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90 Day Fiancé Season 12 Episode 6 “When Two Worlds Collide” Part 1 · Vanity Farah with Chris Farah

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Speaker 1: Hi, my babes, Welcome back to Vanity. Farah. My name
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Speaker 1: is Chris Farah, and I am overjoyed, I mean, on
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Speaker 1: bated breath to talk to you today about this episode
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Speaker 1: of ninety Day Fiance season twelve. It's episode six, when
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Speaker 1: two worlds collide, which reminds me of Adele's hometown Glory.
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Speaker 1: I like it in the city where two collide, you
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Speaker 1: get the people in the government, everybody taking different sides.
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Speaker 1: I sound just like her, I know that, minus the accent.
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Speaker 1: And I mean, let's be honest, I can't sing like her,
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Speaker 1: but I do love that song. Oh God bless Okay,
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Speaker 1: So let's start my babes with Katie and josh Honey.
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Speaker 1: Katie and Joshua, we know them now. They have moved
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Speaker 1: into their new place and they've slept on her disgusting
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Speaker 1: twin size mattress. And in the morning, you know they
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Speaker 1: barely slept. She's already gone from the apartment. Josh is
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Speaker 1: making breakfast for himself and he's like, yeah, Katie got up, honey,
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Speaker 1: and she ordered a pizza for breakfast. That's why I
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Speaker 1: think it's interesting. So she orders a pizza for breakfast
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Speaker 1: for her and He's like, I can't do that, honey.
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Speaker 1: I'm a proper British gentleman. We have a proper breakfast
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Speaker 1: of eggs and beans on toes whatever they make. So
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Speaker 1: he does make eggs, and he considers eggs breakfast food,
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Speaker 1: which is true and a high protein. He's like, yeah,
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Speaker 1: I mean, I couldn't sleep on that disgusting twin mattress.
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Speaker 1: He's just is complaining about the size. I'm like, did
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Speaker 1: you see it? Does it smell? He's also like, and
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Speaker 1: the garage beeps. I don't know what I would do
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Speaker 1: if I had to, if I moved into a place
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Speaker 1: and realized that there's a loud noise every time the
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Speaker 1: garage opens. Also, can you just like tell management. I
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Speaker 1: don't understand why there has to be a garage noise?
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Speaker 1: What's the thinking that, Like, there's so much many pedestrians
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Speaker 1: walking back and forth in front of the garage. They
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Speaker 1: want that beep to happen so people know cars are
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Speaker 1: coming out. Because for me, you can take out the
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Speaker 1: beep and just put two of those big ass mirrors
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Speaker 1: on each side so the person coming out won't hit
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Speaker 1: a person. I mean, they have to know that that
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Speaker 1: sound is like annoying as hell. I had to complain
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Speaker 1: I wouldn't pay rent. So anyways, he's like, Americans love cars,
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Speaker 1: which I know is true because America is huge, and
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Speaker 1: we don't have a lot of like proper public transportation
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Speaker 1: systems unless you're in like San Francisco, New York. Chicago
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Speaker 1: is so spread out, you know. La is like, you know,
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Speaker 1: we have a metro now called the D, So everyone's
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Speaker 1: like riding the D and it's hilarious. But you know, truly,
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Speaker 1: La is so spread out that it's not I mean,
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Speaker 1: if you can afford a car, it's it definitely makes
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Speaker 1: more sense in how much you have to drive. Okay,
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Speaker 1: So he makes his eggs honey, and he says that
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Speaker 1: she told him that she doesn't care how chickens are
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Speaker 1: raised because she doesn't believe like words like organic or
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Speaker 1: cage free. She thinks they're scams. And she told him
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Speaker 1: he better buy some cheap ass eggs, hopefully they're old.
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Speaker 1: Buy old cheap eggs, bargain basement eggs, because that's what
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Speaker 1: I would do, and that's what you have to do.
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Speaker 1: And I am bougie. Oops, I'm bougie as fuck when
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Speaker 1: it comes to food, like I just am. I wish
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Speaker 1: I wasn't because it'd be cheaper, for sure, But I
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Speaker 1: just am like I of an heirloom egg, Like I
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Speaker 1: love an egg that's like blue, you know, on the outside,
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Speaker 1: and then you you know, when you crack it, it's
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Speaker 1: like the most gold in his golden yolks. I was
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Speaker 1: like a vegetarian f for so long, and I, you know,
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Speaker 1: God Bless work today vegan restaurant. And there's like a
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Speaker 1: compassionate part of me that like understands that I'm sad
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Speaker 1: that I'm eating like, you know, lives. I still eat
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Speaker 1: all the lives, you know what I'm saying. Like my
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Speaker 1: own trajectory of this was, you know, I had weight
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Speaker 1: loss surgery in twenty seventeen, and when that happened, my doctor,
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Speaker 1: I was a vegetarian before the weight loss surgery. My
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Speaker 1: doctor pretty much was like, yeah, you know, you have
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Speaker 1: to eat meat because you will have a very small stomach.
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Speaker 1: I mean, who knows, I think it's a normal size now,
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Speaker 1: God Bless, but like you have, you can't eat too
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Speaker 1: much at one time, and so you have to make
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Speaker 1: sure that whatever you're eating has like enough protein nutrients.
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Speaker 1: This is what my doctor told me, so don't come
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Speaker 1: from me. Okay. So I was like, well, okay, I
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Speaker 1: guess no more, you know, vegan mac and cheese, you
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Speaker 1: know whatever. It was. So having said that, I try
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Speaker 1: my best to eat like mindfully and thoughtfully when it
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Speaker 1: comes to meats and things, especially when I bring into
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Speaker 1: my house. So I try and have like grass fed beef.
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Speaker 1: I mean, you know, they're still slaughtering them, and I'm
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Speaker 1: still eating eggs that were like taken away from its
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Speaker 1: mother's So I mean, you know, I'm not doing you know,
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Speaker 1: I quote unquote Lord's work. I'm just I guess making
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Speaker 1: myself feel better. But I will say that a fresh
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Speaker 1: heirloom egg definitely tastes yummy. I've already talked about how
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Speaker 1: I can't do like hard boiled eggs and plastic packaging,
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Speaker 1: like I just I get the ick real easily. So
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Speaker 1: especially eggs can give you the eckugh. Okay. So anyway,
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Speaker 1: so she comes home and she's like, yeah, you know,
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Speaker 1: don't spend more than one cent on an egg. And
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Speaker 1: their goal is to get some furniture in this place.
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Speaker 1: And she is like, well, just do a list of
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Speaker 1: the essentials. What if you have and He's like, I did.
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Speaker 1: She's like, what's in the list. He's like, well, an iron,
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Speaker 1: ironing board and iron She's like why, He's like, because
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Speaker 1: I like to make sure I don't have wrinkles in
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Speaker 1: my clothes. She's like, and then he's like a dining
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Speaker 1: room table and dining room set. She's like, we don't
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Speaker 1: even need that, and I'm like, who are you Thomas Jesus,
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Speaker 1: I miss Thomas Lee's has a table and then he
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Speaker 1: has to yoga blocks. I mean, Katie, want't you like
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Speaker 1: be with Thomas? Then you know Paula. So basically she
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Speaker 1: seems real weird. But we're going to go furniture shopping.
