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Psychic Myths Debunked: What Mediumship Really Feels Like 🔮 · The Psychic Explorer

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Hello everyone! Welcome to this episode number
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15. I can't quite believe I'm at number 15. I
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was going to say on my 10th episode when I hit
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that that I was doing some research into how
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many podcasts survive. It's not easy, I'm telling
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you now, it's not easy. And apparently 99 % of
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podcasts do not get past episode 10. So I was
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very happy that I was able to hit that milestone
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a couple of weeks ago or a couple of months ago
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now actually and if you've been with me from
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the beginning, thank you so much. I really appreciate
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it. I've learned a hell of a lot not only about
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myself but also about what I want from this.
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I think when I started this podcast I had this
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idea that it would be viral and explosive and
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it will suddenly be like the number one podcast
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on Spotify. I had very lofty ambitions. and so
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my expectations were actually really really high
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and then the reality hit the amount of work that
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goes into recording and rather actually editing
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these episodes and i'm not complaining but the
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reality is that these things don't make themselves
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it does not happen on its own there are which
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go into clipping and editing and thinking about
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ideas for episodes thinking of questions for
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guest episodes trying to think about who I want
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on the podcast I don't know how you feel about
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social media I have come to loathe it now I've
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never been a big one for social media oh blimey
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but I type into Google or whatever and say How
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do I get more followers and stuff like that?
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And it's constantly saying to me, you need to
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be consistent. You need to keep promoting. You
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need to keep posting stuff. And I'm like, I have
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nothing to post. Like, I'm busy. I've got a life.
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I've got a job. I've got a very busy life. And
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I have not got time to spend 20 minutes every
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single day. invariably it's longer thinking of
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some sort of post to keep people engaged who
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have happened to engage back and actually it's
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made me think well why am i why am i doing this
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why am i hunting and searching for all these
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likes and all these follows and all these listeners
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and it's so easy to get caught up in what i think
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i should be doing rather than what i want to
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be doing and it's been really nice actually the
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past couple of weeks the past month or so i've
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really come to this clarity in my own mindset
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that yes i may not have very many listeners and
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i may not have very many followers on instagram
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or anything like that but i have to trust that
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it is reaching the people that want it and the
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people that it is intended for so if you are
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listening After what we are now on episode 15,
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I just want to send you all my love, all my thanks
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and as a real heartfelt thanks. Thank you so
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much. I was talking a moment ago about the expectations
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versus reality of starting this podcast and what
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I wanted from it versus what is actually happening
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at the moment. And that made me think about the
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expectations versus the realities of psychic
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work and mediumship and I guess I just want to
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take a few moments just to go through some questions
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that I have been asked and some questions that
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I thought I might ask before my I guess you could
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use the word awakening if you are listening to
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this and you feel you are in contact with your
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psychic and your mediumship gifts you will know
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that the reality is very different to what the
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perceived reality is, especially the perceived
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reality if viewing through the lens of Hollywood.
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You will know that the signals and communication
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and the feelings that we get as we do this work
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are so subtle, so incredibly subtle. However,
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if you are not in touch with those gifts and
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abilities and I believe that everyone has the
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ability to be in touch with those gifts. But
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if you are currently not, you may have a very,
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how can I word this? I don't want to use the
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word stereotypical, but you may think of this
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work in a certain way and the reality is actually
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very different. So I've written down the questions
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which I feel I have been asked the most since
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I've started doing this. And some of these questions
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are also questions which I had before I started.
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So let's start with that first question. Can
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you turn your abilities on and off, or are you
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always picking up on spirits and energy? Let
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me start by answering that in two parts. And
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I'll start with the last part of that question.
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Am I always picking up on spirits and energy?
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Absolutely not, no. I can have a very normal
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day. and not think I'm in contact with anyone
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and not pick up on any energies not pick up on
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people around me when I'm interacting with my
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clients my gardening clients for example on a
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day to day basis I am not thinking oh god as
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they're talking to me about their geraniums I
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can feel their granddad step in or I can feel
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their mum or their dad that is not happening
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at all I have had a couple of times where I've
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thought oh yep someone's here but my mind is
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with that client. My mind is on the job. My mind
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is giving that client, that person, 100 % of
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my time and my focus, as it should be, not with
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their loved ones on the other side. My brain
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is too busy. My brain... I'm also, when I'm doing
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my day job, I'm constantly listening to something.
