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Lifting The Office Girl Dad Curse + The Guys Recap Steak & BJ Day | For The Dads · Bussin' With The Boys

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  Speaker 3: weeks ago, I was on this incredible podcast and I
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  Speaker 3: be a boy. The ultrasound supported these claims, and like
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  Speaker 3: many leaders before me, I spoke with great confidence, but
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  Speaker 3: perhaps a bit too early. After further review, including a
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  Speaker 3: blood sample in the official anatomy scan. New information has
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  Speaker 3: come across my desk, and tonight I sit before you
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  Speaker 3: to say we are in fact having a girl. Now listen,
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  Speaker 3: I'm not going to lie to you. I was extremely
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  Speaker 3: continuing the current policy of girl dad dominance. The science
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  Speaker 3: is in, the decision is final, and I cannot be
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  Speaker 3: more grateful to my beautiful daughters. When Rebel Lawan, my oldest,
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  Speaker 3: I will say, your beauty is unmatched, your confidence is unreal.
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  Speaker 3: You've never met a stranger in your entire life. You
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  Speaker 3: keep us guessing with your profound thoughts, and I love
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  Speaker 3: being your dad each and every single day. To my youngest,
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  Speaker 3: Willow Rose Lawan, your bravery and knowing who you are
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  Speaker 3: and what you want at all times keeps us on
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  Speaker 3: our toes, and I have no doubt later in life
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  Speaker 3: you will be one of the extremely successful women this
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  Speaker 3: world has ever seen. I am so gratefully honored to
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  Speaker 3: be your father, and I know that both of you
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  Speaker 3: are going to be amazing older sisters to our youngest daughter.
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  Speaker 3: I want to say thank you. I want to say
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  Speaker 3: God bless my wife, God bless these United States of America,
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  Speaker 3: God bless these proud girl dads out there, and God
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  Speaker 3: bless for the dads. This hat is now available on Wednesday.
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  Speaker 3: Please enjoy this episode with Sherman Young and William Earl Compton.
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  Speaker 1: Thank you. That's my time. Why chromosome we call upon
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  Speaker 1: THEE testicles and filos.
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  Speaker 4: Why chromosome we ask THEE to lift that girl curse
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  Speaker 4: that is upon this office that only allows us to
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  Speaker 4: produce female offsprings and.
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  Speaker 4: Calli ma shut dye day.
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  Speaker 1: Why chromosome? Fill us with tea Hi, Hi, te ts
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  Speaker 1: in fire.
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  Speaker 1: Yes. Absolutely, what do we got on the docket?
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  Speaker 2: We have Look, my little brother Wyatt head coach coach Compton. Yeah, yeah, yeah,
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  Speaker 2: came to town over the weekend. We talked about it
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  Speaker 2: a little bit on busting with the boys, but him
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  Speaker 2: and his girlfriend Morgan, they came and visited this weekend. Phenomenal, phenomenal.
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  Speaker 2: I texted him yesterday, reflecting on the weekend. I said,
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  Speaker 2: love seeing you this weekend. It was awesome having you
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  Speaker 2: guys up.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah. I know you're laughing, but I was.
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  Speaker 5: I was being very you know, I love the idea
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  Speaker 1: It was the only reason why.
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  Speaker 2: I laugh I was driving home and I was like,
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  Speaker 2: we haven't really said anything to you. You know, we're a couple.
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  Speaker 2: We're a couple of Compton brothers. We don't we don't
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  Speaker 2: don't like talk about emotions a whole lot. Yeah, And
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  Speaker 2: I'm like, I really enjoyed having him up, Uncle Wyatt,
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  Speaker 2: having Uncle Wyatt up, like they were awesome with the kiddos,
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  Speaker 2: seeing whyitet and Morgan engaging with Rue was on ten
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  Speaker 2: the entire time because they came Friday night and they
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  Speaker 2: got in late, so they probably got in around ten o'clock.
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  Speaker 1: Kids were already in bed. Yeah.
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  Speaker 2: And I'm telling my wife, I'm telling Charles, my sweetart,
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  Speaker 2: sit up, stand up, Like this isn't little brother Wyatt
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  Speaker 2: coming to town. This is head coach of North County
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  Speaker 2: High School football. Yeah yeah, I love this is his
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  Speaker 2: first head coaching job. Like this is we're here and
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  Speaker 2: this is the alma mater.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah.
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  Speaker 2: And they come in, we do the greeting, we show
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  Speaker 2: them the house. I'm kind of fired up to show
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  Speaker 2: them the house. I'm like, come chuck out this room.
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  Speaker 1: That's sick.
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  Speaker 2: You see there's a pool back there. When I get
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  Speaker 2: sunny out tomorrow, you'll be able to see it.
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  Speaker 1: Tomorrow.
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  Speaker 2: We're gonna be in it. Did you bring your swimming
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  Speaker 2: drunks swimming trunks. He's like, is it heated him? Of
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  Speaker 2: course it's heated.
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  Speaker 1: And uh.
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  Speaker 2: But as we're all kind of winding down having some conversation,
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  Speaker 2: I'm like, dude, who is going to be so hype's?
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  Speaker 1: She was asking about sleep because it's ten o'clock. Yeah, yeah,
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  Speaker 1: you know.
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  Speaker 2: I was like, I just know when we wake up
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  Speaker 2: the morning, because you know, why can they can sleep in?
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  Speaker 1: Why he can sleep in?
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  Speaker 2: He might be a nine or ten guy at times
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  Speaker 2: eight he does teach, so he's got to get up
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  Speaker 2: throughout the week to be a teacher.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, but on weekends.
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  Speaker 2: I know my boy, I know my little bro likes
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  Speaker 2: to sleep as eight am at the latest.
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  Speaker 1: Because I'm telling you right now, you told him that. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: because I'm telling you right now, ru is gonna want
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  Speaker 1: to go in your room and wake you up?
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  Speaker 2: Yeah yeah, but he was operating. He was ready to
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  Speaker 2: go showered up. But it was around eight o'clock and Rue,
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  Speaker 2: what do you know? It god done eating breakfast. She's like,
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  Speaker 2: can I go wake up Uncle Wyatt. I'm like, sure,
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  Speaker 2: you can go back there and wake up Uncle Wyatt
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  Speaker 2: because I didn't know what he was doing. He's like
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  Speaker 2: getting ready or if he was up and going. But uh,
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  Speaker 2: Rue and Scotty loved having him around, especially Ru's got
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  Speaker 2: somebody new to boss around and watch her do things.
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  Speaker 2: And hey, whyatt, uncle whya? Let me tell you something,
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  Speaker 2: Uncle White, Let me tell you something. Let me show
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  Speaker 2: you this. Here's how you do it, Uncle White. You
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  Speaker 2: gotta watch. You can't get any sidebar conversations. No, uncle, whyatt?
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  Speaker 1: I need you to watch how much she was Morgan? Watch?
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, you loved Morgan. Love Morgan. We went to so Saturday,
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  Speaker 2: we went to the Farmer's Market. I shot a couple
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  Speaker 2: of photos to Derek because I was holding I was
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  Speaker 2: holding a nice burrito from Yeah Yo's OMG food truck
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  Speaker 2: and it goes to Franklin Farmer's Market every weekend and
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  Speaker 2: I love it. Yeah yeah, but Derek is the food
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  Speaker 2: food kind of saw himself.
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  Speaker 1: Yes, mad respect for Derek and his food game.
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  Speaker 2: I'm sending him photos of these the burritos that I've
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  Speaker 2: had around town, or the food truck sitting around. We're
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  Speaker 2: having a little picnic on the grass. We don't have
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  Speaker 2: a blanket, rather than picnic on the grass.
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  Speaker 1: Food pictures. Have you gotten from Will just enough, not enough,
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  Speaker 1: but maybe two total right now.
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  Speaker 6: Burrito though, had this cheese crust on that just like
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  Speaker 6: I audibly gasped, and Kat was like, what's wrong? And
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  Speaker 6: I was like, this is what's wrong? And I showed
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  Speaker 6: her and she's like, well, where's that? And then we
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  Speaker 6: got the picture of the whole. It was a vibe.
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  Speaker 6: It looked like a completely It.
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  Speaker 2: Was a good vibe because Frunkle Farmer's Market just moved.
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  Speaker 2: Now they're operating wherever that was, and it was fun.
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  Speaker 2: So we went to the Farmer's Market. We did some
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  Speaker 2: grocery shopping to get ready for like a little cookout
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  Speaker 2: because the in laws were coming over. But it's just
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  Speaker 2: so nice having family around it in town. I know,
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  Speaker 2: you have your parents in town, your family in town
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  Speaker 2: quite a bit, but it's so nice because you're standing
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  Speaker 2: in line, you're doing all these things, but you know,
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  Speaker 2: whether it's Uncle Wyatt or Morgan, like you can kind
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  Speaker 2: of divide and conquer. Kids want to go out and
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  Speaker 2: play in that massive field. We got done getting the
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  Speaker 2: burritos and you turn around and look and the kids
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  Speaker 2: are just out there in the middle of the field.
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  Speaker 1: Just Boston. Uncle Wyatt around Boston, Morgan around and you
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  Speaker 1: probably can't hear anything, you just see it. Yeah, And
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  Speaker 1: I'm just just smiling as I'm just watching, just having
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  Speaker 1: a great time.
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  Speaker 5: Lord knows what Ruth's spouting off to Wyatt. Yeah, telling
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  Speaker 5: them what to do.
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  Speaker 1: We got these and Charlotte's to get these.
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  Speaker 2: Man, I hate that I can't shout them out because
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  Speaker 2: I can't think of their name. But these donuts, He's like,
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  Speaker 2: uh not powdered donuts.
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  Speaker 1: Damn. Anyway, Charlo's getting these donuts, some pretty good donuts
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  Speaker 1: and good farmers Franklin Farmer's markets, cash only, and we
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  Speaker 1: bring it back back to the house and whoa, wouldn't
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  Speaker 1: you know it? My father in law, Lola and Opa,
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  Speaker 1: they come over.
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  Speaker 2: But my father in law, without asking, without asking any question,
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  Speaker 2: takes my chocolate covered donut that I wanted.
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  Speaker 1: Well, he is German.
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  Speaker 5: They're for their for their strudles, for their baking, but
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  Speaker 5: what's the low donuts?
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  Speaker 2: The in law's coming over your parents or whatever and
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  Speaker 2: just thinking they have access to everything without asking permission.
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  Speaker 1: Did he have like a little bit on the mouth
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  Speaker 1: to when you're looking around.
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  Speaker 2: I didn't know it until I went looking for it
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  Speaker 2: because I started to prep the meat, get ready for steaking,
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  Speaker 2: you know, steaking.
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  Speaker 1: Or joke and blow march warts. I had some nice steaks.
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  Speaker 1: But I go in and I'm like, I know it's
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  Speaker 1: gonna take a little bit, and I'm kind of hungry.
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  Speaker 1: I want a little snack. We've been swimming in the
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  Speaker 1: pool all day.
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  Speaker 5: Yeah, you're just gonna provide for your family tonight, and yeah,
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  Speaker 5: cook the whole damn the kah.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm just gonna do everything. Well, you're welcome right now.
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  Speaker 2: It's running through my mind and what's stuff to charge do?
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  Speaker 1: So I can at least right he's open, he's OPA.
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  Speaker 2: But I go and I'm like, oh, yeah, those donuts.
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  Speaker 2: I forgot about the donuts. And I go and I
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  Speaker 2: see the bag of donuts and I open it up
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  Speaker 2: and look and there's only two left. It's like a
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  Speaker 2: cinnamon one and then another one like another sugar donut,
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  Speaker 2: and my chocolate one's not in there. And so I
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  Speaker 2: go out to the pool area out back like charlo, hey,
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  Speaker 2: where's my donut?
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  Speaker 1: And then when you know it, opah, Oh, I'm sorry,
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  Speaker 1: I ate it. And I'm thinking on my head, what
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  Speaker 1: what the fuck? Bro oh, opah, you sprecking my Deutsche
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  Speaker 1: at my house. I hit it with just a laugh
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  Speaker 1: and like, oh, it's all good. But I'm thinking in
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  Speaker 1: my head, use on afu. Hey, opah, Hey, that reminds you.
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  Speaker 1: Come here, let's take a walk. Hey, come here, Hey,
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  Speaker 1: you know what olpah, come here.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah he might he might come into the pantry with
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  Speaker 2: me and having a word. But I sat on it.
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  Speaker 2: But I'm thinking, what the fuck, why are you just
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  Speaker 2: taking you?
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  Speaker 1: Did you just not?
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  Speaker 2: Are you just opening the bag? And like he loves sweets.
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  Speaker 2: He loves the sweets, he loves his snacks. I'm sure
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  Speaker 2: there's there's pt sixers out there, empty sixers thinking of
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  Speaker 2: their dad or thinking of their father, and oh yeah,
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  Speaker 2: they love coming over and getting in the snack job.
• 16:33
  Speaker 1: Oh yeah, they'll getting in the cabinets. But I sat
• 16:38
  Speaker 1: on it, and I saved it.
• 16:39
  Speaker 2: For rosen Thorn when we had dinner and we go
• 16:41
  Speaker 2: around and Rue wants everybody. Rue wants everybody to do
• 16:45
  Speaker 2: rosen Thorn because he was apologetic, and I was like,
• 16:48
  Speaker 2: I should have asked, because I'm thinking Charles has got
• 16:50
  Speaker 2: like a half dozen they're six she she mama likes
• 16:53
  Speaker 2: a couple. I just wanted a chocolate cover one, sweetheart,
• 16:55
  Speaker 2: just give me one chocolate cover one. So we bring
• 16:57
  Speaker 2: them home. There's four left in the bag. But it's
• 16:59
  Speaker 2: a fresh bag that's on the island, you know what
• 17:01
  Speaker 2: I mean. It's not like he goes in a cabinet
• 17:03
  Speaker 2: and see something. It's like, oh, here's some snacks. I'll
• 17:05
  Speaker 2: get some sacks. It's a fresh bag sitting on the island.
• 17:07
  Speaker 1: Four left. He eats two of them, one being my
• 17:10
  Speaker 1: chocolate covered donut. So we're sitting down there at dinner time.
• 17:14
  Speaker 2: You're in the cookout and we go around us making
• 17:17
  Speaker 2: everybody do rose and thorn my roses. Uncle Wyatt Morgan
• 17:21
  Speaker 2: coming to the talent, seeing my little brother and getting
• 17:23
  Speaker 2: to spend time and seeing him spend time and play
• 17:24
  Speaker 2: with you guys, and seeing the family together, having our
• 17:27
  Speaker 2: in laws over it, just having a squad again.
• 17:29
  Speaker 1: Seeing some new fresh faces around. Yeah, what's your thorn?
• 17:34
  Speaker 1: My thorn?
• 17:37
  Speaker 2: My thorn is Opa eating my chocolate donut. Everybody starts laughing.
• 17:41
  Speaker 1: He's laughing, but you can tell he's laughing, but also
• 17:44
  Speaker 1: like I can tell, yeah, yeah, whill are you also? Man?
• 17:49
  Speaker 2: I'm thinking, yeah, yeah, Opa, eating my chocolate donut. I
• 17:52
  Speaker 2: just kind of leave it at that. I'm more so
• 17:53
  Speaker 2: venting now that I have for the dads. Yeah, Opa
• 17:56
  Speaker 2: might even be out there listening right now.
• 17:58
  Speaker 5: So y'all haven't had y'all have how to follow up
• 18:01
  Speaker 5: on the chocolate donut experience.
• 18:02
  Speaker 7: I don't.
• 18:03
  Speaker 1: To me.
• 18:03
  Speaker 2: It's one of those situations where the energy being exchanged
• 18:08
  Speaker 2: is very family friendly fun. Yeah, but also in the
• 18:13
  Speaker 2: same breath, and I think men can attest to this
• 18:16
  Speaker 2: in the same breath. What's understood doesn't need to be said. Yeah,
• 18:21
  Speaker 2: So I do think that we solved a problem without
• 18:24
  Speaker 2: talking about it.
• 18:25
  Speaker 1: Yeah, he learned something that day. That's what men assume anyway.
• 18:29
  Speaker 2: You assume that if I just give off a certain
• 18:31
  Speaker 2: body language or energy, problem's gonna get solved.
• 18:34
  Speaker 1: Yeah. Then if it comes back up, it's like, what
• 18:35
  Speaker 1: do you mean I kind of posture like this.
• 18:37
  Speaker 2: You shouldn't. You saw the look in my face. Everybody
• 18:40
  Speaker 2: else laughed with thorn. I smiled, but I wasn't laughing.
• 18:45
  Speaker 2: I was looking at that extra little WinCE in your eyes.
• 18:48
  Speaker 2: It was that that linger and little look. Is that
• 18:52
  Speaker 2: I da you to do it again?
• 18:54
  Speaker 1: What was Olpu's rose I wasn't listening to nobody. I
• 19:00
  Speaker 1: was just waiting for Mike to go on the Rose
• 19:02
  Speaker 1: and Thorn. Great Family Today shows. What are they called
• 19:06
  Speaker 1: Ellie's Old Fashioned Donut?
• 19:08
  Speaker 2: Yes, Ellie's Ellie's Old Fashioned Donuts. Shout out pool, shout
• 19:12
  Speaker 2: out Ellie's no free shoutouts.
• 19:14
  Speaker 1: God. It's good family fun over the weekend.
• 19:17
  Speaker 5: The one note I would give to Opah has just
• 19:19
  Speaker 5: come clean about it, miss Amy my mom did?
• 19:23
  Speaker 1: He came clean?
• 19:24
  Speaker 4: Well?
• 19:25
  Speaker 1: When I came out to charl I was like, Charle,
• 19:26
  Speaker 1: where's my chocolate donut? Yeah?
• 19:28
  Speaker 2: She's like it should be in the bag, And I
• 19:30
  Speaker 2: was like, oh, I ate it on that he might
• 19:32
  Speaker 2: have sat on accident, I can't remember.
• 19:34
  Speaker 1: That's apologizing because you got caught, not because you did it.
• 19:37
  Speaker 1: You know what I mean? You slice on a little bit, Oprah.
• 19:40
  Speaker 1: My mom has come in town twice.
• 19:43
  Speaker 5: You know those little Valgue packs of the vanilla and
• 19:46
  Speaker 5: chocolate ice.
• 19:47
  Speaker 1: Cream hit the Bluebell. Yeah, she's completely gutted us twice
• 19:54
  Speaker 1: when she's come in town and apologized profusely about it.
• 19:59
  Speaker 5: I'm not a sweet to so it doesn't affect me.
• 20:01
  Speaker 5: I'm not worried about it. Jill wasn't worried about it,
• 20:05
  Speaker 5: because miss Amy's like, hey, I'm gonna You're never.
• 20:08
  Speaker 2: Worried about it until you're going to the freezer to
• 20:10
  Speaker 2: get some ice cream and it's all gone and you're like, honey,
• 20:12
  Speaker 2: what happened to the ice cream? It's like, oh, oh yeah,
• 20:14
  Speaker 2: my mom was in town, and so you know, I
• 20:16
  Speaker 2: bet your mom made it.
• 20:17
  Speaker 1: I bet her ass did eat it.
• 20:19
  Speaker 5: If for any listeners of the pod, they're probably sitting
• 20:21
  Speaker 5: there thinking, Oh, Reese's peanut Buttercup, Valentine's Day, four times
• 20:25
  Speaker 5: hard Box, miss Amy.
• 20:28
  Speaker 2: I was gonna say, like, are we talking about the
• 20:30
  Speaker 2: same mom Is that the same mom? Us is over
• 20:34
  Speaker 2: and over and over? Apologize profusely if he continued to
• 20:39
  Speaker 2: eat it over and over and again.
• 20:41
  Speaker 5: Maybe I've grown callous in numb to it at this
• 20:43
  Speaker 5: point because I'm I'm used to that behavior and it
• 20:47
  Speaker 5: deterred me from having a sweet tooth.
• 20:48
  Speaker 1: Maybe a good thing.
• 20:50
  Speaker 5: But I did get some follow up phone calls for
• 20:52
  Speaker 5: miss Amy buying ice cream for us to like replenish.
• 20:56
  Speaker 2: I should just randomly text over right now, like we don't.
• 20:59
  Speaker 2: It's not like we're texting all the time. Would you
• 21:01
  Speaker 2: send them just a random text, I can't believe you
• 21:05
  Speaker 2: ate my chocolate donut. We're usually just talking, like if
• 21:10
  Speaker 2: somebody's out of town or something to work at the house.
• 21:13
  Speaker 1: You know, you're kind of having that exchange and back
• 21:14
  Speaker 1: and yeah, so you have a right now you have
• 21:19
  Speaker 1: a joking relationship with your father. Yes, okay, I guess
• 21:24
  Speaker 1: like I'm not.
• 21:26
  Speaker 2: Mad per se, but I felt some type of way
• 21:29
  Speaker 2: about that particular situation.
• 21:30
  Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm like, hey, I listen, I love you. I
• 21:33
  Speaker 1: know you got a sweet tooth.
• 21:35
  Speaker 2: But we got to have some awareness and ask a
• 21:40
  Speaker 2: couple of questions.
• 21:41
  Speaker 1: Especially if you say you look in a.
• 21:42
  Speaker 2: Donut bag and say they're all glazed, or say they're
• 21:45
  Speaker 2: all the same kind, and you grab one or two,
• 21:48
  Speaker 2: you know you're just grabbing part of the part of
• 21:50
  Speaker 2: the flock. But you see one solo chocolate covered doughnut
• 21:55
  Speaker 2: in there.
• 21:55
  Speaker 5: Oh, that might be there for a reason. Somebody might
• 21:57
  Speaker 5: have speciactically ordered that.
• 21:59
  Speaker 1: That's all I'm asking, Yeah, it's all I'm asking. And no,
• 22:02
  Speaker 1: no for dads. I think a dad hack unlocked in
• 22:04
  Speaker 1: that moment.
• 22:05
  Speaker 5: Is just get a little paper towel action, go ahead
• 22:09
  Speaker 5: and snack that will and hide it. I know it's
• 22:12
  Speaker 5: your house and you don't need to be hiding in
• 22:14
  Speaker 5: your house.
• 22:15
  Speaker 1: Yeah, what are we talking? What are we talking about?
• 22:17
  Speaker 1: But we're outnumbered. We're outnumbered. The girls are gonna be
• 22:22
  Speaker 1: growing up, stuff's gonna be vanishing, and maybe you gotta
• 22:25
  Speaker 1: fight for yourself a little bit. Yeah, I see what
• 22:29
  Speaker 1: you're saying there.
• 22:30
  Speaker 2: To me, I would think of that dad hack of
• 22:32
  Speaker 2: more of a with your kids, because they're not.
• 22:36
  Speaker 1: They're not they're not growing kids. That was for kids.
• 22:39
  Speaker 1: We're talking about mature adults.
• 22:40
  Speaker 5: Yeah, we're talking about father in laws. Yeah, yeah, we're
• 22:43
  Speaker 5: talking about father in law. Were talking about We're not
• 22:46
  Speaker 5: even talking about a game. We're talking about practice with
• 22:49
  Speaker 5: father in laws. Great weekends, like a fantastic weekend. I
• 22:55
  Speaker 5: had an incredible weekend, incredible weekend. I had a lot
• 22:59
  Speaker 5: of fun stuff. I did have my APR that I thought.
• 23:04
  Speaker 1: We could go over APR, Dad brain, I forgot my APR. No,
• 23:07
  Speaker 1: you're fine, go ahead hit.
• 23:08
  Speaker 5: Your and this is just our after pod report. I
• 23:13
  Speaker 5: got some notes from wifey this weekend. Yeah, got some
• 23:17
  Speaker 5: notes from wifey.
• 23:19
  Speaker 1: One. We're moving, Oh you're moving, We're moving. I thought
• 23:24
  Speaker 1: you were talking about Hey, you're talking about continuing to
• 23:26
  Speaker 1: run or maybe you buy the house.
• 23:28
  Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, yeah, we'll pour into it and no rehabilitate
• 23:32
  Speaker 2: the house.
• 23:33
  Speaker 1: Great news, we're moving. My wife broke the great news
• 23:36
  Speaker 1: to me that we're done with this rent house.
• 23:40
  Speaker 5: We're looking for a new rent house. Our leases up
• 23:42
  Speaker 5: in June, so it's perfect timing here in March to
• 23:46
  Speaker 5: start looking for some new houses.
• 23:48
  Speaker 1: I'm very excited.
• 23:49
  Speaker 2: So your tone and your body language is telling me.
• 23:55
  Speaker 2: This is the vibe I'm getting. You're saying we're moving,
• 23:59
  Speaker 2: like you're all happy, Yeah, happy, go lucky. Yeah, my
• 24:02
  Speaker 2: wife said we're moving. I'm feeling that you just got
• 24:06
  Speaker 2: told that you're moving.
• 24:09
  Speaker 1: I certainly got told by my wonderful, beautiful wife that
• 24:13
  Speaker 1: were moving. That's your Yeah, you didn't miss anything. But
• 24:17
  Speaker 1: some of the audience might be thinking, all, was this
• 24:19
  Speaker 1: a team? Was this a team? Ever?
• 24:20
  Speaker 2: Like you guys are both wanting to move, or it's
• 24:22
  Speaker 2: just all of a sudden something happened. We're getting out
• 24:24
  Speaker 2: of this guy.
• 24:25
  Speaker 5: I don't think when it's a great idea like that,
• 24:29
  Speaker 5: I don't think there needs to be a whole lot
• 24:31
  Speaker 5: of like discussion.
• 24:33
  Speaker 1: I think she had a great idea and we're going
• 24:36
  Speaker 1: with it. Yeah, yeah, absolutely. How did it happen? How
• 24:39
  Speaker 1: did this come to be?
• 24:41
  Speaker 5: I got a text of some mouse poop on the
• 24:45
  Speaker 5: kitchen counter and uh, it followed up by a text
• 24:49
  Speaker 5: of we're moving, which was phenomenal news.
• 24:52
  Speaker 1: I was very excited. How did you respond to say? Oh, yeah,
• 24:56
  Speaker 1: it's a great win, you know what.