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Speaker 1: While there, She's like, yeah, I also just have some
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Speaker 1: a friend of mine that said she would just give
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Speaker 1: us a bunch of like free shit, So I don't
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Speaker 1: even want to buy anything until we see what she
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Speaker 1: gives us for free. And I'm like, well then this
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Speaker 1: first of all, this is like, then don't take him today,
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Speaker 1: Like you should have told the producers you'll do something
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Speaker 1: else today, or you should call your friend right now
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Speaker 1: and have her text you pictures of the furniture that
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Speaker 1: that person says she's going to give to you so
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Speaker 1: that you know what's coming your way. That's what a
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Speaker 1: normal person would do. She's not normal. But this is
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Speaker 1: a tale is old as time because ninety A fiance
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Speaker 1: loves to bring couples furniture shopping where one person is
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Speaker 1: cheap af and doesn't want to buy furniture, and the
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Speaker 1: other person's like, why am I here then, and yes,
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Speaker 1: we need furniture. We need furniture, so we can't, you know,
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Speaker 1: we need to outfit this apartment. Josh. This annoys me
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Speaker 1: a little bit because now, Josh, I feel like it's like, well,
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Speaker 1: British people are civilized, and you know Katie is like feral,
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Speaker 1: and she is, but Katie isn't. All of us. All
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Speaker 1: of us are like, what is your money situation? And
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Speaker 1: so he says it. He says that she has pretty
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Speaker 1: substantial savings, but that he made money, you know, for
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Speaker 1: this rich family doing financial stuff, so he has money
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Speaker 1: or whatever. And he's like, yeah, I put a budget
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Speaker 1: together and I put aside three thousand English pounds just
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Speaker 1: for moving expenses. And I'm assuming that he's not given
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Speaker 1: any of that. But I also wondered, like, you can't
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Speaker 1: tell me what eggs to buy? If I have money,
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Speaker 1: I'm buying whatever the fuck eggs I want. Like, you
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Speaker 1: can't be like, buy cheap eggs, and I'd be like,
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Speaker 1: you can eat cheap eggs. Don't touch my carton of
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Speaker 1: fucking heirloom organic eggs. Then like that these are my eggs.
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Speaker 1: Then fucking go to Trader Joe's and get some eggs. Okay.
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Speaker 1: So at this point, I'm also like if he wants
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Speaker 1: an ironing board and an iron, first of all, just
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Speaker 1: so everyone knows, like I've given up ironing, and I
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Speaker 1: think steaming is the way. Maybe I don't have to
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Speaker 1: like starch any white button down shirts in my life,
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Speaker 1: and maybe he does, But every time I've ever had
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Speaker 1: to iron, it's more hassle than it's anything. Like inevitably
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Speaker 1: trying to place a garment on that weird shaped ironing
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Speaker 1: board and then not just press more wrinkles into it
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Speaker 1: is impulsive, blas. But steaming is, I mean, steaming is everything.
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Speaker 1: I love steaming. So I almost wish she was like,
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Speaker 1: we can get a steamer, but she didn't say that. Also,
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Speaker 1: she is giving Marissa and how like deeply controlling she is,
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Speaker 1: and I want him to be like, hey, Katie, I'm
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Speaker 1: going to spend my money the way I want to
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Speaker 1: spend my money. Then, because if she's like she's not
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Speaker 1: counting his money, she seems to be counting her money,
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Speaker 1: and she is like really rude about it. She's like,
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Speaker 1: I don't trust you in your financial decisions. He's like,
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Speaker 1: what are you talking about. I don't want to have
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Speaker 1: to sit on a yoga mat and eat. I mean,
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Speaker 1: I don't know what Thomas and Katie have in common
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Speaker 1: that they're like, we don't need to eat on furniture.
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Speaker 1: We have yoga supplies. That's enough. And also I feel like, Katie,
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Speaker 1: do do you do yoga? Because it feels like you
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Speaker 1: don't in the sense of like there is no peace
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Speaker 1: to be had in your mind. You know, like I
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Speaker 1: don't know how like much you connect movement to breath,
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Speaker 1: but it seems like some more practice could be done. So, uh.
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Speaker 1: They get to this furniture shop which looks cute, and
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Speaker 1: then she's like, oh, this is cute. We can buy
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Speaker 1: a British mug. That's good enough, and that's like not
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Speaker 1: an essential, so like you are contradicting yourself. And then
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Speaker 1: he's like, well, how about this dining room set? It's
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Speaker 1: three hundred dollars, which I found to be a pretty
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Speaker 1: chill price. Pretty chill fucking price. You're gonna get two
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Speaker 1: chairs and a tables three hundred dollars And she's like, no,
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Speaker 1: he doesn't make poor decisions with money unless you can
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Speaker 1: back that up. Like from what we see, he makes
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Speaker 1: poor decisions on people to go home with at a
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Speaker 1: bar and also think is marriage material? Surely that. But
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Speaker 1: he starts to drop things like he paid for the
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Speaker 1: whole visa process and everything. He seems to have more
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Speaker 1: money than her, and he's finally standing up for himself.
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Speaker 1: He's like, I won't be shamed by you, not you
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Speaker 1: who's making out with every other Tom, Dick and Harry.
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Speaker 1: And I'm not, like, how can you say that? Like
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Speaker 1: you don't trust me, bitch? What what the fuck are
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Speaker 1: you talking about? Now? I'll tell you. Katie's wearing a
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Speaker 1: cute dress. It's like a red flower dress. She looks cute.
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Speaker 1: But yeah, Like she's like, I just think you're being demanding.
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Speaker 1: You know, you demand things to happen right away, and
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Speaker 1: I've been driving you this whole time. He's like, no,
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Speaker 1: I pay for things like the visa process and you
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Speaker 1: drag your feet, like to make you do anything is
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Speaker 1: really goddamn hard. And I think that, like the therein
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Speaker 1: lies a huge problem in their relationship, which is that
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Speaker 1: she doesn't have good executive functioning. And I say that
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Speaker 1: as someone who struggled with that, so I know it
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Speaker 1: when I see it. She has a hard time with
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Speaker 1: executive function which means the ability to follow through and
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Speaker 1: do things like on a timely basis. Things you have
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Speaker 1: to do, things that like you're not looking forward to,
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Speaker 1: things that give you anxiety. There are people like me,
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Speaker 1: like her that run from it, and believe me, I
12:52
Speaker 1: had to do a lot and I still, you know,
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Speaker 1: don't always do the greatest job of it, but I've
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Speaker 1: like really had to sit with and knowing how to
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Speaker 1: be better at this. So that's when he's like, you know,
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Speaker 1: I have enough money. I'm the one that paid for
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Speaker 1: me to come here. And she's like, well, it's also
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Speaker 1: because I told you I wasn't ready, and he was like, well,
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Speaker 1: you actually did say you were ready and that's why
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Speaker 1: I came, which I mean is the hugest red flag.
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Speaker 1: This is like, this is a shock. I mean, this
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Speaker 1: is like why do we talk so much? About her
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Speaker 1: making out with people. That's like a symptom to a
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Speaker 1: greater consequence. I feel like another version of this is
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Speaker 1: that she has anxiety about being with Josh and having
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Speaker 1: to like push through and do the right thing in
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Speaker 1: her mind, which is like treat him well and be
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Speaker 1: in a functional relationship and you know, day by day
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Speaker 1: live up to the promises she's made or the goals
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Speaker 1: they both have, and like do actions that like align
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Speaker 1: with that. And I think there's a part of her
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Speaker 1: brain that knows she's not up for the task. So
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Speaker 1: the like constant drinking and making out with people, I
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Speaker 1: think is a way for her to escape the responsibilities
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Speaker 1: that lie before her. He hears that, and he's like, well,
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Speaker 1: you know what, I think you have to have a
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Speaker 1: good long think if you want to be married, because
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Speaker 1: you aren't reliable and I want to be like true,
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Speaker 1: she does also, Josh. This is who she is. This
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Speaker 1: is who she is, for better or for worse. This
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Speaker 1: is the word. This is it. It's not even like
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Speaker 1: what you're seeing right now isn't going to change. I
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Speaker 1: think that she has, you know, some issues or whatever,
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Speaker 1: and she doesn't seem to want to get better at it.
