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- 0:05Speaker 1: Hey, this is Annie and Samantha, and welcome to stuff
- 0:07Speaker 1: I never told you projection of iHeartRadio, and today we
- 0:19Speaker 1: are bringing you a classic because of scheduling, sickness, all
- 0:25Speaker 1: kinds of stuff, which is kind of fitting I for
- 0:32Speaker 1: the classic I wanted to bring back today because this
- 0:35Speaker 1: is one of the best puns I've ever made, in
- 0:39Speaker 1: my opinion, It's about supernatural menstruation in horror. And I know,
- 0:48Speaker 1: like we're getting a little ahead of ourselves.
- 0:50Speaker 2: You know, we love good horror. We love Halloween.
- 0:55Speaker 1: I especially love Halloween and Fall, and we're getting a
- 0:58Speaker 1: little bit ahead of ourselves. But I have been thinking
- 1:01Speaker 1: about this lately because, as we mentioned in our recent
- 1:06Speaker 1: con Dragon Con wrap up episode, a lot of people
- 1:08Speaker 1: were dressed as horror like more than normal for Dragon Con.
- 1:13Speaker 2: But I've also seen a lot of horror movies lately.
- 1:15Speaker 2: I know this is a press surprise, but I have
- 1:17Speaker 2: seen a lot of horror movies lately.
- 1:19Speaker 3: They were coming out in droves right now, like yees,
- 1:22Speaker 3: so many horror movies.
- 1:24Speaker 2: So many horror movies.
- 1:25Speaker 1: And I read a whole article about like companies being
- 1:33Speaker 1: surprised at how well their horror was doing.
- 1:36Speaker 2: All their like horror movies.
- 1:39Speaker 1: Just some things that they thought would just flop have
- 1:43Speaker 1: really taken off.
- 1:44Speaker 2: And you know that I'm there watching them.
- 1:47Speaker 3: Them all.
- 1:50Speaker 2: There's one hold out that gonna I'm gonna watch this weekend.
- 1:54Speaker 2: We'll see.
- 1:55Speaker 1: I did want to mention I brought it up before.
- 1:58Speaker 1: Deep bluesy Okay is a bad movie. It's really bad,
- 2:02Speaker 1: but it's on my good bad Movies list, and it's
- 2:06Speaker 1: inspired a new topic I want to talk about because
- 2:10Speaker 1: it's like their twenty fifth anniversary, so I don't know,
- 2:12Speaker 1: it's some anniversary. And the director was saying, like people
- 2:15Speaker 1: are now calling for the original ending to be released,
- 2:19Speaker 1: and I was like, the original ending, So I investigated
- 2:23Speaker 1: and there.
- 2:26Speaker 2: I knew it.
- 2:27Speaker 1: I knew the Ladies Scientist wasn't supposed to die.
- 2:31Speaker 2: I knew it.
- 2:32Speaker 1: They always felt kind of off to me in the
- 2:34Speaker 1: original ending. She doesn't die spoilers. I guess that movie's old.
- 2:39Speaker 1: But they said on exit interviews everyone was like that
- 2:44Speaker 1: she needs to die, so they killed her off. They
- 2:47Speaker 1: reached the ending, and I want to come back and
- 2:49Speaker 1: revisit that, which I know you've seen the outline and
- 2:52Speaker 1: it looks really ominous, like deserves to die as the title,
- 2:55Speaker 1: Oh okay.
- 2:56Speaker 4: I was like, you know what this, Yes, but I
- 3:01Speaker 4: feel like.
- 3:02Speaker 1: That kind of mindset of like, when a man does it,
- 3:06Speaker 1: it's all right, he deserves this redemption arc.
- 3:08Speaker 2: When a woman does it serves to die.
- 3:10Speaker 1: If you've never seen Deep Lucy, she was a scientist
- 3:13Speaker 1: that made some questionable ethical choices, but does have a
- 3:16Speaker 1: journey of realizing she did wrong.
- 3:19Speaker 3: Oh I know nothing about this really bad. It's supposedly
- 3:23Speaker 3: good movie, so okay.
- 3:26Speaker 1: Yeah, well we're going to do a whole It might
- 3:28Speaker 1: be a mini it might be a whole episode about it.
- 3:32Speaker 1: But I was also thinking about bringing this one back
- 3:34Speaker 1: because there's been a lot of articles in my very
- 3:39Speaker 1: niche circle about possession in horror movies and what it
- 3:44Speaker 1: represents and why we get it wrong a lot in
- 3:49Speaker 1: terms of who were having possessed, why they're possessed, all
- 3:53Speaker 1: that stuff. So I want to come back and talk
- 3:55Speaker 1: about that too, which is another outline you might have
- 3:57Speaker 1: seen that might have made you nervous.
- 3:59Speaker 2: The title like extracism.
- 4:02Speaker 1: Oh yeah, okay, yeah, but I thought it was fitting
- 4:05Speaker 1: with you know, approaching this season, but also we are
- 4:08Speaker 1: approaching slowly but steadily the end of our long religious mini.
- 4:14Speaker 3: Series coming is coming. It is just long awaited, my
- 4:20Speaker 3: flat conclusion.
- 4:22Speaker 1: But it is coming, yes, But in the meantime, please
- 4:27Speaker 1: enjoy this classic episode. Hey, this is Annie and Samantha
- 4:36Speaker 1: and welcome to Stefan Never Told your production of iHeartRadio.
- 4:49Speaker 1: For today's question, I'm asking one that I guess I
- 4:52Speaker 1: kind of talked about a little bit before. But do
- 4:54Speaker 1: you remember when you got your first period?
- 4:56Speaker 2: I do.
- 4:56Speaker 3: I was twelve years old, and I had been and
- 5:00Speaker 3: excited about it, mainly because I've watched way too many
- 5:05Speaker 3: sitcoms about how this is a celebration of womanhood and
- 5:08Speaker 3: how this is such a big deal.
- 5:10Speaker 4: And I'm thinking my mom's gonna at least give me,
- 5:12Speaker 4: like I.
- 5:13Speaker 3: Don't know, a present of soores that tells me about it. Instead,
- 5:17Speaker 3: I got sent to my nurses office, who handed me
- 5:19Speaker 3: a pad. Who I went home and my mom was like, okay,
- 5:24Speaker 3: well I'll buy you some pads and that was the
- 5:26Speaker 3: end of the story.
- 5:26Speaker 4: And I was like, cool, cool, cool.
- 5:28Speaker 3: And then after that I probably had some of the
- 5:30Speaker 3: worst crams ever and I hated everything.
- 5:35Speaker 4: Everything.
- 5:37Speaker 3: Yeah, and it took a little while before I started
- 5:39Speaker 3: wearing tampons, But man, those pads were so uncomfortable and gross.
- 5:45Speaker 2: Yeah.
- 5:47Speaker 1: Yeah, I was nine and we were going we were
- 5:54Speaker 1: going to a field trip to the Fox Theater. Oh yeah, yeah,
- 5:59Speaker 1: to go see the Nutcracker.
- 6:01Speaker 2: And I was very, very excited.
- 6:03Speaker 1: And my teacher came up to me and put her
- 6:05Speaker 1: hand on my shoulder and like whispered in my ear, honey,
- 6:08Speaker 1: I have to talk to you. And it was as
- 6:12Speaker 1: though someone had died, like she was breaking the news
- 6:14Speaker 1: that someone had died and I had to go home,
- 6:18Speaker 1: and like I was wearing khakis, so it was really
- 6:20Speaker 1: obvious bloodstain. And yeah, I know I've talked about it before,
- 6:24Speaker 1: but I thought you only got it once. So I
- 6:26Speaker 1: was like at hurt and I had horrible cramps, but
- 6:29Speaker 1: I got to stay home and I got Arby's.
- 6:31Speaker 2: I remember getting RV's nice.
