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Episode 354 "Tamira Smith" · The Baller Alert Show

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Speaker 1: They get a litty called me. Welcome to the Ball
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Speaker 1: Show broadcast line from Atlanta, Georgia. I go by the
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Speaker 1: name of Ferrari.
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Speaker 2: Go by to that you know BT.
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Speaker 1: Oh wow, A special friend, special episode the building.
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Speaker 3: Guys, I missed your Happy New Year.
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Speaker 1: Ye, happy New Year.
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Speaker 3: Your best behavior this year, I'm always on my best behavior.
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Speaker 3: I agree with you pretty much all. I guess that's
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Speaker 3: for BT.
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Speaker 1: I'm always on my because I used to be on
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Speaker 1: my bad behavior and that costs me things supporting. So
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Speaker 1: therefore I say on best behavior because I can't afford
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Speaker 1: any mistakes.
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Speaker 2: What's been new with you?
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Speaker 3: I'm just working, trying to be out here, keep up
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Speaker 3: with y'all, to y'all all over the place. You're not
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Speaker 3: like the party with y'all.
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Speaker 1: Well yeah, b T yeah.
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Speaker 3: I had never seen Ferrari will.
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Speaker 1: Be because I used to be out.
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Speaker 2: Doesn't go out anymore. I used to be out so much.
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Speaker 4: Ferrari.
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Speaker 2: I heard he was longs old Chris.
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Speaker 4: I think it was Christmas, and he's like, I'm drunk,
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Speaker 4: and then he posted I.
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Speaker 1: Drank a whole bottle of wine. It was a chateau chateau.
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Speaker 1: Yeah I drank, Yeah, I drank a whole bottle of
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Speaker 1: wine and I passed out, woke up and was bat normal.
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Speaker 1: I didn't have you drink wine. Bro, you don't have
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Speaker 1: no hangover.
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Speaker 3: I like that.
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Speaker 2: I can't drink.
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Speaker 3: I don't know how to stop. It's like drink old
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Speaker 3: wine that's in the valley and the.
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Speaker 1: Whole So you actually get drunk drunk.
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Speaker 3: Yeah, okay, I'm gonna do it. I'm gonna do it anyway. Okay,
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Speaker 3: we're gonna leave that one alone.
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Speaker 1: Well, we wanted to bring you on the show because
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Speaker 1: we just wanted to kick off the new year.
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Speaker 2: Kick off the new year the right way. See you.
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Speaker 1: Was he terrorizing? Why you got this thing that it
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Speaker 1: almost slick bothers me? You call it's called men deserve less?
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Speaker 3: Why does that bother you?
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Speaker 1: Because men don't deserve less? I feel like it should
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Speaker 1: be equal equal.
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Speaker 3: Yes, I don't believe in that. Ain't nothing in this
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Speaker 3: world equal, And don't let anybody ever lied to you.
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Speaker 3: Ain't nothing equal.
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Speaker 1: In this world. Why do you think men deserve less?
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Speaker 3: Because they're not doing more we used to. And I
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Speaker 3: don't want to go into this rhetoric, but I just
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Speaker 3: know this is people get what they put out, and
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Speaker 3: I think that, like we used to live in a world.
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Speaker 3: And I'm not just talking about financially because I don't
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Speaker 3: want the brokies in my comments. No, I've come to
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Speaker 3: a conclusion that I'm probably gonna be with someone I
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Speaker 3: make more money than, so y'all could cry somewhere else.
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Speaker 3: I'm aa trust my baby. I don't need y'all anyway.
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Speaker 3: Back to the story, I think that men should actually
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Speaker 3: find God. That's what y'all should do this year. Y'all
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Speaker 3: need to be led by a real man, and Jesus
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Speaker 3: Christ needs to come save the men that are on
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Speaker 3: this earth, because the ones you'll send down they got
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Speaker 3: a short fuse. They not really connecting all the way.
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Speaker 1: Is it the men that you like or is this
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Speaker 1: all men?
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Speaker 3: Well, first of all, I don't like any particular type
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Speaker 3: of man. I've literally tried to date everything all across
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Speaker 3: the board. Short, tall, white, black, Asian, broke, rich, non
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Speaker 3: speaking English, speaking English.
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Speaker 1: A little gay.
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Speaker 3: I didn't tried at all. I'm trying to tell you
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Speaker 3: I didn't been there, done that with everything. I didn't.
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Speaker 3: I didn't gave every chance I can to everybody. I
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Speaker 3: did not want to box anybody out and it's just
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Speaker 3: not my experiences. If you luck anywhere, women of all races, creeds,
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Speaker 3: lifestyles are saying like this, ain't it? If you got somebody,
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Speaker 3: stay with them? But I cracked the cold?
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Speaker 2: What's the cold?
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Speaker 3: You gotta input your niggas. If you live in Atlanta,
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Speaker 3: you have to import them, or you gotta come with it.
