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- 0:00Hello, welcome to Chatting with Cara.
- 0:02I'm Cara, your compassionate life coach, relationship with
- 0:05food specialist, and I'm here to help you understand yourself a
- 0:09little bit better each week. However you found your way here
- 0:13today, I'm glad you're listening.
- 0:14Maybe your friend sent you this episode.
- 0:16Maybe you've been with me from the start, or maybe you're just
- 0:19curious about doing things differently when it comes to
- 0:22food, your body, and how you feel about yourself.
- 0:25Whatever brought you here, you're in the right place.
- 0:28Here's what I do on the show. I've honest, kind conversations
- 0:32about the stuff that's actually holding you back.
- 0:35Not the surface, several stuff, the deep stuff, the root causes.
- 0:39Because when you truly understand why you think and
- 0:42feel the way you do, then everything starts to change.
- 0:45It doesn't feel hard anymore. It just feels natural.
- 0:49So get comfortable, make yourself a group, and let's have
- 0:52a proper chat about the things that matter.
- 0:54This is chatting with Garba. Welcome to this week's Chatting
- 0:59with Cara. I have got a treat for you this
- 1:02week and we're not treating in the same word as like, food.
- 1:05No, this is an actual treat. I am joined today by Doctor
- 1:10Bangs. Hello, Doctor Bangs.
- 1:14Yes, there you are, Doctor Bangs, an obstetrician and
- 1:18gynaecologist. I'm going to let Laura introduce
- 1:20herself a lot better than what I have, but I really wanted Laura
- 1:25on my podcast because recently met Laura but followed it.
- 1:28Followed you for ages, haven't I?
- 1:30Yeah, I think so. One of the originals.
- 1:33Yes. And then I was like, oh, just
- 1:37you really meet someone on the same wavelength as as you.
- 1:39It's like, right, you need to come on my podcast.
- 1:42And now here she is. I am.
- 1:45Thank you so much for having me. I'm very excited.
- 1:48I'm very excited whenever I have a guest on.
- 1:51Everybody loves it. It's like they love the guests
- 1:52more than me. So try not I.
- 1:55Love you too, Cara. Try not to love Laura too much,
- 1:59but you know, I'm still here. I've got some great questions
- 2:03coming up for Laura today, so we're going to delve straight
- 2:08in. So, Laura, what's your name and
- 2:11where'd you come from? My name is Doctor Laura Banks.
- 2:15I'm a consultant obstetrician and gynecologist, and I come
- 2:18from Stoke on So yeah. So going back to that, actually
- 2:31tell me, give me like a snapshot of your life story.
- 2:35OK, so yeah, I was born in 1985, so I am 40, which is one of the
- 2:42best ages I feel, but that's digressing slightly.
- 2:45Born and bred in Stoke on Trent and went to the local high
- 2:50school, local college and decided that I had a an absolute
- 2:55fascination with the human body, particularly how women's bodies
- 2:59create babies and it doesn't go wrong more often and things like
- 3:03that. It just encapsulated and
- 3:04fascinated me, was quite sciency based, even though I was still a
- 3:09bit of creative sort of influence in me as well.
- 3:12And it was a case of right, do I want to be a doctor or do I want
- 3:14to be an interior designer? That was literally my, my kind
- 3:17of choices at sort of 1718 and did some science A levels, got
- 3:23quite good grades. And so I applied to, I actually
- 3:26applied to the University of Manchester to do medicine and I
- 3:29got a place. And when it came down to it the,
- 3:33that year, so it was 2003, I started medical school.
- 3:36They were starting a year at Manchester, but they were also
- 3:39starting a Guinea pig year at Keel.
- 3:41And they allocated me to the Guinea pig year at Keel.
- 3:43And I thought, oh, that's great, I've got into Med school, but
- 3:46it's a keel. It's literally 10 minutes down
- 3:47the road. I wanted to go to a big city,
- 3:50blah, blah. But actually it was the best
- 3:52thing that could have happened to me.
- 3:53Manchester had a year of about 450 students per year and we
- 3:58ended up with 56 per year. So yeah, did a five year course.
- 4:03A huge percentage, I think about 50 or 60% of us ended up
- 4:06marrying each other. It's quite an ancestral.
- 4:08Yeah. And I met my husband there and
- 4:11some of my greatest friends there.
- 4:13So yeah, I did five years at medical school at Keele and
- 4:16then, yeah, it started my junior doctor year, see, now called
- 4:19resident doctors, but junior doctor years at Stokes at the
- 4:22University Hospital of North Midlands, it's now called.
- 4:26And yeah, one of my very first jobs was in obstetrics and
- 4:28gynaecology and I ended ended up working as the junior doctor on
- 4:31the ward where I was born. So that was really cool.
- 4:35It was in the old maternity block before it got knocked down
- 4:37and they built the new big hospital there.
- 4:41And for me, going through medical school, we obviously
- 4:43have to cover every single aspect of the human body.
- 4:46But for me, it was always this fascination and this kind of, I
- 4:49was always drawn to 1's Women's Health that it just fascinates
- 4:53me how what women goes through, the changes they go through,
- 4:57what they can accomplish, what our bodies are capable of, full
- 5:00stop. And you, you kind of do a couple
- 5:03of years and then you have to apply for specialist training.
- 5:05And lots of people have a couple of options.
- 5:07I only ever applied for Opsangani because I didn't want
- 5:09to do anything else. That was all my eggs were in one
- 5:11basket. That was always going to do.
- 5:13So yeah, I got accepted to specialist training.
- 5:15This should take around roughly 7 years full time.
- 5:18But I married a trauma surgeon and had a couple of kids.
- 5:21So I did it part time over 12 1/2 years, which actually I
- 5:25think made me a better doctor because I've just experienced
- 5:28life and I've got to see my children grow up.
- 5:30I mean, they're not grown up by any stretch of the imagination.
- 5:35And it's just that that kind of working part time and yeah, we
- 5:39have to move around a lot in the West Midlands and things.
- 5:41But working in different hospitals, seeing so many
- 5:44different communities, seeing so many different cohorts of of
- 5:47kind of, you know, women and what they go through is amazing.
- 5:50Had some amazing teachers, learnt what I want to do when
- 5:54I'm a consultant and what I don't want to do when I'm a
- 5:56consultant, as we do through all walks of life.
- 5:59And yeah, I stayed in the NHS for about 20 years, became a
- 6:03consultant and realised that actually I felt quite stifled as
- 6:07a consultant. There were lots of things that I
- 6:09couldn't do within the NHS even though I tried to do them.
