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The Show Goes On with Heather Martin · The Ben and Ashley I Almost Famous Podcast

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  Speaker 1: wedding dash Registry. This is the Benn and Ashley I
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  Speaker 1: Almost Famous podcast with our radio What's Up Everybody. We're
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  Speaker 1: adding a very very special guest today, Heather Martin is
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  Speaker 1: in studio with Ashley and I. What's up. Heather, Hi, guys,
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  Speaker 1: what's going and thanks for driving up from San Diego.
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  Speaker 1: Every time it's a it's a pleasure to have you
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  Speaker 1: in studio. We're super excited to talk about this week's episode.
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  Speaker 1: It feels like this season of the Bachelorette doesn't disappoint,
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  Speaker 1: even though I'll just start out right now and we're
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  Speaker 1: not gonna get into until later. I would say last
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  Speaker 1: night's episode very easily could have disappointed and probably did
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  Speaker 1: disappoint a lot of fans, especially with half the show
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  Speaker 1: just being you know, Hannah and Chris. It's no secret
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  Speaker 1: they needed a filler and that was it. But before
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  Speaker 1: we get in the show, I am sitting here. I
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  Speaker 1: just got back from Sean boost Jim in Nashville, Tennessee. Guys. Actually,
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  Speaker 1: I've been with you quite a bit here recently. You know,
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  Speaker 1: I've been trying to get in the shape and really
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  Speaker 1: trying hard to eat right, drink less, work out more.
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  Speaker 1: And it was the most humbling of experiences that I
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  Speaker 1: I mean, I was, I'm dead like be it's sad
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  Speaker 1: it's your first time working out there. Yeah, it's my
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  Speaker 1: first time working out there. And Heather and actually I
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  Speaker 1: don't know how you feel about this, but as good
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  Speaker 1: as good as shape as I'm in, whenever I get
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  Speaker 1: around people that are in better shape, it just kind
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  Speaker 1: of like defeats me because I look at them and
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  Speaker 1: they have muscles popping out of places that I there's
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  Speaker 1: no possibility that I could ever have muscle there um,
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  Speaker 1: and then they're always hairless. I feel like all the
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  Speaker 1: guys that are superjected are always hairless. How is that?
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  Speaker 1: And I don't think it's natural. Yeah, it's definitely not natural.
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  Speaker 1: They're like shave it so that the muscles pop even more.
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  Speaker 1: I mean, could you imagine like having a hairy chest
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  Speaker 1: like you and having like an eight pack, and then
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  Speaker 1: and then like the hair hiding the everything that you've
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  Speaker 1: worked so hard for. I have an eight pack underneath
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  Speaker 1: there already, haven't. You and Jared are very proud of
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  Speaker 1: your hairy chests. I like that though. Yeah, I think
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  Speaker 1: long term it's gonna be better for me. It would
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  Speaker 1: be weird if Ben Higgins had like a shave signy. Yeah. Man,
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  Speaker 1: you know, you're like a full grown man. You're not
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  Speaker 1: like trying. You're not selling yourself with your body. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: there you go. I don't want to do that. You know.
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  Speaker 1: One thing I've always said, I want to hear your
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  Speaker 1: thoughts on this. Ashley's got to hear me, and the
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  Speaker 1: listeners got to hear me quite a bit. I have
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  Speaker 1: a theory that if I start at a young age
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  Speaker 1: enjoying the things that I'll have to enjoy at an
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  Speaker 1: older age, like a hairy chest or like um, I
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  Speaker 1: enjoy a good bourbon in a book, or sitting in
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  Speaker 1: a rocking chair on the front porch and watching the
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  Speaker 1: birds or having a bird bath in the back. If
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  Speaker 1: I start enjoying those things now when I'm fifty and sixty,
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  Speaker 1: there ain't gonna be a let down in life. Like
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  Speaker 1: I'm just gonna continue to enjoy these things. That's my
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  Speaker 1: That's been my strategy for a while. So far, it's working.
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  Speaker 1: Some claim that will catch up with me. What if
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  Speaker 1: you switch and like later on you get worth with
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  Speaker 1: that and you want to go into the other life,
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  Speaker 1: you know, which is like what clubbing? Yeah, that would
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  Speaker 1: be awesome. I would be the six year old at
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  Speaker 1: the club with the slick back. I'm not there's always
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  Speaker 1: one that's really funny. Ben'll like his tattoos out and
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  Speaker 1: some leather. I mean he's got tattoos. I got. I
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  Speaker 1: got a good tattoo down my side. It's a Bible verse.
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  Speaker 1: So I don't know how that's gonna treat me if
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  Speaker 1: if I'm trying to go out to the club and
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  Speaker 1: buy it high people drinks. But anyways, life is good.
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  Speaker 1: I'm in Nashville to see right now with with Jess.
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  Speaker 1: It is her birthday on the NINTE that's tomorrow. Happy birthday, Jesse.
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  Speaker 1: I got to meet her for the first time this weekend.
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  Speaker 1: She's so lovely and watching the two of you together
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  Speaker 1: and your smile on your face looking at her is
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  Speaker 1: I could really watch it all day. It's so freaking cute.
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  Speaker 1: You know. You said something to me and then Jared
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  Speaker 1: did as well. Um, we got to spend some time
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  Speaker 1: together just taking out a couples and uh, you said
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  Speaker 1: that when when she talks, I admire her and I talk,
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  Speaker 1: she is admiring me. And I mentioned that to Jess,
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  Speaker 1: and I don't think either of us recognized it, but
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  Speaker 1: there is just a really amazing uh I guess encouragement
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  Speaker 1: and it's like a partnership. And I really enjoy my
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  Speaker 1: time with her. And it was great for you to
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  Speaker 1: get to meet her, um and spend some time with her,
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  Speaker 1: ash because you obviously mean so much to my life.
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  Speaker 1: So yeah, we got to spend some time together hang out,
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  Speaker 1: and I know that that Jess really enjoyed it. She
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  Speaker 1: is definitely everything that you guys out there and I
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  Speaker 1: would want for Ben Higgins. Um, your expence. Lauren Bushnell
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  Speaker 1: got engaged today or she got engaged a couple of
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  Speaker 1: days ago, and it was announced today to her country
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  Speaker 1: boyfriend Chris Lane. Um. So congrats the happy couple. They're
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  Speaker 1: such a they're so cute together. Ben. Do you have
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  Speaker 1: any thoughts on this? Uh? Yeah, I mean I think
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  Speaker 1: it's always I was talking to I mean, I talked
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  Speaker 1: to Jess about this obviously, we were chatting and she's like,
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  Speaker 1: how do you how does this make you feel? And
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  Speaker 1: do you feel anything towards this? And I was just
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  Speaker 1: talking to Jess. I was like, you know, I do
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  Speaker 1: feel something towards it, mostly because uh as Amy and
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  Speaker 1: Jess talked about a few weeks ago, like my life
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  Speaker 1: will always at some level be tied to Lauren Laurence
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  Speaker 1: to mind, like that's just part of it. When you're
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  Speaker 1: engaged for a period of time, or when you have
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  Speaker 1: a serious relationship at any point in your life, there
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  Speaker 1: you have a piece of them with you, and you
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  Speaker 1: know there's two ways to leave relationship. So you leave
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  Speaker 1: them maybe angry and resentful, or you leave them knowing
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  Speaker 1: it was for the best and that the world will
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  Speaker 1: and life will offer you great things afterwards. And that's
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  Speaker 1: how Lauren, I left our relationship. Quite honestly, we left
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  Speaker 1: it. It It wasn't easy and it and it wasn't always clean,
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  Speaker 1: and we had our our moments, and it was sad
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  Speaker 1: and it was hard, and it broke my heart. And
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  Speaker 1: I don't know. I mean, I'm sure you know some
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  Speaker 1: level brokers also, but ultimately we left that relationship, both
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  Speaker 1: of us. I think saying, I hope life brings you
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  Speaker 1: a ton of joy, like I don't want you upset
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  Speaker 1: and alone forever. I hope you find a partner as
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  Speaker 1: soon as possible. I hope everything that you want in
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  Speaker 1: this world, that it's healthy and good, is given to you.
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  Speaker 1: And that's exactly how I feel. Um, So to go
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  Speaker 1: to Lauren. Lauren, congratulations. We're thrilled for you. You found
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  Speaker 1: a man that you love and that without any pressure
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  Speaker 1: and in a moment, after dating for a long time, uh,
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  Speaker 1: you have said yes to spending your life with him,
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  Speaker 1: and I could not be more excited for you. I
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  Speaker 1: want nothing but joy and everything you ever wanted, that
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  Speaker 1: that our relationship wouldn't have brought you. And Chris congratulations.
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  Speaker 1: Now the second piece of this is that I hope
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  Speaker 1: for Lauren and myself is that my life isn't as
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  Speaker 1: closely tied to Lauren anymore. I hope that aren't reaching out.
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  Speaker 1: You would think that this would separate you, guys, but
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  Speaker 1: now I hope that this separates us. I hope that
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  Speaker 1: when something like this happens, the first phone call that
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  Speaker 1: the press makes is not to me and say, hey,
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  Speaker 1: your ex got engaged. What do you think? Because you
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  Speaker 1: know what I think. I think that it's great, and
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  Speaker 1: I think that it's good, and I think that it
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  Speaker 1: brings joy to me because I'm so happy and I
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  Speaker 1: am so fulfilled, and I found an amazing woman to
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  Speaker 1: spend my time with, and Lauren has now found an
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  Speaker 1: amazing man to spend her life with. And we're gonna
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  Speaker 1: move on and it's good for all. And so, in summary, Lauren, congrats, Chris, congrats.
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  Speaker 1: We wish you the best. Here, I wish you the best,
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  Speaker 1: My family wishes you the best. Jessica, wish you the best.
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  Speaker 1: And next, Hey, I hope this is a chapter being
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  Speaker 1: closed completely because I don't know Lauren anymore. My life
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  Speaker 1: isn't tieder. I have one more question before we wrap
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  Speaker 1: up the Lauren talk. If you weren't with Jess right
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  Speaker 1: now and you weren't so happy and fulfilled and completely
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  Speaker 1: head over heels herself, would today be harder? Um, it's
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  Speaker 1: hard to say, right. I think I could see it
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  Speaker 1: go in one of two ways. It's a good question
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  Speaker 1: because if I wasn't with Jess, and maybe I hadn't
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  Speaker 1: found somebody that made me so happy, I think this
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  Speaker 1: just being human honestly would have made me go, wow,
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  Speaker 1: what am I missing? Well? You know, what's my issues?
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  Speaker 1: Why can't I find find what she is now? Founder
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  Speaker 1: Why am I alone and struggling? Those are the questions
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  Speaker 1: that would I probably would ask myself. I think when
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  Speaker 1: it comes to my tie to Lauren, Uh, it took
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  Speaker 1: a while. You knew this the podcast. I think knew this.
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  Speaker 1: It was it wasn't an immediate like uh ending for
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  Speaker 1: me and Lauren. Like I had feelings for her for
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  Speaker 1: a long time. I still care about her. I've I've
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  Speaker 1: said that recently. Like I care about her. I want
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  Speaker 1: what's best for her, and if her life weren't to
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  Speaker 1: go in a great direction, it would it would hurt me.
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  Speaker 1: And I don't want anything bad for her, So if
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  Speaker 1: this was something that made her happy. I hope that
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  Speaker 1: I am um a person. Maybe I wouldn't be, but
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  Speaker 1: I hope I have a strong enough foundation to where
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  Speaker 1: I wouldn't be resentful but yet celebrate her and her happiness,
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  Speaker 1: but also reflect on where I was at and where
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  Speaker 1: and if I was alone at this point. It's ever
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  Speaker 1: fun to see an X, you know, get engaged while
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  Speaker 1: you sit there alone in your room, going, well, this
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  Speaker 1: is fun, Um. But the truth is that's not the case.
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  Speaker 1: I'm happy, she's happy. She's engaged to. Lauren Bushnell is
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  Speaker 1: now engaged to Chris Lane. He wrote some song for
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  Speaker 1: I bet it's good. I haven't listen to it. I was.
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  Speaker 1: Here's one thing I'd like to comment on. I looked
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  Speaker 1: at the pictures before the podcast of the two of them.
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  Speaker 1: I didn't know how it feel. Jessica is sitting beside me, Um,
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  Speaker 1: and I saw the smile on Lauren's face, and it's
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  Speaker 1: a smile I never saw. And I couldn't be happier
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  Speaker 1: for that. I couldn't be happier that she has a
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  Speaker 1: smile with Chris um from ear to ear, and that
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  Speaker 1: it looks so good and so pure, and uh, I'm
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  Speaker 1: glad that that smile is on her face because it
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  Speaker 1: is a real smile of happiness. That's really interesting you
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  Speaker 1: say that because before you got on the phone, how
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  Speaker 1: there said to me? She goes just looking at Lawrence Instagram.
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  Speaker 1: There's a different light around her with Chris. Yep, there is?
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  Speaker 1: And do we not want that? For? I mean, no
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  Speaker 1: matter what, like I hope, I hope if if this
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  Speaker 1: was the ugliest breakup ever, it brings me. I was
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  Speaker 1: at a church service four years ago and I remember
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  Speaker 1: this and it said that when you hold resentment towards
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  Speaker 1: somebody and ultimately just handcuffs you, and like would I mean,
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  Speaker 1: what what does it do for me? Wishing anything but
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  Speaker 1: really great things for her and for Chris. All Right, well, Ben,
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  Speaker 1: you're just You're the greatest. Before we move on to
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  Speaker 1: breaking down this episode, but before we get into that,
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  Speaker 1: I've got to tell you about my new bathroom. Okay,
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  Speaker 1: it's not new, it's still in my apartment, but it
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  Speaker 1: feels way more luxurious than it has because of crete
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  Speaker 1: and barrel and Jared and my Crate and Barrel Registry,
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  Speaker 1: we have gotten the most soft, luscious towels, great bath products,
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  Speaker 1: and the coziest bathrobe I've ever used in my life.
