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- 2:04Speaker 3: no I mentioned this offline. But when I was talking
- 2:06Speaker 3: to Ben earlier today I mentioned him. He was just
- 2:08Speaker 3: said he was going to be around, you know, some
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- 2:30Speaker 1: Expedition thirty three and uh, speaking of the opposite of mimes,
- 2:35Speaker 1: this is an audio podcast, so we'll tell you who
- 2:38Speaker 1: we are. I am Ben Bullen. You have heard a
- 2:41Speaker 1: returning super producer, mister Max Williams, and our ever present,
- 2:46Speaker 1: ever awesome co host, one and only, mister Nole Brown.
- 2:50Speaker 2: I'm nothing if not ever present. Thank you, Ben. I
- 2:53Speaker 2: appreciate that.
- 2:53Speaker 1: It's good you try to figure out how to say
- 2:55Speaker 1: ever present.
- 2:57Speaker 2: Yeah.
- 2:57Speaker 1: Well, English it's a funny language. It's something. This is
- 3:01Speaker 1: a weird segue. Nol. English is one of those languages
- 3:05Speaker 1: that is absolutely riddled with legacy words and syntax, even
- 3:10Speaker 1: when they don't make the most sense. And we could
- 3:13Speaker 1: argue in part two of First Ladies, Who Weren't that
- 3:17Speaker 1: the position of first lady quote unquote however described is
- 3:22Speaker 1: itself kind of like a legacy thing of monarchy. It
- 3:34Speaker 1: is an official position, but it's it's a thing that
- 3:38Speaker 1: always assumes the president of the United States will have
- 3:42Speaker 1: something like a spouse, and as our research associate Jeff
- 3:46Speaker 1: factor G showed us in our first episode here, that's
- 3:51Speaker 1: not always the case. Sometimes history has put some square
- 3:55Speaker 1: pegs into the round hole of tradition. That's how it's
- 3:58Speaker 1: dirty going on, I know for sure.
- 4:00Speaker 4: And also, I mean, I just think to find the
- 4:02Speaker 4: idea of the president's being the first anything is fascinating
- 4:05Speaker 4: because it sort of implies he's number one, he's the
- 4:07Speaker 4: best one we got, and everything associated with him is
- 4:10Speaker 4: also the first whatever that thing. Remember the movie First Kid, Yes,
- 4:15Speaker 4: like a Nickelodeon type kid's movie from the nineties.
- 4:18Speaker 2: It wasn't Nickelodeon, but it was of that ilk. That's right.
- 4:23Speaker 4: But today we are indeed doing continuation of the first
- 4:25Speaker 4: part of the First Ladies who Weren't Wives. This part
- 4:29Speaker 4: includes the bachelors, the reluctant wives who passed on their duties,
- 4:33Speaker 4: and much much more. Jeff points out at the top,
- 4:37Speaker 4: and we'd like to join him in addressing that this
- 4:40Speaker 4: episode contains some discussion of some arguable perspectives of the
- 4:46Speaker 4: first gay president as well as the first gay first Lady.
- 4:51Speaker 4: I think that one is a little more substantiated the
- 4:53Speaker 4: first Lady one.
- 4:55Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, let's let's dive into this. That's that's an
- 4:58Speaker 1: excellent note for us to begin with. And folks, let's
- 5:02Speaker 1: also note this may be a two part series two
- 5:05Speaker 1: Part Part two. Yeah, yeah, just like when we did
- 5:08Speaker 1: idiomatic for the People or historical flex as, I think,
- 5:12Speaker 1: all right, let's start with let's get to the chicken
- 5:15Speaker 1: right away. Let's start with the one that is going
- 5:18Speaker 1: to be interesting to a lot of history buffs in
- 5:21Speaker 1: the audience, especially fellow presidential history buffs like ourselves. The
- 5:28Speaker 1: lifelong Yeah, the lifelong presidential bachelor and his first lady.
- 5:34Speaker 1: All right, when, Yeah, this one is as much about
- 5:38Speaker 1: the popularity of Harriet Lane, who will meet in a moment,
- 5:42Speaker 1: as much as it is about the fact that she
- 5:45Speaker 1: was only the first lady because she was not the
- 5:49Speaker 1: spouse of President James Buchanan, but she was the niece
- 5:53Speaker 1: of Buchanan and historians, just to get the headline out here, folks,
- 5:58Speaker 1: historians often will cite James Buchanan as quote, the nation's
- 6:05Speaker 1: most likely first gay president.
- 6:07Speaker 2: Yeah.
