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Emma Hernan Gets Blindsided & Bitten? · Untraditionally Lala

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  Speaker 1: Hello, gorgeous. It's Lala Kent.
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  Speaker 2: Welcome to untraditionally, Lala, Hello, gorgeous, it is Lalakent, Welcome
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  Speaker 2: back to untraditionally.
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  Speaker 1: Lala. I am freaking excited.
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  Speaker 3: You look gorge by the way, Babe, thank you.
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  Speaker 2: You always look gorge though. I have Emma hern in here.
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  Speaker 2: You guys know her from selling Sunset. She also is
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  Speaker 2: the CEO of her own frozen food company. But it
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  Speaker 2: sounds like you've expanded beyond anything that I had in here,
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  Speaker 2: so like, tell me everything.
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  Speaker 1: Okay, So I.
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  Speaker 3: Launched with vegan empanadas Emily and Co. And then I
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  Speaker 3: just launched my new company, Coast to Coast, which is
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  Speaker 3: we have meat items, we have many crab cakes, We
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  Speaker 3: have basically everything you could possibly imagine in the frozen section.
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  Speaker 1: We manufacture and I own the facility. So like, my god.
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  Speaker 3: People always think like, oh, okay, you have an empanada company,
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  Speaker 3: and like you make empanadas, but I actually own the
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  Speaker 3: manufacturing facility and we make everything you could possibly imagine.
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  Speaker 1: That's incredible. Yeah, wait, so what made you go? I
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  Speaker 1: for people like me, we love the frozen foods. Actually,
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  Speaker 1: I'm like, what is a stove?
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  Speaker 2: I'm not quite sure, Like what do I do with
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  Speaker 2: these ingredientss? Teresa Juda says, ingredients?
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  Speaker 3: Is?
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  Speaker 1: I love that?
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  Speaker 3: So I love?
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  Speaker 1: Never stop?
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  Speaker 2: What made you want to make that your baby? That
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  Speaker 2: adventure is amazing?
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  Speaker 1: Okay.
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  Speaker 3: So I was in the food industry my whole life.
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  Speaker 3: My grandfather started a company Yankee Trader Seafood. So I
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  Speaker 3: was in the seafood frozen industry my whole life. And
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  Speaker 3: then I knew that I want to start my own
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  Speaker 3: company because I love to cook.
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  Speaker 1: So I was like, yeah, so that's how that happened.
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  Speaker 3: And I helped my family get the company to where
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  Speaker 3: it is today. So like when I was in high school,
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  Speaker 3: I started in investing in stocks.
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  Speaker 1: I lent the family money.
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  Speaker 3: So that they could, you know, grow, because when my
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  Speaker 3: grandfather passed away, you don't realize, like when you're left
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  Speaker 3: a company everything that goes into it, like you have
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  Speaker 3: to you have to pay the employees, equipment rents, all
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  Speaker 3: these things. So I helped my family's company get to
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  Speaker 3: where it is today. And then I was like, oh,
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  Speaker 3: I want to start my own company because I actually
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  Speaker 3: love to cook.
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  Speaker 2: You're a bad bitch, Okay, So that's like your baby
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  Speaker 2: and then when did you decide, like, I'm also going to.
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  Speaker 1: Get my real estate license. So I was.
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  Speaker 3: Looking at homes and I was like, oh, I'm going
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  Speaker 3: to buy some real estate investments.
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  Speaker 1: I also want to buy a property for myself.
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  Speaker 3: And then I was going around looking at open houses
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  Speaker 3: with Jason and Brett and they were like, you need
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  Speaker 3: to get your license.
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  Speaker 1: You know so many people.
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  Speaker 3: You are picking up all the knowledge so fast. And
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  Speaker 3: I was like, oh, okay, it's COVID, I have nothing
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  Speaker 3: else to do. Let me get my real estate license.
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  Speaker 1: Wow.
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  Speaker 2: I have to imagine, because you're very beautiful, and I
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  Speaker 2: know the world we live in, and people do not.
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  Speaker 2: Even though everyone says like women are are looked at
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  Speaker 2: so differently.
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  Speaker 1: Now we empower them.
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  Speaker 2: I have to say, from my experience of being a woman,
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  Speaker 2: I do not feel like we've made as much progress.
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  Speaker 1: I agree as people say we have. I agree.
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  Speaker 2: So I have to imagine people underestimate you a lot,
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  Speaker 2: oh one hundred percent, especially like I dress the way
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  Speaker 2: that I want to dress and I do not care
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  Speaker 2: like if I want to wear something cute and pink
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  Speaker 2: or whatever.
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  Speaker 3: It is, Like I've been like that my whole life,
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  Speaker 3: and there's been so many times where people just that
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  Speaker 3: I walk in and they give me the dirtiest looks,
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  Speaker 3: they laugh at me.
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  Speaker 1: I mean I've dealt with that my entire life.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, my entire life for sure.
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  Speaker 2: Have you ever been in a situation where you walk
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  Speaker 2: in with men and they are obviously in awe of
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  Speaker 2: you because of the way you look, and then when
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  Speaker 2: you make your mark with the brains, they get a
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  Speaker 2: little turned off.
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  Speaker 3: Oh for sure. I mean I've walked into like cause
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  Speaker 3: I invest in companies too. Yeah, So I remember there
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  Speaker 3: was one time I was actually at UCLA to invest
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  Speaker 3: in this energy company and it was all men in there,
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  Speaker 3: and I remember walking in and they were just looking
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  Speaker 3: at me and then they were like whose girlfriend are
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  Speaker 3: you or who's wife are you? And I was like,
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  Speaker 3: first of all, I'm about to invest more money than
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  Speaker 3: you into this company.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, And then I waited.
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  Speaker 3: Obviously it was like when they were going around and
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  Speaker 3: asking questions, and I was I probably asked the smartest
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  Speaker 3: questions there, and all of the men were just like
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  Speaker 3: they didn't understand, and they were like, wait, you're not
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  Speaker 3: someone's wife, you're not someone's girlfriend. You're investing Wow Yeah, no, no, no,
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  Speaker 3: I've that my whole leg.
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  Speaker 2: What I would give to be a fly on the
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  Speaker 2: wall in those situations.
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  Speaker 3: It was one time I walked into this is like
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  Speaker 3: way before the show and all that, but I walked
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  Speaker 3: into a meeting with like all these CEOs of like
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  Speaker 3: this was like for the in the food industry, and
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  Speaker 3: I walked in and I remember walking into and it
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  Speaker 3: was like this, like really intense with all the CEOs
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  Speaker 3: of all the company and I was going to represent
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  Speaker 3: our company, and I remember everyone just it was like a.
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  Speaker 1: You could hear a pin drop when I opened.
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  Speaker 3: They stopped the presentation when I walked in, and they go,
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  Speaker 3: we think you're in the wrong place.
