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Ayesha Curry Kiss Backlash, Steph Curry Is Not Your Homeboy, Russell Brand Sentenced & Old Vegas · Two Personal with Joy Taylor

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  Speaker 1: Every time somebody Christian, Christian, gets some sort of bad
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  Speaker 1: thing happen to them. I want to tell you something.
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  Speaker 1: Black people don't know who this man is.
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  Speaker 2: Run Princess Boys back.
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  Speaker 1: Oh, my God. They're what? Princess Boys. We can go
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  Speaker 1: down to West Hollywood anytime you want to, okay? We
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  Speaker 1: used to, like, dance to Sean Paul. Hey guys, welcome
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  Speaker 1: to another episode of Too Personal. Thanks so much for
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  Speaker 1: joining me. I'm Joy Taylor. Make sure you subscribe and
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  Speaker 1: follow us on social at Too Personal Show alongside Haley
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  Speaker 1: and Specs. It's been another hot week in Los Angeles
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  Speaker 1: because we like making photos of ourselves from the 80s
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  Speaker 1: on AI.
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  Speaker 2: I did not join this trend.
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  Speaker 1: I'm not going to lie. I always do the trends.
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  Speaker 1: I just don't post them. You just don't post them.
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  Speaker 1: So that I can't be accused of using up water. Also,
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  Speaker 1: I vote appropriately. So whatever happens is y'all's fault.
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  Speaker 2: Right.
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  Speaker 1: I always do the right thing. There's a lot going on. Oh,
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  Speaker 1: every week. Every week. Are we ever going to get
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  Speaker 1: a boring week? We never get another boring week in
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  Speaker 1: our lives.
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  Speaker 2: I saw this meme where it was like, am I
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  Speaker 2: supposed to prepare for like a 60 day blackout? The
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  Speaker 2: World War IV or Christmas? Because I can't do all three.
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  Speaker 1: Here's the thing. Yeah, that's really, that's true. We got
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  Speaker 1: to prioritize. Here's the thing. I am not preparing. You're
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  Speaker 1: not preparing?
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  Speaker 3: No.
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  Speaker 2: I don't even have a can opener.
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  Speaker 1: Because I'm not trying to survive. No way. Okay? I
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  Speaker 1: am not surviving the apocalypse. What about me screams, I'm
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  Speaker 1: going to survive the apocalypse?
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  Speaker 2: Listen, if we have a blackout, I'm so fucked. I
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  Speaker 2: don't have nothing solar in my house.
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  Speaker 1: We are cooked. Don't worry. You not alone. Everyone is cooked.
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  Speaker 1: And I got news for you. These survivalists, y'all the
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  Speaker 1: first ones gone. Cause everybody got guns. So we just
• 2:01
  Speaker 1: coming to get your shit. Listen. What the fuck makes you,
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  Speaker 1: you don't have no fortress. These people be on some,
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  Speaker 1: they be playing too many video games. Y'all not making it.
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  Speaker 1: Nobody's making it. There is no like, there's no, there's
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  Speaker 1: nobody making it. Everyone's dead. You know who's making it?
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  Speaker 1: Hardened criminals. The ones that didn't have souls and didn't
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  Speaker 1: give a fuck about killing and stealing before this shit.
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  Speaker 1: Those are the people you need around you. You want
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  Speaker 1: to survive the apocalypse? Get you a criminal. All right?
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  Speaker 1: Take care of them before the apocalypse. Make sure you
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  Speaker 1: put money on their books. And you better hope you're
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  Speaker 1: with them when it goes down because if the grid
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  Speaker 1: goes down, you're not getting to them.
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  Speaker 2: No, I'm terrified if it went down and my son
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  Speaker 2: was at school.
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  Speaker 1: Oof.
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  Speaker 2: And I love to keep cutting close with the gas.
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  Speaker 1: I be on. No, you're going to be running.
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  Speaker 2: I need to learn how to cook with some coals.
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  Speaker 2: Like a real little barbecue thing.
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  Speaker 1: No, you're going to be opening canned beans, dog. I
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  Speaker 1: don't even have a can opener. You're rationing off your...
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  Speaker 1: You don't have a can opener.
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  Speaker 2: We went over this. I just moved. He threw away
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  Speaker 2: the kitchen box.
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  Speaker 1: Why would you throw away everything you have?
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  Speaker 2: Well, he threw a box away he wasn't supposed to
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  Speaker 2: throw away. He goes, you put it on. You said
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  Speaker 2: that side was throw away. Did you look at what
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  Speaker 2: you were? Why would I tell you to throw away
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  Speaker 2: brand new spices and flour and glasses?
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  Speaker 1: Yeah.
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  Speaker 2: So I don't have shit. I'm fucked.
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  Speaker 1: You are fucked. But I have no words of encouragement
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  Speaker 1: for anybody. If the grid goes down, it's going to
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  Speaker 1: be the purge. And not in the way where people survive.
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  Speaker 1: Everyone's dying. Think about it. You're not going to be
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  Speaker 1: able to access your money.
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  Speaker 2: Nope.
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  Speaker 1: I got like a hair on my lip. You're not
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  Speaker 1: going to be able to access your money. The phones
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  Speaker 1: aren't going to work. Don't nobody have a landline.
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  Speaker 2: Those won't even work. You need a satellite phone.
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  Speaker 4: Right?
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  Speaker 1: I don't know if the landlines will work. You do
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  Speaker 1: need a satellite phone. Yeah. I know somebody who has
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  Speaker 1: a satellite phone, but I ain't going to be able
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  Speaker 1: to get to them.
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  Speaker 2: I need to get a satellite phone. Where do you
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  Speaker 2: even get a satellite phone?
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  Speaker 1: You can order one.
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  Speaker 2: I'm going to order one.
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  Speaker 1: Anyway, we're not surviving, so it doesn't matter. Just hope
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  Speaker 1: the grid doesn't go down.
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  Speaker 2: We will hope.
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  Speaker 1: That's the best we can do because we got a
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  Speaker 1: barnyard musical in the White House right now, so they
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  Speaker 1: ain't going to help.
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  Speaker 2: No, at all.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: Anyway, what else is going on that's positive?
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  Speaker 2: Specs, you had some news to share on this fine day.
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  Speaker 1: Are you going to share with the class?
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  Speaker 4: Yeah. I got my first pedicure over the weekend.
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  Speaker 1: Wow. How old are you? 38.
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  Speaker 2: What kind of pedicure? Was it a Russian pedicure?
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  Speaker 1: Did you have water?
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  Speaker 4: It was very standard. It was very standard.
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  Speaker 1: What inspired this?
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  Speaker 4: A very close woman friend of mine.
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  Speaker 2: She trying to suck them toes?
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  Speaker 4: No. Oh, God, no. Oh, my God. No, I'm bad.
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  Speaker 4: I have a thing about toes.
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  Speaker 1: Like, even my own toes.
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  Speaker 2: You like them? Or you don't like them?
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  Speaker 4: No, I just, I'm not toe, even my own toes.
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  Speaker 1: You're freaking out.
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  Speaker 4: Somebody else's toe. Like, I'm just, it's like overstimulating.
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  Speaker 2: So you have socks on all the time?
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  Speaker 4: For sure. Absolutely.
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  Speaker 1: I don't want to ask you a personal question, but
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  Speaker 1: I'm just going to share with the class. Take your
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  Speaker 1: socks off during sex, please. Please, there is nothing that's
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  Speaker 1: going to make me regret sleeping with you more than
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  Speaker 1: you getting out of the bed and you are butt naked.
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  Speaker 5: Why?
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  Speaker 1: Just what's wrong with the socks? And your socks are on.
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  Speaker 2: But what if his foot like glides against you and
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  Speaker 2: it's like a fucking sandpaper rough?
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  Speaker 1: Why do you have sandpaper feet?
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  Speaker 2: I mean, it's either that or the sock.
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  Speaker 1: The sock is an insane look. Just naked. It's all
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  Speaker 1: it's done. It's all juiced. And just, it's not like horrible.
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  Speaker 1: And you just got the socks on.
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  Speaker 2: I don't mind the socks. I have my socks on.
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  Speaker 1: It's a terrible, nobody cares. It's a terrible aesthetic. Men
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  Speaker 1: are built bad. No offense. Okay. Like it's just, it's
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  Speaker 1: all wrong. That's why God said reboot version two. Okay. Please. Okay.
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  Speaker 1: So anyway, so, so now you feel good about your feet.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah.
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  Speaker 3: I feel good about my feet. I mean, my feet
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  Speaker 3: were never really, like, messed up to begin with. I
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  Speaker 3: was a little.
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  Speaker 1: Ticklish?
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  Speaker 4: A little bit.
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  Speaker 1: A little bit.
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  Speaker 3: And then I was a little insecure about, like... I
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  Speaker 3: got basketball feet.
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  Speaker 1: Listen, so you do have bad feet.
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  Speaker 4: Like, my feet, like, they not bad. They not bad, but...
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  Speaker 4: You know what I mean? Some toenails didn't make it
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  Speaker 4: out the war. Look, listen... At one point in time.
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  Speaker 2: What are the colors of them?
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  Speaker 4: Let's give me a break.
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  Speaker 2: Are they clear? Huh? Are they clear?
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  Speaker 1: Are the toenails clear?
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  Speaker 4: I didn't get no polish on them at all.
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  Speaker 1: No, no, no.
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  Speaker 2: Your natural toenail. Are they clear?
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, yeah.
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  Speaker 2: You got some black ones, some brown ones.
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  Speaker 4: No black ones, no nothing.
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  Speaker 1: It's just damage.
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  Speaker 4: That's all.
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  Speaker 3: It's just.
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  Speaker 2: Okay.
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  Speaker 4: It's not that.
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  Speaker 1: Well, you know what? We're not going to shame you
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  Speaker 1: for doing the thing you were supposed to do. You're
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  Speaker 1: supposed to go get pedicures. You should take care of
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  Speaker 1: your feet just in general. I don't even understand what men's.
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  Speaker 1: resistance to getting pedicures is like for me getting my
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  Speaker 1: nails done is a whole thing like I have to
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  Speaker 1: find a nail shop that will do my nails and
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  Speaker 1: toes at the same time because I don't have two
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  Speaker 1: and a half hours to be at the salon I
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  Speaker 1: need you to move quickly I get the same thing
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  Speaker 1: every single time it should be like clockwork at this
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  Speaker 1: point Like, I'm trying to be in and out of here.
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  Speaker 1: For men, like, you sit there, you sit in a
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  Speaker 1: massage chair, you put your feet in some warm water,
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  Speaker 1: someone puts some lotion and takes some little calluses off.
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  Speaker 1: You in and out of there in 25 minutes. Like,
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  Speaker 1: taking care of your feet is an important health thing.
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  Speaker 1: like check mark. You, you should, it's nothing weird about it.
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  Speaker 1: You should be taking care of your hands and feet.
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  Speaker 1: If I see some dirt up on your fingernails, those
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  Speaker 1: hands are never touching me. You think you're going to
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  Speaker 1: put on me? Yeah, they do. And they try under
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  Speaker 1: the nails.
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  Speaker 2: Listen, I wonder if that's where BV starts from.
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  Speaker 1: It always starts from them. Oh, it's revolting. You have
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  Speaker 1: dirt under your nails.
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  Speaker 4: That's a real thing. I'm not mad.
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  Speaker 2: Have you ever called someone? Like, have they ever tried anything?
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  Speaker 2: And you're like, well, let me see your hands.
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  Speaker 1: I don't want you doing anything sexual with me if
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  Speaker 1: you are not clean. If we have just eaten burritos,
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  Speaker 1: go brush your teeth.
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  Speaker 2: What makes you think you're sticking.
