of like we're doing computer programming and coding to
- 47:08Speaker 1: make a sp ass coding or MySpace pages and somebody
- 47:15Speaker 1: hacked my ship and like it was a girl and
- 47:18Speaker 1: the girl was saying, I'm her girlfriend. Imagine I'm just
- 47:21Speaker 1: now starting fucking college and somebody doing some shit like this.
- 47:23Speaker 3: Bitch, I am not a dyke. I was so afraid,
- 47:28Speaker 3: like people at the school would see that. The fuck.
- 47:32Speaker 3: I don't know it was somebody. I don't know who
- 47:33Speaker 3: the person was, but like I don't know, somebody.
- 47:35Speaker 1: Hacked my my my YouTube, not YouTube, Yahoo account and
- 47:40Speaker 1: fucking black planet. Yeah, let's do a quick game, right quick. Okay,
- 47:52Speaker 1: So we're just gonna name a couple different you know,
- 47:56Speaker 1: viral trends on social media, and you have to say,
- 48:02Speaker 1: is it healthy? Is it harmless or harmful? Okay, quiet luxury.
- 48:12Speaker 3: Mm I feel like that's helpful, right, yeah, I think
- 48:16Speaker 3: it's very healthy.
- 48:19Speaker 1: Like I said, I like to see people doing well,
- 48:21Speaker 1: Like I don't really describe to ship where people just
- 48:23Speaker 1: doing bad.
- 48:24Speaker 3: I don't like it.
- 48:25Speaker 1: I don't like to see like even if that's where
- 48:28Speaker 1: you're at right now, bitch, you better figure it till
- 48:29Speaker 1: you're making. That is how you fucking manifest a difference
- 48:33Speaker 1: in life. I agree, Okay, trad wives do you think
- 48:39Speaker 1: about that trend, and that was mostly on TikTok. I
- 48:41Speaker 1: would think, like, what a tradition, A trad wife is
- 48:44Speaker 1: a traditional wife. So you have your modern wife, you
- 48:47Speaker 1: have the traditional wife that would be like your nara, right,
- 48:51Speaker 1: even though she's a model.
- 48:54Speaker 2: Because you know, I don't think I think it's important
- 48:56Speaker 2: to see all types of wives. Mm hmmm, don't eliminate
- 49:02Speaker 2: the traditional wife.
- 49:04Speaker 1: Yeah, So the tradwives catch so much heat on TikTok
- 49:06Speaker 1: because people think that they are male centered. I really
- 49:10Speaker 1: think they're family centered. And I'm trying to figure out
- 49:13Speaker 1: how to fuck what the problem with the problem with
- 49:17Speaker 1: America in particular, right, we don't have family. The problem
- 49:21Speaker 1: in the black community. We don't value family, the family
- 49:24Speaker 1: structure enough. You have so many different mechanisms that's trying
- 49:28Speaker 1: to tear that thing apart. I feel like it's healthy
- 49:30Speaker 1: to see. And then these motherfuckers be balling too. They
- 49:32Speaker 1: be living on a farm somewhere, cooking all their food.
- 49:35Speaker 1: They got the animals like, and that farm life.
- 49:37Speaker 3: Is not easy.
- 49:38Speaker 1: Okay, It's not like these ladies just said the house,
- 49:41Speaker 1: ordering shit off the internet, off their husband credit card.
- 49:44Speaker 1: Like these women they work for their families, right, you
- 49:47Speaker 1: know that one black family. And remember a couple of
- 49:49Speaker 1: years ago during COVID, their horse, these fucking crackers more
- 49:52Speaker 1: murdered their horse.
- 49:53Speaker 3: Yeh, I said that they murdered the horse, the black
- 49:56Speaker 3: blm horse. Remember that, Oh I missed that.
- 49:59Speaker 1: You don't remember during COVID, beautiful beautiful renting rat.
- 50:04Speaker 3: Yes, all of a sudden, he just drops dead at
- 50:06Speaker 3: the vet, drops dead.
- 50:09Speaker 1: But you know, so they have they live a farm life.
- 50:12Speaker 1: And it's like the girl just had another baby, the
- 50:15Speaker 1: wife just had another child. It's like seven of them girls.