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Speaker 3: But you can't come with one come with one move.
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Speaker 4: Did we have a guest on the show last year?
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Speaker 4: Whe She said, there's there's three there's only three men
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Speaker 4: to date in Atlanta.
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Speaker 3: One's gay, one's married, and what's the other one?
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Speaker 1: Oh?
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Speaker 3: Is that not what you wet?
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Speaker 1: That's was? No, that was that was our friend. That
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Speaker 1: was our friend. What's her name? Man?
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Speaker 2: Uh? Jesse?
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Speaker 1: Jesse?
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Speaker 2: Yep?
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Speaker 1: Was it Jesse?
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Speaker 2: Yeah? It was Jesse?
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Speaker 1: No? Was it Jesse?
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Speaker 3: Was the three things that they well, she said, Africans,
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Speaker 3: Oh no, we don't got that. No more than the
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Speaker 3: Africans got up out of here because y'all made it
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Speaker 3: hot and all them songs and all y'all men was
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Speaker 3: hating on Instagram. Oh you're the club. The Africans they got,
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Speaker 3: they did. They relocated to Texas. The rich Africans ain't
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Speaker 3: here no more.
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Speaker 1: The Africans left Atlanta and moved to Texas.
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Speaker 4: Yes, y'all laugh at all right, what part of what
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Speaker 4: part of Texas did they move?
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Speaker 3: I don't know, but they ain't here no more. We
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Speaker 3: don't got the rich one no more, the ones that
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Speaker 3: had money back in the day when I first moved
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Speaker 3: to all right, when I first came to Atlanta, I
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Speaker 3: used to lie one year okay, this is actually yesterday
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Speaker 3: was my ten year anniversary, so a while ago. So
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Speaker 3: when I first used to come to Atlanta, I used
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Speaker 3: to tell my friends, like, tell people you here visiting,
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Speaker 3: right always say you here visiting, and say you're about
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Speaker 3: to leave, Say you on your way to the airport
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Speaker 3: right now. For God tries to bag you, be like, oh,
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Speaker 3: I would love to talk to you, but I'm actually
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Speaker 3: I gotta go catch this fight. I'm on my way out,
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Speaker 3: and he's gonna be like, no, change your flight. Stay,
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Speaker 3: I got four hundred for you. Change your flight right now.
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Speaker 3: That's that's how it used to be.
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Speaker 1: Now these were talking about Jesse Wu. That's yeah, Jesse,
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Speaker 1: she's dating I want to say Caribbean African man.
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Speaker 3: They the ones, yes, you should because you know why
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Speaker 3: the American breed is happy. She should be. She deserves
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Speaker 3: the world. Black girls of all cons deserve everything that's
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Speaker 3: coming to them. Amen.
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Speaker 1: So why are you single?
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Speaker 3: Well, I'm not like fully single, as we know.
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Speaker 1: Oh we got a segment on the show. We'll get
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Speaker 1: to that in a little bit.
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Speaker 3: But go ahead, oh ship now see friends, See, I
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Speaker 3: don't want to play because I know, go ahead. I'm single.
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Speaker 2: One.
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Speaker 3: I'm realistic, so I know why I'm single. I'm never satist,
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Speaker 3: like I have unrealistic expectations. I think I live in
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Speaker 3: the Disney like I think I'm gonna meet a guy
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Speaker 3: and I'm gonna see hearts and butterflies and the sky
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Speaker 3: is gonna open and we're gonna live happily ever after that.
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Speaker 3: I mean, not if you live in Atlanta, That's what
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Speaker 3: I will say. But while that combined with just when
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Speaker 3: you've been independent and strong for so long, I come
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Speaker 3: from single not My My grandmother was married, but my
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Speaker 3: grandfather died shortly after all the kids was born, so
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Speaker 3: I watched my grandmother had to raise her three daughters
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Speaker 3: mostly by herself. My my father got killed when I
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Speaker 3: was a baby, so my mom had to raise me
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Speaker 3: by myself. My two aunts they both got married, but
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Speaker 3: they didn't have kids. So I watched my uncle love
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Speaker 3: my aunt for thirty years, so I know what love
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Speaker 3: is supposed to be. Like, I've never heard him raise
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Speaker 3: his voice. I've never heard him say anything crazy. So
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Speaker 3: one thing about me, I just feel like men used
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Speaker 3: to like control themselves so much more. You never used
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Speaker 3: to hear men like just crashing out and yelling at
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Speaker 3: females and calling them names and being like overly emotional,
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Speaker 3: like it used to be, Like I want to take
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Speaker 3: that away from her. Like I think that when you
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Speaker 3: walk into anybody's life as a partner, your goal should
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Speaker 3: be to make their life easier in some way. And
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Speaker 3: it doesn't mean financially. It could be like okay, like
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Speaker 3: I don't know anything about cars, Like I tried to
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Speaker 3: put diesel gas in my car one home because I
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Speaker 3: never pumped the gas. So I was sitting there like
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Speaker 3: walking up to people like yeah, like the green things.