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  Speaker 1: Did they give the laugh like that? Yeah, Oh no,
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  Speaker 1: they laughed and they said, we think we're in the
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  Speaker 1: wrong place. And what did you say?
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  Speaker 3: No, I'm here to represent my company, like and that
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  Speaker 3: was just like one of them many times, but I'll
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  Speaker 3: never forget that one, yeah, because it was so it
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  Speaker 3: was it was so loud and they were doing a
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  Speaker 3: presentation and it was so quiet you could hear a
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  Speaker 3: pin drop and then the laughs, the little giggles from everybody,
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  Speaker 3: men and women included. It wasn't just men wasn't just women.
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  Speaker 3: Everybody laughed.
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  Speaker 1: You know.
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  Speaker 2: I always say that being a woman is one of
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  Speaker 2: the hardest things in the world because we don't have
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  Speaker 2: a safe space. We don't have a safe space amongst men,
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  Speaker 2: and we don't have a safe space amongst each other.
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  Speaker 1: I agree.
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  Speaker 2: And do you feel that when moments like that happen
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  Speaker 2: it adds fuel to your fire or do you have
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  Speaker 2: moments where you feel extremely defeated by the way that
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  Speaker 2: people look at you and perceive you.
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  Speaker 3: I mean, I would say there's times for both. Okay,
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  Speaker 3: now I'm like, okay, those type of things empower me.
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  Speaker 3: But you know, there was a point in time like
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  Speaker 3: sometimes it's like it gets old, you know what I mean.
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  Speaker 3: It gets old when you're being judged before you even speak,
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  Speaker 3: you know what I mean. But now it's like one
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  Speaker 3: of those things where it empowers me, especially like I'm
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  Speaker 3: so polite. I always wait for my turn to talk,
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  Speaker 3: and then like when I'm asking them the questions all
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  Speaker 3: these like business terms, They're like giving me the eyes like.
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  Speaker 1: Who is this bitch? They're like who is this No?
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  Speaker 3: Because yeah, because like they want to make fun of me,
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  Speaker 3: you know, and right, yeah, no, for sure, when did
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  Speaker 3: you land your role?
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  Speaker 2: Forgive me because I'm a reality TV head, but I
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  Speaker 2: get high off of my own supply, where like I'm Bravo, Bravo,
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  Speaker 2: fucking Bravo at all times. Yeah, but people are obsessed
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  Speaker 2: with selling Sunset.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, when did you join the show? Season four? And
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  Speaker 1: what season are we on? Now? Nine just came out,
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  Speaker 1: and you do you guys film two seasons at once?
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  Speaker 1: We used to.
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  Speaker 3: There was a point in time where we did, and
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  Speaker 3: then they were coming out a little quicker this one.
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  Speaker 3: We only did one at a time, and people have
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  Speaker 3: noticed because there was like, wait, it's so long in between.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah.
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  Speaker 3: So yeah, we used to, and then we did, I know,
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  Speaker 3: for six and seven we did, and then obviously eight
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  Speaker 3: and nine we did not.
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  Speaker 2: And when they came to you and they said we
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  Speaker 2: want you to join this show, was it like I'm
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  Speaker 2: all in, let's do it.
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  Speaker 1: No, Oh my god.
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  Speaker 3: It was like back and forth. I was talking about
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  Speaker 3: it with my family. I was talking about it with
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  Speaker 3: my because like the reason that I was with the
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  Speaker 3: brokerage was because of my Ax, because he was the
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  Speaker 3: one that told me to get my real estate license.
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  Speaker 3: With Jason and Brett and all that but he had
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  Speaker 3: also dated like two of the other girls.
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  Speaker 1: It was like it was a whole thing.
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  Speaker 3: So he didn't want me to join because he's.
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  Speaker 1: Like, oh God, like like he did not want that.
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  Speaker 3: And then my family was like, I think you should
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  Speaker 3: do it because I think you have a really cool
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  Speaker 3: story and I think that you could inspire women out there.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, I would like have a cool story. So he
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  Speaker 1: was a little torn.
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  Speaker 3: And I just remember going on a walk with my
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  Speaker 3: parents up Sunset Plaza and they were like, I had
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  Speaker 3: I had a time frame to just to basically sign
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  Speaker 3: this contract and sign my life away, as you know,
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  Speaker 3: and so I was like I didn't know what to
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  Speaker 3: do it and my parents and like my dad is
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  Speaker 3: very conservative and very like you know, like, uh, he
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  Speaker 3: doesn't like the way I.
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  Speaker 1: Dress sometimes, you know what I mean.
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  Speaker 3: He's just like a time and it's a different generation.
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  Speaker 3: Fame to him would be like weird, you know what
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  Speaker 3: I mean. He was like, no, you should do it,
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  Speaker 3: and I was like, my dad is so that held
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  Speaker 3: a lot of weight if he yeah, because I feel like,
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  Speaker 3: you know, as it was, you.
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  Speaker 1: Would always get back inside and put a sweater on.
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  Speaker 3: I'd be like no, and then like he wanted me
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  Speaker 3: to do it, so I was like, oh, okay, maybe
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  Speaker 3: I should try it.
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  Speaker 1: Maybe I can go inspire some people, you know. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: so yeah, were you prepared for the bad that comes
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  Speaker 1: with it?
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  Speaker 2: No?
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  Speaker 1: I was not. I had no idea I can prepare
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  Speaker 1: you for that.
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  Speaker 3: I had no idea how many people were like I
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  Speaker 3: was like, especially because I came onto the show and
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  Speaker 3: the guy that I had dated was dating one of
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  Speaker 3: he had dated, like one of the other kind of
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  Speaker 3: like main characters on the show. Yeah, and so all
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  Speaker 3: of her fans were attacking me basically when I joined
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  Speaker 3: and like comparing us and then being telling me how
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  Speaker 3: ugly I was. And I was like, oh god. They
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  Speaker 3: were like telling me, oh my god, I needed to
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  Speaker 3: basically like reconstruct my whole face. Well it was like
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  Speaker 3: literally no, I'm not kidding, like every Twitter tweet everything,
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  Speaker 3: and I was like, oh damn, people are mean.
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  Speaker 2: It makes you lose faith in humanity a little bit, Yeah,
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  Speaker 2: because they it's wild when you look at the comment
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  Speaker 2: section when they're telling you how mean you you are,
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  Speaker 2: you know whatever they watch on TV, and it's like
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  Speaker 2: I could never be as mean as your being right now,
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  Speaker 2: I know, No, I have goosebumps.
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  Speaker 3: You can't tell, but like I have goosebumps all my
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  Speaker 3: legs because I'm like I remember just like being like wow,
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  Speaker 3: like you guys are awful, Like I mean, I was
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  Speaker 3: minding my own business like I was. I didn't come
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  Speaker 3: on like this villain or anything, and they took everything
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  Speaker 3: and just like.
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  Speaker 1: Oh my god, I mean I was like, wow, people
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  Speaker 1: are mean.