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  Speaker 1: Your tongue anywhere near my holy of holies with that
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  Speaker 1: burrito sauce on your lips? Are you crazy?
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  Speaker 2: Only time I'll give it a pass is if I'm wasted.
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  Speaker 2: When I'm wasted, we could have just came home drunk
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  Speaker 2: as hell, ate some Taco Bell, and fucked. And I
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  Speaker 2: don't give two shits about nothing.
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  Speaker 1: Your body knows when you're making those decisions consensually, and yeah,
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  Speaker 1: that's how that goes. Yeah, I'm with you on that. But... Man,
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  Speaker 1: if I can, we are sitting here having some Topo
• 9:12
  Speaker 1: Chico's and tacos. Go. Don't even, don't even try and
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  Speaker 1: kick up the mood. Get that little piece too.
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  Speaker 2: No, that's nasty.
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  Speaker 1: Absolutely not. Not in this garden. Well, congrats specs. Keep
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  Speaker 1: that up. Good advice by your, by your female friend.
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  Speaker 1: That's why it's important to have those.
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  Speaker 4: Absolutely. Absolutely. It was a, it was a wonderful experience.
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  Speaker 1: Good. Good. Tell your brothers.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: It's also normal to be ticklish. I've been getting pedicures
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  Speaker 1: for 25 years. You can still get ticklish. They don't
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  Speaker 1: know what they're doing. They got to be rough. If
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  Speaker 1: they're rough, you won't get ticklish.
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  Speaker 2: Very intentional.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: What else is going on?
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  Speaker 2: Let's get into this Russell Brand story. Yeah. So he
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  Speaker 2: was convicted. He is sentenced to 10 and a half
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  Speaker 2: years in prison. on one count of rape, three counts
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  Speaker 2: of sexual assault. And the offenses involved four women and
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  Speaker 2: occur between 2004 and 2009. So it's taken quite a
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  Speaker 2: long time for these consequences to catch up to him.
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  Speaker 2: And I think that's what I'm. thinking most about now
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  Speaker 2: obviously this isn't new we've seen.
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  Speaker 1: This is also in the UK very important yes very
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  Speaker 1: important okay that he was convicted in the UK this
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  Speaker 1: has nothing to do with the American justice system cannot
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  Speaker 1: emphasize that enough no.
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  Speaker 2: I do think he knew what was coming he threw
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  Speaker 2: a very lavish party in September oh in Miami yes
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  Speaker 2: so I think he was like having one last.
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  Speaker 1: But I thought he was a Christian now hmm I
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  Speaker 1: thought he was sober and a Christian.
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  Speaker 2: For the people who don't know, what is your take
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  Speaker 2: on those two justice systems? How do you feel they differ?
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  Speaker 1: Oh, I don't know shit about the British justice system.
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  Speaker 1: I just know that a lot of people are going
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  Speaker 1: to jump to the conclusion that this is something that
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  Speaker 1: has to do with America, and it doesn't, because reading
• 11:04
  Speaker 1: comprehension is important. This had nothing to do with the liberals...
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  Speaker 1: Nothing to do with the midterms, nothing to do with
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  Speaker 1: woke ideology. It did not happen here. It happened in
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  Speaker 1: another country. A country, by the way, we fought a
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  Speaker 1: whole war to not be a part of. Y'all slept
• 11:24
  Speaker 1: during history class. Literally. You know, this story, the reaction
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  Speaker 1: to this story and the reaction to really any story
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  Speaker 1: about a famous or successful man going to jail is,
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  Speaker 1: for rape or sexual assault is always the same. It's
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  Speaker 1: that it's a witch hunt and it's people trying to
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  Speaker 1: get revenge. It's never, like, the concept that a man
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  Speaker 1: could be doing this is never assumed. It is remarkable
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  Speaker 1: to me to see the reaction to this story. There's
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  Speaker 1: a couple things that stuck out to me. One, I
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  Speaker 1: already knew this was cooking when he jumped out the
• 12:01
  Speaker 1: window very publicly becoming a Christian because there's no safer
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  Speaker 1: place to go than the church when... You have been
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  Speaker 1: pegged as a predator because they're going to take you in.
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  Speaker 1: They're going to make sure you feel nice and safe.
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  Speaker 1: They're going to have your back. OK, the way that
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  Speaker 1: the church is going to make sure you feel cozy
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  Speaker 1: when you have been accused of being a predator because
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  Speaker 1: you have you've turned away from your rotten ways, you know.
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  Speaker 1: And so when he started pulling the Bible out, I
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  Speaker 1: was like clocked guilty, guilty, guilty. put him under the
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  Speaker 1: jail guilty as fuck because I don't want to hear
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  Speaker 1: nothing about how you turned your soul over to God
• 12:36
  Speaker 1: I would too I would too if I was about
• 12:39
  Speaker 1: to get thrown and thrown under the jail absolutely that
• 12:42
  Speaker 1: seems like a good place to go you're gonna need
• 12:43
  Speaker 1: something to feed your soul in those dark hours that's
• 12:46
  Speaker 1: a long time so that's one And because of that, strategically,
• 12:50
  Speaker 1: you automatically win over the zealots. So anybody who hears
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  Speaker 1: Christian or the Bible or God and that those are
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  Speaker 1: trigger words for them, they locked in, they ride or
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  Speaker 1: die for you because you're a Christian. It's the same
• 13:06
  Speaker 1: thing that happened with Charlie Kirk. When Charlie Kirk was murdered,
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  Speaker 1: which I do not condone murder. I don't care that
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  Speaker 1: he's no longer here, but I do not think that
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  Speaker 1: he should have been murdered. moving past that everyone was like, Oh,
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  Speaker 1: he's a good Christian man. I don't give a fuck.
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  Speaker 1: He was a terrible person. So what did he said?
• 13:26
  Speaker 1: He was Christian. If that's what being Christian is, keep
• 13:28
  Speaker 1: me the fuck out of it. Every time somebody Christian
• 13:32
  Speaker 1: Christian gets some sort of bad thing happened to them
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  Speaker 1: or consequences for their actions.
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  Speaker 2: Right.
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  Speaker 1: It's all of a sudden it's a witch hunt. I
• 13:42
  Speaker 1: wish we could persecute Christians. Y'all motherfuckers run everything. How
• 13:46
  Speaker 1: are we persecuting you? How are you getting persecuted? Explain
• 13:50
  Speaker 1: to me like I'm five how y'all are getting persecuted.
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  Speaker 1: You run everything.
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  Speaker 5: If you were a minority, a small little group of
• 14:02
  Speaker 5: zealots in your robes preaching to save humanity and we
• 14:06
  Speaker 5: keep throwing you to the lions, yeah, I got it.
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  Speaker 1: Y'all are in every office. You run everything. What are
• 14:14
  Speaker 1: you talking about? There's no persecution going on here. Stop
• 14:17
  Speaker 1: caping up for these terrible people and then telling me
• 14:21
  Speaker 1: that I'm crazy for not wanting nothing to do with
• 14:23
  Speaker 1: the church. It makes no sense to me. It is
• 14:26
  Speaker 1: so hard, so hard to get a rape conviction. It
• 14:32
  Speaker 1: is so hard to get a sexual assault conviction. It
• 14:39
  Speaker 1: is like in the single digits. It almost never happens.
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  Speaker 1: And this man is going to jail for 10 and
• 14:47
  Speaker 1: a half years. My dog, he did that. Yeah. He
• 14:51
  Speaker 1: bragged on camera, his face, his mouth, his voice saying
• 14:56
  Speaker 1: when he was 30 years old, he slept with a 16-year-old.
• 15:00
  Speaker 1: This your man? This is your man's?
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  Speaker 2: That's nasty.
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  Speaker 1: Man them nasty, okay? Like, what are we talking about?
• 15:07
  Speaker 1: Get a grip. The reaction is always insane to me. Immediately,
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  Speaker 1: it was all these white nationalist Christians talking about He's
• 15:15
  Speaker 1: being persecuted and he's being targeted. I want to tell
• 15:19
  Speaker 1: you something. Black people don't know who this man is.
• 15:21
  Speaker 1: Black people do not know who Russell Brand is. The
• 15:23
  Speaker 1: only reason they know who Russell Brand is because he
• 15:25
  Speaker 1: was in that one movie with Diddy, okay, which is
• 15:27
  Speaker 1: aged terribly. Terribly aged movie. Whoa, don't run that one back.
• 15:33
  Speaker 1: Some of them, some of the old school ones, you know,
• 15:35
  Speaker 1: they're a little sketchy. Like we can still laugh at those.
• 15:38
  Speaker 1: That one is, that one did not age well. You know,
• 15:42
  Speaker 1: did you see that movie, Specs?
• 15:43
  Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, I have. Get them to the Greek.
• 15:46
  Speaker 1: Get them to the Greek. That one's cooked. That one's cooked.
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  Speaker 4: Big, freaky cast.
• 15:49
  Speaker 1: Big, big prison cast. Okay.
• 15:52
  Speaker 4: Yeah, for sure. Yeah, jailbirds.
• 15:53
  Speaker 1: Jailbirds. Okay. Yeah, it's, but would you agree with me? Like,
• 15:58
  Speaker 1: did you know, did you really know who Russell Brand
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  Speaker 1: was before this story?
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  Speaker 2: Not, not really. I mean, I knew his name. I
• 16:05
  Speaker 2: knew his face, but. Past that, not really, no.
• 16:08
  Speaker 1: I can't even think of a white person. Who's a
• 16:13
  Speaker 1: white man they could take down that they would be like, yo,
• 16:16
  Speaker 1: this is persecution? Chris Hemsworth. No, who's the other one?
• 16:21
  Speaker 1: Not Chris Hemsworth. We like Chris Hemsworth. Liam? No, the
• 16:24
  Speaker 1: other one. The one that was in the Marvel movies.
• 16:27
  Speaker 1: There's so many Chris's.
• 16:31
  Speaker 4: Chris Pine?
• 16:33
  Speaker 1: Let me see.
• 16:34
  Speaker 4: No. Well, he plays Star-Lord.
• 16:36
  Speaker 1: No, Chris Pine isn't Star-Lord.
• 16:38
  Speaker 4: No, then it's not Chris Pratt. Chris Pratt?
• 16:42
  Speaker 1: Chris Pratt?
• 16:43
  Speaker 2: The one that plays Thor? No.
• 16:44
  Speaker 1: No, that's Chris Hemsworth.
• 16:45
  Speaker 2: Yeah, that's Chris Hemsworth.
• 16:47
  Speaker 1: Chris Evans? It's not Chris Evans.
• 16:48
  Speaker 2: Captain America?
• 16:48
  Speaker 1: Don't you talk about Christopher Jamal Evans.
• 16:52
  Speaker 2: Oh. Is that right?
• 16:54
  Speaker 4: Yes. Oh. I think it's... It's Chris Pratt. I think
• 16:59
  Speaker 4: it's Chris Pratt.
• 16:59
  Speaker 1: Chris Pratt. Yeah.
• 17:01
  Speaker 2: Guardians of the Galaxy.
• 17:02
  Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, yeah.
• 17:02
  Speaker 3: Chris Pratt.
• 17:02
  Speaker 2: Endgame.
