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Speaking With Brooke Buckeyebettie, Men's Advocate and Commentator | Fireside Chat 237 · Honey Badger Radio

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  Hello everyone, and welcome to Honey Badger Radio. My name is Brian and
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  this is the Fireside Chat and today we have a special guest. You know,
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  I put Brooke down as the name. I don't know if that's okay
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  because that's your I think that's your name, your first name at least,
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  but Buck, I Buck, I Betty is what it says on your zoom
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  which one? What do you prefer? What would you prefer? I call
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  you by or red pill? That your YouTube channel is like a different name?
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  No, yeah, Brook is fine? Okay, okay, all right,
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  Well welcome to the show. Brooke, thanks for coming on, Thanks
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  for having me. Yeah, yeah, no problem. So we were chatting
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  a little bit before the show and I was telling you that somebody named Jennifer
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  shouted you out in the in the live chat, and then somebody named Jennifer
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  followed me on Twitter, and I guess I'm wondering, you know that is
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  that like you have a cheerleader that like a little a little buddy that you
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  have there. That's cool. I mean, I think it's great. But
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  am I right about that? My Are my instincts correct? Yes, Jennifer
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  is one of my ladies. Hey, Jennifer. All right, Well,
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  before we get started, I just want to give everyone ahead a couple of
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  things. Number One, please smash that like button. It really helps us
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  reach more people, and it you know, it's I think that these are
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  very important conversations that we should be having. And also, if you guys
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  are un Rumble, throw some any kind of gift you want or emote in
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  the chat, because I want to promote Rumble as a platform. I think
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  it's a very good platform that we should be on. And lastly, I
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  know I sound terrible. I sound like I'm doing my best Robert F.
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  Kennedy junior impression, but I assure you I feel a lot better than I
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  sound. I'm just getting over something and maybe in a couple of days I'll
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  have my my lovely singing voice back. So I may cough a little bit,
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  and I apologize for that. So okay, So what, okay?
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  What why are you talking about men's issues? Like? What? What?
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  Why do you? Why are you doing this? That's my first question I
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  have to ask people this Why are you doing this? Is like the most
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  unpopular thing anyone can do, But why are you doing it? Well?
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  One thing is is that I while I am a woman, and I understand
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  women's issues, of course, But what I've found out by speaking with people
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  and by research and things alone, like I've found out that not a lot
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  of people are aware of the issues that men face. Like for example,
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  my biggest thing, because it affects me the most, is from parental alienation
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  from my father, and I endured that as I was growing up. So
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  that's that's really the meat and potatoes of the reason why I'm here. But
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  I'm also here to educate, to have conversations between men and women and talk
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  about these issues that that gets that don't they're not taken seriously or seriously enough.
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  So I think that that education in the conversation components are very important.
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  Yes, yes, so you have a story of parental alienation. I don't
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  if is that something we can talk about or is that a little too personal
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  for you or what? No, I can I'm fine talking about that.
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  If you'd like to discuss that, that's fine. Well, it's it's good
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  to know, Like what because a lot of times people women who get involved
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  in this, it's usually because they either have children or sons more specifically,
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  and they're concerned about their sons or their husband or significant other had some kind
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  of experience, and so parental alienation we do. We have had on guests
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  that work in that specific let's say, you know, in that specific field,
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  but I've I don't remember talking to people who've actually experienced it outside of
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  like a few guests. So can you tell me a little bit about who
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  it is you're alienated from and you know, maybe a little bit about what
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  that was like. Sure. So I didn't actually meet my father until I
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  was twelve. My mom and him had divorced when I was like around six
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  months old, and basically I went through my whole life I knew of him.
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  My my mom talked really badly about him. She told me all kinds
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  of horrible stories. And one day he just showed up in my living room.
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  I was playing Nintendo back in my bedroom, the original and the original
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  Nintendo the Eddys, and I was back there and my mom said, somebody's
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  here to see you. And I walk out to the front room and there's
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  a man sitting there right And I'm twelve, I'm like, why is there
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  a man in the in the living rooms here to see me? He was
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  kind of weird, and she was like that's your father. And so that's
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  the first time I met him, and then from there on, I'm still
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  getting the stories, the bad you know, all these bad like things about
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  my father, like he did bad things to my mother, he was a
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  bad person. He didn't care about me, even though he was paying child
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  support, and he obviously had visitation because he showed up. So basically what
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  happened is that as time went on, like you know, he was trying
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  to see me more, and my mom kind of put stick elations. She
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  was very strict, lots of rules, restrict restrictions around my dad his visits
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  with me, so it almost made it impossible. And then she's like,
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  see, look he can't even come see you. And I didn't know until
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  later it was basically he restricted her basically, or restricted him. She restricted
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  him basically from coming to see me or you know, taking me away from
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  the house. So in that effect, as time went on, I really
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  didn't get to know my dad until I was, like, you know,
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  after I you know, like when I went to college and got out of
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  college and him and I started creating this bond that we should have had a
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  long time ago. It's still kind of not it's still weird. You know,
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  it's not like a regular father daughter bond. I mean, I love
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  him to pieces, but we're working on it, right. So we just
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  missed all this time and all this bonding that we didn't get, and you
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  know, it just makes me really sad that we missed out on that and
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  we have to go through what's kind of called like a weird period. But
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  he's really close. I have a daughter, so he's really close to my
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  daughter. We go visit them him and he comes to visit us. They
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  live out of state, and so it's been really nice to get my daughter
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  to know him, you know, better than even I knew him. She
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  knows him as grandpa and she's meeting him in her early years and I love
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  that for her. Wow, And yeah, yeah, that's great, that's
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  great. Do you do you feel like there's things that you missed out on
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  because of being alien from your dad? I do. I feel like I
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  missed that he was in the Navy. I feel like I missed out on
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  being able to travel abroad to see him in different countries or even different states.
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  I have six six half brother well, three half sisters and three half
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  brothers that I don't really know, because of the situation. So, yeah,
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  I have missed out on him and my family and you experiences, yeah
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  have you? Okay, So when we talk about father absence or fatherlessness is
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  the term I prefer because father absence seems to like, you know, there
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  is such a thing as a man that avoids you know, responsibility. But
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  I also but I think that that's only half the equation. I think that
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  a lot of times are you know, women who will alienate their children from
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  their father, and then there's also the opposite. There are also some cases
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  where men alienate children from the mother and you know, vice versa. And
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  but like you know, the most common type of alienation is father's alien from
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  their children. And what I guess what I was wondering about is what what
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  do you think were would be an effect that you know, would have come
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  from that, Like, what what are some of the negative effects. Like
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  my wife, she knows her dad, but her mother and father divorced pretty
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  young, and she would just visit with him, but she doesn't feel like
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  close to him, or she didn't. It's kind of a struggle to do
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  that, and she feels like that, you know, there are some things
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  that she felt that a father could have brought to her, you know,
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  to sort of like help her be a more complete person. I mean,
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  I had my mother and father for most of my life, although I recently
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  discovered they were never married, but they just stayed together, which is weird,
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  but so I think it sort of still worked out for me, like
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  I did get my father, you know, the father perspective, and I
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  feel really lucky. Although I don't think that should be a case of luck.
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  I think it should be closer to the normal. So anyway, like,
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  what what do you think a father brings to a daughter? Is I
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  ultimate what I'm getting at out of curiosity if you've thought this about at all,
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  Well, I had my grandpa, So my grandpa kind of helped my
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  mom raise me. So in my perspective, I would say the things that
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  he brought. I guess I can use this as a as a as a
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  as a beacon in a sense. So one thing that I learned was male
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  and female relationships, like my grandpa taught me really early on. And I
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  think that a father can teach us too. Obviously is them. So when
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  I say grip, I mean father, But I think that they can teach
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  women about healthy relationships, about boundaries, about treating you know, men with
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  respect, so you know, to get respect back as well. Right,
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  So these aren't one way streets. These are definitely things because I mean,
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  when you grow up as an adult and you have a relationship, you you
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  want those things. You want the respect, the support, the appreciation,
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  you want all of those things. And how to you know, provide those
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  two you know, your husband or your wife or whatever the case may be.
