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- 0:00Speaker 1: What Up Friends After Show podcast, brand new week justin here.
- 0:04Speaker 2: It's Monday. It's May fourth. May the fourth be with you.
- 0:06Speaker 1: If you're in the Star Wars today is your holiday. Anyway,
- 0:09Speaker 1: I hope you had a fantastic weekend. It was cold,
- 0:12Speaker 1: it was rainy, but I got to sleep in a
- 0:14Speaker 1: little bit. So if you work during the week and
- 0:17Speaker 1: the weekends of your time to sleep in, then you
- 0:20Speaker 1: had a good time.
- 0:20Speaker 2: Like I did.
- 0:22Speaker 1: Getting up early is so hard, man always so tired.
- 0:24Speaker 1: But we had some baseball this week that was this weekend.
- 0:27Speaker 2: That was good. They tied. It was actually a really
- 0:30Speaker 2: cool moment.
- 0:30Speaker 1: My son Abel tied against the team he was playing,
- 0:33Speaker 1: and his best friend Liam, who one of my best
- 0:36Speaker 1: friends Mike, that's his son, was on the other team.
- 0:39Speaker 1: So they played each other. And then at the end
- 0:41Speaker 1: of the game, last two innings, Liam got put into
- 0:45Speaker 1: pitch and actually pitched to Able. So two best friends
- 0:48Speaker 1: playing against each other. It was all in good fun.
- 0:51Speaker 1: But I spent hours at the baseball field because you know,
- 0:53Speaker 1: then my other friend had his son playing after that game,
- 0:56Speaker 1: so I was there for like six hours just watching baseball.
- 1:00Speaker 2: It was really cool. I like being a baseball dad.
- 1:02Speaker 2: It's fun.
- 1:03Speaker 1: But anyway, I hope you I helpe you had a
- 1:05Speaker 1: good weekend and everything is good in your life. I
- 1:07Speaker 1: appreciate you listening to this podcast. Remember you can always
- 1:10Speaker 1: check in on the talk back. She can always respond
- 1:12Speaker 1: to things I talk about.
- 1:14Speaker 2: I welcome that.
- 1:16Speaker 3: Justin it's Mo. I totally agree with you about that
- 1:20Speaker 3: idea of giving Jen the gifts to see her friends
- 1:23Speaker 3: from mother's say. I would do that, and then you
- 1:25Speaker 3: can get her a little something for her birthday when
- 1:27Speaker 3: it gets closer. That way she can plan. And I
- 1:30Speaker 3: feel like half the fun about our ship is anticipating it,
- 1:32Speaker 3: you know. So that's what I would do. You're so fossiful.
- 1:35Speaker 3: She's gonna love it, and I hope you have a
- 1:39Speaker 3: good weekend and five day streak of f sha army
- 1:43Speaker 3: love it.
- 1:44Speaker 2: Thank you, Mo.
- 1:45Speaker 1: I actually have an update to that. So she last
- 1:49Speaker 1: night she says, oh, you know, I gotta plan this trip.
- 1:53Speaker 1: I got a book it, and I said to her,
- 1:55Speaker 1: I'm booking it. I didn't want her to book it.
- 1:57Speaker 1: I go, I'm booking it. Here's my card. So I
- 1:59Speaker 1: took on my card for her to book it. She's
- 2:01Speaker 1: looking at the flights and I gotta love my I
- 2:03Speaker 1: love my wife, and she goes, oh my god, oh oh,
- 2:08Speaker 1: all set, all set. I'm like nice. She goes, oh, yeah,
- 2:11Speaker 1: I didn't even need your card, hands it back to
- 2:13Speaker 1: me and goes, I had points on Jet Blue. It
- 2:15Speaker 1: only cost me twenty dollars to book a round trip
- 2:19Speaker 1: flight to North Carolina. And I'm like, no, I wanted
- 2:22Speaker 1: to pay for it, so no, you don't have to
- 2:23Speaker 1: pay for It's fine. So now I'm on the plan B,
- 2:26Speaker 1: which is I don't know. That's how I was going
- 2:30Speaker 1: to get her. I was gonna get it. I was
- 2:31Speaker 1: gonna get it for her for her birthday and then
- 2:34Speaker 1: something else on Mother's Day.
- 2:35Speaker 2: I don't know. Now I'm stuck. So I don't know
- 2:37Speaker 2: what to do. Hmm.
