Latest / Luke's English Podcast / S2E21 - Krystle Cook_ A Father_s Fight for Justice – Part 1
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- 0:45Speaker 2: I'm Alisa and I'm Michael.
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- 0:58Speaker 1: Cowlitz Regional News. Them on Facebook. There are some stories
- 1:08Speaker 1: that never really end, even after the trials are over,
- 1:12Speaker 1: even after the headlines disappear, even after years begin stacking
- 1:17Speaker 1: themselves between the present and the moment everything changed. Some
- 1:22Speaker 1: stories stay alive because the people left behind refuse to
- 1:25Speaker 1: let them disappear. And this is one of those stories.
- 1:29Speaker 1: Today I want to tell you about Crystal Cook, not
- 1:32Speaker 1: just the crime, not just the investigation, but the life
- 1:36Speaker 1: of the center of it all and the family who,
- 1:39Speaker 1: more than two decades later, are still carrying her with them.
- 1:44Speaker 1: When people hear the words true crime, they often expect timelines, evidence,
- 1:50Speaker 1: the details of violence. But the truth is the most
- 1:53Speaker 1: important part of any story usually happens long before any
- 1:57Speaker 1: of that. It happens in the ordinary moments, in family dinners,
- 2:03Speaker 1: phone calls, and inside jokes that no one else would understand.
- 2:09Speaker 2: It lives in.
- 2:09Speaker 1: The small things people remember years later, when they're trying
- 2:13Speaker 1: desperately to hold on to someone they lost too soon.
- 2:17Speaker 1: That's where Crystel's story really begins. Not in the year
- 2:20Speaker 1: two thousand, not in a courtroom, not in the aftermath.
- 2:25Speaker 1: It begins with a young woman whose life mattered deeply
- 2:28Speaker 1: to the people around her, a daughter, a sister, someone
- 2:32Speaker 1: whose absence would permanently reshape the lives of the people
- 2:36Speaker 1: who loved her most. And when those closest to Cristel
- 2:39Speaker 1: speak about her, they's something that becomes immediately clear. They
- 2:44Speaker 1: are not trying to preserve a case. They are trying
- 2:47Speaker 1: to preserve a person. In two thousand, Crystal Cook was murdered.
- 2:52Speaker 1: The crime sent shockwaves through the people closest to her,
- 2:56Speaker 1: leaving behind the kind of grief that doesn't arrive all
- 2:59Speaker 1: at once, but settles slowly into every part of life,
- 3:03Speaker 1: the kind that changes birthdays, holidays, the sound of a
- 3:07Speaker 1: name spoken out loud. There was an arrest in the case,
- 3:11Speaker 1: and eventually a conviction. The person responsible for her murder
- 3:15Speaker 1: was sentenced, and for many people outside of family's immediate circle,
- 3:20Speaker 1: that's often where the story ends. A conviction can feel
- 3:25Speaker 1: like a conclusion, proof that justice moved in the way
- 3:28Speaker 1: it was supposed to, But families know something the rest
- 3:32Speaker 1: of the world often doesn't. A conviction is not the
- 3:36Speaker 1: same thing as closure, because no courtroom outcome can restore
- 3:41Speaker 1: what was taken, no sentence can recreate the future some
- 3:45Speaker 1: one should have had, and no legal proceeding can stop
- 3:48Speaker 1: the quiet moments when grief unexpectedly resurfaces years later. For
- 3:54Speaker 1: Cristel's family, life did not split neatly into before and after. Instead,
- 4:00Speaker 1: loss became something they learned to carry, some days heavier
- 4:04Speaker 1: than others, some days impossible to ignore, and over time
- 4:09Speaker 1: that grief evolved into something else too. Determination, a determination
- 4:15Speaker 1: to make sure Cristel's life would never be reduced to
- 4:17Speaker 1: a single act of violence. More than two decades have
- 4:22Speaker 1: passed since Cristel's murder, but recently her family found themselves
- 4:26Speaker 1: standing once again in the shadow of the case that
- 4:29Speaker 1: changed their lives forever. In March, a parole hearing was
- 4:33Speaker 1: held for the person serving time for her murder. For
- 4:37Speaker 1: families of homicide victims, parole hearings can feel like a
- 4:40Speaker 1: reopening of a wound that never truly healed in the
- 4:43Speaker 1: first place. Suddenly, years collapse inward, memories resurface, emotions return
- 4:50Speaker 1: with a force that time never really erased. And while
- 4:54Speaker 1: the legal system may view these hearings as procedure, families
- 4:58Speaker 1: experience them very different. For them, it's personal, deeply personal.