• 17:03
  Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah. Like, if Chris Pratt, right? Like, okay. This
• 17:08
  Speaker 1: is Russell Brand. Don't nobody give a fuck about what
• 17:11
  Speaker 1: Russell Brand is talking about. Y'all motherfuckers acting here like
• 17:14
  Speaker 1: you putting Chris Pratt up on the cross. This is
• 17:18
  Speaker 1: a stanky... like has been comedian who who was at
• 17:25
  Speaker 1: one point married to katie perry we don't give a
• 17:27
  Speaker 1: fuck about this man he's nasty ain't nobody out here
• 17:30
  Speaker 1: trying to what are you talking about don't nobody give
• 17:32
  Speaker 1: a fuck about this man no i don't know i
• 17:35
  Speaker 1: just i really i really find it fascinating that every
• 17:40
  Speaker 1: single time that a man gets convicted it is they're
• 17:45
  Speaker 1: always lying who is doing the raping Every woman I
• 17:50
  Speaker 1: know has been sexually harassed. Almost everyone I know has
• 17:53
  Speaker 1: been sexually assaulted. I know. I would say most of
• 17:57
  Speaker 1: them have been actually raped. Who's doing it? Somebody is
• 18:01
  Speaker 1: doing it. My dog. They're doing it. They're out here
• 18:03
  Speaker 1: doing it. It's not an alleyway. It's not in a dark,
• 18:07
  Speaker 1: dark corner. Stumbling down the street drunk. None of these
• 18:13
  Speaker 1: women even knew each other. It's great. It just really,
• 18:17
  Speaker 1: I find it really interesting that rape is the only
• 18:22
  Speaker 1: crime that requires a perfect victim. You are either dead,
• 18:28
  Speaker 1: it had to be recorded with sound, and you fought back,
• 18:35
  Speaker 1: or someone came to save you. It has to be
• 18:39
  Speaker 1: a perfect victim. If you got, if someone broke into
• 18:42
  Speaker 1: your car, you parked in front of your home in
• 18:44
  Speaker 1: your driveway, you had nothing in your car that was
• 18:47
  Speaker 1: visible and someone broke into your car and you told
• 18:50
  Speaker 1: someone that this happened to you, like, oh, someone broke
• 18:53
  Speaker 1: into my car. No one's going to be like, well,
• 18:55
  Speaker 1: why do you have a car? Right. Why would you
• 18:58
  Speaker 1: park it outside of your home? Yeah. Why would you
• 19:01
  Speaker 1: not have a fence around your house? Did you make sure?
• 19:04
  Speaker 1: Did you triple check that you didn't leave anything visible
• 19:07
  Speaker 1: in the car? Why don't you have a camera watching
• 19:09
  Speaker 1: your car at all times? Why don't you hire a
• 19:14
  Speaker 1: detective to park outside of your home to make sure
• 19:16
  Speaker 1: that nobody, nobody is saying this. Yet when it comes
• 19:19
  Speaker 1: to sexual assault and rape, were you drinking? What were
• 19:23
  Speaker 1: you wearing? Were you talking to him? Did you go
• 19:25
  Speaker 1: back to his house? Did you consent to have sex
• 19:28
  Speaker 1: with him? Maybe all of those things are true. But
• 19:31
  Speaker 1: if I said, hey, I don't want you to have
• 19:33
  Speaker 1: anal sex with me and you take the condom off
• 19:35
  Speaker 1: and force anal sex on me, guess what that is?
• 19:39
  Speaker 5: Rape.
• 19:40
  Speaker 1: And when it comes to men, all you have to
• 19:42
  Speaker 1: do is just flip it. If a man, if another
• 19:45
  Speaker 1: man in his home who is bigger than you push
• 19:50
  Speaker 1: you against the wall and shoves his dick in your mouth,
• 19:52
  Speaker 1: would you be okay with that? No. So why do
• 19:55
  Speaker 1: you think it's the woman's fault if that happens to her?
• 19:58
  Speaker 2: Beyond me. I don't understand it.
• 20:02
  Speaker 1: Listen, they are so quick to talk about. Don't nobody
• 20:07
  Speaker 1: give a fuck about Russell Brand. This is not a
• 20:09
  Speaker 1: witch hunt because he spoke about some conspiracies and the Bible.
• 20:15
  Speaker 1: Nobody cares! No one cares! It's all... They are more
• 20:22
  Speaker 1: apt to believe that there is some international conspiracy against
• 20:25
  Speaker 1: Christians to put them in jail for rape than the
• 20:28
  Speaker 1: possibility that he.
• 20:29
  Speaker 2: Did these things.
• 20:30
  Speaker 1: And I'm the crazy one.
• 20:34
  Speaker 2: They think you batshit crazy. Talking about.
• 20:39
  Speaker 2: Being a man of God ain't a character trait. Ooh,
• 20:41
  Speaker 2: they was mad.
• 20:44
  Speaker 1: He pulled his Bible out on Pierce's show. He said,
• 20:49
  Speaker 1: this verse. Motherfucker, you ain't never read that shit. Acting
• 20:54
  Speaker 1: like he got one of them old, you know how
• 20:55
  Speaker 1: I know somebody is truly in a book? When I
• 20:59
  Speaker 1: go to their house and they got that weathered Bible
• 21:01
  Speaker 1: with the highlights in it. with the little notes, then
• 21:04
  Speaker 1: I know I'm in trouble.
• 21:05
  Speaker 4: The corners is all curled up.
• 21:06
  Speaker 1: I got to get out of there.
• 21:07
  Speaker 2: You're really a man of God at that point.
• 21:09
  Speaker 1: But listen, I prefer that over one of them crispy ones.
• 21:12
  Speaker 1: I know you ain't never touched that thing. Right.
• 21:15
  Speaker 4: When they got it in the backseat.
• 21:17
  Speaker 1: I've had both though. I've had both. I've had the
• 21:19
  Speaker 1: one with the highlights. He got that shit out on
• 21:22
  Speaker 1: his table. Like open? Man. That shit ain't doing nothing
• 21:28
  Speaker 1: for him. He need to get with Allah. Okay? A BB.
• 21:33
  Speaker 1: A BB. You in the wrong business. Jesus ain't for you.
• 21:41
  Speaker 1: Jesus ain't doing nothing for you.
• 21:42
  Speaker 2: Oh my goodness.
• 21:44
  Speaker 1: Anyway, fuck Russell Brand. Poe ass. Good luck.
• 21:49
  Speaker 2: Good luck in your ten and a half years.
• 21:50
  Speaker 3: Low key, it's like the life equivalency to Ball Don't Lie.
• 21:55
  Speaker 4: Because he divorced Shorty, right? And got a bunch of
• 21:59
  Speaker 4: her bread.
• 22:00
  Speaker 1: Who, Katie?
• 22:01
  Speaker 3: Yeah, like he divorced her and she had to pay him.
• 22:04
  Speaker 4: And now, you know what I'm saying?
• 22:07
  Speaker 1: I can't imagine what he smells like.
• 22:09
  Speaker 2: He looks nasty.
• 22:10
  Speaker 1: Nasty, just nasty. Just out here, disgusting. Always Christian.
• 22:19
  Speaker 2: I can't. They are mad. The people are mad at
• 22:22
  Speaker 2: Aisha Curry again.
• 22:23
  Speaker 1: Again. Again.
• 22:27
  Speaker 2: They just want to.
• 22:28
  Speaker 1: They stay mad at Aisha. They want to hate her.
• 22:30
  Speaker 1: They do.
• 22:31
  Speaker 2: So for those of you who don't know, she is
• 22:34
  Speaker 2: starring in a new holiday romantic comedy. It's called Second Chance.
• 22:38
  Speaker 4: It's out now.
• 22:39
  Speaker 2: In her role, she had to kiss someone. Apparently, if
• 22:43
  Speaker 2: you're married to an NBA superstar, you cannot kiss other people,
• 22:49
  Speaker 2: even though it is literally the job that you were
• 22:52
  Speaker 2: paid to do.
• 22:53
  Speaker 1: That's a problem. People are upset.
• 22:57
  Speaker 2: They're saying that she doesn't act like other NBA wives.
• 23:00
  Speaker 2: And that's a problem. She's like, yo, it's not even real.
• 23:06
  Speaker 2: The internet is insane. Y'all are literally annoying. As she
• 23:10
  Speaker 2: always responds. My thing is, what if that was Steph?
• 23:16
  Speaker 2: Ain't nobody saying anything. They'd be like, oh, did you
• 23:19
  Speaker 2: see him in his movie? He killed it. I didn't
• 23:21
  Speaker 2: know he could act.
• 23:23
  Speaker 1: Right. Nobody would care. Right. Yeah. She pursued acting before
• 23:27
  Speaker 1: she was married to Steph. She appeared in commercials, TV
• 23:32
  Speaker 1: shows and acted in independent film roles. She moved to L.A.
• 23:37
  Speaker 1: to kickstart her acting career before she met Steph Curry.
• 23:40
  Speaker 2: So that's like the equivalent of like when you have
• 23:44
  Speaker 2: a mom and a wife and you look at her
• 23:45
  Speaker 2: resume and they're like, well, where's this big gap? And
• 23:48
  Speaker 2: she's like, well, I was with I was a family woman.
• 23:50
  Speaker 2: I was doing this, this and that. But I was
• 23:52
  Speaker 2: doing this prior. That's obviously her with the acting. People
• 23:55
  Speaker 2: just don't know.
• 23:56
  Speaker 1: Yeah, so she was a kid actor and pursued acting
• 24:00
  Speaker 1: before she met and got married to Steph. But even
• 24:04
  Speaker 1: if that wasn't the case.
• 24:05
  Speaker 2: Yeah, even if it wasn't.
• 24:07
  Speaker 1: I don't, I've never understood the irritation for Ayesha Curry.
• 24:12
  Speaker 1: Me either. Like, they seem to have a really beautiful family.
• 24:16
  Speaker 1: Lots of kids. She seems like the very typical woman
• 24:22
  Speaker 1: that married someone that she loved and then gave up
• 24:26
  Speaker 1: any dream that she had outside of a family to
• 24:29
  Speaker 1: support him and raise a family. And I think it's
• 24:32
  Speaker 1: difficult for some people to believe that women who have
• 24:37
  Speaker 1: multiple children and who are married to a rich, successful man,
• 24:40
  Speaker 1: it's difficult for them to believe that these women have
• 24:43
  Speaker 1: any thoughts or have any aspirations or have any identity
• 24:47
  Speaker 1: outside of their husbands. And, you know, being a traditional
• 24:53
  Speaker 1: wife or husband a housewife, very often that's the reaction
• 24:58
  Speaker 1: to it. Like you're even seeing Savannah James get that
• 25:01
  Speaker 1: because Savannah was, you know, the icon of being the
• 25:05
  Speaker 1: perfect NBA wife or the perfect sports wife. And now
• 25:09
  Speaker 1: she has her podcast and she's giving her thoughts and
• 25:11
  Speaker 1: she's getting the reaction of like, Oh, it was better when,
• 25:13
  Speaker 1: when you didn't talk. And it's because the idea of
• 25:18
  Speaker 1: a woman wanting anything for her life, other than to
• 25:22
  Speaker 1: raise children and support her husband is, It's such a
• 25:24
  Speaker 1: foreign concept to these misogynistic weirdos. The issue that they
• 25:31
  Speaker 1: have with her kissing another man is where I start
• 25:39
  Speaker 1: to become a little bitchy. Because baby, Steph Curry's.
• 25:43
  Speaker 2: Not going to fuck you.
• 25:46
  Speaker 1: Okay? Steph Curry's not going to leave his wife for you, sir. No.
• 25:50
  Speaker 1: He don't give a fuck about you. That's not your homeboy.
• 25:54
  Speaker 1: Steph Curry is not your homeboy.
• 25:56
  Speaker 2: I don't understand it.
• 25:58
  Speaker 1: It's a job.
• 25:58
  Speaker 2: Steph Curry does.
• 26:00
  Speaker 1: Not know you. He don't give a fuck about your
• 26:03
  Speaker 1: opinion about his wife. He's not going to fuck you, bro.
• 26:08
  Speaker 1: I don't know how we got here. The same thing
• 26:11
  Speaker 1: happened with Clay and Meg. Because the army of these
• 26:16
  Speaker 1: man simps, these princess boys be lining up to protect
• 26:21
  Speaker 1: they mans. Clay Thompson does not give a fuck about you.
