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I Have an Idea for You! · Secrets They'll Only Tell a Matchmaker with Gina Hendrix

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  OK, I have a radical and revolutionary idea for you guys.
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  All right, Are you ready? Get ready.
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  Might blow your minds. Here's an idea.
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  Instead of text messaging or just chatting with people in the
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  apps forever and ever and ever, how about getting on a call?
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  How about getting on a call? All right, a call is so
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  underrated and this is how you're going to cut to the
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  chase. I have some of my ladies doing
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  all these messages that goes on forever and then I'm like just
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  get on a call because here's the thing, on a call you are going
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  to find out everything that you're still unsure about.
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  So why type 1000 words to not ever get to the bottom?
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  When on a call, you can just ask and they can just answer.
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  It's the easiest way to cut to the chase.
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  It will change your dating game. In fact, I've been telling my
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  ladies this right when I work with them one-on-one and they're
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  doing it. So basically the way this goes
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  here's you do three or four back and forth flirty messages.
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  Nothing sexual, just playful because it dating should be
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  sexy, fun and flirty, not super serious.
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  So keep that in mind. So you exchange a couple few 3-4
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  at the most back and forth messages and then you say this.
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  If he hasn't suggested a call, and a lot of times men don't
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  know when to suggest the call. Chances are they've suggested a
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  call to some other woman in the past and it freaked her out.
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  OK, so they don't know when to suggest it.
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  So you need to, ladies, we're going to help them out a little
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  bit by doing this. You're going to say, hey, you
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  know, I'm not actually on the apps that much.
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  It might be better to get to know you on a call.
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  Going to use the words call because it's going to be a call.
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  You never want to go from messaging in the app to more
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  text messaging. Otherwise, what's the point of
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  leaving the app? OK, so a call then he's going to
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  say this. Yes, I would love to get on a
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  call. In fact, they're thanking my
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  ladies. Thank you for suggesting a call.
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  So many women never want to get on a call and they're grateful.
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  He'll say, sure, I'd love to get on a call.
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  Here's my number. But you say this because you
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  don't offer your number up front.
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  We want him to come back and say, sure, he'd love to get on a
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  call. He's excited.
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  He wants to do this. OK, I want effort from him.
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  So I don't want you to ever say let's get on a call.
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  Here's my number. No, you're going to say great.
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  Actually, I prefer if you call me.
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  Here's my number. I recommend, ladies, a Google
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  phone number to keep yourself safe, a Google phone number,
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  here's my number. Let me know when I can expect to
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  hear from you. Now you've kind of nailed it
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  down. So that he can give you some
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  days and times so it's not hanging in the ethers.
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  And then on a call, this is where you're going to ask him
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  anything. You're not sure about his
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  lifestyle, if he's legally divorced, does he want kids?
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  Does he have an interesting lifestyle?
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  Does he have a good job? Is he looking for a real
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  relationship? Has he dated much on Bumble?
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  What does he think about dating? These are important questions.
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  It's going to really be telling. And if God doesn't want to get
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  it on a call, He's already told you everything you need to know.
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  And if you have a great call and he doesn't schedule a date
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  afterwards, he's told you everything you need to know.
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  You don't want more calls, ladies.
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  You don't want to do that. It's an easy rinse and repeat
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  formula. I'm teaching my ladies all these
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  formulas and so much more about the insurance and outs of
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  dating. So if you want this kind of
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  help, if you want to work directly with me, I have a few
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  more spots. Do it now, ladies, if you want
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  this help, it's not matchmaking. It is me seeing what you're
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  doing on the dating apps and working directly with you.
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  And my ladies are killing it on the dating app.
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  So don't tell me there's no good men there.
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  Don't tell them they already know it.
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  If you want more help and you want to get the info from me, DM
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  me with the word love on IG, Matchmaker Gina Hendricks on IG
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  just like it is here on TikTok and I will talk to you soon and
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  then I go live this Sunday. Don't forget to join me 5:00 PM
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  Pacific Time inside Tick Tock. Talk to you soon.