Latest / The Bull Brotherhood / SPH- Book 5 : Men have sex DRIVES & Women have sex RESPONSES
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- 0:00Instead of taking her out to the movies and that's
- 0:02it, take her to like an early dinner, something
- 0:05cool, something affordable. Trust me on this.
- 0:09Even for the women, like, I deserve this and
- 0:12this and that and you need to spend money. Trust
- 0:14me on this one. And then take her to a little
- 0:19putt -putt place or a place to throw darts or
- 0:25something kind of fun and quick. What's good?
- 0:44What's good, y 'all? That's Wu -Tang right there,
- 0:47y 'all. That's Wu -Tang. A little something about
- 0:49that. It's obvious that I like the part about,
- 0:52you know, I bomb atomically. Socrates' philosophies
- 0:57and hypotheses can't define why I be dropping
- 1:00these mockeries. Not only is that one of my favorite
- 1:03songs from Wu -Tang, not only did that song come
- 1:06out in a very pivotal part of my life, not only
- 1:09did I have that in my wedding, believe it or
- 1:12not, when I came out, and in my son's wedding,
- 1:14in his wedding, and it's like a core memory for
- 1:17me and my son. I just think that is one of the
- 1:19best, like, intro rhymes. ever in the history
- 1:25of hip -hop and i'm i'm definitely from the west
- 1:27coast i'm definitely lover and appreciator of
- 1:31west coast music but that song is dope anyway
- 1:34what's up y 'all this is socrates and this is
- 1:37a segment of the bull brotherhood podcast which
- 1:40when he talks about you know all the people that
- 1:43we talk to i'm going to focus on the open -minded
- 1:47explorers that means if you're vanilla and you're
- 1:50an ultra conservative christian And you stumbled
- 1:53onto this wild and crazy podcast to the most
- 1:57wild and crazy out there lifestylers doing whatever
- 2:02hedonistic things y 'all do. This podcast is,
- 2:06this segment is for everyone. And I'm going to
- 2:09talk about my crazy philosophies and hypotheses.
- 2:14I'm going to give you a little bit of a foundational
- 2:16principles before we really get into the subject.
- 2:21Today's subject is my philosophy is men have
- 2:25sex drives, women have sex responses. And my
- 2:29hypothesis is there's three types of typical
- 2:34generalized responses from women. And we're going
- 2:38to get into that. But before I do, let's lay
- 2:41down a few ground rules, shall we say, principles.
- 2:45One, I learned this from one of my... virtual
- 2:48mentors ross jeffries one of the ogs of pickup
- 2:51artistry and seduction by all the way back in
- 2:54the 80s is that none of this is what we're gonna
- 2:58call is capital t truth that's not what i'm here
- 3:01to present don't think i don't have a belief
- 3:04in capital t truth but if you want to know that
- 3:07hit me up and we'll have that discussion neither
- 3:10is this thing scientific as much as i love the
- 3:14scientific community as much as i love peer -reviewed
- 3:18double -blind studies as much as I read stuff
- 3:22like that I have too much of a respect for the
- 3:26scientific community and the high bar that they
- 3:29hold themselves to to even present something
- 3:32as a finding from their research that I'm not
- 3:36claiming that this is my philosophies and hypotheses
- 3:39this is from my years from since I was 19 of
- 3:44reading I don't know countless books on women
- 3:46and men and sexual interaction to psychology
- 3:49to just being a natural observer to all the things
- 3:53that I've learned in the lifestyle ever since.
- 3:56I'm going to present to you what my experience
- 3:58and research and mentoring and asking a billion
- 4:02questions has, you know, some of the findings
- 4:05that I have experienced. And let's be real, gentlemen,
- 4:08how you can get more pussy. I'm here to increase
- 4:12your probability. And increase your success rate
- 4:15to get willing, enthusiastic, horny yeses. From
- 4:22open to your advances to dropping handkerchiefs
- 4:28to give you some signals. Because, you know,
- 4:30some, I'll speak for myself, sometimes I don't
- 4:34get it. To her damn near pursuing you. And so.
- 4:40Who's my target audience? Who am I talking to
- 4:42today? Now, on this segment, I'm going to tell
- 4:45you who my audience is. And I want you to know,
- 4:48if you're not the audience, you have two choices.
- 4:51Listen and enjoy or keep it pushing. Because
- 4:55I will not entertain anything else for one reason
- 5:00and one reason only. I'm proud to say, and all
- 5:03this will be relevant in a hot second, I am not
- 5:06an immunologist and I haven't done the research.
- 5:10I am not a climatologist. I am not a geopolitical
- 5:15expert. I'm not an oil and gas expert. I'm not
- 5:20a, you know, micro and macro economic expert.
- 5:27And I'm proud to say if I haven't done the research
- 5:31or have intensive and extensive intimate experience
- 5:34with the subject or haven't done a lot of time.
- 5:38getting mentored and talking to people, I'm not
- 5:41speaking on it. So I'm speaking to women who
- 5:47can, cisgendered women who consider themselves
- 5:49feminine and identify with the statement, men
- 5:54have sex drives in general, not every man, but
- 5:58in general, men have sex drives and women have
- 6:01sex responses. And I'm talking about, and you
- 6:04know, and you can, in the lifestyle, you can
- 6:06be bisexual, you can be, you know. open to both
- 6:09sexes intimately. However, all of my trans women
- 6:14and men, brothers and sisters, all of my gay
- 6:18and lesbian brothers and sisters, all of my studs
- 6:22and metrosexuals and all of those cats, if for
- 6:27whatever reason you don't self -identify with
- 6:30what I'm talking about, please, you have two
- 6:33choices. Stay and enjoy or keep it pushing. Because
- 6:38I'm not talking to you. Why? Because I'm for
- 6:41or against your position or who you are as a
- 6:43human being? Absolutely not. I served in the
- 6:45military a hot second, and I am proud of the
- 6:49right, I'm proud of the fact that I fought for
- 6:52your right to pursue life, liberty, and the pursuit
- 6:56of happiness. And your right to exist and be
- 6:59respected and loved is who you are. That's all
- 7:02I got on the subject. Everything else is directed
- 7:04towards... People who identify with the basic
- 7:08philosophy. Women have sex responses and men
- 7:13have sex drives. Now, let me explain what I mean
- 7:16by that. This episode, and we're not going to
- 7:18be getting into all the scientific research,
- 7:21even though I love that and I reference that
- 7:22a lot. We're only going to be talking about my
- 7:26philosophies. And my philosophy is because of
- 7:29some, which has been, what's the word, which
- 7:31has been informed by my research and experience.