- 6:07Speaker 4: That term bachelor that you wish washed around in these
- 6:11Speaker 4: days was often used as a pejorative for being gay,
- 6:15Speaker 4: not in a positive way. It was not something that
- 6:17Speaker 4: we've talked about, but if you threw around the term
- 6:20Speaker 4: lifelong bachelor, that often had a little little bit of
- 6:24Speaker 4: stink on it, depending on who was throwing it around,
- 6:27Speaker 4: and Ben remind me, I believe in our last episode
- 6:30Speaker 4: on first Ladies who Weren't Wives, we also had a
- 6:33Speaker 4: player who was a relative who got that designation after
- 6:38Speaker 4: the fact.
- 6:39Speaker 1: Yeah, talk about a player Old Andrew, two first Ladies Jackson.
- 6:45Speaker 1: There's a bit of a sad story there because, as
- 6:48Speaker 1: we recall from our first episode, Andrew Jackson had to
- 6:54Speaker 1: take his DSA on as the first lady because his
- 6:59Speaker 1: actual facts, as Lauren would say, a spouse passed away.
- 7:03Speaker 1: So there was already a niece who became a first
- 7:05Speaker 1: lady in terms of practice.
- 7:08Speaker 4: Very similar story here, although we also have potential for
- 7:12Speaker 4: what might be considered the first man, but there was
- 7:15Speaker 4: just no space culturally for that to even be part
- 7:18Speaker 4: of the.
- 7:18Speaker 1: Conversation for a first gentleman.
- 7:21Speaker 2: Indeed, I like that.
- 7:23Speaker 4: I definitely think it's important to talk about this historical anomaly,
- 7:27Speaker 4: even though it was something that we mentioned before, very
- 7:30Speaker 4: rare for this sort of passing of the torch to
- 7:32Speaker 4: a relative to become the nature of a first lady.
- 7:35Speaker 4: So this puts it into a much more interesting and
- 7:37Speaker 4: revelatory perspective than their wife died or what have you.
- 7:42Speaker 4: So let's get right into it.
- 7:43Speaker 1: Yeah, all right, folks, travel back with us. It's the
- 7:47Speaker 1: beginning of eighteen forty four. There's a guy named James Buchanan.
- 7:52Speaker 1: He's a real up and comer in the Hall's political power,
- 7:55Speaker 1: but his presidential aspirations are about to go a raw.
- 8:00Speaker 1: At this point, he has had a bit of a
- 8:03Speaker 1: brew haha with the Washington Daily Globe. It stirred his
- 8:08Speaker 1: political rivals into a big, bubbling gumbo of hater tude. Yeah,
- 8:18Speaker 1: there's Aaron Venable Brown.
- 8:22Speaker 2: Brown.
- 8:26Speaker 4: Isn't that a Isn't that an adjective like to describe
- 8:30Speaker 4: someone being like prestigious or like of of note venerable
- 8:35Speaker 4: venerable moving on one of my h one of my
- 8:40Speaker 4: many historical etymological flubs.
- 8:43Speaker 2: But I it.
- 8:45Speaker 1: I'm so happy that we began this episode by talking
- 8:48Speaker 1: about how cartoonish the English language is. And perhaps because
- 8:53Speaker 1: I have some familial roots in the hinterlands of Tennessee,
- 8:57Speaker 1: Venable doesn't sound like two of a name for me.
- 9:01Speaker 1: But yeah, this guy, Aaron, he is from Tennessee. He's
- 9:05Speaker 1: especially pissed off. He's soup duped enraged, and he writes
- 9:10Speaker 1: a fake confidential letter to the future. First lady Sarah
- 9:15Speaker 1: Polk and in this quote unquote confidential letter, our but
- 9:20Speaker 1: e venable savages Buchanan and his better half, and he
- 9:25Speaker 1: says the following, mister Buchara looks gloomy and dissatisfied, and
- 9:29Speaker 1: so did his better half until a little private flattery
- 9:34Speaker 1: in a certain newspaper puff which you doubtless noticed, excited
- 9:38Speaker 1: hope that by getting a divorce she got set up
- 9:41Speaker 1: again in the world to some tolerable advantage. Read that
- 9:45Speaker 1: as gay.
- 9:48Speaker 4: I mean, right, a little bit, isn't there some like
- 9:50Speaker 4: subtweety shade being thrown here?
- 9:53Speaker 1: Exactly exactly nailed it, because the problem is that James
- 9:57Speaker 1: Buchanan up to now, even an to twenty twenty five,
- 10:01Speaker 1: he is the niians only bachelor president. The problem is
- 10:04Speaker 1: that James Buchanan at this point is our nition's only
- 10:08Speaker 1: bachelor president. So there was no spouse, there was no
- 10:13Speaker 1: female spouse to call his better half. And Brown's letter
- 10:17Speaker 1: heavily implies there was a man who fit the bill.
