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Clare Crawley ‘likes’ Tweets saying she was ‘forced out’ of ‘The Bachelorette’, Kylie Jenner dethroned as Instagram’s highest-paid celebrity, Wendy Williams responds to bizarre behavior! · Naughty But Nice with Rob Shuter

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Speaker 1: Advice. Sello, Welcome to the Naughty but Nic Show. I'm
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Speaker 1: your host, Rob Shooter. It is Tuesday, and on Tuesday,
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Speaker 1: we're lucky to have my friend, your friend, Mr Lena Dixon.
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Speaker 1: Mry are you there? I am Mr Shooter. How are
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Speaker 1: you this morning? Very well? And I see on a
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Speaker 1: zoom that you're back in New York City. Welcome home.
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Speaker 1: You're back for a little bit. Yeah, I had to
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Speaker 1: come back and take care of some stuff, but of
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Speaker 1: course I'm pretty much staying in my apartment so keeping
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Speaker 1: everyone safe. But it's great. It's it's nice to be
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Speaker 1: back at home and see a little bit of the city.
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Speaker 1: It's coming back to life, isn't it. It's coming back
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Speaker 1: to life each day around. But it's chilly here. You
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Speaker 1: know what it really is here? It's tea time. Let's
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Speaker 1: get into the gossipy of the day. So Claire Crawley
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Speaker 1: has like to few tweets and now it has started
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Speaker 1: all the rumors again about did she actually quit the
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Speaker 1: Bachelorette or was she forced out? So Claire has to
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Speaker 1: stay silent about Taysha Adams replacing her on the show.
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Speaker 1: She said absolutely nothing about it, but she got a
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Speaker 1: little bit Brave and likes a few tweets that clearly
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Speaker 1: gave us a little bit of insight into what is
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Speaker 1: going on. But one of the tweets actually said is
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Speaker 1: that Claire was forced out of the show after twelve
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Speaker 1: days of filming. It is claimed that Claire quit the show. However,
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Speaker 1: they do not believe that's true. They think Claire locked
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Speaker 1: herself in her room and wouldn't come out. It also
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Speaker 1: went on to say that now Claire is getting a
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Speaker 1: bad edit. So once you leave the show, even when
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Speaker 1: you're on the show, you have no control over the
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Speaker 1: final edit on these reality shows, So now producers are
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Speaker 1: allegedly giving her a bad edit to get her off
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Speaker 1: and bring the new girl in. Also to what is
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Speaker 1: very suspicious about this, and this is a tweet that
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Speaker 1: Claire liked. Tasha, who's the new lady, had already been
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Speaker 1: quarantining for nine days while Claire was filming, So the
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Speaker 1: minute Claire started filming, they brought the new girl in
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Speaker 1: and locks her in a room to keep her in quarantine.
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Speaker 1: So now people are speculating that all along production knew
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Speaker 1: what they were going to do. She never quit the show.
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Speaker 1: She was pushed out of the show. Now Claire is
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Speaker 1: liking these tweets. She has a contract with ABC, and
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Speaker 1: it's a tough contract where she can say nothing nothing
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Speaker 1: for over a year. What's going on here? Mr? Oh
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Speaker 1: my goodness. First of all, ABC is so smart to
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Speaker 1: make them sign that contract. But you haven't understand. I've
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Speaker 1: spoken to all my female friends and they have told
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Speaker 1: me that when they met their husband, they knew immediately
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Speaker 1: they were going to marry that guy. And that's what
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Speaker 1: Claire said about Dale. So any producer who saw that said,
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Speaker 1: you know what, this is an opportunity. Um, And so
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Speaker 1: we could bring somebody Wilson and you know, it's it's
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Speaker 1: kind of a boring season because they're quarantine. They can't
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Speaker 1: go anywhere, they can't have the great amazing dates. So
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Speaker 1: what better way to shake up the show but to
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Speaker 1: bring another girl in? And as for Claire quitting, Claire
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Speaker 1: has actually said that she did not quit the show,
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Speaker 1: that she followed through and found love like she was
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Speaker 1: supposed to. UM. So basically, here's what I'm thinking. It's
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Speaker 1: not that Claire quits, but it's kind of said, hey,
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Speaker 1: you know, it looks like you've already found your love.