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Speaker 3: I don't know the difference the thing, and then I
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Speaker 3: grabbed it and I'm like it's not fitting in the
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Speaker 3: in the gas thing, and they're like, what are you doing?
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Speaker 3: So I go to a car and I'm like, can
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Speaker 3: you help me? And the god's girlfriend was like why
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Speaker 3: coming over to the car for And then when they
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Speaker 3: realized that I really did not know how to pump
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Speaker 3: the gas, they was like who, And I'm like, but
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Speaker 3: that's also because I'm about taking care of the guys
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Speaker 3: that I was dating. Always been maintenance on my cars,
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Speaker 3: so I genuinely had no clue. So it's that too.
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Speaker 3: It's being spoiled you by ex boyfriends, right, I have
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Speaker 3: an unrealistic I dated scammers and drug dealers, so I
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Speaker 3: have an unrealistic.
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Speaker 2: Well, that would definitely make it unrealistic.
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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, So I'm like, I mean so much profession
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Speaker 1: doesn't have anything to do with their manners though, yes.
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Speaker 3: So man is a completely different but I don't I
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Speaker 3: know some.
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Speaker 1: Very well uh behaved killers.
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Speaker 3: I love that.
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Speaker 1: You have no idea, just like five of the dirt,
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Speaker 1: Yes man, yes, ma'am, no man when you see him
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Speaker 1: anyway ahead.
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Speaker 3: Sometimes you got strippers that have good mora rules and
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Speaker 3: nice what I'm saying things.
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Speaker 2: But you're right, you can't.
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Speaker 4: You can't judge a person based on their profession because
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Speaker 4: the whole like I feel like it was a whole
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Speaker 4: wave last year, like the whole Like nine to fivers
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Speaker 4: are doing this, and I'm like, there are some people
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Speaker 4: that work a nine to five job that makes a hell.
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Speaker 2: Of a living.
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Speaker 3: First of all, and I be worried about the wrong thing.
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Speaker 3: I'll be worry about the wrong thing. First, Well, somebody
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Speaker 3: with nine to five has medical benefits.
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Speaker 1: These men for one.
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Speaker 3: K yes retiring, They come on like, please stop embarrassing
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Speaker 3: yourselves and chasing these men that's gonna go to jail,
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Speaker 3: cheat on you while they're in jail. Expect for you
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Speaker 3: to hold them down, Like, stop doing it. Nine to
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Speaker 3: five men one, You know they got structure and discipline.
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Speaker 3: You know that they have a goal. You know that
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Speaker 3: they respect themselves enough to get up every day and
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Speaker 3: reach for that goal. They don't want the easy way out.
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Speaker 3: They they they either went to school or got in
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Speaker 3: a field that worked for them, and they stayed and
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Speaker 3: they stuck with it.
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Speaker 2: So I wish we should.
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Speaker 4: I wish that we could stop job shaming because let
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Speaker 4: me tell you this, the Internet has made it so
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Speaker 4: bad that people think going to work is a bad thing.
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Speaker 2: First of all, I got a couple of friends.
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Speaker 4: That need to go go get a job, I'm telling
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Speaker 4: you right now, I got some friends that think they
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Speaker 4: too cool to get some get a nine to five,
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Speaker 4: and they need to They don't.
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Speaker 2: Ones need to go to work.
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Speaker 1: I know. I know a couple of my partner's day
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Speaker 1: in the nightlife industry, a couple of them DJ some
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Speaker 1: of them promoters, and they literally are scraping the barrel
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Speaker 1: with money. And I'm over here, like, dude, go get
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Speaker 1: a job.
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Speaker 2: You could do both.
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Speaker 1: I know people who do both, and that's great.
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Speaker 3: I think why not do both, especially if you do
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Speaker 3: something like even me, now I have a good job,
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Speaker 3: you know how much I want to go back to
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Speaker 3: waygressing on the weekend and get some extra little bands
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Speaker 3: in my pockets. Like, yes, if you do what you
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Speaker 3: have to do, I don't think it's okay to raise
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Speaker 3: my hand.
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Speaker 1: Before I became Ferrari, I worked at a leasing apartment.
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Speaker 1: I was able to get thirty percent off my rent.
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Speaker 1: I didn't have to drive to work. Then when I
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Speaker 1: got off work, I went to the club and I
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Speaker 1: hosted parties. I did that when I was running around
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Speaker 1: DJ holiday for about three and a half years until
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Speaker 1: I was able for him to get a job at
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Speaker 1: Streets Down for five then they officially hired me at Streets.
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Speaker 3: No exactly.
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Speaker 2: I had a day job when I met y'all.