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I've always got one earbud in so that when that
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one eventually runs out of battery I can just
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stick the other one in while that one goes to
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charge so I've always got something in my ear
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listening to a podcast of some sort and normally
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for me that podcast is about history or is about
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politics sometimes it's about spirituality but
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actually I've sort of stepped away from those
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podcasts recently but you don't need to know
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about what my podcast interests are The point
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I'm trying to make is that my mind is always
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busy and I guess if I didn't have something in
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my ears talking to me about world events, then
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maybe I would be more aware. I am aware of intuition
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and I guess you could argue that intuition, spirit
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and energy is all the same thing. But can I turn
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my abilities on and off? Not knowingly, no. I
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can fill my mind with activities, I can do things,
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but I guess I have to really, I have to shift
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my vibration, I have to shift my feeling into
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the other world if I want to give a message.
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I'll give you an example. I did a platform event
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the other night with two other mediums and I
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felt absolutely nothing until I stood up and
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started talking and even then nothing was coming
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through until I started to just make a few jokes
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and introduce myself and it's a worry every time
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I do platform nothing's going to come through
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but it's not until that last minute when I just
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close my eyes I sense myself I open my waiting
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room I put my green light on above my head and
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I say okay I am ready to receive come on through.
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And it's not until that moment when I feel and
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I understand who is around me. So is there a
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switch? No, there's not. Is there a vibration
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that I shift into? Yes. Yes, there is. I hope
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that answers that question. OK, second question.
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If you're really psychic, shouldn't you always
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know what's going to happen? No, no, no psychic.
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It does not mean I am a fortune teller. It does
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not mean that I can see into the future Now I'm
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still trying to work out what my belief system
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is around this Future telling you know what is
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going to happen. I don't know if that's possible
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or not. I don't know What I can tell you that
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the word psychic for me means that I am tapping
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into someone's soul. If I'm sat in front of someone,
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I center myself, I ground myself, I try and align
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my vibration with the person opposite me in a
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way where I can be open to the feelings, be open
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to the pictures, the sounds that come into my
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mind that are related to that person. That to
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me is what psychic is. Psychic is about being
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able to tap into an individual's energy. Now
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some people can interpret that energy into a
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future, into another version of what could happen
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given the experiences of that person up to that
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time. But the reality is is that We all have
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free will, we all have the choice to do things
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or the choice not to do things. It's interesting
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because there is also self -fulfilling prophecies.
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Now, if you have been told that something's going
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to happen, does your mind actively make decisions
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to make that thing happen? I don't know, I mean,
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it's the chicken and the egg, isn't it? Which
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one came first? The point being is that A psychic
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does not know everything that is going to happen.
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Now, have I had precognition? Have I been able
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to feel when something is going to happen? Honestly,
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yes. Yes, I have. And it's really mundane stuff.
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For example, in my old job, I worked with a lot
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of young people. I delivered apprenticeships.
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So when a young person would sign up for an apprenticeship,
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I would go out, I would see them, and I would
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take them through their qualification. And I
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can tell you, nine times out of 10, when I was
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driving somewhere or when I was due to have a
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remote session over the laptop with them, I could
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tell you whether they were going to turn up or
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not. And these could be learners who were excellent,
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who turned up every single session I knew when
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the manager had changed the shift pattern at
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last minute and hadn't told me. I knew when they
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just weren't going to answer their phone. I knew
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when they weren't going to answer the Zoom call.
