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Ep. 135 - CITY BOYS UP · Afternoon Tea Podcast

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  SPEAKER_00: What up, y'all?
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  SPEAKER_06: T is back.
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  SPEAKER_06: Yeah, yeah, yeah.
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  SPEAKER_06: Yeah, yeah.
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  SPEAKER_04: Running back.
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  SPEAKER_00: Yeah, cuz I don't know what the fuck y'all thought that was.
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  SPEAKER_00: I said, what's up, gay?
• 0:17
  SPEAKER_00: All right, y'all.
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  SPEAKER_00: Welcome back to another episode of the afternoon tea with the baddest motherfucking bee.
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  SPEAKER_00: Well, we sip, spill, and be messy.
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  SPEAKER_00: But first, what am I drinking on?
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  SPEAKER_00: This is a peach tea.
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  SPEAKER_00: I spruced it up for y'all this week.
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  SPEAKER_00: Y'all be hating on the unsweet, asking, how can I drink unsweet?
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  SPEAKER_00: So I got a little peach and a little peach syrup.
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  SPEAKER_00: Just a tad though.
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  SPEAKER_00: That shit be too sweet.
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  SPEAKER_00: So tap in with the peach tea.
• 0:39
  SPEAKER_00: I think this is Gold Peak.
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  SPEAKER_00: So yeah.
• 0:41
  SPEAKER_00: Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.
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  SPEAKER_00: Do y'all like peach tea?
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  SPEAKER_00: Yes.
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  SPEAKER_04: I do.
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  SPEAKER_04: But you know what I also like?
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  SPEAKER_04: Your mug.
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  SPEAKER_04: Who did your what the what's going on?
• 0:53
  SPEAKER_02: You're getting better and better at this makeup thing.
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  SPEAKER_02: Oh, my mug.
• 0:57
  SPEAKER_04: Yes, your mug.
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  SPEAKER_06: So I was like, yeah, it's the most thing.
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  SPEAKER_00: My mug.
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  SPEAKER_00: And this was a quick one, baby, because I heard y'all in the studio and I was like, oh, they're gonna beat my ass if I don't hurry up.
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  SPEAKER_00: So this is a quick one, but it's me.
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  SPEAKER_00: It is all Fenty.
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  SPEAKER_00: Everything I'm wearing is Fenty.
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  SPEAKER_00: Except the foundation is Denessa Myries.
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  SPEAKER_00: Oh, and except the mascara, it is Muse Beauty.
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  SPEAKER_00: Shout out to Muse Beauty and Lil'Jury and Nicole.
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  SPEAKER_00: So we got Denessa all black oh.
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  SPEAKER_00: All black oh.
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  SPEAKER_00: All black oh, Clockets! Clockett.
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  SPEAKER_00: Denessa Myrice, Muse Beauty, and of course, none other than the Fenty.
• 1:37
  SPEAKER_00: We're gonna link all the products.
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  SPEAKER_00: By products, I mean who they came from.
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  SPEAKER_00: I'm not going to get the shades and all that, bitch.
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  SPEAKER_00: Do you use your imagination?
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  SPEAKER_00: We're gonna link everything.
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  SPEAKER_00: We wanna start shouting out who's doing this face.
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  SPEAKER_00: Who is doing it?
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  SPEAKER_00: Y'all, I set out on a journey about five years ago to learn my makeup, and I am still not good at it.
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  SPEAKER_00: And I'm getting frustrated now.
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  SPEAKER_00: I'm getting frustrated.
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  SPEAKER_00: The makeup girly something, if you just keep practicing, when I'ma get good, bitch.
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  SPEAKER_00: When am I gonna look outbrushed like the girls on Instagram?
• 2:07
  SPEAKER_00: Yes, I said it.
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  SPEAKER_00: I know you ain't supposed to look at Instagram, but them balls be looking good.
• 2:11
  SPEAKER_00: Their makeups look good.
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  SPEAKER_02: They said uh the heavy blush thing is going away and y'all need to stop doing it.
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  SPEAKER_00: That's what's up.
• 2:18
  SPEAKER_00: That's what's up.
• 2:19
  SPEAKER_00: Who said that?
• 2:20
  SPEAKER_00: The swaggerless girls?
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  SPEAKER_00: Exactly.
• 2:23
  SPEAKER_00: Let me tell y'all something.
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  SPEAKER_00: I'm gonna deepen real quick.
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  SPEAKER_00: Why don't anybody want to have fun?
• 2:28
  SPEAKER_00: Right.
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  SPEAKER_00: The whole point of makeup is art, right?
• 2:31
  SPEAKER_00: Right.
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  SPEAKER_00: I'm not trying to look natural, bitch.
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  SPEAKER_00: Yeah.
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  SPEAKER_00: You think I'm buying this high-ass shit and doing all this to look natural?
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  SPEAKER_00: Soft glam?
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  SPEAKER_00: No.
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  SPEAKER_00: No.
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  SPEAKER_00: Hard glam.
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  SPEAKER_00: Now, I don't like all that eyeshadow and all them weird ass lipsticks, but that's just a personal preference.
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  SPEAKER_00: Other than that, put that shit on.
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  SPEAKER_00: Y'all are boring.
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  SPEAKER_00: So boring.
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  SPEAKER_00: Pussy stinking boring.
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  SPEAKER_00: Anyway, you can watch the show at Afternoon Table on all podcast platforms, YouTube, Apple, etc.
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• 3:07
  SPEAKER_00: And follow my personal TikTok.
• 3:08
  SPEAKER_00: I'm trying to get better at TikTok.
• 3:09
  SPEAKER_00: I'm trying.
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  SPEAKER_00: What's my personal TikTok?
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  SPEAKER_00: Killer Bimmy?
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  SPEAKER_00: Kill it and me.
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  SPEAKER_00: Follow me on TikTok, y'all.
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  SPEAKER_00: I'm trying to get better.
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  SPEAKER_00: I'm trying to get consistent.
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  SPEAKER_00: I be having a lot going on, but follow me.
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  SPEAKER_00: I promise.
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  SPEAKER_00: I promise.
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  SPEAKER_00: I promise.
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  SPEAKER_00: I promise.
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  SPEAKER_00: I promise.
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  SPEAKER_00: Please like, comment, share, subscribe.
• 3:23
  SPEAKER_00: Let's have a little tea party.
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  SPEAKER_00: Yeah.
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  SPEAKER_00: All right.
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  SPEAKER_00: Catching up with Killer.
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  SPEAKER_00: Killer's routine.
• 3:32
  SPEAKER_00: Dude, that's just the same damn question from last week.
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  SPEAKER_00: What does a typical week look like for Killer?
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  SPEAKER_00: B?
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  SPEAKER_00: Um, there's a lot of work in my weeks, and people don't get to see that side of me.
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  SPEAKER_00: I don't think I want to share that side of me, but I work hard.
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  SPEAKER_00: It's just as much as y'all see me playing, I work.
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  SPEAKER_00: In fact, when I'm done right here, I gotta send a couple of emails and check a couple of dashboards before I go to bed tonight.
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  SPEAKER_00: So I work really, really hard.
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  SPEAKER_00: So weeks typically are really, unfortunately, all work and very little play.
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  SPEAKER_00: I'm trying to change that though because I I don't like, I'm not a live for the weekend ass bitch.
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  SPEAKER_00: I believe that every single day is a celebration of life.
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  SPEAKER_00: I know, I know, I know.
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  SPEAKER_00: I know how that sounds, but I really try to take in every single day.
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  SPEAKER_00: And so um there's a lot of visiting in my weeks.
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  SPEAKER_00: My friends come over during the week.
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  SPEAKER_00: We cook together a lot, we fellowship a lot by fellowship.
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  SPEAKER_00: I mean share things that we're going through, give each other advice, confide in one another.
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  SPEAKER_00: That is a big part of my week.
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  SPEAKER_00: I typically go and chill with my grandma and Shaquita.
• 4:40
  SPEAKER_00: Um, in case y'all don't know, my grandma has hijacked Shakwita and will not give her back.
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  SPEAKER_02: Adopted.
• 4:46
  SPEAKER_02: Adopted.
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  SPEAKER_00: She adopted?
• 4:48
  SPEAKER_00: Yes.
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  SPEAKER_00: Okay, she adopted Shakuieta.
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  SPEAKER_00: And so I'll go visit with them probably about two times a week.
• 4:55
  SPEAKER_00: Um, what else?
• 4:56
  SPEAKER_00: Workouts.
• 4:58
  SPEAKER_00: I try to move this body every single day.
• 5:02
  SPEAKER_00: You know what, y'all?
• 5:02
  SPEAKER_00: I'ma give y'all a little piece of something.
• 5:05
  SPEAKER_00: So I went to the doctor telling her I told y'all I can't sleep.
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  SPEAKER_00: Um, and she gave me this little thing.
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  SPEAKER_00: And this is this is finna sound so cliche, but I'm telling y'all it has done wonders.
• 5:17
  SPEAKER_00: She told me when you first wake up in the morning, before you touch a phone, before you check an email, before you brush your teeth, when you wake up and open your eyes, put on your shoes and go outside for 10 to 15 minutes and stand directly in the sun.
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  SPEAKER_00: It sounds, I get it, but that has done wonders for my days and my mood.
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  SPEAKER_00: So every morning now, I wake up and I go directly outside before I do anything every morning.
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  SPEAKER_02: My therapist told me to do that when I was really depressed during the uh pandemic.
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  SPEAKER_02: Did it work?
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  SPEAKER_02: Absolutely.
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  SPEAKER_02: I need to get back to doing it.
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  SPEAKER_02: Thank you for reminding me.
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  SPEAKER_00: I know my neighbors, everybody think I'm crazy because I literally just because the sun is like the buildings kind of block the sun over here.
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  SPEAKER_00: So I have to stand in a weird space and I don't have my phone or anything.
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  SPEAKER_00: So I'm just literally just standing there in my nightclothes, just it is sleepy, cold in my eye.
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  SPEAKER_00: I don't take my phone.
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  SPEAKER_00: So I kind of guesstimate how long 15 minutes is.
• 6:17
  SPEAKER_00: I think I need to get a watch.
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  SPEAKER_00: But anyway.
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  SPEAKER_00: Um, but it has done wonders for my mood.
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  SPEAKER_00: I am so happy that she told me that.
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  SPEAKER_00: So that's one of the things I do every day in my week.
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  SPEAKER_00: And then it says, Are you where you wanted to be from five years ago?
• 6:31
  SPEAKER_00: Hey! Where the fuck is these mother love ass questions?
• 6:37
  SPEAKER_00: Who is mother love?
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  SPEAKER_00: Where is she?
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  SPEAKER_00: She was a psychic, right?
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  SPEAKER_00: Psychic?
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  SPEAKER_00: Or was she like a talk show?
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  SPEAKER_00: What was it was she was a talk show.
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  SPEAKER_00: I'm talking about uh call me now, though.
• 6:46
  SPEAKER_00: I'm talking about call me now.
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  SPEAKER_00: That's Cleo.
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  SPEAKER_00: Yeah, Mother Love was a talk show.
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  SPEAKER_00: But she had a door.
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  SPEAKER_00: Was it forgive or forget?
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  SPEAKER_02: What was it?
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  SPEAKER_04: Yeah, I think it was forgive, forgive or forget or someone for it.
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  SPEAKER_02: They don't want to fuck with you no more.
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  SPEAKER_02: Something like that.
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  SPEAKER_03: She had a bad wig, too, Denson.
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  SPEAKER_00: All right.
