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The Brutal Murder of James Barry - A Tale of Love Turned Lethal · Murder Files Unsealed

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  Speaker 1: Welcome to the deep Dive. Today, we are taking you
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  somewhere a bit different, far from the usual South Florida
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  buzz Yeah.
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  Speaker 2: We're going into Lasahatchie, Florida. It's this quiet, kind of rural, sprawling.
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  Speaker 1: Place, homesteads, big lots. You know.
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  Speaker 2: He's peaceful, deceptively so, because we're focusing on a specific date,
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  the early hours of November seventeenth, twenty.
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  Speaker 1: Sixteen, and what happened then just shocking.
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  Speaker 2: Absolutely a brutal act of violence. We're talking about the
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  murder of twenty one year old James Barry, stabbed repeatedly
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  in his own home by someone he knew, someone he trusted.
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  Speaker 1: Right, So our mission today really is to trace this
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  whole thing back because when you look at the sources
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  of the police reports, court documents, family accounts, it's devastating.
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  This whole tragedy didn't start with some random street crime.
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  It started with well, with text over a video game chat.
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  Speaker 2: It's just it's a story for our times, isn't it?
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  A digital romance that turns incredibly toxic. A breakup message
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  sent remotely and for the person who do this, twenty
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  year old Melanie Eme that message somehow became well a
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  justification for murder.
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  Speaker 1: So we're gonna unpack that, the digital dismissal, the horrific
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  act itself, the two trials, the.
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  Speaker 2: Whole messy, tragic aftermath.
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  Speaker 1: Okay, let's start with James. To really get the weight
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  of this loss, you need to understand who he was.
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  Who is James Berry?
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  Speaker 2: Well, Losahatchie itself is part of the story, Like you said,
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  not Miami, not Boca. It's Palm Beach County, but different,
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  big lots, five acres, sometimes.
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  Speaker 1: Space, room to breathe, horses.
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  Speaker 2: Maybe exactly horses, animals. It suited James, apparently he had
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  this adventurous spirit. And the family home there on Glasgow Drive,
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  it sounds like it was a real sanctuary.
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  Speaker 1: Despite his parents divorcing.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah they divorced when he was seven, but they were
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  really committed to co parenting. Sounds like they did a
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  great job. He lived mostly with his mom, Nicolar, but
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  his dad, James Sr. Was a huge presence, constant contact,
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  daily texts every single day, that kind of connection, really
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  strong bond right up until well, right up until the end.
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  Speaker 1: And it's his inquisitiveness. It was like his defining trait totally.
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  Speaker 2: It even earned him his nickname Curious James.
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  Speaker 1: Oh yeah, how'd that happen?
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  Speaker 2: Funny story. Actually, as a toddler, he just wandered off
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  right into a pond. Oh his dad had to jump
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  in fully closed to pull him out. So yeah, curious James,
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  it's stuck.
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  Speaker 1: That says a lot. He wasn't just curious about ponds,
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  I guess No.
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  Speaker 2: He was interested in everything, people, how things worked, just
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  endlessly curious. And he was in college yep, Palm Beach
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  State College, studying graphic design and gaming, that mix of
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  you know, art and tech.
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  Speaker 1: So he wanted to create things, not just consume.
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  Speaker 2: Them exactly, bringing order beauty to the digital world, which
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  leads us to gaming.
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  Speaker 1: Right. Video games are huge for him, huge.
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  Speaker 2: Especially League of Legends, which is, you know, it's complex strategy, teamwork.
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  Speaker 1: You need to communicate a lot.
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  Speaker 2: And that's where James apparently really shown his friend Joseph.
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  Speaker 1: Kowski, the friend who was there that night, that's him.
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  Speaker 2: Jess said. James was the glue for their gaming.
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  Speaker 1: Group, the mediator.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah. If people got into arguments online, you know, egos
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  clashing over strategy, James would smooth things over, keep it fun,
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  keep the team together.
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  Speaker 1: So he was a peacemaker, yeah, even online.
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  Speaker 2: Which makes what happened, I mean, the irony is just brutal.
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  His dad called him the antithesis of an eye society,
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  always putting other people first.