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  Speaker 2: Were you able to lean into the girls who had
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  Speaker 2: been on since season one?
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  Speaker 1: Did you guys.
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  Speaker 2: Have cause I always say there was something very special
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  Speaker 2: about the show that I used to be on, called
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  Speaker 2: Leander pump Roules.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, And although we like went.
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  Speaker 2: Toes with each other, I also joined that show season four. Oh,
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  Speaker 2: but I felt like there was a point in time
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  Speaker 2: where even when the cast was not good, we we
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  Speaker 2: had each other's backs when it came to out there
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  Speaker 2: and the way that the audience would treat us. Did
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  Speaker 2: you feel like you could lean lean on them because
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  Speaker 2: they had been through it?
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  Speaker 1: So yes?
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  Speaker 3: The girls that like I got along with basically everyone
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  Speaker 3: besides the one girl, so yeah. To be honest with you, ever, was.
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  Speaker 1: The one girl again? Her name was Christine? Is she
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  Speaker 1: still on it?
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  Speaker 2: No?
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  Speaker 3: She's not.
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  Speaker 1: Oh I know her. Yeah yeah. Yeah.
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  Speaker 3: Like besides that, though, everyone was really great, really supportive,
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  Speaker 3: and like, you know, like, Okay, don't read your comments
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  Speaker 3: because they're probably going to be mean. And I was like,
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  Speaker 3: but you know, when you first join, you kind of
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  Speaker 3: want to read the comments.
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  Speaker 1: You want to be like, wait, what's everyone saying?
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  Speaker 3: You know it's like you you like want to torture yourself. Yeah,
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  Speaker 3: oh now I don't. I don't care people literally they
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  Speaker 3: roast me. You can tell me like I look like
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  Speaker 3: x y Z.
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  Speaker 1: I don't care. What did they possibly say? You look like?
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  Speaker 1: I'll never forget it.
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  Speaker 3: The first season when I joined, I always like someone
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  Speaker 3: was on Twitter and like, first of all they were
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  Speaker 3: saying the meanest stuff, but like they were like, does
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  Speaker 3: anyone else think Emma heard it from Sewing Sunset looks
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  Speaker 3: like a pigeon And they put my face next to
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  Speaker 3: a pigeon's face and I was like, damn, I'm telling you, I.
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  Speaker 4: Never thought it looked like a pigeon until I saw that,
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  Speaker 4: and I was like, damn, I see it. Shit, I
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  Speaker 4: do get pigeon byes. Like I didn't want to see it,
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  Speaker 4: but I did up.
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  Speaker 1: The side by side telling you the side by side.
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  Speaker 1: I was like, ship, you can come with receipt. Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: I was like, okay, Yeah.
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  Speaker 2: There was one time that this woman named Kelly Dodd,
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  Speaker 2: she used to be on OC but she said that
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  Speaker 2: she has a podcast.
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  Speaker 1: And she said I look like Gollam and she posted
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  Speaker 1: the photo and I was like, that does very much
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  Speaker 1: look like me? You will side by side.
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  Speaker 3: I was like, oh my god.
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  Speaker 1: You know what if you can't beat them, join up?
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  Speaker 3: Yeah?
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  Speaker 1: Exactly.
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  Speaker 2: Would you say last season was the hardest season you've
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  Speaker 2: been part of?
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  Speaker 1: Season eight?
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  Speaker 2: Was that seas eight where you were cold like a
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  Speaker 2: cheater and see Yeah for sure. Because I had no
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  Speaker 2: idea that was being filmed.
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  Speaker 3: I thought I was just like the supportive friend my
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  Speaker 3: girlfriend was going through a divorce, felt like I was really.
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  Speaker 1: There for show. No Chelsea Chelsea.
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  Speaker 3: Okay, so I thought I was just really there for
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  Speaker 3: Chelsea through her divorce. I had no idea what was
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  Speaker 3: being filmed behind my back. I did not find out
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  Speaker 3: until a week before it came out.
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  Speaker 1: Are you serious?
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  Speaker 2: Nope.
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  Speaker 3: I got a phone call from Chelsea. It was like hey, babe,
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  Speaker 3: like I just want to let you know, Like I
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  Speaker 3: was just doing an interview like it was for Netflix.
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  Speaker 3: I was doing an interview with Netflix and they said,
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  Speaker 3: they asked me a question, have you how do you
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  Speaker 3: feel about the rumor that Nicole started about Emma? And
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  Speaker 3: then they interrupted and said, do not wait wait wait,
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  Speaker 3: Chelsea doesn't know, she hasn't seen the season.
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  Speaker 1: Don't tell her.
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  Speaker 3: Oh.
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  Speaker 1: So Chelsea called me.
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  Speaker 3: She still didn't know, and then I called Mary because
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  Speaker 3: I knew Mary's friends with Nicole Okay, and so I
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  Speaker 3: called Mary and I was like, wait, what was being
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  Speaker 3: said about me? I literally had no idea where.
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  Speaker 1: No idea. Where do you think that rumor came from?
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  Speaker 1: Oh my god? I mean I know exactly where it
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  Speaker 1: came from.
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  Speaker 3: Jason and Brett's cousin, this girl Jen Okay, what talks
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  Speaker 3: about it on this show? She wanted to be on
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  Speaker 3: the show, which is from the very beginning, she supposedly
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  Speaker 3: said something, but nothing like what Nicole said. She was
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  Speaker 3: just like, oh my god, my girlfriend was super upset
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  Speaker 3: that like her husband was trying to reach out to
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  Speaker 3: Emma to do real estate and then he gave her
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  Speaker 3: a ride back on his plane from Boston.
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  Speaker 1: That's literally it.
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  Speaker 3: And Nicole was like the entire season playing with her
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  Speaker 3: ring Emma doesn't respect the sanctity of marriage, all of
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  Speaker 3: this crazy stuff like a wacko, like unwell wacko. But
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  Speaker 3: she said she did it because producers threatened her with
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  Speaker 3: her job. But like, I think she just needed a storyline.
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  Speaker 3: Like when I say, like, I didn't hold this guy's hand,
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  Speaker 3: I never held this guy's hand, Like, but.
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  Speaker 2: You got a ride on the PG, Like yeah, I
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  Speaker 2: was like, yeah, how darious?
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  Speaker 1: Seriously what the thing was?
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  Speaker 2: Like?
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  Speaker 3: He I was in Boston with and I was going
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  Speaker 3: to bring my aunt back to la as a surprise
• 14:01
  Speaker 3: for my cousin, and he was there for work.
• 14:04
  Speaker 1: He literally was actually like he wasn't like a sleazy.
• 14:07
  Speaker 3: Guy that was trying to hit on me. I mean,
• 14:09
  Speaker 3: trust me, we deal with that. I'm sure you deal
• 14:11
  Speaker 3: with that too. We're the guys pretty aggressive, especially in
• 14:14
  Speaker 3: real estate because they're like, oh, if you I'll buy
• 14:16
  Speaker 3: a house with you.
