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139: Q&A - Blowing on the Cartridge · Wine & Audacity

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  Speaker 1: M hm, and we're back. It's like we never left
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  Speaker 1: if you know, you know, yep, we've been here for
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  Speaker 1: the past week.
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  Speaker 2: Mm hmm.
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  Speaker 3: Seannah got bad, so it's just sitting in the chair
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  Speaker 3: for so long, he said, you got bad.
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  Speaker 1: Oh. No, Welcome to this week's episode of Moor and
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  Speaker 1: our Das to the podcast, my name is Brandon's Card,
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  Speaker 1: and I'm joining by two of my favorite people in
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  Speaker 1: the world.
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  Speaker 2: I was about to be back down to one of
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  Speaker 2: your favorite people, raggedy bitch.
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  Speaker 4: Uh, we didn't.
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  Speaker 1: We didn't say it last week when the episode aired,
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  Speaker 1: but we started college homecomings. Three weeks ago was Morgan
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  Speaker 1: State homecoming Go Bears problem nuts here the alumnus Yes,
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  Speaker 1: and Howard homecomings weekend was two weeks ago or the
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  Speaker 1: weekend after that. So it's home coming season. How you
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  Speaker 1: feeling this week? Old? Why?
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  Speaker 2: Old?
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  Speaker 3: Because the homecoming ain't the home you know, homecomings not
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  Speaker 3: ain't the homecomers that we went to. You know, I
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  Speaker 3: haven't been homecoming in about seven eight years, right, So yeah,
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  Speaker 3: these little ends out here I've been.
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  Speaker 1: I've been the Howards home coming more recently than i've
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  Speaker 1: been the Mortgage home coming. I really need to change
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  Speaker 1: that I been. That's some disrespectful.
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  Speaker 2: I have been home comings on.
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  Speaker 4: Augainst. Home Coming.
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  Speaker 1: It used to be used to I haven't been. It's
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  Speaker 1: I haven't been Rember seven years. It was definitely pre pandemic.
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  Speaker 1: Let's when I went to homecoming for both schools. I
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  Speaker 1: look close Howard, So that's just the metro right away.
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  Speaker 1: But yeah, I don't.
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  Speaker 2: Think I've ever been to anybody.
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  Speaker 3: Is that?
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  Speaker 4: Is that not treason?
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  Speaker 2: No, it's not. That's an HB.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, it's fine. You know, I wrecked Morgan. That's going
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  Speaker 1: on campus as trippy as because nothing looks the same
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  Speaker 1: because they add about the sixty five new buildings and
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  Speaker 1: bridges and tunnels, and I felt that.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, they like Morgan growing like John Hopkins did not
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  Speaker 3: talk saying copping grown like John hopptens like John Hopkins did.
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  Speaker 3: And it's like, I mean, it's amazing. I mean it's
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  Speaker 3: amazing to see that, you know. I mean, granted they
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  Speaker 3: turned to most of the most of the property in
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  Speaker 3: the student housing, but I remember you ever had us
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  Speaker 3: the little plans for the like how Morgan was building
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  Speaker 3: like a whole like supposed to be like building like
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  Speaker 3: a hotel for for those of hospitality management m So
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  Speaker 3: it's like, you know, a lot of the growth a
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  Speaker 3: little bit around the black schools.
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  Speaker 1: Morgan purchased the campus Lake Clifton Campus where Lake Clifton
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  Speaker 1: Eastern High School used to sit in Baltimore at the
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  Speaker 1: end of like Healing Road, maybe like a five decent
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  Speaker 1: to drive from campus. But they purchased it from the
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  Speaker 1: City of Baltimore. And there's plans to don't they haven't
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  Speaker 1: released like official like plans what they're gonna do with
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  Speaker 1: the campus, but I think they're going to tear down
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  Speaker 1: the actual former Lake Clifton Eastern High School building and
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  Speaker 1: build its rumors of like a medical school going down
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  Speaker 1: the dorm We have more dormitories, more, you know, like
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  Speaker 1: athletic space.
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  Speaker 3: Who knows, I find it. I mean I found it
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  Speaker 3: interesting about some age spec years. It's like it's not enough,
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  Speaker 3: it's not enough student housing.
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  Speaker 1: Well, Morgan has eleven thousand students this year.
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  Speaker 5: My little cousin went to Morgan and when she came,
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  Speaker 5: she came up from VA. They had them staying in
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  Speaker 5: the hotel for a little while because they didn't have
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  Speaker 5: enough room for.
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  Speaker 1: They was doing that when I was in Morgan because
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  Speaker 1: they they had more students.
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  Speaker 2: I think since then they've opened because it was a
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  Speaker 2: couple of years ago.
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  Speaker 1: They've When I graduated from Morgan, so I know O'Connell
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  Speaker 1: Hall when I was at Morgan, that's where all the
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  Speaker 1: freshmen male stayed. They I think it closes after this
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  Speaker 1: school year and they're gonna tear that down and built
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  Speaker 1: a new residential tower where O'Connor is. I think now
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  Speaker 1: it's like a two story building that's like in the cut.
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  Speaker 1: They're gonna be like out there, like a seven or
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  Speaker 1: eight story tower there. They've opened two new dormitories. Actually
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  Speaker 1: they're two new dormitories on campus. I forget that. I
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  Speaker 1: think one is Thurgod Marshall Hall and the others Legacy Hall.
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  Speaker 1: These are like ten or twelve story buildings that are
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  Speaker 1: like right next to each other at at an angle
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  Speaker 1: right right. I think field House was talking about it,
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  Speaker 1: their plans to add another building to Morgan View. But
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  Speaker 1: I mean even still, like so when I get my
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  Speaker 1: haircut every Friday, the lady who I've gotten cool with,
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  Speaker 1: the lady who gets a haircut, you know, before me
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  Speaker 1: shot at the Miss Peggy if she if she stumbles
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  Speaker 1: onto this. I don't think she will, but she works
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  Speaker 1: at Morgan, and you know, we talk about how a
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  Speaker 1: lot of students aren't on top of like their business
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  Speaker 1: and stuff, to where they'll come to her last minute saying,
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  Speaker 1: oh I need money for classes. Oh I need this,
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  Speaker 1: I need this taking care of it. She's like, well,
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  Speaker 1: the deadline was weeks ago. You didn't check your email.
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  Speaker 1: Oh no, I didn't. I didn't know I had to
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  Speaker 1: check my email. I didn't know I had to get
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  Speaker 1: the sound or respond. She's like, well, what do you
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  Speaker 1: want me to do? Like the deadline is the deadline,
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  Speaker 1: and if you don't meet the deadline, Like, how can
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  Speaker 1: I help you if you're not taking care of your business?
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  Speaker 1: And I had I had to explain to her. You know,
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  Speaker 1: my mother was when I was in school, what now
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  Speaker 1: fucking twenty years ago? My god, my mother told me
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  Speaker 1: when I got when I graduate from my school, start
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  Speaker 1: with you on your own. I'm not helping you with shit.
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  Speaker 1: You need to figure it out if you want it
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  Speaker 1: to happen, it's on you.
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  Speaker 3: And if you don't, it's funny that it's funny that
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  Speaker 3: it's funny that you're like, you bring that like you're
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  Speaker 3: bringing that particular situation up. Like we we were trained
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  Speaker 3: as kids to handle be so sufficient.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah we were trained.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, we were training these kids to handle like my
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  Speaker 3: mom used to say, and you know, make sure you
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  Speaker 3: make sure you got to make sure you got you
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  Speaker 3: got a place to stay for thirty days, you got
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  Speaker 3: likes for thirty days, and you know, if you got
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  Speaker 3: a cell phone, make sure you got a cell phone
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  Speaker 3: for the for the next thirty days, and anything else
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  Speaker 3: can fall to the wayside.
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  Speaker 1: You know.
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  Speaker 3: You know what I'm saying, make sure you take cared
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  Speaker 3: or take care of those three things first.
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  Speaker 4: And it's like, I don't I don't want us.
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  Speaker 3: I think the younger generation is because we were made
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  Speaker 3: like that. You know, our generation is raising the kids
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  Speaker 3: where we were doing everything. We're doing everything for them
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  Speaker 3: because you know we I mean, I guess you could say,
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  Speaker 3: we know what it was like to be put out,
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  Speaker 3: you know, be put out, then you know you gotta
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  Speaker 3: do things, you gotta do things for yourself. But I
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  Speaker 3: think that a lot of the kids, a lot of
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  Speaker 3: the younger like a lot of you know, the ones
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  Speaker 3: after us and probably the nineties kids, and it's like,
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  Speaker 3: you know, everybody two thousand and up, it's like, you know,
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  Speaker 3: you got to what they've done for you, so you
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  Speaker 3: don't have this. So by the time you on your own,
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  Speaker 3: it's like you don't know how to do. You know,
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  Speaker 3: you don't know how to take head outside shit, you know, because.
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  Speaker 1: Your parents are so taking care of it for you.
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  Speaker 1: But if you travel, like even in instances where like,
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  Speaker 1: for example, if you go to school out of state,
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  Speaker 1: if you if Morgan State is in Baltimore, Maryland, and
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  Speaker 1: your family is from Hampton, Virginia, or from like from
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  Speaker 1: Connecticut or like New Jersey or like Pittsburgh, and they
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  Speaker 1: drive you to school with all your shit. You go
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  Speaker 1: to move in, it's like, oh, because you didn't turn
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  Speaker 1: in your housing this so you didn't send me a
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  Speaker 1: housing application. You get to campus and have nowhere to
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  Speaker 1: stay and your family lives five hours away. Like how
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  Speaker 1: I will never forget. There was a point where I
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  Speaker 1: actually had to start paying my own tuition, a portion
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  Speaker 1: of my tuition and fees and supplies out of pocket.
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  Speaker 1: I worked two jobs when I was in school, so
• 8:00
  Speaker 1: I was responsible for whatever whatever financial aid didn't cover,
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  Speaker 1: I had to pay the rest between two to three
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  Speaker 1: grand out of my own pocket every semester plus well, no,
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  Speaker 1: two to three grand is like that's tuition because in
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  Speaker 1: state student to wish them. When I was at Morgan,
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  Speaker 1: I think my first year was like twenty five hundred
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  Speaker 1: or semester twenty six hundred of semester, I don't know much.
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  Speaker 1: I think it's up to four for in sixtyies. But anyway,
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  Speaker 1: I had to pay a portion of my tuition out
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  Speaker 1: of pocket, and then I had to cover my own books,
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  Speaker 1: my own supplies. If I needed a computer, I had
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  Speaker 1: to pay for it out of my own pocket. And
• 8:32
  Speaker 1: you know, I didn't discover the joy of credit cards
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  Speaker 1: back then.
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  Speaker 4: I was a good thing.
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  Speaker 1: Hell yeah, Well I had one credit card, but I
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  Speaker 1: had like a two hundred dollars limits. So if I
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  Speaker 1: knew I fucked that up, I could just work take
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  Speaker 1: paid it off in like a check or two. But anyway,
• 8:48
  Speaker 1: I was responsible for covering my own shit, and thankfully,
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  Speaker 1: working internships in the summer, I was able to save
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  Speaker 1: up enough money to cover my own my expenses for
• 8:55
  Speaker 1: the school years. So I remember one time this when
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  Speaker 1: I came back from Germany. Living in Germany for summer,
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  Speaker 1: I paid my stuff off and then I got the
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  Speaker 1: bill and opened opened like the invoice back in the
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  Speaker 1: corn I said, you owed twenty five cents. I was like, shit,
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  Speaker 1: hold on.
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  Speaker 2: Not twenty five cent? Cool?
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  Speaker 4: You got that short?
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  Speaker 1: No, because after a certain point, if you have a
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  Speaker 1: settled bill regards with the the dollar value is they
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  Speaker 1: dropped you, you lose your classes, they dropped your schedule.
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  Speaker 4: Yep.
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  Speaker 1: So I was like fuck this. I literally went my car,
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  Speaker 1: opened the ends. Damn, found a quarter in my like
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  Speaker 1: centa console. Went back into the same lady at the
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  Speaker 1: Birst's office. She busted out and she said, she said,
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  Speaker 1: I know that's right. And I said, can I get
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  Speaker 1: that date to receive? She said, you show kin it
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  Speaker 1: said a zero balance. I said, I'm not playing with y'all.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, I mean, but yeah, I mean, that's what I'm saying.
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  Speaker 1: It's like I didn't have a fallback plan. I was
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  Speaker 1: in there long enow ship.
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  Speaker 3: But that's I mean, that's what I'm saying. It was like,
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  Speaker 3: you know, like I said, we were training. We were
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  Speaker 3: training at the young age to take care you know,
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  Speaker 3: take care of our ship first. And then because we
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  Speaker 3: were trained like that, now we're raising like we're raising
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  Speaker 3: the kids where we're doing like we're doing everything.
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  Speaker 1: For some people.
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  Speaker 5: I mean I can that I've done that, that I've
• 10:00
  Speaker 5: had to take a step back and try to make
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  Speaker 5: Trade self sufficient, you know when it comes to certain stuff.
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  Speaker 5: And then I also have a I can admit, okay,
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  Speaker 5: growth that I have control issue, like I want to
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  Speaker 5: see things done a certain way, and if it's not
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  Speaker 5: done that way, it kind of frustrates me.
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  Speaker 2: I've worked through it. I've been I used to be work.
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  Speaker 2: I promised.
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  Speaker 5: I've worked through it a whole lot. But at the
• 10:24
  Speaker 5: end of the day, and then it doesn't help that
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  Speaker 5: Trade's only child. So at the end of the day,
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  Speaker 5: I have to realize and I've had to have that
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  Speaker 5: conversation with them. And it wasn't just for him, it
• 10:35
  Speaker 5: was for me too, Like, no, you got to start
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  Speaker 5: doing this stuff on your own, like you got his
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  Speaker 5: own little job or whatever. I helped him set I've
• 10:42
  Speaker 5: been help him set a bank account up. He's had
• 10:44
  Speaker 5: an account for years, you know, just a half one, so.
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  Speaker 2: You can have a bank account, right and when he
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  Speaker 2: has to start a litt summer job or whatever.
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  Speaker 5: But at the end of the day, this is your
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  Speaker 5: job to find out what days you're supposed to work,
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  Speaker 5: because I know what they exactly what goddamn work.
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  Speaker 2: I don't work there.
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  Speaker 5: You worked there, so you found out to keep Did
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  Speaker 5: you text your The only thing I'll do is did
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  Speaker 5: you text you? Was You're like, yeah, Mama, text them, okay,
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  Speaker 5: say if you you know he needs you this weekend?
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  Speaker 5: Or you know, did you you check your account to
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  Speaker 5: make sure your money was right, or did you you
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  Speaker 5: know it's all your paperwork filled out for this, this
• 11:17
  Speaker 5: and this, or you know, stuff like that, And what
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  Speaker 5: I liked that his school has started doing this year,
• 11:21
  Speaker 5: which I don't remember and I'm really don't be there.