- 10:21Speaker 2: It's true.
- 10:22Speaker 4: Google James Buchanan and you're inevitably going to discover this
- 10:26Speaker 4: assertion that American history declared him to be the first
- 10:30Speaker 4: gay president. And it doesn't take a whole lot of
- 10:32Speaker 4: digging to discover that the popular understanding of Buchanan as
- 10:36Speaker 4: our nation's first gay president comes from his very close
- 10:39Speaker 4: personal relationship, not with God, you may have had that
- 10:42Speaker 4: as well, but with one man in particular, one.
- 10:44Speaker 6: William Rufus, William Rufus Devain King, the Honorable Venerable William
- 10:50Speaker 6: Rufus Devaine, King of Alabama. The premise raises a lot
- 10:54Speaker 6: of questions what was the real nature of their relationship?
- 10:58Speaker 6: And people love a salacious raising of questions, so I'm
- 11:01Speaker 6: sure that Froth Fear describing was indeed quite bubbling.
- 11:05Speaker 1: Yes, yeah, and I love that. I love that frauth
- 11:08Speaker 1: analogy there, because we also have to remember that the
- 11:12Speaker 1: three of us, your faithful correspondents here, are of a
- 11:15Speaker 1: generation where when we were growing up, there would be
- 11:20Speaker 1: lifelong same sex partners who described each other as roommates,
- 11:25Speaker 1: which is sad that society forced them into that kind
- 11:29Speaker 1: of semi closet space. Bu Can and King Rufus Deveyn
- 11:34Speaker 1: King shared another essential quality in addition to being on
- 11:39Speaker 1: the same page politically, they were both bachelors, as you said,
- 11:43Speaker 1: lifelong bachelors, never having married. Buchanan attended Dickinson College and
- 11:49Speaker 1: he studied law in Lancaster. His practice did really well
- 11:53Speaker 1: in eighteen nineteen. In fact, if you walked around the
- 11:58Speaker 1: town of Lancaster, you would see that he was considered
- 12:02Speaker 1: the city's most eligible bachelor. Everybody thought, this guy is
- 12:07Speaker 1: an up and comer. He's got the money, he's got
- 12:10Speaker 1: the bazazz, the panache. Who wouldn't want to marry Buchanon.
- 12:14Speaker 2: Well, that's right.
- 12:15Speaker 4: At a certain age and a certain walk of life,
- 12:18Speaker 4: eligible gets attached to bachelor and it's a positive thing.
- 12:21Speaker 4: It means you're a real pick, You're a real catch, right,
- 12:24Speaker 4: You're a real smoke show, a real dime. As the
- 12:27Speaker 4: kids say, do they say that or do they say
- 12:29Speaker 4: that in the fifties they may.
- 12:31Speaker 1: It reminds me that old Jane Austen quote from Pride
- 12:35Speaker 1: and Prejudice, which is, sorry, folks, not my favorite book,
- 12:39Speaker 1: but there's one quote that gets thrown around a lot.
- 12:42Speaker 1: Jane Austen wrote, it is a truth universally acknowledged that
- 12:46Speaker 1: a single man in possession of a good fortune must
- 12:49Speaker 1: be in want of a wife.
- 12:51Speaker 2: Yeah, a little bit gold digger at gold degree. And
- 12:54Speaker 2: there's being.
- 12:54Speaker 6: There's some a little bit of subtweety stank on that
- 12:57Speaker 6: one too, if you ask me, they were.
- 12:59Speaker 1: All about subtweety steak. And I'm going to write down
- 13:02Speaker 1: that phrase because I appreciate it.
- 13:04Speaker 6: Uh.
- 13:04Speaker 1: Buchanan does ultimately become engaged to a young woman named
- 13:10Speaker 1: Anne Colvin. She is of a similar social echelon. She's
- 13:14Speaker 1: twenty three years old. Her dad is a wealthy tycoon
- 13:18Speaker 1: who made his money in iron and I love that
- 13:21Speaker 1: this is the period of history where you can say
- 13:24Speaker 1: someone made their money in just a noun.
- 13:28Speaker 6: Oh, yeah, for sure, the railroads for example, or just railroads,
- 13:31Speaker 6: if we're just.
- 13:31Speaker 2: Going with the nown with it.
- 13:32Speaker 4: I made my money and horse, I made my money
- 13:34Speaker 4: in beach. Yeah, like that's what Ken did of the
- 13:38Speaker 4: Barbie universe. It's also a time where you could say
- 13:41Speaker 4: that someone died from hysterical convulsions.
- 13:44Speaker 2: Right right, wandering wand.