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Speaker 1: Yeah, he was working at Verizon.
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Speaker 5: I was working at Sprint, Sprint that coin commission, Sprint,
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Speaker 5: like the crazy thing about it. I was in Sprint
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Speaker 5: and like Lithonia, like the hood.
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Speaker 6: I'm talking about people getting shot outside the Walmart and
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Speaker 6: we got to sit there and lock the door and
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Speaker 6: be like it was damn Sprints bad taking back it.
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Speaker 3: Was badt free.
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Speaker 4: After nine I was coming up to the radio station,
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Speaker 4: working my job on the side because.
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Speaker 2: One thing about me, I ain't gonna never be without
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Speaker 2: having a.
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Speaker 1: Source of pocket. But why this man deserved less though,
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Speaker 1: because you're saying some nice stuff about us right.
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Speaker 3: Now, because I'm trying to be nice to them this
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Speaker 3: year and hopes that I could hear the world on
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Speaker 3: my own because I like to believe I have that
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Speaker 3: much power. So maybe if I'm nice of the men,
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Speaker 3: they'll be nicer to.
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Speaker 1: But maybe you just didn't meet the man that is
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Speaker 1: for you.
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Speaker 3: So speaking of nine tois right. So one of the
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Speaker 3: last guys I wanted to date, he worked for Delta.
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Speaker 3: Shout out to Delta. You know who he is.
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Speaker 2: His name is Delta.
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Speaker 3: That's what we call him. Delta. That's what my friend
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Speaker 3: group for you. Y'all all got nicknames in the group chat,
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Speaker 3: don't I like y'all know, So we call him Delta
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Speaker 3: because he works for Delta. One of the reasons why
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Speaker 3: I didn't pursue him or go further with our relationship.
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Speaker 3: Nice guy owns his own house, own his own car,
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Speaker 3: has a job, been with Delta for ten years. I
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Speaker 3: asked someone what was next for him, and he didn't
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Speaker 3: have an answer, and I literally didn't talk to him
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Speaker 3: after that because I just was like, I can't have
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Speaker 3: all these plans for my life and you don't have
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Speaker 3: any for yours. And that was about a year and
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Speaker 3: a half ago, and me and him started talking again recently,
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Speaker 3: just because we both realized ain't shit out there. Yeah,
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Speaker 3: we actually really did like each other.
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Speaker 2: But wait, not to cut you off. Why did you
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Speaker 2: not tell him?
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Speaker 3: So I did tell him One day I got drunk
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Speaker 3: in the airport seeing it, oh lord, And he will
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Speaker 3: always do that, like whenever I have flights, he would
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Speaker 3: meet me and make sure walk me to my gate
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Speaker 3: and stuff. So one day I got drunk and I
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Speaker 3: had him up and I'm like, will what, I'm like,
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Speaker 3: I'm magde whatever one something, come here. So he came
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Speaker 3: over and then I told him like and he took
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Speaker 3: it well. And he he has a new job with
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Speaker 3: in Delta now and now they're flying him all over
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Speaker 3: the country and he's doing all this other stuff. I
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Speaker 3: like to think that I kind of motivated him in
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Speaker 3: that aspect. So you can make people better. But patience
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Speaker 3: is the key. I think I didn't have pain. Okay,
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Speaker 3: I'm also want okay, okay, man don't deserve less. No,
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Speaker 3: I did not say that that man don't deserve less.
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Speaker 2: Or motivating him, motivating him.
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Speaker 3: It felt like I'm being nice to the men you are.
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Speaker 3: This is my clone. I'm a clone.
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Speaker 1: Look, I'm seriously, let's let's get to the I want
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Speaker 1: you to give me some points. Why do the man?
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Speaker 1: Why do you feel men deserve less? Don't don't.
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Speaker 3: Don't threaten me with a good time, because you know
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Speaker 3: I love to pull a good list out of my
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Speaker 3: back pocket as to why these men. I'll start with
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Speaker 3: RAJ off the top of my head. No matter of fact,
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Speaker 3: I'll go with old mother freaking sinko oho No, no,
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Speaker 3: this man sat here, got a bad a baddie with
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Speaker 3: her job, a career, and it's outside cheating on her
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Speaker 3: for fue just because he wants to.
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Speaker 2: And then it's we know this for a fact that
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Speaker 2: he's her.
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Speaker 3: Yes, did you not see her? Just do her interview
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Speaker 3: and she said that she caught him cheating, and everybody
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Speaker 3: was like, well, wasn't you married when you started dating him?
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Speaker 3: And she was like, well it was over. But that's
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Speaker 3: how calmer but o cho. My problem is men say
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Speaker 3: that they want a certain type of woman, then they
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Speaker 3: get that type of woman and still cheat on her.
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Speaker 3: Why men don't cheat because they're missing something. Men chea
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Speaker 3: because they lack self self discipline, and they just be like,
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Speaker 3: oh shit, pussy.