• 25:00
  Speaker 5: Let me get on zillo And then she beat me
• 25:02
  Speaker 5: to it and started sending me Zillow stuff of the
• 25:06
  Speaker 5: new houses that we'll be moving into, which is great.
• 25:09
  Speaker 1: Oh she already did the work. Yeah.
• 25:12
  Speaker 5: And some of these houses are up to thirty five
• 25:15
  Speaker 5: forty five minutes away, so I'll have a lot of
• 25:18
  Speaker 5: time on the road self reflection.
• 25:20
  Speaker 2: Thirty five to forty five minutes away, Like right now,
• 25:22
  Speaker 2: you're a couple of minutes away from the shop.
• 25:24
  Speaker 1: Yeah, a little too close if you, if you ask me,
• 25:27
  Speaker 1: a little too close. You could walk each day here?
• 25:30
  Speaker 1: I know, But why do that?
• 25:31
  Speaker 5: Why run to work like Dan Gable when you can
• 25:34
  Speaker 5: drive thirty five to forty five minutes?
• 25:39
  Speaker 1: But I'm very excited for that, I can tell Yeah,
• 25:41
  Speaker 1: I could she segue too.
• 25:43
  Speaker 5: She's thinking a lot about child number two, maybe potentially
• 25:46
  Speaker 5: trying for child number two, which I think is another
• 25:49
  Speaker 5: great idea from the WiFi, because we didn't have any
• 25:53
  Speaker 5: plans to like wait or anything like that, like any
• 25:56
  Speaker 5: type of agreed on.
• 25:58
  Speaker 1: Schedule or anything. So we'll drive for baby number two
• 26:01
  Speaker 1: and then hopefully she what I'm aiming for is she's
• 26:05
  Speaker 1: pregnant during the move would be ideal. Third trimester.
• 26:09
  Speaker 5: Damn, it may be nesting stage, maybe like late second trimester,
• 26:14
  Speaker 5: when the anxiety's like at its peak.
• 26:16
  Speaker 1: Yeah, we'll try and time it out.
• 26:18
  Speaker 2: But when their hormones have been completely hijacked, Yeah, that's
• 26:22
  Speaker 2: the time to move.
• 26:23
  Speaker 1: That's the time to move. So I'm out. But hey,
• 26:25
  Speaker 1: baby number two, new house, baby number two and new
• 26:29
  Speaker 1: house homeowner. Yep, sherman, what are you gonna do about
• 26:32
  Speaker 1: the mice? Don't worry. I caught it, and I did
• 26:34
  Speaker 1: take a picture this morning.
• 26:35
  Speaker 5: But then I was like, that's a little it's a
• 26:37
  Speaker 5: little gruesome to show on the live. But long live
• 26:41
  Speaker 5: the king. I'm the king of my domicile. Yet again,
• 26:45
  Speaker 5: the mouse has been defeated. That's this morning. That's that's
• 26:48
  Speaker 5: all off the press.
• 26:49
  Speaker 1: Back to APR though, I got another great note from
• 26:52
  Speaker 1: my wife that I need to work on the three piece, Sherman,
• 26:58
  Speaker 1: what are the three peas?
• 26:59
  Speaker 5: The three piece A pubes, poop and p And Jill
• 27:04
  Speaker 5: made a great she made a fantastic note that whenever's.
• 27:07
  Speaker 2: Poop and pee, pubes poop and pee. And I'm thinking
• 27:10
  Speaker 2: this is scarlet. But then you say pubes so that
• 27:12
  Speaker 2: I'm like.
• 27:13
  Speaker 5: God, it's not our eight month old. So I'm like, oh,
• 27:17
  Speaker 5: that must yeah, that must be she's talking to me.
• 27:21
  Speaker 5: But whenever Jill goes to the bathroom, there's always one
• 27:24
  Speaker 5: of those three p's, like just a little hint of it.
• 27:28
  Speaker 1: Maybe sometimes there's a hint of two of them, and
• 27:30
  Speaker 1: God forbid three. So, uh, I'm working on my she
• 27:34
  Speaker 1: calls it house hygiene. She said, I have great hygiene
• 27:39
  Speaker 1: body hygiene, but I need to work on my house hygiene.
• 27:43
  Speaker 1: And so we're working on getting the three p's taken
• 27:46
  Speaker 1: care of.
• 27:46
  Speaker 2: Okay, I have questions. I don't know if you guys
• 27:50
  Speaker 2: have questions. Yeah, please go ahead poop, pee and pubes.
• 27:55
  Speaker 1: Yeah.
• 27:55
  Speaker 2: Yeah, So you're telling me that wifey whenever she's going
• 27:59
  Speaker 2: to the baths that you guys use together.
• 28:01
  Speaker 1: Yeah, or the guest room or the guest room bathroom.
• 28:05
  Speaker 2: There's always one of those three little hint that is
• 28:09
  Speaker 2: still around the toilet. Yes, sir, I can wrap my
• 28:14
  Speaker 2: head around pubes out of the three like a couple
• 28:18
  Speaker 2: of strays. You're trimming up, you're grooming. Yeah, you're trying
• 28:22
  Speaker 2: to make it nicy for wifey.
• 28:24
  Speaker 1: Yeah. Poop and pee.
• 28:28
  Speaker 5: Yeah, you get a streak here, you get a holding
• 28:31
  Speaker 5: scarlet while peeing there, and you chalk it up.
• 28:35
  Speaker 1: I need to tighten the screws. I need to tighten
• 28:38
  Speaker 1: the screws.
• 28:39
  Speaker 2: You don't sound like a cat like me. Whenever I
• 28:41
  Speaker 2: get done going to the bathroom, I'm always somebody who
• 28:43
  Speaker 2: just checks.
• 28:45
  Speaker 1: I check the rim yep. If I have a blowout,
• 28:49
  Speaker 1: God forbid, God forbid I have a blowout.
• 28:51
  Speaker 2: Yeah, the back of the bowl up underneath the seat,
• 28:55
  Speaker 2: I always lift and kind of see what's going on.
• 28:58
  Speaker 1: Because I'm personally like i'd be side with Jill on
• 29:02
  Speaker 1: this one. Oh, certainly this.
• 29:05
  Speaker 5: You remember that note that you gave on my first
• 29:09
  Speaker 5: news of the moving and you're like, you look this way,
• 29:12
  Speaker 5: but you sound this way. Remind me look this way
• 29:16
  Speaker 5: but sound this When I when I was jokingly excited
• 29:19
  Speaker 5: about moving. Oh yeah, okay, just a few minutes ago,
• 29:22
  Speaker 5: just a few minutes. Ok, this one's actually a good note.
• 29:25
  Speaker 5: This one's actually a good note that I should work on.
• 29:28
  Speaker 1: Oh, on the APR. This is feedback you've gotten and
• 29:31
  Speaker 1: you're like, yeah.
• 29:32
  Speaker 5: You know what you're write And in the note I
• 29:35
  Speaker 5: told myself and maybe this could help a.
• 29:37
  Speaker 1: Dad out there.
• 29:38
  Speaker 5: Is when I'm at work or I am at someone's house,
• 29:44
  Speaker 5: someone else's house, and I go to the bathroom, I
• 29:47
  Speaker 5: do have like a very O C D nature about
• 29:51
  Speaker 5: myself of I do not want to be because I
• 29:54
  Speaker 5: also have the reputation around here of oh, Sherman blows
• 29:57
  Speaker 5: it up.
• 29:58
  Speaker 1: Sherman blows it up.
• 30:00
  Speaker 2: When Decat went yesterday and he had to go, all
• 30:03
  Speaker 2: he was trying to do is find the plunger. But
• 30:05
  Speaker 2: in that time of finding the plunger, somebody came in.
• 30:07
  Speaker 2: There was like, oh, who didn't flush the toilet?
• 30:09
  Speaker 1: The fuck? But everybody's immediate that reaction was who do
• 30:13
  Speaker 1: you think it was? I bet it was sureman. Oh,
• 30:15
  Speaker 1: And they would have yeah, like, yeah, there's no notes there.
• 30:20
  Speaker 1: Now Do I leave my stuff around, absolutely not. Do
• 30:24
  Speaker 1: I blow it up? For sure?
• 30:26
  Speaker 5: But now I need to get in the mental mind
• 30:28
  Speaker 5: space of hey, when I'm pooping and pen at my house,
• 30:32
  Speaker 5: I'm actually at somebody else's house.
• 30:35
  Speaker 2: Yeah, because if there was poop peer pubes in the
• 30:39
  Speaker 2: guest bathroom and I knew you just used it.
• 30:42
  Speaker 1: You'd think I'm a psychopath. I would never get an invite. No, no, no,
• 30:46
  Speaker 1: you'd get invited back. But there'd be a nice we'd
• 30:49
  Speaker 1: have a nice laugh, maybe a tweet, yeah, yeah, maybe
• 30:55
  Speaker 1: a walk and talk and walking talking, laugh a little bit. Opah, Sherman,
• 31:01
  Speaker 1: Come here for sure you just use the toilet? Yeah,
• 31:04
  Speaker 1: I thought so. Hey, let's go take a walk. As
• 31:06
  Speaker 1: you're flipping the steaks from the ground. Hey, sure, did
• 31:10
  Speaker 1: you use the guests room forty five minutes ago? Yeah? Yeah, yeah,
• 31:16
  Speaker 1: I thought so. Put your hand over this grill. Yeah
• 31:19
  Speaker 1: you like that? You felt hot? That is imagine your
• 31:22
  Speaker 1: face on it, Sherman.
• 31:24
  Speaker 5: Do you know how to test the uh internal temperature
• 31:27
  Speaker 5: of a steak without even touching it? Give me your hand,
• 31:31
  Speaker 5: put your pointer finger in your thumb together, feel that
• 31:34
  Speaker 5: squeeze that it's medium rare.
• 31:37
  Speaker 1: Nice dad, hack right there, nice grill hack. You get
• 31:39
  Speaker 1: all the way to the pinky.
• 31:41
  Speaker 2: Yeah, that's well done. Tell the dads. Tell any new
• 31:44
  Speaker 2: young dads out there that might not be savvy on
• 31:46
  Speaker 2: the grill. What you're talking about.
• 31:47
  Speaker 1: Uh, I believe medium will work on. Yeah, I gotta
• 31:54
  Speaker 1: work through it too. I don't think it's rare medium, rare, medium,
• 31:58
  Speaker 1: well done.
• 31:58
  Speaker 7: Pointer finger rare, Yeah, this is this is rare. Second
• 32:02
  Speaker 7: finger middle medium, rare.
• 32:04
  Speaker 1: Medium, rare medium medium, well well, another good thing for
• 32:07
  Speaker 1: medium rare.
• 32:07
  Speaker 7: When the juices start to come out of this steak,
• 32:10
  Speaker 7: that's a good, very very good tailtale sign that you
• 32:13
  Speaker 7: have a medium rare steak.
• 32:14
  Speaker 2: Yes, yeah, great, call the chef. His name is, his
• 32:18
  Speaker 2: nickname isn't chef for no reason.
• 32:19
  Speaker 1: It's a literally chef. But that right there, rare.
• 32:23
  Speaker 2: Yep index finger, middle finger medium rare medium, rare medium, medium,
• 32:29
  Speaker 2: pinky is well done. So you're grabbing and you feel
• 32:32
  Speaker 2: the toughness on on this little pad right here on
• 32:35
  Speaker 2: your thumb.
• 32:35
  Speaker 1: That's what you should be feeling if you grab the steak.
• 32:38
  Speaker 7: And then if it's a fl ay, you need to
• 32:41
  Speaker 7: be it's gonna be a little more tender. You need
• 32:42
  Speaker 7: to be a little more careful on using the touch.
• 32:44
  Speaker 7: I would give much more in a look for the
• 32:46
  Speaker 7: juices to rise. Yeah, just a small thing.
• 32:49
  Speaker 2: But if you don't have that foundational education, you shouldn't
• 32:52
  Speaker 2: be getting around to fill a You're going to full
• 32:55
  Speaker 2: a you know, a thing or two about some steaks.
• 32:57
  Speaker 1: And as you have me leaned over the grill, you
• 32:59
  Speaker 1: get to a well done you go, And that's what
• 33:02
  Speaker 1: you're gonna be. If my fucking guest bath ever has
• 33:07
  Speaker 1: another pew on it again, you put a little shit stain,
• 33:13
  Speaker 1: you're gonna be well done. Good APR good, A good,
• 33:17
  Speaker 1: good feedback from my wife.
• 33:18
  Speaker 2: I'm glad you communicated that with is communications key Will
• 33:22
  Speaker 2: So I had a couple APR dad brain moments last
• 33:27
  Speaker 2: week pretty much immediately within the hour of the episode releasing, oh,
• 33:31
  Speaker 2: not an hour, within the first two hours of the
• 33:34
  Speaker 2: episode releasing last week. Yeah, I got a I got
• 33:37
  Speaker 2: a phone call. It wasn't just feedback through a text.
• 33:40
  Speaker 2: It was a phone call.
• 33:41
  Speaker 1: Yeah. And the first question was because.
• 33:43
  Speaker 2: What we do last week we celebrated Scottie turning six
• 33:46
  Speaker 2: months old. I forget if I said the day you're listening,
• 33:50
  Speaker 2: or if itels the day we're recording the tenth or eleventh.
• 33:53
  Speaker 1: It was six months, right, six months? Okay, I'm just
• 33:56
  Speaker 1: helping you. I thought it was not.
• 33:58
  Speaker 2: Wife calls me in first thing he said, I'm like, hey, sweetheart,
• 34:01
  Speaker 2: She goes, do you know your daughter's birthday?
• 34:03
  Speaker 1: Oh? And I was like, which daughter? But yeah, I
• 34:13
  Speaker 1: was like, uh, oh shit, I got that wrong, didn't I.
• 34:16
  Speaker 1: She's like, how do you not know? You? Like, you
• 34:18
  Speaker 1: only have two kids and they're young. It's early.
• 34:21
  Speaker 2: It's not like they're grown up, and you kind of
• 34:23
  Speaker 2: forget when their birthday could be. How do you forget
• 34:26
  Speaker 2: when Scotty's birthday is? Oh, sweetheart, it ain't even like that,
• 34:29
  Speaker 2: Like in my brain, it's like a waterfall system. Rue
• 34:33
  Speaker 2: is April third, twenty twenty two, so four three two,
• 34:37
  Speaker 2: And then with Scotty, I go eleven. I think it's
• 34:39
  Speaker 2: eleven ten, but I need to flip it. Rue is descending,
• 34:43
  Speaker 2: Scotty is uscending. So Scotty turned six months on November
• 34:49
  Speaker 2: twelve or March twelfth, great, not March tenth or I
• 34:54
  Speaker 2: forget it? Look, dad, brain, I forget what I even want?
• 34:56
  Speaker 1: Hold on hold on the twelfth. Okay, the twelfth day
• 34:58
  Speaker 1: Instagram November is her birthday is her day of birth.
• 35:02
  Speaker 1: March March twelfth is when she turned sixteen months old.
• 35:07
  Speaker 1: Sixteen months. I just confused everybody because I think I
• 35:10
  Speaker 1: said six, and I was like, she's just really good
• 35:11
  Speaker 1: at dinner for a six month old.
• 35:13
  Speaker 6: And I just was that's why I asked you six,
• 35:15
  Speaker 6: and you look back at me and said you get six.
• 35:18
  Speaker 1: Dad, brain, that brain, that birth six APR report.
• 35:21
  Speaker 5: I gotta be completely honest, after everything you just went over,
• 35:28
  Speaker 5: I do not know, after everything that you just said,
• 35:30
  Speaker 5: what your daughter's birthday is or how old she is.
• 35:35
  Speaker 2: Scottie is sixteen months old. She turned sixteen months old
• 35:38
  Speaker 2: on March twelfth, Okay, her birthday, her day of birth
• 35:43
  Speaker 2: when she came into this world and dead and Mama
• 35:46
  Speaker 2: were smiling at her. That was on November twelfth. Okay,
• 35:52
  Speaker 2: So I gott the I got the day off. APR
• 35:56
  Speaker 2: number two. This is an interesting one because we open
• 35:59
  Speaker 2: up every episode. I hope your trash is taken out.
• 36:01
  Speaker 2: Big trash day guy. We are in a new house,
• 36:03
  Speaker 2: so we're in a new area, We're in a new environment.
• 36:06
  Speaker 1: Oh, I forgot about this.
• 36:07
  Speaker 2: I missed trash a couple of week are a few
• 36:09
  Speaker 2: weeks ago listening now, and I know this mailman is
• 36:12
  Speaker 2: out there listening.
• 36:12
  Speaker 1: He's a pet sico.
• 36:16
  Speaker 2: But you know how a few weeks ago I stood
• 36:19
  Speaker 2: in solidarity with a gentleman who called in and said,
• 36:22
  Speaker 2: I forgot to take out the trash. Like, fuck me. Yeah,
• 36:26
  Speaker 2: So I stood in soolidating with him. Like the next
• 36:28
  Speaker 2: time I had to take out trash, I stood in solidary.
• 36:30
  Speaker 2: I forgot to take out the trash, but I stood
• 36:32
  Speaker 2: in solid area.
• 36:32
  Speaker 5: Yeah, shortest voice failing before the that's history.
• 36:36
  Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah. Yeah.
• 36:37
  Speaker 2: So the next week I take out the trash. Remember
• 36:41
  Speaker 2: I did a little walk and talk videos. I'm walking
• 36:43
  Speaker 2: down to the driveway. It was kind of night time
• 36:44
  Speaker 2: out walk, the trash bens out, trash is taken out. Yeah,
• 36:49
  Speaker 2: so that trash day happens. The next week, my wife
• 36:54
  Speaker 2: takes out the trash. This is we are now at
• 36:56
  Speaker 2: last week when I'm getting this APR report. Yeah, because
• 37:00
  Speaker 2: trash Day for us is on Wednesdays. Episode drops on Wednesdays.
• 37:04
  Speaker 2: Mailman comes on Wednesday. Mailman comes every day, but he comes.
• 37:09
  Speaker 2: He comes on Wednesdays. He comes up to the door.
• 37:15
  Speaker 5: Yeah, because your mailbox isn't at your door, wells down
• 37:20
  Speaker 5: at the bottom of the driveway.
• 37:22
  Speaker 1: He comes up to the door.
• 37:24
  Speaker 2: And I could butcher the details here, but essentially knocks
• 37:29
  Speaker 2: charro answers and he delivers our mails, so he know
• 37:32
  Speaker 2: when he sees he sees old Willie one chelf on there. Yeah,
• 37:35
  Speaker 2: he's a PT sixer, he's a PT sicko. And he goes,
• 37:40
  Speaker 2: I can tell your husband. I can tell your husband
• 37:43
  Speaker 2: is having trouble setting up the trash outside. And he goes, basically,
• 37:52
  Speaker 2: you know how I knew that.
• 37:53
  Speaker 1: You did it today? Oh my god, because I didn't
• 37:56
  Speaker 1: do it last week either. My wife did it because
• 38:04
  Speaker 1: you texted me someth about the trash, something like that's
• 38:05
  Speaker 1: why we're a tea baby.
• 38:11
  Speaker 2: And he goes, because I knew it was your husband
• 38:16
  Speaker 2: because when he put out the trash bins, he had
• 38:18
  Speaker 2: them both right next to each other, touching, which is
• 38:21
  Speaker 2: a no note if you wanted him to be able
• 38:23
  Speaker 2: to lift the bins up and put him in the
• 38:24
  Speaker 2: trash note, Yep, it's a good note. Need to separate
• 38:27
  Speaker 2: him for you know, a few inches whatever it is.
• 38:29
  Speaker 2: And this is the mailman. This is not the trash
• 38:31
  Speaker 2: man giving game right, correct.
• 38:33
  Speaker 1: This is the mailman.
• 38:34
  Speaker 2: And he put the trash cans in front of the mailbox,
• 38:40
  Speaker 2: so technically he might not be allowed to put the
• 38:42
  Speaker 2: mail into where he's got to come up to the door.
• 38:45
  Speaker 2: He's like, but just wanted to give that note. I
• 38:46
  Speaker 2: knew it was you today because everything was placed perfectly
• 38:49
  Speaker 2: at the end of the driveway. So I have some
• 38:52
  Speaker 2: work to do. Shout out the mailman that runs through
• 38:57
  Speaker 2: our area. He's a pt sick.
• 38:58
  Speaker 1: Oh, yes he is. He's looking out for his boy.
• 39:01
  Speaker 1: Does he have a first name? Do we want to
• 39:02
  Speaker 1: shout out? I don't know his first name? Oh, okay,
• 39:05
  Speaker 1: well I don't know. I don't know if he gave
• 39:06
  Speaker 1: it to Jarrow, we'll get on that, ba.
• 39:07
  Speaker 2: If he gave it to jar and Shrot didn't tell
• 39:09
  Speaker 2: me his first name, maybe I need to keep an
• 39:10
  Speaker 2: eye on the mail man at home.
• 39:11
  Speaker 1: My dream, when you initially told the very brief story
• 39:16
  Speaker 1: because you didn't want to spoil it for the pod,
• 39:19
  Speaker 1: my dream is that your mailman is a guest on
• 39:23
  Speaker 1: for the dads eventually one day, Buddy, I've been having
• 39:28
  Speaker 1: these thoughts on guests because I know people love when
• 39:31
  Speaker 1: we have guests. What we've only had Taylor on, but
• 39:33
  Speaker 1: I know people would love to hear from other guests.
• 39:35
  Speaker 1: We do want to do that.
• 39:36
  Speaker 2: We thought it was very We love the whole, the community,
• 39:40
  Speaker 2: the language, everything.
• 39:41
  Speaker 1: That we're doing on for the day.
• 39:42
  Speaker 2: It's a lot of fun. We've also been in talks
• 39:45
  Speaker 2: for months now about having a guest list. Yeah, we
• 39:48
  Speaker 2: don't want it to go consecutive guests rolling out week
• 39:50
  Speaker 2: after week after week to where it becomes a guest
• 39:53
  Speaker 2: centric show. But when we do have guests on, like,
• 39:56
  Speaker 2: who are the guests going to be? We want uh
• 39:59
  Speaker 2: Chicago Ups, Anthony riz we want, we want Dan Gable.
• 40:05
  Speaker 2: We love with Greg Olsen, greg Olsen, sal for Sella.
• 40:09
  Speaker 1: Yeah, he was the first friend there.
• 40:12
  Speaker 2: Matt Staff, Matt Staff for Luke Comb's like these are
• 40:15
  Speaker 2: Bob Odenkirk, Yeah, these are bigger, Yes, Bro, he would
• 40:20
  Speaker 2: be phenomenal. Would love that any dad that I've seen
• 40:24
  Speaker 2: doing podcasts to where it's like a dad clip for content.
• 40:28
  Speaker 2: I want the I love people who want to just
• 40:30
  Speaker 2: talk that life.
• 40:32
  Speaker 1: Yeah.
• 40:32
  Speaker 2: However, another part of me was like the male man,
• 40:37
  Speaker 2: there's a there's a there's a there's a PT sixer. Yeah,
• 40:41
  Speaker 2: that operates the this flower farm we went to over
• 40:45
  Speaker 2: the weekend, And you can pull up the Instagram so
• 40:48
  Speaker 2: that way the photo the screenshot can be on the
• 40:51
  Speaker 2: screen cover shot coming to mind farmer Sean.
• 40:53
  Speaker 1: Yeah, but just salt of the earth. Dad could not
• 41:00
  Speaker 1: agree more. I want I want some dads on here. Yeah,
• 41:03
  Speaker 1: some dads. I don't want this.
• 41:05
  Speaker 2: A dad show doesn't have to be some name of
• 41:07
  Speaker 2: some status. No, and a siko that's out there that
• 41:11
  Speaker 2: we sit there and communicate with all the time, that
• 41:13
  Speaker 2: writes in, that does all these things.
• 41:14
  Speaker 5: Like we'd love to have just dads, yes on the pod.
• 41:18
  Speaker 5: No one you just named fits this category. I just
• 41:21
  Speaker 5: want to throw that out there. But like we're we
• 41:25
  Speaker 5: don't want like pretty perfect picture of dad for every
• 41:30
  Speaker 5: single guess.
• 41:32
  Speaker 1: We want some dads. Yeah, I want a guy in
• 41:35
  Speaker 1: the trenches. It's got a little blood and a little
• 41:38
  Speaker 1: dirt on his face because he's he's got four under
• 41:41
  Speaker 1: four at.
• 41:41
  Speaker 2: Home, and he's just got some good stories. Like, we're
• 41:44
  Speaker 2: not out here chasing numbers. We do encourage everybody to subscribe.
• 41:48
  Speaker 2: If you have a subscribe, please make sure you subscribe
• 41:50
  Speaker 2: following all of our audience channels. But it's not like
• 41:52
  Speaker 2: when we look at guests, we don't want to just
• 41:54
  Speaker 2: chase what numbers could be. Yeah, we just want some
• 41:57
  Speaker 2: good old fashioned dad combos where Dad's can men have
• 42:00
  Speaker 2: an ollipop with us?
• 42:02
  Speaker 1: Here? Man?
• 42:02
  Speaker 2: They're co hosting the show with us. They're not We're
• 42:05
  Speaker 2: not sitting here and they're sitting on the other side
• 42:06
  Speaker 2: and we're interviewing them. It's like Taylor Reiner where he
• 42:09
  Speaker 2: was a co host, a guest host for the Dads.
• 42:12
  Speaker 1: Yeah. I think that would be awesome.
• 42:14
  Speaker 5: I want some guys that they deep grunt when they
• 42:17
  Speaker 5: get up out of a chair. Yeah, any question you
• 42:21
  Speaker 5: asked them, no matter how easy to answer, there's always
• 42:25
  Speaker 5: a ball cap off and scratch ahead and go as shit.
• 42:28
  Speaker 1: I mean, yeah, you know what, Let me call my
• 42:30
  Speaker 1: wife and make sure this story's right. Yeah, let me, Hey,
• 42:32
  Speaker 1: what'd you do this weekend? Whatever? Like whatever, whatever my
• 42:39
  Speaker 1: wife told me to you, I just shut my mouth. Yeah,
• 42:42
  Speaker 1: I go where she wants to.