• 7:02
  SPEAKER_00: All right.
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  SPEAKER_00: Anyway, she had a TV show, nigga.
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  SPEAKER_00: She was cashing, she was in the bank.
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  SPEAKER_00: Talking about she had a baby.
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  SPEAKER_03: Mother Love, you still out there, holler at me.
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  SPEAKER_00: This ain't this place for that shit.
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  SPEAKER_00: Anyways, um ironically, I'm exactly where I wanted to be from five years ago.
• 7:21
  SPEAKER_01: That's great.
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  SPEAKER_01: That's great.
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  SPEAKER_01: Congratulations.
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  SPEAKER_01: Not a lot of people can say that.
• 7:26
  SPEAKER_01: That's good.
• 7:26
  SPEAKER_01: I still ain't got no husband, but You wanted a husband.
• 7:30
  SPEAKER_00: You said what?
• 7:31
  SPEAKER_00: You wanted a husband five years ago.
• 7:32
  SPEAKER_00: I wanted a husband all my life.
• 7:34
  SPEAKER_00: Yeah.
• 7:34
  SPEAKER_00: Since uh I was two, I wanted a husband.
• 7:36
  SPEAKER_00: I wanted to be like Elizabeth Taylor.
• 7:39
  SPEAKER_00: I wanted 10 husbands.
• 7:40
  SPEAKER_00: So I am certainly behind schedule.
• 7:42
  SPEAKER_00: A little behind.
• 7:43
  SPEAKER_00: I'm I'm behind schedule.
• 7:44
  SPEAKER_00: I should be on, I should be headed to my third husband by now.
• 7:47
  SPEAKER_00: So I'm extremely behind schedule there.
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  SPEAKER_00: So if you're ready to be my first fuck up husband, whether you present or in the future, let me know.
• 7:58
  SPEAKER_00: Cause I'm ready.
• 7:59
  SPEAKER_00: I'm ready to get my first two out there.
• 8:00
  SPEAKER_00: I'm ready to head into my 40s on my third husband.
• 8:04
  SPEAKER_00: I think it's so chic.
• 8:05
  SPEAKER_00: We ain't getting no younger girl.
• 8:07
  SPEAKER_00: We might as well.
• 8:08
  SPEAKER_00: I think it's so chic to have like 10 husbands.
• 8:11
  SPEAKER_00: All the bad bitches had husbands.
• 8:14
  SPEAKER_02: You know, I do like when I hear women say my third, second, but I don't like when men say my second, third, wife.
• 8:21
  SPEAKER_02: Yeah.
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  SPEAKER_00: I need to be everybody's first wife.
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  SPEAKER_00: Or second.
• 8:25
  SPEAKER_00: I'll take being everybody's second wife.
• 8:28
  SPEAKER_00: I think the first wives, they get it.
• 8:30
  SPEAKER_00: They they they please be divorced.
• 8:33
  SPEAKER_00: Be do a be a divorcee.
• 8:36
  SPEAKER_00: Please.
• 8:36
  SPEAKER_00: Because them them them first marriages and well you know what?
• 8:41
  SPEAKER_00: I think now in my age mid to late 30s, I think now if you haven't had a wife, maybe you'll have a little sense.
• 8:50
  SPEAKER_01: You do have a little sense?
• 8:52
  SPEAKER_00: Maybe.
• 8:52
  SPEAKER_00: Maybe age is giving you a little sense.
• 8:55
  SPEAKER_00: So maybe you don't need to be divorced.
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  SPEAKER_00: What you think?
• 9:00
  SPEAKER_00: Would you like to be the first or second wife?
• 9:02
  SPEAKER_02: Second for sure.
• 9:04
  SPEAKER_02: I don't want to be a nigga's first anything.
• 9:08
  SPEAKER_04: That's that's actually fair.
• 9:09
  SPEAKER_04: That's a fair, that's a good rubric to go.
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  SPEAKER_04: But I also don't like being a second.
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  SPEAKER_04: Like I don't I don't know.
• 9:15
  SPEAKER_04: This is what my was not a winner.
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  SPEAKER_04: This is where my ego This is kind of where my ego come in, because I don't want I I don't want to get you.
• 9:23
  SPEAKER_00: Uh uh.
• 9:24
  SPEAKER_04: Why was you in love before you met me?
• 9:25
  SPEAKER_00: Uh oh, you one of those, but I'm one of those low-key, but at this point, everybody is a used, uh, used Malibu, baby.
• 9:34
  SPEAKER_00: We all use Malibu.
• 9:35
  SPEAKER_00: You gotta let that go, poop.
• 9:37
  SPEAKER_00: At this age.
• 9:38
  SPEAKER_00: What I'm standing with though is I don't want you to have kids.
• 9:41
  SPEAKER_00: I'm sorry.
• 9:41
  SPEAKER_00: I'm standing and I don't want you to have them or want them.
• 9:43
  SPEAKER_00: I'm standing, I'm standing firm in that.
• 9:47
  SPEAKER_00: So that's that's getting a little hard.
• 9:49
  SPEAKER_02: Have you met a man that doesn't want kids?
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  SPEAKER_01: And he's firm in it.
• 9:53
  SPEAKER_01: Okay.
• 9:53
  SPEAKER_00: Yes, but they already have one.
• 9:56
  SPEAKER_01: Wait, what?
• 9:56
  SPEAKER_01: So he didn't want the child, he has.
• 10:00
  SPEAKER_00: Alright.
• 10:04
  SPEAKER_00: The mama don't want to be the shit.
• 10:06
  SPEAKER_00: The fuck?
• 10:07
  SPEAKER_00: Are y'all where y'all thought y'all was gonna be from five years ago?
• 10:10
  SPEAKER_00: Where you want to be?
• 10:11
  SPEAKER_00: Um, yes.
• 10:12
  SPEAKER_00: Yes, drawling.
• 10:15
  SPEAKER_03: From five years ago.
• 10:18
  SPEAKER_03: I'm close to it, so I'm on the right path.
• 10:20
  SPEAKER_03: I feel I feel good about it.
• 10:21
  SPEAKER_03: Okay.
• 10:21
  SPEAKER_03: I'm not exactly there, but y'all feel good.
• 10:25
  SPEAKER_04: I'm actually excelling.
• 10:26
  SPEAKER_04: I'm thriving in abundance.
• 10:28
  SPEAKER_04: You're more than you Yes.
• 10:30
  SPEAKER_04: I'm not physically, I'm not physically where I thought I was gonna be, but Oh yeah.
• 10:34
  SPEAKER_02: I mean, there are some things.
• 10:35
  SPEAKER_02: Yeah, what are we talking here?
• 10:37
  SPEAKER_04: Overall about overall.
• 10:38
  SPEAKER_04: Overall.
• 10:39
  SPEAKER_04: I mean geographically.
• 10:39
  SPEAKER_04: I didn't mean physically, like geographically.
• 10:42
  SPEAKER_04: Shape two.
• 10:43
  SPEAKER_04: But like, you know what I'm saying?
• 10:44
  SPEAKER_04: Like geographically, yeah.
• 10:45
  SPEAKER_04: I didn't think I was gonna.
• 10:51
  SPEAKER_00: But overall.
• 10:52
  SPEAKER_00: But overall, I think I'm I'm doing my own podcast.
• 10:57
  SPEAKER_00: Shout out to me doing my own podcast.
• 11:01
  SPEAKER_00: I spent a lot of time thinking I needed somebody to do it with me.
• 11:04
  SPEAKER_00: So I'm doing that.
• 11:06
  SPEAKER_00: Uh Cariz going, okay, we we see some improvement there.
• 11:10
  SPEAKER_00: I'm just, you know, all around, I think I'm doing what I thought I'd be doing for five years.
• 11:15
  SPEAKER_00: Hell, I'm doing way more than I thought I would be doing.
• 11:17
  SPEAKER_00: But you know what's so funny?
• 11:19
  SPEAKER_00: Five years ago, I was in a relationship.
• 11:21
  SPEAKER_00: This is when I lived in Barbados, and the guy that I was dating was wanting to move to the States, but he was getting cold feet.
• 11:31
  SPEAKER_00: And more and more I found myself kind of trying to convince him to do it.
• 11:37
  SPEAKER_00: Like, if you do it, we gonna be XYZ.
• 11:42
  SPEAKER_00: If you do it, we gon' be XYZ.
• 11:46
  SPEAKER_00: And every time we had the conversation, it's almost like not that I was lying, but that I would I would I would add in more.
• 12:01
  SPEAKER_03: You were trying to you was trying to make him see instead of letting him see.
• 12:05
  SPEAKER_03: Kind of like giving him, trying to give him a nudge to make him see what it's gonna be like.
• 12:09
  SPEAKER_03: You know what I'm saying?
• 12:10
  SPEAKER_00: So I mean, yeah, because I can tell you.
• 12:13
  SPEAKER_03: But there's nothing wrong with that.
• 12:14
  SPEAKER_03: It's okay.
• 12:15
  SPEAKER_03: It's nothing.
• 12:15
  SPEAKER_00: It is.
• 12:16
  SPEAKER_00: You don't need to be convincing nobody.
• 12:18
  SPEAKER_00: You don't need to be convinced either they want to do it, you don't need to cohearse nobody to do nothing.
• 12:22
  SPEAKER_00: Either they want to do it or they don't.
• 12:24
  SPEAKER_00: But I wanted him to do it.
• 12:26
  SPEAKER_00: So I every time the conversation would come up, I found myself saying, like the first time I might have said, Man, we gonna, it'll be fine.
• 12:32
  SPEAKER_00: Then the second time it was like, Man, if you come though, you'll get a better job.
• 12:37
  SPEAKER_00: But if you come though, we can do it.
• 12:39
  SPEAKER_00: And I I just every time I kept it.
• 12:41
  SPEAKER_00: So the last conversation I had about the topic with him, I had like 10 things.
• 12:45
  SPEAKER_00: And I was like, Man, if you come, we gonna go live in Chicago for the summer.
• 12:49
  SPEAKER_00: If you come, we could go live in Atlanta.
• 12:53
  SPEAKER_00: If you come, we gonna do that.
• 12:54
  SPEAKER_00: And every single and he didn't want to do it.
• 12:56
  SPEAKER_00: In the end, he didn't want to do it, and he didn't come to the States.
• 13:01
  SPEAKER_00: And in the end, within maybe a year or two, maybe, everything I said, I was like, if you come, we're gonna be a such and such K household with our incomes combined.
• 13:11
  SPEAKER_00: Oh.
• 13:11
  SPEAKER_00: I was nowhere near, neither one, with our incomes combined at the time, we wouldn't even have what I was telling him.
• 13:18
  SPEAKER_00: We would be, you know, we would be.
• 13:21
  SPEAKER_00: Just I just was saying all these things.
• 13:23
  SPEAKER_00: And within a year or more, a little bit more, I did every single thing I told him we was gonna do by myself.
• 13:31
  SPEAKER_00: I went to live in Chicago for the summer.
• 13:33
  SPEAKER_00: I went to live in Atlanta.
• 13:35
  SPEAKER_00: I started a podcast.
• 13:37
  SPEAKER_00: Every single thing I told this boy that we could do together, when he didn't come, I ended up doing it myself.
• 13:43
  SPEAKER_00: So, and one day I sat down and I had that realization.
• 13:45
  SPEAKER_00: I'm like, damn, you really came home and got to it.
• 13:49
  SPEAKER_00: So I can't lie and say that I'm not where I said I would be.
• 13:56
  SPEAKER_00: Are there some things that I wish were different?