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Speaker 1: Like he doesn't take accountability for the ways at which
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Speaker 1: she fails in executive functioning. She becomes very defensive about it,
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Speaker 1: and even hearing her say, well, I've been driving you
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Speaker 1: around this whole time, I don't understand why you would
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Speaker 1: even say that. Is that your way of being, Like
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Speaker 1: you have been doing things? And what have you been
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Speaker 1: doing driving both of you guys around and like to
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Speaker 1: what the weird welcome party you made for him? Where
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Speaker 1: he had to meet all the guys you like fucked
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Speaker 1: into this furniture shop like I want to be, you know,
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Speaker 1: looking back, she obviously had issues with having to find
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Speaker 1: this apartment, and I feel like there's another part of
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Speaker 1: her that sort of resented that all of this responsibility
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Speaker 1: was on her, because her previous choices in life were
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Speaker 1: to ascue any responsibilities and just become like a pet.
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Speaker 1: Set are in different places, So having to put down
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Speaker 1: room and pick up place. I think Josh Josh thought
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Speaker 1: that she would be doing that anyway, but she wouldn't, like,
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Speaker 1: she wouldn't want to be doing this. It's why she's
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Speaker 1: her stuff was in storage, and so she resents that
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Speaker 1: all of this fell on her. It also makes me
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Speaker 1: feel like Josh does not know who Katie is. Like
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Speaker 1: Katie has shown Josh who she is in multiple ways,
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Speaker 1: and Josh, I feel like, refuses to believe it because
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Speaker 1: at some point you might realize that this person flies
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Speaker 1: by the seat of her parts. Is sort of you know,
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Speaker 1: just what's the word impulsive? It's hard to make plans
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Speaker 1: for is and that kind of like, you know, isn't
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Speaker 1: a type a person that like does a bunch of
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Speaker 1: research and has a schedule and has an itinerary and
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Speaker 1: goes by things, has like a to do list where
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Speaker 1: she like checks them off every day. It's just not
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Speaker 1: her personality. I also wonder, like, and maybe he's like, well,
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Speaker 1: I was paying for everything, why Josh didn't open up
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Speaker 1: REGs list and send her some apartments that he also found.
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Speaker 1: She feels like she's already doing enough for that relationship
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Speaker 1: by like not making out what someone new every day
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Speaker 1: and being the driver. And I think that he also
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Speaker 1: has to have a good long think, you know, like
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Speaker 1: you are marrying someone who has been open and honest
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Speaker 1: about some of their you know, like OCD tendencies, and
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Speaker 1: I feel like there's other things, you know. I definitely
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Speaker 1: feel like she has ADHD, But all those things are
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Speaker 1: there's comorbides to those kinds of things. I think, you know,
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Speaker 1: so I don't know what her meant. I keep asking,
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Speaker 1: like what medication is she on? Is she on medication
17:52
Speaker 1: those do those dosages need to be like adjusted? Is
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Speaker 1: she in cahoots with a therapist team of a psychiatrist
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Speaker 1: and psychologist? Does she do like cognitive behavioral therapy? Does
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Speaker 1: she realize like she's old enough that there are certain
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Speaker 1: things she has to do, Like does this person pay
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Speaker 1: her taxes? Does this person pay util it? I mean,
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Speaker 1: we know she doesn't pay utility bills. She hasn't had
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Speaker 1: a place in a long time, but you had to
18:21
Speaker 1: pay taxes, right, I'm assuming let the answers know. I
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Speaker 1: also wondered, and you know, the streets of redded have
18:31
Speaker 1: had different theories of how she makes her money. Like
18:33
Speaker 1: to me, I could see her having like some income
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Speaker 1: from like a parental figure, because I think that someone's
18:43
Speaker 1: probably like bailed her out, not of jail, but maybe
18:47
Speaker 1: but like of other things, Like I assume that she
18:51
Speaker 1: pays a lot of late fees, Like does she have
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Speaker 1: a credit card? Does she pay her credit card every month? Yeah,
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Speaker 1: she she's also you know, she is rude to him.
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Speaker 1: She's like she's micromanaging him, kind of like Marissa and Edward,
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Speaker 1: where someone is just being like a hard ass about
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Speaker 1: everything the other one does or says, and isn't like
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Speaker 1: allowing space and room for the other person to like
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Speaker 1: do them or exist, especially when they themselves have been
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Speaker 1: given a lot of fucking leeway. Oh okay, let's move on,
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Speaker 1: shall we too? Malory and Rashid. So Rashid is, you know,
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Speaker 1: on the truck bed of Brandy. Yeah, Malory's like rash
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Speaker 1: And then that's all I can say. I don't know
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Speaker 1: how to say his real name. And you know, rash
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Speaker 1: is like Brandy, I don't know how to say Brandon
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Speaker 1: Brandi in that fucking trucker hat with you know, the
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Speaker 1: horrible hair coming out, and he says that Brandy looks
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Speaker 1: like a caveman. And then Brandy just drinks whatever brown
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Speaker 1: drink out of a Mason jar. I'm like, I don't
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Speaker 1: think the caveman had Mason jars, but maybe, and then
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Speaker 1: Rashiet like lays it out. He's like, I don't want
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Speaker 1: you to call or text Mallory delete her number, and
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Speaker 1: I like it that you call in text and then
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Speaker 1: you're suddenly at the house and Brandy hears all this
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Speaker 1: and he's swallowing the hatred that like, Rashida is sitting
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Speaker 1: on his truck bed and he's like, let me get
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Speaker 1: this straight. Rashid, you are mad because Malory and I
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Speaker 1: have a past and a life together where we've known
20:50
Speaker 1: each other for a long time and be friends. He's like,
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Speaker 1: I don't care about this. He's like, okay, okay, but
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Speaker 1: what you're saying now is that you don't want me
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Speaker 1: to call or text Mallory ever again. No, And then
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Speaker 1: Rashid's like, well, no, can you listen to me? And
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Speaker 1: I want to be like Rashid, he did, buddy, he did.
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Speaker 1: He actually listened to exactly what you said and then
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Speaker 1: repeated it back to you. And then you were like
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Speaker 1: mm hmm, that's it, And then he answered no, it
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Speaker 1: was no, I won't And Rashid then goes, you know,
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Speaker 1: I am boss in my house and she will listen.
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Speaker 1: Now that part, I'm happy, Like Brandy looks like someone
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Speaker 1: who would think that he's also the boss of his home, Like,
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Speaker 1: if you know there was a lady around in his life,
21:49
Speaker 1: I would love to know if there's a lady in
21:51
Speaker 1: Brandy's life. Is he single? I'm asking for myself. No,
21:55
Speaker 1: I'm just kidding, ha ha, But like, does he is
21:58
Speaker 1: he really? Yeah? Is he really saying there's no ladies
22:00
Speaker 1: for him? Because maybe Rashi would be happy if he's like, bitch,
22:03
Speaker 1: I have a lady and she's the boss. You know,
22:09
Speaker 1: she's the boss like that television show. Brandy's like, you
22:14
Speaker 1: know what, let me tell you this. I'm like the government,
22:17
Speaker 1: me and taxes will always be around, will be here forever.
