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Right Email, Wrong Person · Podcast - Big 98.7

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Will strap in. Oh, it's about to get messy. We're in the
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judgment zone where we need your advice. Well, not us specifically, a
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woman named Teresa who's reached out to us, got a situation on her hands,
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and I will warn you it is incredibly cringey. Seven oh one two
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eighth one eight seven. Want to know what you think she should do?
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She's on the phone now, Good morning, Teresa. How are you.
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I'm I'm good considering. Why is that always the first reaction when we get
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people into the judgment zone? Obviously, Teresa, you got a situation on
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your hands. You want to discuss, so let us have it. What's
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going on? It's so cringey? So I accidentally sent a rant about my
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boss to my boss instead of my work buddy who I usually complain to.
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Oh God, no, worse. And it's not like you can take it
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back, like delete the message, because it was an email and the email
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was pretty detailed about pretty candid feelings about their management style. So surprisingly,
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my boss hasn't said anything about it, and it's in two days what so
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yeah, And I'm like dying, like should I bring it up and apologize
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or pretend like it never happened. Okay, do you think they never read
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it? Let me ask you this, did it actually name him? I
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mean, is it very obvious it's about Uh, it's a him and we
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have a nickname for him. Oh no, you didn't use that. But
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the context, and you know, everything that he brought up in the meeting
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is pretty incapably yeah, yeah, outlining everything he said. Soaking away from
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this is like, oh, this was about Dan and Dan and I are
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really on bad. Yeah. I've had something like this happen too. It
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is so so painful. Your heart just stops the second you realize it.
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But what are you doing? He either didn't read it, or he's ignoring
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it, or I don't know. So I guess that's what we're going to
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find out. We're going to get some calls, we'll get some texts,
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and we're going to find out really the best way for you to handle this?
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Okay, Teresa, thank you so much. The guy's obviously toying with
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her, right, I mean, just watching her squirm every time he sees
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her. She's knowing that, you know, she knows, and he knows.
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If you were in that situation, would you be direct with somebody or
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would you actually kind of enjoy the fact, like, hey, I know
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what's going on and kind of taunt them a little would that you know what
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I mean, I'm trying to think of It totally depends on your demeanor,
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Like if you are this guy is like, you know what, well,
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I'm gonna mess with you a little bit. If I was a manager and
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I'm not, But if I was, I would probably just like immediately go
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okay. Any respects I had for this person is gone. One thing,
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the opportunity they had of moving up or you know, doing anything here at
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this company gone. So would you respond though I don't think I would,
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you know, me be not a big confrontation guy if I can avoid it.
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And it sounds like, you know, it's like sometimes people say things
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to you or things you don't like, and instead of just getting it into
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it with them, I just tell myself, all right, that person is
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no longer somebody I care about. We had posted this on Facebook and Judy's
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time and insaying maybe they actually are taking what you said to harden making the
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changes. I don't know if I'd go that direction, because that he doesn't
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matter. If even there is a little bit of truth to it, you
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know, like for you to actually take that in because no matter what,
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it's just a big old meani what was said, you know, and who
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knows the guy probably sucks the manager that she's talking about, So maybe everybody
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can benefit from this. I don't know, what do you think? Seven
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oh one two aight oh one ninety eight seven? How should Teresa handle the
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situation? Accidentally send the email talking smack about her boss to her boss and
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he hasn't said anything about it? Seven one two one ninety eight seven.
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I get Amanda in the morning. I now Amanda steals the seat. Loo's
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see. Oh Teresa and jer Bear. We told you last week there are
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gear Bear jar Bear. It's the way he spells his name with a G.
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Right. Yes, yeah, they are officially over. And she released
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a statement on Instagram and she said, to everyone who has expressed their love
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and support and kindness to me, I think from the bottom of my heart,
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I do appreciate her being very transparent. She said, it was one
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of the most incredible experiences of my life, something I never expected that would
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happen at this point in my life. Sometimes though, things just don't go
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the way it's planned and that's okay. It turns out, even at age
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seventy, you just don't know what a fun new experience that most seventy year
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olds don't get to experience. And you know, to be fair, I
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think the girls that were on the show, the ladies, the women that
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were on that show, they became really close. Some of them are still
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hanging out. I mean, it's just a good journey. I now,
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remind me, did they do the honeymoon sweet Her and Gary? Yes?