- 2:41Speaker 1: It's it's not easy. My wife's really going through a
- 2:43Speaker 1: hard time. Not a hard time, but you know, I
- 2:45Speaker 1: shared a little bit of it on the podcast, with
- 2:47Speaker 1: her friend moving away and her not having kind of
- 2:51Speaker 1: you know, her bestie here. You know, I can really
- 2:55Speaker 1: I just really feel for her, you know. I didn't
- 2:58Speaker 1: realize that was that's what was going on until she
- 3:00Speaker 1: told me that because she had been kind of off
- 3:02Speaker 1: a little bit, not like sad or depressed, but just
- 3:05Speaker 1: kind of off. And then when we had a conversation
- 3:08Speaker 1: and she told me that now I really see it,
- 3:10Speaker 1: you know, think about it every day. You know, I
- 3:12Speaker 1: have friends that I see. I have friends that come
- 3:14Speaker 1: over to do the sauna and the ice bath. I
- 3:16Speaker 1: go to the gym. I have friends there. You know,
- 3:19Speaker 1: she doesn't have really anybody. You know, she has friends
- 3:22Speaker 1: that she has, friends that she sees, but not that much.
- 3:25Speaker 1: But she doesn't have you know, those people, that person.
- 3:28Speaker 1: And I really don't know how to how to help her,
- 3:30Speaker 1: aside from you know, sending her down to North Carolina
- 3:33Speaker 1: to see her friend. You know, you can't just develop
- 3:36Speaker 1: these relationships. I did suggest actually she was going to
- 3:39Speaker 1: do it last night, but then she had homework. Where
- 3:41Speaker 1: she has like two best friends, one in Carolina and
- 3:44Speaker 1: then the other one lives in Haveroll. But she's the
- 3:47Speaker 1: one that has you know, kids and grandkids. She's not
- 3:49Speaker 1: even that old, but she has grandkids. And they're only
- 3:51Speaker 1: two different kind of paths in life, not past, but
- 3:54Speaker 1: places in life. I suggested they do like a zoom.
- 3:57Speaker 1: I mean, it sounds silly, but once a week have
- 4:00Speaker 1: a zoom check in at a certain time, so maybe
- 4:02Speaker 1: every Sunday at seven o'clock they can jump on the
- 4:05Speaker 1: zoom and check in on the week, and at least
- 4:07Speaker 1: they can see each other and kind of talk about
- 4:09Speaker 1: things that you talk about with your best friends, you know,
- 4:12Speaker 1: when I think about my friends coming over, like my
- 4:15Speaker 1: friend Al and the plumber all my friend Mike, they
- 4:17Speaker 1: come over. We go on the sauna and we talk man.
- 4:20Speaker 1: We talk about life, We talk about our days, we
- 4:22Speaker 1: talk about our marriages, we talk about recovery, we talk
- 4:25Speaker 1: about all types of stuff. It's very therapeutic. And then
- 4:28Speaker 1: being in the sauna and sweating and stuff sounds weird,
- 4:30Speaker 1: but it's also therapeutic. So I understand that her not
- 4:33Speaker 1: having anybody, she spends the majority of her time with
- 4:35Speaker 1: a fucking three year old.
- 4:38Speaker 2: So I'm really hoping this trip is gonna help.
- 4:42Speaker 1: And I think next weekend from Mother's Day, we're gonna
- 4:45Speaker 1: we're gonna get a hotel room at this place she
- 4:47Speaker 1: was showing me last night.
- 4:48Speaker 2: It's like got the sick pool, it's got a whole
- 4:50Speaker 2: kid set up.
- 4:51Speaker 1: I try to do just her and I, but she
- 4:53Speaker 1: doesn't want to leave the kids with nanny on Mother's Day. Like, hey,
- 4:57Speaker 1: here's your gift watch our children. So we'll do that
- 5:00Speaker 1: this weekend.
- 5:01Speaker 2: And I don't know. I got to figure out o
- 5:02Speaker 2: this stuff anyway. What else is going to Just Mike.
- 5:04Speaker 4: From New Hampshire. I'm making one last pitch to try
- 5:07Speaker 4: and get those numbers from the Noah Kan contest. If
- 5:10Speaker 4: you can't give them to me, that's fine, I understand.
- 5:13Speaker 4: Please DM me on Instagram, you know my Instagram handle.
- 5:18Speaker 4: If you can give them to me, I'm just curious.
- 5:21Speaker 4: If not, I'm moving on to Olivery Rodrigo contest because
- 5:25Speaker 4: I would love to win those tickets. M can't wait
- 5:27Speaker 4: to hear what the contest is. Thank you rand much.