• 26:30
  Speaker 3: No.
• 26:32
  Speaker 1: He do not need you to bash Meg for him.
• 26:33
  Speaker 1: He do not give a fuck about you. He's on
• 26:35
  Speaker 1: a boat. Captain Clay, minding his business, okay? On to
• 26:39
  Speaker 1: the next one. As she is as well. These is
• 26:41
  Speaker 1: rich people. You don't know him, bro. You don't know
• 26:45
  Speaker 1: if he cheated on her. You don't know this man.
• 26:48
  Speaker 1: The reaction on the internet to Ayesha Curry about her
• 26:51
  Speaker 1: kissing another man is why y'all were always telling yourselves. baby,
• 26:57
  Speaker 1: why do you care so much about what this man's
• 26:58
  Speaker 1: wife is doing? You're telling on yourself. I don't know.
• 27:02
  Speaker 1: I don't know how else to explain this to you.
• 27:03
  Speaker 1: We can see you.
• 27:05
  Speaker 4: Okay?
• 27:06
  Speaker 1: Steph Curry's not gonna fuck you. He's not gonna let
• 27:07
  Speaker 1: you suck his dick. I promise you. On God, he's not.
• 27:11
  Speaker 1: On God, he's not. He knew that Ayesha Curry wanted
• 27:13
  Speaker 1: to do this movie. They are a married couple, as
• 27:17
  Speaker 1: they have been for many years. It's not a secret.
• 27:19
  Speaker 1: They have children. I'm sure they had a conversation about
• 27:22
  Speaker 1: this is something I want to do. I've supported your career.
• 27:24
  Speaker 1: I would like to be able to step out and
• 27:26
  Speaker 1: do things that I wanna do. I love a cute
• 27:30
  Speaker 1: holiday movie.
• 27:31
  Speaker 2: Okay?
• 27:33
  Speaker 1: It's acting. Literally.
• 27:35
  Speaker 2: And for those of you who don't or have never
• 27:37
  Speaker 2: spoken to an actual actor or actress, most of the time,
• 27:40
  Speaker 2: those scenes are very annoying. It's very uncomfortable. There's multiple
• 27:45
  Speaker 2: people in the room. There's training behind it.
• 27:47
  Speaker 1: It's an art form.
• 27:47
  Speaker 2: They act like you're.
• 27:48
  Speaker 1: Watching an amateur porn. There's 50 people on that set.
• 27:53
  Speaker 1: There's an intimacy coordinator. There's lights. There's somebody touching up
• 27:57
  Speaker 1: the lipstick and the powder. You're here.
• 27:59
  Speaker 2: And the men have to wear something so they don't
• 28:03
  Speaker 2: get hard. And it hurts and it's uncomfortable.
• 28:05
  Speaker 1: You're not comfortable. Explaining all the nuance of what goes
• 28:09
  Speaker 1: on on a television or movie set is not going
• 28:12
  Speaker 1: to help the situation because they're not interested in none
• 28:14
  Speaker 1: of that. So while you are perfectly correct and we
• 28:18
  Speaker 1: have the privilege of working on these sets and seeing
• 28:21
  Speaker 1: how these movies are made and seeing how these television
• 28:23
  Speaker 1: shows are made or having been part of them, So
• 28:26
  Speaker 1: we know there is nothing sexy about this. There's nothing
• 28:29
  Speaker 1: going on here. OK, it's not it's not cute at all.
• 28:32
  Speaker 1: It's actually very awkward to your point. But more importantly.
• 28:38
  Speaker 1: This is not your wife. Steph Curry is not going
• 28:42
  Speaker 1: to fuck you. I don't know how many times I
• 28:44
  Speaker 1: have to say it. Every time I see these reactions
• 28:46
  Speaker 1: from men, I am bewildered that women touch them. What
• 28:52
  Speaker 1: are you talking about, sir? If I was having a
• 28:54
  Speaker 1: conversation with a man and he was like, damn, I can't,
• 28:56
  Speaker 1: Aisha Curry, that could never be me. Sir, please. Honey baby, listen,
• 29:03
  Speaker 1: we can go down to West Hollywood anytime you want to, okay?
• 29:12
  Speaker 1: I don't get it.
• 29:13
  Speaker 2: I don't get it either.
• 29:14
  Speaker 1: I just fundamentally do not get it. I don't give
• 29:16
  Speaker 1: a fuck what someone else's husband is doing. It is
• 29:18
  Speaker 1: of no consequence to me. That's not my girl. give
• 29:22
  Speaker 1: a fuck what my girl's husbands are doing this is
• 29:24
  Speaker 1: not my business if you make it my business okay
• 29:27
  Speaker 1: right but like this is your life i'm gonna give
• 29:28
  Speaker 1: a fuck about two people who i do not know
• 29:31
  Speaker 1: personally so much so that i am bashing this person
• 29:36
  Speaker 1: on behalf of a man i don't know as another
• 29:39
  Speaker 1: man girly pop no that's not how we do it
• 29:44
  Speaker 1: that's why y'all trying to y'all don't even know how
• 29:46
  Speaker 1: to be bad bitches this is what irritates me about
• 29:48
  Speaker 1: these this is what irritates me about these princess boys
• 29:50
  Speaker 1: you don't know how to be bad bitches You don't.
• 29:53
  Speaker 1: You want to be a bad bitch so bad.
• 29:54
  Speaker 2: Wait, run Princess Boys back. They're what?
• 29:57
  Speaker 1: Princess Boys. They want to be bad bitches so bad.
• 30:01
  Speaker 1: Y'all not bad bitches. You don't know how to bad bitch.
• 30:04
  Speaker 1: I should start a bad bitch school for these hoes.
• 30:07
  Speaker 1: You want Steph Curry to suck your dick? Let me
• 30:11
  Speaker 1: show you how to be a bad bitch. Because you
• 30:15
  Speaker 1: men are not good at it. Steph, look at me.
• 30:20
  Speaker 1: I'm talking about your wife. I don't like that she
• 30:22
  Speaker 1: was kissing another man. That's how you sound. That is
• 30:27
  Speaker 1: how you sound. As a man.
• 30:31
  Speaker 2: You should start the class.
• 30:33
  Speaker 1: Is that crazy? That's crazy to me.
• 30:35
  Speaker 2: I'll type the sign up. I'll get the sign up
• 30:36
  Speaker 2: list ready.
• 30:37
  Speaker 1: It is crazy to me that a grown man would
• 30:39
  Speaker 1: fix his thumbs with his fucking dirt under his fingers.
• 30:43
  Speaker 4: I would never.
• 30:45
  Speaker 1: Aisha needs to respect her husband. What?
• 30:51
  Speaker 4: Insane.
• 30:52
  Speaker 1: Am I bugging? No.
• 30:53
  Speaker 4: I don't think you tripping at all.
• 30:57
  Speaker 2: They have a real hard on for him because they're
• 30:58
  Speaker 2: forever fucking with her.
• 31:00
  Speaker 4: I don't know, man.
• 31:03
  Speaker 1: No, no. You have a thought. You hold him back.
• 31:05
  Speaker 1: What is it? Say it. You have a thought.
• 31:06
  Speaker 2: You hold him back.
• 31:07
  Speaker 1: Say it.
• 31:07
  Speaker 4: I don't know. It should be weird. It's weird to me.
• 31:10
  Speaker 2: What's weird to you?
• 31:12
  Speaker 4: Just the way that.
• 31:15
  Speaker 4: They kind of operate around that.
• 31:17
  Speaker 2: The people on the internet, right?
• 31:19
  Speaker 4: Yeah. I personally, honestly, I believe this, right?
• 31:22
  Speaker 3: Is that people have used the internet to be able
• 31:25
  Speaker 3: to get their shit off. The internet has turned into
• 31:28
  Speaker 3: a punching bag, right? That like, on most occasions, you
• 31:32
  Speaker 3: get to like throw shit and.
• 31:35
  Speaker 1: Yeah, there's no return. You don't have to have your
• 31:38
  Speaker 1: hands up. You can just swing, and this hand is
• 31:42
  Speaker 1: down here.
• 31:43
  Speaker 4: You can just jab freely.
• 31:44
  Speaker 1: Yes, jab freely.
• 31:45
  Speaker 2: That's a real problem.
• 31:47
  Speaker 4: I really think that's what it is. You know what
• 31:50
  Speaker 4: I'm saying?
• 31:51
  Speaker 1: And there's no database. We need to start databasing these hoes.
• 31:55
  Speaker 1: This is the database, ladies. All these hoe-ass princess boys
• 31:59
  Speaker 1: over here think it's crazy. Yeah. that Ayesha Curry, someone
• 32:05
  Speaker 1: else's wife, is doing something they disapprove of because they
• 32:09
  Speaker 1: love this man. Like, it happens with Meg every time.
• 32:13
  Speaker 1: It's the same shit that goes on with Meg Thee Stallion. Yeah. Where, like,
• 32:16
  Speaker 1: these men choose, like, they do this shit with Ciara.
• 32:21
  Speaker 4: Yeah, for sure. Yeah, yeah, they do.
• 32:23
  Speaker 1: Because they love Future. They want to suck Future's dick.
• 32:25
  Speaker 1: So they're like, oh, she's with a nerd.
• 32:30
  Speaker 2: Yeah.
• 32:30
  Speaker 5: Yeah.
• 32:31
  Speaker 1: Yeah. is her future not gonna bend you over he
• 32:39
  Speaker 1: ain't gonna do it because otherwise what are you talking
• 32:43
  Speaker 1: about you never gonna touch sierra no you'll never touch her.
• 32:49
  Speaker 3: It's a projection though i think i think it's a
• 32:51
  Speaker 3: projection of how they feel like they would deal with
• 32:55
  Speaker 3: it if they were that person Yeah, I.
• 32:58
  Speaker 1: Think they skin crawl. I think it's a little bit
• 33:00
  Speaker 1: skin crawl. Like, they imagine themselves as Steph Curry. They
• 33:05
  Speaker 1: imagine themselves as Klay Thompson. They imagine themselves as Future.
• 33:08
  Speaker 1: So they're like, me, as that person, I would do this.
• 33:14
  Speaker 2: That's a problem. And it goes back to what you
• 33:16
  Speaker 2: were saying last episode on the cruise. Like, people have got,
• 33:19
  Speaker 2: you got to get outside and touch grass. You cannot
• 33:22
  Speaker 2: just interact through the phone. Just put your nose in it,
• 33:23
  Speaker 2: just go. Because I'm telling you right now, I could
• 33:25
  Speaker 2: bet a million dollars you would never say this to
• 33:29
  Speaker 2: anyone face to face.
• 33:30
  Speaker 1: No, they would say it to Steph. Be like, oh, Steph,
• 33:34
  Speaker 1: my boy, you know, I ain't like that. But then
• 33:36
  Speaker 1: when he doesn't react, what they gonna.
• 33:40
  Speaker 2: They gonna be embarrassed.
• 33:41
  Speaker 1: It's so embarrassing. Oh, my God.
• 33:44
  Speaker 2: He's gonna look at you like.
• 33:46
  Speaker 1: Oh, my God. It's so embarrassing.
• 33:48
  Speaker 2: And he gonna go right there with security.
• 33:49
  Speaker 1: It's so embarrassing. I cannot imagine... And the thing is, like,
• 33:55
  Speaker 1: I couldn't imagine a woman doing this. Like, if one
• 33:58
  Speaker 1: of my girlfriends was this mad about what another woman's
• 34:04
  Speaker 1: husband did, I'd be like, dog, you don't know these people. Like,
• 34:09
  Speaker 1: when everything happened with Beyonce and Jay-Z, like, the way
• 34:13
  Speaker 1: that people were really mad at You do not know Beyonce.