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Speaker 1: I don't think that's a man thing. I think that's
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Speaker 1: a person thing. That's men.
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Speaker 3: Cut it out just because you got it together after
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Speaker 3: you done fucked up an old child's support, now you
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Speaker 3: got it together. You two trying to beat the beacon
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Speaker 3: of speaking for all the good men in the world.
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Speaker 3: You are one of two percent of these negroes. I
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Speaker 3: don't know BT business, so I can't really chew him
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Speaker 3: up the way I need to, but I'll do some research.
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Speaker 1: Okay, who else is the other person?
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Speaker 3: We got? O Cho, he ain't shit? Ray J the
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Speaker 3: audacity running around with Suki Chain like he a baddie
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Speaker 3: with her new new juice on his face and taking selfies.
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Speaker 3: Oh my god, if I was Princess Love, oh god,
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Speaker 3: if I was Princess Love.
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Speaker 1: Was that one hundred.
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Speaker 3: Television that was one hundred percent accurate? We've seen it.
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Speaker 3: We've seen it, we've seen the text that wasn't though.
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Speaker 1: That was his shirt was probably messed up from something
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Speaker 1: that man.
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Speaker 3: I know, the smile of a man trying to show you, like, look, babe,
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Speaker 3: I still smell like you. I don't even wash my
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Speaker 3: face this morning. That's exactly what he had going on.
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Speaker 3: Please play with somebody else, you know, din Well? Ray
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Speaker 3: J had that girl now new juice all over his face.
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Speaker 1: On his lips, all right? Who else?
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Speaker 3: Okay? Who else I got? I didn't even opened my
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Speaker 3: list yet. I didn't even open it yet. Oh huh.
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Speaker 3: I don't know how this wasn't the first person. G Herbal.
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Speaker 3: Would you like to talk about that? You know why
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Speaker 3: I don't respect g Herbal? Whoa whoa whoa cheated on
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Speaker 3: every while she was pregnant with this girl, got with
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Speaker 3: the girl not to up two times and her prime.
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Speaker 3: Stop getting girls pregnant and a prime if you don't
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Speaker 3: plan on keeping them five. That's dead wrong taking girls
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Speaker 3: out the game anyway.
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Speaker 1: Look, you're doing too much on my boy.
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Speaker 3: Too much is he's doing? First of all? If you're
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Speaker 3: gonna cheat, stop leaving evidence. That's it. That's my only
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Speaker 3: message to man.
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Speaker 1: How do we know this is factual?
16:10
Speaker 5: Though the pictures all this is allegedly me?
16:17
Speaker 3: That ship is a fact you hear me is.
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Speaker 1: An upstanding US citizen.
16:21
Speaker 3: He might be an upstanding father, being a father and
16:24
Speaker 3: a boyfriend and a man or two different things. You
16:26
Speaker 3: can be a good father and a horrible man. And
16:29
Speaker 3: that's what.
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Speaker 1: Whoa who else you got? Man?
16:32
Speaker 3: Okay, let me see if I got one more for you.
16:35
Speaker 3: I'm gonna try to keep my list. See I said
16:37
Speaker 3: I wasn't gonna be mean the men this year, and
16:39
Speaker 3: then you got me started. Kirk. Who's who have to say? Nothing?
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Speaker 2: Kirk kurk?
16:44
Speaker 3: You know who is here for me? For me?
16:48
Speaker 1: Little my camera? I can't I can't defend big down.
16:52
Speaker 3: And Jasmine just playing. That's the girl named Ray Jasmine.
16:56
Speaker 2: I think this is love. It love hip hop storyline.
17:00
Speaker 1: That's a bad storyline.
17:02
Speaker 3: The only reason why I love and hip hop. Yes,
17:05
Speaker 3: that's why I don't all you want. But when babies,
17:08
Speaker 3: like are y'all having children? Because that goes back to
17:12
Speaker 3: like Peter Gunns and the original original, this goes and
17:17
Speaker 3: I know that's been Zina.
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Speaker 1: I love.
17:19
Speaker 3: I don't really got no love for anyway. Back to
17:21
Speaker 3: the story. If we were doing ship for storylines, it's
17:26
Speaker 3: not adopted baby, get a dog. A dog would be
17:28
Speaker 3: a cute storyline. People take that. I will fight you
17:30
Speaker 3: over my dog. Me and a boy get a dog together,
17:32
Speaker 3: and I gotta get my dog back. That's my dog.
17:34
Speaker 3: That'll do the same. My dog, my dog, dog, my dog,
17:40
Speaker 3: my dog. Stupid anyway, what I'm not gonna do because
17:46
Speaker 3: you know what, go ahead. I'm nice to mend this
17:48
Speaker 3: year so you're not gonna and maybe two other people.