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  Speaker 5: One of the classes that they have, you know, helps
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  Speaker 5: them look for the financial stuff for school and helps
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  Speaker 5: them fill out their applications and stuff like that. Because
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  Speaker 5: I'm be honest with you y'all. My my application when
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  Speaker 5: I went back to college, and my damn third this
• 11:41
  Speaker 5: was simple to the point I ain't have to write
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  Speaker 5: no essay or nothing to But.
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  Speaker 1: We also, rember, we didn't have the common application, right,
• 11:47
  Speaker 1: we didn't have that.
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  Speaker 5: You can't say so one fifty million colleges, so they
• 11:52
  Speaker 5: have it a lot easier than we did back then.
• 11:54
  Speaker 5: And I also had to put in my son's head like,
• 11:57
  Speaker 5: don't try to limit yourself to just maybe Maryland will
• 12:02
  Speaker 5: be nice, so you can get Maryland tuition, but and
• 12:05
  Speaker 5: state tuition would be great.
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  Speaker 2: But don't limit yourself to Baltimore. Go to the bottom.
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  Speaker 1: You and me go to Frost.
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  Speaker 2: Do you not limit yourself You're.
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  Speaker 1: Getting college Park of Bowie State or even if you
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  Speaker 1: want to leave Maryland.
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  Speaker 3: I mean what I mean, shout out to you for
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  Speaker 3: like you for saying that, and I'm trying to you know,
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  Speaker 3: like putting out there, putting it out there, like yo.
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  Speaker 4: It's something beyond you know or something.
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  Speaker 1: It is.
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  Speaker 5: Don't worry about me. I'll be perfectly. I'll come busits.
• 12:32
  Speaker 5: You don't give me a reason to take off work,
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  Speaker 5: but I'm gonna see my son. I'll see y'all next week.
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  Speaker 1: I tag along. I try to call down to Atlanta.
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  Speaker 1: Used to be a long ride, but we'll make it work.
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  Speaker 2: Give me a reason, like it's okay. I told him,
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  Speaker 2: let's go.
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  Speaker 1: But the thing is, I think what a lot of kids,
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  Speaker 1: especially young men, are missing, the boys around his age
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  Speaker 1: you're missing, is like you need to have the exposure
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  Speaker 1: to different things outside of what you see day and day.
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  Speaker 1: If you've only ever lived in one neighborhood or lived
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  Speaker 1: in one house, you've been around the same people your
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  Speaker 1: whole life. You've never lived in like different cities or
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  Speaker 1: seen how other people move. You don't really know or
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  Speaker 1: have exposure to what's out there beyond like what you
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  Speaker 1: see on the internet.
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  Speaker 2: Like I've been there.
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  Speaker 4: Don't be afraid.
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  Speaker 5: Howard County and Baltimore County and Baltimore City stuff, Like
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  Speaker 5: I've never lived outside of Maryland. I've been outside of Maryland,
• 13:25
  Speaker 5: but I've never lived outside of Maryland. So I said
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  Speaker 5: the goal most I can't speak for most parents, but
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  Speaker 5: my goal as a parent is my son having experiences
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  Speaker 5: that I didn't exact myself had when I was his
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  Speaker 5: age or even old day. That's why I'm trying to
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  Speaker 5: travel more and trying to learn things and stuff like that.
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  Speaker 5: I want him to be able to have the experiences
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  Speaker 5: that I.
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  Speaker 2: Did not have.
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  Speaker 5: I didn't get to live on campus. I didn't get
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  Speaker 5: to have the college experience, the college life. Even when
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  Speaker 5: I went to college the first time, I went right
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  Speaker 5: downtown to color Adi School and came home every goddamn day.
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  Speaker 5: I want him even if you go in state, stay
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  Speaker 5: on campus. Hell if he ends up at Morgan. And
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  Speaker 5: that was one of the things I get to experience,
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  Speaker 5: get to experience.
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  Speaker 1: That was one of my regrets from from you know,
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  Speaker 1: going to college. I did go to Morgan, but I
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  Speaker 1: was a commuter student because again it was cheaper. It's
• 14:10
  Speaker 1: fun to stay at home. I can have my own
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  Speaker 1: room in my house and I have to share a
• 14:13
  Speaker 1: room with somebody I don't know, and save money again
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  Speaker 1: because we had to pay for tuition out of pocket.
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  Speaker 1: Fucking what wasn't cover up by financial weight. I stay
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  Speaker 1: home and ride the bus. But you miss out on
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  Speaker 1: those bunding experiences with people your own age, making friends
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  Speaker 1: and joining social activities and clubs and everything. Because once
• 14:30
  Speaker 1: I left school again working two jobs, I was in
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  Speaker 1: school to get my work done. I would stay on
• 14:34
  Speaker 1: campus to study until two three o'clock in the morning
• 14:37
  Speaker 1: and the engineering building shout out to engineer students and Morgan,
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  Speaker 1: and then I would go to fuck home because again
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  Speaker 1: I didn't I did. It was cheaper, but still I
• 14:45
  Speaker 1: missed out on that part of the college experience because
• 14:47
  Speaker 1: I worked. But you do what you have to do
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  Speaker 1: in college to get through.
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  Speaker 4: It, you know great.
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  Speaker 3: Well, yeah, like I said, it's like that's like I
• 14:57
  Speaker 3: was scared as hell, Like I was scared as hell
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  Speaker 3: jumping on that train to go, like you know, cause figures,
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  Speaker 3: you know what I mean, growing up here, you know,
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  Speaker 3: that's all I knew. And then you know, I'm going
• 15:09
  Speaker 3: then riding being in California, and then it's like I
• 15:13
  Speaker 3: gotta start over, Like I gotta start over, walk around, explore,
• 15:16
  Speaker 3: explored where I'm at. It's a new place, and then
• 15:19
  Speaker 3: trying to figure you know, trying to figure shit out.
• 15:21
  Speaker 3: And then when we moved to Georgia, Like when we
• 15:23
  Speaker 3: moved to Georgia, it was like this like August first,
• 15:28
  Speaker 3: uh fourteen here, August first fourteen, that was that's when
• 15:32
  Speaker 3: we got to Georgia.
• 15:33
  Speaker 4: August second.
• 15:34
  Speaker 3: Man, kid are walking all up, walking all up, walking
• 15:37
  Speaker 3: around the neighborhood, walking up and down, up and down
• 15:39
  Speaker 3: Pleasant Hill, trying to figure out where every you know,
• 15:42
  Speaker 3: where everything is, like where everything is with.
• 15:45
  Speaker 4: You know, we was looking we was looking for work
• 15:48
  Speaker 4: as well.
• 15:48
  Speaker 1: And it's like.
• 15:51
  Speaker 3: I appreciate it, you know, like yeah, we was on
• 15:54
  Speaker 3: our own, you know at the you know, when we
• 15:57
  Speaker 3: moved out and like we're on our own. And then
• 15:58
  Speaker 3: it's like you it you take away, you know, you
• 16:03
  Speaker 3: know that. I guess I was like for my mother's
• 16:05
  Speaker 3: like you know, I was paying attention, like whatever he does.
• 16:09
  Speaker 3: You know, we we do our best, We do our
• 16:12
  Speaker 3: bust installed you know, install values and in ways and
• 16:15
  Speaker 3: ways to do do certain things.
• 16:18
  Speaker 4: And it's like, yo, I ain't gonna fault you for
• 16:19
  Speaker 4: how you do it.
• 16:21
  Speaker 3: Like I'm not gonna failt you how you do it
• 16:22
  Speaker 3: because you know that that's that's your thing, you know
• 16:24
  Speaker 3: what I mean, Like, that's that's your way of doing
• 16:26
  Speaker 3: that's your way of doing things as long as long
• 16:28
  Speaker 3: as you reach the destination that you that you that you're.
• 16:30
  Speaker 4: Supposed to be. And it's like, yeah, you're telling everybody
• 16:35
  Speaker 4: else get out of here, get get out of here.
• 16:37
  Speaker 1: That was like, that's one of the things I'm grateful,
• 16:40
  Speaker 1: although I hate it moving around a lot. Some other
• 16:42
  Speaker 1: like to move, so we moved very often. But I'm
• 16:46
  Speaker 1: grateful for having the experience of living as a teenager
• 16:49
  Speaker 1: in a different living in Chicago. We moved moved from
• 16:52
  Speaker 1: here and moved to Chicago and get back three years later.
• 16:54
  Speaker 1: That's where my dad was. But having that experience of
• 16:57
  Speaker 1: growing up with kids I knew nothing about in the
• 16:58
  Speaker 1: neighbor in the area I knew nothing about. That was
• 17:01
  Speaker 1: totally unfamiliar having family that lives in different parts of
• 17:04
  Speaker 1: the country. Like I mentioned before, my dad lived in Chicago.
• 17:08
  Speaker 1: You know, my older brother is there with him, but
• 17:10
  Speaker 1: my dad's family, his siblings, my grandparents who were still
• 17:13
  Speaker 1: living at the time, and all of his nieces in nefews.
• 17:15
  Speaker 1: They all lived in and around Miami and Fort Lauderdale.
• 17:18
  Speaker 1: So the family was in South Florida. He was in Chicago.
• 17:21
  Speaker 1: My mom was, you know, born and raised here in Baltimore.
• 17:23
  Speaker 1: My mom's family, cousins, my mother's siblings, my grand maternal grandparents,
• 17:27
  Speaker 1: everybody was here in Maryland. So once we moved, I
• 17:30
  Speaker 1: was grateful to gain that experience of living in a
• 17:33
  Speaker 1: different area, living in a different city, and even as
• 17:37
  Speaker 1: an adult, when I got my first college internship and
• 17:39
  Speaker 1: I moved to Atlanta for three months, I was in
• 17:41
  Speaker 1: Atlanta with people. I was staying at Georgia Tech in
• 17:44
  Speaker 1: the dorms with people. They were colleagues that I worked
• 17:47
  Speaker 1: with for the internship, but I didn't know them. I
• 17:49
  Speaker 1: was in a new city by myself. I had to
• 17:50
  Speaker 1: be self sufficient to take care of myself, go buy groceries,
• 17:54
  Speaker 1: maintain a budget, you know, take care of all my expenses,
• 17:56
  Speaker 1: and do what I needed to do. And it's good
• 18:00
  Speaker 1: to have those experiences because you have a safety net
• 18:01
  Speaker 1: because home is at home, and you know that at
• 18:04
  Speaker 1: the time, especially early twenties, if you need to go
• 18:07
  Speaker 1: home or go to somebody's house because of an emergency,
• 18:09
  Speaker 1: you can so that. When you get older, now in
• 18:11
  Speaker 1: our late thirties, if something happens, you may be able
• 18:15
  Speaker 1: to make some shit shake, but it's a lot harder
• 18:16
  Speaker 1: because you know, people may be deceased, or they they
• 18:18
  Speaker 1: don't have space, or you know, you can't you can't maneuver.
• 18:21
  Speaker 3: And what I learned, I mean what I learned, like
• 18:25
  Speaker 3: I learned why a lot of families, you know, like
• 18:28
  Speaker 3: a lot of families you know before you heard it,
• 18:31
  Speaker 3: when you turn eighteen, you get out the house type.
• 18:32
  Speaker 1: Some famili and I think that's crazy, that's crazy.
• 18:37
  Speaker 2: You should need unprepared as children out here at eighteen.
• 18:40
  Speaker 5: Legally, yes, that's an adult, fine, fine, but you're sending
• 18:45
  Speaker 5: them out here unprepared. They don't know how to balance,
• 18:48
  Speaker 5: don't really worry about balancing check books these days. I
• 18:50
  Speaker 5: don't know too many people who so use check books,
• 18:52
  Speaker 5: but how everything is online, but how to budget and
• 18:55
  Speaker 5: how to still out paperwork and apply.
• 18:58
  Speaker 1: For this.
• 19:00
  Speaker 2: Working jobs. It ain't bringing them nothing home but chump
• 19:02
  Speaker 2: change and all.
• 19:03
  Speaker 5: Of that other stuff because you didn't prepare them and
• 19:06
  Speaker 5: now the cycle is starting over again.
• 19:09
  Speaker 1: Struggle that is so now would you want them to
• 19:11
  Speaker 1: do that?
• 19:11
  Speaker 5: Do you want them to earn things? Yes, but if
• 19:14
  Speaker 5: you can prevent them from struggling, do it.
• 19:18
  Speaker 3: But I think I also think it's I mean, but
• 19:20
  Speaker 3: I think it's like I think that's like a two
• 19:22
  Speaker 3: way like a two way stream, because it's like, yo,
• 19:25
  Speaker 3: when you really when you really look at it, like
• 19:27
  Speaker 3: like you said, like I struggle, so you got to struggle.
• 19:29
  Speaker 3: And there is some people, there is some parents build
• 19:31
  Speaker 3: that whole hard that will put it, that will put
• 19:33
  Speaker 3: you out there just so you can struggle. And then
• 19:35
  Speaker 3: you come crawling like you come crawling back like so
• 19:38
  Speaker 3: you know you you fall, you know you fall, you
• 19:40
  Speaker 3: scraping and knees, and then it's like now you know
• 19:42
  Speaker 3: you're going back and you're going back to mind to
• 19:43
  Speaker 3: help fix the problem.
• 19:44
  Speaker 5: If I come into a windfall, right damn Now, Am
• 19:47
  Speaker 5: I gonna tell my son he never got to work
• 19:48
  Speaker 5: another day in his life and earn anything. No?
• 19:51
  Speaker 2: Am I gonna make sure he good? Of course?
• 19:53
  Speaker 5: Yeah, absolutely, I'm gonna look out for him. But I'm
• 19:55
  Speaker 5: not gonna just give give give give it to him,
• 19:57
  Speaker 5: do it for him. No, I still want you to
• 19:59
  Speaker 5: go and Bill Jones like, I still want you to
• 20:01
  Speaker 5: go to school and and and you know, earn something
• 20:07
  Speaker 5: for yourself.
• 20:08
  Speaker 2: But I ain't gonna watch your phone. No, I'm not
• 20:10
  Speaker 2: gonna do that.
• 20:10
  Speaker 5: I probably would pay for you to go to school
• 20:12
  Speaker 5: so you wouldn't have to worry about financial and paying
• 20:14
  Speaker 5: all of that fucking money back and all of that stuff. Yeah,
• 20:16
  Speaker 5: I would do that if I had the money right now,
• 20:17
  Speaker 5: I would definitely pay for my son to go to college.
• 20:20
  Speaker 4: Like you want, sure, nigga, you won't pay me.
• 20:22
  Speaker 1: But I'm not going to You ain't never got you
• 20:23
  Speaker 1: go get a degree and go to fucking trades now,
• 20:26
  Speaker 1: because I feel like we always really going.
• 20:28
  Speaker 2: To make some money going to people sleeping trades.