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Speaker 1: This isn't going to be very exciting. Maybe we should
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Speaker 1: motivate you to exit. Right. It's very tricky, isn't it? Here?
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Speaker 1: Because we've worked on shows and producers are terribly hands on.
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Speaker 1: That's their job. They're not they're they're not being paid
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Speaker 1: all this money to sit back and do nothing. They produce.
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Speaker 1: What a producer does is make sure of the show
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Speaker 1: is exciting. They literally produced the show, so they do
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Speaker 1: steer you in different directions. They picked the topics on
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Speaker 1: a lot of a lot of shows like The View
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Speaker 1: and and all those shows. Wendy William's show, they picked
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Speaker 1: the topics for her to talk about each day. So
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Speaker 1: they are there to do a job. But now they
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Speaker 1: have had many, many seasons under their belts. They are
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Speaker 1: not newbies at this show, this formula. They know what's
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Speaker 1: going on. I would argue most of the people that
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Speaker 1: go on the show find love pretty for or at
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Speaker 1: least lust pretty fast. Many people who have done the
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Speaker 1: show have told me in the past they knew the
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Speaker 1: one within the first twenty four hours, So I agree
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Speaker 1: with your girlfriend's mystery. However, they did have a contract.
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Speaker 1: They were on there to work. Yes, you want to
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Speaker 1: find love, but it's also a job. It's a paid job.
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Speaker 1: This isn't a date with your friends. You sign a
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Speaker 1: contract to do a job where you earn hundreds of
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Speaker 1: thousands of dollars. Should you follow through? And a lot
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Speaker 1: of people would say yes, But I don't know if
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Speaker 1: Claire was even given that choice. Some people are saying
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Speaker 1: that she was blindsided. They basically told her it would
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Speaker 1: be best for everybody if she quit. If she left
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Speaker 1: in the middle of the show, makes sense, Yeah, yeah, absolutely,
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Speaker 1: And that's what I was saying. I think that the
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Speaker 1: teaser that we're watching and television is cut to make
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Speaker 1: her look bad, But in real the it's going to
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Speaker 1: be the producers who are saying, look, it's obvious who
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Speaker 1: you love. This is not going to be very exciting.
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Speaker 1: So it would be in our best interest and the
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Speaker 1: guy's best interest that that we bring in another bachelorette.
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Speaker 1: Everybody has a chance to find love, so that's the
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Speaker 1: way you gotta do it. Something. It's some reality shows,
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Speaker 1: so sometimes we forget that the Bachelorette or the Bachelor
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Speaker 1: is a reality show because it's so classy. It's not
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Speaker 1: like those real housewives flipping tables or pulling wings. But
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Speaker 1: they're basically the same type of show, and whenever one
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Speaker 1: of the ladies is going to be fired from the Housewives,
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Speaker 1: they always know that and they normally get a bad edit.
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Speaker 1: You don't want to, as a producer, have somebody leave
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Speaker 1: that everybody loves. By the time they leave the show,
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Speaker 1: you want the audience to be ready to get rid
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Speaker 1: of them, and that's the power with editing. So at
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Speaker 1: the moment, I actually feel quite bad for Claire because
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Speaker 1: she's not allowed to say anything. She could get the
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Speaker 1: worst edit in the world. We might finally want Claire
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Speaker 1: off the show, and they're going to set it up
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Speaker 1: for the new girl to be an angel, to come
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Speaker 1: and be just wonderful, and there's nothing Claire can do
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Speaker 1: about it, which brings us that I don't think that's
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Speaker 1: that's what they're gonna do, Mr Shier. I think that
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Speaker 1: Claire and Dale are two beautiful people. A Dale is gorgeous.
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Speaker 1: You know, I've met him, and that's TV gold. So
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Speaker 1: they're just going to be like, go off and find
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Speaker 1: your love and come back in a year when we
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Speaker 1: do your wedding spec do you think they'll allow them
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Speaker 1: to do press So the last bachelor who they didn't
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Speaker 1: like that much. They banned him from doing press. He
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Speaker 1: didn't do Good Morning America, he didn't do Jimmy Kimmel.