17:53
Speaker 3: But look story short, as men who are the ahead
17:57
Speaker 3: of your households, please stop embarrassing your girlfriends, wives and
18:01
Speaker 3: people the mother of your children. Stop doing that. Y'all
18:03
Speaker 3: know that females are coming after y'all with the intent
18:06
Speaker 3: to leak the information, just like Asian Dogs said about
18:09
Speaker 3: the Meg the Stallion situation. You know girls are out
18:12
Speaker 3: to hurt your girlfriend. You know that they want cloud
18:14
Speaker 3: you We know cloud is the biggest drug, Fuckingtolotle or
18:17
Speaker 3: whatever that word is, because I don't do drugs, but
18:20
Speaker 3: clout is number one. If you know that, it's one
18:24
Speaker 3: thing to sneak a picture of a guy and be like,
18:26
Speaker 3: all right, thirsty, you were trying to get a picture
18:28
Speaker 3: with my man when you're a man is laying in
18:29
Speaker 3: the bed, posing in the camera, smiling, holding the camera himself.
18:35
Speaker 3: This one of who was it? Who's the one? It's
18:38
Speaker 3: Meg's boyfriend, the bulls player. This man asks the girl
18:41
Speaker 3: if her nipples still have breast milk in it? I
18:46
Speaker 3: saw that anybody. Okay, I knew you were going to
18:50
Speaker 3: say that.
18:50
Speaker 6: I need to say that.
18:51
Speaker 3: That's what You're gonna know it. We're gonna keep going
18:53
Speaker 3: with how we know. Let's just say, let's hype.
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Speaker 1: No, I saw she posted the cash cheap. That's pretty bad.
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Speaker 2: No, I'm saying he said.
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Speaker 3: She must have just had a baby, because he was
19:04
Speaker 3: like and then he was like, you ever had a
19:05
Speaker 3: sex tape? Like this Girl's like, I'm playing with Jesus,
19:08
Speaker 3: and his response is, so make a sex to.
19:11
Speaker 1: Him and Meg break up.
19:15
Speaker 2: I think all of this is allegedly that's different.
19:18
Speaker 3: Listen and I agree, Listen, stay with your favorite dog, Meg,
19:22
Speaker 3: the favorite, get the one that treats you the best,
19:26
Speaker 3: gets your favorite doggie, and stay happy. That's it, especially
19:29
Speaker 3: if you're dealing with rappers and NBA players, because girl,
19:32
Speaker 3: you're just gonna be shaking.
19:33
Speaker 4: Like I feel like every time we see Megan happy,
19:36
Speaker 4: something always comes comes out the internet. Don't want to
19:38
Speaker 4: see Meg this thaying the internet definitely don't want to
19:41
Speaker 4: see why she goes off the internet.
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Speaker 1: Off the grid for a while.
19:45
Speaker 3: Yeah, she's aquarious, just like me. Get on. She gets
19:49
Speaker 3: on when she when she don't.
19:50
Speaker 5: Like it, she just.
19:52
Speaker 4: But you know what, I think, I think that Meg
19:54
Speaker 4: should stop revealing so much of her personal life, Like
19:57
Speaker 4: if you dating this guy, like, let a year go by,
20:03
Speaker 4: know what it is.
20:04
Speaker 3: Though, because ask females, we just want to show you, like, look,
20:07
Speaker 3: somebody else loves me, so it's like, okay, you couldn't
20:10
Speaker 3: get the job done. Look I got somebody else who's
20:11
Speaker 3: loving me, and you.
20:14
Speaker 1: You like, yeah loving me?
20:16
Speaker 2: Right?
20:16
Speaker 3: Look I got me and they embarrassed you. That's why
20:19
Speaker 3: men deserve less because they always gonna embarrass you.
20:21
Speaker 1: Well, you know it's not embarrassing shopping and fashion over. Okay,
20:24
Speaker 1: one time for fashion over my jacket, my hat, my shirt,
20:27
Speaker 1: BT's jacket. You know what I'm saying.
20:29
Speaker 3: We want to ask about that jacket.
20:31
Speaker 1: Yeah, we've been miscellaneous. Lea Freshway has a lot to
20:36
Speaker 1: do with fashion over to make sure you shop it fashion.
20:42
Speaker 3: I have.
20:43
Speaker 1: I have this. No man deserve more.
20:45
Speaker 4: No man definitely deserve more because you know, I had
20:47
Speaker 4: this brown jacket all and everybody in the comments was like,
20:50
Speaker 4: where you get that jacket from fashion over all?
20:53
Speaker 1: Right? Now, can you can you give us some positive men?
20:56
Speaker 3: I got one because I felt like you might have
20:59
Speaker 3: did this to me. So I can't prepare with one man.
21:02
Speaker 2: And I want to get a story. I know you
21:04
Speaker 2: have a ton of stories, and so I will.
21:09
Speaker 3: If I gave a shout out.