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  Speaker 1: It just feels more relaxing when I shower and get
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  Speaker 1: ready because I have this lovely, smelling and lovely looking bathroom.
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  Speaker 1: So we registered for all this stuff with our Crate
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  Speaker 1: and Barrel Wedding Registry, and it's made my morning routine
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  Speaker 1: so nice, and especially with all the stress leading up
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  Speaker 1: to the wedding, having that nice bathtime with the shampoos
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  Speaker 1: and the lotions and the candles and the Turkish towels
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  Speaker 1: and the soft cozy bath mats against my feed have
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  Speaker 1: made my days more enjoyable for me. I love too.
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  Speaker 1: I like to take showers at night. It kind of
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  Speaker 1: just unwinds me, so I get to I get to
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  Speaker 1: take that relaxing shower and then slip into the nicest
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  Speaker 1: bedding I've ever had, which we also got from Creating
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  Speaker 1: Barrels because they have a whole, you know, a whole
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  Speaker 1: department full of duvet's sheets, pillows, comforters, and that helps
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  Speaker 1: our cozy times snuggling and scrolling on our phones in
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  Speaker 1: bed even better. And m another favorite thing that I
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  Speaker 1: got from my register didn't have been using a ton
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  Speaker 1: lately is my juicer I can't believe I got the juicer.
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  Speaker 1: I screamed when I opened it, screamed with joy, and
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  Speaker 1: it is actually transforming the way that I eat because
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  Speaker 1: I've been drinking sailor juice and like some kale juices
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  Speaker 1: which are really getting my diet going for the wedding.
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  Speaker 1: So if you guys are engaged out there, we highly
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  Speaker 1: for you real quick? Can I get personal with everybody
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  Speaker 1: out there? Yeah? I mean you always? Yeah. So here's
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  Speaker 1: what's happened. I went on a run recently, got super sweaty,
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  Speaker 1: had my headphones on. They're the bows headphones, not the
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  Speaker 1: ones you're meant to run in now, the small like vinegar.
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  Speaker 1: How do you get rid of this smell? Can? I
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  Speaker 1: don't know if I do. Maybe vinegar got spilt on
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  Speaker 1: it sometime somehow Jessica thinks I had had this salad
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  Speaker 1: with like a balsamic vinegar dressing, and she thinks somehow
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  Speaker 1: I got spilt on my headphones. But is there a
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  Speaker 1: way to get the smell out of these padded headphones? Uh?
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  Speaker 1: I would just say put a Clorox wipe on it. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: a little soap form. Yeah. Well, if anybody out there
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  Speaker 1: knows what I'm talking about, Uh, please emails that didn't
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  Speaker 1: Ashley at iHeart meat dot Com. I was like, how
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  Speaker 1: is it going to roll this over into the episode? Hey?
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  Speaker 1: Speaking of weird things, speaking of getting personal, let's get
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  Speaker 1: really honest right now, Heather, I need you to let
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  Speaker 1: down all of your guards. Um, nobody listens to this
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  Speaker 1: podcast except recently. We were just told we have over
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  Speaker 1: fifteen million downloads. I don't know who they are. But
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  Speaker 1: let's talk about this week's episode. Alright. I want to
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  Speaker 1: enter this week's episode talking about leading up to this point.
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  Speaker 1: Let's go about it this way. Did you guys feel
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  Speaker 1: lost going into this episode? Like? Did you need a recap? Oh?
• 17:27
  Speaker 1: You mean like the second half of the episode, which
• 17:30
  Speaker 1: I was very just weird because we got the chat
• 17:33
  Speaker 1: with Chris Harrison for like ten minutes at that cafe,
• 17:37
  Speaker 1: and please tell me how to say the country's name.
• 17:41
  Speaker 1: Oh yeah, let's laugh at let's laughya oh, but it
• 17:46
  Speaker 1: has a v okay laughya um. And then he was like,
• 17:51
  Speaker 1: let's go home to the mansion to talk for another
• 17:54
  Speaker 1: hour about the media. It was like an immediate switch.
• 17:57
  Speaker 1: And yeah, it was like, wait, didn't we just talk
• 17:59
  Speaker 1: about this stuff in a cafe and nothing? What the
• 18:06
  Speaker 1: hell is wrong with me? Guys? Latvia latvia? Okay? Um?
• 18:10
  Speaker 1: So follow along here with me. Did this lead somewhere?
• 18:15
  Speaker 1: Did we need to recap? Yes? Or no? No? I
• 18:17
  Speaker 1: don't think so. No, no, we didn't need a recap. Okay.
• 18:19
  Speaker 1: So the second part of the episode, we've agreed is
• 18:21
  Speaker 1: a filler because either too much craziness has happened towards
• 18:25
  Speaker 1: the end of this this season that they had to
• 18:28
  Speaker 1: kind of postpone some stuff, or not enough happened this
• 18:32
  Speaker 1: season the true I mean, it's got to be they wanted.
• 18:37
  Speaker 1: They must have wanted this hour in addition to like
• 18:40
  Speaker 1: another full episode, So like, let's make this episode a
• 18:44
  Speaker 1: half episode. We just they probably needed like a point
• 18:49
  Speaker 1: in time where they just needed another hour. I think
• 18:52
  Speaker 1: they wanted to continue with that Luke stuff because like
• 18:54
  Speaker 1: there wasn't enough time the last episode to like fully
• 18:56
  Speaker 1: get into it. Like the first well, I feel like
• 19:00
  Speaker 1: weeks was actually a little bit stretched out too with
• 19:02
  Speaker 1: the Luke stuff because Luke had a whole thirty minute
• 19:05
  Speaker 1: scene last last episode. So this is perfect. You guys
• 19:08
  Speaker 1: are leading right where on us to go. And this
• 19:11
  Speaker 1: is what I'm reading from most of our emails and
• 19:12
  Speaker 1: most of our Twitter responses. People have felt now at
• 19:17
  Speaker 1: this point that the Luke stuff has been too drawn out?
• 19:21
  Speaker 1: Did we need this much Luke stuff? Was it a
• 19:24
  Speaker 1: smart decision for the show to continue? Are you sick
• 19:26
  Speaker 1: of it? Are you tired of it? Are you let's
• 19:28
  Speaker 1: just do this. I want you to to talk back
• 19:30
  Speaker 1: and forth, um, and then I'll close it out here.
• 19:33
  Speaker 1: But are you sick and tired of Luke? Do you
• 19:36
  Speaker 1: feel bad for him? Are you on his team? What
• 19:38
  Speaker 1: are your emotions? Because quite honestly, and we had the
• 19:41
  Speaker 1: same issue last week, it's hard to break down these
• 19:44
  Speaker 1: episodes because nothing is actually happening. Oh my gosh. Then
• 19:49
  Speaker 1: when I sat down yesterday to do my Cosmo recap,
• 19:52
  Speaker 1: I was like, Jared, I don't know what to say,
• 19:56
  Speaker 1: there's nothing for me to interpret, analyze take away from
• 20:00
  Speaker 1: this episode because it was just They're like, I could
• 20:03
  Speaker 1: have said it in three sentences what happened, And so
• 20:06
  Speaker 1: I ended up for the second half of my recap
• 20:09
  Speaker 1: breaking down the super tease, which I think we're gonna
• 20:11
  Speaker 1: do here, but I have to say that there there
• 20:14
  Speaker 1: are a couple there. These are my three sentences as
• 20:16
  Speaker 1: far as recapping this episode, Hannah was dominant the way
• 20:22
  Speaker 1: she stood up for herself and was like, you guys,
• 20:25
  Speaker 1: you're all turning me off. I can handle the Luke
• 20:27
  Speaker 1: situation on my own. Please trust me with this. I
• 20:30
  Speaker 1: don't need your help. And you guys are being not
• 20:35
  Speaker 1: very appealing to me because you just keep talking about
• 20:39
  Speaker 1: this one guy. I think Garrett totally blew it for
• 20:41
  Speaker 1: himself Herett's being extremely hypocritical because he's like, Luke, take
• 20:46
  Speaker 1: everybody's name out of your mouth, but then he just
• 20:49
  Speaker 1: keeps putting Luke's name in his mouth. Put yourself in
• 20:53
  Speaker 1: the situation. You're the bachelor, You're Hannah. Garrett comes in
• 20:58
  Speaker 1: to the room, sits down with you, uh, says, hey,
• 21:03
  Speaker 1: you know I have an issue with this guy. I
• 21:06
  Speaker 1: can't stop talking about this guy every time the guy
• 21:07
  Speaker 1: walks in the room and makes some smart, smart alec
• 21:10
  Speaker 1: comment to him. Are you turned off or turned on?
• 21:14
  Speaker 1: I'm completely turned off. I don't like that at all.
• 21:16
  Speaker 1: I feel like it's unnecessary and just kind of shows
• 21:18
  Speaker 1: like different motives. I feel like the guys that she like,
• 21:21
  Speaker 1: really likes, like didn't do that, like theay out of it. Yeah,
• 21:24
  Speaker 1: just stay out of it. It just it doesn't matter.
• 21:25
  Speaker 1: He's gonna like dig his own grave. Like why are
• 21:28
  Speaker 1: you spending like the ten minutes we get to talk
• 21:30
  Speaker 1: about him? You know? Yeah, this is the first episode
• 21:33
  Speaker 1: I know I've acknowledged that. I've never We've never had
• 21:36
  Speaker 1: a season where the villain or even any cast member
• 21:40
  Speaker 1: besides the lead, has so much air time and so
• 21:43
  Speaker 1: much attention than Luke. But this was the first time
• 21:46
  Speaker 1: where I was like, Okay, I'm really done with the
• 21:48
  Speaker 1: Luke thing. I found myself on my phone a bit
• 21:50
  Speaker 1: during this episode, and the shining moments were definitely Hannah
• 21:55
  Speaker 1: just calling the guys out. And then when Hannah wasn't
• 21:58
  Speaker 1: in front of the guys speaking her mind, I was like, Okay,
• 22:01
  Speaker 1: I'm over this. Yeah, that was definitely Hannah's parts like
• 22:04
  Speaker 1: that was the only part of the episode I really liked.
• 22:05
  Speaker 1: Is like I was like, WHOA, Hannah's being so herself
• 22:08
  Speaker 1: and I don't think I've ever seen like the Bachelor
• 22:11
  Speaker 1: like talk to all the guys guys in that way.
• 22:14
  Speaker 1: I just it was crazy. Everything about this season is
• 22:18
  Speaker 1: like a little bit different. It's like more raw, because
• 22:22
  Speaker 1: she truly does not give a crap a lot, and
• 22:24
  Speaker 1: I think like she's looking at these group of guys
• 22:27
  Speaker 1: and being so overwhelmed by their drama and their obsession
• 22:30
  Speaker 1: with Luke that he She's like, you know what, I
• 22:32
  Speaker 1: don't even need one of you and one of these
• 22:35
  Speaker 1: without one of you, it's fine because I think she's
• 22:39
  Speaker 1: becoming so confident and loving herself so much. She's like,
• 22:43
  Speaker 1: I don't need no man. Yeah, I think so too.
• 22:46
  Speaker 1: I know she's killing it early. I might play a
• 22:49
  Speaker 1: little bit of Devil's advocate here and say I do
• 22:53
  Speaker 1: see her being not caring a little bit. I also
• 22:56
  Speaker 1: think the opposite is that she cares a lot and
• 22:59
  Speaker 1: that she she I'm just goes back to what we
• 23:02
  Speaker 1: were talking about being in the season. We thought she
• 23:05
  Speaker 1: wouldn't fit the royal batchelrette, like she was the one.
• 23:07
  Speaker 1: They were like, yeah, she's gonna be like the everyday person.
• 23:10
  Speaker 1: What I'm seeing instead is she actually is very calm
• 23:13
  Speaker 1: as the bacherette and fits that role perfectly because she
• 23:16
  Speaker 1: can manage and handle a bunch of little boys being
• 23:20
  Speaker 1: little boys. One guy stands up above the rest, though,
• 23:24
  Speaker 1: and I know the woman out there will love to
• 23:25
  Speaker 1: talk about it. He stands up above the rest, is
• 23:28
  Speaker 1: not a little boy and puts his foot down. And
• 23:31
  Speaker 1: that's Peter had a good feeling about all season. People
• 23:34
  Speaker 1: have loved all season. He hasn't engaged in this craziness. Connor,
• 23:39
  Speaker 1: Peter Tyler, Luda knew on neither as Tyler Tyler has
• 23:43
  Speaker 1: not ann either. Oh yeah, I guess Connor hasn't either.
