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Nigel Battle - Finding Love On The Set of 'For The Love of DILFS' · Cats & Pudding with Jennifer Dilandro

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  Speaker 1: I mean, you never believe that people are really going
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  Speaker 1: to find love on a show because it's all out there.
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  Speaker 2: It's crazy because how did my third time happen on
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  Speaker 2: a show? Like?
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  Speaker 3: How did I have to share this?
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  Speaker 4: Holy?
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  Speaker 2: Like as if falling in love and caring for someone
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  Speaker 2: is not intimate and sensitive enough. I did it in
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  Speaker 2: front of a whole crew, a whole cast, and it
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  Speaker 2: like it changed me forever.
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  Speaker 3: This year Cats and Butting podcast a melting pot. And
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  Speaker 3: now here's Jen.
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  Speaker 1: Good afternoon, everybody, and welcome to Cats and Pudding. And
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  Speaker 1: on today's episode, I have a great guess it's Nigel
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  Speaker 1: Battle and he's on a hot new show called For
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  Speaker 1: the Love of Dilfs And welcome today, Nigel.
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  Speaker 4: I'm so happy to have you.
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  Speaker 2: Thank you so much. I'm so excited to be here.
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  Speaker 2: Soon as I met you, I knew we had to
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  Speaker 2: do this. We could not stop talking, So now we
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  Speaker 2: have a place to do it.
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  Speaker 3: Listen.
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  Speaker 4: I love the gays. That was my peeps. Man. Yeah,
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  Speaker 4: I identify as a gay man.
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  Speaker 3: I love that.
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  Speaker 4: That's why, That's what I should have been.
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  Speaker 2: Well, that's explaining because I'm one of the guysts.
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  Speaker 3: Now this explain. Yeah, explain things.
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  Speaker 4: To get what is that from me? And girls? Too
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  Speaker 4: gay to function?
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  Speaker 2: Even past that, even past that, I cannot keep it
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  Speaker 2: in to gay a function, Yeah, I cannot hold back.
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  Speaker 3: I just get gayer as a get older. I love that.
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  Speaker 4: It's so funny. I'm like, I'm not using this microphone.
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  Speaker 4: I'm like Italian, so I'm waiting for me to like
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  Speaker 4: smack my head. Yeah I move.
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  Speaker 3: I talked with my hands, so I'm like trying not.
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  Speaker 4: To have to sit on.
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  Speaker 1: So tell me, tell me all about the show. How
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  Speaker 1: did you get involved with it? Do you do you
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  Speaker 1: like dyl normally? Do you like that you know dads
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  Speaker 1: that older men? Is that?
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  Speaker 4: Is that a thing for you?
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, you know, I love all types of men. The
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  Speaker 2: show is actually two subcategories. So you have your daddies
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  Speaker 2: and you have your himbos, and then they're competing. So
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  Speaker 2: himbos are like a younger like like, yes, a male
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  Speaker 2: version of a bimbo per se. So you got those
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  Speaker 2: two subcategories on the show. And I like daddies and
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  Speaker 2: I like himbos. But I did fall into the category
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  Speaker 2: of a daddy on season two.
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  Speaker 1: Yes, I like daddy, So I always liked a little
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  Speaker 1: bit older man.
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  Speaker 2: Yes, and my daddy era I want to be Yeah, yes,
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  Speaker 2: not quite there yet but my way. Yeah, we do
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  Speaker 2: have a summer fox in the house though. He was amazing.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, oh I met him.
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  Speaker 3: Who's cube?
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  Speaker 1: Yeah?
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  Speaker 4: Him on the show.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, I don't.
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  Speaker 4: I think too old is a little creepy.
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  Speaker 1: But you know, ten, fifteen maybe years old or is okay,
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  Speaker 1: But yeah, it's going like twenty thirty years old, it's
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  Speaker 1: a little creepy.
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  Speaker 4: I'm dating a dad.
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  Speaker 2: Like, yeah, little creepy these days, you really can't tell.
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  Speaker 2: Like it's really like as long as you're carrying yourself
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  Speaker 2: well and the vibe is there. I'm not you know,
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  Speaker 2: I'm not going to ask you too much, but we
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  Speaker 2: could just find.
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  Speaker 1: But honestly, if you think about it, if you're going
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  Speaker 1: out with somebody much older than you, I feel like,
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  Speaker 1: what do I What would I talk about to somebody
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  Speaker 1: like with the twenty thirty years on me? For me,
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  Speaker 1: I have kids that are like that age show. I'm like,
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  Speaker 1: I feel like I was dating my Yeah, so my kids,
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  Speaker 1: my daughter's boyfriend or something. I think it's kind of
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  Speaker 1: a little bit different. So I guess a mother, I
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  Speaker 1: don't know. I look at it that way.
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  Speaker 3: For sure, some months can but for sure.
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  Speaker 1: I mean we've had many scandals that I've had them
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  Speaker 1: dating like this, Jada Pickett, there you go.
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  Speaker 3: Right messy, very messy.
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  Speaker 4: So tell me about the dilf that you liked on
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  Speaker 4: the show.