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Okay, well finding out a couple of good ROMs out of Oh my gosh,
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by the way, they broke up just one week after filming in Celebrity
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Family Feud. So it'll be interesting to see because that'll still see if they're
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gonna end up. Maybe that was the deal breaker. Maybe she wasn't good
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at family feud or vice versa. I was like, ooh, that would
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be tough deal breaker. Would your family do well on family feud? Ah?
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Maybe? Yeah, yeah, I'm sorry, You've blown my mind,
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all right, Jenna do Wan and Channing Tatum, this is starting to feel
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a lot like Brad and Angelina. They six years ago. I think they
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started going through their divorce just a long time ago. And now they are
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actually in court right now. We kind of told you a little bit about
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this last week, but it is all over his Magic Magic Mic franchise.
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So she's saying he had a whole different account all the money he was getting
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from this she never got a chance to touch because he had a quote complex
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web business hiding his earnings. Now they're both duking it out in court and
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they're both gonna take the stand. Her now fiance is supposed to be taking
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the stand to go over their financials to show like what they're bringing to the
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table. It's just gross. It is a mess. Is Channing Tatum still
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doing movies? Yeah? Last time we saw him in one, he was
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just in a cute movie. Maybe it was This is like me thinking it
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was a new movie, but it was probably ten years ago. Yeahah,
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I remember the holiday season when you proclaimed Jim Carries the Grinch as a new
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movie. It was new to our family, okay years probably one of the
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most. I'm like, you've seen the new Grinch, right, I'm like,
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there's been like two new new ones since then. All Right, Gypsy
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Rose and her soon to be ex Ryan Anderson, we now know what the
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split was all about She got a restraining order against him too. By the
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way, did you see that. It happened over the week? Again,
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no violent, did she say anything like that. She didn't the information we
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received. He hasn't been violent, but he had some hoarding issues and it
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wasn't what you would think. It was food. He'd like buy things in
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bulky, had expired food, so when he was gone, she'd throws stuff
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away and maybe he freaked out and that scared her. You got to remember
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she does have a lot of trauma. Her mom was also kind of a
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hoarder. Yeah, so it might just be bringing up some really icky feelings.
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But then he is also a big old snorer, and she said she
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just could not sleep, and he is kind of a human furnace runs real
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hot at night. You know, there's no law that says you have to
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sleep in the same bed or room. This is why people are doing the
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sleep divorce thing for reasons like this. Who was Carson Dally I think just
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last week was saying how he sleep divorce. He said, this is the
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best thing for our marriage. Well, yeah, I cannot imagine. You
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know, my wife doesn't snore, thankfully, but I've stayed at my good
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friends snores unbelievably loud. And it's like, if that was the case,
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if I was married to that person, I would definitely be sleeping in a
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different room. How could you possibly not? You know what I mean?
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Obviously get together for the honeymoon, sweet stuff and he just split then just
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see you later. Yeah, that would be that would be a challenge for
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me. But hey, to each their own. Again, I guess I
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haven't been in that situation. No, No, everything's just great, no
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one. I mean we have our moments, of course. Like with I
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feel like I'd probably be sometimes a snorer. But he doesn't seem to face
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him. He's ever brought it up as a problem. I do. He
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sometimes sneaks to But I thought it was because what because I thought maybe because
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Briggs get scared sometimes, So maybe he's using that as an excuse. Maybe
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it is really me. I think it might. I have to address this
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and Amanda in the morning on Sage seven, Did you know that eight fifteen
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is the most stressful moment of the day, courtly according to research, that's
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right. They say eight to fifteen is going to be the most stress you
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will experience throughout the day. Specifically during the work week because things I just
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mentioned. You're up, you're frantically getting ready. Of course, waking up
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sucks no matter what, getting the kids out of the house, getting to
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work, and all you have to look forward to is sitting at work for
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eight plus hours a day. Well, it depends. It's so interesting,
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just like the job landscape. I mean, we're still in a I feel
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our generations are like, it's eight to five, that seems pretty typical,
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but eight fifteen when you fall into that, is it like you're just rushing
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into the office. Is that where this come from? It's coming from or
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you're like late because you had all of those things happen. Well, a
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lot of people think it is the dolly parton working nine to five schedule,
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So eight to fifteen would be like the getting ready, getting out of the
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house, then goetting to work, probably planning on showing up fifteen minutes early
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because you love your job. So imagine nine though again, we're just totally
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in like a different ballgame or literally a different time zone. I feel like
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the world works like nine to five East Coast eight to four here, YadA,
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YadA, YadA. But isn't it funny? How different waking up during
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the work with this you know, listen, we all feel it where it's
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just like another day, nothing to really be excited about. I try to
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think it's things I can look forward to compared to like the first day of
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a vacation. Isn't it funny how different waking up is like just your your
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nine set. Oh absolutely, the first day of a ca I mean,
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is there anything better? We got the whole trip ahead you and you're just
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like, what are we gonna do today? So sometimes so the first couple
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of days are good, but then do you get that anxiety the last like
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two or three days of vacation where it's only occas until you take well depending
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like if you take a week off, like the last three days like it's
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I only have this, we gotta cram into this, and then you just
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you just basically take away every sort of relaxation you did and just bundle it
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up that last day in day anxiety. That's just what was the point?
