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#247 How Will I Find You In Heaven? · Two Doting Dads with Matty J & Ash

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  Speaker 1: This may come as no surprise, Ash, but I'm not perfect.
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  Speaker 1: I appear to be get out of yet, but I'm not.
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  Speaker 1: Last night I had many occasions throughout the day where
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  Speaker 1: I was like, don't forget, don't forget to do this task.
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  Speaker 2: I will say that you're pretty forgetful.
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  Speaker 1: Fuck you.
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  Speaker 2: If you can't take the honesty, get out of the kitchen.
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  Speaker 2: That's saying.
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  Speaker 1: Let me start the episode. Welcome back to two notting dads.
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  Speaker 1: I am Maddie J And I'm Ash. This is a
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  Speaker 1: podcast all about parenting. It is the good, it is
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  Speaker 1: the bad, and and if you come for advice, you're
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  Speaker 1: an idiot.
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  Speaker 2: Well said, Shame on you, shame it is your fault.
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  Speaker 1: Am I slurring my words? Am I slurring? I feel
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  Speaker 1: like I'm slurring. I haven't drunk anything, it's just very
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  Speaker 1: slurry at the moment. Am I having a stroke?
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  Speaker 2: Find out?
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  Speaker 1: Okay? So I had multiple options throughout the day just
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  Speaker 1: I was like, oh, don't forget. And I was like,
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  Speaker 1: shut up, brain, I know what I'm doing.
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  Speaker 2: Brain, get out of here, Brain, not right now?
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  Speaker 1: Wake up this morning? Forgot to put the bins out.
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  Speaker 1: Sound of the garbage truck as it drives down the
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  Speaker 1: hill past my house, and then I looked like a
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  Speaker 1: pathetic loser, running out and being like, have they come back? Like,
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  Speaker 1: do I chase the garbage truck?
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  Speaker 2: You just put it on the outside of the road
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  Speaker 2: and they come back up the other side.
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  Speaker 1: No, No, they do. Because it's a narrow street. They do.
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  Speaker 1: They do both sides at the same time, same time.
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  Speaker 1: They're quick. They're so quick those garbage killed.
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  Speaker 2: It's called skilled labor.
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  Speaker 1: So I was like, what do I What do I
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  Speaker 1: do here?
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  Speaker 2: Just chucking around his bin and wait for next week?
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  Speaker 1: Well, likely I'm flanked by two houses with dead people
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  Speaker 1: in that they both did to me. My neighbor is
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  Speaker 1: in a home not run down the other one, but not.
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  Speaker 2: Her home, she's in another. So I do I have
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  Speaker 2: the luxury of multiple you can call the council. You
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  Speaker 2: got charge.
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  Speaker 1: I'm not going to be a pathetic loser.
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  Speaker 2: You already were altho.
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  Speaker 1: You know how I talked about morphing into Ronda, being like,
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  Speaker 1: you know, the general of the street. I reported a
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  Speaker 1: car that was parked on the street for too long? Why? Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: because they're taking up car spaces unnecessarily. It's been there
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  Speaker 1: for three months.
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  Speaker 2: Do they put a sticker on it. Oh yeah, oh
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  Speaker 2: yellow one, green one?
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  Speaker 1: What does that mean?
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  Speaker 2: It's probably just not faded enough for yellow.
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  Speaker 1: And then you know, I have like a weird kink
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  Speaker 1: about reading notes that have been left on cars.
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  Speaker 2: How many cars are you coming across with notes?
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  Speaker 1: If I'm just walking to the cafe, and if I
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  Speaker 1: see a note that's been left on a car, like
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  Speaker 1: under the windscreen, I want to read written.
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  Speaker 3: I know someone wrote me so nosy, Someone wrote me
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  Speaker 3: not because I kept parking in the visitors saying what saying?
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  Speaker 3: Stop parking in the visitors? But it was it was.
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  Speaker 2: Like quite politely written.
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  Speaker 3: And but then like my thought is there's no one
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  Speaker 3: ever in there, like what you can't don't have a
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  Speaker 3: leg to stand on if you don't have any visitors.
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  Speaker 1: Du it. If once you start doing it then everyone
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  Speaker 1: starts doing it, then fuck, there's number of parks left
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  Speaker 1: and you're all the culprit for at all starting So
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  Speaker 1: I think you got a nip it in the but early.
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  Speaker 2: Also, I don't care if that happened. I don't care.
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  Speaker 2: I just scrunched it up and went on with my day.
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  Speaker 1: I reported it. I don't know. I wanted to be
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  Speaker 1: picked up. Now I'm like waiting for it to be
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  Speaker 1: picked up by a tow truck.
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  Speaker 2: Car?
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  Speaker 4: Is it?
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  Speaker 1: It's a land Rover? Oh, defender, it's quite nice. Really, yeah,
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  Speaker 1: it's just been sitting.
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  Speaker 3: There for I was probably stolen. I don't know you
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  Speaker 3: ever had a cast on? Never I had a car stolen?
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  Speaker 3: Can quickly tell you about it?
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  Speaker 1: Please?
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  Speaker 2: On. I was an apprentice. I was what nineteen?
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  Speaker 1: It is this when you're a painter?
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  Speaker 2: Is this painter?
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  Speaker 1: Okay? So what car are you driving?
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  Speaker 2: I was driving a high lux tray back you Oh
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  Speaker 2: of course you twenty?
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  Speaker 1: Were you?
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  Speaker 2: Really? Fuck?
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  Speaker 1: Yeah?
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  Speaker 2: And I was working in broad Beach on the on
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  Speaker 2: the Gold Coast.
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  Speaker 1: Just set your back. How much you pay for that thing?
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  Speaker 2: It was like fifteen grand, was it?
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  Speaker 1: That's a lot?
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  Speaker 2: Yeah?
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  Speaker 3: Look it was a great car. Actually it was a
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  Speaker 3: terrible ride. Fake And like I was a painter.
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  Speaker 1: How much we doing in the back tray?
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  Speaker 2: What do you mean by work? Anyway?
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  Speaker 3: Moving on, I would park it out in front of
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  Speaker 3: this little these villas that we were doing at the time,
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  Speaker 3: they were like four story villas. He walked down, so
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  Speaker 3: park walked down to the garage and up the stairs
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  Speaker 3: to the first floor to look back out onto the streets. Sure,
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  Speaker 3: and I'm taking that set of stairs after coming back
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  Speaker 3: from my car and.
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  Speaker 2: Someone yells out, hey, did you lend someone in your car?
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  Speaker 2: And I was like, that's funny. Turn around, it's driving
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  Speaker 2: down the street. I legged it up the road after
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  Speaker 2: this car. I'm at work, boots and all. I'm just
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  Speaker 2: steaming towards like up like it's in.
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  Speaker 3: It's in Broadby, so it's not like it's not fast
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  Speaker 3: streets until you get out, so.
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  Speaker 1: You'd have no chance going up the stairs on the
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  Speaker 1: road to catch the car.
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  Speaker 2: What happened well, because you go up and then there
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  Speaker 2: was a set of lights.
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  Speaker 3: It was quite a busy intersection, so it's like getting
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  Speaker 3: out of I thought maybe I could catch him here.
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  Speaker 2: I don't know what I would have done. I'd probably
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  Speaker 2: been like time. Anyway, I got there and he must
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  Speaker 2: have seen me come.
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  Speaker 3: And he's hopped the curve going across the grass onto
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  Speaker 3: the Gold Coast Highway and taken off. Oh no, it
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  Speaker 3: was gone. It was completely gone. And then I left
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  Speaker 3: the keys in it. That's why it was gone.
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  Speaker 1: Anyway.
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  Speaker 3: I didn't get it quick though, for so they must
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  Speaker 3: have been watching me because I would have. I was
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  Speaker 3: back and forth with the car at the time, putting
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  Speaker 3: the keys down the side of the door.
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  Speaker 2: Because I was back back back.
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  Speaker 1: I think they target constructions.
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  Speaker 3: I think, yeah, yeah, they done. So I didn't get
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  Speaker 3: it back for ages, and I thought, right, this is over.
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  Speaker 3: I had insurance, I had all the right things, and
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  Speaker 3: I was like, sweet, actually fine. And I remember I
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  Speaker 3: was overseas and I get an email from my insurance
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  Speaker 3: saying we've found your car. I was like, it's like
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  Speaker 3: three months I'd moved on. I was like a breakup.
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  Speaker 3: I was like, I'm looking for rebounds.
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  Speaker 2: And then I got back and like, you just need
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  Speaker 2: to come and inspect the car. And I went to
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  Speaker 2: spect the car.
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  Speaker 3: It was in exact nick, except the tray was full
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  Speaker 3: of furniture and inside was a lunch box cooler box
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  Speaker 3: like an eski full of people's garage door keys.
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  Speaker 2: And the guy goes, let yours.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, bro, that's my fucking lunch box full of fucking keys.
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  Speaker 3: So they'd gone around just robbing people's houses for three
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  Speaker 3: months in his car, and it got picked up because
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  Speaker 3: they parked in a tozone and they towed it away.
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  Speaker 2: Wow, do you reckon. They came back to the toes.
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  Speaker 2: I was like, with the fox my car, someone stolen
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  Speaker 2: my car.
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  Speaker 1: Hello.
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  Speaker 2: So anyway, I got it back and it was fine,
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  Speaker 2: although I did scratches, No, it was all good.
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  Speaker 3: And then it didn't come off the police register for ages,
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  Speaker 3: so I'd get pulled over and arrested all the time. Literally,
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  Speaker 3: like I was on the main road in Tweed going
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  Speaker 3: to the paint shop and I get pulled over and
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  Speaker 3: the guy's like, hold your hands out the side of
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  Speaker 3: the thing.
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  Speaker 2: I'm like, fuck, it's eight o'clock in the morning, Like
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  Speaker 2: what the fuck?
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  Speaker 3: And then I he pulled me out of the car
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  Speaker 3: and put me up against the car.
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  Speaker 1: Oh my god. And then I was like, hey, people
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  Speaker 1: are dropping Bathway with that ash.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, I was like this. I was like, this is
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  Speaker 2: fucking ridiculous. And then eventually they cleaned it up. But
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  Speaker 2: it went on for ages until I moved to Sydney.
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  Speaker 2: And then my.
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  Speaker 3: Dad got a call saying, hey, we found your son's
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  Speaker 3: car in Sydney, and my Dad's like he's had it
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  Speaker 3: back for a year now and he's moved to Sydney.
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  Speaker 1: I wonder how many police were working on that file,
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  Speaker 1: like we will not.
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  Speaker 2: Meanwhile, I've sold it on already.
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  Speaker 1: Is it it, Jim, I've got the car back. People
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  Speaker 1: out there, dying drug dealers are going wild and they're like,
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  Speaker 1: hang on, more important cases.
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  Speaker 3: Must find the high last highlights with one hundred and
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  Speaker 3: seventy thousand k's on it, we must return it.
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  Speaker 2: Anyway. That was my experience for having a castle. Wow.
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  Speaker 1: Wow, thank you Riveting for sharing with us housekeeping ash.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, that was part of housekeeping. You're not sure, We'll
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  Speaker 2: just throw it in.
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  Speaker 3: Juliet Allen of a sex oldierst Yeah, our company sex Oldists.
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  Speaker 2: She's on call.
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  Speaker 1: A big congratulations to her because she's got some exciting news.
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  Speaker 1: He was a partner for a while. Two kids, Wow,
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  Speaker 1: but now engaged.
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  Speaker 2: Oh congratulations, there you go, great news. I thought it
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  Speaker 2: was Mary, but here you go. No, I guess I
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  Speaker 2: was wrong.
• 7:49
  Speaker 1: I have to apologize to someone. His name is Cameron. Okay, Cameron,
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  Speaker 1: So Cameron ordered a shirt, right, someone forgot to tell
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  Speaker 1: the warehouse that we had an order.
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  Speaker 2: You looking at me like.