21:10
Speaker 4: To a man.
21:12
Speaker 3: That's doing decent with being a man, I was gonna
21:17
Speaker 3: give it a DGG because I DDG because I like
21:19
Speaker 3: the way he's being a father. I like the way
21:22
Speaker 3: he's just making fun with everything. While I stopped talking
21:28
Speaker 3: Lebron when he went to the Lakers. So that's another
21:30
Speaker 3: story for another day. But I like that he's not
21:33
Speaker 3: letting the Internet get to him. He's still Yeah, he's
21:37
Speaker 3: a good guy. I think that, not I'm not not
21:39
Speaker 3: good guy. X that out That didn't come out of
21:42
Speaker 3: my mind. What I said was, I do think he's
21:43
Speaker 3: a good father, and I'll give him Pops for that.
21:45
Speaker 3: So anybody who's out there leading with love and you know,
21:49
Speaker 3: taking care of their family, I can't hate on them,
21:51
Speaker 3: but I will say, stopping babbissing the girls.
21:54
Speaker 2: What about girls who embarrassed men?
21:57
Speaker 3: Free Remy from the.
21:59
Speaker 1: Captain because Remy embarrassed.
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Speaker 3: I don't want to talk about it.
22:03
Speaker 1: Remy embarrassed her husband.
22:04
Speaker 3: I don't want to talk about that. That is a
22:06
Speaker 3: New Yorker. We would like he.
22:09
Speaker 1: Held you down me, he held her down. Papoos held
22:15
Speaker 1: Remy down at least seven summers.
22:18
Speaker 3: Well, she said, she said, she got proved. It's not
22:21
Speaker 3: about that.
22:22
Speaker 1: He still helds you down.
22:23
Speaker 3: Shall that girl embarrassed? Did you see the freestyle that
22:26
Speaker 3: just came out? And he was like, asked Remy's son
22:29
Speaker 3: if you and she was like, I love you In
22:30
Speaker 3: the background or something, I almost threw up.
22:32
Speaker 1: In my mouth like, yeah, the dude, you know what?
22:34
Speaker 2: Okay, that that is a crazy love Trent that is so.
22:43
Speaker 3: Engaged.
22:44
Speaker 1: She don't want to squabble up. The girl, the.
22:45
Speaker 3: Fighter is engaged. She has a fiance. Clarissa girl, she
22:51
Speaker 3: has a fiance. I'm telling you, I'm telling you it
22:54
Speaker 3: gets worse. I keep telling you that it gets worse.
22:57
Speaker 3: But yeah, dating in Atlanta always fine, never boring. But
23:01
Speaker 3: don't recommend zero stars.
23:03
Speaker 1: Okay. I appreciate that. Thank you so much. We have
23:08
Speaker 1: a conclusion. Uh, you know what, it's time for our segments,
23:12
Speaker 1: my bad, Let's do our segments.
23:14
Speaker 2: Jesus, it is not time for Doe.
23:16
Speaker 4: You like me.
23:17
Speaker 1: This is the moment where you're looking at camera and
23:19
Speaker 1: you shut out your crush, feeling someone that you want
23:22
Speaker 1: to shoot your shot at.
23:23
Speaker 2: Tell Delta how you really feel. Tell Dela to take
23:26
Speaker 2: this time and tell that right there.
23:29
Speaker 1: The floor is yours. Three two one.
23:31
Speaker 4: Wow.
23:33
Speaker 3: Thank you for always being upstanding man, nice, impatient.
23:36
Speaker 1: So Delta is your crush.
23:38
Speaker 3: I thought that Chris shoot your.
23:44
Speaker 1: Shot at Chris Brown.
23:45
Speaker 3: That's the only one I would because I just want
23:47
Speaker 3: to know.
23:48
Speaker 1: What to do. But Chris Brown and he can he
23:53
Speaker 1: could potentially see this on ball.
23:54
Speaker 2: Or you don't shoot your shot.
23:55
Speaker 3: Shot Breezy, I know you like the we get right
24:01
Speaker 3: and come with a one hundred percent.
24:03
Speaker 1: All black childs.
24:05
Speaker 3: That's all I got. I You ain't no Breezy. You
24:09
Speaker 3: need New Yorker, a real one girl from Harlem. Holler
24:11
Speaker 3: at me.
24:12
Speaker 1: Okay, now it's time for you.
24:15
Speaker 3: Got me fun there all the shit?
24:18
Speaker 1: What the hell is getting on your nerves? It's a nown,
24:20
Speaker 1: It's a person, place or thing, some things that got
24:22
Speaker 1: you fucked that. It could be traffied. It could be
24:24
Speaker 1: these guys that deserve less that you are quoting the
24:27
Speaker 1: whole show.
24:27
Speaker 3: Or you know what's getting on my nerves?
24:29
Speaker 1: What is there?
