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- 0:03SPEAKER_00: Welcome to on the clock.
- 0:04SPEAKER_00: I am Tony Russo from on death care.
- 0:07SPEAKER_00: And this is a show where we talk to people about who they are,
- 0:10SPEAKER_00: what they do and why they do what they do this week.
- 0:14SPEAKER_00: We're speaking with Maureen Creenan.
- 0:16SPEAKER_00: Um,
- 0:16she is one of the candidates for the at large position of the
- 0:22national funeral
- 0:22SPEAKER_00: directors association.
- 0:24We're going to talk a little bit about what I just said we're
- 0:26going to talk about.
- 0:26SPEAKER_00: So welcome Maureen.
- 0:28SPEAKER_01: Hi, thank you so much for having me.
- 0:30SPEAKER_00: Thank you for taking the time.
- 0:32SPEAKER_00: Um,
- 0:33SPEAKER_00: Let's just get started with introducing you.
- 0:35SPEAKER_00: So how did you come to be in funeral service,
- 0:37SPEAKER_00: and how long have you been there,
- 0:39SPEAKER_00: and what are you doing now for your day-to-day job?
- 0:42SPEAKER_01: Sure.
- 0:42SPEAKER_01: So I have been a licensed funeral director since 2017,
- 0:45SPEAKER_01: and I am actually a fourth-generation funeral director.
- 0:49So my great-grandfather opened the business back in 1917 and
- 0:53actually just
- 0:54SPEAKER_01: purchased my father out at the end of last year.
- 0:56SPEAKER_01: So my full-time gig is the president of my family firm here.
- 1:00SPEAKER_01: Wow.
- 1:01SPEAKER_01: Congratulations.
- 1:02SPEAKER_01: So yeah, good old fashioned nepotism is what got me.
- 1:08SPEAKER_00: Well,
- 1:09SPEAKER_00: the first question is the same question I asked one of your counterparts,
- 1:13SPEAKER_00: actually both of your counterparts so far,
- 1:14SPEAKER_00: everybody's pretty young this year.
- 1:16SPEAKER_01: What's that all about?
- 1:19SPEAKER_01: Well, I do think it's promising.
- 1:20SPEAKER_01: That's a lot of young people willing to step into leadership roles.
- 1:24I think it means what I attribute it to is that we've had great
- 1:28leaders go before
- 1:29SPEAKER_01: us that have inspired us to run,
- 1:30SPEAKER_01: whether it's my
- 1:32I take a lot of pride in the fact that I am a family funeral
- 1:34home and my dad has
- 1:35SPEAKER_01: really kind of cultivated and has never once said,
- 1:38SPEAKER_01: no,
- 1:38SPEAKER_01: you can't do or that's not a good idea.
- 1:40SPEAKER_01: Always been very supportive.
- 1:42And even on a larger scale with other members of NFDA
- 1:45leadership have very much
- 1:46SPEAKER_01: been willing and happy to take younger people under their wing.
- 1:50And I think that probably shows why so many younger people are
- 1:53willing to step into
- 1:54SPEAKER_01: roles that maybe didn't happen beforehand.
- 1:57SPEAKER_00: It's really because yours is not I believe I'm much older than you.
- 2:01SPEAKER_00: Yours is not as much of a joiner generation.
- 2:03SPEAKER_00: And that was, I think, a concern for a while.
- 2:07SPEAKER_00: So what made you why you and why now, I guess, is the question.
- 2:11SPEAKER_00: I mean, buying a funeral home wasn't enough of enough pressure for 2026.
- 2:17SPEAKER_01: Well, that was definitely pressure.
- 2:19SPEAKER_01: I do thrive under pressure.
- 2:21SPEAKER_01: No, I'm just teasing.
- 2:23SPEAKER_01: It definitely seems like the right time for me.
- 2:28SPEAKER_01: I was a member of the National Merging Leadership Program last year,
- 2:31SPEAKER_01: and I was able to make connections through leadership that way.