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  So I think it's very important that you learn the dynamics which that you
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  know, men go through, especially like when like they're fixing a car,
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  or how they react with your mother. You know, how your mother and
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  father interact with each other when he's you know, working late or things like
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  that, how she accepts it. I think that's very important that you have
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  that dynamic there so that way you can see, for an example, you
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  know, this is how this relationship is, and this is something to model
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  your future relationships off of. I think it's very healthy when a father is
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  present to show that to their child, especially a female. They get that
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  opportunity to see, you know, what men really men are about, and
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  even how they think and how they act. You know, I mean because
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  it is different. Men and women are different. So I think it's very
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  important to have that strong, strong foundation with a father or a father figure,
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  so that way you can just understand men in general, especially coming from
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  a woman. Yes, yes, so I guess the parental what what was
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  it? The parental alienation thing? And then like you were thinking about,
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  like you know, like how common is this issue? What are and then
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  it sort of put you on the path to like, you know, discussing
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  these things. What are there any So let me ask you this. You
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  you said that you know obviously you're aware of women's issues as well. What
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  what women's issues are you know, at the top of your list or are
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  they kind of there's a lot of I think the majority of issues are kind
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  of like they're not really gendered. But we'll just say there is one that
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  is what would you what would you say it is? I would think that
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  I actually disagree with women empowerment. I think that and I'm going to get
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  no fans for this something women. Well, I don't know, like I
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  mean, I like this beginning of this line of reasoning. I'm really curious
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  about, like where you're going to go with it. So you disagree with
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  this what is it like, this notion of female empowerment. Yes, because
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  I think what's happened is it's actually torn us. It's torn us apart from
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  from males. Uh. You see women that are going after careers, so
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  they're not really spending time with trying to create a foundational relationship with a male.
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  They're you know, waiting to have children later or even to get married
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  later. If at all, this women's empowerment thing, it's just it's it's
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  influencing women to work towards these goals, like so they can be what I
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  feel is more powerful that where they don't even need you know, a counterpart,
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  They don't even need a man, And that, to me, is
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  is very detrimental for society for one for reproduction and two for healthy relationships because
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  it is causing a rift between females and males and these relationships. I get
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  in a lot of spaces about relationships, and we all seem to agree that
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  there are definitely rifts between male and female relationships because of mostly because of you
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  know, a feminist agenda or the women's empowerment movement. Yeah, yeah,
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  yeah, I'm with you on that. I think that it's I'm curious though,
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  like about I'm gonna ask something else in a second. But but I
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  agree with you. I think that there is a grand lie that is told
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  to women that they can do They can do it all. They can put
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  off family, they can put off you know, love and relationships and career,
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  they could opt out completely. I even had I talked to an m
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  RA, a female MRA, like I don't know, a month ago,
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  and she was the kind of in this she believed in, you know,
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  a lot of the let's say, egalitarian ideas. But when I when I
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  propose that you know, our population is dying, that maybe, you know,
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  women should give serious thought. Now I don't want to tell them what
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  they should do, obviously, but they should give serious consideration to like if
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  they like, oh I want kids one day, well, they should probably
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  understand the biology and the science behind waiting so that if they make that decision,
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  you know, it's not like based on this lie that they can do
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  it all. Because if a woman waits, she says, well, like
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  it waits on forty and then I can like, I don't freeze my eggs
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  or whatever. And then it turns out the science on that is not quite
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  as rock solid as they were led to believe, and they missed their window,
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  it's gonna be a really big problem. And I think, well,
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  you know, you should know so that if you're gonna make the decision,
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  it's completely an informed decision. And you know, she had already cut her
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  to got her tubes tied. So there was a bit of like, you
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  know, let's say hostility there or pushback because I was essentially saying, are
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  you sure this is a good idea? Because when you're you know, like
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  when you get older, you might look back and say, why didn't I
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  have kids? And there is this chance that you've been lied to? And
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  so I just you know, again, I'm not telling anybody how they should
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  live, but I hope that whatever decisions people make, you know, they
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  are informed, like they know, you know, what the risks are.
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  So mm hmm. Sorry, So I guess I kind of forgot where that
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  was going with that, but let me ask. So, Yeah, I
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  mean I think it is a women's issue, and uh, because you know,
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  ultimately though it is it's a it's it's about like whether or not you
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  know, women are aware that they're being lied to. And I think that
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  the truth is and this is also this goes for men too. Most of
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  us, like even most men's rights activists, want wanted or Mike taw everything
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  they wanted originally at some point early in their life. They wanted to meet
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  someone, they wanted to fall in love, they wanted to get married,
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  and they wanted to have kids. Like the overwhelming majority of people wanted that,
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  and I think the overwhelming majority still do. But there's all of these
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  things that are discouraging people, you know, telling them to wait, tell
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  them to focus on career, telling them that raising a child in this economy
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  is a bad idea or in this society is bad for them, you know.
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  And I think it is having an effect on people pairing up less and
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  you know, being less happy and satisfied in their life, you know what
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  I mean. I agree. Yeah, So it is your particular interest the
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  kind of relationships and family sphere, or do you have any other like issues
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  men's issues or women's issues that you're like they really get your you know,
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  fire burning mostly minor family. I also am really concerned with I'm pro life,
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  some really conservative abortion and how men don't have a say in women getting
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  abortions, you know, because to me, I think that's a decision between
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  two consensual adults. If you're consensual having sex, you should both have you
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  should both have a say whether or not that child is or not. Instead,
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  it's taken away from the father because of my body my choice, which
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  I think, in my personal opinion, is a bunch of baloney. That
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  is a life, and two people created that right, not just one.
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  So I really hate that. I've been lately, I've been talking about like,
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  I just got a really crazy idea one day. I don't I haven't
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  talked to any legal, legal professionals or anything about it, but I got
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  a really crazy idea. And I mean that in a positive way where I'm
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  like, wouldn't it be great if we had something in place like that where
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  if two consensual adults had sex and they had a you know, they got
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  pregnant, and they both had to sign off on the abortion, and if
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  one parent didn't sign off on the abortion, it didn't happen exactly exactly.
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  Oh my god, that will make so many women angry, Yes, so
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  many women. But I think the truth is that I think that most pro
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  pro life advocates are women, So it's not it is a woman versus women
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  thing men. Men have essentially been put into what is called a black category
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  when it comes to discussion of not just abortion, but women in general.
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  Men are in a black category. That means that their views are automatically dismissed
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  because of how much you know, sort of victimhood propaganda there is in the
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  world around women and how men are the are the people who are the oppressors.
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  So when a man that's why my body my choice, or you know,
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  what is it about men can't make laws about women's universes or something like
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  that, right, it's like these these bumper sticker type statements that are kind
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  of empty, and men have basically just bowed out like, yeah, I
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  guess you know this isn't about me. I mean, the most vocal sort
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  of you know, opinion to people on abortion are either you know, you
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  have like the sort of you know, I would say somewhat tepid but step
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  in opinion position that it is killing a baby that you'll get from some of
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  the more some of the male let's say, pundits that speak, you know,
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  that are pro life. And on the other side, though, it's
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  like the men that are pro choice are just like completely like you know,
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  simping for the women, right, and but generally men are not. Really
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  they have no effect on the conversation either way. I think it does have
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  to come down to women. And that's why I say, you're probably gonna
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  get a lot of crap for that. But here's something I thought about with
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  the abortion thing. So like, Okay, first of all, you said
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  men should have a say so, but you don't really think that abortion should
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  happen anyway, right, right for life? But yeah, but I mean,
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  if if we're going to go in this direction, because now in like
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  in my state, for example, just in November, they voted for they
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  you know how we had a Row versus Wade overturned. Yeah, yeah,
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  yeah. Nationally, so now they're doing it by states where they're allowing abortions.