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  Speaker 2: Yes, So I get matched up with himbo and on
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  Speaker 2: episode one, and it was so unexpected for me because
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  Speaker 2: I went into the house being like the only like
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  Speaker 2: bear Daddy per se, the only bigger, thicker failure. All
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  Speaker 2: that energy was not around me. It was more so
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  Speaker 2: like abs really great bodies. So I was like, oh,
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  Speaker 2: like I was just you know, do a couple of
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  Speaker 2: episodes and just be happy to be part of it,
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  Speaker 2: you know. But I ended up with someone who liked
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  Speaker 2: my specific body type. We clicked immediately, and ironically, like
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  Speaker 2: I like, I probably have fallen in love, like I
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  Speaker 2: would say, three times, and this is literally my third show.
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  Speaker 3: I'm thirty two. Yeah this is my third time.
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  Speaker 2: I counted as the third time, but I just it's
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  Speaker 2: crazy because how did my third time happen on the show?
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  Speaker 2: Like how did I have to share this whole? Like
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  Speaker 2: as if falling in love and caring for someone is
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  Speaker 2: not intimate and sensitive and now I did it in
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  Speaker 2: front of a whole crew, a whole cast, and it
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  Speaker 2: like it changed me forever.
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  Speaker 4: I know you still together.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, So I always say like that, I always want
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  Speaker 2: to I don't want to be like, oh, like wait
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  Speaker 2: till the next episode type thing. But even if I
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  Speaker 2: were to give a specific tuttle, but we are right now,
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  Speaker 2: it wouldn't make sense if you don't character with the episode.
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  Speaker 2: There's so much that happens that we're so open about it.
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  Speaker 2: We share the good, we share the bad. We're very
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  Speaker 2: open about our experiences in the episodes that have come out.
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  Speaker 2: So as long as people just follow along, they'll be like,
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  Speaker 2: there'll be no questions once we get to the end
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  Speaker 2: tire thing.
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  Speaker 4: So that's that's really great.
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  Speaker 1: So it's like, I mean, you never believe that people
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  Speaker 1: are really going to find love on a show because
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  Speaker 1: it's all out there, you know, and it's like everybody's
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  Speaker 1: watching and it's kind of scripted. Like even on like
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  Speaker 1: a show like The Bachelor, what do you go on
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  Speaker 1: one date with the person and it's like you have
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  Speaker 1: to figure out if you are in love with them
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  Speaker 1: or are you going to marry them?
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  Speaker 2: It's an accelerated like program. It's very it's very like Cam. Yeah,
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  Speaker 2: it moves very quickly. And that's why like the commentstribing
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  Speaker 2: scene because they're like, how could you fall so quickly?
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  Speaker 3: I'm like, we couldn't leave, like we were there. All
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  Speaker 3: I saw was him. Yeah, So I felt and I
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  Speaker 3: felt hard.
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  Speaker 2: I'm not going to apologize for that, you know what
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  Speaker 2: I mean, that's just this is what happened.
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  Speaker 1: Well, that's that's awesome, that's that's You went on the
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  Speaker 1: show for this, right, No, it was just a hook up, right.
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  Speaker 4: You aren't looking and just to hook up with somebody.
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  Speaker 2: No, And I've stated that like before coming on the show,
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  Speaker 2: I was very much happily at my slut era, like
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  Speaker 2: I love hooking up. I was loving I was coming in. Yeah,
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  Speaker 2: I was coming into loving my body and experiencing those
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  Speaker 2: experiences with loving myself, which is different than you know,
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  Speaker 2: having experiences and not loving yourself. So I was really
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  Speaker 2: loving myself, loving my body. So when I came in
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  Speaker 2: for this, I was like, Oh, this is an opportunity
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  Speaker 2: to actually get to know someone past the physical connection
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  Speaker 2: because I was only doing.
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  Speaker 1: Physical Because I have to say, in the gay community,
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  Speaker 1: I find it it's it's very A lot has to
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  Speaker 1: do with superficiality, but you're still dealing with men, and
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  Speaker 1: that's how men are. And I see that they're very
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  Speaker 1: into their bodies. Say, look, listen. If somebody looks better
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  Speaker 1: in the mirror than I do, like, I have a
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  Speaker 1: problem with I'm sorry, I have a total problem with that.
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  Speaker 4: I don't want somebody pretty in the me.
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  Speaker 1: I mean I don't, that's not I don't like that.
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  Speaker 1: I want to be a prettier one, so you know, equally,
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  Speaker 1: But if somebody's like, you know, better than mine, I'm like, dude, no,
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  Speaker 1: I'm sorry about that.
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  Speaker 3: Oh my gosh. Interesting. I feel like I could deal
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  Speaker 3: with that, I know.
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  Speaker 2: I just you can you feel better than me and
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  Speaker 2: that's fine, and I'll just whether away.
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  Speaker 3: You can look, you know, because they look.
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  Speaker 1: At it like this, it'sas it looks feed So you know,
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  Speaker 1: what's connecting you is going to be emotional. And if
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  Speaker 1: somebody doesn't make me laugh, if you're I don't care
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  Speaker 1: how good looking you are. If you're boring, your your
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  Speaker 1: status goes from here to hear.
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  Speaker 3: I'm like, yes, I say that all the time.
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  Speaker 2: Personalities fall so flat these days, and it bothers me
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  Speaker 2: because the looks in the outfits begiving.
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  Speaker 3: But I'm like, what's in here? What are we doing?
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  Speaker 1: But I look great for an Instagram photo right right,
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  Speaker 1: you know, But what's then after? Yes, And I think
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  Speaker 1: that that's probably part of the reason why things people
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  Speaker 1: are like this now, because everything is.