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  Speaker 1: You because I'm talking to you, okay, yeah, sorry? And
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  Speaker 1: Cameron's like hello, Karen, and he was very He waited
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  Speaker 1: a couple of weeks the message and was like, hey,
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  Speaker 1: near my shirt and I said, don't worry, I got
• 8:18
  Speaker 1: you back. Send them a couple of toys and he said, hey, thanks,
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  Speaker 1: so that really appreciate what you've done. No Warriores, Cameron.
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  Speaker 1: My wife bought your book for me whilst I became
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  Speaker 1: a dad. She listens to your podcast as well, and
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  Speaker 1: he says it would be really cool if you could
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  Speaker 1: do a shout out to her. She's a great mum
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  Speaker 1: and her name is Ash. Take it away, God, take
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  Speaker 1: it away Ash.
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  Speaker 2: To finish, this is borderline bullying. Get out of here,
• 8:44
  Speaker 2: shy Laja? Is that good?
• 8:47
  Speaker 1: I think so? Is that right? Kala shelilah?
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  Speaker 2: It is the jay like silent like jogging.
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  Speaker 1: I mean, Cameron, just if you're going to drop a
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  Speaker 1: name like.
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  Speaker 2: That, just give us the pronunciation a little bit of help.
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  Speaker 2: So what we going with here?
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  Speaker 1: Chai la la sha la laha la. Hey, thank you
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  Speaker 1: for being a dodor.
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  Speaker 2: Moving on and I apologize for butchering your name.
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  Speaker 1: Samuel has a message. I really appreciate the messages from
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  Speaker 1: any dodor.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: Samuel has messaged a number of times to different accounts
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  Speaker 1: personal two d D and he did a little story
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  Speaker 1: about how annoying it is putting a nappy in the
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  Speaker 1: washing machine, And anytime that sentence has been spoken, he
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  Speaker 1: comes out the woodworks and he's like, just to let
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  Speaker 1: you know, and he says, I wasn't sure if he
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  Speaker 1: was taking the piers.
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  Speaker 2: He's passionate about the nappy in the.
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  Speaker 1: Washing machine, is he is? And he says, yo yo yo,
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  Speaker 1: yo yo. No, he said, just listen to the party
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  Speaker 1: about the nappy fucking up the clothes in the washing machine.
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  Speaker 1: Chuck a cup of salt in the washing machine and
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  Speaker 1: wash them again, and all the crystallized nappy shit disappears,
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  Speaker 1: So you don't have to burn the house down for
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  Speaker 1: an insurance job.
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  Speaker 2: But then won't all my clothes like smell like dirty ocean?
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  Speaker 2: Well you just then you wash again. I'm confused.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, that's why I was like, surely it doesn't just
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  Speaker 1: work like magic. We put salt in there, and.
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  Speaker 2: Well, the salt would absorb it all, I guess. But
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  Speaker 2: then you've got a salt problem.
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  Speaker 1: But then it's going to rust the machine. I don't know,
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  Speaker 1: I don't know.
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  Speaker 2: Thank you, Samuel.
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  Speaker 1: The fact that we were questioning we're going to come
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  Speaker 1: back twice as hard now, damn it, Damuel, keep on
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  Speaker 1: writing in.
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  Speaker 3: There are also other people that have written in around
• 10:19
  Speaker 3: something else we spoke about, which was knits. Hmmm, and
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  Speaker 3: don't just have suggestions Matt of what to do hit me.
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  Speaker 2: This is from Jilly. It's the worst. Try coke, be
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  Speaker 2: more specific. Okay, I get the dealer on the phone.
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  Speaker 2: Coke in their hair.
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  Speaker 3: Also, my ex mother in law use a cat flea
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  Speaker 3: treatment in her daughter's hair and apparel.
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  Speaker 2: It worked for the whole class, except they are all
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  Speaker 2: now mewing.
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  Speaker 1: Did you make that up?
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  Speaker 2: Yeah?
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  Speaker 1: I would hate to think the dotors think that we
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  Speaker 1: attack them for writing into a podcast.
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  Speaker 2: But did I have an attacking tone? No?
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  Speaker 1: I just think there are products designed specifically for the
• 11:00
  Speaker 1: basket hand, right, there are knit treatments. So the fact
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  Speaker 1: that you've gone and gotten coca cola and then going
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  Speaker 1: and gotten flea triament for a cat when you're like, hey,
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  Speaker 1: there's I don't know if it's more, if it's stronger.
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  Speaker 2: And how did you figure that out?
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  Speaker 1: Like, just use the knit treatment. Although I'm using it,
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  Speaker 1: it's not working.
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  Speaker 3: It's not working, so maybe maybe I should shut then
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  Speaker 3: maybe you should Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: Try it?
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  Speaker 3: Let us know the coke in the hair is does
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  Speaker 3: it have to be the sugar full sugar full banger?
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  Speaker 1: I'm not sure.
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  Speaker 4: Another Dodo actually said, if you use a hair straightener,
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  Speaker 4: it actually burns the eggs and kills the knits as
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  Speaker 4: you put.
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  Speaker 1: It through the hair.
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  Speaker 2: Don't they get stuck to your scalp?
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  Speaker 1: They are quiet, but it kills them.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: Although I when I when I search through Marley's hair, yeah,
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  Speaker 1: you're right, the knits are like right on the scalp.
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  Speaker 1: So I'm gonna have to really burn her shave her
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  Speaker 1: head off. Yeah, that's what I've threatened it with. One
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  Speaker 1: Dodo said that they only wash hair on Friday nights
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  Speaker 1: because apparently the knits they like clean hair, so you
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  Speaker 1: wash it on the Friday, so it avoids having clean
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  Speaker 1: hair at school where the kids are all grubby and
• 12:01
  Speaker 1: infested with Macy's hair.
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  Speaker 3: It's like if it's stinkers getting washed and I'm like,
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  Speaker 3: you need to wash your hair.
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  Speaker 2: She's like no, she hates it.
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  Speaker 1: It's like your hair stinks. Speaking of smelly hair, the
• 12:14
  Speaker 1: kids got their braids done in Bali. Oh yeah, and
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  Speaker 1: last night came out well. Lola wanted to wear it
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  Speaker 1: for one day to school and then Marley was like,
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  Speaker 1: I think I've done time to get him out.
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  Speaker 2: That's mature.
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  Speaker 1: They haven't washed their hair and like in a long
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  Speaker 1: time since Bali. Fucking hell do you have to get
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  Speaker 1: him out? Took him took an hour and a half individual,
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  Speaker 1: one by one, and I have to use he's a
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  Speaker 1: fork which helped in the end to just like detangle
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  Speaker 1: the braids. It was of arthritis.
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  Speaker 2: Oh my goodness.
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  Speaker 1: And then I'm going to do Lola tonight. But apparently
• 12:47
  Speaker 1: conditioner where anyone has come back from Bali recently and
• 12:50
  Speaker 1: the kids have braids, if you take them out, conditioner
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  Speaker 1: just peeps the conditional conditioner.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, you must loosen it up.
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  Speaker 1: I guess that's well, yeah, there we go. Well said, oh,
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  Speaker 1: you're actually ash. We have a question here before we
• 13:01
  Speaker 1: move on from housekeeping. It is crazy to think that
• 13:04
  Speaker 1: we're nearing towards the second half of the year. Now
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  Speaker 1: we're in the second half. Were actually we are in
• 13:09
  Speaker 1: the second half of the year, Well said, thank you?
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  Speaker 1: How did we get here? I don't know.
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  Speaker 2: Well, you see, go on, time flies.
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  Speaker 1: It does fly. It's getting the older, you get quicker quick.
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  Speaker 1: Here it goes yow.
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  Speaker 2: The slower I get though. Everything else getting quicker and
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  Speaker 2: I'm getting slower.
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  Speaker 1: Yes, Sometimes when I drive around one die there's an
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  Speaker 1: old man who walks a lot and he's very, very slow,
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  Speaker 1: and I think to myself, will that be me? One day? Well,
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  Speaker 1: I would be that old I.
• 13:39
  Speaker 3: Pulled into it, went to pull into the petrol station
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  Speaker 3: last night, and there was a guy crossing the petrol
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  Speaker 3: on the footpath crossing the petrol station driveway, and I
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  Speaker 3: stopped to.
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  Speaker 2: Let him cross.
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  Speaker 3: But I realized that he was the slowest walker on
• 13:51
  Speaker 3: earth by the time he crossed.
• 13:53
  Speaker 2: Oh, traffic back to ar like a kilometer back.
• 13:56
  Speaker 3: You just nip in no, because I was like, I
• 13:58
  Speaker 3: didn't want to be about the bad guy.
• 14:00
  Speaker 2: I felt like he was too far across to me
• 14:02
  Speaker 2: to be like I was really nip in here. And
• 14:04
  Speaker 2: then I had to wait. It was like fifteen minutes
• 14:06
  Speaker 2: in crossing the road.
• 14:07
  Speaker 1: And he would have appreciated it.
• 14:09
  Speaker 3: Did I tell you about the person who beat me
• 14:10
  Speaker 3: when I was waiting for someone acrossing the road?
• 14:12
  Speaker 2: Go on, there's the intersection at the end of my street.
• 14:16
  Speaker 2: Is the main road in section.
• 14:17
  Speaker 1: Ok, it's a great road.
• 14:18
  Speaker 2: Thank you.
• 14:19
  Speaker 3: Pittwater Road for the potholes, Potwater Road whatever that the
• 14:22
  Speaker 3: lights there, it's one of those ones where it's like
• 14:24
  Speaker 3: when they're walking, light goes, you go once it's flashing
• 14:28
  Speaker 3: and they're all the way across, right sure, pretty standard,
• 14:31
  Speaker 3: very standard. There was someone coming across in one of
• 14:33
  Speaker 3: those motorized wheelchairs and the I stopped because I'm at
• 14:36
  Speaker 3: the front. So the person behind me beep, not knowing
• 14:39
  Speaker 3: it was a disabled person getting across the road.
• 14:41
  Speaker 2: They thought they and I was like ooh, And.
• 14:45
  Speaker 3: As I drove around the corner to look back, you
• 14:46
  Speaker 3: can just see the guy's face was like, oh shit.
• 14:50
  Speaker 1: Nothing makes you feel like a ship like than that.
• 14:52
  Speaker 3: I know it's not his body couldn't see, but you
• 14:54
  Speaker 3: know I wouldn't just be stopped there for no reason.
• 14:56
  Speaker 2: I'm impatient too. Anyway, Moving on.
• 14:58
  Speaker 1: Calendar though calendar it was a long way of getting
• 15:01
  Speaker 1: to work. Do we want to do them or not?
• 15:05
  Speaker 2: A good question?
• 15:06
  Speaker 1: And if we do them, how do we do them?
• 15:09
  Speaker 2: Another good question?
• 15:10
  Speaker 1: Very good question. Questions we're putting out just to the
• 15:13
  Speaker 1: orbit of the dotors.
• 15:15
  Speaker 2: All right, why don't we do a poll, let it
• 15:16
  Speaker 2: marinate and see what we come back.
• 15:18
  Speaker 1: Like, obviously it's more work, which we're happy to do
• 15:21
  Speaker 1: for them. But it's like it's like making dinner for
• 15:23
  Speaker 1: your child. If you guys aren't hungry, we're not going
• 15:25
  Speaker 1: to cook your dinner. No, no, okay. But if you're
• 15:28
  Speaker 1: hungry and you're starving, gladly, I'll go to the shops
• 15:31
  Speaker 1: by the ingredients, cook it, give you a delicious meal.
• 15:33
  Speaker 1: We'll get it done, put it on the table, and
• 15:35
  Speaker 1: we'll all sit down and eat together.
• 15:37
  Speaker 2: Analogies coming out the wazoo here.
• 15:38
  Speaker 1: Thank you, so let us know, are you hungry or not? Yes,
• 15:42
  Speaker 1: let us know.