22:24
Speaker 1: You can't escape us unless you're Katie and you haven't
22:27
Speaker 1: filed the tax return in a long time because of
22:29
Speaker 1: your executive functioning. You know what I'm saying. But that
22:32
Speaker 1: also comes back to bite you in the butt. Brandy's like,
22:37
Speaker 1: that's you asked me a question. I say, no, I
22:41
Speaker 1: am going to continue to text or call her. And
22:45
Speaker 1: Rashid's like that's not respectful, and He's like, oh, I
22:48
Speaker 1: don't have to respect you because you came and sat
22:51
Speaker 1: on my truck bed. You sat your ass on my
22:57
Speaker 1: fucking truck so that you could to try and be
23:01
Speaker 1: more eye level with me. And I clocked it, and
23:06
Speaker 1: I hate it. Get your ass off my truck bed
23:10
Speaker 1: and Rashid has to. Yeah, Rashid didn't come correct. It
23:15
Speaker 1: was weird because Rashid came with a lot of like
23:18
Speaker 1: machisimo energy to like, you know, tell this guy off.
23:21
Speaker 1: But yeah, like his body language was like very like
23:24
Speaker 1: two bros sharing a beer watching the stars together. You know,
23:32
Speaker 1: it seems a little what's the word fake? It seems
23:34
Speaker 1: a little fake, right, This fake is like that weird
23:37
Speaker 1: hair coming out of his hat. You know, it just
23:39
Speaker 1: doesn't because it also feels like if this conversation were real,
23:43
Speaker 1: like there would have been fisticuffs or louder voices or
23:49
Speaker 1: the propensity for both, and at least like an acknowledgment
23:52
Speaker 1: that it's not happening because of cameras. Sorry, I'm just
23:55
Speaker 1: gonna keep moving my feet back and forth because I
23:57
Speaker 1: don't have like a I thought of like a what
24:00
Speaker 1: ever set up I'm using to record this? And I
24:01
Speaker 1: realize I have no leg room? Okay, So I would
24:07
Speaker 1: love to know, like what Brandy's all right, what Malorie's
24:10
Speaker 1: doing right now? Like I'm assuming that Mallory is like
24:13
Speaker 1: low key watching and overhearing this, you know, like or
24:16
Speaker 1: maybe she's like taking that beer can out of her
24:19
Speaker 1: bangs and is like trying to listen, you know, without looking,
24:23
Speaker 1: because she would see that this conversation is happening and
24:26
Speaker 1: it's not going well. Also, doesn't like a cold drink
24:33
Speaker 1: out of a mason jar kind of sound good, like
24:37
Speaker 1: sometimes I crave and I hardly ever have it, but
24:40
Speaker 1: like pepsi on ice. Can you imagine having pepsi on
24:46
Speaker 1: ice and a mason jar like super cold? Right now? Oh,
24:49
Speaker 1: it does not sound so good. I find pepsi better
24:53
Speaker 1: tasting than coke. Anyway, I'm gonna say the best for last,
24:59
Speaker 1: which is be a Medo, And I can't even say
25:01
Speaker 1: I like need to work up to being able to
25:03
Speaker 1: talk about it because it's like so intense for me,
25:08
Speaker 1: like and so just know that that's going to be happening.
25:12
Speaker 1: And truly, there might be a part two of this episode.
25:14
Speaker 1: We'll get there. I'm already twenty five minutes in, so
25:17
Speaker 1: if that happens, we'll be in part two. But you
25:19
Speaker 1: understand I can't just like, you know, have you know,
25:23
Speaker 1: two hour episodes. Let's move on to shan Annabel. Now,
25:27
Speaker 1: shan Annabel weren't on the last episode, but we pick
25:31
Speaker 1: up where he told her in his or his friend's bar.
25:35
Speaker 1: It was a little confusing that he doesn't think that
25:37
Speaker 1: he cheated on Annabel, but he kissed in another woman
25:41
Speaker 1: and kissed his in quotation marks because everyone here knows
25:44
Speaker 1: that he did more. And Annabel realized that he's a liar.
25:48
Speaker 1: And also he even set the precedent for lying by
25:51
Speaker 1: being like, yeah, because when I drink, I don't remember,
25:55
Speaker 1: just like Katie, so many similar people like Katie is Shay,
26:03
Speaker 1: and Katie's also Thomas, someone who hates furniture, loves drinking,
26:09
Speaker 1: and we'll cheat on you in front of your face. Okay,
26:13
Speaker 1: so shy you know, made his dry toast in the
26:17
Speaker 1: morning for himself. There was no breakfast in bed, and
26:20
Speaker 1: he's like talking to the dogs giving him treats, and
26:22
Speaker 1: he's like, mommy Bell's still mad at me. How do
26:27
Speaker 1: you feel about that? Like, how do you feel about
26:29
Speaker 1: Mommy Bell? I want to say I hate it, but
26:34
Speaker 1: I kind of like am I kind of like hate
26:36
Speaker 1: it and like it at the same time, and then
26:38
Speaker 1: therefore it sort of makes it like meh for me. Okay.
26:42
Speaker 1: He's like trying to be cute by talking about her
26:45
Speaker 1: to the dogs, but he realizes she's like not paying
26:49
Speaker 1: attention to him. He's like, babe, an Anna Bell Bell,
26:54
Speaker 1: Billy Billy Bell Bel And she's angrily making the bed,
26:58
Speaker 1: you know where. She's like taking the sh sheets and
27:00
Speaker 1: like wrapping it around the pillows and giving the pillow
27:02
Speaker 1: a punch. You're like, God, bless do that to one
27:05
Speaker 1: of the deerheads. Honey. She's giving him the hardcore silent treem.
27:09
Speaker 1: And so he comes into the bed and he's like
27:10
Speaker 1: Annabelle and she's like walks right past him. Honey. She's
27:15
Speaker 1: wearing an outfit that is very much an Alison outfit.
27:20
Speaker 1: She's wearing like a brown cheetah sweatshirt and like wide
27:25
Speaker 1: leg ripped jeans. You can it like it is one
27:30
Speaker 1: of the things that he bought for her. And she's
27:33
Speaker 1: upset because she fully believes that he had sex with
27:38
Speaker 1: someone else and he's just not telling her the truth,
27:41
Speaker 1: which is what happened. Because literally she's on the porch
27:46
Speaker 1: and she asks him, is at it did you have
27:48
Speaker 1: sex with me? And the way he answers is like
27:51
Speaker 1: looking up, not making eye contact and being like, yeah, no,
27:56
Speaker 1: that's that's what happened. I just well there was this
27:58
Speaker 1: other thing. And she's like, what other fucking thing? And
28:01
Speaker 1: he's like, well there was this woman who got breast
28:04
Speaker 1: in plants. And I was just being you know, like
28:08
Speaker 1: sarcastic drunk, just super drunk, so I don't really remember
28:10
Speaker 1: anything and you can't really hold me anything. But I
28:13
Speaker 1: was like, oh, new titties. Huh, let me see them tits,
28:16
Speaker 1: you know. And then so what she did was she
28:19
Speaker 1: took me behind the boat or whatever the fuck it is.
28:25
Speaker 1: I need the lake, I'm not quite sure, and you know,
28:28
Speaker 1: flashed me. And then she's like, so you felt her titties.
