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Episode #208: Building Networks of Support and Inspiration · Tea Time w/Amie & Bev

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Hey, everybody. Welcome to Tea Time with Amy and Bev. Good evening.
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Yeah, Oh my gosh, I'm a little bit of technical stuff.
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That's all right, have a little moment of a technical difficulty, it's all
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good. We're on. Okay, thumbs up. Here we go. Take
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two. Welcome to tea Time with Amy and Bev. Why are you good?
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How about you? I'm doing well? Actually, so I'm like,
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it's one of those moments what we're gonna talk about, Bev, because I
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have got a clue just saying, but I know you've had some interesting I
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did have an interesting interaction today. I attended a mediumship circle as a mentor,
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so that was that was good. And then I know you had your
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meetup this morning and then got to watch your grandson play t balls a t
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ball now so it is t ball baseball? Yeah yeah, yeah. So
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so what do you what do you want to share about? Gosh, there's
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so many things, and you know, when you spend so much time talking
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to so many people, I will and it's like I have to remind myself.
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I told Freeman on the way home, I'm like, I have a
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fulfilling schedule because you've talked about that right Today was a schedule because I had
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a couple hours for the meetup, and then I had a couple appointments to
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see and then when you know, here, I am trying to manage my
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time for everybody else and not managing my time for myself. Honestly, that's
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what we can talk about right now. So it leaves me in a space
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of being tired. Now if I don't have time for myself, now,
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I'm not having time for a relationship. You know. It's not saying I
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don't have time for a relationship, but it puts a little tension or a
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struggle on a relationship sometimes when you're not taking the time for it, and
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that that relationship is with ourselves too, and it's like remembering to do that.
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So it's like, do I take time to put it on my calendar?
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And this is something I've been working through where I'm not rushing around all
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the time because that's what I've been doing. So I did it all day
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today, you know, going and hurry up and getting to the class.
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And it's like it's not class, it's group. It's such a gosh.
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Group is so I love it so much because there's no structure to it at
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all. Sometimes we'll have a I've had someone come in and we'll do guided
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meditation. I've had no where we're just sitting in the group talking. You
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know, it was a there was ten of us today, so that was
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nice, and I'm thinking, holy smokes, for I'm going to grow that
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space because I had probably five or six people that couldn't make it today,
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and if everybody would have shown up, you know, and I know it's
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we're reaching a capacity. But it's also that's all so awesome because I get
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to see such growth from so many different people. I get to see and
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hear the stories of people's lives that they're experiencing their lives and how they're seeing
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the life their current lives trew from those traumas and those you know, the
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early lifetime. It's almost like a different lifetime altogether when you're when we're talking
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about a lot of this stuff. So it's like I get to experience a
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lot of that stuff and and and sit back and just listen and how everybody
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interacts with each other in that space, and how you know, we have
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all these confirmation that's going on all the time. There's just there's so much,
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so much, and then everybody appreciating everybody for showing up and just it's
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just such a loving space. It's I think everybody should be doing this stuff.
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I think everybody should be. You should be opening up your I say
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should be. You could, you could be opening up your house and having
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conversations. I've talked to so many people that say, gosh, I wish
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I had like minded people in my life. They're out there, guys,
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They're all over the place. But it's like, a, are we allowing
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ourselves to be out there to have the experiences? Are we? Are we
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showing up? Even you someone else that you had talked to today, you
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had sent in and they had shown up, so like they showed up for
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them. They had showed up for themselves. So it's like it's just it's
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amazing to see all this stuff. But it's like again, I'm back to
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the like minded stuff. We have people to talk to, and it's like,
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what are It's just what are? It's the same thing with anything,
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what what energy are you putting out there? Are you putting out there?
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Like I can't find any There's no like minded people out there, and I'm
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miserable and I'm you know, you're you're gonna bring whatever you're putting out and
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so and I'm hearing the conversations with the people just being so like I said,
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so grateful that they have each other, that we can have these conversations,
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because sometimes they have family members that don't get them. They're they're they're
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not being supportive because they don't understand why are why are you so different?