• 14:17
  Speaker 2: You know.
• 14:18
  Speaker 3: Yes, he actually wasn't one of those guys. He wasn't
• 14:21
  Speaker 3: a sleazy guy. He was super nice. He happened to
• 14:23
  Speaker 3: be in Boston for a meeting and was like, if
• 14:25
  Speaker 3: you want to come back, I was going I flying
• 14:27
  Speaker 3: my aunt back because I want to surprise my cousin
• 14:30
  Speaker 3: and it was like, like we didn't even sit. He
• 14:33
  Speaker 3: sat in the back. He talked to my aunt for
• 14:34
  Speaker 3: a second, like it was super like And actually the
• 14:38
  Speaker 3: wife called me. So when all this was happening, the
• 14:40
  Speaker 3: wife called me, and so like it came out. Obviously
• 14:44
  Speaker 3: everyone he was shocked. Everyone was shocked that this was
• 14:46
  Speaker 3: even used as a storyline for selling Sunset. She called
• 14:49
  Speaker 3: me and was so nice. She was like, I'm so
• 14:53
  Speaker 3: sorry Jen, Jason and Brett's cousin. Yeah, totally used this
• 14:57
  Speaker 3: to try and get on the show.
• 14:58
  Speaker 1: Wow.
• 15:00
  Speaker 3: Jen called me and was like, that is not what
• 15:02
  Speaker 3: I said. I said nothing. You did nothing wrong. We
• 15:05
  Speaker 3: all know that you did nothing wrong. So basically I
• 15:08
  Speaker 3: was just the punching bag in the middle of all
• 15:10
  Speaker 3: of this shit with Everyone had their own little motive.
• 15:13
  Speaker 3: Nicole needed a storyline. Jen probably wanted to get on
• 15:15
  Speaker 3: the show. And then the wife called and was super
• 15:17
  Speaker 3: sweet and like, I know nothing happened with you guys,
• 15:20
  Speaker 3: Like also they were separated, but nothing happened regardless, right,
• 15:24
  Speaker 3: but she was really nice. Like I have to say
• 15:26
  Speaker 3: out of everyone that I spoke to about the whole thing,
• 15:29
  Speaker 3: because I do feel like obviously Jen had some part
• 15:32
  Speaker 3: in like trying to stir the pot of it, probably
• 15:34
  Speaker 3: get a little camera time, or like just get on
• 15:36
  Speaker 3: the show. Nicole clearly was a whack adoodle and just
• 15:39
  Speaker 3: wanted to be you know, have a storyline. But the
• 15:41
  Speaker 3: wife was actually really nice and was like, I just
• 15:43
  Speaker 3: want to let you know, like I'm so sorry.
• 15:45
  Speaker 1: That you had to deal with this.
• 15:46
  Speaker 3: That's really sice. I know because she didn't have to
• 15:48
  Speaker 3: call me. No, she didn't know, because he reached out
• 15:50
  Speaker 3: to me. And I was like, just so you know,
• 15:51
  Speaker 3: like if you want to give your wife my number,
• 15:54
  Speaker 3: like I'm more than happy to talk to her. And
• 15:55
  Speaker 3: she was so sweet, like I actually really respected, like
• 15:58
  Speaker 3: the wife, Yeah, that makes me very very happy.
• 16:00
  Speaker 1: Yeah, and she was really nice.
• 16:01
  Speaker 3: She was like, I know, nothing happened, like you did
• 16:03
  Speaker 3: nothing wrong, and like basically like her and the gen
• 16:07
  Speaker 3: girl had a falling out.
• 16:08
  Speaker 1: Did it make you nervous to come back to this season?
• 16:11
  Speaker 1: For sure? I had no desire.
• 16:12
  Speaker 3: I was like if you guys, and first of all,
• 16:14
  Speaker 3: producers know me very well. I'm extremely kind, Like it's
• 16:19
  Speaker 3: not like, oh I'm a bitch behind the scenes. I'm
• 16:22
  Speaker 3: literally like I'll bring them donuts if you ask producers.
• 16:25
  Speaker 1: Like, who's the nicest to you?
• 16:26
  Speaker 3: They will say, Emma, I have heard them, like I
• 16:29
  Speaker 3: will yeah, they will like, I'm genuinely like a really nice, kind,
• 16:32
  Speaker 3: caring person.
• 16:33
  Speaker 1: So the fact that they did that to me, I
• 16:36
  Speaker 1: was like me out of all people, you know what
• 16:39
  Speaker 1: I mean?
• 16:40
  Speaker 2: You know, it's it's such a hard thing because at
• 16:43
  Speaker 2: the end of the day, like your life is for
• 16:47
  Speaker 2: other people's entertainment period. And I always say I feel
• 16:52
  Speaker 2: like doing reality TV is one of the hardest jobs.
• 16:54
  Speaker 2: There is an art to it, even though it very
• 16:57
  Speaker 2: much is real life. You have to separate reality from reality.
• 17:01
  Speaker 2: Like we don't have the luxury of let's say an
• 17:05
  Speaker 2: actor who shows up and you know, reading a script
• 17:09
  Speaker 2: and then people kind of leave them alone because they
• 17:11
  Speaker 2: know they're an actor.
• 17:12
  Speaker 1: We don't get that same respect.
• 17:14
  Speaker 2: And when it comes to the crew or producers, they
• 17:17
  Speaker 2: also have a job to do, no exactly, And the
• 17:19
  Speaker 2: thing is I do like them.
• 17:20
  Speaker 3: That's what was tough, because I was like, how could
• 17:22
  Speaker 3: you do that to me? But it's kind of like,
• 17:24
  Speaker 3: you know, a few of the producers, you know, they blamed.
• 17:27
  Speaker 1: The higher ups.
• 17:28
  Speaker 3: Everyone kind of everyone has everyone, Everyone has someone else
• 17:31
  Speaker 3: to blame, but like for me, it was one of
• 17:32
  Speaker 3: those things too. It's like I know I look a
• 17:34
  Speaker 3: certain way, Like I know that I'm based off my
• 17:37
  Speaker 3: looks as it is, and I like to dress sexy.
• 17:39
  Speaker 1: I don't think there's anything wrong with that. There's gonna
• 17:42
  Speaker 1: be a day we're like eighty years old. I can't
• 17:43
  Speaker 1: walk around with my stuff exactly.
• 17:45
  Speaker 3: So it's like I like to dress a certain way.
• 17:47
  Speaker 3: But I my entire life, I've literally only been with
• 17:51
  Speaker 3: my boyfriends.
• 17:52
  Speaker 1: I've dated three guys. I've never like dated a lot
• 17:55
  Speaker 1: in Layah.
• 17:56
  Speaker 3: Everyone jokes like I'm like a like I have eight
• 17:59
  Speaker 3: cats too, Like everyone jokes like a crazy cat lad that.