- 2:35SPEAKER_01: Also,
- 2:36SPEAKER_01: as well as I'm in the transition now,
- 2:38SPEAKER_01: it's been a good spot where my father is still around to help out.
- 2:42SPEAKER_01: Yeah.
- 2:43SPEAKER_01: And so I feel like I'm in a good place at my home firm.
- 2:46So I'm excited to hopefully be able to lend my talents to the
- 2:50national organization.
- 2:52SPEAKER_00: And what's important about this?
- 2:56SPEAKER_00: Why join the NFDA at all as you or as anyone?
- 3:01SPEAKER_01: For me, as a small firm, NFDA is really a lifeline for us.
- 3:06SPEAKER_01: Most of Delaware firms here,
- 3:07SPEAKER_01: which is where I'm from,
- 3:08SPEAKER_01: are family owned and operated,
- 3:10SPEAKER_01: which is,
- 3:10SPEAKER_01: I think,
- 3:11SPEAKER_01: a great honor and privilege that our state has remained such a privatized
- 3:15SPEAKER_01: situation.
- 3:16SPEAKER_01: But we really are a little bit on our own.
- 3:18So to be able to have that resource of national to lean on and
- 3:22take advantage of is
- 3:23something that I can't credit enough for giving us that safety
- 3:27net that we need
- 3:28SPEAKER_01: here at home.
- 3:30SPEAKER_00: Oh, I meant to mention I am in Maryland.
- 3:33SPEAKER_00: Oh, right down the road.
- 3:34SPEAKER_00: Okay, perfect.
- 3:36SPEAKER_00: I'm in Delmar, Maryland.
- 3:37SPEAKER_00: I'm eight blocks from Delaware.
- 3:39SPEAKER_00: Very nice.
- 3:39SPEAKER_00: You're in Wilmington, if I recall.
- 3:40SPEAKER_01: Yep, so we're about probably like an hour and a half-ish from you.
- 3:43SPEAKER_01: Yeah, two hours.
- 3:44SPEAKER_01: Yeah, yeah, yeah.
- 3:46SPEAKER_01: Right down the road.
- 3:46SPEAKER_01: Let's break one.
- 3:48One of the things that's been interesting to me is that
- 3:51Delaware has a really small association.
- 3:55SPEAKER_00: We do.
- 3:56SPEAKER_00: And you're...
- 3:57SPEAKER_00: I'm forgetting my research now.
- 3:59SPEAKER_00: Are you president of that association?
- 4:00SPEAKER_00: Are you are you involved?
- 4:01SPEAKER_01: Immediate past.
- 4:02SPEAKER_01: So I just my term just ended in October.
- 4:04SPEAKER_01: Yes.
- 4:04SPEAKER_01: Yes.
- 4:04SPEAKER_01: So I was bored.
- 4:05SPEAKER_01: That's why I joined.
- 4:06SPEAKER_01: I wanted to run.
- 4:08And so what what did what did what are you bringing from your
- 4:13time in Delaware to to the NFDA?
- 4:15SPEAKER_01: One of the beautiful things about any association,
- 4:18SPEAKER_01: especially in Delaware,
- 4:19and what I have found in my experience as NFDA is really just
- 4:22the camaraderie.
- 4:24SPEAKER_01: The fact that you can walk into a room with 30,
- 4:26SPEAKER_01: 50,
- 4:27100 other professionals who all know that they probably had the
- 4:30exact same you did
- 4:31SPEAKER_01: dealing with difficult families or cases,
- 4:34SPEAKER_01: or even just the minutia of trying to get bills paid has also...
- 4:38SPEAKER_01: Just something that you can really reach out at.
- 4:40SPEAKER_01: And I love that we are such a close-knit community.
- 4:42SPEAKER_01: Always competition and always friendly competition that way.