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  So that that's kind of like where I was kind of thinking, if
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  I know of a lawmaker or somebody or somebody in the legal process or somebody
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  a lawyer, what's your state if you don't mind me asking, Ohio,
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  Ohio? Okay, Hannah's in Ohio. Yeah, I almost moved there.
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  I was in Chicago and I was looking at Dayton or the area in Dayton.
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  I ended up moving to Virginia. In Virginia. Yeah, So here's
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  the thing that I think is an interesting thing that nobody ever brings up when
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  it comes to abortion. So this comes down to the question of, not
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  necessarily, you know, does a woman have a right to do whatever she
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  wants with her body, because you know, we're not talking about her body,
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  right, We're talking about the body of the unborn as she's carrying.
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  So how do I make a logical case for that without you know, sounding
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  like I guess what people would presume, I'm like a bible thumping religious sell
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  it or something, or an oppressive patriarch that wants to control women's bodies.
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  Those are ridiculous straw men, don't. I don't go along with that at
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  all. But I will say this. I notice that whether or not a
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  woman is carrying a clump of cells or a baby in her body completely depends
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  on what she thinks it is while she's carrying it. So this gives women
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  who are pregnant the right to decide whether the baby is a baby or if
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  it's a parasite. Right. And you know that because if you ask a
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  woman, are you planning on keeping it? Depending on what they answer determines
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  whether or not it's a baby. You know what I'm saying. That's not
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  how we do things. That doesn't make sense. If I, like wanted
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  to eat my dog, I would never do that if I But if I
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  did and I said, well, it's my dog, I can do whatever
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  I want with it, and somebody say you can't do that, that's animal
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  cruelty, and I somehow can make the case that it's you know, to
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  me, it's basically chicken, and I can eat a chicken, you know
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  what I'm saying. Like, see, it doesn't add up. Now.
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  The other thing is if a woman who's pregnant is killed, we actually count
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  that as a double murder, right, even though we don't know if she's
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  playing on keeping he or not. So I think that's another another you could
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  use this to make that argument, because it's like, well, we do
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  recognize it as a life under the law in every other context, just not
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  this one. And I don't think women should have that kind of power.
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  I think that you don't even recognize it. Yeah, it's like it's it's
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  like the only and only women get to decide that. I mean, that's
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  you know, we don't live in a patriarchy. Ladies like that wouldn't happen
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  in a patriarchy. So okay, But anyway, I'm I'm getting so so
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  okay. So this is like a big thing for you. Are there any
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  other issues that fire you up a lot? Philicide, infanticide, especially when
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  I've been doing a lot of research on maternal philocide and fantaside and how a
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  lot of these seem to be swept under the rug. I've even I've even
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  I'm still researching, hopefully hoping to have this completed, my research completed by
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  the middle of next year, either going to try to publish a paper,
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  or I might put it in a works, a book of works like like
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  essays and things that I've been working on for the last year because I do
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  a lot of writing, and so yeah, the in fantaside, phil aside
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  maternally really has me upset. I've been putting a lot of those on my
• 26:30
  on my Twitter, I've been researching those in my in my own time,
• 26:34
  and they usually say it comes from there's you know, the majority of them
• 26:41
  they say, now, this is just because of this is what the mother
• 26:44
  is claiming. If she's still alive, if she didn't do you know,
• 26:48
  a homice suicide, right, So they usually say it comes from a place
• 26:53
  of altruism. But I again, I you know what, I'm still looking
• 26:57
  into that because I don't I can't buy that. I can't buy it.
• 27:02
  Like you're you're you're killing your children. Sorry excuse my language. And so
• 27:07
  I'm consigned. Sometimes I'm kind of radical, but you're killing your children,
• 27:11
  and you want to say that this is because you're saving them from the world
• 27:14
  or you're saving them from the other parent. And most of these cases that
• 27:18
  I'm finding is that these are cases where the father was fighting for custody for
• 27:22
  these children and the court granted the custody to the mother, and then even
• 27:25
  sometimes some cases that the father even told the court, hey, she's going
• 27:30
  to hurt these kids. Yeah, that's just that blows my mind. It
• 27:33
  blows my mind how the course are still giving them these kids and in a
• 27:37
  lot of states, because most of our states are mothers states, And it
• 27:41
  just blows my mind. How if a father and I get it, I
• 27:45
  get that. You know, divorces can be pretty dramatic and turmoil and has
• 27:48
  a lot of stress and there's a lot of issues, you know, interpersonally
• 27:51
  between the couple in itself. But if somebody is saying, hey, you
• 27:56
  know, she could hurt those kids, I mean, I don't you think
• 27:59
  that, like some other measure should be in place, like maybe a psychological
• 28:02
  evaluation. I don't even think that's being done. So I haven't seen anything
• 28:06
  that where states that that's being done. So that's what I'm saying, like
• 28:10
  we're you know, I don't know, just I'm finding that this is recent.
• 28:14
  It might have been it's been going on for a while, but in
• 28:17
  the news now you're finding it to be recent. You're I'm writing more articles
• 28:19
  about this, especially here with me. People dot com. People dot com
• 28:25
  is publishing all a lot of these that you don't see anywhere else for some
• 28:29
  reason. People dot Com guys, if you want, if you're like crime,
• 28:33
  I'm telling you that's that's the only place I could find anything like in
• 28:37
  regards to you know, crimes against men and crimes against children by women,
• 28:41
  and crime you know, anything, because normally if you look up, if
• 28:45
  you do a Google search and you type for men or woman killing men,
• 28:51
  it actually switches on you like it's it gives you results for you know,
• 28:55
  when men kill women you know or you know, it's it's just it's hard
• 28:59
  to find stuff. It's hard to find stuff, and people, like I
• 29:00
  said, I'm speaking the praises right now, but people dot com has been
• 29:06
  my best source lately for all of this. And I cannot stress that enough.
• 29:10
  I don't know why or how, but and I don't know how I
• 29:12
  fell on that, but that's where I get a lot of my true crime
• 29:17
  stuff that that seems to pop up even with the the women that are you
• 29:22
  know, the women that are raping you know, children, boys especially,
• 29:26
  So that's in there too. It's like you can't find that anywhere else.
• 29:32
  Yeah, yeah, it's hard to find that. You know. The media
• 29:37
  is a tangled rats nest of deception and playing like vocabulary words that are twisted.
• 29:49
  So yeah, it's it's it's it's interesting. I'm glad that you can
• 29:55
  you're able to discern that, because it's it's tough. I got a rumble
• 29:59
  rant actually from blame Kaiser. If you guys want to send me a rumble
• 30:02
  rant, just do it through rumble, he says, for two dollars,
• 30:07
  thank you. Even though Tim is a little blue pilled on men's rights,
• 30:11
  he did a video on an article about a thirty eight year old woman who
• 30:15
  regrets not having a family and blames feminism. Okay, well a couple questions.
• 30:22
  Tim, you mean Tim Poole. I don't have the whole name,
• 30:26
  but that's the only Tim I know that you could be talking about. And
• 30:30
  the other thing is, when you said blames feminism, you mean the woman
• 30:33
  who regrets laving a family or Tim Poole is doing it. I'm curious.