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And why can't you be the same person that you used to be? And
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I think we we go through those lives and we have those struggles. But
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it's like some people are some people are moms and their kids can't understand where
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they're coming from. You know, I want my mom back. This conversation
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I've heard a couple of times and it's like, you want your mom back
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that would sit and have judgmental conversations and have a couple of cocktails and you
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know, do those things. But it's like that's not the mom anymore.
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That's not the same mom. And it's like, you know, just it's
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it's it's interesting to process when you're seeing things from so many different perspectives and
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I and it reminds me to be forever grateful and thankful for where I'm at
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right now because my family does support me. I have an amazing, awesome
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boyfriend that supports me through all this stuff, and when I'm struggling with my
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own shit, I can talk to him about it and we kind of bounce
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things off. Even when I know I'm being ridiculous. I feel like I'm
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being ridiculous. I have those conversations and it's like, he doesn't. I'm
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not being in the space of being judged. I'm being in a space of
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being loved and nurtured, and let's let's walk through this. Let's talk through
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this. So there's a lot like, Man, I slept so freaking goods
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last night, and thank god I did. I think I told you that's
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this morning. Yesterday I had my grandson over and it's like, I don't
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I can't even tell you. It's probably probably a handful of times he told
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me how appreciative he was here, he was so thankful he got to come
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hang out. We I was trying to find a video of the kids when
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they first got this jeep that was given to them, what year it was,
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And I found all these videos of the kids when they were little,
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and it's like it just just builds my heart up so much. And then
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just sit and watch Colton, like watching these videos of him when he was
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little, singing Happy Birthday and he's like, okay, I'm that I'm really
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tired now, but in his little baby voice, you know, all these
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little things and his glasses and him playing with Vivian and then him sitting here
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watching all this stuff and giggling out loud. You know, it just was
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it just kind of led up to today and to me four twenty, this
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is was a an auspicious day. There's a there is not just about other
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things that people think about, but it is like there's like it's such a
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planetary lineup. There's so much stuff going on. And I'm not the person
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to talk about talk to you about this stuff because I just know I get
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grasped the information. I know like this is a good day. I've known
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this as the day was coming, and it was a good day. And
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so for me it has been fulfilling. But it's recognizing and being in that
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space of appreciation and my even watching the people talking today, oh my god,
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my eyes were watering. It's like I felt I have felt so much
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love. And then I had to remind everybody because I you know, it's
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the same thing when we're in group. How can I get better than this?
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Because I'm driving to work this morning. I don't even like to call
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it the work. I'm driving to meet up this morning, and I'm I'm
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feeling all these emotions and I'm feeling so elated. And I stopped and asked
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myself, how can I get better for this? My eyes are watering,
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and I'm like, they can't get any better for this, Like how could
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it possible? And it's like so, But the whole day has been very
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fulfilling. It's been I've had awesome people. I got to go watch my
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grandson and it's in here. We are made it home. We're now having
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our little chat. Yeah. I there's so many things that you talked about
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that that we could go in so many different avenues. One of the things
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I am hearing a lot is support and the like minded in this group today.
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There was uh four four ladies that for other ladies that were in attendance,
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and that was one of their things, is needing support. I did
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recommend them go to your meetup. They needed to text me to get the
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information. They haven't done that yet, so if if they show up saying
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they talked to me, that's why. So yeah, So but I am
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hearing it more and more, and you know, I'm I'm in numerology.
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Numerologically, I'm in a one year which is about foundation, and personally,
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I've been kind of struggling with that these first few months. I'm like,
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well, what does that look like? Right, I'm like asking the universe
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and it just keeps coming at me. Support, support, support, and
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so it's like, okay, and now what does that look like? Where?
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So I started doing a Facebook live each week and so I'm just kind
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of going from there. I mean, I've had to learn to going back
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to full time job, learning to manage time right time management, to be
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able to work full time job, which also requires some extra hours and still
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do what I do that the teaching and all that and coaching and stuff,
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and so I've had to kind of pull back a little bit with the things
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I do. But man, it's there's so many people that are seeking seeking
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an environment where they feel actually welcomed and not judged, I think, and
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feeling connection that community collaborations and being able to provide that just like you said,
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it's vitally important that people are having conversations that are different. The other
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thing is, you know you say you talked about family dynamics. Here's here's
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something I got to experience recently. A couple of weeks ago, I got
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an email saying that a person who is I'm gonna I'll just say Susie.