- 7:35mentoring and millions of questions is that because
- 7:38of what i know about evolutionary psychology
- 7:41and evolution what i know about biblical principles
- 7:44what i know about my experiences what i know
- 7:47about myself men produce anywhere from i think
- 7:51it's six to a day six a cycle or six million
- 7:54a day or six million a month sperm trust me when
- 7:59i tell you ladies we produce more testosterone
- 8:01which creates a drive A drive to go get. A drive
- 8:05to hunt. A drive to chase y 'all. A drive to
- 8:09get y 'all. For some men, a drive to conquer
- 8:12y 'all. A drive to control y 'all. A drive for
- 8:15me, a drive to explore your intimacy and your
- 8:19ecstasy and your femininity and your body and
- 8:22get you to explode in many different ways. I
- 8:26call that a drive. And for women, in general,
- 8:29they have responses. Response to my drive. The
- 8:33fact that a man produces 6 million sperm, I don't
- 8:36remember the cycle, I didn't look it up, creates
- 8:38a drive. Our testosterone creates a drive. Our
- 8:41position in society as hunter -gatherers, as
- 8:44providers in general, creates a drive. And women's
- 8:49response of what happens when a man pursues her
- 8:53and successfully injects his seed, that's a response.
- 9:00When a man has a drive to build a home, a house,
- 9:04build a house, a woman has emotions and connection
- 9:07to make it a home. When a man approaches a woman
- 9:10in a certain way, she has a response to that
- 9:12approach. When a man, and I know times are changing,
- 9:16y 'all. I'm not talking about that. But when
- 9:18a man proposes to a woman, she has a response
- 9:21to that proposal. When a man asks a woman out,
- 9:24she has a response to that asking. When a woman
- 9:27drops a handkerchief, She's responding to her
- 9:31attraction to you. And because of that, what
- 9:35that has done for me is changed the game. There
- 9:38was a time when I was like, I felt like I was
- 9:40a pretty decent guy. I wasn't, I was a little
- 9:43overweight, but not too bad. I am six feet, even,
- 9:47you know, halfway, know how to dress, have time,
- 9:50you know, present myself well, brush my teeth,
- 9:52pay my own bills. I struggled with the responses
- 9:57I want from women, which are, enthusiastic yeses,
- 10:00enthusiastic yeses, emotionally, mentally, and
- 10:05sexually. And I watched men that I felt didn't
- 10:12have the things I needed to have and had things
- 10:15I felt were a detriment, and they were balling
- 10:19out of control when it comes to that. And what
- 10:22I realized through a lot of research and experience
- 10:27When I walked into the room with that response,
- 10:29when I interacted with a woman with that philosophy,
- 10:34magical things happened. Magical things happened.
- 10:37And so my hypothesis is this, is that there are
- 10:42three types of generalized responses you can
- 10:46elicit in a woman, in the kind of woman that
- 10:49I've talked about. And we're going to talk about
- 10:51two of the three because one just is not. You
- 10:55know, we're just not a subject we're going to
- 10:56talk about on this podcast. And that is one,
- 10:59the family friend response from a woman to the
- 11:04intimate partner response from a woman. And three,
- 11:09the what I call logistical or logic response
- 11:15from a woman. So we're going to spend most of
- 11:18our time talking about those three. What elicits
- 11:21certain responses? Now, we're not going to talk
- 11:24about the logistical one. That, to me, is about
- 11:26business, war, and reemergencies. And in my opinion,
- 11:32I've seen women perform well in these areas.
- 11:36I've seen women build businesses. I've seen women
- 11:38do well in sports. I've seen women do well in
- 11:41combat, especially in supportive roles. I haven't
- 11:46personally seen a combat woman, so I'm not going
- 11:49to speak on it. I loved it. And, oh, by the way.
- 11:51I'd love to hear, you know, I'm a very curious
- 11:54person. I want to meet. I don't know a lot of
- 11:57gay and lesbian people, to be honest with you.
- 11:59I'm acquainted with them, but I'm not, you know,
- 12:02super close. I don't know even a lot of, like,
- 12:04for my lifestyle people, I don't even know a
- 12:06lot of dragons. I know of one. I've listened
- 12:09to him on several podcasts. I don't know a lot
- 12:11of lesbian women, you know, on a close level.
- 12:15I went into, I don't know a lot of trans men
- 12:17and trans women. I'm totally down to get to know
- 12:20you. If you want to hit me up, hit me up. I love
- 12:21to chop it over the phone. Or if you're, you
- 12:25know, you're in, you know, where I live and you're
- 12:27in my town, my city, I'm in yours, you know,
- 12:30hit me up. Let's get a cup of coffee. Let's,
- 12:32let's chop it up. But who I'm talking about is
- 12:35gentlemen. If you are having trouble getting
- 12:40women to respond in the way you want. And I'm
- 12:43going to insist on enthusiastic guesses. I'm
- 12:45going to insist on her being very attracted to
- 12:47you or, you know, good enough to do two things.
- 12:52This is what I want to see with my plate partners.
- 12:54This is what I want to see with the women I'm
- 12:56pursuing sexually. I want to see those lips opening.
- 12:59And y 'all know which lips I'm talking about.
- 13:01And I want to see them walls wetting, right?
- 13:03I want to see a wet pussy, a wop. And I want
- 13:06to see open lips. Now, no matter if you got them,
- 13:09you know, Arby's. We have the meat slips or invisible
- 13:13ones. I've seen them all. I want to see that
- 13:15open, and I want to see it wet. That's just me.