- 6:33Speaker 4: So I did have a celebration. That's nice.
- 6:36Speaker 1: Yeah, And I you know, I didn't realize it was
- 6:38Speaker 1: a real thing, and I did do the thing where
- 6:40Speaker 1: I thought I was dying at first, but then it
- 6:43Speaker 1: was explained to me.
- 6:44Speaker 2: So the second time I got my period was much much.
- 6:46Speaker 1: Worse when I realized, oh this is oh right, oh no.
- 6:51Speaker 4: Right, why why is it continuing to happen.
- 6:55Speaker 1: Yeah. Oh, but yeah, today were finally talking about something
- 7:01Speaker 1: I've wanted to talk about forever.
- 7:04Speaker 2: It's happening, and we're.
- 7:05Speaker 1: Talking about my theory that almost all horror movies are
- 7:08Speaker 1: secretly about male writers and their fear of female bodies
- 7:12Speaker 1: and particularly periods.
- 7:14Speaker 4: Yes, I think.
- 7:14Speaker 3: I guess this is kind of like a two parter
- 7:16Speaker 3: because the next one is kind of on that same
- 7:18Speaker 3: idea at least sexuality.
- 7:21Speaker 2: Yeah.
- 7:22Speaker 1: Yeah, I had a real revelation researching this that it's
- 7:25Speaker 1: you know, it's female bodies, but it's also just women horror.
- 7:29Speaker 1: The genre is almost all about our fear of women.
- 7:33Speaker 4: I mean that's fair.
- 7:36Speaker 2: Yeah, they should be, damn right.
- 7:40Speaker 3: But yes, note obviously not all women have periods, and
- 7:44Speaker 3: we are being hearted about this. And again, not all
- 7:47Speaker 3: people who have periods are women, and we acknowledge that,
- 7:50Speaker 3: and that is a thing, and it is all true,
- 7:53Speaker 3: and we understand and respect that.
- 7:54Speaker 4: But for this specifically, we are.
- 7:56Speaker 3: Talking about women's bodies, especially when we talk about the
- 8:00Speaker 3: old school horror movies who really really, really really really
- 8:03Speaker 3: were afraid of women.
- 8:05Speaker 1: Oh yeah, and as we record this and as you
- 8:09Speaker 1: listen to it, if you're listening to it when it
- 8:10Speaker 1: first came out.
- 8:11Speaker 2: It's October. Happy Halloween, I know, my favorite time.
- 8:15Speaker 1: It's October first, actually the day we're recording this, and
- 8:18Speaker 1: I'm already like, should I get a pumpkin? No?
- 8:20Speaker 3: I was trying to get a pumpkin two weeks ago
- 8:22Speaker 3: and told someone told me no, like at the store.
- 8:26Speaker 4: Yeah, because they were there, and I liked the little
- 8:28Speaker 4: mini pumpkins. I love those. I'm putting Gogle.
- 8:30Speaker 3: Eyes on there, like, oh wow, that's my Jacqueline Arns,
- 8:34Speaker 3: essentially a little mini ones, and they're like smite the no.
- 8:38Speaker 4: I want it.
- 8:42Speaker 2: What touch to me is I don't want it to
- 8:43Speaker 2: rot before Halloween. And also.
- 8:48Speaker 1: Now that I'm getting so many groceries at once, it
- 8:51Speaker 1: was a lot to carry, right, and I am someone
- 8:53Speaker 1: who tries to make what I don't like to go
- 8:55Speaker 1: back and forth from my car to my apartment. That's ridiculous.
- 8:58Speaker 1: One trip, one trip. Ant.
- 9:01Speaker 4: Yes, I'm like, that's than your nickname.
- 9:05Speaker 2: Yeah.
- 9:05Speaker 3: By the way, I definitely had two of my mini
- 9:08Speaker 3: pumpkins sitting on my balcony.
- 9:10Speaker 4: For two years.
- 9:13Speaker 2: Wow. And they didn't die.
- 9:14Speaker 3: They didn't the last time. Actually, producer Andrew was here
- 9:18Speaker 3: over the house. So this was a while ago over here,
- 9:21Speaker 3: and he and my partner went out and they were like,
- 9:23Speaker 3: what is this And one had slowly started to decay
- 9:26Speaker 3: and the other one was okay, but I think they
- 9:29Speaker 3: had gotten.
- 9:30Speaker 4: Stuck to the railing of my bandness.
- 9:34Speaker 3: Oh wow. And when they took it off, they threw
- 9:38Speaker 3: it into the yard because you know, that's what you
- 9:40Speaker 3: do with gords, right, And apparently it was disgusting, like
- 9:43Speaker 3: the inside of it was really gross, but it was intact.
- 9:47Speaker 1: Wow, that's a shame. It was almost a part of
- 9:49Speaker 1: your apartment.
- 9:50Speaker 3: Hus It kind of did grow into my apartment. And
- 9:53Speaker 3: look what you did, yell ruined my life.
- 9:55Speaker 4: Happy Hallow reen.
- 9:57Speaker 2: Yes, yes to the topic at hand.
- 10:02Speaker 1: People and particularly dudes, I would say, I've been afraid
- 10:05Speaker 1: of women's bodies and their periods forever.
- 10:10Speaker 2: Throughout history.
- 10:11Speaker 1: Periods have been viewed as a mark of womanhood, are
- 10:13Speaker 1: something shameful and even evil, something that you hide. Some
- 10:18Speaker 1: historians believe a few religions may have developed in part
- 10:21Speaker 1: due to disgust and fear around periods. Numerous superstitions about
- 10:25Speaker 1: periods have sprung up all over the world, like don't
- 10:28Speaker 1: bake bread while you're on your period.
- 10:29Speaker 2: Don't go to a funeral on your period, don't.
- 10:32Speaker 1: Call a man on the phone on your period, of
- 10:33Speaker 1: heaven forbid, as well as etiquette rules often preventing girls
- 10:38Speaker 1: and women from interacting with boys and men during menstruation,
- 10:42Speaker 1: which I thought was when I think about that, that's
- 10:45Speaker 1: so interesting to me. It's like this passing of sin.
- 10:50Speaker 2: I don't know.
- 10:51Speaker 1: And there is also minophobia, which is legit phobia, fear
- 10:55Speaker 1: of periods, and just the fact that we call it
- 10:58Speaker 1: the curse, which I will say is I kind of
- 11:00Speaker 1: jokingly been reclaimed I feel like in a lot of spaces,
- 11:03Speaker 1: but uh, that wasn't always the case.
- 11:06Speaker 3: Well, and like I said, in my little generation, it
- 11:08Speaker 3: was blooming really womanhood.
- 11:12Speaker 4: Yeah you bloomed.
- 11:14Speaker 2: Oh wow, I never ever encountered.
- 11:17Speaker 1: It's fascinating to me when you say you saw like
- 11:19Speaker 1: these positive are like humorous, perhaps it's better word depictions.
- 11:24Speaker 2: I never it was always a bad thing to me.
- 11:26Speaker 1: Yeah, I've only seen it as a bad thing. As
- 11:31Speaker 1: I was researching this, I was trying to think of
- 11:33Speaker 1: one example where it wasn't portrayed as just like terribly
- 11:38Speaker 1: negative or something to fear right, And I think.
- 11:40Speaker 3: It's also the whole like positive or the comedy wasn't
- 11:43Speaker 3: necessarily just a positive. It was literally turning in sexualizing
- 11:47Speaker 3: and adulting, making a child an adult by a marker
- 11:51Speaker 3: which you are nine, you are not a woman, but
- 11:54Speaker 3: they would say you are now becoming a woman. Me
- 11:57Speaker 3: at twelve, who's still you know, a little older. That
- 12:00Speaker 3: is not the age of becoming a woman. But that's
- 12:02Speaker 3: absolutely a backtrack idea of women getting birth and when
- 12:06Speaker 3: they are able to mate, and so they'refore sold off
- 12:09Speaker 3: to know, you are now able to have babies, you
- 12:11Speaker 3: have reached your adulthood.