• 23:47
  Speaker 1: And and we see Peter finally say, gents, this is
• 23:51
  Speaker 1: absolutely ridiculous. This is stupid. You guys are being idiots,
• 23:55
  Speaker 1: Like you're ruining a really good thing here, and you're
• 23:58
  Speaker 1: ruining an experience that we all want to have. Yet,
• 24:01
  Speaker 1: what happens, and here's something that I want you to
• 24:04
  Speaker 1: to take with Until this week, he's been one of
• 24:07
  Speaker 1: the fan favorites. People have liked him. Garrett not even
• 24:10
  Speaker 1: in my top six right now, yeah, he ruins it
• 24:13
  Speaker 1: because who speaks up right away? Garrett does, brings a
• 24:16
  Speaker 1: conversation right back, can't get rid of it. He is
• 24:18
  Speaker 1: obsessed with Luke Pe obsessed. He kept going like I thought,
• 24:21
  Speaker 1: like lastly he said a couple of times, and then
• 24:23
  Speaker 1: he said it again, and then he said it again,
• 24:25
  Speaker 1: like what are you doing? Yeah, no, he definitely has
• 24:28
  Speaker 1: proven that he is more infatuated with Luke pe drama
• 24:32
  Speaker 1: than he is with him. Yeah, absolutely no. But I
• 24:34
  Speaker 1: loved when Peter said that, Like Peter said that out
• 24:36
  Speaker 1: of like actual care. Didn't feel like he was like
• 24:38
  Speaker 1: trying to say it because like he felt that it
• 24:40
  Speaker 1: was like the right thing to say, Like he seems
• 24:42
  Speaker 1: like you actually affected by like Hannah being upset, and
• 24:46
  Speaker 1: I actually cared about her. So, now, what did we
• 24:48
  Speaker 1: think about the Chris Harrison chat in which she was like,
• 24:51
  Speaker 1: I really don't know if I'm going to find anything
• 24:53
  Speaker 1: through this. I don't know how people do. I think
• 24:58
  Speaker 1: she just panicked. I think she was like and that,
• 25:00
  Speaker 1: like she was like it was like week five or
• 25:02
  Speaker 1: week six, and she was like, yeah, we're done with
• 25:04
  Speaker 1: weeks six? Was that by definition? Yeah? So she was
• 25:08
  Speaker 1: episode six? She was just I think she was just
• 25:10
  Speaker 1: in the state where she's like, oh my gosh, like
• 25:11
  Speaker 1: I don't have fully developed relationships like any of these guys,
• 25:16
  Speaker 1: Like how am I supposed to get engaged in three
• 25:18
  Speaker 1: weeks and kind of like went into panic mode. I
• 25:20
  Speaker 1: think I have thoughts on this, remember this three or
• 25:24
  Speaker 1: four weeks, four weeks, we'll say, I remember sitting at
• 25:28
  Speaker 1: the same scenario, and there's some great people involved in
• 25:33
  Speaker 1: this process. But about week five or six, you still
• 25:36
  Speaker 1: have what I would call like some people that are
• 25:38
  Speaker 1: left over, not your top three, not the people you're
• 25:41
  Speaker 1: super interested in, and any relationship becomes very foggy because
• 25:46
  Speaker 1: the time with each person is still pretty short, and
• 25:49
  Speaker 1: so you're sitting there and all you can really do.
• 25:52
  Speaker 1: It's hard. It's hard to compartmentalize each relationship at this
• 25:55
  Speaker 1: point because you don't have really in depth relationships. You
• 25:58
  Speaker 1: have some good moments with people, but yet you know
• 26:01
  Speaker 1: that even like, for example, the Garretts, I'm sure she
• 26:03
  Speaker 1: was in the garrett and then this week he you know,
• 26:05
  Speaker 1: goes and starts becoming a little boy, and she's like, well,
• 26:07
  Speaker 1: this ruin this relationship too. It's it's this week really
• 26:11
  Speaker 1: that is probably the hardest for any lead, because you
• 26:14
  Speaker 1: look around you like, everybody here is weird. Everybody here
• 26:17
  Speaker 1: is arguing, nobody's into me, nobody stands up of the crowd,
• 26:21
  Speaker 1: like everybody is in this fight. And then as time continues,
• 26:26
  Speaker 1: and maybe when she watches it back and she sees
• 26:28
  Speaker 1: the whole thing play out, she realizes that, yeah, the Peters,
• 26:31
  Speaker 1: the Tyler is, the Connors, they were never involved, and
• 26:35
  Speaker 1: that those guys that she ends up probably being most into,
• 26:37
  Speaker 1: and that we can kind of tell that she already
• 26:39
  Speaker 1: is pretty into actually, did you know, go above the
• 26:42
  Speaker 1: reproach and like make things happen? But I get it,
• 26:45
  Speaker 1: she's probably just overwhelmed. Did you have one of those
• 26:48
  Speaker 1: moments where you're like it might be really yeah, definitely. Yeah.
• 26:52
  Speaker 1: Here's the scenario. I was in the Bahamas. I was
• 26:55
  Speaker 1: on a group date. It was a pig date. We
• 26:57
  Speaker 1: left the pig date and I was sitting there and
• 27:00
  Speaker 1: one of the producers comes in. He's like, every woman
• 27:01
  Speaker 1: here is really upset with you because what happened was
• 27:05
  Speaker 1: they got to see you talk to other women in
• 27:07
  Speaker 1: front of them for the first time, and every woman
• 27:10
  Speaker 1: here feels like Leod outside, right, now and you've done
• 27:13
  Speaker 1: that because of how much affection or attention you showed
• 27:16
  Speaker 1: each person in front of the others, and now everybody
• 27:19
  Speaker 1: here wants to leave. And I was like, well that, yeah,
• 27:22
  Speaker 1: I mean, how do you fix that? Like this was
• 27:25
  Speaker 1: the moment where I had this idea that yeah, this
• 27:26
  Speaker 1: was all done. I've messed up and there's no turning back.
• 27:31
  Speaker 1: I've ruined these relationships and as a as a result,
• 27:34
  Speaker 1: like this is gonna end in nothing good happening, Like
• 27:37
  Speaker 1: you feel like the whole thing is slipping out from
• 27:39
  Speaker 1: underneath you. I would just encourage her to say, give
• 27:42
  Speaker 1: it two more weeks, uh, continue to filter through some
• 27:44
  Speaker 1: of those guys that are just aren't really adding up
• 27:47
  Speaker 1: in her mind, and then then it will be a
• 27:50
  Speaker 1: brighter future. Here's the funny part about this thing, though,
• 27:53
  Speaker 1: and you mentioned it, and I think we should move
• 27:55
  Speaker 1: on to it. So really, what we've talked about in
• 27:58
  Speaker 1: this podcast so far, and I think we're doing a
• 28:00
  Speaker 1: fine job of breaking this down, is Luke p admits
• 28:05
  Speaker 1: that he isn't doing the right thing. Who knows why
• 28:07
  Speaker 1: he says it, if it's just to say it, or
• 28:09
  Speaker 1: if he really means it. The guys are still so
• 28:11
  Speaker 1: angry at luke P, and he's not going to fix that.
• 28:14
  Speaker 1: There's no forgiving luke P at this point. He's they
• 28:18
  Speaker 1: just hate him and he's a complete and complete isolation
• 28:21
  Speaker 1: from the group. And that's about all that's happened until
• 28:25
  Speaker 1: we move into this conversation with Chris Harrison and Hannah.
• 28:27
  Speaker 1: So we've skipped over forty five minutes of television with
• 28:33
  Speaker 1: really two points. Luke P admits he's he has failures,
• 28:36
  Speaker 1: Hannah keeps him around, and the guys hate him. And
• 28:39
  Speaker 1: now we go Chris Harrison Hannah for the breakdown to
• 28:41
  Speaker 1: where we want to find out where is she at
• 28:44
  Speaker 1: in her time as a bachelor atte we find out
• 28:46
  Speaker 1: she's not a great place. What's your response to that.
• 28:51
  Speaker 1: I think it kind of goes off what you were
• 28:53
  Speaker 1: just saying. She at this This is a weird point
• 28:57
  Speaker 1: of the competition quote quote where she hasn't had more
• 29:01
  Speaker 1: than she hasn't even had one on ones with all
• 29:04
  Speaker 1: of these guys and the guys that she really likes.
• 29:07
  Speaker 1: She's she hasn't even had a one on one with Peter,
• 29:10
  Speaker 1: which is crazy. So I think that but she's only
• 29:15
  Speaker 1: had like nine hours of quality time with the guys
• 29:18
  Speaker 1: that she likes, and you don't really you kind of
• 29:20
  Speaker 1: forget about that time when you are so overwhelmed with
• 29:23
  Speaker 1: the other drama, with the loop drama, and it was
• 29:25
  Speaker 1: like a couple of weeks ago, you know, like even
• 29:28
  Speaker 1: now in Scotland or in Latvia. Um, she's two weeks
• 29:32
  Speaker 1: removed from even her gate with Tyler C. So of
• 29:35
  Speaker 1: course she's not like Tyler is not like prominent in
• 29:37
  Speaker 1: her mind right now when the guys just keep bickering.
• 29:41
  Speaker 1: She's not like, oh remember that time in Newport where
• 29:44
  Speaker 1: I had such a great day with Tyler C. Like no,
• 29:46
  Speaker 1: she's just not thinking about that. Her mindsets totally whacked out.
• 29:50
  Speaker 1: And I think this Chris Harrison chat was just a
• 29:53
  Speaker 1: reset button for her. Yeah, I think she needed I
• 29:56
  Speaker 1: think Hannah is the person who's like whatever is right
• 29:59
  Speaker 1: in front of her is like her whole world, like
• 30:01
  Speaker 1: what's going on? So I think in this situation she
• 30:03
  Speaker 1: was just like I went into panic mode and was
• 30:05
  Speaker 1: like I'm done, I can't So I think she needed
• 30:08
  Speaker 1: the reset for sure. Totally all right, I am I
• 30:12
  Speaker 1: want to have a little girl chat, as we call
• 30:14
  Speaker 1: it on the show. Whenever you see like two people together,
• 30:18
  Speaker 1: um talking about a situation going on. We called a
• 30:22
  Speaker 1: girl chat or guy chat. So I'm gonna have a
• 30:24
  Speaker 1: little girl chat with how The in just one minute.
• 30:27
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• 30:33
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• 30:36
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• 30:40
  Speaker 1: wanted you to do that so bad for her. Well
• 30:43
  Speaker 1: now it's not appropriate. Yeah, that's a good point. Amy
• 30:46
  Speaker 1: was into that, you know what. That was the moment
• 30:49
  Speaker 1: with Amy that I was like, you know what, I
• 30:50
  Speaker 1: don't know what's getting said here, but I'm not against
• 30:52
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• 31:28
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• 31:30
  Speaker 1: I was worried at first, quite honestly, that purchasing Blue
• 31:34
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• 31:37
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• 31:39
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• 31:45
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• 32:44
  Speaker 1: time with Heather now because we don't have to talk
• 32:46
  Speaker 1: to Ben about you know, you're kissing history. You know,
• 32:50
  Speaker 1: the whole world already really knows about it at this point. Yeah.
• 32:54
  Speaker 1: So you had your first kiss with Colton Underwood just
• 32:57
  Speaker 1: a matter of like nine months ago. I guess, like,
• 33:00
  Speaker 1: have you kissed another guy since I haven't, Alright, so
• 33:05
  Speaker 1: we don't know whether or not you'll be getting a
• 33:08
  Speaker 1: kiss in Paradise. We can only hope. But let's go
• 33:12
  Speaker 1: through Hannah's group of guys and the kind of chemistry
• 33:17
  Speaker 1: that they have together because you're you know, you know
• 33:20
  Speaker 1: what you're doing now. I know, I'm an ex. So yeah,
• 33:23
  Speaker 1: and you had a really good first kiss. It was like,
• 33:26
  Speaker 1: it was the easiest first kiss I've ever seen. I
• 33:29
  Speaker 1: didn't cringe with awkwardness at all, no wincing. It was great.
• 33:34
  Speaker 1: That's what I was terrified of, So thank you. Oh
• 33:37
  Speaker 1: it was treasure. Okay, So the kisses that are standing
• 33:41
  Speaker 1: out to me right now are jed because she straddled
• 33:44
  Speaker 1: him last week. Yeah, that's um. Then we had Tyler
• 33:50
  Speaker 1: c where she said I have something for you and
• 33:53
  Speaker 1: then pushed him onto the bed. What is that? What
• 33:56
  Speaker 1: does she have? Okay, I know I loved that. My
• 34:01
  Speaker 1: sister is like seventies and um. And then there was
• 34:06
  Speaker 1: the kind of sort of romantic, innocent, a little messed
• 34:11
  Speaker 1: up kiss with Peter on the pool table. I thought
• 34:14
  Speaker 1: it was adorable. That was my favorite one. It was. Okay,
• 34:17
  Speaker 1: So of those three, which one do you think has
• 34:19
  Speaker 1: the best kiss chemistry? Is the Peter one, the one
• 34:21
  Speaker 1: that you would have wanted the most? Which one was
• 34:24
  Speaker 1: the hottest though? To watch? I think the hottest watch.
• 34:28
  Speaker 1: I think probably the Tyler one. Yeah, I agree. That
• 34:31
  Speaker 1: just seemed like the most like it was the most
• 34:33
  Speaker 1: into him, like she was one initiating it. It was
• 34:36
  Speaker 1: on a bed. I mean, yeah, I think that was
• 34:38
  Speaker 1: definitely I agree. And then in the teaser, the super teaser,
• 34:43
  Speaker 1: which is really the best part to come out of
• 34:45
  Speaker 1: yesterday's episode. It was so good, so much to analyze.
• 34:51
  Speaker 1: We'll get to that soon. But the best, the best
• 34:54
  Speaker 1: part to the most steamy part to me was when
• 34:58
  Speaker 1: she was on that massage table with Tyler, and then
• 35:01
  Speaker 1: right into that when we went into that whole like
• 35:05
  Speaker 1: sex chat where she was she said the thing about
• 35:11
  Speaker 1: sex between a merrit and a marriage, and then with
• 35:14
  Speaker 1: you know that Jesus still loves her. But then we
• 35:16
  Speaker 1: had the bombshell, which was the Luke p he wants
• 35:20
  Speaker 1: to keep the marriage bed pure and he said he
• 35:24
  Speaker 1: was going to leave if Yeah, so I have this
• 35:27
  Speaker 1: big theory. Maybe we should get to it in a
• 35:29
  Speaker 1: little bit, but I do feel like if any makeout
• 35:32
  Speaker 1: leads to more, it's gonna be that Tyler see one
• 35:36
  Speaker 1: in the massage room. Do you think like not doing
• 35:39
  Speaker 1: fantasy states, Yeah, I'm thinking should could full Caitlin. Well,
• 35:43
  Speaker 1: if um, that conversation between Hannah and and Luke happens
• 35:50
  Speaker 1: before fantasy suites, like a date before they go into
• 35:53
  Speaker 1: the fantasy suite, then that would mean that one he
• 35:55
  Speaker 1: got really far and true. So there's that that's true.