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You can't enjoy yourself? Yes, such it like the last day in Vegas,
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especially with the Legion Airlines having the day you leave, you leave at
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like six am, so you know you got to get up at four and
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so all day like last year we went to Vegas to that music festival to
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when we were young, festival, my band and I and the last day,
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like the day was the festival, should be the best day. But
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all I'm thinking about is, well, I can't really enjoy the day too
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much because I'm going to have to get up at four am or stay awake
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till four am. Yeah, absolutely, no, I hear you. Eight
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point fifteen though, So right now people are just scrambling stressed out. Let's
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take a deep breath. Just take a deep breath. I'm not stressed,
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are you not? Right now? Yeah? Because our day is almost over.
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No, I'm just kidding exactly. You know how that is because people
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always tell us the opposite, like what do you do after ten o'clock?
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You're just done for the day. I'm afraid on Amanda, I'm afraid not
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and Amanda in the morning. On stage seven, we're in the judgment zone.
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Woman called Teresa reesedout said that she was writing an email talking smack about
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her boss, and when she went to send the email, realized she accidentally
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sent it to her boss. Oh, horrible, brutal, horrible situation.
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Your heart just stops, if you've ever been in that sort of situation.
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So she wants to know what she should do because the boss, this guy
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has not said anything about it. It's only been a couple of days.
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But she's just sitting on and going, uh, do I address it?
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Do I ignore it? Hope you just deleted it? Maybe it went to
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his spam I watch I know, so seven one two eight zho one nine
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eight seven. What should she do? Yeah, I think your boss is
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probably trying to figure out how to fire you and just wanting to torture you.
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I feel like that is actually hilarious because if that was the case,
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because you know, they're fumane, they know it's about them, but there
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would be this upper hand of just kind of like watching them squirm. Yes,
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totally. Oh yeah, I love it. Well, thanks for the
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call man. That's a great idea. Yeah, no problem. Seven one
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ninety eight seven. You can text as well. Yeah, we got a
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couple of texts here. One says, talk about it, apologize, tell
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them you were having a bad day, et cetera. Maybe this will open
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the door for suggestions or changes. We also have another one that said I
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would not bring it up because I personally trip over my words all the time.
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I would probably just make it even worse and add more salt to the
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wound. Yeah, I'm just going to pretend it didn't happen and also opening
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it up for you know, improvement. The one thing I know they're not
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going to take it as is like good advice, you know. I mean,
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the boss isn't going to go oh correct, I'll let you mention it,
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Teresa. I could be a better boss, all right, good morning,
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good morning. I had this happen to me once, it would be
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a text, oh stop feeling oh my gosh, my heart like you said,
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my heart stopped for a little bit. But then I don't know if
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it works. But what I did was I changed it around like that I
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was because I used her name, let's call her Don, And I said,
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you know, Don does this though or whatever? And then so I
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turned it around and the next text that I said to her was Don,
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question Mark, what do you think? Don? And I don't know.
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I tried to turn it around and oh, like acting as though you were
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asking like Don, this person is acting this way, Don, can you
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please like acting as though you weren't talking about her? Oof, that's interesting.
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I tried to use her name twice and be like I was talking to
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you for advice because your provisor kind of thing. That's that's brilliant. That's
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worth a try. I mean, in this situation, it sounds like it's
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so specific, like there's just no way around it. But you know what
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you could say is she could say, hey, like follow up like you
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did and say this was a message I got from another unnamed employee. I
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just want you to know what's going on and what's being said. It wasn't
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me, Oh god, just that you copy paste of the email. Would
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you feel so icky though? If you did that? It's like, yeah,
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you might like be trying to push it off, but you're gonna now
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add what into this? Men, I don't care about that. So I'm
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the same. I don't care if as long as I'm Scott free, I'd
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like hand it off to somebody else, you know. So yeah, that's
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that's my advice. I guess thank you. What was your name? Sally?