- 12:13Speaker 4: Here you go.
- 12:14Speaker 3: So it's not necessarily it's like at the reclaiming, but
- 12:16Speaker 3: it is this backwards idea of why we were called
- 12:18Speaker 3: to being a woman and being now seen sexual because
- 12:22Speaker 3: we've become able to be impregnated essentially, So it's a positive.
- 12:27Speaker 4: But a negative but a negative.
- 12:29Speaker 2: Yeah, well, and I think that's a lot of our
- 12:32Speaker 2: tension around it.
- 12:32Speaker 1: We're going to talk about that a little bit more,
- 12:34Speaker 1: but kind of this tension of we have called it's
- 12:37Speaker 1: for so long a mark of womanhood, but in times
- 12:39Speaker 1: it's like with me, I was nine and clearly not right,
- 12:42Speaker 1: but there's like this idea is still there, and I
- 12:46Speaker 1: do want to say, like, we're not obviously going into
- 12:50Speaker 1: a history of people's views on periods. And there's been
- 12:53Speaker 1: several episodes past hosts have done on like superstitions around
- 12:58Speaker 1: periods or history of our our beliefs around them, and
- 13:02Speaker 1: there are some cultures where the period is celebrated. So
- 13:06Speaker 1: I just I want to put that out there. But today,
- 13:08Speaker 1: because we're focusing on like the horror movie aspect of it,
- 13:13Speaker 1: we're not going to do an exhaustive history, but that
- 13:15Speaker 1: that does exist, like it's not so feared everywhere, but
- 13:22Speaker 1: going back to when it was feared in Jewish tradition
- 13:26Speaker 1: to blame for the curse and the less fun aspects
- 13:29Speaker 1: of childbirth less than fun, shall we say our place
- 13:33Speaker 1: solely on Eve's shoulders. Of course, the taal mood has
- 13:38Speaker 1: this dire warning if a me instrument woman passes between
- 13:41Speaker 1: two men, if it is at the beginning of her mencies,
- 13:44Speaker 1: she will slay one of them, and if it is
- 13:46Speaker 1: at the end of her minsies, she will cause strife
- 13:49Speaker 1: between them.
- 13:51Speaker 3: Well, damn, if I even had that much power to
- 13:52Speaker 3: start walking in between some chosen then.
- 13:55Speaker 2: Can you imagine like men scattering.
- 13:57Speaker 3: My god, I would just be streaming the all time
- 14:00Speaker 3: I'm menstrating, and then try to go in between all
- 14:02Speaker 3: men so.
- 14:04Speaker 1: Parting like a wave, and then like them shouting.
- 14:08Speaker 2: What part of period is she on? Where are you?
- 14:11Speaker 2: You will never know?
- 14:14Speaker 4: Fear me right.
- 14:15Speaker 3: So meanwhile, Livedicus describes periods as ritual impurity, labeling the
- 14:20Speaker 3: menstrating women as impure in anyone or anything that touches
- 14:24Speaker 3: her unclean until the evening comes, which is hilarious to this.
- 14:27Speaker 4: Like time frame of when this could be.
- 14:30Speaker 3: So not only is this girl or woman on her
- 14:32Speaker 3: period impure, that impurity was believed to be transferable by touch.
- 14:38Speaker 3: So haha, this is the beginning of like a zombie
- 14:41Speaker 3: apocalypse is actually the period?
- 14:43Speaker 2: Yeah, you know what I say, it's fat luck.
- 14:45Speaker 1: Our modern reaction to it is enlightening in a way
- 14:49Speaker 1: because in theory, like we're acting as though this is
- 14:52Speaker 1: a great power, which is fun to imagine, and people
- 14:54Speaker 1: were running from as afraid. But at this time I
- 14:57Speaker 1: imagine women were afraid of this too, and that it's
- 15:00Speaker 1: like you don't want to cause strife between men, like
- 15:03Speaker 1: heaven forbid, and you don't want a man to strike
- 15:05Speaker 1: himself down.
- 15:06Speaker 2: Not that there weren't women. I'm sure that did.
- 15:09Speaker 1: They're okay with it, yeah, but I know that it
- 15:12Speaker 1: was not just isolated two men that women were afraid to.
- 15:17Speaker 4: Well. Also, that also brings on a bigger shame factor.
- 15:19Speaker 4: And if you cass, are you a witch? Are you
- 15:22Speaker 4: like impure?
- 15:23Speaker 2: Who are you?
- 15:24Speaker 3: And so just having a period says your impirer, says
- 15:27Speaker 3: your sinful?
- 15:28Speaker 4: So of course has that shame level to that as well.
- 15:31Speaker 1: Well. It's really insidious when you think about it, because
- 15:33Speaker 1: it's basically it's saying, these two men get in a fight,
- 15:37Speaker 1: blame that woman if she's menstruating, right, never holding men
- 15:41Speaker 1: accountable for their actions.
- 15:44Speaker 4: As per usual.
- 15:48Speaker 3: So many religious scripts prohibit sex during periods and also
- 15:51Speaker 3: recommend that cleansing back to wash off the impurity once
- 15:54Speaker 3: the period is over. And by the way, that still
- 15:56Speaker 3: holds true today. I know a lot of people kind
- 15:59Speaker 3: of hold two that you're not supposed to be having sex.
- 16:01Speaker 4: I was actually taught that as a kid, that.
- 16:03Speaker 3: It was biblical to not have sex and that it
- 16:06Speaker 3: was imperiod, have sex durined period.
- 16:08Speaker 4: And even in my mind, there's this whole level of
- 16:10Speaker 4: like Ooh, that's kind of gross.
- 16:12Speaker 2: Wow. See I just kind of assumed you wouldn't.
- 16:16Speaker 1: And then I mentioned that to a good friend of
- 16:17Speaker 1: mine in college and she's like, well, i've heard it's
- 16:19Speaker 1: actually really great.
- 16:21Speaker 2: I was like, oh, homoies.
- 16:24Speaker 4: Are all over the place at this time, we know this.
- 16:26Speaker 3: But yeah, actually I was told that as a kid,
- 16:29Speaker 3: and I don't even think it was one of my
- 16:32Speaker 3: female relatives who told me, yeah, it's gross, you shouldn't
- 16:34Speaker 3: do this. And she was an adult believing this, So
- 16:37Speaker 3: I was like, oh, okay. In some sex of Orthodox
- 16:40Speaker 3: Christianity still forbidminstrating women from receiving communions. I can't imagine
- 16:44Speaker 3: that conversation to come and be like, ah, I can't
- 16:46Speaker 3: take part and communion today Church, I'm all my period.
- 16:50Speaker 1: That does sound so again shameful of Like people are
- 16:56Speaker 1: going to know that you're on your period, right, you
- 16:59Speaker 1: have to tell them assume that you are, Like, you
- 17:02Speaker 1: don't have to say a thing the fact that you
- 17:04Speaker 1: didn't take communion.
- 17:05Speaker 3: Oh, either you're a devil worshiper or you're on your period,
- 17:09Speaker 3: or both or both, which is so During Ramadan, however,
- 17:14Speaker 3: women on their period may be exempt from fasting, so
- 17:16Speaker 3: that seems at least reasonable.
- 17:19Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, And again, like it's so much we could
- 17:22Speaker 1: talk about if we were specifically focusing on all of
- 17:26Speaker 1: the ways around the world the period is viewed and treated.