- 4:45SPEAKER_01: But still,
- 4:46SPEAKER_01: you know,
- 4:46SPEAKER_01: if I need to borrow a hearse from a funeral home down the road,
- 4:48SPEAKER_01: they're happy to lend that hand as well,
- 4:50SPEAKER_01: which is something that I really appreciate.
- 4:55Let's talk a little bit about some of the things that you would
- 4:58hope to see as a
- 5:00SPEAKER_00: member and as well as a board member for for the NFDA.
- 5:04What are what are some of your primary concerns for the
- 5:06industry and things that
- 5:07SPEAKER_00: you hope you're able to help address?
- 5:10SPEAKER_00: Sure.
- 5:10So I think the biggest industry or industry problem that we're
- 5:14all facing is staffing.
- 5:15SPEAKER_01: I know for myself,
- 5:16SPEAKER_01: finding qualified individuals that want to work,
- 5:20SPEAKER_01: that want to maintain the status quo that we have is difficult.
- 5:23SPEAKER_01: I know mortuary schools are producing more people,
- 5:26SPEAKER_01: which is amazing,
- 5:27SPEAKER_01: but have a much lower retention rate in the industry.
- 5:31I think the statistics are somewhere like around the five-year
- 5:34burnout rate,
- 5:35SPEAKER_01: which is just not ideal,
- 5:37SPEAKER_01: obviously,
- 5:37SPEAKER_01: for anyone.
- 5:39SPEAKER_01: So I think that's a huge, huge issue going forward.
- 5:41And we want to kind of make that stopgap of how can we make our
- 5:44firms at home ideal
- 5:47SPEAKER_01: employers to individuals looking to join this?
- 5:50SPEAKER_01: Because I don't think there's a shortage of people that want to help
- 5:53SPEAKER_01: and want to become funeral directors,
- 5:54but we have to make sure that we're cultivating the new
- 5:57generation of funeral
- 5:58directors in the way that they can thrive and continue to help
- 6:02families that our
- 6:03SPEAKER_01: firms serve.
- 6:05SPEAKER_00: And in Delaware specifically,
- 6:06SPEAKER_00: but also nationwide,
- 6:09was there an attempt in Delaware to separate the licenses in
- 6:13the last year?
- 6:14SPEAKER_01: Actually quite a hot button topic.
- 6:18SPEAKER_01: There is a push now.
- 6:20SPEAKER_01: Legislation is just kind of rumbling.
- 6:23SPEAKER_01: There's different people with different opinions on split licensure.
- 6:27I think there are pros and cons,
- 6:28just like everything,
- 6:29to split licensure.
- 6:30SPEAKER_01: As right now, one license is an embalmer and a funeral director.
- 6:34SPEAKER_01: You're everything.
- 6:35You have to go to mortuary school,
- 6:36pass your embalmings,
- 6:37pass your practicals,
- 6:38all of that.
- 6:40There are benefits to the split licensure to be able to hire
- 6:43people that want
- 6:43SPEAKER_01: nothing to do with the back room.
- 6:46SPEAKER_01: I think you can definitely entice people to do that.
- 6:48And there are people that are not good with people and they
- 6:51only want to work in the back room.
- 6:54SPEAKER_01: The only thing that I would say,
- 6:55SPEAKER_01: and this is what we want to focus here on Delaware,
- 6:58is that professional standards are maintained regardless of the
- 7:00level of licensure
- 7:01SPEAKER_01: that is required.
- 7:03SPEAKER_01: We want still education,
- 7:04people that understand what they're really selling or how
- 7:07they're really embalming
- 7:08SPEAKER_01: properly or anything in between.
- 7:10We want to make sure that people are still meeting professional
- 7:13standards on both
- 7:14SPEAKER_01: sides of the table.
- 7:16SPEAKER_00: That's always been,
- 7:17SPEAKER_00: I'm not,
- 7:18SPEAKER_00: I'm kind of an advocate for the dual licensure,
- 7:21but I don't have a good solution for it because I think it's
- 7:24critical that you
- 7:25SPEAKER_00: still be able to handle a dead human body.