• 20:30
  Speaker 1: Hvac. You could be electrician, you'd be a plumber. You
• 20:32
  Speaker 1: always need people going in the trades. Especially on trade.
• 20:34
  Speaker 1: There's a lot of these don't make the last.
• 20:37
  Speaker 2: Thing because you're not a four year degree, but you
• 20:39
  Speaker 2: can't get it.
• 20:40
  Speaker 1: You can be in your mid twenties. You could be
• 20:42
  Speaker 1: on your twenties making six figures as a journeyman or
• 20:47
  Speaker 1: as like a mass electrician. I'm not sure how they
• 20:49
  Speaker 1: like to be in the master plumb on mass electrician works.
• 20:51
  Speaker 5: Please dude, because I'm I'm cash happing you. Yeah, you
• 20:54
  Speaker 5: a cashp request and.
• 20:55
  Speaker 1: You get less less donald my, less debt, less debt
• 20:59
  Speaker 1: from a contry traditional for your college. But you can
• 21:02
  Speaker 1: be a multimillionaire or yeah, a multimillionaire with your own
• 21:06
  Speaker 1: plumbing company, depending on how much you want to grow
• 21:08
  Speaker 1: out of your own h fact or company based in
• 21:10
  Speaker 1: the trades. The options are endless, and you just don't
• 21:13
  Speaker 1: want to limit yourself to you know what thing I
• 21:15
  Speaker 1: talked to go ahead, I'm sorry, go ahead.
• 21:17
  Speaker 3: No, no, but what I'm saying, but also I mean,
• 21:19
  Speaker 3: just you know, just to touch on that, it's like, yo,
• 21:21
  Speaker 3: I went to a trade school. You're learning the skill
• 21:24
  Speaker 3: that you can take with you anyway. Like that, you
• 21:26
  Speaker 3: can take with you anywhere that you like, even if
• 21:30
  Speaker 3: like all else fails you. You you got that knowledge,
• 21:33
  Speaker 3: especially like if you're doing something like plumbing, electrician, electrician
• 21:37
  Speaker 3: or anything with h fact you have that.
• 21:39
  Speaker 4: You know, you got that knowledge.
• 21:40
  Speaker 3: You can work at a goddamn apartment complex as the
• 21:43
  Speaker 3: maintenance man and that gives you, you know, that give
• 21:46
  Speaker 3: that gives you free room and board because you know,
• 21:48
  Speaker 3: being a super Yep, you're taking care of You're taking
• 21:50
  Speaker 3: care of one of my nephews, you know what I mean.
• 21:53
  Speaker 3: And it's I think because he works.
• 21:55
  Speaker 5: Yep, you got you got roomen board's counting.
• 21:59
  Speaker 2: Room board, a something, he got a place. They is
• 22:01
  Speaker 2: what I'm saying.
• 22:02
  Speaker 3: But also I mean, but also take two. I mean,
• 22:05
  Speaker 3: just just to like bring it back to like you know,
• 22:07
  Speaker 3: your parents putting you out, don't. I mean sometimes I mean,
• 22:11
  Speaker 3: you know, I've learned why a lot of parents down south,
• 22:14
  Speaker 3: I mean a lot of families down south stay together
• 22:17
  Speaker 3: because like Seana said, eighteen year old, your parents that
• 22:20
  Speaker 3: like they they know, they know, they're not prepared to
• 22:22
  Speaker 3: go out of here, go out here, so it's like yo,
• 22:25
  Speaker 3: stay and usually some families stay together until you know,
• 22:28
  Speaker 3: like the kids like twenty one, twenty one, twenty.
• 22:31
  Speaker 1: Five, that's the thing with a lot of a lot
• 22:33
  Speaker 1: of Caribbean families who moved to the States, or families
• 22:37
  Speaker 1: who may have had like grandparents, may have come over
• 22:39
  Speaker 1: from like Haiti or Jamaica or something where you have
• 22:41
  Speaker 1: these huge, multi generational families in one house or they
• 22:44
  Speaker 1: live in like neighboring brownstones or row houses, where you
• 22:47
  Speaker 1: have the grandparents or great grandparents, and then in one apartment,
• 22:50
  Speaker 1: and then one daughter, husband and the kids in the
• 22:53
  Speaker 1: apartment downstairs, and in the son and his wife and
• 22:55
  Speaker 1: kids in this apartment across the street. You got the
• 22:58
  Speaker 1: sister with her family, and then the brother with his family.
• 23:01
  Speaker 1: Everybody's close knit, so where you can raise the kids
• 23:04
  Speaker 1: all together, and y'all, can you know you.
• 23:05
  Speaker 5: Have can house each other. They over here and build
• 23:08
  Speaker 5: they do. They come over here and build businesses and
• 23:10
  Speaker 5: bring their families over here. Asian people, the Caribbean people.
• 23:15
  Speaker 2: Stuff like that.
• 23:16
  Speaker 5: You would see them. You go on one of their places.
• 23:19
  Speaker 5: That's their family working there. They're keeping their money in
• 23:21
  Speaker 5: the family, and they're building each other up, and they
• 23:24
  Speaker 5: helping each other out, and they are keeping the kids.
• 23:27
  Speaker 2: And me mom got the kids, and Brolla got the kids, and.
• 23:31
  Speaker 1: You know, stuff like that multi generation.
• 23:33
  Speaker 2: I like stuff like that. I did.
• 23:35
  Speaker 5: I think that's a great thing because y'all y'all helping
• 23:38
  Speaker 5: each other out and y'all building each other up. And
• 23:40
  Speaker 5: their children are he are going to college and earning degrees,
• 23:43
  Speaker 5: and then when it's time for mama and them to
• 23:45
  Speaker 5: retire and stuff, they gonna make sure Mom and IM
• 23:47
  Speaker 5: good because mamay and them sacrificed to make sure that
• 23:50
  Speaker 5: they were good.
• 23:50
  Speaker 3: Also, No, but the whole family sacrifice because usually families
• 23:53
  Speaker 3: like that, everybody everybody works to put them, works to
• 23:56
  Speaker 3: put that one person through home, put that one person
• 23:58
  Speaker 3: through college.
• 24:00
  Speaker 1: They run it.
• 24:00
  Speaker 3: You know, like my grandmother said that the one I'm
• 24:03
  Speaker 3: the one African lady that she that she worked with
• 24:06
  Speaker 3: and she was working, her husband was working, and just
• 24:09
  Speaker 3: to put the kid through college. And then when they graduated,
• 24:11
  Speaker 3: they did they did the same thing, and it was like,
• 24:13
  Speaker 3: you know, they continue to they continue to train, and
• 24:17
  Speaker 3: it's like, you know, that's I mean, I believe that's
• 24:20
  Speaker 3: I mean, that's that's great. You know, that's a great time.
• 24:22
  Speaker 3: I me in great parents and in that aspect because
• 24:24
  Speaker 3: you preparing them prepared. I mean, you're prepared, like you
• 24:27
  Speaker 3: already like look, like you said, paying for what you're
• 24:30
  Speaker 3: showing them, like hall wark, you know, hallwork and doing things,
• 24:33
  Speaker 3: you know, doing things that like should always come back
• 24:35
  Speaker 3: to you.
• 24:36
  Speaker 1: I think we as American I'm not saying specifically Black Americans,
• 24:39
  Speaker 1: but we as Americans in general are very individualistic in
• 24:43
  Speaker 1: a lot of our aspects in terms of rape, you know,
• 24:45
  Speaker 1: being self focused and not necessarily like I said earlier,
• 24:49
  Speaker 1: being focused on the family unit and how you can
• 24:53
  Speaker 1: utilize the family unit to further yourself. Both sides have drawbacks,
• 24:57
  Speaker 1: both sides have pros and cons. But you know, we
• 24:59
  Speaker 1: can fintaste the pros of living in a multi generational
• 25:04
  Speaker 1: household or living in close proximity to your grandparents and
• 25:07
  Speaker 1: your aunts and uncles and your cousins, and you know, agreed.
• 25:11
  Speaker 1: But like to go back to what Shauna was saying
• 25:14
  Speaker 1: with Trey, I try to ask questions. I try to
• 25:17
  Speaker 1: stay on them. With the schoolwork, I was talking about
• 25:20
  Speaker 1: that before we record a last week's episode. You don't
• 25:22
  Speaker 1: want to limit yourself to opportunities out here because it's
• 25:26
  Speaker 1: getting harder and we all know that prices at the
• 25:29
  Speaker 1: grocery store are fucking expensive as hell. Utility bills through
• 25:34
  Speaker 1: the fucking roof. You're using less with spending more money
• 25:36
  Speaker 1: on utility. Bill talked about her administration opficely. If you know,
• 25:40
  Speaker 1: you know, depending on who you vote for, that's your business.
• 25:43
  Speaker 1: Just keep.
• 25:45
  Speaker 2: Thanks.
• 25:47
  Speaker 1: We voted for common I don't know about y'all. AnyWho.
• 25:51
  Speaker 1: You want to be able to prepare your kids to
• 25:53
  Speaker 1: go out into this real world and at least have
• 25:55
  Speaker 1: a fighting chance of establishing a life for themsel else. Thankfully,
• 26:01
  Speaker 1: we don't live in an area with a super high
• 26:02
  Speaker 1: cost of living, Like we're not in San Francisco or
• 26:05
  Speaker 1: LA or New York, you know, but you can go
• 26:09
  Speaker 1: out here. You may not be living in a lap
• 26:10
  Speaker 1: of luxury, but you can go out and get you
• 26:12
  Speaker 1: a studio or one bit room right working a full
• 26:15
  Speaker 1: time job. You can get you a little car and
• 26:17
  Speaker 1: get back and forth. Or you know, you go to
• 26:19
  Speaker 1: school or you know, get you a trade, get involved
• 26:22
  Speaker 1: in something. Don't just graduate and be like I want
• 26:24
  Speaker 1: to sit at home in the basement for the next
• 26:25
  Speaker 1: thirty years and I'm gonna be on Twitch streaming and
• 26:29
  Speaker 1: not everybody be a millionaire streaming. We move onto question.
• 26:34
  Speaker 1: This is going to wrap up make sure you know,
• 26:41
  Speaker 1: give your kids these opportunities, to set them up to
• 26:45
  Speaker 1: have opportunities. So access time the success. Yeah called me
• 26:50
  Speaker 1: last week? Ready for questions a week?
• 26:51
  Speaker 4: Yep, I'm ready chat.
• 26:57
  Speaker 1: So I'm gonna let you I'm ready. I'm gonna let
• 26:59
  Speaker 1: you all the question of the week this week. We
• 27:04
  Speaker 1: can do good good I'm not gonna tell you what
• 27:14
  Speaker 1: it is, but that's a damn good thing. So I'm
• 27:20
  Speaker 1: gonna let y'all decide. We can do option one or
• 27:25
  Speaker 1: option two. Option one is unhinged group chat names. Option
• 27:34
  Speaker 1: two is the weirdest aged, the weirdest adh thing you've
• 27:42
  Speaker 1: ever done. Where we're gonna question the week this week, Guys,
• 27:50
  Speaker 1: hold on, I can't play that because that's gotta be
• 27:52
  Speaker 1: right legeopardy thing.
• 27:54
  Speaker 3: I vote for yellow to say because the group names,
• 27:58
  Speaker 3: I don't where to give a fuck like what you
• 28:00
  Speaker 3: call like what you call your band of heathens.
• 28:04
  Speaker 1: Okay, excuse the funk out of me.
• 28:05
  Speaker 2: I think I'm changing the group check.
• 28:08
  Speaker 1: You should do that band of heathens. There was one
• 28:10
  Speaker 1: called ketchup sisters. I don't even want to know because
• 28:15
  Speaker 1: oh my god, you said, yeah, he fixing Jesus, welcome
• 28:24
  Speaker 1: to the Question of the Week segment of our show. Sure,
• 28:33
  Speaker 1: I scoured the interwebs, read my TikTok page. I find
• 28:37
  Speaker 1: diabolical questions, stupid scenario, stupid stories. Save them in our group.
• 28:41
  Speaker 1: Check the second one, maybe the third, and I bring
• 28:45
  Speaker 1: them up on the show to discuss and get a
• 28:48
  Speaker 1: reaction and raising from one to diabolical. You all ready
• 28:53
  Speaker 1: to get started, but the one y'all picked All right,
• 28:57
  Speaker 1: I'm bored. Tell me the weirdest ADHD thing you've ever done?
• 29:00
  Speaker 1: Not like I put soap in the washer, but but
• 29:03
  Speaker 1: forgot to start the laundry. I mean I backed into
• 29:05
  Speaker 1: my garage door because I forgot to open it. That
• 29:08
  Speaker 1: level of un hinged damn right, yep, Remember seventeen years
• 29:20
  Speaker 1: later that I left a little laundry in an apartment
• 29:23
  Speaker 1: washer when I moved.
• 29:24
  Speaker 5: Out seventeen years later, Like, damn, that's why I couldn't
• 29:30
  Speaker 5: find my God damn, my fucking ticket.
• 29:32
  Speaker 1: Socks, Nigga, that was my favorite past soze.
• 29:35
  Speaker 2: Damn, I shut your.
• 29:38
  Speaker 3: Line ass up. That was your favorite pair of socks, nigga.
• 29:40
  Speaker 3: You'd have found it. You'd have thought about that shit.
• 29:42
  Speaker 5: Like, wait a minute, I bought a shirt that I've
• 29:46
  Speaker 5: been able to find since I bought it.
• 29:51
  Speaker 2: I had no idea what that shirt was, the dry hoghy.
• 29:54
  Speaker 5: It's just a little five dollar, little five dollar T shirt,
• 29:57
  Speaker 5: And I remember, I just don't know what the fuck
• 29:59
  Speaker 5: I did with I've been looking forward for a long time.
• 30:03
  Speaker 1: I sound like heads, we're gonna move on from that.
• 30:07
  Speaker 1: I'm bored. Tell me the weirdst eighty h thing you've
• 30:10
  Speaker 1: ever done? Made cookies, put them in the oven, hurried
• 30:14
  Speaker 1: and dropped some off at school, locked baby in the car.
• 30:17
  Speaker 1: Firemen were called. Then decided I wanted to make cookies
• 30:19
  Speaker 1: and ran to the store. Came home to find the
• 30:21
  Speaker 1: same fireman.
• 30:25
  Speaker 2: Wow, wow, you just was having a bad day.
• 30:29
  Speaker 4: That sounded like some sim ship like, oh.
• 30:32
  Speaker 2: It was burned.
• 30:36
  Speaker 6: The house down, Damn my god today rating I hope
• 30:43
  Speaker 6: you married them. Thank God for Jesus.
• 30:47
  Speaker 2: That's the rating for that one, because they could have
• 30:49
  Speaker 2: ended words you could have burnt your house down.
• 30:51
  Speaker 1: Pulled up to my house due to my neighbor calling
• 30:53
  Speaker 1: because the same one. This is the follow up response.
