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DLHS Hour 2 | My teenage son cannot date a girl with a baby · The D.L. Hughley Show

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  Speaker 1: It is the deal.
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  Speaker 2: So a mother is upset that are fourteen year old
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  Speaker 2: is dating a girl with a baby. Now, Jasmine, what
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  Speaker 2: do you think?
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  Speaker 3: Well, I think at fourteen years old and you have
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  Speaker 3: a baby already, you already have a full plate, Like
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  Speaker 3: I think you have other things that you need to
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  Speaker 3: be thinking about outside of dating.
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  Speaker 2: I will say that.
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  Speaker 3: So yes, I would say, yeah, probably not a good
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  Speaker 3: idea to.
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  Speaker 2: Focus on that. So you would have been opposed to
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  Speaker 2: him dating a woman with it, I mean a girl.
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  Speaker 3: Well, dating at fourteen is odd to me anyway, like dating.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, it is.
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  Speaker 3: I think, I mean, twelve is too young to makeup.
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  Speaker 3: I would imagine fourteen is too young to be dating.
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  Speaker 2: All right, well you found dating, let me ask you.
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  Speaker 3: Well, had to be clear, I was not pregnant at fourteen,
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  Speaker 3: So all your little jokes all is based on the lies.
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  Speaker 2: I think it's too young.
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  Speaker 1: I think it's too young to have sex.
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  Speaker 3: Who I think someone on the show who was under
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  Speaker 3: fourteen when they had sex got a lot of nerve
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  Speaker 3: living in a glass?
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  Speaker 2: No, no, I was. I was emptying my stones. I
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  Speaker 2: wasn't throwing, but you were spilling them nonetheless. Yeah, I
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  Speaker 2: just yeah, I think that that is very young. Yeah,
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  Speaker 2: I think so, it's just weird. You know, it's a
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  Speaker 2: weird conversation. Now, I don't think it's all that weird.
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  Speaker 2: So we gotta get that. My mother's upset with a
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  Speaker 2: fourteen year old because she's he's dating a girl that
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  Speaker 2: has children? Do you think that fourteen years old? Let
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  Speaker 2: me let you this scenario, junius. What do you think.
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  Speaker 5: Your brother?
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  Speaker 6: Fundis?
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  Speaker 7: Your brother?
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  Speaker 1: No baby? Fourteen years old?
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  Speaker 5: He can't mess when no bird, they gotta be.
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  Speaker 6: You're gonna have to go home.
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  Speaker 5: I'm sorry, called, you can't mess with over fourteen. You
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  Speaker 5: can't mess on No, they gotta be.
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  Speaker 8: I'm sorry.
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  Speaker 5: Okay, what ada?
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  Speaker 6: If you don't mind me absent?
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  Speaker 8: I don't know.
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  Speaker 6: Oh yeah, that's it.
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  Speaker 4: Well, yeah, I think it's ridiculous. Actually, I mean, if
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  Speaker 4: you're fourteen and you're gonna date someone who's already got
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  Speaker 4: a baby and they're fourteen. Yeah, no you need to
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  Speaker 4: be Yeah, you hit them books. Yeah, you ain't got
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  Speaker 4: time to hit books, not skins. Eloquently, eloquently said.
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  Speaker 2: The man, I don't know where they come from. I
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  Speaker 2: don't I don't know where they come from. Boys. It's
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  Speaker 2: like I got a million of them. Boy, I can't
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  Speaker 2: where would you on your date?
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  Speaker 9: You know?
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  Speaker 2: You go take right, let's go to tears are toys
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  Speaker 2: r U. They don't have that anymore. They should go
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  Speaker 2: to the movies. All of them get in free.
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  Speaker 1: Everybody got.
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  Speaker 2: Everybody gotta have a permissions slip. Everybody go to check
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  Speaker 2: or teees.
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  Speaker 1: Wow.
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  Speaker 2: You know, let's not make light of because it's some
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  Speaker 2: people's Uh, it's some people's situations. Let me come on now,
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  Speaker 2: fourteen year olds where babies needs, need love.
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  Speaker 10: To do, got too much?
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  Speaker 2: See that's that's Uh. My mother's upset with a fourteen
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  Speaker 2: year old because she's he's dating a girl that has children?
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  Speaker 1: Is it?
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  Speaker 2: Uh? Let me let you have the idea.
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  Speaker 5: Is your brother friend your brother, no, fourteen years old him?
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  Speaker 2: That's when gotta be Do you think the mother is overacting?
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  Speaker 2: We're going to go to.
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  Speaker 11: Someone I was fourteen years old when I had my
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  Speaker 11: first child. And I had a boyfriend that he was
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  Speaker 11: with me when I was pregnant and his parents was okay.
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  Speaker 11: When he had his mother and father and his wife
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  Speaker 11: and they was okay with it. They helped me buy
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  Speaker 11: the baby stuff and it wasn't even his baby, and
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  Speaker 11: they knew I was pregnant. I was like five six
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  Speaker 11: months when we got together and I was fourteen years
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  Speaker 11: old and helped me whatever. We stayed together for a
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  Speaker 11: long time. We was in high school together and everything.
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  Speaker 11: So it's accordinate how she still, i mean, got her child.
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  Speaker 8: So it's up to her because she raising. I think
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  Speaker 8: the woman is crazy, and she should be encouraging that
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  Speaker 8: young lady to keep going and doing what she's doing
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  Speaker 8: right because my sister had her first jail at fourteen,
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  Speaker 8: she graduated, she did thirty seven years down there at
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  Speaker 8: Secrek Road and got married and everything, and she should
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  Speaker 8: be encouraged. Got to talk a bad to the real
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  Speaker 8: because she don't realize that could be held. Absolutely not,
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  Speaker 8: absolutely not at fourteen. He's not wise enough or.