- 13:18You might ask, Socrates, how did you go from,
- 13:21like, it's a crapshoot and a mystery unless I
- 13:25was in a nightclub or an entertainment setting
- 13:28or a hospitality setting. I mastered that like
- 13:31ridiculous. How did you go from, man, it's a
- 13:34crapshoot, to women have offered to own them?
- 13:39That's not something. That me and my wife are
- 13:42doing right now. That is something I'm moving
- 13:43towards. Considering that my tagline on our podcast
- 13:47is to train, clean, and own. They have offered
- 13:50that now. They have told me, look, this pussy
- 13:54is yours. Do it with it what you want to. And
- 13:59that has made me a happy boy. Made me a happy
- 14:02man. And I want to share how I have reached that
- 14:05level. And that is changing my mindset to. Men
- 14:09have sex drives, women have sex responses. Now,
- 14:11let's talk about the first one, family and friend.
- 14:13Now, that could be a myriad from your children
- 14:17all the way up to your cousin, your third cousin
- 14:20you barely know. And it could be business acquaintances
- 14:24you go to lunch with every Friday to your bestest
- 14:28friend. We're only going to talk about two of
- 14:31them in each category. One is eliciting a child
- 14:34from baby to... young boy response and eliciting
- 14:40the friend zone response and trust me when i
- 14:44say when it comes to the child to young boy response
- 14:48when you're in a relationship with a woman and
- 14:51especially if you live with them you do not want
- 14:54to elicit that response because thankfully for
- 14:58society because of society and nature and biblical
- 15:00principles whatever women do not want to get
- 15:03their pussies wet when they're around family
- 15:05and friends, and especially around their children
- 15:07or young boys, young adults, young children.
- 15:12And I know Florida teachers have a different
- 15:14story. We're not talking about them. And I know
- 15:17I never liked being friends with women that I
- 15:19was sexually interested in, right? And I've always
- 15:22been curious about what elicits a woman's intimate
- 15:27partner response, right? The attraction, the
- 15:30flirtiness, the crush. the openness, the, you
- 15:37know, in the red pill community, there's a saying
- 15:39alpha fucks and beta bucks, which means the alpha
- 15:44guy, the, you know, or the Sigma in this case,
- 15:47he gets the pussy and the beta pays for the date
- 15:50and pays for, you know, her with attention. And,
- 15:54you know, whether that's true or not, we're not
- 15:56talking about that today, but I have been in
- 15:59plenty of situations where I was the beta. Paying
- 16:04the bucks. I was the friend who was friend zoned,
- 16:08wondering why she's complaining about the guy
- 16:11she continually gives up the poo nanny to. And
- 16:13I did not want to be in that situation, gentlemen.
- 16:16So here's what I did. I started realizing that
- 16:19there are certain things that men do to elicit
- 16:22the baby to teenage boy or young man response
- 16:26that drives the pussy up. One, let's start with
- 16:31the baby. Babies. are dependent on you they depend
- 16:36on you for life itself for understanding what
- 16:40they're saying they're totally dependent on you
- 16:43when a man gives a vibe aura or your life screams
- 16:49that you are not independent it dries her pussy
- 16:53up y 'all it dries it up that's the sound of
- 16:55wetness being sucked out it dries her up because
- 16:59it elicits the child response now You know how
- 17:03I know this? Number one, I have read some books
- 17:05on it. We're not going to talk about those books
- 17:07today. Number one, I have done research on it.
- 17:09We're not talking about that. I know it because
- 17:11I talk to a lot of women and they tell me. I
- 17:14know it because I talk to so many women who say,
- 17:18you ask them, well, how many kids do you have?
- 17:20And they say, oh, two. And then later on, you
- 17:22find out that they consider their husband the
- 17:24third child because he's not independent. Basic
- 17:28independence. What also... elicits a child response
- 17:32from a woman. It is, you know, young kids don't
- 17:36know to clean their plate, clean their room,
- 17:39not get shit all over their clothes, right? There's
- 17:42a time and a place for everything. When a man
- 17:45doesn't come with a clean mind and a clean house
- 17:49and a clean car. Now there's things to override
- 17:52this. Maybe you got a lot of money. Maybe you
- 17:53got all these other things that elicit her intimate
- 17:56partner response. But trust me when I say one
- 17:58aspect of your life, elicits in a lot of women
- 18:02not all in general not all it elicits childlike
- 18:06response a motherly response and that dries up
- 18:09the pussy closes the lips does not elicit the
- 18:13throbbing pussy phenomenon ask a friend about
- 18:16that ask one of your lady friends about the kind
- 18:19of man she that elicits that intimate partner
- 18:22response and it does it well her pussy starts
- 18:26throbbing heard about it y 'all you know what
- 18:28also elicits Motherly response is teenage boys
- 18:33don't know. You have to keep reminding them to
- 18:36take the trash out to the point where it gets
- 18:38so overfilled that damn near might as well throw
- 18:41it on the floor because if you throw it on top
- 18:42of the trash, it's going on the floor anyway.
- 18:45Or you know when your car needs serviced. You
- 18:49know when your lawn needs to be done. You know
- 18:51when the bills need to be paid. You have to remind
- 18:54your teenage boys of that. You have to remind
- 18:56them to go to school on time. You got to remind
- 18:59them to handle their business when it comes to
- 19:02their schoolwork. Those things elicit a childlike,
- 19:06motherly response, gentlemen. And what does it
- 19:09do to the pussy? Say it with me, y 'all. Dry
- 19:12it up. Just my opinion. Just my philosophy. Just
- 19:16my hypothesis. What else elicits in the lifestyle?
- 19:19A young man doesn't understand. I'm going to
- 19:21give y 'all some game. Get your pencils and pens
- 19:24out. I'll wait. Get your notes out on your phone.
- 19:28I'll wait. I'm going to give you all some game.
- 19:30See, women are beautiful, magnificent creatures.
- 19:36And they have recently been able to get in this
- 19:38workforce, get in this education force because
- 19:41we done messed up and let them and I love it.