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  Speaker 1: A model son, his mom said.
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  Speaker 2: Really protective of his younger sister too, Alexandra, she was eighteen.
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  Speaker 1: Then, and the impact on her, Yeah, it was profound,
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  wasn't it.
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  Speaker 2: Incredibly she later founded a nonprofit, Siblings of Murdered Siblings.
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  Speaker 1: Wow, turning that grief into action.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, taking that selfless spirit her brother had and you know,
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  using it to help others going through the same nightmare.
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  Speaker 1: So you had this picture of a really grounded, kind
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  young man focused on connection.
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  Speaker 2: Creation, right, which makes the toxicity that entered his life
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  and how it ended just so jarring.
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  Speaker 1: Okay, so let's talk about the relationship. How did James,
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  this sort of steady kind person, get involved with Melanie
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  Eme and how did it all go so wrong?
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  Speaker 2: Well, like so many relationships now, it started online.
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  Speaker 1: Virtual playing the game League of Legends exactly.
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  Speaker 2: They met back in twenty fourteen. They were both high
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  school seniors Seminole Ridge Community.
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  Speaker 1: High so they knew each other in real life too.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, but the bond really formed over the game, shared sessions,
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  strategy talk, that kind of banter. It went from you know,
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  pixels to passion pretty quickly, real world dates, spending time
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  at the Barry house.
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  Speaker 1: She became part of the family almost.
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  Speaker 2: That's what James Senior said. She was one of us.
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  The Barries really welcomed her, but.
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  Speaker 1: Her background was new, different, more complicated.
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  Speaker 2: Fairy sources describe her as shy, reserved, even meek. Petite
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  grew up in a really strict household.
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  Speaker 1: Her parents were immigrants.
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  Speaker 2: Cambodian immigrants, and this is critical. They were survivors. They'd
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  fled the Khmer Rouge genocide.
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  Speaker 1: Oh wow, that's heavy.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, and that history meant the household emphasized, you know, restraint, control,
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  education was huge. So outwardly she was this quiet.
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  Speaker 1: Girl, but underneath anything else was brewing.
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  Speaker 2: Seems like it the Berry saw the quiet girl, maybe
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  not the volcano underneath. And the relationship itself, it wasn't smooth,
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  sailing on again, off again, constantly high highs, really intense.
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  But then these jealous lows.
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  Speaker 1: Very possessive friends noticed this.
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  Speaker 2: Oh yeah, red flags. Melanie apparently got really uncomfortable if
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  James played games with other people, especially other.
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  Speaker 1: Women, like any independent social life was a threat.
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  Speaker 2: Pretty much needed constant contact, constant reassurance. It was exhausting
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  for him and.
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  Speaker 1: James the mediator, the peacemaker. He couldn't fix this.
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  Speaker 2: No, he was running on empty. He actually texted his
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  dad about it weeks before the breakup, said he was
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  just exhausting. He knew it was over, he said, he'd
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  fallen out of love months before, but you know, ending
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  it it was hard. He felt trapped in the drama.
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  Speaker 1: Which brings us to the breakup itself, the digital dismissal.
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  Speaker 2: Right, November sixteenth, twenty sixteen. He finally decides this is it.
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  Speaker 1: He has to end it, and how does he do it?
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  Speaker 2: They're playing League of Legends together, probably sitting near each other,
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  maybe in the same house even, but the communication it's
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  through the keyboard in the game's chat window. Yeah, we
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  actually have the logs from the sources. James typed something like,
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  I don't love you anymore.
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  Speaker 1: This isn't working, correct, gentle, maybe but final.
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  Speaker 2: Absolutely final, and her reaction immediate, first pleading why I
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  love you?
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  Speaker 1: That kind of thing, but he stuck to it.
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  Speaker 2: He held firm, and that's when the pleas just flipped into rage,
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  absolute fury, all right there in the chat log, big
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  in one second, rage the next.
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  Speaker 1: And this is really the core of it, isn't it.
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  The medium?
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, the digital break exactly. For James, maybe it felt cleaner, safer,
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  a way to avoid a big, messy in person fight,
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  an illusion of distance. But for Melanie, for Melanie getting
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  that rejection through a screen, it was like the ultimate betrayal, cowardice, abandonment, dehumanization.