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  Speaker 4: So superficial on social media.
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  Speaker 1: Like it's like you're you're always like in that moment
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  Speaker 1: of taking, it's not it's nothing becomes real.
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  Speaker 4: I feel like I feel like there's no deep depth. Yes,
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  Speaker 4: I forgot.
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  Speaker 1: I feel bad for you guys in this generation. It's
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  Speaker 1: hard to find somebody with depth.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, it's it's bad.
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  Speaker 2: And I like to give myself, like all those reminders
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  Speaker 2: to step away, take my D and D days. Live
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  Speaker 2: but live life, you know. Oh my goodness. I was
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  Speaker 2: a mama's boy growing up, for sure. I lost her
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  Speaker 2: in January unfortunately. Yeah, so I'm we're so close, you know,
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  Speaker 2: we have a more spiritual connection now on what we
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  Speaker 2: had while she was here kind of carried over.
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  Speaker 3: But yeah, I was.
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  Speaker 2: I went into the mansion four months after losing my mom.
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  Speaker 2: So a lot of my reactions on camera, a lot
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  Speaker 2: of the way I show who I am. It's because
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  Speaker 2: I had no guard I went I already went broken,
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  Speaker 2: I already went open. I've already been through the worst.
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  Speaker 2: So what's gonna you know, what happened?
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  Speaker 4: What's I watch my mom too very young, so I
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  Speaker 4: I both my parents. So it's it's hard.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, it's it's It's one of the hardest things in
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  Speaker 2: the world.
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  Speaker 3: Absolutely. Yeah.
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  Speaker 2: So throw a rally television show pressure cooker on top
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  Speaker 2: of that, and don't ask me why I'm crying. I'm
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  Speaker 2: going through it. I was going through it before I
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  Speaker 2: got there.
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  Speaker 1: Are already emotional before you got Yeah, well, she's with you, absolutely,
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  Speaker 1: But I feel that because when somebody has that positive,
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  Speaker 1: you know, relationship with their mother, especially, you kind of
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  Speaker 1: know as as as somebody wanting a relationship because they
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  Speaker 1: give you that that ability to want that relationship, you
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  Speaker 1: feel like. So that's why I could tell you probably
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  Speaker 1: were very very close to you.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, and very loved. I mean, came out age twelve,
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  Speaker 2: always supported every dream I had, anything I ever wanted
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  Speaker 2: to do.
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  Speaker 3: I'm very blessed.
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  Speaker 2: A lot of my friends were being thrown out at
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  Speaker 2: that time for being gay, for being feminine, for liking
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  Speaker 2: Britney spears talking with us vice girls like you got
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  Speaker 2: me a fun of for that, you got thrown out
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  Speaker 2: in my house. I was I was loved, I was appreciated,
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  Speaker 2: and the things that I'm doing now are because of
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  Speaker 2: the way I was raised.
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  Speaker 3: I was just like, so well loved you.
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  Speaker 4: Only are you the only child or.
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  Speaker 3: You I have a sister?
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, it was just the two of you. I have
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  Speaker 4: three girls.
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  Speaker 1: I always wanted to sound and I and I want
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  Speaker 1: one one straight out of one gate. I always want.
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  Speaker 1: And my nephew was is gay, so I always took
• 9:05
  Speaker 1: he was like, oh my god, my heart. I said
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  Speaker 1: that kid made me laugh every day and I just
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  Speaker 1: adored him, Like I said, I need I said, that's
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  Speaker 1: what I did.
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  Speaker 4: I said, I needed a gay song in my life.
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  Speaker 3: I have to get youth. That's that's where it starts.
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  Speaker 3: I really feel like that, Like you have to keep
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  Speaker 3: him in that bubble. You have to keep them.
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  Speaker 2: Love makes them they feel like they're okay, they're normal,
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  Speaker 2: and then that's how you.
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  Speaker 3: Have a successful child.
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  Speaker 2: You know, they're not going to do anything if they
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  Speaker 2: don't feel important and loved and seen.
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  Speaker 4: That's the biggest job for a parent. That's what you
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  Speaker 4: have to you just love your children. That's it.
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  Speaker 1: That's all you have to do is make them feel loved.
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  Speaker 1: And then look what you have. You have somebody I.
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  Speaker 3: Like to you are.
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  Speaker 4: You're a total example.
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  Speaker 1: What how did you feel about Stolemy Daniels as the host?
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  Speaker 2: Oh my gosh, I was so nervous about that because
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  Speaker 2: I'm horrible.
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  Speaker 4: I'm sorry, you know wreck.
• 10:00
  Speaker 2: It was the Florida's sun really took an effect on
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  Speaker 2: our hair and our skin and some of the things that.
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  Speaker 4: You know, something else took effect on her.
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  Speaker 3: It wasn't we were hot. It was long days. Listen,
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  Speaker 3: we did the best of you.
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  Speaker 1: She was wearing a crown on the first episode when
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  Speaker 1: she walked in, right when she was it was I
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  Speaker 1: don't know why she's wearing a crowd because she looks
• 10:18
  Speaker 1: like a trade wreck.