- 5:05Speaker 1: It means preparing once again to speak for someone who
- 5:08Speaker 1: no longer has a voice of their own. It means
- 5:11Speaker 1: revisiting pain that never fully disappeared, and it means confronting
- 5:15Speaker 1: the terrifying possibility that the person responsible for so much
- 5:20Speaker 1: loss could one day walk free. For Cristal's family, the
- 5:25Speaker 1: hearing was another reminder that this story is not confined
- 5:28Speaker 1: to the past. It still lives with them every single day.
- 5:34Speaker 1: But if there's one thing that stands out in Crystal's story.
- 5:37Speaker 1: It is this Her family refused to let grief become
- 5:41Speaker 1: the only thing left behind out of unimaginable loss. They
- 5:45Speaker 1: created the Crystal Rose Cook Nonprofit, an organization dedicated to advocacy, awareness,
- 5:53Speaker 1: and support for others impacted by violent crime. And there
- 5:57Speaker 1: is something profoundly powerful about that. Because tragedy has a
- 6:01Speaker 1: way of isolating people, It can make families feel invisible, unheard,
- 6:07Speaker 1: abandoned after the public attention fades away. The work being
- 6:11Speaker 1: done in Cristel's name pushes back against that silence. It
- 6:15Speaker 1: says her life mattered. It said her story still matters,
- 6:19Speaker 1: and it says that even in the aftermath of devastating loss,
- 6:23Speaker 1: something meaningful can still grow, not because the pain disappears,
- 6:28Speaker 1: but because love remains, and sometimes love becomes action. There's
- 6:34Speaker 1: a tendency and true crime to focus only on endings.
- 6:38Speaker 1: But the people who love Crystal are still writing the
- 6:40Speaker 1: next chapters of her story every day, in their advocacy,
- 6:45Speaker 1: in their memories, and in their refusal to let her
- 6:48Speaker 1: be forgotten. And that's what this series is about, not
- 6:52Speaker 1: just what happened to Cristel Cook, but who she was.
- 6:55Speaker 1: The people who continue to carry her forward, and the
- 6:59Speaker 1: lasting impact one life can have long after it's gone.
- 7:03Speaker 1: In the episodes ahead, you'll hear directly from those closest
- 7:06Speaker 1: to her. You'll hear memories, reflections, and conversations shaped not
- 7:11Speaker 1: by headlines, but by love, loss, and resilience. Because remembering
- 7:17Speaker 1: someone is more than looking backward. Sometimes it's an act
- 7:20Speaker 1: of continuing forward. In the conversation you're about to hear,
- 7:30Speaker 1: Lee Cook reflects on Cristel's life, the lasting impact of
- 7:34Speaker 1: her murder, the recent parole hearing, and the work now
- 7:37Speaker 1: being done through the Crystal Rose Cook Nonprofit to continue
- 7:41Speaker 1: her legacy and help others. But more than anything, this
- 7:45Speaker 1: is a father talking about his daughter. Here's our conversation
- 7:49Speaker 1: with Lee Cook.
- 7:51Speaker 2: Today.