- 50:18Speaker 1: She'd be having homebirths. They live in a big ass
- 50:20Speaker 1: house in the middle of nowhere. And to me that
- 50:24Speaker 1: that is a traditional white girl.
- 50:26Speaker 3: Lot of his goals. I want to have my kids
- 50:28Speaker 3: at the house.
- 50:29Speaker 2: You have, you have.
- 50:30Speaker 3: Her last pregnancy was real hard.
- 50:32Speaker 1: She was huffing and puffet and you just see her
- 50:34Speaker 1: husband come out coming to the picture like a damn superhero,
- 50:39Speaker 1: soothing her, rubbing her down. And he delivered that baby
- 50:42Speaker 1: at the house while the kids and animals watching. Girl
- 50:44Speaker 1: like Jesus in the manger.
- 50:47Speaker 3: Oh wow, yes, I love that shit man. So it's healthy,
- 50:51Speaker 3: I know.
- 50:52Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, Black family they always like watching TV in
- 50:55Speaker 1: the lawn, you know, with the big projector outside and stuff.
- 50:59Speaker 2: Like that, all that laying around them.
- 51:01Speaker 3: Yes, I want, I wish, I want to know where.
- 51:03Speaker 1: They live at that's what we're doing. Well though, Yes,
- 51:06Speaker 1: absolutely so. I think that's definitely helpful or healthy.
- 51:12Speaker 3: Trends.
- 51:12Speaker 2: Ozmpic girl, I mean, I'm worried with it. I'm worried
- 51:19Speaker 2: about some people, like some people getting like I don't
- 51:21Speaker 2: know if Brandy on Olympic, but like we just saw
- 51:24Speaker 2: Brandy like uh in Mississippi and she looked unusually thin.
- 51:30Speaker 1: I don't think Brandy is on Ozmpic. There's no way anybody. Well,
- 51:34Speaker 1: she must be getting it under the counter and nobody's
- 51:36Speaker 1: subscribing that to her because she is not.
- 51:39Speaker 3: Hollywood.
- 51:40Speaker 2: They was, you know, they can get whatever they want
- 51:43Speaker 2: in Hollywood. Yeah, but I don't see where she would
- 51:47Speaker 2: need it or even think she needed it. But she's
- 51:49Speaker 2: so I hope she's okay because she was like Arianna
- 51:53Speaker 2: Grande then mm hmmm.
- 51:55Speaker 1: I seen that a recent picture of her. Somebody was
- 51:58Speaker 1: I don't know who page that was that?
- 51:59Speaker 3: So what was she at recently? You said in Mississippi?
- 52:02Speaker 2: Was she was being honored in her hometown.
- 52:05Speaker 1: Okay, and yeah they are from Mississippi to receive the honor,
- 52:10Speaker 1: and she look real then I'm worried about her. I
- 52:15Speaker 1: don't know, man, you can kind of tell who'll be
- 52:19Speaker 1: on Ozmpic. You know, the rapid weight loss and they're
- 52:21Speaker 1: not working out so like the face of slumped theles away,
- 52:25Speaker 1: you know, because it's literally like getting rid of all
- 52:28Speaker 1: body fat.
- 52:29Speaker 3: And I heard that.
- 52:29Speaker 2: Should make your coucie loose because it eat at your
- 52:31Speaker 2: kuchie muscles.
- 52:32Speaker 3: That was all I needed to hear.
- 52:35Speaker 1: Me.
- 52:36Speaker 3: Did you really hear that? Whatuci? Oh? Well, better work
- 52:45Speaker 3: it out, you be do your cagles triple time? Could
- 52:48Speaker 3: you imagine? Bitch?
- 52:50Speaker 2: For I found out that I was even like because
- 52:51Speaker 2: I do cagles at the light all the time.
- 52:53Speaker 3: It's just like so bad I always do.
- 52:55Speaker 2: But I the doctor told me I ain't even doing
- 52:58Speaker 2: it right. So y'all listen to is when you do kegos,
- 53:02Speaker 2: you know you squeeze your vagina, right, But the doctor
- 53:05Speaker 2: told me to suck in my stomach, squeeze my butt
- 53:08Speaker 2: and then my vagina your you're tight too. I just
- 53:12Speaker 2: was doing my vagina the whole time, and it looks
- 53:15Speaker 2: different when I squeezed my butt and my vagina and
- 53:18Speaker 2: my stomach all at once harder. So maybe that ain't
- 53:22Speaker 2: as tight as.
