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Replay* | The Judgment Olympics with Good Mom Bad Choices · We Talk Back

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  Speaker 1: Welcome to We Talk Back Podcast, the production of iHeartRadio
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  Speaker 1: and the Black Effect Network Talk.
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  Speaker 2: We're just two unapologetically black women with an opinion who talks.
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  Speaker 3: Hey, y'all, at your girl a j holiday? What's up,
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  Speaker 3: Tam Bam?
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  Speaker 2: Hey aj I love y'all so much. How was your weekend?
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  Speaker 1: My weekend was very uneventful. It's been getting cold outside
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  Speaker 1: and that's it. There's really nothing much going on in
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  Speaker 1: South Carolina right now.
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  Speaker 3: I'm Hiberneaton.
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  Speaker 2: So you didn't have bay.
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  Speaker 3: Me about that nigga.
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  Speaker 1: Listen.
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  Speaker 2: You tell me every week, so I was just wondering
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  Speaker 2: you asked me.
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  Speaker 1: I don't be mentioning him because you asked me, and
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  Speaker 1: sometimes I be having to explained some ship that I
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  Speaker 1: said on this this damn podcast.
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  Speaker 2: He listens to listen, so he listens every week. I'm
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  Speaker 2: make sure my niggas don't listen.
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  Speaker 3: Every week.
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  Speaker 1: He'd be knowing what we're talking about. Like last week
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  Speaker 1: he was like, so you want a marathon? But yes,
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  Speaker 1: actually I do, so was it talking about you?
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  Speaker 2: So he's gonna have two shows to listen to this week,
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  Speaker 2: ours and our guests. So y'all, we got some amazing
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  Speaker 2: guests on their cousins to the podcast. They're like our
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  Speaker 2: Sisters show on the network because it's female led Mela
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  Speaker 2: and Erica from Good Mom's Bad Choices. It's our guests
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  Speaker 2: on the show this week. Welcome Lady ah here, Hey girl.
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  Speaker 3: Eighty Hey.
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  Speaker 2: So we just got on with them yesterday and we
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  Speaker 2: had a really good time talking with them, and now
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  Speaker 2: we had to bring them over here with our of
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  Speaker 2: your listeners. So maybe y'all can jump on and listen
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  Speaker 2: to their show if you already aren't. They probably already
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  Speaker 2: tuning in, so I don't know where I was about
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  Speaker 2: to go with it.
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  Speaker 3: You high her?
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  Speaker 2: Oh yeah, let's talk about y'all.
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  Speaker 3: Weekend LA is pretty uneventful. I feel like it's gotten
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  Speaker 3: very dry since twenty twenty. So I was in I
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  Speaker 3: was in New York, and then I went to Miami
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  Speaker 3: because I was avoiding coming home because why come home
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  Speaker 3: when I could go to Miami. And actually I had
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  Speaker 3: a pretty eventful week in New York. I danced with
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  Speaker 3: Sierra at the Soho House.
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  Speaker 2: I saw that.
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  Speaker 3: It's pretty epic. It wasn't planned. I don't know her
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  Speaker 3: at all. People think I'm really cool now, like, oh
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  Speaker 3: my god, you guys blew up. I'm like yeah, me
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  Speaker 3: and sis. And then I went to Miami and I
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  Speaker 3: wandered into a drag brunch by myself, made seven friends,
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  Speaker 3: and joined the dance contest even though they said locals only.
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  Speaker 3: I was like locals or locals and what I've joined? Anyway.
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  Speaker 3: I didn't win, though, which was a tragedy. But other
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  Speaker 3: than that, and today I went and tried on wedding dresses.
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  Speaker 3: So I've had an eventful week.
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  Speaker 2: Oh you had a very eventful week, what about you, Erica?
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  Speaker 4: Excuse me.
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  Speaker 5: I was also in New York with Mila and witnessed
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  Speaker 5: her dance with Sierra. If you have a second, go
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  Speaker 5: on our page good Mom's bad Choices and go see
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  Speaker 5: the knees, because mila'sknees are well oiled.
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  Speaker 4: Okay, period? And what else did I do? I came back.
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  Speaker 5: I had to jump straight back into motherhood. So my
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  Speaker 5: daughter had cheerleading. I fucked up, and I got to
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  Speaker 5: the damn homecoming. We got her to the homecoming game late.
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  Speaker 5: She missed the whole performance. Bad choice mom, good whatever
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  Speaker 5: the fuck? So that was annoying. Other than I've just
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  Speaker 5: been chilling girl, I've just been relaxing, decompressing. I love
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  Speaker 5: New York, but every time I come back, I'm a
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  Speaker 5: little bit like I just feel like energetically, like it
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  Speaker 5: just pulls me a lot.
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  Speaker 4: Even this trip, I was actually really well behaved.
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  Speaker 5: Like normally when I'm in New York, I'm like outside,
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  Speaker 5: and this trip I was. This is the calmest I've
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  Speaker 5: ever been in New York City in my whole fucking life.
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  Speaker 5: But I still came back and needed like two days
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  Speaker 5: of recovery. So I've just been chilling today. It's raining
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  Speaker 5: in la and I love it. I love a good rain.
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  Speaker 4: It feels cleansing. And now I'm on here with you ladies.
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  Speaker 1: Don't I always say that about New York, Like it's
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  Speaker 1: like a it's They're definitely like harvesting our energy Between
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  Speaker 1: Atlanta and New York. I'm always feeling like drained.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, you always said that you hate Oh good, So okay,
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  Speaker 2: let me tell you about my weekend. I didn't tell y'all.
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  Speaker 2: So my mom just purchased a new house, so I
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  Speaker 2: was out helping her. I'm know, I'm so happy for her,
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  Speaker 2: out by a new furniture for her house, and I'm
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  Speaker 2: just so as you know y'all may not know. I've
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  Speaker 2: been like a gypsy for the past year. So I
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  Speaker 2: came out to La. I was there for like forty
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  Speaker 2: five days, and I broke my foot. So then I
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  Speaker 2: left LA. And then you broke your foot in La.
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  Speaker 2: I know. I came back home for a wedding and
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  Speaker 2: I jumped a catch the bouquet broke my foot on
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  Speaker 2: the landing.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah's ConA plush you no, so, oh my god.
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  Speaker 2: So my stuff is still in La in a storage
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  Speaker 2: unit right now. So I haven't been back. It's been almostly.
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  Speaker 2: It's been a year. So I'm going back out. I'll
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  Speaker 2: be back out there soon. When we have to hang
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  Speaker 2: out here for that forty five day I would do here.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, I decided to because you broke your foot.
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  Speaker 2: Yes, And I just didn't want to be out there
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  Speaker 2: or without a village with a broken foot, can't drive,
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  Speaker 2: you know, all those things. So then I came back
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  Speaker 2: to South Carolina to my mom's house and to heal.
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  Speaker 2: And then in February I got an apartment in New York,
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  Speaker 2: but I was subletting that it wasn't like my own space,
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  Speaker 2: and it was furnished. So my ship was in the
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  Speaker 2: storage unit in Charlotte. Some of my stuff was in
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  Speaker 2: this unit in LA and then the stuff I brought
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  Speaker 2: with me to New York. Right, so like I'm scattered,
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  Speaker 2: and then there's ship in South Carolina. So now yeah,
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  Speaker 2: like just very scattered. So now my mom is like moving,
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  Speaker 2: So now I would either need to move my shit
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  Speaker 2: in her house to her new house or just get
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  Speaker 2: my own place. So I've been apart apartment shopping. Finally,
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  Speaker 2: after a year of living out of a suitcase and boxes,
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  Speaker 2: I'm finally about to be back in an apartment of
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  Speaker 2: my own, back in Charlotte, the place I did not
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  Speaker 2: necessarily want to be, but here we are. So that's
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  Speaker 2: what I was doing looking at apartments. It's fun. I
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  Speaker 2: found it really, Like I think right now is a
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  Speaker 2: good time to be like apartment hunting because it's cheap.
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  Speaker 2: I mean, well I won't say cheap.
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  Speaker 3: Because I'm like, can you share for the West Coast
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  Speaker 3: people listening? Can you please tell me?
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  Speaker 4: So?
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  Speaker 3: I mean I found its jealous and mad.
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  Speaker 2: This q ass apartment, y'all and south in Charlotte. So
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  Speaker 2: it's right outside of downtown and it's a six floor unit.
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  Speaker 2: It's nine hundred nine hundred ninety square feet or something
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  Speaker 2: like that, and it's only eighteen sixty. Well so it's
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  Speaker 2: it's two thousand and ninety, right, but with a month free.
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  Speaker 2: So I just take down off the entire lease and
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  Speaker 2: it came out to eighteen sixty a month. And it's
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  Speaker 2: so cute, like I mean, it's got like the nice finishes,
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  Speaker 2: like all those all the bells and whistles. Wash your dryer,
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  Speaker 2: definitely wash your and dryer. Yeah, absolutely, I.
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  Speaker 3: Mean you don't get you got to be a millionaire
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  Speaker 3: to have a washer and dryer in la. Okay, I'm
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  Speaker 3: not joking.
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  Speaker 5: I gotta use water like that, right, I mean fact
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  Speaker 5: I wish that.
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  Speaker 4: That sounds like a that's a great price. Eighteen hundred
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  Speaker 4: sixty y'all take.
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  Speaker 2: And so this building it was meant to be condos, right,
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  Speaker 2: so it's only four units on each floor.
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  Speaker 3: Oh yeah, nice and yeah.
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  Speaker 2: It is just so I came went to movie and girl.
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  Speaker 2: Now the only thing I did not I don't have
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  Speaker 2: is a balcony. So I hate that because you know,
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  Speaker 2: I'll be smoking.
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  Speaker 3: But we just go four people on your floor. They
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  Speaker 3: were like, go to fuck with you?
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  Speaker 2: Maybe they leave the Yeah, because it's like corner. I'm
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  Speaker 2: on the corner there on the corner, Like so I'm
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  Speaker 2: just off by myself, but I'm excited for it.
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  Speaker 1: The air purified, you'd be all right, yeah yeah.
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  Speaker 4: So wait, so why did New York work out?
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  Speaker 3: And why aren't you going back to La?
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  Speaker 2: Okay? So La did not work because I just didn't
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  Speaker 2: feel connected there, but I didn't give it a chance
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  Speaker 2: for real. I was only there a short moment.
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  Speaker 3: I remember Orlando telling me, like, TAM's moving, and then
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  Speaker 3: I was like, what happened to Tam? He's like, she
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  Speaker 3: broke her foot. He was like she was trying to
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  Speaker 3: catch the bouquet. I was like, wow, she really wanted
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  Speaker 3: that bouquet. And then I just never heard about it again,
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  Speaker 3: but he said that it reminded me.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm just hugely competitive, especially when I'm drunk. So
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  Speaker 2: I was like, not.
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  Speaker 4: Not somebody else's weading. You broke you broke your foot,
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  Speaker 4: and now all the attentions on you, bitch, and.
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  Speaker 3: It reeled out and something to carry you outs or no.
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  Speaker 2: I was drunk, you know, so I just kind of
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  Speaker 2: hobbled out. I was like, it's fine, it's just frain.
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  Speaker 2: But then the next day. That's when I realized, like, oh,
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  Speaker 2: my shit is broken. My foot was you know big
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  Speaker 2: and the pain. But so La the first day I
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  Speaker 2: was there, it was an earthquake. I was like like,
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  Speaker 2: I don't know if I only were recording virtual and
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  Speaker 2: then sh it just start shaking. I was like, oh shit,
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  Speaker 2: this place really be shaking like this. I was like,
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  Speaker 2: I don't know, Like so that just kind of, you know,
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  Speaker 2: was kind of off putting. I was like an Elliott
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  Speaker 2: fall because it was like, yeah, you thought Elliott had
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  Speaker 2: fell down, like it was a earthquake. So I didn't
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  Speaker 2: give La a try. Then New York. I like New York,
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  Speaker 2: but New York is so like the transportation was just
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  Speaker 2: so expensive. I don't I cannot ride the train. I tried.
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  Speaker 2: I can't do it. You watch these movies like Sex
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  Speaker 2: TV shows like Sex and the City. They're on the train,
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  Speaker 2: and shit, nobody really rides that motherfucker for real, Like
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  Speaker 2: my say, dear girl, everybody be on that No girl,
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  Speaker 2: I got on that train. I was like I'm gonna
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  Speaker 2: because I was taking acting classes right, so I was like,
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  Speaker 2: I'm gonna take the train to class the day before
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  Speaker 2: just so i can make sure I get there on time.
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  Speaker 2: And I got on the train and I don't know
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  Speaker 2: if this guy could sense like I was, you know something,
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  Speaker 2: but he came over me. He was like, I can
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  Speaker 2: balance your chakras right, yeah, for a dollar not in nodsense.
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  Speaker 2: He was standing over me, bitch. I was so scared.
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  Speaker 4: I was like, please.
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  Speaker 3: Chakras for a dollar ninety nine, bitch.
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  Speaker 2: A dollar ninety nine. He was standing over me with
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  Speaker 2: his hands like this girl. And I was like ah
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  Speaker 2: like and I was like, I'm never getting on this
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  Speaker 2: motherfucker again. I took my classes and I love it
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  Speaker 2: and I'm still in school, but I'm just virtual now.
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  Speaker 2: But I don't like the noise pollution either. It's just
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  Speaker 2: too much. The train, Like I could literally hear the
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  Speaker 2: train like it felt like it was running through my bedroom.
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  Speaker 2: I could hear the motherfucker like next our Philadelphic because
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  Speaker 2: of me. I could hear that shit from my bed, Like,
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  Speaker 2: I was like, I can't do this.
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  Speaker 3: So you traumatized the South it is for me.
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  Speaker 2: It's warm, it's beautiful, the people are nice, the streets
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  Speaker 2: are clean. Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: New York is mad Max. I'm cool on New York anyway.
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  Speaker 3: Y'all, let's get.
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  Speaker 1: Into stupid internet news. Yes, you got going on a day,
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  Speaker 1: so I know everybody, but everybody's been seen Cam Newton
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  Speaker 1: and all his commentary between him and his guest on
• 11:37
  Speaker 1: his shows on Freaky Friday. So he's turned up some
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  Speaker 1: shit again. Recently, he had an interview he had Parker
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  Speaker 1: McKenna on Freaky Friday, and he basically stated that he
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  Speaker 1: asked Jasmine Brown for his excuse me for her list?
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  Speaker 1: The big list like who you have slept with?
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  Speaker 2: Lists? What's big for some not for others?
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  Speaker 1: Agent, are y'all giving y'all man a list of your
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  Speaker 1: sexual partners?
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  Speaker 3: Do you want me to go first? Yeah?
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  Speaker 2: Go ahead.
