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- 0:47Welcome back to the Customer Service Revolution podcast, where we talk about what it really takes to make customer experience your strongest competitive advantage.
- 0:56Today's episode is about a gap that should get every leader's attention.
- 1:00A 2026 customer experience report from Medallia found that 66 % of CX practitioners believe customer experience improved last year, but only 17 % of consumers agree.
- 1:12That's not a small gap.
- 1:14That's a reality check.
- 1:15So today I'm asking John DiJulius why do companies so often believe they're delivering a better experience than customers say they are?
- 1:24Are leaders measuring the wrong things?
- 1:26Are dashboards giving false confidence?
- 1:28And how can organizations get closer to the truth before customers quietly leave?
- 1:33John, this one feels important because it's not about companies that don't care.
- 1:37In many cases, they do care.
- 1:39They're investing.
- 1:40in customer experience.
- 1:41They're collecting feedback, they're tracking scores, but somehow the customer still is not feeling the improvement.
- 1:48When you hear that 66 % of CX professionals believe experience is improving, but only 17 % of customers agree, what does that tell you?
- 1:58Well, there definitely is a gap.
- 2:00There's a lot of things that could be at play here.
- 2:03If we want to give them the benefit of doubt, there, I think we've talked about this in the past, there is a delay between when you do something and when the customer really
- 2:13feels it, right?
- 2:14It takes a while and to cycle through all your customers, depending on your business.
- 2:19But...
- 2:20You know, the other things is, you know, people are, a lot of leaders are implementing AI, which is great, but that could be frustrating the customer.
- 2:31I was reading something yesterday that,
- 2:33I forget the percentage, but percentage of frontline employees, and I think they call them Gen Zs, and I don't know if they call them millennials, but they said have sabotaged AI
- 2:44efforts because they're scared it's going to take their job.
- 2:48You have that, but I think it's just, know, the frontline, you know, doesn't relate to the customer.
- 2:57Usually the customer-facing employee is not the customer.
- 3:01demographically, quality of life, know, all those things.
- 3:05So it doesn't mean we change who we hire, but we got to help them understand what the customer is going through, why they're using your company, what frustration points they
- 3:14have.
- 3:14Because if you've never been a customer yourself, you won't know what it's like.
- 3:18you've never stayed at a Ritz-Carlton, you don't know why you're staying at a Ritz-Carlton, opposed to a Marriott or a Hilton or anywhere else.
- 3:26But then...
- 3:27You know, from a leadership team, when you're buried in a P &L, like you often are, and you have to be, everything looks like an expense.
- 3:36And, you know, you could really start cutting corners and not realizing what has the greatest ROI.
- 3:42So.
- 3:43You mentioned at the top of that there being a lag sometimes when you implement something.
- 3:49How much do you think matters to people have an initiative that they put in place, but maybe they didn't execute it properly?
- 3:57Yeah, I think that's most of the time.
- 3:58mean, it's flavor of the month, program of the year, management by best seller, chasing shiny objects, really seeing it through.
- 4:07you know, do they have a CX leader, a champion?
- 4:11Do they have a steering committee that represents each department, a task force?
- 4:18So they're finding out, you know, what...
- 4:20is working, what is not working, what is implemented.
- 4:24We've gone over the five or six things it takes to successfully launch something.
- 4:30The first three are the easiest.
- 4:31Creating the idea and then launching it is the easiest.
- 4:37what follows after that.
- 4:39Measuring, are you actually doing it?
- 4:41Are the customers seeing a feedback?
- 4:43Training and coaching.
- 4:45accountability, all that's the hard part.
- 4:47That's the hard part to actually see if they're doing it and not move on to the next thing.
- 4:52You also mentioned that the front line is often disconnected from the customer because they haven't been the customer.
- 4:58Why do leaders become disconnected from what the customers are actually experiencing?
- 5:04Well, you know, there's a tipping point in a company that...
- 5:09First, the leader's doing too many things and wearing every hat, the entrepreneur.
- 5:13Hats they shouldn't be wearing, but it's just the nature of a startup.
- 5:17And then eventually as they grow and they get resources, they can hire a CFO, they can hire a chief marketing officer, they can hire different things.
- 5:27It doesn't necessarily mean things are taken off their plate.
- 5:31just, know, bigger.
- 5:32bigger problems, they got to answer to a board, they got to answer to shareholders, they got to answer to a bunch of different things.