• 10:20
  Speaker 2: She had hair on staff like hair assistance. But I
• 10:25
  Speaker 2: feel like the humidity was so bad, like they were
• 10:28
  Speaker 2: there fixing it. So it was just like it was
• 10:29
  Speaker 2: an and even in all of us, like we're all
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  Speaker 2: dripping sweat.
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  Speaker 3: If you look at I have a.
• 10:34
  Speaker 2: Sweat scene on my whole back on one scene. Because
• 10:36
  Speaker 2: I have a huge TV. I watched the show on
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  Speaker 2: at home and I'm sitting there looking at my big
• 10:40
  Speaker 2: sweat scene and I'm like, okay, we were just struggling.
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  Speaker 4: Like TVs.
• 10:44
  Speaker 1: You see every creach day, Yeah, lemage from my birth
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  Speaker 1: on there.
• 10:48
  Speaker 2: You see every hair follicle on my face and my hair.
• 10:50
  Speaker 2: It's very it's invasive, and you know, for what it's worth,
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  Speaker 2: Ten to twelve hours are set on day, every day,
• 10:57
  Speaker 2: days at a time. She killed it and we did,
• 11:00
  Speaker 2: can't you know what I mean? Like, it's hard. That
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  Speaker 2: was the part. People are always like, what what was
• 11:05
  Speaker 2: shocking to you? The amount of work You're up, You're
• 11:08
  Speaker 2: on set, you're filming, you're doing a scene, your break,
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  Speaker 2: another scene, challenge, break, scene eliminations.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, it's not like it was. I thought it'd be
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  Speaker 3: like a communication.
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  Speaker 1: Three minutes of filming takes ten hours, and that's what happened.
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  Speaker 4: So I have to get it right.
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  Speaker 3: So for what it's where she did, she did, She
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  Speaker 3: killed it and.
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  Speaker 4: Who was like your favorite sexy dad? Sexy? Are they
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  Speaker 4: calling them dads?
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  Speaker 2: The adulfs one of my favorite daddy to write that
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  Speaker 2: I like to fund that is the acronym.
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  Speaker 3: Yes it is.
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  Speaker 4: You know what, I don't even think I'm a milf anymore.
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  Speaker 1: I think I want to be a guilt now because
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  Speaker 1: I'm gonna have grandchrial, so I'll be a guilt that's
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  Speaker 1: fucked up.
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  Speaker 4: That's pretty sad.
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  Speaker 2: It's so funny because I feel like there's like more
• 11:53
  Speaker 2: power behind the word daddy than people realize. Like it's like, oh,
• 11:56
  Speaker 2: like you have to be at a certain age or
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  Speaker 2: you have to like be like a big man with
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  Speaker 2: a mustache. Like no, like you have daddy energy. Daddy
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  Speaker 2: energy is basically just like boss ask. Yeah, that's what
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  Speaker 2: I mean, Like anyone can really.
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  Speaker 3: Like be a daddy.
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  Speaker 2: So I love that they have those subcultures on the
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  Speaker 2: show when it helps it to look cute. But at
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  Speaker 2: the end of the day, like I want people to realize,
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  Speaker 2: like everyone has that daddy in them, like you know
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  Speaker 2: what I mean, Like it's just like it's an energy,
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  Speaker 2: but it is.
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  Speaker 1: It is. My girls made fund of me one time
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  Speaker 1: because I used to call my my my ex husband.
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  Speaker 4: Daddy and they're like, mom, that.
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  Speaker 1: Is so creepy because now what I call him daddy,
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  Speaker 1: I'm thinking of something sexual and it's horrible, and you know,
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  Speaker 1: kids never want to think about it. Yeah, together that
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  Speaker 1: it's like like the worst thing in the world.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, So it's.
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  Speaker 2: Like but it's it's just taking so many forms. That's
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  Speaker 2: that's Daddy. Like, that's there's different versions of Daddy.
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  Speaker 4: You know, can ice cream.
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  Speaker 2: It's taken a lot of forms. It's confusing.
• 12:52
  Speaker 4: And how was it? How was like the place she
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  Speaker 4: was staying was it was what was it?
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  Speaker 2: Florida vis We were inde I goodness beautiful. That was
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  Speaker 2: part of how I was able to get through the
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  Speaker 2: competition because I became so high strung in the challenges
• 13:08
  Speaker 2: and as a competitor, because I was like, I'm not leaving. Like,
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  Speaker 2: there's three catered meals, We're in a mansion, the sun
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  Speaker 2: is sunning.
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  Speaker 3: I'm feeling like I'm not leaving.
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  Speaker 4: To stay on a vacation.
• 13:18
  Speaker 3: There's a guy here. We're feeling each other. I have love,
• 13:21
  Speaker 3: I have the mansion, I have everything I need. Yeah,
• 13:23
  Speaker 3: I was like, I'm not leaving. It was amazing the production.
• 13:26
  Speaker 3: Shout out to Daddy TV.
• 13:27
  Speaker 2: They really they fed us, They kept us anything we needed.
• 13:31
  Speaker 2: They were very attentive to our needs. And that's the
• 13:34
  Speaker 2: time in your life where you need attention that in
• 13:36
  Speaker 2: that way, you know what I mean, so it worked
• 13:37
  Speaker 2: out perfectly. You They're always like, oh, do you need anything.
• 13:39
  Speaker 2: In the first couple of days, it's like, no, I'm good.
• 13:41
  Speaker 2: And then as time's progressing, I was like, actually I need.