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  Speaker 10: Old enough to make those kinds of decisions for himself.
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  Speaker 12: She's she's got a baby, and he does it at fourteen.
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  Speaker 12: He should not be the father figure for someone else's baby.
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  Speaker 8: No, absolutely not. And I wouldn't allow my fourteen year
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  Speaker 8: old child.
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  Speaker 1: To date a young lady who had a baby.
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  Speaker 13: And I think that the young man should just step
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  Speaker 13: back from that because that's already made family at fourteen.
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  Speaker 13: You know, he's not grown. He's influenced by hormones. So
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  Speaker 13: now I think your parents are right, But telling her
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  Speaker 13: no time is not happening because he's not ready for
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  Speaker 13: that type of responsibility period.
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  Speaker 2: So here's the idea.
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  Speaker 8: Who is it you let from this brother?
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  Speaker 5: No, he's a baby, he's fourteen years old. He has
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  Speaker 5: got to be He's gonna have to go home. If
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  Speaker 5: you can't listen, four can't mess a girl. They gotta
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  Speaker 5: be even I'm sorry, Okay, what a data If you
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  Speaker 5: don't mind ans, I don't know.
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  Speaker 2: Do you think the mother overreacted.
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  Speaker 12: I think that the mother is one correcting her concern
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  Speaker 12: sounds like she's already made family as a teenager, and I'm.
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  Speaker 8: Not sure what her situation is.
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  Speaker 12: Not trying to blame the young lady, but as a
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  Speaker 12: young male, that that's too much, way too soon. I
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  Speaker 12: have a son, and I wouldn't be having it. It
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  Speaker 12: would definitely be a problem for the kid.
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  Speaker 8: It wouldn't be okay.
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  Speaker 10: I think that the mother didn't overreact. But I was
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  Speaker 10: fourteen and my girlfriend was eighteen and she had a
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  Speaker 10: couple of babies. And when my grandmother found out, she
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  Speaker 10: told me that I had to wake up.
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  Speaker 9: With her and asked me where I met her.
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  Speaker 10: And I met her when my grandmother took me to
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  Speaker 10: church on on a Wednday night Bible.
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  Speaker 9: Study, and you know, they ended up breaking us up
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  Speaker 9: and everything. But football coach everybody got into it because
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  Speaker 9: they were gonna charge you with such toyer, you know
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  Speaker 9: as that word. And it broke my heart when he
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  Speaker 9: made us break up. But I don't think the mother
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  Speaker 9: over reacted.
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  Speaker 6: I've been in both situations on both sides. So I
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  Speaker 6: had a sister that was pregnant early on, she was fifteen.
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  Speaker 6: She had a baby, and the girl, I mean, the
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  Speaker 6: boy's mother did not want him dating her. She thought
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  Speaker 6: that my sister was painted and not knowing the situation,
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  Speaker 6: my sister was raped. And back in the sixties his seventies,
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  Speaker 6: they just didn't believe in abortions and things of that nature.
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  Speaker 6: And then I had my own son that was in
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  Speaker 6: his early twenties. He was maybe twenty two, and he
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  Speaker 6: met this girl that was thirty eight and she had
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  Speaker 6: by kid. My son did not have any children, and
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  Speaker 6: I told my son, I'm totally against this. You don't
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  Speaker 6: have any children.
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  Speaker 9: You have five.
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  Speaker 6: The girl has five kids. She is damn they're double
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  Speaker 6: your age. So what are you looking at her to do?
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  Speaker 6: You know why? There's nothing that she can do. She
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  Speaker 6: already has five children. She's not looking to give you
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  Speaker 6: a baby. So she's looking to have someone take care
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  Speaker 6: of her. Posts And so I've seen it on both
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  Speaker 6: ends and know the mother was not wrong or is
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  Speaker 6: not wrong for not wanting her son to date a
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  Speaker 6: young lady, because now she's a young lady at fourteen
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  Speaker 6: with a child.
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  Speaker 2: Now that boy Tracey to listen to what life is
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  Speaker 14: graduating actually being all the way done.
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  Speaker 2: It's insane.
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  Speaker 7: So just today I had this meeting with my whole
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  Speaker 7: were sharing their senior thesis, say like project, and.
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  Speaker 1: It was a cool little vibe.
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  Speaker 7: I mean, as far as school events can go.
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  Speaker 14: You know, I'm usually not this invested into that academically
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  Speaker 14: part of school.
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  Speaker 1: I'm not gonna lie.
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  Speaker 15: I'm usually just in there boom, turning my assignments get out,
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  Speaker 15: came into this mandatory thing for all of the graduating
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  Speaker 15: seniors and I was able to share my senior thesis
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  Speaker 15: and what it was going to be about. And mine
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  Speaker 15: I had to write about something that I.
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  Speaker 1: Genuinely cared about.
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  Speaker 7: So I wrote about something in the arts, something about
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  Speaker 7: getting a really good feedback from the whole department, And
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  Speaker 7: my professor basically told me.
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  Speaker 1: I was like, Yo, once you.
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  Speaker 1: And I'm like, damn okay.
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  Speaker 2: I mean I knew I was a good writer.
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  Speaker 7: I've heard that since I was a little kid, like
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  Speaker 7: I'm a talented writer and a great creative mind. But yo,
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  Speaker 7: hearing that confirmation for real at this stage as a
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  Speaker 7: graduating senior, Like my professor told me from my face,
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