24:29
Speaker 3: You got me fucked up? Mother's raising their sons to
24:32
Speaker 3: be bitches? Can I say that like that?
24:34
Speaker 1: Wow? Go ahead.
24:35
Speaker 3: I think that women, women have kept have raised sons
24:39
Speaker 3: and kept telling them like, oh bitches and shit, don't
24:43
Speaker 3: trust women. So now these men grow up hating women.
24:46
Speaker 3: What Tupac said, We're gonna have a raise of babies
24:48
Speaker 3: that hate the ladies, the babies, you know the words.
24:52
Speaker 3: So for me, I think that that's where we're at
24:54
Speaker 3: right now. So I just want women to be a
24:56
Speaker 3: little bit more mindful of how they're raising their sons.
25:00
Speaker 3: Be mindful of what you say about the other parent
25:03
Speaker 3: while you're around here, Like I don't have kids, and
25:04
Speaker 3: i'mna say out people with kids business. But as an observer,
25:08
Speaker 3: I do think that that's one of the biggest underlining
25:11
Speaker 3: issues with men right now. They have this fuck woman mentality.
25:16
Speaker 3: They actually have that I'm the prize mentality. But that's
25:18
Speaker 3: the story for another day. So I think we need
25:20
Speaker 3: to change that. And it starts with the people that's
25:22
Speaker 3: raising them in so they got me fucked up. The
25:25
Speaker 3: single moms, Well.
25:26
Speaker 1: Part two is the single Moms because I think you know,
25:34
Speaker 1: we're gonna talk about this more now before we go.
25:36
Speaker 1: It's called the mental health check in. I want to
25:39
Speaker 1: know ta mirror's state of mind. How is your mental
25:41
Speaker 1: health going, and what do you do to stay sharp?
25:45
Speaker 3: I smoke weed, but that's really how I kind of
25:49
Speaker 3: whenever I'm having a moment, I feel like my brain
25:51
Speaker 3: is getting scattered because I can't turn my brain off.
25:54
Speaker 3: I start thinking about things weed and prayer, and that
25:58
Speaker 3: sounds a little crazy, but I've had to tell myself,
26:01
Speaker 3: you can't be worried and believe in God at the
26:03
Speaker 3: same time. So I can't be up at night worrying
26:06
Speaker 3: and thinking about things and playing scenarios in my head
26:09
Speaker 3: and believe that God got me full heartily. So if
26:12
Speaker 3: I truly believe God got me, I cannot be up
26:15
Speaker 3: thinking about everything that could go wrong. And they say
26:18
Speaker 3: ninety eight percent of the things you think about don't
26:20
Speaker 3: really happen. So stay calm and mentally know what you
26:23
Speaker 3: can and cannot handle. Set boundaries. That's a big thing
26:26
Speaker 3: I think people need to learn. You don't have to
26:28
Speaker 3: say yes to everything, and I have a habit of that.
26:30
Speaker 1: Okay, we'll appreciate.
26:32
Speaker 2: Have you a therapist?
26:35
Speaker 3: I did? I was mandated therapy a few times. Got
26:40
Speaker 3: it so and your management one timey and my mom
26:44
Speaker 3: did some therapy, and then as an adult I did
26:47
Speaker 3: some therapy. But I'll be lying to my therapist. And
26:50
Speaker 3: if you are a lot of your therapists just just
26:52
Speaker 3: just wait.
26:53
Speaker 1: You cannot.
26:58
Speaker 3: Free shout out to Obamacare. But yo, yeah, don't want
27:03
Speaker 3: to get therapist. I do something called self therapy. Don't
27:07
Speaker 3: do this at home, people, But whenever I start, when
27:10
Speaker 3: I realized something about myself, why are you holding your
27:12
Speaker 3: head like I always want to be right. And I
27:15
Speaker 3: figured that out and that's just because I'm an only child.
27:18
Speaker 3: And my mom was like, you don't know that.
27:20
Speaker 4: You don't know that.
27:21
Speaker 3: So I have a habit of always thinking I'm right.
27:23
Speaker 3: So I put it in chat GPT. So whenever I
27:25
Speaker 3: have these moments, I go in chat GPT and I'd
27:28
Speaker 3: be like, act as a therapist and tell me why
27:31
Speaker 3: I act like this.
27:32
Speaker 1: This is bad.
27:33
Speaker 3: That's free self therapy. No, do what works for your people.
27:36
Speaker 1: Go to a professional.
27:37
Speaker 2: Go to a professional, to a professional.
27:38
Speaker 3: You know your self professionally.
27:41
Speaker 1: Yo. We appreciate you pulling up to the ball and
27:44
Speaker 1: Sha tell her how to follow you crazy.
27:46
Speaker 3: Hey, what's up?
27:46
Speaker 1: Guys?
27:47
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Speaker 1: We appreciate y'all. You're gonna make sure that she come
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Speaker 4: Mhm.