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615. Not Letting Fear Actually Stop Me From Dreaming Big · Be It Till You See It

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  [SPEAKER_01]: It's fuck ya Friday!
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  [SPEAKER_01]: Fuck you!
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  [SPEAKER_01]: Get ready for some wins!
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  [SPEAKER_01]: and it's the antidote to fear.
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  [SPEAKER_01]: Each week my guess will bring bold, executable, intrinsic, and targeted steps that you can use to put yourself first and be it until you see it.
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  [SPEAKER_01]: It's a practice, not a perfect, let's get started.
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  [SPEAKER_01]: I'd be at Bay of Happy December 12th.
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  [SPEAKER_01]: Oh my god, if you're listening to this, what you didn't hear is when I started this episode and I was so proud of my intro, it was so amazing.
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  [SPEAKER_01]: And I hadn't hit record on the podcast file.
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  [SPEAKER_01]: So, you know, it's super fun.
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  [SPEAKER_01]: We're just taking messy action around here.
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  [SPEAKER_01]: We are just rolling with it and...
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  [SPEAKER_01]: I have so many things, I'm like, it's like, which wind to share because got some winds for you.
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  [SPEAKER_01]: So the first we have to do something inspired me, hopefully inspires you, then some of your winds you've sent in, then I went of mine, then your affirmation.
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  [SPEAKER_01]: That's the what that's the episode.
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  [SPEAKER_01]: It's quick.
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  [SPEAKER_01]: It's dirty.
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  [SPEAKER_01]: If you like them in longer, like the sound of my voice.
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  [SPEAKER_01]: I don't know.
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  [SPEAKER_01]: Sometimes I wonder if I'm not like I've assigned this infection all the time.
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  [SPEAKER_01]: Then you can listen to the interview episode.
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  [SPEAKER_01]: I hope you do.
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  [SPEAKER_01]: They're really amazing.
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  [SPEAKER_01]: And then you can listen to the recaps.
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  [SPEAKER_01]: Also, this month we're running on entirely different series.
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  [SPEAKER_01]: We're running the habit series.
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  [SPEAKER_01]: I'm really, really excited about it.
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  [SPEAKER_01]: And I hope that it helps you.
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  [SPEAKER_01]: So, all right.
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  [SPEAKER_01]: The thing that inspired me this, I think I'm going to do.
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  [SPEAKER_01]: Okay.
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  [UNKNOWN]: So,
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  [SPEAKER_01]: If, in January you see me do this and share about my birthday, it's because I did this and I fit in Svira's you.
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  [SPEAKER_01]: I would love to tag me in this.
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  [SPEAKER_01]: So the pre-aparca who has a great book about like entertaining and parties and it's just an incredible book.
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  [SPEAKER_01]: I read it many, many times and I might even listen to it again while we're on this tour because it's just really it's like the art of gathering right and I'm really big and community and there is just so many great things about it, but she shares a different weird ways of people get together and this so this invite is called.
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  [SPEAKER_01]: you got an invite for the wrong party to come dressed for the wrong party.
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  [SPEAKER_01]: Meaning you come dressed in a Halloween costume, but it's a birthday party.
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  [SPEAKER_01]: You come dressed up like it's a funeral, but it's a birthday party.
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  [SPEAKER_01]: You come dressed up like when in a ward or in your wedding dress.
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  [SPEAKER_01]: I might do that for my birthday.
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  [SPEAKER_01]: I might wear my wedding dress and then someone could wear that.
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  [SPEAKER_01]: How fun is this?
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  [SPEAKER_01]: So I'm kind of obsessed about this because with all of our tours that we've had, it's been really hard for me to have a birthday part of the last couple of years, which is how a lot going on.
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  [SPEAKER_01]: I just haven't wanted to do it.
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  [SPEAKER_01]: But now with this, this invite going out.
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  [SPEAKER_01]: I mean, I might do outfit changes.
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  [SPEAKER_01]: You guys, I'm not even kidding.