• 30:40
  I don't think it's unfair to say that women have been lied to and some
• 30:45
  of them believe it. That's why I was saying before, you know,
• 30:48
  like you should be try to be really vigilant. I think that a lot
• 30:55
  of people, maybe the majority of people, have made the mistake of like
• 30:59
  trust you know, these authority figures, these groups, these institutions, and
• 31:07
  they are discovering, at least in the last five years or so, how
• 31:11
  often they lie, and so hopefully, you know, people will become more
• 31:15
  sort of discerning about this kind of stuff. So anyway, yeah, that's
• 31:23
  what that's what I think. So what do you uh you? Yeah,
• 31:30
  I saw one of your videos. You only have like two I think right
• 31:36
  on your YouTube channel. Well, hopefully you'll make more. I like that,
• 31:38
  you know, you're talking about these things. I think that these are
• 31:41
  really important discussions, and I'm one of them. You are responding to Pearl
• 31:51
  Davis, and she was I think I don't have the whole story. I
• 31:57
  I broadly support Pearl because she's bringing to light these issues, and sure,
• 32:02
  her platform is very big, so a lot of people are seeing it.
• 32:07
  But I don't think she's saying anything that I don't already know. So I'm
• 32:12
  not getting anything out of it. In fact, fortunately because there's a number
• 32:16
  of other women on the platform that are that well, that are like sort
• 32:22
  of talking about the same kinds of things that we talk about, but most
• 32:27
  of them don't acknowledge our existence or other people that are like that have been
• 32:31
  doing this longer, like maybe they don't know about it. I'm not I'm
• 32:36
  not pointing fingers, I'm not mad or anything like that. No, our
• 32:38
  channel's pretty small, and we have worked with people like Paul Elam and Warren
• 32:44
  Ferrell and others who have been at this since the seventies. But Pearl has
• 32:52
  actually reached out and talked to them. She's had on you know, I
• 32:55
  don't know if you know who jans fiamngo Is or or any of these others.
• 33:00
  I don't know, have you have you looked at much other content or
• 33:02
  is this all kind of you know, you're doing this on your own?
• 33:07
  I uh, well, let's see. I I do correspond back and forth
• 33:13
  with Hannah every now, okay, following each other on Twitter. Yeah,
• 33:16
  so her and I we have been in you know, circles with each other.
• 33:21
  She's had people on her on her Twitter that has cost strife, and
• 33:25
  then I've had people on my Twitter cost strife, and We've both been involved
• 33:29
  back and forth. But before before her, you know, I'll be honest
• 33:34
  with you, as you know, I've always been kind of for meend's rights,
• 33:37
  just because of the parentally alienation aspect. Plus I grew up around cousins
• 33:43
  that were boys, so in front and guy friends, so I've kind of
• 33:45
  heard a lot about the differences between how girls and boys get treated, like
• 33:51
  at school or in jobs and stuff like that. I kind of already had
• 33:54
  that down. And I've been called a misogynist myself of course, yeah,
• 34:00
  just gender trader of those. Yet oh yes, I get I still get
• 34:06
  picked me all the time, even though I'm married and just here to educate
• 34:09
  and have conversations with you, especially women. I actually my focus is with
• 34:14
  women because like there was a lot of things like up until about a year
• 34:17
  ago, like even though I was kind of in the movement myself, but
• 34:22
  like up until a year ago, like I actually wasn't aware of like things
• 34:24
  that were happening because of like women's empowerment and you know, the divine feminine
• 34:34
  and things like that. So over the last year have been researching as you
• 34:37
  know, you heard me with Sigma Trialectic. He was in that video as
• 34:42
  well. He's kind of been like my you know, my compadre and this
• 34:46
  whole entire thing as well. He's been kind of my source to go to
• 34:50
  if I want to, you know, drop something to him or he gives
• 34:52
  me information too. So I've been working with him for about a year now.
• 34:55
  So but the one thing that really got me, I'm going to tell
• 34:59
  you this one thing that really got me again, I really didn't I knew
• 35:02
  who Pearl was when I came in here. Not really. I did know
• 35:06
  who Peter Wright was because a guind of Centrism before I came to Twitter.
• 35:10
  But I will say the one thing that really got me It really struck me
• 35:15
  hard, and I almost threw my phone over because I was so angry when
• 35:17
  I read this article. It was it was a scholarly article, and I'm
• 35:22
  not normally I'm usually violent, but it was so it made me so mad
• 35:25
  because it was talking about toxic masculinity. Oh god, gas lighting mails to
• 35:30
  the whole thing. I'm like, oh my gosh, Like I wanted to
• 35:32
  throw my phone. I was like, this is horrible. So that's when
• 35:36
  I decided to come to Twitter, because I, you know, I had
• 35:38
  things I wanted to say and I wanted and I was on a different platform,
• 35:43
  and those women were kind of pushing back, and I was like,
• 35:45
  you know, I really want to talk to more women and get them to
• 35:49
  understand where I'm at with this, because I feel like if more women understood
• 35:52
  where I was, where where I came from, and where I am right
• 35:55
  now, I think that maybe we might be able to grab a hold of
• 35:59
  this women's empowerment and switch it around and get you know, women to actually
• 36:01
  understand that the you know, the rights aren't equal right now. I mean,
• 36:07
  you go to the Barbie movie and you see in the mein you know,
• 36:10
  the beginning of the Barbie movie. I watched it, Please don't judge
• 36:14
  me. I did. I took I took like fifteen pages of notes by
• 36:17
  the way of all the Miss Sandry that I heard, because if that helps.
• 36:21
  But like at the beginning of it, there was a foundation. You
• 36:23
  know, Mittel was founded for hot wheels, right, the boys, the
• 36:27
  boys cars, and then they brought Barbie in. So therefore, at the
• 36:32
  beginning of this movie you're watching you know, the credits and stuff like that,
• 36:37
  and it adds and they had a foundation for female empowerment for little girls,
• 36:40
  and I'm like, where's the one for the boys? Like why isn't
• 36:45
  this equal? Aren't you you guys are a toy company? Who was you
• 36:47
  know, based on boys toys? Like where are where you know your initche
• 36:52
  you know, your your foundation for boys? Like I just find that it's
• 36:57
  so off kilter. Like, you know, in society, they think that
• 37:00
  women need to push up, you know what with women's empowerment and what was
• 37:04
  it the sexual revolution since the nineties, I think they've had enough enough.
• 37:08
  Let them run with that for long enough. I think it's time swinging around
• 37:12
  and you know, get some you know, equality for our boys to do
• 37:15
  and our mails and our men, because I think that it's just gone too
• 37:17
  far and it's we got to swing it around because again, like we said
• 37:22
  earlier, I mean, it could be affecting reproduction and we don't want that,
• 37:27
  right, So I don't want that. I'm sure you don't want that.
• 37:29
  I should probably a lot of people that are listening, especially Miketaile redpill,
• 37:32
  you know, even those black pills, even though they don't want to
• 37:36
  admit it, they probably feel the same way. Leep down right. So
• 37:38
  yeah, that's where I'm That's where I don't know if I answered your question,
• 37:43
  but no, no, it's you said a lot. But I can
• 37:45
  probably speak to some of this stuff. So yes, about the toxic masculinity.
• 37:52
  So this is like probably my number one like thing to attack when it
• 38:00
  comes to this gender theory stuff, is toxic masculinity. I think that this
• 38:06
  is a very very dangerous weapon. It's not just a way to shame men.