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  It wasn't distant, it was like amplified.
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  Speaker 1: It became cataclysmic, as one source put.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, it fueled this rage that just exploded and led
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  her write to the Berry House just hours later.
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  Speaker 1: Before we get to that night, there's this other piece
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  her background trauma that came out later, right at sentencing.
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  Speaker 2: It did. The defense brought it up, allegations of childhood
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  sexual abuse and her mother suffering from severe PTSD from Cambodia.
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  Speaker 1: A psychologist testifying, doctor.
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  Speaker 2: Heather Holmes, Yeah, talked about this history of profound trauma. Now,
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  the court was clear, this doesn't excuse anything, not at all,
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  of course not, but it does offer maybe some context
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  for the unraveling It suggests maybe her ability to handle rejection,
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  especially this kind of rejection, was just gone, shattered by
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  everything she'd carried, a.
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  Speaker 1: Chilling insight history of suffering, potentially explaining the rage, but
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  never ever mitigating the violence.
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  Speaker 2: Never, and that violence. It started just after midnight.
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  Speaker 1: Okay, so walk us through the timeline. How did she
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  get into the house.
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  Speaker 2: Just after midnight? The sources pinpointed around twelve five two am.
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  She knew the house, knew the family's habits.
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  Speaker 1: The door was unlocked, unlocked in a quiet place like
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  locks a hatchie. Maybe that felt safe.
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  Speaker 2: Probably, and it shows how much she was still considered,
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  you know, part of the fabric there, like family. She
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  just slipped inside, dressed in dark clothes.
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  Speaker 1: Did you bring a weapon with her?
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  Speaker 2: No, that's what's so chilling. She didn't arrive armed. She
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  armed herself there from their kitchen, straight to the kitchen drawer,
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  grabbed a butcher knife, a big one thirteen and a
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  half inches long, from the family's own knife block.
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  Speaker 1: God, the familiarity of it turned into a weapon exactly.
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  Speaker 2: Then she went to James's room. He was alone, probably
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  still awake, maybe dealing with the emotional fallout from the breakup.
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  Speaker 1: And the confrontation was instant immediate.
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  Speaker 2: She accused him of being a coward for breaking up
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  via text, He confirmed it was over and that that
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  was it. Attacked, lunged at him. The brutality it's hard
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  to grasp. Seven deep stab wounds chest and neck. One
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  went straight into his lung fatal. But there were other
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  wounds too, slices and defensive cuts, deep ones on his hands,
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  his arms.
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  Speaker 1: So he was fighting back desperately.
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  Speaker 2: Absolutely trying to ward off the attack and the force.
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  Detective Oliver's analysis noted the knife tip was bent like almost.
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  Speaker 1: At a right angle, bent from hitting bone.
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  Speaker 2: That was the thinking. It shows the sheer, savage force used.
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  She wasn't just stabbing, and she was driving that knife
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  with everything she had.
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  Speaker 1: And the noise people heard it.
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  Speaker 2: Oh yeah, James cried out, Jeff, help, please get out
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  of here, loud enough to wake everyone.
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  Speaker 1: Jeffter Zubkowski, his friend, was right there in the room.
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  Speaker 2: Sleeping over. He woke up to that horror, scrambled out
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  of bed, saw the blood everywhere, tried to stop the
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  bleeding with his hands. Just pure chaos and terror.
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  Speaker 1: Nikola's boyfriend, Guy Hand, he heard it too.
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  Speaker 2: Yes, he ran in his testimony later just heartbreaking said,
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  at first, for a split second, he thought maybe it
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  was some horrible prank until.
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  Speaker 1: The smell hit him, the smell of blood.
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  Speaker 2: That metallic smell. He knew instantly. He held James, tried CPR,
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  futile blood everywhere, walls, carpet soaked.
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  Speaker 1: And this is where the knife issue comes in, the
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  critical misstep.
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  Speaker 2: Right, guy hands sees the bloody knife just lying there
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  on the bedside table, and in total.