• 13:58
  SPEAKER_00: Absolutely.
• 13:58
  SPEAKER_00: But I'm right where the fuck I said I was gonna be.
• 14:02
  SPEAKER_00: That's amazing.
• 14:03
  SPEAKER_00: I don't know how.
• 14:04
  SPEAKER_00: Because again, I was reaching for the stars, bitch.
• 14:07
  SPEAKER_00: I was like, we're gonna make, and again, at the time, now mind you, this was at the time, I'm no, I'm like, we're gonna make this.
• 14:13
  SPEAKER_00: We gonna go here, we gonna, we gonna go to Europe every summer.
• 14:17
  SPEAKER_00: I have been to Europe every summer.
• 14:18
  SPEAKER_00: I did everything I said I was gonna do.
• 14:20
  SPEAKER_00: So anyway, I guess that's a little man as a mana.
• 14:22
  SPEAKER_00: You know what the fuck I'm trying to say.
• 14:24
  SPEAKER_00: Say some shit, put it in the universe and work towards it.
• 14:26
  SPEAKER_00: Any kind of power in the tongue, power in the tone.
• 14:28
  SPEAKER_00: Manifestation.
• 14:29
  SPEAKER_00: Yeah, there we go.
• 14:30
  SPEAKER_00: All right, no shade all tea.
• 14:32
  SPEAKER_00: Raven, please get away from that white lady.
• 14:36
  SPEAKER_00: That's it.
• 14:36
  SPEAKER_00: Raven, you in danger girl.
• 14:38
  SPEAKER_00: I didn't say Raven Simone and her wife Miranda went back on the Kiki Palmer podcast, and once again, the clips are going viral.
• 14:45
  SPEAKER_00: Okay, well, they on her podcast.
• 14:47
  SPEAKER_00: She was on their podcast, you mean?
• 14:49
  SPEAKER_00: This time, I think.
• 14:51
  SPEAKER_00: No, this episode was their podcast, right?
• 14:54
  SPEAKER_00: Yeah.
• 14:55
  SPEAKER_00: Right?
• 14:56
  SPEAKER_02: This episode was their podcast?
• 14:58
  SPEAKER_02: Or was Kiki's podcast?
• 14:59
  SPEAKER_00: No, I think that now that she was a guest on their podcast.
• 15:02
  SPEAKER_00: I think.
• 15:04
  SPEAKER_00: Yeah, okay.
• 15:05
  SPEAKER_00: Miranda brought up the online scrutiny she received from saying she didn't know who Raven Simone was and wanted to blame Kiki for it, basically.
• 15:12
  SPEAKER_00: Now she claims she knew who Raven was before meeting her, is now saying that she didn't watch any of her shows or movies because she was watching Sex in the City.
• 15:21
  unknown: What?
• 15:23
  SPEAKER_00: Whoa.
• 15:26
  SPEAKER_03: Ain't nobody asked you none of this.
• 15:30
  SPEAKER_04: Cause, okay, you was watching, you was watching Sex in the City, but you knew you you knew what the Cosby was.
• 15:38
  SPEAKER_04: You knew what, you know what I'm saying?
• 15:40
  SPEAKER_00: Like, and I would appreciate her saying that.
• 15:42
  SPEAKER_00: Maybe she didn't.
• 15:42
  SPEAKER_00: She's white.
• 15:43
  SPEAKER_00: Hey, we didn't watch the Cosby show in my home.
• 15:46
  SPEAKER_04: I'm white.
• 15:47
  SPEAKER_04: Girl, get out of here.
• 15:48
  SPEAKER_04: No, you knew who Raven was.
• 15:49
  SPEAKER_00: I don't think she did.
• 15:51
  SPEAKER_00: I believe her.
• 15:52
  SPEAKER_00: You believe she's white.
• 15:54
  SPEAKER_04: I can see in a world where that's true, but I also believe it because she's but it could work both ways.
• 16:00
  SPEAKER_02: She's trying to play the whole.
• 16:01
  SPEAKER_02: I didn't know who you were.
• 16:02
  SPEAKER_02: I didn't want you for your money, blah, blah, blah, because she started off that way, because that's one of the things that Raven has said that she liked about her.
• 16:07
  SPEAKER_02: She's one of the people who didn't fangirl out for me when we first met.
• 16:10
  SPEAKER_02: So I'm thinking she's trying to keep that lot going.
• 16:12
  SPEAKER_02: She started off saying that she used to watch Evan Stevens and what was the other show.
• 16:16
  SPEAKER_04: That shit's awesome.
• 16:17
  SPEAKER_02: Right.
• 16:18
  SPEAKER_02: Eva Stevens used to come on right before she was a little bit of a little bit of a cheetah girl after.
• 16:21
  SPEAKER_04: They ate that up just like I mean, and we all ate it up.
• 16:24
  SPEAKER_02: I mean before or after the game.
• 16:25
  SPEAKER_04: I mean, I've never seen Cheetah Girls on the city.
• 16:27
  SPEAKER_04: I haven't either.
• 16:28
  SPEAKER_02: But you're black.
• 16:30
  SPEAKER_02: Yeah, I understand that, but I think she's lying just to keep that line going on.
• 16:35
  SPEAKER_00: Very good.
• 16:35
  SPEAKER_02: But your point is good as well, maybe because she's white, she doesn't, but Disney.
• 16:40
  SPEAKER_00: But I would rather her, if she's gonna try to go there about to say that.
• 16:42
  SPEAKER_00: I think people could resonate with it.
• 16:44
  SPEAKER_00: Hey, I'm white.
• 16:45
  SPEAKER_00: We kind of watch white programming.
• 16:47
  SPEAKER_00: I didn't watch a lot of it's I think my thing is weird because after a certain age, I completely logged out of white media.
• 16:55
  SPEAKER_00: And I don't even think it was.
• 16:57
  SPEAKER_00: I don't think it was on purpose.
• 16:59
  SPEAKER_00: I think it just was like natural.
• 17:01
  SPEAKER_00: Like growing up, I watched Fool House, I watched Friends, things like that.
• 17:04
  SPEAKER_00: But as I got older, it was Moesha, Martin, fresh pence, and it was very because they were talking to me.
• 17:12
  SPEAKER_00: I don't feel like your point could be valid, but I think this bitch is shit.
• 17:16
  SPEAKER_00: But I think that's a very, very good point as well.
• 17:19
  SPEAKER_00: She's trying to play the whole I didn't want you playing.
• 17:21
  SPEAKER_02: Because she keeps on bringing up how she came from money and how she was actually the child actor.
• 17:25
  SPEAKER_02: She's just a bitch.
• 17:27
  SPEAKER_02: A child actor?
• 17:28
  SPEAKER_02: Yeah, she was in one movie.
• 17:30
  SPEAKER_00: You were not a child actor up against Raven Simone.
• 17:33
  SPEAKER_02: Up against the Raven Simone?
• 17:35
  SPEAKER_02: Have you lost your fucking mind?
• 17:36
  SPEAKER_04: And that adds another layer to it.
• 17:38
  SPEAKER_04: Because now you playing.
• 17:40
  SPEAKER_04: Because now you're talking about.
• 17:40
  SPEAKER_02: Now you're playing my face.
• 17:42
  SPEAKER_02: Raven Simone?
• 17:43
  SPEAKER_02: You're trying to diminish who the fuck I am.
• 17:44
  SPEAKER_02: Like Raven Simone when I was she was like two.
• 17:48
  SPEAKER_02: No exaggeration.
• 17:49
  SPEAKER_02: She was a rapper.
• 17:50
  SPEAKER_02: What the fuck are you talking about?
• 17:51
  SPEAKER_04: That's what I'm saying.
• 17:52
  SPEAKER_04: Like saying, oh, I was watching Six of the City.
• 17:54
  SPEAKER_04: That don't check out.
• 17:55
  SPEAKER_04: Like, baby.
• 17:57
  SPEAKER_04: Then talk about her sister was watching it.
• 17:58
  SPEAKER_04: Raven Raven preceded.
• 18:00
  SPEAKER_04: Your sister was watching Sarah Jessica Parker.
• 18:01
  SPEAKER_04: That's so Raven.
• 18:02
  SPEAKER_00: And then it's say that again.
• 18:05
  SPEAKER_04: Raven and Raven won't so Sarah Jessica Parker could run.
• 18:10
  SPEAKER_00: He said Raven Simone preceded Sarah Jessica Parker.
• 18:13
  SPEAKER_00: I knew who Raven Simone was long before I knew who Sarah Jessica Parker was.
• 18:18
  SPEAKER_00: Quit playing with me.
• 18:18
  SPEAKER_00: Please stop playing with Raven.
• 18:20
  SPEAKER_00: My thing that I don't understand about Miranda, why even rehack?
• 18:23
  SPEAKER_00: Why bring this up?
• 18:24
  SPEAKER_00: What you thought it was finna give?
• 18:27
  SPEAKER_02: I think she wanted an apology from Kiki from the scrutiny.
• 18:30
  SPEAKER_00: You're not getting an apology.
• 18:32
  SPEAKER_00: You're not.
• 18:33
  SPEAKER_00: You're not.
• 18:33
  SPEAKER_00: See, here you go.
• 18:34
  SPEAKER_00: Here you go, white lady.
• 18:36
  SPEAKER_00: Trying to hold who.
• 18:40
  SPEAKER_02: Um, if I Kiki, I don't, I don't know.
• 18:43
  SPEAKER_02: That's a good question.
• 18:44
  SPEAKER_02: I don't remember how the initial conversation came up.
• 18:48
  SPEAKER_02: Like, did she ask, like, hey, did you watch that song?
• 18:50
  SPEAKER_02: And you call a Nessa Raven TSR?
• 18:52
  SPEAKER_02: Bitch, don't play with me.
• 18:55
  SPEAKER_00: I thought that was the shade rule.
• 18:57
  SPEAKER_00: That's what I thought too, bitch.
• 18:58
  SPEAKER_00: Why you seem to be trying to sound cool TSR.
• 19:01
  SPEAKER_00: Girl, I never watched that so Raven Cheetah Girls anything.
• 19:04
  SPEAKER_00: I'm telling you, I just and I know how this gonna sound because they were black.
• 19:08
  SPEAKER_02: Oh, she absolutely without those major milestones.
• 19:12
  SPEAKER_04: But even if we didn't watch them, like we knew what they were.
• 19:15
  SPEAKER_00: I don't play with Raven Simone, and I never watched one of those shows ever.
• 19:19
  SPEAKER_00: But I do not play with Raven Simone for the simple fact of the symbolism of what Raven Simone represented.
• 19:26
  SPEAKER_00: She carried that network on her fucking back.
• 19:29
  SPEAKER_00: She also did so while being considered plus size in a time where ain't nobody had no understanding for no fat bitch.
• 19:37
  SPEAKER_00: I'm not calling her a fat bitch.
• 19:38
  SPEAKER_00: That's what the world called her.
• 19:40
  SPEAKER_00: And she just came out and said she was having to buy her own outfits.
• 19:43
  SPEAKER_00: No fashion houses would dress her because she was bigger than what they made.
• 19:49
  SPEAKER_00: So just off of that alone, being a child star, being relevant, being the first black girl to do this or do that, being on TV since she was fucking two or three.
• 19:58
  SPEAKER_00: Don't ever play with Raven Simone in my in my presence.
• 20:01
  SPEAKER_00: Get the fuck out of here.
• 20:03
  SPEAKER_00: Daws, tour, all that shit they did with Cheetah.
• 20:05
  SPEAKER_02: She was the first black girl to have her name in the title of a TV show on Disney Channel.