• 30:57
  Speaker 1: Pulled up to my house due to my neighbor calling
• 30:59
  Speaker 1: the fire I'm pulled up to my house due to
• 31:03
  Speaker 1: my neighbor calling because the firelarm going off happened for
• 31:07
  Speaker 1: a long time. The cookies and the oven were goondish
• 31:10
  Speaker 1: at that point. And then somebody said, but since the
• 31:13
  Speaker 1: day you decided to start taking your meds for ADHD.
• 31:16
  Speaker 1: And she said, it was only a twenty minute bake.
• 31:18
  Speaker 1: School was five blocks away. I had plenty of time.
• 31:22
  Speaker 2: Nope, no you didn't.
• 31:23
  Speaker 3: Mama's nah, plenty of time for somebody. They think they
• 31:29
  Speaker 3: got they think they got a week.
• 31:31
  Speaker 2: No, I've done it.
• 31:32
  Speaker 1: I know time blindness, but I ain't. I ain't never
• 31:34
  Speaker 1: done that next one, and I'm doing.
• 31:36
  Speaker 5: I was with nothing in the other that I've left
• 31:38
  Speaker 5: the iron on, which I don't know how I did that,
• 31:41
  Speaker 5: because I'm usually a hypochondriac and I'll go back and
• 31:44
  Speaker 5: check stuff several times. You don't know how I did it,
• 31:47
  Speaker 5: but I went in to run that night, and you know, hypochondriac.
• 31:51
  Speaker 5: I'm a hypochondriac. I think the worst about illnesses, Like
• 31:56
  Speaker 5: maybe that's the wrong work. I am what's the word
• 31:59
  Speaker 5: I'm looking for?
• 32:01
  Speaker 1: Ain't I said that this? This ain't being anxious or
• 32:04
  Speaker 1: like OCD.
• 32:04
  Speaker 2: I'm overly anxious.
• 32:05
  Speaker 5: I guess maybe that's a better word for it, because
• 32:08
  Speaker 5: I'm like I I'm the person that comes down to
• 32:11
  Speaker 5: check the doors multiple times.
• 32:13
  Speaker 2: Yeah yeah, and check the other even do I didn't
• 32:15
  Speaker 2: turn it on that day.
• 32:16
  Speaker 1: I've done that. I've checked the stove like a block
• 32:19
  Speaker 1: from home and then turn around like, wait a minute, nigga,
• 32:21
  Speaker 1: you ain't fix sure to be white.
• 32:22
  Speaker 5: Take other day, I was on my way, I was
• 32:24
  Speaker 5: going to work, and I on my shirt that morning
• 32:27
  Speaker 5: because I forgot to on it that night.
• 32:28
  Speaker 2: Yeah, And I came home and I was sitting on
• 32:34
  Speaker 2: my being and I kept hearing something click.
• 32:35
  Speaker 5: My eye makes a clicking sound when it because it
• 32:38
  Speaker 5: goes like on and off, I think, and it makes
• 32:40
  Speaker 5: a clicking sound.
• 32:41
  Speaker 2: And I was like, what the funk is that?
• 32:44
  Speaker 5: I said, Chase you down there and messing with something,
• 32:46
  Speaker 5: because she'd be on the big fine and ship. And
• 32:49
  Speaker 5: then I just happened to look over and I saw
• 32:51
  Speaker 5: the light lit up on it. I said, oh lord,
• 32:53
  Speaker 5: I almost burnt my house down, Jesus, but.
• 32:57
  Speaker 4: It's in my mind.
• 32:58
  Speaker 1: I created a.
• 33:00
  Speaker 5: Nario and my mind now that Chase ran in my
• 33:03
  Speaker 5: room and hit the cord and the iron hit the
• 33:05
  Speaker 5: floor and then the carpet then got set on fire and.
• 33:07
  Speaker 2: Then poof the whole row of houses is gone because
• 33:10
  Speaker 2: I left iron on.
• 33:11
  Speaker 1: She teld she watched Final Destination six. I'm bored. Tell
• 33:15
  Speaker 1: me the weiratest adhd d thing you've done or ever done,
• 33:20
  Speaker 1: Not like I put soap in the wahup but forgot
• 33:22
  Speaker 1: to start the laundry. I mean I backed into my
• 33:24
  Speaker 1: garage door because I forgot to open it that kind
• 33:27
  Speaker 1: of unhinged road clear across town with a pair of
• 33:30
  Speaker 1: scissors on my back bumper, no clue how they didn't
• 33:32
  Speaker 1: fall off. Then didn't recognize them as my own scissors
• 33:36
  Speaker 1: after parking it, thought someone must threatening me.
• 33:42
  Speaker 2: What kind of bumper do you have? Then the scissors
• 33:44
  Speaker 2: didn't come on? What kind of smooth ass room do
• 33:47
  Speaker 2: you live?
• 33:47
  Speaker 5: Because in Baltimore them scissors would have came off as
• 33:49
  Speaker 5: soon as you pulled out then, but on wherever you
• 33:51
  Speaker 5: was going, because riding through Baltimore City specifically with knocked
• 33:56
  Speaker 5: the sonic coins out of your fucking call.
• 33:59
  Speaker 2: So they definitely but knock some sisters off your.
• 34:01
  Speaker 5: Bumper, like you the heard that they changed the radio
• 34:06
  Speaker 5: station and your damn called the bumps and and then Baltimore.
• 34:09
  Speaker 1: You go a pothole so hard to make you want
• 34:11
  Speaker 1: to just sit down in silence the rest of the right.
• 34:13
  Speaker 2: Now, your titty that smacked you in the face because
• 34:15
  Speaker 2: you didn't hit a pile with so fucking hard to boom.
• 34:21
  Speaker 5: Hey, what rating fucking glasses in south sideways? Dumb ass,
• 34:26
  Speaker 5: don't speed bumps upset my nerves.
• 34:28
  Speaker 2: I'm sorry that that was that.
• 34:31
  Speaker 4: Then your dumb ass look at the scissors like somebody threatening.
• 34:35
  Speaker 6: She forgot there was gonna cut your ass all right,
• 34:39
  Speaker 6: like at least motherfucker with a left of no, like.
• 34:45
  Speaker 1: I'm gonna kill you, bitch next one. I'm so confused,
• 34:48
  Speaker 1: I'm bored. Tell me the weirdest ADHD thing you've ever done.
• 34:52
  Speaker 1: Went on auto pilot and drove to work. I'd been
• 34:55
  Speaker 1: a stay at home line for three years at that
• 34:56
  Speaker 1: point and hadn't worked at that location in eighty.
• 34:59
  Speaker 2: Oh damn, baby, you need some rest, you see.
• 35:03
  Speaker 1: That's something that this happened to me one time. It's
• 35:06
  Speaker 1: called hipway highway hypnosis, where your brain, you'll because you
• 35:12
  Speaker 1: you're driving to a location that you always drive to.
• 35:15
  Speaker 2: Your brain tells you to go that way.
• 35:16
  Speaker 1: Yeah, your subconscious takes over and you'll get their safety,
• 35:19
  Speaker 1: but won't have any recollection of actually like driving, that's
• 35:22
  Speaker 1: happened to me. It's called highway.
• 35:24
  Speaker 5: That's happened to me, especially after working from home for
• 35:28
  Speaker 5: so long, and I found myself driving to my old
• 35:32
  Speaker 5: location and.
• 35:35
  Speaker 2: I was like, wait, you don't working no more?
• 35:38
  Speaker 4: Not I don't work iny more.
• 35:39
  Speaker 1: You're supposed to go.
• 35:40
  Speaker 2: This way, not this way.
• 35:41
  Speaker 1: But it's scary at something because you literally have no
• 35:43
  Speaker 1: recollection of how fucked Like I'm in my car, but
• 35:46
  Speaker 1: why am I not in my house? And I'm It's
• 35:49
  Speaker 1: called it's called highway hypnosis. Yep, you're getting your car,
• 35:53
  Speaker 1: your subconscious mind takes over and you just zone out.
• 35:57
  Speaker 5: I remember when I first moved back in town from
• 36:00
  Speaker 5: Howa County, that I got off work and I got
• 36:02
  Speaker 5: on the highway to go to Howard County. I was like, wall,
• 36:04
  Speaker 5: I don't live out there anymore, and had to get
• 36:06
  Speaker 5: off on an exit and turn back around because then,
• 36:08
  Speaker 5: but you live closer, you could have.
• 36:09
  Speaker 2: Been home twenty minutes.
• 36:10
  Speaker 1: That happened. That's happened. What happens a lot of times
• 36:12
  Speaker 1: that you'll be in the car going somewhere, but you'll
• 36:14
  Speaker 1: zone out and your brain just goes elsewhere. But then
• 36:17
  Speaker 1: you'll come to ten fifteen seconds later and you're really
• 36:20
  Speaker 1: You're like, shit, I'm still in the car, driving on
• 36:22
  Speaker 1: an interstate going seventy miles an hour, and my brain
• 36:25
  Speaker 1: just like yep, highway hypnosis. It's a thing. Looked that up.
• 36:30
  Speaker 1: Highway hypnosis. Next one that's gonna make it dead, not
• 36:35
  Speaker 1: necessarily not make it dead. I'm bored. Tell me the
• 36:39
  Speaker 1: weirdest ADHD thing you've ever done. I was leaving the
• 36:43
  Speaker 1: house and my husband said, don't forget I'm parked behind you.
• 36:46
  Speaker 1: I said, no problem, I can back up around you.
• 36:49
  Speaker 1: Definitely smashed right into his car with a lot of force.
• 36:52
  Speaker 5: Sh As probably came outside like betts.
• 37:02
  Speaker 2: I should have just but you didn't see the car
• 37:03
  Speaker 2: behind you.
• 37:04
  Speaker 4: No, no, you know what, you know what's so fucked up?
• 37:06
  Speaker 1: Bernie.
• 37:07
  Speaker 4: She gonna blame it on the husband.
• 37:09
  Speaker 2: You knew I was leaving before you, bitch.
• 37:13
  Speaker 1: I told you that I paused behind you.
• 37:17
  Speaker 2: We just got to fucking bump a fix on my car.
• 37:21
  Speaker 2: Stupid ass.
• 37:24
  Speaker 4: Reading all right, child, ain't gonna be.
• 37:27
  Speaker 5: They may need to take yours, they may need to
• 37:30
  Speaker 5: take your license.
• 37:30
  Speaker 1: You're in danger to yourself and others.
• 37:33
  Speaker 2: Yeah, you probably shouldn't.
• 37:35
  Speaker 3: Need to be too more these too many more, these
• 37:38
  Speaker 3: stupid asses, and you got one more time, Charlie.
• 37:43
  Speaker 1: Your ass if you remember, motherfucking I'm boy tell you
• 37:51
  Speaker 1: the weirdest a d h D thing you've ever done.
• 37:56
  Speaker 1: I waited for a stop, signed to turn green completely sober.
• 38:01
  Speaker 5: I said, I did that what I was trying to
• 38:03
  Speaker 5: when you were what, I didn't say anything. I said
• 38:08
  Speaker 5: I did that before.
• 38:09
  Speaker 2: That's what I said, when long time ago, get on
• 38:13
  Speaker 2: my face, when a long time ago?
• 38:18
  Speaker 4: I believe the line of questions that you need is
• 38:20
  Speaker 4: what were you doing a long time ago? Mm?
• 38:22
  Speaker 6: Hm.
• 38:23
  Speaker 1: Probably came from Adictable.
• 38:28
  Speaker 2: She was I remember her.
• 38:30
  Speaker 1: She was rebooting.
• 38:32
  Speaker 5: Was man.
• 38:35
  Speaker 4: Ain't nothing like ain't nothing like being uh like blow?
• 38:44
  Speaker 1: I think that's the episode title, carture blown blow blowing
• 38:47
  Speaker 1: on the cartridge, Blowing on the cartridge.
• 38:51
  Speaker 3: Nah, it ain't nothing funny than being like yo, we
• 38:54
  Speaker 3: nigga said in the parking lot, trying sob up. This
• 38:56
  Speaker 3: nigga backed up and then swear like what the fuck
• 38:58
  Speaker 3: are you doing? I was trying and I hit the tree,
• 39:01
  Speaker 3: like what tree?
• 39:02
  Speaker 4: Come found? This nigga was looking at the damn the
• 39:05
  Speaker 4: little little egg rusher.
• 39:08
  Speaker 1: Next one. See, I'm glad I ain't never been that
• 39:11
  Speaker 1: damn drunk before. I'm bored. Tell me the weirdest adhd
• 39:17
  Speaker 1: thing you've ever done? Not like I put soap in
• 39:20
  Speaker 1: the washer but forgot to start it. I mean I
• 39:22
  Speaker 1: backed into my garage door because I forgot to open it,
• 39:25
  Speaker 1: that kind of unhinged. Went to Disney World. It was
• 39:28
  Speaker 1: so excited I left my car running for fifteen hours.
• 39:32
  Speaker 5: How it didn't run out of gates, it didn't cut
• 39:36
  Speaker 5: off nothing. You must don't have a remote store.
• 39:40
  Speaker 1: This ain't having back in ninety two.
• 39:42
  Speaker 2: So, oh shit, that wasn't a thing.
• 39:46
  Speaker 5: Oh shit, Back in ninety two, cars got like a
• 39:48
  Speaker 5: like a thousand and seventy six thousand miles on the gallon,
• 39:52
  Speaker 5: I guess, was like.
• 39:53
  Speaker 1: Eighty five cents a gallon. I mean, yes, kids, yes,
• 39:56
  Speaker 1: children's back in the olden times, back when we went
• 39:59
  Speaker 1: in high schoo like two thousand and two thousand and one,
• 40:01
  Speaker 1: gas really was like ninety five cents a gallon. I
• 40:04
  Speaker 1: remember that.
• 40:06
  Speaker 4: I'm still stuck.
• 40:09
  Speaker 5: Yeah, there was no more used to be, no more
• 40:12
  Speaker 5: than my coworker. What are my supervisors told me the
• 40:17
  Speaker 5: cigarettes used to be a dollar fifty. There was some
• 40:20
  Speaker 5: lucky strikes.
• 40:22
  Speaker 3: Virginia slims, Paul, No, but I'm still stuck on, Like, okay,
• 40:32
  Speaker 3: so you want to the whole you want so Disney
• 40:36
  Speaker 3: World is like a thing, like a like a like
• 40:39
  Speaker 3: a whole like destination, meaning like Disney World isn't just
• 40:43
  Speaker 3: one like one right, So you had to get out
• 40:48
  Speaker 3: your car. You had to get in and get out
• 40:50
  Speaker 3: your car, So I mean wow.
• 40:53
  Speaker 1: So yeah, according to this real quick Aaron, you could
• 40:57
  Speaker 1: average gas prices in Maryland in January of two thousand
• 41:00
  Speaker 1: was approximately eighty six cents a gallon. In December of
• 41:04
  Speaker 1: two thousand, it was approximately a dollar and one cents
• 41:07
  Speaker 1: per gallon.