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Okay? And don and you work it where specifically? I'm just kidding.
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I don't. I don't work there anymore. That's great. Appreciate you,
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like get Amanda in the morning. Come on, get up on big,
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dog but you find it difficult to bring them aboard an airplane, of course
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there's good news. Bark Air is a new dog friendly airline. In fact,
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Amanda, really it is specifically four dogs. The new airline that will
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have three stops, so it's only between New York, London and la It
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will cost up to eight thousand dollars for a one way ticket. Dogs are
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allowed to bring one human companion, so if you're lucky enough for the dog
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to choose you, you get to go with. And now this is just
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big news. If you like to fly. Have you ever flown with a
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dog? I have not. Well, this is exciting because on the flight
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they've designed it specifically for dogs to relax them, to kind of curb their
15:05
anxiety. During takeoff, there will be blankets, there will be treats.
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So are they gonna have cages set up in like aisles and then they get
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like their own blankets and areas? That doesn't that doesn't sound like a dog
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friendly airline. Well no, if the dogs don't get along, literally it
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says you have to basically It's kind of like how you have to have your
15:24
seatbelt on during takeoff and then once you get up in the air you can
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take it off. That's how it is with leashes. They say it's leash
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free other than during takeoff, during landing, and if there were to be
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any turbulence, yeah, that's that's insane. So it's a free for all
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up there. And there's like beds. It's not just your normal tiny little
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sardine can airline seats. There's like chairs, beds match like just I mean,
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like the idea, but then those three stops. I don't I don't
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get it. What do you mean you're flying? We gotta start somewhere,
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I mean, IPEA, can about imagine who this is for? Who's paying
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eight thousand dollars one? This is like Kardashian level, right, And this
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is also from New York to London. That's not going to be my first
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flight with a dog. Why I don't get a dog, Not because I
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don't want to pay the bark air airline fee, but just traveling in general,
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like how much harder it is? Like what do you do when you
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guys travel? We are so lucky, uh, Papa, Papa Lance pasts.
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Oh yeah, it always takes the dog. It's almost like we have
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joint custody. Like this last weekend, Lula was at the lake with the
16:25
kids and Nick while I was gone, and he's like, oh, just
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keep We're going back this weekend. Just keep Lula here. She's having a
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great time. So that is really nice that we can have that flexibility.
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But otherwise, I mean there's so many services and people or dog sitters or
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boarding. I've never do a little right, but I'm rubbing my fingers show
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money. Yeah, but it is interesting how many people, like you'll go
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through the airport and people are, you know, flying with their dogs doing
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their thing. That I would just feel so bad because you just don't know
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how they're going to act, even if you know your dog and you but
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never doing that, you mean, like a dog on the actual flight,
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because you can stow the dog under the plane, right, you can't.
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That makes me so anxious. I don't know why. Maybe it's because I've
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watched so many like movies about like usually the only time you see the inside
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of the plane is like a terrorist movie or something where somebody is like sneaking
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down there and doing them like we're in a crate. People put their dogs
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in crates overnight, don't they. Yeah, but it's like you're also going
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up in the air, the turbulent. They don't know, yeah, exactly,
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they don't know what's going on. They probably think they're the end is
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coming. But do dogs ever know what's going on? To be fair,
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of course they do. There's a lot of dogs listening right now, and
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they just went rot row. Now here's what you need to know. Well,
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we knew it was all gonna happen last night, and it did.
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Caitlin Clark was the first overall pick for the w NBA. A lot of
17:51
people talking about her salary though, so she had to go to Indiana,
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to Indiana. Yep, so the fever. Oh, of course, the
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Indian fever. And I hate to even laugh about that, but truly I
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never even knew anything about the Indiana fever. I did not, And I
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know in the WNBA there's less than what there are fifteen teams or something like
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that, honestly, once again not sure, which also is bringing up this
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fact she has a four year contract worth only three hundred and thirty eight thousand
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dollars and people are going, oh, my gosh, that is not a
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lot of money for a four year contract. But again, she's gonna have
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tons of endorsements. She's knowing what she's doing, and she is. I
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mean, they already have pre sold tickets, the revenue, all that stuff
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is coming in. People think she needs to make money off of that,
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and maybe she is. Maybe we just don't know. Of course she is.