- 7:27SPEAKER_00: Right.
- 7:27SPEAKER_00: You know, if you don't want to do the embalming or honestly, if the
- 7:32SPEAKER_00: Money isn't there for keeping four embalmers on staff.
- 7:36SPEAKER_00: That makes perfect sense to have dual licensure.
- 7:41Maybe a ritual washing class or something that you know that
- 7:45the person who you're
- 7:48SPEAKER_00: dealing with as a family is qualified to handle.
- 7:51SPEAKER_01: And especially since we're,
- 7:53SPEAKER_01: you know,
- 7:54SPEAKER_01: I mean,
- 7:54SPEAKER_01: not to bring up the hot button issue of COVID,
- 7:56SPEAKER_01: but we all live through that.
- 7:58SPEAKER_01: And,
- 7:58SPEAKER_01: you know,
- 7:58you don't want somebody who's only ever signed a contract to
- 8:01pick up someone who
- 8:02SPEAKER_01: has a communicable disease and aren't trained properly.
- 8:05So there's all of those sorts of aspects that you want to make
- 8:08sure people,
- 8:09SPEAKER_01: regardless of their comfort level,
- 8:11SPEAKER_01: are still on the same page and can keep the public health safe,
- 8:14SPEAKER_01: because that's really a key portion of our jobs as a whole.
- 8:18SPEAKER_01: Yeah.
- 8:19SPEAKER_00: And just kind of returning to this idea of staffing,
- 8:22what are some of the things you think that the NFDA can do to
- 8:25help improve this
- 8:28SPEAKER_00: transition period,
- 8:29SPEAKER_00: this five-year attrition problem?
- 8:33SPEAKER_01: Yeah.
- 8:34SPEAKER_01: I think it definitely goes kind of a little bit of controversial,
- 8:37SPEAKER_01: even though I said I didn't want to be controversial.
- 8:39SPEAKER_01: Yeah.
- 8:40I think there is very much a shift with the new generation of
- 8:44younger individuals
- 8:45SPEAKER_01: and even people's second career who want that healthy work-life balance.
- 8:50SPEAKER_01: And as myself, I knew I grew up with, it's not a 40-hour week.
- 8:54SPEAKER_01: You work when the phone rings and that's what it is.
- 8:57SPEAKER_01: And it's difficult to overcome and learn and things like that.
- 9:01But I think if we have more qualified people willing to work,
- 9:04we can offer people that norm.
- 9:06SPEAKER_01: Now, we're never going to have a nine-to-five job.
- 9:08That's something we all have to just kind of get over unless
- 9:11grandma only goes from
- 9:12SPEAKER_01: nine to 10 or doesn't work that way.
- 9:15SPEAKER_01: But just to be able to offer people and to really,
- 9:20SPEAKER_01: you know,
- 9:20SPEAKER_01: kind of cultivate an inclusive environment,
- 9:22let the 25 year old kind of run the show and know that you can
- 9:26be there to run the
- 9:27SPEAKER_01: piece or pick up pieces if things fall.
- 9:28So offering education,
- 9:31offering openness and offering young people a chance to run a
- 9:36and be a part of leadership and moving forward in just opinions
- 9:39and theories heard.
- 9:42SPEAKER_00: Yeah,
- 9:43one of the things that I think is very interesting is when
- 9:46we're talking about
- 9:47SPEAKER_00: work-life balance,
- 9:48SPEAKER_00: I think a lot of times we
- 9:51Forget that giving someone a light at the end of the tunnel
- 9:54also kind of counts.
- 9:55SPEAKER_00: Yeah.
- 9:56SPEAKER_00: Like,
- 9:56SPEAKER_00: yes,
- 9:57SPEAKER_00: you are going to work the next 10 days,
- 9:59but then you're going to have three days off and you're not
- 10:01going to hear from us
- 10:02SPEAKER_00: for a fact.
- 10:02SPEAKER_00: A hundred percent.