• 34:18
  Speaker 1: You do not know Jay-Z. You do not know what happened. Like,
• 34:22
  Speaker 1: they acted like Jay-Z cheated on them. Baby!
• 34:26
  Speaker 2: And guess what? She's still with him. You're still going
• 34:30
  Speaker 2: to their shows.
• 34:31
  Speaker 1: Hello!
• 34:31
  Speaker 2: What did you do all that for?
• 34:33
  Speaker 1: This is entertainment. Can you relax? People be ready to
• 34:38
  Speaker 1: kill people for motherfuckers they don't know.
• 34:42
  Speaker 2: Wild.
• 34:43
  Speaker 1: Like, enjoy the music. Enjoy the movies. Enjoy the three-point shots.
• 34:47
  Speaker 1: But touch grass, dog. Literally, touch grass. That is Steph
• 34:49
  Speaker 1: Curry's wife. By the way, a beautiful woman. A beautiful woman.
• 34:55
  Speaker 1: You can say whatever you want about she ain't pretty
• 34:58
  Speaker 1: to me. Okay?
• 34:59
  Speaker 2: Yeah, no. Miss me with that, because come on.
• 35:04
  Speaker 1: Your mirror hasn't been cleaned in six months. It's a
• 35:06
  Speaker 1: miracle you can even see yourself through all them splash marks.
• 35:09
  Speaker 2: Not only do these internet fucking groupies need to go
• 35:13
  Speaker 2: touch grass, you actually need to start saying out loud
• 35:16
  Speaker 2: what you say on the internet because I think once
• 35:18
  Speaker 2: you start getting slapped and punched in the face, you
• 35:21
  Speaker 2: might think twice about what you type. They don't talk
• 35:22
  Speaker 2: to nobody.
• 35:22
  Speaker 1: They don't talk to nobody. That's why they act like this.
• 35:24
  Speaker 2: They need to go walk up to people and speak
• 35:27
  Speaker 2: their mind.
• 35:28
  Speaker 1: In conclusion, they're not going to let you suck their dick.
• 35:31
  Speaker 4: No.
• 35:32
  Speaker 1: It ain't going to happen. Pick another dream. That's crazy.
• 35:39
  Speaker 2: Then you leave her alone. I love her actually. Have
• 35:41
  Speaker 2: you seen this buzz and talk about what Vegas used
• 35:45
  Speaker 2: to be? Because the internet is saying, people are saying
• 35:48
  Speaker 2: that from the years 2012, 2013 to like 2017. So
• 35:52
  Speaker 2: obviously pre-pandemic. And Vegas is never the same. I personally
• 35:58
  Speaker 2: didn't party in Vegas during those years. I worked there
• 36:00
  Speaker 2: during those years. Well, one of the years. And it
• 36:02
  Speaker 2: was great. I witnessed a lot of fun. I just
• 36:06
  Speaker 2: was working. So I looked at it like, I'm just
• 36:07
  Speaker 2: trying to make some money on behalf of y'all fun.
• 36:10
  Speaker 2: But I know you visited. And I hear stories.
• 36:13
  Speaker 3: Oh, man.
• 36:14
  Speaker 1: Vegas.
• 36:15
  Speaker 2: And so, like, what changed?
• 36:17
  Speaker 1: What shifted? Everything changed. Everything changed. And to be clear,
• 36:20
  Speaker 1: I am still a Vegas frequenter. I will be in
• 36:23
  Speaker 1: Vegas in a few weeks. Yeah. For F1. I... Still
• 36:29
  Speaker 1: have love for Vegas. And the reason I love Vegas
• 36:31
  Speaker 1: now is because I've done everything. So I've woken up
• 36:35
  Speaker 1: with the tiger in the hotel room. So I don't... Wait, wait, wait, wait.
• 36:38
  Speaker 1: I don't... For real? Not literally, but like my version
• 36:41
  Speaker 1: of the hangover. Okay, you lose a couple people, the
• 36:44
  Speaker 1: whole thing.
• 36:46
  Speaker 2: We need a story out from those days.
• 36:48
  Speaker 1: Oh, my God.
• 36:49
  Speaker 4: I mean.
• 36:51
  Speaker 2: And these were just, like, you and the girlfriends just out, like, hey,
• 36:53
  Speaker 2: let's go to Vegas? Or were they, like, for a reason?
• 36:55
  Speaker 1: Well, so the first time I went to Vegas, we
• 36:59
  Speaker 1: did the, like, rookie shit. Where we all, like, ten
• 37:03
  Speaker 1: of us shared, like, two rooms. And we stayed at,
• 37:07
  Speaker 1: I don't even know where. I think it was the Flamingo, maybe.
• 37:10
  Speaker 1: I don't even think it was the Flamingo. I don't
• 37:12
  Speaker 1: even know if the place we stayed. It was one
• 37:14
  Speaker 1: of them ones.
• 37:15
  Speaker 2: And.
• 37:16
  Speaker 1: We were there for like five days, way too long.
• 37:21
  Speaker 1: Weird shit. I was so hungover one of the mornings
• 37:26
  Speaker 1: that I had a panic attack. And I called my
• 37:28
  Speaker 1: mom and I was like, I think I'm dying. And
• 37:31
  Speaker 1: she was like, Joy, you're hungover. Like, don't fucking call me.
• 37:35
  Speaker 1: Go drink some water. You're not dying. I went back
• 37:43
  Speaker 1: in and laid down because you just don't sleep. You
• 37:45
  Speaker 1: go to you go to a pool party. So at
• 37:47
  Speaker 1: the time, also, this is what made Vegas so great
• 37:49
  Speaker 1: in those days. Vegas used to be a place that
• 37:53
  Speaker 1: was affordable and it was more importantly, it was affordable
• 37:57
  Speaker 1: to men. So you could go, find a promoter, go
• 38:03
  Speaker 1: to a club. The club would send a couple bottles
• 38:06
  Speaker 1: if someone was buying some bottles. Bottles were not $ 1, 500
• 38:10
  Speaker 1: a bottle. You would find a bachelor party. Everyone's partying.
• 38:15
  Speaker 1: Everyone's drinking. There's no weird shit going on. You all
• 38:18
  Speaker 1: go about your night. There's no like, hey, what do
• 38:20
  Speaker 1: you mean you drank all our alcohol and now you're leaving?
• 38:22
  Speaker 1: Nobody cared because you were already drunk. You were going
• 38:24
  Speaker 1: to the next spot. You weren't spending... $ 20, 000 on a table.
• 38:29
  Speaker 1: It was like.
• 38:29
  Speaker 2: $ 1, 500.
• 38:31
  Speaker 1: For the table.
• 38:32
  Speaker 5: You know what I mean?
• 38:33
  Speaker 1: So it was like, okay, we all had a great time.
• 38:34
  Speaker 1: This was worth it. The guys are going to gamble.
• 38:37
  Speaker 1: Like the girls are going to get Taco Bell. Like
• 38:39
  Speaker 1: it was like real fun partying. There weren't cameras. So
• 38:44
  Speaker 1: we were living it up. We were dancing. Everyone was
• 38:48
  Speaker 1: dancing and not cute dancing, not the Dancing, like dancing,
• 38:54
  Speaker 1: listening to like techno that had, you know, words to it.
• 38:59
  Speaker 1: It was the best time. And then you got up
• 39:02
  Speaker 1: the next morning and did the same thing again at
• 39:04
  Speaker 1: the pool party. We were in wedges at the pool party.
• 39:09
  Speaker 3: Wedges.
• 39:10
  Speaker 2: Oh, if I, if I see a wedge today, I just,
• 39:14
  Speaker 2: I still have a few wedges. I can't do a wedge,
• 39:16
  Speaker 2: but they were hot then.
• 39:19
  Speaker 1: And they gave your booty a little, it made you
• 39:21
  Speaker 1: stand up straight. Yeah. I tend to slouch if I'm
• 39:23
  Speaker 1: in flats and for the bathing suit, that's not great.
• 39:26
  Speaker 1: But also like at that time, I'm pleased you couldn't
• 39:28
  Speaker 1: tell me anything about my body. My body was perfect.
• 39:31
  Speaker 4: What?
• 39:32
  Speaker 1: Like, you wouldn't even think about your body because everyone
• 39:35
  Speaker 1: was just there living life.
• 39:38
  Speaker 2: Social media just fucked everything up.
• 39:39
  Speaker 1: It fucked it up. God, Vegas was amazing. And you
• 39:42
  Speaker 1: could just go have a Vegas weekend. And that was, like,
• 39:46
  Speaker 1: post-hangover days. So everyone was really trying to have their
• 39:50
  Speaker 1: own hangover story.
• 39:51
  Speaker 5: Yeah.
• 39:51
  Speaker 1: So there's, like, nothing. Whatever the next thing was, whatever
• 39:54
  Speaker 1: somebody suggested, we were going. Right. Off the strip, fuck it.
• 40:00
  Speaker 1: It's an adventure. Doing it for the plot.
• 40:03
  Speaker 2: I did go to a crazy strip club off the strip.
• 40:05
  Speaker 2: And let me tell you, things they were doing in there.
• 40:08
  Speaker 1: All the strip clubs are off the strip.
• 40:09
  Speaker 2: No, it was like, maybe off the strip is the
• 40:11
  Speaker 2: wrong phrase. Like, it was some real underground shit. Like,
• 40:15
  Speaker 2: in that shit, I said, where the fuck am I at?
• 40:18
  Speaker 1: Listen, I think I'll probably go to the grave with
• 40:23
  Speaker 1: my worst strip club, Vegas strip club story. That's probably
• 40:26
  Speaker 1: one that's going to stay with me. I don't think
• 40:29
  Speaker 1: you guys will listen to a word I say. about
• 40:32
  Speaker 1: anything serious if I share that one so yeah I
• 40:37
  Speaker 1: don't think we're gonna share that one but yeah I
• 40:40
  Speaker 1: mean those were the those were and listen I still
• 40:42
  Speaker 1: think you can have a good time in Vegas it's
• 40:44
  Speaker 1: just a different time because listen people be recording you
• 40:49
  Speaker 1: And we've normalized recording strangers for no reason, like not
• 40:54
  Speaker 1: for criminal reasons. I support that. But like just somebody
• 40:58
  Speaker 1: having a good time and people are recording them. So
• 41:01
  Speaker 1: you just it's just a different it's a different era.
• 41:03
  Speaker 2: But yeah.
• 41:04
  Speaker 1: Oh, my God. Vegas, early 2000s or not early 2000s,
• 41:08
  Speaker 1: but like early 2010s. I missed out. The best. I
• 41:13
  Speaker 1: missed out. Your hair could sweat out.
• 41:16
  Speaker 2: Yeah. I wouldn't dare now.
• 41:18
  Speaker 4: That's what it was about. It was about having a
• 41:20
  Speaker 4: good time.
• 41:20
  Speaker 1: It was about having a good time. Nobody was tripping.
• 41:24
  Speaker 1: No one was tripping about money. Like you could, you
• 41:27
  Speaker 1: could get, and you could, the thing about it is,
• 41:29
  Speaker 1: is like now all of the tricks and trades of
• 41:33
  Speaker 1: Vegas that worked then don't work now. So listen, I don't,
• 41:37
  Speaker 1: I am again, I'm almost 40 years old. I'm not
• 41:40
  Speaker 1: doing shit that isn't already arranged. I am not going
• 41:44
  Speaker 1: to nobody's club unless it is a corporate table. Okay.