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Speaker 1: They're all ABC shows. Do you think they'll let Claire
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Speaker 1: do press? Well? Once she's off the show, will they silence?
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Speaker 1: So what do you think? I believe they will allow
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Speaker 1: them to do press because we know the climate of
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Speaker 1: the world right now and it's all about diversity, and
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Speaker 1: Dale happens to be bi racial, so it's certainly not
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Speaker 1: a bad look for the show to have a bi
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Speaker 1: racial couple out there being in love talking about how
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Speaker 1: they found love and the system worked. It worked for them.
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Speaker 1: I mean, she did find her husband, it's she just
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Speaker 1: found him a little quicker than I'm rooting for the
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Speaker 1: This brings us to our whole question of today. Claire
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Speaker 1: Crawley likes tweets saying that she was four stout of
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Speaker 1: the Bachelorette. Did she quit or was she removed? A
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Speaker 1: vote on our Twitter page at Naughty Nice Rob. On
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Speaker 1: facebook page is Naughty Gossip and visua to check back
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Speaker 1: tomorrow to hear your results. Msteve, what are you working
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Speaker 1: on that? Rob? I'm gonna be talking about money right now,
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Speaker 1: So Kylie Jenner has been dethroned as Instagram's highest paid celebrity.
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Speaker 1: I know who could possibly take her place? So Hopper
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Speaker 1: HQ has compiled the list on how much money celebrities
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Speaker 1: can make each time they make a post. Now, she
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Speaker 1: was number one last year, but somebody has replaced her.
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Speaker 1: I'm gonna give you the top five counting down, So
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Speaker 1: Ariana grand Day is number five. Kylie's sister Kim is
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Speaker 1: number four. Christiano Ronando that's sexy, sexy. Number three yes, yes, um.
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Speaker 1: Number two is Kylie Jenner. Now she has one eighties
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Speaker 1: seven million followers, so the cost purpose she can make
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Speaker 1: is nine hundred and eighty six thousand dollars. So who
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Speaker 1: replaced her? It's Duane Johnson The Rock. He has one
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Speaker 1: and ninety million followers and according to Harper HQ, he
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Speaker 1: can make one point two million dollars per post. Rob,
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Speaker 1: excuse me? How much does it cost the post on
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Speaker 1: your Instagram? Like I don't have many followers? You have
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Speaker 1: more than I do. I think I have about sixteen
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Speaker 1: or seventeen thousand. Please follow me. It's at the Naughty
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Speaker 1: Gossip So I probably could. I'd probably have to pay
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Speaker 1: you maybe a dollar, but I wouldn't. I don't know
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Speaker 1: if I would charge, even if I had that amount
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Speaker 1: of power. I think if there was charities or friends
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Speaker 1: or things I wanted to promote, I'd just put them on.
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Speaker 1: Do you know what I mean? Like, I don't know
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Speaker 1: if I would think of it as a business move. Mister,
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Speaker 1: you have over twenty thousand followers on your Instagram? Would
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Speaker 1: you charge or you just do it as a favor though,
8:53
Speaker 1: you know I took a moment to answer, I mean,
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Speaker 1: this is a business. If it was a brand I
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Speaker 1: believed in and something that I think would speak to
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Speaker 1: the people who follow me on Instagram, I would say yes.
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Speaker 1: Oh and I got the nicest Instagram. I'm sorry I'm
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Speaker 1: not recalling her name, but she wrote me the nicest
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Speaker 1: Instagram about hearing our show and talking about self loves.
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Speaker 1: So thank you. I will get your name and giving
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Speaker 1: tomorrow and mistay and I'll do a big shout out. Okay,
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Speaker 1: moving along, Wendy Williams is saying she's not perfect and
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Speaker 1: she doesn't even want to be a perfectionist after some
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Speaker 1: very strange behavior, So viewers are very worried about Wendy
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Speaker 1: on Friday's show. She was slurring her words, she was
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Speaker 1: stopping in mid sentence, lots of pauses there. She seemed
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Speaker 1: to be really relying on her friend Norman, who we know,
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Speaker 1: Norman Baker. I love him. So now she had to
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Speaker 1: say something, she had to set the record straight. I'm
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Speaker 1: not sure Wendy wanted to do this, but she did.