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I'll change names. Susie who's been a student off and on for about six
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seven years, not consistent, comes and goes, will be months. There's
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been years. I haven't like a couple of years. I mean with COVID
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and all. There was a couple of years I didn't see her or talk
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to her. And then all of a sudden, I had a class last
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October there she was right, so and then she tells proceeds to tell me
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some of the things that had happened in her life, and that a change
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in a relationship. She had to, you know, kick her husband out.
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And I mean, if you know me, you know me. I
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do not pry for information. And I'm like, if you want to share
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what's on your heart, share, if we can support you, we will.
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I mean, I don't priy for information. That's not my business.
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And if you don't want to share it, then don't share it. I'm
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not asking you to. So anyway, she she only shared what she wanted
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to share, and the last interaction through text, she was going to attend
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a class and sent me a text saying she wasn't going to make it because
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she was going to California. Fine, hadn't talked to her since then.
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I got a lovely email from her daughter saying that I need to deny her
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coming to my classes and if I don't, they'll be repercussions, like a
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lawyer involved and all this stuff. Well, first of all, I know,
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I know some of their family dynamics, and I'm like, and I
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have the insurance coverage. That's not the concern. I think when I sat
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with it wasn't something that you know, like threw me off guard or I
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got upset. Now, if this would have been probably a couple of years
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ago, I probably would have been distraught and left and lost sleep. But
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I'm like, yeah, not doing that, So super proud of myself.
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So that's just a check in, right, We talk about those check ins.
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Every once in a while, something will come up to see how you're
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doing within yourself. That was one of them, and I read it.
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I was like, isn't that interesting? And just notice how I felt my
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body and I received it. I was like, okay, And then I
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sat with it, and what came to me was, then, this is
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what you were talking about a moment ago. That what I feel is that
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Susie the student is no longer allowing her family to use her and abuse her
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and take advantage of her, and the family doesn't like it because she's changing
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and she's telling them no. I don't know if that's the case. I
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don't know what their conversations are. Again, last communication I had was through
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text in January, so and I also I had this conversation with a lady
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who is a like a Christian coach for couples, and so I posed the
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information like I just shared here with her. And that's exactly without me giving
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my input or how I felt or how I was perceiving what was actually going
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on. That was her immediate reaction too. She's like, oh, yeah,
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it just sounds like she's creating boundaries and her family doesn't like it,
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and she's going through some changes and it's all your fault and it and we
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run into that too, that when the you know, family members come to
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church and they start making changes and and stop creating those boundaries and things,
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and now we're a cult. So she's like, nah, worry about it.
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It's good to have this perspective though, because I would never this would
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never have ever crossed my mind ever as wild, but because like I said,
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I've got that support. And then when I were hearing other people and
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that we were talking and stuff like that, and they're telling me this,
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their family wants some back, and it's like her loving right, if if
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they stopped and said, hey, if these are all these things I'm doing
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or loving, I'm more loving. I don't drink, I don't go out.
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You know where I'm at. You know, I'm more grounded, I'm
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more you know, I'm present here with your convers I mean, there's a
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million things that are happening that it's like I would never that's just so blows
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my bye. I'm just kind of taken aback. Actually, yeah, And
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I guess thats probably would be how you would have felt when you received that,
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like wait, what for me? Like what's going on in here right
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now? And you know what here's here? If it would be more meaningful
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if the person who sent me the email was which was the daughter, and
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the daughter said that me and my sister in law and brother are all in
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agreement that my mother needs to have nothing to do with you or this other
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establishment and and blah blah blah blah blah. Anyway, I was like,
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you know what, if you had intended my classes over these past several years,
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I don't think you'd be saying that to me because you make some changes
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in your life and you wouldn't be in your misery exactly. I don't know
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if it's like a defensive thing, but it's like, she's a grown ass
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woman. She can do whatever she wants. She's over seventy, Yeah,
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she's still she's a she's a grown up. Yeah, she's a big girl.