• 41:48
  Speaker 1: I'm talking about someone who's put their corporate card down
• 41:50
  Speaker 1: on this table, which means I am not getting into
• 41:52
  Speaker 1: no funny business and I'm not paying for nothing. I'm
• 41:55
  Speaker 1: not waiting. I am not paying. I am here with
• 41:58
  Speaker 1: this person going, I don't even acknowledge the line. I'm
• 42:01
  Speaker 1: going straight to the front of the door. The person
• 42:04
  Speaker 1: is already there waiting for me and I'm walking in.
• 42:06
  Speaker 4: Why?
• 42:06
  Speaker 1: Because I've done this. I'm in the hall of fame
• 42:09
  Speaker 1: of partying. Okay. They got my Jersey up in the rafters.
• 42:13
  Speaker 2: All right.
• 42:14
  Speaker 1: Untouched, undisputed. Ain't nobody even wondering why it's there. So
• 42:18
  Speaker 1: there ain't no fucking way I'm doing anything that is inconvenient.
• 42:22
  Speaker 1: I will have a seat.
• 42:23
  Speaker 4: Yeah.
• 42:23
  Speaker 1: Waiting for me. So all of those things like you
• 42:26
  Speaker 1: didn't give a fuck about that. You went to the front.
• 42:28
  Speaker 1: You came in your little group. You had your little hookup.
• 42:31
  Speaker 1: They you have to wait there for like five or
• 42:32
  Speaker 1: 10 minutes. They come get you, take you to a table,
• 42:35
  Speaker 1: introduce you. Oh, these guys are here. They're partying for
• 42:38
  Speaker 1: this birthday, whatever. Hey, girls, drink whatever you want. I
• 42:41
  Speaker 1: remember once I was there. We went to this table.
• 42:46
  Speaker 1: The guys had to spend like some limit because they
• 42:49
  Speaker 1: had this big table. So it was like, we have
• 42:51
  Speaker 1: to spend $ 10, 000 in alcohol. We're here celebrating our buddy's birthday.
• 42:55
  Speaker 1: We're probably leaving in like 20 minutes. Literally drink whatever
• 42:58
  Speaker 1: you want. Make your own drinks, dance, party, do whatever
• 43:01
  Speaker 1: you want. Like we just came here to party for
• 43:03
  Speaker 1: a little bit, but we had to spend $ 10, 000. Order
• 43:05
  Speaker 1: whatever you want.
• 43:06
  Speaker 2: Oh, it's the best.
• 43:07
  Speaker 1: They didn't give a fuck what we were doing.
• 43:09
  Speaker 2: That's the best.
• 43:10
  Speaker 1: The best.
• 43:11
  Speaker 2: No strings.
• 43:12
  Speaker 1: They literally left us. They were like, have fun.
• 43:13
  Speaker 2: It's girls night now.
• 43:14
  Speaker 1: Yeah. They're like, we're tired. This is our third night.
• 43:16
  Speaker 1: Like we just, we came because we already had the
• 43:18
  Speaker 1: reservation and we got to spend $ 10, 000. It's all paid for.
• 43:20
  Speaker 1: Don't even worry about the tip. Oh, saints. Yeah. Amazing.
• 43:26
  Speaker 2: And bet you had a great time.
• 43:27
  Speaker 1: We had a great time. I proposed to this girl
• 43:29
  Speaker 1: on the little pole thing. Then she threw up. So
• 43:33
  Speaker 1: she wasn't for me, but the.
• 43:35
  Speaker 2: Best times, like the best times.
• 43:38
  Speaker 1: Yeah.
• 43:38
  Speaker 4: Yeah.
• 43:38
  Speaker 1: You just smoke. Like, do whatever. Yeah, you can't do
• 43:41
  Speaker 1: any of that anymore. No. It's a different time. And
• 43:44
  Speaker 1: I do feel for kids because they're just never going
• 43:46
  Speaker 1: to live like that.
• 43:48
  Speaker 2: That makes me sad.
• 43:51
  Speaker 1: They're missing out. Put your phones away. Like, I promise you,
• 43:56
  Speaker 1: it's so fun. We used to, like, dance to Sean Paul.
• 44:03
  Speaker 2: Do you remember lining up on the wall as a kid?
• 44:05
  Speaker 1: Yeah.
• 44:07
  Speaker 2: But like everyone is on the, the guys are on
• 44:09
  Speaker 2: the wall.
• 44:10
  Speaker 1: That was always weird to me, but yeah. No, but
• 44:12
  Speaker 1: it was so fun. We did that.
• 44:16
  Speaker 2: We did this.
• 44:16
  Speaker 3: Damn.
• 44:17
  Speaker 4: We used to be a proper country.
• 44:19
  Speaker 1: We used to be a proper, we used to be
• 44:20
  Speaker 1: proper villains.
• 44:22
  Speaker 2: Damn.
• 44:23
  Speaker 1: Damn. And oh my God, it was such good times.
• 44:25
  Speaker 1: I never want to go back, but I, I, I'm
• 44:28
  Speaker 1: so glad that I did it because I miss nothing
• 44:32
  Speaker 1: and I would never survive a single night like that
• 44:35
  Speaker 1: again in my life.
• 44:36
  Speaker 2: But I can barely make it to midnight.
• 44:39
  Speaker 1: I'm in bed at nine o'clock happy. If someone calls me,
• 44:43
  Speaker 1: I was getting in bed. Like I did my work
• 44:46
  Speaker 1: and was like a shower and I like, you know,
• 44:48
  Speaker 1: did my routine and stuff. I hadn't looked at what
• 44:50
  Speaker 1: time it was. Yeah. I'm like tired. So, While I
• 44:53
  Speaker 1: was getting in bed, I was like, let me set
• 44:55
  Speaker 1: my alarm. Nine o'clock? I was like, oh my God.
• 44:58
  Speaker 2: Well, it's also dark as shit outside.
• 44:59
  Speaker 1: And I was ready for bed. Like, not like, oh,
• 45:02
  Speaker 1: maybe I'll get in bed and read a little bit
• 45:04
  Speaker 1: or like doom scroll or something. I was like, oh no,
• 45:06
  Speaker 1: I'm going to bed. It was nine o'clock. Like, freshly
• 45:08
  Speaker 1: nine o'clock. It was 8.59 a second ago.
• 45:13
  Speaker 2: If you ask me to do something last minute and
• 45:15
  Speaker 2: it's after 2 p.m., I'm.
• 45:16
  Speaker 1: Not, no.
• 45:18
  Speaker 2: It's not enough notice for me. To me, it's four
• 45:21
  Speaker 2: hours until I have to get ready for bed.
• 45:23
  Speaker 1: But you were working in Vegas during that time. I was.
• 45:25
  Speaker 2: And I was back and forth.
• 45:27
  Speaker 1: So you got to see the fun that we were having. Oh, yeah.
• 45:30
  Speaker 2: Oh, I thrived on it.
• 45:31
  Speaker 1: Yeah. You made a lot of money. I did. You
• 45:33
  Speaker 1: made a lot of money. Yeah. And then like people
• 45:35
  Speaker 1: didn't feel bad about tipping because like things just weren't
• 45:38
  Speaker 1: so expensive.
• 45:39
  Speaker 5: Yeah.
• 45:40
  Speaker 2: Oh, it was great tips.
• 45:42
  Speaker 1: Yeah. The best. Oh, my God.
• 45:43
  Speaker 2: I know how to extract them, though. I got a
• 45:46
  Speaker 2: good mouthpiece.
• 45:47
  Speaker 1: Yeah.
• 45:48
  Speaker 4: Yeah.
• 45:48
  Speaker 1: I mean, I worked in the service industry for a
• 45:50
  Speaker 1: long time. I really think the service industry... helped shape
• 45:53
  Speaker 1: me into the terrible person that I am today. Dealing
• 45:58
  Speaker 1: with people in the service industry will make you crazy.
• 46:01
  Speaker 1: Clubs are a little bit different because clubs is like
• 46:03
  Speaker 1: so quick and like the turnover and it's, you know,
• 46:05
  Speaker 1: but yeah. Sweet old Vegas. Man. We love you old gal.
• 46:11
  Speaker 1: What are we doing for would you rather today? Okay.
• 46:14
  Speaker 2: Would you rather, this is a good one. Would you
• 46:17
  Speaker 2: rather tell your partner your ex is around or Like
• 46:21
  Speaker 2: you enter a room, party, wherever. They're there. Or just
• 46:24
  Speaker 2: not say anything at all.
• 46:29
  Speaker 1: So I, because I date men, tend to tell them
• 46:36
  Speaker 1: that my ex is there. But define ex. Like this
• 46:39
  Speaker 1: is somebody I was in a relationship with.
• 46:42
  Speaker 2: To me, an ex doesn't necessarily mean anything. someone that
• 46:45
  Speaker 2: you may have hooked up with in the past and
• 46:47
  Speaker 2: it didn't really go anywhere. Like if you were like,
• 46:49
  Speaker 2: this was my boyfriend, I was his girlfriend. We were dating.
• 46:52
  Speaker 2: It was like two months, three months, a year, five years.
• 46:55
  Speaker 1: But we were exclusive.
• 46:56
  Speaker 4: Yes.
• 46:56
  Speaker 1: Yeah.
• 46:56
  Speaker 2: To me, that's an ex.
• 46:58
  Speaker 1: So I've dealt with this my entire dating career. And
• 47:05
  Speaker 1: I was talking about this week, this, this weekend with
• 47:08
  Speaker 1: a guy friend of mine. And he was like, I
• 47:12
  Speaker 1: don't know what you're talking about. Like, this is an
• 47:15
  Speaker 1: insecure thing. Like, I don't.
• 47:16
  Speaker 2: To tell them? No, no, no.
• 47:18
  Speaker 1: Because I was like, do you feel like anytime you're
• 47:22
  Speaker 1: in a room with someone that you used to mess with,
• 47:24
  Speaker 1: you need to tell your girl?
• 47:27
  Speaker 2: Mm-hmm.
• 47:27
  Speaker 1: Or that I need to tell my man? Like, anyone
• 47:31
  Speaker 1: who comes in the room that used to mess with me,
• 47:33
  Speaker 1: that I used to mess with, at any level. Okay. Like,
• 47:37
  Speaker 1: kiss all the way up to, like, where it's engaged to. Mm-hmm.
• 47:41
  Speaker 1: That they're in the room. Now, my opinion on this
• 47:44
  Speaker 1: has always been, why do you care? It's always been
• 47:49
  Speaker 1: weird to me. If it's a legitimate ex, like someone
• 47:52
  Speaker 1: I was in a relationship with, I'm going to say
• 47:55
  Speaker 1: something because they're probably going to come over and say something.
• 47:58
  Speaker 1: Not mean or weird, but at some point we're going
• 48:01
  Speaker 1: to interact and there's going to be some energy. Also,
• 48:04
  Speaker 1: I don't care. I'm like, oh yeah, that's my ex
• 48:07
  Speaker 1: we dated for a couple years. Like, Yeah. But if
• 48:10
  Speaker 1: someone's in the room that I hung out with a
• 48:12
  Speaker 1: couple of times and we made out, why do you
• 48:15
  Speaker 1: want to know that?
• 48:16
  Speaker 2: See, that is to me. No, that's not necessary.
• 48:20
  Speaker 1: But a lot of men, like almost all men that
• 48:24
  Speaker 1: I have ever dated are like, yeah, if somebody's in
• 48:26
  Speaker 1: the room, I need to know because you don't know
• 48:28
  Speaker 1: how men are. They've been giving you weird energy and
• 48:30
  Speaker 1: I'm like. Weird energy about what? Like weird energy that
• 48:36
  Speaker 1: they have something that you don't have?
• 48:38
  Speaker 2: I also think the caliber of the person makes a difference.
• 48:42
  Speaker 1: But what does that do? Okay, explain to me. What
• 48:45
  Speaker 1: does telling you do to negate the fact that I
• 48:48
  Speaker 1: was physical with this person before?