- 17:30Speaker 1: But we are talking about horror movies today, and we've
- 17:35Speaker 1: talked about before how horror movies are a really great
- 17:38Speaker 1: reflection of what scares us as a society, and clearly
- 17:44Speaker 1: we're afraid periods so much so it almost qualifies as
- 17:48Speaker 1: its own horror subgenre. That's called supernatural period horror. That's perfect,
- 17:55Speaker 1: which I mentioned to a guy friend the other day
- 17:57Speaker 1: and he was like, are you talking about like a
- 17:59Speaker 1: horrmon be taking place in like the sixteen hundreds, And
- 18:02Speaker 1: I was like, no, but.
- 18:04Speaker 2: I see how you thought that.
- 18:06Speaker 1: I'll see how you thought that, Like pioc gotcha exactly exactly.
- 18:11Speaker 1: So Emily Soderback has actually written a whole piece on
- 18:13Speaker 1: this called Ghoul You'll be a Woman Soon, Supernatural Puberty
- 18:16Speaker 1: in the Horror of Periods, and she goes a step
- 18:20Speaker 1: further in this article and argues that horror the genre
- 18:24Speaker 1: at large is intrinsically tied to women, whether we're talking
- 18:27Speaker 1: about the final girl, the pregnant body as a vessel
- 18:31Speaker 1: for evil, like the monstrous feminine rape Revenge movies are
- 18:35Speaker 1: teenage girls having their first period and just wreaking havoc, yes.
- 18:39Speaker 2: Usually supernatural havoc. Yes, yes.
- 18:42Speaker 1: And actually I'm really glad I found this piece because
- 18:47Speaker 1: it has that really resonated with me, and I'd never
- 18:50Speaker 1: really considered it before, but now I do think a
- 18:54Speaker 1: lot of horror is about is intrinsically linked to women.
- 18:58Speaker 1: I think that was very astute, for sure, and it
- 19:01Speaker 1: is very telling, as we were talking about earlier, that
- 19:04Speaker 1: we rarely see depictions of periods in our media, and
- 19:07Speaker 1: especially in my case, I literally cannot think of a
- 19:09Speaker 1: positive thing I've seen about the period. But when we do,
- 19:13Speaker 1: like most often, it is as a construct in a
- 19:17Speaker 1: horror movie.
- 19:18Speaker 3: All right, So I think I must have watched a
- 19:19Speaker 3: lot more like coming of age movies, and of course
- 19:23Speaker 3: a lot of it was more horror, like, oh my god,
- 19:25Speaker 3: this happened. I also one of my favorite book, Judy
- 19:29Speaker 3: bloom books, just as long as We're Together, had us
- 19:31Speaker 3: seen him that as well, that it was fairly positive,
- 19:33Speaker 3: but it definitely makes out to be She became womanly overnight,
- 19:37Speaker 3: she grew hips and breasts and I'm like, how's that possible?
- 19:40Speaker 3: But back to this, so the big question why are
- 19:45Speaker 3: we so afraid of them? And obviously our emotions, come on,
- 19:50Speaker 3: we're so emotional. Donald Trump saying blood was coming out
- 19:53Speaker 3: of Meghan Kelly's oh you know wherever when she wasn't
- 19:56Speaker 3: nice to him was a great example of dude, how
- 19:59Speaker 3: old are you?
- 20:00Speaker 4: And are you kidding me?
- 20:01Speaker 3: And just pretty much saying giving the excuse, oh, she's
- 20:05Speaker 3: on her period to dismiss someone's.
- 20:07Speaker 4: Emotions so annoying.
- 20:09Speaker 3: Yes, And I've seen that played on TV shows repeatedly.
- 20:14Speaker 2: Yeah the month.
- 20:16Speaker 1: Yeah, oh, that's right up there with one of my
- 20:19Speaker 1: biggest pet peeves, would take a chill pill. Never ever
- 20:21Speaker 1: say that to me. That's the opposite of a chill pill.
- 20:24Speaker 1: Is gonna happen.
- 20:25Speaker 3: Damn, I'm going to remember that. Don't say this to Annie.
- 20:28Speaker 3: Take a note, don't say it during games and battles.
- 20:31Speaker 4: Got it?
- 20:32Speaker 1: This is and and the whole like r E PM
- 20:35Speaker 1: messing is at that time of the month is the equivalent?
- 20:38Speaker 2: Right? And I remember when I read it was for
- 20:40Speaker 2: this show.
- 20:42Speaker 1: There was a study that came out that said, actually
- 20:45Speaker 1: there's not Actually there's not really that much definitive proof
- 20:50Speaker 1: that you become more emotional during your period. It might
- 20:55Speaker 1: be that you're cranky because you have cramps, right, and
- 20:58Speaker 1: you don't feel well, But it's it's not like.
- 21:01Speaker 2: A switch for some women.
- 21:03Speaker 1: Maybe for some women definitely, but for most women, it's
- 21:06Speaker 1: not like some switch goes off and all of a sudden,
- 21:08Speaker 1: you're like a harpy, right, it's just maybe you're uncomfortable
- 21:12Speaker 1: and tired.
- 21:13Speaker 4: You've become a shrill harpy. Yeah.
- 21:16Speaker 3: I think that's one of the perfect examples, because there
- 21:18Speaker 3: are people who suffer from PMDD and that's a whole
- 21:20Speaker 3: hormonal thing that affects your life, not just on your period.
- 21:23Speaker 3: And we know that, but like I will say, I
- 21:26Speaker 3: definitely had really strong PMS and really like strong symptoms
- 21:32Speaker 3: to the point that, you know, a younger, I was
- 21:33Speaker 3: looking at birth control pill because it was so it
- 21:35Speaker 3: affected my life so often, like every month it did.
- 21:38Speaker 3: But at the same time, it's not to the point
- 21:41Speaker 3: that I couldn't control myself.
- 21:43Speaker 4: I throw things at people, right whatever.
- 21:46Speaker 2: Right, right.
- 21:47Speaker 3: However, back to the emotions parts. Social media platforms sensoring
- 21:50Speaker 3: images of period blood as we know, and the hashtag
- 21:53Speaker 3: period pride response, which.
- 21:55Speaker 4: Some also see as problematic.
- 21:57Speaker 3: So it is a back and forth conversation because I
- 22:00Speaker 3: I as someone who was born in the eighties and
- 22:02Speaker 3: growing up in the country and trying to figure all
- 22:05Speaker 3: of this out, because like I said, I did see
- 22:07Speaker 3: positive influences of that, but also this like shame factor
- 22:10Speaker 3: of that hiding the tampon, you know, making sure no
- 22:13Speaker 3: one saw if you bled on yourself, you know, all
- 22:15Speaker 3: those things. Yeah, not having my male counterpart or my
- 22:18Speaker 3: brothers were carrying tampons for me, you know, Oh well,
- 22:21Speaker 3: how dare you even being down that aisle?
- 22:23Speaker 4: Bring some shame.
- 22:26Speaker 3: But it does seem like the over exemplification of hey,
- 22:30Speaker 3: I'm gonna just wear blood everywhere. Like it it has
- 22:33Speaker 3: this thing like I do you get a little squeamish
- 22:34Speaker 3: about that? And I don't know if that's more so
- 22:36Speaker 3: of my in like ingrained this is shameful or just
- 22:41Speaker 3: like this doesn't compute as something that I have shown,
- 22:45Speaker 3: you know what, show off sure, you know. So it
- 22:47Speaker 3: is like this back and forth of like huh, And
- 22:49Speaker 3: I think people my generation have that same kind of
- 22:52Speaker 3: idea of like, yes, I'm not going to be hiding it,
- 22:54Speaker 3: but at the same time, I don't want to wear
- 22:56Speaker 3: my blood so everyone can see.
- 23:01Speaker 2: Yeah.
- 23:04Speaker 1: Yeah, And just also the conversation around you know, people
- 23:06Speaker 1: who don't have periods, who are women, And that was
- 23:09Speaker 1: a couple of years ago when I remember this really
- 23:11Speaker 1: being a big thing, and I remember pieces of that conversation.