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I got so accurate at being able to predict this
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that I started to even build my social calendar
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around this. I hope my old manager's not listening
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to this, but I would put in haircuts. I would
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put in early finishes to meet some friends at
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the pub or whatever. And all because I knew that
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these set of learners i had booked into my diary
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would not turn up or were not going to answer
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the telephone i told you it was mundane i told
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you other really mundane stuff i remember driving
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along the dual carriageway and i thought something's
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going to happen to my engine and i just this
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feeling and it was just so deep within me it
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was like it was in my heart that I knew something
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was going to happen to my car and I thought well
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let's just drive a bit more sensibly Matt let's
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just drive a bit more carefully five minutes
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later I kid you not I was driving down the A11
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and my car just lost all power and I pulled over
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to the hard shoulder and it just wouldn't start
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tried the ignition it just would not start so
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i called out the recovery and they took me to
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my garage and he said sorry matt your engine's
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dead your engine has died and i just knew i thought
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i knew it i knew it i knew it i knew it okay
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question number three do i see dead people like
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in the movies no no i do not no um I have known
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of actually only one person in my life and this
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is before I stepped into this world I worked
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with someone who was a psychic medium again going
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back to my old job she would have learners who
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worked in care homes and when she went to a care
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home she would hate it because she said all she
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would see is dead people walking around And no,
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not the residents who were already there. Apparently
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she described it as the place was just full of
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people who had died there, who had died in the
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past. Now I know there are some who say that
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when we die, we don't stay where we die. All
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I can tell you is what this old work colleague
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told me. I was fascinated by it, but... At the
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same time, I didn't want to probe too much because
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it upset her. It really did upset her. I have
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never, I've never physically seen someone. I've
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never physically seen something. With the exception
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of when I was a kid that I spoke about in an
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earlier episode, just that shadow at the top
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of the stairs or the shadow in the corner of
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the room. I've never seen anything. I don't see
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people like that. And honestly, I think that
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is exceptionally rare. When I am doing a reading
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for someone and I say that I can see them, how
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can I describe it? In my mind's eye, this is
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okay, this is what it's like. You've heard me
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say before that reading for someone is like psychic
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charades. You get this symbol and you got to
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work out what this symbol is or what they're
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talking about. When they are showing a little
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bit of themselves to you, It's like this, it's
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like in your mind's eye, I want you to, if you
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can, if it's safe, just shut your eyes and I
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want you to think of a neck curtain or a piece
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of material, yeah, a piece of material, a sort
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of semi translucent piece of material and that
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is waving in front of you. Behind that, there
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is a person. and of course you can see the vague
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outline you can see the general sense of them
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but you can't see the detail now in this bit
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of material there is a slight slight hole and
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I want you to look through that hole and I want
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you to try and see and glimpse a specific feature
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of this person as this person is moving around
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and as this material as this piece of cloth as
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this curtain is blowing in the wind This is what
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it's like for me when I am seeing someone in
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my mind's eye. I get a very quick and a very
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faint What's the word? Clue as to who they are
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what they look like But when I read I very rarely
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describe them Physically, I know of one medium
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who goes my circle and the first thing that she
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does she describes them physically I don't see
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them like that. I go much more on the feelings,
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on the emotion, on the connection to my sitter.
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Do I get scared or creeped out? No, honestly,
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no. I think the expectation here is that this
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is spooky or this is dangerous. And the films
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coming out of Hollywood, you know, The Conjuring,
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all those... creepy films which portrays the
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afterlife as this barren wasteland which is full
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of fog and full of people that haven't crossed
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over. I mean, if that exists, I haven't seen
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that, not to say I've seen what the afterlife
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is, I've not been shown that, but I don't get
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scared, I don't get creeped out. For me, I have
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not experienced anything yet to Make me feel
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any sort of concern When I do this work, I often
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I'm just filled with this sense of peace love
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something sacred something emotional something
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sacred though and That is my that that that that
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is how I experience this psychic world this psychic
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and mediumship world. I Love this question because
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you know what? If I could do this, I wouldn't
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be gardening. Can I win the lottery if I'm a
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psychic? I mean, as good as chance as anyone,
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I guess. But no more. No, absolutely not. And
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actually, what you'll find is a lot of people
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will ask that question. And actually, if I'm
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honest with myself, I asked that question when
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I first stepped down this road. I was like, all
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right, well, if this is true, give me some numbers.
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And I did write these numbers down. And to my
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shame, I haven't even checked on them. I haven't.
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Don't ask what my psychology with that is. I'm
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very strange. I do not like money. I've got this
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thing where I just hate money. I just find it
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the root of all evil. It's just horrible stuff.