28:34
Speaker 1: She touched your penis And he's like, no, no, no,
28:37
Speaker 1: I just looked used my eyeballs to fondle her, just
28:41
Speaker 1: with my eyes. Just looked good, them fresh, big gass tits,
28:45
Speaker 1: you know. And I was just like, I can't wait
28:47
Speaker 1: for Annabel to be here so I can be with
28:50
Speaker 1: those titties instead, you know, like he just is lying
28:55
Speaker 1: these are a bunch of different things. A because I
28:57
Speaker 1: fully believe that if he was just at a party
29:01
Speaker 1: and some girl was like I just got my tits done,
29:04
Speaker 1: new boobies or me, like a billion people be like
29:07
Speaker 1: show us those tits, show us those tits, and she
29:10
Speaker 1: would just flash them at the party and they'd be
29:12
Speaker 1: like boo. You know, she would just show them and
29:15
Speaker 1: people be like bah. But the fact they left the party,
29:19
Speaker 1: just them two and he said this, they walked away
29:25
Speaker 1: and were like in a special safe area. Then he
29:28
Speaker 1: did more than just look at them because there make
29:33
Speaker 1: no sense, Like he she would flash and be like geese,
29:36
Speaker 1: and then he'd be like and then she'd be like,
29:39
Speaker 1: I want to feel them, and then he'd be like
29:42
Speaker 1: and then he would like feel you know, rock hard
29:44
Speaker 1: basketball tits, and like you know, he like there's no
29:48
Speaker 1: way that he didn't feel them tits. I get it.
29:54
Speaker 1: You know. Here's the thing, like we I feel like
29:56
Speaker 1: we see this a lot like women do it to women,
29:59
Speaker 1: not me, but like there's a lot of like I
30:02
Speaker 1: got new boobies. Let me see them boobies. Can I
30:04
Speaker 1: feel them boobies? You know, Like remember how that happened
30:06
Speaker 1: like on nine of The Fiance when like Emma was
30:08
Speaker 1: feeling Chicago or something like that. More of tho, like
30:10
Speaker 1: all those boobies were being felt maybe because I don't
30:14
Speaker 1: have implants and I have like you know, so those
30:17
Speaker 1: are my boobs and they're like sense sensitive, like I
30:19
Speaker 1: don't want people to touch them unless I want them
30:22
Speaker 1: to touch them. I can't imagine it's being like feel them,
30:27
Speaker 1: you know, because yeah I can, I can feel them
30:31
Speaker 1: maybe when you're you know, they're stretched real high and
30:34
Speaker 1: hard against like implants like you know, like you can't.
30:37
Speaker 1: I don't know. I don't know my loves. But like
30:41
Speaker 1: he put them them titties in his mouth, and that
30:46
Speaker 1: girl gets free drinks for life every time she sees him.
30:49
Speaker 1: Now she's like put it on his tab. He owes me,
30:51
Speaker 1: and that's like most of the town. And it was
30:55
Speaker 1: a little confusing whether when he brought Annibell to that bar,
30:59
Speaker 1: it felt like he said that he and friends opened it,
31:03
Speaker 1: which then makes me feel like a lot of girls
31:07
Speaker 1: get free drinks at that bar, whether they showed him
31:10
Speaker 1: her tits or not. So anyway, Annabelle knows this. She's
31:13
Speaker 1: been around men, honey, she's the same age, God bless,
31:15
Speaker 1: she knows when a man's lying. And I know when
31:17
Speaker 1: a man's lying, especially Shay who literally looks up and
31:20
Speaker 1: can't make eye contact. I mean, you can't teach that
31:26
Speaker 1: how to lie that awkwardly and obviously to someone. Oh
31:32
Speaker 1: my god. So he then tries to turn it around
31:38
Speaker 1: on her and it's like, yeah, I just think that
31:40
Speaker 1: you're overreacting, and she's like, I'm sorry, what what the
31:46
Speaker 1: fuck are you talking about? You told me that you
31:50
Speaker 1: don't think it's cheating for you to get drunk and
31:52
Speaker 1: make out with someone, and you think I'm overreacting, And
31:58
Speaker 1: now you told me that you got flash some titties.
32:01
Speaker 1: Are you insane? That's crazy? And I hate that. I
32:08
Speaker 1: hate that For her, I'd be like, I think you
32:13
Speaker 1: can't keep your dick in your pants. That's what I think. Anyway.
32:17
Speaker 1: Like for him to say that she's overreacting and try
32:18
Speaker 1: to make her feel bad for like being upset at
32:21
Speaker 1: him when he knows he did wrong, is like real
32:24
Speaker 1: shitty behavior, real real shitty behavior. Someone who has like
32:31
Speaker 1: dodged a billion bullets, you know, of like what they
32:34
Speaker 1: think of, like their lives should be of like taking
32:38
Speaker 1: accountability and responsibility and doesn't want it and wants to
32:41
Speaker 1: throw things back on people. Shy's gross. Gross, And for
32:48
Speaker 1: some reason he has enough money in Paducah, Kentucky to
32:52
Speaker 1: get like be treated like a king around there. Would
32:59
Speaker 1: I can't. I'm just it makes me really upset. So
33:04
Speaker 1: he's like, well, you know, I think you're overreacting, but
33:06
Speaker 1: I apologize, and also I apologize when I told you
33:09
Speaker 1: don't think it's cheating, all right, Well, then Anna Belle's
33:13
Speaker 1: gonna get drunk as fuck all the time on your
33:16
Speaker 1: dime and show her titties and kiss a billion people
33:20
Speaker 1: because you don't think it's cheating. So what happened. She's
33:23
Speaker 1: gonna start first with Angie's dad. I would love it.
33:29
Speaker 1: I would love it. That should be a storyline. She
33:33
Speaker 1: should go down to the lake and fuck everyone at
33:35
Speaker 1: the lake in front of him, make him watch and
33:40
Speaker 1: be like, I'm sorry, I'm drunk, I don't remember. This
33:47
Speaker 1: is the kind of thing that, like, you know, it
33:50
Speaker 1: makes me sound like a man hater, but like that's disgusting,
33:53
Speaker 1: and yeah, like he just thinks it's so cute. He
33:56
Speaker 1: just thinks it's like, well, I'll make up for it.
33:57
Speaker 1: I'll set him allel the spa. But this we'll find
34:00
Speaker 1: out is just getting her nails done. Okay, So that's
34:04
Speaker 1: what happens. He's like, hey, babe, I don't want to
34:07
Speaker 1: be mad at me, and I don't want you to
34:08
Speaker 1: not marry me because I thought of a great thing
34:10
Speaker 1: to do, which is send send you to the spot
34:14
Speaker 1: with Alison and Angie, which this also happened. Mean, obviously
34:18
Speaker 1: this is producer led because there's not a chance in
34:21
Speaker 1: hell that if someone thinks that you cheated with someone
34:24
Speaker 1: that you'd be like, no, I didn't, but I am
34:27
Speaker 1: going to pay for her and you and my dumb
34:30
Speaker 1: ass daughter to all go to the spa right now
34:32
Speaker 1: and spend time together. Like there's just not a like
34:36
Speaker 1: it would make more sense if the producers had just
34:38
Speaker 1: been like, okay, you send Annabelle and Alice in to
34:43
Speaker 1: the spa, and just so happens because it's a small
34:45
Speaker 1: ass town that Angie will be there, you know, and
34:48
Speaker 1: like cause then it's like, well they might as well
34:49
Speaker 1: have to call there, might as well have to call
34:52
Speaker 1: come in and get her, you know, square block French
34:55
Speaker 1: is done there, you know, like make me this this
34:57
Speaker 1: is bad storytelling. So anyway, God Bush, she is upset.
35:02
Speaker 1: She's like, what the fuck did you did you invite
35:05
Speaker 1: Angie or like you know, the producers did so then
35:08
Speaker 1: she gets to the spa and Angie's like, Annabell, hi,
35:13
Speaker 1: hi girl, can I give you a hug? And Anna
35:16
Speaker 1: Bell's like no, but she does. She comes up and
35:21
Speaker 1: she rolls her eyes so hard at camera when Angie
35:25
Speaker 1: gives a hug that like you think they're gonna come
35:27
Speaker 1: out of her skull and Angie is just like waiting
35:34
Speaker 1: to be slaughtered. Annabelle is in a bad mood and
35:38
Speaker 1: Alison's like what's up and she's like, well, you know,
35:40
Speaker 1: your dumbass dad told me that he gets drunk and
35:43
Speaker 1: makes up with women like Angie. So Angie, I have
35:47
Speaker 1: a question for you. Did you having affair with my
35:51
Speaker 1: future husband? And Angie's face is equal parts shock, horror,
35:59
Speaker 1: discuss a little over the top no, almost like a
36:06
Speaker 1: little too much where you're like did you because it
36:09
Speaker 1: almost feels like she was like, Angie, did you you know?