- 23:16Speaker 2: So I think it's great that to have.
- 23:17Speaker 1: That conversation that some people are like, no, have I period,
- 23:21Speaker 1: And I'm proud of it.
- 23:22Speaker 2: I'm all for that.
- 23:23Speaker 1: But yes, always good to have those and make sure
- 23:28Speaker 1: we're being inclusive when we talked about things like that.
- 23:32Speaker 1: So another reason I think we're afraid of periods is religion.
- 23:37Speaker 1: And I have been watching a lot.
- 23:40Speaker 2: Of horror movies lately, a lot, a lot, a lot, and.
- 23:43Speaker 1: I've realized a lot of our horror movies are religious
- 23:46Speaker 1: in nature. And I know we've talked about this, Samantha.
- 23:50Speaker 1: I don't know if I ever talked about it on
- 23:51Speaker 1: the show, but when I was young, I was very
- 23:53Speaker 1: very religious. I think I have talked about it, and
- 23:55Speaker 1: I would lie awake at night and think I'm going
- 23:56Speaker 1: to burn in hell. And then I was a bad person.
- 23:59Speaker 1: And I can see, especially in when we're talking about
- 24:07Speaker 1: older times, and religion back then, when you didn't understand
- 24:12Speaker 1: the world around you and you thought the period, your
- 24:17Speaker 1: period was shameful because it's in like religious text, then
- 24:23Speaker 1: it would be terrifying. Yeah, and you like the shame.
- 24:26Speaker 1: It's one thing like the shame I feel. But back
- 24:30Speaker 1: when I was a kid, if I had thought like
- 24:32Speaker 1: this was some sign of my impurity, right, and I
- 24:35Speaker 1: was going to burn in hell because of it?
- 24:37Speaker 2: Right? Yeah?
- 24:39Speaker 3: Wells it also puts this responsibility of my duty as
- 24:43Speaker 3: a woman who has now bled as two birth children,
- 24:45Speaker 3: because this is the only reason for it. If I'm
- 24:47Speaker 3: not using that ability, I'm sinning, which has been that
- 24:50Speaker 3: old school text in religion as well, and what providing
- 24:55Speaker 3: for a family looks like for women. But yeah, absolutely
- 24:58Speaker 3: carry the movie, which we'll talk about in a little bit,
- 25:00Speaker 3: it is the epitome of that whole idea.
- 25:03Speaker 1: Yeah, oh yeah. Another reason I think people are fraid
- 25:10Speaker 1: of ferias are we are afraid of women's bodies. We
- 25:14Speaker 1: see this with women's bodies as a vessel for evil,
- 25:16Speaker 1: the bad seed Satan himself, like Rosemary's baby.
- 25:19Speaker 2: Like being the mother of that.
- 25:23Speaker 1: And I was thinking about that and more in depth,
- 25:25Speaker 1: and it's almost always it comes down to blaming the
- 25:29Speaker 1: mother in these movies or blaming the woman in these movies.
- 25:35Speaker 1: But often the mother, like especially in serial killer movies,
- 25:38Speaker 1: it's like, oh, yeah, it was the mom. She should
- 25:41Speaker 1: have done X, Y Z. And then I was like, well,
- 25:44Speaker 1: the final girl might be an exemption, but I feel
- 25:47Speaker 1: like the final Girl is here's this pure, innocent woman
- 25:55Speaker 1: who suffers and eventually a man will get No, like
- 26:00Speaker 1: she's being preserved for a man at a future dates,
- 26:03Speaker 1: which her precious, precious virginity which is why she survives,
- 26:09Speaker 1: is being preserved for some future man.
- 26:13Speaker 4: Well, we know the sequels that come out.
- 26:14Speaker 3: It's always never good, and it's a turn for her
- 26:17Speaker 3: trying to be a woman at this point.
- 26:21Speaker 1: Yeah, you know, there's also this fear around the transition
- 26:25Speaker 1: into womanhood. We're very scared of young women, girls, young
- 26:29Speaker 1: girls becoming young women.
- 26:31Speaker 2: We literally are afraid of fangirling.
- 26:33Speaker 1: I think about that article I read all the time
- 26:34Speaker 1: where the it seemed legitimate.
- 26:36Speaker 2: The author was like this terrifying trend among young girls
- 26:39Speaker 2: where they screamed together and lust after this man's calm down.
- 26:46Speaker 1: Not only do we not understand thanks to a long
- 26:49Speaker 1: lack of science changing hormones, our bodies. We also don't
- 26:55Speaker 1: understand like changing emotions. We're afraid of it. And we
- 26:59Speaker 1: see this in so many movies. And I know we've
- 27:02Speaker 1: been talking about this a lot lately, but I think
- 27:04Speaker 1: this is in part why all those father daughter posts
- 27:06Speaker 1: apocalyptic stories exist. Right, What could be more difficult and
- 27:10Speaker 1: terrifying and altruistic than a man trying to understand a
- 27:15Speaker 1: teenage girl.
- 27:16Speaker 2: What are zombies compared to that?
- 27:18Speaker 3: I mean the teenage boys you know, talk about porn, great,
- 27:22Speaker 3: talk about tell him how to fix a car, and
- 27:25Speaker 3: teenage girls though, oh no, oh.
- 27:27Speaker 2: No, what do I do? She would never want to
- 27:30Speaker 2: learn how to fix a car?
- 27:32Speaker 3: Right, She doesn't want to be a part of my life.
- 27:34Speaker 3: He doesn't want to watch sports with me. And that
- 27:37Speaker 3: is very, very generalization of men.
- 27:39Speaker 1: I know, Yeah, absolutely, but I mean that's the problem too,
- 27:43Speaker 1: yeah mm hmm. And then yeah, like we said earlier
- 27:48Speaker 1: that the struggle between this idea that a period makes
- 27:50Speaker 1: a girl a woman while often still in a young
- 27:53Speaker 1: child's body, which is unsettling it can be at the
- 27:58Speaker 1: same time, this threatens the patriarch order of things. If
- 28:00Speaker 1: the young girl is becoming an independent from her father,
- 28:04Speaker 1: no longer needing him. Oh wow, then that's scary. She's independent,
- 28:09Speaker 1: what right? And that might also be why we see
- 28:12Speaker 1: this father daughter dynamic or our stand in father figure
- 28:15Speaker 1: protector in so much media. And I know we talked
- 28:18Speaker 1: in Survival Horror about this, but essentially, like, you can
- 28:22Speaker 1: have a strong female character in quotes that's really awesome,
- 28:27Speaker 1: but there's almost always a stronger male character that's protecting her, right.
- 28:34Speaker 3: Yeah, And it's a disillusioned father who kind of just
- 28:37Speaker 3: walks away.
- 28:39Speaker 2: Yeah.
- 28:39Speaker 1: Yeah, And it's a marker of how good he is
- 28:43Speaker 1: if he stays around and protects her.
- 28:47Speaker 2: Yeah.
- 28:47Speaker 1: But okay, we do have some examples for you. But
- 28:51Speaker 1: first we're gonna pause for a quick break or word
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- 29:09Speaker 1: we're back with Carrie.
- 29:12Speaker 4: The iconic religious horror movie.
- 29:15Speaker 2: Yes, and story of course.
- 29:18Speaker 1: Of course, this is probably one of the most iconic
- 29:21Speaker 1: examples of what we're talking about.
- 29:23Speaker 2: So this is Stephen King's Carrie.