• 42:43
  Speaker 5: Also, I just I just unlocked a memory from yesterday
• 42:47
  Speaker 5: because I tried to block it out.
• 42:49
  Speaker 1: We're talking about APR.
• 42:51
  Speaker 5: Got a nice little phone call from my wife that
• 42:55
  Speaker 5: I love I love you Jilly Bean around five point
• 43:00
  Speaker 5: fifteen or no, no, it was five twenty six. It
• 43:03
  Speaker 5: was five twenty six, and she said, are you still
• 43:08
  Speaker 5: at the office.
• 43:09
  Speaker 1: I say, I sure am. We had a late recording.
• 43:11
  Speaker 5: She said, who's picking up Scarlet? I said, that is
• 43:18
  Speaker 5: a great note, honey, I'll go do that. I'll go
• 43:23
  Speaker 5: pick up our daughter. Great question. Great question, because oh yeah, Monday, Wednesday,
• 43:28
  Speaker 5: Friday is my days. I go pick up our daughter.
• 43:31
  Speaker 5: And if I don't do it before six o'clock, we
• 43:33
  Speaker 5: get hit with the fee. That was a great note
• 43:36
  Speaker 5: by my wife forgot, forgot to go pick up Scarlett.
• 43:39
  Speaker 5: I did get there before six though, five p fifty eight.
• 43:42
  Speaker 5: If not, you get a fee.
• 43:43
  Speaker 2: Just you just tell them charge it to the four
• 43:46
  Speaker 2: of the day.
• 43:46
  Speaker 1: On the dead. Put it on the dead.
• 43:51
  Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, and yes also future future note. I was
• 43:56
  Speaker 5: not being held at gunpoint here at the office was
• 44:00
  Speaker 5: more so we just had a late recording day and
• 44:02
  Speaker 5: I like, literally for guy.
• 44:06
  Speaker 1: And that happens to me because we were doing George Kittle.
• 44:10
  Speaker 1: Yes it was George Kittle, and it's like, this is
• 44:12
  Speaker 1: a huge pod. This is fine. It ran late because
• 44:15
  Speaker 1: of RAM late, Like it wasn't like right right when
• 44:19
  Speaker 1: Luke comes was on. I had to get that on.
• 44:21
  Speaker 2: I was like, hey, I hate to do this, I
• 44:23
  Speaker 2: have to leave. So I got to get home by
• 44:25
  Speaker 2: a certain time and I was running late and I'm
• 44:26
  Speaker 2: sitting there texting. That's when I was vin mowing my
• 44:29
  Speaker 2: name just Venmotor one hundred dollars. Yeah, I'm sorry.
• 44:33
  Speaker 5: But on the death Yeah, and uh yeah, that was
• 44:37
  Speaker 5: a bone chilling phone call. Jill actually went very easy
• 44:40
  Speaker 5: on me. But at the hospital she cannot leave like that.
• 44:46
  Speaker 5: There's actual like rules and parameters around that living during
• 44:49
  Speaker 5: a shift, so it's literally up to me.
• 44:53
  Speaker 1: And uh, that's how we wanted though, Papa team, That's
• 44:56
  Speaker 1: how we won it. Good.
• 44:57
  Speaker 5: Yes, but that phone call was so funny. Dude, just
• 45:00
  Speaker 5: who's picking up our daughter?
• 45:02
  Speaker 1: Good question? Crazy? I think it's been today? It is
• 45:05
  Speaker 1: you today? Good? I forgot and even better APR.
• 45:09
  Speaker 5: We had a fantastic episode last week where we talked
• 45:12
  Speaker 5: about steak and blow job Day multiple times. Found out
• 45:17
  Speaker 5: from our lovely women at daycare and shout out Miss
• 45:20
  Speaker 5: Angela and Miss Crystal because they're great. Miss Crystal found
• 45:23
  Speaker 5: our podcast last week when she was she was on Spotify.
• 45:29
  Speaker 2: About the first the first episode she consumed before the
• 45:32
  Speaker 2: Dads your Daycare. Yeah, Lena found for the Dads last
• 45:37
  Speaker 2: week when we were promoing Yeah March fourteenth.
• 45:40
  Speaker 1: Yeah, nice, it's a great combo with her.
• 45:45
  Speaker 5: It's fantastic. I said, how did you I'm legitimately kind
• 45:49
  Speaker 5: of curious. How did you come across it on Spotify?
• 45:52
  Speaker 5: And she was like, it was on my suggestion and
• 45:55
  Speaker 5: there was a picture of you, And I was like,
• 45:57
  Speaker 5: what in the world And y'all think, I know that
• 46:00
  Speaker 5: y'all just released this episode?
• 46:02
  Speaker 1: What you think? Oh? When was it? When was that?
• 46:10
  Speaker 8: Oh?
• 46:10
  Speaker 1: On Thursday? Oh good?
• 46:14
  Speaker 2: Yeah, so was the last week's episode or a different
• 46:18
  Speaker 2: one got suggested?
• 46:20
  Speaker 1: Oh good? Yeah, y'all were like super excited about soth
• 46:25
  Speaker 1: y'all are y'all are like it seemed funny, like it
• 46:28
  Speaker 1: seemed cool. I was like, yeah, good is.
• 46:34
  Speaker 5: Yeah, grab Scarlett as fast as I could and was
• 46:37
  Speaker 5: out of there.
• 46:38
  Speaker 2: That's a tough spot to be in, Yeah, especially any
• 46:41
  Speaker 2: new listener that came in last week. Yeah, interesting one
• 46:45
  Speaker 2: to come fun. I hope you all laughed and had
• 46:47
  Speaker 2: a great time.
• 46:48
  Speaker 5: How did do we want to recap? Really quick before
• 46:50
  Speaker 5: we get into all this stuff? Do you want to
• 46:52
  Speaker 5: touch on your March fourteenth? Because I saw the stakes
• 46:55
  Speaker 5: that you cooked. I'm saying plural. You cooked enough to
• 46:58
  Speaker 5: feed an army. You had an army at your house. Yeah,
• 47:03
  Speaker 5: so you came through with the steaks. How Sake Day
• 47:06
  Speaker 5: was a plus. Stake Day was a plus. Steak Day, Yeah, buddy,
• 47:15
  Speaker 5: I'm not even gonna sit here and act and pretend
• 47:17
  Speaker 5: Steak Day was good for me too.
• 47:21
  Speaker 1: Steak Day was good for me too. I thought it
• 47:25
  Speaker 1: was a joke. I mean, it is a joke, but
• 47:31
  Speaker 1: but I don't know.
• 47:33
  Speaker 5: I just cook up the steak and then, you know,
• 47:35
  Speaker 5: we're watching the movie, and then the movie ends, and
• 47:38
  Speaker 5: then the lights are off and I'm sitting there like, Okay.
• 47:41
  Speaker 1: She's really milking it now, she's really Did you have
• 47:46
  Speaker 1: a great day today? Yeah?
• 47:49
  Speaker 9: I did.
• 47:50
  Speaker 1: It feels incomplete. I did have a good days about
• 47:55
  Speaker 1: to get better. I don't know. We're about to go
• 47:59
  Speaker 1: to bed, Yeah we are. Let's just say fluff the
• 48:10
  Speaker 1: sheet just a little bit. Let's just say it ended, and.
• 48:20
  Speaker 2: I had my mouth tape on and I was just
• 48:21
  Speaker 2: facing I was facing Waffle, Waffle the bulldog just in
• 48:27
  Speaker 2: the corner.
• 48:34
  Speaker 1: We tried. Hey, we had fun. We did our best
• 48:37
  Speaker 1: and we had fun. You guys got people. That's what
• 48:41
  Speaker 1: I'm saying today. I you know, I still think we
• 48:44
  Speaker 1: impact it.
• 48:45
  Speaker 6: End a lot of people's lives that day that we
• 48:47
  Speaker 6: got emails and comments about good you did the lord's work.
• 48:50
  Speaker 1: We impacted others.
• 48:52
  Speaker 5: I'm being so serious because like this is a joke,
• 48:54
  Speaker 5: but that did. Thank you for that silver lining, because
• 48:57
  Speaker 5: if anybody did get their pipe smoked.
• 49:01
  Speaker 1: Vi FTD, hell yeah, hell yeah. I wanted to do
• 49:10
  Speaker 1: like videos on it.
• 49:11
  Speaker 2: I was like prepping my steak and I want to
• 49:13
  Speaker 2: do a video of how to prep the meat.
• 49:15
  Speaker 1: Poor joking joke. Your post barrinated, well did.
• 49:21
  Speaker 6: I don't know the name, and this is not a bit,
• 49:23
  Speaker 6: but while going through the four the D's phone, your
• 49:25
  Speaker 6: post did get reposted and shared to the story of
• 49:28
  Speaker 6: a female movie star of that category. Then champion it.
• 49:32
  Speaker 6: I'll see if I can find it. I did not
• 49:34
  Speaker 6: recognize the name off first gas, but there was a
• 49:37
  Speaker 6: story attachment of your post into a a porn stars.
• 49:41
  Speaker 1: Instagram storl who was saying, well, I guess it is official.
• 49:46
  Speaker 6: I was thinking, like, Hollywood movie star, that's a different
• 49:50
  Speaker 6: part of Hollywood.
• 49:50
  Speaker 1: It's like a different angle. Yeah, they make shows. I'm
• 49:57
  Speaker 1: legitimately just gonna be like, we gotta find out. Oh yeah,
• 50:02
  Speaker 1: maybe it's like anathany Armis or something.
• 50:04
  Speaker 10: Fausday's funneled. Boys, am I see you, Ego, Tobby.
• 50:18
  Speaker 2: I did see that the post had way more shares
• 50:22
  Speaker 2: than it did likes. Just the secret work.
• 50:26
  Speaker 1: Was being done. Some absolute goom Beret demon the goom
• 50:34
  Speaker 1: Berets and seeming Team six's were on net. They're like, finally,
• 50:37
  Speaker 1: these guys just sit there and grind. They're like, oh,
• 50:40
  Speaker 1: I love my gid, my gid, oh my god.
• 50:44
  Speaker 6: Just for reference, the post has uh, I mean, it
• 50:47
  Speaker 6: did well and has one hundred and sixty three k views, okay,
• 50:50
  Speaker 6: four thousand likes, thirty one comments, forty three reposts, twelve
• 50:53
  Speaker 6: thousand cents.
• 50:54
  Speaker 1: Oh good, oh good. We made an impact. So that's
• 50:59
  Speaker 1: how my March fourteenth.
• 51:00
  Speaker 5: We have daughters, we have wives, and we think women
• 51:05
  Speaker 5: are absolutely incredible.
• 51:08
  Speaker 1: We do, and we celebrate them. We do celebrate them.
• 51:10
  Speaker 1: And to the twelve twelve point twelve point six, I
• 51:16
  Speaker 1: tell you this, we ain't running on April fourteenth. Yeah,
• 51:23
  Speaker 1: we're holding the line, buddy. If you think PT six
• 51:32
  Speaker 1: is going to retreat on April April fourteenth.
• 51:36
  Speaker 2: If it did, if it didn't happen for you, April
• 51:39
  Speaker 2: fourteenth is a time to show the example of what
• 51:42
  Speaker 2: the celebration looks like.
• 51:43
  Speaker 1: Yeah, show them what March fourteenth is all about, and
• 51:49
  Speaker 1: hopefully the you know, most of our house will be
• 51:52
  Speaker 1: boxed up by then. That'll be perfect. Yeah.
• 51:54
  Speaker 2: I hope you're no, no, no, no. I hope you
• 51:57
  Speaker 2: extend your lease and Jill is pushing third trimester, and
• 52:03
  Speaker 2: then that's when you decide to move. Okay, first, I
• 52:06
  Speaker 2: think that's optimal. Yeah, that's optimal moving when your wife
• 52:09
  Speaker 2: is going on a third trimester.
• 52:10
  Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, yeah, So we'll just be celebrating the news
• 52:13
  Speaker 1: of I hope.
• 52:14
  Speaker 2: That you're closing date and do date are the exact
• 52:16
  Speaker 2: same day? Oh, that would be good. Yeah, that would
• 52:19
  Speaker 2: be good.
• 52:21
  Speaker 1: Yeah. We gotta find a way to time that out.
• 52:23
  Speaker 1: Go month to month? Should we shout out some comments?
• 52:26
  Speaker 1: Got a lot of comments? We gotta get through. We
• 52:29
  Speaker 1: have a lot we get to do. Not get through
• 52:31
  Speaker 1: that we get to do. And fucking talking about do
• 52:34
  Speaker 1: we want to hit our recap ones first recap comments?
• 52:38
  Speaker 1: We should have probably hit those at the top.
• 52:42
  Speaker 2: Will's apr Scotty's birthday is not eleven eleven all right?
• 52:46
  Speaker 2: Josh Nelson on Spotify submitted steak and bjday. This is
• 52:51
  Speaker 2: Josh Nelson on Spotify submitted Steak and BJDA to the
• 52:55
  Speaker 2: joint calendar. Wife conducted a tactical edit to Peanut Noodles
• 53:00
  Speaker 2: and Pa Noodles and pussy.
• 53:07
  Speaker 1: There you go, not the mission we planned, but the
• 53:09
  Speaker 1: mission we got. Kay, Hey, there we go. There we go.
• 53:12
  Speaker 1: A little shock wave. Never hurt you never Uh.
• 53:16
  Speaker 5: I've Jonah Kerns, who's riding in uh from our wonderful
• 53:21
  Speaker 5: empty Siko and I forget her name, Caitlin a bear.
• 53:26
  Speaker 1: See that's why we put it on the shelf. Let's go.
• 53:30
  Speaker 1: Caitlin rode in and said, you want to have a boy?
• 53:33
  Speaker 1: No eye contact? Okay? Jonah? How to follow up on that?
• 53:38
  Speaker 5: Jonah Kerns on Spotify said, I think when she says
• 53:41
  Speaker 5: don't look me in the eyes, she means a certain
• 53:43
  Speaker 5: position named after a can nine. Yeah yeah from Jonah
• 53:49
  Speaker 5: good note new dads, New dads.
• 53:54
  Speaker 1: Go on here.
• 53:55
  Speaker 2: From Lyle Styler on Spotify, what's up? Boy's wife He
• 53:59
  Speaker 2: has been in due for the past twenty four hours.
• 54:01
  Speaker 2: Hopefully we meet our little girl soon to.
• 54:03
  Speaker 1: Pray for us.
• 54:04
  Speaker 2: Also, the pull out recliner bed has a bar in
• 54:07
  Speaker 2: the middle of my back. Oh good glove, y'all boys, Lyle, congratulations.
• 54:15
  Speaker 2: I hope everything went well. I hope mom and baby
• 54:17
  Speaker 2: are healthy. I love that you went through I love
• 54:20
  Speaker 2: that you went through the suck with the recliner.
• 54:22
  Speaker 1: And I got to hear that first and last game
• 54:23
  Speaker 1: because it was superb. Lyle Styler Lyle. It's either Lyle
• 54:28
  Speaker 1: Styler or Lyle's Tyler. Oh, I see mess, there's no space.
• 54:33
  Speaker 1: Oh okay, you just taking a guest.
• 54:35
  Speaker 7: No.
• 54:35
  Speaker 1: I just thought the last name Styler was so sick.
• 54:38
  Speaker 1: If it if it's maybe it's Tyler. So now it
• 54:40
  Speaker 1: seems like he's gonna be fuck. What do you do? Also,
• 54:46
  Speaker 1: dad pad? Did you see the dad pad? It's getting
• 54:49
  Speaker 1: kicked around the dad pad.
• 54:51
  Speaker 5: It's just like travel mattress built specifically to the measurement
• 54:58
  Speaker 5: of a hospital pullout couch.
• 55:00
  Speaker 1: No shit, Yeah dude, why didn't we think of that?
• 55:03
  Speaker 1: I know, because we're idiots. Well here's the good we are.
• 55:07
  Speaker 1: Here's this.
• 55:08
  Speaker 5: Hey, we are dumb. We are dumb, but we're smart
• 55:13
  Speaker 5: enough to see that product. And Jeremy Glump said, maybe
• 55:18
  Speaker 5: a collab.
• 55:19
  Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, I have this room.
• 55:24
  Speaker 5: Jordan Minkoff on Spotify This is New Dad's Boys been
• 55:30
  Speaker 5: listening to for the dads since my wife and I
• 55:33
  Speaker 5: found out she was pregnant with our.
• 55:35
  Speaker 1: Baby boy last July. Oh, let's go.
• 55:39
  Speaker 5: Jordan's listening to the new episode in the hospital as
• 55:42
  Speaker 5: we just welcome in our little guy yesterday and have
• 55:45
  Speaker 5: officially joined PT.
• 55:47
  Speaker 1: Six.
• 55:48
  Speaker 5: I also have an elite dad hack from our stay
• 55:52
  Speaker 5: I ordered.
• 55:53
  Speaker 1: I ordered a product called the dad Pad. I really
• 55:57
  Speaker 1: did not mean to do that.
• 55:58
  Speaker 5: I only read the first portion of you in super
• 56:00
  Speaker 5: I swear to God, I only read your transition that
• 56:03
  Speaker 5: was that's unreal, great transition like we like we said natural.
• 56:06
  Speaker 1: We're idiots, so we're still before fall. For me, that's
• 56:10
  Speaker 1: fear luck.
• 56:12
  Speaker 5: The Dad Bad, which is a sleeping bad, got to
• 56:14
  Speaker 5: fit hospital couches two nights in and my new dad
• 56:19
  Speaker 5: back is feeling good, excited to take everything I've learned
• 56:23
  Speaker 5: from this pod into dad life.
• 56:25
  Speaker 1: Let's go, Jordan.
• 56:26
  Speaker 2: Jordan, congratulations. Rue is turning four next month and I
• 56:31
  Speaker 2: said it on the recent episodes. I'm gonna say it
• 56:33
  Speaker 2: every week until she turns four, and I'm say it.
• 56:36
  Speaker 1: It makes me sad do it. But here's what I
• 56:40
  Speaker 1: want to tell Jordan. The new Dad's Lyle or Lyle's
• 56:44
  Speaker 1: enjoy every moment. Yeah, dude, it's going to be hard,
• 56:50
  Speaker 1: it's going.
• 56:51
  Speaker 2: To suck a lot, yep, but it is the greatest
• 56:55
  Speaker 2: responsibility you can ever have in your life. And enjoy
• 56:59
  Speaker 2: every moment. And I'll break more of this down when
• 57:02
  Speaker 2: Rude does turn four, because I just I like to
• 57:05
  Speaker 2: reflect on I like to reflect on all that stuff.
• 57:07
  Speaker 1: Yeah, but they're here for us in this early phase, man,
• 57:14
  Speaker 1: They're here for us to enjoy, to lay a foundation
• 57:17
  Speaker 1: to five through eight, then nine through fifteen, and so
• 57:21
  Speaker 1: on and so on.
• 57:22
  Speaker 2: And there's a new iteration. We read that little lesson
• 57:25
  Speaker 2: last week, there's a new iteration of your child when
• 57:29
  Speaker 2: it's that young every day. Then it's week to week.
• 57:32
  Speaker 2: It's a new kid a month to month. Don't think
• 57:35
  Speaker 2: of it in terms of years, especially before in those
• 57:38
  Speaker 2: first two years. Man, every month there's a different version
• 57:41
  Speaker 2: of your kid. Every month. You have four weekends. Four
• 57:45
  Speaker 2: weekends to make the most of in the first two years,
• 57:50
  Speaker 2: two summers, two falls, two winters, two of each holiday. Dude,
• 57:55
  Speaker 2: enjoy everything that you can as much as you can.
• 58:01
  Speaker 1: Man. Take a lot of photos and videos, yes, because
• 58:04
  Speaker 1: time flies. Lyles styles a little spoiler for any non
• 58:09
  Speaker 1: parents out there. Spoiler spoiler at the.
• 58:12
  Speaker 5: Eight month mark, dude, I went back and looked at
• 58:14
  Speaker 5: like first week videos and all that stuff, and I cried,
• 58:17
  Speaker 5: you're just gonna get your lyles.
• 58:19
  Speaker 1: You're gonna do it. You're gonna cry.
• 58:20
  Speaker 2: Scotty when she didn't have hair for those photos pop
• 58:23
  Speaker 2: up on her little digital frame. Always a great gift
• 58:26
  Speaker 2: to have a great product to have around the house.
• 58:27
  Speaker 2: It's one of those digital frames that kind of runs
• 58:29
  Speaker 2: through your album and you just look at it and
• 58:32
  Speaker 2: I just see little Scotty Joe. She's sixteen months. She
• 58:34
  Speaker 2: still our little She's still our little baby. She's our
• 58:36
  Speaker 2: youngest baby right now. And you just see those old photos, bro,
• 58:41
  Speaker 2: and it's just it's such a reminder that everything is
• 58:44
  Speaker 2: so fleeting. Yeah, Like we're having full conversations with Rue,
• 58:48
  Speaker 2: Like her curiosity is off the charts. The thing she
• 58:51
  Speaker 2: wants to do, she wants to operate more and more
• 58:53
  Speaker 2: independently every.
• 58:54
  Speaker 1: Day she is. She's a little girl. Yeah, she's a
• 58:57
  Speaker 1: little girl now for sure.
• 59:00
  Speaker 2: Yeah, she's getting heavier as I'm holding her, like the
• 59:04
  Speaker 2: mortality of she's not gonna want me to hold her soon.
• 59:08
  Speaker 1: I don't know when that.
• 59:09
  Speaker 2: Happens, like I was gonna google it, but I'm sure
• 59:11
  Speaker 2: parents out there probably have their own stories, and when
• 59:13
  Speaker 2: they're maybe their last time that they remember or what age,
• 59:16
  Speaker 2: it kind of stops happening. But I can just tell, like,
• 59:18
  Speaker 2: as I pick her up, she's getting heavier. One day
• 59:20
  Speaker 2: she's gonna not want me to hold her. And that
• 59:22
  Speaker 2: day now is so much sooner than what I thought.
• 59:26
  Speaker 2: And when I'm in the suck and you're thinking, fuck,
• 59:29
  Speaker 2: she can't walk, I have to pick her up or
• 59:31
  Speaker 2: she can't you know, she can't stand up, she's only crawling,
• 59:34
  Speaker 2: or she can walk a little bit. I kind of
• 59:35
  Speaker 2: gotta be around her all the time. Let me just
• 59:36
  Speaker 2: pick her up here. And it feels in those moments
• 59:40
  Speaker 2: that it's like a nuisance that you're picking them up.
• 59:41
  Speaker 2: Those those moments are gonna happen. But just dude, enjoyed
• 59:45
  Speaker 2: as much as you can. And like our buddy said
• 59:48
  Speaker 2: when he called in when Taylor was on, like fuck
• 59:50
  Speaker 2: the people that say wait until they wait, hey, just wait,
• 59:54
  Speaker 2: just wait, dude, no be there now, and fucking love it.
• 59:59
  Speaker 1: Bro.
• 1:00:00
  Speaker 5: Can I show you a picture really quick that kind
• 1:00:02
  Speaker 5: of ties into this. Yeah, I won't go into like
• 1:00:05
  Speaker 5: a full fledged story. But we had our first big
• 1:00:09
  Speaker 5: thunderstorm over was it Monday night or no Sunday night, Yeah,
• 1:00:14
  Speaker 5: a couple of nights ago, and dude, Scarlett was scared
• 1:00:17
  Speaker 5: and she was crying and it was so cute, dude.
• 1:00:19
  Speaker 5: The lightning would strike, like you would see the lightning
• 1:00:23
  Speaker 5: flash and then you would just hear on the monitor. Yeah,
• 1:00:28
  Speaker 5: and Jill was like, go get her, go get her,
• 1:00:31
  Speaker 5: or maybe she got her. I can't remember, but I
• 1:00:34
  Speaker 5: took a chef I sent it to you. I took
• 1:00:36
  Speaker 5: that picture in the morning of what I woke up
• 1:00:38
  Speaker 5: to you, dude, and I was just.
• 1:00:40
  Speaker 1: Like, God, I love this man, because that's the best.
• 1:00:44
  Speaker 2: Like, even when the storm has happened, part of me
• 1:00:45
  Speaker 2: the other night I was wondering if Scottie or R
• 1:00:49
  Speaker 2: was gonna wake up and we'd have to get him,
• 1:00:52
  Speaker 2: get him to the bed, because part of me is
• 1:00:53
  Speaker 2: kind of like loves it.
• 1:00:54
  Speaker 1: Oh the gold I'm sleeping in the bed with us
• 1:00:56
  Speaker 1: because we don't do the bed a hold lot at
• 1:00:58
  Speaker 1: this age. Yeah, yeah, we don't either.
• 1:01:00
  Speaker 2: Yeah, we don't either, And just like sleeping independent, like
• 1:01:03
  Speaker 2: that's the route we chose to go. Yeah, And so
• 1:01:06
  Speaker 2: when we do sleepovers and everything else. Like I'm just
• 1:01:08
  Speaker 2: obsessed when I got thinking when I got Ru in
• 1:01:10
  Speaker 2: the bed, because they're obviously young, Like even with Scotty
• 1:01:14
  Speaker 2: now we haven't done a sleepover anything with Scotty because
• 1:01:16
  Speaker 2: she's still operating, Like moving around you get a little
• 1:01:19
  Speaker 2: nervous obviously, the safe sleeping same yeah, yeah, but I'm
• 1:01:23
  Speaker 2: always excited, Like when Ru was coming up, I'm just like, hey,
• 1:01:26
  Speaker 2: when when can we start to where she's like sleeps
• 1:01:28
  Speaker 2: in her bed, Like I.
• 1:01:29
  Speaker 1: Just want to cuddle them, dude.
• 1:01:32
  Speaker 5: The little there was one point in the night to
• 1:01:34
  Speaker 5: that she had right hand hooked around mom's pinky and
• 1:01:38
  Speaker 5: left hand hooked around dad's thumb, just just both of
• 1:01:43
  Speaker 5: them up like this and and just passed out, dude,
• 1:01:46
  Speaker 5: and the little Binkie's going, it's the cutest way possible, dude,
• 1:01:51
  Speaker 5: And you just want to squish him and you want
• 1:01:54
  Speaker 5: to suffocate them, you want to subthing, like yeah, the
• 1:01:58
  Speaker 5: love that urges inside your body is almost like it's
• 1:02:02
  Speaker 5: crazy primal where you're like I could kill you.