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It's funny, though, But it's funny because it's not Is it too
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different from me having my emotions sometimes about my grandkids because I'm wanting to control
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something that's not even it's not even my stuff, it's not even for me
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to control. So it's like it's it's kind of a good thing for me
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to hear this stuff because I don't want to be in that space. Too,
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where I'm trying to run somebody else's life, do you know what I
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mean? Yeah? I do. I do. So that's a lot too,
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That's a lot. I am having a major practice in that in my
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life as well, just saying I'm like, you know, you just want
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to grab the phone and send that text, right, Well, that's that's
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what our notebooks are for, right, Yeah, that's what our notebooks are
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for, to handle that kind of stuff. And I'm bringing that up because
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I wrote it down on here to One of my savings grace right now is
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my notebooks. When I have so much when I have so much emotion and
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I have all the stuff going on, I just sit down and I write
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down. I'm taking dictation land, so I'm writing down all the shit,
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stuff you don't even want to repeat to people, and I'm writing it all
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down. But then I'm burning it afterwards because guess what, I don't have
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to carry it anymore. And I've been telling people to do it for so
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long, but it's my practice now. And then I listen to this.
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Her last name's Choquette. She's talking about five minutes every single day, you
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get your notebook and you just sit and write because now when you're taking dictation
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or when you're getting that information, you're hooking yourself up to that intuition and
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now you're receiving that information. So even regarding this woman, she's got her
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own intuition, and the kids, they have their own intuition, and it's
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for them to kind of check in with themselves. That's up to them to
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check in with themselves and see why am I having a reaction like this?
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What's really going on here? And the thing is probably maybe she was a
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controller when she was younger, when she was raising the kids. Now the
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kids are adults and they've married other people that are from their trial traumas,
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and now they're all agreeance because they feel like this is something that's negative,
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but they're not. They're looking at it from that child trauma still right potentially,
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Yeah, yep, absolutely spot on, And and then they need somebody
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to blame because things are changing. Yeah, And it's scary because when you're
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a kid, you know, I think when the rug gets pulled out for
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money of you, it's awesome, it's kind of throws you off completely.
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You don't know what to do with that, Yeah, because you weren't prepared
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that way when you've got someone that's always controlling you when you're a kid,
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right, so they grow up. So to me, it's there's there could
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be a lot of mirroring going on there, right exactly exactly, So gosh
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when you say that, when I say all that stuff, now I actually
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feel better. And it's kind of like it's easy to kind of step back
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because this is their stuff. Yeah, they're reaching out to someone else,
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and they that's giving them that empowerment, they think, but it's it's really
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actually cutting their own hands up in a lot of ways as well. And
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they're given the power to me, they are. If they're blaming me,
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then they're saying I have the power in controlling the mom And I'm like,
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first of all, I don't want that power. But second of all,
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that's not true statement. So you need to take your own healing into your
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own hands, your own power into your hands, because you I don't want
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it, I don't never claim to want it. Yeah. I want to
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empower people to heal, to feel good about themselves, to experience joy.
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And the way we do that some of the ways, I mean, we
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couldn't get all go into all of them. We'll be here all night boundaries
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saying no, stop over committing, stop being a people pleaser, stop being
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a fixer, stop being a control freak, and learn a forgiveness process.
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Uh, implement compassion when to me? When you when you do a forgiveness
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process, compassion follows automatically like that's a given, that's from my own experience,
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and you start experiencing joy and love for humanity. That's uh, that's
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a major thing. That is not Amy Wade controlling some woman telling her how
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to talk to her family. That is not it. That's a woman saying
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I no longer want to be abused, I no longer want you talking to
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me in a way that is uncomfortable. I want to experience joy. I
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want to be with my dogs and love on them and have a beautiful day
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without these conversations that are unhealthy. Those are her choices. Not Did she
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learn that information for me? Most likely, but not just me, because
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I'm sure there's other avenues of material that she has read or heard. But
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the fact that she's even implementing it, I'm like, good for you again,
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don't know that that is what is happening. That's what I'm sensing.
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Good for you. Good for you for using your voice and saying fuck you.