- 19:43And they're killing the game. And they spend
- 19:46all day, you know, especially if they're a single
- 19:48mom making decisions or a wife who's managing
- 19:52a household and a job while you're managing.
- 19:55a job and your PlayStation, she making decisions
- 19:58all day and women are not that they can't do
- 20:01it. They're beautiful at it, but they're not
- 20:03made to make decisions all day like that. This
- 20:05is a new phenomenon for them and they're killing
- 20:08the game. Y 'all killing it in education, new
- 20:11business, you know, business growth, expanding
- 20:14income. They make decisions all day. When you
- 20:18go out on a date with them, you know what they
- 20:21really love is. Taking away the decision -making
- 20:24process of where they're going. Let me even give
- 20:26you some game. When you're just getting into
- 20:29knowing a woman, you ask them certain questions
- 20:31like, what's your favorite color? Where do you
- 20:32work? What do you like to do for fun? Mix in
- 20:36these three questions. Mix in these questions.
- 20:38I don't know about three, but what are your favorite
- 20:40proteins? Or are you a vegan? Do you like chicken?
- 20:42Do you like fish? Do you like steaks? Do you
- 20:45like pork? What are your favorite proteins? And
- 20:48then, what are your three favorite restaurants?
- 20:51And then... What are your three favorite alcoholic
- 20:54drinks? If she drinks alcohol and what are your
- 20:56favorite, just regular non -alcoholic drinks,
- 20:58mix that into all the other questions you might
- 21:01ask that everybody else asks. And you're going
- 21:03to write those things down. You're going to remember
- 21:05them and you're going to plug them into chat
- 21:07GBT. And then you're going to say, based on these
- 21:11things, recommend three restaurants. I could
- 21:15take her on, recommend what I should order when
- 21:18we get there for the food and the drink. And
- 21:21the dessert. And also what you're going to do
- 21:24is you're going to, now my wife tells me I need
- 21:27to be very careful about how I say this. Don't
- 21:30stalk nobody, y 'all. I repeat, don't stalk nobody.
- 21:34But do a little bit of research. Go on her Facebook
- 21:38page if you know her full name and you're not,
- 21:41you know, you're comfortable with that. And see
- 21:43where her favorite spots are to go. What she's
- 21:48smiling at her. repeatedly and if you are live
- 21:52with her and you don't know like i didn't know
- 21:55what i should pick out for her to wear look and
- 21:58see what her when she's out with her girls pictures
- 22:01or when she's going out with other people and
- 22:06how she's dressed plug those pictures in the
- 22:09chat and some other pictures you might think
- 22:12and ask it to help you or pick out something
- 22:15similar pick out the clothes pick out her dress
- 22:19Pick out her shoes and say, baby, just be ready
- 22:22at this time. This is the clothes you're wearing.
- 22:25I'm taking you out. And if you are new and y
- 22:28'all don't live together, say I'd love to see
- 22:30you in this or this is how you could dress. I'll
- 22:34be there at this time or meet me here at this
- 22:37time. Open the door for her. Have reservations
- 22:40if that's required. Treat the server well. Tip
- 22:43decently. And I suggest you pay. I know that's
- 22:47old school. But there's going to be a reason
- 22:49for that later. And here's another thing. Instead
- 22:53of taking her out to the movies and that's it,
- 22:55take her to like an early dinner, something cool,
- 23:00something affordable. Trust me on this. Even
- 23:03for the women, like, I deserve this and this
- 23:05and that and you need to spend money. Trust me
- 23:08on this one. And then take her to a little putt
- 23:13-putt place or... A place to throw darts or something
- 23:19kind of fun and quick. And then in the night
- 23:22at a dive bar maybe and sing karaoke or axe throwing
- 23:28or whatever little fun thing. Try to spend about
- 23:31the same money you would have at a bigger date
- 23:34and you will have made her feel like she went
- 23:37on three dates at once. For my bulls out there,
- 23:39call the cuck if you're taking a cuck or a couple
- 23:42out or the stag. ask them all those questions,
- 23:45and work with them to design a beautiful night.
- 23:48Go on, if you're on Telegram with them or on
- 23:51a social media or some kind of site where you
- 23:53guys have been talking back and forth and she's
- 23:56sharing. We're in a lot of Telegram groups, and
- 23:59trust me, I love Titty Tuesdays and Monochrome
- 24:03Mondays and Hump Day is my wife's favorite one
- 24:08because she's a pog, y 'all. She's got a nice
- 24:11little booty. I love the booty and gather all
- 24:14that information and you can help pick out her
- 24:17lingerie. You can help pick out a design of the
- 24:21night with the cuck or stag. You're going to
- 24:24take them on and talk to the cuck and figure
- 24:26out how you want to include him in the process.
- 24:28Trust me, putting you up on game. All that goes
- 24:32back to when you don't have any of that figured
- 24:35out where you want to go. Let me put you on game.
- 24:38Do this. If you haven't heard it on TikTok, I
- 24:41learned this on TikTok. Say when she gets in
- 24:44the car and you pick her up and you go to dinner,
- 24:46girl, guess where I'm taking you to dinner, girl.
- 24:49Pick out of the first three that she, that she,
- 24:52guess. That's where y 'all going. Or do the other
- 24:57thing and plug that in the chat and come up with
- 25:00a new one. Or put contacts. Girl, we're going
- 25:02to try a new restaurant together. what are the
- 25:05foods that you don't like? And then say, I'm
- 25:09going to use this app and we're going to, you
- 25:11know, put a bunch of restaurants in there and
- 25:13we're going to see what it comes up with. Do
- 25:15those things. What happens is when you don't
- 25:18do them, that's a little boy. He doesn't have
- 25:21a plan for his life. You don't have a plan for
- 25:23your little 20 -ass old year old kid. You don't
- 25:26have a plan for what you're going to do when
- 25:28you get to the party, if there's an emergency
- 25:29of that party. Little boys do that. Men have
- 25:33plans, right? Architects have plans. Construction
- 25:37companies have plans. Business owners have plans.