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  Speaker 3: Not only am I not giving you my list because nigga,
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  Speaker 3: I don't remember and I didn't write it down because
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  Speaker 3: I'm a grown ass woman. I'm not in fucking twelfth grade.
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  Speaker 3: I'm also going to stop talking to you for you
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  Speaker 3: to ask me such an ignorant, ridiculous question, because nigga,
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  Speaker 3: if I asked you that, you couldn't even begin and anyway,
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  Speaker 3: also I could lie and just put big Bean number seven,
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  Speaker 3: Like what are you talking about? You don't know these
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  Speaker 3: niggas and what would be the point of that so
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  Speaker 3: you can judge me and be looking at me sideways.
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  Speaker 3: I just think it's an immature statement. I think it's
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  Speaker 3: an immature request, and it lets me know that emotionally
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  Speaker 3: and spiritually we're not on the same page, because nigga,
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  Speaker 3: where's your list and where we're going to cross reference
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  Speaker 3: and call people and be like, hey, she lived there
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  Speaker 3: for two years? Okay, well how was it?
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  Speaker 6: Like?
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  Speaker 3: What is the point that's an apartment hunting?
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  Speaker 2: What about your America?
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  Speaker 3: Sure?
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  Speaker 4: I'm a lie, Sure, I'm a.
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  Speaker 3: Firm believer in lion to niggas. Okay, wait, if you're
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  Speaker 3: gonna if you're gonna lie, what how much?
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  Speaker 2: Like?
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  Speaker 3: Okay?
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  Speaker 5: Just like you just like he's gonna lie? Like what
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  Speaker 5: the fuck are you talking about? But what do you
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  Speaker 5: And if I did, then what nigga?
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  Speaker 4: Then what? What?
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  Speaker 3: What are you gonna? What do you think is the
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  Speaker 3: number that niggas want to hear with people with women
• 13:26
  Speaker 3: like our big age? Like, let's say over thirty five.
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  Speaker 5: I'm just curious under ten okay, mm hmmm, preferably five
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  Speaker 5: under five.
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  Speaker 3: That's like under less than one a year.
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  Speaker 5: I feel like anything over ten you start getting into
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  Speaker 5: whole activities in.
• 13:42
  Speaker 3: Their minds, right, Okay, the men last.
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  Speaker 5: They start, they literally tell you literally start seeing Dix
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  Speaker 5: entering your pussy, like immediately.
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  Speaker 1: Hag your mouth and your eyes everywhere and everything else. Essentially,
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  Speaker 1: he basically said, like his ego, like his ego, you know,
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  Speaker 1: is just not in check enough to even do he
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  Speaker 1: was how right he was, he was ill, he was
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  Speaker 1: like he would definitely have a bruised ego and because
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  Speaker 1: of who he is and like going into different spaces.
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  Speaker 1: He just doesn't want a nigga slitting over in the
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  Speaker 1: corner when he pull up with his girl, and like.
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  Speaker 5: You know, just and how you think a bitch feels
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  Speaker 5: because of who you are. We know you fucked a
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  Speaker 5: million motherfucking people. And I'm gonna walk into a park.
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  Speaker 1: I'm like what I always say, if I walk into
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  Speaker 1: a party, it might be one person in there, I
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  Speaker 1: fuck with. I walk in there with a nigga. He
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  Speaker 1: probably don't hit like twenty bitches in here. So who's
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  Speaker 1: really the hope?
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  Speaker 3: Right, what are we talking about? I don't even I
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  Speaker 3: don't honestly, and I've done some how, and I really
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  Speaker 3: don't even the one person rule like it is so
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  Speaker 3: rare that we're gonna I have a hold across the country.
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  Speaker 3: You know, I live in different city than I hold in,
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  Speaker 3: So yeah, like they're spread out.
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  Speaker 1: Nigga, nigga's in the same zip code. Dang you a
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  Speaker 1: whole And I'm not the.
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  Speaker 3: Kind of how that you can ever disrespect any any
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  Speaker 3: nigga I fuck still wants to be my friend. He's
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  Speaker 3: gonna he he aha, your face, my face, He's gonna
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  Speaker 3: be happy to see us because we had a good
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  Speaker 3: run and I didn't do nothing but be nice to him.
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  Speaker 3: And honestly, for all the men and women listening who
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  Speaker 3: don't know how to like go go about these type
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  Speaker 3: of situations, you don't say shit until you were in
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  Speaker 3: the room with the nigga and you think he's gonna speak,
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  Speaker 3: and you think maybe they know each other. In that case,
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  Speaker 3: right as he's approaching and say, I know him, we've
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  Speaker 3: had history.
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  Speaker 4: Thanks doing real quick.
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  Speaker 1: I know, men don't even think about you until they
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  Speaker 1: see you with whoever you fucking now, so you know,
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  Speaker 1: so let me go ahead and tell on myself before
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  Speaker 1: this nigga, you know, tells as if we had sex
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  Speaker 1: yesterday and you ain't seen his pussy since I was eighteen.
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  Speaker 2: My whole facts, My Whole facts deletes at eleven fifty
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  Speaker 2: nine fifty nine on December thirty first every year like
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  Speaker 2: so vanishes.
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  Speaker 3: And to be honest, if you were at condom, it
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  Speaker 3: doesn't count period.
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  Speaker 1: And if I didn't comment on count.
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  Speaker 3: What do we think there's a barrier there? So now
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  Speaker 3: it didn't work.
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  Speaker 5: I may, I may or may not even say shit
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  Speaker 5: if the nigga's walking towards you, to be honest, because
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  Speaker 5: it's not your motherfucking business, it's before you.
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  Speaker 4: Why what for what?
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  Speaker 2: You know?
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  Speaker 4: What I mean unless y'all be unless I find out y'all.
• 16:12
  Speaker 5: Are homeboys, you know, maybe, and maybe I'll give you
• 16:19
  Speaker 5: the courtesy of afterwards. I'm not I'm probably not gonna
• 16:21
  Speaker 5: do it in the real time because that's awkward and uncomfortable.
• 16:23
  Speaker 5: I don't know, like I've actually done that before and
• 16:26
  Speaker 5: it has backfired on me because niggas always say they
• 16:28
  Speaker 5: want this and then they can't handle it when it
• 16:31
  Speaker 5: actually happens. So like, their track record of needing to
• 16:35
  Speaker 5: know is very low and poor, and their track record
• 16:38
  Speaker 5: of actually being honest about what they've done is also
• 16:41
  Speaker 5: very low and poor. So why the fuck am I
• 16:42
  Speaker 5: going to tell you my shit? Like no, thank you,
• 16:45
  Speaker 5: I'm good.
• 16:46
  Speaker 1: Yeah, And then anybody becomes their cousin or friend once
• 16:49
  Speaker 1: they know you fucked them.
• 16:50
  Speaker 3: That's my homeboy, Like, nigga, let me see your let
• 16:52
  Speaker 3: me see your phone phone number. You lie like a
• 16:55
  Speaker 3: motherfucker him I have.
• 17:00
  Speaker 5: I also like one time I did tell this guy
• 17:02
  Speaker 5: this and he went and called him and they weren't
• 17:04
  Speaker 5: even close like that, and so he went and called
• 17:07
  Speaker 5: him out of respect.
• 17:10
  Speaker 3: That was so whack.
• 17:12
  Speaker 5: He he went and called him out of respect. He
• 17:16
  Speaker 5: really wasn't out of respect. It was on some like
• 17:18
  Speaker 5: ego ship egos.
• 17:19
  Speaker 1: And so yeah, and this nigga like they're not even
• 17:22
  Speaker 1: really that the current.
• 17:26
  Speaker 4: The current called the former the former was out there.
• 17:30
  Speaker 5: Minded weirder and and me and and the former we
• 17:34
  Speaker 5: had only slept together one time. It was a one
• 17:37
  Speaker 5: and done situation. We tried it, it wasn't there wasn't
• 17:40
  Speaker 5: a vibe. We continued being friends and he called him
• 17:45
  Speaker 5: and the guy was thrown off. He called me like,
• 17:47
  Speaker 5: why is this nigga calling me to tell me this ship?
• 17:49
  Speaker 5: Like I don't like this is weird? And I was
• 17:51
  Speaker 5: like I don't know, and it was like it was
• 17:54
  Speaker 5: for his own ego, like he wanted him to know
• 17:57
  Speaker 5: and then and then and then abusing that ship against me,
• 17:59
  Speaker 5: then using that shit against me later. Like so it's
• 18:03
  Speaker 5: just like I'd rather not Ladies, just shit the fuck up?
• 18:07
  Speaker 2: Now, did y'all see this? Steph Curry's wife, Ayisha, is
• 18:10
  Speaker 2: facing backlash for saying that she never wanted kids and
• 18:13
  Speaker 2: she had her own career goals and her husband doesn't understand.
• 18:17
  Speaker 2: So have y'all been seeing all the backlass she's been
• 18:19
  Speaker 2: receiving about that?
• 18:21
  Speaker 4: Of course not true.
• 18:22
  Speaker 1: That whole headline isn't true. Of course I've seen it.
• 18:25
  Speaker 1: I actually watched the full episode, and she did not
• 18:28
  Speaker 1: say anything wrong. She praised the fuck out of her husband.
• 18:32
  Speaker 3: You know what I'm saying.
• 18:33
  Speaker 1: What woman who got married at twenty one and got
• 18:36
  Speaker 1: pregnant within the same year of being married a child
• 18:40
  Speaker 1: basically right right? Why would she not be reflecting at
• 18:44
  Speaker 1: this age in her thirties?
• 18:45
  Speaker 2: Now?
• 18:45
  Speaker 1: You know, the should have could have watered because she
• 18:47
  Speaker 1: was acting and stuff like that from a little girl,
• 18:50
  Speaker 1: So of course she's gonna be She was just reflecting.
• 18:53
  Speaker 1: You know, they be cutting and pasting shit for Instagram.
• 18:56
  Speaker 1: I don't know why people hate her so much. Yeah,
• 18:58
  Speaker 1: do you see that people hate her her a lot?
• 19:01
  Speaker 5: They really hate her. They hate her because that's me.
• 19:04
  Speaker 5: That was the first comment that hates people hate women.
• 19:08
  Speaker 5: Well there's that too, yes, but they whip really hate
• 19:10
  Speaker 5: her a lot.
• 19:11
  Speaker 3: I feel like she's like the most Like she's like
• 19:16
  Speaker 3: a homemaking present. She has a cooking line. Like when
• 19:20
  Speaker 3: I think of the men on the internet who hate
• 19:22
  Speaker 3: women like they might hate us, or like someone who's
• 19:24
  Speaker 3: like more provocative outwardly, because she probably is like a
• 19:26
  Speaker 3: little secret freak because she geten married all this time.
• 19:29
  Speaker 3: But I feel like I'm very shocked by people hating her,
• 19:32
  Speaker 3: Like what is there to hate? She seems very wholesome.
• 19:34
  Speaker 3: I never wear any sea or wearing anything that's gonna
• 19:37
  Speaker 3: make everybody like, I never see anything that's so triggering.
• 19:41
  Speaker 5: Yeah, Like I say, it's because people, the men are
• 19:43
  Speaker 5: obsessed with Steph Curry and they will idolize him and
• 19:47
  Speaker 5: have decided what is suitable for him. They want to
• 19:49
  Speaker 5: tell as a wife and Aisha Curry has Ayisha Curry,
• 19:55
  Speaker 5: although yes, she has has yes, although she has followed
• 19:59
  Speaker 5: I guess the traditional wife role for a while. I
• 20:02
  Speaker 5: think like now she's kind of starting to step out
• 20:04
  Speaker 5: on her own. She has her own like I guess,
• 20:07
  Speaker 5: like a makeup line or lip glass line, and she's
• 20:10
  Speaker 5: done her own like they just they want her to
• 20:12
  Speaker 5: fit into a specific box where she doesn't mention him
• 20:16
  Speaker 5: at all and doesn't say anything unbecoming around him.
• 20:20
  Speaker 4: Or just being a wife in general.
• 20:22
  Speaker 5: And I think it's just unfortunate, like because so many
• 20:25
  Speaker 5: and what I've seen, and it's not even just men.
• 20:26
  Speaker 5: I've seen a lot of women coming for her. Even
• 20:29
  Speaker 5: me and Mila went to dinner the other day. We
• 20:30
  Speaker 5: were sitting with a girl and like we started talking
• 20:32
  Speaker 5: about this and she I could see the.
• 20:34
  Speaker 4: Like the like disgust in her.
• 20:37
  Speaker 3: Yeah, And I was like.
• 20:38
  Speaker 4: Where is this coming.
• 20:39
  Speaker 1: No, I think the women think that girl, your husband
• 20:44
  Speaker 1: is be grateful whatever, you don't exactly be grateful, shut
• 20:47
  Speaker 1: up and look pretty. This is yeah, this is the
• 20:49
  Speaker 1: attitude women have for her.
• 20:51
  Speaker 5: But those same women, if they were in the same position,
• 20:54
  Speaker 5: would have fucking feelings about it too.
• 20:57
  Speaker 4: I don't give a fuck no matter how much money
• 20:58
  Speaker 4: you got, You're still human.
• 20:59
  Speaker 5: You have you have desires, you have wishes, you have
• 21:02
  Speaker 5: goals that maybe haven't been fully you know, realize, especially
• 21:06
  Speaker 5: when you're living in the shadow of a famous person,
• 21:09
  Speaker 5: you know, your whole identity starts being attached to them.
• 21:11
  Speaker 5: You can't even be your own woman, your own person.
• 21:12
  Speaker 5: Everyone your Steph Curry's wife, Steph Curry's wife. It's just
• 21:15
  Speaker 5: like when you go meet like even you even't gotta
• 21:17
  Speaker 5: be famous. Have you ever been out with like like
• 21:18
  Speaker 5: your man and like none of his homeboys ever like
• 21:21
  Speaker 5: even talk to you, Like they just they just like
• 21:23
  Speaker 5: like you'll go down the line of like shaking someone's
• 21:26
  Speaker 5: hand and they just like skip you out of respect.
• 21:29
  Speaker 5: Like this whole idea around like being respectful and act
• 21:32
  Speaker 5: and ignoring the woman is like so old.
• 21:36
  Speaker 4: It's some. It's really some black people shit. And I
• 21:38
  Speaker 4: hate to say that about it.
• 21:40
  Speaker 3: I don't black people.
• 21:41
  Speaker 5: I don't see white men do that. I don't see
• 21:43
  Speaker 5: white I don't see white men do that.
• 21:46
  Speaker 3: We don't be hanging around them. We don't know.
• 21:48
  Speaker 5: I've been around the white men's They don't be ignoring
• 21:50
  Speaker 5: the fucking wives and shit like that.