- 6:13And ultimately as well for me, it was a kind of, I, I suppose
- 6:17I'd burnt out in the NHS, too long working hours, too much
- 6:21pressure and that feeling of not being able to do enough for
- 6:25women with the resources that we had.
- 6:27I think we're all fairly aware that the NHS is time poor,
- 6:30underfunded. And so rather than trying to
- 6:35fix, fix, the NHSI resigned and now I've started my own medical
- 6:42company called the Dahlia Medical Company, which is still
- 6:46in its infancy and a little bit scary.
- 6:48And the whole point of daily medical is that actually you can
- 6:51do healthcare on your own terms. It's without the pressures of
- 6:54rush time, but it's with a real human that actually knows how it
- 7:00feels to struggle, but that has all this experience and this
- 7:03expert knowledge. And everything we do is still
- 7:05high quality evidence based care so that you know you're getting
- 7:09a human all this high quality evidence and it's about putting
- 7:12you back in the power, in the driving seat of your health.
- 7:16I love that. That's been a very big notcher.
- 7:20Isn't it just a sign of our time that you have to say you're
- 7:23getting a human? It's not always, it's not always
- 7:26the case nowadays, is it? I think AI has got, you know, AI
- 7:30and we'll probably talk about this a bit later.
- 7:31AI has got a really good important role I think in
- 7:33healthcare, but there's there's so much power in human
- 7:36connection and whilst AI will take over bits of it, you cannot
- 7:41be talking to people, whether it's in a podcast, a
- 7:45conversation after a meeting, etcetera.
- 7:47That's where that's where the real magic lies, I think.
- 7:50Yeah, well, it isn't it that is, that is human connection is the
- 7:53best thing. It really is.
- 7:56Thank you very much for that. That was a really great summary
- 7:58of everything and I love that. I'm always fascinated by doctors
- 8:03because when I was at university, we did an asthma
- 8:06Physiology with the first year doctors and you could tell the
- 8:10doctors I support science. So we were all there in like our
- 8:14track suits and then the doctors were there and they did like
- 8:17constantly. They were always under pressure.
- 8:20They were always like lecture to lecture.
- 8:22And we were like, what are you dressing up as?
- 8:24Was Wednesday night? And they were, they were just, I
- 8:28was. I'm always fascinated by
- 8:30doctors. We'd, we'd always get Wednesday
- 8:32afternoons off to sort of play sport and things like that.
- 8:36But you had so much work that you were catching up on it all
- 8:39the time. And I don't, I don't know about
- 8:41all the medical schools, but in Kiel the medical school was
- 8:43quite separate. It was sort of at the top of the
- 8:46hill. So we were quite isolated from
- 8:48the, the kind of rest of the, of the university.
- 8:51But there wasn't, it was a very traditional kind of, or
- 8:54untraditional as as unions go. We didn't really have days where
- 8:57we had no lectures. It was in the anatomy lab,
- 8:59lectures in the kind of experimentation lab.
- 9:02It was, it was full on for five years.
- 9:05Yeah, we've still got good holidays, extended breaks and
- 9:08things. But yeah, it was it was full on.
- 9:11Yeah, I can always remember our first year, we walked in to like
- 9:16a oh, what? What were they called?
- 9:18They were like, it was a lab. We walked into lab and it was a
- 9:21morgue and there were like bodies and we had to dissect
- 9:24these muscles and move these bones and identify stuff.
- 9:28And I was like prepared for this.
- 9:30And then we had to go back every Thursday.
- 9:32It was like, Oh my God. It's quite, I think because you,
- 9:37a lot of us were 18, so there was a quite a high percentage of
- 9:39post grads on our course because it was keel and they attracted a
- 9:42lot of post grads. But eight of us, there was a
- 9:44group of eight of us and we all had a cadaver.
- 9:46We all had a body as was called Fred.
- 9:50He wasn't actually called Fred. That's what we called him.
- 9:53We actually grew quite close to him.
- 9:54But we spent two years and yeah, we actually dissected every
- 9:58single part. I'll spare you the in depth
- 10:01stories that I mean, that's probably another podcast, but
- 10:04someone else's podcast, probably not your bag, but it it what is
- 10:09amazing, you kind of think, gosh, at 18, that's quite, it's
- 10:13quite a lot to deal with. But actually it gave me a
- 10:16massive, you know, when people donate their bodies to science,
- 10:19it's incredible because we spend that 30 years of medical school
- 10:22understanding the basics, which give you a real, you know, basis
- 10:28to understand everything else. It's and it was a real privilege
- 10:31to do. There's a lot, a lot of medical
- 10:32schools that don't do that now, but it was an incredible
- 10:35privilege. I I'll donate anything to
- 10:38scientific research I will like have it.
- 10:41Noted. You've recorded that now?
- 10:44Extended on me, I'll have anything.
- 10:49So when did you leave the NHS? So I officially left the NHS
- 10:53last September in 2025. That's when my contract
- 10:56finished. And I think, yeah, I finished on
- 11:01the 9th or 10th. And then a day or two later, I
- 11:04set up daily medical because I, I knew that I couldn't not do
- 11:10this. I, I thought about when I left
- 11:12the NHSI, thought, right, should I go and work in Lidl and do
- 11:16something, you know, completely different?
- 11:18Should I go and change career? But to be honest, I got to the
- 11:22age of 40 with two, I've got two daughters who are 6 and 11.
- 11:26And I just thought, I actually can't face, we do so many exams
- 11:29as a doctor, I thought I can't actually face any more
- 11:31education, any more exams in terms of big hurdles like that.
- 11:37And lots of the pressures in the NHS were kind of around.
- 11:41I wanted to spend more time with patients and I couldn't.
- 11:43I wanted to do things that the managers sort of said no to
- 11:46reasonable things, but just there wasn't the funding there.
- 11:49And then I kind of thought, well, something shifted in me
- 11:51massively at 40. And I thought, well, if I can't
- 11:54do it, if I can't do it there, why not?
- 11:57It sounds random, but you know, why not create my own healthcare
- 12:00company where I can call the shots and I can give patient
- 12:05centred care again? Because we all know that the NHS
- 12:08is built on a model of patient centred care.
- 12:10But actually, when it comes down to it, a lot of the time
- 12:13patients do get overlooked. It's balancing a spreadsheet,
- 12:16it's balancing a service provision.
- 12:19And so I thought I kind of did that.
- 12:21Well, how, how hard can it be? And it is tough trying to set up
- 12:25your own healthcare business. But the thing that drives me
- 12:27massively is I just have this unwavering passion for for
- 12:31Women's Health and I seem to be quite good at it.