• 36:00
  Speaker 1: So there's that. So that if you're saying that it
• 36:02
  Speaker 1: has sex happens after or in a fantasy suite, then
• 36:07
  Speaker 1: it's either it's yeah, Luke gets really far exactly Luke,
• 36:09
  Speaker 1: it's really far, or before I didn't even think possibility
• 36:12
  Speaker 1: of before. I think it was in my mind only
• 36:15
  Speaker 1: went to fantasis me too. I guess that Tyler gets
• 36:18
  Speaker 1: that far then, which is freakish. Who knows? Yeah, okay, well,
• 36:23
  Speaker 1: I mean but if I think she sleeps with anyone before,
• 36:27
  Speaker 1: I think you would be Tyler Tyler. But these are
• 36:29
  Speaker 1: all assumptions and I don't want to like make these
• 36:31
  Speaker 1: inferences that just absolutely may not be true. But then
• 36:35
  Speaker 1: she goes, I did have sex, Yeah, but you have?
• 36:39
  Speaker 1: Did you think she was talking about like? I didn't
• 36:41
  Speaker 1: think she's talking about on the show. I think she's
• 36:43
  Speaker 1: only talking about on the show. I was thinking. My
• 36:45
  Speaker 1: perception was because like with Colton, she told him like,
• 36:48
  Speaker 1: I've had sex before, but a new wait for my
• 36:50
  Speaker 1: husband the next person, so I was thinking that she
• 36:52
  Speaker 1: was referring to that. Do you think she really said
• 36:54
  Speaker 1: that she was going to wait for her husband? Did
• 36:56
  Speaker 1: she say that she said, oh she did see there
• 37:00
  Speaker 1: she wanted to. I don't know. I think I know.
• 37:03
  Speaker 1: I thought throughout the entire season that that teaser meant
• 37:07
  Speaker 1: that she's, you know, done it before, But last night's
• 37:11
  Speaker 1: specific teaser her tone was like, well, guess what, I've
• 37:16
  Speaker 1: already done it that's how I interpreted that. Okay, well,
• 37:20
  Speaker 1: since we're already since we're already talking deep in breaking
• 37:23
  Speaker 1: down the trailer as mine as well, like I'll give
• 37:26
  Speaker 1: you my whole thoughts. Okay. I do think that that
• 37:30
  Speaker 1: Luke gets to fantasy suitets I guess based on the trailer,
• 37:36
  Speaker 1: and that this conversation that she has with him about
• 37:40
  Speaker 1: the pure marriage bad just like kind of weird to say.
• 37:46
  Speaker 1: I feel like she's probably referring to having a previous
• 37:52
  Speaker 1: fantasy suite with some other guy in which she did
• 37:55
  Speaker 1: sleep with him, because Luke is basically saying right now,
• 37:59
  Speaker 1: I you bet or not have slept with anyone else
• 38:01
  Speaker 1: so far. He's like, I think the thing that bothered
• 38:05
  Speaker 1: me about that is like he can have his opinion
• 38:08
  Speaker 1: that like he wants to wait to marriage whatever. Think
• 38:09
  Speaker 1: there's a thing wrong with that. I think it's what
• 38:11
  Speaker 1: bothered her, And what is bad about that is that
• 38:13
  Speaker 1: he was like trying to control her and she was
• 38:15
  Speaker 1: just like that's why she freaked out, right, yeah, oh yeah, absolutely,
• 38:19
  Speaker 1: Like not the fact that he has that opinion. I
• 38:21
  Speaker 1: think she likes that, but I think she was actually
• 38:24
  Speaker 1: attracted to that about him. I think it's when he
• 38:26
  Speaker 1: started to like control her and then nothing she said that,
• 38:28
  Speaker 1: I think because she must have been like, oh, sorry
• 38:32
  Speaker 1: to tell you, and just not exactly how it's gone down.
• 38:36
  Speaker 1: And then after hearing that he that she did sleep
• 38:40
  Speaker 1: with somebody else, he lost it because it's a competition
• 38:44
  Speaker 1: thing with him, it could be a religious thing with him,
• 38:47
  Speaker 1: and it's definitely, as you say, a control thing. So
• 38:51
  Speaker 1: hearing that, I think his mind was blown. He reacted
• 38:55
  Speaker 1: without giving himself any self control and called her a
• 38:59
  Speaker 1: slight jimming names. So you think that she freaked out
• 39:02
  Speaker 1: after he got mad, rather than like just him saying like, oh,
• 39:05
  Speaker 1: I don't I don't like that you did that. You
• 39:06
  Speaker 1: think he got mad because she said something like, oh,
• 39:08
  Speaker 1: actually I alreadys left to someone here. It's the only
• 39:10
  Speaker 1: thing in which I can see that conversation about the
• 39:16
  Speaker 1: marriage bed leading to something that she says she can't
• 39:22
  Speaker 1: believe she was called. Oh I didn't think because she said,
• 39:26
  Speaker 1: I can't believe like anybody called me that. And it's
• 39:32
  Speaker 1: all in the same jacket. We all we'd like to
• 39:36
  Speaker 1: think it's the same night, right, But there were some
• 39:39
  Speaker 1: things in Colton supertees Is that definitely were just filmed
• 39:43
  Speaker 1: for the sake of the super tease. Yeah, so maybe
• 39:48
  Speaker 1: she had to put that jacket back on and say something,
• 39:51
  Speaker 1: but like, mostly she was like heated. She was like,
• 39:54
  Speaker 1: I don't feel like she's not an actress, not at all,
• 39:57
  Speaker 1: Like she had nothing in her an ac right. She
• 39:59
  Speaker 1: was like in most of those clips I saw like
• 40:02
  Speaker 1: she was fully like enraged. So so, Ben, what what
• 40:06
  Speaker 1: do you think about this guy who's there and ready
• 40:09
  Speaker 1: to propose. It doesn't seem like it's going to be
• 40:12
  Speaker 1: one of her top two guys because she wouldn't respond
• 40:15
  Speaker 1: so emotionally if it was. She would just be expecting that. Yeah,
• 40:19
  Speaker 1: my honest thoughts. Or you never want to see the
• 40:21
  Speaker 1: face that she made when you tell somebody that she's
• 40:24
  Speaker 1: getting ready to be proposed to, or that you love her.
• 40:27
  Speaker 1: I have a girl or a guy ever looks at
• 40:29
  Speaker 1: you the way Hannah did when you're like, hey, I
• 40:31
  Speaker 1: love you, It's not gonna work. Here's here'll be a
• 40:35
  Speaker 1: fun quiz. Anybody out there listening, who do you think
• 40:38
  Speaker 1: it is? Email us that Ben and Ashley I heart
• 40:40
  Speaker 1: me dot com on Twitter hashtag almost Famous podcast. Who
• 40:46
  Speaker 1: do you think it could have been? I have I
• 40:49
  Speaker 1: have two theories. After Heather, I can only think Luke like, okay,
• 40:54
  Speaker 1: I can only think that's my one theory. So like
• 40:56
  Speaker 1: Luke was eliminated, said something awful, probably as him, and
• 41:00
  Speaker 1: comment comes back the week later and he's like, I
• 41:04
  Speaker 1: take it back with a horrible thing for me to
• 41:07
  Speaker 1: say our marriage bed doesn't have to be here and
• 41:10
  Speaker 1: I'm here with the ring and she's probably like, oh
• 41:13
  Speaker 1: my god, I have a psycho stalker. My other theory
• 41:17
  Speaker 1: is that possibly could be a guy from home from
• 41:20
  Speaker 1: her past and he's been so overwhelmed with her being
• 41:25
  Speaker 1: the bachelorette and he regrets all of his life decisions
• 41:28
  Speaker 1: and is here to propose. Or it could just be
• 41:30
  Speaker 1: like a crazy stalker dead what about you. I hope
• 41:36
  Speaker 1: it isn't somebody from home, because there's only one theory
• 41:38
  Speaker 1: i'd have there, that guy saw an opportunity be on
• 41:40
  Speaker 1: national television, he took it. Yeah, that happened with Becca
• 41:44
  Speaker 1: on our season. Yeah, I wouldn't be okay with that.
• 41:47
  Speaker 1: You'd hear on this podcast say that's absolutely ridiculous. That
• 41:50
  Speaker 1: is incredibly destructive and in a moment that should she
• 41:53
  Speaker 1: should be celebrating some loser from home decides to get
• 41:57
  Speaker 1: on national TV. I think that I would be. I
• 42:00
  Speaker 1: don't know if that's true. Not. The second is, I
• 42:02
  Speaker 1: don't think it's Luke p you. I actually have this
• 42:06
  Speaker 1: weird sense that it's Jet Like. I think that he
• 42:10
  Speaker 1: at the end of this ends up getting so tied
• 42:12
  Speaker 1: up and Hannah that I feel like he might break.
• 42:17
  Speaker 1: I don't know why. It's just a theory. I see
• 42:20
  Speaker 1: it in him already, right, He's he's very attached to Hannah.
• 42:23
  Speaker 1: He really likes Hannah. Um he is. You know, he
• 42:27
  Speaker 1: came here for the wrong reasons and she's turned them
• 42:29
  Speaker 1: to be the right reasons. And I have a feeling
• 42:31
  Speaker 1: that her heart at the end of this whole thing
• 42:34
  Speaker 1: starts leaning in a way away from him, and that
• 42:37
  Speaker 1: he reacts. Do you think elis him and then he
• 42:40
  Speaker 1: comes back? Yeah? Is he elimited or has he leave
• 42:41
  Speaker 1: on his own? Okay, let's keep names out of it
• 42:45
  Speaker 1: for a second, because I don't know if that's helpful,
• 42:46
  Speaker 1: because we could say, really, any one of these guys
• 42:48
  Speaker 1: could be that guy. I think my theory is it
• 42:51
  Speaker 1: is somebody that's been eliminated that comes back into it.
• 42:55
  Speaker 1: I don't think it's somebody that's still there. But then
• 42:58
  Speaker 1: he's here and he's ready to propose, Like, well, she
• 43:01
  Speaker 1: sent him home, she didn't want to get proposed by him. Yeah,
• 43:06
  Speaker 1: I was gonna say, you can't that that doesn't work
• 43:08
  Speaker 1: with Hannah. I don't think we can because luke P
• 43:11
  Speaker 1: was sent home and he came back and it worked.
• 43:14
  Speaker 1: So he's following in luke P's footsteps. Whoever this is,
• 43:16
  Speaker 1: perhaps it's Luke I think she kind of likes it
• 43:18
  Speaker 1: a little bit like the chase coming after her. Well,
• 43:22
  Speaker 1: she does like a guy that really pursues. She doesn't
• 43:24
  Speaker 1: like hard to get no, which, yeah, that's somebody that
• 43:29
  Speaker 1: that has been eliminated that comes back in. No, guys,
• 43:34
  Speaker 1: I want us to get serious for a second because
• 43:35
  Speaker 1: we're gonna walk on some fragile topics. Are we going
• 43:39
  Speaker 1: to talk about the marriage bed? Because I do want
• 43:41
  Speaker 1: your We we've already talked a little bit about the
• 43:43
  Speaker 1: marriage bed, but I kind of wanted your input because
• 43:45
  Speaker 1: you know, you really wanted to. I wanted to lead
• 43:47
  Speaker 1: us through a conversation and and honestly ask our listeners
• 43:50
  Speaker 1: to feed in their thoughts because this was first bread
• 43:53
  Speaker 1: up um in my from my time watching the show
• 43:57
  Speaker 1: with Caitlin Bristow. This is a hot topic with Aitlan, right. Uh,
• 44:01
  Speaker 1: not maybe the marriage bed, but the fact that she
• 44:03
  Speaker 1: had um sex on the show. She didn't hide it
• 44:08
  Speaker 1: before the Fantasy Suite. She didn't hide it. Um. She
• 44:11
  Speaker 1: was not ashamed of it. Uh. And people did, They
• 44:14
  Speaker 1: slept shamed her. I remember at her tell, all all
• 44:18
  Speaker 1: of the like magazines and all the comments and on
• 44:20
  Speaker 1: Twitter were flashed up on the screen and she had
• 44:22
  Speaker 1: to sit there and read them. We weren't nice and pretty. Now, granted,
• 44:27
  Speaker 1: we we are at a time where I think this
• 44:29
  Speaker 1: conversation is happening all all the time, right for men
• 44:32
  Speaker 1: and women and how we treat each other and and
• 44:35
  Speaker 1: how we respect each other and understand where each other
• 44:37
  Speaker 1: are at. Uh, not only uh morally and and our values,
• 44:42
  Speaker 1: but also just how we view um sex and relationships. Well,
• 44:46
  Speaker 1: Hannah is sitting here, right, and let's assume, right, because
• 44:50
  Speaker 1: we still don't have a clear idea. Let's assume what
• 44:52
  Speaker 1: happened was that Hannah had sex before with with somebody
• 44:56
  Speaker 1: or multiple people before the Fantasy Suite, because we see glimpses,
• 44:59
  Speaker 1: but the the teaser could mean a thousand different things.
• 45:01
  Speaker 1: But that's the scenario playing out here that we think
• 45:04
  Speaker 1: that's what's happened. And luke P is sitting there saying,
• 45:07
  Speaker 1: my thoughts on marriage are that the marriage bed needs
• 45:10
  Speaker 1: to be pure. Well, two things here, and I'm gonna
• 45:13
  Speaker 1: go off for a little bit and uh and hopefully
• 45:16
  Speaker 1: this all makes sense at the end. One thing is
• 45:18
  Speaker 1: that one thing I've learned in life, and I was
• 45:21
  Speaker 1: famous on on My Bachelor for season for saying, well, no,
• 45:24
  Speaker 1: I wasn't a virgin, um that my marriage bed wasn't
• 45:27
  Speaker 1: gonna be pure. Whatever he's trying to get at, luke
• 45:30
  Speaker 1: P started this whole season off by saying he had
• 45:33
  Speaker 1: so much sex in college that in the shower one
• 45:36
  Speaker 1: day everything changed. He I think that, you know, whatever
• 45:41
  Speaker 1: his his conviction has turned into, we want to respect
• 45:44
  Speaker 1: that equally as well. We don't want to shame him
• 45:47
  Speaker 1: for not having sex, but we also want him to
• 45:49
  Speaker 1: understand and be empathetic towards the situation that he has
• 45:53
  Speaker 1: had sex in his life as well. Next is his
• 45:57
  Speaker 1: expectation right now with Hannah, And I think this was
• 45:59
  Speaker 1: perfect for what she said. He he doesn't have anything
• 46:02
  Speaker 1: on her. They're not in an agreement like they haven't
• 46:05
  Speaker 1: discussed this as a couple. They haven't figured out what
• 46:07
  Speaker 1: each which each other need, like she owes him nothing.