• 18:02
  Speaker 1: I'm like a crazy cat nerve.
• 18:05
  Speaker 2: Yeah, the cat lady seeing super cool, Like I'm ready
• 18:08
  Speaker 2: to get I would come.
• 18:09
  Speaker 3: I don't go out, I don't date around like I've
• 18:11
  Speaker 3: literally had three boyfriends and you guys are gonna label
• 18:13
  Speaker 3: me this. And I know that I look a certain way,
• 18:16
  Speaker 3: and that's why, like I've always been able to, you know,
• 18:19
  Speaker 3: dress super sexy because I've in my real life.
• 18:21
  Speaker 2: You know, I've only ever dated my boyfriends. It never
• 18:23
  Speaker 2: slept around never, you know, I had like a one
• 18:25
  Speaker 2: night stand. Never in my life.
• 18:27
  Speaker 1: Girl, you are missing I know, I know, I know,
• 18:30
  Speaker 1: I know. Trust me.
• 18:31
  Speaker 3: Like me and my girlfriends joke about it. I have
• 18:32
  Speaker 3: never had a one night stand. I've literally only been
• 18:35
  Speaker 3: with my boyfriends.
• 18:36
  Speaker 1: And are you kind of one right now? Yeah? And
• 18:39
  Speaker 1: you think you're gonna marry this guy? Do you believe
• 18:42
  Speaker 1: in marriage?
• 18:42
  Speaker 4: I do?
• 18:43
  Speaker 1: Yeah, Yeah, I mean I believe in marriage for sure. Yeah.
• 18:46
  Speaker 1: You don't know if it's gonna be him.
• 18:48
  Speaker 3: Well, I mean no, there's a lot of controversy for sure.
• 18:51
  Speaker 2: But I mean we'll see what I have been documented
• 18:54
  Speaker 2: this season.
• 18:54
  Speaker 1: Yeah, my relationship is up there this season. Yeah.
• 18:57
  Speaker 3: Well, I mean, to be honest with you, I would
• 18:59
  Speaker 3: rather have my real relationship. That was my problem with
• 19:02
  Speaker 3: season eight. You put a fake story out there. Oh
• 19:06
  Speaker 3: also too, like in season eight you see a bite
• 19:08
  Speaker 3: mark on me which was from my current guy, and
• 19:11
  Speaker 3: they make it seem like it was Oh, who was
• 19:14
  Speaker 3: who bit emma?
• 19:15
  Speaker 1: Like it was the married guy.
• 19:17
  Speaker 3: Oh. They did me so dirty and I had no idea,
• 19:21
  Speaker 3: Like I didn't know again until the show came out,
• 19:24
  Speaker 3: but they did me so dirty.
• 19:25
  Speaker 1: So does he like biting the arm your guy? No?
• 19:28
  Speaker 3: That was like a weird funny thing. I don't know
• 19:30
  Speaker 3: why he did that, but he did buy my arm. Yeah,
• 19:32
  Speaker 3: but that was like a weird thing. How did you
• 19:45
  Speaker 3: navigate this season?
• 19:46
  Speaker 2: Because I know that you and Chrishelle, are you guys
• 19:49
  Speaker 2: still super close?
• 19:50
  Speaker 1: Were you able to like get back to where you
• 19:53
  Speaker 1: used to be? We were not? You weren't. No, we
• 19:56
  Speaker 1: were not there.
• 19:58
  Speaker 2: And I don't know if you feel that way, but
• 20:00
  Speaker 2: I think it's harder to go through like a breakup
• 20:03
  Speaker 2: with a girlfriend than a boyfriend, like someone you're intimate with,
• 20:07
  Speaker 2: because for sure, when you have like your best friend, yeah,
• 20:11
  Speaker 2: that's like your person, your soulmate, and you go to
• 20:13
  Speaker 2: them for everything. So when that dissolves or takes a turn,
• 20:18
  Speaker 2: like I literally would rather go through a breakup with
• 20:20
  Speaker 2: like my intimate partner, yeah, because it's almost easier because
• 20:24
  Speaker 2: you can, like you can block them, you can ghost them,
• 20:26
  Speaker 2: like I've definitely been known to do that to a guy.
• 20:29
  Speaker 2: But like with a girlfriend, it's different, Like I don't know,
• 20:31
  Speaker 2: there's something about it that's just hurtful.
• 20:34
  Speaker 1: It's sad. There's a sadness.
• 20:36
  Speaker 3: There's a loss for sure, and not that there's not
• 20:38
  Speaker 3: with a with a significant other.
• 20:40
  Speaker 1: But you can find another guy.
• 20:41
  Speaker 3: Friend, another boy friend. Yeah, you know what I mean.
• 20:43
  Speaker 3: But like with a girl, there's just something really.
• 20:45
  Speaker 1: Sad about it.
• 20:45
  Speaker 3: I don't know, do you think you'll ever be able
• 20:48
  Speaker 3: to get back to where you guys were? I mean
• 20:50
  Speaker 3: I thought that we were going to be able to
• 20:51
  Speaker 3: I really did. And you know what I mean, I'm
• 20:53
  Speaker 3: one of those people were like, Okay, I let a
• 20:55
  Speaker 3: lot of things go.
• 20:56
  Speaker 1: But like when when things are just to another.
• 21:00
  Speaker 3: Level of like they keep escalating and like they're not
• 21:03
  Speaker 3: getting better, and like the things that have been said
• 21:05
  Speaker 3: and done, like I just don't think that it will
• 21:08
  Speaker 3: get there.
• 21:09
  Speaker 1: That makes me sad. Yeah, no, it is.
• 21:11
  Speaker 3: It's really sad. It's really sad. And to be honest
• 21:14
  Speaker 3: with you, like I don't have anything bad to say,
• 21:17
  Speaker 3: and I wish her the best. I mean, to be
• 21:19
  Speaker 3: honest with you, I don't wish bad on anyone, and
• 21:21
  Speaker 3: I really do want her to be happy whatever that is.
• 21:25
  Speaker 3: But I mean, it's just one of those things where
• 21:27
  Speaker 3: like I can't constantly I can't feel the way that
• 21:30
  Speaker 3: I'm feeling either.
• 21:31
  Speaker 2: You know what I mean.
• 21:32
  Speaker 3: Yeah, And I know that I'm a really good friend.
• 21:35
  Speaker 3: I know that I'm a really good friend to everyone
• 21:37
  Speaker 3: in my life, you know.
• 21:38
  Speaker 2: So the real the friendship ultimately went south because of
• 21:43
  Speaker 2: what your boyfriend.
• 21:45
  Speaker 3: Yeah, she hates my boyfriend, And I mean I get it.
• 21:48
  Speaker 3: Like the first of all, no guy is perfect. So
• 21:50
  Speaker 3: your friend's going to be protective of you, and I
• 21:52
  Speaker 3: totally get that. I do get that. But at some
• 21:55
  Speaker 3: point you have to take a step back and be like, look,
• 21:58
  Speaker 3: it's her choice, it's her life.