- 7:52Speaker 1: We're joined by someone whose life was forever changed by
- 7:55Speaker 1: an unimaginable loss. Lee Cook is the father of Crystal Cook,
- 7:59Speaker 1: who was murdered in two thousand, a tragedy that continues
- 8:02Speaker 1: to impact her family to this day. In the years since,
- 8:06Speaker 1: Lee has turned his grief into purpose. He's been actively
- 8:09Speaker 1: involved in advocacy work, including his efforts with the Crystal
- 8:14Speaker 1: Rose Cook nonprofit dedicated to honoring her life, raising awareness
- 8:19Speaker 1: and seeking justice. Recently, the family faced another difficult milestone,
- 8:25Speaker 1: a parole hearing held in March for the person currently
- 8:28Speaker 1: serving time in connection to Cristel's murder. It's a moment
- 8:32Speaker 1: that brings renewed emotion, reflection, and continued determination in their
- 8:37Speaker 1: pursuit of justice. Lee is not only here as a father,
- 8:41Speaker 1: but as a voice for his daughter, sharing who Cristel was,
- 8:44Speaker 1: the lasting effects of her loss, and what this chapter
- 8:48Speaker 1: means for their family moving forward. Where grateful he's willing
- 8:52Speaker 1: to speak with us to honor Cristel's memory and to
- 8:55Speaker 1: help us ensure that her story is not forgotten. Thank
- 8:58Speaker 1: you for being here and welcome to the show.
- 9:00Speaker 2: Thank you.
- 9:02Speaker 1: So we would like to start this conversation with learning
- 9:06Speaker 1: about Crystal. So let's start out. Can you tell us
- 9:09Speaker 1: about Crystal and who she was as a person.
- 9:13Speaker 2: Well, when this all started, she was a sixteen year
- 9:16Speaker 2: old young lady that loved animals. I mean, she was
- 9:23Speaker 2: very close with her grandmother. She spent a lot of
- 9:25Speaker 2: time with her grandmother. She was just a very just
- 9:31Speaker 2: your typical teenager. The light da found.
- 9:35Speaker 1: What are some of your favorite memories of her that
- 9:37Speaker 1: really capture her spirit?
- 9:39Speaker 2: You know that's one of the difficult things going through
- 9:41Speaker 2: this because I've really I mean, one of I guess
- 9:47Speaker 2: one of my memories is but I have a hard
- 9:50Speaker 2: time sometimes getting past what happened, or even to even
- 9:54Speaker 2: talk about the memories and stuff. One of them was
- 9:56Speaker 2: is she had an exchange student from she really loved
- 10:02Speaker 2: that came over and they became very close, and she
- 10:07Speaker 2: actually went to Japan and spent some time with this
- 10:09Speaker 2: exchange student stuff too, and she just really loved their
- 10:13Speaker 2: culture and stuff, and she just she really loved animals too.
- 10:19Speaker 1: What do you wish more people understood about her.
- 10:23Speaker 2: How much she has missed and the life she never
- 10:27Speaker 2: got to live. I mean, obviously she never got to
- 10:30Speaker 2: get married, she never got to have kids. You know,
- 10:33Speaker 2: every holiday, you know, we have a our birthday, you know,
- 10:38Speaker 2: January nineteenth is just a very difficult month for our
- 10:44Speaker 2: family and stuff. Just I mean, I always say it's
- 10:48Speaker 2: I hate January more than any month of the year,
- 10:53Speaker 2: just because of you know, obviously you love her, but
- 10:57Speaker 2: it just brings up a lot of pain and heart
- 11:00Speaker 2: knowing that she's not with you. And you know, a
- 11:03Speaker 2: lot of people like you say, you know, you got
- 11:05Speaker 2: to focus on the good things and the memories and
- 11:08Speaker 2: the stuff you had to have. But it's it's easier
- 11:11Speaker 2: said than done.
- 11:12Speaker 1: And for our listeners, this is a crime that has
- 11:15Speaker 1: been solved. Typically we cover unsolved crimes. So can you
- 11:20Speaker 1: walk us through a little bit about the trial in
- 11:24Speaker 1: the beginning and the solving of the crime.
- 11:29Speaker 2: Well, Crystal went missing pretty much right after her man.
- 11:36Speaker 2: I'm even getting confused just at the emotion trying to
- 11:39Speaker 2: processes and stuff, but she can't. She went missing when
- 11:45Speaker 2: she was sixteen, and she was missing for almost a year.