• 46:12
  Speaker 1: They aren't in a committed relationship. She's exploring these relationships.
• 46:15
  Speaker 1: He knows that there's other cup relationships going on. He
• 46:19
  Speaker 1: really has nothing to say when it comes to who
• 46:23
  Speaker 1: she sleeps with and who she kisses and how she
• 46:25
  Speaker 1: dates right now because they're not in a committed relationship. Now,
• 46:29
  Speaker 1: I do want to get on Luke side for one second,
• 46:32
  Speaker 1: any luve is. I think one fair conversation he could
• 46:35
  Speaker 1: have had with Hannah would have said, Hey, I love you,
• 46:39
  Speaker 1: I want to see this thing work. Now, what are
• 46:43
  Speaker 1: you comfortable with from here on out pursuing and and
• 46:46
  Speaker 1: are you comfortable being intimate with people knowing that at
• 46:49
  Speaker 1: the end we could be engaged like that is a fair,
• 46:51
  Speaker 1: healthy conversation for a couple have not an easy one,
• 46:54
  Speaker 1: but I think talking about what your expectations are physically
• 46:57
  Speaker 1: and communicating those openly is howful for any couple, even
• 47:02
  Speaker 1: if it's a hard conversation, and even if you disagree. Couples,
• 47:05
  Speaker 1: no matter if you're in a committed relationship, a marriage,
• 47:08
  Speaker 1: or you just start dating, having those open that open
• 47:11
  Speaker 1: dialogue about what you're comfortable with physically is important. It
• 47:15
  Speaker 1: needs to get people on the same page. What he
• 47:17
  Speaker 1: did where he was completely wrong is he talked down
• 47:21
  Speaker 1: to her. He talked to her like, this is my
• 47:24
  Speaker 1: expectation and you're gonna obey. It wasn't It wasn't a
• 47:28
  Speaker 1: conversation to be had. It was a decision that he
• 47:30
  Speaker 1: made on an It was a decision that he made
• 47:33
  Speaker 1: that he was going to force her into and that
• 47:35
  Speaker 1: is completely wrong. And then I love do you think
• 47:39
  Speaker 1: that she was like, oh, but it's too late for that,
• 47:43
  Speaker 1: because you think this ye already's left with somebody before
• 47:45
  Speaker 1: that conversation, which would allude to Luke possibly being in
• 47:48
  Speaker 1: the top three by all like regular standards of how
• 47:53
  Speaker 1: this show goes, you know, Hometown's four top three fantasy suites. Um,
• 47:59
  Speaker 1: I don't know how soon this is. I don't think
• 48:01
  Speaker 1: it's that far off from now. I don't think it's
• 48:02
  Speaker 1: anywhere close to fantasy sweeps. I think, yeah, I think
• 48:06
  Speaker 1: it's soon. I think she's intimate with somebody or maybe
• 48:09
  Speaker 1: multiple people, and then this conversation happens and she's like, well, one, Luke,
• 48:15
  Speaker 1: I owe you nothing too don't shame me because all
• 48:19
  Speaker 1: he did and this is this is a big mistake
• 48:23
  Speaker 1: by men uh in the past and also just recouples
• 48:26
  Speaker 1: in general. What he did is he forced her to
• 48:28
  Speaker 1: feel shame. That is completely wrong at any level in
• 48:32
  Speaker 1: any relationship. Her only response was to feel shameful or
• 48:38
  Speaker 1: to stand up and complete protection of who she was.
• 48:42
  Speaker 1: There was no dialogue to allow her to empathetically or
• 48:46
  Speaker 1: or calmly walked back into the conversation she had. He
• 48:50
  Speaker 1: had put her in a corner and she had to
• 48:53
  Speaker 1: respond with some type of force or like was some
• 48:56
  Speaker 1: type of of bigger and she did, and I think
• 48:58
  Speaker 1: she said it great's she said, Hey, Luke, I have
• 49:01
  Speaker 1: had sex with somebody and Jesus still loves me, so
• 49:04
  Speaker 1: don't leave. Use again. Jesus is a weapon here to
• 49:07
  Speaker 1: put me into your little corner, into your little box,
• 49:10
  Speaker 1: into what you think is right and wrong, because quite honestly,
• 49:13
  Speaker 1: we ain't there yet. Boy, we haven't talked about this.
• 49:15
  Speaker 1: You owe me. I owe you nothing except to continue
• 49:19
  Speaker 1: to pursue this relationship. And I think this is a
• 49:22
  Speaker 1: good lesson and one that I hope cultivates conversation from
• 49:25
  Speaker 1: here on out. Is no matter what your moral standing
• 49:28
  Speaker 1: is and your values are at have a conversation, don't demand. Hey, Ben,
• 49:33
  Speaker 1: I have a question. Do you think that he was
• 49:35
  Speaker 1: saying it out of his true religious feelings or do
• 49:39
  Speaker 1: you think that he was saying it as a way
• 49:41
  Speaker 1: to control her activity with other guys both? Yeah, you know,
• 49:46
  Speaker 1: we want to be protective of loop here. Um. If
• 49:49
  Speaker 1: you notice on this podcast, we don't want to bash
• 49:51
  Speaker 1: the dude. It's been too much bashing. I mean this
• 49:54
  Speaker 1: guy literally Again Twitter this week the headline is nobody
• 49:58
  Speaker 1: leaves lukep needs a second chance like believe it or not,
• 50:01
  Speaker 1: like like the guy or not. He has had a
• 50:04
  Speaker 1: terrible time on the show, the worst yet. Chris Harrison
• 50:07
  Speaker 1: came out this week and said that this villain has
• 50:09
  Speaker 1: taken up the most time and been and been the
• 50:11
  Speaker 1: most focused on villain ever. Like this guy, like he
• 50:15
  Speaker 1: this is a part of his identity now for a
• 50:17
  Speaker 1: long time. Like I don't want to add to it
• 50:20
  Speaker 1: the truth, I get it, Like we can. We can
• 50:24
  Speaker 1: be unhappy with him, but we've everybody knows where each
• 50:27
  Speaker 1: other stand on. Look, Pete, there's very few Luke pe
• 50:29
  Speaker 1: supporters out there. The truth is when you come at
• 50:33
  Speaker 1: a conversation like that, it's manipulation, like you're trying to
• 50:37
  Speaker 1: get somebody to do something for you. There is no
• 50:40
  Speaker 1: open dialogue to say, hey, sorry, or hey I don't
• 50:44
  Speaker 1: have anything to apologize for, but I still want to
• 50:46
  Speaker 1: pursue a relationship with you. Are you okay with that?
• 50:48
  Speaker 1: He forced her into a scenario where she was going
• 50:50
  Speaker 1: to feel some type of guilt, even if she didn't
• 50:53
  Speaker 1: really feel any guilt at all for what she did.
• 50:55
  Speaker 1: So yeah, I think he was saying it not only
• 50:58
  Speaker 1: communicate what he was feeling, but also to control situation,
• 51:00
  Speaker 1: which I'm never okay with. Lucas still in the running
• 51:03
  Speaker 1: to you know, win Hannah's heart. As silly as that
• 51:07
  Speaker 1: seems to so many of us, but the guys who
• 51:10
  Speaker 1: have already been eliminated, a couple of them are appearing
• 51:13
  Speaker 1: in the Bachelor in Paradise cast, and we're going to
• 51:17
  Speaker 1: break that juicy cast down in just one minute. Heather, Um,
• 51:22
  Speaker 1: do you have Rothy's shoes? You had a pair of
• 51:27
  Speaker 1: what's your biggest complaint when it comes to flats? Come on,
• 51:32
  Speaker 1: don't they hurt the back of your foot? Yeah? I
• 51:34
  Speaker 1: get blister? Yeah? Absolutely? Yeah, Yeah, you were like start
• 51:38
  Speaker 1: bleeding on the back of yours. For that reason, exactly
• 51:41
  Speaker 1: almost forgot. She's not even saying this, you guys, because
• 51:44
  Speaker 1: we're about to go into the Rathy's ad. I see
• 51:46
  Speaker 1: in her face she's being straight up honest. That's the
• 51:49
  Speaker 1: reason I never wore flats until Rothys came into my life.
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  Speaker 1: we're looking at these pictures that were released with the
• 56:23
  Speaker 1: Bachelor in Paradise castes today. We don't see you in them.
• 56:26
  Speaker 1: I know you can't confirm or deny if you were
• 56:28
  Speaker 1: part of this season. I also don't see your your
• 56:30
  Speaker 1: friend Kerpa. Yeah, just interesting. I do see Analyze Puccini
• 56:36
  Speaker 1: here for her second straight summer in Paradise. I think
• 56:40
  Speaker 1: everybody hopes that Analyize has a redemption story because she
• 56:43
  Speaker 1: got screwed last year. Everybody's always rooting on Bibiana. Um.
• 56:48
  Speaker 1: This will be her fourth appearance on a Bachelor franchise show,
• 56:52
  Speaker 1: as she's another one that has seemed to not be
• 56:55
  Speaker 1: very lucky in love, seems to be eliminated always too
• 56:58
  Speaker 1: early than we want her to be. So our thoughts
• 57:02
  Speaker 1: are with Bibby in this in this Bachelor Paradise journey.
• 57:05
  Speaker 1: But like Hurtzman, we knew that he would be there.
• 57:08
  Speaker 1: He was going to be the Bachelor in Paradise as
• 57:11
  Speaker 1: many thought should be interesting how his storyline unfolds. I
• 57:15
  Speaker 1: I hear rumors on the internet about him possibly messing
• 57:20
  Speaker 1: up here or there because they are in the depths
• 57:22
  Speaker 1: of filming right now, Caitlin seemed to be like a guarantee. Um,
• 57:28
  Speaker 1: how do you think Caitlin is gonna fair in Paradise?
• 57:33
  Speaker 1: I think she'll do good. I mean I think there
• 57:35
  Speaker 1: would be quite a few guys interested in Caitlin's I mean,
• 57:37
  Speaker 1: I think if I were a guy, I'd probably be
• 57:39
  Speaker 1: interested in Kylin. I think she's so pretty. Cam, who
• 57:43
  Speaker 1: was eliminated week three for um, just being a little
• 57:48
  Speaker 1: clingy in Hanna season, will be there the first week
• 57:52
  Speaker 1: in the original cast. Would you ever be interested in Cam? No?
• 57:57
  Speaker 1: Why is that? Yeah? No? And think so No. Well,
• 58:01
  Speaker 1: on Yaka, who is actually good friends with Cam in
• 58:04
  Speaker 1: real life, will also be there. Do you think she's
• 58:06
  Speaker 1: gonna stir some stir up? Probably? I don't know. I
• 58:12
  Speaker 1: feel like on Yka maybe just did it in the beginning,
• 58:15
  Speaker 1: and I think she might hold back a little bit more.
• 58:17
  Speaker 1: I think that's what feeling is. Ben. Are you shocked
• 58:21
  Speaker 1: to see Chris Bukowski, who apparently or not apparently just
• 58:25
  Speaker 1: straight up retired from the Bachelor franchise on After Paradise
• 58:31
  Speaker 1: season two to be back for his sixth appearance on
• 58:36
  Speaker 1: one of the shows. That being said, he hasn't been
• 58:39
  Speaker 1: an official cast number six times, but he has made
• 58:41
  Speaker 1: six appearance. Who is he's from Emily Maynard season? He
• 58:45
  Speaker 1: got fourth Emily season. How long ago Emily Maynard season?
• 58:49
  Speaker 1: But that was season eight of The Bachelorette, So it
• 58:52
  Speaker 1: was two thousand. I feel like it was two thousand
• 58:56
  Speaker 1: eleven or twelve. That's insane. Um. I'm not shocked because
• 59:02
  Speaker 1: I think it's hard to get out of this world
• 59:04
  Speaker 1: unless you're really desiring too. And you could even tell
• 59:09
  Speaker 1: he was sad to leave when he retired. The question
• 59:12
  Speaker 1: is how old is he? You know what he's think
• 59:15
  Speaker 1: he's younger than you think, because he was younger than
• 59:17
  Speaker 1: Emily on her season. I think he was twenty six
• 59:20
  Speaker 1: on her season. I think she was seven or she
• 59:24
  Speaker 1: was twenty six and he was twenty five something like that.
• 59:26
  Speaker 1: So I think Chris grew house. Chris Bukowski's age will
• 59:28
  Speaker 1: surprise you. I think he's only a year or two
• 59:31
  Speaker 1: older than us. Ben. Yeah, so like at that point,
• 59:34
  Speaker 1: why not? I mean, yeah, he's given a lot of
• 59:36
  Speaker 1: shots but he's young, he's single. Like, I don't blame
• 59:40
  Speaker 1: anybody for continue to see if this thing works. We
• 59:42
  Speaker 1: we've seen it year every year, every year, Like people
• 59:45
  Speaker 1: continue to find love on this show. And if you're
• 59:48
  Speaker 1: single and you're out in the world, take some intentional
• 59:50
  Speaker 1: time to try to go date. I think it's crazy.