- 29:25Speaker 1: The book came out in nineteen seventy four, and the movie,
- 29:28Speaker 1: directed by Brian to Palma, debut two years later in
- 29:30Speaker 1: nineteen seventy six. Sissy Spacek starred as Carrie. It was
- 29:34Speaker 1: a shy, abused high school girl who was bullied by
- 29:37Speaker 1: both her religious mother and her classmates, and when she
- 29:41Speaker 1: gets her first period in the gym locker room, her
- 29:43Speaker 1: classmates mock her, they throw tampons at her, they shall
- 29:46Speaker 1: plug it up, and Carrie, who has never had any
- 29:49Speaker 1: of this explained to her, believed she was dying. Her
- 29:54Speaker 1: mom called it a sign of quote sinful sexual fantasies.
- 30:00Speaker 1: And this all happens to coincide with Carrie developing powers,
- 30:04Speaker 1: of course, telekinetic powers, which are symbolic of her becoming
- 30:08Speaker 1: a woman. When a cool prank leaves her doused in
- 30:11Speaker 1: pig's blood, representing her period, she turns those powers indiscriminately
- 30:16Speaker 1: on all in her path in a wave of terrifying
- 30:19Speaker 1: supernatural violence, as her mom washes the blood off her.
- 30:23Speaker 1: In the end, she reveals Carrie was the product of
- 30:26Speaker 1: a rape that her mother quote enjoyed, and that sin
- 30:31Speaker 1: never dies. Yeah, and I'd never seen this movie when
- 30:36Speaker 1: I wrote it, and I still haven't seen it, much
- 30:39Speaker 1: to Samantha's chagrin, But I did. I knew most of
- 30:44Speaker 1: this from memory, so it really left a mark on
- 30:47Speaker 1: our cultural psyche, and it received several awards. It received
- 30:51Speaker 1: several nominations and is regularly included on list of the
- 30:55Speaker 1: top horror movies of all time.
- 30:57Speaker 3: Right, yes, I was very sad to hear you say
- 31:01Speaker 3: someone who loves horror movies have not seen such an
- 31:05Speaker 3: iconic movie. You did say you read the book, so
- 31:10Speaker 3: I'll allow it. But this is definitely of a different beast.
- 31:14Speaker 3: Not only do you have an innocent girl or in
- 31:16Speaker 3: this I think she would be called a cinnamon roll
- 31:18Speaker 3: with a S I N in a M O N.
- 31:21Speaker 4: Yes, we learned this.
- 31:22Speaker 3: I learned this term because of Annie or a parked
- 31:24Speaker 3: cinnamon roll. You're welcome that develops dark telekinetic powers, but
- 31:30Speaker 3: a young girl who destroys an entire community without hesitating.
- 31:35Speaker 3: She goes from victim and turns into a psycho bitch trope.
- 31:39Speaker 4: But there is a.
- 31:39Speaker 3: Second one as well, which I've never seen, but Annie, so.
- 31:46Speaker 1: This is also part of Savantha's I seeing the second
- 31:49Speaker 1: Carrie Carrie to Rage Unleashed, I think I have not seen.
- 31:54Speaker 2: The first one.
- 31:55Speaker 1: I watched Carrie two for the soundtrack, which is just
- 31:59Speaker 1: as mayors as it sounds.
- 32:03Speaker 2: I still have a soundcheck all I.
- 32:06Speaker 1: Remember is like she was in a pretty red dress
- 32:08Speaker 1: at the end and some guy got there's a lot
- 32:11Speaker 1: of fire, and some guy was like in a pool
- 32:13Speaker 1: and that you know, the sheet came over it and
- 32:16Speaker 1: couldn't get out, and it really freaked me out.
- 32:17Speaker 3: Oh that's bad, Yeah for sure. Yeah, definitely fire cleansing
- 32:21Speaker 3: like that. There's a lot of like symbolism within the story.
- 32:24Speaker 3: We know this, between the blood and the fire and
- 32:29Speaker 3: the crucifixes as well as crucifying her mother essentially.
- 32:33Speaker 4: So if you haven't seen this movie already.
- 32:34Speaker 3: Why haven't you any Sorry, but unless you don't like horror,
- 32:39Speaker 3: which is fine. Also, yes, we're talking about nineteen seventies movies,
- 32:44Speaker 3: so spoiler.
- 32:45Speaker 4: Alert, I guess if you have it heard about it
- 32:49Speaker 4: at all.
- 32:50Speaker 3: But yeah, the whole idea with this is so symbolic
- 32:53Speaker 3: throughout it's pretty much hit you over the head. But
- 32:55Speaker 3: he does turn what would be the innocent victim into
- 32:58Speaker 3: a very quickly evil woman. Even the jump scared at
- 33:02Speaker 3: the end, which was fairly new, that kind of jump scare,
- 33:05Speaker 3: So it got me too when I watched it as
- 33:07Speaker 3: a kid. I think it was at a slumber party,
- 33:09Speaker 3: typical slumber party Oh my god, it's such a girl
- 33:11Speaker 3: trope right there. Yeah, and scared the hell out of us.
- 33:15Speaker 3: I think all the little girls screamed. We were in
- 33:17Speaker 3: seventh grade, sixth or seventh grade, we're like God because
- 33:20Speaker 3: of the perfect jump scare.
- 33:22Speaker 4: But you do.
- 33:23Speaker 3: It has this whole thing of you have characters who
- 33:27Speaker 3: are sympathetic and are really caring and in the end
- 33:29Speaker 3: really hope for the best for her and are so
- 33:32Speaker 3: excited for her.
- 33:33Speaker 4: However she does not care. Everyone must go.
- 33:36Speaker 3: It kind of has that this is everyone's fault, which
- 33:39Speaker 3: again kind of turns your view on her. Yea, even
- 33:42Speaker 3: when she does go home to her mom begging for
- 33:44Speaker 3: some sympathy and love and ends up getting you know,
- 33:47Speaker 3: almost murdered by her mother. And so it does have
- 33:51Speaker 3: this whole level of conversation of how do we see
- 33:53Speaker 3: these girls wire periods, the evil that comes upon us,
- 33:58Speaker 3: and then who in the end is innocent?
- 34:01Speaker 1: Yeah, and I mean clearly we're I don't know if
- 34:05Speaker 1: oversimplifying is the right word, because there is a lot
- 34:08Speaker 1: going on. You know, you do have that religious aspect,
- 34:10Speaker 1: you do have to blame the mother aspect, and like
- 34:16Speaker 1: her becoming you can read it as she becomes a
- 34:20Speaker 1: woman and then yeah, it's a traumatic experience and then.
- 34:26Speaker 2: Unleashes this hell within her.
- 34:29Speaker 1: But she also was abused, so there's that aspect of
- 34:33Speaker 1: it too. And when I was telling Samantha why I
- 34:38Speaker 1: haven't seen it, I do have an anxiety, like a
- 34:41Speaker 1: legit anxiety around this kind of horror that's like a
- 34:44Speaker 1: bullying abuse, religion, and like womanhood.
- 34:50Speaker 3: Because we talked about several movies you hadn't seen that
- 34:53Speaker 3: are more of the psycho bitstrope, and realizing you've not
- 34:56Speaker 3: seen any of those, even though they are considered horror.
- 35:00Speaker 3: For one, yep, which I'm still confused by, I will
- 35:03Speaker 3: say that, but it has a whole different layer of
- 35:07Speaker 3: your involving your psyche and your your darkest fears or
- 35:10Speaker 3: even personal experiences, which makes a whole lot more sense
- 35:14Speaker 3: of like, oh, I get it, this is why because I.
- 35:17Speaker 4: Think Hush was one of them.
- 35:18Speaker 3: We don't we're not going to talk about that, but
- 35:19Speaker 3: it's definitely like a murder thriller, stalker ish movie which
- 35:24Speaker 3: you don't really know much of this woman's background, but
- 35:26Speaker 3: you just watch it in real time essentially. So yeah,
- 35:29Speaker 3: but stuff like that you don't watch and the strangers,
- 35:32Speaker 3: which all have that fear, which in your mind, some
- 35:36Speaker 3: of these are based on true.