- 5:39But again, when you become so PNL obsessed, everything starts looking like an expense and you start going for short term gains to help prop up the PNL and...
- 5:54and all that, or you acquire a competitor, or you run discounts, or you lay off people, and none of those, all those things may help in the short term, but in six months you're
- 6:05usually worse off than, and that's a problem, that customer experience is not a short term ROI.
- 6:12If you train your employees today or you don't, you hire good employees,
- 6:17based on their service aptitude or you don't, none of that's gonna change this week's, maybe even this month's sales.
- 6:25But if you do all the other things I said, buy a competitor, slash prices, layoff, those will have a meaningful impact today.
- 6:36But in six months, if you do the right things, now it starts becoming a freight train and you got,
- 6:42you know, engaged workforce that are doing, you know, the right things versus, you know, having, you know, more problems when you do the artificial actions.
- 6:54You know, we talk often about silos and, you know, things getting missed between departments.
- 7:00And departments can protect their own numbers too, right?
- 7:04So I think there's customer experiences, gaps between departments.
- 7:09Is that something that you encounter?
- 7:12Yeah, and I don't think any of this is the employees' fault.
- 7:15I think this is all leadership and the silos happen.
- 7:19Again, as we were talking about, if an employee, let's take The DiJulius Group for example.
- 7:25The DiJulius Group, most of our consultants have never worked in corporate America.
- 7:30They certainly haven't owned their own business.
- 7:33But that's who their customer is.
- 7:35executives of corporate America or entrepreneurs.
- 7:38And again, we have great consultants, but we have to teach them what it's like to be, what's on their plate, what they're looking for their client.
- 7:46Now you go to different departments, back in the house, front of the house, support, all the many different things.
- 7:54If they've only worked in that department, have never worked in a customer facing position, sales, operations, know, all those things, they have no idea what it's like to
- 8:04be them.
- 8:05So goes back to the day in the life of a coworker and they have to spend some time in those departments to realize, my gosh, I didn't realize when I don't get back to you right
- 8:17away or don't get back to you with the exact information you need.
- 8:22that can blow up on you and you can lose the deal.
- 8:25That's why a client doesn't resign and vice versa.
- 8:29The customer facing employees have to understand what the back of the house is dealing with and that they're not just sitting around hoping that they get a request from someone.
- 8:39They're getting a request from everyone and they have to be realistic and appreciative of the work they're doing, but they have to understand it.
- 8:46both sides.
- 8:48We did a podcast last week on incentives and you know, are you measuring the right things for your customer experience?
- 8:56Are you incentivizing the right things?
- 8:57There are a lot of leaders out there that I'm sure are disregarding some of this right now thinking our scores are good.
- 9:04You know, we are they measuring the right thing though?
- 9:07What are some signs that a company could be living in a customer experience delusion?
- 9:14Yeah, that you're still doing customer surveys and tracking NPS.
- 9:20I I think that's so archaic.
- 9:21You know, we all have survey fatigue, literally.
- 9:24As I was waiting for you to get on, you know, to join me on the podcast, I was cleaning up my inbox and Dix had a survey and Delta had a survey and Hilton had a survey.
- 9:35It's like, my God, like, you know.
- 9:38you have to be really mad or really bored to fill out surveys.
- 9:43And so they're just not indicative.
- 9:45Back in the day when they were fresh and not everyone was doing them, a really good survey response rate was in the 30s.
- 9:52And that's a third of your customers, right?
- 9:54That's fair.
- 9:55Now it could be single digits.
- 9:58That's not a fair assessment of what your customer's really feeling like.
- 10:02So, you know, looking at the wrong metrics is everything.
- 10:06mean, you it'd be like, you you drive in your car and you're, I don't know, looking at your radio station, you know, and not paying attention to the critical dashboard of how
- 10:17fast you're going, how much gas you have, how much oil you have.
- 10:20They're just not looking at the right metrics or the ones that are.
- 10:26Well, and I wonder too in the world of AI, how many are actually themselves listening to complaints, following things that closely?
- 10:35I mean, lot of frontline employees might know the problem here, but how many leaders are that close to it?
- 10:41Well, one of the best things AI has provided is customer sentiment.
- 10:45So you almost can bypass surveys today.
- 10:49And, you know, AI can give you a report on what was the most common issues people brought up on the phones or in emails or chat that is more accurate than any survey will ever give
- 11:01you.