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You're not treating me like this anymore. Yeah, So what was how
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we can lay stuff out like we didn't know what we were going to talk
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about? Me just later, just stuff out there, just like that.
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I know. It's just I love the way that works. And then just
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well. My Facebook live last week was about head stress and overwhelm, which
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included uh, information about time management. And the one thing I will say
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about that is, if you don't create your calend under, somebody else will.
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If you don't figure out what you want to do with your time in
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a day, somebody else will fill it in for you. That's when you
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get the phone calls of hey can you do this? Hey? I need
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you hear hey hey? Right and then and then that's the what I was
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saying a minute ago about boundaries. No is a statement. No, I'm
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not available because I have a fulfilling schedule. Like the other day, you
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know, Hey, you want to go and hang out with us, and
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but I'm like no, no, thank you, thanks for thinking of me.
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Keep me in the loop for future stuff, but not today because I
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have stuff to do and if I don't do it, then I got to
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fill that in the next day when I already have stuff planned, right,
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And when you keep putting things off, it's like, now that's where the
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overwhelm comes in, because you're committing to do things for other people and not
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committing to yourself. And then you have to put yourself on to the next
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day or the day after wherever you can fit it in. And now you
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start beginning to feel that stress of, oh my gosh, when am I
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going to get this done? Like I don't have enough time, So I
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don't play that game anymore. I'm like, yeah, no, thank you.
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I mean, most of the time I'm being invited to go sit in
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the bar while they drink, and it's the same conversations, and I just
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I'm like, I'm just not into that. We're having the same conversation.
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We had this conversation earlier today at the office, and now we're having the
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same conversation again at the bar, and then we're gonna have the same conversation
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again tomorrow at our meeting. You know, it's like, can we have
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a conversation and move on. We know what the problem is, we need
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a solution so we can move forward. Can we do that like I have.
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My patience with that is like slim, and I just I just am
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learning more and more how much less I want to spend in that space of
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rehabh rehash, rehash, rehash reha. I'm like, okay, great,
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well I did this the other day. Something something happened and it was not
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at all what our conversations were. You know that what if avenue? Well,
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what if they do this? And so some more information was presented and
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it was kind of completely opposite of what the thought process was. And so
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I said, all right, what is the lesson here? And I just
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start talking like I asked the question, and then I started answering it.
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And there were two other people in the office, and I was like,
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the lesson is, we need more information before we start judging and criticizing and
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thinking these other thoughts. So from now on we get something, we need
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more information, we need more information, We need more information before we start
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making that judgmental call. And they just looked at me and they're like yeah,
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and then the subject changed, like we went on this something else.
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It was like I just don't It's like I don't have time. Listen.
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I'm almost fifty four and and who knows how much longer I'm going to be
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here, right, So why am I gonna spend time rehashing a conversation fifty
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fucking times? I don't have time for that. I agree. I got
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people out in the community that need support, and I need to figure out
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how to do that nice so I could laugh about because it's humorous. I
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just find that we are very humorous. People were comical. We I mean,
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I just have this whole scenario created in my head about what our guides
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and angels and everything do when they're watching us, Like, wait, what
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why needs to do with that? We need her over here anyway? Little
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humor it is. It is so but yeah, it's about the highlights of
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my week as far as well. That email I got two weeks ago and
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I posed it in a Mastermind group so that I could get some feedback from
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my mentor. And she's like, don't even respond. I mean we had,
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you know, we had a conversation about it. It was it was
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a learning lesson for everybody in the in the group, and got some feedback
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and and uh, She's like, it comes back to energy. Don't give
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your energy to it when you think about it, Send her love, send
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the family love, surround everybody would love to see them. It's the same
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thing. And I did. I read it, sat with it, and
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then surrounded them with love and went about my day and I slept well and
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it was okay. So and you know, we just face that kind of
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stuff when you do this kind of work. But now I know, yeah,
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and you know it's like deflecting responsibility of their own behaviors and their own
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life and their own choices. They're deflecting that from themselves onto me now as
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I am talking about this, we've talked about this before, that when somebody
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is shining their light and somebody is excuse me, and somebody is in misery
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in their victim, they don't like the light right. They can't handle it.