- 35:37Speaker 4: Stories, so it's like this really could happen.
- 35:40Speaker 2: Yeah, I think that's what gets me.
- 35:41Speaker 1: I think I really like I like the clear oh no,
- 35:45Speaker 1: this is not the real world stuff. Not that I
- 35:49Speaker 1: haven't watched plenty of those, but I think these are
- 35:51Speaker 1: because I.
- 35:52Speaker 2: Have these anxieties. They're so close to home. Yeah.
- 35:55Speaker 1: But speaking of like plague on your worst Fears and
- 35:58Speaker 1: Stephen King.
- 35:59Speaker 3: I will say this is probably one of my biggest
- 36:01Speaker 3: fears and the reason why I am afraid of freaking
- 36:03Speaker 3: clowns is because of this movie. So Stephen Keen tackles
- 36:07Speaker 3: the fears of girls becoming women and the peer that
- 36:09Speaker 3: comes with it. Is it that so you have it
- 36:13Speaker 3: as a conversation about women imperiods. And I didn't really
- 36:16Speaker 3: think about it because I don't know if I've ever
- 36:19Speaker 3: finished the early series, like when it came out in
- 36:22Speaker 3: the early nineties, because I couldn't get past the clown
- 36:25Speaker 3: Tim Curry as the freaking clown and those teeth. Yeah,
- 36:30Speaker 3: But in the newer movies I did see it in
- 36:32Speaker 3: which they do talk about the main female character and
- 36:36Speaker 3: her period and her becoming a woman and then the
- 36:38Speaker 3: relationship she has with her father.
- 36:40Speaker 2: Yeah.
- 36:41Speaker 3: So in the most recent movie of Beverly, Marsha's greatest
- 36:43Speaker 3: fear is that very thing and the pain it brought
- 36:46Speaker 3: her via the sexual abuse from her father. When he
- 36:49Speaker 3: discovered she had her first period, he said she was
- 36:51Speaker 3: a woman now and very creepily sniffed her hair. Is
- 36:55Speaker 3: a little different in the book, which I've never read
- 36:58Speaker 3: the book either, again, clown in a story.
- 37:00Speaker 4: I was over it.
- 37:01Speaker 3: And there's even a scene where she stares at a
- 37:04Speaker 3: wall of tampons and pass out a pharmacy before choosing one,
- 37:07Speaker 3: and then gets leered at by the older male pharmacist
- 37:10Speaker 3: when she checks out again.
- 37:11Speaker 4: This is whole like, yeah, yeah, it's not just the
- 37:15Speaker 4: fact that.
- 37:17Speaker 3: There's this almost invitation of like, I'm sexual now, which
- 37:21Speaker 3: is so untrue.
- 37:22Speaker 1: I've definitely had this exact moment at the store where
- 37:25Speaker 1: it's a male cashier and they're checking you out and
- 37:27Speaker 1: they give you this look like yeah, yeah gross.
- 37:31Speaker 4: Yeah.
- 37:32Speaker 3: And then one scene, Beverly is in the bathroom, which
- 37:34Speaker 3: was very horrifying, leaning over a sink with blood explodes
- 37:38Speaker 3: out from the drain, completely drenching her and the bathroom
- 37:41Speaker 3: in Crimson Blood. And honestly, I feel like I've seen
- 37:44Speaker 3: scenes like this a lot growing up, because I.
- 37:46Speaker 4: Watched a lot of horror movies and it never clicked
- 37:49Speaker 4: with me.
- 37:50Speaker 3: Yeah, what that truly was representing, And like I thought
- 37:53Speaker 3: people just had a phobia about blood, which.
- 37:55Speaker 2: Is true, but this is the part of this whole thing.
- 37:58Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, absolute, They're like, oh God, you're bleeding and
- 38:01Speaker 3: there's no cause for it. This seems unnatural because we
- 38:04Speaker 3: see that as a warning of something bad is happening
- 38:06Speaker 3: to your body. This is repeated in chapter two, by
- 38:09Speaker 3: the way, I have not seen that win, when a
- 38:12Speaker 3: now adult Beverly is trapped in a bathroom stall as
- 38:14Speaker 3: blood gushes and rises around her, her father and the
- 38:18Speaker 3: pharmis is trying to break in.
- 38:20Speaker 2: Yeah.
- 38:20Speaker 1: So if if somehow you're not familiar with it, it is
- 38:24Speaker 1: this alien entity that transforms into your greatest fear and
- 38:27Speaker 1: feeds on your fear. So and at the end of
- 38:30Speaker 1: chapter chapter two, they're all having to face their greatest fears.
- 38:35Speaker 1: And so now Beverly as an adult, there's just blood
- 38:39Speaker 1: all around her, and these men who kind of tormented
- 38:43Speaker 1: her made her this object of sexual fantasy when she
- 38:46Speaker 1: was young, or trying to get into the bathroom stall.
- 38:50Speaker 2: And you know, apparently Stephen King has some kind.
- 38:54Speaker 1: Of uh I guess he likes coming of age things
- 38:57Speaker 1: in general, and right coming.
- 38:59Speaker 3: Out stand by me as one of his like sweet movies, yeah,
- 39:02Speaker 3: about boys coming together, but then also death.
- 39:05Speaker 1: Yeah, but it's just interesting that these examples do involve
- 39:11Speaker 1: the period so much. And then you know the Shining Everybody,
- 39:14Speaker 1: which notoriously he hates that movie, but that scene with
- 39:17Speaker 1: all the blood coming out, everybody uses that as a
- 39:19Speaker 1: joking gift, like, my period's here, right right. Yeah, But
- 39:26Speaker 1: let's move on from Stephen King from now and talk
- 39:27Speaker 1: about Ginger Snaps, which is.
- 39:29Speaker 2: A movie I love.
- 39:29Speaker 4: I love that movie.
- 39:31Speaker 2: Yeah.
- 39:31Speaker 1: So this was made in two thousand and It marries
- 39:34Speaker 1: a teenage girl getting her first period with her becoming
- 39:37Speaker 1: a werewolf, like getting hair in new places, acting out
- 39:40Speaker 1: of character, more volatile, painting her sexuality in a very
- 39:45Speaker 1: monstrous way. But it's very self aware, it's on purpose.
- 39:49Speaker 1: It's definitely commenting on this whole thing of when you
- 39:53Speaker 1: get your period, when you become a woman, then you
- 39:57Speaker 1: become this monster, like a werewolf. The movie's tagline is
- 40:02Speaker 1: they don't call it the Curse for nothing.
- 40:04Speaker 4: So have you seen any of the sequels?
- 40:06Speaker 1: No?
- 40:07Speaker 4: Yeah, I haven't either. I haven't either.
- 40:09Speaker 3: I'm just afraid of sequels, which is why I'm always
- 40:12Speaker 3: horrified and when people watch it out of sync because
- 40:15Speaker 3: it's not as good.
- 40:17Speaker 1: Typically sometimes sometimes there you know what I think I
- 40:21Speaker 1: feel like in trilogy is the second one is better
- 40:24Speaker 1: usually but.
- 40:25Speaker 3: Not a planned Yes, I feel like it's planned more
- 40:28Speaker 3: likely however.
- 40:29Speaker 4: But yeah, the.
- 40:31Speaker 3: Main character of this movie is actually in the Netflix.
- 40:34Speaker 4: Series about were wolves. Oh really witches.
- 40:38Speaker 3: Yes, yes, I thought that was hilarious because I've not
- 40:40Speaker 3: seen her much recently in many things, but people who
- 40:44Speaker 3: are very very iconic and noticeable, and to me in
- 40:47Speaker 3: the whole, like loving horror movies, she's iconic. The young girl.