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  [SPEAKER_01]: So if you want to see the video of this because the visual makes it just like even that more amazing, definitely check the show now.
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  [SPEAKER_01]: It's but
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  [SPEAKER_01]: Seriously, if you do this, I want to know copy me, but this, it's like a choose you're in a venture party, like honest on steroids, like just I don't even, I don't even know how to pick which outfit to wear the wrong birthday party, but that's what I'm going to do.
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  [SPEAKER_01]: All right, your wins.
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  [SPEAKER_01]: So you guys can send these into the be it pod under be it pod.question, be it pod.com slash questions.
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  [SPEAKER_01]: Wow, I bring what faster than my mouth.
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  [SPEAKER_01]: So send it in.
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  [SPEAKER_01]: You can send your questions.
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  [SPEAKER_01]: Be in
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  [SPEAKER_01]: These wins, here we go.
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  [SPEAKER_01]: Ready, make-and-joy Pilates.
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  [SPEAKER_01]: I signed up for a book writing program.
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  [SPEAKER_01]: That's amazing.
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  [SPEAKER_01]: I freaking love that, Megan, that you are celebrating that with us, because I love that you're celebrating that with us, I love that you're celebrating that for something.
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  [SPEAKER_01]: I love that you're not waiting till you wrote the book.
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  [SPEAKER_01]: Thank you so much for celebrating this one for with us, because that makes it more fun to celebrate, like the things that we are like, I thought about doing that thing.
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  [SPEAKER_01]: That is a win, right?
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  [SPEAKER_01]: Okay.
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  [SPEAKER_01]: Creative Soul Pilates.
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  [SPEAKER_01]: I was able to cover Pilates classes for a friend.
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  [SPEAKER_01]: I taught mine and hers, so she could have a break without worrying her clients.
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  [SPEAKER_01]: Love her and I was able to give them a great class too.
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  [SPEAKER_01]: That's so cool.
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  [SPEAKER_01]: What a win.
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  [SPEAKER_01]: I love that you didn't have in-possure syndrome.
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  [SPEAKER_01]: I love that you showed up.
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  [SPEAKER_01]: You did it for a friend and you got something you had to win out of it.
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  [SPEAKER_01]: Way to go, babe.
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  [SPEAKER_01]: And then pure Pilates as mean, going out of my comfort zone
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  [SPEAKER_01]: Yes, I mean, that was so fun.
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  [SPEAKER_01]: What a win that was.
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  [SPEAKER_01]: First of all, like you did travel to a different country.
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  [SPEAKER_01]: We got to me.
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  [SPEAKER_01]: We got to hang out, but you also stayed with a stranger.
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  [SPEAKER_01]: It's not a stranger anymore.
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  [SPEAKER_01]: But just like so many out of the comfort zone things.
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  [SPEAKER_01]: And it's just, I love that you're celebrating getting outside of your comfort zone.
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  [SPEAKER_01]: We need to do that more.
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  [SPEAKER_01]: Who wants to send in their wind of them getting out of comfort zone?
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  [SPEAKER_01]: Okay, so thank you for sending your wins and those are so fun.
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  [SPEAKER_01]: Cinnamon, they can be long to be short.
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  [SPEAKER_01]: They don't have to be like, oh my god, I have my biggest launch ever.
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  [SPEAKER_01]: Like, that's cool.
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  [SPEAKER_01]: Especially if you had a goal, we rarely hit our goals around here.
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  [SPEAKER_01]: And I still believe this year is super successful.
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  [SPEAKER_01]: So a win of mine.
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  [SPEAKER_01]: Well, I started with you when earlier this year where I took a four day weekend before a crazy travel time so I could have time off and I was really proud of the work that we did so they could have that way I'm just having four days on my friend and while she was here playing our next adventure together and my win is.
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  [SPEAKER_01]: hearing an idea of what we could do together.
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  [SPEAKER_01]: And then doing something from episode one, like literal episode one, has to get better than this, has to get better than this.
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  [SPEAKER_01]: And so I can't wait to share what this is with you.