• 48:51
  Speaker 3: I think it gives them some amount of awareness about it.
• 48:57
  Speaker 3: So like, there's context to if there is any weird
• 49:01
  Speaker 3: energy from.
• 49:02
  Speaker 2: Oh boy it's like that drake what do you say
• 49:04
  Speaker 2: about the side hook.
• 49:05
  Speaker 1: Right but if but if there if there isn't weird
• 49:09
  Speaker 1: energy which is it's far more likely that there isn't
• 49:13
  Speaker 1: going to be weird energy why why do you need
• 49:16
  Speaker 1: to know because there's been scenarios where i haven't told
• 49:18
  Speaker 1: them because there is no weird energy and then later
• 49:21
  Speaker 1: on I'm like oh like something comes up and I'm
• 49:22
  Speaker 1: like oh yeah like we made out this one time
• 49:24
  Speaker 1: like why didn't you tell me why would I need
• 49:28
  Speaker 1: to tell you that do you want to know every
• 49:30
  Speaker 1: person that I've ever been with some people do yeah
• 49:33
  Speaker 1: I would never be with that person I've been with
• 49:34
  Speaker 1: that person multiple times they're a fucking nightmare absolutely not
• 49:38
  Speaker 1: stay the fuck away from them It's psychotic, especially if, like,
• 49:44
  Speaker 1: I'm a grown woman. I was married. I'm not getting
• 49:49
  Speaker 1: into it with you about people that I was with
• 49:51
  Speaker 1: before you. That has nothing to do with you. I
• 49:53
  Speaker 1: was clearly not sitting around waiting for you to waltz
• 49:56
  Speaker 1: into my life. Go date a young person who's a
• 49:59
  Speaker 1: virgin and enjoy that journey. Like, why are you over
• 50:02
  Speaker 1: here bothering an almost 40-year-old woman? I'm not having those
• 50:06
  Speaker 1: conversations with you. And the thing is, it's not about
• 50:08
  Speaker 1: not being transparent. I would love to be completely transparent
• 50:12
  Speaker 1: with my partner. But what I will not tolerate is
• 50:15
  Speaker 1: if I tell you something and then you want to
• 50:17
  Speaker 1: punish me for some shit I did before I knew
• 50:20
  Speaker 1: you breathed air on this earth. I don't give a fuck.
• 50:24
  Speaker 2: Yeah.
• 50:24
  Speaker 1: Why am I supposed to feel bad about something that
• 50:27
  Speaker 1: I did before I knew you existed? Explain that to me.
• 50:31
  Speaker 1: I've never understood it. And it has happened so many times.
• 50:34
  Speaker 1: And it is so fucking weird to me. But it's
• 50:37
  Speaker 1: not just a man thing. Women do this a lot.
• 50:40
  Speaker 1: Like women are on the same type of time with this. Like, oh,
• 50:43
  Speaker 1: if a girl's in the room that you used to
• 50:45
  Speaker 1: mess with, I need to know. What is that going
• 50:48
  Speaker 1: to do for you?
• 50:48
  Speaker 2: I really think it's the caliber of person.
• 50:51
  Speaker 1: But I'm saying, like, let's take the high-level reasoning part out, right? Like,
• 50:56
  Speaker 1: this is a person that you dated, like, significantly, right? Yeah.
• 51:01
  Speaker 1: That I can understand. Like, that's, because that's going to
• 51:04
  Speaker 1: come up at some point in conversation anyway.
• 51:05
  Speaker 4: Right.
• 51:06
  Speaker 1: But I'm talking about just anyone below actually in a
• 51:10
  Speaker 1: relationship with. No. What does that do for you?
• 51:13
  Speaker 2: I think it's irrelevant unless you're up to no good
• 51:17
  Speaker 2: and you still talk to them or you've left that.
• 51:19
  Speaker 2: line of communication open as like a just in case.
• 51:21
  Speaker 1: So let's assume that's not happening either then no let's
• 51:24
  Speaker 1: assume you guys are in a committed relationship this is
• 51:27
  Speaker 1: not a person that you were in a relationship with
• 51:28
  Speaker 1: why do you need to know.
• 51:30
  Speaker 2: I know i shouldn't even it's probably not even a
• 51:32
  Speaker 2: thought of the other person's mind if it really ain't.
• 51:35
  Speaker 1: Shit I don't know. I just, I was having this
• 51:38
  Speaker 1: conversation with a male friend of mine this weekend and
• 51:41
  Speaker 1: he was like, yeah, I don't know anything about this
• 51:43
  Speaker 1: because I'm not insecure. I was like, well, I feel
• 51:46
  Speaker 1: the same way. Like I don't, but men constantly tell
• 51:49
  Speaker 1: me that this is a thing. And I know a
• 51:53
  Speaker 1: lot of women who are on the same type of time.
• 51:54
  Speaker 1: And I'm like, girl, I don't give a fuck. Why
• 51:57
  Speaker 1: would I give a fuck about some girl that he
• 51:59
  Speaker 1: made out with three years ago being in the same bar?
• 52:04
  Speaker 1: What does that do for me?
• 52:05
  Speaker 2: Well, that's why I'm like the caliber of person because
• 52:07
  Speaker 2: like people that work in entertainment, the world is very small.
• 52:11
  Speaker 2: So you share exes.
• 52:14
  Speaker 1: Right, but so what? If it's not a person that
• 52:17
  Speaker 1: you were in a relationship with, what difference does it make?
• 52:19
  Speaker 1: What is it doing for you to have this information?
• 52:23
  Speaker 1: And the other part is, like I said, if I
• 52:25
  Speaker 1: give you this information and you act weird, I'm never
• 52:30
  Speaker 1: doing it again. And I'm going to tell you I'm
• 52:32
  Speaker 1: never doing it again. I have straight up told men,
• 52:35
  Speaker 1: you fuck that up. You'll never get transparency from me again,
• 52:38
  Speaker 1: which essentially means we're not going to end up together.
• 52:41
  Speaker 3: I think that's a gamble that people should be okay with.
• 52:46
  Speaker 4: Letting other people throw their dice on.
• 52:49
  Speaker 2: I don't think you should just say, fuck all transparency
• 52:52
  Speaker 2: because this and that.
• 52:54
  Speaker 1: No, because I will not be made to suffer because
• 52:56
  Speaker 1: you're insecure.
• 52:57
  Speaker 2: I still think you have to give the effort of
• 52:59
  Speaker 2: transparency in new situations. You just have to.
• 53:02
  Speaker 4: No, I do.
• 53:03
  Speaker 1: I do. But if you fuck it up, I'm not
• 53:04
  Speaker 1: doing it again. Because my thing is like, one, I
• 53:08
  Speaker 1: have trauma with this. So I'll be very straightforward. Like
• 53:11
  Speaker 1: I have not had good experiences being transparent with people.
• 53:16
  Speaker 1: So you, if you're going to be with me, you're
• 53:19
  Speaker 1: going to have to tread lightly on that or don't
• 53:21
  Speaker 1: be with me. They always want to be with me.
• 53:23
  Speaker 1: So they push past that. And make promises they can't
• 53:28
  Speaker 1: keep because I'll be honest about it. And then they
• 53:33
  Speaker 1: feel some type of way about it and want to
• 53:34
  Speaker 1: make little comments and shit. <HAL> <HAL> <HAL> <HAL> <HAL> <HAL> <HAL> <HAL> <HAL> <HAL>
• 53:38
  Speaker 1: You have to honor my honesty. It's no different to
• 53:41
  Speaker 1: me than if you confide in someone and they throw
• 53:43
  Speaker 1: it in your face. Yeah. You are not honoring my honesty.
• 53:47
  Speaker 1: You're saying that this is all just about you being aware.
• 53:49
  Speaker 1: So if someone makes some sly shit to you or
• 53:52
  Speaker 1: you're in a conference room with somebody on a business deal,
• 53:55
  Speaker 1: you know what the energy is about. Cool, cool, cool, cool, cool. Great.
• 53:59
  Speaker 1: I don't want to hear shit about this person. What
• 54:03
  Speaker 1: the fuck do I have to do with the fact
• 54:05
  Speaker 1: that they're giving you energy? What would you like me
• 54:08
  Speaker 1: to do? Kill them? Like, what am I supposed to
• 54:11
  Speaker 1: do about this? Go date somebody that's never been with anyone.
• 54:15
  Speaker 1: That is the solution.
• 54:17
  Speaker 2: But they don't want that. Well, the older we get,
• 54:21
  Speaker 2: the more exes there will be most of the time.
• 54:24
  Speaker 1: Theoretically, yes. But like, even if that's not the case,
• 54:28
  Speaker 1: what is I just don't understand the psychology. I've been
• 54:32
  Speaker 1: I've been asked. I've asked so many people about this.
• 54:36
  Speaker 1: I have been asked this to be a part of
• 54:39
  Speaker 1: this arrangement so many times. It has never paid off.
• 54:44
  Speaker 1: It has never, ever had positive dividends for me. Like
• 54:50
  Speaker 1: it's always ended in me being pissed off, me arguing
• 54:54
  Speaker 1: with someone, me having to, to really make somebody feel
• 54:58
  Speaker 1: small because I'm not going to back off of it
• 55:01
  Speaker 1: or ending up with me being completely like emotionally abused. Like,
• 55:05
  Speaker 1: it's just such a weird, it's just a weird thing
• 55:07
  Speaker 1: to me.
• 55:08
  Speaker 2: Yeah. I just, generally speaking, I don't, I would say no.
• 55:14
  Speaker 2: I don't think it's necessary to tell your partner that
• 55:17
  Speaker 2: your ex is around. But in some circumstances, if like
• 55:22
  Speaker 2: the circles are intertwined, there's co, like I said, the
• 55:27
  Speaker 2: caliber of the person makes the difference to me. If
• 55:31
  Speaker 2: our worlds are coexist together, I may have to mourn
• 55:35
  Speaker 2: the person.
• 55:35
  Speaker 1: I don't think men feel this way. I think like
• 55:38
  Speaker 1: if you slept with somebody and they are going to
• 55:41
  Speaker 1: interact with them at all, they want to know. Even
• 55:44
  Speaker 1: if it wasn't a boyfriend.
• 55:47
  Speaker 3: I don't know.
• 55:48
  Speaker 1: Would you agree, Specs? You've heard of this?
• 55:52
  Speaker 4: Not this conversation specifically.
• 55:54
  Speaker 1: Really?
• 55:55
  Speaker 3: Not as of lately where I can channel back to it,
• 55:59
  Speaker 3: but I don't know.
• 56:01
  Speaker 1: I would....
• 56:06
  Speaker 4: I think some would. I don't know. I don't know.
• 56:09
  Speaker 1: OK, let me give you this scenario. Let me give
• 56:10
  Speaker 1: you a scenario. You're with your girl, right? Like you've
• 56:13
  Speaker 1: been with your girl six months, right? You are together. Yeah.
• 56:17
  Speaker 1: And you guys are out at a house party. And
• 56:21
  Speaker 1: some guy that she messed with two years ago, they
• 56:23
  Speaker 1: weren't dating. They were in a situationship. You know what
• 56:26
  Speaker 1: I mean? Like they were sleeping together, but it wasn't exclusive, whatever.
• 56:29
  Speaker 1: He's there. He comes up and says hello. He introduces
• 56:32
  Speaker 1: you and then he goes and gets some crudite. You
• 56:35
  Speaker 1: want to know that he, she, they fucked around for
• 56:38
  Speaker 1: three weeks.
• 56:39
  Speaker 4: I don't have to know. I don't need to know.
• 56:42
  Speaker 4: I don't need to know. I don't have to know.