• 15:42
  Speaker 2: We'll do a little pole I reckon.
• 15:45
  Speaker 3: Vic's back, Vick is back, welcome back, Hello, Hello, how
• 15:50
  Speaker 3: was your trip?
• 15:51
  Speaker 4: It was wonderful. Thank you for granting me two weeks away.
• 15:56
  Speaker 1: A choice in the matter.
• 15:57
  Speaker 2: Yeah, you're like, I'm going did you so vibe without me?
• 16:00
  Speaker 4: Or did I walk myself out of a job.
• 16:03
  Speaker 2: No, we got there in the end, lockey Field in
• 16:05
  Speaker 2: and he was met more or less. He just sat there.
• 16:09
  Speaker 1: Okay, Locky, if you're listening, he did a great job.
• 16:15
  Speaker 1: He would be fucking offended. Sorry, Locky, he did.
• 16:19
  Speaker 2: He did a great job.
• 16:20
  Speaker 1: And as she's like, he just sat there.
• 16:23
  Speaker 2: I was trying to make he did do a good job.
• 16:27
  Speaker 2: But it's good to have you back. If some of
• 16:29
  Speaker 2: the trip up for us.
• 16:30
  Speaker 1: What's Vietnam like?
• 16:32
  Speaker 4: Vietnam is beautiful and I would highly recommend with children. Okay,
• 16:37
  Speaker 4: we did a lot of theme parks.
• 16:38
  Speaker 2: It was like water parks.
• 16:39
  Speaker 4: There's like a Vietnam version of Disneyland they call it.
• 16:42
  Speaker 1: It was a bit too much for me. What I
• 16:45
  Speaker 1: couldn't your itinery was?
• 16:47
  Speaker 2: It was you did a lot of stuff. Yeahs a
• 16:50
  Speaker 2: bit much anyway, too much?
• 16:54
  Speaker 1: Yeah, I was like, funk, she's at it again. The
• 16:57
  Speaker 1: stamina on.
• 16:58
  Speaker 3: The I know.
• 16:59
  Speaker 2: I was like, do something else. You made us all bad.
• 17:02
  Speaker 2: That's what we're getting out here.
• 17:03
  Speaker 4: We only did like one thing a day, and then
• 17:05
  Speaker 4: we'd always have like if it was a big day
• 17:07
  Speaker 4: away or like get to a theme park or whatever,
• 17:09
  Speaker 4: we then have a day off like by the pool
• 17:11
  Speaker 4: the next day. So it was kind of like peaks
• 17:14
  Speaker 4: and troughs like it.
• 17:15
  Speaker 2: How how warm was it? How was it? How was it?
• 17:20
  Speaker 1: Two weeks?
• 17:22
  Speaker 4: It was really warm.
• 17:23
  Speaker 1: It was lovely.
• 17:24
  Speaker 4: But the second location we went to it was monsoon weather.
• 17:27
  Speaker 4: So that's when we had a lot of indoor time
• 17:31
  Speaker 4: because there was rain. But I did hear you mentioned
• 17:33
  Speaker 4: my camera on the podlast?
• 17:36
  Speaker 2: Yeah? Well we were really won.
• 17:38
  Speaker 1: Where did you lose it?
• 17:39
  Speaker 4: I never took it.
• 17:42
  Speaker 2: It's such a mom thing to do.
• 17:45
  Speaker 1: And then it's do you have multiple cameras?
• 17:48
  Speaker 4: No, I've only got the one camera.
• 17:50
  Speaker 1: Hang on a second, and it's not small.
• 17:51
  Speaker 2: You're talking about the good camera too, it's not small.
• 17:54
  Speaker 1: Surely I don't want to attack you here, but surely
• 17:57
  Speaker 1: you must do you did you think you used it?
• 18:00
  Speaker 1: Or did you not know? So happened?
• 18:02
  Speaker 2: Okay?
• 18:03
  Speaker 4: As soon as I arrived in Vietnam at the hotel,
• 18:06
  Speaker 4: which was around one am Sydney time, having left our
• 18:09
  Speaker 4: house at seven am Australia time. Yeah, so really long
• 18:13
  Speaker 4: day for all of us. I was in a daze
• 18:15
  Speaker 4: that whole week. I've been working till midnight, so I
• 18:17
  Speaker 4: was like, not myself?
• 18:20
  Speaker 1: Am I doing?
• 18:20
  Speaker 4: Dan was not impressed. However, I think I must have
• 18:24
  Speaker 4: made the decision right before we left that if I
• 18:26
  Speaker 4: took my camera it was actually going to be like
• 18:29
  Speaker 4: work for me because if I take photos on holiday,
• 18:33
  Speaker 4: I then have to upload them, edit them.
• 18:34
  Speaker 2: Explort them. And I was just like, yeah, that's great.
• 18:37
  Speaker 4: Yeah, I really just want to have a break because
• 18:39
  Speaker 4: as much as I love taking photos, and I feel
• 18:40
  Speaker 4: bad for my kids because I give photos to all
• 18:43
  Speaker 4: my clients and none to my own family. But I
• 18:48
  Speaker 4: got to the hotel in Vietnam and I as soon
• 18:51
  Speaker 4: as I put the suitcases down, I realized I didn't
• 18:54
  Speaker 4: have my camera bag, and I was like, fuck, I
• 18:56
  Speaker 4: don't have my camera bag. And I don't remember any
• 18:58
  Speaker 4: of the steps of the way here that I've had
• 19:01
  Speaker 4: my camera bag.
• 19:01
  Speaker 1: Oh god.
• 19:02
  Speaker 4: I was like, it definitely didn't come to Vietnam. It's
• 19:04
  Speaker 4: probably at Sydney Airport or it's at on the airplane.
• 19:09
  Speaker 2: Just what's that camera? Worth? Four grand?
• 19:13
  Speaker 3: It's a lot of money for a camera. And it's
• 19:15
  Speaker 3: like that feeling when you're like and then also when
• 19:17
  Speaker 3: you can't retrace your steps, especially ADHD.
• 19:20
  Speaker 2: I'm just saying, I'm like, I just do with that thing.
• 19:22
  Speaker 1: And then someone from the outside is like, what you
• 19:24
  Speaker 1: did this?
• 19:25
  Speaker 2: You did that? Remember any of that?
• 19:27
  Speaker 1: I know?
• 19:27
  Speaker 4: And my friend was like, you would know, like you'd
• 19:29
  Speaker 4: remember putting it on or taking it off, like you
• 19:31
  Speaker 4: remember those specific steps, And I was like.
• 19:33
  Speaker 1: Actually can't.
• 19:34
  Speaker 4: I was like, did I put it under the seat
• 19:35
  Speaker 4: in the car. Did I put it under the seat
• 19:36
  Speaker 4: in the plane? And I went to Lost and Found,
• 19:39
  Speaker 4: I called the airline, I did all the steps. I
• 19:41
  Speaker 4: even looked at my insurance and said I could only
• 19:43
  Speaker 4: claim it if it was stolen.
• 19:44
  Speaker 1: Did you want to speak to someone in Sydney to
• 19:47
  Speaker 1: go to your house to look?
• 19:48
  Speaker 4: And so luckily there was someone staying in our house
• 19:51
  Speaker 4: and I asked them and they said they couldn't find
• 19:54
  Speaker 4: it anywhere.
• 19:55
  Speaker 2: Was this a man?
• 19:55
  Speaker 1: It wasn't sparking out. He would have been looking right camera.
• 20:03
  Speaker 1: He would have been holding it being like, we're not
• 20:06
  Speaker 1: going to tell you it was here, but camera.
• 20:10
  Speaker 4: So then we were funny say that though, because we
• 20:13
  Speaker 4: got back and I looked around, I'm.
• 20:14
  Speaker 1: Like, funk, where is it?
• 20:15
  Speaker 4: It's nowhere, like where have I lost it? And then
• 20:17
  Speaker 4: I was just about to get in the current got
• 20:19
  Speaker 4: a camera house to buy a new one because I
• 20:20
  Speaker 4: had two shoots the next day, and Dan goes, I
• 20:24
  Speaker 4: found your camera and I'm like, where is it? And
• 20:29
  Speaker 4: it was under we have this BedHead that's old sitting
• 20:31
  Speaker 4: at our front already to go to trash. It was
• 20:34
  Speaker 4: between the wall and the BedHead, like in this little crack.
• 20:38
  Speaker 2: And so I was like, did the kids put it there?
• 20:40
  Speaker 1: Blame the kids?
• 20:41
  Speaker 2: Yeah, you must have done on the way out.
• 20:43
  Speaker 4: Yeah, Or maybe I just tucked it in there because
• 20:45
  Speaker 4: I knew someone was staying and I didn't want it
• 20:47
  Speaker 4: to get to it. I don't know, but I have
• 20:49
  Speaker 4: my cameras.
• 20:54
  Speaker 1: It was not.
• 20:55
  Speaker 4: Cocktail related, as you do.
• 20:58
  Speaker 1: We say that we did. Yeah, I don't know if
• 21:01
  Speaker 1: we said that.
• 21:01
  Speaker 2: And Dan was really loving all the photos.
• 21:03
  Speaker 4: Oh yeah, he hates the photo. He's just like your ash.
• 21:06
  Speaker 4: He also hates a water park.
• 21:09
  Speaker 1: Hate water Who was a family.
• 21:13
  Speaker 4: Yeah, they were from my mother's group when I had
• 21:16
  Speaker 4: Louis from Bondy. But there was one thing that happened
• 21:21
  Speaker 4: on the holiday that I really wanted to ask about
• 21:23
  Speaker 4: because I was really shocked by this and I would
• 21:26
  Speaker 4: love to know because you guys are quite frequent flyers
• 21:29
  Speaker 4: and I've attack kind of When we got to the
• 21:34
  Speaker 4: flight on the way home, it was fully booked and
• 21:37
  Speaker 4: we couldn't because of the transfers and stuff like, we
• 21:40
  Speaker 4: couldn't really check in online. And we got there and
• 21:44
  Speaker 4: all four of us were seated separately on the flight home,
• 21:48
  Speaker 4: and it was a red eye kids I'm talking about
• 21:50
  Speaker 4: my three year old daughter, a six year old son,
• 21:53
  Speaker 4: and me and Dan all seated separately. What did they
• 21:56
  Speaker 4: say the checking desk when I checked in because it
• 21:59
  Speaker 4: was a trans for again, They're like, we can't do
• 22:01
  Speaker 4: anything here. You've got to talk to the staff when
• 22:04
  Speaker 4: you see that.
• 22:05
  Speaker 2: That's such a like.
• 22:08
  Speaker 1: I help you, but I can my mum.
• 22:10
  Speaker 4: Rage was like getting higher. I was curious and I
• 22:14
  Speaker 4: was starting to like, you know when you feel like
• 22:16
  Speaker 4: you're gonna cry, because I was like, I kept thinking
• 22:18
  Speaker 4: of the worst scenarios as a mother of like if
• 22:20
  Speaker 4: someone slips a hand under the blanket because it's a
• 22:23
  Speaker 4: red eye, like to my daughter or my son, or
• 22:25
  Speaker 4: like if something happens I can't see that because I'm
• 22:28
  Speaker 4: not near them. And so I went to the airline
• 22:30
  Speaker 4: as soon as I got there, and I said, can
• 22:31
  Speaker 4: you please help me? And all they did was they
• 22:36
  Speaker 4: couldn't figure out anyway. The flight was fully booked, including
• 22:40
  Speaker 4: first class.
• 22:41
  Speaker 2: You imagine getting first class, Oh no, with the whole
• 22:44
  Speaker 2: family in first.
• 22:45
  Speaker 1: Class, And.
• 22:50
  Speaker 4: So I actually saw them approaching people who were traveling
• 22:53
  Speaker 4: solo and saying, can you swap your seat? And that
• 22:56
  Speaker 4: was the only way they were able to do it
• 22:58
  Speaker 4: just before they got into the place.