• 21:59
  Speaker 1: She's gonna make the decisions that she's gonna make. I
• 22:01
  Speaker 1: love her. She's been a good friend to me, you
• 22:03
  Speaker 1: know what I mean.
• 22:04
  Speaker 2: Yeah, So I always wonder because I've never I mean,
• 22:09
  Speaker 2: I haven't been in like a healthy, productive relationship in
• 22:14
  Speaker 2: a very long time. And so when I am getting
• 22:18
  Speaker 2: to know new friends who are women and I don't
• 22:22
  Speaker 2: necessarily connect with their husband or their boyfriend, I'm like,
• 22:26
  Speaker 2: is their aversion of me still being your friend if
• 22:30
  Speaker 2: I don't connect with your person?
• 22:33
  Speaker 1: No, exactly.
• 22:34
  Speaker 3: So for me, if I don't connect with your significant other,
• 22:38
  Speaker 3: I can still have a relationship with you, because it's like,
• 22:41
  Speaker 3: I'm not going to just not be friends with someone
• 22:42
  Speaker 3: because I don't like their significant other.
• 22:44
  Speaker 2: You know what, I'm sorry, but are you able to
• 22:46
  Speaker 2: be friends with people who are girls who don't like
• 22:48
  Speaker 2: your boyfriend.
• 22:49
  Speaker 1: I mean I would be Yeah, really, I'm fine. I'm
• 22:52
  Speaker 1: so chill.
• 22:53
  Speaker 3: Wow, I'm so chilling, easy going. I don't care if
• 22:55
  Speaker 3: you can be nice to me. If you guys don't
• 22:57
  Speaker 3: see eye to eye, that's okay. I will you'll put
• 23:00
  Speaker 3: effort into the friendship.
• 23:02
  Speaker 2: Wow.
• 23:02
  Speaker 1: I love this. Yeah, I'm fine.
• 23:05
  Speaker 2: You know what, I really love this because I've noticed
• 23:07
  Speaker 2: that there's a lot of women who cannot separate themselves
• 23:12
  Speaker 2: from their relationship, and I'm like, you're your own person. Yeah,
• 23:16
  Speaker 2: this isn't like you don't constantly have to roll as
• 23:18
  Speaker 2: a wei. Yeah no, I mean for sure, that's the thing.
• 23:21
  Speaker 2: I'm not gonna lose friendships, like I don't want to.
• 23:24
  Speaker 2: I don't want to lose a friendship over, you know,
• 23:27
  Speaker 2: a guy. So if I can make it work and like, Okay,
• 23:29
  Speaker 2: you guys don't see eye to eye, that's fine, we
• 23:31
  Speaker 2: can do stuff. Separate, it's okay, you know what I mean.
• 23:33
  Speaker 2: Maybe you'll come around, maybe you won't.
• 23:35
  Speaker 3: But I'm not the type of person where like you
• 23:38
  Speaker 3: need to love the person that I'm with or we're
• 23:39
  Speaker 3: not friends.
• 23:40
  Speaker 1: I'm just not like that. I love this. Yeah, you
• 23:43
  Speaker 1: and I would be great friends. Yeah.
• 23:45
  Speaker 3: Like I'm super easy going. I'm like the friend that
• 23:47
  Speaker 3: like people come to when they're like, I mean, the
• 23:49
  Speaker 3: guy had a girlfriend she was cheating on her husband.
• 23:51
  Speaker 3: She was like, I need to tell someone. I was like,
• 23:54
  Speaker 3: oh shit, okay, it had to be me. But like,
• 23:57
  Speaker 3: I'm not gonna judge you, Like, I'm gonna talk about
• 24:00
  Speaker 3: through it with you, you know what I mean. Let's
• 24:01
  Speaker 3: figure it out why you're doing it? Can you stop?
• 24:04
  Speaker 1: You have children? You know what I mean. Yeah. So,
• 24:07
  Speaker 1: but I'm just a friend that, like I just I'm
• 24:10
  Speaker 1: not judgmental. I love this.
• 24:12
  Speaker 2: Yeah, I have hope for you and Krishelle. Yeah, when
• 24:16
  Speaker 2: do you guys put cameras up again?
• 24:17
  Speaker 1: Do you know? Oh, I don't know that. I haven't
• 24:19
  Speaker 1: heard about season ten yet. Here's the thing.
• 24:22
  Speaker 2: When there's a friendship with a lot of history and
• 24:24
  Speaker 2: it goes south and then things are said and done,
• 24:28
  Speaker 2: you literally have to just have the mindset of you're
• 24:33
  Speaker 2: not going to see eye to eye and you either
• 24:35
  Speaker 2: have to literally forget what the both of you have
• 24:39
  Speaker 2: said and done and start from scratch. And it's actually
• 24:42
  Speaker 2: very very hard to do. Yeah, but I don't know
• 24:45
  Speaker 2: season ten. I'm feeling like a rekindling with you and kshell.
• 24:49
  Speaker 3: Right, we'll see, see, we'll see.
• 24:52
  Speaker 1: Okay.
• 24:52
  Speaker 2: I want to talk about the Empanadus because you said
• 24:55
  Speaker 2: that they're at Mel's Diner and there's one around the
• 24:57
  Speaker 2: corner from me.
• 24:58
  Speaker 1: Yes, so my.
• 25:00
  Speaker 3: Around the menu at Mels and the only other people
• 25:03
  Speaker 3: that have items on the menu are Lana del Rey
• 25:05
  Speaker 3: and Schwartzenegger.
• 25:06
  Speaker 1: What the fuck? Diaman guns company? You're company? Yeah, I'm like, damn, okay,
• 25:12
  Speaker 1: I see you a terminator. How did you get them into
• 25:14
  Speaker 1: Mel's Diner?
• 25:15
  Speaker 2: So?
• 25:15
  Speaker 1: I was super selective.
• 25:17
  Speaker 3: I wanted my Apanadus to be on a menu somewhere,
• 25:19
  Speaker 3: and like people kept asking me, but like Mels is.
• 25:21
  Speaker 1: Iconic, and I was like, Wells's iconic.
• 25:24
  Speaker 3: Yeah. So I was like, I want the first restaurant
• 25:26
  Speaker 3: that I let them go at to just be super
• 25:29
  Speaker 3: iconic and space it at Mels.
• 25:30
  Speaker 2: Is there because I have one by my house I'm
• 25:34
  Speaker 2: in the valley. Then there's one near Sunset.
• 25:36
  Speaker 3: Yeah.
• 25:36
  Speaker 1: Are they at both locations?
• 25:38
  Speaker 3: They should be, but I know that they did sell out,
• 25:39
  Speaker 3: especially with the show airing these They texted and they
• 25:42
  Speaker 3: were like, we need more asap, but they but they're there.
• 25:45
  Speaker 1: They're there, like we just ship them in.
