Latest / Two Broke Chicks / Life Lessons On Memory & Popcorn Brain With A Neuroscientist
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- 0:00Speaker 1: This podcast is recorded on gadigal Land Always was, always
- 0:03Speaker 1: will be Aboriginal Land.
- 0:12Speaker 2: Hey Jix, I'm sal and it feels so weird just
- 0:15Speaker 2: ending it there. But this is two broad Chicks, the
- 0:17Speaker 2: show that shares life lessons and tips to help make
- 0:19Speaker 2: you rich in life. And today Al's not with me
- 0:23Speaker 2: because she's had to jet off to Melbourne, so she
- 0:25Speaker 2: will be very sorely missed. But I'm not alone because
- 0:28Speaker 2: I am joined by the absolutely incredible doctor Leela Landowski,
- 0:34Speaker 2: Award winning neuroscientists, lecturer at the University of Tasmania and
- 0:37Speaker 2: Vice President of Science and Technology Australia.
- 0:41Speaker 3: Welcome, Thank you.
- 0:43Speaker 2: I am so excited to have you on the pod
- 0:45Speaker 2: today because we're talking all things productivity, memory, popcorn, brain,
- 0:50Speaker 2: So I feel like I've got a lot of questions
- 0:52Speaker 2: for you that I'm like, yeah, look, the chicks are
- 0:56Speaker 2: going to get a lot from this, but so am I.
- 0:58Speaker 2: So I'm excited to dive me in.
- 1:00Speaker 3: It sounds fabulous. I can't wait to talk about my
- 1:01Speaker 3: favorite body parts.
- 1:02Speaker 2: So it's good, the best one and honestly needs more attention.
- 1:07Speaker 2: But before we get into the juicy questions, what's your
- 1:10Speaker 2: life lesson?
- 1:10Speaker 3: Of the week. Look, I think my life lesson of
- 1:14Speaker 3: the week is probably like a life lesson of all
- 1:17Speaker 3: time for me, and I've learned that the richness of
- 1:19Speaker 3: life for me comes from the people in it, not
- 1:22Speaker 3: the stuff I have, not not anything else that's material,
- 1:25Speaker 3: But it's actually the connections with people, making new friends,
- 1:28Speaker 3: and having those really great people in your life.
- 1:31Speaker 2: Honestly, I think you kind of get that understanding more
- 1:35Speaker 2: and more as you grow up, because I know, for
- 1:37Speaker 2: me personally, in my early twenties, I was so and
- 1:40Speaker 2: I guess I still am, but you know, very career
- 1:42Speaker 2: oriented and really thought about that has been the biggest
- 1:45Speaker 2: marker of having a successful life. And then the more
- 1:48Speaker 2: amazing things I've experienced, which are all so great and
- 1:52Speaker 2: I'm so grateful for. It is like the relationships and
- 1:55Speaker 2: friendships that you have at the end of the day
- 1:56Speaker 2: that me and the most right.
- 1:58Speaker 3: Truly absolutely and you want to share them with people
- 2:00Speaker 3: who have the same values, who actually want the best
- 2:04Speaker 3: for you. I think young when we're younger, we just
- 2:07Speaker 3: we're friends with whoever's at school with. We don't necessarily
- 2:11Speaker 3: have things in common with them, And I think as
- 2:12Speaker 3: we get older as well, we meet people who are
- 2:16Speaker 3: on the same path of life or have those things
- 2:18Speaker 3: in common with us, And I think you can form
- 2:20Speaker 3: some really robust friendships because you have those things in.
- 2:23Speaker 2: Common exactly, instead of relationships by proximity, it's based on.
- 2:27Speaker 3: Values, yes, exactly.
- 2:29Speaker 2: Yeah, I love that. What a beautiful way to start
- 2:31Speaker 2: the episode. My life lesson is something that I saw
- 2:34Speaker 2: when I was scrolling this week that I actually thought
- 2:37Speaker 2: was kind of relevant to today's topic, and it's that
- 2:40Speaker 2: our skin is the largest sensory organ on our body,
- 2:44Speaker 2: which makes sense and seems super obvious, right, But then
- 2:47Speaker 2: I realize that's why it's so important to prioritize materials
- 2:52Speaker 2: that make you feel good and make you feel comfortable,
- 2:55Speaker 2: like whether that is your bedding or your clothes, and
- 2:58Speaker 2: being really conscious of that and how that has like
- 3:01Speaker 2: a huge impact on your mental health and what's going on.
- 3:04Speaker 2: Whereas I never really would have thought about that, or
- 3:06Speaker 2: you know, I guess gave that the attention that it needs.
- 3:11Speaker 2: That comfort truly is key.
- 3:14Speaker 3: Yeah, And I think the interesting thing about our skin
- 3:17Speaker 3: is it's kind of like, as far as our body
- 3:21Speaker 3: is concerned, it's like a low priority thing. So if
- 3:24Speaker 3: you're stressed it's going to take blood flow away from
- 3:27Speaker 3: the skin, and you're more likely to have pimples or
- 3:30Speaker 3: dry skin, or your hair might fall out or go gray.
- 3:34Speaker 3: So it's also like, yeah, it's really influenced by what's
- 3:38Speaker 3: happening in our lives. Holy shit.
- 3:41Speaker 2: See that's the thing I feel like every time I
- 3:45Speaker 2: like go to the doctor about something, they're like, it's
- 3:46Speaker 2: stress like care. But we'll get into that more in
- 3:51Speaker 2: this episode. But it's wild that it really is.
- 3:53Speaker 3: It's all connected, yeah truly. Yeah.
- 3:55Speaker 2: Okay, well, let's get into the juicy stuff of the
- 3:58Speaker 2: episode before we really dive in. Can you tell us
- 4:04Speaker 2: a little bit about yourself and how you got into neuroscience.