- 11:02you know, customer sentiment is so important.
- 11:05Plus,
- 11:06Are you talking to your employees?
- 11:08Let them help, let them be, wanna give.
- 11:11Cause it's like, I was talking to someone yesterday, but I could call and say, listen, I tried to do this online, but the link isn't working, blah, blah, blah.
- 11:20And you're like, okay, and you can help me.
- 11:22But does anyone ever go and fix that link?
- 11:25It's really not your job as a customer service rep.
- 11:28So you're just, you're doing your job and you're getting my answer and I need to know how to change my password or whatever it is, transfer funds.
- 11:37But that didn't necessarily fix the service defect that is gonna cause 100 other customers to call in.
- 11:45And John when it comes to feedback, what's the difference between collecting customer feedback and having real customer intelligence?
- 11:53Well, the way we define customer intelligence is who are you?
- 11:58know, demographics, you know, what have you purchased in the last, you know, several months with us?
- 12:05Ford, family, occupation, recreation and dreams.
- 12:08That's, you know, how often you use this, kind of an avatar of what type of customer you are.
- 12:15Are you a regular?
- 12:16Are you a VIP?
- 12:17Are you a new customer?
- 12:19Are you someone who can't...
- 12:22who doesn't use us normally, it's a once in a while experience.
- 12:27That's all customer intelligence where customer feedback is completely different.
- 12:32Now based on that you're a platinum customer, you have different wants and needs and pain points.
- 12:41than you do with a customer that's just trying us once a year or the first time.
- 12:45So we need to, you know, that's why it's really important to have the different customer avatars and you name them and you train your employees on what, not all customers are
- 12:55equal.
- 12:56Not all customers' are the same.
- 12:58Now all customers' expectations are the same.
- 13:02So, you know, you need to understand the different nuances of your different customer avatars.
- 13:07And then,
- 13:08Feedback is a completely different thing.
- 13:10It's how they're feeling about the experience you're driving.
- 13:14And so much of it has to do with ease of doing business.
- 13:18it's just, you're making this so complicated.
- 13:20It's so frustrating.
- 13:22I have a third party, what do call them?
- 13:24Pharmacy?
- 13:25It's not called third party.
- 13:26Is it called third party?
- 13:27where you order it and it comes to you.
- 13:29I'm forgetting.
- 13:30And I hate doing business with them.
- 13:32Because I have to call, I give them my information.
- 13:35They ask me if there's anything.
- 13:37I say, everything's the same.
- 13:38The address, the credit card.
- 13:40I don't need any additional supplies with it.
- 13:43Do you guys have to call me in two days to confirm this?
- 13:45No, I'll write it down and then.
- 13:47two days they call me and it's the same thing.
- 13:51And I just never get it within a week.
- 13:53There's always something wrong.
- 13:55And I just, I'm trying to get my doctor to use a different pharmacy.
- 13:59It's just, so difficult to do business with.
- 14:01And I know I have to order it two weeks in advance before I'm out versus two days, which we normally, I think we're default to do that.
- 14:11So ease of doing business, they just make it so complicated.
- 14:14Speaking about feedback, feedback is something that a lot of companies want, but often fail to act on it.
- 14:21Why is that?
- 14:22It's hard, is it accurate?
- 14:23Is it a one-off?
- 14:27And then you gotta take it to the front line.
- 14:29And feedback from the front line, I've said this earlier, is so important, making them feel like you truly want to hear their feedback.
- 14:39And then when they see action taken on, then they get really psyched because they know that that's their fingerprint.
- 14:45So, I don't know, I just think feedback is just a lost art today.
- 14:51I don't trust it.
- 14:52It's just a small percentage.
- 14:53It's so inaccurate.
- 14:55Listen, if you're getting feedback, you're probably getting negative feedback.
- 14:57So it might be good.
- 14:58You're only hearing from the negative, but it's making sure that you have that team.
- 15:06in place and create a system to reduce that from happening again and then follow up and making sure it happens.
- 15:11But there's a lot of parts to that that you gotta make sure are, you know, it can't just start at the top.
- 15:18And the why, the why is so important.
- 15:21I really like what you said about how psyched they get when you do something about that.
- 15:25I think it's so true because an employee can have great feedback to give the employer, but if it's not acted upon, you stop giving it.