- 53:22Speaker 3: A car.
- 53:25Speaker 1: Was it?
- 53:25Speaker 3: On filming?
- 53:26Speaker 1: Now?
- 53:28Speaker 3: Morning routines you watch? Do you watch those morning routine videos?
- 53:35Speaker 1: No? Me either, I don't watch them. Get Ready with me,
- 53:39Speaker 1: y'all take that. I hate to see a nigga doing
- 53:41Speaker 1: to get ready. If you don't get your go to work,
- 53:45Speaker 1: y'all already in that work. If you don't carry you
- 53:49Speaker 1: ask to work, y'all only going to work? Why is
- 53:53Speaker 1: the many y'all getting ready?
- 53:57Speaker 3: Where the fuck you're going?
- 53:58Speaker 2: At ready with me? For nothing?
- 54:01Speaker 3: Yeah? That shit is fucking harmful. Is not good.
- 54:09Speaker 1: Street interviews. I don't like them street interviews because I
- 54:14Speaker 1: feel like they pick the narrative right. So, like I
- 54:18Speaker 1: saw a street interview, like you have the ones where
- 54:20Speaker 1: people reading sentences where they can't enunciate it have the words,
- 54:25Speaker 1: or you know, even the videos where like what's the
- 54:27Speaker 1: worst sign you ever dated? All of them will say
- 54:29Speaker 1: cancer or all of them say gemini, So y'all ain't
- 54:33Speaker 1: have nobody else in between.
- 54:34Speaker 2: They're just like y'all everybody who said it. They only
- 54:37Speaker 2: use their video.
- 54:38Speaker 1: Exactly because you can see the same person asking the
- 54:41Speaker 1: same question, and now it is a different everybody saying
- 54:44Speaker 1: I don't know aries you know what I'm saying.
- 54:46Speaker 3: I don't trust those videos me neither.
- 54:49Speaker 2: You know what video is funny to me. The guy
- 54:51Speaker 2: who was like, Dude, this nigga look gay at you?
- 54:54Speaker 3: Yes, you think they think you great? Great? Yeah, he
- 55:04Speaker 3: gay as fuck. Look at that nigga ahead, look his eyes.
- 55:11Speaker 1: But why are y'all niggas gay? Why do all men
- 55:14Speaker 1: think men are gay? That is very interesting the whole time.
- 55:17Speaker 1: We can't go on all girls trips because y'all think
- 55:20Speaker 1: everybody in Kuchi on the all girls trip. What y'all doing,
- 55:23Speaker 1: y'all ain't just buying kuchi in the Dominican Republic, cause
- 55:25Speaker 1: there's a lot of buddy boys in dr also.
- 55:31Speaker 3: Knowing it with each other too, exactly.
- 55:36Speaker 1: At least like the at least like the guys who
- 55:39Speaker 1: are like actually gay, who are out gay, Like when
- 55:41Speaker 1: you see them out with their homeboys, they really friends.
- 55:44Speaker 1: They fucking somebody's baby daddy and husband. You know, we
- 55:48Speaker 1: don't know what y'all supposed to Heterosexual men like y'all
- 55:51Speaker 1: be y'all inpacts, like who fucking over there?
- 55:54Speaker 2: Right?
- 55:55Speaker 1: You'll be watching Uh, what's god damn comedian Jojo Brooks?
- 56:01Speaker 3: Is it Jojo Brooks? Yojo Mojo? Have you been seeing
- 56:06Speaker 3: his stand up lately? That nigga's hilarious?
- 56:08Speaker 1: But you know, he'd be in Atlanta and it's always
- 56:11Speaker 1: two niggas at a show together, and he called one
- 56:15Speaker 1: of the girl. He called one of the guy's girlfriend
- 56:18Speaker 1: on the phone. She's like, yeah, your boyfriend, why you
- 56:19Speaker 1: ain't at the show?
- 56:20Speaker 3: She said, Oh, I didn't get invited.