- 4:08Speaker 3: I never wanted to be a neuroscientist. I never planned
- 4:11Speaker 3: to be a neuroscientist. I always wanted to work in
- 4:15Speaker 3: developing therapies for things. So when I was at a
- 4:18Speaker 3: grades for school camp, I caught my first fish and
- 4:22Speaker 3: I remember holding it and it was disgusting. It was
- 4:24Speaker 3: covered in slime and this slime was kind of like
- 4:27Speaker 3: forming webbing between my fingers, and I just yeah, I'd
- 4:30Speaker 3: heard of things like shark lever oil or like fish
- 4:33Speaker 3: extracts that could be helpful for people, and I remember
- 4:36Speaker 3: holding it thinking, Oh, wouldn't it be cool if one day,
- 4:38Speaker 3: when I grow up, I could find a fish extract
- 4:41Speaker 3: that could help people. And that was really my naive
- 4:44Speaker 3: idea that I took all the way through to Union
- 4:46Speaker 3: because I didn't have any mentors. I didn't have anyone
- 4:47Speaker 3: who could kind of guide me in life. So I
- 4:50Speaker 3: did a ultimately did a degree in medical research. And
- 4:55Speaker 3: when I was doing that degree, I was sitting in
- 4:58Speaker 3: a neuroscience lecture and the neuroscientist that was giving that
- 5:02Speaker 3: lecture was talking about some of his work and I
- 5:04Speaker 3: remember looking at it thinking I maybe have a different
- 5:07Speaker 3: way to interpret what he's talking about, and maybe I
- 5:10Speaker 3: wanted to really test this idea that I'd had, And
- 5:12Speaker 3: I ended up testing that I did doing a doctorate
- 5:15Speaker 3: in neuroscience and then making that my career. And the
- 5:18Speaker 3: cool thing is is that through that work, I discovered
- 5:21Speaker 3: a natural protein that could regenerate nerves in the skin,
- 5:24Speaker 3: and that protein can be found in fish. So it's
- 5:27Speaker 3: almost like life came full circle.
- 5:29Speaker 2: Oh my god, the fish oil prophecy came true. I
- 5:33Speaker 2: love how that's the mind blowing, life altering realizations you
- 5:39Speaker 2: were having when you were in here.
- 5:40Speaker 3: For it's one of those things that like, unless you've
- 5:42Speaker 3: been exposed to something, you don't know that you might
- 5:45Speaker 3: want to do it as a career. So we're totally
- 5:47Speaker 3: influenced by what we see on TV. And yeah, pretty
- 5:49Speaker 3: spit is awesome, Like who wouldn't want to be her?
- 5:52Speaker 2: True? So so true. But I think it's really interesting because,
- 5:56Speaker 2: like we were saying, all of these things are connected,
- 5:58Speaker 2: like when we were talking about the relationship between your
- 6:01Speaker 2: brain and your body and your mental health and how
- 6:04Speaker 2: a lot of these things that we think are different
- 6:06Speaker 2: parts of our body and they have their own functions,
- 6:08Speaker 2: which they do, but they truly are all very, very related.
- 6:12Speaker 2: And in you know, today's society, we're so productivity and
- 6:16Speaker 2: output focused. But has our constant need and chase for
- 6:20Speaker 2: productivity made us less productive?
- 6:22Speaker 3: Yeah, definitely, because I mean, our brain can only do
- 6:27Speaker 3: so much, and we're constantly pushing it and pushing it
- 6:30Speaker 3: and trying to do more and more with what we've
- 6:33Speaker 3: got right, And one of the big things that happens
- 6:36Speaker 3: is we're constantly context switching, so we're doing one thing
- 6:38Speaker 3: and then we're doing the next thing, And I mean
- 6:40Speaker 3: just think of it like this. If you're let's say
- 6:43Speaker 3: you're in a kitchen making a meal, and then every
- 6:46Speaker 3: five minutes so you have to go to another kitchen
- 6:48Speaker 3: to start making another meal. You never finished the first one,
- 6:50Speaker 3: and then you go to the next one. You've got
- 6:52Speaker 3: to figure out what this new recipe is and you've
- 6:54Speaker 3: got to you know, it takes time, and that's basically
- 6:56Speaker 3: kind of what the brain is doing each time we context,
- 6:58Speaker 3: which we've got to take time time to refill what
- 7:02Speaker 3: we call our working memory with whatever it is that
- 7:04Speaker 3: we're doing. And like it just it basically costs the brain,
- 7:08Speaker 3: so it takes a lot of energy and it's just
- 7:10Speaker 3: really inefficient. So we're never multitasking. What we're doing is
- 7:14Speaker 3: really task switching, and it's just really inefficient for the brain.
- 7:19Speaker 2: Wow, that's so interesting because typically we would have seen
- 7:23Speaker 2: like having a skill to multitask is like a badge
- 7:25Speaker 2: of honor, and that women are especially expected to multitask
- 7:31Speaker 2: and juggle multiple things at once. And it's like, yeah,
- 7:34Speaker 2: that's probably good to be able to do to a point,
- 7:36Speaker 2: but a lot of the time it's to our detriment.
- 7:38Speaker 3: Right, And look, honestly, we never really had to multitask
- 7:42Speaker 3: as much as we did today. Like, yeah, back in
- 7:45Speaker 3: the day, you'd have a village that would bring up
- 7:47Speaker 3: a family, you know, you wouldn't just be trying to
- 7:49Speaker 3: do everything and trying to juggle everything. And I think
- 7:52Speaker 3: this not just the emotional load, but the need to
- 7:56Speaker 3: get kids to an appointment or worry about it, you know,
- 7:59Speaker 3: worry about sports or all of these different things. We're
- 8:02Speaker 3: worrying about, navigating traffic, all of these things take a
- 8:05Speaker 3: lot of mental load, and that has consequences. You know,
- 8:09Speaker 3: like we've gone so far away from the way we
- 8:13Speaker 3: as social beings were meant to live. You know, we're
- 8:16Speaker 3: really we've forced ourselves into this nuclear family, and we
- 8:19Speaker 3: put all this pressure on ourselves and you know, maybe
- 8:22Speaker 3: our significant other to get things done. But we've actually never,
- 8:25Speaker 3: really in human history, had to do that until recently.
- 8:28Speaker 2: Yeah, Like so many of the things that occupy our
- 8:31Speaker 2: brain space and sources of stress are things that probably
- 8:34Speaker 2: didn't even exist fifty one hundred and thousands of years ago,
- 8:39Speaker 2: right exactly.
- 8:40Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean, now we have to worry about getting
- 8:43Speaker 3: stuck in traffic or you know, is there going to
- 8:45Speaker 3: be a breakdown on the road or all of these
- 8:48Speaker 3: things that you know are part of our life now
- 8:50Speaker 3: but never used to be part of our lives. And
- 8:53Speaker 3: being certain places at a certain time, you know, before
- 8:56Speaker 3: you just do things as they arise and go with
- 8:59Speaker 3: the flow, you'd have that kind of we call it
- 9:02Speaker 3: time affluence. So when you feel like you've got control
- 9:04Speaker 3: of your time, then you feel happier and you're less stressed.
- 9:08Speaker 3: But in today's society, where you're running from one thing
- 9:10Speaker 3: to the next and you don't feel like you have
- 9:12Speaker 3: any control over things, that's a stressor and it's not
- 9:15Speaker 3: good for us.
- 9:34Speaker 2: You did a really interesting TED talk that I wanted
- 9:37Speaker 2: to tap into a little bit, and you spoke about
- 9:40Speaker 2: hacks for learning faster. So what are six hacks to
- 9:44Speaker 2: learn faster?