- 13:47Speaker 1: Which, unfortunately good yeah, happens with Anne Coleman, who's only
- 13:52Speaker 1: briefly in the story. The official narrative is that Buchanan
- 14:03Speaker 1: was always working and for some reason this caused him
- 14:08Speaker 1: to neglect his betrothed, which caused Anne Coleman herself to
- 14:13Speaker 1: break off the engagement. So she broke up with him,
- 14:17Speaker 1: not the opposite, and immediately died of heartbreak, and immediately,
- 14:21Speaker 1: like shortly thereafter died of to your note, what her
- 14:25Speaker 1: doctor at the time said were hysterical convulsions. And the
- 14:29Speaker 1: rumor mill of Lancaster goes absolutely nuts like it's their
- 14:34Speaker 1: own TMZ. On a local level, people are whispering and
- 14:38Speaker 1: saying that Anne Coleman committed suicidal Well, it.
- 14:41Speaker 4: Would seem like Buchanan perhaps harbored a little personal guilt
- 14:44Speaker 4: around this, as he did say he entered politics to
- 14:48Speaker 4: distract himself from his great grief.
- 14:52Speaker 2: He may well have loved this woman.
- 14:53Speaker 4: I mean, you know, and look, what's the word platonic
- 14:58Speaker 4: love is very very re and there maybe even could
- 15:01Speaker 4: have You know, we also know that in these days,
- 15:03Speaker 4: and honestly well into the future, maybe even into the present,
- 15:07Speaker 4: there would be these arrangements where the woman would very
- 15:10Speaker 4: much know that the man that she was with was
- 15:13Speaker 4: not into women, but they will continue as this facade
- 15:17Speaker 4: with an understanding between.
- 15:18Speaker 2: Them or vice versa one hundred percent.
- 15:21Speaker 4: I mean, I'm not gonna lie, not to get too personal,
- 15:23Speaker 4: pretty much, that was the deal with my parents it's
- 15:27Speaker 4: in the opera world. Back in New York City in
- 15:29Speaker 4: the eighties and nineties, it was not the easiest thing
- 15:33Speaker 4: to be an out gay man, and there were a
- 15:35Speaker 4: lot of these marriages.
- 15:36Speaker 1: Of convenience, right, and sometimes the street name or idiom
- 15:41Speaker 1: you may have heard, folks is the so called lavender
- 15:44Speaker 1: marriage or the beard right right or beard. Sometimes these
- 15:47Speaker 1: could occur because both partners needed cover and were not
- 15:53Speaker 1: sexually into each other. But we're close friends. Uh bu
- 15:57Speaker 1: can'd in, as he said, throws himself to work as
- 16:01Speaker 1: a result of this great grief and while he is
- 16:05Speaker 1: in Washington when he has entered politics for the politics
- 16:09Speaker 1: he and William Rufus Devane King lived together in a
- 16:14Speaker 1: communal boarding house kind of sometimes called a mess, similar
- 16:19Speaker 1: to the military term for a cafeteria. Okay, yeah, and
- 16:22Speaker 1: this was not just a them thing, to be clear.
- 16:26Speaker 1: At first, their boarding house had other Congress members in it,
- 16:31Speaker 1: and most of these were also unmarried men, and a
- 16:35Speaker 1: lot of them were kind of on the younger side
- 16:38Speaker 1: for the time, and this gave their communal home a
- 16:42Speaker 1: street name, the bachelor's Mess, like this is where the
- 16:46Speaker 1: single guys hang out. And there was not any at
- 16:49Speaker 1: this point, there was not any snarky, like subversive subtext
- 16:56Speaker 1: of all these people being gay or something. It was
- 16:59Speaker 1: just these guys are unmarried. So of course if you're
- 17:01Speaker 1: a congressman and you're not hitched, you live here.
- 17:04Speaker 2: It makes sense, I guess, yeah. And bastards do be messy.
- 17:06Speaker 2: It's true.
- 17:07Speaker 4: Over time, as other members of the group lost their
- 17:10Speaker 4: seats in Congress, the population of the mess dwindled from
- 17:14Speaker 4: four to three, and then there were two Buchanan and
- 17:18Speaker 4: King Washington. Society started to, you know, take notice and
- 17:24Speaker 4: look a bit of scance at this arrangement.
- 17:27Speaker 1: Oh my gosh. And they were so vicious in these
- 17:30Speaker 1: social spheres. This is peak cattiness. Right at the galas,
- 17:36Speaker 1: at the balls and the fundraisers. People started calling him
- 17:40Speaker 1: mister Buchanan and his wife. And they would call these people,
- 17:46Speaker 1: they would call this future President and rufus King, things
- 17:50Speaker 1: like aunt fancy and aunt Nancy.
- 17:53Speaker 2: My aunt fancy. That's an expression.