• 59:53
  Speaker 1: I think it's shocking to see him there. I can't
• 59:55
  Speaker 1: believe he's doing it, But honestly, I kind of feel
• 59:58
  Speaker 1: like a little bit of a good for him. How
• 1:00:01
  Speaker 1: amazing would it be if after this sixth trial run
• 1:00:05
  Speaker 1: he finds somebody and gets engaged at the end of it.
• 1:00:08
  Speaker 1: I would love it. When do we want to celebrate
• 1:00:11
  Speaker 1: that isn't what these shows are about, is to continue
• 1:00:13
  Speaker 1: to see the cast that we fall in love with
• 1:00:15
  Speaker 1: and that we've rooted for complete their love story. So
• 1:00:19
  Speaker 1: I would be all for it. I'd be super amazing.
• 1:00:22
  Speaker 1: We also see on this list list Derek Peth, who
• 1:00:25
  Speaker 1: swore to us Okay, maybe that's swore, but promise when
• 1:00:29
  Speaker 1: we were on the Napa Valley Train just about six
• 1:00:32
  Speaker 1: seven weeks ago that he was not going to do Paradise.
• 1:00:37
  Speaker 1: He was like, oh no, no. If they've asked me him,
• 1:00:39
  Speaker 1: not gonna do it, not doing it? Oh he's there.
• 1:00:42
  Speaker 1: I can't say no. Clay Harbor is on the list,
• 1:00:47
  Speaker 1: and he, we know, dated Angela this year. We never
• 1:00:51
  Speaker 1: officially got like the breakup Instagram like we're sorry to
• 1:00:55
  Speaker 1: inform you that we have ended our relationship as friends.
• 1:00:59
  Speaker 1: I have feeling Angela and Clay didn't end their relationship
• 1:01:03
  Speaker 1: as friends. So Dee, I have to both be there,
• 1:01:11
  Speaker 1: I think so. I mean, if if he's agreed, I
• 1:01:14
  Speaker 1: bet Angela will agree. We have to see him both
• 1:01:17
  Speaker 1: in Paradise, and there's no way the show let's a
• 1:01:20
  Speaker 1: story like that not be displayed on TV. So yeah,
• 1:01:23
  Speaker 1: they're both gonna be there. Who else is going to
• 1:01:26
  Speaker 1: be there? Give us the rest of the rundown? Then
• 1:01:29
  Speaker 1: I think Demi will be a big storyline for us.
• 1:01:31
  Speaker 1: We're excited about Demmy. We loved Emmy here on the podcast.
• 1:01:34
  Speaker 1: She's came on a couple of times, obviously. Hannah Gee,
• 1:01:37
  Speaker 1: Hannah Gee is one of our favorites. Uh, she's captivated
• 1:01:41
  Speaker 1: both Ashley and I remember the night we did the
• 1:01:43
  Speaker 1: interview with her, and Nash and I were both like, dang,
• 1:01:46
  Speaker 1: like we really liked that girl. Picture of her like,
• 1:01:49
  Speaker 1: could she be cute? So perfect? Yeah, it's just a cute,
• 1:01:53
  Speaker 1: nice human and so we're a big fan of her.
• 1:01:56
  Speaker 1: Jpja from Cold Season, I don't remember her. She made
• 1:02:02
  Speaker 1: a big hissy fit on after I mean the Women
• 1:02:05
  Speaker 1: Tell All because she wanted to be on Paradise obviously,
• 1:02:10
  Speaker 1: so she really spoke up and she defended Kalin. So
• 1:02:13
  Speaker 1: we see her in the original cast. But yeah, JPJ,
• 1:02:16
  Speaker 1: what do you think is he gonna be Ah, he's
• 1:02:18
  Speaker 1: gonna stick around longer here than he did with Hannah season.
• 1:02:22
  Speaker 1: I want to know who he like. I want to
• 1:02:25
  Speaker 1: know who JPJ is, right, I did a little background
• 1:02:28
  Speaker 1: on him. He grew up in Wisconsin and he now
• 1:02:30
  Speaker 1: lives in Virginia and her Maryland, and he talks like
• 1:02:35
  Speaker 1: a surfer like, he feels like he has a West
• 1:02:37
  Speaker 1: Coast vibe, So like, who is JPJ? Do you find
• 1:02:41
  Speaker 1: JPJ attractive? Not my type? Really? I think he's beautiful,
• 1:02:46
  Speaker 1: not stereotypically my type, but I think he looks like
• 1:02:49
  Speaker 1: really very modelesque, very prince prince like. Yeah, I don't know,
• 1:02:55
  Speaker 1: not not my type, but I think he seems really
• 1:02:57
  Speaker 1: nice and fun. I just haven't seen a conversation with him.
• 1:02:59
  Speaker 1: Yet have we seen one. No, We've just seen like exclamations.
• 1:03:03
  Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, so yeah, I don't know. I think him
• 1:03:08
  Speaker 1: and Nicole can be a thing. All right. So Nicole
• 1:03:11
  Speaker 1: is on here. If you guys remember Nicole, she was
• 1:03:13
  Speaker 1: known for being pretty emotional on Holton season, always having
• 1:03:17
  Speaker 1: like one tear falling from her eye. Then there's Katie Morton,
• 1:03:21
  Speaker 1: who's stunning and I think everybody loves Katie beautiful. Finally, um,
• 1:03:27
  Speaker 1: there's a bunch you know. We have Kevin, we have
• 1:03:29
  Speaker 1: Nicole and yaka Um. And then there's Will's read who
• 1:03:34
  Speaker 1: has always been a kind of a surprise for us.
• 1:03:35
  Speaker 1: He's a fan favorite. Uh, we want to get to
• 1:03:38
  Speaker 1: know him a little bit better. Last year in Paradise,
• 1:03:41
  Speaker 1: it didn't last long. But then there's two women that
• 1:03:44
  Speaker 1: I think we love on the podcast that I think
• 1:03:47
  Speaker 1: will shock everybody and not how they caused drama mixed
• 1:03:51
  Speaker 1: things up, but how likable they are on Paradise. And
• 1:03:53
  Speaker 1: that's Sydney and Tasha. Those two right there. I believe
• 1:03:59
  Speaker 1: will be too of our favorites as we watch this season,
• 1:04:02
  Speaker 1: and mostly favorites just from like the pure hope that
• 1:04:05
  Speaker 1: we have that they find love and if you remember correctly,
• 1:04:09
  Speaker 1: Will's seemed to elude when he was on our podcast
• 1:04:14
  Speaker 1: about Katie being his crush. M hmm. What So to
• 1:04:19
  Speaker 1: end this podcast today, I want to ask you guys
• 1:04:20
  Speaker 1: a few questions. One going back to Hannah's season, because
• 1:04:25
  Speaker 1: it's going to tie into Paradise a little bit. Who
• 1:04:28
  Speaker 1: is your top three guys left? My top three guys
• 1:04:33
  Speaker 1: has not changed from last week. It would be Jed,
• 1:04:36
  Speaker 1: Tyler and Peter. Is that your state? Definitely mine? Here's
• 1:04:41
  Speaker 1: a surprising one to me now, Grant got sent home.
• 1:04:46
  Speaker 1: Don't know why he's married? Favorite? He loves Grant, Yeah, exactly.
• 1:04:53
  Speaker 1: That's why we love him because he's a silent but
• 1:04:55
  Speaker 1: deadly type, good looking man, Harry chest. You can tell
• 1:04:59
  Speaker 1: he gives it a perfect line right above his neck
• 1:05:02
  Speaker 1: al right below his neckline. Um, solid gentleman, doesn't have
• 1:05:07
  Speaker 1: a job to never cause controversy, solid beer drinker like
• 1:05:12
  Speaker 1: the guy has it going on. And somehow he got
• 1:05:15
  Speaker 1: sent home. So I have to change my top three? Yes,
• 1:05:19
  Speaker 1: and this is everybody's top three? Connor? How is Connor
• 1:05:26
  Speaker 1: not every girl's top three? The dude is beautiful, he's tall,
• 1:05:29
  Speaker 1: he's strong, he's patient, he's gotten messed over a few
• 1:05:33
  Speaker 1: times on this show. So I'm gonna say, Tyler, Connor
• 1:05:36
  Speaker 1: and Pete, why do you know why Connor is not
• 1:05:41
  Speaker 1: in my top three? He's very handsome, He's just like
• 1:05:46
  Speaker 1: perfect Abercromie look right, but he is he screams boy
• 1:05:50
  Speaker 1: to me, that is not a full grown man. And
• 1:05:53
  Speaker 1: I do think that the three that we are mentioning
• 1:05:56
  Speaker 1: are far carry themselves more like men. Cool. I think
• 1:06:00
  Speaker 1: she's more into the other three. You can just tell, ye,
• 1:06:03
  Speaker 1: but I think it's because she's sensing Connor's boyishnist too. Yeah,
• 1:06:06
  Speaker 1: and he's really young too. Is he's twenty four or something?
• 1:06:09
  Speaker 1: I mean, like, I know she's twenty four, but I
• 1:06:11
  Speaker 1: think she just wants somebody older or at least feels older.
• 1:06:16
  Speaker 1: She does come off a little older than than twenty four.
• 1:06:19
  Speaker 1: So just with her confidence and maturity, well, that's our
• 1:06:22
  Speaker 1: top Three's Heather, you have the same as Ashley. I
• 1:06:28
  Speaker 1: have a little bit of a different mix up. That's
• 1:06:30
  Speaker 1: moving on. Grant rest in peace, buddy. We love you
• 1:06:33
  Speaker 1: better being Paradise. If you're not so upset, it will
• 1:06:38
  Speaker 1: be so sad to me if I cannot see a
• 1:06:40
  Speaker 1: little bit more grant in my life. Hey, final question
• 1:06:42
  Speaker 1: for you all, uh, two storylines that if you had
• 1:06:46
  Speaker 1: no idea of what was actually happening and you had
• 1:06:49
  Speaker 1: no clue of what's going on, two storylines you're most
• 1:06:54
  Speaker 1: interested in Paradise um who Hannah gy ends up with
• 1:06:59
  Speaker 1: and probably who John Paul Jones owns up with. I
• 1:07:05
  Speaker 1: was gonna say, John Paul Jones for sure is my
• 1:07:07
  Speaker 1: top and I want I want to see Tashah and
• 1:07:09
  Speaker 1: Tasha too. I'm very curious. I feel like Tasha is
• 1:07:12
  Speaker 1: not gonna there's not gonna be like any drama with her.
• 1:07:14
  Speaker 1: She's gonna find her person and cruise unless one comes
• 1:07:17
  Speaker 1: at her. Like Tassia is not afraid to stand up
• 1:07:19
  Speaker 1: for herself, but she's not going to go out of
• 1:07:21
  Speaker 1: her way. I wanted to find someone. So those two
• 1:07:23
  Speaker 1: for me. There you go. That's it. Hey, if you
• 1:07:27
  Speaker 1: have some shorelines you're excited about in Bachroom Paradise, please
• 1:07:29
  Speaker 1: email us at Ben and Ashley at I heart media comment.
• 1:07:34
  Speaker 1: I want a breaking news what alright? Did we just
• 1:07:38
  Speaker 1: got breaking news on our phone? My phone? All right?
• 1:07:40
  Speaker 1: What's on your phone too? People? Magazine exclusive? This is
• 1:07:46
  Speaker 1: not a less This is not a less reliable magazine.
• 1:07:49
  Speaker 1: This is not a tabloid. It is people magazine is
• 1:07:53
  Speaker 1: reporting that Jed's x so that they were dating when
• 1:07:56
  Speaker 1: he went on the show, and she feels one betray it. No,
• 1:08:01
  Speaker 1: this is terrible. This is part of the the co
• 1:08:06
  Speaker 1: headline that the subline is the hardest part is that
• 1:08:10
  Speaker 1: he ghosted me, he tells people exclusively. Should I just
• 1:08:14
  Speaker 1: read it? Uh? Read a couple of quotes the other quote. Actually,
• 1:08:19
  Speaker 1: I want you, as I'm reading this one quote, to
• 1:08:21
  Speaker 1: scroll through and pick out a few of the key
• 1:08:22
  Speaker 1: points it says. One of the quotes in here says,
• 1:08:25
  Speaker 1: we spent the night together the night before he headed
• 1:08:32
  Speaker 1: He told me the show was just an obstacle and
• 1:08:34
  Speaker 1: we be stronger on the other side because of it.
• 1:08:38
  Speaker 1: This is just like the guy from Night one. But
• 1:08:40
  Speaker 1: it's not that that not so great guy from Night one.
• 1:08:44
  Speaker 1: It's Jed. Jim. Never get this, Actually, time out, I
• 1:08:50
  Speaker 1: never do this. Okay, I'm right. I told you Jed
• 1:08:53
  Speaker 1: had something up asleep, and that was before I am right.
• 1:08:58
  Speaker 1: You knew it that guy had something going on. He
• 1:09:01
  Speaker 1: told me early on that he applied said his ax.
• 1:09:05
  Speaker 1: He said it's probably not going to happen, but it's
• 1:09:07
  Speaker 1: a huge opportunity, and I'm only doing this for music.
• 1:09:11
  Speaker 1: He said he was only doing it for his career,
• 1:09:12
  Speaker 1: which is actually what he told Hannah, And we appreciated
• 1:09:16
  Speaker 1: that he was so upfront, up front about that with Hannah.
• 1:09:19
  Speaker 1: But now that he has a girlfriend back home, do
• 1:09:22
  Speaker 1: you think it's real for sure? Oh? Yeah, I don't know.
• 1:09:25
  Speaker 1: I'm gonna read this last statement magazine. We're gonna tell
• 1:09:29
  Speaker 1: everybody to make sure you go out and read. It's
• 1:09:31
  Speaker 1: on People, so and People is usually very trusted. This
• 1:09:34
  Speaker 1: is a crazy little statement. The paragraph starts with, like
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  Speaker 1: all contestants, why I had to surrender his phone during filming?
• 1:09:41
  Speaker 1: So Stevens, his ex or his girlfriend at the time,
• 1:09:44
  Speaker 1: had no idea what was happening and grew increasingly anxious.