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  [SPEAKER_01]: When it comes to fruition, we haven't picked our date together, there's a couple things that are,
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  [SPEAKER_01]: we're waiting for.
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  [SPEAKER_01]: Like, essentially a polise piece of equipment has to get released.
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  [SPEAKER_01]: So I can get that polise piece of equipment in my house.
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  [SPEAKER_01]: Once in my house, then I can sell the polise equipment that I, this is a duplicate of to my friend.
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  [SPEAKER_01]: And then my friend and I are going to do this amazing, like, thumb and Louise without the drive and off the cliff part adventure.
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  [SPEAKER_01]: So I will celebrate many wins with you as I plan that trip.
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  [SPEAKER_01]: But I just went like, I will say, like,
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  [SPEAKER_01]: Sometimes I'll hear ideas that require a lot more of my time and my instant fear, like I instant feeling is how am I going to do that?
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  [SPEAKER_01]: Do I have time to do that?
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  [SPEAKER_01]: Like, that's my instant fear, my instant thought.
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  [SPEAKER_01]: But instead, when she mentioned this side, but she mentioned she wanted this piece of equipment and just like, how are we going to get it?
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  [SPEAKER_01]: And then I was like, well, you guys could road trip and that was like, well, we could road trip.
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  [SPEAKER_01]: I'm kind of telling you the thing.
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  [SPEAKER_01]: And
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  [SPEAKER_01]: Then I was like, oh, and we could do this.
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  [SPEAKER_01]: And then she's like, we do this.
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  [SPEAKER_01]: I'm like, how's it get better?
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  [SPEAKER_01]: We could do this.
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  [SPEAKER_01]: And all of a sudden, it became this incredible adventure.
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  [SPEAKER_01]: And I didn't let my worry of like, how am I going to make this happen?
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  [SPEAKER_01]: Stop me from just letting it be as big as it can be.
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  [SPEAKER_01]: And so for my perfectionists and overachievers in this room, I hope.
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  [SPEAKER_01]: that you get to hear amazing great idea and then you get to go and run with it.
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  [SPEAKER_01]: And if you haven't listened episode one, I highly recommend going back.
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  [SPEAKER_01]: Episode one is so good.
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  [SPEAKER_01]: Episode three is amazing.
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  [SPEAKER_01]: So five is great.
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  [SPEAKER_01]: Like our beginning catalog, I suck as an interviewer.
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  [SPEAKER_01]: But the guests are phenomenal.
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  [SPEAKER_01]: I guess I don't suck.
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  [SPEAKER_01]: People said I was really good.
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  [SPEAKER_01]: But, you know,
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  [SPEAKER_01]: I was being as I see it on that.
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  [SPEAKER_01]: So if you wanna hear that from where we are now, it's like over up so it's 600.
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  [SPEAKER_01]: But that's my win.
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  [SPEAKER_01]: My win is just like not letting the details and logistics stop me from dreaming super big about once in a lifetime shared experience.
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  [SPEAKER_01]: So anyways, now it's time for an affirmation.
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  [SPEAKER_01]: Do you see a win's gonna be anything?
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  [SPEAKER_01]: It's gonna be anything.
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  [SPEAKER_01]: Okay, so the affirmation for your weekend is,
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  [SPEAKER_01]: I am growing and I am going at my own pace.
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  [SPEAKER_01]: I am growing and I am going at my own pace.
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  [SPEAKER_01]: I am growing and going at my own pace.
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  [SPEAKER_01]: My loves you are.
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  [SPEAKER_01]: And there is no race.
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  [SPEAKER_01]: There's not like even if you are born the same day at the same time as somebody else.
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  [SPEAKER_01]: If you are in different parts of this country, you'd have a different birth chart.
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  [SPEAKER_01]: So.
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  [SPEAKER_01]: you're on a different pace.
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  [SPEAKER_01]: You're running your own.
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  [SPEAKER_01]: You're growing at your own version of it.
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  [SPEAKER_01]: All right, and we want to hear about it when it's celebrate with you, so.
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