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Speaker 1: She'd said that she appreciates everybody watching, but after all
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Speaker 1: these years, it's still work and a lot of effort
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Speaker 1: is put into that hour she spends with everybody every day.
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Speaker 1: She also said that every day isn't perfect. But I'm
9:57
Speaker 1: not a perfectionist. Are you a infectionist? Mister you I
10:01
Speaker 1: tend to be a perfectionist. You know, I'm getting my
10:03
Speaker 1: apartment clean and ready for the holidays, and it's like
10:07
Speaker 1: I'm using a toothbrush to clean the sides here, you know,
10:10
Speaker 1: queen to clean the ground. But I have to say,
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Speaker 1: I watched the Wendy Show yesterday and it seemed like
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Speaker 1: she was more somber than usual. It didn't seem like
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Speaker 1: she was having a lot of fun. And I have
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Speaker 1: a theory on this. You know, as we all know,
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Speaker 1: Wendy went through a divorce from Kevin Hunter, and she
10:27
Speaker 1: was ready to be out there and date and go
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Speaker 1: to parties, all the things that you do as a
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Speaker 1: single gal in New York City. And then the pandemic
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Speaker 1: happened and we're all in our homes and we're sitting
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Speaker 1: here and she's not having that chance to go out
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Speaker 1: and interact with people, and it's a difficult. I know
10:41
Speaker 1: she's Wendy Williams. I know she got friends, but it's
10:44
Speaker 1: different when you're, you know, a single gal in the city.
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Speaker 1: So I think it's been really tough on I agree
10:50
Speaker 1: with you. We know Wendy pretty well. Delane has done
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Speaker 1: her show many times. I've done the show many times.
10:53
Speaker 1: It's a really fun show to do. When you get there,
10:55
Speaker 1: everybody's excited and the energy levels huge. I also think
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Speaker 1: not having an orders too as really hurt Wendy. That
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Speaker 1: place was a party, it was a circus. Remember when
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Speaker 1: you walked in, Mr in the crowd as whooo. It
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Speaker 1: was so much fun. And I think not having their
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Speaker 1: plans there every day has probably affected her. But we
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Speaker 1: do have to be honest here. Wendy's had her struggles.
11:16
Speaker 1: We know about this. She's spoken about them. She's spoken
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Speaker 1: about the complications from her graves disease. She's talked about
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Speaker 1: her problems with addiction in the past. I hope everything's
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Speaker 1: okay here. I was concerned when I'm watched it, and
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Speaker 1: I like her. I'm sticking up for her here. Full
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Speaker 1: of full disclosure, I'm biased. I really like Wendy Williams,
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Speaker 1: and I feel something's off, and I hope they all
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Speaker 1: get it together. Maybe I don't know, maybe taking a break.
11:41
Speaker 1: I know, for a while there they tried to give
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Speaker 1: her a break by having filling hosts. But the problem is,
11:46
Speaker 1: and this is a good problem to have, I guess, Wendy,
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Speaker 1: when you're not there, people don't watch. Member Jerry O'Connell,
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Speaker 1: I love him, but nobody really watched him. And then
11:54
Speaker 1: when Wendy was away, they had other people fill in
11:57
Speaker 1: and co host the show or actually host the show.
11:59
Speaker 1: They would not Wendy. It's the Wendy Williams Show. Hey,
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Speaker 1: I want our Wendy back, and I get it every day.
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Speaker 1: Having to be that happy and exciting, particularly in the
12:10
Speaker 1: world that sometimes doesn't feel like that, is very, very tough.
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Speaker 1: But I think Wendy is a good enough actress and
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Speaker 1: a good enough host to pull this off. We're rooting
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Speaker 1: for you, Wendy. What's going on with m oh Well?
12:23
Speaker 1: Zach Afron has some good friends because they're revealing the
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Speaker 1: details of his romance with his friend Valadares. Yeah, that's
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Speaker 1: why I said good friends. Maybe he gave them permission.