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But I have heard this question answered a few
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times. This is not my original answer but I do
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like it so I will repeat it and I can't remember
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who said it or where I heard it from but basically
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my ethos and my philosophy here is that we are
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here to learn lessons or we are at least here
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to experience a certain set of experiences. This
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physical world is ideal for creating scenarios
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which are going to cause suffering and difficulties
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and hard lessons. and hard experiences if i were
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to win the lottery tomorrow yes my life might
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be difficult in some ways but you can guarantee
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things might get a lot easier the things that
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i'm experiencing difficulty with today wouldn't
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be an issue would not be causing me the same
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problems or the same grief as it is today so
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if i were to win the lottery if i were to be
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able to pluck these magical numbers out of the
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psychic lottery ball machine then I am not here
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to learn the lessons which I feel I'm here to
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learn or the very least I'm not going to experience
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the hardships that my soul needs to experience
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in order to well I don't know you know for whatever
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reason it needs to experience is I don't know
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I won't know that until I'm dead and gone from
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this world But that being said, if you gave me
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the choice of experiencing hardship in this world
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or winning the lottery, I might take the latter.
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What's the difference between a psychic and a
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medium? Well, I said earlier on that a psychic
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works soul to soul. If I am tapping someone's
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energy psychically, I am tapping into that person's
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energy. Nicola, the woman that runs my circle,
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she says this quite nicely. She's got this phrase
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where if you're working psychically, you're working
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soul to soul and you are reading everything that
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is on that person's aura, everything that that
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person has experienced, everything that person
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has felt is on them. And if you're working psychically,
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you can tap into that vibration to understand
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those experiences. a bit more to be able to tap
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into those memories to be able to tap into those
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experiences mediumship is similar but different
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instead of tapping into soul to soul i am tapping
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into spirit so from my soul to spirit or to the
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person in front of me they're people who are
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no longer here physically It is a different vibration,
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it's difficult, it is so subtle, so incredibly
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subtle these differences and sometimes you're
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not sure if you're picking things up psychically,
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sometimes you're not sure if you're picking things
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up mediumistically and sometimes it doesn't even
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matter because if you're touching that person's
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soul and you are speaking your truth from what
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you are feeling from the vibrations you are feeling
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then that's great and actually when you're doing
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a reading whether it's psychic or mediumship
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well let's go for a mediumship reading then actually
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there is a mixture of the two. There can be a
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mixture of the two. Because your sister's person,
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who is no longer here physically, is still guiding
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me as the medium as to what I need to pick up
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on, what I need to be saying to them. I hope
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that makes sense. I hope that clarifies the difference
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between the two. Something that I always thought
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before I stepped into this world was that when
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psychics and mediums said, I'm seeing this, I
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am hearing this. When I would watch John Williams,
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no, John Williams. He's a composer to all my
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favorite music and film music, actually, Jurassic
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Park, et cetera. But no, who I meant was John
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Edwards. Sorry. And I think memory serves. Forgive
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me for saying this, but I think there was some
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controversy around him a few years back. I don't
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know what that controversy was. But when he had
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his show in the UK, it was on an old channel
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called Living. and it was stepping over, no,
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stepping over, stepping, I think it was stepping
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over with John Edwards. Sorry, just on a quick
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Google, crossing over, that's better, crossing
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over with John Edwards. And he would say things
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like, I'm hearing the word Marjorie or I'm hearing
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a dog bark or they're telling me that there was
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an issue in the family about how the funeral
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was conducted or I'm seeing a bouquet of flowers
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and they're giving you a bouquet of flowers that
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was the phrase whenever he said I'm giving they're
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giving you a bouquet of flowers I would always
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think what so this invisible person who is sat
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next to their loved one is giving their loved
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one who can't see or feel them this bouquet of
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flowers and i always thought that was a bit weird
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and a bit cruel if i'm honest a bit cruel but
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as i've been doing this for a while now as i've
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been doing this for the past almost two years
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i so get it i understand it better now when a
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psychic or a medium says i can hear they are
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not actually hearing as you are hearing my voice
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in your ears right now it is not a physical hearing
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it is almost like a memory it's you know like
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when okay if I had to say to you sat here now
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listening to me talk imagine what it sounds like
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to hear church bells can you hear those church
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bells physically you cannot but you can still
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hear them. There's something in your brain which
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is making you understand the sound that the church
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bells make. That is what it is like when I hear
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things. It's almost distant. And again, this
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is what the subtlety of this work is. It's listening
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to things through this thick curtain that is
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waving in front of me when I'm connected to individuals.