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Just with college basketball players now getting paid nil money. She was making
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millions of dollars playing at Iowa women's basketball. Anyway, they get paid more
18:44
to play overseas, so they'll play here for the few months, and then
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they'll go play in Russia or Ukraine or whatever. Maybe well maybe I out
18:52
those two places, but you know, wherever where she might she might go,
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she's gonna be fine. Just pick any other place. Maybe the look
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on your face, Oh that was great, said ukrain As, and then
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you were like wait, well, like if you could have taken it back
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like beep, whoops. I know I think they maybe is where they play.
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I am not sure, but uh, point point taking. Thank you
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for the beef. Fine, all right, Chinos wants you to try to
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make it through a full twenty four hours using your other hand. They're just
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doing a fun little campaign. Think about it. It's just crazy. I
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read the article and then throughout the morning I'm like, Okay, let me
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see if I can do this. Even just going to grab my cup of
19:44
coffee with my other hand is it's very odd, Like it's makes me feel
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a little unsettled, like I'm going to drop it. Is there anything you
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do with your left hand, because you're right handed, right correct? Is
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there anything that you find yourself doing with your left hand or foot. I'm
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trying to think of what I do with my left hand, the left hand
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some ways, don't want to know. A crazy story. Yeah, When
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I was playing high school baseball for Dillarth gwyn Felton High School, we had
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a game early in one season against I think it was Fargo South. So
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we're playing in Fargo, and there was a kid on their team who's a
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pitcher who is ambidextrous, so he could throw with both hands at both arms.
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And so we had a player who's a switch hitter, so who could
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hit right handed and left handed. So anyway, this pitcher had a glove
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that he could literally use on both hands depending on which arm he wanted to
20:26
throw with So our batter goes up to the plate and he's on the right
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handed side, So the pitcher switched his to the left hand because you have
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an advantage that way, yep. So then our batter sees that it walks
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over to the other side of the plate. Now he's going to hit left
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handed. So the pitcher where they going, which I swear to god,
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it went on for like three minutes, and I think finally the had to
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be like, okay, guys, come on, you're gonna do this clip
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a coin. Who's going to where it was? Crazy? That is pretty
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awesome, all right? The infamous white Ford Bronco carrying OJ Simpson in that
20:55
low speed chase. We all remember that nineteen ninety three bronco is still around
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though. Did you know this and it only has thirty two thousand miles on
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it? Well that's impressive. It has three owners, Simpson's former agent and
21:08
then two of his friends. They're Now this is just so ikey. Like
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when we talk about the whole OJ situation, there's a lot of feelings the
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fact that these guys and I don't know if they were friends with him after
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the situation, but now that he's dead, they're going to sell it and
21:22
cash in on it. They want to make at least one point five million
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dollars on this Bronco. Hey, people pay a lot for Broncos. Just
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in general. It's a pretty trendy vehicle, you know, and that one
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arguably the most famous of the Broncos. Yeah, I don't know. Don't
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you feel that way though, just eh ikey about it. I don't know.
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It's just such a it's just so intertwined with pop culture. That's true,
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the whole generation, right, It's just it goes beyond the actual murder
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that happened, double murder, so true. All right, Today, we
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do have a wind advisory. This is going to go until seven o'clock tonight,
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fifty mile pre or winds, cloudy, rainy. Really kind of be
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this way for a couple of days. Hi you fifty five Take in a
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Man in the Morning. Stage seven. Do you remember when you were single?
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Do you ever remember having the thought of, like, geez, I
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wish I was I wish I was more relationship material? What's wrong with me?
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I'm sure, yeah, I'm sure, I'm sure that crossed my mind
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a time or two. For anybody feel in the same way, I have
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some advice here. Okay. These are the things that women who are relationship
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material. These are the things they don't do. Okay, So if you're
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doing you might want to take down. They don't exaggerate about what's going on
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around them or what a man's doing. Okay, So exaggerating is something they
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don't do. Okay. Okay. They also they don't say everything that they're
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feeling. Okay, because if right away you're seeing a guy and you like
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him and you're just like unloading, you can I can totally see where he'd
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be like, this is just a lot. And I guess for me it
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depends on what what age of your relationship you're in. Is it like you
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just know when you know? Because some may say Nick and I like when
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we got together was just it's like way, I'm bam, bam bam.
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It was wham bam, and it was exactly. But we were at a
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point in our lives we knew what we wanted. We had an amazing connection.