• 56:44
  Speaker 1: All right, let's up it. Okay. Then two weeks later,
• 56:50
  Speaker 1: you are working on a project and you're going to
• 56:52
  Speaker 1: end up working with him for a month.
• 56:59
  Speaker 2: Yeah, he would need to know at that point because
• 57:01
  Speaker 2: if it comes up and he finds out from the
• 57:03
  Speaker 2: other person and he didn't tell him.
• 57:05
  Speaker 1: Why would he find out? Why would he tell him
• 57:07
  Speaker 1: that he fucked her? But he might.
• 57:09
  Speaker 2: That's why I say the caliber of person matters.
• 57:11
  Speaker 1: Why would you? Why would you? Okay, because this is
• 57:14
  Speaker 1: the thing. Let me just pull that scenario back and
• 57:17
  Speaker 1: put myself in it, right? It's a man. It's a girl.
• 57:22
  Speaker 1: He introduces the girl to me. I find out I'm
• 57:24
  Speaker 1: working with her for three weeks, right?
• 57:25
  Speaker 2: Mm-hmm.
• 57:26
  Speaker 1: If she was to say, oh, by the way, me
• 57:30
  Speaker 1: and so-and-so, you know, we used to mess around. Yeah.
• 57:33
  Speaker 1: And I would be like, oh, cool.
• 57:35
  Speaker 2: She might.
• 57:35
  Speaker 1: Yeah. Okay. Like if there's not a follow-up of like,
• 57:42
  Speaker 1: and he still texts me or whatever, I'm like, what, what,
• 57:47
  Speaker 1: why are you, why? I'm going to make them uncomfortable.
• 57:50
  Speaker 1: Why are you sharing that with me? Yeah.
• 57:51
  Speaker 2: Some people would, that would make them uncomfortable to hear that.
• 57:54
  Speaker 1: Oh, well, that's all you should know. Why would I
• 57:56
  Speaker 1: need to know that? So you fucked my man? Were
• 57:59
  Speaker 1: you guys together? No, you weren't? Oh, so he fucked
• 58:03
  Speaker 1: you and did not make you his girlfriend. Is that
• 58:05
  Speaker 1: the information that you think is going to ruin my day?
• 58:09
  Speaker 4: Yeah, I would say that if.
• 58:13
  Speaker 1: I would be more protective of my man that this
• 58:16
  Speaker 1: bitch feels the audacity to have his name in her mouth. Yeah.
• 58:23
  Speaker 1: Then for me to be embarrassed that I didn't know
• 58:26
  Speaker 1: they fucked. I hope my man is fucking bitches. I
• 58:29
  Speaker 1: don't want some lame weirdo sitting around picking lint out
• 58:32
  Speaker 1: of his belly button. He probably did fuck bitches. Why
• 58:36
  Speaker 1: would I be more mad at my man for not
• 58:38
  Speaker 1: telling me than I would at this dumb bitch thinking
• 58:39
  Speaker 1: that she could talk about my person or fuck with
• 58:42
  Speaker 1: my relationship? I want to make her feel dumb. Now,
• 58:45
  Speaker 1: I'm still going to tell him that happens, but my
• 58:47
  Speaker 1: default is not to be mad at him for withholding
• 58:49
  Speaker 1: from me. What is there to withhold? She's not important
• 58:52
  Speaker 1: to him.
• 58:53
  Speaker 2: Well, you have secure feelings in that regard. Most people
• 58:57
  Speaker 2: do not. Most people are very insecure. Most people will
• 59:01
  Speaker 2: be threatened. Most people won't react that way.
• 59:03
  Speaker 1: I would.
• 59:05
  Speaker 2: And it's going to be catty and it's going to
• 59:06
  Speaker 2: be messy and somebody's going to be feeling like shit.
• 59:09
  Speaker 1: Ain't going to be me.
• 59:11
  Speaker 4: I would say I think the only time.
• 59:13
  Speaker 1: I.
• 59:15
  Speaker 3: Would relay that information to my girl if I knew
• 59:19
  Speaker 3: the person.
• 59:20
  Speaker 4: Was capable of some catty behavior.
• 59:23
  Speaker 2: That's what I'm saying. It depends on the people.
• 59:25
  Speaker 4: I knew that.
• 59:27
  Speaker 3: I know this person has the capability of just being
• 59:30
  Speaker 3: like a nasty person. I'll be like, yo, look, I'm
• 59:33
  Speaker 3: not telling you this for no shits and giggles. I'm
• 59:36
  Speaker 3: letting you know that this person can act away. I
• 59:38
  Speaker 3: ain't seen them in X amount of time. They may
• 59:41
  Speaker 3: have changed. I'm just letting you know.
• 59:42
  Speaker 1: Yes.
• 59:43
  Speaker 3: If you if they acting away with you and you
• 59:46
  Speaker 3: in your brain trying to figure out why and it's
• 59:48
  Speaker 3: messing with you.
• 59:49
  Speaker 4: This might be the reason why.
• 59:51
  Speaker 1: Yeah. And I think you knowing what kind of person
• 59:53
  Speaker 1: they are and that's fair. Like in that situation, I
• 59:55
  Speaker 1: would say something also. And to be clear, like if
• 59:57
  Speaker 1: I knew that my man was going to be working
• 59:59
  Speaker 1: with him, I would say something. So I'm not, I'm
• 1:00:02
  Speaker 1: just saying, I don't know what the net positive is
• 1:00:05
  Speaker 1: because let's say all of these things happen. If you
• 1:00:09
  Speaker 1: come back and get mad at me, I'm still fucking
• 1:00:13
  Speaker 1: mad at you because I don't have control over what
• 1:00:16
  Speaker 1: someone else does. I haven't talked to this person. I
• 1:00:20
  Speaker 1: haven't seen this person. This person is clearly jealous. What
• 1:00:24
  Speaker 1: does this have to do with me? Oh, well, your
• 1:00:26
  Speaker 1: past is causing problems in my present. Then get a
• 1:00:29
  Speaker 1: new present.
• 1:00:31
  Speaker 2: That's some little boy shit.
• 1:00:32
  Speaker 1: Like, I am not doing this with nobody. I am
• 1:00:35
  Speaker 1: not doing this with nobody. Go bother someone else.
• 1:00:40
  Speaker 4: Please.
• 1:00:40
  Speaker 2: That's some little kid shit.
• 1:00:41
  Speaker 1: Because what are you talking about? Oh, well, if you
• 1:00:44
  Speaker 1: haven't fucked so-and-so. You know what? I'm actually going to
• 1:00:48
  Speaker 1: spend a block on that. Because you know what? He
• 1:00:50
  Speaker 1: wasn't irritating the fuck out of me. What are you
• 1:00:52
  Speaker 1: talking about? That shit is so weird to me. So weird.
• 1:00:55
  Speaker 1: But yeah, I don't, I am very protective of my
• 1:00:57
  Speaker 1: people though.
• 1:00:58
  Speaker 4: Yeah.
• 1:00:58
  Speaker 1: Like I don't default to this person's playing in my face.
• 1:01:01
  Speaker 1: Like someone that I used to date, somebody taught. So
• 1:01:08
  Speaker 1: we were, we weren't like, yeah, we were together, I guess.
• 1:01:11
  Speaker 1: So we were dating. We stopped dating and I'm single.
• 1:01:16
  Speaker 1: I am at a party and I run into a
• 1:01:20
  Speaker 1: man that doesn't like him. which I know, right? Now
• 1:01:25
  Speaker 1: we know each other independently of him. So I say
• 1:01:28
  Speaker 1: hello and he's like, oh, like, how are you? And
• 1:01:31
  Speaker 1: he was like, oh, can I take you to dinner?
• 1:01:34
  Speaker 1: Which is crazy.
• 1:01:35
  Speaker 2: Okay.
• 1:01:36
  Speaker 1: Cause all right. And, but I was, you know, giving
• 1:01:40
  Speaker 1: him grace and I was like, oh, you know, like,
• 1:01:42
  Speaker 1: I appreciate that. But like, you know, I'm not dating
• 1:01:45
  Speaker 1: right now. And he immediately went to, oh yeah, you know,
• 1:01:50
  Speaker 1: oh boy, really? You know, he really ain't shit. I said,
• 1:01:54
  Speaker 1: excuse me? Oh, shit. I said, hold up. Hold up,
• 1:01:59
  Speaker 1: hold up, hold up. First of all, you're asking me
• 1:02:03
  Speaker 1: to dinner because your long game play is to try
• 1:02:07
  Speaker 1: and fuck me because you are trying to get at him. One.
• 1:02:12
  Speaker 1: Which if you think I haven't clocked that, you're fucking silly.
• 1:02:14
  Speaker 4: Two.
• 1:02:16
  Speaker 1: Love him let me be very clear i love that
• 1:02:18
  Speaker 1: man i will smack you in the fucking face over
• 1:02:20
  Speaker 1: that man just because we are not we didn't work
• 1:02:23
  Speaker 1: out doesn't mean that he ain't shit or he did
• 1:02:25
  Speaker 1: some wild shit to me or i'm not even on
• 1:02:27
  Speaker 1: that time like we just aren't together for circumstances that
• 1:02:31
  Speaker 1: are none of your fucking business but no like to
• 1:02:35
  Speaker 1: be clear i love him what are you talking about
• 1:02:38
  Speaker 1: don't talk to me like that oh he ain't shit
• 1:02:41
  Speaker 1: i'm not with this person yeah And I'm still going
• 1:02:45
  Speaker 1: to fucking defend you.
• 1:02:46
  Speaker 2: But that's the person you are. A lot of people
• 1:02:48
  Speaker 2: aren't like that. Well, I'm not going to do that
• 1:02:50
  Speaker 2: for everybody. Some people I'll fucking kick off a bridge.
• 1:02:53
  Speaker 1: But in these scenarios, I'm not defaulting to feeling insecure
• 1:02:58
  Speaker 1: or feeling like I didn't know something to feel like
• 1:03:00
  Speaker 1: I was set up. This person is trying to cause
• 1:03:03
  Speaker 1: problems in my life, in my relationship, and to my person.
• 1:03:07
  Speaker 1: Why would I default to feeling attacked or that I'm
• 1:03:10
  Speaker 1: being lied to? Now, if I am being lied to
• 1:03:12
  Speaker 1: and I am being played, I will eventually find out
• 1:03:15
  Speaker 1: because that person would be clearly happy to show me
• 1:03:17
  Speaker 1: that I'm being played. But you don't. You don't have
• 1:03:20
  Speaker 1: those text messages. You don't have that evidence because that's
• 1:03:22
  Speaker 1: not happening. So you look dumb. Girl, you look thirsty.
• 1:03:27
  Speaker 1: You look silly. The only silly person here is you.
• 1:03:30
  Speaker 1: They'll get you a man, baby. They're everywhere.
• 1:03:32
  Speaker 5: Okay?
• 1:03:33
  Speaker 1: They all over the place. They would love to be
• 1:03:36
  Speaker 1: in a relationship with you.
• 1:03:38
  Speaker 2: Mm-mm.
• 1:03:39
  Speaker 1: Anyway, that's a very long-winded answer to that question, but.
• 1:03:42
  Speaker 2: That was a good one.
• 1:03:43
  Speaker 1: Yeah. So I don't even know what the answer is.
• 1:03:45
  Speaker 1: What's the answer? No, I guess?
• 1:03:46
  Speaker 2: The answer is no.
• 1:03:47
  Speaker 3: They woke it up for a second.
• 1:03:49
  Speaker 1: All right. Well, on behalf of Specs's shiny toes and exes,
• 1:03:56
  Speaker 1: thanks so much for joining us. Make sure you hit subscribe,
• 1:03:59
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• 1:04:01
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• 1:04:02
  Speaker 2: Bye.