- 25:42Y 'all like football, right? I love football.
- 25:44I like basketball. I like baseball. The coaches
- 25:47have a plan on how you're going to win the game.
- 25:50Have a plan. Not having a plan reminds her of
- 25:55her teenage boy. who don't know what the fuck
- 25:58he's going to do except for have a job and play
- 26:02PlayStation. Say it with me, y 'all. What does
- 26:05it do to the pussy? Right? We're not going to
- 26:08talk about the logistics and stuff like that.
- 26:10I'll just say this. My philosophy is, and we're
- 26:12going to get into this more in the future, is,
- 26:14if I may, there is a Nobel Peace Prize winning
- 26:19gentleman named Daniel Kahneman. For all my nerds
- 26:23out there, I will talk about this book. And this
- 26:25fact, because it's really been weighing on me.
- 26:27He is known for his book, Thinking Fast and Thinking
- 26:31Slow. And he proved that this idea that women
- 26:36are emotional and men are logical is a fallacy.
- 26:40All human beings have what's called a nervous
- 26:42system. And that limbic brain of yours is where
- 26:46you call where your emotions come from. Yes,
- 26:48I know that the heart has neurological cells
- 26:52and so does the gut, but. We'll get into that
- 26:55kind of stuff later. And I do believe in vibe
- 26:57and I also am a spiritual person. So I do believe
- 27:00I have a soul. But right now we're going to talk
- 27:02about the scientific perspective, the limbic
- 27:05brain. And all of us, that's where emotions come
- 27:08from. Men and women. And what he proved is, is
- 27:10that you can take the most cutthroat, dedicated
- 27:14to the numbers only, logic only, billionaire
- 27:18hedge fund manager. And he proved that that person
- 27:23still. makes an emotional decision, and justifies
- 27:27it with logic. Here's my theory, and we're going
- 27:30to get into this more, is that men are just inclined
- 27:34because of our body mass and our cultural experiences
- 27:37and biblical principles that I believe in and
- 27:40evolutionary principles, if you don't believe
- 27:42in the biblical ones, we're made to see the world
- 27:46and communicate through logistics and logic,
- 27:50or logic and logistics, meaning, The things and
- 27:54communication and thought process to build house
- 27:57and logistics to build a house. And women are
- 28:02inclined and have, you know, mental and physical
- 28:06and chemical aspects to themselves that lead
- 28:10them to see the world through emotions and connection.
- 28:13That logic is the counterpart or the masculine
- 28:17to the emotions and logistics are the counterpart.
- 28:22or the masculine to the feminine of connection.
- 28:25And we're going to get into that more. Now, I
- 28:27also want to get into this. Look, I don't expect
- 28:30these things to download a lot. I don't expect
- 28:33this to be this overnight success because I have
- 28:37no illusions. I know that women with salacious
- 28:42stories of hoeing and hot wifing was what's downloaded
- 28:46the most. And I'm not here for that. You know,
- 28:52you're not going to get a lot of salacious stories
- 28:54about all the wild and crazy things I do. And
- 28:57I do wild and crazy things in the lifestyle,
- 28:59y 'all. And I was doing wild and crazy, freaky
- 29:03stuff. Nothing with people under 18. Nothing
- 29:07with people that don't have the mental capacity
- 29:09to consent or inebriated too much. None of that.
- 29:13But with consenting and mature, and I've always
- 29:16liked older women to be. I've always leaned more
- 29:19towards a woman over the age of 21, and now I'm
- 29:22damn near over the age of at least over 25. I
- 29:24make my exceptions, but honestly, I lost my train
- 29:27of thought. Hold on. Oh, I wanted to say that
- 29:30I'm here for those who want to learn how that
- 29:33I'm able to experience these amazing things with
- 29:37these amazing women and how a regular, I'll just
- 29:40say, nigga from L .A. And I wouldn't even LA.
- 29:43I'm from a part of LA that is on the outskirts,
- 29:46still in LA County, but tough, man, you know?
- 29:50And if I can do it, you can do it. And so I wasn't
- 29:55talking about all the principles and philosophies
- 29:57and approaches and things you need to do to live
- 30:00those salacious things. And then you can tell
- 30:03your story if you want, you know, you can go
- 30:05get content for that. You can, there's plenty
- 30:06of podcasts out there that tell you all the stories
- 30:09of sucking and fucking. PNV and orgies and, you
- 30:13know, extreme cuckolding and race play and all
- 30:17that. It's fun. I love it. But I like living
- 30:20it more than I like talking about it. I like
- 30:22talking about how do you get there? What are
- 30:24the steps? What are the thought processes? What
- 30:27are the skill sets that I should learn? Who are
- 30:29the people that I should hang around with that
- 30:31are doing this, that are living it instead of
- 30:34talking about it? And again, this is nothing
- 30:37wrong with anybody. I'm a capitalist. Well, I'm
- 30:40adjacent to a capitalist. I'm actually a flowist,
- 30:42but we're not going to get into that. I believe
- 30:44in cash flow instead of gaining or building up
- 30:47capital. But I respect and I love the capitalist
- 30:50system. Get your money, y 'all. Do your thing.
- 30:54I also believe in the First Amendment. Talk about
- 30:58whatever the heck you want to talk about. But
- 31:01over here, we're going to talk about how I have
- 31:03done some really interesting things in my life
- 31:06and experienced a myriad of women. And I love
- 31:10it because I love women and I love exploring
- 31:14them in every way, spiritually, emotionally,
- 31:17mentally, physically, sexually, entrepreneurially.
- 31:19I love it. I love it. So what elicits, and there's
- 31:22a thousand things we could talk about. From not
- 31:25taking out the trash when you know you're not
- 31:27supposed to, doing your chores, handling your
- 31:28business, not managing your time well, not having
- 31:31a plan, not having a vision and purpose. All
- 31:34those things elicit childlike and friend zone
- 31:37responses. Now let's talk about friend zone for
- 31:39a second. Then we're going to talk about the
- 31:40good stuff. One of the biggest things that a
- 31:42friend does is a friend is just there because
- 31:44they love you. A friend is not looking for anything
- 31:47in return. A friend doesn't have any expectations
- 31:50of you. They just want to be there as a friend.