- 17:56Speaker 4: Maybe years later, Julia Gardner Tyler, he was the much
- 18:00Speaker 4: younger wife of John Tyler, President, remembered at them as
- 18:04Speaker 4: the Siamese twins, which I guess you could call maybe
- 18:07Speaker 4: a little bit less of an insulting nickname, just.
- 18:11Speaker 6: The fact that they were close. They were buds. Chang
- 18:14Speaker 6: and Aang Bunker were the famous conjoined twins who were
- 18:19Speaker 6: popular at the time. We've talked about on this podcast.
- 18:22Speaker 6: We have we have Affair.
- 18:24Speaker 3: Just to jump in here real quick, because we brought
- 18:26Speaker 3: up John Tyler's second wife. I want to just call
- 18:29Speaker 3: back to the John Tyler has a living grandson, which
- 18:32Speaker 3: I haven't checked recently, see if the guy's still around.
- 18:34Speaker 3: But I'm trying to remember how many children he had
- 18:37Speaker 3: with the second wife.
- 18:37Speaker 1: He was a jack rabbit.
- 18:39Speaker 3: Yeah, he had fifteen I think total, and I think
- 18:41Speaker 3: he had at least five, maybe seven with the second wife.
- 18:43Speaker 2: He was in his fifties by this point.
- 18:45Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, not as not as virile as Mick Jagger
- 18:49Speaker 1: or Robert de Niro.
- 18:50Speaker 3: Today, but or John the baby maker right right, curtainly
- 18:55Speaker 3: still getting something, still getting.
- 18:58Speaker 1: His feather mattress Calisthenics on. Well, yeah, so this is
- 19:04Speaker 1: fascinating because you know, you could say these guys were
- 19:10Speaker 1: just very close, lifelong friends. There are a lot of
- 19:13Speaker 1: people who have close friendships throughout their lives. They cherished
- 19:17Speaker 1: their rapport and their friendship and members of their immediate families,
- 19:22Speaker 1: importantly for the time seem to treat them the same,
- 19:26Speaker 1: you know, like this is my brother from another mother,
- 19:29Speaker 1: or you know, Buchanan, you may as well be my son. Uh,
- 19:33Speaker 1: it's right right. They had secret handshakes, I'm sure, and.
- 19:39Speaker 2: I love that. I love a secret handshake. Can we do.
- 19:44Speaker 1: All?
- 19:44Speaker 2: Right?
- 19:44Speaker 1: So in Weedland, which is the name for Buchanan's country
- 19:49Speaker 1: estate still near Lancaster, a heavy stoners, if you walk
- 19:55Speaker 1: into his estate at this point, you'll see not just
- 20:00Speaker 1: a portrait of William Rufus King, but you'll also see
- 20:04Speaker 1: a portrait of King's niece Catherine Margaret Ellis. And after
- 20:09Speaker 1: you can't and dies spoiler. In eighteen sixty eight, his
- 20:14Speaker 1: niece that we mentioned at the top, Harriet Lane Johnston.
- 20:18Speaker 1: She corresponds with this niece Ellis about how to get
- 20:23Speaker 1: how to get the correspondence of these men from the
- 20:27Speaker 1: king home in Alabama.
- 20:30Speaker 4: And I started it was Wheatland, not Weedland, which is
- 20:33Speaker 4: over my brain immediately correct.
- 20:35Speaker 1: I thought Wheatland was I thought that was some sort
- 20:38Speaker 1: of strain of cannabis.
- 20:39Speaker 4: Or it could be like there's a dispensary somewhere in
- 20:41Speaker 4: the country called Weedland. Harriet lost both of her parents
- 20:45Speaker 4: by the age of eleven, and Jane's brother, who was
- 20:48Speaker 4: a senator at the time, James Buchanan of Pennsylvania, became
- 20:51Speaker 4: Harriet's legal guardian.
- 20:54Speaker 1: Yeah, and we're getting a lot of this from some
- 20:58Speaker 1: great Smithsonian articles. Yeah, one by Thomas Balserski, The one
- 21:04Speaker 1: hundred and seventy five year History of Speculating about President
- 21:08Speaker 1: James Buchanan's Bachelorhood. Yeah, I love that word. Setting up
- 21:12Speaker 1: Harriet Lane's origin story. So how did she become the
- 21:18Speaker 1: first Lady for all intents and practices of the Buchanan administration.
- 21:23Speaker 1: It's because of this interaction between King and Buchanan. Like
- 21:29Speaker 1: you were setting up here, She's got a legal guardian
- 21:32Speaker 1: due to childhood tragedy. She goes to a boarding school,
- 21:35Speaker 1: first in Pennsylvania, then later she moves to Virginia and DC.