- 9:45Speaker 3: They sound really logical, but when I explain it will
- 9:48Speaker 3: make more sense. So attention, alertness, sleep, repetition, breaks, and mistakes.
- 9:54Speaker 3: So in order to learn something, you need to be
- 9:56Speaker 3: paying attention to it right. You can't be distracted. You've
- 9:58Speaker 3: got to give it your attention. Then you'll you've got
- 10:01Speaker 3: to be alert. You know, if you're tired and sleepy,
- 10:03Speaker 3: then it's going to be hard to pay attention. You
- 10:06Speaker 3: need to keep repeating the thing that you're doing, because
- 10:09Speaker 3: basically the brain doesn't want to change, and in order
- 10:14Speaker 3: for you to learn, your brain is physically changing. It's
- 10:16Speaker 3: making these brand new little connections called signapses between neurons
- 10:20Speaker 3: when you're learning right, and the brain isn't going to
- 10:23Speaker 3: want to put all that energy into making these new
- 10:25Speaker 3: connections if it's something that you've only done once. And
- 10:28Speaker 3: so when you're repeating something, it's basically flagging to your
- 10:32Speaker 3: brain and saying, hey, this is important because it keeps
- 10:35Speaker 3: coming up over and over again. So let's actually physically
- 10:38Speaker 3: change and make that process easier and more efficient. So
- 10:41Speaker 3: repetition is really critical when it comes to learning. Sleep
- 10:45Speaker 3: is important too, So you know, we used to think
- 10:48Speaker 3: that sleep was a bit of a waste of time,
- 10:49Speaker 3: you know, spending a third of our lives in suspended animation,
- 10:53Speaker 3: just like chilling.
- 10:54Speaker 2: But that's how I want to Okay, what's up that,
- 10:58Speaker 2: Let's bring that percentage up.
- 10:59Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, And it's like it's like actually critical for learning.
- 11:03Speaker 3: So when we're doing things throughout the course of the day,
- 11:05Speaker 3: we're putting things into a short term memory storage. So
- 11:08Speaker 3: part of our brain, called the hippo campus is really
- 11:11Speaker 3: just keeping track of what we're doing and what's sort
- 11:13Speaker 3: of important. So if I was to ask you what
- 11:17Speaker 3: you were doing this morning or what you had for breakfast,
- 11:19Speaker 3: you're using your hippo campus to recall that information. And
- 11:22Speaker 3: when we go to sleep, basically all of those important
- 11:25Speaker 3: things throughout the course of the day get flitted off
- 11:27Speaker 3: into other parts of our long term memory storage. So
- 11:31Speaker 3: if you don't sleep, the short term stuff doesn't get
- 11:34Speaker 3: converted into long term memory. So you know, that's why
- 11:38Speaker 3: it's so important to sleep. You have to think of
- 11:39Speaker 3: sleep almost as is really the time when your brain
- 11:43Speaker 3: is changing and actually doing the consolidation the actual learning.
- 11:46Speaker 2: Yeah, it's doing its file story.
- 11:48Speaker 3: Yeah that time. Yeah, we often feel bad when we
- 11:52Speaker 3: make a mistake, and we kind of feel a bit
- 11:55Speaker 3: anxious and it's not a nice feeling. Yeah, but really
- 11:59Speaker 3: mistakes are really important when it comes to learning. So
- 12:02Speaker 3: when we make a mistake and we feel a bit
- 12:04Speaker 3: anxious and you know, we're feeling uncomfortable, what's actually happening
- 12:08Speaker 3: is our brain is releasing all of these neurochemicals that
- 12:12Speaker 3: are actually helping us to pay attention. That's where the
- 12:14Speaker 3: agitation comes from. It's actually creating these neurochemicals to make
- 12:18Speaker 3: us focus on the thing that we just did wrong.
- 12:21Speaker 3: And I guess the next part of that is it's
- 12:23Speaker 3: also opening up this little window of neuroplasticity. So whatever
- 12:26Speaker 3: we do next, the brain's much more likely to be
- 12:28Speaker 3: a bit of a sponge and take up. So we
- 12:31Speaker 3: make a mistake, we feel a bit anxious, but it's
- 12:33Speaker 3: our brain's way of preparing us to pay attention. And
- 12:36Speaker 3: then we do it again and hopefully get it right.
- 12:39Speaker 3: And when we get it right, our brain releases other
- 12:42Speaker 3: chemicals like dopamine, and it makes that memory stick into place.
- 12:46Speaker 3: So when you're trying to learn something, don't just wait
- 12:50Speaker 3: until you're ready to test your knowledge. Just keep testing
- 12:54Speaker 3: yourself as you go. Like if you're trying to play
- 12:56Speaker 3: a sport, get it wrong, you know, make it difficult.
- 13:00Speaker 3: Let's say you're trying to play basketball, take a weird
- 13:03Speaker 3: shot at a weird angle and test yourself. Allow yourself
- 13:06Speaker 3: to make that mistake because that way, yes, you might
- 13:10Speaker 3: get it wrong at first, but also you're making your
- 13:12Speaker 3: brain remember how to do it right a lot better
- 13:14Speaker 3: and it becomes a lot more efficient. Let's say you're
- 13:17Speaker 3: trying to learn a speech or something. Don't wait until
- 13:21Speaker 3: you think you've memorized it all to actually say it
- 13:23Speaker 3: all out loud. Just actually say it when you don't
- 13:26Speaker 3: know it. You'll actually have a much better chance of
- 13:29Speaker 3: consolidating that information. I think we often tell ourselves that
- 13:34Speaker 3: when we make a mistake, it's a bad thing, but
- 13:35Speaker 3: actually it's the best thing we can do for learning.
- 13:38Speaker 3: We really need to embrace that discomfort and that feeling
- 13:41Speaker 3: and lean into it.
- 13:43Speaker 2: Yeah, do you have any hacks for anybody who, especially
- 13:46Speaker 2: like in a corporate workplace kind of or any sort
- 13:49Speaker 2: of workplace scenario, when you make a mistake, what should
- 13:53Speaker 2: be the next step to really take advantage of some
- 13:55Speaker 2: of those chemical reactions that are happening in your brain
- 13:59Speaker 2: that because I know for me, if I make a mistake,
- 14:02Speaker 2: that feeling kicks in. But sometimes that can be quite
- 14:05Speaker 2: overwhelming and it feels more like debilitating rather than being like, Okay,
- 14:10Speaker 2: how do I jump on and like take advantage of
- 14:12Speaker 2: this and see it is a bit of a superpower?
- 14:14Speaker 2: Like what would be the next best steps on using
- 14:18Speaker 2: that as a learning opportunity instead of like spiraling and
- 14:21Speaker 2: potentially being mean to yourself about the mistake. That you made.