• 1:02:06
  Speaker 1: I love you so badly.
• 1:02:07
  Speaker 5: Yeah yeah, yeah, And dude, she's starting to giggle too
• 1:02:10
  Speaker 5: on the neck. Kisses I don't even do neck kisses. Really,
• 1:02:13
  Speaker 5: I just with my tongue just got like on her
• 1:02:16
  Speaker 5: neck and just that little Oh, dude, play it on repeat. Yeah,
• 1:02:24
  Speaker 5: I just need a playlist. Make sure you get some.
• 1:02:26
  Speaker 1: Recordings of that, oh, whether it's voice recordings or video.
• 1:02:30
  Speaker 1: Buddy Bud Jill's on that game. Jills on that game.
• 1:02:35
  Speaker 1: God dude being the dad one, I know.
• 1:02:39
  Speaker 5: Yeah, I as far as we kind of touched on
• 1:02:43
  Speaker 5: our dad losses already, do we want to go into
• 1:02:47
  Speaker 5: our favorite segment, crack a cold one?
• 1:02:49
  Speaker 2: I do before we get off the dead losses. I
• 1:02:51
  Speaker 2: do have a dead loss here, Oh from autism Miller.
• 1:02:56
  Speaker 2: This is an email of a dad loss. Thank y'all
• 1:02:59
  Speaker 2: so much. I finally got my PT six shirts second
• 1:03:01
  Speaker 2: from the left. We do have a photo of the
• 1:03:04
  Speaker 2: dad's PT six ers repping the Papa Team six shirts
• 1:03:08
  Speaker 2: again BWTV dot com. I have an amazing village now
• 1:03:13
  Speaker 2: that I'm the last of our group to have a
• 1:03:14
  Speaker 2: little one. I have a baby boy on the way
• 1:03:17
  Speaker 2: and all the way on the left. Him and his
• 1:03:19
  Speaker 2: wife are having twin boys shortly after me and my wife.
• 1:03:22
  Speaker 1: I am blessed with my PT six shirt.
• 1:03:24
  Speaker 2: I had my paper party on March fourteenth, Oo and
• 1:03:29
  Speaker 2: my friend group came through with plenty of diapers and gifts,
• 1:03:33
  Speaker 2: and I'm super grateful. This podcast has been a blessing
• 1:03:36
  Speaker 2: for all four of us and we were just having
• 1:03:38
  Speaker 2: a great time supporting each other.
• 1:03:40
  Speaker 1: Brothers for life.
• 1:03:41
  Speaker 2: Tommy is a girl dad with twin boys on the way,
• 1:03:43
  Speaker 2: Austin boy on the way. That's me, Darren, two girl dads,
• 1:03:47
  Speaker 2: JP girl dad love you guys, keep up the great work.
• 1:03:50
  Speaker 1: This was under the dad lost one.
• 1:03:52
  Speaker 6: So his dad loss and dad wins. You should have
• 1:03:53
  Speaker 6: said dead win. And also it should just be Austin Miller.
• 1:03:56
  Speaker 6: That is a typo. I apologize, Sure, what does your
• 1:03:58
  Speaker 6: say dad lost or dad win?
• 1:04:00
  Speaker 5: Dad dad waynet covered by dad loss. I have a
• 1:04:03
  Speaker 5: dad loss here to that.
• 1:04:04
  Speaker 6: I apologize, That's okay, it is it is Austin Miller.
• 1:04:07
  Speaker 1: That is the type.
• 1:04:08
  Speaker 6: I want to put out an apology because well, you
• 1:04:12
  Speaker 6: are Rod Burgundy.
• 1:04:12
  Speaker 1: You read the note about Scarscar.
• 1:04:14
  Speaker 6: After talking about the story of Scarscar, you read autism
• 1:04:17
  Speaker 6: Miller instead of instead of Austin.
• 1:04:19
  Speaker 1: I'm sorry to you, Will. I just confidently I saw it,
• 1:04:24
  Speaker 1: and I'm like, hey, if that's his name, if it
• 1:04:31
  Speaker 1: makes you feel any better. I truly like, but it's
• 1:04:35
  Speaker 1: not like one letter. It does say autism Miller. It does.
• 1:04:46
  Speaker 1: And I thought I was reading the Dad loss. We
• 1:04:49
  Speaker 1: got a dad loss here? Read the Dallas. This sounds
• 1:04:53
  Speaker 1: like a pretty good story. He's got the boys together,
• 1:04:54
  Speaker 1: they're all having kids. That's a crack of cold one.
• 1:04:58
  Speaker 1: That's a I okay, really quick note for Darren Derek.
• 1:05:05
  Speaker 1: Come ahead and just hey, I'm sorry.
• 1:05:07
  Speaker 5: I just put to put a nice piece of bread
• 1:05:10
  Speaker 5: on the ship sandwich that his aunt is a Miller.
• 1:05:16
  Speaker 5: Every time when I get in drop box there and
• 1:05:19
  Speaker 5: I go to the voice smails every single time. In
• 1:05:22
  Speaker 5: my head, I'm like, I know they're gonna be there,
• 1:05:25
  Speaker 5: there's no question, and they're all gonna rip. And I
• 1:05:29
  Speaker 5: just never questioned that. So I just wanted you to
• 1:05:31
  Speaker 5: hear that I have that thought this morning.
• 1:05:33
  Speaker 1: Oh I'm sorry.
• 1:05:35
  Speaker 5: No, you rip, you rip? I have a dad lost here. Well,
• 1:05:39
  Speaker 5: it's a it's an air an email.
• 1:05:43
  Speaker 1: Willy Burgundy, Willie old Willie Burgundy. You put all the
• 1:05:50
  Speaker 1: prompter read literally Wait, oh, Scotty's birthday was wrong? Okay, yeah,
• 1:05:54
  Speaker 1: passed that one up. Who wrote that one? There's no
• 1:06:00
  Speaker 1: name on it. I think that's just a reminder. Takes
• 1:06:03
  Speaker 1: sip a lollipop.
• 1:06:11
  Speaker 5: Fellas, for the first time in my adult life, I
• 1:06:13
  Speaker 5: forgot to take out the trash. Oh, this is Aaron's
• 1:06:17
  Speaker 5: first time, so first time offender.
• 1:06:19
  Speaker 1: Let's see.
• 1:06:20
  Speaker 5: Let's see what he says to make matters worse. It
• 1:06:22
  Speaker 5: was also a recycling week. Ours only comes and picks
• 1:06:25
  Speaker 5: up every other week. Bro, that's two weeks or what
• 1:06:30
  Speaker 5: four weeks of recycling month?
• 1:06:33
  Speaker 1: Miss one? Yeah, recycling is every other week.
• 1:06:38
  Speaker 5: Yeah, he said, biggest dad fail for me in recent memory.
• 1:06:42
  Speaker 1: But guess what he said at the end? Good? Good,
• 1:06:44
  Speaker 1: So Aaron style, you fuck up good, you get the
• 1:06:48
  Speaker 1: food back, and you try to get better. Yeah.
• 1:06:54
  Speaker 5: Pt sickos, empty sickos, and goom berets alike.
• 1:06:58
  Speaker 1: Welcome to the.
• 1:07:01
  Speaker 5: One and Only ad read that we are going to
• 1:07:04
  Speaker 5: break away from the episode to talk to you about lollipop.
• 1:07:09
  Speaker 5: They send in these hats we talked about a little
• 1:07:11
  Speaker 5: bit on the sode they sent in Shirley Temps. We're
• 1:07:15
  Speaker 5: talking about the O G. Mocktel Shirley Temple. Okay, it's
• 1:07:22
  Speaker 5: got the hiss, it's got the crack, doesn't have the punch,
• 1:07:25
  Speaker 5: which is a question you should never ask yourself before
• 1:07:27
  Speaker 5: you take a sip lollipop, because it's a given. It
• 1:07:31
  Speaker 5: packs a punch every single sip, every single flavor. Ollipop
• 1:07:40
  Speaker 5: knocked out of the park with the Shirley Temple. It's
• 1:07:43
  Speaker 5: been a minute since I've had the Shirley Temple. I've
• 1:07:47
  Speaker 5: been sipping on some other flavors of late, and that
• 1:07:51
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• 1:09:28
  Speaker 2: My Cracker cold one? I was alluding to it. It
• 1:09:30
  Speaker 2: was basically my rowse of the weekend send out at dinner.
• 1:09:32
  Speaker 2: It was my brother coming to town. Joy bro Joy
• 1:09:37
  Speaker 2: was in my heart the whole time.
• 1:09:38
  Speaker 5: Can you can you break down? Uh, just really quick.
• 1:09:42
  Speaker 5: It's Wyatt more of your personality. It's just a little
• 1:09:45
  Speaker 5: different from you. What what is that? Brotherly or Chip?
• 1:09:50
  Speaker 5: We're different? Why it is just so.
• 1:09:53
  Speaker 1: Easy to hang out with? Yeah?
• 1:09:56
  Speaker 2: Not that like my dad and Cody, aren't they are
• 1:10:00
  Speaker 2: as well, but Wyat him just being the youngest, I guess,
• 1:10:05
  Speaker 2: I don't know.
• 1:10:06
  Speaker 1: I feel like he uh, he's got that air about
• 1:10:08
  Speaker 1: him that interview.
• 1:10:09
  Speaker 2: Yeah yeah, yeah, like we both we always have like
• 1:10:12
  Speaker 2: good conversations. I'm never nervous to ask him any question
• 1:10:15
  Speaker 2: about like what's going on. I always feel like I'm
• 1:10:18
  Speaker 2: trying to give him advice, but I'm also trying to
• 1:10:20
  Speaker 2: keep myself from giving too much advice, you know what
• 1:10:22
  Speaker 2: I mean, because I care about him and he's just
• 1:10:27
  Speaker 2: easy to be around.
• 1:10:28
  Speaker 1: I don't know.
• 1:10:29
  Speaker 2: Yeah, I feel like everybody in my family would say
• 1:10:31
  Speaker 2: that about Wyatt, like he's just he's easy to go
• 1:10:33
  Speaker 2: with the flow. Yeah, he loves anything like that he's
• 1:10:37
  Speaker 2: involved with and he's doing.
• 1:10:39
  Speaker 1: He like loves what he does.
• 1:10:40
  Speaker 2: Now that he's the head football coach of North County,
• 1:10:43
  Speaker 2: I can tell he takes a lot of great pride
• 1:10:45
  Speaker 2: in being the head coach of North Like he's very
• 1:10:47
  Speaker 2: excited and me like, I'm like, you know, trying to
• 1:10:50
  Speaker 2: get in the weeds of like what are you thinking,
• 1:10:52
  Speaker 2: Like do you have a plan?
• 1:10:53
  Speaker 1: What's the vision? Like you're still big brother.
• 1:10:57
  Speaker 2: I'm still like big bro, and I'll feel myself when
• 1:10:59
  Speaker 2: I'm being too much of big bro. And then just
• 1:11:03
  Speaker 2: like watching them around my girl, like around my daughters,
• 1:11:06
  Speaker 2: you know what I mean, Like operating with the family
• 1:11:10
  Speaker 2: conversations that me Troy, him and Morgan will sit there
• 1:11:13
  Speaker 2: late at night, like we were playing games one night
• 1:11:14
  Speaker 2: where we were playing clue and code names. We're having
• 1:11:17
  Speaker 2: conversations because they're both teachers. We're asking about like the
• 1:11:21
  Speaker 2: school system and how it is now, like what are
• 1:11:23
  Speaker 2: the kids like all the drama that goes on in
• 1:11:25
  Speaker 2: their world in school and teaching. Just easy to be
• 1:11:31
  Speaker 2: around man. And again I don't see them often. Yeah,
• 1:11:34
  Speaker 2: Like it always feels like I'm We're all connected because
• 1:11:38
  Speaker 2: I know White, like White watches this show.
• 1:11:40
  Speaker 1: Shout out White, who is listening to this show right now?
• 1:11:42
  Speaker 1: Come on, Wyatt?
• 1:11:43
  Speaker 2: And he's even said like this has become like his
• 1:11:45
  Speaker 2: favorite show to listen to in the Busting Verse, and
• 1:11:48
  Speaker 2: even all of the other pods that he listens to,
• 1:11:50
  Speaker 2: he loves watching this one or listening to this one.
• 1:11:52
  Speaker 1: Can I speak to Wyatt really quickly, speak to him?
• 1:11:55
  Speaker 1: Whytt I do want to apologize?
• 1:11:57
  Speaker 5: When Jill and I put Scarlett down for her morning nap,
• 1:12:01
  Speaker 5: we also we call it rerack, like you put yourself
• 1:12:04
  Speaker 5: back in the oven. We got back in bed and
• 1:12:07
  Speaker 5: took a morning nap as well. And I missed Will's
• 1:12:09
  Speaker 5: invite to join y'all at the farmer's market.
• 1:12:14
  Speaker 2: I think yours was the Santos breakfast. Bro, I just
• 1:12:17
  Speaker 2: know what I'm going over in that neck of the woods.
• 1:12:19
  Speaker 2: I'm just thinking like.
• 1:12:20
  Speaker 1: He would have been there though, right, Yeah, yeah, yeah
• 1:12:22
  Speaker 1: he was. I apologize.
• 1:12:23
  Speaker 5: I very much would have loved to meet you and
• 1:12:27
  Speaker 5: give him hell this first season.
• 1:12:29
  Speaker 1: Why it's a stud, bro, He's going to good soul.
• 1:12:33
  Speaker 1: Just love him.
• 1:12:34
  Speaker 5: Yeah, the more confidence I meet, the better. Yeah, and
• 1:12:36
  Speaker 5: like your childhood friends and stuff like Nick Rips Rips.
• 1:12:42
  Speaker 1: You know Nick's listening right now. He's a sick go
• 1:12:44
  Speaker 1: he is.
• 1:12:47
  Speaker 2: But yeah, because I shot him all a message, my
• 1:12:49
  Speaker 2: dad and my brother's in a group check. Because I
• 1:12:51
  Speaker 2: want to get him out to the house. I want
• 1:12:52
  Speaker 2: to get him out to see the new spot. We
• 1:12:54
  Speaker 2: haven't seen each other, Like we didn't do Christmas, because
• 1:12:56
  Speaker 2: if you've listened to this show throughout since the incubation
• 1:12:59
  Speaker 2: of it, yep, we had to cancel Christmas with him
• 1:13:02
  Speaker 2: because everybody basically got the flu mega sick. Yeah, Mega six.
• 1:13:05
  Speaker 2: So we did Christmas presents. But it was fun to
• 1:13:09
  Speaker 2: see him because I just I feel like I don't
• 1:13:11
  Speaker 2: get to see him often.
• 1:13:12
  Speaker 1: And what I was saying is.
• 1:13:13
  Speaker 2: It feels like we're all tied to each other all
• 1:13:15
  Speaker 2: the time because they might consume they consume what I
• 1:13:17
  Speaker 2: do on social media. They consume the podcast and everything else.
• 1:13:21
  Speaker 2: But as far as like getting on the phone, checking in,
• 1:13:23
  Speaker 2: having like deeper conversations.
• 1:13:25
  Speaker 1: We don't get to do that often.
• 1:13:27
  Speaker 2: And knowing how fragile life is and knowing how quick
• 1:13:32
  Speaker 2: time moves. It's just like when he's there, the perspective
• 1:13:36
  Speaker 2: I'm starting to have watching him engage with the family
• 1:13:39
  Speaker 2: and be at the house and all of that is
• 1:13:42
  Speaker 2: like it's like a special moment.
• 1:13:44
  Speaker 5: Yeah, dude, and you're building a family. Yeah, he is
• 1:13:46
  Speaker 5: the uncle to your kids. Yeah, and he operates like
• 1:13:50
  Speaker 5: a great uncle. Like when he's he's going around the
• 1:13:52
  Speaker 5: flower farm with Rue, is him Morgan and Ru going
• 1:13:55
  Speaker 5: around the flower farm And I'm kind of watching him
• 1:13:57
  Speaker 5: stapping photos and everything else. But I'm with Mom and
• 1:13:59
  Speaker 5: Scottie because we had our own bucket and just seeing
• 1:14:02
  Speaker 5: whyatt help her and teach her how to use the
• 1:14:05
  Speaker 5: like the cutters, like the scissors to cut the stems
• 1:14:07
  Speaker 5: at the bottom, and then at the end, Rue's operating
• 1:14:10
  Speaker 5: all of it.
• 1:14:11
  Speaker 2: She's cutting all the stems. It's just a wide mixture
• 1:14:14
  Speaker 2: range of flowers in this bucket. And why he's like
• 1:14:18
  Speaker 2: a craftsman, Like he can build things. He can do
• 1:14:19
  Speaker 2: a lot of stuff working on the house. He can
• 1:14:21
  Speaker 2: do a lot of that stuff. And in my brain
• 1:14:22
  Speaker 2: I start thinking, I didn't tell why at this, but
• 1:14:25
  Speaker 2: I'm like, wouldn't it be cool if every year there's
• 1:14:28
  Speaker 2: a like almost an annual thing that happens to where
• 1:14:30
  Speaker 2: he helps Rue build something that like Whyett brainstorms off
• 1:14:33
  Speaker 2: thinks up. Yeah, like the way my grandpa would do
• 1:14:36
  Speaker 2: with us, like when he's building us a dog house
• 1:14:38
  Speaker 2: or that rifle that was a wooden rifle or something
• 1:14:42
  Speaker 2: something new to tinker with to where we're out in
• 1:14:43
  Speaker 2: the garage around him. I'm envisioning, like why it would
• 1:14:46
  Speaker 2: be that uncle to where Rude know's and why it
• 1:14:49
  Speaker 2: comes like they're going to do something in the crafts world.
• 1:14:51
  Speaker 5: Yeah, I'm very close with my mom's sister, my aunt
• 1:14:56
  Speaker 5: Arden or Auntie Arlieu.
• 1:14:58
  Speaker 1: Yeah, and yeah, dude.
• 1:15:00
  Speaker 5: Every single year Thanksgiving is always with Auntie Arlou every
• 1:15:05
  Speaker 5: single year, and that, yeah, it just cemented that relationship.
• 1:15:11
  Speaker 1: And she calls us her fuse for her nephews.
• 1:15:15
  Speaker 5: Yeah, and she always secretly tells Jordan and myself but
• 1:15:19
  Speaker 5: behind each other's back, that were her favorite fee of course,
• 1:15:22
  Speaker 5: of course.
• 1:15:24
  Speaker 1: But dude, I love that, and I love the dynamic
• 1:15:26
  Speaker 1: of the siblings.
• 1:15:28
  Speaker 5: And like Ruth's probably looking at Wyatt and going, he
• 1:15:30
  Speaker 5: kind of looks like my dad. Yeah, he kind of
• 1:15:33
  Speaker 5: acts like my dad, Like I really like this guy.
• 1:15:36
  Speaker 5: And Scarlet when she was much younger, when Jordan and
• 1:15:42
  Speaker 5: my dad came out to see us, and I don't
• 1:15:44
  Speaker 5: know how many weeks old she was, but she was young.
• 1:15:47
  Speaker 5: She would really only kind of react to Jilla and
• 1:15:50
  Speaker 5: I's faces, and then Jordan because he had a beard
• 1:15:53
  Speaker 5: and a hat on when he held her at that
• 1:15:56
  Speaker 5: pumpkin patch that we love was like tree farms. Yeah,
• 1:16:01
  Speaker 5: shout out, no, free shout out. Gave the biggest smile
• 1:16:04
  Speaker 5: to my brother, and she probably totally thought, oh, i'm
• 1:16:07
  Speaker 5: a that's dad.
• 1:16:08
  Speaker 1: Uh yeah, yeah, were there something familiar or something this safe?
• 1:16:12
  Speaker 1: Yeah this feels safe. Dude.
• 1:16:14
  Speaker 2: It's so funny because Rue was when we were down
• 1:16:17
  Speaker 2: in the living room one of the days, she was
• 1:16:19
  Speaker 2: on the us looking similar, and I'm like, yeah, that's
• 1:16:23
  Speaker 2: my brother, that's my brother, Wyatt. So you're trying to
• 1:16:25
  Speaker 2: break down your little toddler because you know, as parents
• 1:16:28
  Speaker 2: when you remember it now when you're coming up, but
• 1:16:31
  Speaker 2: when they're getting on you about something, they're like, I
• 1:16:34
  Speaker 2: was your age once, but you can never just picture
• 1:16:36
  Speaker 2: because they are your parents.
• 1:16:37
  Speaker 1: Yes, so you never put.
• 1:16:38
  Speaker 2: Them in the world like, okay, I doubt you. You're
• 1:16:40
  Speaker 2: going through what I went through. Yeah, And so I'm
• 1:16:44
  Speaker 2: trying to break.
• 1:16:44
  Speaker 1: Down the room.
• 1:16:45
  Speaker 2: I'm like Wyatt and dad, Dad, like we were brothers,
• 1:16:48
  Speaker 2: Like we were small, just like you. So when you
• 1:16:50
  Speaker 2: when you were gonna be six, that's when Whyatt was born.
• 1:16:53
  Speaker 2: So like the way you and Scotti are are sisters,
• 1:16:56
  Speaker 2: Like Whyatt was my baby brother, the same way that
• 1:16:59
  Speaker 2: Scotty's your baby sister. And we were little just like
• 1:17:01
  Speaker 2: you guys growing up and everything else. So him being
• 1:17:05
  Speaker 2: my brother, that is why he is your uncle Wyatt.
• 1:17:07
  Speaker 1: Yeah. And she'll be like can you hey, daddd, let
• 1:17:11
  Speaker 1: me tell you something. I'm like, okay, tell me and
• 1:17:13
  Speaker 1: she's like can you can you look at way and say.
• 1:17:16
  Speaker 2: Hi, brother Wyatt, and I'm like sure, I'm like hi,
• 1:17:20
  Speaker 2: brother Wyatt. And he's like hello, Hello, and I look
• 1:17:25
  Speaker 2: at room and I'm like.
• 1:17:27
  Speaker 1: Did that do it? Yeah? I did that? Far you up.
• 1:17:30
  Speaker 7: She's like yeah, Will on the On the Man the
• 1:17:35
  Speaker 7: Pod yesterday when you were talking about him taking the
• 1:17:38
  Speaker 7: head football coaching job. Yeah, and you were kind of
• 1:17:41
  Speaker 7: giving your whole speech and telling him like you got
• 1:17:43
  Speaker 7: to get into it. And Taylor asks you and goes,
• 1:17:45
  Speaker 7: what was his response, and you said he just went.
• 1:17:47
  Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean I hope we win. Yeah, it'd be awesome.
• 1:17:50
  Speaker 7: That made me laugh so hard, and that was one
• 1:17:52
  Speaker 7: of the most relatable. I just immediately went, yeah, if
• 1:17:55
  Speaker 7: I was same combo with my brother, exact same what exactly?
• 1:17:59
  Speaker 1: Wait, yeah, and I hope. So I'm like, are you excited? Yeah?
• 1:18:03
  Speaker 2: Yeah, Yeah, it's like that dynamic is there no matter what,
• 1:18:07
  Speaker 2: Like he's not gonna show like he's it's like he's
• 1:18:09
  Speaker 2: gonna walk through all of his cards, Like there's just
• 1:18:11
  Speaker 2: the brother dynamic that's happening in real time.
• 1:18:14
  Speaker 1: So yeah, it'd be awesome. I'm like, yeah, are you pumped?
• 1:18:18
  Speaker 1: You like, are you excited? Yeah? Yeah, I just.
• 1:18:21
  Speaker 5: Know what a coach will is even this morning with
• 1:18:26
  Speaker 5: chef of you being like chef, hey, pick pick Jared's brain.
• 1:18:31
  Speaker 5: You can you can learn a lot from from Jared.
• 1:18:34
  Speaker 5: And there was a moment that I thought, laughing super
• 1:18:37
  Speaker 5: hard when you asked me because you have these like
• 1:18:40
  Speaker 5: coachesms that literally remind me of my middle school and.
• 1:18:44
  Speaker 1: High school coaches.
• 1:18:47
  Speaker 5: When I was at your house and you broke something
• 1:18:49
  Speaker 5: down for me that was like lengthy. It wasn't like
• 1:18:52
  Speaker 5: a monologue, but it was lengthy. And at the end
• 1:18:54
  Speaker 5: of it, you looked at me and you were cutting
• 1:18:56
  Speaker 5: tangerines for Scotty and you go, so tell me what
• 1:18:59
  Speaker 5: you heard. And I said, like summarize it or verbatim,
• 1:19:09
  Speaker 5: and you go, just what you heard? Go okay.
• 1:19:14
  Speaker 1: In my head, I'm like, dude, I am in my
• 1:19:16
  Speaker 1: eighth grade locker room right now, and Coach Scott's like
• 1:19:19
  Speaker 1: going over for them because when you give them something
• 1:19:24
  Speaker 1: what you need, if you're whether you're teaching somebody or
• 1:19:27
  Speaker 1: anything else, you want them to be able to regurgitate
• 1:19:30
  Speaker 1: it back to you because you want to know too.
• 1:19:32
  Speaker 1: Am I being clear? Like I could be like I can.
• 1:19:34
  Speaker 2: Be long win, but I can go all over the mat,
• 1:19:37
  Speaker 2: which I know I'll be as a parent, But it's like,
• 1:19:40
  Speaker 2: you want them to recite it back to you.
• 1:19:41
  Speaker 1: Number one.
• 1:19:42
  Speaker 2: You want to know if they're listening to paying attention,
• 1:19:43
  Speaker 2: but also trying to get feedback on Did I explain
• 1:19:46
  Speaker 2: that clearly in the.
• 1:19:47
  Speaker 5: Future, Should I give this advice to Sherman is even
• 1:19:50
  Speaker 5: receptive to this when I get advised in Yeah, no,
• 1:19:53
  Speaker 5: I there was no like I loved it.
• 1:19:56
  Speaker 1: Yeah, I love that world of I just.
