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Choosing to Stay and Navigate Life with a Covert Narcissist
I cringe every time I hear someone ask a victim of covert narcissism why they are still there or why they haven’t left. It’s an okay question in the right circumstances. But it is a crushing question in the wrong situation.
In the wrong conversation, this becomes victim blaming.
You aren’t strong enough to stand up for yourself.
You don’t love yourself enough.
You chose this so that’s on you.
If you decide to stay, I can’t help you.
These statements and these attitudes are so painful to someone who is already living in an incredibly painful situation. Making them feel worse is not going to…
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