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But had I had that conversation in my twenties with the guy, probably
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would have been like red flag, red flag, Oh yeah, just dodging
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bullets. Lady, you're crazy Yeah, if you're right away like just being
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super like the let's say, the first day I get your number, the
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next day you're like going on and on about all these horrible things. It's
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like, well, this, this seems like this might be a concern.
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I just have good energy. Also, women who are relationship material, they
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don't mention bad situations, issues or problems from the past unless it's a total
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must like very relevant something you need to say. That's kind of the same
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thing, right, Yeah, if you're coming out with all this heavy stuff,
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you know, like save all the trauma until we were you know,
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la, so we're down with it through the relationship per se. Yeah.
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So basically you guys just don't want an honest woman? Is that what we're
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getting? Just just sit there and actually quite the opposite of Amanda. I
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don't know why you would say that. Just be quiet, don't say anything
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about what has happened in your life. And do you want to know what
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the women who are relationship material what they do do. I would love to
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know what they do do what they do do they choose not to gossip.
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That's not a good look. Although we all love a good pile of hot
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gossip. Don't we. It depends on the situation for sure. I know.
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I was just talking to somebody. Oh my wife, She's like,
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I like it when it's not people, you know, I'm like, are
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you what are you talking about? I love it when it's people. I
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know. If it's people, you don't know, I don't care at all.
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That's just when you go to Facebook and go through like local news sites
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and just watch people Like this morning, I've been watching feuds about people arguing
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over Kaitlin Clark's salary all day. Like, I've just been watching people get
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hot about it. Everybody wants you to get paid more or what, and
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then there's people going not the case. It should be volunteer work the WNBA,
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like get a Manda in the morning from on dig. You know,
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you grow up and you kind of just have this idea that your parents are
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perfect. Right, You're the kid, You're the one that screws up all
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the time. Parents can do no wrong. And then you get older and
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you realize that, well, wait a minute, they're human too, Yeah,
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making mistakes all the time. Yeah, Like you're a parent and you
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screw up all the time. Yeah, you know what, We've been trying
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to do, or at least I have been showing them like, hey,
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I am imperfect. I apologize to the kids. Oh wow. Sometimes if
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I snap, it's like, hey, I'm sorry. I don't want to
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go to bed like that. I shouldn't have done that, And just really
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like being vulnerable with them, and I feel like, I think that's great.
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I don't think there was a lot of that going on and maybe in
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generation's past, but this mom has admitted to a big mistake she made when
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it came to planning her kid's birthday party. Young kid right wanted to send
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out some evites, some electronic invitations, and so she got the software where
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created the birthday party event and was going to send it off to the people
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she wanted to invite. Yeah, you're friends, family, kids, friends,
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parents, with YadA YadA. Well, she accidentally in the software there's
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an option to import your com tax, which would be then where you select
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to who send it to. She accidentally set the invite out to every single
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contact she had in her phone, every single one. Oh boy, and
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those do you ever realize when you transfer ever numbers or you're like looking for
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somebody, you're like, oh my gosh, Like I still have that number,
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like insane, Like I'll have like intern so and so and that would
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have been from fifteen twenty years ago. It's hilarious exactly. And she said,
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like some of the people she sent it to, somebody named Derek eye
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roll. Okay, somebody sounds like somebody she might have met at the OBI
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on Saturday back in I guess he's going to a kid's birthday. Not to
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mention, Jess hit her car in the parking lot also got an invite she'll
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be attending the party. But it is true. It makes me want to
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go through and delete people because I don't know how many times. Like my
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brother's name is Bobby, so sometimes I'll say, hey, Siri called Bobby,
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and there's a second Bobby in my phone, who's just some guy that
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I maybe did a job interview with once a year a decade ago. Oh
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that's a litter. And it's just like, can you imagine if he were
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to have my numbers staves still and see that call, be like, what
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the heck? Because even if it rings once, they're gonna see it,
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you know, yes, and then you have the awkward like hey did you
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did you call on purpose? I know, I haven't spoken to you more
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than ten minutes of my entire life, But did you try to call me?
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Right? Butt tiling is not as crazy as it used to be,
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depending on what kind of phone you have, right, But being a man
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do within a I used to get butt dialed left and right like just crazy.
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Oh yeah, I got a lot of amandas on my phone. Do
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you Probably somebod should delete on that. I've only got one pike, lucky
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gallow And that's why I named myself that when I was born. Is that
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what I wanted to avoid? This