• 13:44
  Speaker 1: That below Zack, And they were asking us like what
• 13:48
  Speaker 1: we what we wanted was a special thing that we
• 13:51
  Speaker 1: needed on the on the ship because we would go
• 13:53
  Speaker 1: we did the one in Mediterranean and everybody's writing on
• 13:56
  Speaker 1: the email we're feed and the writing these things I
• 13:58
  Speaker 1: want this, I want that. I said, I want fruity pebbles.
• 14:02
  Speaker 1: I was like, that's what I want. I need my
• 14:03
  Speaker 1: fruity pebbles.
• 14:04
  Speaker 2: Whatever makes you comp Yeah, I have to have that
• 14:07
  Speaker 2: with me because you're out of your element when you're
• 14:09
  Speaker 2: doing something like that. So for production to realize that
• 14:11
  Speaker 2: and like give you what you need to be comfortable,
• 14:13
  Speaker 2: I was like, okay, I'll stay a while.
• 14:15
  Speaker 4: And you got along.
• 14:16
  Speaker 1: How about the rest of the cast, I was like,
• 14:18
  Speaker 1: dealing with the other Zelda's that you weren't involved, did
• 14:20
  Speaker 1: you guys? Did you guys interact a lot with each
• 14:23
  Speaker 1: other as full everybody like branched off with their their
• 14:27
  Speaker 1: significant daddy or their significant hymbo.
• 14:29
  Speaker 2: Yes, well we had we had time to be with
• 14:32
  Speaker 2: our himbos and daddies, and then we also had a
• 14:35
  Speaker 2: lot of group.
• 14:35
  Speaker 4: Time, so pready group sex, I don't think.
• 14:38
  Speaker 3: So that would have been fun, right.
• 14:42
  Speaker 4: I would have been a totally different show that it would.
• 14:44
  Speaker 2: Have been exactly And there would have been a lot
• 14:46
  Speaker 2: of eliminations the next day as well, because if the
• 14:49
  Speaker 2: other partner wasn't consenting to that, that could be a whole
• 14:51
  Speaker 2: different mass when people are going home, So that's you know,
• 14:53
  Speaker 2: you're living your life there, which are also like it's
• 14:56
  Speaker 2: a competition. So I remember at one point asking production
• 14:59
  Speaker 2: because I didn't I would fall for Rico or whatever
• 15:01
  Speaker 2: the himbo, but I was that's exactly what it is, delicious.
• 15:07
  Speaker 2: I remember asking them like, oh, like, would I can
• 15:10
  Speaker 2: in trouble if I like hooked up with a daddy,
• 15:12
  Speaker 2: Like if if I fall for a daddy, like what happens?
• 15:14
  Speaker 2: And they were like, oh, like, just be prepared to
• 15:16
  Speaker 2: be eliminated because the competition that you need a daddy
• 15:18
  Speaker 2: in the himbo. So like if that, if you were
• 15:20
  Speaker 2: to do that, you're just you're jeopardizing myself.
• 15:22
  Speaker 1: Wait, you have to have you have to go go
• 15:25
  Speaker 1: state both date both okay, so.
• 15:27
  Speaker 4: One himbo and adult and adult, so.
• 15:29
  Speaker 2: One hembro matches with a daddy and then that's gotcha. Okay,
• 15:32
  Speaker 2: so then the last one remaining type thing goes home
• 15:34
  Speaker 2: that week. Like there's always some anoto man out.
• 15:36
  Speaker 4: Right thing, I gotcha.
• 15:38
  Speaker 1: So it was so it was fun. So, I mean,
• 15:40
  Speaker 1: I know it's it's already hard to date in the
• 15:42
  Speaker 1: day in the community. It's very hard, and it's like
• 15:45
  Speaker 1: everybody seems to know everybody.
• 15:47
  Speaker 4: So like a funny story.
• 15:49
  Speaker 1: I'm not not, I don't want to, but somebody that
• 15:52
  Speaker 1: that is a friend of mine knows somebody that's hard,
• 15:55
  Speaker 1: that's on your should that they dated already.
• 15:57
  Speaker 4: You know, it's so funny that, like you know that.
• 15:59
  Speaker 1: It's got small and it's it's is it hard because
• 16:02
  Speaker 1: everybody kind of knows everybody?
• 16:04
  Speaker 2: Oh absolutely, Yeah. There were a couple of people who
• 16:07
  Speaker 2: kind of especially with social media these days, you can
• 16:09
  Speaker 2: know someone but not really know them type thing. So
• 16:11
  Speaker 2: there was a lot of that, and that actually played
• 16:13
  Speaker 2: into one of our last eliminations, someone who was friends
• 16:17
  Speaker 2: with someone before they got on the.
• 16:19
  Speaker 3: Show and had that play out.
• 16:21
  Speaker 4: Was that a lot more drama?
• 16:22
  Speaker 2: Yeah, because he eliminated him, Wow, yeah last week, this
• 16:25
  Speaker 2: past Tuesday. So he popped off because he was like, bro,
• 16:28
  Speaker 2: I knew you before the show. I thought we had this,
• 16:30
  Speaker 2: we had that. So yeah, the real world mixes into.
• 16:32
  Speaker 4: It because now they're probably they're not.
• 16:35
  Speaker 2: It's messy. Yeah I saw the last time. Yeah, they
• 16:37
  Speaker 2: they're both post it's.