• 25:47
  Speaker 2: Okay, So I want to go and get that, and
• 25:48
  Speaker 2: then I have one more question and you don't have
• 25:50
  Speaker 2: to answer if they're an evil twin. A part of
• 25:53
  Speaker 2: the Oppenheimer is won the angel and one like the
• 25:55
  Speaker 2: evil twin.
• 25:56
  Speaker 3: Ooh, I mean, well they're both a little double girls,
• 26:00
  Speaker 3: that's for sure. They all Yeah, exactly, No, I mean
• 26:06
  Speaker 3: I'd like to just give you an answer because I'm
• 26:08
  Speaker 3: actually like I would tell you, but they're actually both
• 26:11
  Speaker 3: like I they're like my big brothers. I know they're little,
• 26:13
  Speaker 3: but they're like I have, But they're actually like my
• 26:16
  Speaker 3: big brothers are.
• 26:17
  Speaker 1: They're like five to five.
• 26:18
  Speaker 3: I think they're a little shorter. What I think, so
• 26:22
  Speaker 3: like a five three, five four, I've.
• 26:26
  Speaker 1: Five one.
• 26:27
  Speaker 2: They know that.
• 26:28
  Speaker 3: I don't know they're exact type, but I know that
• 26:29
  Speaker 3: they're smaller than five to five.
• 26:31
  Speaker 1: I think they like to say they're taller, but I
• 26:32
  Speaker 1: don't think that.
• 26:33
  Speaker 2: You guys, I am shocked to my very core. Yeah,
• 26:37
  Speaker 2: just a cool five to one, Yeah, swinging, big dick energy.
• 26:40
  Speaker 3: I guess.
• 26:41
  Speaker 1: Yeah. I mean they pull some girls.
• 26:42
  Speaker 3: I have to say they pull girls but I love
• 26:45
  Speaker 3: them because, like they literally are like my big brothers,
• 26:48
  Speaker 3: Like they would never hit on me, they would never
• 26:49
  Speaker 3: be inappropriate with me because they're just protective of me.
• 26:53
  Speaker 2: So I like that they seem like they're protective of
• 26:55
  Speaker 2: the girls who work at the agency.
• 26:57
  Speaker 1: They are. I definitely think that they are. I mean,
• 27:00
  Speaker 1: they've dated a lot of.
• 27:00
  Speaker 3: Them, so they're definitely protective of the ones that they've dated.
• 27:03
  Speaker 1: Then are like.
• 27:04
  Speaker 2: Dogs they peed on the fire hydrant, this is now
• 27:06
  Speaker 2: my fire. Yeah.
• 27:07
  Speaker 3: No, they're definitely like protective of especially like the ones
• 27:10
  Speaker 3: that they've dated, for sure, But they are protective of
• 27:12
  Speaker 3: me in like a little sister sense. Do they get
• 27:15
  Speaker 3: along with your boyfriend? They met once and they were
• 27:19
  Speaker 3: totally fine.
• 27:20
  Speaker 2: It's the age difference with you and your man, Like
• 27:25
  Speaker 2: six years oh a big age.
• 27:28
  Speaker 3: Yeah, it's not that big of a deal. I don't
• 27:29
  Speaker 3: really care.
• 27:30
  Speaker 2: No, once you get into like fifteen twenty, I'm like,
• 27:33
  Speaker 2: I don't know about this.
• 27:34
  Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, yeah, I mean.
• 27:35
  Speaker 3: And to be honest with you, he looks older and like,
• 27:38
  Speaker 3: you know, he's done everything that.
• 27:40
  Speaker 1: He needs to do, so I feel like he's he
• 27:42
  Speaker 1: can relax now.
• 27:43
  Speaker 3: Is he territorial of you? I mean, yes, but I
• 27:46
  Speaker 3: feel like most guys are. But I feel like in
• 27:49
  Speaker 3: a cute way, like he's protective for sure, but yeah,
• 27:55
  Speaker 3: I'm like, I'm trying to think in my head, I'm like,
• 27:57
  Speaker 3: he's definitely protective, but still was like, I mean all
• 27:59
  Speaker 3: of my relationships have been somewhat protective, yeah, and territorial.
• 28:04
  Speaker 2: I'm just trying to have the roadmap back to you
• 28:06
  Speaker 2: and your friendship.
• 28:08
  Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean I do get like I understand some
• 28:11
  Speaker 3: of Krschelle's points, but obviously, you know, when you take
• 28:13
  Speaker 3: it to a level like okay, at some point, you
• 28:15
  Speaker 3: have to let other people live their lives, you know
• 28:17
  Speaker 3: what I mean. Yeah, but I'm not the type of
• 28:19
  Speaker 3: person where like I don't see I can't see both sides,
• 28:21
  Speaker 3: or I don't understand where one person's coming from or
• 28:24
  Speaker 3: the other.
• 28:24
  Speaker 1: Like I definitely try.
• 28:25
  Speaker 3: And see both sides to any situation, whether I'm included
• 28:29
  Speaker 3: in it or not.
• 28:30
  Speaker 1: You know.
• 28:30
  Speaker 2: Yeah, so you told me before we started, and we'll
• 28:34
  Speaker 2: end it on this, but that you're like very chill.
• 28:36
  Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm super sure. I wish.
• 28:39
  Speaker 3: I'm sure producers are like, can you be a little unchill?
• 28:41
  Speaker 3: Oh my god, they hate it. They hate it. They
• 28:43
  Speaker 3: hate it so much. Like I was not made for
• 28:45
  Speaker 3: reality TV. Like I just wasn't. I fell it fell
• 28:49
  Speaker 3: into place. I happen to work for a brokerage that
• 28:52
  Speaker 3: was had a TV show. I happened to date the
• 28:54
  Speaker 3: same guy that dated the one of the main cast members.
• 28:58
  Speaker 3: My story just kind of fell in to place, and
• 29:00
  Speaker 3: I haven't to be working for the brokerage. But like, no,
• 29:03
  Speaker 3: I'm not really made for reality TV. I don't like drama.
• 29:06
  Speaker 3: I don't like fighting.
• 29:07
  Speaker 1: I won't.
• 29:07
  Speaker 3: I don't really drink like they're like, try to feed
• 29:10
  Speaker 3: me booze and I'm like, just give me a coffee.
• 29:12
  Speaker 2: That is, you know, because as you're talking, I'm like, Okay,
• 29:16
  Speaker 2: she has conquered the art of finding the gray in life,
• 29:19
  Speaker 2: which which is wonderful, Like that's.
• 29:20
  Speaker 1: What you want in life.
• 29:22
  Speaker 3: Yeah.
• 29:22
  Speaker 2: My mom from the time I was a child always
• 29:26
  Speaker 2: tried to get me to be in the gray. And
• 29:28
  Speaker 2: I was black or white. Man, it was like I
• 29:30
  Speaker 2: didn't know how to live in the gray.