• 1:19:59
  Speaker 5: Envision head coach Wyatt now it is that yeah to
• 1:20:03
  Speaker 5: a lot of kids.
• 1:20:04
  Speaker 1: And now older brother Will It just makes me giggle.
• 1:20:10
  Speaker 2: Because he'll tell me how he's got great trust. He's
• 1:20:13
  Speaker 2: because he's a younger coach. Yeah, he's got great relationships
• 1:20:16
  Speaker 2: with guys. And I'm sitting there and I'm not and
• 1:20:19
  Speaker 2: I'm thinking in my head, you don't want that to
• 1:20:21
  Speaker 2: be a point to where they can take advantage because
• 1:20:23
  Speaker 2: you're so close with them. And I'm my response to friends,
• 1:20:26
  Speaker 2: and I'm yeah, yeah, I don't like. You gotta be
• 1:20:28
  Speaker 2: hard on them. Yeah, I'm telling you right now, you
• 1:20:30
  Speaker 2: gotta be tough on them. It's good that you have
• 1:20:32
  Speaker 2: trust and great relationships with your team and they love you,
• 1:20:36
  Speaker 2: probably because you're fun and all these things, but you
• 1:20:38
  Speaker 2: gotta be fucking you gotta be able to crack the whip.
• 1:20:42
  Speaker 1: Why I want them showing the little guty snapchats at
• 1:20:45
  Speaker 1: this ending to each other with the TikTok dancersre you
• 1:20:48
  Speaker 1: shouldn't be laughing with them if they're showing you something
• 1:20:51
  Speaker 1: on their phone, unless it's an unappropriate time and place.
• 1:20:54
  Speaker 1: They talk about Dojah Cat, you ask who's that? I
• 1:20:57
  Speaker 1: don't care if you even know who Thoja Cat you said,
• 1:20:59
  Speaker 1: who the hell is that?
• 1:21:00
  Speaker 2: You just think of all the coaches and the mentors
• 1:21:04
  Speaker 2: and leaders who have been hard on you in the past,
• 1:21:07
  Speaker 2: and you look back now, like Bo Polini comes in
• 1:21:10
  Speaker 2: my mind. Yeah, and you look back now, or my dad,
• 1:21:14
  Speaker 2: you look back now and you appreciate them being hard
• 1:21:19
  Speaker 2: on you. You feel like some things could have been
• 1:21:21
  Speaker 2: explained in a better way to where you get on
• 1:21:23
  Speaker 2: the same page. Like Bo made a comment when we
• 1:21:25
  Speaker 2: were on Busting, He's like, I knew I could be
• 1:21:28
  Speaker 2: hard on you because you'd be receptive and you would
• 1:21:30
  Speaker 2: help me. If I'm hard on you, then it's shown
• 1:21:33
  Speaker 2: that I can be hard on the others. And I'm
• 1:21:35
  Speaker 2: thinking man, if I would have known that, if you
• 1:21:37
  Speaker 2: would have told me kind of like, hey, I'm gonna
• 1:21:40
  Speaker 2: fucking rip your ass. But here's how we're kind of
• 1:21:42
  Speaker 2: solving both things. Number One, I think you're very receptive
• 1:21:45
  Speaker 2: to it. You respond well, and it helps me get
• 1:21:48
  Speaker 2: on others ass. That is seeing if you're an example.
• 1:21:51
  Speaker 1: Yeah, and I'm thinking, dude, I like lived in my
• 1:21:54
  Speaker 1: head like, yeah, I might have been receptive, like I'm
• 1:21:56
  Speaker 1: always like I want to please, I want to make
• 1:21:59
  Speaker 1: you guys, like I want to be as good as
• 1:22:01
  Speaker 1: I can. And when you're ripping into my ass some
• 1:22:04
  Speaker 1: like in my head like there'd be nice ll, I'm
• 1:22:07
  Speaker 1: thinking I'm failing you. But if I knew that you're
• 1:22:09
  Speaker 1: also trying to solve another problem with the team at large,
• 1:22:13
  Speaker 1: then I would have known. We would have been on
• 1:22:15
  Speaker 1: a much different wavelength.
• 1:22:16
  Speaker 2: But I still look back on all that stuff and
• 1:22:18
  Speaker 2: I'm like, Okay, you just appreciate those people who were
• 1:22:21
  Speaker 2: hard on you, that could see farther down the road
• 1:22:24
  Speaker 2: that you could see, because we're very short sighted as
• 1:22:27
  Speaker 2: younger kids, younger athletes, whatever it is, to where you
• 1:22:31
  Speaker 2: now have perspective being older, And I just think the
• 1:22:34
  Speaker 2: same thing like with Wyatt, like I was staying it
• 1:22:36
  Speaker 2: on bust and I'm like, you are growing men like
• 1:22:39
  Speaker 2: they're in high school, but you want them to feel
• 1:22:42
  Speaker 2: that you were hard on them. And then one day
• 1:22:44
  Speaker 2: they respect you enough because you were hard on them,
• 1:22:46
  Speaker 2: because they're going to go out into the world and
• 1:22:48
  Speaker 2: they might see a loosey goosey structure of everything else
• 1:22:50
  Speaker 2: and then they think that, oh, this is why my
• 1:22:53
  Speaker 2: coach was like this on me.
• 1:22:54
  Speaker 1: Back in the day. Coach Comptent would be pissed if
• 1:22:56
  Speaker 1: he saw this operation like this, and you're thinking, these
• 1:22:59
  Speaker 1: guys don't get it. Yeah, they don't get it. Coach
• 1:23:03
  Speaker 1: Compton be chewing their ass.
• 1:23:04
  Speaker 5: Yeah, and it does make the out of boys that
• 1:23:07
  Speaker 5: much better when you do have that kid. Yeah, that
• 1:23:10
  Speaker 5: never not never gives out of boys. But you know,
• 1:23:15
  Speaker 5: in eighth grade we had that like drill Sergeant Coach
• 1:23:18
  Speaker 5: Alito is like a hardcore program. And I mean that
• 1:23:22
  Speaker 5: dude was a snake And I only got one helmet hit.
• 1:23:26
  Speaker 1: After a touchdown. That was it.
• 1:23:29
  Speaker 5: But that meant Dude, when he hit the side of
• 1:23:31
  Speaker 5: my helmet as I was coming to the sideline, Yeah,
• 1:23:34
  Speaker 5: I was like yeah.
• 1:23:36
  Speaker 1: Like he liked Yeah, it's like parenthood as well.
• 1:23:39
  Speaker 2: Yeah, it's like you want to be on a level
• 1:23:41
  Speaker 2: with him where they trust you enough that they can
• 1:23:43
  Speaker 2: talk to you about anything. But there's also that dynamic
• 1:23:45
  Speaker 2: of the you're not their friend. Yeah, there's also the
• 1:23:48
  Speaker 2: dynamic of respect that it's a respect, it's maybe like
• 1:23:52
  Speaker 2: a healthy fear, but that respect of I trust the
• 1:23:57
  Speaker 2: direction he's going to guide me, yeah, versus like I'm
• 1:24:00
  Speaker 2: scared to approach him because he is so hard.
• 1:24:02
  Speaker 5: On Yes, dude, finding the balance of hey, I don't
• 1:24:07
  Speaker 5: want to do the wrong thing because I know that
• 1:24:10
  Speaker 5: he wants the best for me and wants the right thing,
• 1:24:13
  Speaker 5: not because I like, oh here comes the assche and yeah,
• 1:24:17
  Speaker 5: that's what I've been trying to avoid for the last
• 1:24:19
  Speaker 5: couple of months.
• 1:24:20
  Speaker 2: Yeah, that would be a fear I would have with
• 1:24:22
  Speaker 2: my dad at times growing up, because he was very
• 1:24:23
  Speaker 2: hard on us. He was like a tough love. Like now,
• 1:24:26
  Speaker 2: our relationship is incredible because we look back and I
• 1:24:30
  Speaker 2: do feel so comfortable talking to him about a lot
• 1:24:33
  Speaker 2: of these things, yeah, or a lot of like shortcomings
• 1:24:38
  Speaker 2: we can call them. But our relationship now is much
• 1:24:41
  Speaker 2: different from when I was growing up because he was
• 1:24:43
  Speaker 2: more like a not like Dan Gables this way, but
• 1:24:48
  Speaker 2: he was like a he.
• 1:24:49
  Speaker 1: Was hard on us, Yes, sick of mindset. Yeah, like
• 1:24:53
  Speaker 1: don't don't.
• 1:24:53
  Speaker 2: Be tiptoe around the house, or don't don't be heavy
• 1:24:56
  Speaker 2: foot around the house. You're not on your toes, You're
• 1:24:59
  Speaker 2: not being that's not like you know, fast or whatever. Yeah,
• 1:25:02
  Speaker 2: it seems like you're lazy. We had type of it
• 1:25:05
  Speaker 2: would be kind of like it'd be like Friday night lights. Yes,
• 1:25:08
  Speaker 2: you drop the lamp. Yeah, can't hold on a lamp,
• 1:25:11
  Speaker 2: can't hold on the football. At times, this wasn't all
• 1:25:13
  Speaker 2: the time. I didn't abuse the shit.
• 1:25:15
  Speaker 1: That's a great scene by the way.
• 1:25:17
  Speaker 5: Yeah, we also just did another idiot segue, a perfect
• 1:25:21
  Speaker 5: idiot segue, because my crack a cold one is being
• 1:25:25
  Speaker 5: a coach at.
• 1:25:25
  Speaker 1: The First Tea Fall forward, man.
• 1:25:29
  Speaker 5: I know which Actually this is a great conversation as
• 1:25:32
  Speaker 5: far as my crack a cold one. This week, I'm
• 1:25:36
  Speaker 5: volunteering at First Tea, which is a nonprofit golf thing.
• 1:25:41
  Speaker 5: You basically give free golf lessons to kids in a
• 1:25:45
  Speaker 5: in and around a community.
• 1:25:47
  Speaker 1: So I'm doing it here in Nashville.
• 1:25:49
  Speaker 5: I just wanted something to get my mind off of work,
• 1:25:52
  Speaker 5: get my mind off of the house, a little something
• 1:25:55
  Speaker 5: for me. But that's also kind of giving back and I'm.
• 1:25:58
  Speaker 1: Very excited for it.
• 1:26:00
  Speaker 5: But I have like the ten to twelve year olds,
• 1:26:02
  Speaker 5: So these kids are actual, like they can golf and
• 1:26:05
  Speaker 5: they're like little dudes.
• 1:26:07
  Speaker 1: You know what I mean. And you're going in to
• 1:26:08
  Speaker 1: just like volunteer. Yeah, volunteering as like a coach. But
• 1:26:13
  Speaker 1: I'm so excited.
• 1:26:14
  Speaker 5: I don't have like, dude, I'm like a twenty two
• 1:26:16
  Speaker 5: to twenty four handicap.
• 1:26:18
  Speaker 1: Like I'm not some stud golfer.
• 1:26:20
  Speaker 5: There's some little things I could, little nuggets here and there,
• 1:26:23
  Speaker 5: but I am excited to see where that like mentor
• 1:26:28
  Speaker 5: ship or you know whatever, because that's part of the
• 1:26:31
  Speaker 5: program too, is they have all these pillars of like
• 1:26:34
  Speaker 5: life lessons the kids are being taught as well.
• 1:26:37
  Speaker 1: I you know, I love that. Yeah, and I'm excited
• 1:26:41
  Speaker 1: for it.
• 1:26:42
  Speaker 5: But it's a good reminder too of like you can't
• 1:26:44
  Speaker 5: be too you know, too much of friends with them
• 1:26:47
  Speaker 5: from the standpoint, but also being able to be this
• 1:26:50
  Speaker 5: guide and this friendly like you know whatever in their life.
• 1:26:55
  Speaker 1: It'll be fun. Dude. I haven't done something like this
• 1:26:57
  Speaker 1: in a long time, so I'm I'm actually like really excited.
• 1:27:00
  Speaker 2: I think you're gonna get a lot of value out
• 1:27:02
  Speaker 2: of it. Yeah, dude, there's this cool philosophy on no
• 1:27:06
  Speaker 2: matter what stage you're in, like having a mentor somebody
• 1:27:09
  Speaker 2: that is like you know, third party, they're disconnected from
• 1:27:12
  Speaker 2: your day to day operating.
• 1:27:15
  Speaker 1: Inside of your circle. Yes, but you have a mentor
• 1:27:17
  Speaker 1: that you lean on. Yep.
• 1:27:18
  Speaker 2: You have somebody that you're doing it with. So it
• 1:27:21
  Speaker 2: would be in our case anybody at work that you
• 1:27:23
  Speaker 2: were say, say you have a workout buddyut accountabil a buddy. Yeah,
• 1:27:26
  Speaker 2: somebody that you're doing things with. And also somebody that
• 1:27:29
  Speaker 2: you are you are mentoring or giving back to that
• 1:27:32
  Speaker 2: is a quote unquote below you.
• 1:27:34
  Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, yeah, to like.
• 1:27:35
  Speaker 2: Kind of feed your soul like those are like that
• 1:27:38
  Speaker 2: was like a like a philosophy. I was reading it
• 1:27:42
  Speaker 2: about and like uh at Nebraska and then I saw
• 1:27:46
  Speaker 2: Rex Burkhead as like my equals somebody that I looked
• 1:27:49
  Speaker 2: up to, but that you almost don't know that you're
• 1:27:52
  Speaker 2: looking up to. So and so, like if I'm looking
• 1:27:54
  Speaker 2: up to you or looking up to Derek or looking
• 1:27:55
  Speaker 2: up to Chef, like you guys don't know that I'm
• 1:27:58
  Speaker 2: getting stuff that you got are adding value to my
• 1:28:01
  Speaker 2: life and we're kind of doing this thing together.
• 1:28:03
  Speaker 1: Yeah, then I can have a guy.
• 1:28:04
  Speaker 2: Who I'll like lean on for any you know, you
• 1:28:06
  Speaker 2: have like different mentors, whether it's parenthood, business, work, relationships, spiritual,
• 1:28:14
  Speaker 2: financial anything, right, yes, yes, and then you have the
• 1:28:17
  Speaker 2: one where you're giving back. So I love, dude. I
• 1:28:20
  Speaker 2: love that you're doing that.
• 1:28:21
  Speaker 5: I've desperately needed it and it'll be a lot of
• 1:28:24
  Speaker 5: fun and just to get to be outside, dude.
• 1:28:26
  Speaker 1: Golf such a fun sport. I just love the game
• 1:28:29
  Speaker 1: of golf.
• 1:28:30
  Speaker 5: I'd love if there's any sport where you can get
• 1:28:34
  Speaker 5: away with it, it's golf of cheating.
• 1:28:38
  Speaker 1: Yeah, and like just the we were talking about that
• 1:28:41
  Speaker 1: at the zoo. Oh really remember we were walking in
• 1:28:44
  Speaker 1: talking about golf.
• 1:28:45
  Speaker 2: But like committing to golf and then you and your
• 1:28:47
  Speaker 2: boys go and do aight and holes, but it takes out,
• 1:28:50
  Speaker 2: it carves out, like all these hours on a weekday.
• 1:28:53
  Speaker 1: Or weekend, six hours honey. Yeah, so we know you
• 1:28:55
  Speaker 1: got kids. Yeah, yeah, yeah, how is golf on it good?
• 1:29:00
  Speaker 2: You're getting drunk with the boys of the golf course.
• 1:29:02
  Speaker 2: You're going for like how long would do eighteen holes.
• 1:29:05
  Speaker 1: Last four, five, six, Yeah, I mean yeah, really he
• 1:29:08
  Speaker 1: can last that long? Like that is crazy. If it's
• 1:29:11
  Speaker 1: a packed day.
• 1:29:12
  Speaker 5: And everybody's in foursomes, yeah, it could be that long.
• 1:29:16
  Speaker 5: It's it's nuts, but uh yeah, to get to like
• 1:29:19
  Speaker 5: teach those kids accountability and like why you don't tell
• 1:29:23
  Speaker 5: your friend that you got a birdie when you part it,
• 1:29:25
  Speaker 5: you know, and like what that what that deeper meaning is,
• 1:29:29
  Speaker 5: and how that's applied to life of like doing the
• 1:29:33
  Speaker 5: right thing when nobody's looking. And so I just think
• 1:29:36
  Speaker 5: golf has Every sport has lessons in it, but golf
• 1:29:39
  Speaker 5: has some particularly fun ones with like what are you
• 1:29:42
  Speaker 5: doing when nobody's watching you?
• 1:29:44
  Speaker 8: Yeah?
• 1:29:44
  Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, and uh kind of any solo sport like
• 1:29:47
  Speaker 5: tennis track kind of that self accountability, self coaching, self talk,
• 1:29:54
  Speaker 5: self speak of hey, don't lose your cool because you
• 1:29:58
  Speaker 5: missed a putt. You know, guess what, Look up, there's
• 1:30:03
  Speaker 5: a tea box right there. There's another hole where you
• 1:30:05
  Speaker 5: can go make that putt next time. We learned our
• 1:30:09
  Speaker 5: mistake here, let's go apply to this next one. We're
• 1:30:11
  Speaker 5: moving we're moving on, we're failing forward. We're gonna grow
• 1:30:15
  Speaker 5: from this.
• 1:30:16
  Speaker 2: I love that dynamic too, because then in time, you
• 1:30:18
  Speaker 2: you're gonna you're gonna build trust with these kids that
• 1:30:21
  Speaker 2: you're messing with it to where you'll start getting to
• 1:30:24
  Speaker 2: connect with the money. But like, hey, what's going on, Like.
• 1:30:27
  Speaker 1: What's going on you? Oh, dude, for sure, what's going
• 1:30:29
  Speaker 1: on in your life? For sure? Look like little moments
• 1:30:33
  Speaker 1: of opportunities like that seem cool and.
• 1:30:36
  Speaker 5: It it means way more now because Scarlett is so young,
• 1:30:44
  Speaker 5: and I know that like these times are quote unquote
• 1:30:48
  Speaker 5: easier to be a dad in those ways, and I
• 1:30:51
  Speaker 5: really want to hone in those skills of the preteen
• 1:30:56
  Speaker 5: like and so I'm really excited for that because I
• 1:30:59
  Speaker 5: know that that's like an age where some of that
• 1:31:02
  Speaker 5: can be difficult, there can be some disconnect in the
• 1:31:05
  Speaker 5: preteen ages and the teenager ages. And like, I'm just
• 1:31:11
  Speaker 5: excited for those reps. It feels like practice reps for
• 1:31:13
  Speaker 5: my own daughter of communication, et cetera. I like that, man,
• 1:31:19
  Speaker 5: It'll be fine, love that for you.
• 1:31:22
  Speaker 1: We've just been riffing.
• 1:31:24
  Speaker 5: We've been riffing, and how are we on time? Should
• 1:31:28
  Speaker 5: we jump into some Yeah? Yeah, okay, we're not too bad.
• 1:31:34
  Speaker 2: I am staring at a pt Oh yeah, Yeah, we
• 1:31:37
  Speaker 2: have pt fit updates. We have pt fit updates Lily
• 1:31:42
  Speaker 2: cut Cuddy Lily Cutty on Spotify. I'm thinking we do
• 1:31:46
  Speaker 2: a fundraiser for pt fit where Charlie leaves a bar
• 1:31:49
  Speaker 2: three class in Nashville. Question Mark, question Mark. Oh, that's
• 1:31:52
  Speaker 2: a phenomenal idea. I did some bar three last Friday.
• 1:31:55
  Speaker 2: Charros ten am class. Yeah, over off of the one,
• 1:32:00
  Speaker 2: the one in Paddock of a white Bridge. Yeah, teaches
• 1:32:04
  Speaker 2: a ten am class on Fridays that I might start
• 1:32:07
  Speaker 2: frequenting more. I do feel like my body responds really
• 1:32:11
  Speaker 2: well to it, to where I'm like feeling good. Yeah,
• 1:32:14
  Speaker 2: because you know, I've had a lot of low back issues,
• 1:32:17
  Speaker 2: just a lot of wear and tear from playing football.
• 1:32:19
  Speaker 1: Yeah, and it's okay ten minute, I would tell you,
• 1:32:24
  Speaker 1: Charles hearing this for the first time, but kind of nice.
• 1:32:27
  Speaker 1: It's a kind of nice vibe because I'm taking many
• 1:32:30
  Speaker 1: a water breaks like these women. There's a there's a
• 1:32:32
  Speaker 1: there's a guy that walked in and she was like
• 1:32:34
  Speaker 1: thirty something weeks pregnant and she's you know, there's always
• 1:32:38
  Speaker 1: these modifications for all the movements that you're doing.
• 1:32:40
  Speaker 2: Yeah, but she's in there ripping and so young, old
• 1:32:44
  Speaker 2: doesn't matter. All body types like they're in there and
• 1:32:47
  Speaker 2: they're dominating. Yeah, And I'm like, my legs, bro, you'll
• 1:32:51
  Speaker 2: get up on like your toes and some movies where
• 1:32:53
  Speaker 2: you're doing like these wall shits and you pick up
• 1:32:54
  Speaker 2: your toes. You're doing these pulsing squads and you're trying
• 1:32:57
  Speaker 2: to hold these fucking poses and I'm shaking. One of
• 1:33:00
  Speaker 2: my dad's favorite lines, I'm shaking like a dog shitting
• 1:33:02
  Speaker 2: peach seeds, and you like, I'm taking many of breaks right,
• 1:33:06
  Speaker 2: So in my head, I'm like, I tell you. She
• 1:33:09
  Speaker 2: was like, hey, how do you feel from the class?
• 1:33:11
  Speaker 1: Like?
• 1:33:11
  Speaker 2: I feel like it was a phenomenal like rehab, a
• 1:33:14
  Speaker 2: very intense rehab session for myself because my body feels great.
• 1:33:17
  Speaker 2: I feel like my body respondable real well like glose Er,
• 1:33:20
  Speaker 2: everything's activated core, Like I don't feel my low back
• 1:33:23
  Speaker 2: pain that much. So I'm like, man, I need to
• 1:33:25
  Speaker 2: kind of put I need to frequent. I need to
• 1:33:27
  Speaker 2: have this in my toolbox because it does make me
• 1:33:30
  Speaker 2: feel really good. But I also feel like I failed
• 1:33:32
  Speaker 2: because I had to take so many breaks.
• 1:33:33
  Speaker 1: You didn't fail, you did great.
• 1:33:36
  Speaker 2: And the environment vibe is like you're around a bunch
• 1:33:41
  Speaker 2: of dudes and you fail a lot.
• 1:33:42
  Speaker 1: You're getting poured on. Yeah, yeah, you.
• 1:33:45
  Speaker 2: Did kind of push out you did this? Did they'd
• 1:33:47
  Speaker 2: pat me on the ass. You're doing a great job.
• 1:33:50
  Speaker 1: I don't feel like I stepped away.
• 1:33:53
  Speaker 2: Yeah no, you crushed it, and you're just like, oh,
• 1:33:56
  Speaker 2: I can be around this.
• 1:33:57
  Speaker 5: I would hate to turn one of her classes into
• 1:34:00
  Speaker 5: a circus, but I think that that would be a
• 1:34:02
  Speaker 5: really fun vlog opportunity us.
• 1:34:05
  Speaker 2: Just going and doing the Bar three classes that too,
• 1:34:07
  Speaker 2: That's what I'm saying. And maybe the Milk Team sixers
• 1:34:10
  Speaker 2: that out there that might be familiar with Bar three,
• 1:34:12
  Speaker 2: are they taking a Bar three class? Like what an
• 1:34:14
  Speaker 2: opportunity to do, like a for the Dad's collab or it's.
• 1:34:18
  Speaker 1: You're bringing in your husband because we're gonna do it.
• 1:34:21
  Speaker 5: Yeah, and do you give a shout out? No, free
• 1:34:25
  Speaker 5: shout out because it's from an unbiased third party. One
• 1:34:28
  Speaker 5: of Jill's very good friends, Grace here in Nashville, takes
• 1:34:32
  Speaker 5: uh one of charros led Bar three classes and raves
• 1:34:38
  Speaker 5: about it.
• 1:34:39
  Speaker 1: Dude, she loves it. They they vibe with char that's
• 1:34:43
  Speaker 1: your white shout out at rubber band, Like, yeah, she
• 1:34:46
  Speaker 1: just does hey, come on, man, come hey, man, you
• 1:34:50
  Speaker 1: talk about my wife. Yes, she kind of got it.
• 1:34:53
  Speaker 2: I popped one of the balls. No, I was like
• 1:34:58
  Speaker 2: hitting the wall sitter. I was leaning on and all
• 1:35:00
  Speaker 2: of a sudden the air is.
• 1:35:01
  Speaker 1: Coming out, and I look back and I kind of
• 1:35:04
  Speaker 1: like put it down and I just grab another ball.
• 1:35:06
  Speaker 1: Charles just at the front of the glass. Okay, this happens, right.
• 1:35:10
  Speaker 1: I don't see anybody else's ball popped like they're good.
• 1:35:13
  Speaker 11: Yeah.
• 1:35:13
  Speaker 1: Yeah, Margaret's ball popped too. I just want to put
• 1:35:16
  Speaker 1: that out there, Margaret, I saw that sneak the ball
• 1:35:19
  Speaker 1: behind an old lady.
• 1:35:21
  Speaker 10: Hey, what she just popped the ball. Hey, Betty's ball
• 1:35:30
  Speaker 10: just popped.
• 1:35:31
  Speaker 1: Although it was.
• 1:35:32
  Speaker 10: All that.
• 1:35:34
  Speaker 1: Put it on. Put it behind the pregnant lady. He
• 1:35:37
  Speaker 1: put it behind the pregnant lady. Jesus, I think I
• 1:35:42
  Speaker 1: think of water broke. Oh, whoa, whoa. I'm I'm not
• 1:35:46
  Speaker 1: trying to make a big deal about this. We're anty
• 1:35:49
  Speaker 1: in my water bottle arounder his spot, and we got
• 1:35:51
  Speaker 1: to get her out of here.
• 1:35:52
  Speaker 5: Hey, this is such a wild note. By the way,
• 1:35:55
  Speaker 5: a fun empty six fact. The latest natural birth in
• 1:36:00
  Speaker 5: the United States was a fifty year old fifty eight
• 1:36:02
  Speaker 5: year old woman.