- 56:23Speaker 1: The whole crowd was like, oh shit, and the two
- 56:27Speaker 1: niggas they just laughing, and Kiki and he like, well,
- 56:29Speaker 1: how long y'all been friends?
- 56:31Speaker 3: So y'all just y'all just going out together? Like what
- 56:33Speaker 3: fuck y'all got going on? Comedy show?
- 56:36Speaker 1: Go through that phone, bitch, going through that phone. I
- 56:39Speaker 1: bet you got an Adam for Adam account search, Like
- 56:44Speaker 1: when you go through his text, search keywords.
- 56:46Speaker 2: Don't just look at different names, search words, search dick
- 56:51Speaker 2: searching porn hub and look.
- 56:52Speaker 3: At that history. See what you watching? Okay, right, let
- 57:01Speaker 3: me see couple sharing passwords?
- 57:07Speaker 2: No share your passwords?
- 57:09Speaker 3: What you you agree with?
- 57:10Speaker 1: That.
- 57:11Speaker 2: I don't see what's the problem if y'all were.
- 57:15Speaker 3: That is so grown, That is so grown.
- 57:18Speaker 1: Even if I am faithful, you cannot have the password
- 57:21Speaker 1: in my phone. It's just I just believe in really
- 57:23Speaker 1: just being single in a relationship. And what I mean
- 57:26Speaker 1: by that is just having yeah and still being you
- 57:31Speaker 1: know you're supposed to be to a mystery one we're one, No,
- 57:35Speaker 1: like we're one now, No, it's me, and then there's you,
- 57:38Speaker 1: like you're still an individual, you know what I'm saying.
- 57:41Speaker 1: So I don't know that I need to know every
- 57:43Speaker 1: single intricate detail about my partner.
- 57:45Speaker 3: I don't think. I don't think.
- 57:46Speaker 2: I don't jump in the bathroom while I'm pooping.
- 57:49Speaker 3: Girl, that is my private time.
- 57:52Speaker 1: If I leave the door open, yeah maybe, but if
- 57:54Speaker 1: the door is closed, why are you opening this door?
- 57:57Speaker 3: Obviously doing doing some girl shit in here?
- 58:00Speaker 2: I want you to see, right, don't. I don't want
- 58:02Speaker 2: you to be a part of this moment while I'm
- 58:03Speaker 2: trying to push yet let me have some mystery, nigga,
- 58:09Speaker 2: God damn, all right?
- 58:11Speaker 3: One more so? This this segment is culture or is
- 58:16Speaker 3: it clout?
- 58:18Speaker 2: Okay?
- 58:19Speaker 3: Okay?
- 58:20Speaker 1: Uh, someone cares themselves giving money to a homeless person.
- 58:29Speaker 2: I'm torn about that because I like watching videos of
- 58:31Speaker 2: people doing good, you know, for others. It makes me
- 58:34Speaker 2: happy to see it, and it encourages me to be kinder,
- 58:39Speaker 2: you know. But at the same time, sometimes I do
- 58:42Speaker 2: be feeling like making a video can be like taking
- 58:47Speaker 2: advantage of this person's misfortune.
- 58:50Speaker 3: So I'm I'm torn on that.
- 58:54Speaker 1: Well, you remember during Christmas the guy raised all that
- 58:57Speaker 1: money for this for this one lady millions and her
- 59:00Speaker 1: kids was living in the car.
- 59:01Speaker 3: Yeah, and he wouldn't have been able to do that
- 59:03Speaker 3: had he not recorded it, right, yeah.
- 59:05Speaker 2: Yeah.
- 59:08Speaker 1: Somebody who announces they're quitting social media every other fucking month,
- 59:12Speaker 1: girl just die, just go.
- 59:16Speaker 3: Chasing, right yeah.
- 59:21Speaker 2: Believing anything for me is like crowdchase. Like crowdchase is
- 59:26Speaker 2: like you really don't want to go and you want
- 59:28Speaker 2: people to beg you to say. Even like suicide.
- 59:31Speaker 1: I was just about to say that you don't want
- 59:34Speaker 1: to just do it, Just do it, don't announce it,
- 59:36Speaker 1: because what you're doing is causing people undressed, uh dress
- 59:39Speaker 1: uh uh super stress. And what if you called somebody
- 59:43Speaker 1: like your mom sees that ship and like she then
- 59:45Speaker 1: commits suicide. Because she thought her child just committed suicide.