• 38:12
  It's not just a way to gaslight men. It's it's I think that
• 38:19
  this does serious psychological damage to men, especially when they're very young. And
• 38:25
  this is what we're talking about. It affects boys, and it affects boys
• 38:29
  very early. If you look at you know, like your average school teacher
• 38:34
  is a feminist and the majority of them are women, and the majority of
• 38:39
  those teach in the way that they teach. And then not just the United
• 38:44
  States, this is like all over the Western world. Maybe not only in
• 38:47
  the Western world too, but I can only speak for you know, the
• 38:51
  UK, Europe, Canada, and the United States. So I guess that's
• 38:53
  what I mean by the Western world as far as I know. And Spain,
• 38:58
  oh my god, Spain's terrible. But anyway, so you get like
• 39:02
  young boys, they are taught in a fashion that is not suited for males.
• 39:08
  It is suited for women. For girls, they're you know, they're
• 39:14
  the literature that they used to read is all gone. It's all you know,
• 39:17
  aimed at little girls. I did. I did substitute teaching for a
• 39:21
  year, and I looked at material and I'm in you know, southwestern Virginia.
• 39:24
  It's not it's not exactly like a woke, you know, a stronghold.
• 39:30
  It's actually kind of like a moderate area. You know, there's a
• 39:32
  mix of people. And yet you know, even then, you know,
• 39:37
  there's no adventure stories, there's no HG. Wells, there's no uh you
• 39:43
  know, Mark Twain, there's not none of that. It's all I don't
• 39:46
  even never heard of it. It's all modern stuff about relationships and boys are
• 39:52
  leading levels are terrible, and they're medicated, and because they're not acting in
• 39:58
  the way that you know, are schools thinks they should, so they're like,
• 40:01
  well, there must be something wrong with them. And so you have
• 40:04
  like all of this, you know, boys being diagnosed with you know,
• 40:07
  ADHD and like autism and shit like that, and then you know, if
• 40:15
  they do have struggles and they go to therapy. If you look at the
• 40:19
  American Psychological Association's guidelines for helping men, it's all built on this toxic masculinity
• 40:24
  as a baseline. So it's not even science. It's just social science.
• 40:29
  And I mean, like hardly even that because you know, I used to
• 40:31
  be a pretty big critic of social science. And there's a woman I know
• 40:38
  named Aidan Paladin who studies it and she says, you know, there is
• 40:43
  some value in it, but a lot of it is basically just co opted
• 40:46
  by this sort of ideological you know, feminism, basically for lack of a
• 40:51
  better work, And so you have like men who are being treated by people
• 40:58
  who hate them in a fashion that makes them it blames them for their own
• 41:02
  problems. So and then they and then they'll come out and say why don't
• 41:07
  men seek help. It's like, well, some of them are smart enough
• 41:10
  to figure out that they're not gonna get help, and then the other ones
• 41:15
  that do. You know, we have like a really high rate of drug
• 41:21
  addiction for men and other kinds of unraveling. You know, this is before
• 41:25
  you even get to suicide. Like the majority of men who essentially give up
• 41:31
  on life, they don't have the you know, they don't have the will
• 41:37
  to kill themselves, so it's dead. They just slowly disintegrate. They they
• 41:39
  get lost in drinking, drinking, drugs, overeating, porn, you know,
• 41:45
  video games, whatever whatever it is. They can like melt into and
• 41:50
  and they will be found alone. Like there's somebody in a video about how
• 41:53
  many people, especially men, who are found dead, like they died of
• 42:00
  their apartment. Nobody visited them, nobody knew who they were they've been.
• 42:04
  They'll be in there for months and months before someone notices. So it's not
• 42:08
  like suicide is definitely a problem, But I think that the despair you know,
• 42:15
  that comes before that is like a much bigger problem. And I'm not
• 42:19
  to say toxic masculinity is solely responsible, but it's like the only amount of
• 42:23
  the only avenue that that young guys have to get help is going to do
• 42:29
  that. It's going to tell them that it's all their faults for being men
• 42:31
  and that they have to like dismantle their masculinity because that's all that toxic masculinity
• 42:37
  is. And you know, I don't know if you know this, and
• 42:39
  I'm sorry for like going on a bit of a rant here, but you
• 42:44
  know, we're one of the few people that try to talk about men's in
• 42:50
  a way that essentially acknowledges that they have value, like by default, right,
• 42:55
  and they don't have to be like Andrew Tait type men or like these
• 43:00
  you know, big, like tough guy like you know, red pill dudes
• 43:04
  that that talk about how much, you know, how much how often they
• 43:07
  get laid. Like those guys are phony. I'm sorry, but they are.
• 43:09
  It's their phony, and they're and they're drifting. That's not that's not
• 43:14
  men. That's some men, sure, but that's not the average man.
• 43:17
  Most men just you know, they just want to find someone all in love
• 43:22
  with them, get married, start a family, and have like a humble
• 43:27
  existence like maybe you own a small business whatever. They're not trying to get
• 43:30
  like all, you know, like everything, They're not necessarily operating at that
• 43:35
  level. Men are not inherently competitive in the way that it's often portrayed.
• 43:40
  They actually operate better when they cooperate, and when they are competitive, it's
• 43:45
  to improve each other. You know. It's like in a a sports team
• 43:51
  that plays well, they obviously compete with other teams, but they only succeed
• 43:57
  because they work with their team and there is a a kind of acknowledgment of
• 44:04
  the other team. You know. That's why when you I mean at least
• 44:07
  when I was watching sports when I was younger, you know, you ask
• 44:09
  your guy after the game is over, like, you know, how did
• 44:12
  you do, and they'll tell you, like honestly, be like, oh,
• 44:15
  you know, I my teammates are great. I love those guys,
• 44:19
  blah blah blah. The other guys they played really hard and I have a
• 44:22
  lot of respect for that, you know. Or when there's a boxing match
• 44:24
  and like the match is over and the guys shake hands or they hug each
• 44:28
  other even though they just finished beating the crap out of each other, Like
• 44:30
  that's what that's what men are. You know that it's not it's not the
• 44:35
  way feminists put it. It's it's it's so it's so abusive to say that.
• 44:42
  And I think that they do this on purpose. I think I think
• 44:45
  that one of the reasons for this is that, you know, if you
• 44:49
  bombardment with this much disdain and ambivalence and even like hatred, one once in
• 45:00
  a while, one of them is going to snap and do something destructive and
• 45:06
  when and that that's how you get like the you know, a guy who
• 45:08
  shoots up a school or something or goes on a I don't know, just
• 45:14
  goes on a murder spree or whatever, and then that guy becomes the post
• 45:17
  a child of all men. It's like they keep you know what I'm saying.
• 45:22
  Do you see what I mean? Yeah, So term toxic masculinity like
• 45:27
  I actually, I don't know if you saw my posts a little bit ago,
• 45:30
  but a couple like early probably sometime last week, but I actually put
• 45:37
  that I believe that I don't even believe toxic masculinity exists. I think we
• 45:39
  put too much, too much emphasis on masculinity and femininity on genders, And
• 45:45
  I'll tell you why. I think that we actually have the capability of complementing
• 45:49
  both our masculinity and femininity, whether you're a male or female. And because
• 45:52
  I think that masculinity, to me is building and processing, and I think
• 45:58
  that the femininity is motive. Like you're, you know, you're using your
• 46:00
  emotions to like maybe you know, to have sympathy for someone or have empathy.