• 41:11
  Speaker 2: That's why we used to be able to fill up
• 41:12
  Speaker 2: for less than twenty dollars.
• 41:13
  Speaker 1: Eighty six cents a gallon for fuck for regular mm hmmm, nigga,
• 41:19
  Speaker 1: remember that you gas went up almost five dollars a gallon.
• 41:21
  Speaker 1: It wasn't like what was that twenty ten, twenty eleven?
• 41:25
  Speaker 4: Yeah, yo, it took me.
• 41:29
  Speaker 2: Nobody was getting no ride then, ship didn't get myself
• 41:32
  Speaker 2: a ride.
• 41:33
  Speaker 1: You got gas money.
• 41:34
  Speaker 4: You'll be like five hours, y'all, gotta pay that. Ain't
• 41:38
  Speaker 4: that ain't gonna.
• 41:38
  Speaker 2: Bes ain't no gas money that'll get you around.
• 41:41
  Speaker 1: The corner, all right, And that just straight Guess what
• 41:45
  Speaker 1: was you saying before I interrupt you? My bad, nah, But.
• 41:47
  Speaker 3: I'm just saying, it's like I'm still stuck on the
• 41:49
  Speaker 3: fact that it's like, Yo, you had to get in
• 41:51
  Speaker 3: and get out your car.
• 41:53
  Speaker 4: You was that excited that you that you ain't turned
• 41:56
  Speaker 4: like you ain't trying to get ship off.
• 41:58
  Speaker 2: Hey one of the.
• 41:59
  Speaker 5: Mickey Mouse scream board and some Mickey ears and did
• 42:05
  Speaker 5: get on the rollicle.
• 42:09
  Speaker 3: Now yo, Now, now all the oil and fucking corn
• 42:13
  Speaker 3: because you left and running for fifteen.
• 42:14
  Speaker 1: Hours, I'm bored. Tell me the weirdest adhd thing you've
• 42:19
  Speaker 1: ever done? Not like I put soap in the washer
• 42:21
  Speaker 1: but forgot to start the laundry. I mean, I backed
• 42:24
  Speaker 1: into my garage door because I forgot to open it.
• 42:27
  Speaker 1: That kind of unhinged. Drove my car to the bagel
• 42:30
  Speaker 1: shop forgot. I drove and walked back to the office,
• 42:33
  Speaker 1: left work and thought my car was stolen.
• 42:35
  Speaker 4: Damn, damn, okay, damn, But.
• 42:45
  Speaker 2: Why did you drive to the bagel office anyway? I
• 42:48
  Speaker 2: at the bagel place. If you was close enough to walk,
• 42:51
  Speaker 2: I'm confused, unless you was coming from home.
• 42:53
  Speaker 1: Maybe she had to run an errand before going to
• 42:54
  Speaker 1: the baker shop.
• 42:55
  Speaker 5: Unless you was coming from home and you stopped at
• 42:58
  Speaker 5: the babel shop and it was like office is right now.
• 43:00
  Speaker 1: Maybe she had to go like get a prescription on
• 43:02
  Speaker 1: the lunch break. It's like I'm gonna get a bagel
• 43:03
  Speaker 1: and then it was like, oh, ship, well I'm walking
• 43:05
  Speaker 1: back to the office like I normally do that that.
• 43:10
  Speaker 4: I can't see that.
• 43:11
  Speaker 2: Girl.
• 43:11
  Speaker 1: I would have left my I don't know what.
• 43:14
  Speaker 4: Somebody stole my damn car like that hit the line.
• 43:18
  Speaker 1: Wait, girl, girl, didn't you go to the bagel shop early?
• 43:21
  Speaker 4: No, she hit the alarm, and it's like it's like
• 43:23
  Speaker 4: like like, oh I see.
• 43:28
  Speaker 1: That, Oh Ship, I see my car. It's at the
• 43:30
  Speaker 1: instur front.
• 43:31
  Speaker 2: The damn insurgents then came and moved my car.
• 43:35
  Speaker 1: Right.
• 43:36
  Speaker 3: That's that's that's fucking funny, like wow, calling niggas and
• 43:43
  Speaker 3: like yo, bitch, and that's you know, that's the thing.
• 43:46
  Speaker 4: It's like, bitch, I'd have left the motherfucker at the guy.
• 43:50
  Speaker 1: That bagel shop. You the only calling that part of
• 43:53
  Speaker 1: the parking lot now because then I was there for
• 43:56
  Speaker 1: thirty It's six o'clock. You get off work, it's dark.
• 43:58
  Speaker 1: You the only calling that list. Somebody stole my co sh.
• 44:03
  Speaker 4: Okay, everybody's gonna call and start calling you do and.
• 44:09
  Speaker 1: Oh, dude over here, I'm bored. Tell me the weirdest
• 44:13
  Speaker 1: a d h D thing you've ever done. I forgot
• 44:16
  Speaker 1: to go to a banquet where I was a guest speaker.
• 44:18
  Speaker 1: I even baked cookies for it.
• 44:21
  Speaker 4: Oh damn not the dull strawberry.
• 44:24
  Speaker 2: They won't extra. It's no more time, No more time.
• 44:27
  Speaker 1: Cherry, Cherry. Where are you here, girl? No, I'm at
• 44:29
  Speaker 1: the house on the couch watching about the you know
• 44:32
  Speaker 1: about about showing bick again this bit. You know the
• 44:37
  Speaker 1: banquet was today? What banquet? The one when you were
• 44:40
  Speaker 1: the keynote speaker.
• 44:41
  Speaker 4: This bitch pulled the dull strawberry.
• 44:44
  Speaker 2: That was cocaine.
• 44:46
  Speaker 1: So that's I made those peanut butter cookies. Kiss me
• 44:50
  Speaker 1: eating over the past day.
• 44:56
  Speaker 2: Yeah, reefing, I'm cookie sid I'm bored.
• 45:02
  Speaker 1: Tell me the weirdest ADHD thing you've ever done. Gently
• 45:08
  Speaker 1: placed the phone on the night stand and tossed the
• 45:09
  Speaker 1: glass of water.
• 45:10
  Speaker 3: On the.
• 45:17
  Speaker 2: That was good.
• 45:19
  Speaker 1: Okay, a.
• 45:26
  Speaker 2: Ship, change my fucking ship.
• 45:30
  Speaker 1: Well, at least it was just water.
• 45:31
  Speaker 2: I just took them she and dry.
• 45:32
  Speaker 1: It wasn't like tark cherry juice or something you try
• 45:36
  Speaker 1: to blue.
• 45:39
  Speaker 4: Jsica that ship don't get it. That shit don't come
• 45:41
  Speaker 4: out right away.
• 45:43
  Speaker 1: This cherry juice. No, if it was blood, that'd be
• 45:44
  Speaker 1: something different.
• 45:45
  Speaker 4: But uh us, some doing done in the little toothbrush.
• 45:52
  Speaker 1: I'm bored. Tell me the weird this adhd thing you've
• 45:55
  Speaker 1: ever done? Drove forty five minutes to work barefoot, walked
• 46:00
  Speaker 1: in and told my boss I forgot my shoes. His response,
• 46:03
  Speaker 1: how does one forget shoes?
• 46:04
  Speaker 6: Me?
• 46:05
  Speaker 1: I don't know. My brain doesn't work like normal people's.
• 46:11
  Speaker 2: So you didn't feel nothing underneath you tell you now.
• 46:17
  Speaker 2: I left the house and slippers. Forget that.
• 46:19
  Speaker 5: I did my shoes gonna It was like, yeah, ship.
• 46:27
  Speaker 5: Like I was in the car and it was like,
• 46:28
  Speaker 5: what the fuck you got going on? That was more
• 46:31
  Speaker 5: like a sleep thing.
• 46:32
  Speaker 3: I done left the house with two different shoes on
• 46:35
  Speaker 3: because I got dressed in the dark and put with
• 46:38
  Speaker 3: the shoes and like put the shoes. I was like, oh,
• 46:39
  Speaker 3: I ain't that a bitch fucking I'm out here, I'm
• 46:43
  Speaker 3: go ahead, let me go to this market.
• 46:46
  Speaker 1: I'm going ahead, Mersey yet ready for next? Mm hmm,
• 46:51
  Speaker 1: I'm bored. Tell me the girdst adhd thing you've ever done.
• 46:58
  Speaker 1: Swallow a handful of change and with two ironprofen in
• 47:01
  Speaker 1: my cash registered drawer? What the fuck that ship?
• 47:08
  Speaker 4: Don't even wait to say, no, nigga, you no, no
• 47:16
  Speaker 4: that that.
• 47:17
  Speaker 2: Didn't feel one people going down to you.
• 47:18
  Speaker 1: Or let's taste like metal.
• 47:21
  Speaker 4: I said that shouldn't taste like that, shouldn't taste.
• 47:24
  Speaker 5: You swallow the damn handful of It's just say you
• 47:26
  Speaker 5: you you dropped the pills and do the change in
• 47:28
  Speaker 5: your mouth.
• 47:28
  Speaker 2: That's what you did. You didn't swallow no fucking change,
• 47:31
  Speaker 2: because what kind of throat you got?
• 47:33
  Speaker 4: Hm? Got throat?
• 47:37
  Speaker 1: Fucking throat baby, mm hmmm, I'm bored. Tell me the
• 47:44
  Speaker 1: weirdest adhd thing you've ever done. I needed to throw
• 47:48
  Speaker 1: a frozen chicken. Took it out of the freezer and
• 47:51
  Speaker 1: couldn't find it. A day later, I found it in
• 47:53
  Speaker 1: the dryer with all of my sheets.
• 47:57
  Speaker 2: Cool things. Now, all yeah, she's got stuff for lockers,
• 48:03
  Speaker 2: all right, Yes, it's just just.
• 48:04
  Speaker 4: I'm gonna be real with you most of this ship.
• 48:07
  Speaker 1: So did the chicken get cooked in the dry tastes
• 48:11
  Speaker 1: like down and telling some.
• 48:13
  Speaker 2: Ship Josh Mama would do.
• 48:15
  Speaker 5: Put that zip bag and it's like them people that
• 48:19
  Speaker 5: be cooking salmon and ship in the dishwasher.
• 48:22
  Speaker 4: Mm hmmmm, fuck that ship most of the ship. Then
• 48:29
  Speaker 4: we're like yo, you be like yo, what the fuck
• 48:31
  Speaker 4: are you going through?
• 48:31
  Speaker 1: That you were that that you that genuinely that distracted
• 48:35
  Speaker 1: and or forgetful.
• 48:40
  Speaker 4: I will say that I do get I do get
• 48:42
  Speaker 4: side at work.
• 48:43
  Speaker 3: I do get side tracked, like I get side tracked
• 48:46
  Speaker 3: like motherfucker, Like I get sent down the hallway to
• 48:49
  Speaker 3: go do something.
• 48:50
  Speaker 4: Then I forget what the fuck?
• 48:51
  Speaker 3: Then I do I get asked to do something else
• 48:53
  Speaker 3: to forget what the fuck I was doing the first time,
• 48:55
  Speaker 3: to go back to the classroom, like well way the.
• 48:57
  Speaker 1: Paint like, oh ship, I'm bad, I'm bored. Tell me
• 49:03
  Speaker 1: the weirdest ADHD thing you've ever done. Lost my phone
• 49:06
  Speaker 1: in the movie theater and had everyone looking for it,
• 49:09
  Speaker 1: had a friend call it, and it had been in
• 49:10
  Speaker 1: my hand the whole time. Had literally been using my
• 49:13
  Speaker 1: phone flashlight to look for my phone.
• 49:16
  Speaker 2: I'm sorry, I've done the phone thing before I where's
• 49:19
  Speaker 2: my phone?
• 49:19
  Speaker 1: And I was on it.
• 49:20
  Speaker 2: I've done that. I've done that.
• 49:23
  Speaker 4: Yeah, that's related.
• 49:24
  Speaker 2: It wasn't that bad. I've done that. I can't find
• 49:26
  Speaker 2: my phone.
• 49:28
  Speaker 1: Where's my damn phone?
• 49:29
  Speaker 4: As soon as you call it, hold right back.
• 49:38
  Speaker 3: It happened, and you got the niggas on the other
• 49:40
  Speaker 3: end of the phone thinking that you're using bluetoothan phones
• 49:42
  Speaker 3: or some ship like how.
• 49:45
  Speaker 1: How I'm bored? Tell me the weirdest ADHD thing you've
• 49:51
  Speaker 1: ever done. I flew to Atlanta for a weekend stay
• 49:55
  Speaker 1: and forgot the back clothes. Wow, what is my luggage?
• 50:04
  Speaker 2: Bitch?
• 50:04
  Speaker 1: How do you go through? You went through?
• 50:06
  Speaker 2: You want tout t s A. Where are my coase?
• 50:12
  Speaker 1: Ma'am, ma'am?
• 50:14
  Speaker 3: All that flight has been recovered. You want to check
• 50:18
  Speaker 3: in and they asked you do you want to check
• 50:21
  Speaker 3: your bag?
• 50:22
  Speaker 1: Hey, Mia, girl, don't believe it. I did, girl, I
• 50:27
  Speaker 1: didn't left. I left my damn suitcase at that damn house. Well, girl,
• 50:31
  Speaker 1: you totally come check on your plants. The suitcase is
• 50:34
  Speaker 1: sitting on your bed unpacked. What the.
• 50:38
  Speaker 7: I A?
• 50:41
  Speaker 2: Can you take it to ups and overnight.
• 50:44
  Speaker 1: By the time But it's time to oh, bitch, I
• 50:49
  Speaker 1: guess I gotta go to to get some DRIs like
• 50:52
  Speaker 1: I'm a medicine in in my carry on bag.
• 50:54
  Speaker 4: But that's what I'm saying. No, that's what I'm saying.
• 50:57
  Speaker 4: You had to check your ship and wage your ship.
• 50:59
  Speaker 4: How the fuck.
• 51:02
  Speaker 1: It happens? People? People are forgetful, apparently, I'm bored. Tell
• 51:05
  Speaker 1: me the weirdest ADHD thing you've ever done? Actual sentence,
• 51:11
  Speaker 1: I spoke at work. He's not the brightest ball being
• 51:15
  Speaker 1: the light bulb thing. I was in the middle of
• 51:18
  Speaker 1: a sentence. I forgot where it was going.
• 51:20
  Speaker 4: Done that too. Matter of fact, I've done.
• 51:26
  Speaker 1: Ship the thing, the thing. You put the thing with
• 51:30
  Speaker 1: the other thing and go with the thing, and that's
• 51:32
  Speaker 1: how the thing work because the thing is with the
• 51:33
  Speaker 1: other thing.
• 51:34
  Speaker 3: Who's blind and up and what you called it's on
• 51:42
  Speaker 3: the of my tongue.
• 51:43
  Speaker 1: I don't know what is that thing called.