36:14
Speaker 1: Did you fuck my husband? And she's like what, No,
36:22
Speaker 1: why would you even think that that's gross and crazy? No?
36:28
Speaker 1: I wouldn't. No, I didn't just get drunk and I
36:32
Speaker 1: was bored one night or a couple of nights and
36:34
Speaker 1: he pays for things, and like I want to get
36:36
Speaker 1: back at my dad for like being a No, I
36:38
Speaker 1: wouldn't know, that's weird, Like I don't have daddy issues
36:41
Speaker 1: or like no, you know, like it's a little much.
36:47
Speaker 1: So Allison is like eating this up because she's like, oh,
36:50
Speaker 1: my dad came one fourth clean with the things, but
36:54
Speaker 1: like I know so much more because I've literally been
36:56
Speaker 1: there as he's like lied to her and was like
36:58
Speaker 1: putting her one about it, and Alison like has been
37:05
Speaker 1: like a little minnie Nicole being like I can't wait
37:07
Speaker 1: to tell on him, but she's also like I didn't
37:10
Speaker 1: have to tell on him. I guess he did it himself,
37:12
Speaker 1: you know, I don't. I mean, does Alison and Nicole
37:14
Speaker 1: like have cahoot parties being like we're gonna fucking fuck
37:17
Speaker 1: up his life the cole because she's like I hate
37:20
Speaker 1: your dad, and Alison's like, I want them all to
37:22
Speaker 1: myself and his money. If annabel was smart, Annabelle wouldn't
37:29
Speaker 1: have come in so hot with like a don't you
37:31
Speaker 1: dare give her ten dollars? See, Like, the thing about
37:36
Speaker 1: Shay is that he's used to buying people's affection, or
37:41
Speaker 1: maybe in his mind it's how he shows love. Money
37:43
Speaker 1: is his love language, but he also is used to
37:47
Speaker 1: using money to buy female affection his daughters women. It
37:54
Speaker 1: works for him, you know, unlike a good looking physique
37:59
Speaker 1: or humorous kind soul. Like his way of you know,
38:05
Speaker 1: creating that closeness and getting people on his side is
38:08
Speaker 1: to like butter them up with some Benjamins. Yeah, I
38:14
Speaker 1: wonder why Annabel did come in so hot, because I
38:18
Speaker 1: would assume that if she wanted Allison like on her side,
38:21
Speaker 1: she'd be a little like, oh how nice. But Annabel
38:24
Speaker 1: really did. Annabel is counting his money and both of
38:27
Speaker 1: them are. Alison's counting Shay's money, and Shay is like
38:30
Speaker 1: counting his money to use on whatever woman he wants
38:33
Speaker 1: to in that moment. Yeah, Annabel, Annabel shouldn't be worried
38:37
Speaker 1: about the money he's giving Alison. She should be worried
38:39
Speaker 1: about the money he's giving Angie. He's giving all the
38:42
Speaker 1: other like Floozies and Paduca. So as Annabel is getting
38:48
Speaker 1: her nails done, and you really realize that the spa
38:51
Speaker 1: again that Shaye brought them to was a one lady
38:54
Speaker 1: nail shop where the other two lady just have ladies
38:57
Speaker 1: have to watch Annabel while she gets her fresh set.
39:00
Speaker 1: He's like, well, I just got my nails done a
39:02
Speaker 1: week ago. Because Alie's like do you even have nail
39:05
Speaker 1: salons in the Philippines? And fucking Annabel's like bitch, yes, ah.
39:18
Speaker 1: They're like, well, Annabelle, how are you going to move forward?
39:20
Speaker 1: Are you going to forgive? You know? Uh? And Annabel's
39:24
Speaker 1: like I don't know, which is like, you know, it
39:29
Speaker 1: was real early in her being in America. So and
39:33
Speaker 1: she asked to sleep with him. That's what's awkward about
39:35
Speaker 1: this whole situation and also makes a little bit fake
39:38
Speaker 1: because you're sleeping in his bed with all those deer
39:41
Speaker 1: heads looking down on you. So if you were really
39:44
Speaker 1: that pissed and you didn't know whether this was going
39:46
Speaker 1: to like work out, how would you continue to sleep
39:49
Speaker 1: in bed with him? Also? Are you still showering him?
39:54
Speaker 1: Like when you guys came back from the bar, did
39:58
Speaker 1: Annabelle like angrily scrub his naked body before she got
40:03
Speaker 1: in bed with him? So many questions. Here's another question Alison,
40:10
Speaker 1: who's been watching this and has been drinking from some
40:13
Speaker 1: weird glass with like different bobbles on it. It's like,
40:19
Speaker 1: I'm gonna need another drink. I can't deal with this.
40:22
Speaker 1: Like Alison loves to throw it back, she loves drinking
40:28
Speaker 1: with her dad, and her dad makes it real easy
40:31
Speaker 1: by buying her drinks and also being like somewhat of
40:33
Speaker 1: an alcoholic, so it's just two alcoholics together, and like,
40:37
Speaker 1: if it's not bad for him to do it's not
40:39
Speaker 1: bad for her to do it, and they get to
40:41
Speaker 1: like be drinking buddies together. Misery loves company. So that's
40:46
Speaker 1: another reason why I think why Alison doesn't want Annabelle around,
40:49
Speaker 1: because Annabel's like, stop drinking, stop cheating on me, and
40:52
Speaker 1: Alan's like, fuck you let him drink so I can drink.
40:57
Speaker 1: If you think drinking is bad, then how am I
40:59
Speaker 1: going to live with my kids? Also, like what nails? Like,
41:05
Speaker 1: what are they drinking at this nail salon? Yeah? I like,
41:09
Speaker 1: I just I'm so whatever. I just can't believe there's
41:11
Speaker 1: not like a massage involved. When you tell me spa,
41:14
Speaker 1: I'm assuming there's massages and facials. I'm assuming there's like
41:20
Speaker 1: maybe a steam room, not like one lady who you
41:25
Speaker 1: have to wait for that one lady to be done
41:26
Speaker 1: with this set before you get your set, so there's
41:29
Speaker 1: no pedicures to be had. There's only one lady there.
41:32
Speaker 1: You have to wait three rounds of a manicure and
41:34
Speaker 1: pedicure gonna be there for all day. My god, honey,
41:40
Speaker 1: help help. Okay, let's talk Paula and Thomas. So you know,
41:48
Speaker 1: they fucked and it's the morning after, and so she's
41:52
Speaker 1: happy about it because they played Spider but then Spider
41:54
Speaker 1: and it being like, you know, penetration, and she's like,
41:57
Speaker 1: I just love your body shape. I love your big chest.
42:02
Speaker 1: You're like a little chubby teddy bear. He doesn't know
42:04
Speaker 1: whether to be offended by this or like turned on
42:07
Speaker 1: by this. Thomas doesn't read to me as being chubby.
42:11
Speaker 1: I don't understand male bodies because she I wouldn't say that,
42:13
Speaker 1: you know, because it's like is she is? Is he?
42:16
Speaker 1: They seem like kind of the same size person, I
42:18
Speaker 1: guess or whatever. She's like, aren't you gonna cook me breakfast?