• 21:52
  Speaker 4: I see that a lot in our culture a lot.
• 21:55
  Speaker 3: I never even considered if it was a black people thing.
• 21:58
  Speaker 3: But maybe I.
• 21:59
  Speaker 5: Mean, I'm or it happens on both sides, but I
• 22:01
  Speaker 5: say it's prevalent in our in our space.
• 22:04
  Speaker 3: Is it like an insecurity thing like or just like
• 22:07
  Speaker 3: it like yeah, I don't know respect yeah, but but
• 22:11
  Speaker 3: but but you don't want people to respect me, like
• 22:14
  Speaker 3: as a whole person. Like I think generally we've learned
• 22:17
  Speaker 3: in like the era of social media, is that society,
• 22:20
  Speaker 3: particularly men, don't respect whole women. They want you to
• 22:24
  Speaker 3: be like an avatar of who they think you're supposed
• 22:26
  Speaker 3: to be, not say much conservative, not have a history
• 22:29
  Speaker 3: like you want to. You want an ai girlfriend like
• 22:32
  Speaker 3: you don't want a real human or else. You wouldn't
• 22:34
  Speaker 3: even have these type of conversations because they do.
• 22:36
  Speaker 1: Though, because they they call the girl with the depth,
• 22:39
  Speaker 1: and that's what they're cheating with, right while you got
• 22:41
  Speaker 1: old girl like.
• 22:42
  Speaker 3: The house we shut the fuck up, and then they
• 22:45
  Speaker 3: tell her all your business and write and pillow talk.
• 22:48
  Speaker 3: Yeah you good advice.
• 22:52
  Speaker 5: Well, well, good news to them. I don't know if
• 22:54
  Speaker 5: you saw this today in the news. Not to interrupt
• 22:56
  Speaker 5: your news, but chatchy BT is going to now have
• 22:59
  Speaker 5: erotic interacts for age verified adults on their app.
• 23:02
  Speaker 4: So yeah, just go get you a virtual bitch and
• 23:05
  Speaker 4: she'll be a very agreeing.
• 23:08
  Speaker 3: Can she suck your dick? Like, what are you talking about?
• 23:10
  Speaker 2: Phone sick?
• 23:11
  Speaker 5: Probably because chat can generate images, so sure they're going
• 23:15
  Speaker 5: to really start charging for that.
• 23:17
  Speaker 1: It's like chatg EPT is probably going to have like
• 23:19
  Speaker 1: an only fans tiers.
• 23:20
  Speaker 5: Of course they're trying to monopolize every every space. But anyway,
• 23:24
  Speaker 5: I'll long story short, go get you a build a
• 23:27
  Speaker 5: bitch if that's what you need, because I don't know,
• 23:30
  Speaker 5: I just feel like women the people just want women
• 23:32
  Speaker 5: to be quiet and just I don't know where else
• 23:35
  Speaker 5: they're supposed to share. I appreciate someone with her platform
• 23:38
  Speaker 5: being that, honest. I think a lot of women and
• 23:40
  Speaker 5: married people like want that and need that.
• 23:44
  Speaker 2: Absolutely.
• 23:45
  Speaker 1: I don't know what just happened to Tam, but go ahead.
• 23:47
  Speaker 3: Keep going, she'll probably come back maybe. Yeah. I think
• 23:50
  Speaker 3: it's really important. I think it's really important that we
• 23:54
  Speaker 3: as women, especially women in our industry, as we talk
• 23:57
  Speaker 3: and we talk shit and and sometimes I know, like
• 23:59
  Speaker 3: we probably get backlash and niggas are trying to listen
• 24:01
  Speaker 3: to every episode so they can calculate what we did
• 24:03
  Speaker 3: last weekend, not anybody here or notathing.
• 24:11
  Speaker 1: Liar, I tell all the things now, I know, I'm
• 24:13
  Speaker 1: just fucking with you.
• 24:14
  Speaker 3: I think I think that there is it's really important
• 24:18
  Speaker 3: that women start to like stop being pigmies and start
• 24:21
  Speaker 3: living in their entire like their entirety, because then men
• 24:24
  Speaker 3: can men will can just be asexual and be together
• 24:29
  Speaker 3: and leave us the fuck alone if everyone and there's
• 24:31
  Speaker 3: not like women who are pretending to be half people
• 24:34
  Speaker 3: and pretending that they slept with three guys at thirty
• 24:36
  Speaker 3: because they're fucking lying like a motherfucker, and like because
• 24:39
  Speaker 3: you want a man so badly. But the more that
• 24:42
  Speaker 3: we like be human and talk about it, then men
• 24:45
  Speaker 3: can stop like loving this fantasy like false sense of
• 24:49
  Speaker 3: what they thought we were, because nigga, that's just not real.
• 24:53
  Speaker 2: Man.
• 24:54
  Speaker 3: Yeah.
• 24:54
  Speaker 1: Man, And it's not all men, but it's a large
• 24:58
  Speaker 1: a large majority of them.
• 25:00
  Speaker 5: Fortunate because like the women women, women co signing what
• 25:03
  Speaker 5: they say just perpetuates this whole thing, like there's no
• 25:06
  Speaker 5: patriarchy unless women are upholding it, and unfortunately that's that's
• 25:09
  Speaker 5: what happens.
• 25:10
  Speaker 4: So it's like women are literally the problem too.
• 25:13
  Speaker 1: Let's talk about that for one second. Y'all really think
• 25:15
  Speaker 1: we in a patriarchy, bitch. Hell yeah, yeah, I'm gonna
• 25:21
  Speaker 1: tell you why I say that, right, because I always
• 25:24
  Speaker 1: say how some being submissive that is definitely an ultimate
• 25:28
  Speaker 1: form of manipulation, because your bitch is in the bedroom
• 25:32
  Speaker 1: telling you what to do. When you go out there
• 25:34
  Speaker 1: front everybody like it was your decision. There's always women
• 25:37
  Speaker 1: behind it scenes, from the mothers to the grandmothers to
• 25:40
  Speaker 1: everybody who are actually running things. And and I think
• 25:46
  Speaker 1: white women in particular, right, they the ship that.
• 25:49
  Speaker 3: There men do.
• 25:50
  Speaker 1: They benefit off of it one hundred and they are
• 25:53
  Speaker 1: raising them right. So I just I just feel like
• 25:57
  Speaker 1: the matriarchy and do y'all even think we would be
• 26:00
  Speaker 1: okay in a in a society actually just straight meat,
• 26:04
  Speaker 1: absolutely crazy, No.
• 26:05
  Speaker 3: Absolutely, I think we'd be frolicking picking berries naked, that
• 26:10
  Speaker 3: everybody'd have equals everything because we rebirthing each other's babies,
• 26:15
  Speaker 3: and we'd go outside to fucking come back in the
• 26:17
  Speaker 3: gates and lock the doors because that's where violence and
• 26:20
  Speaker 3: conflict happened when the niggas come in. We fuck out there,
• 26:22
  Speaker 3: we come back and we'd be great, you know, go back.
• 26:24
  Speaker 1: Like the like listen to divine. Feminine is very very dark.
• 26:29
  Speaker 3: Oh it can't. It can be okay, but chaos. I
• 26:32
  Speaker 3: think it gets darker when we don't have when we
• 26:34
  Speaker 3: don't have healthy outlets to be dark. I think it's
• 26:38
  Speaker 3: when you don't have a man or like a safe
• 26:40
  Speaker 3: space that says, oh, I under I see the entirety
• 26:43
  Speaker 3: of you. I see both sides embrace that we're so
• 26:46
  Speaker 3: busy trying to be fucking pick mees for a nigga
• 26:49
  Speaker 3: like Cam Newton, that we're like suppressing and suppressing and
• 26:52
  Speaker 3: then we get caddy with each other like that's my
• 26:54
  Speaker 3: nagger or whatever it is, and then like it creates,
• 26:57
  Speaker 3: it creates us imbalance. We're not we don't really know
• 26:59
  Speaker 3: what we are because we haven't been fully expressed. And
• 27:02
  Speaker 3: so when you when you suppress anything, just like a
• 27:04
  Speaker 3: gay nigga who's acting straight, you suppress it, he becomes crazy,
• 27:07
  Speaker 3: he becomes violent because he's not being himself. I think
• 27:09
  Speaker 3: that is what creates these like this deep imbalance. Wait, wait,
• 27:13
  Speaker 3: aj do you think that if we you think do
• 27:16
  Speaker 3: you think that women are better like showing up in
• 27:19
  Speaker 3: this way that men can know its palatable? Don't get it,
• 27:23
  Speaker 3: don't get it. Fucked up.
• 27:25
  Speaker 1: Women are the gods on a planet and this is
• 27:27
  Speaker 1: why these nigga's mad.
• 27:28
  Speaker 3: But we got to confuse them to make them think
• 27:30
  Speaker 3: they're in control.
• 27:32
  Speaker 4: I think that like go ahead, oh sorry, go ahead, no,
• 27:35
  Speaker 4: no please.
• 27:36
  Speaker 1: I want to hear what you want to say.
• 27:37
  Speaker 4: I was just gonna say.
• 27:38
  Speaker 5: I think that even in a matriarchal society, and even
• 27:41
  Speaker 5: in like okay, we'll start with the matriarchal society, I
• 27:43
  Speaker 5: think that even in a matriarchal society, a true maker
• 27:46
  Speaker 5: matriarchal society understands the balance, like Mila said, of like
• 27:49
  Speaker 5: the need for the masculine to be there. It's not
• 27:53
  Speaker 5: about necessarily like everything is woman, that's it, right, you
• 27:57
  Speaker 5: know what I mean? And I think even the divine
• 27:59
  Speaker 5: feminine like to be divine is to be like to
• 28:01
  Speaker 5: be one with God. And if you're one with God,
• 28:03
  Speaker 5: then you also see the divine and the masculine. And
• 28:06
  Speaker 5: I think this whole idea of like divine femininity.
• 28:09
  Speaker 4: Is great as beautiful and I reflect it and I
• 28:15
  Speaker 4: receive it.
• 28:15
  Speaker 5: But I also think my journey in understanding the divinity
• 28:18
  Speaker 5: of the femininity is also seeing the divinity in men.
• 28:21
  Speaker 5: And I think it's been like there's like always this
• 28:24
  Speaker 5: like agenda to separate us because there are a lot
• 28:28
  Speaker 5: of men that are not in their divinity, of course,
• 28:32
  Speaker 5: but then there are a lot that there are some
• 28:34
  Speaker 5: that are, you know, there are some that are willing
• 28:36
  Speaker 5: and open and want to listen to their women.
• 28:39
  Speaker 4: And ultimately, what makes a woman, what makes.
• 28:42
  Speaker 5: I think the divine be able to be divine as
• 28:45
  Speaker 5: far as it goes with femininity, is being able to
• 28:49
  Speaker 5: really rest in your femininity, which requires the masculine to
• 28:53
  Speaker 5: be present. And so I don't think that like it's
• 28:56
  Speaker 5: one or the other. I think that there has to
• 28:58
  Speaker 5: be both, you know, And like I do think that
• 29:00
  Speaker 5: we are in a patriarchal society.
• 29:02
  Speaker 4: We're seeing it, especially here in America. We're seeing how.
• 29:05
  Speaker 5: How when it goes so far, how fucked up it
• 29:09
  Speaker 5: can get, like our country is on fire. Not quite yet,
• 29:13
  Speaker 5: not like literally yet, but it's like I feel like
• 29:15
  Speaker 5: we're heading towards that, unfortunately, and it's because there's a
• 29:19
  Speaker 5: lot of imbalance and a lot of white men making
• 29:23
  Speaker 5: a lot of decisions for women, and women are not
• 29:26
  Speaker 5: being heard and men and.
• 29:29
  Speaker 4: Even black men.
• 29:30
  Speaker 5: I was just listening to fucking what's his name, Stephen
• 29:32
  Speaker 5: that Nigga on ESPN. Oh my god, someone take him
• 29:36
  Speaker 5: off the air lord, please God fire his ass Already they.
• 29:41
  Speaker 4: Were talking about him running for a politics.
• 29:44
  Speaker 3: I was like, oh, oh, yes.
• 29:46
  Speaker 5: He's thinking about running getting into politics. And I'm like,
• 29:50
  Speaker 5: as haircut, get out of here.
• 29:54
  Speaker 4: Just like fact.
• 29:55
  Speaker 2: So we have text on items for women. It's proof
• 29:58
  Speaker 2: that we live in a patriarchal.
• 30:00
  Speaker 3: What what kind of tax?
• 30:01
  Speaker 2: Pink tax? Like pink so things that are pink of
• 30:06
  Speaker 2: a female's bike is more than a male's bike, a
• 30:09
  Speaker 2: pink bike.
• 30:11
  Speaker 3: Like we're making less money we're women.
• 30:14
  Speaker 2: It'll be the same razor, same package. If it's pink,
• 30:17
  Speaker 2: it costs a few cents more. We did a whole
• 30:19
  Speaker 2: episode all night on that, like things that are for
• 30:23
  Speaker 2: women are more expensive. Yes, that's why it.
• 30:26
  Speaker 1: Should be inflation on this plicity if you want it.
• 30:29
  Speaker 3: It got to be inflation on the pussy baby.
• 30:31
  Speaker 1: A lot to be a woman. It just costs a lot.
• 30:34
  Speaker 1: So y'all got to pay the see what the usage tax?
• 30:39
  Speaker 3: I think for us to become like back in balance,
• 30:41
  Speaker 3: like deeply in balance, like there has to be like
• 30:43
  Speaker 3: a deep like we have to come all the way
• 30:46
  Speaker 3: back and also wake the fuck up, Like I feel
• 30:48
  Speaker 3: like women are resurrecting right now, like there's a resurrection
• 30:52
  Speaker 3: of like the wild and free woman, So we're waking up.
• 30:55
  Speaker 3: But I think that because men have had this power trip,
• 30:58
  Speaker 3: this like toxic, this top masculinity for so long, it's violent,
• 31:02
  Speaker 3: Like I think we have to completely in some ways
• 31:04
  Speaker 3: pull back because it's like we see it. It's violent,
• 31:08
  Speaker 3: like they don't give a fuck about us because they've
• 31:10
  Speaker 3: lived in this this facade for so long. So I
• 31:12
  Speaker 3: just think, like for in order to find balance again,
• 31:15
  Speaker 3: because of course there are good divine masculine men, of
• 31:17
  Speaker 3: course they exist, or else we'd all be single bitches.
• 31:21
  Speaker 3: But you know, we have uncles and fathers and things
• 31:23
  Speaker 3: like that. But it's like there has to be like
• 31:25
  Speaker 3: we have to starve these new niggas that with this
• 31:27
  Speaker 3: brain set like no pussy, no food, like just go away,
• 31:31
  Speaker 3: die off and don't procreate. Definitely don't put your seamen
• 31:34
  Speaker 3: in anybody with those fucking stupid thoughts.