• 51:45
  Speaker 4: The whole time, the whole time, this nigga, this nigga
• 51:47
  Speaker 4: trying to say nice thing.
• 51:48
  Speaker 1: Three hours later, damn it sucking out looked.
• 51:56
  Speaker 4: But yeah, I've done that.
• 51:59
  Speaker 1: I've done that.
• 52:00
  Speaker 4: I've done that on the show. I've done that here
• 52:02
  Speaker 4: on this podcast. Y'all got y'all got me on here
• 52:04
  Speaker 4: doing it.
• 52:05
  Speaker 1: No we anything anyway, Boy, tell me the weirdest ADHD
• 52:12
  Speaker 1: thing you've ever done. Not me, but my husband fills
• 52:16
  Speaker 1: water chamber and loads a pot in the cure rig
• 52:19
  Speaker 1: hits go with no cup, panics, grab cup, grabs cup,
• 52:23
  Speaker 1: puts down next to cu rig, attempts to collect coffee
• 52:25
  Speaker 1: and hands and transfer transfer the cup.
• 52:30
  Speaker 2: Shh, I don't think that's adhd. He just might.
• 52:37
  Speaker 4: No, No, that nigga just panicked.
• 52:39
  Speaker 1: God damn it. And it's like that reminds me of
• 52:44
  Speaker 1: the video with the mom and her son and they're
• 52:46
  Speaker 1: in the kitchen and she's like, the bottom of the pie,
• 52:49
  Speaker 1: the pot is hot. And he goes to the bottom
• 52:51
  Speaker 1: of the pot is hot. The bottom of the pot
• 52:54
  Speaker 1: is hot. He doesn't. It takes him like four months
• 52:59
  Speaker 1: saying that.
• 52:59
  Speaker 2: Be like he said, the bottom of the pot, it's hot.
• 53:08
  Speaker 2: She was like, I've done that. I've had that moment
• 53:11
  Speaker 2: with my own child.
• 53:12
  Speaker 4: Same thing, I mean, the same thing with what was
• 53:14
  Speaker 4: going on. I was like the same thing with the
• 53:16
  Speaker 4: lady and her daughter.
• 53:17
  Speaker 2: After a while, I was like, I'm just gonna let
• 53:18
  Speaker 2: him touch it so he can go. Dude, dumb ass.
• 53:22
  Speaker 1: I just said that.
• 53:24
  Speaker 2: The fucking she did, she snacked on him. It was funny.
• 53:29
  Speaker 4: Tell me if bull Jimmy out two happles.
• 53:34
  Speaker 1: I'm bored. Tell me the weirdest ADHD thing you've ever done.
• 53:38
  Speaker 1: One of my college classes did superlatives. I went to
• 53:41
  Speaker 1: the event, got over stimulated, left before receiving mine. I
• 53:44
  Speaker 1: was voted most mysterious and wasn't there to pick.
• 53:47
  Speaker 4: Up my award. I mean that's the kind of said.
• 53:51
  Speaker 4: That kind of worked out for you.
• 53:52
  Speaker 1: Bro, mm hmm, he said, he said, Now it's so mysterious.
• 54:03
  Speaker 1: I'm bored. Tell me the weirdest ADHD thing you've ever done?
• 54:07
  Speaker 1: Pay for my food at a drive through and then
• 54:09
  Speaker 1: drove off without getting the food. Had to do the
• 54:11
  Speaker 1: drive through a shame. Hello, I forgot my food here?
• 54:14
  Speaker 4: Yeah, same thing that that was.
• 54:17
  Speaker 2: So that's when you're tired.
• 54:19
  Speaker 1: Ship.
• 54:20
  Speaker 4: I pulled off. I pulled off with the with the
• 54:22
  Speaker 4: gas thing and I'm still in the gas.
• 54:28
  Speaker 2: I'm sorry, I'm sorry.
• 54:29
  Speaker 1: I read the next one. I'm sorry. Sorry, y'all done.
• 54:34
  Speaker 4: That's not my that was not my body.
• 54:35
  Speaker 1: This moment, bro, this isn't their brightest moment either. I'm bored.
• 54:40
  Speaker 1: Tell me the weirdest ADHD thing you've ever done? Went
• 54:44
  Speaker 1: to throw food in the oven. It socks in the
• 54:45
  Speaker 1: laundry room. Put the socks in the oven. Husband was like,
• 54:49
  Speaker 1: why are there socks on fire in the oven?
• 54:53
  Speaker 2: Poor thing?
• 54:57
  Speaker 5: Sleep deprivation, stress, because I'm trying a new recipe, bitch,
• 55:04
  Speaker 5: that's why they hit in.
• 55:07
  Speaker 2: The sock.
• 55:07
  Speaker 1: Bread puts a socker to me soccer, Tom, Wow, I
• 55:15
  Speaker 1: think that's the that's the song for the episode. Soccer
• 55:17
  Speaker 1: to me, Missy Elliott, Oh.
• 55:21
  Speaker 7: Socker to me, like you want to, I'm gonna take
• 55:24
  Speaker 7: your leck upro you know, the back drunk. I'm jumping
• 55:30
  Speaker 7: like a disc.
• 55:34
  Speaker 1: Like her. I'm boy, tell me the weirdest ADHD thing
• 55:41
  Speaker 1: you've ever done. Set my one year old down in
• 55:46
  Speaker 1: the dog bed and closed the door to the dog
• 55:48
  Speaker 1: room and then proceeded to stare at my dog for
• 55:50
  Speaker 1: a minute trying to figure out how he got out
• 55:52
  Speaker 1: of the room. We were all confused.
• 55:57
  Speaker 4: The baby was in there, like poor part too, and
• 56:04
  Speaker 4: the baby.
• 56:05
  Speaker 3: It was just like baby probably enjoying the ship because
• 56:09
  Speaker 3: he's playing in the dog bed, right.
• 56:11
  Speaker 4: They don't let me do this that, no, don't let
• 56:12
  Speaker 4: me do this.
• 56:13
  Speaker 5: On the other time, I told me to stay out
• 56:14
  Speaker 5: of here. I tried to call over here last time,
• 56:17
  Speaker 5: and she said, I would like to look on his face.
• 56:20
  Speaker 1: I'm boy, tell me the weirdest adhd thing you've ever done?
• 56:26
  Speaker 1: Bruder Mayren there dipping sauce instead of a curate pod.
• 56:32
  Speaker 2: Damn, I didn't even know they made.
• 56:36
  Speaker 5: Oh yeah, because they're in the little things like I
• 56:39
  Speaker 5: was like, wait a minute, they don't make those to
• 56:41
  Speaker 5: fit me.
• 56:42
  Speaker 2: Okay that that?
• 56:43
  Speaker 5: Yeah, they do kind of look depending on where the
• 56:46
  Speaker 5: sauce come from, they look the same.
• 56:49
  Speaker 2: Oh damn, you should have just frozen. You could use
• 56:52
  Speaker 2: the later.
• 56:53
  Speaker 4: Noah, you know. Once they put the hot water in,
• 56:56
  Speaker 4: that's it.
• 56:57
  Speaker 2: I could have mixed it with something, could have used
• 57:00
  Speaker 2: to back up?
• 57:01
  Speaker 1: Did I make v juice?
• 57:03
  Speaker 4: What is this?
• 57:04
  Speaker 1: Richard of coffee?
• 57:06
  Speaker 6: Is that?
• 57:07
  Speaker 1: This is like a Spanish plain?
• 57:08
  Speaker 3: What is it?
• 57:12
  Speaker 4: That's that romana?
• 57:16
  Speaker 1: You know what? That's the that's the the Papa Jones,
• 57:18
  Speaker 1: the glic sab I'm bored. Tell me the weirdest ad
• 57:22
  Speaker 1: h T thing you've ever done. I put my check
• 57:26
  Speaker 1: card in my phone case when I went on the walk,
• 57:28
  Speaker 1: immediately forgot canceled my card, ordered the new one and
• 57:31
  Speaker 1: then found it when I went to put my new
• 57:33
  Speaker 1: check card in my phone case. Okah, it's in here
• 57:38
  Speaker 1: for safe keeping. What the Davin card?
• 57:44
  Speaker 4: Right right, I'm.
• 57:46
  Speaker 1: Gonna put the new one in here for I'm gonna
• 57:48
  Speaker 1: put the new one in here for safekeeping.
• 57:49
  Speaker 2: That's funny.
• 57:52
  Speaker 4: That's that's real.
• 57:53
  Speaker 2: Ship, that's funny.
• 57:58
  Speaker 4: Somebody fucked up your routine, that is funny.
• 58:02
  Speaker 1: All right. Final one, I'm bored. Tell me the weirdest
• 58:07
  Speaker 1: ADHD thing you've ever done? Not like I put soap
• 58:10
  Speaker 1: in the washerp but forgot to start the laundry. I
• 58:13
  Speaker 1: mean back into my garage door because I forgot to
• 58:16
  Speaker 1: open it. That kind of unhinged. Forgot to go to
• 58:22
  Speaker 1: a wedding, even after talking about it all week with
• 58:25
  Speaker 1: my friends, planning mass outfits and after party, et cetera.
• 58:28
  Speaker 1: I had to lie and say my kid needed to
• 58:30
  Speaker 1: go to the er.
• 58:31
  Speaker 3: Damn, I'm sorry. I'd have just been honest, like yo,
• 58:39
  Speaker 3: I forgot. I ain't gonna hold you.
• 58:41
  Speaker 2: I forgot.
• 58:43
  Speaker 4: I forgot. I forgot about the wedding. I sent a card.
• 58:48
  Speaker 1: Is the question of the week?
• 58:51
  Speaker 3: Mm hmm, yeah, that last one, the last one. That's
• 58:55
  Speaker 3: that's reasonable. Joe, just be honest. Though you ain't gotta lie.
• 58:58
  Speaker 4: Don't lie on the kid.
• 59:00
  Speaker 3: Next thing, you know, you can't gonna have to go
• 59:01
  Speaker 3: to goddamn emergency, bro. But it's like, listen, I forgot.
• 59:05
  Speaker 3: There's been a lot going on this week. I forgot
• 59:08
  Speaker 3: all about that wedding.
• 59:09
  Speaker 1: My bad So normally I don't do this, But can
• 59:12
  Speaker 1: I read a question for the Q and next segment?
• 59:15
  Speaker 2: You absolutely again? Would you like for me to do
• 59:16
  Speaker 2: my spiel first proceed?
• 59:19
  Speaker 4: If you have any questions comments, It ain't gonna be
• 59:24
  Speaker 4: like the last time, is it?
• 59:26
  Speaker 2: I don't know. I'm scared because he the producer, nigga,
• 59:33
  Speaker 2: you know what you did before started. If you have
• 59:38
  Speaker 2: any questions, what.
• 59:41
  Speaker 3: Did I do?
• 59:44
  Speaker 1: I feel a fire in my past.
• 59:51
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• 59:52
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• 1:02:01
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  Speaker 2: Well, thank you, oh, I'm afraid of this one. I
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  Speaker 2: am too, so I'm gonna look down. So if I
• 1:02:12
  Speaker 2: start laughing too, how old, you.
• 1:02:13
  Speaker 1: Won't see any str This one is called I refuse
• 1:02:18
  Speaker 1: to pick up my exis affair child.
• 1:02:21
  Speaker 2: Oh no, go ahead, I'm listening.
• 1:02:25
  Speaker 1: My ex cheated on me when I was pregnant with
• 1:02:27
  Speaker 1: our now eight year old son. From that betrayal came
• 1:02:30
  Speaker 1: his daughter, also eight, with the woman who is now
• 1:02:33
  Speaker 1: his wife. Because of that history, I've never built any
• 1:02:36
  Speaker 1: kind of bond with his daughter. I don't talk to her,
• 1:02:40
  Speaker 1: I don't visit with her, and I don't see her
• 1:02:42
  Speaker 1: as part of my responsibility. My only concern is my son.
• 1:02:46
  Speaker 1: We share fifty custody, and two weeks ago I got
• 1:02:50
  Speaker 1: a call from the school on one of his custody days.
• 1:02:53
  Speaker 1: They said my son hadn't been picked up, so I
• 1:02:55
  Speaker 1: rushed over. When I got there, his daughter was also
• 1:02:59
  Speaker 1: waiting with the tea. To my surprise, the school said
• 1:03:02
  Speaker 1: I was listed as an approved pickup for both kids.
• 1:03:06
  Speaker 1: Nobody had asked me if I wanted to take that role.
• 1:03:09
  Speaker 1: My ex and his wife added my name without my permission.
• 1:03:12
  Speaker 1: The teacher asked if I would take both children I
• 1:03:14
  Speaker 1: said no, I was there for my son, not the
• 1:03:17
  Speaker 1: other child. I told her to remove me from the
• 1:03:21
  Speaker 1: list because I don't want to be responsible for a
• 1:03:23
  Speaker 1: child who isn't mine. I later confirmed this with the school.
• 1:03:27
  Speaker 1: When my ex found out, he exploded. He accused me
• 1:03:31
  Speaker 1: of being cruel for leaving his daughter at the school
• 1:03:33
  Speaker 1: until seven. He demanded to know how I could drive
• 1:03:35
  Speaker 1: away with our son and leave her behind when I
• 1:03:38
  Speaker 1: was already there. I reminded him that his wife is
• 1:03:41
  Speaker 1: the child's mother, not me. He is now telling everyone
• 1:03:45
  Speaker 1: I abandoned an innocent child out of spite. But here's
• 1:03:48
  Speaker 1: my stance. I will always be there for my son,
• 1:03:51
  Speaker 1: but his a fair child is not my responsibility and
• 1:03:53
  Speaker 1: never will be. Am I the asshole? No?
• 1:03:56
  Speaker 2: No, no, absolutely not no.
• 1:04:00
  Speaker 5: They shouldn't have put First of all, they put you
• 1:04:02
  Speaker 5: on that list without even asking you.
• 1:04:03
  Speaker 2: That's how dare you?
• 1:04:06
  Speaker 5: You're not going to give me the responsibility of your child,
• 1:04:09
  Speaker 5: rather it was a fair child or not. You're not
• 1:04:11
  Speaker 5: going to give me the responsibility of being the one
• 1:04:13
  Speaker 5: to pick your child up without talking to me first.
• 1:04:16
  Speaker 2: So that's what they went wrong in the first place.
• 1:04:18
  Speaker 5: Now they knew that she probably wasn't going to agree
• 1:04:22
  Speaker 5: to them putting her on that list. So they decided,
• 1:04:24
  Speaker 5: especially that sneaky as husband and hers because we see
• 1:04:26
  Speaker 5: his character as it is being gonna he had a
• 1:04:28
  Speaker 5: whole affair, baby, but he probably told the new wife
• 1:04:32
  Speaker 5: or the new hope or whatever.
• 1:04:34
  Speaker 2: Dad just put her on there because she loves kids.