- 14:24Speaker 3: I think knowledge is power. I think knowing that that
- 14:26Speaker 3: discomfort is actually your brain just helping you to be
- 14:29Speaker 3: the best version of yourself, and leaning into that it
- 14:31Speaker 3: makes it easier. If you don't know that, then of
- 14:33Speaker 3: course you're just going to be like, this feels horrible,
- 14:35Speaker 3: let's walk away from it and let's just not try again. Yeah,
- 14:38Speaker 3: but if you know that actually it's just a good
- 14:41Speaker 3: thing ultimately, then you can sort of lean into it
- 14:44Speaker 3: a bit better.
- 14:44Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, all right, cool, So did we get through
- 14:47Speaker 2: all six? We had alertnessleep breaks.
- 14:51Speaker 1: Yeah.
- 14:52Speaker 3: Breaks. So, especially in you know, if you're twenty five
- 14:57Speaker 3: or above, we know that if you take if you
- 15:01Speaker 3: try and do something else as as soon as you've
- 15:03Speaker 3: finished learning something, those brand new memories are really fragile,
- 15:07Speaker 3: and they're really easy to get like overwritten in your brain,
- 15:11Speaker 3: and so you really need to spend time taking a
- 15:15Speaker 3: break and just letting yourself mull over whatever it is
- 15:17Speaker 3: that you've done. So let's say you've just sat down
- 15:20Speaker 3: to learn something and then you finished learning, and then
- 15:23Speaker 3: you go and scroll on your phone. That's pretty much
- 15:25Speaker 3: the worst thing you can do because you're using those
- 15:28Speaker 3: you know, you're putting irrelevant information into your brain, and
- 15:31Speaker 3: you have a much bigger chance of sort of overwriting
- 15:34Speaker 3: those new memories, but actually taking a break and then
- 15:37Speaker 3: just chilling out. And when you're in that space of
- 15:41Speaker 3: just chilling out, you're actually replaying the things that you've
- 15:44Speaker 3: just done. You're not aware of it necessarily, but you're
- 15:46Speaker 3: actually thinking through it, you're actually processing it. And when
- 15:49Speaker 3: you're processing it, it's actually another form of repetition, so
- 15:52Speaker 3: you're just actually practicing it. So an example of this
- 15:56Speaker 3: is they did a study in people who are learning
- 15:58Speaker 3: how to play the piano, and when you take a break,
- 16:01Speaker 3: like a twenty second break after learning that little sequence,
- 16:04Speaker 3: your brain is replaying it afterwards, and you're just actually
- 16:08Speaker 3: repeating that information in your mind, and it does that
- 16:11Speaker 3: really really quickly. So it's a really useful thing to do.
- 16:16Speaker 3: One thing I didn't mention when we're talking about alertness,
- 16:18Speaker 3: So it's really important to be alert in order for
- 16:21Speaker 3: you to learn. And one of the best things to
- 16:23Speaker 3: do is actually just get a little bit of exercise,
- 16:25Speaker 3: get your heart rate pumping. So let's say you've got
- 16:27Speaker 3: an important meeting that you need to or you're about
- 16:31Speaker 3: to sit down to learn, go for a run, or
- 16:33Speaker 3: run up and down the stairs, or do star jumps,
- 16:35Speaker 3: do whatever it is to get those chemicals. These neurochemicals,
- 16:40Speaker 3: they don't just affect your body, they affect your brain
- 16:42Speaker 3: as well, and they help you feel more alert and
- 16:44Speaker 3: pay attention to what you're about to do.
- 16:46Speaker 2: Oh, I like that. Is it cardio especially? Is that
- 16:50Speaker 2: the sort of exercise that people should be doing, or
- 16:52Speaker 2: is there anything.
- 16:53Speaker 3: Well, you really whatever it is to get your heart
- 16:55Speaker 3: rate up? Okay, yeah, so you really want to get
- 16:57Speaker 3: those things like adrenaline and more adrenaline released in order
- 17:01Speaker 3: to make you feel, you know, a bit more peppy
- 17:04Speaker 3: and help you pay attention. That's a really good hack.
- 17:08Speaker 2: I like that because it's super achievable. And I think
- 17:12Speaker 2: something else that I've seen just doing research and stuff
- 17:15Speaker 2: for the show is I read an article by neuroscientists.
- 17:19Speaker 2: I find it and I'll link it in the show notes.
- 17:21Speaker 2: But she was saying that actually, when we take breaks
- 17:26Speaker 2: is when our brain can be creative, and that boredom
- 17:30Speaker 2: truly is what fuels creativity. And because we're constantly pacifying
- 17:35Speaker 2: ourselves with media, whether that's scrolling on your phone or
- 17:39Speaker 2: always having a podcast playing or always listening to music,
- 17:42Speaker 2: or going into the shower and putting YouTube on, whatever
- 17:45Speaker 2: it is. Like, we have that constant chase now and
- 17:49Speaker 2: we don't ever let our brains be quiet exactly.
- 17:52Speaker 3: We don't let ourselves be bored, and being bored is
- 17:56Speaker 3: one of the greatest things we can do for creativity.
- 17:58Speaker 3: So part of our brain we call the default mode network.
- 18:03Speaker 3: It doesn't matter what it's called, but it's basically where
- 18:05Speaker 3: our brain starts wandering and we start thinking about ideas
- 18:09Speaker 3: and connecting them in like weird and abstract ways. That's
- 18:12Speaker 3: what we come up with our creative ideas. You know,
- 18:14Speaker 3: the genius moments happens when you're bored, like when you're
- 18:18Speaker 3: in the shower wherever it might be. And this is
- 18:21Speaker 3: maybe a little bit of a kind of weird concept,
- 18:25Speaker 3: but bear with me for a second. So in human history,
- 18:30Speaker 3: the time where people weren't suddenly worrying about shelter and
- 18:35Speaker 3: worrying about food and finally actually had time to be bored,
- 18:38Speaker 3: that's when human civilization really blossomed. So the Bronze Age
- 18:43Speaker 3: is a time where they got figured out to mix
- 18:46Speaker 3: these metals together and develop bronze, and it allowed them
- 18:49Speaker 3: to make these tools, like you know, like things to
- 18:53Speaker 3: use for agriculture, to make buildings, all those sorts of things.
- 18:57Speaker 3: So suddenly it was really easy to get lots of food,
- 19:00Speaker 3: was suddenly great to make lots of shelter. All those
- 19:03Speaker 3: things that used to be problems on a daily basis
- 19:06Speaker 3: now no longer were there. So suddenly people had time
- 19:10Speaker 3: to be bored. They had time to work on artisan crafts.
- 19:14Speaker 3: That's where mathematics was developed, that's where language was developed.