• 20:10
  SPEAKER_02: Her show was the first show to be longer than like a hundred episodes.
• 20:14
  SPEAKER_02: Like, don't play with Raven.
• 20:15
  SPEAKER_03: She's still gonna have money.
• 20:16
  SPEAKER_02: And she has all the money.
• 20:18
  SPEAKER_04: Right.
• 20:18
  SPEAKER_04: She has albums.
• 20:20
  SPEAKER_02: Yeah.
• 20:20
  SPEAKER_04: How you how you how you watch Zack and Cody, but you didn't watch Raven Death of Raven.
• 20:24
  SPEAKER_04: Like how you're talking about Disney Channel.
• 20:25
  SPEAKER_00: Like, come on.
• 20:26
  SPEAKER_00: Don't don't ever play with Raven.
• 20:28
  SPEAKER_00: And Raven, I know, I know.
• 20:29
  SPEAKER_00: You be trying to take up for your wife, and I love that.
• 20:32
  SPEAKER_02: But she actually doesn't.
• 20:35
  SPEAKER_02: She sits there and let her get all the whackings from all the guests that they ever have on that podcast.
• 20:39
  SPEAKER_00: I mean, obviously she's married to her.
• 20:41
  SPEAKER_00: So you maybe you're not defending her, but you're married to her.
• 20:47
  SPEAKER_00: Um Like Orlando Brown says, Raven, get away from that bitch.
• 20:51
  SPEAKER_00: I mean, she needs to get away from you too.
• 20:56
  SPEAKER_00: But this is where dating interracially What's the word I'm looking for?
• 21:03
  SPEAKER_00: This is where the roadblocks come in at and crosses that certain boundary.
• 21:08
  SPEAKER_00: Because there are just cultural things that I cannot, you just had to be there.
• 21:14
  SPEAKER_00: I cannot explain it to you.
• 21:16
  SPEAKER_01: Here's the whole thing that she was there.
• 21:18
  SPEAKER_04: And then sometimes you it gets to a point where I don't want to teach you.
• 21:22
  SPEAKER_04: Because if I gotta teach it to you, you're never gonna really get it.
• 21:26
  SPEAKER_04: Like it's a different shit.
• 21:28
  SPEAKER_00: I mean, but shout out to them and their marriage.
• 21:30
  SPEAKER_00: And Raven seems really happy with this lady.
• 21:34
  SPEAKER_00: Amid all the backlash she gets, they still marry.
• 21:37
  SPEAKER_00: So she seems very happy.
• 21:40
  SPEAKER_00: I think Raven also went through a lot of her career with people like sexualizing her.
• 21:44
  SPEAKER_00: I think they made her get a boob job, just a lot of crazy stuff.
• 21:47
  SPEAKER_02: Yeah, they made her get a breast reduction.
• 21:49
  SPEAKER_00: So I'm glad she's able to live in her truth and be an out lesbian by out, I mean, out the closet and be openly married and openly gay.
• 21:57
  SPEAKER_00: I love all of that symbolism.
• 21:58
  SPEAKER_00: So shout out to them.
• 21:59
  SPEAKER_00: But Don't try the Kiki Palmer, bitch.
• 22:04
  SPEAKER_00: Anyways, Raven asked Kiki who made a more cultural impact, Destiny Shaw or the Cheetah Girls?
• 22:09
  SPEAKER_00: Kiki responded, depends on generation.
• 22:11
  SPEAKER_00: No, ma'am.
• 22:12
  SPEAKER_00: No, ma'am.
• 22:14
  SPEAKER_00: No, it don't.
• 22:15
  SPEAKER_00: No, it don't.
• 22:16
  SPEAKER_00: Destiny Shaw is the highest selling girl group of all time, right?
• 22:19
  SPEAKER_00: Outside of Spice Girls, maybe.
• 22:20
  SPEAKER_00: Don't play.
• 22:21
  SPEAKER_00: I think I think Matthew knows they higher than the Spice Girls.
• 22:27
  SPEAKER_04: I'm laughing because Matthew will read a bitch down.
• 22:30
  SPEAKER_04: Did you see where he was with T.S.
• 22:31
  SPEAKER_04: Medicine and Rachel?
• 22:32
  SPEAKER_00: And then we'll read a bitch down.
• 22:36
  SPEAKER_04: And I'm finna turn into Matthew, bitch, because quit playing with me.
• 22:42
  SPEAKER_04: But on this side of the pond.
• 22:44
  SPEAKER_00: I think they are in the world.
• 22:46
  SPEAKER_00: That's what Matthew Noah said.
• 22:47
  SPEAKER_00: Now, if y'all got a problem with it, take it over him.
• 22:51
  SPEAKER_00: I what y'all think?
• 22:52
  SPEAKER_00: Who made a bigger cultural difference?
• 22:53
  SPEAKER_00: Destiny Child or the Cheetahs?
• 22:56
  SPEAKER_04: My culture?
• 22:56
  SPEAKER_04: Destiny's child.
• 22:58
  SPEAKER_04: That's the thing.
• 22:58
  SPEAKER_04: Ah.
• 22:59
  SPEAKER_04: It's like that.
• 23:00
  SPEAKER_04: My culture.
• 23:02
  SPEAKER_03: What was the culture that was there when both of those lettings were happening too, right?
• 23:07
  SPEAKER_03: I don't know nothing about cheetah girls.
• 23:08
  SPEAKER_03: I know about Destiny Child.
• 23:09
  SPEAKER_04: Yeah, where was the peak of Cheetah Girls?
• 23:11
  SPEAKER_04: I always associate Cheetah Girls with like my sister.
• 23:13
  SPEAKER_00: Oh, bitch, don't don't play with Destiny Child, baby.
• 23:16
  SPEAKER_00: Destiny Shaw had already had a good question.
• 23:18
  SPEAKER_00: It's not even a good question to ask.
• 23:19
  SPEAKER_00: It's not even a good question to ask, but please be so fucking for real.
• 23:23
  SPEAKER_00: Y'all play too much.
• 23:25
  SPEAKER_00: Y'all put the question is actually quite insulting.
• 23:29
  SPEAKER_00: It is.
• 23:29
  SPEAKER_00: It is.
• 23:30
  SPEAKER_00: Who asked the question?
• 23:31
  SPEAKER_00: Raven.
• 23:32
  SPEAKER_03: Hey, man.
• 23:34
  SPEAKER_00: Raven, bitch, and I just gave you all your vlogs.
• 23:37
  SPEAKER_00: But you need to stay in a Raven Simone's place, bitch.
• 23:42
  SPEAKER_00: Don't ever play with Beyonce Nose and Kelly Rowland.
• 23:45
  SPEAKER_00: Latavia look it and Latavia Robinson.
• 23:47
  SPEAKER_00: What's her name?
• 23:48
  SPEAKER_00: Latavia.
• 23:48
  SPEAKER_00: Latavia.
• 23:49
  SPEAKER_00: Don't play like that and Michelle Williams.
• 23:51
  SPEAKER_00: You play, bitch.
• 23:52
  SPEAKER_00: You really.
• 23:53
  SPEAKER_00: And Candy and uh Tiny Bills, Bills, Bills.
• 23:56
  SPEAKER_00: Bitch, that shit like fucking diamond.
• 23:58
  SPEAKER_00: What the fuck?
• 23:59
  SPEAKER_00: Cheetah girls.
• 24:03
  SPEAKER_00: You didn't piss me off.
• 24:04
  SPEAKER_00: Nah, I just took.
• 24:06
  SPEAKER_00: Why y'all ain't tell me that was coming up on the car after I done took up for her ass?
• 24:11
  SPEAKER_00: Love you, Raven.
• 24:12
  SPEAKER_00: Love you, Kiki.
• 24:13
  SPEAKER_00: Anyways, two scammers, one charge.
• 24:16
  SPEAKER_00: FBI recently arrested Dejahn.
• 24:18
  SPEAKER_06: Dajahn.
• 24:19
  SPEAKER_00: Deja on love.
• 24:22
  SPEAKER_06: Kitty boys up.
• 24:25
  SPEAKER_00: Huh?
• 24:26
  SPEAKER_00: Y'all two not coming to the studio together.
• 24:29
  SPEAKER_00: Either way.
• 24:30
  SPEAKER_00: One of y'all gonna see.
• 24:31
  SPEAKER_00: One of y'all gonna see in the car.
• 24:33
  SPEAKER_00: Y'all not gonna women say they want to scam them.
• 24:37
  SPEAKER_06: Yeah, I see.
• 24:41
  SPEAKER_00: I can't even get the card out.
• 24:43
  SPEAKER_00: A romance scammer who posed as a San Francisco 49ers wide receiver.
• 24:50
  SPEAKER_00: Defrauded at least 26 women out of approximately 1.3 million via fake investments.
• 24:56
  SPEAKER_00: DeJohn matched with multiple women on day naps like Tinder Hinge and Bumble using fake names such as John Love and Joy Love.
• 25:02
  SPEAKER_00: What?
• 25:03
  SPEAKER_05: My nigga.
• 25:05
  SPEAKER_05: MVP.
• 25:07
  SPEAKER_00: You ain't even got nothing good to add.
• 25:09
  SPEAKER_00: His 18-year-old a company.
• 25:11
  SPEAKER_00: 18 years old?
• 25:12
  SPEAKER_00: Taylor Jamie Chan was also arrested.
• 25:14
  SPEAKER_00: Chan posed as his financial advisor or sports agent to legitimize the deals.
• 25:19
  SPEAKER_00: An 18-year-old.
• 25:20
  SPEAKER_02: But check this out.
• 25:20
  SPEAKER_02: They've been doing this for four years.
• 25:22
  SPEAKER_02: So that child has been doing this since he was 14 years old.
• 25:25
  SPEAKER_00: And I think that they've been fucking.
• 25:27
  SPEAKER_02: Wait.
• 25:27
  SPEAKER_02: Wow.
• 25:28
  SPEAKER_00: Not fucking.
• 25:28
  SPEAKER_00: I think he's been raping that little boy.
• 25:30
  SPEAKER_00: Wow.
• 25:30
  SPEAKER_00: Where you get a 14-year-old from?
• 25:34
  SPEAKER_06: Jackie Chan?
• 25:38
  SPEAKER_06: Jamie Chan.
• 25:41
  SPEAKER_06: Come on now.
• 25:42
  SPEAKER_06: Come on.
• 25:46
  SPEAKER_00: This is not fun because I think he's been raping that little boy.
• 25:50
  SPEAKER_00: You think they have something um romantic?
• 25:52
  SPEAKER_00: Look at a 14-year-old.
• 25:53
  SPEAKER_01: He how old is he?
• 25:56
  SPEAKER_06: DeJoun.
• 25:57
  SPEAKER_06: It don't matter.
• 25:58
  SPEAKER_06: It does matter.
• 25:59
  SPEAKER_00: Why the hell do you get a 14-year-old to come in fraud with you?
• 26:05
  SPEAKER_06: It matters.
• 26:06
  SPEAKER_01: Online.
• 26:06
  SPEAKER_01: They met online.
• 26:08
  SPEAKER_02: Okay.
• 26:08
  SPEAKER_00: In a scammer chat room.
• 26:11
  SPEAKER_00: Now that's possible because these little kids be knowing a lot about computers.
• 26:14
  SPEAKER_00: But my point is they should explore that.
• 26:16
  SPEAKER_00: I saw like somebody grandma hash.
• 26:17
  SPEAKER_00: They know a lot about computers.