- 11:50Speaker 2: You know, we were doing search parties. You know, we're
- 11:53Speaker 2: doing flyers. You know. I was very the newspaper articles
- 12:00Speaker 2: in the newspaper. I mean there, we hired my parents
- 12:05Speaker 2: hired private investigator. I mean we had a private investigator
- 12:09Speaker 2: on it. We had police when she went missing and stuff,
- 12:13Speaker 2: and we were trying to find every lead we could
- 12:19Speaker 2: possibly be fined and and this went on for like
- 12:24Speaker 2: almost a year. And then what was kind of pivotal
- 12:29Speaker 2: in the situation or the murder of Crystal was the
- 12:35Speaker 2: I had owned a hotel there in Longview, Washington, and
- 12:38Speaker 2: it was kind of a landmark, and I called I
- 12:42Speaker 2: was really getting frustrated with the police department because there
- 12:45Speaker 2: was really not anything being done. And so I called
- 12:49Speaker 2: the Longbe Daily News and they wrote an article and anyway,
- 12:54Speaker 2: the essence of the article was me kind of ripping
- 12:57Speaker 2: the police department apart because there was nothing done. And
- 13:00Speaker 2: then and then a few days later, I got a
- 13:06Speaker 2: call on my office phone at the hotel there and
- 13:10Speaker 2: there was a message and the message was from a
- 13:14Speaker 2: Paul and it was and I didn't ever met this individual,
- 13:19Speaker 2: didn't know who it was when they called me, but
- 13:22Speaker 2: he explained who he was when he called me and
- 13:24Speaker 2: left the message. It was actually the dad of the
- 13:26Speaker 2: gut Mike, the individual that murdered my daughter, and he
- 13:31Speaker 2: was wanting to tell me, give me some information. Well,
- 13:37Speaker 2: I never returned his call. I called the police department
- 13:40Speaker 2: and talked to Detective Stafford, and he picked him up
- 13:44Speaker 2: and brung him in and stuff. And basically Paul was
- 13:47Speaker 2: in print in jail, and he turned on his son
- 13:52Speaker 2: because Paul and his uncle Mark helped cover up the murder.
- 13:57Speaker 2: They both knew what happened. And he testified against his
- 14:02Speaker 2: son because Paul's mom had died and he wanted to
- 14:06Speaker 2: get out of jail and go to her funeral, and
- 14:09Speaker 2: that's what actually was the pivotal point in solving the
- 14:14Speaker 2: murder of my.
- 14:14Speaker 1: Daughter and what has been the most challenging part of
- 14:18Speaker 1: navigating the justice system everything.
- 14:21Speaker 2: I mean, it's I mean, the first thing everybody wants
- 14:26Speaker 2: to tell you is, you know, don't talk to the media.
- 14:30Speaker 2: You know, you just have to trust us and let
- 14:32Speaker 2: us do our job and stuff. And I gotta be honest,
- 14:36Speaker 2: if we'd have done that in the in solving the case,
- 14:40Speaker 2: if we would have done that in the parole hearing,
- 14:43Speaker 2: I believe this individual there was a possibility he could
- 14:47Speaker 2: have been on the street today. We did everything we could,
- 14:51Speaker 2: I mean, whether it was the prole and whether it
- 14:56Speaker 2: was the solving the case and stuff too, especially my
- 14:59Speaker 2: parents parents. When it came to Crystal. At first, I
- 15:01Speaker 2: was kind of in denial. I didn't want to believe
- 15:04Speaker 2: like something like that could happen. So I was for
- 15:09Speaker 2: a long time after she went missing. I was just
- 15:13Speaker 2: I literally was hoping and praying that she just ran away.
- 15:16Speaker 2: I gotta be honest.
- 15:18Speaker 1: You recently went through a parole hearing in March for
- 15:20Speaker 1: the person convicted of this crime, and what was that
- 15:23Speaker 1: experience like for you? And your family.
- 15:27Speaker 2: It was horrific, and it was not only did we
- 15:32Speaker 2: have to really relive every detail of the the murder
- 15:38Speaker 2: again and I always state the daughter of my Crystal,
- 15:40Speaker 2: I mean Crystal, my daughter, because I just I don't
- 15:44Speaker 2: I don't want anybody to ever forget it. But not
- 15:48Speaker 2: only did we have to relive every aspect of that,
- 15:52Speaker 2: which brung up a lot of emotions. I mean even
- 15:56Speaker 2: with our family and stuff, you know, and we were
- 16:00Speaker 2: going through the original case and stuff, but then we
- 16:06Speaker 2: we had to take a lot of proactive steps actually
- 16:09Speaker 2: to make sure that there was no way that he
- 16:11Speaker 2: was going to get out on parole. I mean we
- 16:13Speaker 2: had I mean, I mean, we had informants in the prison.