- 21:40Speaker 1: She lives with her uncle at his Wheatland estate in Lancaster,
- 21:45Speaker 1: and she travels abroad with Buchanan while he is serving
- 21:50Speaker 1: as Minister to Great Britain. This guy, this guy's a
- 21:55Speaker 1: little bit older when he moves into the White House
- 21:59Speaker 1: and a sense to the presidency. He's in his sixties
- 22:02Speaker 1: in eighteen fifty seven, and at this point, again he's
- 22:06Speaker 1: still a lifelong bachelor. Outside of that what engagement, He
- 22:09Speaker 1: is not only never married, but he has also had
- 22:14Speaker 1: no known romantic interaction.
- 22:19Speaker 2: Trade with women. Yes, no, no, lady, no.
- 22:21Speaker 6: Paragars, no things, flings, dalliance's perhaps no none of that.
- 22:29Speaker 6: So la relationship that's there, you go, situationships even so, yeah,
- 22:33Speaker 6: so Lane, is that what you said, Ben, I'm sorry, situationship.
- 22:36Speaker 6: We were on the same page. So Laine, at this point,
- 22:39Speaker 6: still quite a young woman, joins him in his role
- 22:44Speaker 6: at the White House.
- 22:45Speaker 4: She's been his kind of constant companion at this point
- 22:48Speaker 4: in eighteen fifty seven.
- 22:51Speaker 2: She brings this youthful vigor to the White House.
- 22:54Speaker 4: Is a really great entertainer, which, as we know, is
- 22:57Speaker 4: a role that often falls to first ladies, and she
- 23:00Speaker 4: really becomes kind of a people's princess type figure, you know,
- 23:02Speaker 4: like very princess Diana. Yep, she's a celebrity for intents
- 23:07Speaker 4: and purposes, christening ships, signing autographs, doing charity banquets and fundraisers.
- 23:19Speaker 1: She's a fashion plate. She's doing Kardashian level celebrity.
- 23:24Speaker 6: Endorsement and send all the latest trends by the designers
- 23:27Speaker 6: of notes and things like that.
- 23:29Speaker 1: She would have had millions of followers if Instagram were
- 23:33Speaker 1: a thing at this point. She also oversees the refurbishment
- 23:37Speaker 1: of the famous Blue Room at the White House. She
- 23:41Speaker 1: is the lead hostess on several important visits from Everything
- 23:48Speaker 1: you could imagine, Big Deal European Folks VIPs from Japan
- 23:52Speaker 1: in May of eighteen sixty. She also coordinates a visit
- 23:58Speaker 1: from Albert Edward, the Prince of Wales and look before
- 24:05Speaker 1: Jackie odasas Kennedy, few first ladies captured public imagination like
- 24:11Speaker 1: Harriet Lane.
- 24:12Speaker 4: Yeah, and Jackie OH loomed so large that I personally
- 24:16Speaker 4: did not know about the legacy of Harriet Lane, because
- 24:18Speaker 4: we really do think of Jackie O as being that quintessential,
- 24:22Speaker 4: you know, first lady's first lady kind of And I
- 24:24Speaker 4: think that's probably in no small part due to this
- 24:27Speaker 4: speculation about the president's bachelorhood. Did not seem to stick
- 24:32Speaker 4: in the mind of history in the same way that
- 24:35Speaker 4: Jackie O did. But she was very much on the
- 24:37Speaker 4: same playing field that Jackie O would occupy, capturing the
- 24:41Speaker 4: public imagination, et cetera.
- 24:44Speaker 1: Yeah, the important distinction here is that prior to Harriet Lane,
- 24:51Speaker 1: and maybe let's bracket Martha Washington between Martha Washington and
- 24:55Speaker 1: Harriet Lane. First ladies were very well known in the
- 25:00Speaker 1: up her crust of society, like in the DC Northeast area.
- 25:05Speaker 1: But if you ask someone in Oklahoma or California, they
- 25:09Speaker 1: probably wouldn't know much about this person. They might not
- 25:12Speaker 1: care as much. This changed with Harriet Lane because it
- 25:16Speaker 1: became cool to follow her, so women across the country
- 25:21Speaker 1: would copy the dresses and the gowns she was wearing,
- 25:25Speaker 1: like her inauguration gown.
- 25:27Speaker 2: People.
- 25:28Speaker 1: Yeah, people named their kids after her.
- 25:30Speaker 6: Dude.
- 25:31Speaker 1: They started writing her into popular songs and.
- 25:37Speaker 2: She was beloved. She was beloved.