- 5:29Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, Mike, I do kind of have an answer
- 5:33Speaker 1: for you, but not really. So this was actually very annoying.
- 5:37Speaker 1: This is an after show exclusive. That's what you get here, right,
- 5:39Speaker 1: You get the behind the scenes stuff that you will
- 5:40Speaker 1: never ever hear on the regular show. So the iHeartRadio
- 5:44Speaker 1: app is national obviously, it's it's it's managed by the
- 5:48Speaker 1: national people, right, it's it's a big, big deal. So
- 5:52Speaker 1: we launched the contests. Now I don't really know the
- 5:54Speaker 1: whope is behind the scenes of it, but apparently they
- 5:56Speaker 1: found out that, yes, you can see how long each user,
- 5:59Speaker 1: you know, uses the app. So in our head and
- 6:03Speaker 1: this is why we said that we were going to
- 6:05Speaker 1: gather all the numbers, meaning that the people nationally were
- 6:07Speaker 1: going to provide this data to us that we would
- 6:10Speaker 1: then give to all of you. What didn't work out
- 6:13Speaker 1: like that When the time came, they just kind of
- 6:16Speaker 1: sent over the top five and then I said, well,
- 6:19Speaker 1: what about the data and the numbers? And I forget
- 6:21Speaker 1: what they said. They said, no, they didn't send that
- 6:23Speaker 1: data over. There really wasn't a reason why. It was
- 6:27Speaker 1: like something about it tracks that the by blocks or something.
- 6:33Speaker 1: I forget what it was. But they couldn't give us
- 6:36Speaker 1: an answer as to why. So I do not have
- 6:37Speaker 1: a total listening time, which is unfortunate. So yeah, I'm sorry, Mike.
- 6:43Speaker 1: I know you were, I know you listened a lot.
- 6:45Speaker 1: You weren't even in the top five. All the people
- 6:46Speaker 1: who left talkbacks were not even in the top five.
- 6:49Speaker 1: The guy that won had never left a talkback, the
- 6:53Speaker 1: guy in Bellingham. I'm like, he just listened NonStop for
- 6:56Speaker 1: fucking two weeks. I don't know, that's crazy, but he
- 7:00Speaker 1: was the winner. It was not like there's no sham
- 7:03Speaker 1: going on. They legit could see how long people listen for,
- 7:07Speaker 1: and they gave us that information.
- 7:08Speaker 2: They broke it down. They just didn't provide the numbers.
- 7:10Speaker 1: And when I tried to ask why, there was no
- 7:13Speaker 1: answer for it. It was like, oh no, they just
- 7:15Speaker 1: sent the top five. So sorry about that, Mike. I
- 7:17Speaker 1: know it's annoying. If it was a local thing, we would.
- 7:20Speaker 2: Have handled it. But it's kind of about out of
- 7:22Speaker 2: our hands. You know.
- 7:23Speaker 1: The iHeart app is a huge deal for the company,
- 7:26Speaker 1: so it's a whole like section of the company that
- 7:30Speaker 1: handles it. So it's still a really cool contest. And
- 7:33Speaker 1: now we're doing the Olivia Rodrigo, which is just the
- 7:36Speaker 1: top pack for tickets, which is a cool thing too.
- 7:38Speaker 1: You can tell we're trying to push app listening because
- 7:42Speaker 1: app listening is the future of radio if you think
- 7:45Speaker 1: about it. You know, radios are in cars obviously they
- 7:48Speaker 1: will always be, but the majority of people are listening
- 7:52Speaker 1: on the app, you know, whether they're at home or
- 7:56Speaker 1: they're working out in the headphones or a lot of
- 7:58Speaker 1: people are just bluetoothing the iHeart app to their radio.
- 8:03Speaker 1: It does sound clearer, but that's that's definitely the future
- 8:07Speaker 1: of radio. And the fact that you know, the company
- 8:10Speaker 1: created the iHeartRadio app when they did and kind of
- 8:12Speaker 1: saw and predicted that this was gonna come is actually
- 8:15Speaker 1: really smart.
- 8:16Speaker 2: It really is, I mean, And so we're.
- 8:18Speaker 1: Trying to really promote that app listening because I think
- 8:21Speaker 1: it's gonna help us keep jobs honestly, not us, like specifically,
- 8:24Speaker 1: but people in radio. Is the the app listening because
- 8:28Speaker 1: you know, the younger kids, man, they don't listen to
- 8:31Speaker 1: the radio the old school way. They listen to the
- 8:34Speaker 1: radio on the app. And you can really see that
- 8:36Speaker 1: when we do these contests, I know people are listening
- 8:38Speaker 1: to try to win. But even when we're not, even
- 8:43Speaker 1: when we're not giving stuff away, people are leaving talkbacks
- 8:46Speaker 1: on the app that are younger. So it's definitely working.