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Speaker 1: So there's an Australian radio host named Kyle sandy Lands
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Speaker 1: and he's speaking of Zack and Vanessa who are both
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Speaker 1: in Australia, and he said she's lovely. He couldn't get
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Speaker 1: a lovelier, more sweet girl. Now, Zach has pretty much
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Speaker 1: been in Australia since the summer, kind of sheltering there,
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Speaker 1: and he did confirm that he's not doing a movie.
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Speaker 1: And so Kyle says, is that you know, they're just
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Speaker 1: a beautiful couple. They're doing everything together. There's been talk
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Speaker 1: that is looking to put permanent roots down and Vanessa
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Speaker 1: through Zach a surprise party recently, and of course Kyle
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Speaker 1: is revealing all the details, including the famous guests there.
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Speaker 1: So there was a tennis pro name Pat Rafner there
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Speaker 1: as well as the band in Excess voice Australia host
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Speaker 1: Renee Bond. And of course it's not a party, it's
13:21
Speaker 1: not a party in Australia unless you have a couple
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Speaker 1: of hym's worth. So he had to Chris Adelaine, Hello,
13:27
Speaker 1: where was my invitation? So they're just super cute together,
13:32
Speaker 1: and a lot of people are talking that they're thinking
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Speaker 1: about getting engaged, or they might already be engaged. So
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Speaker 1: I mean, Rob, would you move to Australia take Brust
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Speaker 1: to Australia for love? I think we haven't love here.
13:44
Speaker 1: We're doing pretty okay in America. What I'm more interested
13:46
Speaker 1: in is this friend, this chatty katty. If you're friends
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Speaker 1: with the celebrity, or even it doesn't have to be
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Speaker 1: a celebrity, a regular friend, are you allowed to talk
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Speaker 1: about their business? My philosophy years, Yes, I love talking
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Speaker 1: about people. I do it for a living. You have
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Speaker 1: to tell me not to and I will respect it.
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Speaker 1: If you tell me not to talk about something, I
14:05
Speaker 1: won't do it. If you don't tell me, then I
14:07
Speaker 1: think it's fair game. What are your parameters on that mystery? Well,
14:11
Speaker 1: I think one thing that being a journalist has taught
14:13
Speaker 1: us is that, yes, we talk about a lot of things,
14:15
Speaker 1: but we also know how to keep a lot of
14:17
Speaker 1: things private. I think in this case, because Kyle is
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Speaker 1: a radio DJ. It was kind of like, Zach, I'm
14:23
Speaker 1: going to talk about this. He's like, all right, that's
14:24
Speaker 1: a part of your job. Um. I tend to keep
14:27
Speaker 1: people's personal lives really really private, and I'm an open book.
14:31
Speaker 1: You can talk about anything. But you know, there are
14:33
Speaker 1: certain things I've told you in the past, Rob where
14:35
Speaker 1: I'm like, let's keep this one on the download until
14:37
Speaker 1: it's time for the world tonight and then meet that
14:39
Speaker 1: I do do it. Miss, Be honest, if you tell
14:42
Speaker 1: me a secret, and you tell me it's a secret,
14:44
Speaker 1: I won't say anything. Oh yeah, no, you're very good
14:47
Speaker 1: at that. But if I don't tell you it's a secret,
14:49
Speaker 1: it's you know, two minutes later it's it's it's on
14:52
Speaker 1: me the naughty Friends, which is okay because I know
14:55
Speaker 1: you're going to put it up there. Ryan Phillippy is
14:58
Speaker 1: surprisingly throwing a little shade Ellen Degenera. So Ryan posted
15:02
Speaker 1: a selfie of a workout. He looks good. We love
15:04
Speaker 1: to see him working and but fans are actually talking
15:08
Speaker 1: about his burn of Ellen. So we walked past the
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Speaker 1: muruler for the Ellen Show, he took a picture of him.
15:13
Speaker 1: Ellen's behind him a big poster of her, and he
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Speaker 1: wrote and remember to be kind dot dot dot. Wait.
15:21
Speaker 1: The photo has since been deleted, but fans captured it.