• 23:00
  Speaker 3: Something to do that though, But like to put you
• 23:02
  Speaker 3: in that position to start off with, surely it has
• 23:04
  Speaker 3: You've got to put date of birth, everything on past.
• 23:06
  Speaker 1: Yeah, should be all connected.
• 23:08
  Speaker 4: But it is illegal because a child anywhere, everywhere, a
• 23:12
  Speaker 4: child isn't allowed on a flight without a guardian, So
• 23:16
  Speaker 4: why wouldn't you have them seated with a guardian?
• 23:19
  Speaker 2: That's strange. Yeah, so you just end up sitting together
• 23:22
  Speaker 2: in the end.
• 23:24
  Speaker 4: Okay, both fly. Dan got his own seat by himself,
• 23:30
  Speaker 4: and then it's me and the two kids together. But
• 23:32
  Speaker 4: this one, I was me on one side of the
• 23:34
  Speaker 4: aisle and then the two kids on the other side
• 23:36
  Speaker 4: of the aisle, so whenever the cart was in between us,
• 23:38
  Speaker 4: it wasn't possible.
• 23:39
  Speaker 2: Oh yeah, oh my god. Dan just coming up. He's
• 23:43
  Speaker 2: just like I'm not going to say anything here and
• 23:44
  Speaker 2: just see how this plane's out.
• 23:46
  Speaker 1: For me, Like, hey, actually, my kids aren't three and five,
• 23:49
  Speaker 1: eighteen and twenty one separate us.
• 23:51
  Speaker 2: All sit me first class?
• 23:53
  Speaker 1: Great? Thank you.
• 23:53
  Speaker 3: Oh I'm glad you made it back in one piece
• 23:55
  Speaker 3: with a camera, all your kids and that you were
• 23:58
  Speaker 3: able to have it did look like a good trip
• 23:59
  Speaker 3: from the outside.
• 24:00
  Speaker 2: Look looked like a great trip to Welcome back.
• 24:03
  Speaker 1: Now straight to work. What have we got news? Are
• 24:06
  Speaker 1: you want to talk about masturbating? Which is interesting topic
• 24:09
  Speaker 1: to choose, zig, but go ahead take it away.
• 24:12
  Speaker 4: I noticed you chose an ejaculation story for breaking news
• 24:15
  Speaker 4: in my absence, so.
• 24:18
  Speaker 2: Love so convenient. It was a.
• 24:21
  Speaker 1: Little it was Locky who chose it?
• 24:23
  Speaker 2: Yeah, it was all Locky.
• 24:24
  Speaker 3: He was like, let's talk about gum and then I said,
• 24:27
  Speaker 3: what about a buffey and come buffy?
• 24:29
  Speaker 4: Okay, Well, this story is actually about New York. So
• 24:33
  Speaker 4: New York City's trialing a first of its kind policy
• 24:35
  Speaker 4: giving parents something they rarely get.
• 24:38
  Speaker 1: Time.
• 24:39
  Speaker 4: Mayor Zoran Mumdani has launched a free parents' night out program,
• 24:44
  Speaker 4: offering supervised childcare so moms and dads can enjoy a
• 24:48
  Speaker 4: few hours to themselves. The initiative is being praised for
• 24:51
  Speaker 4: recognizing that modern parents don't just need financial support, they
• 24:55
  Speaker 4: need a break too.
• 24:57
  Speaker 2: He's like, just put your keys in this bowl here.
• 25:02
  Speaker 1: How logistically how are they doing that? I mean, that's
• 25:06
  Speaker 1: that's like, who's.
• 25:07
  Speaker 2: Going to look after all these kids?
• 25:08
  Speaker 4: So children at age six to thirteen, we'll spend the
• 25:11
  Speaker 4: evening at local recreation centers, participating in sports, arts and crafts, games,
• 25:15
  Speaker 4: nature activities and media education with dinner provided.
• 25:18
  Speaker 1: I reckon, even if you put a gun to like
• 25:21
  Speaker 1: the premier's head here in New South Wales, they wouldn't
• 25:23
  Speaker 1: be able to organize that. They'd be like, oh, it'd
• 25:26
  Speaker 1: be like organizing the Olympics they did four years and
• 25:28
  Speaker 1: they need to build like buildings for it.
• 25:30
  Speaker 2: There's no way.
• 25:30
  Speaker 1: How are they doing that in New York If it's.
• 25:33
  Speaker 4: And the population in New York as well, is that
• 25:37
  Speaker 4: is insane?
• 25:38
  Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't know.
• 25:39
  Speaker 2: I'm just trying to think logistically how that would work.
• 25:41
  Speaker 1: It's insanely amazing. But maybe unless it's like school and
• 25:44
  Speaker 1: they're just saying, like the teachers, the teachers are like,
• 25:47
  Speaker 1: we're doing what now?
• 25:48
  Speaker 2: Yeah, they're like overtime mentory. You're not paying a shut.
• 25:52
  Speaker 1: Like that's brilliant. The teachers and everything like this sucks and.
• 25:56
  Speaker 2: It's like, oh, I think I reckon.
• 25:58
  Speaker 3: If you're like a workplace and you put on something
• 26:01
  Speaker 3: like that to get a little bit more morale out
• 26:03
  Speaker 3: of the parents and stuff, But to do a whole
• 26:05
  Speaker 3: city and.
• 26:07
  Speaker 2: The biggest city in the world, they've got a big park.
• 26:09
  Speaker 4: I guess I was thinking that the reason they're doing
• 26:12
  Speaker 4: it is to help with the declining birth rate and
• 26:15
  Speaker 4: give parents a chance to have sex.
• 26:17
  Speaker 1: The bears just a big horn dog and you're all
• 26:20
  Speaker 1: getting free lubricant and then contraceptive. They just kind of
• 26:27
  Speaker 1: played Barry White the streets and.
• 26:30
  Speaker 2: All the kids are away, the parents having sex on.
• 26:32
  Speaker 1: The street, and I'm going to put cameras in every room.
• 26:37
  Speaker 2: How do I tap into that feed?
• 26:39
  Speaker 1: Whish you got in New York?
• 26:40
  Speaker 2: Wait, let's in nine months time. Let's all just see
• 26:43
  Speaker 2: what the birth rate is in New York.
• 26:44
  Speaker 1: So I wonder if it'll work. Genius is very good,
• 26:47
  Speaker 1: it is, and he's just a big old pervert.
• 26:49
  Speaker 3: There's definitely a tax ki back somewhere, Like, why would.
• 26:51
  Speaker 4: You sure a lot of these endors are already set up
• 26:54
  Speaker 4: for that? I will say in Sydney there's a lot
• 26:56
  Speaker 4: of daycares who do like parents' night out, So if
• 26:58
  Speaker 4: you keep your there for a little bit later than normal,
• 27:01
  Speaker 4: I think they shut at eight instead of six, and
• 27:03
  Speaker 4: then parents can have a date and then pick up
• 27:06
  Speaker 4: their child.
• 27:07
  Speaker 2: Oh like a little early dinner.
• 27:09
  Speaker 1: Yeah, I've never seen that done before.
• 27:11
  Speaker 3: I can just picture the teachers going right, eight o'clock, right, kids,
• 27:15
  Speaker 3: you're stuck.
• 27:16
  Speaker 2: Now, off they go, and then all the parents get off.
• 27:19
  Speaker 1: But you have to what can you do eight o'clock late?
• 27:22
  Speaker 1: Is it? You wan un till ten o'clock at least
• 27:25
  Speaker 1: having dinner, and then that you do before you go
• 27:30
  Speaker 1: before dinner.
• 27:31
  Speaker 2: I don't want to go on full stomach.
• 27:33
  Speaker 5: No.
• 27:33
  Speaker 2: No, okay, thank you, Vig, thank you, thank you for
• 27:36
  Speaker 2: the news. It's good to have you back.
• 27:38
  Speaker 1: Ash. I've got a real conundrum. Sex with my wife
• 27:41
  Speaker 1: or doco with my mum. You seem nervous because she
• 27:45
  Speaker 1: doesn't like talking about it in the pocket, but I talked.
• 27:47
  Speaker 1: She talks about She talks so much about you that
• 27:50
  Speaker 1: she would have the issue of my household is that
• 27:53
  Speaker 1: I'm not spending enough time with Nana. The way my
• 27:57
  Speaker 1: afternoon routine is, I pick up the kids, We do dinner,
• 28:00
  Speaker 1: We put the kids in the bath, get them into
• 28:02
  Speaker 1: bed where you have someone to eat, clean the house,
• 28:05
  Speaker 1: and then I have like an hour I can just
• 28:07
  Speaker 1: do one last little blitz on work on the laptop, right,
• 28:10
  Speaker 1: and then I go to bed. And then the issue
• 28:12
  Speaker 1: is Nana, who's been so patient all day waiting for
• 28:16
  Speaker 1: some type of interaction. She's like, what do your guy's doing,
• 28:20
  Speaker 1: and we're like, don't.
• 28:21
  Speaker 2: Have sex, fuck off and we're like no, Nana, like
• 28:24
  Speaker 2: not now, Nana.
• 28:25
  Speaker 1: And I've got, like, you know, so much to do.
• 28:27
  Speaker 1: I'm a busy guy. You just got the direction of emails,
• 28:31
  Speaker 1: thank you very much. And then Laura's kind of said,
• 28:35
  Speaker 1: you know, you need to be able to spend more
• 28:36
  Speaker 1: time with Nana, you know, because she really wants it.
• 28:40
  Speaker 1: And it's you know, it's been a number of months
• 28:42
  Speaker 1: now that we've just not having the quality time. I
• 28:44
  Speaker 1: think the issue of having your parents live with you
• 28:48
  Speaker 1: is that where they're always there, you know, you don't
• 28:50
  Speaker 1: value the time as much when you you know, when
• 28:52
  Speaker 1: helping is your mum in town.
• 28:53
  Speaker 2: Like a lot, but too much.
• 28:56
  Speaker 1: When she's in town, you know, you give her the
• 28:58
  Speaker 1: attention she deserves. I'm a s because you're a great sign.
• 29:00
  Speaker 3: It's more she doesn't give me the attention I deserve. Okay,
• 29:04
  Speaker 3: she's spending a lot more time with one side of.
• 29:06
  Speaker 2: The family, and I want to go into it.
• 29:11
  Speaker 1: There's always there's always one favorite fan like child family,
• 29:15
  Speaker 1: but I need I need to spend more time with
• 29:17
  Speaker 1: my mum. Right, And if there's one thing my mom likes,
• 29:20
  Speaker 1: it's watching a little bit of TV. Yeah.
• 29:22
  Speaker 2: She loves news.
• 29:23
  Speaker 1: She loves the news. And if there's one thing she
• 29:25
  Speaker 1: loves more than the news, it's a docco And to
• 29:28
  Speaker 1: be really specific, world War two that is her jam.
• 29:32
  Speaker 2: Really is it nostalgia?
• 29:35
  Speaker 1: I think it's just it was a world war like
• 29:38
  Speaker 1: she would have been around. No, she's not world War two? Yeah?
• 29:42
  Speaker 2: After just no, what yeah, well your mum's seventy.
• 29:45
  Speaker 1: What so she's no, she's World War two was like
• 29:49
  Speaker 1: nineteen forty, ninety thirty, Yeah, ninety five because the Germany
• 29:54
  Speaker 1: involved Poland you would know, would I'll be watching it.
• 29:57
  Speaker 2: I can never mind anything that comes down of my mouth.
• 30:00
  Speaker 2: I just I just thought it was later than that.
• 30:02
  Speaker 1: We both have a real fascination with World War Two. Yeah.
• 30:07
  Speaker 1: And if there's another thing that we both really like,
• 30:10
  Speaker 1: Tom Hanks. Okay, Okay, it just so happened.
• 30:14
  Speaker 2: Nothing wrong with Tom Hanks.
• 30:15
  Speaker 1: There's a new twenty part series World War Two. Who's it?