- 59:48Speaker 1: You know you're going to jail if you kill yourself.
- 59:52Speaker 3: I hope you know that. Anyway, I didn't.
- 59:59Speaker 1: We didn't even get in to like how I wanted
- 1:00:01Speaker 1: to get into, like what does social media actually say
- 1:00:03Speaker 1: about us as a people?
- 1:00:05Speaker 3: Where are we headed? You know, because it's real, it's
- 1:00:09Speaker 3: real sketchy out here. And I mean I first realized that.
- 1:00:15Speaker 1: America we got a problem is when Facebook got super
- 1:00:18Speaker 1: popular and then people you knew personally, you get to
- 1:00:21Speaker 1: see because people often will text.
- 1:00:24Speaker 3: Things that they can't say verbally at their mouth.
- 1:00:27Speaker 1: Now I get to see like your psyche on the internet,
- 1:00:30Speaker 1: and I get to see your subconscious mind on display.
- 1:00:33Speaker 3: And the shit is fucking weird how people really are.
- 1:00:36Speaker 1: And if this is what human is, desprobably why I
- 1:00:42Speaker 1: always be saying I'm human because I don't like it.
- 1:00:45Speaker 3: Yeah, I agree, we do need some corrective measures.
- 1:00:49Speaker 2: And people are like so much meaner on social media
- 1:00:52Speaker 2: than they would ever be in person.
- 1:00:54Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, the attacks, the comments is just you can't
- 1:00:58Speaker 1: say anything like I let people live. Only time I
- 1:01:00Speaker 1: comment on somebody, like if I agree with you, I
- 1:01:03Speaker 1: comment on it. I never comment on something I disagree
- 1:01:06Speaker 1: with why would you want to you want to intentionally
- 1:01:09Speaker 1: cause like discourse, like an argument. I'm not commenting on
- 1:01:13Speaker 1: some shit I don't agree with.
- 1:01:14Speaker 3: I'm just not.
- 1:01:15Speaker 1: I just never understand why I can put a comment
- 1:01:17Speaker 1: in a comment section and it's a thousand people disagreeing
- 1:01:21Speaker 1: with the.
- 1:01:21Speaker 2: Comment just being on just go ahead, like, but some
- 1:01:26Speaker 2: people thrive off of that type of interaction, like that's
- 1:01:29Speaker 2: that feeds them.
- 1:01:30Speaker 3: You know, I don't have none in real life.
- 1:01:32Speaker 2: Now. I did, right, I did put some controversial shit
- 1:01:35Speaker 2: on a webs on, like a comment to the last week.
- 1:01:39Speaker 2: So I don't know if y'all saw that, but it
- 1:01:40Speaker 2: was like white and Proud was trending on Facebook. It
- 1:01:44Speaker 2: was a Facebook group that was like a bunch of
- 1:01:46Speaker 2: white supremacists and like niggas like infiltrated the group and
- 1:01:51Speaker 2: it was so funny because someone was like, what are
- 1:01:53Speaker 2: all these blacks doing in here? And I commented I
- 1:02:00Speaker 2: put a post on the page that said, ill, these
- 1:02:04Speaker 2: aren't poor whites.
- 1:02:05Speaker 3: I mean, well, just being mean.
- 1:02:11Speaker 2: I like poor people. I am poor people, and sometimes
- 1:02:15Speaker 2: in some ways so. But I just wanted to say
- 1:02:18Speaker 2: something mean because they were saying, like if you went
- 1:02:20Speaker 2: through the timeline of the stuff that was in that group.
- 1:02:23Speaker 2: It was very derogatory and very ugly towards black people. So,
- 1:02:29Speaker 2: I mean, I just think it was like some nasty,
- 1:02:31Speaker 2: nasty stuff like so I just said that and then
- 1:02:35Speaker 2: I left the group.