42:23
Speaker 1: So he gets up and cooks her breakfast? And then
42:26
Speaker 1: he's like, I'm hungry. Aren't you gonna cook for me?
42:29
Speaker 1: She's like what. He's like, well, yeah, I cook for you,
42:31
Speaker 1: you cook for me. And then they kind of like
42:33
Speaker 1: are a little angry about this situation, but also think
42:37
Speaker 1: it's like kind of cute. They think it is. I
42:39
Speaker 1: don't where She's like, uh, huh. I yeah. He cooks
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Speaker 1: her like tofu on toast, like in vegan butter, and
42:50
Speaker 1: then she's like, okay, I'm gonna cook for you in
42:52
Speaker 1: olive oil. He's like, no, fuck that olive oil. You're
42:55
Speaker 1: gonna use beef tallow, and she's disgusted because they're vegan.
43:00
Speaker 1: And then he says that he has like ulcers and
43:02
Speaker 1: so he has to eat paleo because of that, and
43:05
Speaker 1: I'm like, I still I get that, but I still
43:07
Speaker 1: think you can. I don't. I think that you can
43:10
Speaker 1: use coconut oil when on the Paleo diale it diet, right,
43:13
Speaker 1: Paleo doesn't mean you can have like certain oils anyway.
43:19
Speaker 1: Maybe like certain oils you can't, but you can have
43:21
Speaker 1: coconut oil. Okay. So he's like, yeah, I basically can
43:27
Speaker 1: only eat rice and meat, you know, and beef tallow.
43:31
Speaker 1: He brings over some mask for her to make the food,
43:34
Speaker 1: and she is like, yes, I can't smell it. I can't.
43:36
Speaker 1: It's too smelly. I can't do it, which will come
43:39
Speaker 1: back later when she says that he smells too hard
43:42
Speaker 1: or whatever, I'll tell you so because she's very sensitive
43:44
Speaker 1: about meat smells. Okay. So then afterwards he forces her
43:49
Speaker 1: to eat on his shitty table. You know, He's like,
43:51
Speaker 1: it's like we're in Japan this. You know, Japan has
43:55
Speaker 1: like reason and rhyme when it comes to in tier design.
43:58
Speaker 1: It's like mindful thoughtfulness, like balancing one cheek on two
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Speaker 1: yoga blocks. But she, you know, gets over that, and
44:06
Speaker 1: she's like, let's say, grace, dear Quantum Physics Universe, thank
44:12
Speaker 1: you for the miniatures and my man, and you know,
44:17
Speaker 1: I'm just I'm just so happy. She gets really choked
44:20
Speaker 1: up thinking about how she got there. She can't believe
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Speaker 1: that she gets to be by the beach with her
44:24
Speaker 1: green go We're like, okay, well, then lean into that
44:27
Speaker 1: part of being happy about it, and you're gonna have
44:30
Speaker 1: to somewhat be okay with everything that comes with it,
44:33
Speaker 1: which is definitely not perfection. So also I noticed, you know,
44:38
Speaker 1: I forget that she's like an expert ear piercer, so
44:43
Speaker 1: she like fully has a bunch of piercings in her ear,
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Speaker 1: like all of the things you can pierce in the ear.
44:49
Speaker 1: She does, and I'm not saying I don't like it.
44:52
Speaker 1: Some of it looks painful, but she has one dangly
44:54
Speaker 1: thing like a piece of what looks like dangly pearls
44:57
Speaker 1: or something on the outskirts, and I do kind of
44:59
Speaker 1: like the she has like a different style or whatever.
45:02
Speaker 1: So then she goes to put her makeup on, and
45:06
Speaker 1: we see shots of her makeup and we'll get to
45:09
Speaker 1: that part, and her makeup feels like some benefit, maybe
45:13
Speaker 1: some like Lady Gaga makeup. A lot of it looks
45:21
Speaker 1: a little bit old and little wary. She's not someone
45:23
Speaker 1: who like cleans her makeup products. I've done that before,
45:26
Speaker 1: where like I'll take like a little alcohol wipe and
45:31
Speaker 1: like some other kind of cleaner and then like I
45:33
Speaker 1: will literally go and clean my makeup compacts and things,
45:36
Speaker 1: and it makes them look like new and it makes
45:38
Speaker 1: me feel like a goddess when I do it. I'll
45:39
Speaker 1: do it all the time, but I'm I don't, you know,
45:42
Speaker 1: I do have to wash my makeup brushes a lot
45:45
Speaker 1: because they gross me out or whatever. But and then
45:48
Speaker 1: sometimes I'll just bring like some compacts over. But she
45:51
Speaker 1: likes doing her makeup. It feels like she like you know,
45:53
Speaker 1: starts the day with a fresh face. And it's so
45:55
Speaker 1: interesting the days in which you are like I'm a
46:00
Speaker 1: to be over whatever. From home, I'm just gonna like,
46:02
Speaker 1: you know, barely change out of my pajamas or not
46:04
Speaker 1: take a shower or not put on makeup. It's interesting
46:07
Speaker 1: how the day Like I will personally feel like more
46:11
Speaker 1: tired in the day, but if I get up and
46:16
Speaker 1: I like after my coffee, take a shower and put
46:19
Speaker 1: on makeup and like put on clothes, I am up
46:22
Speaker 1: usually having more energy for the day, which I think
46:24
Speaker 1: is like fucked up and weird, but it's true you
46:26
Speaker 1: guys do that too, Isn't that weird? Why? Like maybe
46:29
Speaker 1: like you can say, well, like the shower does its
46:31
Speaker 1: thing where like wakes up, wakes me up, or like
46:34
Speaker 1: gets me going, or you just have more energy because
46:36
Speaker 1: you feel like you're ready to face the world, or
46:39
Speaker 1: you feel like get out there, honey, like show the
46:43
Speaker 1: world this face, you know. And then when you don't
46:45
Speaker 1: have makeup on, you're like, I'm good, I'll just be
46:47
Speaker 1: on the couch all day. So interesting. Today was one
46:53
Speaker 1: of those days where I've just been really tired whatnot,
46:59
Speaker 1: And so I had the laziest day, like washing TV
47:02
Speaker 1: and you know, obviously making notes and as I record
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Speaker 1: this now it's like I didn't put makeup on until
47:08
Speaker 1: nine thirty pm, And it looks like I've you know,
47:11
Speaker 1: had a whole day, and it's not true. I did do.