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  Speaker 1: Panic, thinking she might come back or someone else might
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  grab it.
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  Speaker 2: Exactly pure instinct, grabs a knife and moves it, takes
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  it out to the kitchen counter to get it away
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  from the scene, secure it somehow.
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  Speaker 1: An understandable reaction in that moment, but legally.
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  Speaker 2: Legally a nightmare for the prosecution. Later the defense absolutely
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  seized on it evidence tampering contamination. It opened the door
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  for doubt.
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  Speaker 1: Wow. So while Guy's trying to save James moving the knife,
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  Nikola is calling nine to one one.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah. The call transcript is just raw terror. Somebody came
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  in and stabbed my son and he's bleeding. Then she
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  just collapsed next to James, now dead on the way
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  to the Hall Hospital, Palm's West Hospital. That Quiet locks
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  Hatchie night shattered completely.
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  Speaker 1: So Melanie flees right.
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  Speaker 2: Away, immediately jumps in her white Toyota Corolla and just
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  takes off panic mode. But she makes this huge mistake.
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  What's that She leaves her cell phone behind in the house.
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  Speaker 1: Oh wow, Okay, so investigators had that.
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  Speaker 2: Instantly, instantly, and they have neighbor's security footage her car
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  speeding away right around the time of the murder.
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  Speaker 1: Did she go straight home?
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  Speaker 2: Briefly stopped at her parents' place, not to confess, though,
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  to change clothes, and she hit an ATM with drew
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  cash cash.
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  Speaker 1: So she was planning to run some rationality in.
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  Speaker 2: The panic, a flicker of it. Yeah, need money to
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  disappear and disappear. She tried drove north over one thousand miles.
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  Speaker 1: One thousand miles. Where was she going?
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  Speaker 2: Aiming for Silver Spring Maryland. Had a cousin there crashed
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  at their place, just running trying to outrun what she'd done.
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  Speaker 1: Meanwhile, back in locks A Hatchie, detective Sean Oliver is.
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  Speaker 2: On the scene right, and he's putting the pieces together fast.
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  Blood spatter tells a story. The bent knife shows the force.
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  Nicholas's testimony points straight at the recent volatile breakup and
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  the missing ex girlfriend, and.
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  Speaker 1: The phone confirms it's her.
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  Speaker 2: The phone, the League of Legends chat logs showing the breakup.
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  The digital trail is clear, cell tower ping's tracker car
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  heading north prime suspect within hours.
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  Speaker 1: How did they actually find her in Maryland?
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  Speaker 2: The Human Element. Her cousin Melanie shows up, obviously distressed.
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  The cousin did the right thing, called it in, gave
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  them the tip.
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  Speaker 1: So Maryland authorities pick her up.
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  Speaker 2: When was this November nineteenth, just two days after the murder?
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  Speaker 1: What was she like when they found her?
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  Speaker 2: Reports say, surprisingly calm, tearful, but calm and cooperative in
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  a way. Oh so, when they confronted her, she just
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  handed over the shirt she'd been wearing during the attack,
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  blood stained James's blood covered in it, forensics confirmed later
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  saturated with his DNA. Just handed it over and she
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  confessed pretty much right away. The recording is chilling. They
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  asked how many times she stabbed him?
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  Speaker 1: What does she say?
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  Speaker 2: I don't know how many times I stabbed him. It's
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  not like I counted.
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  Speaker 1: It's not like I counted.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, wow, yeah, and then she gave the motive, sort
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  of blaming him. He set me off by dumping her
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  via text.
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  Speaker 1: No remorse there, yeah, just justification.
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  Speaker 2: Seems like it. She was arrested the next morning, second
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  degree murder.
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  Speaker 1: And the rest of the forensics lined up perfectly.
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  Speaker 2: James's DNA on her shirt obviously, bloody shoe prints matching
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  hers leaving the room, and guy hand Nichola's boyfriend. He
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  passed a polygraph cleared him completely.
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  Speaker 1: So the investigation was quick wrapped up in forty eight hours.
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  Speaker 2: Remarkably efficient. Case closed, suspect and custody. But for the
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  Barry family, the nightmare was just shifting from the shock
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  of the murder to the long haul of the courts.