- 15:33It's like, why should I bother telling you you're not going to do anything about it anyway?
- 15:37Yeah, we always say when you're doing employee engagement surveys, know, that's the second, the second worst thing you could do is, is not do them.
- 15:45The worst thing you do is do them and not do anything about it.
- 15:48Right.
- 15:48And it could be something as simple as the vending machine in the cafeteria doesn't work or the hot water in the woman's restroom, you know, doesn't work.
- 15:57And you said that the last quarter and
- 16:00we never fixed it, and now why are you even gonna fill it out?
- 16:04But now you take it to the experience, and hey listen, we're getting a lot of complaints on X, and we don't do anything about it, you still keep on getting a lot of complaints on
- 16:15X.
- 16:15That's not a fun part of your job.
- 16:17Versus X is fixed.
- 16:19And then that's why also, above and beyond, creating above and beyond culture is so cool, because...
- 16:24Again, you could come up with a great above and beyond, or you can execute a great above and beyond if we're celebrating it, and everyone's talking about it, and that was you.
- 16:34Now you're looking for the next moment to do an above and beyond versus no one recognized you, no one said anything.
- 16:40Maybe someone questioned why you would do that, because that was against policy or it was expensive or whatever it may be, which could happen.
- 16:51So you brought up being hard to do business with, but not wanting to fill out a survey.
- 16:56Instead you're going to talk to your doctor, can you use a different pharmacy?
- 17:01But obviously they need help.
- 17:02What is it that leaders can do, say leaders in that pharmaceutical situation can do to stay close to the customer that might not involve asking you to fill out a survey?
- 17:14Yeah, again, it goes back to, I think, the AI sentiment.
- 17:18I think that can give you a great report, customer sentiment, on the top things customers are bringing up, good and bad.
- 17:26That's real.
- 17:27That's 100 % of your customers.
- 17:29That's not the few that are bored or mad that are only feeling...
- 17:35AI sentiment, if you have it, it's listening.
- 17:39can give it to you.
- 17:40And then asking, I think doing focus groups with your contact center is so important because they're hearing it all.
- 17:48But again, they're so operationally focused, which is a bad thing.
- 17:52And that's not their fault.
- 17:53That comes from leadership that they're ducking and bobbing and weaving from customers, giving them frustration about.
- 18:00I tried to do this online and it wouldn't work or this is the third time, and they're just trying to put out the fire and they're not necessarily writing down or documenting
- 18:11anything of those things.
- 18:13So again, when you have meetings with customer-facing employees on what they're hearing, what is the frustration?
- 18:20It might be that, and maybe they don't know this, it might be that, you know,
- 18:25Customers are constantly asking for this and we don't have it.
- 18:28You wouldn't know that, right?
- 18:31Unless you're speaking directly to your customer service reps, your contact center or customer sentiment.
- 18:41Yeah, I think if we're not exposed to the customer's pain, we often underestimate what it is, what they're going through.
- 18:48I have a friend who works for a company that started doing the GLP-1 mail order, microdosing type of thing.
- 18:57And as a product manager,
- 18:59product manager within the organization, they mailed it to themselves and a couple other people on the executive team to experience, all right, this is what it's be like when it
- 19:10comes in the mail, this is what, you So, because when they tested in-house, this is great, this is great, and, you know, we're ready to go.
- 19:17But then after they did that, you know, between them, they found 15 different things that they wanted to change before it went out.
- 19:23Yeah, I love that.
- 19:24I love that you're making me think we should do that to ourselves with our orders.
- 19:28Who knows what it looks like when it gets there and the packaging and all that, the presentation of it versus, you don't know what you don't know.
- 19:41Exactly.
- 19:42Yeah, yeah.
- 19:42mean, even something as simple as shipping a book, if it's not packaged properly, people don't want, you know, dented books.
- 19:50Yeah.
- 19:50I mean, you know, there's times where I try to avoid it and it's so bad, right?
- 19:56It's like, I don't want to call my call center.
- 19:58I don't think I want to call any call center, but yeah, there might be some subconscious thing I'm afraid to.
- 20:04Be your own customer.
- 20:07All right, how can a company tell when they've started implementing some kind of customer experience strategy that it is actually working?
- 20:17Well, again, you know, it's about building a pond.
- 20:21One thing isn't going to fix it.
- 20:23But yeah, I mean, you your KPIs, your return on experience dashboard that you're getting, you know, more clients more often spending more, referring more.