- 10:03SPEAKER_00: Like that kind of thing.
- 10:04SPEAKER_00: When I've done other,
- 10:05SPEAKER_00: I've done not this job,
- 10:07SPEAKER_00: but similar jobs where you are required to be on,
- 10:10required to be on and not having any idea when the next time
- 10:12you're going to get a
- 10:13SPEAKER_00: day off.
- 10:14SPEAKER_00: That is where the goal.
- 10:16SPEAKER_00: Yeah.
- 10:16SPEAKER_00: Yeah.
- 10:19SPEAKER_00: Consistency comes in.
- 10:23SPEAKER_00: When you're thinking about getting more people,
- 10:27SPEAKER_00: not getting more people to join the NFDA,
- 10:29SPEAKER_00: but communicating why it's an important organization to be part of,
- 10:33what do you think are the big pitches for making sure that
- 10:37people are still
- 10:37SPEAKER_00: joining?
- 10:38SPEAKER_00: You had mentioned individuality.
- 10:40SPEAKER_01: What are some of the ways to consider getting more people to join?
- 10:44SPEAKER_00: And to participate,
- 10:45SPEAKER_00: not just to send the check,
- 10:47SPEAKER_00: but to do stuff like run for the board,
- 10:49SPEAKER_00: like run for the committees.
- 10:51SPEAKER_01: Sure.
- 10:52So I would say kind of the big key features and the reason that
- 10:56we've been active
- 10:57SPEAKER_01: in NFDA as well as my father's been active on NFDA is,
- 11:01SPEAKER_01: like I said before,
- 11:01SPEAKER_01: that safety net.
- 11:02SPEAKER_01: So they offer a ton of advocacy through Washington,
- 11:06through federal laws and things along that capacity where the
- 11:10standalone guy
- 11:11SPEAKER_01: wouldn't have that information.
- 11:13SPEAKER_01: They also offer a lot of legal counsel,
- 11:15SPEAKER_01: especially in the,
- 11:16SPEAKER_01: we live in a very litigious society these days.
- 11:19They provide us with every form as a standard block that we can
- 11:23use and match to
- 11:24SPEAKER_01: our own letterhead and things like that,
- 11:26SPEAKER_01: which again,
- 11:27it really is just that huge safety net that a lot of people
- 11:30don't have without it,
- 11:32SPEAKER_01: I would say.
- 11:32SPEAKER_01: So that's the huge thing for me.
- 11:35As far as being inspired to take on leadership roles,
- 11:38I think it's just a great NFDA offering
- 11:42SPEAKER_01: Different opportunities like the Women's Conference,
- 11:44SPEAKER_01: the Advocacy Summit,
- 11:46SPEAKER_01: all of those other steps that gets people involved,
- 11:49SPEAKER_01: gets people more than just sitting in lectures,
- 11:51SPEAKER_01: which are great and very important for CEUs,
- 11:54SPEAKER_01: as we all well and know.
- 11:55But to be that sort of hands-on scenario is something that
- 12:00really can't replace it
- 12:01SPEAKER_01: kind of thing.
- 12:03SPEAKER_00: Along those lines,
- 12:05SPEAKER_00: when you're thinking about getting people more involved and more excited,
- 12:11SPEAKER_00: is there something that can be done that's not being done in your eyes?
- 12:19SPEAKER_00: Is there a pitch that hasn't really been made in a way?
- 12:22Or do you have a better way to make a pitch maybe than you've
- 12:25seen before?
- 12:28SPEAKER_01: Stay at fancy resorts.
- 12:29SPEAKER_01: No, I'm just teasing.
- 12:30SPEAKER_01: Yeah.
- 12:33I think NFT really does do a great job with letting people know
- 12:37what's out there
- 12:38SPEAKER_01: and different opportunities.
- 12:39I do think probably the hardest part I know for myself is being
- 12:43there in person can be tough.
- 12:45SPEAKER_01: And they do offer a lot of virtual.