- 12:34So that's why so many people around me were like, don't give
- 12:39this up, don't give this up. And I can't believe that I was
- 12:42ever in a situation now where I thought about giving it up.
- 12:45But I know that the situation I was in, in my NHS consulting job
- 12:49just wasn't the right situation. So I jumped out, doing it my own
- 12:53way. Yeah, you've literally just done
- 12:55the same thing but changed your environment, haven't you?
- 12:57Yeah, absolutely. It's it's that whole, you know,
- 12:59if a flower doesn't grow, we don't chastise the flower, do
- 13:01we? We water it, we maybe change it
- 13:04soil, we move it into the sunlight and choose it as it
- 13:07sounds. That's exactly what I've done
- 13:08with myself. Love that.
- 13:10So what does daily medical offer?
- 13:12What? What?
- 13:12What is it? So Daily Medical is a women's
- 13:17healthcare company that offers a range of services that ideally
- 13:22focus on the transitions in a woman's life.
- 13:25So my specialist passion is post Natal care and post Natal
- 13:30support. If you have had a baby or know
- 13:34anyone that has, you get at the moment we get quite reasonable
- 13:38care antenatally and delivery wise.
- 13:42But then post Natal you just get dropped off a Cliff and it's
- 13:45very much a case of well what do I do now?
- 13:47I've just been through a big transition, a life changing
- 13:49event. Everyone's focused on the baby,
- 13:52baby checks, baby this, baby that.
- 13:53What about the mum? So that's the first thing for me
- 13:56is, is post Natal care. The second thing is another
- 14:01transition is kind of perimenopause and menopausal
- 14:03care. So again we just get told this,
- 14:06Oh well, it's normal, it's your age, this, this, this and and
- 14:10whilst that is true, it doesn't mean that it shouldn't be
- 14:12supported. So at Daily Medical we offer
- 14:15post Natal checks, we offer, we're going to soon start
- 14:18offering a menopause service. We also, I also do something
- 14:23called ask the consultant, which is an ask the expert session.
- 14:26So for me, a lot of what I believe in is that and it's a
- 14:30cheesy phrase, I want to find a better one, but knowledge is
- 14:32power. So we get a lot of people that
- 14:35have been to see, they've waited ages, they've seen a consultant
- 14:37specialist and they've been told, for example, that they've
- 14:39got PMDD or they've been told that they've got endometriosis
- 14:43and they need to go on a waiting list for this or they need to
- 14:45try this drug. And you come away from that, you
- 14:48know, 10 minute, 20 minute appointment, best thinking, hang
- 14:51on a minute. What, what just happened?
- 14:53I, I don't know what that means. I don't, I didn't ask these
- 14:56questions. And you're kicking yourself to
- 14:58an ask the expert session is, is half an hour or an hour of time
- 15:01where you can literally just pick my brains.
- 15:04It's confidential as it would be with a, a medical appointment
- 15:06where you can just say, look, this is what I've got.
- 15:08This is what's been potentially recommended.
- 15:12What's the information? Where do I find it?
- 15:14Or the converse is some people will come with a collection of
- 15:17symptoms and they say, oh, I think I've got this, but I don't
- 15:19really know. And together we can work on a
- 15:21plan of like, right, this is the first thing you need to do.
- 15:23You need to go and see AGP. You need to ask for this, ask
- 15:25for that. And a lot of that side of things
- 15:27is just about empowerment and making, making women realise a
- 15:32lot of the time that they're not making it up.
- 15:35You know, a lot, a lot of people will think, oh, maybe it's just
- 15:37me. My symptoms aren't bad enough.
- 15:39You know, you don't hear, you do hear men saying that, but not to
- 15:42the same degree as women. Whereas actually in that sort of
- 15:46session, it's about, it's about that.
- 15:47It's empowering that no, common isn't normal.
- 15:51Just because that narrative is there doesn't mean it's normal.
- 15:53You do deserve to seek further help and and this is how to do
- 15:56it. Yeah, and if something's
- 15:58bothering you, then allow yourself like give yourself
- 16:00permission to go and get that help and.
- 16:03Absolutely. Yeah, I always think that NHS is
- 16:06a bit of a nightmare to navigate.
- 16:09Hugely said. Yeah, I always think, I wonder
- 16:12how vulnerable people do they just, they just can't.
- 16:14Well, they, they don't, they don't do that.
- 16:17They don't or we see people in extremists.
- 16:21So they've waited because it's not bad enough, waited because
- 16:23it's not bad enough. And then, you know,
- 16:24unfortunately in my career, we do all sorts of on calls and,
- 16:28you know, a couple of times a year, unfortunately you get
- 16:30someone who present really late stage cervical cancer because
- 16:34they're scared of their smear and they've not been.
- 16:37And then they've had this bleeding and they've not really
- 16:39wanted to bother anyone. And it's just there are so many
- 16:42barriers to so many people, and it shouldn't be like that.
- 16:47No, and you're aiming to take all them down.
- 16:49All of those down not, not in all the mongo, but just to to
- 16:53it's, it's to put people back in the driving seat.
- 16:56It's to, I think women, there have been massive improvements
- 17:00in women's healthcare, but I think Women's Health for me as a
- 17:03woman and as a practitioner still feels like it's on the
- 17:06back foot in terms of the NHS provision.
- 17:10We know the NHS is underfunded and, and understaffed, but also
- 17:14when you look at the amount of funding that gets spent on
- 17:16Women's Health, you know, a good 50% if not more of the
- 17:19population in the UK are women. And I think it's less than 5%
- 17:24gets spent on women's, women's gets spent on funding for
- 17:28Women's Health. Oh, it's ridiculous, isn't it?
- 17:31The maths isn't mapping there. It just doesn't make sense.
- 17:35And I think, you know, this is where people now are taking the,
- 17:40they're taking the reins and they are taking their medical
- 17:44and health journeys back. They are getting back in the
- 17:46driving seat of it and and relying on the NHS for some bits
- 17:49because the NHS is fantastic in some areas of care but in other
- 17:54areas it is lacking now and people are not willing to put up
- 17:56with that anymore and they shouldn't.
- 17:58No, that's completely right. They really shouldn't I think.
- 18:01I think one thing that I said to you about my post Natal check at
- 18:05six weeks, obviously I'm, I'm post Natal trained and in
- 18:09exercise and it's a six week check.
- 18:11I was like, I kind of like I, I know my own body.
- 18:14And then the six week check I had a telephone call.