• 46:06
  So I think that when you're when you go too far into the emotive,
• 46:09
  I think by using that emotion to build or process a solution or something
• 46:15
  even creative outlet or something, I think that's complementing. I think, especially
• 46:21
  when you're feeling you know, in a mask, even if you're like in
• 46:23
  a you know, like what they say when you know, when they say
• 46:28
  the term of which I shall not name again because I hate that sor But
• 46:32
  even if a man is feeling like, you know, in his emotion of
• 46:37
  maybe aggression or upset, I mean, women feel it too, right if
• 46:39
  we can't just say that men are the only ones for a man is feeling
• 46:45
  right, if a man is feeling like really aggressive about a situation, that
• 46:49
  if he wants to take it out on something just like a woman would,
• 46:52
  right, women do that too. I've seen women throw things. I wanted
• 46:53
  to throw my phone a few minutes ago, remember, But it take to
• 46:57
  actually just take that and actually with that energy and just build something with it,
• 47:02
  like or process it like a resolution, you know, come up with
• 47:06
  a resolution. So I think that that's you know, I think with that
• 47:09
  toxic masculinity, I think that's solely a term to gaslight men. And I
• 47:14
  absolutely yeah, So I hate using that. I get so upset some of
• 47:17
  my space. As somebody else say toxic masculine, I'm like, oh,
• 47:21
  don't use that word, right yeah, because I don't think it's masculine.
• 47:27
  You know, it's not a it's not a strictly masculine thing, because women
• 47:30
  do the same thing, right right, Well, I was gonna say,
• 47:32
  I don't. I think that bad behavior is bad behavior. I don't like
• 47:37
  to use you know, sometimes people go, well, what about toxic feminity?
• 47:39
  And I was like, and I'm like, well, what about we
• 47:42
  just stop using those words completely? Right, Like, how about we just
• 47:45
  call out people's individual behaviors and stop trying to put a generatic because I will
• 47:49
  do that to women. Yes, you know, I acknowledge that there are
• 47:52
  are good women and there are bad women, just like there are good men
• 47:57
  and bad men. You know, being a interested in men's rights doesn't mean
• 48:00
  I defend every man no matter what he does, and I would hope that
• 48:06
  you know the same, I would do the same for women, and I
• 48:08
  do. I don't mean I think no. We've we've talked about the term
• 48:14
  men's rights activists and because it's something that feminists put on us, I don't
• 48:19
  know if you know that, but we didn't come up with it. Feminists
• 48:21
  labeled us that because they thought it was so ludicrous that there were you know,
• 48:25
  that men have issues that they thought, well, if we just call
• 48:29
  it what it is, everybody will find it a joke. And the MRAs
• 48:31
  were just like, I guess that's right. I guess that's what we are.
• 48:34
  But the truth is is that I'm also I feel the same way about
• 48:38
  women. I think I think that you know, I care about rights for
• 48:43
  human beings basically like and not just rights, because not everything comes down to
• 48:46
  rights. But more than that that, there are issues, many of them
• 48:52
  cultural, many of them social, that will that also have to be discussed
• 48:58
  honestly and openly, and we have to stop gendering everything aside from the fact
• 49:02
  that of you gender everything, women always win because we care about women.
• 49:06
  But I don't think it makes sense anyways. Right, Yeah, So I
• 49:13
  got a rumble rant, another one from Blamee Kaiser and he says, yes,
• 49:17
  timpole and yes the woman blamed feminism but still recognized it as her own
• 49:23
  choices. Well, that is a fair way to put it, because I
• 49:27
  think that's true. I think you know, it's okay if you blame an
• 49:30
  ideology for feeding you lies, but remember that ultimately you did make the choice.
• 49:36
  So then that's like a good way to not make that same mistake.
• 49:38
  And then I got to super chows. I'm going to read those, and
• 49:43
  they're both from the same guy, Dane. One was earlier today before the
• 49:47
  show, but I'm gonna read it anyway. It's not really it's what we're
• 49:51
  talking about, but it's worth reading because he sent me the superchow and I
• 49:54
  always read them. So he says. Brian Johnson, that's Brian b R
• 49:59
  why just released a video covering his legal battle with his ex fiancee, who
• 50:05
  sued him for nine million dollars. Brian Johnson is a billionaire that went viral
• 50:10
  about a year ago because he's spending millions on his anti aging routine. He's
• 50:15
  one of the health slash fitness channels that I follow. He's done a lot
• 50:20
  to help people, and he makes all of his research and health routine free
• 50:23
  to the public. This b word only wants to steal money from him by
• 50:29
  making false accusations he's trying to meet to him because she's a high or because
• 50:35
  he is a high value man worth four hundred million dollars and didn't marry her.
• 50:39
  Parasitic a ass. I'll just say that I would jump on this topic
• 50:44
  while it's hot. He's very popular on YouTube. He has over six hundred
• 50:47
  thousand subscribers. Talk Marriage. It's a scam that parasites feed off of.
• 50:52
  Go make to Out. Thank you Dane, and then he sent another one.
• 50:57
  I will talk about Brian Johnson tomorrow on the new show Dane. And
• 51:00
  he sends another one for five dollars and says does she research MGM? He's
• 51:06
  talking about you. MGM is male genital mutilation. This is what I would
• 51:12
  consider to be the biggest injustice men and boys face. It is the first
• 51:15
  missandric act of violence they often face and it happens moments to days after birth.
• 51:21
  Some baby boys literally die because mommy didn't want her son to have an
• 51:23
  ugly penis. I find that most people that claim to be pro mail or
• 51:28
  advocate for men often overlook this issue. They'll cover father's rights, divorce,
• 51:32
  alimony, schooling, etc. But somehow MGM gets overlooked. My guess is
• 51:37
  that it's too touchy of a subject because most of them are probably guilty of
• 51:42
  mutilating their sons. I'll just say I think that's a bit of a presumption.
• 51:46
  I wouldn't go that far. I think that we talk about MGM on
• 51:52
  the channel a lot, and most of the people that I know that are
• 51:58
  in the men's space due to two but it's MGM either I throw that.
• 52:02
  No, that's good, I mean that was the question was directed at you,
• 52:05
  so you probably should have answered, I have a have a little girl.
• 52:08
  I have a little girl, but if I had a little bully,
• 52:10
  we've already discussed that when we were pregnant with the little girl, that we
• 52:14
  would not we would not know, we would not perform MGM. So no,
• 52:20
  I've actually had this discussion in some of my spaces and in other platforms.
• 52:24
  But thank you, if I can say, thank you to Dane for
• 52:29
  bringing that to my attention again for reminding me, because that is a very
• 52:31
  important topic and I want to thank you for bringing that Dane. Thank you.
• 52:35
  Yeah. Yeah. Well, one thing I will say about MGM in
• 52:37
  the United States at least, uh people don't usually elect to have it done
• 52:43
  to their sons. But the doctor, I think a lot of times they
• 52:49
  just assume and so or they'll ask you, but they'll do it in passing,
• 52:53
  like what do you want to you want to circumcize your kid? Because
• 52:55
  my mother she never circumcised any of our boys, so I'm not I'm not
• 53:00
  circumcised in TMI, I know, but I asked her about this, like,
• 53:07
  you know, why not, and she says, well, why would
• 53:08
  I do that? And so, but she made it a point to tell
• 53:12
  the doctor not to do it, so she doesn't know if that was going
• 53:15
  to be, you know, brought up as an option. So maybe there's
• 53:22
  I know, there's a lot of misinformation about it out there. A lot
• 53:24
  of people think that it's cleaner or that it you know, protects the child
• 53:29
  in some way. But the truth is, you know, boys are born
• 53:32
  just fine as they are and that's not true, and so you have to
• 53:37
  just shake that myth. There was a great movie made, a documentary called
• 53:42
  American Circumcision. You've never seen it. Would I would definitely watch it.
• 53:45
  We promoted it at an international conference on Men's Issues in twenty eighteen. I
• 53:52
  think in the UK it was really hard for people to watch because there is
• 53:57
  some graphic they show a circumcision, just one, but you know, and
• 54:01
  it's not the whole movie. But if it doesn't change your mind, I
• 54:06
  don't know, like you don't have a soul. So yeah, I would
• 54:09
  check it out. We're big on that. Brendan Moroda is a very large
• 54:14
  advocate. I think he got the movie made. Steven Spavoda is also a
• 54:16
  part of the National Coalition for Men. He was a big proponent of that
• 54:22
  as well. Lots of guys in NCFM. Actually, so, you know,
• 54:27
  not something that we're that we want. We're definitely fighting against it.