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Like there's like, oh no, you are too happy, you're too
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loving. We need to dim that so I can see you, so we
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can be in this misery together. Similar to the mother daughter, we want
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our mom back. No, you don't want your mom back. You want
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that what you're comfortable of with her, the comfortableness that you had with her,
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and now that she's changing, you don't know how to late because she's
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now shining her light a little brighter, and you don't know what to do
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with that, So I you know, that's to me. Also, is
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what's kind of going on here? Like I'm out, I'm happy, I'm
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enjoying my life. I'm helping people and people who are a misery and can't
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resonate at that type of frequency. I'm not saying that I'm just like this
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ah like high vibrational frequency person, but I'm much higher than that I used
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to be for sure, which means I'm higher vibrational frequency than the people who
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are telling me to knock my shit off, which ain't gonna happen. Just
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just so you know, I ain't gonna happen, So you contact your lawyers
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and we're gonna will go through the three ring circus. It's not gonna happen,
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though, because I'm a pretty good manifestor and I'm just gonna love you
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and send you on your way. So I got I got the power of
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the angels with me, so woo woo. But it's true. That's awesome.
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Yeah, And you know it's like when when you make it, so
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you know, speaking to the audience, it's like when you when you begin
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making changes in your life and and you're feeling lighter because you're doing your healing
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processes and you can, and I say it, shine your light, and
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you know you're allowing the energy of your spirit to be more prominent. Meaning
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you're in that loving space, You're in a kind space, you're in a
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compassionate space, you're in a you're in a joyful space. You're you're genuinely
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laughing and enjoying your life and and doing things that light you up. That
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keep doing it. Don't stop because somebody says, oh, you're different and
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we can't have that, you need to change, right, No, you
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keep doing what feels good to you. And that's always my encouragement is if
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it feels good, genuinely feels good, light you up, then do it.
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If it doesn't feel good, don't do it. So so, don't
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be in the unhealthy relationships, don't have the unhealthy conversations, don't be the
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people please er, fixer, control freak, and don't rehash the same conversations
30:17
that don't feel good over and over and over. Right, you just excuse
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yourself, create the boundaries, say no, you take control of your time
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and managing your calendar instead of letting somebody else fill it in for you.
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Like all those things are nurturing and it's self love and taking care of you
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so that you can live the life that you want to live instead of living
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the life everybody else wants you to live and how they want you to live
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it. And I'm still practicing this. I'm not saying i'm them. I
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got it all together because a lot of the things that Bev and I talk
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about we're still we're still practicing these things too, just we've been practicing them
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for a little longer. That's why we come and talk, right, That's
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why we have these conversations to share what we're learning and experiencing and practicing,
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just like the writing and that five minutes in the morning and stuff. So
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yeah, that's awesome. Yeah, So anyway, anything else before we wrap
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up, We're gonna keep it short this time. We're both tired. We
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got things to do, and I got to still I haven't even dinner,
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okay, So Belly's probably growling, she might be getting angry, and she's
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like, Okay, I'm done with you people. I got to go.
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So I love you all, I love you all, and I need to
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eat, like now I get that, So Bev, thank you for your
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time and energy for being here this evening and doing this and yeah again,
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we both have fulfilling schedules, so we're doing what we can when we can,
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and and so thank you. We I think we do this quite well
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together. So we do anyway, friends, thank you for hanging out with
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us. Tea time with Amy and Bev. You could be anywhere with anyone
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or by yourself for sure, Instead you're hanging out with us, listening to
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us. If you found anything beneficial, implement it to just take one thing,
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make it simple, keep just take one thing and implement it and then
32:30
incorporate something else. And if you find anything beneficial from our conversations, then
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please let your friends and family, co workers, neighbors know have those conversations
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with them. Plant the seeds or share the videos or the content and just
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make it a ripple effect to help the healing of We all need the healing.
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We just do. So, So with that, do you have my
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final words? Sister, thank you for everything and everybody have a magical week.
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Yeah for sure. All right, my friends, Tea time with Amy
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and Bab. We'll see you next time. Bye. H