- 19:17Speaker 3: It all came from humans not being in a fair
- 19:21Speaker 3: state anymore and actually being able to be bored and
- 19:23Speaker 3: therefore be creative. So, really, boredom is where the root
- 19:28Speaker 3: of human civilization came from. It's such an important thing,
- 19:32Speaker 3: and we're always we don't let ourselves be bort It's
- 19:34Speaker 3: almost like we can't sit down without just scrolling our phones.
- 19:39Speaker 3: Were always looking for a way to fill the time.
- 19:42Speaker 2: Yeah, Which is that like an anxiety response or is
- 19:46Speaker 2: it like a habit loop that we've kind of just
- 19:49Speaker 2: found ourselves in.
- 19:50Speaker 3: Like why is that Probably a bit of both? Yeah,
- 19:53Speaker 3: Because I mean social media it gives us what we want.
- 19:58Speaker 3: It's acute, interesting cat fit. It's a funny bit of content.
- 20:03Speaker 3: It's an interesting podcast, it's interesting, it's a great way
- 20:06Speaker 3: to fill the time, and being bored can sometimes feel uncomfortable.
- 20:09Speaker 3: So it's almost like we're self soothing ourselves. If you
- 20:12Speaker 3: don't have to be bored, then why would you bother?
- 20:14Speaker 2: Yeah? Okay, And a lot of these things impact memory,
- 20:18Speaker 2: right because, like you said, if you're not getting enough sleep,
- 20:21Speaker 2: or if we're constantly pacifying our souls as some of
- 20:24Speaker 2: these things, we're not giving our brain the chance to
- 20:26Speaker 2: do that busy work. It needs to file things away.
- 20:29Speaker 2: But I wanted to ask you what about the concept
- 20:32Speaker 2: of false memories, Like what's with that, because you know,
- 20:37Speaker 2: sometimes you'll be like, no, I swear I sent that
- 20:39Speaker 2: birthday message. I swear I did, and then you look
- 20:41Speaker 2: and you're like, no I didn't.
- 20:42Speaker 3: Yeah. I mean at the end of the day, we
- 20:45Speaker 3: sort of think of our we like to think of
- 20:47Speaker 3: our memories being like CCTV footage, like it's a perfect
- 20:51Speaker 3: recollection of things, but it's not. It's really a collection
- 20:55Speaker 3: of memories that we then try and piece together when
- 20:59Speaker 3: we trying to recall what might have happened at a
- 21:02Speaker 3: certain thing. And that also means that it's really vulnerable
- 21:05Speaker 3: to change as well. So the longer we spend after
- 21:10Speaker 3: an event has happened and we try and recall what
- 21:13Speaker 3: happened at that event, then the more likely it is
- 21:16Speaker 3: that those memories can be changed and can be influenced
- 21:19Speaker 3: by things that we've done. So let's just say we
- 21:23Speaker 3: went to a party a couple of weeks ago, and
- 21:25Speaker 3: I have my version of what happened at that party,
- 21:28Speaker 3: but you tell me that you remember that something else happened,
- 21:30Speaker 3: and we have that conversation, then my brain might start
- 21:34Speaker 3: to sort of piece that into the memory of what happened,
- 21:37Speaker 3: even though I never was there, I never actually saw it.
- 21:39Speaker 3: And we see that all the time. And that's sort
- 21:42Speaker 3: of why we have this thing called a statute of
- 21:45Speaker 3: limitations in the court process when someone has experienced something
- 21:49Speaker 3: traumatic or whatever it might be, and they're trying you know,
- 21:54Speaker 3: I guess because those memories aren't as trustworthy as time
- 21:59Speaker 3: goes on, it's hard to use that as evidence.
- 22:02Speaker 2: Yeah, like, our contexts and perceptions and other influencers can
- 22:07Speaker 2: really impact our memory totally. Yeah, that's so interesting. I
- 22:11Speaker 2: think that's very validating in a way because it happens
- 22:14Speaker 2: more and more as you get older as well, So
- 22:17Speaker 2: I think it can be a little bit unnerving, but
- 22:19Speaker 2: it's good to know that it is, you know, sort
- 22:21Speaker 2: of just a natural process. What about popcorn brain?
- 22:43Speaker 3: Popcorn brain? Ah, so it's this, well, I guess it's
- 22:47Speaker 3: a pop term that sort of mean describes how our
- 22:50Speaker 3: brain sort of bounces about from one thing to the next.
- 22:52Speaker 3: Our attention is constantly shifting and popping around. But really
- 22:56Speaker 3: that's also kind of because of social media a lot.
- 22:59Speaker 3: So if it think about it like this, so our
- 23:01Speaker 3: brain is really good at learning from things that we
- 23:05Speaker 3: do all the time. And if we're constantly using our
- 23:07Speaker 3: phones and seeing one bit of information and then seeing
- 23:10Speaker 3: a different kind of bit of information, we're constantly actually
- 23:13Speaker 3: context switching. We're looking at one thing and looking at
- 23:16Speaker 3: the next thing. So we're actually training our brain to
- 23:19Speaker 3: have bad attention. We're training it to be able to
- 23:21Speaker 3: move from one thing to the next, because that's what
- 23:24Speaker 3: you know, that's what we're doing. And so the more
- 23:26Speaker 3: you do that, the easier it becomes. And so our
- 23:29Speaker 3: brain will just naturally move from one thing to the next.
- 23:32Speaker 1: Yeah.
- 23:32Speaker 2: Right, And because in some of the things that I've
- 23:35Speaker 2: read around popcorn brain a lot of people talk about
- 23:38Speaker 2: it in relation to women, and that a lot of
- 23:40Speaker 2: women experiencing Why is.
- 23:41Speaker 3: That in particular, Well, I guess the more you have
- 23:45Speaker 3: other stresses in life, or the more burdens you might
- 23:48Speaker 3: have in other places, the more you're likely to have
- 23:51Speaker 3: a fragmented attention span. So let's say you've got a
- 23:54Speaker 3: huge emotional load trying to figure out things in the
- 23:56Speaker 3: house and juggling family or whatever it might be, or
- 24:01Speaker 3: you know, we're hustling, we're doing lots of different jobs.
- 24:03Speaker 3: Then you're already a bit stressed, right, and so that
- 24:08Speaker 3: burden of stress makes a lot harder to pay attention
- 24:11Speaker 3: to things. It actually fragments our ability to pay attention.
- 24:15Speaker 3: So when you're really stressed in life, it affects the brain.
- 24:19Speaker 3: And it's not just a small effect. It's actually quite significant.