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Names are difficult I don't personally for me
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at my stage in my development I don't like saying
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names because nine times out of ten I would get
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it wrong but there is this sense of the sound
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of the words I'll tell you one thing that did
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have happen to me I was in an online development
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circle one night and I said oh I'm getting the
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word John come through and my sitter was like
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No, no, I can't take John and I know that John
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is such a generic name to give out because who
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doesn't know a John in who's past or in the family
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at least. However, I stuck with it and I was
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like, why this is not leaving me and I just sat
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with anything and I just thought something struck
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me. I thought, don't say the word John, just
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sound it out. And I was like, Joe, Joe. And I
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was like, why am I stopping at Joe? And then
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my mind thought, George. And I said, oh, are
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we on George? And she says, yes, that's who you
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have. That's who you're bringing through. So
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I hope that explains to you a bit better about
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how the sounding works and the reality of hearing
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spirit and the reality of hearing names. Now,
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when you feel, again, let's go back to the example
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I gave earlier. John Edgeworth was saying, that
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he feels there's a rift in the family over the
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funeral, for example, there was a difference
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in opinion on how the funeral should be handled.
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That's such a specific thing to say. And the
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reason I bring that up, actually, not even John
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Ive was related. It's just that's actually something
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that I said in my last platform event to an audience
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member. I said to her, I know that there was
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an issue around how his funeral was handled.
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And the girl said to me, yes, there was a difference
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of opinion. How the hell did I know that? I have
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no idea. All I can tell you is that through a
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combination of visuals, through a combination
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of just how my emotions felt at that time, through
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a combination of what I just knew to be true,
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these words just tumbled out of my mouth. I haven't
27:34
got any other explanation other than it just
27:38
felt right. This scenario played out in my mind.
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I could feel how it made people in her family
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feel and I just said that. What more can I say?
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I don't know how to describe that better. The
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images you know I said to you already about the
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curtain and seeing things through the little
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hole in the curtain on the other side and getting
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glimpses of it. Other times they'll show you
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these symbols. Again, I'll show an example of
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what I had last night. I was at Development Circle
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and I was saying, oh, your nanny's showing me
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a dog. Does she have a dog? And my sister said,
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no, she didn't, but I do. I was like, okay, fine.
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Well, that's again, pretty generic. And I asked
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this grandmother to show me something specific
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about this dog. Straight away in my mind's eye,
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I was like, I was seeing this. this dog tail
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this tail was just wagging but I knew there was
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something about this tail I didn't know if it
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was the coloring of the tail and I kept saying
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I said to my sister there's something about this
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tail there is like is there a spot in this tail
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where there's some sort of discoloration there's
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something around this tail and she's like he's
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only got half a tail right thank you I knew something
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about the tail because she was just showing me
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this waving tail and there was like this banding
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this banding of colors around the tail so when
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you hear a psychic or a medium say I can see
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this I can see that they're not physically seeing
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it it is in their mind's eye I mean there may
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be some psychics and mediums out there who do
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see things as if they were to see it in the physical
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world I don't that's not me I see things in my
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mind's eye which is why when I start my readings
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I close my eyes just so I can filter out the
29:30
world so I can just feel what comes in it's almost
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as if I am reliving a memory in my mind that
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is not mine okay there you go that describes
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the feeling the sound and the visuals all in
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one go it is as if I am reliving someone else's
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memory in my mind and I have to interpret what
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the hell is memory and all the things included
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this dog wagging its tail the sound of John or
30:01
Joe or something this sense of there being a
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discomfort about the family not being happy with
30:08
how the funeral was conducted this memory is
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not mine these memories are not mine the realities
30:17
of psychic and medium shit work are so much more
30:22
subtle than the expectations. The expectations,
30:26
especially if you're viewing this work through
30:29
the lens of Hollywood, is that it is loud. It
30:32
is intrusive. It is obvious. It is clear. It
30:38
is not. Hence why half my battle with this journey
30:44
is getting my head around. Am I making all this
30:47
up? Or is this real? Is this coming from somewhere
30:51
else? I really hope that has shed some light
30:56
for you on what I experience on what other psychics
31:00
and mediums experience when they give a reading.