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  Speaker 1: Okay, so second degree murder meaning the prosecution believed she
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  intended to kill him, but wasn't premeditated like planned out.
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  Speaker 2: For days exactly, a crime of passion, essentially intense rage
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  leading to intent in that moment. But she pleaded not guilty, which.
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  Speaker 1: Meant a trial or in this case trials plural.
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  Speaker 2: Two grueling trials. The first one was September twenty eighteen,
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  and it almost went sideways for the prosecution.
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  Speaker 1: How what was the defense strategy.
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  Speaker 2: Led by Bruce Lair. He admitted Melanie was there, admitted
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  she fled, confessed, couldn't really deny that. So what was
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  the argument he built this alternate narrative? Totally audacious. He
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  pointed the finger at Guy hand, Nikola's.
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  Speaker 1: Boyfriend, the guy who moved the knife.
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  Speaker 2: The very same Lair argued Melanie and Guy got into
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  a fight. Guy had taken valume that night, which he admitted.
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  Lair suggested James step in to protect Melanie.
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  Speaker 1: And Guy accidentally stabbed James in the scuffle.
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  Speaker 2: That was the theory, and Lair used that knife move
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  brilliantly framed it as tampering, covering his tracks created suspicion around.
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  Speaker 1: Guy and the bent knife tip. How did he explain that?
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  Speaker 2: He argued Melanie was too small, too meek to inflict
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  that kind of force. Implied it must have been male strength,
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  guy hands strength.
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  Speaker 1: Wow, that's quite a twist. Did the jury buy it
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  enough of them?
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  Speaker 2: Did it caused a deadlock? After two days deliberating, they
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  were stuck four two four.
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  Speaker 1: For murder, two for what manslaughter?
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  Speaker 2: Two for manslaughter?
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  Speaker 1: Yeah?
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  Speaker 2: Believe the defense's story created enough reasonable doubt about who
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  actually wielded the knife with fatal intent, So mistrial.
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  Speaker 1: Devastating for the Berries have to go through it all over.
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  Speaker 2: Again, absolutely heartbreaking. James Senior said it felt like another
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  stab in the back, just unimaginable.
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  Speaker 1: So the prosecution regroups. Retrial is January twenty nineteen. What
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  do they do differently?
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  Speaker 2: Prosecutors Lauren Godin and Reid Scott knew they had to
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  nail it this time. They had to dismantle that guy
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  hand theory completely. They focused laser like on Melanie's own
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  actions and words, especially the confession. Scott kept hammering that point,
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  if she'd seen him kill James, why not say so right?
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  Speaker 1: Why flee? Why hide the shirt? Her actions didn't match
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  the defense story exactly.
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  Speaker 2: Her behavior screamed guilt, not in his and witness Scott
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  even used that famous.
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  Speaker 1: Quote the congreve one, Yeah.
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  Speaker 2: Heaven has no rage like love to hatred turned nor
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  hell a fury like a woman scorned, framing it as
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  pure vengeful emotion, rejection turned deadly.
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  Speaker 1: And the witness testimony Was it more powerful the second time?
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  Speaker 2: It seems so? Jeff Jarsubkowski's account of trying to save
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  James Nicholas's testimony about holding her dying son. It painted
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  a clear, horrific picture, undercutting any idea she was protecting guy.
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  Speaker 1: So the narrative became clear break up rage, she arms herself,
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  she attacks, much clearer.
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  Speaker 2: The defense tried again, but the doubt didn't stick this time.
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  Speaker 1: How long did the jury take?
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  Speaker 2: Just four hours? Unanimous verdict guilty second degree murder.
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  Speaker 1: Must have been immense relief for the family mixed with
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  everything else.
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  Speaker 2: Immense relief, but exhaustion too. James Senior said they'd waited
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  twenty seven months for that moment, and the conviction held
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  up on appeal in twenty twenty.
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  Speaker 1: Then came sentencing April twenty nineteen. What were the stakes?
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  Speaker 2: Prosecution won? Life pointed to the brutality, the seven stab
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  wounds the force. Defense argued for twenty years, pointed to
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  her youth, no prior record.