• 1:04:38
  Speaker 5: She would never abandon the child, or she was she's
• 1:04:40
  Speaker 5: she's going to go along with it because the x
• 1:04:42
  Speaker 5: y z BLA. But what he what he was banking on,
• 1:04:46
  Speaker 5: was her being the same woman that he was married to,
• 1:04:49
  Speaker 5: the same woman that he portrayed and stepped out on.
• 1:04:52
  Speaker 5: He didn't know that this is a whole nother woman.
• 1:04:54
  Speaker 1: Baby.
• 1:04:54
  Speaker 2: She paid the bell, she got a new.
• 1:04:55
  Speaker 1: Attitude, feeling good.
• 1:04:57
  Speaker 2: So you try to play on her face.
• 1:04:59
  Speaker 5: And she on no reverse skip you skip, you back
• 1:05:03
  Speaker 5: to you, reverse back to me on no, on no,
• 1:05:06
  Speaker 5: out your ass. It's said that the child had to
• 1:05:09
  Speaker 5: pay for your stupidity, but that's not on her. I
• 1:05:11
  Speaker 5: mean now she couldn't because she had been nice and saying, okay,
• 1:05:14
  Speaker 5: this is my child, sibling, I'll take the child until
• 1:05:16
  Speaker 5: later on. She could have, but you didn't even have
• 1:05:18
  Speaker 5: the fucking act right to the car and let her
• 1:05:21
  Speaker 5: know that you want to be able to pick up
• 1:05:23
  Speaker 5: your own child, your other child that you have with her.
• 1:05:27
  Speaker 5: You didn't even try to school had the car and
• 1:05:28
  Speaker 5: say neither one of the kids had been You know
• 1:05:30
  Speaker 5: that the child had been picked up, So you didn't
• 1:05:32
  Speaker 5: even pare up the phone and say, hey, I'm not
• 1:05:33
  Speaker 5: gonna be able to pick up tommy all and by
• 1:05:37
  Speaker 5: the way, I can't get my daughter too. Would you
• 1:05:38
  Speaker 5: be able to hold on to it for me for
• 1:05:40
  Speaker 5: a little bit? You just said fuck it the schooler
• 1:05:43
  Speaker 5: callor so you on some sneaky ass ship and now
• 1:05:46
  Speaker 5: you want to sit here and play victim girls, So
• 1:05:50
  Speaker 5: fuck you the horsete rolle in on and wherever you
• 1:05:53
  Speaker 5: got that audacity on sale, take the ship back.
• 1:05:57
  Speaker 3: I think my uh, I think my stance on or there.
• 1:06:00
  Speaker 3: It's just like like you just said, like you're adding
• 1:06:03
  Speaker 3: me without permission. So even if like yo, I mean
• 1:06:07
  Speaker 3: just all that doctor Trump alone, it's like I'm just
• 1:06:09
  Speaker 3: saying to pick up my kid, like call your mother,
• 1:06:13
  Speaker 3: like I don't feel comfortable taking. I don't feel comfortable
• 1:06:16
  Speaker 3: taking about the school. Whether you gave me permission, whether
• 1:06:18
  Speaker 3: you gave me permission or not.
• 1:06:19
  Speaker 1: Especially a child I have no relationship with. Right, Yeah,
• 1:06:21
  Speaker 1: it doesn't know me.
• 1:06:22
  Speaker 4: I don't know them, and that, I mean, that's that's
• 1:06:24
  Speaker 4: dangerous in it.
• 1:06:25
  Speaker 3: I mean that's dangerous in the soft because that can
• 1:06:27
  Speaker 3: make that can make that ship, I mean, that can
• 1:06:28
  Speaker 3: make that shit look.
• 1:06:29
  Speaker 4: Hello crazy like oh I got old. Yeah, you're going
• 1:06:32
  Speaker 4: with this person I don't know.
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  Speaker 2: I don't know them.
• 1:06:36
  Speaker 1: And also to be well, actually type of nigger like
• 1:06:39
  Speaker 1: I usually am. The child was left with a responsible adult.
• 1:06:43
  Speaker 1: The child was not abandoned. I could see if it
• 1:06:46
  Speaker 1: was a situation where the school was closed, the teacher left,
• 1:06:48
  Speaker 1: and the kids were sitting there by themselves and there
• 1:06:50
  Speaker 1: was no adults aroundoms dark outside.
• 1:06:52
  Speaker 2: Sorry, y'all, I was trying to pull my question up.
• 1:06:56
  Speaker 1: That's all good. I could see if the kid was
• 1:06:59
  Speaker 1: up there after hours, the playground is empty, the court
• 1:07:03
  Speaker 1: is empty, the teachers are gone, and the two kids
• 1:07:05
  Speaker 1: are they're waiting for the wait to be picked up,
• 1:07:06
  Speaker 1: and the parent hasn't come. And if I leave this
• 1:07:09
  Speaker 1: child here by themselves with nobody around, who knows what
• 1:07:13
  Speaker 1: will happen? That's different. The child was up a teacher,
• 1:07:16
  Speaker 1: their teacher, right, Okay, not my responsibility. Your parents can
• 1:07:24
  Speaker 1: come pick you a sweetheart, teachers here, you'll be fine.
• 1:07:28
  Speaker 1: Come on, tell me, let's go to seasons and get
• 1:07:30
  Speaker 1: you speach such a mom as daddy can't pick you
• 1:07:33
  Speaker 1: or his other child.
• 1:07:34
  Speaker 4: Up, well, damn I like that taking a good and
• 1:07:38
  Speaker 4: get him a happy mail.
• 1:07:40
  Speaker 1: Yep, we can go. You can go back to our
• 1:07:41
  Speaker 1: house where we where we lived any other time. Because
• 1:07:44
  Speaker 1: I don't know your sibling, no disrespecting them. But again,
• 1:07:47
  Speaker 1: if the child was up alone by themselves, that's different.
• 1:07:50
  Speaker 1: But the teacher was there with the child. So when
• 1:07:53
  Speaker 1: the child's parents come pick the child up, I didn't know.
• 1:07:56
  Speaker 1: I was listened as an improved party to pick the
• 1:07:58
  Speaker 1: child up. I don't have a relationship with that child.
• 1:08:00
  Speaker 1: I don't know that child. No, thank you. My parents
• 1:08:03
  Speaker 1: can come get there. Yeah, did you see it later?
• 1:08:11
  Speaker 4: But that's that's some real ship.
• 1:08:12
  Speaker 2: Like like I said, I can't stand people like that.
• 1:08:14
  Speaker 3: You didn't even like you didn't fail right, Like you
• 1:08:18
  Speaker 3: ain't consult with me about that ship. Like you didn't
• 1:08:21
  Speaker 3: tell me, like you didn't tell me, like oh, I
• 1:08:23
  Speaker 3: put you on I put you on low ca Andre
• 1:08:26
  Speaker 3: Andrea's lower Emergency for m.
• 1:08:30
  Speaker 4: Like, nah, I'm good.
• 1:08:33
  Speaker 3: When you talk to me or when you call, like
• 1:08:35
  Speaker 3: you know, my son called. You know, my son calls
• 1:08:38
  Speaker 3: you when you get home, and then you'll be like, well, well,
• 1:08:40
  Speaker 3: where's your sister. Oh, she's still at school, and it's like,
• 1:08:43
  Speaker 3: why is she still in school? Like you were supposed
• 1:08:46
  Speaker 3: to pick up that you didn't even tell me. I
• 1:08:47
  Speaker 3: was supposed to pick anybody up.
• 1:08:50
  Speaker 2: That was your responsibility, get.
• 1:08:52
  Speaker 1: Your custody time. You felt in no way about it, Like, so,
• 1:08:55
  Speaker 1: so what you about to do because my child is
• 1:08:57
  Speaker 1: at home? But it'll get your child school before they
• 1:09:00
  Speaker 1: call the people.
• 1:09:01
  Speaker 2: That's crazy. No, said you weren't wrong, And I'm glad Brandon.
• 1:09:04
  Speaker 5: Actually you asked that question because I've just seen it
• 1:09:07
  Speaker 5: the other day and I said I was gonna use
• 1:09:09
  Speaker 5: it jail.
• 1:09:10
  Speaker 1: I'll be seeing stuff. I just let Sean to do
• 1:09:12
  Speaker 1: her things most of the time. That's her second. All right,
• 1:09:18
  Speaker 1: says Percy.
• 1:09:21
  Speaker 2: So we're gonna head back on over one second.
• 1:09:25
  Speaker 4: I'm airing.
• 1:09:25
  Speaker 1: Your wife just texted yeah, okay, I believed it. Okay,
• 1:09:29
  Speaker 1: I believed it.
• 1:09:30
  Speaker 5: Make this quick because I got ship to do. Say
• 1:09:35
  Speaker 5: busy child please AnyWho it both of them kiss my ass.
• 1:09:43
  Speaker 5: We're going on over so it has become one of
• 1:09:47
  Speaker 5: my favorite threads. Missed underscore Parker for real one I
• 1:09:50
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• 1:09:53
  Speaker 5: with some other things. Okay, so we're going here first.
• 1:09:58
  Speaker 5: This is under her three at Parker Confessions. I cheated
• 1:10:03
  Speaker 5: on my ex and she found out. I told her
• 1:10:05
  Speaker 5: I wanted her back, and she told me the only
• 1:10:07
  Speaker 5: way to get her back was to give her a
• 1:10:09
  Speaker 5: time and time to date other people to see what
• 1:10:12
  Speaker 5: she wanted to do. I agreed to it as long
• 1:10:14
  Speaker 5: as I could live with her. So I'm renting know
• 1:10:17
  Speaker 5: her basement, pretended to be her brother while she's dating
• 1:10:20
  Speaker 5: other men.
• 1:10:21
  Speaker 2: It hasn't bothered me up until now, only because she's
• 1:10:24
  Speaker 2: been dating the one this one guy consistently for the
• 1:10:28
  Speaker 2: last thirty days. This bitch got me fucked up.
• 1:10:32
  Speaker 5: She done photoshop pictures of me and her and her
• 1:10:34
  Speaker 5: mother so it looks like I'm really her brother. If
• 1:10:37
  Speaker 5: I told her I'm going to use her for good.
• 1:10:41
  Speaker 5: I've enjoyed the sneaking around until now.
• 1:10:43
  Speaker 1: What do I do? Go to hell? That's what you do, sir?
• 1:10:48
  Speaker 1: Message the photoop someone them? Did I go to parents?
• 1:11:03
  Speaker 1: With you and your mother, bitch.
• 1:11:05
  Speaker 2: Don't even know that lady.
• 1:11:07
  Speaker 1: That's what it is. We took a fambly trip, remember brother.
• 1:11:11
  Speaker 4: When you love someone, you just don't treat them bad.
• 1:11:15
  Speaker 1: Baby photos with them together.
• 1:11:16
  Speaker 4: Oh, now you feel so sad now that she want
• 1:11:20
  Speaker 4: to leave.
• 1:11:23
  Speaker 5: I'm flidding over to toxic credit because it's been a
• 1:11:25
  Speaker 5: while since I've been there.
• 1:11:27
  Speaker 4: That's crazy.
• 1:11:30
  Speaker 2: And this one is titled I don't love my kids.
• 1:11:37
  Speaker 5: I have twins and I don't feel love towards them
• 1:11:39
  Speaker 5: or my wife. I maybe once loved my wife, but
• 1:11:43
  Speaker 5: that's gone now. She has postpartum depression and treated me
• 1:11:46
  Speaker 5: very poorly. She can't really do anything to make up
• 1:11:51
  Speaker 5: for what she did. I never really connected with my
• 1:11:53
  Speaker 5: kids either. I don't hate them, I'm just indifferent about them.
• 1:11:58
  Speaker 5: I am not interested in raising My wife calls me
• 1:12:01
  Speaker 5: a man child who won't lift a finger to help
• 1:12:03
  Speaker 5: the kids.
• 1:12:05
  Speaker 2: Shit on me.
• 1:12:07
  Speaker 5: Here on Reddit about how she does everything and doesn't
• 1:12:10
  Speaker 5: even have the time to shower. I know it's her account.
• 1:12:14
  Speaker 5: I read everything she writes. She is going to leave me,
• 1:12:17
  Speaker 5: and I don't really feel sad about it, at least
• 1:12:19
  Speaker 5: for now. I don't really love her, but.
• 1:12:25
  Speaker 4: When you love someone, you just don't treat them bad.
• 1:12:31
  Speaker 5: I want you to pack your bags and find the
• 1:12:36
  Speaker 5: express bus to the furthest corner of hell. This woman
• 1:12:46
  Speaker 5: gave birth to your children is dealing with postpartum. You
• 1:12:51
  Speaker 5: don't help her at all, and you wonder why she.
• 1:12:57
  Speaker 2: Feels the way she does towards you.
• 1:12:58
  Speaker 4: Will treat you the way that she us give me
• 1:13:01
  Speaker 4: some ship, did you deserve?
• 1:13:04
  Speaker 2: Do them a favor?
• 1:13:05
  Speaker 5: In going about your business, you're doing them a favor.
• 1:13:08
  Speaker 5: And I hope that her next man treats her and
• 1:13:11
  Speaker 5: your children like royalty and that you end up alone
• 1:13:17
  Speaker 5: by yourself with three kids named Elvin Simon.
• 1:13:20
  Speaker 2: In theaterore, we had a song.
• 1:13:23
  Speaker 4: What episode we do?
• 1:13:26
  Speaker 2: Mm hmmm you ever get for episode?
• 1:13:28
  Speaker 1: Yeah?
• 1:13:29
  Speaker 3: Because I mean these last year, these last two posters,
• 1:13:31
  Speaker 3: all the head Donald Jones like nigga just leave.
• 1:13:38
  Speaker 2: You don't want to me, but you made because you
• 1:13:40
  Speaker 2: see me with somebody else. Make it makes sense? But anyway, yeah,
• 1:13:43
  Speaker 2: your way from children.
• 1:13:45
  Speaker 5: You wonder why she feels the tape of way she
• 1:13:47
  Speaker 5: feels towards you along with dealing with postpartum.
• 1:13:49
  Speaker 1: And you know that she's dealing with postpartum struggling and
• 1:13:54
  Speaker 1: you're not helping today.
• 1:13:57
  Speaker 3: Well today, yeah, I'm sorry you don't have a relationship
• 1:14:03
  Speaker 3: with your kids.
• 1:14:03
  Speaker 5: I'm going to read a comment from here and the
• 1:14:06
  Speaker 5: end of this. Somebody responded to him and said, you
• 1:14:10
  Speaker 5: maybe once loved the person.
• 1:14:12
  Speaker 2: You decided to marry.