• 30:19
  Speaker 2: Narrated by Carl Sevanovic.
• 30:23
  Speaker 1: What do you know, Tom Hanks?
• 30:25
  Speaker 3: Yeah?
• 30:25
  Speaker 2: Right, I would just think that I'm listening to is
• 30:27
  Speaker 2: it Woody? Is he Woody? Or no, he's bars isn't he.
• 30:31
  Speaker 3: I just feel like I'm listening to Woody the whole time,
• 30:33
  Speaker 3: like there's a snake in that boot.
• 30:36
  Speaker 4: He was from Saving Private Ryan. He's got a lovely,
• 30:38
  Speaker 4: rich voice.
• 30:39
  Speaker 1: He does he knows the topic. I think he's produced this.
• 30:43
  Speaker 1: So I'm like, Mom's gonna love this, you know. I
• 30:46
  Speaker 1: went to her and I said, you're not going to
• 30:48
  Speaker 1: believe what's on TV at the moment. She's like, what
• 30:50
  Speaker 1: I said, World War two docco narrated by Tom Hanks,
• 30:52
  Speaker 1: and she was was like Christmas. She was like really
• 30:55
  Speaker 1: and she's like, I have we seen her not just
• 30:58
  Speaker 1: come out? And I was like, it's a twenty part
• 31:00
  Speaker 1: series and we're going to start watching it one episode
• 31:02
  Speaker 1: every night.
• 31:03
  Speaker 3: She's like, oh god, you know, and you think she
• 31:05
  Speaker 3: wants to spend more time and you shut up, okay,
• 31:09
  Speaker 3: because don't you start putting those thoughts in my head.
• 31:11
  Speaker 1: Because she loves it.
• 31:12
  Speaker 2: And she's like, oh god, now she's telling her mates.
• 31:14
  Speaker 2: I gotta go now.
• 31:16
  Speaker 1: I was like, you mean tonight and I was like, tonight,
• 31:18
  Speaker 1: he's so needy. On Saturday, Laura was away. She had
• 31:22
  Speaker 1: a dinner out. So I was like, Saturday night. I mean,
• 31:25
  Speaker 1: it sounds anyone who doesn't have kids being like, what's
• 31:28
  Speaker 1: it like being an adult? You're fucking watching World War
• 31:30
  Speaker 1: two docodes with your mom at home on a Saturday night.
• 31:32
  Speaker 2: Let's bang on.
• 31:33
  Speaker 1: That's that's exacting.
• 31:35
  Speaker 2: You might as well get you'll probably able to hang
• 31:36
  Speaker 2: over from that.
• 31:39
  Speaker 1: So then it gets to Sunday, and Sunday in our
• 31:42
  Speaker 1: household is a sexy night, okay because during the.
• 31:45
  Speaker 2: Week it's used to be Friday nights. Yeah, but I
• 31:49
  Speaker 2: better changed out of my calendar.
• 31:51
  Speaker 1: Who's got time to have sex Monday Monday to Thursday?
• 31:54
  Speaker 1: Like if you do? Oh he is? Wow? Okay, well
• 31:58
  Speaker 1: you and April actually and credit where credit is? Do
• 32:00
  Speaker 1: you have a very healthy sex life?
• 32:02
  Speaker 2: We love each other every night?
• 32:06
  Speaker 1: Wow?
• 32:07
  Speaker 3: I wish No, not every night?
• 32:12
  Speaker 1: No, So then I promised mum we watched on the
• 32:15
  Speaker 1: Saturday night. We were crazy. We watched three episodes back
• 32:18
  Speaker 1: to back.
• 32:18
  Speaker 2: Wow, no, three hours.
• 32:21
  Speaker 1: It was a forty five minute episode around up so
• 32:23
  Speaker 1: you know, I was like, no, no, no, I can't.
• 32:25
  Speaker 1: I've got to go to bed. I'm so tired, And
• 32:27
  Speaker 1: she was like, watch your man, I can't wait till
• 32:29
  Speaker 1: tomorrow because Pearl Harbor was about to happen on and
• 32:33
  Speaker 1: so then after dinner, I promised, I promised Nana that
• 32:36
  Speaker 1: I'm gonna watch another episode with her, and Laura's like
• 32:40
  Speaker 1: pretty tired? What? And I was like, obviously, Laura is
• 32:46
  Speaker 1: not into the docos either, Like.
• 32:48
  Speaker 2: She's like, there's nothing sexy about World War Two.
• 32:51
  Speaker 1: So I'm like, Laura, I've got to watch this doc.
• 32:59
  Speaker 2: I did.
• 33:00
  Speaker 1: I did, and I was like, so put it back
• 33:05
  Speaker 1: in your pants. I was like, it's only going to
• 33:06
  Speaker 1: be forty five minutes and uh and Laura's like, HM,
• 33:14
  Speaker 1: been rejected for World War Two? And I had the option, right, Okay,
• 33:19
  Speaker 1: I had the option. Then in there, do I either
• 33:23
  Speaker 1: go up to the bedroom have sex with my wife
• 33:26
  Speaker 1: that we both really enjoy and it's been a little while,
• 33:30
  Speaker 1: or do I watch a World War two docco narrated
• 33:32
  Speaker 1: by Tom Hanks.
• 33:33
  Speaker 2: You could? You could have done both.
• 33:36
  Speaker 1: I couldn't.
• 33:37
  Speaker 2: You couldn't because what'd you go with is a cutoff.
• 33:40
  Speaker 1: Time for no sex after that? For five was alarm
• 33:43
  Speaker 1: at home. Yeah, so I watched the doc.
• 33:52
  Speaker 2: Good for You that takes that takes courage. You are
• 33:57
  Speaker 2: courageous I did it for Nana.
• 34:00
  Speaker 4: What if Ash talked about this the other day, he
• 34:03
  Speaker 4: has sex as soon as the kids are in bed.
• 34:05
  Speaker 4: What if you went and had sex and then came
• 34:07
  Speaker 4: back down and watched it.
• 34:08
  Speaker 1: I can't. I can't once, I once once. I can't.
• 34:12
  Speaker 1: I can't. I can't transition.
• 34:14
  Speaker 2: It's hard to go.
• 34:15
  Speaker 1: Yeah, sex and then sleep. That's how I work.
• 34:17
  Speaker 2: Yeah, Thankfully for me, I can transition.
• 34:20
  Speaker 1: It's a skill.
• 34:21
  Speaker 3: It's a skill I've honed over many years.
• 34:26
  Speaker 2: So where are we up to on the doco?
• 34:28
  Speaker 1: Well, Pearl Harbor happened, we're now, We're now the Battle
• 34:34
  Speaker 1: of the Coral Sea. Twenty episodes, episodes.
• 34:39
  Speaker 2: That's got to be longer than World War Two itself.
• 34:41
  Speaker 1: I mean it's we all know how the story ends, right, Well,
• 34:47
  Speaker 1: we win the war, Oh because of a nuke?
• 34:50
  Speaker 2: They're right. I don't know.
• 34:51
  Speaker 1: I don't really care.
• 34:53
  Speaker 2: I'm not like a big hour.
• 34:55
  Speaker 1: It's Winston Churchill, Roosevelt, all the goats, and like my
• 35:04
  Speaker 1: mom knows how it goes. I know how it goes.
• 35:06
  Speaker 1: But we're just we're just engrossed by it. It's the
• 35:08
  Speaker 1: it's the common ground that we have. Nice. Good for you, Thanks,
• 35:12
  Speaker 1: good so now I've got to wait another week.
• 35:14
  Speaker 2: Why don't you do it tonight? We can't do it,
• 35:17
  Speaker 2: you'll be going too quick.
• 35:18
  Speaker 1: No, we can't do midweek. Ash. I'm sorry to get
• 35:21
  Speaker 1: angry at you, but it can't happen. Why because it's
• 35:24
  Speaker 1: too much on. There's too much like you got you
• 35:28
  Speaker 1: got the mental load of the week. You know, it's
• 35:32
  Speaker 1: you're exhausted. No, it's not, no, not gonna happen.
• 35:35
  Speaker 2: We make it happen.
• 35:37
  Speaker 1: Yeah, it's because you know what. You guys are horn dogs.
• 35:41
  Speaker 3: Thank you. Speaking of horn dogs, I was betrayed at
• 35:46
  Speaker 3: the highest order.
• 35:46
  Speaker 1: Who was it?
• 35:48
  Speaker 2: My wife?
• 35:48
  Speaker 1: Oh my gosh. Yeah.
• 35:50
  Speaker 3: So I was out of the house, okay, and I
• 35:53
  Speaker 3: have come home unexpectedly, all right over the weekend, sort
• 35:58
  Speaker 3: of will let myself into my own house as I'm
• 36:00
  Speaker 3: allowed to do. And I opened the door and I
• 36:03
  Speaker 3: was frozen with the sight that I was met with
• 36:08
  Speaker 3: my wife laid out on the couch.
• 36:12
  Speaker 2: Okay, watching football.
• 36:14
  Speaker 1: What.
• 36:14
  Speaker 2: I have never been so betrayed in my life.
• 36:17
  Speaker 4: I thought you would have been turned on.
• 36:18
  Speaker 1: Yeah, that's low.
• 36:19
  Speaker 2: I'm betrayed. Turned on later, let me get there. But
• 36:22
  Speaker 2: I walk in and I was like, hey.
• 36:25
  Speaker 1: Can I just suggest one thing. Was there someone else
• 36:28
  Speaker 1: in your house? Maybe that made a quick escape, but
• 36:30
  Speaker 1: as they heard you coming up the spell. Definitely not
• 36:34
  Speaker 1: not to plant that seed. April was a very loyal woman,
• 36:38
  Speaker 1: and I know I was like, what was she watching?
• 36:40
  Speaker 1: What game? What game?
• 36:41
  Speaker 2: Was it? Again?
• 36:42
  Speaker 1: Was it manly? At least? No?
• 36:44
  Speaker 2: It was Newcastle and Cronulla?
• 36:46
  Speaker 1: Damn it?
• 36:47
  Speaker 2: She was watching you go on.
• 36:48
  Speaker 3: Probably anyway I've walked in, I've opened the door and
• 36:51
  Speaker 3: born their years and I was like, hey, what are
• 36:52
  Speaker 3: you do?
• 36:53
  Speaker 2: What is this?
• 36:54
  Speaker 3: And like, of all the games that we could have
• 36:56
  Speaker 3: watched together, of all the times we could have spoken
• 36:59
  Speaker 3: about football, She's like, yeah, I'm.
• 37:00
  Speaker 2: Quite into it.
• 37:01
  Speaker 1: She didn't tell me.
• 37:03
  Speaker 2: I feel betrayed.
• 37:05
  Speaker 1: I don't understand. I'm confused.
• 37:07
  Speaker 2: What do you mean you confused?
• 37:08
  Speaker 1: She just all of a sudden was like, oh, let's
• 37:10
  Speaker 1: see what's on the TV guide. Oh, Cranala is playing. Yeah,
• 37:13
  Speaker 1: I'll watch it. Yeah. Like something must have spurred her.
• 37:16
  Speaker 3: But if I suggested, well she watched football against you're like,
• 37:18
  Speaker 3: h I'm a right, Like I watched football because she
• 37:21
  Speaker 3: doesn't want to.
• 37:21
  Speaker 1: Watch her she understand the rule? Yeah, who He's taught
• 37:24
  Speaker 1: her I don't know.
• 37:25
  Speaker 2: I feel betrayed, That's what I mean.
• 37:27
  Speaker 1: I think she's having an affair with who better.
• 37:30
  Speaker 2: Be handsome, I mean athletic.
• 37:33
  Speaker 1: He is an NRL player, damn it.
• 37:35
  Speaker 2: And I was like, oh, did.
• 37:37
  Speaker 1: You watch it together?
• 37:37
  Speaker 4: At least?
• 37:38
  Speaker 1: Like, did you finish the game together?
• 37:39
  Speaker 2: Yeah?