• 16:38
  Speaker 3: A little messy right now.
• 16:39
  Speaker 2: I hope they fix it though, because I'm a I'm
• 16:40
  Speaker 2: a firm believer of like a strong tail family, so
• 16:43
  Speaker 2: I always want everyone together. But yeah, it's hard when
• 16:46
  Speaker 2: you're rewatching it right now, like they were on fire
• 16:49
  Speaker 2: in that moment when we filmed it months ago. But
• 16:51
  Speaker 2: then you're watching it and yeah, so we all do
• 16:55
  Speaker 2: that every week. We're like, it's bringing up all of
• 16:57
  Speaker 2: our traumas and problem it's just like.
• 17:01
  Speaker 1: Emotional dealing with emotional situations, so it's you know, and
• 17:06
  Speaker 1: you're dealing with a lot of personalities, so it's and
• 17:08
  Speaker 1: then to go through it again, you're like, oh my god,
• 17:10
  Speaker 1: that was such a hard It's like dealing with something
• 17:12
  Speaker 1: that you already went through. Imagine like you're dealing with
• 17:15
  Speaker 1: something on a daily basis that you went through to
• 17:17
  Speaker 1: pass and now you have to actually watch it.
• 17:20
  Speaker 4: Yeah, it's not enough. Not enough. It's got to be
• 17:26
  Speaker 4: totally in president history to keep watching Oh my god.
• 17:32
  Speaker 1: My divorce was on freaking camera every day. Ship I
• 17:35
  Speaker 1: would be in jail for murder probably a lot of people, definitely.
• 17:40
  Speaker 1: Do you think do you think that that people as
• 17:44
  Speaker 1: opposed to straight and gay people. Do you think that
• 17:46
  Speaker 1: it's people settle more in the gay community for people?
• 17:49
  Speaker 1: Do you think it's more in the in the straight
• 17:50
  Speaker 1: community that the people settle for?
• 17:52
  Speaker 4: Like, do you think that for women.
• 17:54
  Speaker 1: Let's just say, do you think that you see them
• 17:56
  Speaker 1: more settling for somebody and not driving to get somebody
• 18:01
  Speaker 1: who's a good partner for them, as opposed to somebody
• 18:04
  Speaker 1: in the gay community.
• 18:05
  Speaker 2: You know, I would I would minimize that down to
• 18:08
  Speaker 2: just like a human thing. I think it comes down
• 18:10
  Speaker 2: more to like how much love do you need?
• 18:12
  Speaker 3: Like where were you to.
• 18:13
  Speaker 2: Need that type of attention that's you know, back to
• 18:14
  Speaker 2: where we're saying like before, like how you were raised
• 18:16
  Speaker 2: and stuff like that. So rather gay or straight, like
• 18:20
  Speaker 2: you could just need that type of love, that type
• 18:22
  Speaker 2: of attention where you that makes you settle, you know
• 18:25
  Speaker 2: what I mean, that's something that you do because you
• 18:27
  Speaker 2: need it.
• 18:27
  Speaker 3: So you can.
• 18:28
  Speaker 1: So you think it's because it's a good upbringing, like
• 18:30
  Speaker 1: what I said, because I know that you had a
• 18:32
  Speaker 1: good mother that gave you a lot things that you needed.
• 18:36
  Speaker 4: So you think everybody it's right.
• 18:37
  Speaker 2: And I would I would never because of that. I
• 18:39
  Speaker 2: would never settle. And I take dating very seriously. And
• 18:42
  Speaker 2: I was out running the streets because I was like,
• 18:43
  Speaker 2: you know what, if he's not here, I'm going to
• 18:45
  Speaker 2: have fun type thing. But when I got on the
• 18:47
  Speaker 2: show and I met someone that was to me so
• 18:49
  Speaker 2: worth settling for. That's like, that was the life changing moment,
• 18:52
  Speaker 2: you know, because I did not.
• 18:53
  Speaker 1: Think you want to get married?
• 18:55
  Speaker 3: Yeah I want? Yeah I do. I want a really
• 18:58
  Speaker 3: cute life with someone that I love.
• 19:00
  Speaker 4: I do.
• 19:01
  Speaker 2: And I think it's so nice to be at a
• 19:03
  Speaker 2: place to actually like say that. You know, sometimes you
• 19:05
  Speaker 2: don't want to let people know like where you want
• 19:07
  Speaker 2: to go with things, and because you don't want to
• 19:08
  Speaker 2: hear them, I don't doubt.
• 19:09
  Speaker 1: You, yeah, yeah, because you don't know where they're at,
• 19:12
  Speaker 1: if they're on the same people as you are, in
• 19:14
  Speaker 1: the same place you exactly, or just does scare somebody,
• 19:17
  Speaker 1: I mean, if they're feeling some way and they're not.
• 19:19
  Speaker 1: And then they could eventually, maybe a couple of months
• 19:22
  Speaker 1: or a year down the road, they could feel that way.
• 19:23
  Speaker 4: But you don't want to push that.
• 19:24
  Speaker 1: On them in the beginning and scare them either, because
• 19:27
  Speaker 1: you know, everybody comes to an epiphany or a plateau
• 19:30
  Speaker 1: at different times, right, relationship.
• 19:33
  Speaker 4: But that's amazing. I mean, you had you had so
• 19:36
  Speaker 4: you had a great experience.