- 31:53They might have some really good healthy boundaries
- 31:54on how you're going to treat them as a friend.
- 31:56But the great thing about a friend is there's
- 31:59no ulterior motive. I just want to be around
- 32:02you as a friend. I enjoy you as a person. That's
- 32:05a good friend. Well, that doesn't make a good
- 32:08intimate sexual partner. It doesn't elicit the
- 32:11sexual being woman you want to elicit. That response.
- 32:16Remember, men have sex drives. Women have sex
- 32:20responses. Now, why do you get friend zoned?
- 32:22One thing is you don't make your intentions clear,
- 32:25baby. See, nice guys are like, oh, I just want
- 32:27to be here and be a friend and, you know, get
- 32:31a woman's opinion about things. And which is
- 32:33great. I have, and I'm really proud of myself
- 32:35on this. My wife has a male friend, best friend
- 32:39she's never been intimate with. I believe her.
- 32:41For those guys who say that's not possible. And
- 32:43believe it or not, through my sexual discipline
- 32:46and being able to. you know, rack up some body
- 32:49count numbers, I actually got to the point where
- 32:52I was like, okay, Poonanny, I told you. The box,
- 32:56if you will, is not as rare to get, and I shouldn't
- 33:00need to be so desperate that in the back of my
- 33:04mind of every woman in my purview around me that
- 33:08is actually attractive, I want to fuck. And I
- 33:11actually have a really good female friend that
- 33:14I've had for 15 years. Now, what helped me is
- 33:16she was close, kind of close to the age of my
- 33:18daughter. My daughter was kind of mature in certain
- 33:20ways at that time, especially her looks, but
- 33:24immature in certain ways. I wouldn't even say
- 33:26immature. She acted like her age. And my best
- 33:29friend is kind of acted like that and also is
- 33:33kind of similar looking and kind of more reminding
- 33:36me of my daughter and anything that helped. But
- 33:38then. I really, really started seeing the value
- 33:41of having all types of female friends and associates
- 33:44and business partners and educators and mentors
- 33:47and people that I respect because I can get pussy.
- 33:51That's not the issue. The issue is getting good
- 33:53vibe pussy. The issue is getting good people
- 33:56pussy. The issue for me is getting stress -free
- 34:00pussy and drama -free pussy. And so I have female
- 34:04friends. And what elicits a friend? Is not making
- 34:09your intentions clear? Is being Mr. Nice Guy
- 34:13for the sake of niceness? Because I do that for
- 34:16my friend. For an example, one of my friends
- 34:18was dealing with some illnesses and we didn't
- 34:21know what the diagnosis was. So I can be in the
- 34:24middle of making sweet love to my wife. I can
- 34:28be in the middle of talking about very important
- 34:30things with my soulmate. And beforehand and after
- 34:33a discussion and after her agreeing to this because...
- 34:37Yes, I'm the head of household, but I'm not a
- 34:39fucking dictator. She agreed that if my friend,
- 34:41who we don't know if she's going to die in a
- 34:43year or suffer long years of dealing with this
- 34:47disease that she's dealing with and illness that
- 34:51she's dealing with, we agreed that I could be
- 34:53in the middle of making good love, having intercourse,
- 34:59smashing my wife, that I will see her calling
- 35:04and stop what I'm doing and talk to her. or I
- 35:07could be having an important conversation, and
- 35:09I'm going to stop what I'm doing and talk to
- 35:12her. Now, that's because she's my friend and
- 35:15because I don't know how much longer I have with
- 35:18her. Now the diagnosis is fine. She's going to
- 35:21be fine. She's a very capable woman, and I'm
- 35:25happy on how she's approaching this and her journey
- 35:28of remission and back to health. I will stop
- 35:32what I'm doing for my friend. Sorry, play partners.
- 35:36Sorry, some of the ladies that might be listening
- 35:39to this that we get to enjoy each other's company.
- 35:42I ain't doing that for you because my intention
- 35:44is to be your friend, be good vibes. But Lord
- 35:48with it in the creek don't rise and you're enthusiastically
- 35:50yes about it. I want to get up in that box. So
- 35:53let's talk about what elicits an intimate partner
- 35:57response from your boy Socrates in my humble.
- 36:04opinion of my hypotheses and philosophies. What
- 36:08elicits a woman's sexual response is having a
- 36:14plan, is making your intentions respectfully
- 36:18clear, is showing up on time, communicating.
- 36:22A friend of mine gave me this wisdom. It was
- 36:25one of my mentors that taught me the power of
- 36:27confidence, how a woman can smell that. Another
- 36:31one told me the other day, he says, I give her
- 36:34the gift of confidence. They love it. It helps
- 36:38them. When you plan out your date and have a
- 36:41plan for your life, when you fix your body to
- 36:44either a dad bod or a man that has obviously
- 36:48disciplined enough to go to the gym or do some
- 36:51kind of exercise to keep his body, I don't believe
- 36:54in the 666 crowd. I know I'm not here to compare.
- 36:59I'm here to contrast because comparison is the
- 37:02thief of joy. Contrasting is the tool of clarity.
- 37:05I don't believe in the 666 principles of you
- 37:08gotta be six feet tall or taller. You gotta have
- 37:12six -pack abs. Some of them say you gotta have
- 37:16six figures. All of them say six figures. But
- 37:18some say you gotta have six -inch dicks or larger.
- 37:20I don't believe in that. I am not here to compare.
- 37:25I am not here to put that down. If you believe
- 37:27that, bet. For all of us that might not have
- 37:30that or... don't have any control of that or
- 37:33not that in that stage in their life now. I truly
- 37:35believe that if you focus on being authentic,
- 37:39delivering and providing them the gift of confidence,
- 37:43knowing how to respectfully approach at the right
- 37:46time, that flirting and being flirty, being funny
- 37:51elicits a sexual woman's response. Being interested,
- 37:55not just interesting, elicits a sexual woman's
- 37:58intimate partner. Woman's response is having
- 38:02boundaries and self -respect elicits an intimate
- 38:06partner woman's response. And the list goes on
- 38:08and on. Obviously, everything we teach in the
- 38:10Burr Brotherhood is to elicit an intimate woman's
- 38:13sexual response. All of that. And I truly believe
- 38:18that focusing and asking yourself, am I eliciting
- 38:22a logistical response? Because women are kicking
- 38:26ass in business. They're advancing in military.