- 18:17I was like. What I mean, I literally
- 18:23remember you sending me a message telling me that and it
- 18:25was the first time that I'd heard that someone had had that,
- 18:28that that was a thing that people were having their post
- 18:31Natal check over the phone. I mean, someone's just no
- 18:34offence, but someone is just ticking a box there, aren't
- 18:36they? Because that, that doesn't help
- 18:39you feel supported. No one can look or or feel or
- 18:43assess any scars or any pelvic floor concerns or, you know,
- 18:49it's just not good enough. And yeah, you could have, you
- 18:53don't build that same rapport over the phone and you could
- 18:54have something severe there that you're just on the phone.
- 18:57You think, oh gosh, I don't want to, I don't want to burden that
- 19:00person with that. And then you could be having
- 19:02those issues for years and years.
- 19:06Yeah, I see a lot of women come to Pilates in their 50s and 60s,
- 19:10and it's always like, oh, I had a big baby.
- 19:13And it's always like, oh, that happened.
- 19:17And like, and it's like, well, no, that's that's the narrative
- 19:21that you're told. But it's like, no, this can be
- 19:23sorted. You can do something about it.
- 19:26Absolutely. And I think postnate it's always
- 19:29that, oh, postnate your check at 6 to 8 weeks.
- 19:31Once you go past 6 to 8 weeks, you don't magically not become
- 19:34post Natal anymore. Once you've had a baby, you are
- 19:37post Natal forever in my eyes, in that your body has changed
- 19:42now and it needs to be treated and cared for potentially
- 19:45differently to someone who hasn't had a baby.
- 19:48And it's, it's like the whole premise of, you know, you
- 19:51magically turn 35 weeks at midnight and then 35 weeks and
- 19:56one day at midnight. You know, that it's the same
- 19:59sort of thing post Natal. Everyone is different.
- 20:01Everyone takes a slightly different duration to recover.
- 20:05And the support that is out there, physically, emotionally,
- 20:10psychologically, it just isn't good enough.
- 20:12But women are now taking this back into the hands of of trying
- 20:15to find good support. Yes 100% if you were around
- 20:20after I'd had Luca, which wasn't even COVID times by the way for
- 20:24like the post Natal check on the phone, I would 100% wanted
- 20:27someone to just look over me like what's going on.
- 20:31Yeah, and I think that's the other thing is that I remember
- 20:33when I had my first daughter, so she's nearly 12 now post natally
- 20:38there was nothing so I ended up looking for.
- 20:41So I have my GP review, which left some things to be desired,
- 20:45but then I was looking for a pelvic floor physio and then I
- 20:47was looking for someone to do yoga or Pilates.
- 20:49And you were, you were trying to spend all this money in all
- 20:53these different places. But also it was a time factor.
- 20:55Trying to get anywhere with a small baby is really hard.
- 20:58And that's what I do in my post Datal service, is that you come
- 21:01to me, we'll talk about your birth, we'll talk about the
- 21:05potential psychological impacts of your birth, but we'll do an
- 21:08examination, obviously with consent.
- 21:10We'll examine your abdomen and look for things like diastasis
- 21:13rectal, we'll examine your pelvic floor.
- 21:15We'll check that your stitches have healed from your
- 21:18episiotomy. We'll look at your cesarean
- 21:20section scar. Because the other things as well
- 21:22is, well, I'm experienced in that a lot of GPS, no,
- 21:25eventually you can, GPS are fantastic, but you can become a
- 21:28fully fledged GP without ever having Dunopsin Gyne.
- 21:31So they may not have seen those things before and will have
- 21:34difficulty deciphering what's normal and what's not.
- 21:37Things like scar massage, we can talk about that as well.
- 21:40So the hope is whilst I won't do a full Pilatos class with you, I
- 21:44can give you the give you the actual check UPS that you
- 21:48deserve. Physical, emotional,
- 21:50psychological. And then we either work together
- 21:53more or I signpost you and put you in the right direction of
- 21:56people who are trust, who I know can help you get back to feeling
- 22:00like yourself. Oh.
- 22:01I love that. That's fantastic.
- 22:03I think you touched on there the psychological bit as well,
- 22:05haven't you? That's.
- 22:06Massive. It's huge.
- 22:09And do you know what, for a lot of people, the psychological
- 22:11aspect is bigger than the physical concerns.
- 22:16And I think the other thing that that really upsets me, if you
- 22:20like, is that on paper it, it might say that you had a
- 22:24straightforward vaginal birth, but that doesn't, that doesn't
- 22:29mean anything on paper. That doesn't tell me how that
- 22:32person interpreted that birth, what their experience was like.
- 22:36And I think we're very quick to sort of in the, in the NHS
- 22:39particularly, people are very quick to say, oh, well, you've
- 22:41had a straightforward vaginal birth.
- 22:42You, you did great. You know, why are you worried?
- 22:45Why, why have you got hang ups about it kind of thing?
- 22:48And it's, it's not for us to say, I think birth is birth is
- 22:53this transformational event. And it's like anything, isn't
- 22:58it? You kind of, you can prepare
- 23:00yourself for it and you can think about how you might act in
- 23:03it. But until you're in that
- 23:04situation, you never really know how you're going to feel, how
- 23:08you're going to act. And that's for me where
- 23:12education comes back because education is really powerful.
- 23:14If you know what you're going into, you can arm yourself with
- 23:17all that, all that knowledge that you need to kind of
- 23:20navigate the complexities of of birth in the NHS.
- 23:24But it's birth trauma is something that we are talking
- 23:28about more now, which I'm incredibly happy about, but it's
- 23:33something that I think still has a little bit of shame associated
- 23:35with it for some people where they think, oh, well, I'm fine
- 23:39and my baby's fine. So I, I shouldn't complain or I,
- 23:43I shouldn't say that I feel like this.
- 23:45It doesn't matter. It matters how you feel.
- 23:48It matters what your experience is.
- 23:50And I think we do women a disservice by not giving
- 23:55everyone the chance to have a birth debrief afterwards where
- 23:57they can kind of talk about it, ask questions, fill in the gaps
- 24:02because you will get some gaps. You will you will get some
- 24:04unanswered questions. And that's very normal.
- 24:06But I. Think that's really evident when
- 24:08you're pregnant and everybody tells you about their own birth
- 24:11and everybody's like, oh, this happened and then this was like
- 24:15traumatic. And then there's 12 people in
- 24:18the room and like, and I just think they've almost like
- 24:20getting their own, like, birth trauma on you.
- 24:25Yeah, there was somewhere healthy for them to say it, like
- 24:28your clinic that would help people so much.
- 24:33It, it, it would and it does. And it's about holding space for
- 24:36people. Because I think a lot of the
- 24:38time when you're when it's your nearest and dearest, say, if
- 24:41you're lucky enough to have the support of more, more sister or
- 24:43whatever, you sometimes feel like you can't say those things
- 24:47to that person because particularly older generation
- 24:49are, well, you're all right and your baby's all right.