• 26:19
  SPEAKER_05: Alright, so he he 35, the dude was 18.
• 26:22
  SPEAKER_05: He's 35, the dude 18.
• 26:24
  SPEAKER_00: They need to check the logs.
• 26:25
  SPEAKER_00: What is he talking about?
• 26:26
  SPEAKER_05: But why would you assume the dude was fucking the little boy?
• 26:30
  SPEAKER_00: What?
• 26:30
  SPEAKER_00: Okay, as a 34, 35-year-old man, why are you talking to an 18-year-old?
• 26:34
  SPEAKER_00: Why is an 18-year-old your business accomplice?
• 26:39
  SPEAKER_00: I'ma tell you something.
• 26:41
  SPEAKER_00: Speak up.
• 26:42
  SPEAKER_00: I'm going to tell you something.
• 26:43
  SPEAKER_00: We tried to hire an 18-year-old.
• 26:45
  SPEAKER_00: Shout out to her.
• 26:46
  SPEAKER_00: Remember to do the graphics?
• 26:47
  SPEAKER_00: What you call the door?
• 26:48
  SPEAKER_00: Yes, yes, yes, yes.
• 26:50
  SPEAKER_00: I talked to the little girl for two weeks.
• 26:51
  SPEAKER_00: Baby, go on back to school here.
• 26:53
  SPEAKER_00: You're not ready to make a fucking flyer.
• 26:55
  SPEAKER_00: So let alone being uh fake financial advice.
• 26:59
  SPEAKER_05: We all seem smart guy.
• 27:03
  SPEAKER_00: The police need to dig in the messages.
• 27:05
  SPEAKER_00: I think it's some more there today.
• 27:06
  SPEAKER_00: I didn't even think about that, but I ain't hear about that.
• 27:10
  SPEAKER_05: But if you fall for a nigga named Dijon love, love.
• 27:14
  SPEAKER_00: You're 14.
• 27:15
  SPEAKER_00: You might.
• 27:15
  SPEAKER_00: Well, I'm not talking about I'm not even talking about the 14.
• 27:17
  SPEAKER_00: We're talking about the.
• 27:18
  SPEAKER_00: Okay, hold on.
• 27:19
  SPEAKER_00: We made a whole new Because I'm telling y'all, that's where the story is.
• 27:24
  SPEAKER_00: That's where the story is.
• 27:26
  SPEAKER_00: And he's spending that money on Jackie Chan.
• 27:29
  SPEAKER_00: That's what the story is.
• 27:30
  SPEAKER_00: Jamie Chan.
• 27:31
  SPEAKER_00: Jamie Chan.
• 27:32
  SPEAKER_00: The duo use applications to show victims fake inflated investment balances.
• 27:36
  SPEAKER_00: Then DeJar pressured them to take out loans.
• 27:38
  SPEAKER_00: Let me ask y'all a question.
• 27:40
  SPEAKER_00: Why the fuck would you take out a loan for a grown man?
• 27:44
  SPEAKER_05: Because he told him that, hey, I want to build with you.
• 27:49
  SPEAKER_05: I want someone I can build with you.
• 27:50
  SPEAKER_05: I don't give a fuck what you want to do.
• 27:52
  SPEAKER_00: My building stops when you need my money to build.
• 27:54
  SPEAKER_05: You seen that chick leave her dude.
• 27:56
  SPEAKER_05: The dude's on the internet now talking about that's the girl that left him.
• 27:59
  SPEAKER_05: She sold, they sold the house to go be with the dude.
• 28:03
  SPEAKER_00: To go be with Dejaon Love?
• 28:05
  SPEAKER_05: To go be with Dejaon Love.
• 28:06
  SPEAKER_00: Social media influence, Angela, Victoria Murdoch, faked attending and graduating from Dukes University.
• 28:13
  SPEAKER_00: Is these two different stories?
• 28:15
  SPEAKER_05: Yeah, why you moved on to a whole other story?
• 28:19
  SPEAKER_00: That's why I said two scammers, one charge.
• 28:21
  SPEAKER_00: Oh, okay.
• 28:22
  SPEAKER_00: Social media influencer Angela attended.
• 28:24
  SPEAKER_00: Wait, I want to keep talking about him.
• 28:26
  SPEAKER_00: So why the fuck was y'all giving people money?
• 28:28
  SPEAKER_00: Why would you?
• 28:29
  SPEAKER_05: He thought they was in they thought they were gonna invest.
• 28:32
  SPEAKER_05: Bitches get scammed every day for for you know, out of what?
• 28:38
  SPEAKER_05: Food.
• 28:38
  SPEAKER_05: I don't know, out of money every day, but hey.
• 28:42
  SPEAKER_01: You getting scammed for food?
• 28:43
  SPEAKER_00: I have been scammed out of pussy, but you're not scamming me out of no money.
• 28:49
  SPEAKER_00: I have been scammed out of love.
• 28:50
  SPEAKER_00: I have been scammed out of resources.
• 28:52
  SPEAKER_00: I've been scammed out of a lot by you scoundrels.
• 28:56
  SPEAKER_00: Money?
• 28:57
  SPEAKER_02: Cash?
• 28:58
  SPEAKER_02: Yeah, one woman gave him$80,000.
• 29:01
  SPEAKER_02: $80,000?
• 29:03
  SPEAKER_05: $40.
• 29:06
  SPEAKER_05: $40?
• 29:07
  SPEAKER_00: What are these hoes getting$80,000?
• 29:10
  SPEAKER_00: You bitches ain't to call me.
• 29:11
  SPEAKER_00: Jamie Chan, call my phone, bitch.
• 29:14
  SPEAKER_00: They doing what with who?
• 29:16
  SPEAKER_00: $80,000.
• 29:18
  SPEAKER_02: They're taking out loans for him.
• 29:21
  SPEAKER_02: After talking to Jamie Chan, an 18-year-old.
• 29:24
  SPEAKER_02: He don't sound 18 to y'all.
• 29:29
  SPEAKER_00: My thing is, why are you giving a man money?
• 29:34
  SPEAKER_05: Dudes give women money buying cars and stuff, and the relationship don't work out.
• 29:38
  SPEAKER_05: But that's what they need to do.
• 29:40
  SPEAKER_05: Patriarchy.
• 29:41
  SPEAKER_00: Patriarchy.
• 29:42
  SPEAKER_00: Patriarchy.
• 29:43
  SPEAKER_00: Ain't that a bad investment?
• 29:45
  SPEAKER_00: I don't know.
• 29:45
  SPEAKER_00: That's a question you gotta ask yourself.
• 29:48
  SPEAKER_00: I know it's a bad investment to give a nigga some money.
• 29:51
  SPEAKER_00: A fake NFL player walking around with a goddamn helmet all day.
• 29:54
  SPEAKER_00: Why the fuck was he walking around with that helmet?
• 29:56
  SPEAKER_05: Specialist.
• 29:57
  SPEAKER_00: A simple Google search.
• 29:59
  SPEAKER_00: No, Google actually said.
• 30:01
  SPEAKER_05: Yeah, he made a fake Google.
• 30:04
  SPEAKER_02: When you Google him, it's because he's an NFL player due to all this AI bullshit.
• 30:07
  SPEAKER_05: Mm-hmm.
• 30:08
  SPEAKER_05: Gotcha, bitch.
• 30:09
  SPEAKER_00: Why the motherfucker done on the field?
• 30:11
  SPEAKER_00: That ain't AI.
• 30:12
  SPEAKER_00: Where's the jersey?
• 30:13
  SPEAKER_00: Yeah, he cannot AI himself into the goddamn bitch.
• 30:16
  SPEAKER_00: Into the game.
• 30:17
  SPEAKER_05: No, he was using other people's footage like he like it was his.
• 30:21
  SPEAKER_05: So even in the locker room, he will repost it like, you know, hey, I mean, you know, with my bull, you know what I'm saying?
• 30:27
  SPEAKER_02: But he don't care what he was doing.
• 30:28
  SPEAKER_02: Why was y'all giving this man money?
• 30:29
  SPEAKER_05: Exactly.
• 30:30
  SPEAKER_05: He wasn't.
• 30:30
  SPEAKER_05: That's all y'all care about?
• 30:32
  SPEAKER_05: Yeah.
• 30:32
  SPEAKER_00: But it's okay if a nigga give y'all money.
• 30:34
  SPEAKER_00: Yes.
• 30:36
  SPEAKER_00: I said, yes, yes, yes.
• 30:39
  SPEAKER_00: It would be a story of a bitch scam somebody out of$80,000 too.
• 30:42
  SPEAKER_00: And it has happened.
• 30:43
  SPEAKER_00: When?
• 30:44
  SPEAKER_00: When did somebody ever scam?
• 30:46
  SPEAKER_00: We just ain't called offense.
• 30:48
  SPEAKER_00: We ain't called offense.
• 30:49
  SPEAKER_00: It has happened.
• 30:50
  SPEAKER_00: Well, guess what?
• 30:51
  SPEAKER_00: He fucked with them white and Asians.
• 30:52
  SPEAKER_00: So it's they finna put something on his ass.
• 30:54
  SPEAKER_00: Now, if it would have been me, they wouldn't have gave a fuck.
• 30:56
  SPEAKER_00: But he didn't fuck with the right ones.
• 30:58
  SPEAKER_00: They finna put something on his ass.
• 31:00
  SPEAKER_00: Now you buy one.
• 31:03
  SPEAKER_00: Nah, some.
• 31:06
  SPEAKER_00: Yeah, they using their privilege on your ass.
• 31:08
  SPEAKER_00: Use a hard ER.
• 31:10
  SPEAKER_00: You ain't even supposed to be around here.
• 31:12
  SPEAKER_00: Loving versus Virginia, and you gonna scam some.
• 31:17
  SPEAKER_00: They finna hang your ass.
• 31:19
  SPEAKER_00: You finna get leashed.
• 31:21
  SPEAKER_00: Anyway, social media influencer Angela Angel, Victoria Murdoch, fake attending and graduating from Duke University for nearly two years.
• 31:31
  SPEAKER_00: She listed Occupation as a PA student when she appeared on the reality TV show Temptation Island 2025.
• 31:36
  SPEAKER_00: She shared photos of herself.
• 31:37
  SPEAKER_00: I don't really care about her.
• 31:38
  SPEAKER_00: Um why does she do this?
• 31:41
  SPEAKER_00: It's just content.
• 31:44
  SPEAKER_02: Content.
• 31:44
  SPEAKER_02: And they keep saying she's getting brand deals.
• 31:46
  SPEAKER_02: I don't know what brand deal she's gotten, but this is not the same.
• 31:49
  SPEAKER_02: They're trying to compare, I put this one in because they're trying to compare her to the NFL player, and it's not the same.
• 31:53
  SPEAKER_00: Hey, this is America, people.
• 31:55
  SPEAKER_00: You could be anything you want to be.
• 31:56
  SPEAKER_00: We got a motherfucker down there at the Pennsylvania house posing like a politician.
• 32:01
  SPEAKER_00: Fuck it.
• 32:01
  SPEAKER_00: She can pose like a student.
• 32:02
  SPEAKER_00: She didn't scam nobody at 80K.
• 32:04
  SPEAKER_00: I don't care.
• 32:05
  SPEAKER_00: City girls up and say.
• 32:06
  SPEAKER_02: And it's the difference from scamming common white women and scamming brands.
• 32:10
  SPEAKER_02: These brands have legal departments that they can use to see if she went to school or whatever they're giving her the money for.
• 32:15
  SPEAKER_00: She didn't scam any white men out of money.