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  Speaker 1: And the trauma history. Doctor Holmes testified again.
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  Speaker 2: Yes, doctor Holmes detailed the alleged abuse. The family PTSD
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  argued it wasn't just the breakup, but a complete collapse
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  of her coping mechanisms rooted in that trauma a significant
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  mitigating factor.
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  Speaker 1: So Judge Glenn Kelly had to weigh all that the
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  horror of the crime against this backdrop of trauma a
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  tough balancing act, but Judge Kelly focused on her conscious
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  actions that night, leaving her house, driving there, and crucially
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  arming herself.
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  Speaker 2: Taking that knife.
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  Speaker 1: That showed intent.
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  Speaker 2: It showed intent that in his view, outweighed the mitigation,
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  however severe. He called the whole thing a tragedy. That
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  was a sentence fifty years with credit for time served
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  about eight hundred and sixty six days. She won't be
• 17:51
  eligible for release until twenty sixty six.
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  Speaker 1: Twenty sixty six, she'll be in her seventies, effectively a
• 17:56
  life sentence.
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  Speaker 2: That was the clear message from the court. The severity
• 18:00
  demanded it hashtag tay tag outrich.
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  Speaker 1: So legal closure finally arrived, but the loss, obviously that
• 18:05
  never closes. How are the family doing now?
• 18:08
  Speaker 2: Based on the sources, Nikola his mother, focuses on the memories,
• 18:11
  James's laugh, his curiosity. Alexandra, his sister, continues her incredible
• 18:16
  work with siblings of murdered siblings, turning pain into purpose.
• 18:20
  In James senor, He's become an advocate, speaks out against
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  relationship toxicity, especially when it's masked as intense passion. Or control,
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  highlighting those red flags everyone saw but maybe didn't fully
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  grasp the danger of It's.
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  Speaker 1: A powerful legacy born from such darkness.
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  Speaker 2: And Melanie's trauma history. It hangs there, doesn't it Not
• 18:39
  as an excuse? The court was clear on that. Judge
• 18:41
  Kelly made that point. Accountability is absolute, right, But it's
• 18:45
  a stark reminder of how personal history, those hidden burdens
• 18:48
  can just warp everything eclips reason.
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  Speaker 1: This whole case, starting with that chat message, it feels
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  like such a cautionary tale for right now, for the
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  digital age.
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  Speaker 2: Absolutely, that illusion of dis once we get from screens,
• 19:01
  breaking up via text feels easier, maybe.
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  Speaker 1: Less messy, avoids the confrontation.
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  Speaker 2: But does it This case screams that Maybe it does
• 19:09
  the opposite. Maybe that lack of human feedback, that coldness
• 19:12
  of the screen just intensifies the hurt, turns rejection into something.
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  Speaker 1: Monstrous, vengeance fueled by digital distance.
• 19:21
  Speaker 2: Yeah, there's no cooling off period. When the rejection hits
• 19:24
  like that, raw and dehumanizing, it's a warning, isn't it?
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  Cherish kindness? Question control, see toxicity for what it is,
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  and end cycles before they end line cycles before they
• 19:34
  end lives. Well, put.
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  Speaker 1: What really sticks with me is that fine line you
• 19:38
  mentioned earlier between the digital intimacy where their relationship started
• 19:43
  in the game, and the deadly isolation of how it
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  ended through the game chat. The very medium that brought
• 19:49
  them together became the weapon of separation and then the trigger.
• 19:52
  Speaker 2: It makes you think, doesn't it. How much do we
• 19:54
  rely on screens for the hard conversations And does that
• 19:57
  perceived safety net actually make things more dangerous? Does it
• 20:00
  strip away the humanity.
• 20:01
  Speaker 1: Meaning just the raw emotion, the perceived betrayal exactly.
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  Speaker 2: It's something to really consider that distance, the weight of
• 20:08
  our words typed or spoken, especially when technology lets us
• 20:12
  bypass the messy, uncomfortable but maybe necessary part of being
• 20:17
  human face to face.
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  Speaker 1: A chilling thought to end on, thank you for walking
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  us through this.
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  Speaker 2: Thank you. It's a tough one.