• 19:37
  Speaker 2: Then, Yeah, it's something I wanted for so long. I've
• 19:41
  Speaker 2: I've applied to so many different reality shows, and I've
• 19:43
  Speaker 2: always done entertainment and so form in some form. So
• 19:47
  Speaker 2: to get to that point in my life where I
• 19:48
  Speaker 2: was finally confident in who I was and then to
• 19:50
  Speaker 2: get the show at that time, it just felt so right.
• 19:53
  Speaker 2: It felt like I get for my mom. Yeah, because
• 19:56
  Speaker 2: I was just like.
• 19:56
  Speaker 1: I was with you the whole time, the whole time,
• 19:58
  Speaker 1: but hopefully not the whole time because we don't know
• 20:00
  Speaker 1: what was going on and closed doors. Were you guys
• 20:03
  Speaker 1: able to hook up without them seeing?
• 20:05
  Speaker 2: You know?
• 20:05
  Speaker 4: What was that? Was that? A no? No, you weren't allowed.
• 20:08
  Speaker 2: You were you know, you weren't on camera, you were free,
• 20:12
  Speaker 2: So that's that was that.
• 20:14
  Speaker 3: There were lots.
• 20:15
  Speaker 2: Of cameras in like the halls and in the daddy
• 20:18
  Speaker 2: room and everywhere.
• 20:19
  Speaker 3: However there were blind spots.
• 20:22
  Speaker 1: There was was found I'd probably figuring out.
• 20:27
  Speaker 2: Yeah, as you can creep around, no one can see
• 20:29
  Speaker 2: the type thing because you know, if you're very private,
• 20:31
  Speaker 2: you don't want everything like that on camera. But I
• 20:33
  Speaker 2: will also say this, so tired from set, you know
• 20:37
  Speaker 2: what I mean, Like there was very little to know
• 20:39
  Speaker 2: hanky panky, because it was like we were exhausted that.
• 20:42
  Speaker 1: You were just like, Okay, yeah, pudding, That's what I am.
• 20:46
  Speaker 1: That's why my show was named Cats and Pudding because
• 20:48
  Speaker 1: that's how I am at this time in my life.
• 20:49
  Speaker 1: Ready to need my cat, I need my hot pudding
• 20:52
  Speaker 1: and I'm good.
• 20:53
  Speaker 3: Yeah, you were exhausted.
• 20:55
  Speaker 4: I'm exhausted every day. So what do you where? What
• 20:58
  Speaker 4: are you going to be working on now? Like this show?
• 21:00
  Speaker 1: Are you going to come back on another season or
• 21:03
  Speaker 1: is it going to be or you have something in
• 21:04
  Speaker 1: the works that's going to happen after the show is
• 21:06
  Speaker 1: over or working all the other projects.
• 21:08
  Speaker 2: Yeah, I have nothing officially in the works. I'm excited
• 21:11
  Speaker 2: to kind of get back to my own independent content
• 21:13
  Speaker 2: creation what I was doing before going on for Love adults.
• 21:17
  Speaker 2: I'm running my YouTube channel, very proud of that. So
• 21:19
  Speaker 2: I'll get back to kind of just doing independent videos
• 21:23
  Speaker 2: and fun things on my YouTube channel. Some music coming later,
• 21:26
  Speaker 2: some fun performances, doing burlesque in New York, doing some
• 21:30
  Speaker 2: comedy shows. I'm like a full three sixty creator editore. Yeah,
• 21:35
  Speaker 2: And I used to like as I was growing up,
• 21:37
  Speaker 2: I'm like, oh, I just won't do this. I don't
• 21:38
  Speaker 2: want people to think I'm doing too much. But now
• 21:40
  Speaker 2: I'm just at the point like I'm doing it like
• 21:41
  Speaker 2: if I if I want to try it and it's there,
• 21:43
  Speaker 2: someone's offered me a chance to do it, like I'm trying.
• 21:45
  Speaker 3: Why not? You might as well know I'm doing it
• 21:47
  Speaker 3: all right now I can tell.
• 21:48
  Speaker 1: You from somebody with my age, you know what, do
• 21:50
  Speaker 1: it because you don't want to regret when you get
• 21:52
  Speaker 1: all the no.
• 21:53
  Speaker 2: And I have regrets from my twenties like that. You know,
• 21:55
  Speaker 2: I didn't have that confidence or that urge to jump
• 21:58
  Speaker 2: on things even like you, like I always people always
• 22:01
  Speaker 2: told me like, oh, you should do it, you should
• 22:02
  Speaker 2: run a channel. I didn't believe in myself, so it
• 22:04
  Speaker 2: didn't make sense to start it. And so I actually
• 22:06
  Speaker 2: thought that I could do it.
• 22:07
  Speaker 1: Well, that's what that's you had to do it on
• 22:09
  Speaker 1: your own time and through your own process.
• 22:11
  Speaker 3: So it's perfect timing.
• 22:12
  Speaker 1: So let everybody know where they can find you, your
• 22:14
  Speaker 1: YouTube channel, your Instagram and so, and let them know
• 22:18
  Speaker 1: what what time the show was on in the channel.
• 22:21
  Speaker 4: Let everybody know.
• 22:22
  Speaker 1: So.