- 24:51So what you're moaning about, but to have that independent
- 24:54person where you do have space and it's literally just for you.
- 24:58I mean, I love babies, don't get me wrong, but I don't really
- 25:00care about the baby. I care about you.
- 25:02As long as you feed your baby, you're baby fine.
- 25:04But you know, I care about, I care about the mum.
- 25:06I also care about the birth partner as well, whether that be
- 25:09dad, mother, brother or sister, because it can be incredibly
- 25:11traumatic for them as well. And and like you say, then
- 25:16hopefully we can get rid of some of that.
- 25:18Oh, you're pregnant. Oh, let me tell you my Horror
- 25:20Story. If you, when you kind of apply
- 25:23the same thing, if someone's broken their leg, people will
- 25:25tell you, oh, I broke my leg and it was fine.
- 25:27You know, you know what tells you that Horror Story?
- 25:31Do they have? Oh, well, I had to have several
- 25:32operations, then it got infected, blah, blah, blah.
- 25:35But with birth, it seems to be a free for all.
- 25:38And I think you're dead, right. I think you've hit the nail on
- 25:40the head there. But people get it out because
- 25:42they've never been given that space before.
- 25:44Yeah, they've held nowhere else for that to go.
- 25:46There's nowhere out there. Just don't.
- 25:47Provide that service. Exactly.
- 25:50So I think, gosh, I think it's so important.
- 25:56I often think I used to buy, we've kind of grown out as
- 25:59friends of having babies now, but I used to buy, you know,
- 26:01outfits and something for the mum and this and that and the
- 26:03other. But I think now I'd buy my
- 26:05friends all a birthday brief session.
- 26:07It's kind of like they're all gift them that because just
- 26:11having that space for yourself with or without your baby there
- 26:14is just priceless. What a fantastic baby shower
- 26:18gift. Yeah, wouldn't it?
- 26:20That'd be awesome. Oh, I love that.
- 26:24Because you end up millions of outfits and things, don't you?
- 26:27And bits and bobs for the baby. But yeah, what about the mum?
- 26:30So you work online and you also work at where?
- 26:34Where else do you? Work.
- 26:35Yeah. So at the moment I work at
- 26:36Shropshire Health which is over in Leeton.
- 26:39So that is run by Doctor Serena Jones who's an NHSGP.
- 26:45So it's a private medical clinic basically registered with the
- 26:49CQC and she offers all sorts of services.
- 26:51But I work there so I can see you in person there.
- 26:55I also do online appointments so if you want to have the ask the
- 26:59consultant session we can do that online but also I can do a
- 27:01hybrid with post Natal appointments for example.
- 27:04So some people will say right, my standard post Natal
- 27:07appointment is 45 minutes to an hour.
- 27:09Some people will say I can't be there that long because of
- 27:11travel or whatever. We can do half an hour of the
- 27:13appointment online and then you can come at a convenient time
- 27:17for the sort of 1520 minutes extra and have the examination
- 27:20in clinic. So I make it, I try and make it
- 27:22really flexible and obviously babies are welcome and so is
- 27:26someone else to help look after the baby or be with you there to
- 27:29support you. There's no kind of limits on
- 27:30numbers and things just so that we can kind of make this care as
- 27:34accessible as possible. If you need to stop in between
- 27:36to feed your baby, that's absolutely fine.
- 27:38If you need to have multiple trips to the toilet, that's OK
- 27:42too. It's just about making people
- 27:44feel comfortable but them still getting the care that they need.
- 27:47Oh. I love that.
- 27:49I absolutely love that. What would you say right, Going
- 27:53on to Women's Health things that I feel like I'm looking at you a
- 27:56bit ranty here. Oh, don't start me.
- 28:01What would be the one thing that you wished every woman knew in
- 28:05relation to their health? I really like this question.
- 28:11So it's it's kind of twofold. I think the first thing that I
- 28:15want women to know is that symptoms are not necessarily
- 28:18personality traits. So we say things such as, oh, I
- 28:23just have really bad periods or oh, I'm being dramatic about my
- 28:27pelvic pain or, you know, I'm just unlucky that I have heavy
- 28:30periods that doesn't don't pass those things off as just part of
- 28:36you that you have to accept them.
- 28:38You health is in your, your health is in your power to
- 28:43change in it, to get sought. So rather than just saying, Oh
- 28:46yeah, well, everyone in my family had heavy periods, so I
- 28:49do too, That doesn't mean there isn't something we can do about
- 28:52it. There's things that we can do to
- 28:53treat it, to make your life that little bit better, to improve
- 28:56your quality of life rather than you just having to sit and
- 28:59suffer in silence. I love that it's not a
- 29:02personality trait. We do, don't we?
- 29:04As women, You know, you, I just have bad periods or I just have,
- 29:08you know, oh, I'm, I'm terrible at smears.
- 29:11Or, you know, I've heard people say that I'm like, what?
- 29:12What do you mean? You can't be bad at a smear?
- 29:15It's about us recognizing what's difficult for you, how can we
- 29:19modify that and how can we make your experience that bit more
- 29:22comfortable so that actually you confuse me a screening because
- 29:24that's really important for your long term health.
- 29:28That I love that. That's so interesting.
- 29:30I would never have gone down that Ave.
- 29:31That's not where I. Oh, what would you have said?
- 29:36Oh, I don't know. But I think like prioritise
- 29:39themselves a bit. But actually it's like the lay
- 29:41underneath that you've got and you've gone.
- 29:43Like no, this isn't. No.
- 29:46Well, I think. Done.
- 29:47Yeah, because, you know, it's easy for me to sit here and say,
- 29:50oh, just prioritise yourself. I don't know about you, but I'm
- 29:53really good at looking after other people.
- 29:55I'm still learning to look after myself.
- 29:57And, and a blanket thing of it's like a goal, isn't it?
- 29:59Make it smart and specific. A blanket thing of prioritise
- 30:02yourself. Well, that looks incredibly
- 30:04different for lots of different people.
- 30:06And there's a huge amount of barriers to that as well.
- 30:08But if you say something like that, it's it's not a
- 30:10personality trait. Actually get it investigated
- 30:13that, you know, someone might listen to this and think, oh,
- 30:16I'm 35, I've had heavy periods for ages and they kind of make
- 30:19me really miserable. Maybe I should go and do
- 30:21something about it. And if if one person listens to
- 30:24this and goes to seek advice or see their GP or especially
- 30:27because of that, then we're doing a good thing.