- 24:23Speaker 3: So let's say you're worrying about paying the bills, and
- 24:28Speaker 3: you're worrying about covering rent, and you're worrying about getting
- 24:33Speaker 3: from A to B, and you're worrying about everything else
- 24:36Speaker 3: at home, and you're worrying about your job. That is
- 24:39Speaker 3: a chronic stress, and over time it changes our brain
- 24:41Speaker 3: structure and the way we behave So one of the
- 24:44Speaker 3: things it does is it makes your hippocampus, the brain's
- 24:47Speaker 3: memory center, shrink, like brain cells actually die and so
- 24:51Speaker 3: your memory gets worse.
- 24:53Speaker 2: So stress is shrinking our brains.
- 24:55Speaker 3: Yeah, and well actually makes one part of the brain bigger.
- 24:58Speaker 3: It makes the emotion out of the brain bigger, which
- 25:02Speaker 3: is why we get more emotional and more visceral and
- 25:05Speaker 3: just a bit more reactive to things because it's I mean,
- 25:10Speaker 3: that's it makes sense. Like if you're if you have
- 25:13Speaker 3: if you've constantly got stress in your life, then the
- 25:15Speaker 3: part of your brain that's involved with dealing with stress
- 25:18Speaker 3: wants to get bigger so you can deal with the
- 25:20Speaker 3: next stress that comes along.
- 25:21Speaker 2: Oh my god, Yeah, you've just blown my mind. I
- 25:25Speaker 2: just had like a that was a real like one
- 25:27Speaker 2: plus one equals too moment. Yeah.
- 25:29Speaker 3: But it's also like we have to remind ourselves it's
- 25:31Speaker 3: not that we've changed as a person. It's not that
- 25:33Speaker 3: we've become more angry or aggressive. It's just that our
- 25:35Speaker 3: brain is doing its best to try and cope with
- 25:37Speaker 3: that situation. So it's not our fault. So we need
- 25:39Speaker 3: to be kind to ourselves as well.
- 25:41Speaker 2: Can you reverse some of those things?
- 25:43Speaker 3: Yeah, you definitely can. So, I mean, I guess the
- 25:46Speaker 3: rule of thumb is that the longer you've been stressed
- 25:49Speaker 3: and the longer it's going to take to bounce back.
- 25:52Speaker 3: But some of the great things to do to reduce
- 25:54Speaker 3: the level of stress or to reduce the impact of
- 25:57Speaker 3: stress are things like exercise. So exercise helps you make
- 26:01Speaker 3: new brain cells. In the hippo camphus it makes it bigger.
- 26:04Speaker 3: You can do things like mindfulness or meditation practices, which
- 26:07Speaker 3: are really great as well. You can do breathing techniques.
- 26:10Speaker 3: You might have heard the physiological sigh, So it's where
- 26:13Speaker 3: you do this. It's really the best way to de
- 26:15Speaker 3: escalate a panic attack. Actually, so do me through. You
- 26:19Speaker 3: do two inhales through your nose and then a long exhale.
- 26:22Speaker 3: So I'll show you in a second. But an example
- 26:25Speaker 3: of it is imagine, you know when a kid might
- 26:29Speaker 3: might be throwing a tantrum, or you're crying really really hard,
- 26:31Speaker 3: and you just you go, that's actually the physiological side.
- 26:36Speaker 3: We don't even know we're doing it. We're actually self
- 26:38Speaker 3: soothing ourselves. Yeah, so it's two inhales through the nose.
- 26:43Speaker 3: So the second inhale is just like fully filling up
- 26:45Speaker 3: the lungs with air and then a long exhale, so
- 26:48Speaker 3: you have to spend a longer time exhaling. It has
- 26:50Speaker 3: to be in that order, otherwise it doesn't really work.
- 26:53Speaker 3: So let's do it together. So two inhales and then
- 26:55Speaker 3: a long exhale and then we'll do it again.
- 26:57Speaker 2: Okay, so in heal through the nose, exhal through them out.
- 27:01Speaker 2: Let's do it together.
- 27:01Speaker 3: Takes ready r WHOA do you feel that?
- 27:21Speaker 1: Yeah?
- 27:22Speaker 3: I mean I do it three times, you'll watch your
- 27:25Speaker 3: heart rate go down. I already feel way more chill.
- 27:27Speaker 1: Like that's yeah, you.
- 27:29Speaker 2: Better do that every part just halfway through.
- 27:32Speaker 3: And if you do it for five minutes, then it
- 27:34Speaker 3: has like really measurable effects on how your body is functioning.
- 27:37Speaker 3: Just it's like the greatest hack almost, but it's not
- 27:40Speaker 3: a hack. It's what our body does anyway. Yeah.
- 27:42Speaker 2: But it's being conscious of that too, because if you're
- 27:45Speaker 2: like you know, like you said, if you're crying or
- 27:47Speaker 2: if you're spiraling a little bit and your body's doing
- 27:49Speaker 2: it once, it's like sure, I'm sure that helps. But
- 27:53Speaker 2: if you're conscious of it, and say, if you're in
- 27:55Speaker 2: a really stressful work situation, you're like, I'm going to
- 27:58Speaker 2: go for a walk quickly, to go to the bathroom
- 28:01Speaker 2: quickly and spend a few minutes doing that. I'm sure
- 28:04Speaker 2: being more conscious about it and actually giving that the
- 28:07Speaker 2: time and the space to also do it properly, it
- 28:09Speaker 2: can really have a solid impact.
- 28:11Speaker 3: Absolutely. Another thing that's really great for stress as well
- 28:15Speaker 3: is socializing, like actually just hanging out with people that
- 28:19Speaker 3: you like people. It has to be people that you like.
- 28:21Speaker 3: If you don't like it, it's not going to be
- 28:22Speaker 3: not stressful. But when you're hanging out with people that
- 28:25Speaker 3: you like that you like, it does a lot of things,
- 28:29Speaker 3: but one of them is that you know you're talking
- 28:31Speaker 3: about it, so you're I guess it takes the fear
- 28:33Speaker 3: away from whatever situation you're in because you feel safe
- 28:35Speaker 3: because you're in a safe space. And also you're releasing
- 28:38Speaker 3: all of these neurochemicals, things like oxytocin. People call it
- 28:41Speaker 3: the love hormone, but it's more than that. It's yes,
- 28:44Speaker 3: it makes you feel closer to whoever you're talking to,
- 28:47Speaker 3: but also it releases that reduces a level of our
- 28:50Speaker 3: stress hormone cortisol, So it actually like part of the
- 28:53Speaker 3: reason why we feel better is and feel less stressed
- 28:56Speaker 3: is because those stress hormones go down. Yeah, And you know,
- 29:00Speaker 3: at the end of the day, we know that the
- 29:02Speaker 3: people who live happiest for the longest have the best
- 29:06Speaker 3: social connections. And so really, you know, having great friendships
- 29:10Speaker 3: or having just people that you trust that you can
- 29:12Speaker 3: connect with, really has a profound influence on your life.
- 29:15Speaker 3: We know that people who will lonely live less long.
