Latest / Scrubbing In with Becca Tilley & Tanya Rad / Love Notes

Transcript

Love Notes · Scrubbing In with Becca Tilley & Tanya Rad

• 0:00
  Speaker 1: Scrubbing and Tanya wrath an iHeartRadio podcast.
• 0:08
  Speaker 2: Hello, everybody, we are scrubbing in.
• 0:13
  Speaker 3: Tanya and I are in different time zones. If you
• 0:16
  Speaker 3: look at our outfits, we.
• 0:17
  Speaker 1: Are in time zones, seasons.
• 0:20
  Speaker 2: Different climates, whatever, All the things were in different places.
• 0:26
  Speaker 1: So if you're confused, don't be confused.
• 0:29
  Speaker 3: Don't be confused.
• 0:30
  Speaker 1: So right neck, we can basically touch each other, but
• 0:32
  Speaker 1: we're not.
• 0:35
  Speaker 4: Sorry.
• 0:35
  Speaker 3: I'll give you I'll give you a finger.
• 0:38
  Speaker 2: Yeah, oh sweet, yeah, Wow, it's been a minute.
• 0:43
  Speaker 3: We had two weeks off.
• 0:45
  Speaker 1: So much has happened. I don't even know where to start. First,
• 0:49
  Speaker 1: Let's just clear the air really quick. Oh what do
• 0:51
  Speaker 1: we clear in the air for Mark is in a mood?
• 0:55
  Speaker 4: Stop. I haven't seen Yeah, I'm delightful today. I'm sure he's.
• 0:59
  Speaker 3: Giving shine Monday morning vibes.
• 1:02
  Speaker 1: She's giving down torrential downpour vibes.
• 1:05
  Speaker 4: Tanya doesn't like it if I ever, you know, critique
• 1:08
  Speaker 4: something she did in the morning show or discuss something.
• 1:11
  Speaker 4: She doesn't like that. She calls me cranky when all
• 1:12
  Speaker 4: I'm doing is trying to make the best Tanya she
• 1:15
  Speaker 4: can be.
• 1:15
  Speaker 1: Frankelstein over here, Frankelstein, do.
• 1:20
  Speaker 3: You do you not like being corrected?
• 1:23
  Speaker 1: Well, I don't appreciate being told that nobody's watching Love
• 1:27
  Speaker 1: Island USA, and when it's all the rage right say that.
• 1:30
  Speaker 4: What I said was, we cannot trust your TikTok feed
• 1:33
  Speaker 4: because our TikTok feeds are all customized to us. So
• 1:36
  Speaker 4: when you say, oh my gosh, everything on my TikTok
• 1:38
  Speaker 4: is mouth taping and Love Island USA, I'm like, well,
• 1:42
  Speaker 4: I understand why that is. It's not because it's huge,
• 1:45
  Speaker 4: it's because you're really into that stuff.
• 1:48
  Speaker 1: And then he said he's had enough with the Olivia
• 1:49
  Speaker 1: Colpo trending.
• 1:52
  Speaker 4: She did one this morning and she wanted to do
• 1:54
  Speaker 4: another one tomorrow when I feel like that's a little
• 1:56
  Speaker 4: much for Ah, Yes, I think it's too much attention.
• 2:00
  Speaker 4: I'm not sure. Her wedding was the wedding of the century.
• 2:03
  Speaker 4: And when you're wall multi, you know, full full staff.
• 2:07
  Speaker 3: Coverage of it. What did you need two days for
• 2:09
  Speaker 3: on that?
• 2:10
  Speaker 1: There's so much like diving into the dress and makeups drama,
• 2:14
  Speaker 1: also the pick me energy and then the Aurora Colpo
• 2:18
  Speaker 1: plus one of it all.
• 2:19
  Speaker 3: Yeah yeah, I mean well we can bring it to
• 2:21
  Speaker 3: the podcast.
• 2:21
  Speaker 1: I mean we will bring it, and it's going to
• 2:23
  Speaker 1: be a little bit because we have so much else
• 2:25
  Speaker 1: more to catch up on.
• 2:25
  Speaker 3: That will be later, So stay tuned for the tuned.
• 2:29
  Speaker 3: I will say, as.
• 2:31
  Speaker 2: Someone who doesn't watch a lot of Island do, I say,
• 2:33
  Speaker 2: it's all over my page.
• 2:35
  Speaker 1: Okay, thank you.
• 2:38
  Speaker 3: And a rare moment. I am.
• 2:42
  Speaker 4: It's very hard to spend much time on any TV
• 2:46
  Speaker 4: show today because we're so it's there's so much division,
• 2:51
  Speaker 4: like nobody's there's no show that everyone's watching.
• 2:54
  Speaker 1: Let me tell you something. This show has become my
• 2:57
  Speaker 1: entire personality.
• 2:58
  Speaker 3: That's what you do.
• 2:59
  Speaker 1: This is a I think aramatic constantly. When I'm not walked,
• 3:03
  Speaker 1: I'm up to date. The show drops every single day.
• 3:05
  Speaker 1: If I'm not. When I'm not up to date, i
• 3:07
  Speaker 1: am always up to date. I'm looking on their all
• 3:09