• 54:30
  But there is there is a large obstacle and I have to point that out.
• 54:35
  The obstacle to banning circumcision is religious. I mean it's religious. I
• 54:43
  don't know. Freedom, I guess I don't even like to say that that's
• 54:45
  the that's the obstacle. I'm not saying that it's legit. I don't think
• 54:50
  it is. I think that assault is assault. But the problem is is
• 54:54
  that, especially in the with the I guess the Jewish lobby, I don't
• 55:02
  know how else to put it. They're they're really really against it, and
• 55:08
  they don't want it to get banned, is what I'm saying. There are
• 55:12
  Jews that are against circumcisions, some of them. Fred Hayward is one that
• 55:15
  I've had on the show before, and he has stood up and said that
• 55:20
  he's against circumcision. But the problem is is that, you know, in
• 55:22
  the Ribbonic Jewish I guess you could say the lobby is like a massive obstacle
• 55:30
  to removing it. Now in under Judaism, this is the main thing under
• 55:37
  Judaism. Okay, if you live in a country like Israel, I'm sure
• 55:39
  it happens everywhere. I don't like whatever, and I said, that's not
• 55:44
  my business. I still don't think it's right. I think it traumatizes newborns.
• 55:49
  I think it's it's just damaging. I wouldn't do it. But here
• 55:52
  in the States, we're a majority Christian country, and under Christianity. A
• 55:58
  circumcision is not man so it's not a Christian thing. It's it's uniquely a
• 56:02
  Jewish thing, and I think a Muslim thing too, So anyway, that's
• 56:06
  that's my it's it's it's purely that. Anyone who tries to make another argument
• 56:10
  about cleanliness or whatever. I remember one guy he said he used to be
• 56:15
  an mra and then he switched on that and said, well, girls like
• 56:21
  it more if it's cut, and I'm like, who fucking cares, I
• 56:25
  don't care what women prefer. Like if a woman said I'm sorry, but
• 56:30
  can you cut that, It's like, no, bitch, so no,
• 56:36
  I'm sorry, but for the my French. But I'm just saying, like
• 56:38
  that is something that I've seen where people are like, well, some women
• 56:43
  like it more. I was like, well, what if a man said,
• 56:45
  you know, like I like it if I don't know, like some
• 56:49
  other ridiculous thing that involves women like cutting themselves because a man prefers it,
• 56:53
  And that's ridiculous. Anyway, I agree. I just went on a bit
• 56:59
  of a thing circumcision. So I didn't expect that today anyway, So what
• 57:07
  do you think about you talked about Okay, So the Pearl thing, I'm
• 57:10
  going to come back to that because I think that relationship stuff is important.
• 57:17
  If men and women can't find each other, then none of this other stuff
• 57:22
  matters, Like none of this other stuff matters. So Pearl was I didn't
• 57:27
  get the whole context of the video, but it sounded like Pearl was giving
• 57:30
  an example of an instance where it should be okay for men to cheat on
• 57:36
  their wives. And I just want to say, for the record, that
• 57:39
  is not something that I support. That's I think, I think that's that
• 57:44
  sounds like some poa shit that crept in there. Am I right about that?
• 57:47
  Or am I off? But she corrected herself later and said that she
• 57:52
  doesn't condone cheating for anybody. But she was basically stating in that and in
• 57:55
  the X and the posts that we used for the video, she is stating
• 58:00
  that that, you know, her friend, a female friend, had come
• 58:05
  to her and told her the story about how her father you know, and
• 58:07
  her mother several times, and her friend was thankful that her mother stayed in
• 58:12
  the marriage instead of separating the family. That was so we kind of went
• 58:15
  on different We had different takes. That's why there's two videos. Because we
• 58:20
  we had one take and then we wanted to do the other take because we
• 58:23
  had different we had two. They were we just with the video got too
• 58:28
  long the first one, so we were like, Okay, we're gonna cut
• 58:30
  this video off. We're gonna make another one. So yeah, so we
• 58:35
  had a lot of I had a lot of opinions about that myself. So
• 58:37
  I actually just held a space this last weekend about cheating or should I go?
• 58:44
  Like the song that was that was a great space if if you definitely,
• 58:49
  I recommend if you can listen to the recording. It is amazing.
• 58:52
  It was. It was four hours, almost five hours, but it was
• 58:54
  so a really good space, really good information. They're really good perspectives.
• 59:00
  Yeah. Yeah, I guess, like I'm glad that you clarify that because
• 59:06
  I wasn't sure. I think I think that in general, if you want
• 59:08
  a lasting relationship, you have to work hard at it and you have to
• 59:13
  make a commitment. I think that you're integrity and your honor is really important.
• 59:16
  It doesn't matter if you're a maneral woman, a woman. In my
• 59:21
  opinion. In fact, I think you know, things like honor and integrity
• 59:24
  are are in short supply. Everywhere right now? So anyway, let me
• 59:30
  see. I think we've been going for about an hour, but I feel
• 59:35
  like there is something else. What do you want to do? Like I
• 59:38
  know that you're on Twitter and you have a little YouTube channel. What are
• 59:42
  what are some things that you want to do? Do you have any goals?
• 59:45
  Is this kind of like, you know, a hobby for you or
• 59:47
  are you you're hoping you'll grow into something or what? Actually, the one
• 59:53
  thing that I am doing is I wouldn't say it's a hobby because sometimes it's
• 59:59
  not fun, but it comes with its downfalls. Sometimes hobbies aren't fun even
• 1:00:04
  if they are hobbies. Yeah, I mean the best products come from when
• 1:00:08
  the hobby is not fun. I think, right, yeah, yeah,
• 1:00:13
  so but really it's just it's just I want to bring awareness to how again
• 1:00:19
  have we said in the beginning, how women's empowerment has has destroyed our cohesion
• 1:00:24
  between males and females. That's really that's why I do these relationship spaces and
• 1:00:30
  just make make everybody, not even just because I get I get all kinds
• 1:00:34
  of audience male and female reading my posts and things that they might not have
• 1:00:38
  been aware of, like the philocide, the fantaside, the parental alienation,
• 1:00:44
  the custody laws, the you know, all of that. Even you know,
• 1:00:49
  I haven't I haven't posted. Sorry, I haven't, Dane. I
• 1:00:51
  haven't posted anything about MGM on here. I have done. I have talked
• 1:00:55
  about this in other platforms. But that's another thing. Like you know,
• 1:01:00
  I mean, I understand, like you said, religious perspectives, but at
• 1:01:02
  the same time, a lot of people, I don't know if it's just
• 1:01:07
  they just they go through life and they don't think about these things. I'm
• 1:01:09
  not sure, but these are things that are important I think to men and
• 1:01:14
  women, and they should be heard if they're not. Yeah right, yeah,
• 1:01:19
  I mean, I you know, I think that there are reasonable limits
• 1:01:22
  on religious freedom when it comes to violating other people's rights. Like if I
• 1:01:27
  told you, well, you know, you have to respect my religious freedom.
• 1:01:30
  But I'm in, like you know, the cult of the Cult of
• 1:01:34
  Kali Mahan. I want to pull out this guy's heart. You can't.
• 1:01:37
  You got to make it illegal. You gotta arrest me. So because it
• 1:01:42
  doesn't it doesn't matter if I worship an as tech god and I got to
• 1:01:45
  like cut off somebody's head so that the you know, the eclipse doesn't happen.