• 31:37
  Speaker 1: So yeah, but the bitches will never ever be on
• 31:39
  Speaker 1: the same page because there's always going to be somebody's
• 31:42
  Speaker 1: couch this nigga can go to, right, I don't know
• 31:46
  Speaker 1: what do we do about the women, because it starts
• 31:48
  Speaker 1: and ends with us.
• 31:48
  Speaker 3: You go with them too.
• 31:51
  Speaker 5: There might be a few, There might be some women.
• 31:53
  Speaker 5: Some women gotta die off too. They got some women
• 31:55
  Speaker 5: gotta go.
• 31:57
  Speaker 3: You choose the wrong one before we get off.
• 32:01
  Speaker 1: Stupid internet news because we've been here for a long time.
• 32:04
  Speaker 1: Have y'all seen the headlines about us, Swee eat Ye, Sweety,
• 32:09
  Speaker 1: former friends, Sweedy, her former friend Mayback.
• 32:14
  Speaker 3: May.
• 32:15
  Speaker 1: I don't know if May is sure for madam, but
• 32:19
  Speaker 1: she's basically saying that Sweety owes her some money cause
• 32:22
  Speaker 1: she put her down does European soccer player? And like,
• 32:26
  Speaker 1: how I owe you for broken in Mikucci basically.
• 32:31
  Speaker 5: So she's all I know is I love Sweety. I
• 32:33
  Speaker 5: want to be clear, I love her too.
• 32:36
  Speaker 2: I'm a fan too.
• 32:38
  Speaker 5: Okay, and may Back, whatever the fuck your name is,
• 32:41
  Speaker 5: you should have got you should have collected your coins
• 32:43
  Speaker 5: ahead of time, Honey. I don't know what to tell you.
• 32:45
  Speaker 5: You're doing bad business, bitch.
• 32:47
  Speaker 3: Bitch is because they put you with the baller. They
• 32:49
  Speaker 3: are owed No, bitch, We was hanging out and I
• 32:52
  Speaker 3: got the baller and you better shut the fuck up.
• 32:54
  Speaker 3: That's it. Unless we had unless we had a contract
• 32:56
  Speaker 3: and if we don't have an agreement, shut the fuck up.
• 32:58
  Speaker 4: Now get your coins before come on?
• 33:00
  Speaker 3: Are you?
• 33:01
  Speaker 4: Are you madam or not?
• 33:03
  Speaker 3: Beyonce's Internet bashing me like uh uh? And honestly, how.
• 33:07
  Speaker 1: Does this even become a headline? Because how much I
• 33:09
  Speaker 1: owe you? How much I'll right for my ship?
• 33:13
  Speaker 2: Exact?
• 33:13
  Speaker 3: Like how did? How do we?
• 33:14
  Speaker 4: How are we?
• 33:15
  Speaker 3: Like?
• 33:15
  Speaker 5: Yeah, how are we coming to a final? Like cost
• 33:18
  Speaker 5: of goods and services?
• 33:20
  Speaker 2: Like well, she's supposed to be coming out with receipts, so.
• 33:24
  Speaker 4: Girl, come out with them. I still love sweetie.
• 33:26
  Speaker 3: She got invoices on Sweety Cucci like, well this even five.
• 33:32
  Speaker 3: Sweety fucked this baller in Africa at sevent ten.
• 33:37
  Speaker 4: I'm doing rich shit, pretty bit ship.
• 33:41
  Speaker 3: Like girl, leave that girl on her kouchie alone. Everybody
• 33:44
  Speaker 3: sold some pussy one way or another, okay, and they
• 33:46
  Speaker 3: didn't knowwe you shit?
• 33:50
  Speaker 2: All right, y'all, we got we got a topic today,
• 33:52
  Speaker 2: the Judgment Olympics from moms and single ladies. After this commercial,
• 33:56
  Speaker 2: we're going to get into it. We'll be right back,
• 34:02
  Speaker 2: all right, y'all, We're back, and it's the Judgment Olympics.
• 34:06
  Speaker 2: I don't know why I always laugh at that what
• 34:09
  Speaker 2: because we don't really got no fucking wear.
• 34:11
  Speaker 4: Right, I'm like, do I need to do that?
• 34:14
  Speaker 3: Yeah? I was thinking that yesterday. We didn't do that.
• 34:17
  Speaker 5: Because the way they be interrupting our conversation with ads abruptly.
• 34:21
  Speaker 5: I'm like, okay, maybe we really need to be more
• 34:24
  Speaker 5: more diligent here.
• 34:26
  Speaker 2: Yeah, you added in there that way they don't break
• 34:28
  Speaker 2: your shit up because they will break it up they listen.
• 34:31
  Speaker 2: You might add it in there and your shit still
• 34:33
  Speaker 2: get broken up.
• 34:34
  Speaker 4: I know, girl, I know.
• 34:39
  Speaker 2: All right, So AJ you came up with this? What's
• 34:40
  Speaker 2: up with the judgment?
• 34:41
  Speaker 3: All right?
• 34:41
  Speaker 1: So today we're competing in the Judgment Olympics twenty twenty
• 34:44
  Speaker 1: five edition, because whether you're a single woman or a
• 34:49
  Speaker 1: mom with kids, society loves to hand out unsolicited medals
• 34:54
  Speaker 1: and criticism. Okay, so today's contestants the co hosts of
• 34:58
  Speaker 1: Good Mom's Bad Choice Is and us we talked back podcasts.
• 35:05
  Speaker 1: I'm gonna starry using like the things on this app anyway.
• 35:10
  Speaker 2: But we can add it in later in no words, right.
• 35:12
  Speaker 1: So for the warm up, let's talk about like some
• 35:16
  Speaker 1: of the common stereotypes as U single moms that you
• 35:20
  Speaker 1: guys hear a lot. We're moms that are single or
• 35:24
  Speaker 1: y'all are in relationships now and right, but moms that
• 35:27
  Speaker 1: are single that.
• 35:28
  Speaker 3: We have baggage and we're like unwanted ran through.
• 35:34
  Speaker 4: We're still sucking our baby daddies and.
• 35:36
  Speaker 3: We were not to be married. No one wants, No
• 35:38
  Speaker 3: one wants to father somebody else's kids.
• 35:43
  Speaker 4: We're unavailable. We're unavailable.
• 35:47
  Speaker 5: We're not sexy, even though we had to be that we.
• 35:52
  Speaker 3: Should, that we shouldn't be dating, and that we shouldn't
• 35:55
  Speaker 3: be sexy, that we should wear like certain conservative clothes.
• 35:58
  Speaker 2: Oh you're a mom, now, yeah.
• 36:04
  Speaker 3: Why are you out? Where's your kid? That's my When
• 36:06
  Speaker 3: you at the party at midnight and it's like, where's
• 36:08
  Speaker 3: where so and so nigga in the bed? Where do
• 36:11
  Speaker 3: you think she's at with her with her daddy? Like
• 36:14
  Speaker 3: what right?
• 36:17
  Speaker 2: Daddy?
• 36:17
  Speaker 1: Don't ever have to have the damn kids? Do they
• 36:19
  Speaker 1: even get do they even get asked that question?
• 36:22
  Speaker 2: Not?
• 36:22
  Speaker 3: Where's the kids?
• 36:25
  Speaker 2: I hate when niggas be like, I got a babysit, nigga,
• 36:28
  Speaker 2: that's your kid. You not babysitting that child. You're not
• 36:31
  Speaker 2: baby that's your child. You don't babysit your own kid.
• 36:34
  Speaker 2: You are being a parent, So that's annoying.
• 36:38
  Speaker 1: All right?
• 36:38
  Speaker 2: What about all right? Aj me and you child free selfish?
• 36:43
  Speaker 2: Your clock is ticking, your clock ticking.
• 36:48
  Speaker 1: Oh no, this is the one I hate. And this
• 36:50
  Speaker 1: is from like the friends who have kids and family
• 36:52
  Speaker 1: who have kids. Just because I don't have kids, that
• 36:54
  Speaker 1: does not mean I don't got shit to do. So
• 36:58
  Speaker 1: I'm not sitting home twittering my thumb and for your
• 37:00
  Speaker 1: ass to hit me up to do something for you
• 37:02
  Speaker 1: and your fucking kids. And that's the one thing I
• 37:04
  Speaker 1: really can't stand because I'm just as busy even though
• 37:07
  Speaker 1: I don't have kids.
• 37:08
  Speaker 2: Are you gonna die along.
• 37:11
  Speaker 3: And wait and give a fuck?
• 37:12
  Speaker 2: Oh you ain't got a kid yet, your pussy must
• 37:15
  Speaker 2: not be good.
• 37:16
  Speaker 1: I've had an abortion.
• 37:18
  Speaker 3: This pussy is good.
• 37:21
  Speaker 1: If you ain't never had an abortion, that pussy is
• 37:23
  Speaker 1: why shut up?
• 37:31
  Speaker 5: Unpopular opinion trigger warning, sexy warning, I don't know I work.
• 37:38
  Speaker 2: Another one. You're lonely.
• 37:41
  Speaker 1: People with no kids just got all this extra money,
• 37:44
  Speaker 1: Like my nieces and nephews hit me up so much
• 37:47
  Speaker 1: for money, like it's just me paying all my bills,
• 37:50
  Speaker 1: like your parents are together. I don't have extra money.
• 37:54
  Speaker 3: It's not income house, or you're crazy. Oh she never,
• 37:58
  Speaker 3: she ain't been married, she got no kid. She probably crazy.
• 38:01
  Speaker 2: What's wrong with you? What's wrong with you? I don't
• 38:05
  Speaker 2: like people say why don't you have any kids? That's
• 38:08
  Speaker 2: such a rude question.
• 38:11
  Speaker 1: My ex fiance he had two kids at the time.
• 38:14
  Speaker 1: I've heard that he has since had two other I
• 38:17
  Speaker 1: don't even tell you about that. Shit's tam because how
• 38:19
  Speaker 1: the fuck my mama know that? And I don't anyway,
• 38:22
  Speaker 1: my mom still talks to my ex fiance and she
• 38:25
  Speaker 1: doesn't see a problem with that. Do you realize, like
• 38:30
  Speaker 1: he probably thinks he was right in a relationship because
• 38:32
  Speaker 1: he still has access to you. You're an extension of me.
• 38:36
  Speaker 1: But anyway, I would always like, I don't have to
• 38:39
  Speaker 1: be a mom to be a parents. I think a
• 38:41
  Speaker 1: lot of times people think that women with no kids
• 38:45
  Speaker 1: can't parents. Okay, I'm a mother at heart, so I
• 38:51
  Speaker 1: don't have to have kids to be a parent. So
• 38:52
  Speaker 1: this was being like an ongoing argument and that relationship
• 38:56
  Speaker 1: because just because you have kids, that do not automatically
• 39:00
  Speaker 1: mean you're a good parent. Sometimes the longer you wait
• 39:05
  Speaker 1: to have kids, you see things like I might have
• 39:08
  Speaker 1: a little bit extra information gathered from everywhere watching everybody
• 39:12
  Speaker 1: else parents. You know, I know what I want to
• 39:15
  Speaker 1: do as a parent and what I wouldn't do.
• 39:18
  Speaker 3: I don't know.
• 39:18
  Speaker 1: I think the longer you wait, you get more information.
• 39:21
  Speaker 2: But it ain't nothing like the real deal though.
• 39:24
  Speaker 1: No, absolutely listen, I'm not trying to discredit parents at all.
• 39:27
  Speaker 1: I'm just saying, do you get offended when you said?
• 39:30
  Speaker 1: Do you get offended when people say why don't you
• 39:32
  Speaker 1: have any kids? You get offended when they ask you
• 39:34
  Speaker 1: when are you having kids?
• 39:36
  Speaker 4: Is that the same thing?
• 39:38
  Speaker 2: Yeah, both of those. It's like, bitch, if I knew,
• 39:41
  Speaker 2: I get I tell you right, I don't know when
• 39:43
  Speaker 2: I'm having kids. How the fuck am I going to
• 39:45
  Speaker 2: answer that question for you tomorrow? I don't know?
• 39:48
  Speaker 5: Or do you want kids? Is that also? Like like
• 39:51
  Speaker 5: you get offended with someone.
• 39:53
  Speaker 2: Do you want kids? You know? That's not offensive, It's
• 39:56
  Speaker 2: just why don't you have kids? Because I could say
• 40:00
  Speaker 2: some shit that will make us both uncomfortable.
• 40:02
  Speaker 1: I do it, and sometimes I do pregnancies. I go
• 40:05
  Speaker 1: ahead and make everybody uncomfortable if God will, and I
• 40:08
  Speaker 1: have one. I've had two tuble pregnancies and they like,
• 40:11
  Speaker 1: oh yeah, because you should not be asking women I
• 40:13
  Speaker 1: believe over thirty why they don't have kids.
• 40:15
  Speaker 3: Wait, is that true? Or you just do that to
• 40:17
  Speaker 3: make them feel like that's true?
• 40:19
  Speaker 1: It's true. Yeah, So you should not ask women of
• 40:23
  Speaker 1: a certain age why they don't have kids. If they
• 40:25
  Speaker 1: want kids, just mine your business. That's how I feel.
• 40:30
  Speaker 4: I agree, wrong, I agree, I agree?
• 40:34
  Speaker 2: All right, So let's talk about why people just so
• 40:37
  Speaker 2: hard though. All right, Oh, we just talked about the
• 40:41
  Speaker 2: patriarchal expectations of motherhood. Do y'all feel like y'all need
• 40:45
  Speaker 2: to fit into the mold? Well, no, y'all know, y'all
• 40:47
  Speaker 2: don't feel like.
• 40:48
  Speaker 4: Girl. We back good minds about choices.
• 40:51
  Speaker 3: Our entire podcast is about it.
• 40:53
  Speaker 4: I think we did it. We've done everything except.
• 40:54
  Speaker 3: Do that hard. The move ian very hard, swung hard
• 41:02
  Speaker 3: to the other side.
• 41:03
  Speaker 2: Okay, but when you were like new mothers, did you
• 41:07
  Speaker 2: have like did people's judgments affect your confidence and you're
• 41:11
  Speaker 2: dating your friendships?
• 41:13
  Speaker 3: Like?
• 41:13
  Speaker 2: Were you affected by that as very young mothers?