- 30:30Absolutely, literally, I did my menopause workshop a few days
- 30:33ago and one lady was like, oh, I've always had heavy periods
- 30:38and it was just just said it like really not blase, but like
- 30:42just like the that was what what happened, yeah.
- 30:46Just accepting of it like, well, no one can help me.
- 30:48There's nothing you know always. Always, always been it.
- 30:52So that's interesting. I love that answer.
- 30:55Oh, I love that one. Next question you're going to go
- 31:00round to you on this. Can you debunk some myths that
- 31:04you see on social media that do your head in?
- 31:08How many am I limited to? The ones that really annoy you
- 31:12because I'm, I did a sports science degree, so I'm evidence
- 31:15based. You're evidence based.
- 31:17And we just like, look at each other sometimes and like, Oh my
- 31:20God, where has who has made-up this selling thing?
- 31:26Oh, so I think the the caveat to all of these and, and the thing
- 31:29I would say is don't let, don't let social media influences
- 31:34hijack your critical thinking. Don't.
- 31:38If an influencer isn't a doctor or doesn't have any kind of
- 31:41sports science degree or evidence based background, you
- 31:44cannot trust them wholeheartedly for your evidence.
- 31:47Then you need to just they are getting paid.
- 31:50There is a very very big conflict of interest there.
- 31:55But going down to the myth, you'll have to tell me.
- 31:58OK, I think my first one has to be that you can balance your
- 32:01hormones. Hormones are not unruly toddlers
- 32:08running around a park, OK? Hormones are meant to be on
- 32:11balance from time to time. We have something called the
- 32:13endocrine system, which exists in our body to control all the
- 32:17hormones and, and things that happen in our body.
- 32:20And it has a very, very exact and incredible system of, of how
- 32:27we control our bodies. And it does that really, really
- 32:30well on its own. If it didn't, we'd be dead.
- 32:33So you cannot, you cannot take anything that will balance your
- 32:37hormones, and you do not need to do anything to balance your
- 32:39hormones, such as following a particular diet or taking a
- 32:43particular supplement. Your body balances its hormones
- 32:47as and when it needs to of its own accord.
- 32:49Now, there is some sort of overlap with that of, well, when
- 32:52you hit perimenopause, you need to balance your hormones.
- 32:54Well, yeah, you do get a significant drop in estrogen.
- 32:57So you do need to have some estrogen sometimes if that's
- 33:00what you want, you know, if that's the oven you need to go
- 33:02down. But you cannot balance your
- 33:03hormones, full stop. So that's my first one.
- 33:09There we go. What's the next one?
- 33:12My second one. My second one is collagen.
- 33:16Oh, excellent. So OK, where do I start?
- 33:21Collagen supplements are everywhere.
- 33:24Everywhere I look everyone is talking about them.
- 33:27Everyone is on one or has been on one.
- 33:30So collagen is a protein that's in our body and it's in loads of
- 33:34different places in our body. So particularly where we notice
- 33:37it is, is skin, bones, joints, etcetera.
- 33:41It's a protein and protein is a thing that is build up of little
- 33:46building blocks called amino acids.
- 33:49So when you take collagen supplements, which can be quite
- 33:51expensive, when you take that and you ingest it, our body
- 33:55breaks it down into amino acids. Our body then decides which
- 33:59protein it builds those amino acids into, kind of makes its
- 34:02own little recipes. It cannot go right.
- 34:05Well, skin, you need more collagen.
- 34:06So I'm going to point you that way.
- 34:07Oh, right hip, you need some more collagen on your articular
- 34:12stiffs. I'm going to send you that.
- 34:13It cannot do that. Now, there are lots of collagen
- 34:15supplements out there. I've read a lot of the data and
- 34:18I'm not aware of any of them that can pinpoint where you need
- 34:20to. Now, you get a lot of people
- 34:22that say, but I take collagen supplements and my skin got
- 34:25better or my joint health got better.
- 34:27And that may be true, but that is probably because those people
- 34:30were lacking protein in their diet anyway.
- 34:33So actually, they're just taking a really, really good, expensive
- 34:37form of protein and they're improving their protein intake
- 34:41overall, and that's why they're getting some benefits.
- 34:43But you cannot, unfortunately, our collagen will start to
- 34:45decline from about the age of 25 the more birthdays we have.
- 34:49But you cannot. You cannot replace the collagen
- 34:52in your skin or your joints by ingesting collagen.
- 34:56Full stop. Excellent.
- 34:58I love it. Collagen does my head in as
- 35:00well. It's so expensive of what it is.
- 35:02It's really cheap to make and then it's so expensive it
- 35:05doesn't do anything. There's literally.
- 35:09There isn't and, and any, you've got to be careful because any
- 35:12evidence that is there, you've got to think about right.
- 35:14Well, who funded this evidence and any evidence that is out
- 35:17there when these companies claim, oh, you know, 89% of our
- 35:20participants notice an improvement at six weeks.
- 35:23Dig deeper. Who is that study funded by?
- 35:26Oh, actually it's funded by the company that are selling it.
- 35:31So like. You're poor quality.
- 35:33Yeah. And you've just got to take
- 35:36that, you've got to take that into consideration and and also
- 35:41I know it's appealing kind of improved aesthetic results and
- 35:44improved joint health, but there are other better things that you
- 35:47can do where you can spend your money more effectively.
- 35:50So looking at collagen for joint health will actually do some
- 35:56strength and weight training because that will have a much
- 35:59longer long term benefit than taking any expensive collagen or
- 36:03Plymouth would. I'm awful women spending money
- 36:05on themselves, but spend it in the places where we've got good
- 36:09solid evidence that it shows some improvement.
- 36:11Yes, spend it on the right thing.
- 36:13Spend it on the right thing. Yes, exactly.
- 36:15One more DD myth D debunk another myth for me.
- 36:20I think the other myth, and I think I think this is getting
- 36:24there anyway, is that common equals normal.
- 36:28They're not the same thing. So it's very common to leak
- 36:32urine after you have a baby, but it's not normal that can be
- 36:35improved. It's very common to have every
- 36:38periods, but again, that can be improved.
- 36:40It's, you know, it doesn't mean that it's normal and you have to
- 36:43put up with it. That's not just the way your
- 36:44body is. I think we're so accepting as,
- 36:48as women in a society that, well, that is just the way I am
- 36:50and all, but I have all these people to look after before me
- 36:53and, and work and this and that. We're not very good at putting
- 36:56ourselves 1st. And that goes for me too.