- 1:02:36Speaker 1: I just don't give a fuck about that stuff, right,
- 1:02:38Speaker 1: I feel like you should be able to, like that
- 1:02:40Speaker 1: was their private little wherever you know, where they're congregating
- 1:02:43Speaker 1: to behaveeful. Let the motherfuckers be hateful, right because you
- 1:02:47Speaker 1: know they're gonna pay for it, you know, one way
- 1:02:49Speaker 1: or the other. Like you cannot harbor that type of
- 1:02:51Speaker 1: energy that's not even you know, being shown to you.
- 1:02:55Speaker 1: But it does come out in ways like this little
- 1:02:57Speaker 1: boy being murdered by these these group of teenagers on
- 1:03:01Speaker 1: this goddamn so it is definitely like the microaggressions, the
- 1:03:07Speaker 1: opportunities that they take to harm us. It does start
- 1:03:11Speaker 1: on platforms like that, right, So I think reporting should
- 1:03:15Speaker 1: be done versus you know, getting in then being just
- 1:03:19Speaker 1: as hateful as they are, because I think you should
- 1:03:22Speaker 1: be able to have your opinion whatever, Like you should
- 1:03:24Speaker 1: be able to hate the motherfucker if you want to.
- 1:03:26Speaker 1: You know, I don't know, I just but it cannot
- 1:03:30Speaker 1: come out then in legislation, you know how you handle
- 1:03:34Speaker 1: us in the hospitals, but it will.
- 1:03:36Speaker 3: That's why it's dangerous.
- 1:03:39Speaker 1: On the end, Ain't I was hating on them. We're
- 1:03:41Speaker 1: not trying to do nothing in them for real?
- 1:03:44Speaker 3: Okay. Anyway, y'all, Well that was fun.
- 1:03:49Speaker 1: Talking about social media and we definitely could have got
- 1:03:54Speaker 1: much more detailed about a lot of different things, but
- 1:03:56Speaker 1: we're running out of time. But anyway, if you guys
- 1:04:00Speaker 1: enjoyed this episode, y'all tune in. Oh, last last, right quick?
- 1:04:04Speaker 1: We got time for that anyway.
- 1:04:05Speaker 3: Yeah, is that the last last? Okay, last last.
- 1:04:07Speaker 1: Be careful what you're doing on the internet. It is
- 1:04:09Speaker 1: not fucking pencil, okay, it is ink. Think about your future.
- 1:04:13Speaker 1: Self seen it. I have seen myself saying some sets
- 1:04:16Speaker 1: some stupid shit on Twitter, Facebook, and I go try
- 1:04:18Speaker 1: to delete it for five years ago, Like what the
- 1:04:20Speaker 1: fuck was I talking about? Right? You know what I'm
- 1:04:22Speaker 1: saying that if you don't have nothing nice to say,
- 1:04:24Speaker 1: don't say it and think before you participate in these trends. Okay,
- 1:04:30Speaker 1: not everything is a trend in motherfucking CIA is a
- 1:04:33Speaker 1: real thing.
- 1:04:34Speaker 3: Go ahead, Tam.
- 1:04:36Speaker 2: And My last last is be careful and very mindful
- 1:04:42Speaker 2: of the things that you consume. Yes, you know, you
- 1:04:45Speaker 2: may not realize how you are affected by the things
- 1:04:49Speaker 2: that you are consuming. The content that you're consuming, dune
- 1:04:53Speaker 2: scrolling and all that shit. It affects your freaquency, It
- 1:04:56Speaker 2: affects your vibe, you know. So just be very mindful
- 1:05:00Speaker 2: full of the things that you're putting into your spirit,
- 1:05:02Speaker 2: your body, and your mind.
- 1:05:04Speaker 3: Absolutely, my last last amen. Youre y'all period.
- 1:05:09Speaker 1: So if you enjoyed this episode, y'all tune in every
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- 1:05:13Speaker 3: Fuck you get your podcast at. This is your co
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- 1:05:26Speaker 2: so much, y'all. Send y'all dumb bitch stories. We had
- 1:05:28Speaker 2: fun with that last week. Send to more. There's more
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- 1:05:35Speaker 2: We're gonna get to them, y'all. I love y'all so much.
- 1:05:39Speaker 2: Remember speak now.
- 1:05:42Speaker 3: And hold on fucking trends for seventy two hours.
- 1:05:45Speaker 1: Just shut the fuck up and get off the Internet
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