- 8:49Speaker 1: You know, we're trying to manage. It's a tough it's
- 8:51Speaker 1: a tough landscape in the in the in media. You know,
- 8:54Speaker 1: it really is. It's a tough tough landscape. But we
- 8:56Speaker 1: keep showing up, we keep doing our job and entertaining
- 9:00Speaker 1: and all that. One more thing I want to share
- 9:03Speaker 1: this weekend, I was at home with my wife and
- 9:08Speaker 1: I think I shared before about, you know, my dad
- 9:10Speaker 1: and he, you know, we have a good relationship, but
- 9:14Speaker 1: obviously it's been very constrained in the past, and I
- 9:17Speaker 1: had shared about how he kind of told me, you know,
- 9:19Speaker 1: that he was proud of me for the first time.
- 9:21Speaker 1: You know, he's a hard time. I know he is,
- 9:22Speaker 1: but he's a hard time saying it. I mean, my
- 9:24Speaker 1: dad's my house every weekend. We have conversations, but he's
- 9:26Speaker 1: really it's kind of that old school thing of like
- 9:29Speaker 1: showing emotions and so it bothered me, but it was
- 9:32Speaker 1: really nice when he finally did tell me that he
- 9:33Speaker 1: was proud of me. So this weekend or my wife
- 9:37Speaker 1: was telling me that the weekend before she went to
- 9:40Speaker 1: Great Wolf Lodge with my dad. She took nanny and
- 9:43Speaker 1: my dad and she said, I forgot to tell you this.
- 9:47Speaker 1: There was a it was a Monday morning. I didn't
- 9:49Speaker 1: go because it was Sunday and Monday, but there was
- 9:51Speaker 1: a Monday morning. They had gotten up and my dad
- 9:54Speaker 1: was like listening on his iPad and she said, Oh,
- 9:56Speaker 1: we're gonna go down to the to the pool, and
- 9:58Speaker 1: he goes, oh, can you give me like five minutes.
- 10:00Speaker 1: They go to commercial in five minutes and she was like,
- 10:02Speaker 1: what are you talking about? And he's like, oh, the show,
- 10:05Speaker 1: Justin's show they go to they go to commercial in
- 10:07Speaker 1: four minutes, and she said, you know it's commercial times.
- 10:09Speaker 1: He goes, yeah, I listen every day to the whole show.
- 10:11Speaker 1: I know, you know when they're going to commercial. I
- 10:13Speaker 1: know when their segments are coming. And she's like really
- 10:16Speaker 1: and he's like yeah, and he goes and they're number one.
- 10:18Speaker 2: Did you know that? Like they're number one, Like my
- 10:21Speaker 2: son is number one show in Boston. You know what
- 10:23Speaker 2: amazing that is. It was a really special moment for me.
- 10:27Speaker 1: Man, when she told me that, I'm like, wow, you know,
- 10:29Speaker 1: even though I know he has a hard time telling me,
- 10:32Speaker 1: I know that he's there and he's listening and he's
- 10:34Speaker 1: proud of me. So really cool moment, and I thank
- 10:36Speaker 1: my wife for sharing.
- 10:37Speaker 2: That with me.
- 10:39Speaker 1: All Right, I'll be back tomorrow. Wednesday, I'm speaking at
- 10:42Speaker 1: Andover High School. I'll talk more about this. This is
- 10:45Speaker 1: actually very cool. I got asked by an old friend
- 10:48Speaker 1: of mine who now works there, to come and speak
- 10:50Speaker 1: with the kids. I thought it was just a class,
- 10:53Speaker 1: and then last week he told me it's the entire school.
- 10:55Speaker 1: But that's okay. It'll be just fine. It's kind of
- 10:57Speaker 1: a it's kind of a Q and A type thing.
- 10:59Speaker 1: He's gonna moderate it, and I'll be up there on
- 11:01Speaker 1: stage with him kind of talking about my career and
- 11:03Speaker 1: my story, and then they have another speaker after me.
- 11:06Speaker 1: So that'll be good. That'll be Wednesday, but tomorrow's Tuesday.
- 11:10Speaker 1: We have to handle that first. So have a great day, everybody.
- 11:13Speaker 1: Remember send talkbacks in. I want to hear from you
- 11:15Speaker 1: all right.
- 11:15Speaker 2: Bye,