• 1:01:51
  So I think it's the same. I mean, I'm saying like I
• 1:01:54
  think that, Yeah, it's it's something that this is an obstacle, but
• 1:01:59
  it's not really logical or reasonable. So well, okay, so you have
• 1:02:07
  two videos. Are you going to be making more on on there or or
• 1:02:09
  are you're going to be on Twitter writing on a blog. Yeah, I
• 1:02:15
  just released this YouTube, so I'm actually still forming it. I think I'm
• 1:02:17
  going to actually switch my Twitter name to be missus red Pill so it matches
• 1:02:22
  my Twitter. Okay, good YouTube, so it doesn't. Yeah, yeah,
• 1:02:25
  you gotta get you got to get your brand lined up. I understand,
• 1:02:29
  I understand. Right, Yeah, I'm gonna work on that. That's
• 1:02:31
  and that you need. You'll lose my blue check mark. I've had a
• 1:02:36
  commission for a couple of days of letting everybody know who's watching. But anyway,
• 1:02:40
  so but yeah, and then I'm going to be on there. I
• 1:02:44
  want to do panels That've set up my stream yard and everything. Oh nice,
• 1:02:47
  So yeah, I have that. I have some people that I've I've
• 1:02:50
  been reaching out to in YouTube as well. Well. If you ever want
• 1:02:54
  me or someone from over here on a panel sometime. Just let me know
• 1:02:59
  on Twitter. Oh excellent, We'll see if we can. Yeah, sure,
• 1:03:04
  I mean I can. I can provide you know, like I guess,
• 1:03:07
  perhaps a different perspective on some things. That depends on what you're talking
• 1:03:10
  about. But yeah, i'd be I'd be down for appearing on other people's
• 1:03:15
  channels. I've done it before. Oh perfect, thank you, I appreciate
• 1:03:20
  that. Yeah, no problem. Okay, Well, and I think I
• 1:03:24
  think that's good. I mean, you know, you're you're just getting started,
• 1:03:28
  but you seem to have a good head on your shoulders and you know
• 1:03:30
  what most of the issues are. Do you have any final thoughts or anything
• 1:03:36
  you want to shout out before we wrap it up? Final thoughts or anything
• 1:03:42
  I'd like to shout out. I can't think of anything at the moment,
• 1:03:49
  and yet I have been a long day. Oh yeah, I understand,
• 1:03:52
  I understand, But I mean, basically, just if anybody is watching in
• 1:03:57
  nay have like Dane did, like he threw out, he threw out the
• 1:04:01
  MGM thing with Jim yep, so he threw that out. If anybody else
• 1:04:06
  is thinking of anything, let me know. I would love to cover it.
• 1:04:09
  In fact, that's going to inspire me to actually get back into digging
• 1:04:14
  into that as well. So again, thanks Dane. But anybody else do
• 1:04:16
  has anything they want to throughout me, please do And if anybody's interested in
• 1:04:19
  anything that we talked about here, you know, definitely reach out to either
• 1:04:24
  one of us. I've been sharing your Twitter page as well, yea,
• 1:04:28
  my DM groups, so you've probably got some people. So yeah, oh
• 1:04:31
  that's why Jennifer is following me. Then I assume, yeah, well,
• 1:04:35
  thanks Jennifer. I hope you're ready. I got like some sometimes I've put
• 1:04:41
  up spicy things, so but yeah, I guess that that's good. I
• 1:04:48
  mean, I look forward to seeing what else you guys do and keep it
• 1:04:54
  moving. I like, I like them more and more. Have you noticed,
• 1:04:57
  I'll ask you this, have you noticed more women talking about these things
• 1:05:02
  or more men talking about these things. I'm starting to see a lot of
• 1:05:08
  women coming out and talking about these things. I'm like I said, I
• 1:05:12
  have a DM group that's that's all women. They've been attending my spaces and
• 1:05:18
  we have these conversations and sometimes it is a difficult, it's difficult to swallow.
• 1:05:23
  And I get that I've had to, you know, be a founding
• 1:05:27
  board for a lot of my female friends in that DM group because a lot
• 1:05:30
  of this stuff has kind of hit them. You know, there's a lot
• 1:05:33
  of you know, I guess just you know what I want to say,
• 1:05:40
  like pockets of information that they weren't aware of. But I'm you know,
• 1:05:44
  I'm willing to sit here and go through this with them because I had to
• 1:05:45
  go through it myself. You know, when I learned how you know this
• 1:05:49
  is this was bad, you know, kind of like that thirty eight year
• 1:05:51
  old he was talking about earlier that was like, hey, feminism is bad.
• 1:05:56
  You know. Now at thirty eight, I'm realizing that. I mean,
• 1:05:59
  I hey, I'm almost right there, you know, I mean,
• 1:06:01
  I'm almost right there. I was like, Wow, this is the impact
• 1:06:04
  that it's having, especially when you talk to people on here from India and
• 1:06:08
  the UK. Oh yeah, in America, but when you see Indian UK,
• 1:06:12
  you're just like your brain just explodes because you're like, oh my gosh,
• 1:06:14
  you can't believe this is happening to those men there. Actually, yeah,
• 1:06:17
  it's true. But I actually I think India and the UK are making
• 1:06:19
  more progress than we are in the States in a lot of ways because India
• 1:06:24
  has a very active men's rights movement that's like getting you know, they got
• 1:06:30
  PSA's and all this other stuff. We can't get any of that stuff in
• 1:06:33
  the UK. They actually have a party. I don't know what worth a
• 1:06:38
  party in parliament is, but they have a party dedicated to I think it's
• 1:06:44
  men and families or something with Philip Davies was one of our favorite MPs down
• 1:06:48
  there. So I mean they have some they have something. And circumcision in
• 1:06:54
  the UK is is it happens, but it's not normal. It's like it's
• 1:06:59
  not even technically legal Philip Davies made but it still happens. Like, and
• 1:07:03
  what guy's gonna come forward and say, actually I was circumcised. I mean,
• 1:07:08
  unless you are an adult, you need to do it yourself, you
• 1:07:10
  know what I mean. So but yeah, I'm glad that you are getting
• 1:07:16
  into that. And yeah, the Indian guys will definitely I'll let you know
• 1:07:20
  their thoughts are as well as South Korea. South Korea is a big,
• 1:07:25
  big one as well, very very active men's rights I guess groups there so
• 1:07:32
  excellent. Yeah, all right, I got I think we only have two
• 1:07:38
  domestic shelters United States. Yeah, well we had one. I think we
• 1:07:43
  just added like one more and Canada is working on it too. But at
• 1:07:47
  least there's people getting it done. I mean considering if you, if you
• 1:07:51
  think about how long we've been without this and how long feminist about his whole
• 1:08:00
  sway, so you know, like not not just the organizations but the ideas,
• 1:08:04
  how long that those have held sway over us, which is basically,
• 1:08:08
  like you know, at least one hundred years, probably longer. We're doing
• 1:08:14
  really well in the short amount of time that we've been tackling these issues,
• 1:08:18
  considering the obstacle. So but anyway, Brooke, thank you for coming on
• 1:08:26
  our show. I did get a one more super chow from Dane again and
• 1:08:30
  he says for five dollars. There's also a free video here on YouTube called
• 1:08:34
  an Elephant in the Hospital. It's a lecture in the medical school Jamestown University.
• 1:08:41
  Professor Ryan McAllister, a biophysicist, did a great job in that video.
• 1:08:46
  Well, thank you Dane for the super chow and I will look at
• 1:08:50
  it and thank you Brooke for coming on the show. I'm going to wrap
• 1:08:54
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• 1:09:00
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• 1:09:18
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• 1:09:56
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