• 32:19
  SPEAKER_00: No, it's not.
• 32:20
  SPEAKER_00: It's levels to scamming.
• 32:21
  SPEAKER_00: Y'all, it's levels to scamming.
• 32:23
  SPEAKER_00: It's just like I wouldn't steal out of my friend's house, but I might steal a little bubblegum out the store.
• 32:28
  SPEAKER_00: I don't steal.
• 32:29
  SPEAKER_00: But I might.
• 32:33
  SPEAKER_06: What?
• 32:36
  SPEAKER_00: That's different than stealing from your house.
• 32:38
  SPEAKER_00: That's a lot different.
• 32:40
  SPEAKER_00: Anyways, these are rapid fire.
• 32:42
  SPEAKER_00: No shade RT.
• 32:43
  SPEAKER_00: Bonnie Bella, which is Jocelyn Horn and Dad's daughter, said she would like to see her dad, Stevie J more, and that he needs to stop lying.
• 32:50
  SPEAKER_00: She also said he don't be sending her no money.
• 32:52
  SPEAKER_00: That's what Jocelyn said, and Bonnie Bella laughed.
• 32:55
  SPEAKER_00: Okay, I know it's supposed to be rapid fire real quick, though.
• 32:57
  SPEAKER_00: Why are we trying to act?
• 32:58
  SPEAKER_00: I said this before on the show, but why we try to act like women shouldn't tell their kids the truth.
• 33:01
  SPEAKER_00: Or why we trying to act like kids can't see the truth.
• 33:03
  SPEAKER_02: Yeah, because I saw a lot of comments saying, why is Jocelyn telling her that?
• 33:06
  SPEAKER_02: Because Jocelyn was the one that brought up like, he don't send us no money either, girl.
• 33:09
  SPEAKER_02: Why they kick in everybody, why?
• 33:10
  SPEAKER_02: I shouldn't think more women need to do that.
• 33:13
  SPEAKER_00: I'm sick of it.
• 33:14
  SPEAKER_00: Because that's how we get my mama used to be tripping.
• 33:16
  SPEAKER_00: No, your daddy is a piece of shit and they ain't sending not a motherfucking food stamp over here, bitch.
• 33:21
  SPEAKER_04: I think it's sometimes like, yes, I do agree.
• 33:23
  SPEAKER_04: Tell the truth.
• 33:24
  SPEAKER_04: I think it's not what we say, how we say it.
• 33:27
  SPEAKER_04: And I don't think you had a dog in the guy to tell to tell the truth about a nigga.
• 33:32
  SPEAKER_00: The truth is dogging him.
• 33:34
  SPEAKER_04: That he's a dog.
• 33:35
  SPEAKER_04: But you know what I'm saying?
• 33:37
  SPEAKER_04: Like, not but but in.
• 33:39
  SPEAKER_04: Yeah, I get it.
• 33:40
  SPEAKER_00: I feel like we need to tell the truth.
• 33:42
  SPEAKER_00: Even myself, there have been men in my family who I thought they were here.
• 33:46
  SPEAKER_00: And now that I'm can sit at the adult table, I'm like, wait, he did what with who?
• 33:52
  SPEAKER_00: He did he did he used to be an alcoholic.
• 33:54
  SPEAKER_00: He used to be her.
• 33:55
  SPEAKER_00: He used to whatever.
• 33:56
  SPEAKER_00: Y'all done had me kick you in this motherfucking face all this time.
• 33:58
  SPEAKER_00: He been doing this right under my nose.
• 34:01
  SPEAKER_03: What?
• 34:01
  SPEAKER_03: Y'all always talking about some old shit.
• 34:03
  SPEAKER_03: Right.
• 34:04
  SPEAKER_03: That man's a new man now.
• 34:07
  SPEAKER_04: Says who?
• 34:08
  unknown: Yeah.
• 34:11
  SPEAKER_03: Is this how he is currently, or that's how he that's some things that he did?
• 34:14
  SPEAKER_02: Once a woman beat always a woman beater, you know.
• 34:17
  SPEAKER_04: If she's current, if the daughter's, if if the daughter's currently else she said, once a cheater, always a cheater.
• 34:22
  SPEAKER_02: Once a woman be the always a woman beating.
• 34:23
  SPEAKER_00: If you're not taking care of your kid, that's currently sustained.
• 34:26
  SPEAKER_00: That's a permanent.
• 34:29
  SPEAKER_00: You're not sending your kid no money.
• 34:31
  SPEAKER_00: You're not, you know, there was a lot, and probably in y'all families too, I'm sure.
• 34:36
  SPEAKER_00: There was a lot of posing and letting these men be heroes to the children.
• 34:42
  SPEAKER_00: And some of the women, letting people in the family be heroes or be whatever.
• 34:46
  SPEAKER_00: And it was inaccurate.
• 34:48
  SPEAKER_04: I think it is also extra work for a black woman to could have to continue for years to carry on taking up or not like, you know what I'm saying?
• 34:58
  SPEAKER_04: At some point, you just have to say, hey, baby, this is the truth.
• 35:01
  SPEAKER_00: You gonna hurt your bags.
• 35:04
  SPEAKER_00: Drag in all these motherfucking bags, lying for these niggas, like that.
• 35:09
  SPEAKER_00: Yes, thank you.
• 35:10
  SPEAKER_00: That's what I'm getting at.
• 35:11
  SPEAKER_00: Anyways, it's supposed to be rapid fire.
• 35:13
  SPEAKER_00: I don't want to talk about these people no more.
• 35:16
  SPEAKER_00: Pap Pooh's got Clarissa Name Tanner.
• 35:21
  SPEAKER_00: Damn, are you happy now, Gina?
• 35:25
  SPEAKER_00: Leave us the fuck alone.
• 35:28
  SPEAKER_00: Oh my god, why don't we keep getting updates?
• 35:31
  SPEAKER_00: I don't know.
• 35:32
  SPEAKER_00: I hope this is it.
• 35:33
  SPEAKER_03: It's a power couple, right?
• 35:35
  SPEAKER_00: No.
• 35:36
  SPEAKER_03: One of them is employed, and the other one the other one has no power.
• 35:41
  SPEAKER_00: Like, no, it's not.
• 35:43
  SPEAKER_00: Clarissa is a fucking giant.
• 35:46
  SPEAKER_00: And I wish that was what we heard about whenever we hear about her, but instead, it's shit like this.
• 35:54
  SPEAKER_00: Oh my god.
• 35:56
  SPEAKER_00: Is Kanye West on tour?
• 35:58
  SPEAKER_00: We're confused.
• 35:59
  SPEAKER_00: Are people going, why is it so hush?
• 36:01
  SPEAKER_00: Hush, because he called them kids and said he was in the KKK and was anti-Semitic.
• 36:06
  SPEAKER_00: And what else he did?
• 36:07
  SPEAKER_00: That's why it's so hushed.
• 36:08
  SPEAKER_00: People sneaking and going, what else he said?
• 36:11
  SPEAKER_04: Well, that fire was rampant.
• 36:13
  SPEAKER_00: Like, that's why he said his own daughter is chronically constipated.
• 36:17
  SPEAKER_00: What else did he say?
• 36:18
  SPEAKER_00: Like, why the fuck are you telling us that Northwest can't take a shit?
• 36:23
  SPEAKER_03: Hey no.
• 36:25
  SPEAKER_00: This is the niggas you say we should protect.
• 36:29
  SPEAKER_00: Didn't you just say that?
• 36:31
  SPEAKER_00: This nigga clearly has not changed, though.
• 36:33
  SPEAKER_00: Why?
• 36:34
  SPEAKER_00: So why be at the concert?
• 36:35
  SPEAKER_00: That's what we're talking about.
• 36:35
  SPEAKER_00: Why are they at the concert?
• 36:36
  SPEAKER_00: Why is so hush?
• 36:37
  SPEAKER_03: Oh no, Kanye fans are different.
• 36:40
  unknown: Yeah.
• 36:41
  SPEAKER_03: That's something I realized years ago.
• 36:44
  SPEAKER_03: Completely different.
• 36:45
  SPEAKER_06: Okay.
• 36:46
  SPEAKER_06: All right.
• 36:47
  SPEAKER_04: Well, it's it's it's a it's it's it's it's occultish behavior, actually.
• 36:50
  SPEAKER_04: Like, I dated a uh a Dahar Yi fan.
• 36:54
  SPEAKER_04: You know what I'm saying?
• 36:54
  SPEAKER_04: Like they are very like occultish, you know?
• 36:58
  SPEAKER_00: Yes, because anybody that gets on the internet and calls children the R-word.
• 37:02
  SPEAKER_00: I'm sorry, I shouldn't have said that.
• 37:03
  SPEAKER_00: We need to You call your best friend kids the R word.
• 37:09
  SPEAKER_00: You did tell us that your own daughter can't take a shit.
• 37:11
  SPEAKER_00: Unprovoked.
• 37:12
  SPEAKER_00: Nobody asked.
• 37:13
  SPEAKER_00: Um you dressed in a Klu Klugs Klan outfit.
• 37:18
  SPEAKER_00: You were anti-Semitic.
• 37:20
  SPEAKER_00: I forgot what he said about that community.
• 37:22
  SPEAKER_03: Just all a lot of unprovoked stuff.
• 37:25
  SPEAKER_03: Just too much.
• 37:25
  SPEAKER_03: It's just too much.
• 37:27
  SPEAKER_03: Every time you get on on a a camera in front of your face when somebody's sitting down talking to you, you talk talk about some I don't know.
• 37:35
  SPEAKER_03: You just you you talking about everything else other than what Kanye, what we know Kanye for.
• 37:40
  SPEAKER_03: The the clothes, the music, and all the things.
• 37:47
  SPEAKER_00: Also, I must just be honest, them clothes are ass.
• 37:51
  SPEAKER_00: The clothes and the shoes, they look like rags.
• 37:54
  SPEAKER_00: Y'all are paying expensive for t-shirts and sweatpants and them stupid ass rubber shoes made in China.
• 38:00
  SPEAKER_00: Shit is terrible.
• 38:01
  SPEAKER_04: I am so glad they're wearing a shirt here tonight.
• 38:04
  SPEAKER_04: Because I was started to wear.
• 38:08
  SPEAKER_00: These clothes are not groundbreaking.
• 38:11
  SPEAKER_00: They're not one of a kind.
• 38:13
  SPEAKER_00: We can walk in Zara.
• 38:15
  SPEAKER_00: It's terrible.
• 38:16
  SPEAKER_00: I hate that people are trying to mimic him with the clothes.
• 38:19
  SPEAKER_00: Remember at one point where all the clothes was gray, black, stone.
• 38:23
  SPEAKER_00: Hey, hey, hey, hey.
• 38:25
  SPEAKER_00: All of y'all keep making variations of them ugly ass, funky ass rubber shoes that start stanking.
• 38:31
  SPEAKER_00: I is, yeah, I for me, it's a no for me.
• 38:34
  SPEAKER_00: I'm I'm good on him and his concert.
• 38:35
  SPEAKER_00: Kim Zoziac's son is in jail for sodomy and sexual assault.
• 38:39
  SPEAKER_00: Kim says the woman is lying.
• 38:41
  SPEAKER_00: Is it a teenager?
• 38:42
  SPEAKER_00: It's a teenager, right?
• 38:43
  SPEAKER_00: Because they was at school?
• 38:44
  SPEAKER_02: Yes, they was at school.
• 38:45
  SPEAKER_00: So they're calling her a woman.
• 38:46
  SPEAKER_00: She must be black.