• 41:17
  Speaker 3: I think I noticed when people were being judgmental, like
• 41:19
  Speaker 3: especially when I broke up with my child's father and
• 41:22
  Speaker 3: I was going out and I was outside, I could
• 41:24
  Speaker 3: see even some of my friends who hadn't had kids
• 41:26
  Speaker 3: yet were like, oh, you're out, you're out a lot,
• 41:28
  Speaker 3: or whatever their comments were. But I've always been pretty
• 41:31
  Speaker 3: like clear about the balance in like having a life,
• 41:35
  Speaker 3: like mama got to have a life too, because my
• 41:37
  Speaker 3: parents were kind of like that. But I think people
• 41:40
  Speaker 3: are very judgmental about that, especially women against women is
• 41:43
  Speaker 3: because they are. When you see someone that is exuding
• 41:46
  Speaker 3: and existing in a way that you think that you can't,
• 41:48
  Speaker 3: you're gonna project and you're gonna feel away about it
• 41:51
  Speaker 3: because bitch, you're over there knitting sweaters and baking cakes
• 41:54
  Speaker 3: so and you wish you were getting your black back
• 41:56
  Speaker 3: blown out, and you know daddy was doing something, but
• 41:59
  Speaker 3: he's watching fucking football and ignoring the fuck out of you,
• 42:02
  Speaker 3: and that kid, Yeah, you're gonna feel a way. One
• 42:05
  Speaker 3: time I went to I went to a party of
• 42:06
  Speaker 3: this guy. I was like a small dinner party. I
• 42:08
  Speaker 3: was like some white people and they were like, I
• 42:10
  Speaker 3: was talking about my daughter and I was like no,
• 42:12
  Speaker 3: me and her dad broke up like oh my god,
• 42:14
  Speaker 3: oh god, I'm so sorry, Like, oh god, that seems
• 42:17
  Speaker 3: so hard. That's like so hard. I was like, no,
• 42:21
  Speaker 3: actually not, that's not nothing to be sorry about. I'm
• 42:25
  Speaker 3: doing great. Actually, God's plan for my life, right, I
• 42:29
  Speaker 3: get the best of both worlds.
• 42:31
  Speaker 6: So yeah, yeah, I mean yeah, I mean I think
• 42:36
  Speaker 6: me and Mila have had different journeys as early as
• 42:41
  Speaker 6: moms early on, because I definitely felt myself when I
• 42:46
  Speaker 6: got pregnant starting to kind of fall into society's expectations
• 42:50
  Speaker 6: around what motherhood was supposed to look like.
• 42:52
  Speaker 5: And that wasn't just from society, that was also my family,
• 42:56
  Speaker 5: and so prior to having my daughter, I was like,
• 43:00
  Speaker 5: just I'm a free spirit.
• 43:02
  Speaker 4: I smoke a lot of weed. I moved how I
• 43:05
  Speaker 4: wanted to move.
• 43:07
  Speaker 5: I was probably financially irresponsible because I didn't have anything
• 43:11
  Speaker 5: to worry about except myself. And when I became a parent,
• 43:15
  Speaker 5: like it was like, oh, y erca, you know, you
• 43:17
  Speaker 5: can't do that no more. You can't do that no more,
• 43:19
  Speaker 5: you can't do that any more. And I almost fell
• 43:21
  Speaker 5: into that trap. And I think that's one of the
• 43:24
  Speaker 5: things that me and Mila share a lot on our
• 43:27
  Speaker 5: on our show, is like that was the beginning of
• 43:28
  Speaker 5: Good Mom's Bad Choices, was me meeting Mela and her
• 43:32
  Speaker 5: mirroring the things that I wasn't allowing myself to experience
• 43:36
  Speaker 5: and realizing that like I was heading on down a
• 43:40
  Speaker 5: path of imprisonment. And it's and it's interesting because like
• 43:46
  Speaker 5: the person that I was with my child's father, he's
• 43:49
  Speaker 5: not like a traditional man, like he's outside, you know,
• 43:52
  Speaker 5: like I wasn't like about to wrap up my life
• 43:55
  Speaker 5: with like a like a god fearing in the house nigga,
• 43:59
  Speaker 5: Like like he spent like half my pregnancy at the
• 44:04
  Speaker 5: strip club, you know what I'm saying. So that even
• 44:07
  Speaker 5: tells you even more. And he wasn't even that was
• 44:09
  Speaker 5: not his expectation of me either, you know. So it
• 44:12
  Speaker 5: was really like the programming. Really it's so deeply ingrained
• 44:16
  Speaker 5: in women from such a young age with us like
• 44:19
  Speaker 5: caring for babies and playing house and you know, like
• 44:24
  Speaker 5: these roles really being shoved down our throats and society
• 44:29
  Speaker 5: doesn't help. And so I you know, I'm grateful for
• 44:33
  Speaker 5: my friendship with Jamila because it reawakened what was already
• 44:36
  Speaker 5: inside of me, Like what I had already been. I
• 44:38
  Speaker 5: was already that girl. It was just that when I
• 44:40
  Speaker 5: became when I went into motherhood, I felt like I
• 44:42
  Speaker 5: had to that girl had to die and grandtsed when
• 44:45
  Speaker 5: your mom like you do you rebirth into something else,
• 44:47
  Speaker 5: but like the old parts of you are still there
• 44:50
  Speaker 5: and in fact, like they deserve to be watered, and
• 44:53
  Speaker 5: your child deserves to see you show up as a
• 44:55
  Speaker 5: whole human and like understand who their parent is because
• 44:58
  Speaker 5: and ultimately that bitch go par or she's just gonna
• 45:01
  Speaker 5: literally die and be depressed. And I think we see
• 45:03
  Speaker 5: a lot of maybe our parents, we see like what
• 45:07
  Speaker 5: that does to them. We see like these shells of
• 45:10
  Speaker 5: these women, and like we have like, oh, your mom
• 45:14
  Speaker 5: used to be that girl.
• 45:15
  Speaker 4: I'm like, what the fuck happened? I don't know that girl,
• 45:18
  Speaker 4: you know?
• 45:18
  Speaker 5: And it's like it almost feels like a fable, like
• 45:20
  Speaker 5: a story time where it's like is that real?
• 45:23
  Speaker 4: Like my mom was that?
• 45:25
  Speaker 5: And unfortunately, I think a lot of women fall into
• 45:27
  Speaker 5: that trap when they don't have to. So if you're
• 45:29
  Speaker 5: listening to this and you're a mom, you're falling into
• 45:31
  Speaker 5: that trap. Just come over to Good Moms. Let's start
• 45:33
  Speaker 5: at episode one. Take the journey with us. Because when
• 45:36
  Speaker 5: I started episode one, like I was just kind of
• 45:39
  Speaker 5: like coming out of it. And I think it's really
• 45:42
  Speaker 5: important for mothers to really evaluate themselves and give themselves
• 45:46
  Speaker 5: the time and space to really evaluate who they are
• 45:48
  Speaker 5: now and how they and what parts of the former.
• 45:52
  Speaker 5: And I say that with air quotes of you that
• 45:55
  Speaker 5: you want to bring into this space, because it's important
• 45:57
  Speaker 5: to not just let that person go, right.
• 46:01
  Speaker 1: Because that's what Asha Curry is essentially experiencing. Right. She
• 46:06
  Speaker 1: has fomo a little bit. You know, she might have
• 46:11
  Speaker 1: felt like she missed out on some things, or I mean,
• 46:13
  Speaker 1: she has the means and the resources to do whatever
• 46:16
  Speaker 1: it is that she wants, but it's something there because
• 46:18
  Speaker 1: she never got to discover exactly who she was before
• 46:22
  Speaker 1: having to take care of somebody else, and who have kids,
• 46:25
  Speaker 1: who don't have kids. It's not selfish not to want
• 46:28
  Speaker 1: to be responsible for somebody else for the rest of
• 46:29
  Speaker 1: your life.
• 46:30
  Speaker 5: It's crazy. It's a crazy response. Not every person needs
• 46:33
  Speaker 5: to be a parent. A lot of parents don't even
• 46:36
  Speaker 5: need to be parents, you know, right.
• 46:39
  Speaker 2: Did y'all ever feel like your relationships with your friends
• 46:42
  Speaker 2: shifted once she became moms?
• 46:44
  Speaker 4: Yes?
• 46:45
  Speaker 5: Absolutely, I was outside. I was an outside girl. I
• 46:52
  Speaker 5: had friends that just stopped calling me, you know, they
• 46:55
  Speaker 5: didn't really I remember specifically, I had a situation one
• 46:58
  Speaker 5: of my best friends at the time, I was so
• 47:00
  Speaker 5: excited to tell her I was pregnant. I was living
• 47:03
  Speaker 5: in New York when I found out I was pregnant.
• 47:05
  Speaker 5: So I came back to LA and I sat down
• 47:07
  Speaker 5: with her and my other friend and I was like,
• 47:09
  Speaker 5: I have something to tell you guys. And before I
• 47:11
  Speaker 5: could even tell her, she was like, you're pregnant. And
• 47:13
  Speaker 5: I was like, yeah, I am, and she's like I know,
• 47:17
  Speaker 5: and then just like just like didn't want to know
• 47:20
  Speaker 5: anything else. Like I was shocked. I was like, what
• 47:23
  Speaker 5: the fuck, bitch like, and then after that, I like
• 47:26
  Speaker 5: barely ever heard from her again. It was the weirdest thing,
• 47:30
  Speaker 5: and so I don't I still don't really know what
• 47:32
  Speaker 5: that was. It was like maybe it was like she
• 47:35
  Speaker 5: was mad that she was gonna have to share me.
• 47:37
  Speaker 5: She felt like we couldn't relate anymore. She was jealous.
• 47:39
  Speaker 5: I mean, I don't really like to go straight to
• 47:41
  Speaker 5: jealousy with women, because I think that's what we do
• 47:43
  Speaker 5: a lot.
• 47:44
  Speaker 4: But I just don't. I don't know what that was.
• 47:46
  Speaker 5: And I'm sure that maybe there's other women that maybe
• 47:49
  Speaker 5: relate to it, but I know, for me, like motherhood
• 47:52
  Speaker 5: really showed me who my friends were and it continues
• 47:55
  Speaker 5: to it shows me even like with partners, like what
• 47:57
  Speaker 5: who was really open, really down for me?
• 48:01
  Speaker 3: And who isn't?
• 48:03
  Speaker 2: What about you?
• 48:05
  Speaker 3: I would say that that didn't really happen to me.
• 48:07
  Speaker 3: I had I was the first person in my friend
• 48:09
  Speaker 3: group to have a kid, and I do feel like
• 48:12
  Speaker 3: everybody really rallied around me and was like my baby daddy.
• 48:17
  Speaker 3: So I had like a lot of baby daddies and
• 48:19
  Speaker 3: like because there was no other kids, it was kind
• 48:21
  Speaker 3: of like a fun group project. Look, we have a baby.
• 48:26
  Speaker 3: But you know, it was kind of fun that way.
• 48:30
  Speaker 3: But I think there were some things that like people
• 48:33
  Speaker 3: didn't understand, Like there was a time where I was
• 48:36
  Speaker 3: like about my baby daddy, like this is not gonna work.
• 48:38
  Speaker 3: I can't stand him, or like or I would talk
• 48:41
  Speaker 3: shit about him because it was time for me to leave.
• 48:43
  Speaker 3: And then they would be like why don't you leave,
• 48:45
  Speaker 3: Why don't you leave? Why don't you leave? And I'm like,
• 48:47
  Speaker 3: you don't understand. You know, I had this. I'm trying,
• 48:49
  Speaker 3: like you're not black, you don't understand. I don't want
• 48:51
  Speaker 3: to be a baby mama, like making a lot of
• 48:53
  Speaker 3: excuses for what that meant to me because I think
• 48:56
  Speaker 3: for as a black woman being with my child's father,
• 49:00
  Speaker 3: it was like there was a like a stereotype I
• 49:03
  Speaker 3: was trying to break, like I didn't want to fall
• 49:04
  Speaker 3: into that to the point where I'd be like at
• 49:06
  Speaker 3: museums or at Disneyland like with my family, like miserable inside.
• 49:10
  Speaker 3: But look, that's the dad, that's the mom, and that's
• 49:12
  Speaker 3: the kid. Bitches. Okay, black families stay together. So I
• 49:17
  Speaker 3: think there I had something to prove in that way,
• 49:19
  Speaker 3: but it was not in the sense that like my
• 49:21
  Speaker 3: party friends fell off.
• 49:24
  Speaker 2: Yeah.
• 49:24
  Speaker 1: I think anytime one of my old ast friends have
• 49:27
  Speaker 1: a baby, I'd be like, girl, your time is coming up.
• 49:30
  Speaker 1: I'm so happy when the old bitches have a baby.
• 49:33
  Speaker 3: Okay, I'm gonna be looking at old bitch having a baby.
• 49:38
  Speaker 2: So you want another kid? I want more kids?
• 49:42
  Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah I do. But I have a timeline in
• 49:51
  Speaker 5: which I would let in which I would want that
• 49:53
  Speaker 5: to happen, and if it doesn't, then I'm cool.
• 49:57
  Speaker 2: And aj I know you're trying to have a baby
• 50:00
  Speaker 2: every weekend.
• 50:01
  Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, I was very sad this weekend because my
• 50:04
  Speaker 1: fucking period came on.
• 50:05
  Speaker 3: Okay, oh so you're you're you're like actively if if
• 50:08
  Speaker 3: it happens, it happened.
• 50:10
  Speaker 1: Yeah, So two weeks ago, I intentionally was trying to
• 50:13
  Speaker 1: get trying to get pregnant two weeks ago.
• 50:16
  Speaker 4: Are you are you you're picking them?
• 50:17
  Speaker 5: You're picking them well right, like you're you're making sure
• 50:22
  Speaker 5: that they're like genetically they're okay as well.
• 50:26
  Speaker 1: Yes, And I'm also I was also trying to have
• 50:28
  Speaker 1: a Gemini.
• 50:30
  Speaker 5: So now let me tell you I have a Gemini baby. Daddy,
• 50:34
  Speaker 5: don't recommend.
• 50:35
  Speaker 3: No, she was a Gemini bababy, the baby.
• 50:38
  Speaker 1: So I missed my deception window for the Gemini baby
• 50:42
  Speaker 1: because I'm a Gemini. My mom is a Gemini. My
• 50:44
  Speaker 1: grandmother was a fucking Gemini. Ah, you're trying to keep
• 50:46
  Speaker 1: it going, Okay, I see. So it's a legacy, yeah,
• 50:49
  Speaker 1: a Gemini legacy. So my legacy is fucked up because now,
• 50:52
  Speaker 1: like at this point, I'll be trying to get pregnant
• 50:54
  Speaker 1: next year, I'm be forty three trying to.