• 37:40
  Speaker 3: We finished the game and I was like, there's another
• 37:41
  Speaker 3: game on after this. She was just like, no, fuck off.
• 37:44
  Speaker 2: But I was like, of all the times that it's like, oh,
• 37:48
  Speaker 2: you know how we do this thing where it's like
• 37:50
  Speaker 2: I do you want to watch something? And we never agree.
• 37:52
  Speaker 2: Now they're option of foot is on the table, taking
• 37:55
  Speaker 2: to Manley. She has been a manly games but she
• 37:57
  Speaker 2: only goes with the kids.
• 37:59
  Speaker 1: This is this is right. You guys have got you know.
• 38:01
  Speaker 1: This is like imagine if I came home and Laura
• 38:03
  Speaker 1: was watching a World War two docco, I would love it.
• 38:07
  Speaker 1: That would be heaven on her. This is a great result.
• 38:10
  Speaker 1: Not betrayed. I think this is okay, this is this
• 38:13
  Speaker 1: is a positive.
• 38:13
  Speaker 2: At first, I was betrayed. No, and that because it
• 38:16
  Speaker 2: was like I felt like.
• 38:18
  Speaker 1: Maybe she was trying to like understand the game without
• 38:21
  Speaker 1: you there, so that she could be like, oh, Nico's
• 38:23
  Speaker 1: playing well, he scored to try is he playing well?
• 38:26
  Speaker 2: It is? I was like, what are you looking at?
• 38:29
  Speaker 2: My wife quite likes biceps. I know that about her.
• 38:32
  Speaker 2: He doesn't okay, keep your hand wow wow? And I
• 38:36
  Speaker 2: was like, what are you looking at? I hang it like,
• 38:38
  Speaker 2: I was like, what are you watching?
• 38:39
  Speaker 1: How do you know she likes biceps?
• 38:40
  Speaker 3: I just I know I know what she likes over many,
• 38:43
  Speaker 3: many years of observation and flexing in front of it.
• 38:51
  Speaker 1: What do you think about this? So she's a bicep guy?
• 38:53
  Speaker 1: What are you?
• 38:54
  Speaker 2: I'm like, what am I?
• 38:56
  Speaker 1: Oh?
• 38:56
  Speaker 2: A buck guy?
• 38:57
  Speaker 1: You're a big buck guy.
• 38:58
  Speaker 2: Thank you. But anyway, I was like, what are you
• 39:00
  Speaker 2: watch it? Like, I'm like staring at their bicyle and
• 39:04
  Speaker 2: was like, no.
• 39:05
  Speaker 1: A little bit of insecurity for me. That's cute, thank you.
• 39:08
  Speaker 2: I got to keep her on a toast sometimes.
• 39:09
  Speaker 3: So anyway, apparently April has been watching football without me,
• 39:13
  Speaker 3: and at first I was betrayed. I felt betrayed, But
• 39:15
  Speaker 3: now I feel like there's an opportunity for when she says,
• 39:19
  Speaker 3: hey we should watch something and I can be like football.
• 39:20
  Speaker 3: Actually I did try it already.
• 39:22
  Speaker 2: I lied. I was like, hey, we got a TV
• 39:25
  Speaker 2: in the bedroom. I was like, wow, you know, oh wow.
• 39:28
  Speaker 1: She was like no, it must be nice. She was like,
• 39:30
  Speaker 1: oh no, what's how big is it?
• 39:33
  Speaker 2: Thirty two inches?
• 39:33
  Speaker 1: Oh bloody Holly d shut us by a bright new
• 39:37
  Speaker 1: car as well.
• 39:39
  Speaker 2: How many properties you got? Anyway? Moving on, I was like, oh,
• 39:43
  Speaker 2: we can move this to the bedroom. She's like forty
• 39:45
  Speaker 2: of the bedroom.
• 39:46
  Speaker 1: I was like, damn it.
• 39:47
  Speaker 2: I'm trying to get all the worlds in.
• 39:48
  Speaker 1: One very like there's all these rules to figure out,
• 39:51
  Speaker 1: and I'm all these new rules. It's Thursday.
• 39:54
  Speaker 2: I'm like, think about we could eat. We could eat,
• 39:56
  Speaker 2: watch footy and have sex in bed all at the
• 39:58
  Speaker 2: same time.
• 40:03
  Speaker 1: Anyway, Yeah, what else can you guys do together? Play
• 40:05
  Speaker 1: the pokes?
• 40:06
  Speaker 2: Nah in there.
• 40:09
  Speaker 1: Actually we were at the RSL on Friday, and I
• 40:11
  Speaker 1: sometimes forget, like I'll just watch like the football's on
• 40:14
  Speaker 1: and I'll just watch it, and I sometimes you got
• 40:16
  Speaker 1: to try and include the kids, right, You got to
• 40:18
  Speaker 1: try and like bring them into your interests. And Marley
• 40:20
  Speaker 1: was like, what is it? What's happening here? And it
• 40:23
  Speaker 1: was a game between actually it was the Dolphins versus
• 40:26
  Speaker 1: the Cowboys, and there was like three tries in the
• 40:28
  Speaker 1: last five minutes. Oh yeah, tries are very exciting. And
• 40:32
  Speaker 1: it was so nice because I was like, what they're
• 40:34
  Speaker 1: trying to do, Marley, You got the football field, You've
• 40:36
  Speaker 1: got six tackles to try and get to your try line.
• 40:38
  Speaker 1: If you can't do it, six tackles, hand the ball over,
• 40:40
  Speaker 1: the other team has to go. And she was like, Okay,
• 40:43
  Speaker 1: I kind of get it. Get all these tries. She
• 40:45
  Speaker 1: was like this is great.
• 40:46
  Speaker 2: Wow.
• 40:47
  Speaker 1: She was like, fucking hell, so much is happening? Like
• 40:49
  Speaker 1: how many points there are? Because kids love.
• 40:51
  Speaker 2: They love them?
• 40:52
  Speaker 3: Yeah, that's what oscars I reckon his favorite part of
• 40:54
  Speaker 3: the whole thing.
• 40:55
  Speaker 1: She's like, thirty two.
• 40:56
  Speaker 2: Wow is the points. And it's like the problem is
• 40:59
  Speaker 2: with bringing them.
• 41:00
  Speaker 3: Into your world is that you And I've found this
• 41:03
  Speaker 3: out the hard way on the weekend when my football
• 41:05
  Speaker 3: team seemed to not be doing very well and Oscar
• 41:08
  Speaker 3: lives and breathes this football team, the Manly Seagulls.
• 41:11
  Speaker 2: And I've been watching them lose.
• 41:15
  Speaker 1: They had a good run for anyone who's unfamiliar with
• 41:18
  Speaker 1: the NRL season, manly new coach doing fantastic. All of
• 41:22
  Speaker 1: a sudden, what the wheels fall off?
• 41:24
  Speaker 3: And I took him last week where to the game
• 41:27
  Speaker 3: itself where we were ahead, but me, being the old
• 41:30
  Speaker 3: head and been watching them for years, could tell they're
• 41:33
  Speaker 3: going to come back and win this game.
• 41:35
  Speaker 2: He was in tears there, so I to carry him
• 41:38
  Speaker 2: home from there.
• 41:39
  Speaker 1: This is resilience buildings, I said every time, I'm like, bro,
• 41:44
  Speaker 1: get used to it, right, it's thirty five years of
• 41:46
  Speaker 1: turmoil for me in the quitter, get used to a kid.
• 41:50
  Speaker 2: You'll get there.
• 41:50
  Speaker 1: This is his live Yeah.
• 41:52
  Speaker 2: And then going into the game we just had at home.
• 41:55
  Speaker 3: I was quite boisterous at the TV a couple of
• 41:57
  Speaker 3: times because I was frustrated, and that's fair.
• 42:01
  Speaker 2: I'm not to be frustrated. But then I realized that
• 42:04
  Speaker 2: to go for a walk.
• 42:05
  Speaker 3: I had to go for a little mental health walk
• 42:07
  Speaker 3: because I was so frustrated that he was starting to
• 42:10
  Speaker 3: mimic the behavior.
• 42:11
  Speaker 2: What do you mean so like the behavior of I'm
• 42:15
  Speaker 2: annoyed about it, and like sports fans yell at TV,
• 42:18
  Speaker 2: we yell at TV.
• 42:19
  Speaker 1: Guilty.
• 42:20
  Speaker 3: You know it happens, but I don't want him to
• 42:22
  Speaker 3: be then go into the next phase of his life
• 42:26
  Speaker 3: thinking that that's normal and acceptable, because if we look
• 42:29
  Speaker 3: at World Cup, England lose Okay, the calls to the
• 42:33
  Speaker 3: Triple one or Triple zero for them over there about
• 42:35
  Speaker 3: domestic violence is unbelievably high, Like it is to a
• 42:39
  Speaker 3: point where people are quitting their jobs in the call
• 42:41
  Speaker 3: center because it's so horrible. So that now I saw
• 42:45
  Speaker 3: firsthand of him, sort of, I wasn't over the top.
• 42:48
  Speaker 2: I would have been, according to people who don't watch sport,
• 42:51
  Speaker 2: but I was like, pretty like what the fuck are
• 42:53
  Speaker 2: they doing?
• 42:53
  Speaker 3: Like having a bit of a winge, And I could
• 42:55
  Speaker 3: see he was picking up on that energy too, and
• 42:58
  Speaker 3: I was like, Okay, well, well, I would hate for
• 43:02
  Speaker 3: him to notice how I talk about that sort of
• 43:05
  Speaker 3: thing and think it's completely acceptable moving into the next
• 43:07
  Speaker 3: phase of his life when he grows up and you know,
• 43:09
  Speaker 3: like I don't want I don't.
• 43:10
  Speaker 1: Want to because crying, I guess crying. It's actually great
• 43:14
  Speaker 1: that he's crying, right, that he has an outlet that
• 43:16
  Speaker 1: he can let that emotion out. And if you're not saying, hey,
• 43:20
  Speaker 1: suck it up, you know, be a man. If you're
• 43:22
  Speaker 1: allowing that emotion to come out and it's not being suppressed,
• 43:24
  Speaker 1: it's actually really yeah, that's a really mature situation for
• 43:29
  Speaker 1: him to be in.
• 43:29
  Speaker 3: Yeah, that I don't have a problem with because yes,
• 43:32
  Speaker 3: it's feelings, right, and it's okay for him to be
• 43:34
  Speaker 3: angry with his footy team. But it's just I always
• 43:37
  Speaker 3: say to him when he loses Uno or something, I'm like.
• 43:40
  Speaker 2: It's okay to be sad, but it's how you act.
• 43:42
  Speaker 3: Okay, you shake everyone's hand, you can, you can be
• 43:45
  Speaker 3: sad about it, but how you act towards others.
• 43:48
  Speaker 2: And I was doing I wasn't preaching what I sewd
• 43:52
  Speaker 2: to whatever that saying is. But then I started to
• 43:55
  Speaker 2: think about it later on in that night where it
• 43:56
  Speaker 2: was like all.
• 43:57
  Speaker 3: Of the news that came out around that, which is
• 44:00
  Speaker 3: absolutely horrific.
• 44:02
  Speaker 2: And I was like, fuck, imagine all those people that
• 44:05
  Speaker 2: are like that had learnt it from somewhere.
• 44:08
  Speaker 3: And I don't want it to be a situation where
• 44:10
  Speaker 3: I want him to encourage his football team.
• 44:12
  Speaker 2: I wanted to be able to express his emotions.
• 44:14
  Speaker 3: I don't want him to place it and get aggressive
• 44:16
  Speaker 3: and place it in the wrong space.
• 44:18
  Speaker 2: Anyway. That's beautiful.
• 44:20
  Speaker 4: I think that's actually a really beautiful lesson.
• 44:22
  Speaker 3: You're trying to thank you, thank you, But now mum
• 44:24
  Speaker 3: can watch footy too. She'll shut me up.