• 1:09:49
  Speaker 1: Her quote is I was falling along on spoiler accounts,
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  Speaker 1: trying to figure out when my boyfriend was going to
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  Speaker 1: come home. She said, I bought a home coming out
• 1:10:00
  Speaker 1: it that I was going to maybe pick him up
• 1:10:02
  Speaker 1: with at in at the airport. But as the series progressed,
• 1:10:06
  Speaker 1: I was terrified that it would fall in love with Hannah.
• 1:10:09
  Speaker 1: She says, in the beginning, I felt bad watching the
• 1:10:12
  Speaker 1: show because I thought he loved me and was faking
• 1:10:15
  Speaker 1: dating for her. But then I thought my boyfriend could
• 1:10:18
  Speaker 1: be engaged this someone else. Now, wait a second, did
• 1:10:22
  Speaker 1: she pick him up at the airport in an outfit?
• 1:10:24
  Speaker 1: If she's watching the show back? Does she? Is she
• 1:10:28
  Speaker 1: still in contact with him? We're not getting like their
• 1:10:31
  Speaker 1: actual Uh? Well, he said she didn't just say ghosted.
• 1:10:34
  Speaker 1: Her says uh. When Wyatt got home, he never returned
• 1:10:40
  Speaker 1: her calls, never confronted her, never called, or never explained
• 1:10:44
  Speaker 1: himself until they ran into each other at a music
• 1:10:47
  Speaker 1: venue this month, and he said, Hey, how you've been?
• 1:10:50
  Speaker 1: And I said, how do you think I've been? She recalls.
• 1:10:53
  Speaker 1: I asked him, you didn't think I deserved a phone call?
• 1:10:57
  Speaker 1: And he said, I didn't know what to say. They
• 1:11:00
  Speaker 1: never spoke again about their relationship. It says that they
• 1:11:04
  Speaker 1: met last October in Nashville, State in a relationship. Even
• 1:11:09
  Speaker 1: after he got the official phone call in February to
• 1:11:12
  Speaker 1: join the cast. The two took a romantic trip to
• 1:11:14
  Speaker 1: the Bahamas, where they said I love you for the
• 1:11:17
  Speaker 1: first time, and he called me when he landed in
• 1:11:21
  Speaker 1: l A to take part in filming, and he said
• 1:11:25
  Speaker 1: I love you, I'll call you when I get back.
• 1:11:27
  Speaker 1: I love you, and then I this is this is
• 1:11:30
  Speaker 1: a little juicy tidbit as well. He wanted a platform.
• 1:11:34
  Speaker 1: He kept telling me I don't want my dad to
• 1:11:36
  Speaker 1: have to help pay for my rent anymore. He said
• 1:11:40
  Speaker 1: he wanted to be top five, to be a major player,
• 1:11:43
  Speaker 1: so that would be beneficial. Oh okay, well team Tyler
• 1:11:49
  Speaker 1: for me. I guess Hey, yeah, hey guys, how's your
• 1:11:53
  Speaker 1: top three looking? So? I really like Conor. I love
• 1:11:58
  Speaker 1: his boyishness of growing you find. Man, this podcast just
• 1:12:08
  Speaker 1: feeling so right right now. I'm so glad we got
• 1:12:12
  Speaker 1: that tax before we literally just said I've been Ashley.
• 1:12:15
  Speaker 1: Oh hey, Heather fall along with us here. This podcast
• 1:12:19
  Speaker 1: went from being one that I didn't know what we
• 1:12:21
  Speaker 1: talked about because the episode really wasn't that great and
• 1:12:23
  Speaker 1: just kind of dragged along the one that was absolutely
• 1:12:26
  Speaker 1: freaking fantastic. Man, I'm feeling good about this podcast. It
• 1:12:32
  Speaker 1: was one that we didn't know what we're going to
• 1:12:33
  Speaker 1: talk about, uh, but luckily it ended up being one
• 1:12:37
  Speaker 1: of the most news were the most breakings. I mean,
• 1:12:41
  Speaker 1: thank you Lauren and Chris and thank you People Magazine
• 1:12:44
  Speaker 1: and Jed for coming out with these stories because it
• 1:12:47
  Speaker 1: made for a podcast to remember. Speaking of podcast to remember,
• 1:12:51
  Speaker 1: I already continues to pump out some awesome content and
• 1:12:55
  Speaker 1: we love to know what men think. We just talked
• 1:12:58
  Speaker 1: about the podcast with Luke. What does it mean when
• 1:13:01
  Speaker 1: a man has uh something to communicate that's difficult. What
• 1:13:06
  Speaker 1: does it mean when a man struggling, uh, maybe with
• 1:13:09
  Speaker 1: the rectile this function? What does it mean, uh, when
• 1:13:13
  Speaker 1: you find your kids looking at porn? Well, these are
• 1:13:15
  Speaker 1: all the topics that this next podcast is gonna be
• 1:13:18
  Speaker 1: talking about. We do an interview with Brooks Like you
• 1:13:21
  Speaker 1: might know him from playing hockey, you might know him
• 1:13:25
  Speaker 1: from being Julianne Huff's husband. Well, he is starting a
• 1:13:29
  Speaker 1: podcast with I Heart Radio and Gavin DeGraw that will
• 1:13:32
  Speaker 1: answer some of the questions about what men are thinking.
• 1:13:35
  Speaker 1: It's built for men and women. Here's the interview. Take
• 1:13:38
  Speaker 1: a listen. I Heart continues to do exciting things. Actually,
• 1:13:42
  Speaker 1: and I always love to support my Heart and anything
• 1:13:45
  Speaker 1: that's joining our podcast team. Actually, isn't it a wild
• 1:13:49
  Speaker 1: to think that we were the very first? Yeah, that's
• 1:13:52
  Speaker 1: what I was thinking. There's very few things in life
• 1:13:54
  Speaker 1: I can take pride in and go we started this,
• 1:13:56
  Speaker 1: we started any questionable like okay, no, we started UM
• 1:14:04
  Speaker 1: and we have new members of our team, and I
• 1:14:06
  Speaker 1: want to introduce you. We're starting starting a podcast called
• 1:14:10
  Speaker 1: How Men Think That? Do you like that? Yes? I
• 1:14:13
  Speaker 1: think it's gonna be helpful. Jared will listen to this podcast. Yeah. Well,
• 1:14:16
  Speaker 1: I've always thought that this is like needs to be
• 1:14:18
  Speaker 1: happening more in the world, like Steve Harvey will have
• 1:14:20
  Speaker 1: a panel every now and then, you know, like all
• 1:14:22
  Speaker 1: the talk shows. But I'd love a podcast you just
• 1:14:24
  Speaker 1: tune in to hear men's interpretations of female and male interactions.
• 1:14:29
  Speaker 1: And it's actually going to be intelligent, which is surprising. Uh.
• 1:14:32
  Speaker 1: Speaking of intelligence, Yeah, we have Brooks Like and Gavin Degral.
• 1:14:37
  Speaker 1: Devin Gavin Degral is flying in, but the host of
• 1:14:41
  Speaker 1: the podcast, Brooks Like and Gavin DeGraw Brooks is here
• 1:14:44
  Speaker 1: in studio. Brooks, what do you think of this deal? Man?
• 1:14:48
  Speaker 1: I'm excited, um one, and I feel like I have
• 1:14:51
  Speaker 1: a lot to say. But the other gentleman too that
• 1:14:53
  Speaker 1: we're gonna have conversations with um it's gonna be entertaining.
• 1:14:58
  Speaker 1: But we also want to do a value for men
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  Speaker 1: that are listening. We want to um, provide insight to
• 1:15:04
  Speaker 1: some of the problems, some of the issues that men
• 1:15:07
  Speaker 1: maybe deal with, and also for women. We want to
• 1:15:09
  Speaker 1: make it an open forum for women to get a
• 1:15:11
  Speaker 1: little insight to a man's brain. Every girl wants the code.
• 1:15:15
  Speaker 1: It's not going to be vice versa. We're just more
• 1:15:17
  Speaker 1: outspoken about it. But like guys want to crack the
• 1:15:20
  Speaker 1: woman code to that's true. Um, it's probably not all
• 1:15:22
  Speaker 1: gonna be everything you want to hear. UM, it's gonna
• 1:15:26
  Speaker 1: be raw, it's gonna be honest. There's gonna be a
• 1:15:28
  Speaker 1: lot of We're gonna go into some areas. UM. I'm
• 1:15:31
  Speaker 1: gonna ask the guys to be vulnerable and share things
• 1:15:33
  Speaker 1: in their life. It's not gonna be fluff. UM. So
• 1:15:36
  Speaker 1: that's kind of our commitment to our listeners is we're
• 1:15:38
  Speaker 1: going to dive into this. We want to be authentic
• 1:15:40
  Speaker 1: and real and genuine. Um, but we also want to
• 1:15:43
  Speaker 1: have some fun with it. So you have some noble
• 1:15:45
  Speaker 1: men that are teaming up with you, and they're sitting
• 1:15:48
  Speaker 1: around the table right now. As I mentioned, Gavin DeGraw
• 1:15:51
  Speaker 1: is not here with us. We obviously know Gavin uh
• 1:15:55
  Speaker 1: from the music he plays and and Brooks, do you
• 1:15:57
  Speaker 1: know Gavin personally. My wife knows him. UM, my brother
• 1:16:00
  Speaker 1: in law's girlfriend knows him. He's been on Dancing with
• 1:16:03
  Speaker 1: the Stars, which is a lot of my family now,
• 1:16:05
  Speaker 1: from my wife and my brother in law, um, and
• 1:16:08
  Speaker 1: everybody raves about him, which I absolutely love hearing. So
• 1:16:11
  Speaker 1: let's go around the table for a second and let
• 1:16:13
  Speaker 1: these noblemen introduce themselves one a time. I think, name
• 1:16:18
  Speaker 1: what you bring to the table and maybe what you
• 1:16:20
  Speaker 1: do for a career that offers some insight into this podcast.
• 1:16:25
  Speaker 1: Right now, we have three other co hosts in the room. Well,
• 1:16:29
  Speaker 1: I'm Debatrie pappas Um. I'll tell you I've I've spent
• 1:16:33
  Speaker 1: probably a better half of twenty years writing for people
• 1:16:37
  Speaker 1: in Hollywood, writing comedy and stuff like that, and I've
• 1:16:40
  Speaker 1: seen a lot of people, i mean today's day and
• 1:16:42
  Speaker 1: age people just say what they think you want to hear,
• 1:16:45
  Speaker 1: and they polished themselves up. And I have no intention
• 1:16:48
  Speaker 1: of doing that. I'm here to honest tell you, honestly
• 1:16:50
  Speaker 1: what I think, to tell you honestly what men think,
• 1:16:53
  Speaker 1: and you know, you know, whatever you want to know.
• 1:16:57
  Speaker 1: I think this group here is willing to tell you.
• 1:16:59
  Speaker 1: Are you to meet you with that what is your fear.
• 1:17:01
  Speaker 1: Is there any fear of the consequences of opening up
• 1:17:05
  Speaker 1: like that? No, there's no fear. I think I think
• 1:17:08
  Speaker 1: people need to be honest. I think people need to
• 1:17:10
  Speaker 1: just listen. If that's what's really happening, why not just
• 1:17:12
  Speaker 1: share it? Because what happens people do a profile thing,
• 1:17:14
  Speaker 1: or they go on on a dating app and they
• 1:17:16
  Speaker 1: put a false picture or whatever. First day you realize
• 1:17:19
  Speaker 1: that's not the person. So why not? And to be honest,
• 1:17:22
  Speaker 1: I'm married for fourteen years. I have four kids, so
• 1:17:24
  Speaker 1: I have nothing to lose. Because I was gonna say,
• 1:17:27
  Speaker 1: now what about I was going to be like, now,
• 1:17:29
  Speaker 1: what are your qualifications for that? Um? Okay, let's start
• 1:17:34
  Speaker 1: with Rick's names mentioned. Yes, what I want to try
• 1:17:38
  Speaker 1: to bring to this this podcast is basically you, like
• 1:17:41
  Speaker 1: with Dmitri's referring to, is kind of the true value
• 1:17:43
  Speaker 1: and being open about whether it's feelings or situations that
• 1:17:46
  Speaker 1: we've been in before or raising kids. Um, and yeah,
• 1:17:50
  Speaker 1: I'm looking forward to joining everybody. Thank you. So I'm
• 1:17:53
  Speaker 1: Ryan like Dmitri, I've been writing in Hollywood for the
• 1:17:58
  Speaker 1: past fifteen or so years. Uh. For me, I think
• 1:18:02
  Speaker 1: I have a two year old at home, and I
• 1:18:04
  Speaker 1: have another one on the way. So I think what's
• 1:18:07
  Speaker 1: really interesting for me is that we all are in
• 1:18:09
  Speaker 1: a different stage in our life. Dmitri has four kids,
• 1:18:12
  Speaker 1: you know, Brooks is married, you know, kids on the way.
• 1:18:16
  Speaker 1: Gavin is single, Rick has two kids older age. So
• 1:18:19
  Speaker 1: I think it's going to be interesting to kind of
• 1:18:21
  Speaker 1: see where we all are in our respective lives. What's
• 1:18:26
  Speaker 1: exciting for me. So I'm just looking here at the
• 1:18:28
  Speaker 1: topics that will be h even on the first podcast,
• 1:18:31
  Speaker 1: and the one that stands out to me that I
• 1:18:32
  Speaker 1: think is an incredibly exciting conversation porn found on Son's phone.
• 1:18:40
  Speaker 1: Here we go, Let's do this thing, are right now,
• 1:18:46
  Speaker 1: I'm really going to tune in. Make sure you too,
• 1:18:48
  Speaker 1: I hope. So, um, you know the I think this
• 1:18:54
  Speaker 1: is definitely gonna be a lot of fun, hopefully really funny.