- 40:50Speaker 3: She plays this character as a witch. She's not a
- 40:53Speaker 3: were wolf. But the fact that she's in this movie
- 40:55Speaker 3: always like ah, tongue in cheek type of thing may
- 40:59Speaker 3: not be on purpose whatever, But if you haven't seen
- 41:02Speaker 3: this movie, you absolutely should.
- 41:03Speaker 4: And if you like horror movies, yes then yes.
- 41:06Speaker 3: The crash it was really funny because we had our
- 41:09Speaker 3: listener Cat Hey Kat, send us a link on Twitter
- 41:12Speaker 3: about the remake of the Craft, and as soon as
- 41:15Speaker 3: she did that, I think it was a few days
- 41:16Speaker 3: later that the.
- 41:18Speaker 4: Trailer came out.
- 41:19Speaker 3: And of course one of the big scenes is a
- 41:22Speaker 3: period scene which is not really like it's I don't
- 41:25Speaker 3: know if it's part of the movie obviously we haven't
- 41:26Speaker 3: seen it, but this was definitely not a part of
- 41:28Speaker 3: the original Craft, so we it was interesting, So shout
- 41:32Speaker 3: out to that, and I wonder what this is synchronous?
- 41:35Speaker 1: It was odd, right, we were like literally researching this
- 41:39Speaker 1: every night.
- 41:39Speaker 2: Happened.
- 41:41Speaker 1: So we do have a little bit more for you listeners,
- 41:45Speaker 1: but first we have one more quick break for word
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- 42:03Speaker 2: Thank you sponsor. And we just wanted to wrap this up,
- 42:07Speaker 2: I suppose.
- 42:08Speaker 1: So when I was thinking about this and doing the research,
- 42:12Speaker 1: I do think horror movies at large, when I joke
- 42:16Speaker 1: about semi joke about how they're all about male writers
- 42:21Speaker 1: fears around periods, I think what I actually mean is
- 42:24Speaker 1: they're all about male writers fears, and you know, all
- 42:27Speaker 1: of our fears around women and periods have often been
- 42:31Speaker 1: symbolic of womanhood. Now again, I know we've been hopefully
- 42:36Speaker 1: in what was clearly a vocal air quote saying becoming
- 42:40Speaker 1: a woman. We've been saying that throughout but again, you
- 42:44Speaker 1: don't have to have periods to become a woman. But
- 42:45Speaker 1: it is something that we've seen in our culture and
- 42:49Speaker 1: in our.
- 42:49Speaker 2: Media a lot.
- 42:52Speaker 1: And I do think the horror genre is intrinsically tied
- 42:55Speaker 1: to women and our fears around it.
- 42:57Speaker 2: That just makes sense to me.
- 42:58Speaker 1: I don't think i'd ever really put it together like
- 43:01Speaker 1: I'd always sent like, this genre is about final girls,
- 43:04Speaker 1: and this genre is about pregnant women giving birth to
- 43:07Speaker 1: evil babies. And you know, I never thought about, in
- 43:10Speaker 1: like the whole scheme of horror, how much.
- 43:13Speaker 2: Of it is about women girls.
- 43:15Speaker 3: Because yeah, you and I have had many conversations because
- 43:18Speaker 3: I love those movies about you know, hauntings and you know,
- 43:22Speaker 3: possessions and all of that, because it's nice and scared.
- 43:25Speaker 4: But when you look at it, a chunk of it
- 43:27Speaker 4: has to do.
- 43:27Speaker 3: With a mother who's lost a baby who's haunting someone,
- 43:31Speaker 3: or a mother who didn't who didn't want children and
- 43:33Speaker 3: sacrifice them, is haunting someone.
- 43:35Speaker 4: And it's always the mother.
- 43:37Speaker 3: It's always the mother doing something, whether it's going after
- 43:39Speaker 3: the mother or the mother is going after a child.
- 43:42Speaker 3: It's very link, but it is it's that whole overall.
- 43:44Speaker 3: It's not just one generation of things, it's all the things.
- 43:47Speaker 3: So when we talk about and we're going too soon,
- 43:50Speaker 3: we're talking about them fatales.
- 43:51Speaker 4: That's the single woman. Oh my god, be.
- 43:53Speaker 2: Scared, terrified, terrifying. I strike so much fear in the hearts.
- 43:59Speaker 1: Of men, and all of the points that we've discussed
- 44:04Speaker 1: in our previous episodes on horror movies, there's been this
- 44:08Speaker 1: tension of badass final girls, or you know, even in
- 44:13Speaker 1: video games, we're talking about badass protagonists that you can play,
- 44:18Speaker 1: but a lot of the messaging behind them is still
- 44:21Speaker 1: very rigid and sexist. These pieces of entertainment are primarily
- 44:26Speaker 1: created by men, not at all, not all of them.
- 44:28Speaker 1: There are some amazing women creating in this genre and
- 44:32Speaker 1: also primarily created for the male gaze.
- 44:35Speaker 2: So it's empowering in a way that.
- 44:38Speaker 1: Women's bodies do inspire so much fear, but that's only
- 44:41Speaker 1: because women's and girls' bodies have been so stigmatized throughout history.
- 44:47Speaker 1: And when you think about how these movies and pieces
- 44:50Speaker 1: of entertainment do reflect real world fears, largely male fears
- 44:54Speaker 1: that still impact and shame so many women to this day,
- 44:57Speaker 1: that still keep women marginalized. It's a different story. Yeah,
- 45:04Speaker 1: you just have to.
- 45:05Speaker 2: I don't know.
- 45:06Speaker 1: I've always had that weird tension, especially when I did
- 45:09Speaker 1: one of the first episodes I did on this show
- 45:11Speaker 1: is about Final Girls, and I got so torn about
- 45:13Speaker 1: it because you are getting this messaging that you know,
- 45:16Speaker 1: to survive, to be a good woman, you have to
- 45:18Speaker 1: be a virgin and like not smoke, not drink, and
- 45:21Speaker 1: be white and brown hair. And you know, they survive,
- 45:25Speaker 1: but they survive in this like patriarchal definition, and they're
- 45:30Speaker 1: terrorized for it, Like they're tormented for it, and they
- 45:32Speaker 1: lose everything for it. And another piece of this I
- 45:37Speaker 1: do think is not even taking the time to understand women,
- 45:40Speaker 1: especially if they don't fit the demure caricature we're supposed
- 45:44Speaker 1: to fit in.
- 45:45Speaker 2: Like again, you know, she's mad at me, she must
- 45:47Speaker 2: be possessed or on her period.
- 45:51Speaker 1: Any behavior that's not fitting into this patriarchal, like gender
- 45:55Speaker 1: conforming box is threatening and scary and something to be
- 45:59Speaker 1: punish because horror movies are largely about punishment for breaking
- 46:03Speaker 1: societal norms right or in this case, and the one
- 46:07Speaker 1: we're talking about today for being a woman at all.
- 46:10Speaker 3: Or it's a cautionary tale of if you do this,
- 46:13Speaker 3: this is what happens to you.
- 46:15Speaker 2: Yeah.
- 46:15Speaker 1: Yeah, your sexuality will get you punished unless you do
- 46:20Speaker 1: it in the right quote unquote way.
- 46:22Speaker 3: Right.
- 46:24Speaker 2: Yeah.
- 46:26Speaker 1: So, I guess we have a lot to say about
- 46:27Speaker 1: horror movies and periods.
- 46:28Speaker 2: But that's well. We'll stop for today for.
- 46:32Speaker 3: Today, but continue on because it is October and we
- 46:35Speaker 3: love these themes.
- 46:37Speaker 2: Yes, yes, yes we do.
- 46:38Speaker 1: And I know there's so many other movies we could
- 46:40Speaker 1: have talked about, so if we missed one, please send
- 46:44Speaker 1: it our way. You can email us at Stuff Media,
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