• 1:36:04
  Speaker 1: She did a pilates class of the day she delivered
• 1:36:07
  Speaker 1: some of them there them women, Bro.
• 1:36:09
  Speaker 2: Sick goes out there, Dude, keep the fitness and exercise
• 1:36:12
  Speaker 2: going all the way up.
• 1:36:13
  Speaker 1: Until some sick goes out there. Some Dan gablesit, guy.
• 1:36:17
  Speaker 5: Yes, I have vents on Spotify. This is pet Fit Boys.
• 1:36:22
  Speaker 5: Seventy five hard is perfect for dads. It will change
• 1:36:26
  Speaker 5: you both physically and mentally. I've become such a better
• 1:36:29
  Speaker 5: dad since I've started the program. I structure my day
• 1:36:33
  Speaker 5: around not missing time with the kids and wife. I
• 1:36:36
  Speaker 5: quickly realized that there was so much waste of time
• 1:36:38
  Speaker 5: in a day. Would love to be a part of
• 1:36:41
  Speaker 5: a seventy five hard pt fit group, which PET seventy.
• 1:36:46
  Speaker 2: Five hard Hard. I'm not against it. No, no, no,
• 1:36:53
  Speaker 2: that's true. Discipline that is seventy five hard is true.
• 1:36:56
  Speaker 2: It's almost like I look where I'm at now, because again,
• 1:36:59
  Speaker 2: the whole game is structuring right. Like I was writing,
• 1:37:02
  Speaker 2: I was writing down some of my updates to share
• 1:37:05
  Speaker 2: talk about my pet fit journey so far, and a
• 1:37:09
  Speaker 2: lot of this urgency has come up. Number One, I
• 1:37:11
  Speaker 2: was very disappointed myself over the last several months It's
• 1:37:14
  Speaker 2: kind of my worst stretch post career of football, of
• 1:37:17
  Speaker 2: not being in the weight room, not exercising, eating okay,
• 1:37:22
  Speaker 2: but not like holiday season destroys me. I'm very much
• 1:37:26
  Speaker 2: I indulge in holiday season and you go and get
• 1:37:30
  Speaker 2: blood work. I go to this like health three Health
• 1:37:35
  Speaker 2: three point oh spot called Paradigm awesome spot, basically like
• 1:37:39
  Speaker 2: a concierge service of everything. Think of it as like
• 1:37:43
  Speaker 2: you have somebody who's going through a true financial advisor
• 1:37:46
  Speaker 2: who goes through everything, walks with you everything else. They
• 1:37:49
  Speaker 2: do this like for your body through blood work Texas
• 1:37:51
  Speaker 2: scans your body movement. They tag an age to it,
• 1:37:55
  Speaker 2: like how are you moving everything? Stuff that's going on
• 1:37:59
  Speaker 2: old MRIs take everything all encompassing and work with you
• 1:38:02
  Speaker 2: because they think longevity. They think fifty years down the road,
• 1:38:06
  Speaker 2: not us wanting to get jacked.
• 1:38:07
  Speaker 1: In twenty twenty.
• 1:38:08
  Speaker 2: Six, yep, and my blood work in June or July,
• 1:38:14
  Speaker 2: I think it was June. And then my blood work
• 1:38:16
  Speaker 2: at the end of the year or seven months later,
• 1:38:18
  Speaker 2: my blood work has gotten worse. My DEXA scan has
• 1:38:21
  Speaker 2: gotten worse, which I knew was going to happen. I
• 1:38:24
  Speaker 2: joke about and you know, talk about the body fat.
• 1:38:27
  Speaker 2: It was like twenty seven percent the visceral grams of fat.
• 1:38:30
  Speaker 2: How much Charro was buying into it and got so
• 1:38:33
  Speaker 2: much better, Like Charles almost like in a superior range
• 1:38:36
  Speaker 2: of working with the group and like diving into her
• 1:38:39
  Speaker 2: fitness and everything.
• 1:38:39
  Speaker 5: Her numbers sounded like Olympic athlete type number.
• 1:38:44
  Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, yeah, I mean crazy.
• 1:38:46
  Speaker 2: So just my wife and seeing her feedback and everything else,
• 1:38:48
  Speaker 2: it's almost just like a I am sick and tired
• 1:38:50
  Speaker 2: of being sick and tired about it, and it's almost
• 1:38:52
  Speaker 2: like a not like a wake up call. I'm not
• 1:38:54
  Speaker 2: in like an emergency situation. But my cholesterol has been high,
• 1:38:57
  Speaker 2: it's even higher. My vitamin levels are not that good.
• 1:39:00
  Speaker 2: My blood pressure has been high every time I've went in.
• 1:39:03
  Speaker 2: Some things could be stress inducing, some things could be genetic.
• 1:39:06
  Speaker 2: You kind of look at the entire picture of the
• 1:39:08
  Speaker 2: entire scope, and my man's been We've been working with
• 1:39:11
  Speaker 2: each other almost weekly now because he's like, dude, just
• 1:39:14
  Speaker 2: start right now until your sore. Next weight room gets
• 1:39:17
  Speaker 2: put in the garage. Because some of it was the excuse,
• 1:39:20
  Speaker 2: this is an excuse coming out of my mouth. More
• 1:39:22
  Speaker 2: I'm going to say some of it was moving. I
• 1:39:24
  Speaker 2: was moving garages and set up. So it's just an
• 1:39:26
  Speaker 2: excuse that I'm giving myself because there's a fucking weight
• 1:39:29
  Speaker 2: room that we have on our shop. But it truly
• 1:39:35
  Speaker 2: is structuring. It's like we've joked about our late goon
• 1:39:38
  Speaker 2: nights and everything else, but staying up late does hurt
• 1:39:40
  Speaker 2: if you're wanting to be somebody who dominates your morning,
• 1:39:42
  Speaker 2: because our mornings is waking up. Being up at seven
• 1:39:46
  Speaker 2: from seven to eight fifteen is all kid related or
• 1:39:49
  Speaker 2: seven thirty to eight thirties all kid related. Before we
• 1:39:51
  Speaker 2: get rue out of the house to school car line,
• 1:39:54
  Speaker 2: I'm making our lunch, I'm making breakfast, trial getting ready.
• 1:39:58
  Speaker 2: But we have like I have been waking up earlier.
• 1:40:00
  Speaker 2: In between the six and six thirty mark, I've been
• 1:40:02
  Speaker 2: doing So two. He's like, just start Zone two, get
• 1:40:05
  Speaker 2: on your assault bike. You have you have your garment
• 1:40:09
  Speaker 2: Zone two five sessions of thirty minutes. You need to
• 1:40:12
  Speaker 2: get one hundred and fifty minutes of Zone two cardio.
• 1:40:14
  Speaker 2: So things I've been doing is the Zone two cardio,
• 1:40:17
  Speaker 2: the atge or knees over TOAs guy. I love their Instagram.
• 1:40:21
  Speaker 2: I've bought into their program. I've had their program for years,
• 1:40:24
  Speaker 2: but they have They have workout structures for people who
• 1:40:28
  Speaker 2: want to be shredded, for people, this all the way
• 1:40:30
  Speaker 2: down to old people. They have body weight stuff everything. Yeah,
• 1:40:34
  Speaker 2: but I hit that stuff. Sauna and cold water. I
• 1:40:36
  Speaker 2: do twelve minutes of cold water every week, four days
• 1:40:39
  Speaker 2: of three minutes each, sauna eighty minutes, four sessions of
• 1:40:43
  Speaker 2: twenty minutes each. I'm giving this information to anybody that
• 1:40:47
  Speaker 2: anyone listen that wants any direction and more of like
• 1:40:49
  Speaker 2: I want to say it out louds because it gives
• 1:40:51
  Speaker 2: me like an accountability factor. I've hat seal for Sell
• 1:40:54
  Speaker 2: in my ear because seventy five hard comes from first
• 1:40:57
  Speaker 2: form eighty for Sell, the Forcella Brothers y. Yeah, and
• 1:41:01
  Speaker 2: he challenged me to do like a half marathon. I
• 1:41:03
  Speaker 2: haven't responded to him on April eleventh because I'm like,
• 1:41:05
  Speaker 2: you ain't getting my ass out there running that far
• 1:41:09
  Speaker 2: that quickly. All that stuff. The seventy five hard is awesome.
• 1:41:12
  Speaker 2: This say they have a seventy five soft. They have
• 1:41:14
  Speaker 2: all of these different regiments, but I am from what
• 1:41:17
  Speaker 2: our boy's saying, that's seventy five hard rips. We should
• 1:41:20
  Speaker 2: do a seventy five hard pet fit. I am on
• 1:41:23
  Speaker 2: board with that, but part of it myself is stacking
• 1:41:26
  Speaker 2: some of these small wins to build momentum. Because I do.
• 1:41:29
  Speaker 2: It's like my goals for the end of the year.
• 1:41:31
  Speaker 2: I'm writing them down. I want to get under a bar.
• 1:41:34
  Speaker 2: I haven't been under a bar because of my low
• 1:41:36
  Speaker 2: back in years. This states back to like twenty twenty
• 1:41:39
  Speaker 2: or twenty twenty one, while I was still playing football
• 1:41:41
  Speaker 2: because I was having back issues.
• 1:41:43
  Speaker 1: And that's for upper and lower body workouts like squat
• 1:41:48
  Speaker 1: And when.
• 1:41:48
  Speaker 2: I'm talking about getting under a bar, I'm talking about
• 1:41:50
  Speaker 2: back squatting. I have a back squatted in years. I
• 1:41:53
  Speaker 2: would love to because it like loads your spine and
• 1:41:56
  Speaker 2: everything else. But there are healthy there are progressions to
• 1:41:59
  Speaker 2: where I can have a healthy enough back to load
• 1:42:02
  Speaker 2: my back again.
• 1:42:03
  Speaker 1: I would love to do that. That is a goal
• 1:42:05
  Speaker 1: for myself.
• 1:42:06
  Speaker 2: I'm somebody who again within my first couple hours of
• 1:42:09
  Speaker 2: waking up, fifty grams of protein, and my breakfast thirty
• 1:42:12
  Speaker 2: grams of protein at every meal, a massive glass of
• 1:42:15
  Speaker 2: water when I wake up, with lemon and salt to
• 1:42:17
  Speaker 2: get electrolytes.
• 1:42:18
  Speaker 1: All of that fun stuff you can look up all
• 1:42:20
  Speaker 1: this stuff.
• 1:42:21
  Speaker 2: This is like my own walk, my own journey communicating
• 1:42:23
  Speaker 2: to PT six PT fit. As we're going on this,
• 1:42:27
  Speaker 2: a part of me does one is like flip the
• 1:42:29
  Speaker 2: switch when the sore next gym gets put in.
• 1:42:31
  Speaker 1: I do want to flip the switch.
• 1:42:33
  Speaker 2: I would love to fucking challenge myself to a seventy
• 1:42:35
  Speaker 2: five hard because that shit does seem awesome and seems
• 1:42:38
  Speaker 2: very very good for you. Because a lot of the rules,
• 1:42:41
  Speaker 2: I think we went over them last week. But it's
• 1:42:42
  Speaker 2: like a five step, five boxes checked in the day
• 1:42:46
  Speaker 2: where you're getting a couple of workouts in one of
• 1:42:47
  Speaker 2: them's outdoors, you're getting a gallon of water, You're reading
• 1:42:51
  Speaker 2: ten minutes of a personal development book I would love
• 1:42:53
  Speaker 2: in the PT fit universe. Maybe it's a book in
• 1:42:56
  Speaker 2: the personal development phase, but also more Taylor to Parenthood,
• 1:43:01
  Speaker 2: a parenting book. What else I aim for my body
• 1:43:06
  Speaker 2: weight in grams of protein, but blood work, decks of scans.
• 1:43:11
  Speaker 2: I have bar three last Friday, shouting out Bar three
• 1:43:14
  Speaker 2: and giving my wife's love because I did enjoy doing
• 1:43:16
  Speaker 2: the class. I do think the bar three for the
• 1:43:19
  Speaker 2: dad's clap would be fun. But I'm very much invested
• 1:43:23
  Speaker 2: in this pet fit idea. And I do feel like
• 1:43:27
  Speaker 2: step one is being vulnerable talking about my shortcomings where
• 1:43:30
  Speaker 2: I'm at.
• 1:43:31
  Speaker 1: I need to.
• 1:43:31
  Speaker 2: Fucking take a photo myself, because it's like I'll look
• 1:43:34
  Speaker 2: in the mirror and I'm like, dude.
• 1:43:35
  Speaker 1: You were I'll look at old photos.
• 1:43:38
  Speaker 5: My man, you were looking at that one the other
• 1:43:41
  Speaker 5: day with George at Taylor's wedding.
• 1:43:43
  Speaker 1: Yeah, and he was talking.
• 1:43:44
  Speaker 2: About my neck and like, well used to look. I'm like,
• 1:43:46
  Speaker 2: I know, and I'm laughing. But it's also like, dude,
• 1:43:49
  Speaker 2: we give ourselves. I'll speak for myself. I give myself
• 1:43:52
  Speaker 2: the reasoning of I'm thirty six, I'm still young.
• 1:43:55
  Speaker 1: I have time.
• 1:43:56
  Speaker 2: You got a lot going on, Yeah, you have family dynamic,
• 1:43:59
  Speaker 2: you have work, you have a lot of moving parts,
• 1:44:02
  Speaker 2: and so I give myself those outs, right, Or I'll
• 1:44:04
  Speaker 2: stay up late and play video games, like it's my
• 1:44:07
  Speaker 2: time to be social, it's my time to have fun.
• 1:44:09
  Speaker 2: I'm gonna say up a little later because I can
• 1:44:11
  Speaker 2: sleep till seven instead of like, Bro, Willie Boy, you know, man,
• 1:44:17
  Speaker 2: you want to get up earlier. You have to nix
• 1:44:21
  Speaker 2: this off the fucking docket. Or if you do want
• 1:44:24
  Speaker 2: to play video games, bro structure it out from like
• 1:44:26
  Speaker 2: eight thirty to ten. Yeah, if you're dying to play
• 1:44:29
  Speaker 2: video games or you're dying to watch TV shows. Yeah,
• 1:44:32
  Speaker 2: these are like the conversations I'm having with myself. All
• 1:44:38
  Speaker 2: to say, beat fit, I'm fucking on board. I don't
• 1:44:42
  Speaker 2: even know what I'm trying to say. I'm more just
• 1:44:44
  Speaker 2: you're in word vomiting. I am feeling inspired.
• 1:44:48
  Speaker 5: Jill and I also inspired with the ptfit movement just
• 1:44:54
  Speaker 5: from I don't want to speak too much on Jill's stuff.
• 1:44:59
  Speaker 1: I feel like I could share it with Jill stuff.
• 1:45:01
  Speaker 5: She's basically wanting to get fit to try and avoid
• 1:45:05
  Speaker 5: some of those just stational diabetes, some of the high
• 1:45:12
  Speaker 5: blood pressure stuff with our next pregnancy. So she has
• 1:45:16
  Speaker 5: a weight goal that I basically matched thirty pounds by
• 1:45:22
  Speaker 5: the end of this year as just our goal of
• 1:45:25
  Speaker 5: what we're going to work towards for kid number two,
• 1:45:29
  Speaker 5: if we are to try and move towards kid number two.
• 1:45:32
  Speaker 5: She wants to get into a healthy arrange. I obviously
• 1:45:35
  Speaker 5: want to get into a healthy arrange because you know,
• 1:45:39
  Speaker 5: we joked about me being at the doctor or we
• 1:45:42
  Speaker 5: both went to the doctor and they took our blood pressure. Yeah,
• 1:45:46
  Speaker 5: more than twice yep, and you're sitting there like, oh,
• 1:45:48
  Speaker 5: it might be the wrong coff and my different coughs
• 1:45:51
  Speaker 5: this and that. Yeah, and do you have coffee this morning?
• 1:45:55
  Speaker 5: Did not have coffee this morning?
• 1:45:57
  Speaker 1: Oh?
• 1:45:58
  Speaker 5: And like seeing her face to the answer of no,
• 1:46:00
  Speaker 5: I didn't have any caffeine but yeah, and having the
• 1:46:07
  Speaker 5: goal of running a four hundred meter in under sixty seconds,
• 1:46:12
  Speaker 5: A lot needs to happen for that, A regiment needs
• 1:46:15
  Speaker 5: to happen for that. So I haven't implemented anything like
• 1:46:20
  Speaker 5: you're talking about, but I'm excited for it.
• 1:46:23
  Speaker 1: Yeah.
• 1:46:24
  Speaker 2: There's like because now my wife is on me about
• 1:46:27
  Speaker 2: stuff and she's been an awesome like accountability like we were.
• 1:46:30
  Speaker 2: We got up this morning and went through like a
• 1:46:32
  Speaker 2: flow session that bar three offers online, like yoga, stretching
• 1:46:36
  Speaker 2: out against getting some mobility and the joints and everything else.
• 1:46:39
  Speaker 1: And it's awesome.
• 1:46:41
  Speaker 2: But it's like my dog hit me up like on
• 1:46:45
  Speaker 2: a Sunday night, or maybe it was wait, what's what's
• 1:46:48
  Speaker 2: the day?
• 1:46:48
  Speaker 1: Tuesday? Tuesday?
• 1:46:49
  Speaker 2: So Sunday night, hit me up at like eight thirty
• 1:46:51
  Speaker 2: pm in an email. It's like, Hey, going through your
• 1:46:54
  Speaker 2: blood work that I most recently took. Nothing is an emergency,
• 1:46:58
  Speaker 2: but would love to get on the phone this weekend.
• 1:47:00
  Speaker 2: I keep through some things because you're cholesterol over things
• 1:47:03
  Speaker 2: involving your cholesterol and your vitamin levels, and so I
• 1:47:08
  Speaker 2: tell that to charro hers go up because it's like,
• 1:47:11
  Speaker 2: you know, you think about the kids, you think about
• 1:47:12
  Speaker 2: the family, like, hey, there's nothing that is pressing, but
• 1:47:17
  Speaker 2: you can just tell by the tone and the intention
• 1:47:20
  Speaker 2: and him following up and everything else, because I've worked
• 1:47:22
  Speaker 2: with him now for I'll be coming up on a
• 1:47:24
  Speaker 2: year here in a few months, but you want to
• 1:47:28
  Speaker 2: start sacking some progress after seven months. You don't want
• 1:47:31
  Speaker 2: to see the meter go the other way, which I
• 1:47:34
  Speaker 2: knew was going to happen.
• 1:47:36
  Speaker 1: And I was telling him.
• 1:47:37
  Speaker 2: I was being frank with him because he's like, tell me, like,
• 1:47:39
  Speaker 2: what's on your mind? And I word vomited in a
• 1:47:44
  Speaker 2: lot of stuff and kind of recapped our year, our season,
• 1:47:46
  Speaker 2: all the things we did, all the things with family,
• 1:47:49
  Speaker 2: all that kind of stuff, and him just wanting to
• 1:47:55
  Speaker 2: kind of walk with me more on. He's like, how
• 1:47:57
  Speaker 2: do we get some structure in place to where some
• 1:47:59
  Speaker 2: of the things maybe you might be working, but you
• 1:48:01
  Speaker 2: can accomplish some of these things at work. Yeah, and
• 1:48:04
  Speaker 2: I ultimately tell him I'm like, part of me coming
• 1:48:07
  Speaker 2: in is almost ashamed of coming in because you feel
• 1:48:11
  Speaker 2: like you disappoint the you disappoint the authority. The authority
• 1:48:20
  Speaker 2: in my brain is you. I feel like a lot
• 1:48:23
  Speaker 2: of that has to do with being in a performance
• 1:48:25
  Speaker 2: based world with football and everything else, because you never
• 1:48:28
  Speaker 2: want to let your coach down, You never want to
• 1:48:30
  Speaker 2: let your family down, you never want to let yourself done.
• 1:48:32
  Speaker 1: And when I know I'm doing that, part.
• 1:48:35
  Speaker 2: Of me punts the meetings and calling back and text
• 1:48:39
  Speaker 2: because I know I'm not putting in the work that
• 1:48:43
  Speaker 2: I'm proud of. So if that's happening with me, it's
• 1:48:47
  Speaker 2: not anything against them. It's like I'm just being vulnerable
• 1:48:50
  Speaker 2: and just saying, like part of me gets ashamed to
• 1:48:52
  Speaker 2: come in and talk about all this stuff.
• 1:48:54
  Speaker 5: Yeah, you have a humongous external force of being an
• 1:48:59
  Speaker 5: ex NFL football player on yours, whereas like somebody sees
• 1:49:04
  Speaker 5: a picture of me and they're not gonna be like, oh,
• 1:49:06
  Speaker 5: Sherman kind of let himself go, if that makes sense. Yeah,
• 1:49:10
  Speaker 5: Like because I wasn't that like level of peak athleticism,
• 1:49:17
  Speaker 5: So like that external pressure isn't there as much for me,
• 1:49:20
  Speaker 5: but the internal pressure is very much there for me
• 1:49:25
  Speaker 5: of like, yeah, even as it means to happen. Yeah,
• 1:49:29
  Speaker 5: and I get.
• 1:49:29
  Speaker 2: That that stuff can be quote unquote real, but some
• 1:49:32
  Speaker 2: of the external stuff that we're talking about is truly
• 1:49:35
  Speaker 2: just assumptive.
• 1:49:37
  Speaker 1: It's just what we're telling ourselves.
• 1:49:40
  Speaker 7: A quote I just saw online that I really love
• 1:49:43
  Speaker 7: dealing with that kind of stuff is being healthy and
• 1:49:47
  Speaker 7: getting in shape is not an obstacle.
• 1:49:49
  Speaker 1: It's actually the solution.
• 1:49:51
  Speaker 7: So I've been telling myself that would just like with
• 1:49:53
  Speaker 7: external stresses and whatever may come up, is like, hey,
• 1:49:56
  Speaker 7: when you go work out or when you're eating, well,
• 1:49:58
  Speaker 7: you make a good decision, Like that is not an
• 1:49:59
  Speaker 7: obstac well, you're actually you're working towards the solution. And
• 1:50:02
  Speaker 7: that's one that I've been kind of the last two
• 1:50:05
  Speaker 7: weeks been going at. It's been really nice.
• 1:50:07
  Speaker 1: Yeah.
• 1:50:08
  Speaker 2: It reminds you of the Book of Atomic Habits. I
• 1:50:10
  Speaker 2: know that's like a massive bestseller, but it's like strioping
• 1:50:12
  Speaker 2: yourself of the idea of an outcome, and it really
• 1:50:17
  Speaker 2: just comes down to what your daily habits are. You
• 1:50:19
  Speaker 2: change your daily habits, you change everything.
• 1:50:22
  Speaker 1: Yeah, but share with you, guys, Share with the audience.
• 1:50:27
  Speaker 1: I love that.
• 1:50:28
  Speaker 5: I know I need to get a full breakdown of
• 1:50:31
  Speaker 5: daily regimen and daily routine that I'll apply for myself.
• 1:50:36
  Speaker 5: One starter is just non negotiable and one that I've
• 1:50:40
  Speaker 5: been kicking myself is walking the dogs every morning, every night,
• 1:50:44
  Speaker 5: because that needs to happen, and I'll just do the
• 1:50:48
  Speaker 5: lazy freight yard. Hey, go get them. Yeah, but it's
• 1:50:52
  Speaker 5: easy that like when you're talking about like eating the elephant,
• 1:50:55
  Speaker 5: one by day at a time, stacking wins the easiest
• 1:50:59
  Speaker 5: win to stat because I need to be doing it.
• 1:51:02
  Speaker 5: And then on the weekends too, of Jill and I
• 1:51:04
  Speaker 5: prioritizing doing walks with Scarlet, getting outside, not just sitting
• 1:51:09
  Speaker 5: around the.
• 1:51:09
  Speaker 1: House watching movies. But yeah, I'm excited. Yeah, yeah, it
• 1:51:16
  Speaker 1: all correlates too.
• 1:51:17
  Speaker 2: We're obviously talking about fitness, but this is to me
• 1:51:19
  Speaker 2: in every area that you have, every bucket that you
• 1:51:23
  Speaker 2: have with fitness, self, of work, marriage, parenthood, we all
• 1:51:32
  Speaker 2: have the idea. We all know you know what I mean, Like,
• 1:51:36
  Speaker 2: we know the answers. We just we get scared to
• 1:51:39
  Speaker 2: look that close in the mirror. Yeah, because we get
• 1:51:44
  Speaker 2: disappointed in ourselves.
• 1:51:45
  Speaker 5: Yeah, and there's always the excuse of tomorrow is like
• 1:51:50
  Speaker 5: the big excuse for me of like couple therapy. Like
• 1:51:56
  Speaker 5: I'm a huge believer in couples therapy. It's like, why
• 1:51:59
  Speaker 5: hasn't been established? Jill's a huge believer in that. Yeah,
• 1:52:05
  Speaker 5: sitting down and having like a full Excel spreadsheet breakdown
• 1:52:09
  Speaker 5: of finances, Jill and I getting a joint account, a
• 1:52:12
  Speaker 5: joint savings account, like all those little things where it's like, well,
• 1:52:17
  Speaker 5: it's been a really it's been a really busy month
• 1:52:20
  Speaker 5: and we've been there's a lot going on.
• 1:52:23
  Speaker 1: We'll get to it. It's gonna get done.
• 1:52:25
  Speaker 5: Yeah, there's wrap boop on the thing, Like I'll go
• 1:52:27
  Speaker 5: get traps tomorrow at home depot and I'll set the
• 1:52:31
  Speaker 5: traps out. Like everything starts stacking on each other. But
• 1:52:36
  Speaker 5: it's everybody says like make your bed is like because
• 1:52:40
  Speaker 5: that's the very first thing you do when it's you know,
• 1:52:43
  Speaker 5: catch a small dove.
• 1:52:44
  Speaker 1: Catch a small dove. I told you when I was.
• 1:52:48
  Speaker 5: In bed for like a month depressed and we touched
• 1:52:52
  Speaker 5: on this like at the very I think this was
• 1:52:54
  Speaker 5: like pre Derek, like one of our very first episodes.
