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Raising a Family in the Adult Entertainment Industry | Lisa Sparxxx · Sparxxx TV Podcast

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Hi, hi, hi. Welcome back.
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Why are we saying hi? I'm just singing through our
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damn day. Jesus.
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Welcome back to the episodes, right?
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Welcome back to you guys. It was birthday week.
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Birthday week. Birthday week.
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Whose birthday? My birthday.
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So we're going to talk about birthday week and we're going to
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answer a fan question out of the comments about what it's like to
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raise a young family in while you're in the adult business.
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How we raised up. Or how we did it.
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Yeah, I don't really know how. Anybody.
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Else does. Yeah, we take care less how.
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They but yeah how we did it and and the the.
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Our way was the right way. Our way is totally the right
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way. We did a good job, just saying.
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19 bobbin and the wall start shaking.
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Lisa Sparks. All right, Welcome back.
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Welcome back to Sparks TV Jesus. We're going.
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To talk about my birthday. We still don't have those.
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Down. It doesn't matter.
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We're going to talk about my birthday week.
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Birthday week was great. We barely survived.
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We did barely survive. Yeah. 50 is not for the faint of
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heart when you're going to drive from Louisville to Nashville to
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Louisville to Nashville and then, yeah, that's a lot.
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On Yeah, three days. Yeah, exactly.
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But before we tell about where we went and what we saw, don't
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forget to subscribe to the channel.
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then you went channel are you? OK, it's a lot.
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every Thursday. I know we do come out every
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Thursday, but some. People and we're doing this on a
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Wednesday, and I am not a happy camper.
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Yeah. So here we are.
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Listen. See what I do for.
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You, it's family. You all hate me, but I am
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busting my ass to be on the. And this is all caused by, this
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is all caused by family. Because I'm not home every
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single night this week because I'm doing other things, I'm
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having to spend the night somewhere else.
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Oh. I've been solo, yeah, if any
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single lady's out. There, yeah, no.
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OK, anyway, so birthday week was fun.
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Wow. Not that damn we started, she is
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jealous after all, no? Not she's cuz no.
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Cuz you're married up. Yeah, that's what it was.
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So we started out in in Louisville watching Ian Bag, the
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comedian, Ian Bag. Super funny guy.
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He loved your Sparks TV shirt, so I think he must.
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He might be. He might be a subscriber if you
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are. Thank you, Ian, you're so funny.
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If you're not, maybe you'll see it now cuz I'm gonna tag you.
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But he was super funny, called me out about my Vegas flipping
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the, the cards because he was talking about, I don't remember
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exactly what he was talking about, but he was, he was doing
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this. And I was like, Oh yeah, like
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Vegas, like he flipped the cards.
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Yeah, we had nothing to Vegas, but he knew exactly that.
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You're a flipping porn. Card, but he knew what he what
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he what I do and then he also prepped in front of you.
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Then he also knew that I was talking.
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He didn't know what the word hall pass was and he was trying
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to find the word and saved them again.
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I saved them so you're welcome. But he was super funny.
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He took a picture with. A man, though.
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Yeah, he did call me. Man, so that fits your 50th
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birthday weekend, Yeah. But he was nice, took a picture
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afterwards. He's super tall.
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You and I were both like, oh, we had no idea he was so tall.
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I think I said that 20 times as I can't believe how tall he is.
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Yeah, we were. We were taken back by how tall
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he was. He had 4 inches on me.
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He did. That's what she said, Yeah.
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That's what you wish, she said. I was like, oh, if you had 4
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inches on me. So that wish she said that.
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So that was Friday night and then Saturday night we had a
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party. My friend and I had a joint
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party down in Nashville. So we.
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Shout out to Jose. Yeah, shout out to Jose and
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Jersey. And CJ.
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And CJ, he's. Subscribed in front of us.
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You probably delete it as soon as you walk since we.
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Walked away. Yeah, those are our friends.
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We were in Nashville for our birthday.
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We had a great time at the Red Door Saloon.
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And then we went back and we hung out in the hot tub and it
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was super fun. We had a great, great time.
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First time I kept my clothes on in a hot tub.
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That is the first time. You're welcome.
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Yeah, yeah. To everyone we just mentioned.
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Nobody wanted to see us without our clothes on in there, but
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yeah, we had a good time and then we came home.
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I. Didn't want to see them without
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their clothes on. That's rude.
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And then Sunday was a nice relaxing day.
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We watched Football where You Killed Me this week.
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We'll talk about that later. And Monday night we went and saw
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a Limp Bizkit, which was amazing.
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However, we did learn something. We need seats.
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I was fine standing up. No I mean my Cavs are still
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paying for it today but in the moment I was fine.
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Like we're like 2 days out and my Cavs are still hurting if.
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We ever go back there? We need that little table on the
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second deck. Yeah, on the edge there.
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Yeah. That was awesome.
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Yeah, they had a cool thing that are the VIP tickets when you're
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just up by the band and then maybe you can.
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Just lean on a speaker. You can lean on a speaker or
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something. VIP was on stage.
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That was pretty. Cool.