• 38:47
  SPEAKER_02: They're in Atlanta.
• 38:48
  SPEAKER_02: We don't know yet.
• 38:49
  SPEAKER_02: They're keeping it under wraps, but that would be my guess, too.
• 38:52
  SPEAKER_00: And she's on vacation right now while her son is in jail for sodomy with her new man that's Kim, who?
• 38:58
  SPEAKER_00: Zoziac.
• 38:58
  SPEAKER_00: She was on uh Real Housewives of Atlanta.
• 39:01
  SPEAKER_00: She was the only white character on there.
• 39:04
  SPEAKER_00: Real Housewives of Atlanta.
• 39:05
  SPEAKER_03: Is that the is you something lady or whatever she said to that lady?
• 39:10
  SPEAKER_00: She used to wear a wig.
• 39:11
  SPEAKER_00: She used to mess with a merried man on Real Housewives.
• 39:14
  SPEAKER_00: Um when Nene said bye wig, that's what she's talking about.
• 39:18
  SPEAKER_00: All right, Tyrese says Kim Kardashian inspired his hit.
• 39:20
  SPEAKER_00: How you gonna act like that?
• 39:22
  SPEAKER_00: How does she inspire it?
• 39:23
  SPEAKER_00: I think Tyrese is lying.
• 39:25
  SPEAKER_00: Was he fucking her?
• 39:26
  SPEAKER_00: I doubt it.
• 39:28
  SPEAKER_00: You do?
• 39:28
  SPEAKER_00: You do?
• 39:31
  SPEAKER_04: This that's fucking him that fucked everybody that Tyrese and hit.
• 39:35
  SPEAKER_04: Damn.
• 39:35
  SPEAKER_00: I just think he's a liar.
• 39:36
  SPEAKER_00: She fucked you?
• 39:37
  SPEAKER_00: No.
• 39:38
  SPEAKER_00: He's not a hit.
• 39:40
  SPEAKER_00: All right.
• 39:40
  SPEAKER_00: That's all the spit fires.
• 39:42
  SPEAKER_00: A sip of reality.
• 39:44
  SPEAKER_00: The price of community is expensive to you because you're selfish.
• 39:50
  SPEAKER_00: Who told me that?
• 39:51
  SPEAKER_00: Was that one of y'all?
• 39:52
  SPEAKER_04: Mm-mm.
• 39:53
  SPEAKER_04: That's running back.
• 39:55
  SPEAKER_00: Oh, that must have been my friend.
• 39:56
  SPEAKER_00: Shout out to him.
• 39:58
  SPEAKER_00: My little friend.
• 39:59
  SPEAKER_00: The price of community is expensive to you because you're selfish.
• 40:03
  SPEAKER_00: I wanted to talk about this because people are always, I've been running across people in the last couple years that don't have no friends, right?
• 40:15
  SPEAKER_00: And they like to say, well, I don't feel like doing all that.
• 40:19
  SPEAKER_00: I don't feel like doing all that.
• 40:21
  SPEAKER_00: But then in the same breath, they complain that they don't have no friends.
• 40:24
  SPEAKER_00: Or they don't realize that pieces of their life is they're missing out on certain things because you don't have a community.
• 40:31
  SPEAKER_00: And it's too expensive to you because you are selfish.
• 40:34
  SPEAKER_00: You don't want to house it for a couple of hours.
• 40:37
  SPEAKER_00: Because you're a selfish ass bitch.
• 40:40
  SPEAKER_00: You don't want to go by somebody's house and just stop by for a few hours.
• 40:45
  SPEAKER_00: Because you're a selfish ass bitch.
• 40:46
  SPEAKER_00: You don't want to pick nobody up from the airport because you're a stanky asshole.
• 40:50
  SPEAKER_00: You don't want to loan nobody a hundred dollars so they get paid because you're a bitch.
• 40:54
  SPEAKER_00: And that's why that community is lacking.
• 40:56
  SPEAKER_00: Thoughts, comments, concerns.
• 40:57
  SPEAKER_00: We got to get up out of here.
• 41:03
  SPEAKER_03: Um I agree.
• 41:05
  SPEAKER_03: You you right.
• 41:06
  SPEAKER_03: Um Let the miserable people stay over there by themselves, you know.
• 41:10
  SPEAKER_03: That's what it is.
• 41:11
  SPEAKER_03: I mean, I I do feel like uh people, just like I said on the other show, like once you start getting out, if you in the phone and actually meeting people, like you know, things have probably changed for you.
• 41:26
  SPEAKER_00: A lot of things in life is not what you know, but who you know.
• 41:29
  SPEAKER_00: Yeah, that's true.
• 41:29
  SPEAKER_00: I have gotten so many leads on things just simply by who I know.
• 41:36
  SPEAKER_00: And whether we had deep friendships or not, just like, oh, I know her, just give it to her.
• 41:40
  SPEAKER_00: Like, that is literally how some people, how a lot of stuff rocks.
• 41:46
  SPEAKER_00: Also, I know that if I had an emergency, it's like 10 motherfuckers I could call that they going.
• 41:55
  SPEAKER_00: And I know that I'm in people's ten motherfuckers that they would call if they had an emergency.
• 42:03
  SPEAKER_00: Outside of an emergency, the the the input from what I get on my output of being in a community is priceless.
• 42:12
  SPEAKER_00: It it I cannot quantify what my community does for me.
• 42:19
  SPEAKER_00: Even when they ain't doing that, just by existing.
• 42:21
  SPEAKER_00: These people that don't have friends, are they taking pride in not having friends or is it coming from a on one hand they take the pride, but then again, on the second, on the other end For example, I used to be friends with this girl and this hoe fuck that hoe, but this hoe tried to make it seem like that I only got the love that I get because I'm fake.
• 42:43
  SPEAKER_00: And she feels like you're fake because you have so many friends.
• 42:46
  SPEAKER_00: Correct.
• 42:47
  SPEAKER_00: Okay Like you gotta be fake for that many people to like you.
• 42:51
  SPEAKER_00: To like you.
• 42:52
  SPEAKER_00: That's deep on her.
• 42:53
  SPEAKER_00: You're just a raging bitch.
• 42:54
  SPEAKER_00: Yeah.
• 42:55
  SPEAKER_00: And nobody likes you because she was trying to do content, she was trying to do something.
• 43:01
  SPEAKER_00: And it was like, I'm trying to encourage her, and she's like, Well, it's easy for you to say because in so many words, people fuck with whatever you do because you're fake.
• 43:09
  SPEAKER_01: Oh, okay.
• 43:11
  SPEAKER_00: But I keep it real.
• 43:12
  SPEAKER_00: So people are not gonna fuck with myself because I tell it like it is, I tell the truth.
• 43:15
  SPEAKER_00: So they're not gonna fuck.
• 43:17
  SPEAKER_00: No, you are a raging bitch.
• 43:18
  SPEAKER_00: I cultivate relationships with people, I support people, I contribute to this community that I'm in, and in return, they show me love.
• 43:27
  SPEAKER_00: And I just be doing dope shit.
• 43:29
  SPEAKER_00: Yo shit also sucks too.
• 43:30
  SPEAKER_00: But anyway, I just be cultivating dope experiences that people want to be a part of.
• 43:36
  SPEAKER_00: Yeah, nobody wants to be a part of you sitting online complaining all fucking day that people don't like you, but then saying you don't care people like you.
• 43:43
  SPEAKER_00: So anyway, thoughts.
• 43:46
  SPEAKER_04: Yeah, I was just gonna say, real simple, that like I think that community is is a necessary part of personal and professional development.
• 43:56
  SPEAKER_00: Yep.
• 43:57
  SPEAKER_00: That's another thing.
• 43:57
  SPEAKER_00: People like to say I'm just going to work and doing my job.
• 44:00
  SPEAKER_00: That's why you haven't seen a promotion.
• 44:02
  SPEAKER_00: That's why you haven't seen a raise.
• 44:04
  SPEAKER_00: That's why you haven't seen a lot of career growth because you just want unfortunately, extremely unfortunately, extremely unfortunately, you gots to play the game.
• 44:16
  SPEAKER_04: Sometimes you gotta bite that bullet and go to that happy hour afterwards or go to this.
• 44:20
  SPEAKER_00: You gotta ask how somebody kids doing.
• 44:23
  SPEAKER_00: You know, I had a professional conversation today.
• 44:25
  SPEAKER_00: We had a meeting the other day, and I don't even know how we got on it.
• 44:28
  SPEAKER_00: We were talking about the quality of beds on the call.
• 44:31
  SPEAKER_00: Like, if you got this kind of bed, da-da-da.
• 44:33
  SPEAKER_00: I don't even know how we got on it.
• 44:34
  SPEAKER_00: I had a follow-up call with the person today.
• 44:37
  SPEAKER_00: The first thing I said was today's Monday.
• 44:39
  SPEAKER_00: I said, How'd you sleep over the weekend?
• 44:42
  SPEAKER_00: Oh my God, you around Simple.
• 44:46
  SPEAKER_00: It's just a little game you gotta play, child.
• 44:49
  SPEAKER_00: Just play the game.
• 44:50
  SPEAKER_00: If you if you want the benefits from a community, which I think But you can't do both.
• 44:54
  SPEAKER_02: You can't not be a part of the community and complain, is what you're gonna do.
• 44:58
  SPEAKER_00: Correct.
• 44:58
  SPEAKER_00: And you cannot be a part of a community and contribute nothing.
• 45:01
  SPEAKER_02: Yeah.
• 45:02
  SPEAKER_02: But and expect things to just work out in your favor.
• 45:05
  SPEAKER_00: Expect things to line up, expect people to do show up for you.
• 45:09
  SPEAKER_00: Yeah, to show up.
• 45:10
  SPEAKER_00: Like you gotta participate in the community.
• 45:12
  SPEAKER_00: And sometimes, I'm not gonna lie, sometimes I don't want to.
• 45:16
  SPEAKER_00: My place in my main community is I provide space for people to literally and figuratively, whether it's to come to my space if they're having a bad day, come to my space if they're having a good day, come to my space if it's their birthday.
• 45:31
  SPEAKER_00: I provide a space.
• 45:33
  SPEAKER_00: They can always call.
• 45:34
  SPEAKER_00: Y'all know if y'all text me at any time, most likely you're gonna get a reply.
• 45:38
  SPEAKER_00: Like, and I know that as well.
• 45:39
  SPEAKER_00: One night I text Shannon, this is so funny.
• 45:41
  SPEAKER_00: One night I text Shannon and I was on the Okay, I'm gonna tell y'all this.
• 45:45
  SPEAKER_00: This is so funny.
• 45:46
  SPEAKER_00: It's it's it's not funny, but it's funny.
• 45:48
  SPEAKER_00: I was up late one night and I was depressed, right?
• 45:52
  SPEAKER_00: And it was like 2-3 in the morning.
• 45:54
  SPEAKER_00: And I wanted somebody to talk to, but everybody, I I assumed everybody was asleep, but I had to talk that night.
• 45:59
  SPEAKER_00: I gotta get this out.
• 46:00
  SPEAKER_00: So I called the suicide highlight.
• 46:04
  SPEAKER_00: Are you telling this story?
• 46:05
  SPEAKER_00: Oh my god.
• 46:06
  SPEAKER_00: Not suicidal, but I didn't have nobody else to talk to.
• 46:11
  SPEAKER_04: Just wasting the people's minutes.
• 46:12
  SPEAKER_00: So I was like, well, they are trained to talk about crises, right?