• 22:23
  Speaker 2: Yeah, so YouTube is just Nigel Battle videos every week, blogs, reactions,
• 22:28
  Speaker 2: movie reviews. I get into everything on my YouTube channel,
• 22:31
  Speaker 2: Instagram Nigel Battle Official, very very much on my stories
• 22:35
  Speaker 2: reels posts. Yeah, I have a lot of behind the
• 22:37
  Speaker 2: scenes thirst traps, really fun cute stuff from the show
• 22:41
  Speaker 2: that I'll be going to be posting the next couple
• 22:43
  Speaker 2: of weeks. And then of course you can watch For
• 22:45
  Speaker 2: the Love Adult season two on out TV. It's also
• 22:48
  Speaker 2: available on Apple TV and Amazon Time too through the
• 22:51
  Speaker 2: out TV subscription. Yes, anyone who wants to just get
• 22:55
  Speaker 2: started with it, Episode one is on YouTube for free. Yeah,
• 22:59
  Speaker 2: it's a good start, but I guarantee you'll be hooked
• 23:01
  Speaker 2: and you're gonna want to join a f TV to see.
• 23:03
  Speaker 4: Yeah.
• 23:03
  Speaker 2: So every Tuesday, new episodes for that and how.
• 23:06
  Speaker 4: Many more episodes until dans Right now.
• 23:08
  Speaker 2: We have ten this season, so and we're coming up
• 23:11
  Speaker 2: to episode seven, and it just gets more and more dramatic.
• 23:15
  Speaker 2: I get more and more mouth. Then, yeah, because I'm stressing.
• 23:19
  Speaker 2: I'm not trying to leave. They're trying to get me
• 23:21
  Speaker 2: out of this marriage.
• 23:21
  Speaker 4: I'm not leaving.
• 23:22
  Speaker 1: See you having a melt out. I feel like you're pretty,
• 23:24
  Speaker 1: You're I'm going to take that back.
• 23:26
  Speaker 2: Well, let me know if you see episode five, episode four,
• 23:29
  Speaker 2: the end episode seven. Yes, next week, I get in
• 23:31
  Speaker 2: the fight so I get my right because they're trying me.
• 23:34
  Speaker 4: I was.
• 23:35
  Speaker 2: I came in so sweet, I was good. I was
• 23:36
  Speaker 2: really really doing my best to behave.
• 23:38
  Speaker 1: Honestly, I want to get into a fire where you
• 23:40
  Speaker 1: you look like a linebacker. I probably is they trying
• 23:44
  Speaker 1: to know.
• 23:45
  Speaker 3: I hit with words. I'm not getting up.
• 23:47
  Speaker 2: I was hitting with words. We were going back and
• 23:48
  Speaker 2: forth verbally. Yeah, I'm not touching him.
• 23:50
  Speaker 4: But I don't hit anybody.
• 23:51
  Speaker 3: No, no, because because I'm not leaving, so you don't even
• 23:53
  Speaker 3: get back hit someone.
• 23:54
  Speaker 2: I'm leaving. It's not back girls club. I'll be able
• 23:55
  Speaker 2: to leave, so I'd be screwed. So now we fight
• 23:59
  Speaker 2: like this. They put us in the room and we
• 24:00
  Speaker 2: had we hash it out, just like this with.
• 24:02
  Speaker 4: Where their body goes in the room with you guys,
• 24:03
  Speaker 4: just the case.
• 24:04
  Speaker 2: The mother daddy is who will be ready to hold
• 24:06
  Speaker 2: me back if I get a little good jumpy might
• 24:09
  Speaker 2: if they don't like the person, they might hold.
• 24:11
  Speaker 4: You back that hard.
• 24:12
  Speaker 2: Yeah, yes, you never know.
• 24:16
  Speaker 4: Oh sorry, I'm meant to hold you back up.
• 24:19
  Speaker 3: I slipped.
• 24:20
  Speaker 4: I slipped.
• 24:20
  Speaker 1: Sorry, well, Nigel, it was so good to have you
• 24:23
  Speaker 1: on today. It was a pleasure and I'm gonna definitely
• 24:26
  Speaker 1: have you back. I'd love to hear to hear what's
• 24:28
  Speaker 1: going on, laid it down the road in the future
• 24:30
  Speaker 1: with you, and I'm so glad we met each other
• 24:33
  Speaker 1: because you are awesome.
• 24:34
  Speaker 4: It was so nice.
• 24:35
  Speaker 1: Everybody Nigel Battle on our TV and for the love
• 24:39
  Speaker 1: of Dilts and please everybody watch Cats Are Pudding YouTube, Apple, Spotify,
• 24:45
  Speaker 1: watch it and subscribe and watch the whole episode, not
• 24:48
  Speaker 1: just the short stamm it.
• 24:50
  Speaker 4: Have a great day. And I can't believe I didn't
• 24:52
  Speaker 4: smack this thing out of my way.
• 24:53
  Speaker 3: I was.
• 24:54
  Speaker 4: I thought it was going to be over by the time.
• 24:56
  Speaker 2: I know.
• 24:56
  Speaker 3: I dodged you a couple of times too.
• 24:57
  Speaker 4: I was like, now we can get out of it.
• 24:59
  Speaker 3: I feel like working around that.
• 25:01
  Speaker 4: I was so that was great. I love that you're
• 25:06
  Speaker 4: so good.
• 25:06
  Speaker 3: Oh my god, I love you.