- 16:17Speaker 2: We I mean we actually that's how the Voices for
- 16:22Speaker 2: Crystal Facebook got started. My daughter Hannah actually manages that.
- 16:29Speaker 2: But that's how that got started. Was to try to
- 16:33Speaker 2: get awareness and to get people involved in the process
- 16:37Speaker 2: of the parole process, whether it was writing victim letters
- 16:43Speaker 2: to the parole board, whether it was coming to the
- 16:46Speaker 2: parole hearing. I mean, and you know don which Cala
- 16:52Speaker 2: Trigional News, I mean, she really she put out a
- 16:55Speaker 2: really powerful article on their on their digital page for
- 17:00Speaker 2: there that really helped us gather more support. And then
- 17:05Speaker 2: we I mean, and I don't know how detailed you
- 17:08Speaker 2: want to get into this, but there's just a ton
- 17:10Speaker 2: more details if you want to spend a little bit
- 17:12Speaker 2: of time on those.
- 17:13Speaker 1: Yes, we would definitely like that. It sounds like this
- 17:16Speaker 1: is something that you kind of had to figure out
- 17:18Speaker 1: and maneuver on your own, and we would love for
- 17:21Speaker 1: you to share that experience for other families who are
- 17:24Speaker 1: going through that.
- 17:27Speaker 2: Well. The first thing is what I would say is
- 17:32Speaker 2: one of the biggest issues we had was actually dealing
- 17:37Speaker 2: with the Victim Advocate office out of Salem, Oregon for
- 17:43Speaker 2: the Department of Corrections. It was we felt we every
- 17:48Speaker 2: time we talked, for one, they didn't even notify us
- 17:52Speaker 2: of the parole. I mean, we are the ones that
- 17:55Speaker 2: actually figured it out and got involved in the process
- 18:01Speaker 2: every time. When it came to the victims letters, we
- 18:04Speaker 2: had a lot of when we got the Facebook page
- 18:08Speaker 2: voices for Crystal going, you know, we had people sending
- 18:11Speaker 2: in letters and stuff, and I mean, we were finding
- 18:15Speaker 2: constantly that the Robin who headed up the Victim's Advocate
- 18:22Speaker 2: office was constantly trying to do something to stop us
- 18:29Speaker 2: from engaging in the process, whether it be limiting the
- 18:34Speaker 2: number of victim letters that could go in down to
- 18:38Speaker 2: we've got in a huge fight over we had a
- 18:43Speaker 2: bunch of people the one to participate and go to
- 18:47Speaker 2: the parole hearing, and she was telling us that we
- 18:50Speaker 2: were going to have to start telling some of these
- 18:52Speaker 2: people they we're talking family members there, that they could
- 18:56Speaker 2: not that they weren't going to be able to go
- 19:00Speaker 2: and stuff. And so anyway, my sister really thought that
- 19:04Speaker 2: fought and but and so we ended up getting everybody
- 19:10Speaker 2: to go. But if we would have just listened to her,
- 19:14Speaker 2: a bunch of the family would not have been able
- 19:16Speaker 2: to go because she was trying to stop us from
- 19:20Speaker 2: having these people go. And then we were even into
- 19:23Speaker 2: a situation where we had an individual calls his name
- 19:29Speaker 2: was his name was al and he's he's worked with
- 19:35Speaker 2: the organ prison system for like thirty years, and he
- 19:39Speaker 2: was he was trying to call as he'd called my mom,
- 19:42Speaker 2: and my mom was really scared because the individual that
- 19:46Speaker 2: murdered my daughter actually threatened her life too. And then
- 19:50Speaker 2: through this process getting all the parole hearing paperwork, packet
- 19:55Speaker 2: and stuff, we found out that this guy had been
- 19:57Speaker 2: scamming a bunch of people out of a lot of money.