- 29:18Speaker 3: In fact, they're about thirty percent more likely to die.
- 29:21Speaker 3: It's about as bad as having a pack a day
- 29:23Speaker 3: of cigarettes. It's really not good for us. Like we're
- 29:27Speaker 3: designed to be a social species. We're meant to be
- 29:30Speaker 3: hanging out.
- 29:31Speaker 2: Wow, no way, that is actually wild. And because even
- 29:38Speaker 2: though we're more and more connected to people now, there
- 29:42Speaker 2: have been studies that show that young people especially are
- 29:44Speaker 2: feeling more emotions of loneliness and feelings secluded from people. Right,
- 29:50Speaker 2: So it's so important to make time for those social connections,
- 29:53Speaker 2: but also pay attention to how you feel after you
- 29:56Speaker 2: spend time with someone, right, Because somebody might be a
- 29:59Speaker 2: friend because you've had history with them, or like we
- 30:02Speaker 2: said earlier, like you've gone to school with them, or
- 30:04Speaker 2: maybe you work with them. But pay attention to how
- 30:06Speaker 2: you feel. Do you feel stressed and anxious afterwards? Because
- 30:09Speaker 2: it might be a friendship, but it's like, is it
- 30:12Speaker 2: good for your nervous system?
- 30:13Speaker 3: Exactly. Yeah, You've got to trust that feeling, and it
- 30:16Speaker 3: has to be face to face. You don't get that
- 30:18Speaker 3: from texting, you don't get that from digital connection. It
- 30:23Speaker 3: has to be a face to face thing. Another thing
- 30:25Speaker 3: that happens when we're face to face, like right now, Yeah,
- 30:27Speaker 3: we're not aware of it, but our brain are starting
- 30:29Speaker 3: to synchronize, Like certain parts of our brain are synchronizing
- 30:34Speaker 3: the brain ways, which the first time I heard that,
- 30:36Speaker 3: I thought it was a bunch of whack, what is this?
- 30:39Speaker 3: But it's the science is solid, Like we're doing that.
- 30:42Speaker 3: We're actually synchronizing in parts of our brain.
- 30:45Speaker 2: So is that why you like finish people's sentences and
- 30:48Speaker 2: stuff when you're together in person, or like you do
- 30:50Speaker 2: feel like you start to talk similar to or like
- 30:54Speaker 2: behave in similar ways to your friends and more that
- 30:56Speaker 2: you spend time with them.
- 30:57Speaker 3: Yeah, maybe it there's a bit of that. Yeah, because
- 30:59Speaker 3: you're actually kind I have been sinking you know often
- 31:01Speaker 3: when you say you're on the same wavelength. Maybe there's
- 31:03Speaker 3: a bit more to that than we realize.
- 31:05Speaker 2: Yeah. Wow, oh my god. I was just thinking. I
- 31:07Speaker 2: was like, so, if our brains are sinking up currently,
- 31:09Speaker 2: does that mean that I'm becoming smarter or I'm making
- 31:12Speaker 2: you dumber? I feel bad.
- 31:16Speaker 3: I'm learning from you. I mean I already learned where
- 31:18Speaker 3: to get the best blazer in Canberra.
- 31:19Speaker 2: So yeah, through we were saying off air before that,
- 31:24Speaker 2: if you go to Canberra, go to the Vinni's there
- 31:26Speaker 2: because all the politicians let go of their old blazers
- 31:29Speaker 2: at the op shops and they're all incredible quality and
- 31:31Speaker 2: like fifteen bucks genius.
- 31:33Speaker 3: Yeah see see, I love this. I wish I knew
- 31:36Speaker 3: this yesterday though. Anyway, that's right, we'll.
- 31:38Speaker 2: Just go to Canberra again. And I also read that
- 31:42Speaker 2: humans now have an attention span of forty seven seconds,
- 31:45Speaker 2: but it takes twenty three minutes to refocus on a
- 31:49Speaker 2: task when you become distracted. So do you have any
- 31:51Speaker 2: hacks that are backed by neuroscience to help us stay
- 31:54Speaker 2: focused or regain focus.
- 31:56Speaker 3: Well, we've just got to train our mental muscles. Basically,
- 32:00Speaker 3: we've got to actually force ourselves to pay attention to things.
- 32:03Speaker 3: So one thing that you could do is just, let's
- 32:05Speaker 3: say twenty minutes a day, you put your phone away,
- 32:08Speaker 3: put every distraction away that you possibly have, and just
- 32:12Speaker 3: focus on whatever it is that you're trying to focus on.
- 32:14Speaker 3: And the more you do that, the easier it will get.
- 32:18Speaker 3: Other ways that you can sort of train your focus
- 32:20Speaker 3: is through things like focused attention meditation, which is basically
- 32:24Speaker 3: a type of meditation where you're just you know, you
- 32:25Speaker 3: might be focusing on one body part at a time,
- 32:28Speaker 3: but by doing that, you're focusing your attention and it
- 32:31Speaker 3: just helps train that mental muscle. Other things you could do,
- 32:35Speaker 3: I mean, I always love having a pad next to
- 32:38Speaker 3: me when I'm working because when an idea pops into
- 32:41Speaker 3: my head or something that I was meant to do
- 32:43Speaker 3: pops into my head, I write it down. And it's
- 32:46Speaker 3: really important to write it down because it takes it
- 32:48Speaker 3: out of your working memory, so you're not you know,
- 32:51Speaker 3: we've got this finite amount of working memory. It's basically
- 32:55Speaker 3: the working memories is pretty much this really really really
- 32:58Speaker 3: short term memory that stores about, you know, the information
- 33:01Speaker 3: that allows you to do what you're doing in that moment.
- 33:03Speaker 3: So my working memory has told me I'm aware of
- 33:06Speaker 3: what I just said so I don't repeat it. It's
- 33:09Speaker 3: like just that really it's in the moment, right, Yeah.
- 33:12Speaker 3: And if you're also thinking about, oh, I need to
- 33:15Speaker 3: do this thing, you're going to keep thinking about it.
- 33:18Speaker 3: But by putting it down on paper, you can take
- 33:20Speaker 3: it out of that working memory. You can just focus
- 33:22Speaker 3: on what you're doing, so things like yeah, So it
- 33:26Speaker 3: allows you to give that attention to the thing that
- 33:28Speaker 3: you're doing, giving it the attention it deserves.
- 33:30Speaker 2: And does it need to be physical, like should you
- 33:32Speaker 2: be writing it down on a piece of paper or
- 33:34Speaker 2: can you.
- 33:35Speaker 3: Type it out? You can type it out, Okay, it's just.
- 33:37Speaker 2: A matter of like acknowledging that you've got it covered.