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Yeah, that was pretty cool. But yeah, so they they played
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all of our favorite songs. They opened and closed with my
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favorite song. Westportland is my.
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He's my favorite guitarist like. He's my second pick.
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I cuz, you know, I, I the way you feel about Travis Parker and
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drumming is the way I feel about Weston playing the guitar and I,
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and it's a lot of things. It's the way he plays the
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guitar. It's the, the outfits, the
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costumes that he wears. Like it's amazing.
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It's artwork, drummers, Chad. I like Chad.
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Yeah, but Travis Parker's your favorite.
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Well, Travis Parker's my favorite drummer.
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Chad Smith's good. He's a, he's a high second for
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me, but you know. Anyway, anyway, so we did all
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that. It was a fun weekend.
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It was very long, very long. By the time we got home on
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Monday night, I was exhausting. Having a weekend?
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It is. It was like 3.
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It was like 4 days. I don't know.
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It felt like a long weekend we saw.
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Limp on Monday? Yeah.
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Yeah, I know. That's the same.
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The truth. In Nashville, the truth in
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Nashville, Very cool venue. Very cool venue.
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You might have said that I wasn't listening.
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No, I didn't, but it is a very cool venue.
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But yeah, so birthday week is fun.
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We did a really good job. We had lots of fun things to do,
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but now we'll get to the question.
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So yeah, what we're actually here for, to answer the question
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about what it's like raising a family if you or for us, when we
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were in the adult entertainment business, we had a huge support
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system. So it wasn't hard.
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We've had her the whole time that we've done it.
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You might want to just go through that again because I was
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panicking for a second so. OK, well raising a family was
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not hard. Right, go through it all again.
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We're going to talk about. Did it turn off?
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No, no. But I was down and thinking it
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did and we just kept rambling on and I'm like over here, stressed
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playing with gadgets. Sorry, sorry.
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Damn, read the room. We're going to talk about what
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it was like to raise our family while we were in the business,
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right? It's a fan question somebody
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asked SO. Raise our family.
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Yeah, right, Right. Well, we have a very small
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family. We only have one child.
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One child. That's it.
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Yeah, because, well, one was enough.
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That was a short story. Good job.
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Yeah. High 5.
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Right, done. But no, we see you next.
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Week we had a. Huge.
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We had a huge support system, so from like from the time
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couldn't. Have done it without
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grandparents and everybody else helping.
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We were the mean parents from the time that though, but the
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time that we started in the business, we already had, we
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already had her so. We weren't.
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OK, mean I was mean I was I was strict we.
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Kept her in check, everything came.
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Out yeah, I was gonna say I guess I don't mean mean, but I
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was strict she. Spoiled rotten?
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Yeah, she was spoiled. Yeah, I mean, she, we, we did,
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we did tell her like at a certain point we let her know
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about it because we didn't want anybody else to tell her.
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So same thing that we did with our families.
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We told her at a interesting place.
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Yeah, well, yeah. We told her to Denny's after a
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No Doubt concert. Nobody cares about the Denny's
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part. Yeah, You know, it sets the
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mood. But yeah, we went to a No Doubt
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concert and had all kinds of fun and then realized that we were,
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you know, backstage and all kinds of stuff.
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And we were like, she's probably going to want to know how we got
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all that. Why does my mom know the people?
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My mom know people that that are in the travel ban for no doubt.
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How weird is that we're? Completely backstage hanging out
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with. Them yeah, like, yeah, super
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fun. And so we told her, and she was
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like, whatever. Her cute little shirt no doubt
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rocks. Yeah.
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No doubt rocks, but yeah, she told us whatever.
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She didn't care just because to us, to her, she's not.
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We were mom and dad like none. Of that made sense, I will say
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we didn't go into detail one no. No, no, no, no, no.
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Just to clear that up, yeah. We just said this is what I this
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is what I do for a living, period.
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This is why we have some cool things, This is why people know
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me, This is why sometimes they ask they stop me and ask for an
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autograph or a picture or whatever, but nothing more than
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that. I think the hardest time would
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have probably been high school had we not told her that she had
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a great group of friends and none of her friends cared
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because we moved out of Los Angeles when she was like 9.
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So she grew up in this area where we live, and everybody
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already knew, and by that time they got to high school, nobody
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much. Easier to raise a family out.
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Here, yeah, it's a lot easier. And nobody came.
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Why? We moved too.
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Yeah, and nobody cared here what I did.
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I mean like. Well, not to our face or.
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Yeah, yeah. Maybe not to my face, but
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whatever. I don't know.
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We never really had any problems.
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Nobody acted weird, so. Yeah, nobody acted like we were
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crazy cuz I think a lot of people didn't know until after
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they knew us. And then they were like, oh, we
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would have never got that. Yeah, cuz we're normal people.
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We're boring. We're normal Borings.
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But yeah, but she's she's amazing.
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She's got a higher education degree.
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She was A Division One athlete. Like she done all the things.
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Made Daddy proud. Yeah, she did all the things.
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So being strict on her was good. We kept her busy with things,
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with her own things to do. So I don't know if it's like
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that for everybody in the business.