- 20:00Speaker 2: I had actually a lot of money and bank accounts
- 20:03Speaker 2: in prison. So my family, which is obviously I live
- 20:10Speaker 2: in North Dakota but they're not too far from the prison,
- 20:13Speaker 2: was concerned because this guy is a very evil individual
- 20:20Speaker 2: that he was going to try to hire somebody to
- 20:23Speaker 2: actually hit man, to actually take them out. So they
- 20:28Speaker 2: were continuing with they were dealing with that aspect of it.
- 20:32Speaker 2: So this Al guy calls and he talked to us.
- 20:39Speaker 2: He said that I bet to kind of explain to
- 20:42Speaker 2: Al as a friend in the prison. Al's been dealing
- 20:47Speaker 2: with the prison system for thirty years. He had a
- 20:51Speaker 2: very close friend. He was married to Alex who's in
- 20:54Speaker 2: the prison, and he was in very close association with
- 20:59Speaker 2: Mike Whumerton, my daughter. So we had this informant in
- 21:02Speaker 2: the prison that had been writing these letters, wrote like
- 21:05Speaker 2: twelve letters to the parole board. Started out, I don't know,
- 21:09Speaker 2: somewhere around six months from the parole hearing, maybe even
- 21:13Speaker 2: sooner than that. Well, he called us because the victim's
- 21:19Speaker 2: Advocate office was saying they couldn't find these letters, which
- 21:25Speaker 2: you know, after everything that happened and everything to come out.
- 21:29Speaker 2: We think they just threw them away because they didn't
- 21:30Speaker 2: want to mate him into the parole hearing. But so
- 21:35Speaker 2: I'll got a hold of us and started talking to us,
- 21:38Speaker 2: and he submitted the letters to us, and we got
- 21:42Speaker 2: them put in the parole hearing. And the reason I
- 21:45Speaker 2: share this is because these letters were very instrumental and
- 21:53Speaker 2: him getting to him. He actually got denied parole and
- 21:59Speaker 2: it got an extend for another eight years before he
- 22:02Speaker 2: can actually go up for parole again. And I don't believe, well,
- 22:06Speaker 2: I know everybody that's been involved in this process knows
- 22:10Speaker 2: that that would have never happened if if Al had
- 22:13Speaker 2: not got a hold of us and we were able
- 22:16Speaker 2: to get those letters presented to the prole board, which
- 22:20Speaker 2: the Victim's Advocate office fought us on that too. They
- 22:24Speaker 2: did not want us. They were not going to allow
- 22:26Speaker 2: us to submit those letters, but we went around them.
- 22:30Speaker 2: We actually started put petitioning the office of the Parole Board,
- 22:36Speaker 2: We started writing the governor. I mean, we went to
- 22:40Speaker 2: we did everything we could possibly do to get his
- 22:46Speaker 2: parole denied.
- 22:49Speaker 3: One question I have, I mean, I keep hearing the
- 22:52Speaker 3: term victim advocate and you know, blocking of letters blocked.
- 22:55Speaker 3: You know, what would be the purpose of blocking those
- 22:58Speaker 3: letters letters if they were a victor an advocate? Maybe
- 23:03Speaker 3: that's the ultimate question, right right?
- 23:05Speaker 2: Well, it is, And I the way I felt about
- 23:08Speaker 2: this victim advocate through the process, my sister felt like
- 23:13Speaker 2: she was doing it intentionally. I felt like she was
- 23:16Speaker 2: just completely incompetent. That was my in in my dealings
- 23:21Speaker 2: with her and meeting her at the parole board and stuff.
- 23:25Speaker 2: I felt like she was completely incompetent in the job
- 23:28Speaker 2: she was doing, is what I thought. She had no
- 23:32Speaker 2: empathy for the victims. She had no she did not
- 23:37Speaker 2: for being a victim advocate. She had no self awareness
- 23:42Speaker 2: of what people were going through and dealing with this process.
- 23:48Speaker 1: I think you're talking about compassion.
- 23:51Speaker 2: Yeah, compassion What.
