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5 Ways to Tell if They're Cheating! · Secrets They'll Only Tell a Matchmaker with Gina Hendrix

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  Cheaters. Let's talk about cheaters and O
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  5 signs to know that your person might be up to no good.
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  Hang on. And in no particular order as
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  they come into my mind. All right, the first thing that
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  comes to mind is, are they less commutative?
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  Have they suddenly become, like, secretive and they're just not
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  sharing things with you as much as they used to?
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  That's number one. Hang on, I got four More #2.
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  Less intimacy. Do they not want to do it with
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  you as often as they did? They're not as lovey dovey.
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  There's some sort of distance happening and something's off.
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  Hang on. This is probably my favorite
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  change in their routine. Are they traveling more without
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  you? Or have they suddenly decided
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  they want to hit the gym, get themselves in better shape?
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  This is a huge red flag. Hang on, two more.
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  Have they become defensive when you ask them things?
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  Because things don't seem right to you, so naturally you're
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  going to be asking them questions.
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  Have they now become defensive? Well, what do you mean by that?
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  Well, why would you think that? If they've become defensive,
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  there's a reason. Last but not least, have they
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  become extra critical of you? It seems like they're trying to
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  find fault with every little thing you do.
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  It's because they want to be able to point the finger at you,
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  to take the focus off themselves.
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  And finally, finally, finally, keep this in mind.
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  Keep a couple things in mind. First of all, always trust your
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  gut. Always trust your gut.
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  You always know the truth, but you don't want to believe the
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  truth. So you try to talk yourself out
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  of it. You try to get other people's
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  opinions, but you know if something's off, it's off.
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  And therefore, if it ever comes to the fact where you're
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  especially if you're just dating somebody, if you're just dating
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  somebody and you feel compelled to want to check their phone or
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  dig, dig on the computer and look into what they've got going
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  on, that is all you need to know.
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  If it's gotten to that point, this just is not the right
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  relationship for you. Hit the brakes, move on.
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  It's not easy, but you got to do it.
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  All right? Hope it helps.