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Speaker 1: Be Kind was Ellen's and I think it still is
15:27
Speaker 1: her iconic catch phrase for years. This was a pointless
15:33
Speaker 1: dig in my opinion, I don't think he needed to
15:35
Speaker 1: do this, kicking somebody when they're down. He didn't tell
15:38
Speaker 1: us anything new, it's not particularly witty. What do you think.
15:42
Speaker 1: I think this was a mistake. Yeah, you know, Ryan
15:44
Speaker 1: hasn't been on The Ellen Show since two thousand and eleven,
15:46
Speaker 1: and she's actually pretty good friends with his ex wife, Reese.
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Speaker 1: So I'm wondering Reese Weatherspoon, So I'm wondering if this
15:53
Speaker 1: was kind of a dig towards his ex wife. It
15:56
Speaker 1: just seems imports Um, yeah, it was is No, there's
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Speaker 1: no connection. It's not like you two had a fight recently,
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Speaker 1: and so this makes sense. It just seems to come
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Speaker 1: out of nowhere, and I don't think Ryan should I agree.
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Speaker 1: So let's take a quick break here. We can agree
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Speaker 1: about that, and we will be back in just a moment.
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Speaker 1: Welcome back to do not even. I share my host
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Speaker 1: stoup Shooter with the fabulous miss she's here every Well,
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Speaker 1: let's get to the poles. So yesterday's pole, we had
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Speaker 1: a fabulous, fabulous story about Adele making a joke about
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Speaker 1: her weight on s n L and people were furious.
16:36
Speaker 1: They thought she was making a fat joke. Our fat
16:39
Speaker 1: jokes funny yes or no? Wow? Seventy two percent said no,
16:44
Speaker 1: fat jokes are not funny. I totally agree with this.
16:47
Speaker 1: I thought it'd be even higher. What minor throwing people
16:50
Speaker 1: off a little bit here, and the polls should have
16:52
Speaker 1: probably been more clear, is misst can you make a
16:55
Speaker 1: fat joke or a weight joke about yourself? I think
16:58
Speaker 1: I didn't take it as a as a fat joke
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Speaker 1: at all. I think she just, you know, was basically saying,
17:02
Speaker 1: look I put in the hard work. We know she's
17:04
Speaker 1: done it through diet and exercise, very healthy. It took
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Speaker 1: her year, so she was like, this is the half
17:09
Speaker 1: of me that I brought. I I didn't see that
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Speaker 1: at all, so I was I'm kind of surprised. I
17:13
Speaker 1: thought she was amazing on SNL and did a number
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Speaker 1: credible through the roof. Hey don't forget to vote on
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Speaker 1: today's poll. You can get to our Twitter page at
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Speaker 1: Naughty nice rather Facebook page naughty gossip. It is about
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Speaker 1: the bachelorette. Did she quit or was she removed? She
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Speaker 1: were to check back tomorrow to hear your results. And
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Speaker 1: now it's time for our nicest nicest day. Well, our
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Speaker 1: nicest of the day is about Megan Markle and Prince Harry.
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Speaker 1: She helped him realize about unconscious bias, so he had
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Speaker 1: no idea it existed. So this is what he said.
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Speaker 1: He said, unconscious bias. From my understanding, having my upbringing
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Speaker 1: as a prince and the education that I had, I
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Speaker 1: had no idea what it was. So of course it's
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Speaker 1: become more aware to him. He married his wife Megan.
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Speaker 1: Obviously she's biracial. He has a biracial son right now.
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Speaker 1: And he says, you know, basically, it took me many
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Speaker 1: many years to realize it. And he's stressing the importance
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Speaker 1: of people educating themselves about how to be a and
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Speaker 1: t racist because ignorance is no longer an excuse, and
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Speaker 1: I need to explain what unconscious biases. So it's when
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Speaker 1: you have social stereotypes about a certain group of people,
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Speaker 1: and you make assumptions off of a person from those
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Speaker 1: stereotypes you have without even knowing the person, are getting
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Speaker 1: to know the person. So that's what kind of uh yeah,
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Speaker 1: that's the definition of unconscious bias. So you know, and
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Speaker 1: a lot of people go through this, you know, when
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Speaker 1: you don't have a diverse group of friends or people
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Speaker 1: around you, of course you're going to make assumptions. That's
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Speaker 1: how our brain works. So it's important to educate yourself,
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Speaker 1: just like Prince Harry said, so you can make decisions
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Speaker 1: based on a person, based on their individuality exactly. I've
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Speaker 1: learned so much being friends with you for many, many years, mister.