- 23:53Speaker 1: It sounds like to me, I hear you. If you're
- 23:56Speaker 1: in that role, that one of your characteristics should be
- 24:00Speaker 1: compassion for what the family is going through. It's not
- 24:03Speaker 1: just like a structured checkbox. These come in these don't
- 24:06Speaker 1: these like that? To me, this seems like you have
- 24:09Speaker 1: to have a specific skill set to be able to
- 24:11Speaker 1: do that job in the way that it needs to
- 24:13Speaker 1: be done.
- 24:14Speaker 3: Yeah, because I'm just listening to the story and I'm
- 24:16Speaker 3: just going, okay, So I don't know what the details
- 24:19Speaker 3: are around the letters at all, but I was like,
- 24:22Speaker 3: why would you want to block them? Why would why
- 24:24Speaker 3: would that even be why would that even be part
- 24:25Speaker 3: of the conversation.
- 24:28Speaker 2: And those letters were very powerful. I mean, and I
- 24:32Speaker 2: will say this, the parole there was three members on
- 24:36Speaker 2: the parole board. Those letters were so powerful that that
- 24:41Speaker 2: parole board, that parole hearing was scheduled for four hours
- 24:45Speaker 2: because they had another one after that. So that parole
- 24:49Speaker 2: board started, it was more like an interrogation when they
- 24:55Speaker 2: started the process with the with his attorneys and stuff,
- 25:04Speaker 2: and they this went on for almost eight hours. I mean,
- 25:09Speaker 2: there was nobody at any lunch. We were locked in
- 25:11Speaker 2: that we had to go through security checks, We had
- 25:14Speaker 2: to literally go through prison gates and go into a
- 25:20Speaker 2: room where everybody sat in there for eight hours. I mean.
- 25:25Speaker 2: The I will say that the members on the parole board,
- 25:31Speaker 2: they those guys did a very good job. They I mean,
- 25:35Speaker 2: they didn't leave any stone unturned and they and those letters, again,
- 25:39Speaker 2: I want to emphasize those letters were central to their
- 25:44Speaker 2: interrogations out the word, but it was more like a trial,
- 25:48Speaker 2: and so.
- 25:48Speaker 1: What would you like decision makers and the public to
- 25:51Speaker 1: understand about the impact that that hearing had on your family.
- 25:56Speaker 2: Well, I think they need to understand that, you know,
- 26:01Speaker 2: even though it's been twenty five years, that has not
- 26:06Speaker 2: changed anything. It has not got any easier emotionally to
- 26:10Speaker 2: deal with the situation. I would almost say from my
- 26:16Speaker 2: personal experience, I think it's been harder now. I don't
- 26:21Speaker 2: know it's because a person gets numb originally. I don't
- 26:24Speaker 2: know if it was because I ran away from it,
- 26:26Speaker 2: because we moved. I mean we you know, me and
- 26:30Speaker 2: my family moved, you know, to North Dakota, got away
- 26:34Speaker 2: from it, and you know, maybe it was easier for
- 26:37Speaker 2: me as an individual and our family to kind of
- 26:42Speaker 2: shut it out at times and avoid you know. I mean,
- 26:46Speaker 2: you know, there was the holidays, you know, we're really hard,
- 26:50Speaker 2: especially her birthday, and there were situations of stuff. But
- 26:55Speaker 2: you know, it was still I think personally I have
- 27:00Speaker 2: I had kind of cut myself off from it somewhat emotionally,
- 27:05Speaker 2: but going through the parole hearing it changed everything. I
- 27:11Speaker 2: mean I feel like I'm literally reliving originally when it happened.
- 27:19Speaker 2: I'm you know, and I know, I've been very my family.
- 27:24Speaker 2: It's been very difficult my family because the anger and
- 27:28Speaker 2: the emotion and the I mean, the need to do
- 27:32Speaker 2: something to somehow try to make this situation right. And
- 27:37Speaker 2: we are doing things. I mean, we've got a full
- 27:40Speaker 2: on investigation going into the prison right now. I was
- 27:44Speaker 2: just on the phone with the Inspector General from Oregon
- 27:48Speaker 2: yesterday and getting every week we're getting an update on
- 27:54Speaker 2: this investigation. Because the one thing those letters brung out
- 27:59Speaker 2: was the cry that this individual is still committing in prison.