- 12:48I don't know if the individual would take as much away doing it
- 12:51virtually.
- 12:51Like I went to the women's conference during COVID and it was
- 12:54on the computer.
- 12:54SPEAKER_01: Yeah.
- 12:55SPEAKER_01: Again,
- 12:55SPEAKER_01: great lectures,
- 12:56SPEAKER_01: great information,
- 12:57but I don't know if you have that same level of camaraderie as
- 12:59you sat down next to
- 13:00somebody and were able to physically talk and kind of work
- 13:04through things.
- 13:05But I don't think it's a bad idea to be able to continue to
- 13:07offer things virtually for people.
- 13:09SPEAKER_01: So they can still be a part of it,
- 13:11SPEAKER_01: maybe can meet connections outside of it and,
- 13:14SPEAKER_01: you know,
- 13:14SPEAKER_01: work through.
- 13:15Maybe you didn't know your funeral home down the road also went
- 13:17to that convention
- 13:18SPEAKER_01: and you were able to catch them on the,
- 13:20SPEAKER_01: you know,
- 13:20SPEAKER_01: the ticker there on the Zoom call or however it works.
- 13:23SPEAKER_01: Right.
- 13:25SPEAKER_00: The the advocacy summit that's been mentioned,
- 13:28have you had an opportunity to go to that or did you do
- 13:30something similar in
- 13:31SPEAKER_00: Delaware?
- 13:32SPEAKER_01: I went actually last year to the advocacy summit,
- 13:34SPEAKER_01: which I thought was I was very nervous to talk to my representatives.
- 13:39SPEAKER_01: But it was actually an amazing situation.
- 13:42And FDA walked us through for a whole kind of afternoon what
- 13:45our bills were.
- 13:46We all had a pretty good understanding of what we were really
- 13:49lobbying for.
- 13:49SPEAKER_01: And I felt really, you know, cool to do it.
- 13:53SPEAKER_01: I did enjoy it quite a bit.
- 13:55SPEAKER_00: Do you look forward to going again?
- 13:56SPEAKER_00: Is that something you hope to be able to do again?
- 13:58SPEAKER_01: So that's the plan.
- 13:59It's actually coming up just two weeks from now on the 15th is
- 14:02when our first or
- 14:03SPEAKER_01: 16th is when we're doing all of our meetings.
- 14:05SPEAKER_01: So yeah, looking forward to that as well.
- 14:07SPEAKER_00: Oh, so you're going again this year?
- 14:08SPEAKER_00: Yes.
- 14:09SPEAKER_00: Yes.
- 14:10SPEAKER_00: Oh, very cool.
- 14:10SPEAKER_00: Very cool.
- 14:11SPEAKER_00: Well, I hope everything works out for you.
- 14:13And that is pretty much all I have for you unless you have
- 14:16something else for me.
- 14:17Is there something I should have asked and didn't or something
- 14:19you thought you'd
- 14:20SPEAKER_00: get the opportunity to say,
- 14:21SPEAKER_00: but I didn't provide it?
- 14:23SPEAKER_01: No, you asked a good bunch.
- 14:25SPEAKER_01: And I just want to say,
- 14:26SPEAKER_01: I think the beauty of NFDA is you're just really,
- 14:30SPEAKER_01: you're a product of your surroundings.
- 14:31SPEAKER_01: And when you're around a group of all of these people that want to better
- 14:34SPEAKER_01: themselves through education and community and all of that,
- 14:38SPEAKER_01: you grow as a person too.
- 14:39SPEAKER_01: And I think that's what is the main point of NFDA.
- 14:44SPEAKER_00: Excellent.
- 14:44SPEAKER_00: Well, thank you so much for your time and for sharing your story.
- 14:46SPEAKER_01: No problem.
- 14:47SPEAKER_01: Thanks so much.
- 14:47SPEAKER_01: It was great meeting you, Tony.
- 14:50SPEAKER_01: Take care.