- 20:34And, you know, all those key indicators are going up and tracking it and that there's a pulse in your
- 20:42workforce.
- 20:42When you deal with any excellent customer experience company, there's an energy, there's a vibe.
- 20:50It starts with the employees, it starts internally, right?
- 20:53And they have to experience it.
- 20:55They have to, know, EX equals CX.
- 20:58What the employees experience, the customer will experience.
- 21:00The leaders are doing it internally.
- 21:02The leaders are high-fiving.
- 21:04their employees for the smallest of things that you're moving the needle.
- 21:10So it's starting with a steering committee, a task force that represents not just customer facing position, but like we said, the support positions, all the different positions that
- 21:23is the voice of that department and...
- 21:26is the ambassador of that department that's bringing it back, telling them why this is gonna make their job easier, why it's in the best interest of the customer, which is in
- 21:36the best interest of the company.
- 21:39So yeah, these little things.
- 21:41It's not gonna be, initially at least, it's not gonna be overnight unbelievable.
- 21:46It's a crawl, walk and run.
- 21:48But once you get that...
- 21:50that train moving, it starts moving and there's nothing better than that.
- 21:54All right, revolutionaries, if this conversation is making you wonder whether your organization is seeing the same experience your customers are feeling, the DiJulius Group
- 22:03can help.
- 22:04Our consulting team helps companies uncover the real customer experience, identify friction points that are costing loyalty, and build systems, standards, and training
- 22:14needed to create consistency at scale.
- 22:17visit thedjuliusgroup.com to learn about our consulting services, keynote programs, and the Customer Experience Executive Academy.
- 22:25Or if you're ready to schedule a strategy call, we do them for free, just go to tdg.clickforwardslashcall to set that up.
- 22:35All right, back to the questions here.
- 22:37John, what's the danger of leaders only relying on survey scores?
- 22:43it's not a true depiction of your client base.
- 22:48If you're in double digits, unfortunately, that's a good response rate, but it's not accurate enough.
- 22:54The low double digits, yeah.
- 22:57And it also is based on what questions are you asking.
- 22:59You know, I might be just giving you a score of one to five or one to 10, and I give you a six, a seven, a three, depending on the type.
- 23:08But am I filling anything out?
- 23:10Am I saying why?
- 23:12You how easy are we to do business with a two?
- 23:14But maybe I'm not taking the time or you're not asking me to specify what that's, I have no idea what that two is representing in our.
- 23:24in our journey of the customer interaction.
- 23:27Yeah, and not every unhappy customer complains.
- 23:30know a lot of them just disappear.
- 23:32What should companies do this quarter to close the gap between perception and reality?
- 23:37If you could pick one thing.
- 23:39All right, pick more than one.
- 23:40Go ahead.
- 23:41roll up their sleeves, get into it, speak to the customers themselves, reach out to your VIPs, ask them what's the best thing they've experienced and what's the biggest area of
- 23:53opportunity could make them become the brand customers can't live without.
- 23:58The Ritz-Carlton asks, I think a cool question on their surveys.
- 24:03They ask, or they used to, I don't know if they still do.
- 24:06Can you imagine a world without the Ritz-Carlton?
- 24:09That's kind of a, you know, to me a ballsy question, you know, and maybe your baseline is only going to be single digits that people would actually say, no, I can't imagine a world
- 24:19without the Ritz-Carlton.
- 24:20But if you can get that, you know, single digits up to 10, you know, 15, you know, you're moving, know, all you need is a baseline.
- 24:27But, create a task force, create, have a champion, it can't be the entrepreneur's CEO, create a champion of customer experience, and then a task force that they work with from
- 24:39each team, each department.
- 24:41And then follow a methodology.
- 24:44follow through.
- 24:45Follow through.
- 24:47John, this is a great reminder that customer experience can't be judged from the conference room alone.
- 24:52If customers are not feeling the improvement, then the work isn't finished.
- 24:57For every leader listening, the challenge is simple.
- 24:59Don't just ask, are we working on customer experience?
- 25:03ask would our customers say it is actually better.
- 25:06That's where the real work begins.
- 25:08Thanks for listening to the customer service revolution.
- 25:11If this episode made you rethink how close your company really is to the customer, share it with a leader on your team.
- 25:17We'll see you next time.
- 25:18Thanks, John.
- 25:19Thank you.