• 50:56
  Speaker 3: Have a baby. Babe. Just fucking a Gemini timeline. We
• 50:59
  Speaker 3: don't need any more Geminis in the world. We just
• 51:02
  Speaker 3: just keep sucking. I could do Virgo or Libra, and
• 51:05
  Speaker 3: that's it. I can't do I can't do no fucking
• 51:08
  Speaker 3: virgo child. That wouldn't work for me. I'm virgo rising.
• 51:11
  Speaker 3: I could do it. I would get on their nerves.
• 51:14
  Speaker 2: I still want to. Like, my desire to be a
• 51:18
  Speaker 2: mother is starting to dwindle a little bit as I
• 51:21
  Speaker 2: get older. I just feel like my window is closing
• 51:24
  Speaker 2: on me. But I'm just terrified still to be pregnant again.
• 51:30
  Speaker 2: Let me say that pregnant or births?
• 51:32
  Speaker 3: Are you terrified about the actual birth?
• 51:34
  Speaker 2: The whole process. The whole process just makes me scared,
• 51:40
  Speaker 2: Like I wish I could skip that part.
• 51:43
  Speaker 4: And just have my baby.
• 51:45
  Speaker 3: Bitches are doing it every day. Bitches are sarrogating, surrogated
• 51:49
  Speaker 3: whatever their lives away. So it's not not an.
• 51:52
  Speaker 2: Option, not impossible, right, But then I don't Also, I
• 51:55
  Speaker 2: also at the same time don't want somebody else when Yeah,
• 52:00
  Speaker 2: because there has even though they say, oh, it's your
• 52:02
  Speaker 2: your DNA, there has to be some of this other
• 52:05
  Speaker 2: bitch DNA.
• 52:06
  Speaker 7: In my band's the science, I know, the real.
• 52:11
  Speaker 2: Yeah, it's all like in his too, Like.
• 52:18
  Speaker 4: I don't know's gonna be a little confused because.
• 52:21
  Speaker 1: No throle baby, Yeah that's baby Polly pregnancy, right, So.
• 52:31
  Speaker 2: Y'all we want to play again. Do you have any
• 52:32
  Speaker 2: more questions? I want to play? Would you rather go?
• 52:34
  Speaker 4: Go?
• 52:35
  Speaker 3: Go?
• 52:36
  Speaker 2: Okay, so we're gonna play a game with y'all real quick.
• 52:38
  Speaker 2: Would you rather right? So the first one is would
• 52:41
  Speaker 2: you rather have a man who worships you but has
• 52:44
  Speaker 2: no ambition or a man who challenges you but triggers
• 52:47
  Speaker 2: you all the time? B? Yeah?
• 52:55
  Speaker 4: B gosh, you know what?
• 52:57
  Speaker 3: I think that all?
• 52:58
  Speaker 4: I don't know.
• 52:59
  Speaker 3: Real relations are going to trigger you all the time.
• 53:02
  Speaker 3: Like it's you're in a relationships, most close relationships are
• 53:07
  Speaker 3: going to trigger you. Because that's the whole point of
• 53:09
  Speaker 3: this game of life. It's like if you were alone
• 53:12
  Speaker 3: and you locked yourself in your apartment, you're only around
• 53:14
  Speaker 3: those two friends that don't trigger you. They know what
• 53:15
  Speaker 3: to say and not to say that you're not growing,
• 53:17
  Speaker 3: You're not going to evolve. It's like the triggering leads
• 53:19
  Speaker 3: you to more depths of yourself. Why did it, sugar me?
• 53:22
  Speaker 3: Why am I feeling this way? And this is for
• 53:24
  Speaker 3: a person who gets triggered very easily. And I'm triggered
• 53:26
  Speaker 3: right now, and I'm annoyed, and I don't even want
• 53:27
  Speaker 3: to take my own advice. But that's the truth.
• 53:31
  Speaker 4: You know what.
• 53:32
  Speaker 5: I think that if I was with a man who
• 53:34
  Speaker 5: worshiped me but had no ambition, I would be triggered.
• 53:36
  Speaker 4: Also, probably I probably would rather just do be.
• 53:44
  Speaker 3: Let's see.
• 53:45
  Speaker 1: Would you rather build him up or find him built
• 53:50
  Speaker 1: but boring?
• 53:51
  Speaker 3: I can't do boring. I will build him up. I'll
• 53:52
  Speaker 3: get that wardrobe, we'll go to the mall. Baby, we'll
• 53:54
  Speaker 3: put on some jeans. I look put on that hat. Yep. No,
• 53:58
  Speaker 3: I'm not doing anything boring because you're gonna I'm gonna
• 54:00
  Speaker 3: cheat on you. It's happened.
• 54:05
  Speaker 4: I'd rather build you up.
• 54:07
  Speaker 5: Come on, baby, let's build a bear you let's go.
• 54:11
  Speaker 5: You know, a bitch loves a project.
• 54:13
  Speaker 3: Bitches love projects.
• 54:16
  Speaker 2: Oh here's a good one. Would you rather feel safe
• 54:20
  Speaker 2: but unseen or seen but uncertain?
• 54:24
  Speaker 3: I don't like none of those options.
• 54:28
  Speaker 5: Wait, say but unseen, seen but uncertain. I would rather
• 54:34
  Speaker 5: be seen. I would rather be seen and uncertain because
• 54:37
  Speaker 5: then I'm gonna break up with you anyway. But at
• 54:39
  Speaker 5: least while we're together, I'm thinking I feel seen, you know.
• 54:42
  Speaker 3: Like it like?
• 54:43
  Speaker 2: Is it?
• 54:43
  Speaker 3: Is it? Stevie? Wonder? Like? What do you mean? He can't?
• 54:45
  Speaker 2: Like?
• 54:45
  Speaker 3: If you see me, they're gonna see me. I ain't
• 54:49
  Speaker 3: no not seeing this nigga.
• 54:52
  Speaker 1: Or maybe he's not like inviting you out stuff like that.
• 54:55
  Speaker 3: You know what I'm saying.
• 54:56
  Speaker 2: You just feel you're there, but you're not there. You know.
• 55:00
  Speaker 3: I don't like any of those options.
• 55:02
  Speaker 1: Okay, I actually saw this on Instagram. You know how
• 55:05
  Speaker 1: those people be on the street asking questions, would you
• 55:08
  Speaker 1: rather be a side chick to a star NBA player
• 55:12
  Speaker 1: or married to a loyal average salary man b B.
• 55:19
  Speaker 3: A would be you're a groupie, bitch. If you just
• 55:21
  Speaker 3: answered A, you are a groupie. Okay, you probably knew
• 55:25
  Speaker 3: that already in the on the Instagram post.
• 55:28
  Speaker 1: The guy then says, well, the guy only makes like
• 55:30
  Speaker 1: sixty thousand a year and the girls like sixty thousand.
• 55:33
  Speaker 1: Like that is the average person's salary, is what we're
• 55:36
  Speaker 1: talking about. What a lot of places, well we're in
• 55:39
  Speaker 1: the South. Were in the South, right, that's a lot
• 55:42
  Speaker 1: black people. What do you think the average income for
• 55:44
  Speaker 1: a black man is?
• 55:47
  Speaker 3: Can you even live off of sixty thousand dollars? Yeah?
• 55:50
  Speaker 4: In other places, yeah, y y'all can.
• 55:53
  Speaker 3: In LA for sure. One hundred thousand dollars a year
• 55:56
  Speaker 3: is the average.
• 55:58
  Speaker 4: That's not the average, not even in la.
• 56:00
  Speaker 2: Not even clothes. No, it's probably probably like seventy five,
• 56:06
  Speaker 2: probably like fifty honestly, because think.
• 56:09
  Speaker 5: About because together we're going to combine our income, so
• 56:13
  Speaker 5: you know, we'll be had that one twenty together and
• 56:17
  Speaker 5: we can get a cute little cabcul little lifestyle and
• 56:20
  Speaker 5: wherever the fuck that takes us.
• 56:23
  Speaker 1: So this this is from twenty twenty three, and it
• 56:26
  Speaker 1: says that average. This is for black persons. It says
• 56:29
  Speaker 1: fifty four thousand.
• 56:30
  Speaker 2: That's why I said about fifty thousand is the average.
• 56:34
  Speaker 2: You gotta think about these small towns and these small
• 56:38
  Speaker 2: places where it's more of that than everything else.
• 56:41
  Speaker 3: You know, yeah, I forget that there's like all those
• 56:44
  Speaker 3: states in between. Mm hmm.
• 56:47
  Speaker 1: Y'all listen, Catch a man cheating with someone batter or
• 56:51
  Speaker 1: is someone basic in crocs?
• 56:54
  Speaker 3: I were crocs today?
• 56:55
  Speaker 4: Bitch? Wait, what was the first one?
• 57:00
  Speaker 1: Catch your man cheating with someone batter than you? Like
• 57:03
  Speaker 1: a batter bitch crocs on.
• 57:06
  Speaker 3: It's gonna have to be be I can't handle I
• 57:08
  Speaker 3: can't handle a I'm gonna be mad. I didn't be
• 57:11
  Speaker 3: able to talk shit to my friends. I didn't talk
• 57:13
  Speaker 3: shit to my friends, and that bitch was ugly. That's
• 57:20
  Speaker 3: because I'm shallow.
• 57:21
  Speaker 1: I need the bitch to be batter or comparable. I
• 57:24
  Speaker 1: cannot stand a nigga who doesn't have like standard you
• 57:28
  Speaker 1: don't have, yeah, you don't have no standards.
• 57:30
  Speaker 4: Like I've literally never in my whole I've never.
• 57:35
  Speaker 5: In my long life of being cheated on ever, ever
• 57:40
  Speaker 5: been cheated on with a bitch better than me.
• 57:42
  Speaker 3: And it doesn't happen.
• 57:44
  Speaker 1: It just doesn't cheating. Then it's it's just a bitch batter.
• 57:47
  Speaker 4: It just doesn't happen.
• 57:48
  Speaker 5: And I'm not even saying that because I'm like, I
• 57:51
  Speaker 5: am pretty fine myself, but I'm just always astonished. I'm
• 57:54
  Speaker 5: always like, Nigga, what what if it's.
• 57:58
  Speaker 3: Not batter than you? They stepped out not cheating?
• 58:01
  Speaker 2: What if what if like she's but ugly like this.
• 58:04
  Speaker 1: Uglies saying I have seen some some some fucked up
• 58:08
  Speaker 1: ship to where it's like nigga, where I'm offended because
• 58:11
  Speaker 1: this I'm offended.
• 58:12
  Speaker 3: Yes, she has one eye or one arm y'all.
• 58:15
  Speaker 1: I have only reached out to a bitch one time
• 58:17
  Speaker 1: in life about a nigga, and it was because I
• 58:21
  Speaker 1: could not believe this nigga was fucking this Walrus. I
• 58:27
  Speaker 1: could not believe it, Like and I messaged the bitch
• 58:30
  Speaker 1: on Instagram, and she didn't respond. She read my message,
• 58:33
  Speaker 1: didn't respond, and then she told him I messaged her
• 58:36
  Speaker 1: messaged her. I could not believe how this person look
• 58:39
  Speaker 1: I just I like I needed to hear it from
• 58:42
  Speaker 1: her that he actually fucked her.
• 58:43
  Speaker 4: I couldn't believe it. I would prefer to see the
• 58:48
  Speaker 4: bad bitches.
• 58:49
  Speaker 1: Please please fuck some bad bitches, because I can't understand
• 58:52
  Speaker 1: when you're fucking on.
• 58:53
  Speaker 2: No, I need her to be ugly, but not now.
• 58:57
  Speaker 2: I'm offended, like, don't be you know why?
• 59:00
  Speaker 5: I mean, I don't even I don't know if I
• 59:01
  Speaker 5: can even answer that question because it's never happened. Like
• 59:04
  Speaker 5: maybe I would be like so hurt if she was.
• 59:07
  Speaker 5: I mean, I was hurt even when she was ugly,
• 59:09
  Speaker 5: so like imagine she was fine, Like maybe I would
• 59:11
  Speaker 5: be super devastated, but I don't know. I've never experienced it,
• 59:14
  Speaker 5: Like ugly bitches have hurt my feelings too, so I
• 59:18
  Speaker 5: don't know.
• 59:20
  Speaker 3: The point is, it's always gonna hurt your feelings, but
• 59:22
  Speaker 3: it's gonna hurt more. It's gonna hurt worse either way
• 59:25
  Speaker 3: if she's extremely not to your level, and also if
• 59:28
  Speaker 3: she's way better than you, it's gonna hurt both ways.
• 59:30
  Speaker 3: It's gonna be offended. Are you gonna be like? What
• 59:32
  Speaker 3: the fuck?
• 59:33
  Speaker 2: Right?
• 59:34
  Speaker 5: Because if she's bad like she got like, I don't know,
• 59:37
  Speaker 5: is I gonna make me be like?
• 59:38
  Speaker 3: Damn?
• 59:38
  Speaker 4: Do I need to get my like?
• 59:39
  Speaker 5: Maybe my ass isn't bigger than maybe I need to
• 59:41
  Speaker 5: put a little someone in there, Like damn, she.
• 59:43
  Speaker 4: Got bigger titties? Do I need a bigger like? I
• 59:45
  Speaker 4: don't even want to go down that route. So I'm
• 59:47
  Speaker 4: actually grateful for.
• 59:50
  Speaker 1: Thank you.
• 59:50
  Speaker 5: I want to personally thank all my old hoes, all
• 59:53
  Speaker 5: my my baby daddy, and everyone else from my past
• 59:57
  Speaker 5: that fucked with ugly bitches.
• 59:58
  Speaker 4: Thank you, Thank you so much for be my confidence high.
• 1:00:02
  Speaker 3: Amen?
• 1:00:03
  Speaker 2: All right? Would you rather have a man who moans
• 1:00:06
  Speaker 2: louder than you or one who doesn't make a sound
• 1:00:09
  Speaker 2: at all?
• 1:00:10
  Speaker 3: Loud man louder? Yeah, let me know this pussy's good nigga?
• 1:00:14
  Speaker 4: Anything worse than a silent fun like Yeah, like nigga,
• 1:00:17
  Speaker 4: E be dead?
• 1:00:17
  Speaker 3: Like what's going on?
• 1:00:21
  Speaker 4: I love a growl in my ear?
• 1:00:24
  Speaker 3: Yeah, do something somebody I posted something reposted something yesterday
• 1:00:28
  Speaker 3: that said if you're if you're a woman who likes
• 1:00:31
  Speaker 3: male moans, you're a hoe. It's guilty.
• 1:00:35
  Speaker 2: Well listen. Sometimes like I was dating this guy and
• 1:00:38
  Speaker 2: I liked everything about him. He would have been a
• 1:00:40
  Speaker 2: great husband, but I hated how he came, Like I
• 1:00:43
  Speaker 2: broke up with him because how he.