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Just bear that in mind as well. If you are not
31:05
tapping in or have not tapped into your abilities,
31:11
moderate your expectations if you go to a reading,
31:15
if you have your own reading. I mean, you know,
31:19
we are not all Tyler Henry's, you know, I dream
31:23
of the day where I will be able to be as clear
31:25
and as on point 100 % of the time as Tyler Henry.
31:31
But also, actually, before I wrap this up, that
31:36
is another expectation which I sometimes fall
31:41
into a trap of putting on myself that these people,
31:45
the Tyler Henry's of the world, are right every
31:49
single time and they are not. They are not. I
31:55
am telling you now, they are not. They will have
31:58
off days. They will have sitters who do not gel,
32:03
who do not vibe with the psychic and that all
32:08
has an impact on the quality of your reading.
32:12
I put extremely high expectations and extremely
32:16
high pressure on myself to be as good as I can
32:19
be. And I think, you know, to an extent that
32:22
is warranted. I have got people's emotions and
32:26
people's loved ones in my hand when I'm doing
32:28
this. But at the same time, by putting that pressure
32:34
on ourselves, by putting that pressure on to
32:37
your psychics or your mediums. it really is not
32:41
helping matters and actually you're just going
32:43
to be disappointed with what you get because
32:46
I feel like I'm being given the the figure 80
32:50
to 85 percent of psychics and mediums have to
32:54
go through this code have to go through this
32:57
constant interpretation as to what they are being
33:00
given it's not clear and for that remaining percentage
33:05
of psychics and mediums who do get that um actually
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i'm not even sure it's that high to be honest
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um well they're just bloody lucky that's all
33:14
i can say the rest of us have got to work a bit
33:17
harder but it does come the more you work at
33:21
it the more fluent you become the more natural
33:25
it becomes so i will take this time to say i
33:29
am planning the christmas stroke winter solstice
33:34
episode And I'd like to go, dare I say, a bit
33:38
spooky. I have put so many messages on Instagram,
33:42
so many messages on threads and Facebook, and
33:45
I'm really, I am, I'm a bit disappointed because
33:48
I've had no response whatsoever, like no one
33:51
has seen these messages. So if you are listening,
33:54
if you are one of my wonderful listeners who
33:56
have been listening to me, And if you have had
34:00
an experience that you would like to share, please
34:03
get in touch. Oh, I would be so grateful for
34:07
you to share your story, to share your message
34:12
with the rest of whoever is listening to these
34:15
episodes. You can do so by messaging me at my
34:20
Instagram which is the .psychic .explorer. I'm
34:24
on Facebook or I'm on threads at the same handle
34:27
the .psychic .explorer. Alternatively if you're
34:32
listening to this on Spotify then feel free to
34:35
comment and leave a message and I'll reach out
34:38
to you through that. Ideally what I would really
34:41
like is to hear your voice. I say this to my
34:44
sitters especially the audience when I do my
34:46
platform event I need to hear your voice I need
34:48
to hear you or at least I would love to hear
34:51
you so if you would like to send me a voice note
34:54
on talking about your experience, whether it
34:58
be spooky, whether it be spiritual, whatever
35:00
it is, I'd love to hear it. Reach out to me on
35:03
Instagram, send me a voice note on private message,
35:08
and I will try and get it on the December episode.
35:15
I would love to just, yeah, I'm trying. I've
35:19
got this idea about what I would love that episode
35:20
to be. At the moment, I'm getting no responses
35:23
from anyone. So, yeah, I'm just going to plead
35:26
and beg at this stage. If you're listening, please
35:29
send me something, please. Lots of love, guys.
35:32
I hope that episode's helped. Take care. Lots
35:36
of love. Bye.