- 28:05Speaker 2: It's not that this individuals stopped doing anything. He is
- 28:09Speaker 2: still seeing he's selling drugs, he's scamming people out of
- 28:14Speaker 2: hundreds of thousands of dollars. He's got a full on
- 28:18Speaker 2: business con business going out of the prison through the
- 28:22Speaker 2: Internet and the phone system. He's in privileged housing in
- 28:27Speaker 2: the prison system because he narcs. He's a narc for
- 28:30Speaker 2: the Snake River Correctional Institution. There's the possibility that there's
- 28:35Speaker 2: actually there's not the possibility, but there's actually correction correctional
- 28:41Speaker 2: offerors involved in some of this. And all that is
- 28:46Speaker 2: and that's not just talk. This is we have a
- 28:50Speaker 2: private investigator that's working on it. In the prison system,
- 28:56Speaker 2: we have ol there's two informants in there. We get
- 29:01Speaker 2: at least once a week updates what's going on there.
- 29:05Speaker 2: Talked Inspector General yesterday, got an update. We're working on
- 29:11Speaker 2: I mean, I've been in contact with malhur County, which
- 29:16Speaker 2: is where Ontario, Oregon is, which is where Snake River is,
- 29:22Speaker 2: with the district attorney there. I've been in contact continuously
- 29:26Speaker 2: with Josh Pond out of Columbia County, Oregon, which where
- 29:30Speaker 2: the case was originally tried, the district attorney there. And
- 29:36Speaker 2: that's just a part of what we've got going on
- 29:38Speaker 2: this right now.
- 29:41Speaker 1: And this is all coming out from what was uncovered
- 29:44Speaker 1: during the parole hearing. Is that what I'm understanding, This.
- 29:48Speaker 2: Is all coming out from those letters that the informant
- 29:51Speaker 2: wrote that got submitted to the parole hearing. Yes, we
- 29:56Speaker 2: would not have known any of this if it was
- 30:00Speaker 2: not for those letters. And that's what I was trying
- 30:02Speaker 2: to emphasize earlier. And this is the.
- 30:06Speaker 1: Power of keeping someone's name out there right not just
- 30:11Speaker 1: letting it go. Because this person came forward because they
- 30:15Speaker 1: know about Crystal and they know what happened and wanted
- 30:18Speaker 1: to be part of the solution, right, not part of
- 30:21Speaker 1: the problem, which seems like something you've been describing quite frequently.
- 30:26Speaker 1: So this is part of why we do our work
- 30:28Speaker 1: so that we are giving families an opportunity to keep
- 30:32Speaker 1: the turn up the volume right, keep the spotlight on
- 30:38Speaker 1: the horrible event that happened. Moving forward.
- 30:42Speaker 2: Yeah, you have to keep making waves. I'm telling you
- 30:44Speaker 2: if you if you're going through the situation and I
- 30:48Speaker 2: and this is one thing I will say, if you're
- 30:51Speaker 2: going to trust the law for such which there's nothing
- 30:53Speaker 2: wrong with trusting them, but if you think in most
- 30:57Speaker 2: cases they're going to do it by themselves, and this resolved,
- 31:02Speaker 2: and get it resolved in a way that even when
- 31:06Speaker 2: this individual was prosecuted, it was not prosecuted correctly. There
- 31:11Speaker 2: was other stuff involved that we're working with district attorneys
- 31:16Speaker 2: trying to get additional charges, brag and stuff. People have
- 31:20Speaker 2: got to get involved in this process. The criminal system is,
- 31:24Speaker 2: I don't know, it's pretty moused up in my opinion.
- 31:27Speaker 1: We're going to take a short pause here in our
- 31:29Speaker 1: conversation about the life and legacy of Crystal Cook. In
- 31:33Speaker 1: the next episode, we'll continue our discussion with Crystal's father
- 31:36Speaker 1: Lee as he reflects on the year since her murder,
- 31:39Speaker 1: the recent parole hearing, and the ongoing work being done
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