- 25:39Speaker 1: Yeah, it's very Camelot Jackie O's stuff. And during this
- 25:43Speaker 1: context of history, the United States is teetering ever closer
- 25:49Speaker 1: to the brink of civil war. And this they called
- 25:52Speaker 1: her the Democratic Queen because the US has always eternally
- 25:56Speaker 1: struggled with the difference between meritocracy, democracy, and monarchy.
- 26:01Speaker 2: Right for sure.
- 26:03Speaker 4: Of course, she also was very active in philanthropic pursuits,
- 26:08Speaker 4: and she even took on the cause of Native peoples
- 26:12Speaker 4: of First First Nation peoples in improving conditions on these reservations,
- 26:17Speaker 4: which we know were not great.
- 26:21Speaker 1: Absolutely, And I would say, based on the conversations I've
- 26:25Speaker 1: had with another show of ours wrongful conviction, I would
- 26:28Speaker 1: say those terrible conditions also continue in the modern day
- 26:33Speaker 1: with indigenous American populations. But she was trying to trying
- 26:39Speaker 1: to improve conditions, making a good faith effort. Her uncle
- 26:43Speaker 1: leaves office in eighteen sixty one, but she's such a
- 26:46Speaker 1: successful social personality that she continues her philanthropy. She helps
- 26:52Speaker 1: found a children's clinic at the Johns Hopkins Hospital. So
- 26:56Speaker 1: thank you, miss Lane. That's fantastic. And while we're extolling
- 27:02Speaker 1: her virtues, let us also mention that she was a
- 27:05Speaker 1: huge fan of the arts, and she acquired so many
- 27:12Speaker 1: pieces of pretty notable work, and she had always plan
- 27:17Speaker 1: not to hoard it or give it to her family
- 27:19Speaker 1: when she finally passed, but she always wanted it to
- 27:23Speaker 1: be for the American people and patron Yeah, and when
- 27:27Speaker 1: she passes away in nineteen oh three, she gives it
- 27:30Speaker 1: all to uncle Sam And the Smithsonian is so happy
- 27:35Speaker 1: about this that one of their officials calls her the
- 27:38Speaker 1: first Lady of the National Collection of Fine Arts.
- 27:41Speaker 6: You got to start somewhere. She really kicked off that
- 27:43Speaker 6: collection in a very big way.
- 27:45Speaker 2: It's true.
- 27:45Speaker 4: And as we mentioned, she was hugely generous to Johns Hopkins,
- 27:49Speaker 4: the famous hospital in Baltimore, leaving an endowment to children's clinics,
- 27:55Speaker 4: and it became an incredibly important pediatric facility when that
- 27:59Speaker 4: was as much of a thing as it is today
- 28:02Speaker 4: in terms of like specialty facilities designated for children's healthcare
- 28:06Speaker 4: and for children dealing with very difficult conditions.
- 28:10Speaker 6: M hm.
- 28:11Speaker 1: And before we move on, Max, you hit us up
- 28:14Speaker 1: in the chat as a fellow presidential history buff. We're
- 28:18Speaker 1: interested to see what tangent you wanted to bring us
- 28:21Speaker 1: with Buchanan.
- 28:22Speaker 3: Yeah, it's just, you know, it's two things tangentially related
- 28:25Speaker 3: to the story. Well, because one thing is there's a
- 28:27Speaker 3: lot of the more clickbait you want about the first
- 28:29Speaker 3: gay presidents. People have this theory that Lincoln was in
- 28:32Speaker 3: fact gay, and a lot of times what you'll read
- 28:36Speaker 3: when stuff like that people like, oh, no, Buchanan was gay,
- 28:37Speaker 3: and obviously there's no proof on all this. I think,
- 28:40Speaker 3: you know, not to get too woke on my soapbox,
- 28:43Speaker 3: where I think it's more just like the lines are
- 28:45Speaker 3: more blurred than people may want to accept they are.
- 28:49Speaker 3: But I think the big reason why everyone likes to
- 28:51Speaker 3: talk about Buchanan in this way is because it's better
- 28:54Speaker 3: than talking about Buchanan in any other way, because he
- 28:57Speaker 3: is widely considered the first president of good dimension.
- 29:03Speaker 1: He's one of the worst three. He's one of the
- 29:05Speaker 1: worst three.
- 29:06Speaker 2: How is he such an f up?
- 29:08Speaker 3: She watched the country start the Civil War and did nothing?
- 29:13Speaker 3: He is amongst it's Andrew Johnson, James Buchanan, and Peer
- 29:18Speaker 3: and Peers are considered the three works were finding. Peers
- 29:21Speaker 3: is right before him, and Johnson is two after him,
- 29:24Speaker 3: so it goes Lincoln in Johnson. So it's three guys
- 29:26Speaker 3: in a row who just royally phipped up the Civil
- 29:29Speaker 3: War type stuff. If they would have done just even
- 29:31Speaker 3: a competent job, they would have gone a lot better.