• 44:27
  Speaker 2: Because I mean, it's just like I have emotions too.
• 44:29
  Speaker 1: I'd like to say that as an anger problem. But
• 44:31
  Speaker 1: what she like when mainly starts losing, she's.
• 44:34
  Speaker 3: Actually pretty level headed because I'm like, turn it off.
• 44:36
  Speaker 1: Didn't she didn't? She did she throw into the kick
• 44:40
  Speaker 1: a hole in the wall.
• 44:42
  Speaker 4: That wasn't sport related.
• 44:47
  Speaker 1: Imagine mum rage when it means sport rage.
• 44:49
  Speaker 3: Yeah, I don't think she she doesn't.
• 44:52
  Speaker 1: Just all of is be careful.
• 44:53
  Speaker 3: She's pretty competitive, but I think she's really only competitive.
• 44:57
  Speaker 2: In what she's doing, not what she's viewing.
• 44:59
  Speaker 3: I think she would see a team lose and go
• 45:01
  Speaker 3: it's a bum up man, you know, and like it'd
• 45:04
  Speaker 3: be nice to have that as well instead of like
• 45:07
  Speaker 3: it dictating my whole mood. I had to go for
• 45:10
  Speaker 3: a fucking walk and then when I get back, I'm like,
• 45:12
  Speaker 3: I feel like a fucking child, like a child, just
• 45:14
  Speaker 3: the way that sometimes I can. You can act because
• 45:18
  Speaker 3: the emotion does take over.
• 45:19
  Speaker 1: Mate. It's wild how much your team loses, how much
• 45:24
  Speaker 1: influences your mood. But yeah, to know that there's other
• 45:27
  Speaker 1: families out there that are experiencing it to the point
• 45:30
  Speaker 1: of violence, it's horrific.
• 45:33
  Speaker 3: I'd hate for him to grow up and then me
• 45:35
  Speaker 3: look at that and go, Okay, he's modeled his behavior
• 45:37
  Speaker 3: off me, and it's not it's no good.
• 45:39
  Speaker 1: Yeah.
• 45:39
  Speaker 2: So that that and that was just a.
• 45:42
  Speaker 3: Thought I had, and I thought, okay, well, now I've
• 45:43
  Speaker 3: got to be really careful around how I perceive things
• 45:48
  Speaker 3: and express things vocally.
• 45:50
  Speaker 1: You know what I started saying, which is really bad
• 45:52
  Speaker 1: is when the kids are like, but I want that,
• 45:54
  Speaker 1: I don't care, and then they start when I'm like,
• 45:57
  Speaker 1: you need to brush your hair, They're like, no, I
• 45:59
  Speaker 1: don't care. They're little sponges, and little sponges did everything
• 46:03
  Speaker 1: you do? They like pick up on it, and I'm like,
• 46:05
  Speaker 1: kind of breathe properly without you guys copying me.
• 46:08
  Speaker 3: Yeah, it's when you want them to model the good behavior, yes,
• 46:12
  Speaker 3: but then when you pick up on the bad behavior.
• 46:14
  Speaker 2: Like sometimes sometimes I've heard him like talk to talk.
• 46:17
  Speaker 3: To his sister just in a way that maybe I've
• 46:20
  Speaker 3: spoken to someone else or had a laugh for someone
• 46:22
  Speaker 3: else he doesn't quite understand, or and I'm like, oh.
• 46:25
  Speaker 2: Fuck you forget so quickly.
• 46:27
  Speaker 1: Can I just say credit where credit is due that
• 46:29
  Speaker 1: level of self awareness? Thank you, very very good thank
• 46:32
  Speaker 1: you very good. I mean I imagine if we all
• 46:35
  Speaker 1: had that same level of self awareness and be aware
• 46:38
  Speaker 1: of our actions are to be a beautiful place.
• 46:40
  Speaker 2: Yeah, I just have to make sure I practice it now.
• 46:42
  Speaker 3: I mean it's one thing to acknowledge it, which is
• 46:44
  Speaker 3: a start, But then the next thing is that we're
• 46:46
  Speaker 3: going to have a lot of years ahead of us
• 46:48
  Speaker 3: of watching the football.
• 46:49
  Speaker 2: Our football team lose, but I.
• 46:51
  Speaker 3: Like I always say to him as well, like I'm
• 46:53
  Speaker 3: always like, look, we're gonna win some, we're gonna lose some.
• 46:56
  Speaker 2: Okay, It's just the way it is. Everything is like that.
• 46:58
  Speaker 3: Every situation you're going to come across in your life,
• 47:00
  Speaker 3: you're going to win some of it, you're going to
• 47:02
  Speaker 3: lose some of it. But depending on how you express
• 47:04
  Speaker 3: that emotion outwards will depend on how people are going
• 47:07
  Speaker 3: to view you and how you view yourself.
• 47:08
  Speaker 1: Yeah, what's said, thank you? Do you talk to your
• 47:12
  Speaker 1: kids about death?
• 47:13
  Speaker 3: Oh? Not like the regular but like I definitely they're
• 47:18
  Speaker 3: aware of the concept of death.
• 47:20
  Speaker 2: Because you're fortunate that you haven't really had we haven't
• 47:22
  Speaker 2: really hit.
• 47:23
  Speaker 1: That people are Obviously, when someone within the family passes away,
• 47:27
  Speaker 1: it's then the catalyst to then explain to them that
• 47:30
  Speaker 1: life moment.
• 47:31
  Speaker 2: Yeah right, we haven't got that yet.
• 47:33
  Speaker 1: And I'm having these like really amazing chats with the
• 47:36
  Speaker 1: girls two moments in the day. One is when I'm
• 47:39
  Speaker 1: driving the car with them and we have a really
• 47:41
  Speaker 1: good chat. The other time is after we read a
• 47:43
  Speaker 1: book we have a little chill in bed, and then
• 47:46
  Speaker 1: we have these like little moments, especially with Marley, where
• 47:49
  Speaker 1: I'm like, oh, I'm really it's different to you know,
• 47:52
  Speaker 1: when you're just like talking to your kid, but we're
• 47:54
  Speaker 1: actually like having a real strong back and forth.
• 47:57
  Speaker 3: Curiosity really takes over. Yeah, and it's it's actually like
• 48:01
  Speaker 3: I noticed it same with like Oscar as well at
• 48:04
  Speaker 3: that age, where it's a different type of conversation because
• 48:07
  Speaker 3: he's actually engaged instead of.
• 48:09
  Speaker 2: Just saying what's on this? What do we do next?
• 48:12
  Speaker 2: But it's it's you're.
• 48:13
  Speaker 3: Right, yeah, yeah, he might have It's funny that you
• 48:17
  Speaker 3: pick up the nonsense questions and the genuine questions, right, and.
• 48:22
  Speaker 1: When it's one on one, I'm like, oh wow, this
• 48:25
  Speaker 1: is this is different. So we're talking about death, and
• 48:27
  Speaker 1: the way that we explain it is that you know,
• 48:28
  Speaker 1: it's very matter of fact that when you pass away
• 48:31
  Speaker 1: you know that is that is it? And then sometimes
• 48:33
  Speaker 1: Mary will say like, oh, you know when you die
• 48:36
  Speaker 1: your eyes closed? Are they open? And You're like, oh,
• 48:39
  Speaker 1: make it easy.
• 48:40
  Speaker 2: It depends on the murder. Sorry, I couldn't help myself.
• 48:47
  Speaker 3: Well it was blood forced trauma to the head, so yeah,
• 48:49
  Speaker 3: eyes were open.
• 48:51
  Speaker 1: Let's look at some photos and I'm like, I'll just
• 48:54
  Speaker 1: keep it easier. Yeah, when you pass away, you close
• 48:56
  Speaker 1: your eyes and then we say, you know that is
• 48:58
  Speaker 1: you're no longer around, but you have a soul. Your
• 49:00
  Speaker 1: soul goes up into the sky. And then we say
• 49:02
  Speaker 1: that the stars, like you know that they're the people
• 49:05
  Speaker 1: that are passed away. So that star you know, that's Papa,
• 49:08
  Speaker 1: you know. And she understands it, and she's like okay,
• 49:11
  Speaker 1: So the cogs are turning and I can see that
• 49:12
  Speaker 1: she's asking some more questions. And then she's like, but
• 49:15
  Speaker 1: then will I will I see you in heaven? And
• 49:19
  Speaker 1: I'm like, yeah, yeah, like well you know when I'm
• 49:22
  Speaker 1: up there and I'll wait for you. And she's like, well,
• 49:24
  Speaker 1: how how will I find you? Like how will I
• 49:28
  Speaker 1: find you in heaven? And I'm like, oh, you know,
• 49:31
  Speaker 1: like fuck, how do I answer that? And I'm like yeah,
• 49:34
  Speaker 1: and I'm like, oh, it's I was like, oh fuck,
• 49:36
  Speaker 1: I'm really popping on the spot here. And I was like,
• 49:39
  Speaker 1: I guess it's the same way as when we walk
• 49:43
  Speaker 1: home from school. You know the direction, right, And she's
• 49:47
  Speaker 1: like yeah, and you just haven't memorized. And I was like,
• 49:49
  Speaker 1: when we're in heaven, you'll just you'll know how to
• 49:52
  Speaker 1: find me. And she's like, oh yeah, She's like I
• 49:55
  Speaker 1: get it.
• 49:58
  Speaker 3: With those sort of conversation, it's like it's a it
• 50:02
  Speaker 3: is a reality, the fact that it's part of life is.
• 50:04
  Speaker 2: Dying, right, Yeah.
• 50:05
  Speaker 3: And then those questions that come from her is like
• 50:08
  Speaker 3: where do I how do I find you? Because you're
• 50:12
  Speaker 3: also as well, you probably think I don't want you
• 50:13
  Speaker 3: to be helpless in that situation.
• 50:15
  Speaker 1: So yeah, it's and then she's like anyway, good night,
• 50:20
  Speaker 1: and I'm like far out.
• 50:22
  Speaker 2: You're just waiting for season two of this conversation.
• 50:24
  Speaker 1: You're like, I'm here. Yeah, And you have these little
• 50:27
  Speaker 1: milestone moments in these conversations where you're like, oh, these
• 50:31
  Speaker 1: you know, in my head you kind of think that
• 50:32
  Speaker 1: painting is always just going to be you and this
• 50:35
  Speaker 1: little child that's always going to be so dependent on
• 50:36
  Speaker 1: you and the every now and then you have these
• 50:38
  Speaker 1: moments where you're like, oh, they're growing up so much
• 50:40
  Speaker 1: more and understanding so much more of the world. And
• 50:42
  Speaker 1: then you also think, oh, gosh, what's going to be
• 50:44
  Speaker 1: a time when start to worry and they'll be here
• 50:47
  Speaker 1: by themselves.
• 50:48
  Speaker 3: And I I like, I do a similar thing where
• 50:51
  Speaker 3: I'm like, Okay, well they are getting older, and then
• 50:54
  Speaker 3: I also I also feel so much sympathy for them
• 50:57
  Speaker 3: because of what they've got ahead of them, especially in
• 51:02
  Speaker 3: those school years they throw absolutely everything at you. And
• 51:06
  Speaker 3: then she's also trying to understand how the world works,
• 51:09
  Speaker 3: like how death works, and then like it's going to
• 51:11
  Speaker 3: be something else next time.
• 51:12
  Speaker 1: And they're like I don't want to die, and I'm like,
• 51:13
  Speaker 1: no one wants to die.
• 51:15
  Speaker 3: I remember when I was at that age, I was
• 51:16
  Speaker 3: just worried about who was going to get my PlayStation after.
• 51:19
  Speaker 2: But yet now is the.