• 1:00:45
  Speaker 3: Know, well, how did he do it?
• 1:00:46
  Speaker 2: Bru He sounded like a cartoon villain. He was like,
• 1:00:55
  Speaker 2: that's how he came.
• 1:00:57
  Speaker 4: You should have got him like a like want of
• 1:01:00
  Speaker 4: guided him on that account.
• 1:01:02
  Speaker 3: You should have made him a vampire for Halloween or something.
• 1:01:04
  Speaker 2: Why did he come like that? He was like, I'm
• 1:01:06
  Speaker 2: just so filled with joy?
• 1:01:09
  Speaker 3: And you left him? Bitch, you got now you gotta go.
• 1:01:13
  Speaker 3: Theory because he was a joy was scary.
• 1:01:15
  Speaker 4: I was a happy man, Okay, Well I don't like though.
• 1:01:18
  Speaker 5: What I don't like is too much of a talking
• 1:01:20
  Speaker 5: ass nigga during sex, Like just shut the fuck up,
• 1:01:22
  Speaker 5: Like not like I don't need you, not moan, but
• 1:01:24
  Speaker 5: like you're talking too much. I can't focus, Just like
• 1:01:31
  Speaker 5: I had a guy trying to tell me what to say,
• 1:01:33
  Speaker 5: Like I get it, Like sometimes that's cool, but like
• 1:01:35
  Speaker 5: it was throughout the whole experience, and so I gave
• 1:01:38
  Speaker 5: him a second chance and he did it again, and
• 1:01:39
  Speaker 5: I was like, like, let.
• 1:01:41
  Speaker 3: What was he telling you to say? What was he
• 1:01:43
  Speaker 3: telling you to say?
• 1:01:44
  Speaker 8: Like, tell me how good this stick is? Tell me
• 1:01:46
  Speaker 8: how good it is? Tell me tell me. Then he
• 1:01:48
  Speaker 8: said like, tell me how how good my body looks?
• 1:01:50
  Speaker 8: And I was like, whoa, this is ship with me.
• 1:01:57
  Speaker 8: Talk to your therapist. I don't know what's happened in here.
• 1:02:01
  Speaker 8: Not talk to your therapist. That might be that might
• 1:02:03
  Speaker 8: be a lame like sex therapist. That's gonna tell you,
• 1:02:06
  Speaker 8: like how good you look. It's gonna be like therapize
• 1:02:08
  Speaker 8: you while your dick is inside of her.
• 1:02:10
  Speaker 4: Well, that's a lot of sacrifice.
• 1:02:12
  Speaker 2: It's crazy. Did you tell them just like I did?
• 1:02:16
  Speaker 4: I did?
• 1:02:16
  Speaker 3: I definitely, because like he was like.
• 1:02:19
  Speaker 5: What hey At that point, I was just like, just
• 1:02:23
  Speaker 5: don't stop. I'll say whatever you want, but like, this
• 1:02:26
  Speaker 5: is the last time you can talk me through a bit.
• 1:02:31
  Speaker 5: Don't be asking for compliments. Was he a pisces? Probably
• 1:02:36
  Speaker 5: low key?
• 1:02:36
  Speaker 4: I need to go.
• 1:02:37
  Speaker 3: Look. I hate people talk too much. And you're like
• 1:02:39
  Speaker 3: your ear is here, You're like, huh.
• 1:02:41
  Speaker 4: What, Yeah, that's happened to the keeps saying things are mumbling.
• 1:02:45
  Speaker 3: And like, nig I can't hear you. Stop talking to me,
• 1:02:47
  Speaker 3: like I'm just the haunt is taking me out of it,
• 1:02:49
  Speaker 3: like just fucking what. I can't read your lips, I
• 1:02:51
  Speaker 3: can't see you. What the are we talking about? I
• 1:02:58
  Speaker 3: was sticking these niggas.
• 1:03:01
  Speaker 4: Do what you came to do.
• 1:03:03
  Speaker 2: Right, all right, when the lottery, but lose your best
• 1:03:09
  Speaker 2: friend or stay broke, but keep your tribe it broke
• 1:03:14
  Speaker 2: as fuck.
• 1:03:15
  Speaker 4: Like broke forever.
• 1:03:16
  Speaker 3: Like I don't like these questions. We're witches. This is
• 1:03:21
  Speaker 3: what happened to us. This is not how we We don't
• 1:03:23
  Speaker 3: manifest like this. This is not.
• 1:03:29
  Speaker 4: I don't want to be a lonely rich bitch.
• 1:03:31
  Speaker 3: Yeah, Like who are gonna go on the yacht with?
• 1:03:33
  Speaker 3: Like who's gonna be the who's gonna be in the PJ?
• 1:03:35
  Speaker 1: So many people I know exactly who the I want
• 1:03:37
  Speaker 1: to see having a good ass time. Okay, I gotta
• 1:03:41
  Speaker 1: take all the people.
• 1:03:43
  Speaker 3: Yeah, I don't like.
• 1:03:44
  Speaker 2: That one, that question because I can't. I can't figure
• 1:03:48
  Speaker 2: one to choose either, because we're just gonna have.
• 1:03:51
  Speaker 3: To be broke.
• 1:03:51
  Speaker 4: Well, we have to figure it out, like for a while.
• 1:03:54
  Speaker 3: Girls, you're just sell some pussy. I'm gonna be broke.
• 1:03:59
  Speaker 3: Why would I be broke? What does that make sense
• 1:04:01
  Speaker 3: to anyone?
• 1:04:02
  Speaker 6: Like?
• 1:04:02
  Speaker 1: No last one? I have a man who makes you
• 1:04:05
  Speaker 1: laugh but never commits, or one who commits but never
• 1:04:09
  Speaker 1: compliments you. Y'all haven't been with somebody who never complimented you.
• 1:04:17
  Speaker 3: I probably didn't even notice for real, for real. It's
• 1:04:21
  Speaker 3: like I'm used to that. Like it's when someone compliments
• 1:04:24
  Speaker 3: me where I'm like, oh okay, wow, that's a lot relaxed.
• 1:04:27
  Speaker 3: It's like I'm not good at like. But now that
• 1:04:29
  Speaker 3: I have that, I don't think I would be able
• 1:04:31
  Speaker 3: to be a someone who like didn't notice little things
• 1:04:33
  Speaker 3: or compliment me with bother me.
• 1:04:37
  Speaker 5: Laughing goes a long way with me? What was what
• 1:04:40
  Speaker 5: was the what makes me laugh? But what won't commit?
• 1:04:42
  Speaker 1: Won't commit?
• 1:04:43
  Speaker 3: He won't commit?
• 1:04:44
  Speaker 5: Oh that was like my baby daddy. We did it
• 1:04:50
  Speaker 5: for seven years though he made me laugh for a
• 1:04:52
  Speaker 5: long time. That that laughing, that laughing sustained me for
• 1:04:57
  Speaker 5: some time.
• 1:04:57
  Speaker 3: We forgot about the other bitches. It was so some
• 1:05:00
  Speaker 3: I was just like, just.
• 1:05:01
  Speaker 4: Keep with the no compliment.
• 1:05:07
  Speaker 5: I don't know, I'm an words I'm a words of
• 1:05:09
  Speaker 5: affirmation type of a I'm a wards of affirmation type
• 1:05:12
  Speaker 5: of lover.
• 1:05:12
  Speaker 4: Like that's what I give, and it says feel nice
• 1:05:16
  Speaker 4: to receive it.
• 1:05:16
  Speaker 5: I have like my partner now is very much like
• 1:05:20
  Speaker 5: affirms me a lot, and I appreciate that because I
• 1:05:22
  Speaker 5: think I think I've had it in the past, but
• 1:05:24
  Speaker 5: maybe not to the extent that I get it now.
• 1:05:28
  Speaker 1: Facts, that's that's what I'm experiencing too. I had an
• 1:05:30
  Speaker 1: ex who would never, like verbally compliment me. He would
• 1:05:34
  Speaker 1: wait till I leave the house and like text me like,
• 1:05:36
  Speaker 1: you look, you looked good. I'm like, what the fuck? Meanwhile,
• 1:05:39
  Speaker 1: like when he putting that shit on because I bought it, like,
• 1:05:41
  Speaker 1: I'm like, man, you look so good.
• 1:05:44
  Speaker 3: Never never, what is that?
• 1:05:48
  Speaker 1: I don't know, hater. I think a lot of people
• 1:05:51
  Speaker 1: be in relationships with men.
• 1:05:52
  Speaker 4: Who well, yeah, they like I don't want you to
• 1:05:54
  Speaker 4: get a big head.
• 1:05:55
  Speaker 5: I want you to have a big head, Like what
• 1:05:57
  Speaker 5: what are you talking about.
• 1:05:59
  Speaker 2: I've had a guy who would be like his compliments
• 1:06:01
  Speaker 2: would be like you think you cute? Like it would
• 1:06:04
  Speaker 2: always be like some kind of.
• 1:06:06
  Speaker 4: Life I'm not undercutting.
• 1:06:08
  Speaker 3: I feel like that's black people shit. I feel like
• 1:06:10
  Speaker 3: that's like black people, Like that's how my family talks
• 1:06:13
  Speaker 3: to each other. Like I feel like it's true. Like
• 1:06:15
  Speaker 3: I know that it sounds strange, but I don't know,
• 1:06:19
  Speaker 3: like I don't.
• 1:06:20
  Speaker 2: Know where you thinking.
• 1:06:22
  Speaker 3: Yeah, right, that for me, my pussy got away, Like
• 1:06:25
  Speaker 3: now I'm toxic.
• 1:06:33
  Speaker 4: All right, y'all.
• 1:06:34
  Speaker 1: So after this commercial break, we are going to get
• 1:06:37
  Speaker 1: some dumb bitch stories from Good Mom's Bad Choices.
• 1:06:42
  Speaker 3: Okay, So I.
• 1:06:43
  Speaker 2: Can't wait.
• 1:06:49
  Speaker 3: And we're back, all right, y'all.
• 1:06:51
  Speaker 1: So we have dumb bitch stories for the women and
• 1:06:55
  Speaker 1: stimp series for the men. Okay, so we need a
• 1:06:59
  Speaker 1: dumb bitch storre. This is just a time or a
• 1:07:01
  Speaker 1: situation where you got played And I don't know how
• 1:07:05
  Speaker 1: y'all get down by the same or opposite sex.
• 1:07:07
  Speaker 2: I don't know, it could be either.
• 1:07:14
  Speaker 5: I've shared this story before on the Pot, but this
• 1:07:16
  Speaker 5: is a first for y'all. So well, my dumbitch story
• 1:07:19
  Speaker 5: started once upon a time I was walking in uh
• 1:07:24
  Speaker 5: on fourteenth Street. I just got off the train and
• 1:07:27
  Speaker 5: there was this fine guy. He was but he was
• 1:07:29
  Speaker 5: out there. He was like he's kind of short, which
• 1:07:31
  Speaker 5: I'm not really into the short kings.
• 1:07:32
  Speaker 4: Too much, like I have.
• 1:07:33
  Speaker 5: I make a few exceptions, but he was out there selling.
• 1:07:38
  Speaker 5: He was like selling like feed the children type packages,
• 1:07:42
  Speaker 5: like like sponsor a child in Africa.
• 1:07:49
  Speaker 3: Was he really working for non problems?
• 1:07:50
  Speaker 4: He was, Okay, I really did feed. I fed.
• 1:07:53
  Speaker 5: I fed Zach for a good three hundred and sixty
• 1:07:56
  Speaker 5: five days.
• 1:07:57
  Speaker 4: Okay.
• 1:08:00
  Speaker 5: So anyway, he brought he top, He took me to Starbucks,
• 1:08:02
  Speaker 5: sold me on the package, got it.
• 1:08:04
  Speaker 4: He was.
• 1:08:04
  Speaker 5: He was really fine to me at the time. He
• 1:08:07
  Speaker 5: told me that he was a model, and so I
• 1:08:10
  Speaker 5: was like, oh my god, what model.
• 1:08:11
  Speaker 4: And he had the pictures ready.
• 1:08:13
  Speaker 5: It was like a Calvin Klein ad that he had done,
• 1:08:15
  Speaker 5: a VERSACEI ad, but like all the pictures were kind
• 1:08:18
  Speaker 5: of like from the side, and he was Dominican, so
• 1:08:22
  Speaker 5: he you know, he had a specific He's like kind
• 1:08:24
  Speaker 5: of he was Dominican, but he kind of like Puerto Rican.
• 1:08:26
  Speaker 4: Whatever.
• 1:08:27
  Speaker 5: Anyway, long story short, I saw these pictures. My friends
• 1:08:31
  Speaker 5: had started to do research because they didn't trust him.
• 1:08:33
  Speaker 5: They're like, I don't think that's really him in the picture.
• 1:08:35
  Speaker 5: And I was like, yes, it is, girl like it
• 1:08:37
  Speaker 5: is him. So anyway, we started we're continuing to date
• 1:08:43
  Speaker 5: long distance. He's in New York, I'm in LA. I'm
• 1:08:47
  Speaker 5: being a dumb bitch, and so I have a really
• 1:08:48
  Speaker 5: good job at the time, so I'm flying him out
• 1:08:50
  Speaker 5: to LA. He got no funds, but he had a
• 1:08:53
  Speaker 5: big old dick, big old dick.
• 1:08:57
  Speaker 4: You're kings, you know what I'm saying.
• 1:09:00
  Speaker 1: Oh listen, I'm a short nigga advocate. I always say that,
• 1:09:02
  Speaker 1: like they be little and big at the same time.
• 1:09:05
  Speaker 5: Okay, not avide anyway, you know, he because we were
• 1:09:09
  Speaker 5: long distance, there's a level of trust that you have
• 1:09:11
  Speaker 5: to have.
• 1:09:12
  Speaker 4: And he was always telling me, like he had his
• 1:09:14
  Speaker 4: best friend.
• 1:09:15
  Speaker 5: He had this best friend but she only had one arm,
• 1:09:19
  Speaker 5: so she was handicapped, and he was like, you know,
• 1:09:22
  Speaker 5: I'm hanging out with Andrea, and so he was like
• 1:09:26
  Speaker 5: very he was really adamant about like this is like
• 1:09:32
  Speaker 5: my best friend from childhood. I never and my stupid ass,
• 1:09:35
  Speaker 5: I never asked for no pictures. This was before like
• 1:09:36
  Speaker 5: social media too, like we Instagram wasn't really big. I
• 1:09:39
  Speaker 5: think I don't even think I had joined Instagram yet
• 1:09:41
  Speaker 5: at this point. So I'm like, okay, yeah, sure, I
• 1:09:45
  Speaker 5: mean cause I had male I had male friends as well,
• 1:09:48
  Speaker 5: and in the past, like I had been in relationships
• 1:09:50
  Speaker 5: where men had like really are boys, I would say
• 1:09:52
  Speaker 5: I had really like had taken issue with my male friendships,
• 1:09:56
  Speaker 5: and so he wasn't. So I was not going to
• 1:09:57
  Speaker 5: ruffle no feathers because I was like, yeah, they could
• 1:09:59
  Speaker 5: go ahead, have your friend.