• 1:18:56
  Speaker 1: As you can tell, these guys are jacked about it.
• 1:18:59
  Speaker 1: Let's take a second. Turn it back to Brooks. Brooks,
• 1:19:02
  Speaker 1: this is you know, our listeners out here mostly Bachelor fans. Yeah,
• 1:19:06
  Speaker 1: they're pursuing love some way, they're in love, they like
• 1:19:09
  Speaker 1: watching love stories, but they're very loyal to the Bachelor.
• 1:19:14
  Speaker 1: Are you loyal to the Bachelor. I am I will
• 1:19:17
  Speaker 1: say this, I am now um because my wife really
• 1:19:22
  Speaker 1: my wife. Yeah, my wife is Julian Huff and she
• 1:19:26
  Speaker 1: I mean we watched The Bachelor almost religiously. No. Um,
• 1:19:29
  Speaker 1: we have a theater room in our basement of our
• 1:19:31
  Speaker 1: house and so we do it down there. But um,
• 1:19:33
  Speaker 1: my baptism into the Bachelor world. I was still playing hockey.
• 1:19:37
  Speaker 1: I came home from Toronto. We were on the All
• 1:19:39
  Speaker 1: Star break. I think we had two days off and
• 1:19:41
  Speaker 1: I came home from Toronto and my wife is like,
• 1:19:43
  Speaker 1: tonight is Bachelor night, babe, And I'm like, I don't
• 1:19:46
  Speaker 1: know what that is, sports guy, I don't. I don't
• 1:19:48
  Speaker 1: know what's what's bachelor night? And she's like, well, I
• 1:19:50
  Speaker 1: host friends at the house here and I turned the
• 1:19:53
  Speaker 1: whole house into a bachelor party. And I'm like, okay,
• 1:19:55
  Speaker 1: well let's do it. Would be a good way for
• 1:19:56
  Speaker 1: me to see people I haven't seen in a couple
• 1:19:58
  Speaker 1: of months. Anyway, Cookie show up, balloons show up, Candy
• 1:20:01
  Speaker 1: show up is probably like the twelfth sits down to
• 1:20:07
  Speaker 1: the final five or and she and turns out she
• 1:20:11
  Speaker 1: would theme it every week. It would be heart shaped everything.
• 1:20:14
  Speaker 1: So balloons candies, cookies, but then it would be pizza
• 1:20:18
  Speaker 1: week one week, next week could be taco week, next
• 1:20:20
  Speaker 1: week could be sushi week. Bachelor parties, and it got outrageous.
• 1:20:24
  Speaker 1: There's like people in our living room like yelling at
• 1:20:27
  Speaker 1: the TV. Who's their favorite, who's not their favorite? Pay
• 1:20:31
  Speaker 1: attention though to the episode, because whenever I do watch parties,
• 1:20:33
  Speaker 1: that gets super frustrated because nobody shuts up. I was
• 1:20:36
  Speaker 1: over Yeah, so exactly. I was overwhelmed, and I'm like, hey,
• 1:20:39
  Speaker 1: I had to stop it. I pause a show. This true.
• 1:20:42
  Speaker 1: I pause the show. I'm like, listen, this is a
• 1:20:44
  Speaker 1: house of love. This is like this, this like bickering
• 1:20:48
  Speaker 1: and like tearing down people on the TV. Listen. I'm
• 1:20:50
  Speaker 1: an athlete, I'm on TV. I don't want people ripping
• 1:20:52
  Speaker 1: on me when I'm not there. You can't defend myself. Um,
• 1:20:56
  Speaker 1: you can't do that in this house. And then there's
• 1:20:58
  Speaker 1: this big debate over and they're like laughed at you.
• 1:21:00
  Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, they're like they're like, Julianne, get your husband
• 1:21:03
  Speaker 1: out of here and go back place. But they're like, listen,
• 1:21:07
  Speaker 1: this is batsor this is damn important to us. Give
• 1:21:10
  Speaker 1: us this two hour segment to do what we want
• 1:21:12
  Speaker 1: and then once it ends, then we'll I'll be nice again.
• 1:21:14
  Speaker 1: It's like, okay, so people are bickering between friends or
• 1:21:18
  Speaker 1: you guys are making fun of people on the show.
• 1:21:19
  Speaker 1: Some people are making fun of people in the show.
• 1:21:21
  Speaker 1: Other people are like that one's gonna win. This one's
• 1:21:23
  Speaker 1: gonna win. Other people like I like her or like
• 1:21:25
  Speaker 1: him or whatever. Like it was just it was a
• 1:21:28
  Speaker 1: lot for a guy that hadn't been in that kind
• 1:21:31
  Speaker 1: of an environment. So but now I actually really enjoy
• 1:21:34
  Speaker 1: the show. My wife and I watch it a lot.
• 1:21:36
  Speaker 1: Um It's it's actually be kind of become a fun
• 1:21:40
  Speaker 1: thing for my wife and I to share. I you know,
• 1:21:42
  Speaker 1: it's funny. One of our favorite things. And we've done
• 1:21:44
  Speaker 1: a couple of segments is the celebrities or people of
• 1:21:47
  Speaker 1: influence like politicians and who watched the show and who
• 1:21:52
  Speaker 1: gained perspective and show or former athletes, former athletes always
• 1:21:55
  Speaker 1: cracking up love it. We a few months ago we
• 1:22:00
  Speaker 1: interviewed Scotty McCreery and he and his wife are huge
• 1:22:03
  Speaker 1: fans of the show. They actually we we found that
• 1:22:06
  Speaker 1: we were going to interview him, and I remember this
• 1:22:08
  Speaker 1: at the time, and we all got so excited and
• 1:22:10
  Speaker 1: then he sits down and he's like, we said Scotty
• 1:22:12
  Speaker 1: were big fans. He goes, oh, no, no, no, I
• 1:22:14
  Speaker 1: I love the show. And Tassha happened to be with us.
• 1:22:16
  Speaker 1: Tasso's on Cold and Seas of the Bachelor, and she
• 1:22:18
  Speaker 1: stands up and he goes, hey, Tasha, you are a favorite,
• 1:22:21
  Speaker 1: and it's like, this is just the weirdest deal for us,
• 1:22:23
  Speaker 1: and I've never told you, guys, I never told you. Um,
• 1:22:27
  Speaker 1: oh my gosh, what's his name? Um? The guy who
• 1:22:29
  Speaker 1: was married to Courtney Cox, David Orkatt, David Arkutt, So
• 1:22:33
  Speaker 1: he one time came up to us at a pumpkin patch.
• 1:22:36
  Speaker 1: Jared's obsessed with Scream, like so obsessed with the Scream franchise,
• 1:22:40
  Speaker 1: and David Arkutt just chill comes up to us and
• 1:22:43
  Speaker 1: he goes, hey, guys, good to see you. And then
• 1:22:46
  Speaker 1: Jared's like, it's am I being punked right now? Like
• 1:22:49
  Speaker 1: Jared said, am I being punked right now? He's like, Noice,
• 1:22:51
  Speaker 1: a huge fans wanted to come say hi, and he's like,
• 1:22:54
  Speaker 1: I'm obsessed with you, dude. It was hilarious and you
• 1:22:57
  Speaker 1: really had to be there for this moment. But the
• 1:23:00
  Speaker 1: way he was so nonchalant about it, like we were
• 1:23:02
  Speaker 1: just old friends was awesome. That's cool, Brooks and I
• 1:23:05
  Speaker 1: share something very special that we need to share here
• 1:23:07
  Speaker 1: on the podcast. A wedding planner Troy Williams. So, you guys,
• 1:23:13
  Speaker 1: your wedding cover of People magazine, Um, viral video. Everybody
• 1:23:18
  Speaker 1: was obsessed with your wedding video and video. Well it
• 1:23:22
  Speaker 1: was just like video three minutes you know that went
• 1:23:27
  Speaker 1: viral my wife released. Yeah, So anyway, UM, definitely an
• 1:23:34
  Speaker 1: inspiration as one of the reasons that we chose Troy.
• 1:23:37
  Speaker 1: We were friends with him beforehand. But you know, you know,
• 1:23:39
  Speaker 1: when Julianne goes with somebody to plan her wedding, it's
• 1:23:43
  Speaker 1: somebody good. You were in fantastic hands. Um. Troy absolutely
• 1:23:47
  Speaker 1: killed it. I don't know how involved Jared is in
• 1:23:49
  Speaker 1: the planning. Is very very much in agreeance on almost everything. Okay,
• 1:23:53
  Speaker 1: this is how ours went. My wife did everything, and
• 1:23:55
  Speaker 1: then when she got stuck, she would be like, I
• 1:23:57
  Speaker 1: would be like, just bring me two options, and then
• 1:24:00
  Speaker 1: she would because her and Troy, I mean, they have
• 1:24:01
  Speaker 1: exceptional taste and I'm I don't let's be honest, I don't.
• 1:24:06
  Speaker 1: So but then when they got stuck. They bring me
• 1:24:08
  Speaker 1: two options. I'd say I like this one best, and
• 1:24:09
  Speaker 1: then they would just take care of it. But you
• 1:24:11
  Speaker 1: are in fantastic hands with Troy. It will be the
• 1:24:13
  Speaker 1: best day of your life. What were some things that
• 1:24:15
  Speaker 1: she came to you with options where because she couldn't
• 1:24:16
  Speaker 1: figure out one was one was like, um, oddly enough
• 1:24:21
  Speaker 1: dance floor because there was there was this really nice
• 1:24:26
  Speaker 1: we we ended up getting it, Uh, this mirror dance floor.
• 1:24:30
  Speaker 1: It was really expensive. We had to import it and
• 1:24:32
  Speaker 1: do all this stuff for its dangers with dresses and stuff.
• 1:24:36
  Speaker 1: My wife falls ahead. It was, um, that was one
• 1:24:40
  Speaker 1: of them. Um, what to do with We did an
• 1:24:42
  Speaker 1: outdoor wedding. So there's a couple of issues there with
• 1:24:45
  Speaker 1: some things that weren't as appealing as they should be. No,
• 1:24:49
  Speaker 1: not at all actually because we got married in July
• 1:24:51
  Speaker 1: and Idaho and it doesn't rain much at all. So
• 1:24:55
  Speaker 1: but with Troy, Troy will also this. Um, Troy is
• 1:24:59
  Speaker 1: gonna surpri eyes you. He's gonna he's gonna have something
• 1:25:04
  Speaker 1: safe for you. This how thoughtfully is He's going to
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  Speaker 1: have something safe for you that you and your fiance
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  Speaker 1: are not aware of that He's going to surprise you
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  Speaker 1: with or do on your wedding day. He's gonna have
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  Speaker 1: and he'll handle everything you won't. He'll handle every fire
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  Speaker 1: situation that goes on like and you won't even know,
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  Speaker 1: and then maybe he'll tell you about it. Like that's
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  Speaker 1: what he keeps saying. So many things are going to
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  Speaker 1: happen that I'm going to deal with and I'll tell
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  Speaker 1: you the next day, like all the story. What was
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  Speaker 1: your surprise? Yeah, what was your surprise? And what were
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  Speaker 1: the crazy things that happened you didn't know about. We
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  Speaker 1: had fireworks go off, So my wife and I are
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  Speaker 1: in our first dance. All of a sudden there was
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  Speaker 1: fireworks go off, and he had a boat out there
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  Speaker 1: to a police boat out there to stop other paparazzi
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  Speaker 1: or other like boats from coming into this bay. Um So,
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  Speaker 1: just stuff like that where you're you're so protected and
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  Speaker 1: you feel like this is our space for our wedding,
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  Speaker 1: especially on that day. Um So, like we're my wife
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  Speaker 1: and are dancing and all of a sudden, boom, fireworks
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  Speaker 1: are going off and we're right on the lakeside and
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  Speaker 1: just lighting the whole thing up and we have a
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  Speaker 1: mirror dance floor and like all this was kind of
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  Speaker 1: find out if either of you were afraid of fireworks
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  Speaker 1: that could have gone completely fireworks or he's like, gift
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  Speaker 1: to you. It's pretty nuts. It was. It was crazy,
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  Speaker 1: it was, but there's so many other things, like you
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  Speaker 1: just show up and you know you're at a Troy
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  Speaker 1: Williams event. Yeah, you're just like, this is next level.
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  Speaker 1: He's the man, you know if you get there, buddy. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: he also did He also diave Evil Longoria's wedding. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: you guys are in good hands. Yeah, Hey, good for
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  Speaker 1: Troy um so many royalties? Are you say? Name drop?
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  Speaker 1: She's like David ar Kent. Following uh, this little segment,
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  Speaker 1: these guys are running off to start recording their podcast
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  Speaker 1: with Gavin DeGraw as we finish our podcast in a
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  Speaker 1: different studio. So as the time we're done with our podcast,
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  Speaker 1: there's will be up on the app or the website.
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• 1:27:02
  Speaker 1: out the How Men Think podcast or anywhere you listen
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  Speaker 1: to podcast. Hey, thank you to Heather, Thank you Brooks.
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  Speaker 1: Once again, thank you to People Magazine for breaking crazy stories,
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  Speaker 1: and also from the bottom of our hearts and we
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  Speaker 1: mean this. I mean this, I know Ashley means and
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  Speaker 1: I um, congratulations, Lauren. We're happy for you. Congratulations Chris.
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  Speaker 1: Go out there and celebrate. Leave any conversation, and I'm
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  Speaker 1: sure it doesn't come up in your relationship. But anytime
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  Speaker 1: a presser asking you about me, just tell them that
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  Speaker 1: I'm out of there. I don't mind, I don't carry
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  Speaker 1: in the headline. Tell him I'm so far away from
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  Speaker 1: your life and you've moved on so far from me
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  Speaker 1: that you could not be happier because we're all happy
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  Speaker 1: for you. So get out there, get married, fall in love,
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  Speaker 1: and have a good time doing it. Hey, Heather, fall
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  Speaker 1: along here. I've been been, I've been, I've been Heather.
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