• 51:21
  Speaker 3: Parent You're getting these questions and you're like you also
• 51:24
  Speaker 3: kind of think to yourself of the reality of that,
• 51:27
  Speaker 3: and that's what's obviously made you upset as well, Like
• 51:30
  Speaker 3: you've probably thought, I don't want you to feel ever
• 51:32
  Speaker 3: feel alone, and of course, like there's going to be
• 51:35
  Speaker 3: a situation at some point in the future where this
• 51:38
  Speaker 3: is a reality, as much as we both don't want
• 51:40
  Speaker 3: it to be.
• 51:40
  Speaker 1: Yeah, I think I was thirteen when I was thinking
• 51:43
  Speaker 1: about death. I'm like, oh, she's seven. I know.
• 51:45
  Speaker 3: I suppose that's the reality of like someone passing close
• 51:49
  Speaker 3: to you.
• 51:49
  Speaker 1: We'll bring the conversation forward.
• 51:51
  Speaker 3: Yeah, because my kids always talk about when Iggy dies, Squiggy.
• 51:54
  Speaker 1: That's going to be soon, right.
• 51:56
  Speaker 2: I keep saying that, I know.
• 52:01
  Speaker 1: But Macy was like, even squeakies, like, make it quick.
• 52:07
  Speaker 2: Out of my misery, because I feel like there's gonna
• 52:08
  Speaker 2: be a long dance. And she was like, Macy was like,
• 52:12
  Speaker 2: so how does it work if she dies? We just
• 52:13
  Speaker 2: get another dog? Like do you have to have a dog?
• 52:17
  Speaker 3: But like, because we haven't had that situation where it's like, oh,
• 52:21
  Speaker 3: you know, mate is dead and it's like, okay, well
• 52:24
  Speaker 3: now we've got to have this conversation of what's going
• 52:26
  Speaker 3: to happen after.
• 52:27
  Speaker 2: But I like, I think for her to ask the
• 52:30
  Speaker 2: questions like how.
• 52:30
  Speaker 3: Do we find each other is really mature, and then
• 52:32
  Speaker 3: for you to have an answer like that is.
• 52:35
  Speaker 1: Again on the spot.
• 52:36
  Speaker 3: On the spot is probably something she'll take away and
• 52:39
  Speaker 3: go Okay, Well, even though it's not necessarily explicitly saying,
• 52:43
  Speaker 3: no matter what the situation, I'm going to be there,
• 52:45
  Speaker 3: because that's exactly what that answer says to me, you
• 52:49
  Speaker 3: said it in a way which is practical for her.
• 52:51
  Speaker 1: Are we just we're both just like now you're great.
• 52:53
  Speaker 3: Now we're all great, Matt, one of our favorite segments,
• 52:57
  Speaker 3: which we haven't done in a while.
• 52:58
  Speaker 2: I'm thinking about this, yes today.
• 53:00
  Speaker 1: Parenting lies.
• 53:01
  Speaker 2: Yeah, a lot of my kids every day, but we
• 53:02
  Speaker 2: don't talk about it.
• 53:03
  Speaker 1: And you you did the call out in the Facebook
• 53:05
  Speaker 1: group and it was just like it went Banana, I did.
• 53:08
  Speaker 3: And I want to thank Veggimi for bringing this back,
• 53:11
  Speaker 3: this segment. Of course they've got their new Vegimi kids,
• 53:14
  Speaker 3: so thank you.
• 53:15
  Speaker 2: But let's get into it. Tell me loud.
• 53:25
  Speaker 3: We did reach out to the audience or the dotors,
• 53:28
  Speaker 3: which we love very much.
• 53:29
  Speaker 2: And they are a bunch of fucking liars, aren't they?
• 53:33
  Speaker 1: Yes, just like shut up. I was reading sorry, I
• 53:38
  Speaker 1: was reading the first lie, thinking who's going to do
• 53:40
  Speaker 1: the liar? Sorry? But well said Ash, Yes, I.
• 53:45
  Speaker 3: Think a little harmless lie to get through the day
• 53:47
  Speaker 3: with your kids.
• 53:48
  Speaker 1: He's a must first, you go first.
• 53:50
  Speaker 2: This is from Jade or jar Da. I don't know.
• 53:53
  Speaker 2: I told my.
• 53:53
  Speaker 3: Daughter that TVs have a camera that watches to make
• 53:56
  Speaker 3: sure kids don't watch you, to.
• 53:58
  Speaker 1: Make my kids literally, I'm like, you're watching Bluey, yeah, Bluey,
• 54:03
  Speaker 1: and if you put on anything else, TV goes off
• 54:06
  Speaker 1: and they're like, yep, get it. I turned around, get
• 54:08
  Speaker 1: a glass of water, turn back. They're watching YouTube and
• 54:10
  Speaker 1: there's these family vloggers that suck. I can't remember the
• 54:15
  Speaker 1: name of them, but I'm like, yeah, it's Blueing and
• 54:17
  Speaker 1: they're like, I don't know how it happened.
• 54:19
  Speaker 3: I know it's like my kid's argument was, but Bluey's
• 54:22
  Speaker 3: on YouTube as well.
• 54:24
  Speaker 2: Shut up.
• 54:25
  Speaker 1: Next one, Okay, this one is from Claire. Okay, I'm
• 54:29
  Speaker 1: just not sure if I understand it.
• 54:31
  Speaker 2: I do, So you give it to me.
• 54:33
  Speaker 1: Okay, give it to you, and then you can explain
• 54:35
  Speaker 1: to me, because she says, here, the toy they show
• 54:38
  Speaker 1: me doesn't exist, it's just AI.
• 54:41
  Speaker 2: Yes.
• 54:41
  Speaker 3: So the thought here is that your kid is might
• 54:44
  Speaker 3: be potentially watching.
• 54:46
  Speaker 1: You, truly confusing for the kid.
• 54:47
  Speaker 3: Potentially yeah, potentially watching YouTube or see something on a
• 54:51
  Speaker 3: screen or whatever. And they're like, oh, I really want
• 54:53
  Speaker 3: this for my birthday, which is fine, but if it's
• 54:56
  Speaker 3: like a definite no, you can be like, oh, that'd
• 54:58
  Speaker 3: be awesome.
• 55:00
  Speaker 2: But unfortunately that doesn't exist.
• 55:01
  Speaker 3: Because AI has just created this to make it, make
• 55:04
  Speaker 3: it seem like you want it, so it doesn't exist.
• 55:07
  Speaker 2: I saw it. I we're not judging you. I think
• 55:10
  Speaker 2: it's no.
• 55:11
  Speaker 1: I am no. Never, it's clever, Don Claire.
• 55:14
  Speaker 2: This is from Brody.
• 55:15
  Speaker 3: I told my son his hair would turn into clay
• 55:17
  Speaker 3: if he didn't have a shower.
• 55:19
  Speaker 2: That's actually kind of true.
• 55:21
  Speaker 1: I do like a bit of creativity with lies. This
• 55:24
  Speaker 1: one is like, there's not really like much meaning towards it,
• 55:27
  Speaker 1: but yeah, your hair turns to clay? Where does that
• 55:29
  Speaker 1: come from?
• 55:30
  Speaker 4: Then?
• 55:30
  Speaker 2: What's the repercussions of that?
• 55:33
  Speaker 1: Surely he's like, yeah, what, why have I never seen
• 55:35
  Speaker 1: a child with clay?
• 55:36
  Speaker 2: He might have a rational fear of clay, which clever.
• 55:39
  Speaker 1: That is clever, Ebony. We've been on the road for
• 55:42
  Speaker 1: a couple of months and only have one fun kids
• 55:44
  Speaker 1: spoon in the caravan and they were.
• 55:48
  Speaker 4: One.
• 55:49
  Speaker 1: We've got kids too, We've got two and we need
• 55:51
  Speaker 1: to buy more, but we just keep forgetting because the
• 55:53
  Speaker 1: kids always fired over it. And you're like, if we
• 55:55
  Speaker 1: just had more spoons. Anyway, she says, they will constantly
• 55:58
  Speaker 1: fight over it. My husband and told them that the
• 56:01
  Speaker 1: plain ones are actually Elsa's spoons because her magic made
• 56:05
  Speaker 1: them silver. Now they ask for Elsa's spoons every morning
• 56:08
  Speaker 1: with breakfast.
• 56:09
  Speaker 2: Now that's clever. See that is I love a clever lie.
• 56:12
  Speaker 1: All lies are great, but that's like, that's the creativity
• 56:15
  Speaker 1: is what I love there.
• 56:16
  Speaker 2: Yeah, because it's got the lie and the purpose and it.
• 56:19
  Speaker 1: Makes sense because you know, like the silver Elsa.
• 56:22
  Speaker 2: That's top tier parenting.
• 56:24
  Speaker 1: Too good of a lie.
• 56:25
  Speaker 2: Careful your husband, don't let him go. This is from Leilani.
• 56:33
  Speaker 1: Well read you.
• 56:35
  Speaker 2: I be practicing.
• 56:36
  Speaker 3: Couldn't get my son to eat any fruits. So using
• 56:39
  Speaker 3: a bit of creativity one day, I asked if he
• 56:41
  Speaker 3: would like a muscle drink.
• 56:44
  Speaker 2: He's obsessed with his muscles. Sounds like Oscar Oscar.
• 56:49
  Speaker 3: And April he now drinks and fruits smoothie every day.
• 56:52
  Speaker 1: Even my girls love it. When I know, I'm like, wow,
• 56:59
  Speaker 1: those biceps huge. And April's.
• 57:02
  Speaker 3: Was like it's like a Batsyne maybe does the thing
• 57:05
  Speaker 3: where she goes she just squeezes her hands really to like.
• 57:11
  Speaker 2: Sheran, well done.
• 57:14
  Speaker 1: They're huge. But Linda, the last lie that we have
• 57:17
  Speaker 1: for this segment. My lie relates to a conversation you
• 57:20
  Speaker 1: had a couple of weeks ago. I have no idea why,
• 57:23
  Speaker 1: but I was always horrified that my kids would eat
• 57:26
  Speaker 1: their boogies. Boogies, boogets, that's Blendat's boogets, that's okay, especially
• 57:31
  Speaker 1: in public. I told them that boogies were actually nose pooh,
• 57:36
  Speaker 1: all the ways the noses didn't need, just like pooh
• 57:38
  Speaker 1: from your bum. It's all the food your bum doesn't need.
• 57:41
  Speaker 1: So I asked them, would you eat the pooh from
• 57:44
  Speaker 1: your bum? Kids will be like, yeah, what times like,
• 57:47
  Speaker 1: because your boogies are just knows pooh.
• 57:50
  Speaker 2: She just knows. It's kind of true.
• 57:52
  Speaker 1: It is true, It is true. Someone sent in a
• 57:56
  Speaker 1: video of I think it was an athlete, a soccer player.
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  Speaker 1: I think he was.
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  Speaker 2: His nose and he's just like performance enhancing.
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  Speaker 1: He's eating it and he's like a thirty.
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  Speaker 2: Five year old man performance enhancing.
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  Speaker 1: Then yeah, he knows pooh, you know, and.
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  Speaker 2: They like some some athletes draw their own blood and
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  Speaker 2: put it back in.
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  Speaker 3: He's just like this guns straight back in for performance
• 58:15
  Speaker 3: for performance.
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  Speaker 2: And again please we want to try and maybe have.
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  Speaker 3: Some more live segments because they're great and we want
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  Speaker 3: to thank Veggimit. Of course, Veggimike Kids has the same
• 58:24
  Speaker 3: amount of vitamin B one, two, three, and nine as
• 58:27
  Speaker 3: original Veggimite, which are important for brain and nervous system function,
• 58:32
  Speaker 3: energy release and reduce fatigue.
• 58:34
  Speaker 1: I love that because there's nothing easier than your kids
• 58:37
  Speaker 1: having something that's healthy without you having to.
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  Speaker 2: Lie about it. Love that.
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  Speaker 1: Well done, Vegiemke hiding all those would it be one
• 58:43
  Speaker 1: and B two? Oh yeah, the bananas and pajamas, they're
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  Speaker 1: heighten all the bees.
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