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Speaker 1: Not only did you bring joy into my life, you
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Speaker 1: really do help educate me too. And I think too,
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Speaker 1: I do like this phrase. You have to na be
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Speaker 1: an anti racist. I can't just be not a racist,
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Speaker 1: which I hope, I hope I am not. I have
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Speaker 1: to be an anti racist, and I think that's something
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Speaker 1: we can all think about. Let's do and naughty as
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Speaker 1: something day, naughty, naughty, naughty. A really sad story here.
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Speaker 1: Jamie Fox's younger sister, DeAndre Dixon, has died at just
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Speaker 1: thirty six years old. He said his heart is shattered
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Speaker 1: into a million pieces. DeAndre was born in Dallas, Texas,
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Speaker 1: to Jamie's mother Louise and his stepfather George in Night four.
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Speaker 1: He said they were not tripping over the fact that
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Speaker 1: she had dan syndrome, but they were tripping over the
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Speaker 1: fact that they had this cute little sister, who he
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Speaker 1: called a little chocolate ball. DeAndre competed in the Special Olympics.
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Speaker 1: She loved to dance, Jamie told Dateline in two thousand
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Speaker 1: and eighty and that her love of dance was everything
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Speaker 1: to him, and she actually taught him how to live.
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Speaker 1: So when he was focused on stuff that didn't matter,
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Speaker 1: like did he have the right colors Mercedes Benz, he'd
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Speaker 1: look over there and see this girl who was so
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Speaker 1: happy and just wanted to dance and just wanted to love,
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Speaker 1: and she brought that back into his life. Just heartbreaking
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Speaker 1: to bring love and joy into this world. Ah, DeAndre
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Speaker 1: rest in peace, and now it's time for a moment
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Speaker 1: of rob. You get a rob you get at rob.
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Speaker 1: Let's talk today about forgiving yourself and forgiving others. It's
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Speaker 1: a very difficult thing to do, but maybe Nelson Mandela
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Speaker 1: said it bests I think so this really resonated with me.
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Speaker 1: He said. Resentment is like drinking poison and hoping it
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Speaker 1: will kill your enemies. So when you're full of anger,
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Speaker 1: when you can't forgive, you are drinking poison every day,
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Speaker 1: every time you think about it, You are drinking poison
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Speaker 1: hoping it will hurt them, and it doesn't. It only
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Speaker 1: hurts you, misdy. Have you ever held on to trade
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Speaker 1: or poison or bad feelings and realize the only person
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Speaker 1: that's not doing very good at it? This is me? Absolutely.
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Speaker 1: You know, I've spoken about it before. I went through
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Speaker 1: a bad breakup about two years ago, and it was
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Speaker 1: so incredibly painful, and I thought of all the reasons
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Speaker 1: that this person hated me, and I just was so
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Speaker 1: down on myself and I was so angry about it.
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Speaker 1: And then one day, you know, I started doing more
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Speaker 1: work on myself and I realized I am one responsible
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Speaker 1: for my actions and my reactions, and I had to
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Speaker 1: just say, you know, I forgive this person. And I've
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Speaker 1: actually had an opportunity to to forgive them in real
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Speaker 1: life or or have an interaction, and realized that all
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Speaker 1: the thoughts I had were wrong. Um, and so now
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Speaker 1: they've moved on with their life. I'm moving on with mine,
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Speaker 1: and it's such a better place to be, So forgive
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Speaker 1: yourself first. Forgive the person who wronged you if you
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Speaker 1: have the opportunity to speak with them. Probably what you're
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Speaker 1: thinking isn't true, but forgive yourself if you're the most
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Speaker 1: important person in your life. Mistake. Thank you so much
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