• 46:17
  SPEAKER_00: So I'm gonna call them and just talk, bitch.
• 46:19
  SPEAKER_00: I need to talk and I need somebody to talk back.
• 46:21
  SPEAKER_00: And and I really wanted somebody I didn't know because I wanted an unbiased opinion.
• 46:25
  SPEAKER_00: If it wasn't three in the morning, I probably would try to schedule me a therapy session.
• 46:28
  SPEAKER_00: Anyway, so I called and they asked me a couple questions and then they put me a hole.
• 46:32
  SPEAKER_00: Like a couple, like, are you a woman?
• 46:34
  SPEAKER_00: You know, some stuff I could press in the thing, and they put me a hole.
• 46:36
  SPEAKER_00: So I put the phone on speaker.
• 46:38
  SPEAKER_00: Bitch, I didn't wash the dishes, I done did this, I done made it my bed, I done rolled me a blunt.
• 46:43
  SPEAKER_00: And bitch, they still did not pick up the fucking phone.
• 46:46
  SPEAKER_00: It was like 45 minutes later.
• 46:48
  SPEAKER_00: So I text her and I said, bitch, I'm on the high line.
• 46:52
  SPEAKER_00: Da da da da da.
• 46:55
  SPEAKER_00: And she was like, bitch, hang up that fucking phone with your stupid ass.
• 46:58
  SPEAKER_00: Anyway, the point is, I was able to text my friend at three in the morning, and we didn't even talk about what the fuck I called the highlight for.
• 47:05
  SPEAKER_00: But by the end of it, I was laughing, I was talking, and we was planning some shit for the show.
• 47:09
  SPEAKER_00: Like, the whole thing had changed.
• 47:11
  SPEAKER_00: And so my point is, she texts me sometimes, like, bitch, I'm going, I'm gonna go skits at three in the, you know, like we have that thing that we can do.
• 47:20
  SPEAKER_00: So all of these people that refuse to participate in community, I I mean, y'all are better than me.
• 47:26
  SPEAKER_00: I don't know where I'd be without my community.
• 47:29
  SPEAKER_00: And that's family, friends, and everybody.
• 47:32
  SPEAKER_00: Get you some community.
• 47:33
  SPEAKER_00: That's my message.
• 47:33
  SPEAKER_00: Anyways, let's go.
• 47:34
  SPEAKER_00: That's all the mess for today, child.
• 47:35
  SPEAKER_00: Let's move on to the honey pot.
• 47:36
  SPEAKER_00: I gotta go get me some check on.
• 47:38
  SPEAKER_00: Sweet answers to tough questions.
• 47:40
  SPEAKER_00: Audience, please send me a question.
• 47:41
  SPEAKER_00: Thank you to everybody that's been doing it.
• 47:42
  SPEAKER_00: Y'all can put in the comment section on the show or y'all can email in the description.
• 47:46
  SPEAKER_00: Personal questions, relationship questions, messy questions, anything.
• 47:49
  SPEAKER_00: Just send them in.
• 47:49
  SPEAKER_00: And if you want to be anonymous, please let us know.
• 47:51
  SPEAKER_00: I would love to hear from the pot heads.
• 47:54
  SPEAKER_00: All right, honey pot question.
• 47:56
  SPEAKER_00: Natalia Grace via email.
• 47:58
  SPEAKER_00: Hey, killer.
• 47:59
  SPEAKER_00: I'm gonna keep it short.
• 48:01
  SPEAKER_00: How long should you wait until after a relationship or marriage to start dating?
• 48:05
  SPEAKER_00: Immediately, bitch.
• 48:07
  SPEAKER_00: Immediately.
• 48:08
  SPEAKER_00: Absolutely.
• 48:09
  SPEAKER_00: How long should you wait today after a relationship or marriage ends to start dating?
• 48:15
  SPEAKER_00: Start dating immediately.
• 48:18
  SPEAKER_00: Start dating immediately.
• 48:19
  SPEAKER_00: I am sick of people.
• 48:21
  SPEAKER_00: I'ma specifically talk about women, but I guess I can talk about people too.
• 48:25
  SPEAKER_00: I'm sick, okay.
• 48:26
  SPEAKER_00: I think you need to take some time to process what just happened, how did it make me feel?
• 48:31
  SPEAKER_00: What can I do differently next time?
• 48:33
  SPEAKER_00: And what do I want?
• 48:35
  SPEAKER_00: I think you can take some time to process those.
• 48:37
  SPEAKER_00: After that, it's time to get back outside.
• 48:39
  SPEAKER_00: Life is for the living, bitch.
• 48:41
  SPEAKER_00: I'm tired of watching people, especially women.
• 48:44
  SPEAKER_00: And I know it's hard because these people be doing all kinds of bullshit.
• 48:47
  SPEAKER_00: They be having you pregnant, they talking to other bitches, they be doing, they be doing some things.
• 48:53
  SPEAKER_00: But if you're gonna date, go outside.
• 48:56
  SPEAKER_00: Have a little fun with the dating.
• 48:58
  SPEAKER_00: Maybe this time you don't need a serious monogamous comedian relationship.
• 49:02
  SPEAKER_00: Maybe you just need a little friend that you see once a month or something.
• 49:05
  SPEAKER_00: But I am tired of watching people go into these deep dark holes for months and years over dating.
• 49:14
  SPEAKER_00: The person that you dated most likely dated moved on, sweetheart.
• 49:19
  SPEAKER_00: You need to do the same.
• 49:21
  SPEAKER_00: It's time to get back outside.
• 49:23
  SPEAKER_02: Thoughts?
• 49:24
  SPEAKER_02: Maybe don't force it, but um if it's available, absolutely.
• 49:28
  SPEAKER_02: Dive in.
• 49:29
  SPEAKER_02: Oh, yeah.
• 49:29
  SPEAKER_00: I don't think you should force anything.
• 49:30
  SPEAKER_00: No, it needs to be real.
• 49:32
  SPEAKER_02: Yeah, if it's available and you have somebody lined up, talk to that nigga.
• 49:34
  SPEAKER_02: Talk to that bitch.
• 49:35
  SPEAKER_02: Just keep it going.
• 49:36
  SPEAKER_02: Like, don't sit and sulk and rethink what that nigga or that bitch was doing to you over and over and over.
• 49:42
  SPEAKER_02: Get back outside immediately.
• 49:43
  SPEAKER_04: I mean, it's easier said than done, but like I feel like my mind comes in ways.
• 49:48
  SPEAKER_04: So I need my friends first, and then I need like, you know, then I can like start dating.
• 49:54
  SPEAKER_04: So like dating doesn't have to be towards anything sexual, romantic, or marriage.
• 50:01
  SPEAKER_04: I can date my friends, which I've done.
• 50:03
  SPEAKER_04: You know what I mean?
• 50:04
  SPEAKER_00: And so like Oh, I love y'all, but y'all not gonna suck it.
• 50:07
  SPEAKER_00: I need I I need to date.
• 50:12
  SPEAKER_00: I love y'all dearly.
• 50:14
  SPEAKER_00: I do, but you're not gonna suck it.
• 50:16
  SPEAKER_00: I've I've watched y'all not suck it.
• 50:18
  SPEAKER_00: I watched y'all not suck it for years.
• 50:22
  SPEAKER_00: Oh, what you think?
• 50:23
  SPEAKER_00: Hurry up.
• 50:25
  SPEAKER_03: Uh jump, yeah, jump back out there.
• 50:27
  SPEAKER_03: Do your little healing first.
• 50:28
  SPEAKER_02: What does healing look like though?
• 50:30
  SPEAKER_02: What is it?
• 50:31
  SPEAKER_02: Do it at the same time.
• 50:32
  SPEAKER_02: Can they do it at the same time?
• 50:33
  SPEAKER_02: Like heal while they're no.
• 50:36
  SPEAKER_03: Heal how you heal.
• 50:38
  SPEAKER_02: Okay.
• 50:38
  SPEAKER_02: I like that before.
• 50:41
  SPEAKER_03: I'm just saying, you gotta do some healing though.
• 50:43
  SPEAKER_03: Like you can't just be out here with these wounds like this, and you know what I'm saying?
• 50:48
  SPEAKER_03: And somebody might approach you in a in a in a way that that not even you know how you taking it, just because of how you're not ready.
• 50:56
  SPEAKER_03: Yeah, yeah.
• 50:57
  SPEAKER_01: So I'll get that.
• 51:00
  SPEAKER_03: Well, take care of yourself.
• 51:01
  SPEAKER_03: I'm outside, bitch.
• 51:02
  SPEAKER_00: If we break up today, I'm outside today.
• 51:03
  SPEAKER_02: Yeah, don't deprive yourself because of time.
• 51:05
  SPEAKER_02: Like, I need to give myself six months.
• 51:06
  SPEAKER_02: No, no, no.
• 51:07
  SPEAKER_00: I went through a breakup once, and an old friend of mine was like, girl, you really just need to take a bitch.
• 51:11
  SPEAKER_00: Shut the fuck up, bitch.
• 51:12
  SPEAKER_00: I didn't ask you to get some time to yourself.
• 51:14
  SPEAKER_00: No, no, the fuck I don't, bitch.
• 51:16
  SPEAKER_00: You need to be a loved one.
• 51:16
  SPEAKER_00: I've been by myself in this relationship already, bitch.
• 51:19
  SPEAKER_00: I'm outside.
• 51:20
  SPEAKER_00: You're ready to be loved on.
• 51:21
  SPEAKER_00: I'm outside.
• 51:22
  SPEAKER_00: I'm I need somebody.
• 51:24
  SPEAKER_00: I know I'm a rebound.
• 51:25
  SPEAKER_00: Use a you my rebound, boo.
• 51:27
  SPEAKER_00: I I need you, I need a transition dick.
• 51:30
  SPEAKER_00: Transition.
• 51:34
  SPEAKER_00: You my transition dick till I get to where I'm going.
• 51:38
  SPEAKER_00: And that's cool, because you be the rebound for somebody.
• 51:40
  SPEAKER_00: I ain't lying to nobody.
• 51:41
  SPEAKER_00: I'm keeping it real.
• 51:42
  SPEAKER_00: But all of that, hey, baby, it be people online talking about the same man from two years ago, sweetheart, talking about it in a way of like how much they broke you down.
• 51:52
  SPEAKER_00: It's it's good to take stock to say last relationship I was in, uh-uh.
• 51:57
  SPEAKER_00: It went like this, and I ain't mean it like that.
• 51:59
  SPEAKER_00: But and it's and remember, because I feel like too, you get out of a relationship, you're like, this was shit I'm not going for no more.
• 52:06
  SPEAKER_00: And then you get kind of desperate.
• 52:08
  SPEAKER_02: Oh, okay.
• 52:09
  SPEAKER_00: Because it's been a while.
• 52:12
  SPEAKER_00: And you start accepting, you start forgetting what you said the last time it was over.
• 52:19
  SPEAKER_00: So I think it is really imperative to take that stock, stick to what you said, but move on and quickly.
• 52:26
  SPEAKER_00: Again, that power, that pivot.
• 52:29
  SPEAKER_00: That's the closing.
• 52:30
  SPEAKER_00: Learn how to move on a little quicker, baby.
• 52:32
  SPEAKER_00: Write it down, burn it, play three love songs, and sit there pussy out.
• 52:38
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• 52:40
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• 52:42
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• 52:46
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• 52:49
  SPEAKER_00: Thank y'all for coming to my tea party.
• 52:55
  SPEAKER_00: See y'all next week.
• 52:57
  SPEAKER_00: Bye.