- 38:30Now, I don't know about the combat stuff, but
- 38:33I do know about the supportive stuff. They're
- 38:35advancing in education. They're advancing in
- 38:38financial stability. I think they got the logistics
- 38:41and logic cool enough. I personally believe that
- 38:45communication style and understanding the language
- 38:48of connection and emotions is going to get you
- 38:51far further in life when it comes to things in
- 38:55life that are built on connection, like marriage.
- 38:58intimacy, sex, right? Making a house out of a
- 39:02home, right? Bringing that beautiful sexual free
- 39:05energy into the home. Like my wife, she brightens
- 39:08the home up with great energy when she's in a
- 39:11good mood and she's been fed and well enough
- 39:13sleep and dicked down properly. You know, I love
- 39:17that. So there are a lot of things that you can
- 39:20do to elicit that response from a woman. Here's
- 39:24the thing, too. The phenomenon I think is amazing
- 39:26is that why I say that is the response is I've
- 39:31heard so many women be surprised at how their
- 39:35body or even their emotions responded to the
- 39:37guy. Like, oh, I didn't think I was going to
- 39:41squirt like that either. Surprise, surprise.
- 39:43Oh, he's really not my type. I am surprised myself
- 39:47that I'm attracted to this guy. Ladies, please
- 39:50write me. Telegram, if you know it. Bull Brother,
- 39:53thebullbrotherhood at Gmail or SocratesLS69 on
- 39:59XN. Instagram. What do you think? Is this track
- 40:04with your reality? Because I'd love to hear what
- 40:08you guys think if you're in that category of
- 40:11women that I talked about. I'd love to hear what
- 40:13you guys believe in this area because I really
- 40:17do think that if a lot of guys, change their
- 40:21mindset from oh I did this and I did that and
- 40:25she still won't give me none to you know where
- 40:28it really changed my life and this is a jewel
- 40:31for me is I don't even believe in rejection anymore
- 40:35because if I get my drive right my approach my
- 40:40independence as a human being as a man as a self
- 40:45-respecting hustling man entrepreneur self -disciplined
- 40:49if I approach properly and learn how to approach
- 40:52and interact with a woman authentically and be
- 40:54my authentic self in a way that is improving
- 40:57and mastering the approach of who I am and how
- 41:02I present myself and all of these things and
- 41:04listening to women and interacting with them
- 41:07and leading them in many ways, I really do believe
- 41:11that that perspective has gotten me to the point
- 41:15where I'm really starting to get some results
- 41:17that I like. And I think you guys would like
- 41:20to, you know, I have been blessed with mentors
- 41:24that are able to get women to do things that
- 41:26I was like only porn stars and rappers get and
- 41:30rock stars getting actors and stuff get and men
- 41:33with money, super hot guys. I've seen men who
- 41:37have said, I'm definitely playing out of my lead,
- 41:41fucking out of my league, dating out of my league.
- 41:43One of the things that I focus on. somebody who
- 41:46doesn't even believe in the v -word anymore i
- 41:49only believe in having a mind a mentality of
- 41:52victoriousness i only focus on what i call positive
- 41:55psychology i only focus on if there's a study
- 41:57that says 60 of women only want to date 666 the
- 42:01guy who's at six feet tall and six six -pack
- 42:05abs and six figures which i'm about to have all
- 42:09three i personally Believe you can hack that.
- 42:12I personally believe that you can change how
- 42:17your drive is. And if you get a no or no, thank
- 42:22you, or ghosting or indirect way of saying, I'm
- 42:26not interested, but that's not a rejection. That's
- 42:28feedback to my drive. I personally love the fact
- 42:32that I'm able to respond, I'm responsible, and
- 42:35I believe in 100 % responsibility, not 100 %
- 42:37accountability, not 100 % guiltability, not 100
- 42:40% liability, but 100 % responsibility, able to
- 42:44respond. That philosophy combined with the, oh,
- 42:49why don't you examine your drive and see her
- 42:53response as feedback to your drive? See her feedback
- 42:58as a response to your drive as opposed to rejecting
- 43:00you as a person? That changed my life. Oh, see
- 43:04how they respond to a flat belly. Let's see how
- 43:07they respond to straight confidence. Let's see
- 43:09how they respond to a man with a plan. And I'm
- 43:12a hypocrite, guys. I don't pick out my wife's
- 43:14stress as much as I should. And she's made it
- 43:16clear she wants me to. So that's something I'm
- 43:18going to work on. She loves it when I do that.
- 43:20I don't do it enough, right? So some of these
- 43:23are things that I'm... I think you should do,
- 43:25but I'm not perfect. But I truly believe that
- 43:29that paradigm shift that I had revolutionized
- 43:33my way of thinking about rejection, revolutionized
- 43:37my way of thinking about starting to get to the
- 43:41point where it's like, okay, I can reasonably
- 43:43predict if I'm at a hotel takeover or a lifestyle
- 43:47party, I can reasonably predict things like if
- 43:50I have a philosophy of I never go in there with
- 43:52an expectation to play. or have sex. I go in
- 43:55there with the expectation of meeting interesting
- 43:58people and interacting with women and how crazy
- 44:02that increased my probability or times that I
- 44:05have smashed. And I combine that with my insane
- 44:09able to response philosophy and my, oh, they're
- 44:14just responding to my drive. That's change game,
- 44:18y 'all. Gentlemen, it has produced results that
- 44:22some of my boys don't even believe i stopped
- 44:25telling them now why can i toot my own horn because
- 44:28i always talk about the years of failures why
- 44:31did i get here this is my fourth marriage y 'all
- 44:35i failed than a motherfucker i have been rejected
- 44:38by the best and here's something i'm willing
- 44:41to admit i've been rejected by some of the worst
- 44:44i mean she didn't look good her attitude was
- 44:47funky and she still said no to me i have been
- 44:52I've had found out that some of the hottest women
- 44:55I've known, and I've lived this truth just on
- 44:59some other shit, were always found out, and they've
- 45:03been had a crush on me. And I never had the opportunity
- 45:05because I didn't walk into the room understanding
- 45:10these things. And I can tell you from somebody
- 45:12who's failed miserably and learned from those
- 45:16failures and been blessed with the fact that
- 45:19I discovered early on that if I had a... Something
- 45:21like a nightclub or a bar or I'm a backup dancer,
- 45:26a stage or, you know, salsa club or something
- 45:32in between me, I'm killing the game. Outside
- 45:34of that, I have struggled, you know, even though
- 45:37I've learned and studied pickup and learned and
- 45:39studied body language and learned and studied
- 45:41these things. I have failed forward, y 'all.