- 33:40Speaker 2: You can let it go now. I find that really
- 33:42Speaker 2: helpful before bed, and that's why I love to create
- 33:45Speaker 2: my to do list at the end of the work
- 33:47Speaker 2: day and I do like a closing shift before I
- 33:50Speaker 2: go to bed, and I write down, like, these are
- 33:52Speaker 2: the things that I need to do. I get everything
- 33:54Speaker 2: kind of organized that I need to for the next morning,
- 33:56Speaker 2: because otherwise I find it so hard to fall a sleave.
- 33:58Speaker 3: I mean, perfect example of how useful it can be.
- 34:01Speaker 3: Otherwise you might be sitting in bed thinking, oh, I
- 34:04Speaker 3: have to do that tomorrow. I better not forget. I
- 34:05Speaker 3: better not forget. And then you stay up worrying about
- 34:10Speaker 3: it because you're not sure if you'll remember in the morning. Yeah,
- 34:12Speaker 3: just write it down.
- 34:14Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, I love that. Well, thank you so much
- 34:17Speaker 2: for coming on the show. I've learned so much, and
- 34:20Speaker 2: I know the chicks would have as well. But before
- 34:23Speaker 2: I let you go, we always like to wrap our
- 34:24Speaker 2: episodes with our guests by asking them one final question. So,
- 34:28Speaker 2: across your studies and research of the brain and neuroscience,
- 34:32Speaker 2: what's the biggest life lesson you've learned so far?
- 34:36Speaker 3: I think the most important thing that I've learned is
- 34:40Speaker 3: something called belief effects. So belief effects are this thing
- 34:43Speaker 3: where you might have heard the placebo effect right where
- 34:46Speaker 3: you've got. You take a like a sugar pill, and
- 34:49Speaker 3: it might have an effect on you because you think
- 34:50Speaker 3: it might do something good for you, even though it's
- 34:52Speaker 3: got nothing in it that might be useful. The same
- 34:55Speaker 3: thing applies to how we think about things. So if
- 35:00Speaker 3: you think something bad is going to happen, you're more
- 35:03Speaker 3: likely to release a lot of stress hormones that can
- 35:06Speaker 3: ultimately have a bad effect on your body. One of
- 35:09Speaker 3: my favorite studies of all time is called the Milkshake
- 35:12Speaker 3: Study and it's by Ali Crum in the United States.
- 35:16Speaker 3: And really what that study was is she had a
- 35:18Speaker 3: bunch of people that she had chocolate milkshakes, and you know,
- 35:23Speaker 3: they either had the chocolate milkshake, which she told them
- 35:25Speaker 3: was like rich and decadent and full of calories and
- 35:28Speaker 3: all that stuff, and then she had another one which
- 35:30Speaker 3: she told them and it was like, you know, a
- 35:32Speaker 3: normal sort of like nutritious milkshake. It was the same milkshake, right,
- 35:37Speaker 3: but based on what they thought it was, their body
- 35:40Speaker 3: released different amounts of hormones and so if they thought
- 35:44Speaker 3: it was a rich, dec milkshake, they released less or
- 35:50Speaker 3: it changed the amount of the hormone that makes them
- 35:51Speaker 3: feel full, so they felt full of for longer because
- 35:54Speaker 3: they thought it was a rich, decadent milkshake. And this
- 35:58Speaker 3: blew my mind because what shows us is that what
- 36:01Speaker 3: we think can change how much of our hormones get released.
- 36:05Speaker 3: Other thing, it changes our physiology at this deep, deep level.
- 36:09Speaker 3: And I think what this new science of belief effects
- 36:12Speaker 3: really shows us is that we have the power to
- 36:15Speaker 3: change our body in a way that can really serve us.
- 36:18Speaker 3: So we might We often tell ourselves in our minds
- 36:23Speaker 3: about how something might happen we might worry about. We
- 36:25Speaker 3: might say, Okay, I think this is going to go
- 36:27Speaker 3: really badly and things are going to go things will
- 36:31Speaker 3: just not work out for me. And when you do that,
- 36:33Speaker 3: you'll be releasing maybe more stress hormones and things will
- 36:36Speaker 3: go more badly. But why not just tell yourself the
- 36:39Speaker 3: positive version of events? Why not just say, actually, I
- 36:41Speaker 3: think this is going to be okay. I'm going to
- 36:43Speaker 3: be okay, and not only will you have a better
- 36:46Speaker 3: physical body state, you will perform better, Like science shows
- 36:49Speaker 3: us this now, So how we think about things really matters.
- 36:52Speaker 3: Mindset really matters. And I really take that forward in
- 36:57Speaker 3: so many parts of my life. I used to have
- 36:59Speaker 3: a fear of pub speaking, which might sound a bit
- 37:01Speaker 3: weird because I do a lot of it now. Yeah,
- 37:03Speaker 3: But one of the things I learned was, well, when
- 37:06Speaker 3: you view that stress response and your heart racing and
- 37:09Speaker 3: your palms being sweaty and you're breathing fast, if you
- 37:13Speaker 3: tell yourself that it means that you're not coping with
- 37:15Speaker 3: the situation, then you will do worse. But if you
- 37:18Speaker 3: remind yourself that actually that's just your body's stress response
- 37:22Speaker 3: helping you to deal with that situation and to improve
- 37:26Speaker 3: your performance, then you will do better. So that's really
- 37:30Speaker 3: a really pivotal thing for me, and I think it
- 37:32Speaker 3: should be for all of us. Like mindset matters.
- 37:35Speaker 2: I love that, and because it kind of sounds like
- 37:38Speaker 2: manifestation in a way, which I do think a lot
- 37:41Speaker 2: of people resonate with, but a lot of people also
- 37:43Speaker 2: think like, uh, we we're bullshit. And if you're maybe
- 37:47Speaker 2: a little bit more science inspired than knowing the neuroscience
- 37:51Speaker 2: behind that, yeah, proves to you that mindset is so important.
- 37:55Speaker 3: Absolutely. Yeah, Oh my gosh.
- 37:58Speaker 2: Well, for any of the chicks who don't already follow you,
- 38:01Speaker 2: where can I find you and learn more about you
- 38:03Speaker 2: and the work you do.
- 38:04Speaker 3: You can find me at Rocket Scientist on pretty much
- 38:06Speaker 3: any social media.
- 38:08Speaker 2: Yeah amazing. We'll put links to that and your ted
- 38:11Speaker 2: talk and your website and everything in the show notes
- 38:13Speaker 2: as well, so the chicks can find you.
- 38:14Speaker 1: Cool.
- 38:14Speaker 2: Thank you, thank you so much, Leli, and thank you
- 38:17Speaker 2: chicks for having us in the ear holes. We love
- 38:19Speaker 2: to be here, and thanks to el miss you. Bye chicks, Bye,