• 29:32
  Speaker 3: Ye.
• 29:33
  Speaker 2: So I don't love confrontation, but I'm excellent at it,
• 29:37
  Speaker 2: Like I can, I can take it by the balls
• 29:39
  Speaker 2: and just like make it my bitch. So I actually
• 29:42
  Speaker 2: feel like I make great reality TV, but it is
• 29:46
  Speaker 2: just a weird life to sign up for.
• 29:48
  Speaker 1: It really is.
• 29:49
  Speaker 3: And so I feel like because I am more gray
• 29:52
  Speaker 3: and I'm more neutral and I don't really love drama,
• 29:55
  Speaker 3: They're like, Okay, we're gonna anything that you mentioned with
• 29:58
  Speaker 3: a relationship. So like, my relationships is what gives them headlines.
• 30:02
  Speaker 3: So no matter what I'm doing, no matter who I'm
• 30:03
  Speaker 3: talking to. First season, it was like me and my
• 30:06
  Speaker 3: ex that I was engaged to with the Christine drama.
• 30:09
  Speaker 3: Then it was like, oh my god, I made a
• 30:10
  Speaker 3: comment about someone on Riya that slid in or that
• 30:13
  Speaker 3: wrote me, and then that went viral. And then I
• 30:15
  Speaker 3: dated a guy that I was selling his house. It's
• 30:18
  Speaker 3: always like relationships for me, which is.
• 30:21
  Speaker 1: Like, how little suffocating? Yeah, it's a lot.
• 30:23
  Speaker 3: Because I'm like, I want my relationship to be private,
• 30:26
  Speaker 3: and I am.
• 30:27
  Speaker 1: I've always been.
• 30:28
  Speaker 3: Private about my relationships even before the show, like I
• 30:30
  Speaker 3: was engaged and I never posted I was engaged before
• 30:33
  Speaker 3: the show, Like I've just always been protective and private
• 30:36
  Speaker 3: about my relationships. So now I'm on the show where
• 30:38
  Speaker 3: all they want to do is talk about who I'm dating,
• 30:40
  Speaker 3: and like everything, every detail about.
• 30:42
  Speaker 1: It and it is overwhelming.
• 30:45
  Speaker 2: Do you think that there will be a day where
• 30:47
  Speaker 2: you're like, I think I'm done here or is it
• 30:50
  Speaker 2: scratching in it right now?
• 30:51
  Speaker 3: Oh? Yeah, no, no, no, Like I'm I was basically
• 30:54
  Speaker 3: done season eight and I kind of came back to
• 30:56
  Speaker 3: tell like my side of the story.
• 30:58
  Speaker 1: Okay, well it's like TVD on season ten. Yeah, I
• 31:02
  Speaker 1: mean I'm kind of I'm tapped.
• 31:04
  Speaker 2: You're well, yeah, you mean you've got everything going on,
• 31:07
  Speaker 2: but yeah, like you have your business.
• 31:10
  Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean, I'll never say never.
• 31:11
  Speaker 3: I don't like when people say they're not going to
• 31:13
  Speaker 3: join the show and then they do, and you know
• 31:15
  Speaker 3: what I mean, I've heard that so many times where
• 31:16
  Speaker 3: people like I'm never coming back, I'm never coming back
• 31:18
  Speaker 3: and on their back every season, and like a lot
• 31:20
  Speaker 3: of people have done and said that, Like I'm not
• 31:23
  Speaker 3: naming names, but like a lot of people, you know
• 31:25
  Speaker 3: what I mean.
• 31:25
  Speaker 1: I do it every year.
• 31:26
  Speaker 3: Yeah, exactly, exactly. Yeah, So I've actually never said it.
• 31:29
  Speaker 3: But I'm at a point where, like, I'm really happy
• 31:31
  Speaker 3: with my life.
• 31:32
  Speaker 1: I love my family. I've been trying to spend more
• 31:34
  Speaker 1: time with them.
• 31:35
  Speaker 3: My niece and my nephew live right next door to
• 31:37
  Speaker 3: my parents, and like, I enjoy being home with a family.
• 31:40
  Speaker 3: And I've been on the East Coast a lot this year,
• 31:42
  Speaker 3: which has been really nice.
• 31:43
  Speaker 2: Because you're from Massachusetts, right, Yeah, so your family is
• 31:47
  Speaker 2: still there.
• 31:47
  Speaker 3: Yeah, they come out a lot, but not like my
• 31:50
  Speaker 3: brother and my niece and my nephew and my sister
• 31:52
  Speaker 3: in law, they don't come out as much. So my
• 31:54
  Speaker 3: mom and dad are always with me, Like they love
• 31:56
  Speaker 3: being with me. They travel with me. I'm super close
• 31:58
  Speaker 3: with them. But like I love seeing my niece to
• 32:00
  Speaker 3: my nephew and there she's going to turn five next week,
• 32:02
  Speaker 3: so like I'm flying out for that. But like I
• 32:05
  Speaker 3: like being home with the family. That's what brings me happiness.
• 32:08
  Speaker 2: Yeah, and I'm sure at some point you want a
• 32:10
  Speaker 2: family of you create a family of your own, oh,
• 32:12
  Speaker 2: one hundred percent.
• 32:13
  Speaker 3: Like that's that's always been my goal.
• 32:15
  Speaker 1: Like I'm the godmother to five kids. Shit, Everyone's like,
• 32:19
  Speaker 1: if anything happens, we want you to raise our kids.
• 32:21
  Speaker 3: Like literally, I was a godmother when I was twelve
• 32:23
  Speaker 3: years old because everyone was like, yeah.
• 32:25
  Speaker 1: Wow, how old are you? Can I ask that?
• 32:27
  Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, so I'm thirty three, you're a baby. Yeah,
• 32:30
  Speaker 3: So like all the time.
• 32:31
  Speaker 1: Yeah, I love this. Yeah, so I'm very impressed by you,
• 32:35
  Speaker 1: by the way. Yeah, like I.
• 32:37
  Speaker 3: Love like family is everything to me, like absolutely, at.
• 32:40
  Speaker 2: The end of the day, it's all we have, right yeah, exactly,
• 32:42
  Speaker 2: Like when all of this goes to shit and no
• 32:44
  Speaker 2: one cares about the Vanderpump Rules of Life or you know,
• 32:48
  Speaker 2: selling Sunset, it's like the family is the core of
• 32:51
  Speaker 2: who we are exactly.
• 32:52
  Speaker 3: So like I just I do want to have my
• 32:53
  Speaker 3: own family. That's number one priority on my list to
• 32:56
  Speaker 3: be amazing. I had such a wonderful time talking to you.
• 33:00
  Speaker 3: Thank you for making time for me. Thank you guys
• 33:02
  Speaker 3: for listening to another episode of Untraditionally Lala. I'm going
• 33:05
  Speaker 3: to catch you on the bonus episode and again next week.
• 33:08
  Speaker 1: Bye.