• 1:52:59
  Speaker 5: That was what my thrapists told me when I was
• 1:53:01
  Speaker 5: just like literally trapped in my own head and laying
• 1:53:04
  Speaker 5: in bed not getting out of bed for a full month.
• 1:53:08
  Speaker 5: He's like, get up, make your bed, shower, and put
• 1:53:11
  Speaker 5: a nice outfit on that that somebody's gonna see you in,
• 1:53:16
  Speaker 5: because then you might as well just leave the house
• 1:53:19
  Speaker 5: if you look nice, you might as well, you know,
• 1:53:22
  Speaker 5: go apply for that job that you've been wanting to
• 1:53:25
  Speaker 5: apply for.
• 1:53:25
  Speaker 1: You might as well like all the big goals. Yeah,
• 1:53:32
  Speaker 1: it's not a dan Gable but an Apollo Creed. There
• 1:53:36
  Speaker 1: is no tomorrow. There is no tomorrow. There is no tomorrow. Tomorrow, tomorrow. No,
• 1:53:45
  Speaker 1: that's what you're wrong, man, Fuck you get the pist
• 1:53:51
  Speaker 1: just follow the echo of the little basement gym that
• 1:53:54
  Speaker 1: they're yeah tomorrow. And he's hitting the walls and he
• 1:53:58
  Speaker 1: looks up in the mirror. Hmhm uh Do we want
• 1:54:02
  Speaker 1: to right?
• 1:54:05
  Speaker 7: Do?
• 1:54:06
  Speaker 1: We don't want to lose what I got? Yes? Yeah,
• 1:54:11
  Speaker 1: let's hit the voice. We're still under an hour. We're
• 1:54:13
  Speaker 1: still under an hour.
• 1:54:14
  Speaker 5: Six on one of the dads for a reminder, and
• 1:54:16
  Speaker 5: then you can write in six on one of the
• 1:54:18
  Speaker 5: dads at gmail dot com.
• 1:54:21
  Speaker 1: This is our first one. It is dating advice for
• 1:54:24
  Speaker 1: for PT. Six what's going on?
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  Speaker 8: Boys love the show. Just got a quick question. My
• 1:54:35
  Speaker 8: son just finished with his rugby season and it's co ed.
• 1:54:40
  Speaker 8: One of the girls came up to him and asked
• 1:54:42
  Speaker 8: him for his number.
• 1:54:44
  Speaker 9: Mind you, he's only eleven.
• 1:54:46
  Speaker 1: What do I do?
• 1:54:49
  Speaker 8: That advice would help?
• 1:54:51
  Speaker 1: All right, guys, have a blessed day. He wrapped up
• 1:54:54
  Speaker 1: what he just finished the He said, it's the rugby season.
• 1:54:58
  Speaker 1: The rugby season. Okay. Co ed team.
• 1:55:02
  Speaker 5: Teammate comes up to him, says, hey, you mind if
• 1:55:04
  Speaker 5: I get those ten digits?
• 1:55:10
  Speaker 1: Kids got game? Sons got game, kids got game. No,
• 1:55:14
  Speaker 1: we're talking about an eleven year old.
• 1:55:15
  Speaker 5: We are talking about someone's sweet little eleven year old
• 1:55:19
  Speaker 5: little boy. First off, huge w that a girl is
• 1:55:29
  Speaker 5: approaching your son to ask him for his number.
• 1:55:32
  Speaker 1: What confidence? I think that's a huge w for both
• 1:55:36
  Speaker 1: of those parents.
• 1:55:38
  Speaker 2: What advice would you go? Okay, eleven years old, that's
• 1:55:41
  Speaker 2: what fifth grade?
• 1:55:43
  Speaker 1: Yeah, fifth I will ish I doing at eleven, because.
• 1:55:48
  Speaker 2: Dude, it's like the phone game is kind of out
• 1:55:51
  Speaker 2: of my wheelhouse right now because I'm not going through it, obviously,
• 1:55:54
  Speaker 2: I'm doing whatever I can to kind of prepare for it.
• 1:55:57
  Speaker 2: I come across a lot of stuff with technology and
• 1:56:00
  Speaker 2: when should they have a phone?
• 1:56:01
  Speaker 1: When they should not? All of these there's there's there's
• 1:56:04
  Speaker 1: a massive there's a lot of opinions on it. Yeah,
• 1:56:07
  Speaker 1: so I want to be careful there.
• 1:56:10
  Speaker 5: Also, I know that there's like the romantic side of this,
• 1:56:16
  Speaker 5: but like she did, just ask for his number, could
• 1:56:19
  Speaker 5: mean nothing exactly because again, there were they're young, I
• 1:56:23
  Speaker 5: mean there were you.
• 1:56:23
  Speaker 2: Yeah yeah, yeah, but if I had a crush Tricia
• 1:56:28
  Speaker 2: Hartrup was her name, was fifth or sixth grade, I
• 1:56:32
  Speaker 2: might have been a fifth grader. She was a sixth grader,
• 1:56:35
  Speaker 2: and you know, you want to have a boyfriend or
• 1:56:38
  Speaker 2: a girlfriend at that age. What my parents would do
• 1:56:42
  Speaker 2: because that was landline back then. Yeah, but if we
• 1:56:47
  Speaker 2: wanted to like hang out or anything, it would be
• 1:56:50
  Speaker 2: at the movies with a parent.
• 1:56:52
  Speaker 1: Yeah you know what I mean, Like, okay, at the
• 1:56:55
  Speaker 1: mall with a parent. Yeah.
• 1:56:58
  Speaker 2: Yes, if they want to hang out outside of school
• 1:57:00
  Speaker 2: or rugby parental supervision. Yeah, dude, the girl wants his number.
• 1:57:06
  Speaker 2: I don't know what the intention is, like, wants his number.
• 1:57:08
  Speaker 1: To hang out? Uh huh? Are they the same age?
• 1:57:11
  Speaker 1: Is she a year older? She's a couple of years older.
• 1:57:14
  Speaker 2: Yeah, But it's like both of the parents of the
• 1:57:18
  Speaker 2: two kids being on the same page to a do
• 1:57:21
  Speaker 2: they want to go see a movie? Yeah, which one
• 1:57:24
  Speaker 2: of us wants to go chaperon them, pick them up,
• 1:57:27
  Speaker 2: drive them, go to the movie, sit in the movie
• 1:57:29
  Speaker 2: with them.
• 1:57:31
  Speaker 1: And just if you're allowing that to even happen.
• 1:57:34
  Speaker 2: So like I had friends were you know, friends that
• 1:57:38
  Speaker 2: were girls and their parents wouldn't let them date or
• 1:57:41
  Speaker 2: anything until they were like a certain age.
• 1:57:42
  Speaker 1: Yeah.
• 1:57:43
  Speaker 2: So again, this is a this is a topic that
• 1:57:45
  Speaker 2: has a lot of different opinions. My own experience when
• 1:57:49
  Speaker 2: I was a fifth birder and it had a crush
• 1:57:51
  Speaker 2: and wanted a girlfriend. If we were going to hang
• 1:57:53
  Speaker 2: out outside of exchanging notes in the hallway at school,
• 1:57:56
  Speaker 2: it would be one of our parents picking us up
• 1:57:59
  Speaker 2: to go sit at the movie with us.
• 1:58:01
  Speaker 1: Yeah.
• 1:58:01
  Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, So I my addition to your like how to.
• 1:58:07
  Speaker 1: Do it, it would be.
• 1:58:09
  Speaker 5: The awesome opportunity that this boy dad has of that
• 1:58:14
  Speaker 5: pregame talk and some other conversations with son about respecting women. Yeah,
• 1:58:21
  Speaker 5: making you say, making it a fun environment. Things we
• 1:58:25
  Speaker 5: don't say, things we do say, things that we do
• 1:58:28
  Speaker 5: when we're hanging out with girls. How we treat girls,
• 1:58:30
  Speaker 5: how we court them, how we court them. Because as crazy.
• 1:58:35
  Speaker 1: As this sounds, Jill, my now wife, who's thirty, I
• 1:58:40
  Speaker 1: know from her talking about this guy that her little
• 1:58:44
  Speaker 1: fifth and sixth grade boyfriend crush was the quote unquote
• 1:58:48
  Speaker 1: sweetest guy ever.
• 1:58:49
  Speaker 5: Sherman, you would have loved him. And that guy was
• 1:58:52
  Speaker 5: just the little fifth and sixth grade boyfriend. But look
• 1:58:55
  Speaker 5: at the impact that that had on Jill of a
• 1:58:57
  Speaker 5: picture of that's a good that's a bottle of a
• 1:59:00
  Speaker 5: good man. How I should be treated. Was my fifth
• 1:59:03
  Speaker 5: and sixth grade boyfriend that never tried anything, never inappropriate,
• 1:59:07
  Speaker 5: always sweet. And I now you know she thinks highly
• 1:59:11
  Speaker 5: of me because I'm her husband, but she equates me
• 1:59:13
  Speaker 5: to him. Is like, y'all would be besties. Like y'all
• 1:59:17
  Speaker 5: Like he's such a great guy. Da da da, And
• 1:59:20
  Speaker 5: that's really cool. The little opportunity that, as small as
• 1:59:23
  Speaker 5: it seems.
• 1:59:25
  Speaker 2: That is a great point, honestly, because again, we don't
• 1:59:27
  Speaker 2: know the full Yeah, number one, we don't know the
• 1:59:30
  Speaker 2: full context of this situation. Yeah, they're just trying to
• 1:59:32
  Speaker 2: play video games, Like is it exactly friend? Do they
• 1:59:36
  Speaker 2: like each other? Do they have a crush? If they
• 1:59:38
  Speaker 2: do and you're cool with them going to do the
• 1:59:40
  Speaker 2: movie example, or any of the examples, but to your level,
• 1:59:43
  Speaker 2: which I think is phenomenal. The opportunity of teaching your
• 1:59:48
  Speaker 2: son the manners, the courtship, the game of how we
• 1:59:53
  Speaker 2: respect women.
• 1:59:54
  Speaker 5: Howat yeah, how you treat your friends there are women,
• 1:59:57
  Speaker 5: so that when you know that she's all fit college,
• 2:00:01
  Speaker 5: she can't think back and go.
• 2:00:03
  Speaker 1: My friend Brandon would never do that. Yeah, never say yeah,
• 2:00:06
  Speaker 1: good shit, bro, let's go.
• 2:00:09
  Speaker 5: Oh speaking of uh, steak and BJ Buddy is our
• 2:00:14
  Speaker 5: second voice.
• 2:00:15
  Speaker 1: There we go talk about all that. Let's get back
• 2:00:18
  Speaker 1: to the old job. What up?
• 2:00:26
  Speaker 11: Fellas Caleb from Montana here not a dad, but a
• 2:00:30
  Speaker 11: twenty two year old listener, loved the show last night.
• 2:00:33
  Speaker 11: As I'm sitting here getting ready for church, I'm realizing
• 2:00:36
  Speaker 11: it's uh the fifteenth. If you guys know, yesterday, hopefully
• 2:00:40
  Speaker 11: you guys cashed in on steak and blowjob day.
• 2:00:44
  Speaker 8: Well.
• 2:00:44
  Speaker 11: As a single fella, I didn't really have any expectations
• 2:00:47
  Speaker 11: for this day, but then last night I got a
• 2:00:49
  Speaker 11: random text from one of my best friends saying, Hey,
• 2:00:52
  Speaker 11: you want to come over for sam Antelope Steaks? Of course?
• 2:00:55
  Speaker 11: Any good guy friend. Yeah, I'm there for some steaks.
• 2:00:59
  Speaker 11: Luckily the old job done, so I didn't come with
• 2:01:02
  Speaker 11: it because it was just me and him. There mistakes
• 2:01:05
  Speaker 11: that would have been a little weird. But I'm not
• 2:01:07
  Speaker 11: sure if he's hitting at anything. I don't know if
• 2:01:09
  Speaker 11: he's a listener of the pod. So I just thought
• 2:01:12
  Speaker 11: it was pretty funny this morning, going shit, I just
• 2:01:14
  Speaker 11: went over to my best friend's house. That's a guy,
• 2:01:17
  Speaker 11: just us two for steak and blow job day. Hopefull
• 2:01:19
  Speaker 11: The neighbors didn't think anything of it, see you boys.
• 2:01:23
  Speaker 5: And it's all you know, it's all about optics in
• 2:01:25
  Speaker 5: a situation like that, it's all about optics.
• 2:01:29
  Speaker 2: I love that this st six are called in Yeah, dude,
• 2:01:33
  Speaker 2: and the assumption, like hope, the neighbors didn't think anything.
• 2:01:35
  Speaker 1: Like the neighbors are also big fans of the pod.
• 2:01:38
  Speaker 2: Yeah, you're looking at the wind. Oh but you see
• 2:01:41
  Speaker 2: Tim going over to John's house. I see him grilling
• 2:01:44
  Speaker 2: steaks in the backyard. You think, no, Tim, There's no way.
• 2:01:50
  Speaker 1: I see Tim wearing a BT six shirt. No, not Tim.
• 2:01:56
  Speaker 1: Not in Montana was the most Montana thing in the
• 2:02:03
  Speaker 1: entire world. And hey, if you we ain't against anything,
• 2:02:08
  Speaker 1: we ain't. No, no, no, no, no, we aint John No.
• 2:02:11
  Speaker 1: If they did, you know, a happy steak day? Yeah,
• 2:02:14
  Speaker 1: if they had been a happy Steak and BJ day,
• 2:02:16
  Speaker 1: Happy steak and b J. Look look, buddy, listen on
• 2:02:20
  Speaker 1: this side of the mountain. You know I hear you
• 2:02:23
  Speaker 1: in Montana. Yeah, broke back, broke back mountain. I love
• 2:02:28
  Speaker 1: that our brain. Thank you. That was a.
• 2:02:30
  Speaker 6: Beautiful night that he thought of this on the way
• 2:02:32
  Speaker 6: to church. That was my favorite party.
• 2:02:35
  Speaker 2: Excuse me, father, can I get a confession? Can I
• 2:02:37
  Speaker 2: get you in the confession room?
• 2:02:40
  Speaker 1: Yes? My son going do nothing, but just the sin
• 2:02:43
  Speaker 1: was weighing on me. How many ounces was the antelope steak?
• 2:02:48
  Speaker 1: My son, I don't know. It was like a tenderloin.
• 2:02:51
  Speaker 1: It was probably like eight ounces. Daniel Mary's.
• 2:03:00
  Speaker 5: Thank you father. That's incredible. I get to take a
• 2:03:05
  Speaker 5: road trip is our third and last voice.
• 2:03:09
  Speaker 9: Now, Hey, what's up boys? Joe Philadelphia? First time, long time.
• 2:03:16
  Speaker 9: I'm calling on a road trip to get my road
• 2:03:18
  Speaker 9: trip badge. Today taking my daughter three months old and
• 2:03:22
  Speaker 9: my dog, my Puffy Bo two years old, from Philadelphia
• 2:03:26
  Speaker 9: to New Hampshire. I get to stop every two hours
• 2:03:30
  Speaker 9: to feed her with a bottle. I get to turn
• 2:03:34
  Speaker 9: a five hour drive into a seven hour drive. I
• 2:03:37
  Speaker 9: get to do all of this just so that way
• 2:03:39
  Speaker 9: my wife she has to she has to take some sacrifices.
• 2:03:42
  Speaker 9: She has to go into the office.
• 2:03:44
  Speaker 1: So today she's.
• 2:03:46
  Speaker 9: Probably gonna have to go to brunch with the girls.
• 2:03:48
  Speaker 9: She's probably gonna have to eat ice cream tonight without
• 2:03:53
  Speaker 9: me on the couch before bed.
• 2:03:56
  Speaker 1: She's gonna have to do those things. She's gonna have
• 2:03:58
  Speaker 1: to make those sacrifices.
• 2:04:00
  Speaker 9: Yeah, but I get to go on a road trip
• 2:04:03
  Speaker 9: with my three month old daughter. Stop every two hours
• 2:04:06
  Speaker 9: on a drive that I normally can just do straight
• 2:04:08
  Speaker 9: through without stopping for gas. But I get to peter
• 2:04:12
  Speaker 9: that bottle every two hours. I give you guys an updates.
• 2:04:15
  Speaker 9: A fie managed to stay this positive for the rest
• 2:04:18
  Speaker 9: of the ride, Thank you, and stays m Stay hard, man.
• 2:04:24
  Speaker 1: Stay hard.
• 2:04:25
  Speaker 5: He gets to clean the poop that seeps out of
• 2:04:28
  Speaker 5: the diaper because you forgot to change it at the
• 2:04:30
  Speaker 5: last bottle feed.
• 2:04:31
  Speaker 2: You get to listen on the same song on repeat
• 2:04:34
  Speaker 2: if you have a lullaby go to and you need
• 2:04:38
  Speaker 2: the little one to fall.
• 2:04:39
  Speaker 5: Asleep, yeah, or the shusher will. Have you ever had
• 2:04:42
  Speaker 5: the pleasure of a road trip with the shusher.
• 2:04:46
  Speaker 1: Tell me more s oh with the white non, Oh,
• 2:04:52
  Speaker 1: it's actually going or you're the susher.
• 2:04:55
  Speaker 5: No, it's a nice little it's on repeat. It's a
• 2:04:57
  Speaker 5: nice little ten hour shusher.
• 2:05:00
  Speaker 1: That is. It's great for any road traveling. You get
• 2:05:03
  Speaker 1: to listen to that. If the kiddo's in the back,
• 2:05:09
  Speaker 1: good news, who knows. I hope everything went well. Yeah yeah,
• 2:05:13
  Speaker 1: but getting to with the three month old compared to
• 2:05:16
  Speaker 1: one a little bit older when it gets harder to travel, yeah,
• 2:05:19
  Speaker 1: you do. There there's some silver lining there. I was
• 2:05:22
  Speaker 1: about to say, if he because I've been on some
• 2:05:24
  Speaker 1: sicko road trips and I'm looking at you, Scotty. If
• 2:05:28
  Speaker 1: you can time it with sleep, that's we've talked about this,
• 2:05:32
  Speaker 1: Dad hack. You're right, you are one thousand percent. Yeah, yeah, yeah,
• 2:05:37
  Speaker 1: but sometimes ship hits the ship hits the fan and
• 2:05:41
  Speaker 1: it doesn't go according to plan. Yeah yeah, yeah, and
• 2:05:44
  Speaker 1: Scotty's one of them. Scotty's got her dad in her.
• 2:05:51
  Speaker 1: He got that competent, but you got that a get
• 2:05:52
  Speaker 1: mentality when she's strapped in that car seat.
• 2:05:55
  Speaker 7: Bro.
• 2:05:56
  Speaker 2: Matter of fact, you just fucking it wasn't five hours
• 2:05:58
  Speaker 2: or seven hours. It was thirty minutes. We went to
• 2:06:03
  Speaker 2: Parenne down in Franklin last Thursday, I believe, maybe it
• 2:06:08
  Speaker 2: was a Thursday, maybe.
• 2:06:11
  Speaker 1: It was a Wednesday.
• 2:06:13
  Speaker 2: And had a wonderful dinner, had a wonderful meal, Parenne
• 2:06:17
  Speaker 2: great food. Went there for dinner, Yeah, got me some
• 2:06:21
  Speaker 2: steak and fries, and on the way home, I had
• 2:06:26
  Speaker 2: the obviously drove ruined Scotti there to me mom. Mama
• 2:06:30
  Speaker 2: was doing her her I think paradigm check in, so
• 2:06:35
  Speaker 2: her health check in, and met her at the restaurant.
• 2:06:40
  Speaker 2: Restaurant was great. On the way home, we were gonna
• 2:06:43
  Speaker 2: split both kiddos. We were wonder to have Mama. I'll take Scotty.
• 2:06:48
  Speaker 2: Scotti is such a mama's girl right now. She is
• 2:06:50
  Speaker 2: such a mama's girl. Loves Mama, dude. She loves her
• 2:06:54
  Speaker 2: dad too, But it's I'm talking glued to him. Mama
• 2:06:57
  Speaker 2: is the answer. Mam is the safe space. Mam is
• 2:06:59
  Speaker 2: the salution. She missed Mom the entire thirty minutes. I'm
• 2:07:05
  Speaker 2: talking screaming bloody murder in the truck, dude, and I'm
• 2:07:10
  Speaker 2: throwing all seven different kinds of smoke yeah to her.
• 2:07:13
  Speaker 2: Eventually I lost my shit.
• 2:07:16
  Speaker 1: Scotty, you gotta shut up. Might not have been shut up,
• 2:07:22
  Speaker 1: but it's like, you gotta stop crying. Come on, man,
• 2:07:26
  Speaker 1: work with me.
• 2:07:30
  Speaker 2: Ah, dude, I couldn't take it, of course, pulling my
• 2:07:34
  Speaker 2: phone text a wife, Scotty's losing it.
• 2:07:36
  Speaker 1: Yeah.
• 2:07:38
  Speaker 2: I hold the entire way home. Then I get out, park,
• 2:07:45
  Speaker 2: truck goes off. She stops crying when the truck goes
• 2:07:47
  Speaker 2: off another car. I look back at her. She's got,
• 2:07:49
  Speaker 2: you know, the tears, her welted eyes, the saddest thing
• 2:07:52
  Speaker 2: in the world. Pull her out, kind of like a
• 2:07:56
  Speaker 2: jerk motion to get her out, and like just set
• 2:07:57
  Speaker 2: her on the ground while I get the backpack and
• 2:07:59
  Speaker 2: everything else.
• 2:08:00
  Speaker 1: I'm pissed. Yeah, yeah, because I'm like, dude, what the
• 2:08:02
  Speaker 1: fuck are we doing? Man? Like I'm dropped delivery apparently. Yeah, dude,
• 2:08:07
  Speaker 1: we're gonna get home. You're gonna see mom again. Yeah,
• 2:08:09
  Speaker 1: pick her up, going, set her on the kitchen counter.
• 2:08:12
  Speaker 1: I sit on the kitchen counter. It's silent in the house.
• 2:08:14
  Speaker 1: Feel waffle down on my feet, and I'm just looking
• 2:08:17
  Speaker 1: at Scotty. I'm like, dude, what was that? What are
• 2:08:20
  Speaker 1: you doing? We're home?
• 2:08:21
  Speaker 2: I told you we're coming home. Yeah, like, dude, we're
• 2:08:25
  Speaker 2: beefing right now. Yeah, told her straight up. I'm like,
• 2:08:28
  Speaker 2: when mom gets home, I'm telling this to Scotti. When
• 2:08:30
  Speaker 2: Mom gets home, I'm giving her the bottle, and I'm like,
• 2:08:33
  Speaker 2: you got Scotti because I'm done with you. Yeah, I
• 2:08:37
  Speaker 2: can't talk to you right now. I don't negotiate with Terry. Yeah,
• 2:08:41
  Speaker 2: guess what you're being right now.
• 2:08:44
  Speaker 5: Also, I don't I don't say this to pick on you.
• 2:08:47
  Speaker 5: I say this because it was really fun to get
• 2:08:49
  Speaker 5: to see it. I've never seen you lose yourself ever,
• 2:08:54
  Speaker 5: like upset wise, and I saw a hint of it
• 2:08:58
  Speaker 5: at the zoo when you were trying to hand Rude
• 2:09:01
  Speaker 5: the beef jerky stick the beefstick.
• 2:09:04
  Speaker 1: Do you remember that? Were we about to get on
• 2:09:06
  Speaker 1: the train? You know?
• 2:09:07
  Speaker 5: Wait, it was actually right after the train and you
• 2:09:11
  Speaker 5: had said like four times in a row, rue beefstick, beastick,
• 2:09:16
  Speaker 5: rue beefstick. And I think she may have been talking
• 2:09:19
  Speaker 5: to me.
• 2:09:20
  Speaker 1: Yeah, I think she's probably telling you the story she
• 2:09:22
  Speaker 1: told me a story. You just go after the fourth one,
• 2:09:27
  Speaker 1: you go for the love of God, and she finally
• 2:09:34
  Speaker 1: took it from me, and you go and just hearing
• 2:09:38
  Speaker 1: that tone in your voice made giggle. Dude, it was
• 2:09:41
  Speaker 1: so funny. I lost in the trunk.
• 2:09:43
  Speaker 2: It was like a sling. It was like a five
• 2:09:45
  Speaker 2: second moment. You do the thing, you turn up the music.
• 2:09:50
  Speaker 2: You'll want to try and beat you with this music.
• 2:09:52
  Speaker 2: I can't do it. I'm just like Scottie. I'm like
• 2:09:54
  Speaker 2: reaching back, trying to like rock right to stop, Like sweetheart,
• 2:09:57
  Speaker 2: you got lama, you need wa for the love of God,
• 2:10:01
  Speaker 2: talk to me.
• 2:10:03
  Speaker 1: Let's going. We're going to be home in twenty minutes.
• 2:10:09
  Speaker 5: The closest I come is just that beat, the drum
• 2:10:12
  Speaker 5: story that I told you of. Oh my god, the
• 2:10:16
  Speaker 5: grip that I had on the steering wheel, and I
• 2:10:19
  Speaker 5: was in some sour mood.
• 2:10:20
  Speaker 1: Would to get back there and shake me? I did?
• 2:10:24
  Speaker 1: I grab her seat a scarlet. Let's quit hitting that
• 2:10:30
  Speaker 1: fucking button. What are we doing? You've hit it thirty times.
• 2:10:35
  Speaker 5: Not to change the mead too much, but I do
• 2:10:37
  Speaker 5: have it says on here, sad, sad sad warning. Oh
• 2:10:44
  Speaker 5: are you okay with that? I'm good with a sad warning. Okay,
• 2:10:49
  Speaker 5: I'll walk in here, fellas. I'm writing to you too,
• 2:10:55
  Speaker 5: as fellow dads, and to all the other dads out there.
• 2:10:58
  Speaker 1: Listening.