• 1:10:00
  Speaker 4: I have my friend. We're cool.
• 1:10:02
  Speaker 5: Long story short. I get an email one day from
• 1:10:06
  Speaker 5: a bitch named Andrea talking about.
• 1:10:09
  Speaker 2: Talking about.
• 1:10:11
  Speaker 5: Talking about I heard I found out that you are
• 1:10:16
  Speaker 5: seeing my my man and I was like, who is
• 1:10:19
  Speaker 5: your man? And she told me it was this nigga.
• 1:10:22
  Speaker 5: And I said, let me ask you a question. Do
• 1:10:25
  Speaker 5: you have one arm?
• 1:10:28
  Speaker 1: That's all I want to fucking know, the strong hand
• 1:10:33
  Speaker 1: with her strong hand.
• 1:10:37
  Speaker 5: She said, bitch, what are you talking about. No, but
• 1:10:42
  Speaker 5: then she said do you have one arm?
• 1:10:44
  Speaker 4: Because he had.
• 1:10:44
  Speaker 5: Also told her that he had a friend in La
• 1:10:48
  Speaker 5: with one arm that he goes and visits.
• 1:10:50
  Speaker 4: Is his best friend from back in the day.
• 1:10:53
  Speaker 5: And I only got one bitch, So so then I
• 1:10:56
  Speaker 5: was like, Okay, that's crazy. But also I have one
• 1:11:00
  Speaker 5: final question is is this him? Are these his pictures?
• 1:11:03
  Speaker 5: Is he a model? No, bitch, this was not him
• 1:11:07
  Speaker 5: in any of the pictures. So I was basically just
• 1:11:09
  Speaker 5: dating a whole lie, just fucking not a model that
• 1:11:12
  Speaker 5: I thought he was. I was really thinking like he
• 1:11:13
  Speaker 5: was gonna make it out of like the Child Africa
• 1:11:16
  Speaker 5: scheme he was in, and he was going to be
• 1:11:18
  Speaker 5: a top model, and also that he was just loyal
• 1:11:21
  Speaker 5: to me, and he was just so kind. He had
• 1:11:23
  Speaker 5: this one arm bestie, and come to find out, we
• 1:11:27
  Speaker 5: both were handicapped.
• 1:11:28
  Speaker 4: Bitch.
• 1:11:28
  Speaker 5: Okay, so that's my dumb bitch story. And that went on.
• 1:11:33
  Speaker 3: Was with him for a year. That was a year
• 1:11:35
  Speaker 3: of my life, y'all. And then he proposed. Oh then
• 1:11:38
  Speaker 3: he dang.
• 1:11:38
  Speaker 5: Oh yeah, he did propose to me one day one
• 1:11:41
  Speaker 5: time when I flew him to LA. We had sex
• 1:11:43
  Speaker 5: on my friend's couch and while he was inside of me,
• 1:11:48
  Speaker 5: he pulled out the tiniest diamond ring I've ever seen,
• 1:11:56
  Speaker 5: and I said yes.
• 1:11:59
  Speaker 4: So that adds to the dumb bitchness.
• 1:12:04
  Speaker 3: Oh dumb, Sorry we had that.
• 1:12:07
  Speaker 2: I feel like.
• 1:12:10
  Speaker 3: Yo, girl.
• 1:12:12
  Speaker 4: I still got the ring too.
• 1:12:15
  Speaker 5: I never gave that bitch back because it costs about
• 1:12:17
  Speaker 5: probably forty two dollars.
• 1:12:19
  Speaker 2: Oh goodness, in love, I don't know if I could
• 1:12:22
  Speaker 2: Every now and then I go check on him on
• 1:12:24
  Speaker 2: his Instagram.
• 1:12:25
  Speaker 5: See what he's up to, still fucking lying and scheming,
• 1:12:28
  Speaker 5: trying to be a singer, rapper or some shit.
• 1:12:30
  Speaker 3: I don't know.
• 1:12:33
  Speaker 2: What's yours.
• 1:12:36
  Speaker 3: I want to say, did I do this? That's some
• 1:12:39
  Speaker 3: pretty dumb bitch shit, Like Erica probably does my dumb
• 1:12:41
  Speaker 3: shit better than me, because I.
• 1:12:42
  Speaker 5: Can think of one in particular. Actually, okay, the dog,
• 1:12:48
  Speaker 5: I near gonna say that. Okay, it wasn't that bad.
• 1:12:52
  Speaker 3: But one time I really needed to get an apartment
• 1:12:57
  Speaker 3: and my credit wasn't good, so I needed to scheme
• 1:12:59
  Speaker 3: into So my homegirl was like, call this guy. He
• 1:13:02
  Speaker 3: could hook you up. He's gonna do X, Y and Z.
• 1:13:06
  Speaker 3: So I was like, Okay, call the guy, pay him
• 1:13:09
  Speaker 3: his little five hundred. So I think I got the apartment.
• 1:13:13
  Speaker 3: I think I had like some kind of Stockholm syndrome
• 1:13:14
  Speaker 3: because I was like, oh my god, he got me
• 1:13:16
  Speaker 3: this apartment. I was really struggling before, like thank god.
• 1:13:19
  Speaker 3: So like he had a real deep voice, and I
• 1:13:21
  Speaker 3: was like, where are you from, Like, you know, trying
• 1:13:23
  Speaker 3: start a conversation with the niggas doing the scheming because
• 1:13:26
  Speaker 3: I'm stupid, I'm a cancer. I'm like, oh my god,
• 1:13:31
  Speaker 3: we gonna love each other. And then one day he
• 1:13:33
  Speaker 3: facetied me. He had this big old smile, got freckles,
• 1:13:36
  Speaker 3: kind of light skinned. I was like, oh my guy,
• 1:13:37
  Speaker 3: he's gotta fine. I was like Erica, Erica, the man
• 1:13:41
  Speaker 3: who helped me with the stuff. He's fine. So I
• 1:13:44
  Speaker 3: was like all giddy. I was like, you know, you
• 1:13:46
  Speaker 3: said you want to come to La, like you should.
• 1:13:48
  Speaker 4: Come out and visit me.
• 1:13:49
  Speaker 3: Like yeah, So he comes to LA and then he
• 1:13:55
  Speaker 3: he gets up the car. He's like this big he's
• 1:13:59
  Speaker 3: with a.
• 1:13:59
  Speaker 4: Big old head and a little body.
• 1:14:02
  Speaker 5: He looked like a big nigga, you know how like
• 1:14:03
  Speaker 5: big niggas got big heads, like on the FaceTime.
• 1:14:06
  Speaker 4: He looked like he could be around six feet tall.
• 1:14:08
  Speaker 3: So then erics like, you can't fuck him, Like if
• 1:14:10
  Speaker 3: you all have a baby, it's goning too little. I
• 1:14:16
  Speaker 3: was like, shut up. But to make matters worse, he
• 1:14:19
  Speaker 3: came down. He did have a big ass dog and
• 1:14:23
  Speaker 3: let him and the dog come. He brought a dog
• 1:14:25
  Speaker 3: with him. Yeah, and on top of it, he was
• 1:14:29
  Speaker 3: a Muslim, so he was one of those niggas. One
• 1:14:33
  Speaker 3: time we had a conversation and he was like, yeah,
• 1:14:34
  Speaker 3: you know, I don't know the word of the Muslims,
• 1:14:37
  Speaker 3: like if my brother, if I go to my brother's house,
• 1:14:39
  Speaker 3: my e hum or, whatever the fuck? They be calling
• 1:14:41
  Speaker 3: each other and his wife goes in the back room.
• 1:14:44
  Speaker 3: I said, like a dog, like we're talking about in
• 1:14:48
  Speaker 3: her house. If you come over, she goes in the
• 1:14:50
  Speaker 3: back room, so you don't have to speak, I said, oh, nigga.
• 1:14:52
  Speaker 3: So then I had this complex I'm and he like
• 1:14:54
  Speaker 3: really did love horse, so he would like talk like salaciously.
• 1:14:57
  Speaker 3: But then I also be talking this Muslim shit, and
• 1:15:00
  Speaker 3: then I would like sit there and watch fary Con
• 1:15:02
  Speaker 3: fhary Con documentaries with him and be like yeah, I understand,
• 1:15:09
  Speaker 3: and then I let him kind of move in basically, but.
• 1:15:13
  Speaker 4: Wait, but why what kind of sex were you having
• 1:15:15
  Speaker 4: that he was mind fucking you with?
• 1:15:16
  Speaker 3: But wait, what kind of sex are you having?
• 1:15:18
  Speaker 4: Oh you don't remember.
• 1:15:19
  Speaker 5: No, you guys were having like you guys were role
• 1:15:22
  Speaker 5: playing like trigger warning.
• 1:15:24
  Speaker 7: No bitch, wait hold up, hold on, now I don't
• 1:15:31
  Speaker 7: remember tell it.
• 1:15:34
  Speaker 4: Wait, there's gotta you gotta do. Long story short, she
• 1:15:39
  Speaker 4: was digmatized.
• 1:15:40
  Speaker 5: Okay, there was something going on sexually that had her digmatized.
• 1:15:44
  Speaker 3: Not trigger warning, bitch, Oh my god. But then he
• 1:15:49
  Speaker 3: was like mind fucking me, Like he wasn't eating my
• 1:15:51
  Speaker 3: he was like talking super salaciously, but then he's like
• 1:15:53
  Speaker 3: was eating my pussy and like, my, nigga, like you've
• 1:15:55
  Speaker 3: been You've been around here for a long time. Like
• 1:15:57
  Speaker 3: I started to notice there was like a mind manipul
• 1:16:00
  Speaker 3: and he would talk salaciously, but then like be like, oh,
• 1:16:02
  Speaker 3: you're gonna wear that, and I'm like, nigga, you just
• 1:16:04
  Speaker 3: tell me love hordes. I'm so confused, and like he
• 1:16:06
  Speaker 3: would talk, he would use like those big jail words
• 1:16:08
  Speaker 3: like under circumstantial understanding of spirituality, and I was like,
• 1:16:13
  Speaker 3: you're so smart. Anyway, I let him move in and
• 1:16:23
  Speaker 3: he was bipolar and he was having manic episodes occasionally,
• 1:16:27
  Speaker 3: and then I told all my friends that it was
• 1:16:29
  Speaker 3: over and that he had moved out and I'm not
• 1:16:31
  Speaker 3: talking to him anymore. And then one time I was
• 1:16:34
  Speaker 3: on the phone with Erica and I was like yeah,
• 1:16:36
  Speaker 3: uh huh, and then all of a sudden, the background
• 1:16:37
  Speaker 3: was like she was like bitch, and I was like
• 1:16:47
  Speaker 3: she was like is that fucking man and that fucking
• 1:16:49
  Speaker 3: dog over there? And I was like, huh, I'll call
• 1:16:53
  Speaker 3: you back. And I was like, what the fucking you.
• 1:16:54
  Speaker 3: Shut the dog up, nigga. I told you, no, man.
• 1:17:01
  Speaker 1: Not going to see a man with a whorse a
• 1:17:03
  Speaker 1: man with a dog.
• 1:17:04
  Speaker 3: And then I continued the ridiculous relationship until one day
• 1:17:08
  Speaker 3: he slapped me in my face and I was like, oh,
• 1:17:11
  Speaker 3: god's really trying to try me right now, Like are
• 1:17:13
  Speaker 3: you a real dumb bitch? And then like Erica was
• 1:17:15
  Speaker 3: like just picking me up and I got in the
• 1:17:17
  Speaker 3: car and she was like what's wrong And I was like,
• 1:17:19
  Speaker 3: he was conditioning you the whole time. Oh yeah, like hardcore.
• 1:17:25
  Speaker 3: I was like totally unattached. And then it switched and
• 1:17:27
  Speaker 3: then I was acting nuts. She was like a like
• 1:17:30
  Speaker 3: on crack. She was like a crackhead for this dick. Okay,
• 1:17:33
  Speaker 3: crack stat status. It was.
• 1:17:36
  Speaker 2: It was what the trigger warning was?
• 1:17:38
  Speaker 3: I think was it like was it like rape play?
• 1:17:41
  Speaker 3: Is that what it was? Okay, I don't even remember that.
• 1:17:43
  Speaker 3: I've blocked it out, but yeah, I'm pretty I like
• 1:17:46
  Speaker 3: for someone to take it a little bit. So maybe
• 1:17:48
  Speaker 3: he went all the way. Yeah, yeah, he's like choking
• 1:17:54
  Speaker 3: ed this whole This is.
• 1:17:59
  Speaker 1: Like I want to planned one, like plan it, Like, yeah,
• 1:18:02
  Speaker 1: it's planned.
• 1:18:03
  Speaker 3: It was planned. I was like it was consensual, non consensual.
• 1:18:06
  Speaker 3: It's that's a real word in the kink, consensual, non consensual.
• 1:18:09
  Speaker 3: So I was really into that he was he was
• 1:18:11
  Speaker 3: an Okay, this is the thing aj those short niggas,
• 1:18:14
  Speaker 3: and this is where all the ladies listening. Those short
• 1:18:16
  Speaker 3: niggas do be packing sometimes okay sometimes, but also with
• 1:18:20
  Speaker 3: short niggas, they've had to they've had to compensate for
• 1:18:23
  Speaker 3: their height their whole life, so they come with a
• 1:18:25
  Speaker 3: lot of buried testosterone that comes out unhealthy. So they
• 1:18:30
  Speaker 3: might slap you. They're going to mind fuck you, and
• 1:18:32
  Speaker 3: they probably have really worked on their their their talking
• 1:18:36
  Speaker 3: and their sex game really good because that's how they
• 1:18:38
  Speaker 3: brain fuck you. So if they come and have all
• 1:18:41
  Speaker 3: this chemistry and they stare deep into your eyes, run, bitch, run,
• 1:18:44
  Speaker 3: they're trying to mind fuck your brain.
• 1:18:48
  Speaker 1: Mine used to drool on me. Imagine somebody drooling on
• 1:18:52
  Speaker 1: you while you having sex.
• 1:18:53
  Speaker 3: They just he would growl like and then he would
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  Speaker 3: do like he would do Arabic prayer like mam'd like.
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  Speaker 3: I'd be like, oh my god, he loved me so much.
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  Speaker 5: He made it was he was just.
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  Speaker 3: like pray after he fucked me, and I was like,
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