• 1:14:13
  Speaker 5: Yike's dude, time to take some accountability in your life,
• 1:14:16
  Speaker 5: because blaming your wife for the breakdown in your relationship
• 1:14:18
  Speaker 5: when you openly admitted that you may have never loved
• 1:14:20
  Speaker 5: her and have no interest in parenting is some next
• 1:14:23
  Speaker 5: level shit. He responds and says, after dealing with her
• 1:14:29
  Speaker 5: postpartum depressed after him words they came out of her mouth,
• 1:14:33
  Speaker 5: after the emotional abuse, I just stopped loving her. I
• 1:14:36
  Speaker 5: tried to forgive her, but I realized that I don't
• 1:14:38
  Speaker 5: even care. I don't feel anger towards her anymore. I
• 1:14:40
  Speaker 5: just feel indifferent. I was involved with my kids when
• 1:14:43
  Speaker 5: they were infants because my wife was struggling. I was
• 1:14:47
  Speaker 5: always on edge, and when things got better with her,
• 1:14:50
  Speaker 5: my body just gave up. You mean the way her
• 1:14:53
  Speaker 5: body gave up after she birthed two babies. Okay, so
• 1:14:57
  Speaker 5: at one time, and it was dealing with hormones and babies,
• 1:15:00
  Speaker 5: feelings and children who can't tell her what's wrong with
• 1:15:02
  Speaker 5: them because they can't talk. And you have to figure
• 1:15:04
  Speaker 5: out what's wrong with these kids and why they keep screaming, crwyling, hollering,
• 1:15:08
  Speaker 5: whether you just fed.
• 1:15:09
  Speaker 2: Them and you just changed that diaper and you then
• 1:15:11
  Speaker 2: woooed and.
• 1:15:12
  Speaker 5: Patted them and walked them around and you don't understand
• 1:15:14
  Speaker 5: what the fuck is going on and you're letting your
• 1:15:16
  Speaker 5: funky ass in the.
• 1:15:17
  Speaker 1: Bed sleep.
• 1:15:19
  Speaker 5: And yeah, I mean even though he get an express
• 1:15:23
  Speaker 5: train and hell that it'll get you there fast.
• 1:15:25
  Speaker 4: Maybe a piece of shit.
• 1:15:26
  Speaker 3: It's like I understand what you're trying to like I
• 1:15:28
  Speaker 3: understand what you're trying to say, and it's like, yeah,
• 1:15:30
  Speaker 3: but at the same time, you didn't mention anything about
• 1:15:33
  Speaker 3: helping or what you were doing, like what you were
• 1:15:35
  Speaker 3: doing throughout the throughout her her her postpartum like that
• 1:15:40
  Speaker 3: like on some world shit like you you you fucked up.
• 1:15:45
  Speaker 3: And because she is the way I mean, because she's
• 1:15:47
  Speaker 3: handling things the way that she handled things that made
• 1:15:49
  Speaker 3: you fall, that made you fall out of love like that,
• 1:15:52
  Speaker 3: that pushed you out of the direction. Yeah, nah, yo,
• 1:15:54
  Speaker 3: you fucked up, Like and the kids ain't got shit
• 1:15:58
  Speaker 3: to do, and like your kids ain't had nothing to
• 1:15:59
  Speaker 3: do with that, you know what I mean. So it's like, god, yeah, no,
• 1:16:04
  Speaker 3: you you good, he's good where you at. And she
• 1:16:07
  Speaker 3: left if she left, yoh she left. You know she
• 1:16:09
  Speaker 3: left for the better. If she leaves you, she leaves
• 1:16:13
  Speaker 3: you good, right, and don't go fucking up published.
• 1:16:15
  Speaker 5: So exactly leave it the fuck alone. Pay a child's
• 1:16:18
  Speaker 5: see your children if you decide you want to see
• 1:16:20
  Speaker 5: the children. Even though you're saying, matter fact, I wouldn't
• 1:16:21
  Speaker 5: eve want you around my fucking kids because after that,
• 1:16:23
  Speaker 5: if you know her right it, she probably know you're
• 1:16:25
  Speaker 5: read it too, and I would take all that ship
• 1:16:26
  Speaker 5: to court for evidence.
• 1:16:27
  Speaker 2: I wouldn't trust you with my children.
• 1:16:29
  Speaker 1: I'm renizing competents is the thing. And it sounds like
• 1:16:30
  Speaker 1: the guy who was on tonight's conversation. I'm not sure
• 1:16:32
  Speaker 1: if you said that video where the guy was like,
• 1:16:35
  Speaker 1: my wife isn't giving me the attention I need. You know,
• 1:16:38
  Speaker 1: we just had a baby. He's like two. He's really active.
• 1:16:41
  Speaker 1: But you know she complains that I don't help her,
• 1:16:43
  Speaker 1: but I pay the bills. You know, I come home
• 1:16:47
  Speaker 1: and I just need time for myself and you know
• 1:16:49
  Speaker 1: he doesn't want me. I'm a dad. I'm you know,
• 1:16:51
  Speaker 1: I'm a dad because I pay bills, but he wants
• 1:16:53
  Speaker 1: his mother, like he wants atticture from her, but she's
• 1:16:56
  Speaker 1: not giving me what I need. And I feel like
• 1:16:58
  Speaker 1: blah blah blah blah blah. And they were like, well, dude,
• 1:17:01
  Speaker 1: like you have to be a present parent. There's more
• 1:17:04
  Speaker 1: to being a father than just paying bills and living
• 1:17:06
  Speaker 1: in the same house.
• 1:17:07
  Speaker 2: I'm not say say it again, repeat that there's.
• 1:17:10
  Speaker 1: More to being a parent than just paying bills and
• 1:17:12
  Speaker 1: living in the same house. Have to be present, you
• 1:17:15
  Speaker 1: have to spend time with you have to do four.
• 1:17:18
  Speaker 5: You have to show you motherfuckers who keep defending all
• 1:17:20
  Speaker 5: these people with babies all over the especially because they
• 1:17:22
  Speaker 5: can financially take.
• 1:17:23
  Speaker 1: Careouts, especially when you and your wife are both working
• 1:17:26
  Speaker 1: and splitting bills, that.
• 1:17:28
  Speaker 4: You know what my my thing.
• 1:17:31
  Speaker 3: And uh, I think that a lot of a lot
• 1:17:34
  Speaker 3: of parents don't realize, like even if you work, and
• 1:17:37
  Speaker 3: like I worked ten hours a day, no birk I
• 1:17:41
  Speaker 3: come home. He don't give a fuck that I worked
• 1:17:43
  Speaker 3: ten hours a day. His daddy, I mean, you know
• 1:17:46
  Speaker 3: he acts like it, but you know it's and it's like, yo,
• 1:17:49
  Speaker 3: the minute, you know, the minute we were cool. You
• 1:17:51
  Speaker 3: know they're cool, even if it's like even if it's
• 1:17:53
  Speaker 3: like for a couple of hours and then it's like
• 1:17:54
  Speaker 3: all right, I'm home.
• 1:17:55
  Speaker 4: Get out you know how you home? Get out my face?
• 1:17:58
  Speaker 4: You know what I mean.
• 1:17:58
  Speaker 3: It's like, yeah, like do you you don't stop, like
• 1:18:00
  Speaker 3: you don't stop being a parent, you know, cause your
• 1:18:02
  Speaker 3: kids ain't got ship to do. Your kids don't got
• 1:18:04
  Speaker 3: shit to do with work, like your kids don't God damn,
• 1:18:06
  Speaker 3: they don't give a fuck that you did that.
• 1:18:07
  Speaker 4: You did that, nigga. It's like, hey, how you doing.
• 1:18:09
  Speaker 4: Let me show you what I can do ye or
• 1:18:11
  Speaker 4: I do this picture.
• 1:18:12
  Speaker 3: I do this picture for you, And you know what
• 1:18:14
  Speaker 3: I mean, You you purposely neglected your kids because your
• 1:18:19
  Speaker 3: wife was neglecting you. And that's what that's what it
• 1:18:22
  Speaker 3: comes up. I mean, you know that's how you coming
• 1:18:24
  Speaker 3: off like you don't got time, like she don't got
• 1:18:27
  Speaker 3: time for me, Like she don't got time for me.
• 1:18:29
  Speaker 3: And it's like yeah, like trying to say or she
• 1:18:30
  Speaker 3: going like she already going through some shit, like she
• 1:18:35
  Speaker 3: almost died because they say, you know, like anything can
• 1:18:41
  Speaker 3: go wrong while you're giving birth. You know what I'm saying, Like, Yo,
• 1:18:44
  Speaker 3: so she risked her life to bring these kids in
• 1:18:46
  Speaker 3: the world. She probably she dealing with that. Then also
• 1:18:49
  Speaker 3: she also, you know, she dealing with the loss of
• 1:18:51
  Speaker 3: identity because now she ain't she ain't.
• 1:18:53
  Speaker 4: Your wife no more.
• 1:18:54
  Speaker 5: You know.
• 1:18:54
  Speaker 1: I'm sorry.
• 1:18:56
  Speaker 3: Yeah, it's like, yo, now she's mom. Like now she's mom,
• 1:18:59
  Speaker 3: and then like, oh, she's probably still adjusting to being
• 1:19:02
  Speaker 3: the wife. Now she's the mom. No, she loves you know,
• 1:19:05
  Speaker 3: she loves little Lisa. So she's still trying to find
• 1:19:10
  Speaker 3: you know, she's trying to find her.
• 1:19:12
  Speaker 1: She's essentially now married, single mother. Yeah, I know, you
• 1:19:16
  Speaker 1: said a video online. Nothing to give Yet another example
• 1:19:20
  Speaker 1: where a wife was talking to her husband. He was
• 1:19:23
  Speaker 1: laid in their bed and she had just gotten home
• 1:19:25
  Speaker 1: from work, and she was like, well, you can't just
• 1:19:29
  Speaker 1: come home and get in the bench. Think you can
• 1:19:31
  Speaker 1: just lay around all evening. We have two children under
• 1:19:34
  Speaker 1: three years old. We have like a like a nine
• 1:19:36
  Speaker 1: or ten month old and then a two year old. Like,
• 1:19:38
  Speaker 1: there are bottles that need to be done, and the
• 1:19:39
  Speaker 1: kids need to eat, We need to clean the house up,
• 1:19:41
  Speaker 1: we have stuff we need to do. I can see
• 1:19:43
  Speaker 1: at nine, ten, eleven o'clock. Okay, if you're ready to
• 1:19:45
  Speaker 1: go to be at that point, then fine, But at
• 1:19:47
  Speaker 1: five point thirty, you can't come in and just think
• 1:19:49
  Speaker 1: I'm gonna take an hour or to nap, but didn't
• 1:19:50
  Speaker 1: get up and do what I want to do, Like, no,
• 1:19:52
  Speaker 1: the kids have to have shit to do. I need
• 1:19:54
  Speaker 1: help feeding the kids, I need help cleaning bottles, I
• 1:19:57
  Speaker 1: need help doing all the stuff. She was like, I'll
• 1:19:58
  Speaker 1: get up and work too. He's recording her saying this,
• 1:20:02
  Speaker 1: and he's like, man, I mean, well, ship, I mean
• 1:20:05
  Speaker 1: I'm recording so people can see because they're gonna be
• 1:20:07
  Speaker 1: on my side. And she was like, they're not going
• 1:20:10
  Speaker 1: to be on your side that ship at the end
• 1:20:14
  Speaker 1: of the day, and like, it's a team, it's team effort,
• 1:20:17
  Speaker 1: it's team effort. You trying to prove you know, you're
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  Speaker 1: trying to prove you prove yourself, right, Joe, Like you
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  Speaker 1: you're losing You're losing focus on the world, like on
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  Speaker 1: the real problem. The real problem is she feels like
• 1:20:29
  Speaker 1: she's by herself. Ye yeah, she and she and she
• 1:20:35
  Speaker 1: in a relationship.
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  Speaker 3: By herself, she's doing all herself, So yep, she probably
• 1:20:41
  Speaker 3: working and she was worked full time just like he did.
• 1:20:44
  Speaker 3: She maintaining like yo, she maintaining like you know, she
• 1:20:47
  Speaker 3: maintained trying to keep trying to keep her level head
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  Speaker 3: and all that ship and long on top of regulating
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  Speaker 3: emotions so she ain't spashing out and she don't you know,
• 1:20:55
  Speaker 3: she's not getting you know, she ain't feeling depression and
• 1:20:58
  Speaker 3: you know, potential suicidal to titleship because that's what happens.
• 1:21:01
  Speaker 1: I Meanwhile, you're sitting there, you laid up in y'all
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  Speaker 1: bed at six o'clock in the evening watching Court TV
• 1:21:06
  Speaker 1: and the new in the news.
• 1:21:07
  Speaker 4: Trying to figure out where them, trying to figure out
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  Speaker 4: with dinner, ad and shit.
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  Speaker 2: That's all I got for y'all this week, don't I
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  Speaker 2: switched it up week?
• 1:21:15
  Speaker 1: That's all he got too, fuck nigga. Well, but that
• 1:21:20
  Speaker 1: being said, we're gonna wrap up the Sux's episode here.
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  Speaker 1: If you have any questions, matic and walk away. If
• 1:21:25
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• 1:21:26
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• 1:21:34
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• 1:21:41
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  Speaker 1: wonderpot Score. Any final words, fuck you sorry, that's all
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  Speaker 1: I got. The long way bitch as nigga got to
• 1:21:54
  Speaker 1: where he said, Well we out of here, y'all. We'll
• 1:21:57
  Speaker 1: see ya next week. Be easy, be said, Take care
• 1:22:00
  Speaker 1: of each other, my niggas.
• 1:22:01
  Speaker 4: Oh well, share, continue sharing this ship.
• 1:22:06
  Speaker 2: We appreciate you all for the Happy Halloween.
• 1:22:10
  Speaker 1: Yeah, happy Halloween, y'all. We appreciate all our YouTube subscribers.
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• 1:22:29
  Speaker 4: Definitely continue shaving this ship.
• 1:22:31
  Speaker 1: Please do.
• 1:22:31
  Speaker 4: I appreciate, we appreciate.
• 1:22:33
  Speaker 1: We appreciate it all.
• 1:22:34
  Speaker 5: And I forgot to say it last week. Happy birthday
• 1:22:35
  Speaker 5: to my big sister school though birthday, it's responsible for
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  Speaker 5: this sign behind us and my brother Gary birthday birthday,
• 1:22:44
  Speaker 5: and my aunt Beatty, her birthday is halfway happy birthday, her.
• 1:22:46
  Speaker 4: Birthday at birthday on Betty and Gary, You old nigga birthday.
• 1:22:50
  Speaker 2: You're talking about my baby?
• 1:22:52
  Speaker 4: Yeah, baby baby, more great ahead of me.
• 1:22:54
  Speaker 1: Okay, fight will holler at y'all next week, first Wednesday
• 1:22:59
  Speaker 1: and damn November. Thank you, Thanksgivings around the damn corner.
• 1:23:05
  Speaker 1: It's coming home on some potato salad Thanksgiving. I mean,
• 1:23:10
  Speaker 1: what's soub the wags huh hell yeah, nigga buy y'all