- 36:58I, I'm really good at looking after other people, but not
- 37:00myself. And I think there's that
- 37:02societal pressure that we're meant to be the caregivers for
- 37:04everyone and that actually it's a little bit selfish to put
- 37:08yourself first because painful periods, it's that you know, and
- 37:14it's not, it's done. It's not a blanket statement
- 37:16because it's not. It could be true, but you know,
- 37:19heavy periods aren't going to kill you, but they will make
- 37:22your life bloody miserable and you'll make your quality of life
- 37:27just just take the shine off everything.
- 37:29And actually, if you prioritised yourself and made that
- 37:32appointment with the GP or made that appointment with the
- 37:34specialist, you might actually find that you improve your
- 37:37quality of life significantly with a really small intervention
- 37:41and actually find a lot of joy again and be able to cope better
- 37:43with things. The list goes on.
- 37:45Oh. I love that.
- 37:47Yeah, it's that's the thing, isn't it?
- 37:49Just because it's common doesn't mean that it's normal.
- 37:51Yeah, and I think it's that whole thing.
- 37:53If a friend came to you for advice about the same problem
- 37:55that you're experiencing and what would you say?
- 37:57You wouldn't say, oh, just put up with it.
- 37:59You'd advocate for her. You'd say go and see the GP, go
- 38:03and do this, go and do that. Have you tried this?
- 38:04Have you tried that? But we're really, we're not so
- 38:07good at doing that for ourself, are we?
- 38:08No, I'm not at least a pain. Yeah, even at Christmas, like
- 38:12Steph sent me to the doctors in between Christmas and New Year.
- 38:15It's like you're you've had that cough for ages to go and get it
- 38:18sorted. And I was like, oh, he said it.
- 38:20It must be like, yeah, a chest infection.
- 38:26It gives you that reality check, doesn't it, when someone else
- 38:28says it? But again, you're kind of
- 38:30waiting for the, oh, it's bad enough now, so I'll go.
- 38:34You don't have to wait for that. Bad enough.
- 38:36And, and I know a lot of people will say, oh, but doctors are,
- 38:39you know, overstretched, overweight, blah, blah, blah.
- 38:41You're never wasting our time. I worry more about the people
- 38:44that don't come and see me because they are, you know, what
- 38:47are they hiding? What are they harbouring you?
- 38:49Never. No one will ever waste my time.
- 38:51No one has ever wasted my time. I've never had a patient where I
- 38:54thought, my gosh, why have you brought this in?
- 38:56Why? Why are you even worrying about
- 38:57this? Because if you're worried about
- 39:00it, I'm worried about it, full stop.
- 39:03That leads me to my next question, actually, What do you
- 39:06wish everybody knew about doctors?
- 39:10Oh. Two things, I suppose. 1 is that
- 39:14we're also human. I think a lot of in my career
- 39:18and in my training, everyone says, oh, you're a superhuman,
- 39:21you're a superwoman, how do you do it?
- 39:22I'm not a superwoman. I'm a very normal 4840 year old
- 39:26woman. I run out of milk and I shout my
- 39:28kids in the morning to put their shoes on.
- 39:31But I think it's that, it's that we struggle too.
- 39:35So we struggle as humans, but we also struggle within the system
- 39:39that we're working in. So the, the, the NHS at the
- 39:41moment, no doctor ever wakes up in the morning to do a bad job.
- 39:45We want to help you as much as we can.
- 39:47We want to give you the time, we want to give you the, the access
- 39:50to care that we need to. But at the moment lots of
- 39:54doctors in the NHS are struggling with that because of
- 39:57time pressures, money pressures. And it as that it, it may seem
- 40:01sometimes that doctors in the NHS are not helping you as much
- 40:05as they think you can, not helping you as much as you think
- 40:08they might be able to. But that's because of other
- 40:11allied pressures. We go home and we worry about
- 40:13patients. We go home and we think about
- 40:14you. We call you out of hours because
- 40:17we're concerned and we're worried.
- 40:18We're always thinking about our patients and it's never being a
- 40:22doctor is never just a job. It's a vocation.
- 40:24We don't, we don't switch off when we switch our computers
- 40:27off. We're always thinking and we're
- 40:29always putting your best interests at heart.
- 40:34Love that, Love that you are human, aren't you?
- 40:37Yeah. You're literally a human.
- 40:39You're not a robot. No, I'm not a robot, promise.
- 40:45Where do you think like Women's Health is going over like the
- 40:49next few years? Like, what's the next big thing?
- 40:51What's what's on the horizon? This is a really interesting
- 40:55question. I feel like we have done so much
- 41:00in empowering women to to this point, but I still think we need
- 41:03to go away further with that. So I think for me, I think for
- 41:09me, the big thing that's come in is AI.
- 41:11So with the rise of artificial intelligence, I think there's
- 41:14some really good things out there sort of cycle tracking,
- 41:17symptom tracking, etcetera. And I think they can collect a
- 41:22lot of data, but it's my question is about how they
- 41:26interpret, interpret that data. So I think we've got to be
- 41:30really careful in dehumanising things.
- 41:33IEI, in my personal opinion, I don't think you can replace as a
- 41:38doctor. We're diagnosticians, we've put
- 41:40all your symptoms together and pieces of the puzzle and work
- 41:42out what's going on. And I don't think you can
- 41:44replace that totally with AI. So I think AI is going to be
- 41:47really useful in empowering us to collect the answers to the
- 41:49questions that we need to work out stuff.
- 41:51But I don't think it's going to replace doctors.
- 41:55It certainly doesn't replace human connection.
- 41:57And I think that's where a lot of consultant, a lot of
- 42:01consultations I've done in the past, I've not said anything
- 42:04groundbreaking. I've not delivered a horrendous
- 42:06diagnosis or whatever, not said anything life changing, but that
- 42:10holding space for people and them feeling heard and then
- 42:13feeling informed and empowered is where the magic happens.
- 42:17And I think that's what AI cannot, AI can't do that.
- 42:22So I think whilst AI is useful, I think we've got to be careful
- 42:25how we use it. And then I think the other thing
- 42:28that's coming in Women's Health is, and again, this isn't
- 42:31groundbreaking, is there's this big shift in going back to
- 42:33basics. So focusing on movement,
- 42:37focusing on good nutrition because that's what we used to
- 42:41do. And then we've got all these
- 42:43things in the middle where it's all very noisy and we're all
- 42:45taking millions of supplements and we're doing all these crazy
- 42:47things and working these, you know, not nine to five jobs
- 42:50anymore. And I think actually what's
- 42:52going to happen is we are going to go right back to basics.
- 42:55We're going to prioritise food, we're going to prioritise
- 42:57movement, we're going to prioritise our mental health.