47:14
Speaker 1: I thankfully left my apartment and like went to the
47:17
Speaker 1: drug store, went to the grocery market and like bought
47:21
Speaker 1: you know, expensive eggs and uh not really, but you know,
47:25
Speaker 1: I bought some like fruit and vegetables. And I actually
47:27
Speaker 1: made myself dinner or I made myself a salad and
47:30
Speaker 1: the reheated last night's dinner. Sometimes I don't do a
47:35
Speaker 1: lot in the whole day, and then I like try
47:37
Speaker 1: and make up for it, like between the hours of
47:39
Speaker 1: like six and midnight. Call me a night person. So anyway,
47:47
Speaker 1: she's getting ready, like I said, with her like makeup,
47:49
Speaker 1: and she decides to put on some perfume and she
47:52
Speaker 1: like says that she just took it out and put
47:54
Speaker 1: two bloops on each neck and he hates it. He's like, ooh,
48:00
Speaker 1: I hate the smell of artificial cologne, artificial perfume. I have,
48:06
Speaker 1: you know, allergies. And she knows that, and he's like
48:10
Speaker 1: making a big stink literally literally a big stink of
48:12
Speaker 1: it and goes on his balcony and he and she
48:15
Speaker 1: like hates it. She's like, what a baby perfume is
48:20
Speaker 1: part of my culture? And he's like, I hate your
48:23
Speaker 1: cheap perfume and she's like, it's not cheap, and once
48:26
Speaker 1: she shows us it, if I was to be honest,
48:30
Speaker 1: there's no way this perfume is real expensive. There's no
48:33
Speaker 1: way this little like nipple of a perfume is like
48:36
Speaker 1: super pricey. I also like it's so interesting, like what
48:40
Speaker 1: why is it artificial? What is it smell like? Like
48:43
Speaker 1: to me, if you say like a perfume is artificial,
48:46
Speaker 1: I think of it as like weird fake vanilla smells
48:51
Speaker 1: like you can think of like you know, a bad
48:54
Speaker 1: bath and body works spray or something. I truly can't
48:57
Speaker 1: stand that kind of fake vanilla smell. I don't really
49:01
Speaker 1: like real vanilla in a smell, but like I can
49:03
Speaker 1: assume that, Like if you get a candle that smells
49:06
Speaker 1: like vanilla and there's like you know, varying levels of it,
49:09
Speaker 1: it's fine. But that was so interesting to me. What
49:14
Speaker 1: does it smell like? It's so small that I'm like,
49:20
Speaker 1: and it looks like it has actual perfume and it
49:22
Speaker 1: as opposed to like something that's a one note He
49:28
Speaker 1: hates it though, and she's like, He's like, it is
49:30
Speaker 1: like your smell. It's so funny because they are both
49:33
Speaker 1: so highly sensitive people in their noses and in a
49:39
Speaker 1: one bedroom apartment. And she's like, you're just so sensitive,
49:44
Speaker 1: You're so picky, You're so stubborn, you're so spoiled. And
49:48
Speaker 1: I'm like, girl, so are you? Girls? So are you?
49:55
Speaker 1: You're stubborn? You think that you're gonna like fly with
49:57
Speaker 1: all those miniatures. He's like, you can say he's cheap
50:01
Speaker 1: and weird, you know, like those things are true, you know,
50:04
Speaker 1: but like I think that you're both particular, you know,
50:13
Speaker 1: rare breeds. If you will, you know, you have particular qualities.
50:18
Speaker 1: And I'll be honest, I think I'm particular too. I
50:21
Speaker 1: think that I have I'm like a little bit set
50:23
Speaker 1: in my ways. I'm like some version of him and
50:25
Speaker 1: Marissa together where I've lived alone enough where I'm like,
50:28
Speaker 1: I know the way I think I like things. It's
50:31
Speaker 1: just that I know that you have to have space
50:34
Speaker 1: for someone else. And I think the reason why I
50:38
Speaker 1: care about that because I am like a super sensitive
50:40
Speaker 1: person and like empathetic, so I like and I'm a
50:42
Speaker 1: people pleaser, so I care so much about someone's experience
50:46
Speaker 1: with me that I tend to like just let them
50:49
Speaker 1: do whatever they want, Like, yeah you can, yeah, just
50:52
Speaker 1: come on, and you don't have to take off your
50:56
Speaker 1: shoes this time time, even though obviously my heart screaming
50:59
Speaker 1: ta take off your fucking shoes. Like sometimes I do that,
51:02
Speaker 1: sometimes I'm not, just because I hate like having confrontation
51:05
Speaker 1: in those moments. But no, truly, I would rather you
51:07
Speaker 1: take off your shoes and I have temporary plastic things
51:10
Speaker 1: for you butt over your shoes. Okay. She's just like, yeah,
51:17
Speaker 1: you're you are really intense and you're being weird about this.
51:22
Speaker 1: But at the same time, Wow, what amazing sniff sensory
51:27
Speaker 1: skills you have. You're you could be in fucking Marvel.
51:30
Speaker 1: And he like picks up that she's being sarcastic, and
51:33
Speaker 1: he's like, you don't have to be a fucking bitch
51:34
Speaker 1: about it. You can just apologize or wash your neck,
51:37
Speaker 1: and she's like, I'm not I'm just telling you how
51:39
Speaker 1: amazing your sniffing skills are. And he's like, no, I
51:42
Speaker 1: get what you're fucking saying. Ah, but I have ulcers
51:46
Speaker 1: in my stomach and I'm allergic to fucking perfume, and
51:49
Speaker 1: that's what it is. If you do this again, I'm
51:52
Speaker 1: gonna have to leave. She's like, where are you gonna go?
51:54
Speaker 1: He's like, somewhere else where my nose can be free.
51:59
Speaker 1: I want to be. Like you live by the beach
52:01
Speaker 1: and you have what looks like a balcony with like
52:03
Speaker 1: two big ass doors, Like, open all your fucking doors
52:06
Speaker 1: and windows right now and just let it air out. Listen,
52:12
Speaker 1: You're gonna have to find a smell you like to
52:15
Speaker 1: cover this shit up. Like I don't know, get that
52:17
Speaker 1: like spray. That's the orange oil. You know I'm talking about.
52:20
Speaker 1: Stoners know what I'm talking about. But it's just like
52:23
Speaker 1: you know, in the aisle. It's also good I guess
52:26
Speaker 1: to like cover other sense. But like they have this
52:28
Speaker 1: orange oil spray scent that like truly smells like oranges.
52:31
Speaker 1: It doesn't. It doesn't feel artificial. It's like I cut
52:34
Speaker 1: up a whole orange tree in front of you. You're
52:36
Speaker 1: gonna have to get something like that honey into sprayed around. Also,
52:40
Speaker 1: it's kind of embarrassing if like your loved one doesn't
52:43
Speaker 1: like your perfume. She's like, what are you putting it
52:48
Speaker 1: on for who are you putting it on for? She's
52:51
Speaker 1: like me, me. In my culture, we take pride in
52:56
Speaker 1: our colognes, our signature sense. You know. He's like, I
53:01
Speaker 1: would love to know the notes of this sense. So
53:03
Speaker 1: of course he's like, give me that small ass, stupid
53:05
Speaker 1: as cheap ass bottle. And then he gets super glue,
53:08
Speaker 1: and super glue is at shut and she's like, you're
53:10
Speaker 1: ruining it. He's like, yeah, that's a fucking point, I don't.
53:14
Speaker 1: I mean, I would love him to be like, you
53:16
Speaker 1: know what, babe, if Colonne is so important to you,
53:20
Speaker 1: I require a different kind of scent, So let's go
53:23
Speaker 1: shopping and let's both pick a cent that I can tolerate.
53:29
Speaker 1: I mean, but no, he doesn't say that because he's cheap. Okay,
53:32
Speaker 1: my loves That is the end of part one of
53:35
Speaker 1: this episode of ninety eight Fiance. When two worlds collide,
53:39
Speaker 1: I have two couples to talk about still it's Edward
53:44
Speaker 1: and Marissa, and of course Debbie and Meto. So I
53:51
Speaker 1: can't wait to tell you about my thoughts about that,
53:53
Speaker 1: so please listen push play on part number two. Also,
53:57
Speaker 1: did you see that I dropped love after lock Up?
54:00
Speaker 1: And this is Polly. Did you see the work I've
54:04
Speaker 1: been doing? Do you care? Do you want to see
54:08
Speaker 1: my tits? Just kidding, I'm not going to show you
54:11
Speaker 1: my tits, but please play those other episodes. Tell me
54:15
Speaker 1: what you think. I really appreciate all the love and
54:19
Speaker 1: time you spent with me, and I hope that I
54:21
Speaker 1: give you back some of it if possible, because this
54:25
Speaker 1: is a symbiotic relationship where we share things. All right,
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Speaker 1: my babes, enjoy Part two. Bye.