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It maybe it isn't, but having like I said, having that support
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system, it takes it. Takes No, we do not wish she
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ever got in the business. Don't even ask that it did not.
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No, don't. No, don't even come there.
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Nor would she ever anyway cuz that's not her personality so.
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So that's when you know we did it right, Yeah.
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I'm like, not her personality. She would never do that ever.
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But yeah. I'm sure that was gonna be a.
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Question. I'm sure somebody was thinking.
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You wish she was in the business, No.
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No, no. Yeah, I'll shut that down right
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now, yeah. So anyway, so it's kind of a
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boring story about raising our family because it was just, it's
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normal. We had a she had a normal
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childhood just like every other kid.
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She just had cooler parents. And got to go.
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And got to do cool things. Yeah, she got to do really cool
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some some really cool things with because I because I had
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friends that were really cool. So fun.
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But anyway, leave more questions for us to answer.
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Hopefully we answer that all right.
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Yeah, well, next week we're going to talk about B movies
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because somebody asked about my B movies.
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I've done 2. So she thought she did 3.
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I did think I did. I really did think I did. 3
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Somewhere in my dreams, apparently in.
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Your dream. But yeah, so next week, stay,
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stay tuned for that. But now this is my favorite part
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of the week. Even though I didn't win this
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week. You won our football picks for
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next week. Week 5 totally sucked.
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He beat me by 2:10 to 8:00 and he's now beating me 3736 but I'm
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coming back this week. Come on.
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I doubt it. Not looking at the board right
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now. Yeah.
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I'm coming back. Looks like I'm going to pull
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away by 5. We have a few that are
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different. Four.
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I'll be up by 5, yeah. There you go.
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We'll see. We'll see.
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Seahawks. Broncos.
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I'm going Broncos even though Beau made a weird statement on
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on ESPN. I don't know why he did that.
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We need to talk to him. I don't either, but you're going
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to. Me.
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What you're going through? Yeah.
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Seahawks who you're going with? Seahawks.
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Yeah, we'll see. We'll see if I.
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Don't think scene double or not. Exactly.
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He's Ghost. He Yeah.
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I don't know. He hasn't been the same since he
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took that hit. Texans, Jags.
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We're both going for the Jags, Pats, Jets.
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We're both Pats cuz I think Drake may finally maybe coming
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out of whatever funk. He was in.
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You're saying that every week and we always hold our breath.
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I know I'll still hold my breath.
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Panthers. Eagles.
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I've got Bryce Young and Panthers and you are taking the
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Eagles. OK?
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Sounds good to me. Why not?
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I know, right? It's NFL.
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You never know what the hell going on.
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Wherever whatever big is going, Colin's going to win.
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Exactly. Steelers, Bucks.
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I've got the Steelers cuz Aaron Rodgers has been playing a
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little bit better. I just and there's no, there's
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no Baker without Baker. The Bucks are not the same.
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I took the bucks just cuz why not.
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Exactly anyway. It's the NFL.
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It's the NFL, you never know. Ravens, Browns.
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We both took the Ravens. Bears, Bears, Falcons.
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I've got the Falcons cuz of Bijan.
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Both Robinsons. Yeah, yeah.
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And you have the bears. The bears.
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The bears suck, yeah, but. There's no Caleb Williams.
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I don't think the Bears are. I don't think the Bears are
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better. I don't think the Bears are
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better until Caleb Williams. Comes back.
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So he might be back, yeah. I don't think so.
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Saints, Giants, giants. It gets porn.
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We're all the same, all the way through.
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Titans, Colts, Titans aren't going to win a game this season,
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I don't think. I doubt I say that now and the
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Colts will probably lose to the Titans.
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Rams. We got the Rams over the Cards.
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We got the Chiefs over the Chargers because poor, poor
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Chargers are going to be. Power outage?
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Yeah, not much of a charge there.
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Charger. I mean you got the Dolphins, the
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Dolphins Junk and and McDaniels. Anyway, the we have the Bills
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over the Raiders, the Packers over the Cowboys, and the Niners
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over the Commanders. Well, you said the Niners.
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I'm impressed. So follow us, see what see what
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happens next week. But if you have some good picks
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for this week because and we may need them for our for our bets.
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Otherwise we will see you next week talking about B movies and
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also we're going to be exotica next week.
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Forgot Exotica Thursday the 22nd in Edison, NJ.
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Come see us Thursday, Friday, Saturday or Friday, Saturday,
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Sunday. I don't know, I'm doing a panel
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that should be interesting. She's.
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Going to act smart for her. I'm going to try to be smart.
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We'll see. We'll see how it goes.
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But yeah, come out if you see us, come out, say hello and take
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a picture. Get a T-shirt.
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I don't know. We won't have T-shirts.
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For the stickers. Get T-shirt online Yeah.
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Get the T-shirts online. The merch is online.
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The link's in the description. Exactly.
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Anyway, come back and join us next week.
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We'll talk about movies. And if you made it this far, we
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appreciate it. Yep, thank you.
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Continue to watch our videos all way through we need.
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Our outro, Yeah. It's pretty cool.
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She cut me off. But check out the outro, yeah?