- 43:00And hopefully society will follow in the, at the moment we
- 43:05have this, this awful thing where particularly as a mother,
- 43:09you're meant to parent like you don't have a job and you're
- 43:12meant to work like you don't have kids.
- 43:14And that's, we all know that's completely unsustainable.
- 43:17And I think we're, we're going to go back to, to that.
- 43:20I think we're going to go back to basics.
- 43:23I think we need to go back to basics because otherwise we're
- 43:25going to implode. Is is because the basics work,
- 43:29that's why. The basics are they, they've
- 43:31worked for thousands of years and it's that if it ain't broke,
- 43:34don't fix it kind of thing, you know, walking outside, getting
- 43:37fresh air, being amongst nature. And the best bit about that is
- 43:40it's free. Yes, exactly.
- 43:43Yeah, totally get that. Oh, I love it.
- 43:46What are your ambitions for Dahlia?
- 43:48Is it Dahlia? I can't.
- 43:49Dahlia. Yeah, Dahlia.
- 43:52Dahlia like the flower so. That Delilah is not a flower, is
- 43:57it? No.
- 43:58No, that's a girl's name something.
- 44:00Yes, it is. So Dahlia came about.
- 44:04I'll tell you the story quickly because then maybe you'll
- 44:06remember it. So I took a period of time out
- 44:10of work when I was really burnt out and my mental health had
- 44:14dipped and I needed to do something.
- 44:17And a therapist said to me, what's your hobby?
- 44:18And I said, I don't have a hobby.
- 44:20I've never had time for a hobby. Does raising children count?
- 44:23And we'd not long moved house, but a massive beautiful garden.
- 44:26She said, start growing things. And I grew tomatoes and I grew
- 44:29dahlias. And one day a friend came round
- 44:32and she said, do you realise that dahlias are a symbol of
- 44:36female empowerment and, you know, being born again kind of
- 44:41thing. And it was at that moment that I
- 44:44thought, oh, I can do women's half my own way and daily
- 44:48medical spa tada half. Daily medical, right?
- 44:52That's so there you go. Dahlia think of me with my
- 44:54dahlias daily. Daily.
- 44:56So what are my ambitions apart from?
- 44:58Just want you to. Go what's your so apart from
- 45:01taking over the world, obviously.
- 45:02No, I just I for me, I want Dahlia medical.
- 45:06So daily medical at the moment I I kind of operate mainly in in
- 45:09Shropshire, but it will go. We're going to work Cheshire and
- 45:14Staffordshire way and I want Daily Medical to be the go to
- 45:17place for women and you know other people who have female
- 45:23reproductive anatomy to come for.
- 45:27It's their one stop shop for. I need evidence based, good
- 45:30quality, high level healthcare from a nice person that can
- 45:34explain things in a simple manner that they come to us,
- 45:39that they know, they are confident in us, that we will
- 45:42make them feel like themselves again.
- 45:45The other thing with Daily Medical is I want to collaborate
- 45:47as much as possible with as many people out there as possible
- 45:50because yeah, OK, as a consultant obstetrician and
- 45:53gynaecologists, I do have a lot of knowledge, but I don't know
- 45:55everything. No one knows everything.
- 45:57And I love collaborating with like minded people who are
- 46:01passionate about Women's Health, whatever arm that is.
- 46:04Because I think together, pulling knowledge together and
- 46:07sharing resources and sharing. There's no kind of competition.
- 46:11There's no, oh, I know more than you.
- 46:13What's the point? We're all here to help women
- 46:15feel their best and for them to get back to feeling how they did
- 46:19before. And if we can collaborate and
- 46:23bring pools of knowledge together like that again, that's
- 46:26kind of where the magic happens. I want people to feel.
- 46:30Yeah. I just want women to feel like
- 46:32themselves again. And if we can help facilitate
- 46:35that, that would just bring me so much joy.
- 46:38Oh, I can tell. I can tell if that's what you
- 46:40want, isn't it? You're like, yes, this is this.
- 46:43Is it because you're not a businesswoman?
- 46:46Well, you weren't, were you? But you are now.
- 46:49Yes, I am now apparently. Yeah, I have.
- 46:52Yeah. I've, I've always been in in
- 46:54healthcare. My business experiences that I
- 46:57worked in Tesco on a Sunday and I worked in a pharmacy on a
- 47:00Saturday. That's the extent of my business
- 47:02knowledge. But no, I'm I am, I am a
- 47:06businesswoman, I suppose, because I'm running my own
- 47:08healthcare company with lots of help.
- 47:11But primarily I am a woman that likes to support other women.
- 47:14I will straighten your crown rather than snatch it off your
- 47:17head. And that's how it should be,
- 47:19whether that's about your your career, your parenting issues,
- 47:23or particularly about your health concerns.
- 47:26I am that woman. I love that.
- 47:28So if someone's been listening to this and they're like, right,
- 47:30I need a bit of Dr. Lower bangs in my life, where can they find
- 47:35you? So they can find doctor Bangs,
- 47:37the gynaecologist. Mainly it depends what you would
- 47:41like, which method you would like to contact me.
- 47:43So we have an Instagram page which is at Dahlia Medical.
- 47:47You can send me Adm on there. We also have a WhatsApp number
- 47:50that you can send me a message on any time and the information
- 47:53is on our Instagram page. We've got a Facebook page and
- 47:59then we've also got an e-mail address and we've got a client
- 48:02form on our website. So you can choose your chosen
- 48:06method. Send me any questions about even
- 48:09if you think, oh, I think I might need this appointment or I
- 48:12don't know what appointment I need, but I feel like you can
- 48:13help me. Drop me a message, we'll have a
- 48:16chat and we'll work out what the best thing for you is.
- 48:19Lovely. Thank you very much.
- 48:20I'll pop all them in the show notes.
- 48:22But thank you so much, Laura. You've been fantastic.
- 48:26You've gone down like bits that I didn't think of.
- 48:29Really thought that would be. Oh, thank you.
- 48:31This has been such an amazing chat.
- 48:33Honestly, I could chat all day about this stuff.
- 48:35It's awesome, yeah. It's really good, isn't it?
- 48:36So I was like earlier, I've got no worries about you can on my
- 48:40podcast. It's just like, I know that you
- 48:43do the facts. You are like you, yeah, operate
- 48:47on the same sort of system to me.
- 48:49So. That's fantastic.
- 48:50But yeah, you're going to be fantastic businesswoman.
- 48:53You're a fantastic doctor. So thank you very much if you
- 48:57have listened to this. And you're like, right, I need
- 48:59doctor bangs. Go and check her out in the show
- 49:02notes. Thank you very much for
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