- 45:44Failed miserably, sadly, embarrassingly, made
- 45:48major mistakes most of my life. been in monogamous
- 45:52relationships 90 of my life right and after all
- 45:57of that you guys i'm starting to produce some
- 45:59results and a lot of it some people say look
- 46:01bro you're 50 you're in your 50s man everybody
- 46:03kind of started figuring that out and i agree
- 46:05like i figured out finances i figured out as
- 46:09being an entrepreneur you know i figured out
- 46:11you know how to how to have peace in my life
- 46:13you know kind of people i should stay away from
- 46:16you know, where I should put my energy, where
- 46:18I should not put my energy. Those things come
- 46:20with age and there's no amount of books and research
- 46:23and listening to these podcasts is going to get
- 46:27you where you need to be. Some stuff is just
- 46:29trial and error and time and knocking your head
- 46:34up against the wall metaphorically a thousand
- 46:38times before you get it. You know, you know,
- 46:41some of that cannot replace that. Some of this
- 46:43cannot replace that, but. I'm telling you, when
- 46:45I made those changes, when I started thinking
- 46:47that way, the game changed, y 'all. The game
- 46:51changed. And the results I'm getting is blowing
- 46:54my mind. And trust me, I'm a big dreamer. I can
- 46:57dream, boy. I can dream of the baddest girl that
- 47:01I think is bad going crazy over me and still
- 47:04respecting my marriage. I can dream, y 'all.
- 47:07And I'm starting to be able to realize that.
- 47:10And I don't brag a lot. I'm usually... singing
- 47:13the praises of my mentors and the people that,
- 47:16you know, mentor me. But at the same time, when
- 47:19they mentor me, I take full responsibility for
- 47:22my beliefs because I process their information.
- 47:24I make my own decisions as my own man. I develop
- 47:27my own philosophies and my own way of thinking
- 47:29about it. And I execute on my own and I pay the
- 47:32price or reap the benefits. And I give them all
- 47:36their flowers for helping in that process. But
- 47:39I'm standing on my own, you know, two feet on
- 47:42this. 10 toes down and whatever feet metaphor
- 47:45and foundational metaphor you want to use and
- 47:48saying, this has worked. So I wrote some notes
- 47:51here. Yeah. So I pretty much covered everything.
- 47:55I really want to hear from you guys again, if
- 47:59you are totally monogamous and have, and just
- 48:02curious about this thing, like Mr. Morgan says,
- 48:05you know, there's just a, you know, open -minded
- 48:08explorer hit me up. If you are a master in the
- 48:11game and you have studied this stuff as much
- 48:13as I have and you want to challenge me in an
- 48:17effective and thought -provoking way, hit me
- 48:22up. If you want to prove I'm wrong, go on somewhere,
- 48:25please. Go on. I'm good. Because I'm not at this
- 48:30stage in my life right now. I'm at this stage
- 48:32of I believe in the marketplace of ideas. I believe
- 48:36in everybody's right. I think there's several
- 48:39billion, I don't know, at least 2 billion people
- 48:41online. That means that 2 billion people have
- 48:43a voice. I am not interested in debating with
- 48:46all y 'all. I'm interested in forwarding this
- 48:50worldview of mine, living it, and sharing it
- 48:52with those who find it beneficial. On this one.
- 48:55On the other podcast, let's get it. We've made
- 48:57some announcements. If you heard it yet, bring
- 49:00it. I love to debate. I love to defend metaphorically.
- 49:06verbally and proverbially my positions you know
- 49:09i don't want no smoke but in this at this segment
- 49:12i'm i'm not here for that i'm here to share my
- 49:16philosophy and give you the tools that i'm using
- 49:19to live an amazing lifestyle and avoid some drama
- 49:23and learn from my mistakes but most importantly
- 49:26learn from other people's mistakes and glean
- 49:29successful stories because i believe success
- 49:31leaves clues and glean all the wisdom i can so
- 49:35i can um learn from your wins and losses um and
- 49:42you know and you know and narrow down the ones
- 49:45i have to learn from trial and error and i have
- 49:47to learn from the school of hard knocks um because
- 49:51you can't avoid that but i can minimize that
- 49:53shit for sure you know i'm speaking to you uh
- 49:57hit me up I want to hear from you. I want you
- 50:00to challenge me. I want you to, if you want to
- 50:02come on the podcast and challenge me, I don't
- 50:06care if you, I've heard people, well, I don't
- 50:07have a lot of experience. I don't care. I don't
- 50:09care if you just heard this shit and you're just
- 50:12figuring this stuff out and you don't know 90
- 50:14% of the stuff I'm talking about or you've been
- 50:17in the game for a minute and, you know, you want
- 50:20to share your experiences, you know, as long
- 50:23as it's not. trying to debate me on this shit,
- 50:25not this one, we can do it on the Bull Brotherhood
- 50:28or any other podcast I'm on, then come on, let's
- 50:31hear it. All right, y 'all. I'm going to sign
- 50:34out and bid y 'all a farewell and good night.