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The Gamer · Second Date Update

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All right, you guys, we're going to Bloomfield second date. Update.
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Ben is on the line. He's getting ghosted and we're going to try to
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find out why. Good morning, Ben, Hey, good morning guys.
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How are we feeling good? That were good? We're good, We're good.
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Listen. I hear you went on a great, great first day with
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a girl named Sarah, and I want to hear all about the date so
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we can find out while you're getting ghosted. Yeah, I mean, oh
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my gosh, I can't even like, oh god, I just feel like
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I had a great time with this girl, right like, all right,
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so yeah, so I went on this date with this girl. Her name
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is Sarah, right, so she was in West harp We went to West
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Harford. Was like, that's to dinner, right like, we're just like
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got some It was just like a great night though I don't know that.
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I feel like we really kind of close. We're just having a good conversation
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and I like kind of flew by, like I don't know you doing just
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felt really good and I just I just I just definitely want to do that
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again. I want to see her again. But she kind of hit me
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back. I'm getting nothing out of her, and I don't know what's help
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to do because I just I feel like we had a great night, had
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a great date. So you hit her up and she didn't hit you back.
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Yes, we had a great time. And then I hit her up
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the next day. I just wanted to text and just kind of see,
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you know, how she's feeling and stuff, and maybe get a vibe for
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a second date. And I just never got a tip back. She hit
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me back with nothing. So I just I don't know. When you say
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you guys had good conversation, was it a good back and forth or do
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you feel like you did a lot of the talking. I mean I felt
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like there was back and forth. I didn't feel like I noticed me like
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leading the conversation too heavy. I mean there was. I don't know.
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I mean, I feel like I let a lot of it, but it
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was. It was just a good time. Everything went well. It was
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really good. It was a good night. And I just I definitely don't
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understand because I feel like there was the back and forth. It was a
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good night and nothing nothing is happening out of it. Don't don't know where
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a lot of talking. I think I know, all right, So listen,
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Ben, I'm gonna I'm gonna put you on hold. We're gonna call
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up Sarah. We're gonna ask her what she thought about the date. I'm
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just gonna ask her to be honest and tell us why she's ghosting you.
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Are you ready to find out why? Yes? Please? Absolutely? Just
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a lot. I'm exhausted listening to him. She had to go home after
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that nap that date and take a nap. What oh, I'm gonna see
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when he breathes, mm hmm. Hello, Hi, is Sarah there?
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This is Hey Sarah. It's Courtney. Hey, Sarah's Walmart Jeff. What's
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up, Sarah? At Savannah. We're coming from kissing. You're on the
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radio. Hey, you're on the radio this morning, Sarah. Oh,
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okay, all right, what's going on? I'm gonna fill you in.
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We do something called second date update, where if you go on a first
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date but you get ghosted and you don't get a second date, and you
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really want answers, you call us. And so that's why we're calling you
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this morning, Sarah, trying to get some answers for a guy named Ben.
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Oh Ben, Yeah, wow, right out the gate, coming in
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hot well, Sarah, Ben told us that the date was fantastic and he
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felt a connection, great conversation. He reached out to you, and you're
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ghosting him. So he's a he's a loser. That's awfully harsh. Look
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he lied about having a job. I didn't ask what specifically, but he
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lives with his mom and he played video games all day. Wait. Wait,
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so he doesn't have a job, as far as I can tell,
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not really. Does he at least like have his own apartment in the basement
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or is it like a bedroom situation. It's a bedroom situation. Oh okay,
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I'm gotta bring him on. He's actually listening in, Sarah, Ben,
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are you there? Did you lie about your job? Then? Okay,
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Look I'm not unemployed. Okay, yeah, living with my you know,
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I'm a twitch streamer. I stream online, Like that's how I make
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my money. That is my job. This isn't an issue with me,
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you know, loser playing video games at home. This is me. This
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is like, I'm a winning dude. I make money playing video games.
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That's like once in a lifetime stuff. Like, you know, dude,
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just doing what I do for a living eight hours a day. I get
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a live stream going there's thousands of people watching me do my thing like I'm
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popular. I'm making it happen out here. I can't then I don't have
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a job. That's insane. All right, hold on, Okay, So
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I get so, Sarah, I don't know if are you understanding the Sarah?
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He says he's making money streaming video games in his mom's house, in
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his childhood bedroom. Look, it's video games. You really can't be making
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that much. The thing is, I'm not a loser, bro, Like
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I just made two hundred and fifty dollars yesterday. Were eating a bowl of
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mustard. That's what I did live on stream, Like guys gave me to
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do that. That's not losing stuff. I don't think there's anything luver about
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that. I ate a bowl of Frankship for three hundred dollars. Who's doing
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that? That's winner? It's winter. That does not sound like a winner
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to me. Wow, very interesting, Ben, very interesting. So so
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Sarah, Now that Ben has described to you what he does, like eats
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a bowl of mustard and plays a video game against three hundred dollars, are
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you interested? Like? If you want to go in a second day and
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I'll pick up the tab and pay for it. No, I'm sorry,
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that's no, that's just so gross to me. I don't understand how you
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could be making money off of that, especially enough to get out of your
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mom's house. Clearly you're not making enough. I mean, yo, she
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got good internet? Why would I leave? Do you get help? Do
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you get health benefit? I mean? Or is it just is this just
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what you do? I am so confused. I mean no, I don't
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get like insurance or anything like that out of it. But like, but
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I mean I don't need health benefits. I'm so healthy. You were to
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say, I ate a bowl of mustard yesterday, I mean good health.
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Wait, so do you like take breaks from gaming? Or like does your
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mom bring you up snacks? She sometimes brings me up snacks, but like
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that, come on, that's sometimes she can't hear me shout at her to
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bring me to snacks, so like I have to go get it myself.
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But like most of the time she brings me snacks coming, so like there's
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no reason for me to leave. Like it's it's a good system. We
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got. Let's all help pay bills, I help, hey writ and stuff.
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Like I gave her twenty five bucks the other night for the internet bills,
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so like I'm paying, I'm helpful, and like this is crazy to
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me, looks like I just I don't understand how you're judging how I make
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my money, Like it doesn't even matter. At the end of the date,
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I need took you out on the date and we sot a great time.
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Ben. Can I just tell you you live in the dream of every
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guy out there right now, because I would love to stay at home and
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play video games all day and you're making money. No, see what I'm
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saying. Thank you brothers, stick up for it. Because that's the thing
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is that I'm out here doing something special and I feel good about it.
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And I don't know if Sarah they knew it or not, but I mean,
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I like what I do for a living and I got no problems with
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it, all right, Can I just can we just get I want to
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reel it in just to Chad Ben as long as really, at the end
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of the day, if you're doing something that makes you happy, that's all
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that's important. And Sarah, it doesn't sound like it's a love match for
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you. I get that as well, and I appreciate you being honest.
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Sarah, and telling us why you're ghosting them. Yeah, I'm sorry.
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I just I can't deal with that. I need someone who's a little more
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mature than that. Well, listen, keep us said Sarah on your search
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for love, and you too as well. Okay, Ben, all right,
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Thanks guys, I appreciate you