• 2:10:59
  Speaker 5: Some of you may know what I'm going through and
• 2:11:01
  Speaker 5: some may not. From those who have been through this before,
• 2:11:08
  Speaker 5: I asked for sympathy. For those who haven't, I simply
• 2:11:11
  Speaker 5: asked for prayers. There's no easy way to put this,
• 2:11:13
  Speaker 5: but my wife is leaving me. It certainly is a
• 2:11:17
  Speaker 5: shock to see the sentence written out, but I can't
• 2:11:20
  Speaker 5: say I didn't know that this was coming. It's something
• 2:11:23
  Speaker 5: I've dreaded, but my wife and I have been talking
• 2:11:27
  Speaker 5: about it for months, and the day has finally come.
• 2:11:30
  Speaker 5: The worst part about all of this is she's taking
• 2:11:33
  Speaker 5: my eighteen month old daughter and my unborn daughter in parentheses.
• 2:11:37
  Speaker 5: My wife is pregnant with our second She's taking them
• 2:11:41
  Speaker 5: with her. I pleaded and begged with my wife that
• 2:11:44
  Speaker 5: my daughter could stay with me, but it was a
• 2:11:47
  Speaker 5: fight I was never going to win. And now flights
• 2:11:50
  Speaker 5: are booked, bags are packed, and I'm watching the three
• 2:11:53
  Speaker 5: biggest loves of my life leave out my door while
• 2:11:56
  Speaker 5: tears stream down my face. I'm not sure what to
• 2:11:59
  Speaker 5: do with myself. I'm not sure how I'll survive. These
• 2:12:02
  Speaker 5: four days are going to be the hardest of my life.
• 2:12:06
  Speaker 5: I should probably give more context. My wife is flying
• 2:12:09
  Speaker 5: with my daughters to go see her best friend's baby
• 2:12:12
  Speaker 5: shower out of town.
• 2:12:14
  Speaker 1: I begged her to let.
• 2:12:15
  Speaker 5: Me come along, but she kept telling me things like
• 2:12:18
  Speaker 5: it's only four days and it's an all girls shower,
• 2:12:21
  Speaker 5: and stop lying. There's a zero percent chance you actually
• 2:12:24
  Speaker 5: want to come. Maybe the first part of my email
• 2:12:27
  Speaker 5: was a bit dramatic, but I'm obviously still stressed about
• 2:12:30
  Speaker 5: what I'm going to do this coming weekend. She's a
• 2:12:32
  Speaker 5: great cook, so I'll be missing out on her cooking,
• 2:12:35
  Speaker 5: so I'll probably have to order a pizza and wings
• 2:12:37
  Speaker 5: just to survive.
• 2:12:39
  Speaker 1: And I'll probably be lonely, so.
• 2:12:41
  Speaker 5: I'll probably have to go out to the bar and
• 2:12:43
  Speaker 5: watch college basketball with boys just to distract myself. And
• 2:12:48
  Speaker 5: the house is probably going to be really, really peaceful
• 2:12:50
  Speaker 5: and quiet, and that's probably going to be devastating. Anyways,
• 2:12:54
  Speaker 5: this coming weekend is going to be absolutely brutal on
• 2:12:58
  Speaker 5: me this weekend, So any and all prayers you can send.
• 2:13:02
  Speaker 1: My way love the pod. It makes it so.
• 2:13:06
  Speaker 5: Comforting knowing that there's other dads out there going through
• 2:13:09
  Speaker 5: the same little struggles and that we're not alone. Wishing
• 2:13:12
  Speaker 5: you guys the best from a very lonely and depressing
• 2:13:15
  Speaker 5: and not at all awesome home this weekend, dom.
• 2:13:21
  Speaker 1: Can I say something? Yeah, fuck you, bro, that's an
• 2:13:38
  Speaker 1: April First, that's an April First show.
• 2:13:43
  Speaker 2: No, I didn't start to transition until you said beats
• 2:13:47
  Speaker 2: and wings. Yeah, it took me along. Dudes, like I'm
• 2:13:54
  Speaker 2: trying to put some stuff together, Like I'm thinking.
• 2:13:58
  Speaker 1: Wheels going in your head. I was sad for him.
• 2:14:01
  Speaker 2: I'm like, damn, we you know this, dude wrote in Yeah,
• 2:14:05
  Speaker 2: he's talking about his wife leaving him. Yeah, like I'm
• 2:14:09
  Speaker 2: thinking divorce, like leaving a lot of us did. And
• 2:14:13
  Speaker 2: the four day thing. I started to get confused. I'm like,
• 2:14:15
  Speaker 2: so wait a minute, like im think getting divorced. And
• 2:14:17
  Speaker 2: he's wanted to go on this baby shower. It's an
• 2:14:19
  Speaker 2: all girls one. It's an all girls one stop one.
• 2:14:22
  Speaker 2: You don't even want to come. And I'm thinking, is
• 2:14:24
  Speaker 2: she cheating on him? Wish not letting him come? If
• 2:14:28
  Speaker 2: this is his last hurrah with seeing the kids, Like,
• 2:14:30
  Speaker 2: let me come to the dude.
• 2:14:31
  Speaker 5: Maybe even worse than cheating you, bro, She's taking the
• 2:14:35
  Speaker 5: kids to a baby shower out of town.
• 2:14:37
  Speaker 6: The worst part about it all was Sureon was talking
• 2:14:39
  Speaker 6: earlier about how like I don't even look at the voicemails,
• 2:14:41
  Speaker 6: I trust you. He got halfway through that and he's like,
• 2:14:43
  Speaker 6: should we add this to the show, Like this is
• 2:14:45
  Speaker 6: fucking sad?
• 2:14:46
  Speaker 1: Oh yeah, I don't listen to the voicemails, but I read.
• 2:14:48
  Speaker 5: I read the emails, and that one had me for
• 2:14:52
  Speaker 5: like the first half, and then once he got to
• 2:14:55
  Speaker 5: the the four days part, I'm like, wait, hold.
• 2:14:57
  Speaker 2: On, Yeah, I started to get confused. I'm like, is
• 2:15:01
  Speaker 2: it's just like there, she's leaving him. Excuse me, She's
• 2:15:05
  Speaker 2: just going on the weekend baby shower. But is she
• 2:15:08
  Speaker 2: coming back? I'm only gonna be going four days And
• 2:15:11
  Speaker 2: I'm like, okay, so what's that. That's kind of a
• 2:15:14
  Speaker 2: weird way to separate. And then maybe he just wanted
• 2:15:17
  Speaker 2: to last, like just be around the family one last time,
• 2:15:21
  Speaker 2: and then she doesn't want him to come. I'm like, okay,
• 2:15:23
  Speaker 2: maybe she's she's got some other motive. And then when
• 2:15:26
  Speaker 2: you hit the pizza and wings, I'm thinking, oh, that's
• 2:15:28
  Speaker 2: kind of a maybe he's just trying to jive with
• 2:15:30
  Speaker 2: the brand while he's telling us something really deep and serious,
• 2:15:34
  Speaker 2: and I'm sitting here thinking like, man, I don't have
• 2:15:36
  Speaker 2: words for him other than just a beck I'm really
• 2:15:39
  Speaker 2: sorry you're going through that.
• 2:15:41
  Speaker 1: We'll sit with you in this. I probably still don't
• 2:15:44
  Speaker 1: have words for him now that I have the full picture.
• 2:15:46
  Speaker 1: But but the whole turn or it's just he's sad
• 2:15:50
  Speaker 1: because he's living for a weekend that we will. Is
• 2:15:54
  Speaker 1: that not a big deal? Yeah, I'm sorry, a huge deal.
• 2:15:57
  Speaker 1: But the sad alerts we cry every week, we all
• 2:16:00
  Speaker 1: these this dude's be a vulnerable comeou, his wife's leaving
• 2:16:03
  Speaker 1: him for this on board Chok, Well now it's for now.
• 2:16:05
  Speaker 1: It's a joke. Now it's it's a joke.
• 2:16:09
  Speaker 2: What No, anybody that's been listening to pod for this
• 2:16:15
  Speaker 2: long and got to that moment. The sad alert, everything
• 2:16:18
  Speaker 2: that goes on with us each week, the tears. A
• 2:16:21
  Speaker 2: main cream was sad alert written on the sheet.
• 2:16:23
  Speaker 1: There wasn't actually saddlert written.
• 2:16:26
  Speaker 6: Just for the record, I added that that's a Sherman
• 2:16:28
  Speaker 6: Young original.
• 2:16:29
  Speaker 1: I did it great, that was great. Thank you. He
• 2:16:31
  Speaker 1: had me. You had me the whole way until I'm
• 2:16:34
  Speaker 1: like these motherfuckers, bro, he has to get the whole
• 2:16:37
  Speaker 1: you know, if if you've gone through this, I asked
• 2:16:39
  Speaker 1: for some sympathy if you haven't pray for me, and
• 2:16:41
  Speaker 1: then leading with the my she's leaving me. Yeah, for
• 2:16:45
  Speaker 1: four days during March. This is March, this is this
• 2:16:51
  Speaker 1: is Mars March.
• 2:16:52
  Speaker 5: There goes my bracket. Bracket busted. Who wrote that in
• 2:17:00
  Speaker 5: Dominic Rosa dominic Rosa?
• 2:17:03
  Speaker 2: Well gratitud yes great, yeah, because you also was fluffing
• 2:17:07
  Speaker 2: it as well.
• 2:17:08
  Speaker 1: I'm thinking I'm about to tear up. I'm supposed to
• 2:17:11
  Speaker 1: tear it up.
• 2:17:12
  Speaker 2: I'm thinking, how do I sit in this moment with
• 2:17:14
  Speaker 2: him versus just like giving him. I hope he's not
• 2:17:16
  Speaker 2: like wanting us to give advice because I'm thinking, dude,
• 2:17:19
  Speaker 2: I don't know.
• 2:17:19
  Speaker 1: Yeah, that's brutal. It's still very serious. That's still it's
• 2:17:24
  Speaker 1: still joke. That run that is it's not very serious,
• 2:17:29
  Speaker 1: well crafted, well written. Siran was on board, I.
• 2:17:32
  Speaker 5: Was well on air. I do want to say I
• 2:17:35
  Speaker 5: am sorry if if that.
• 2:17:37
  Speaker 1: If that did gut you. I thought we we thought
• 2:17:41
  Speaker 1: she was leaving him. Then I thought she's cheating on him.
• 2:17:45
  Speaker 1: We often he's just writing to us like he's like,
• 2:17:47
  Speaker 1: I'm going to write into the boys. Yeah.
• 2:17:51
  Speaker 5: When we do have sad stuff on here, we we
• 2:17:54
  Speaker 5: try to celebrate like somebody in their sadness for anybody
• 2:18:00
  Speaker 5: that does write actual sad things into the podcast, because
• 2:18:04
  Speaker 5: we do often read that, and we do love coming
• 2:18:07
  Speaker 5: around our brothers, So for.
• 2:18:09
  Speaker 1: Sure, we love putting arms around our guys.
• 2:18:11
  Speaker 5: We love putting our arms around our guys, so we
• 2:18:13
  Speaker 5: will put that out there. But I could, I could
• 2:18:17
  Speaker 5: see why you'd be a little sad boy on that,
• 2:18:20
  Speaker 5: and I apologize if that hit.
• 2:18:23
  Speaker 1: Too those great you got me good, domb got us?
• 2:18:28
  Speaker 5: Yeah, and like obviously best wishes to Dom yeah best, yeah, yeah,
• 2:18:35
  Speaker 5: did you have something else?
• 2:18:38
  Speaker 1: My comments are kind of everywhere. I think they're right
• 2:18:41
  Speaker 1: here next to our Dan Gable. Oh, bobble Head, it's
• 2:18:44
  Speaker 1: hide and mind the the rabbit. Okay, I got a couple,
• 2:19:02
  Speaker 1: I'll rip these. Where are we at two fifteen? Should
• 2:19:09
  Speaker 1: we just rip these? In rock?
• 2:19:11
  Speaker 5: I have a lesson of the week. Okay, yeah, yeah, yeah, yes,
• 2:19:14
  Speaker 5: one of those.
• 2:19:15
  Speaker 1: And then.
• 2:19:17
  Speaker 2: Okay, here we go. What's up boys? Cube here Evan
• 2:19:21
  Speaker 2: Coop tier one with the boys. Coob, you gotta give
• 2:19:26
  Speaker 2: our boy Cooper comstock graphic credit.
• 2:19:31
  Speaker 1: When you use this graphic.
• 2:19:32
  Speaker 2: Yes, love Coob absolutely certified Tier one sicco pt sicco
• 2:19:37
  Speaker 2: as t Siko.
• 2:19:38
  Speaker 1: I think he's went through butts training because you're a
• 2:19:41
  Speaker 1: very big clips page for four Yes.
• 2:19:43
  Speaker 2: Yes, check it out. Just wanted to share some big news.
• 2:19:47
  Speaker 2: I'm becoming a dad this October.
• 2:19:51
  Speaker 1: Come on, come on.
• 2:19:54
  Speaker 2: Been rocked with for the dads and busting for a
• 2:19:56
  Speaker 2: long time. Now he has He's again this This is
• 2:20:00
  Speaker 2: a certified SICCO for the boys. And I've learned a
• 2:20:02
  Speaker 2: ton from watching you guys build what you've built. It's
• 2:20:04
  Speaker 2: honestly helped shape how I think about fatherhood, work ethic
• 2:20:07
  Speaker 2: and showing up every day. One thing I'm excited to
• 2:20:10
  Speaker 2: teach my son or daughter is to always bring value,
• 2:20:13
  Speaker 2: but also know your worth.
• 2:20:14
  Speaker 1: Work hard, be loyal, bet.
• 2:20:16
  Speaker 2: On yourself, and when the time comes, don't be afraid
• 2:20:18
  Speaker 2: to build your own table if a seat never opens up.
• 2:20:21
  Speaker 1: I love that.
• 2:20:22
  Speaker 2: Grateful for the inspiration you guys have given me over
• 2:20:25
  Speaker 2: the years. Fatherhood's the biggest contract I'll ever sign. Appreciate
• 2:20:29
  Speaker 2: you boys, Thank you for writing in man. This is
• 2:20:32
  Speaker 2: awesome and congratulations to you and why he congratulations Bud's
• 2:20:36
  Speaker 2: training complete.
• 2:20:37
  Speaker 1: It's become a Ptsiko. I hope you had a good
• 2:20:40
  Speaker 1: March fourteen. I hope you had a good march forward.
• 2:20:44
  Speaker 1: You come on, come on, come on, I do have one.
• 2:20:47
  Speaker 2: I want to hear it here because I saw something
• 2:20:48
  Speaker 2: in here that I'm curious to read.
• 2:20:52
  Speaker 1: Is from Timothy Callahan, Pt. Sixers. I wanted to tell you.
• 2:20:55
  Speaker 2: The incredible story of what I like to think has
• 2:20:57
  Speaker 2: led me to believe that everything does happen for a reason.
• 2:21:00
  Speaker 2: For the last ten years, I've been a high functioning
• 2:21:02
  Speaker 2: alcoholic from being the life of the party in college,
• 2:21:05
  Speaker 2: so realizing as I prepared to leave my twenties that
• 2:21:08
  Speaker 2: the party never stopped. I was the only one still
• 2:21:11
  Speaker 2: partying this year. On my thirtieth birthday in September, something
• 2:21:15
  Speaker 2: higher than me, something higher than me, told me that
• 2:21:18
  Speaker 2: I'm done partying. I've tried to cut back on drinking
• 2:21:21
  Speaker 2: in the past, but under my own power, I never succeeded.
• 2:21:23
  Speaker 1: That this was different. It felt like a call. It
• 2:21:26
  Speaker 1: felt like a calling.
• 2:21:28
  Speaker 2: As months went by, staying dry and hitting the weights,
• 2:21:30
  Speaker 2: my wife we got married in June last year, decided
• 2:21:33
  Speaker 2: it was time to start trying. Was this because I
• 2:21:35
  Speaker 2: was finally stepping up and being the man she always
• 2:21:38
  Speaker 2: knew I could be? Was it my newfound motivation and
• 2:21:41
  Speaker 2: success at work. Was it that I was in the
• 2:21:45
  Speaker 2: best shape that I've been in since college? I'm still
• 2:21:48
  Speaker 2: not sure, but nonetheless, nonetheless budge training was sick. Come on,
• 2:21:53
  Speaker 2: I stress. I stress was eight weeks ago. I stress
• 2:21:59
  Speaker 2: was eight weeks ago. I wonder, what do you mean.
• 2:22:04
  Speaker 1: To go with? I stressed because eight weeks ago we okay,
• 2:22:07
  Speaker 1: I was stressed.
• 2:22:08
  Speaker 2: There we go that was probably I was stressed because
• 2:22:11
  Speaker 2: eight weeks ago we found out that we're expecting. Eight
• 2:22:13
  Speaker 2: weeks ago is also the week that my friend Austin
• 2:22:16
  Speaker 2: introduced me to the pod, just days before learning the news.
• 2:22:20
  Speaker 2: As as I near my six months sobriety milestone, listening
• 2:22:24
  Speaker 2: and learning weekly, I've learned that it's a boy. The
• 2:22:27
  Speaker 2: due date September twelfth, my thirty first birthday, and what
• 2:22:31
  Speaker 2: will be exactly one year from making the best decision
• 2:22:34
  Speaker 2: of my life, taking my life back. My wife Sarah
• 2:22:37
  Speaker 2: has supported me through everything. She was there when I
• 2:22:39
  Speaker 2: was struggling and celebrates all my successes.
• 2:22:42
  Speaker 1: Even the small ones.
• 2:22:43
  Speaker 2: Listening to the pod makes me feel ready to be
• 2:22:45
  Speaker 2: there for her for what I'm sure will be our hardest,
• 2:22:48
  Speaker 2: most rewarding journey yet. Garbages are out dishes are done,
• 2:22:52
  Speaker 2: the dog is walked, steaks are dry. Aging for steak
• 2:22:55
  Speaker 2: and blowjob Day this Saturday, March fourteenth. Can't wait to
• 2:22:59
  Speaker 2: crack a celebratory ollipop this September, Tim, Tim, thank you
• 2:23:03
  Speaker 2: for writing in.
• 2:23:04
  Speaker 5: My friend tim very humbling email. Yeah, that canna keep
• 2:23:07
  Speaker 5: a humbling category, dude.
• 2:23:09
  Speaker 2: Yeah, And thank you for sharing the high functioning alcoholic
• 2:23:14
  Speaker 2: all of that, dude.
• 2:23:15
  Speaker 1: Thank you for sharing that story. Thank you for sharing
• 2:23:19
  Speaker 1: why you felt like.
• 2:23:24
  Speaker 2: Those are the reasons that you turned everything around and
• 2:23:26
  Speaker 2: now you're about to be a dad. Yeah, which you're
• 2:23:28
  Speaker 2: right is the best thing in the world, the hardest
• 2:23:30
  Speaker 2: thing in the world. So congratulations man. That is awesome.
• 2:23:33
  Speaker 5: It makes this this podcast is really fun and cool
• 2:23:38
  Speaker 5: because we are currently wearing robes from a seance that
• 2:23:43
  Speaker 5: we conducted earlier to you know ward Off the girl Dad.
• 2:23:49
  Speaker 1: Or the curl Man, the girl on the Curse, rid
• 2:23:52
  Speaker 1: ourselves of the curse. Also a pt Siko that introduced himself.
• 2:23:59
  Speaker 5: I went to that Pokemon ripping packs thing with Taylor
• 2:24:04
  Speaker 5: the expo and there was a pet Sico talking to
• 2:24:07
  Speaker 5: him and he actually said he listened before the dads
• 2:24:10
  Speaker 5: and he was trying to explain to me why he
• 2:24:12
  Speaker 5: liked it.
• 2:24:13
  Speaker 1: He was like, you know, I like the genuine, like the.
• 2:24:16
  Speaker 5: Really genuine moments and how you like.
• 2:24:20
  Speaker 1: You you guys, I go the shipheadedness.
• 2:24:22
  Speaker 5: He goes, yeah, it's the coupled with the shipheadedness, and
• 2:24:27
  Speaker 5: I think that's what makes the show so great. And
• 2:24:30
  Speaker 5: I was like, well, dude, thank you, Like that's that's
• 2:24:32
  Speaker 5: a very like I love hearing that review. But that
• 2:24:36
  Speaker 5: is what I love about this show is you can
• 2:24:38
  Speaker 5: have emails like that that. It's like, man, I just
• 2:24:43
  Speaker 5: I love that you are loving life, finding purpose, joy, joy,
• 2:24:51
  Speaker 5: all perspective and that listen to our podcast is a
• 2:24:54
  Speaker 5: part of that.
• 2:24:57
  Speaker 1: Your journey, Yeah, your journey that's in your I was
• 2:25:00
  Speaker 1: short wiring there for a second. Yeah that you know,
• 2:25:04
  Speaker 1: with the ship headedness. Yeah, yeah, this is it. This
• 2:25:07
  Speaker 1: is March. Yeah. Well that that was how he was.
• 2:25:11
  Speaker 5: He was trying to get the word ship aheadedness, and
• 2:25:13
  Speaker 5: I had to I had to jump in there feed
• 2:25:16
  Speaker 5: the word because he he.
• 2:25:18
  Speaker 1: Didn't want to be insulting. I was like, you're not. Yeah,
• 2:25:21
  Speaker 1: that's the vibe.
• 2:25:22
  Speaker 5: We just talked about steaking blood jobs for a long time.
• 2:25:25
  Speaker 5: Speaking of I have our like a nice little lesson on.
• 2:25:28
  Speaker 1: This great lesson followed the stake of blow Day.
• 2:25:31
  Speaker 5: And before I go into it, I do uh. We
• 2:25:34
  Speaker 5: got some comments that maybe the Dan Gable quotes were
• 2:25:37
  Speaker 5: too much, that we were doing too many of them.
• 2:25:40
  Speaker 1: Really yeah, And I don't want to like yeah, no
• 2:25:44
  Speaker 1: we didn't. Yeah. I didn't want to make a big
• 2:25:46
  Speaker 1: deal about it.
• 2:25:46
  Speaker 5: But there were a couple like, hey, Dan Gable quote
• 2:25:49
  Speaker 5: every week, like is this really what we're gonna do?
• 2:25:53
  Speaker 1: Oh, that's ogs we get the actually, and so I
• 2:25:57
  Speaker 1: switched it up. I switched it up.
• 2:25:59
  Speaker 5: This one comes from them, uh Gandable. Success is earned
• 2:26:04
  Speaker 5: in the hours nobody sees. And that's from coach Gandable.
• 2:26:10
  Speaker 1: Just to switch it up right now. Yeah yeah.
• 2:26:20
  Speaker 5: My topic quote lesson of the week is intentional time
• 2:26:24
  Speaker 5: with the wifey uh, Jill and I have been putting
• 2:26:28
  Speaker 5: our phones down slash, turning off the TV, and setting
• 2:26:31
  Speaker 5: and setting down her kindle for a mandatory ten minute
• 2:26:36
  Speaker 5: cuddle session every night.
• 2:26:38
  Speaker 1: I know that doesn't sound very long, and it's like, wait,
• 2:26:41
  Speaker 1: that's mandatory, like total cuddle, like snuggle ord.
• 2:26:46
  Speaker 5: Snuggle, snuggle, no shockwave where okay, yeah yeah, yeah, we're
• 2:26:50
  Speaker 5: just we're literally talking ten minutes of cuddling in bed,
• 2:26:55
  Speaker 5: no shockwab, no pun uh, every night, and it's been unreal.
• 2:27:01
  Speaker 5: The pillow talk that we've been having during these times
• 2:27:04
  Speaker 5: is something that's been lacking in our relationship for months.
• 2:27:07
  Speaker 5: It's been awesome from a connection standpoint, but also extremely
• 2:27:11
  Speaker 5: calming and relaxing. It's been helping us fall asleep faster.
• 2:27:15
  Speaker 5: That's when you know it's a good convo when you
• 2:27:17
  Speaker 5: fall asleep mid conversation, which is something that we hadn't
• 2:27:21
  Speaker 5: had in months, which is honestly kind of sad that
• 2:27:25
  Speaker 5: like the screens had done that to us. In general,
• 2:27:28
  Speaker 5: I've been trying to emphasize dating my WiFi, flirting with her,
• 2:27:32
  Speaker 5: joking with WiFi, asking wify her opinion on things, kissing her,
• 2:27:36
  Speaker 5: hugging her respectfully, grabbing cheek while she's on the stepstool,
• 2:27:41
  Speaker 5: reaching for the nice bulls that we keep in the
• 2:27:43
  Speaker 5: higher kitchen cabinets, and hitting her with a little eh.
• 2:27:48
  Speaker 5: In parentheses, I wrote, she loves that, but yes, ten
• 2:27:53
  Speaker 5: minute of mandatory cuddle sash, it's fire and it's very
• 2:27:58
  Speaker 5: easy to implement. I love that, and I know that
• 2:28:01
  Speaker 5: that sounds like a bit like oh man, that's kind
• 2:28:04
  Speaker 5: of sad, Gruman like ten minutes a cuttlep bit just
• 2:28:07
  Speaker 5: with everything with the baby and stuff, like you kind
• 2:28:10
  Speaker 5: of lose you a little bit and you got to
• 2:28:13
  Speaker 5: get back into that, like, hey, we're we're lovey dovey, like.
• 2:28:18
  Speaker 1: Back into the courtship.
• 2:28:19
  Speaker 5: Yeah, we're lovey dove boyfriend, girlfriend, husband, wifey, Like that's
• 2:28:23
  Speaker 5: my girl. It's been really great. That's Bee, that's Bee.
• 2:28:28
  Speaker 5: You on a date or in all good lesson? Thank
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  Speaker 5: you did, great sod, great sod. You want to sign
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  Speaker 5: us off?
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  Speaker 1: I don't think I've ever done a sign off before.
• 2:28:44
  Speaker 5: Guys, this has been another episode of for the Dads.
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  Speaker 5: We hope you enjoyed it. We hope that your balls
• 2:28:51
  Speaker 5: are empty and that your mouth are full of lollipop.
• 2:28:54
  Speaker 5: Make sure to separate those trash bins. Don't have them touching.
• 2:28:57
  Speaker 1: Don't have them from the mailbox.
• 2:28:59
  Speaker 5: God for bid, get them out from in front of
• 2:29:02
  Speaker 5: the mailbox. Take your trash out. Have a great week.