- 29:35Speaker 3: And well, I mean Pierce was also fanning the flames.
- 29:37Speaker 3: He was a proud segregation right.
- 29:39Speaker 1: I would say if they had been not even competent
- 29:42Speaker 1: but less incompetent.
- 29:44Speaker 2: History, John Tyler is.
- 29:48Speaker 1: A completely different direction.
- 29:50Speaker 7: Loudly President, prey, excellent, first lady exactly. Yeah, you can't
- 29:55Speaker 7: win them all, it says America. But also to the
- 29:58Speaker 7: point about uh sexual at the time, yes, more fluid
- 30:02Speaker 7: in terms of how things were encountered in day to
- 30:06Speaker 7: day life on the ground. But the Abraham Lincoln rumors
- 30:10Speaker 7: in apocrypha come from some of his direct correspondents, but
- 30:15Speaker 7: also come from his younger days when he was bunking
- 30:20Speaker 7: in the same bed with another dude. I do want
- 30:23Speaker 7: to point out that at that time, when he was
- 30:26Speaker 7: living in the at that time in the areas that
- 30:29Speaker 7: he was living in, that was not uncommon, you know,
- 30:32Speaker 7: I mean, not everybody was able to pay for two
- 30:34Speaker 7: separate hotel rooms at the alla day in and folks,
- 30:37Speaker 7: with this, we are actually going to make an audible
- 30:41Speaker 7: which you won't hear the you won't hear this audible
- 30:44Speaker 7: because it's off Mike. We have conferred and this is
- 30:48Speaker 7: going to be part one of First Ladies Who Weren't
- 30:52Speaker 7: Wives Part two because there's just so much on Buchanan.
- 30:56Speaker 7: But we'll be back later this week with more first
- 31:00Speaker 7: Ladies who were first Ladies?
- 31:03Speaker 2: Yep, wives were wives.
- 31:07Speaker 4: Always a pleasure working with our buddy Jeff the g
- 31:10Speaker 4: Man Bartlett. Now what was it, G sauce factor, G money,
- 31:15Speaker 4: G unit, I like sauce though, Factor G remember G
- 31:18Speaker 4: Love and special sauce.
- 31:20Speaker 2: I think that's what my brain was portmanteauing it into.
- 31:23Speaker 1: Yes. Yeah, so big thanks to our research associate, Jeff
- 31:26Speaker 1: Factor G. Bartlett, Big big thanks to our returning super producer,
- 31:30Speaker 1: Max Williams.
- 31:32Speaker 2: Long Mickey Rang, Welcome back, buddy, and I.
- 31:34Speaker 1: Am overdue to check in with our composer Alex Williams.
- 31:38Speaker 1: I haven't spoken with him in a minute, but.
- 31:41Speaker 2: Max, Alex is doing well. He's doing great.
- 31:43Speaker 3: He is, you know, on the road doing the things
- 31:46Speaker 3: that Alex loves to do, hiking, yoga, having opinions about things.
- 31:51Speaker 3: Older brother that's a year and a half eight days.
- 31:54Speaker 2: Older than me. Okay, good dude, love the both of these.
- 31:58Speaker 6: Got to check in with with our buddy Alex as well,
- 32:00Speaker 6: who composed this bang and bop.
- 32:04Speaker 1: I'm very overdue actually to talk with Alex about some
- 32:08Speaker 1: screenplay stuff. So with Max, extra bonus points to you,
- 32:13Speaker 1: my friend, for being diplomatic. I know it could be
- 32:16Speaker 1: difficult with siblings sometimes.
- 32:18Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean, I mean I have a natural propensity
- 32:21Speaker 3: to be passive aggressive, and I did it on air,
- 32:23Speaker 3: and then I immediately started backtracking it because Smith has
- 32:27Speaker 3: not done me any good in my thirty four years
- 32:29Speaker 3: a life.
- 32:29Speaker 1: Yeah, speaking of cartoonishly passive aggressive. Big thanks to the
- 32:33Speaker 1: Quister aka Jonathan Strickland. Big thanks as well to aj
- 32:37Speaker 1: Bahama's Jacobs, Orgey Riverside cham who else, who else?
- 32:44Speaker 4: Oh, of course we've got Christopher Hasiotis and Eve's Jeff
- 32:47Speaker 4: Coates here in spirit and where would we be without
- 32:50Speaker 4: each other?
- 32:50Speaker 2: Ben, Huge thanks to you. This is a fun one.
- 32:53Speaker 2: This was a real romp.
- 32:54Speaker 1: And to you as well, everybody. Everybody who's feeling generous,
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