  Speaker 1: their Instagram to see their activity on Instagram. I'm like
• 3:12
  Speaker 1: doing all these deep dives into like people that they
• 3:14
  Speaker 1: dated in the past. I am like fully vested.
• 3:17
  Speaker 2: I was just so upset for Kaylor that she had
• 3:20
  Speaker 2: to go through that, and I loved how all the
• 3:21
  Speaker 2: girls rallied around her.
• 3:29
  Speaker 1: Except I know she's gonna take him back, and it's
• 3:31
  Speaker 1: just like so disappointing, but.
• 3:34
  Speaker 3: And that was basically what she said.
• 3:36
  Speaker 2: So I was like, I'm bringing that to the podcast
• 3:39
  Speaker 2: my knowledge.
• 3:40
  Speaker 3: Yeah, that was really exciting.
• 3:43
  Speaker 1: So let's get into it. How is your fourth of July?
• 3:46
  Speaker 4: You're free.
• 3:48
  Speaker 3: You need to go back further than that, because somebody.
• 3:51
  Speaker 1: Had to go away, way way way back.
• 3:54
  Speaker 3: You went to wedding venue shopping in Mexico.
• 3:57
  Speaker 1: I want wedding venue shopping in Mexican.
• 3:58
  Speaker 3: I haven't even done a pod since then.
• 4:01
  Speaker 1: I spent forty eight hours in Cabo and I saw
• 4:03
  Speaker 1: five venues. We saw five venues.
• 4:06
  Speaker 3: And every single one of them looked like a winner.
• 4:09
  Speaker 1: I know it made the decision even more difficult, but
• 4:13
  Speaker 1: what's so interesting? And like when people are looking at
• 4:16
  Speaker 1: what I'm like, I know it's taking me a lot
• 4:18
  Speaker 1: longer than most people, but I what my wedding planner
• 4:21
  Speaker 1: told me. She's like, you really think of every little
• 4:24
  Speaker 1: aspect that most people don't think about when they're picking
• 4:27
  Speaker 1: their venue. Like I literally look at everything involved.
• 4:31
  Speaker 3: Yeah, we know this is this is part of the
• 4:33
  Speaker 3: control is.
• 4:36
  Speaker 1: Or controlling Yeah, but it's like, I mean, who cares,
• 4:38
  Speaker 1: It's my wedding. So I wanted to be to I.
• 4:40
  Speaker 3: Mean they probably appreciate that.
• 4:42
  Speaker 2: In terms of, you know, planning a wedding, they appreciate
• 4:44
  Speaker 2: a bride who like knows down to the detail.
• 4:47
  Speaker 4: I like to spin the wedding planner who is employed
• 4:50
  Speaker 4: by you is putting on the whole thing, like, Wow,
• 4:53
  Speaker 4: you really get it.
• 4:54
  Speaker 3: You're good, you're doing You're such a good bride.
• 4:57
  Speaker 4: Wow, good for you.
• 4:58
  Speaker 3: Love that you love You're the best. You're the best
• 5:02
  Speaker 3: bride that we've ever had.
• 5:03
  Speaker 1: Come through.
• 5:04
  Speaker 3: She doesn't said that.
• 5:05
  Speaker 1: Marjorie has not said I'm the best bride she's ever had,
• 5:08
  Speaker 1: but she just does say that, like I really look
• 5:10
  Speaker 1: at all the configurations, and then I also too, I'm like,
• 5:15
  Speaker 1: do people not look at how much everything costs before
• 5:18
  Speaker 1: you book a venue? Like, how do you book a
• 5:19
  Speaker 1: venue if you don't have any sort of proposals and
• 5:22
  Speaker 1: those take a while for people to gather and get
• 5:24
  Speaker 1: all that information.
• 5:25
  Speaker 3: Well, no, I think you go and you look at
• 5:27
  Speaker 3: the venue and then you get proposals.
• 5:28
  Speaker 1: Right, That's what I think. But I think some people
• 5:30
  Speaker 1: just like love a venue and they're like, I want
• 5:32
  Speaker 1: to get married here. And people are rich.
• 5:35
  Speaker 3: Rich and don't have to think about money. I guess
• 5:36
  Speaker 3: there's no budget.
• 5:38
  Speaker 1: Yeah, because I'm like you really so, so we kind
• 5:42
  Speaker 1: of basically narrow not narrowed it down, but kind of
• 5:45
  Speaker 1: ranked them, and so they are officially ranked. And so
• 5:49
  Speaker 1: we're still waiting on one last hotel to give us
• 5:51
  Speaker 1: the proposal this week and then Robbie and I will
• 5:53
  Speaker 1: discuss all the details and then get We still have
• 5:57
  Speaker 1: all the dates for all the venues, so then we
• 5:59
  Speaker 1: kind of narrow down the From there.
• 6:00
  Speaker 3: Are the proposals lining up with the order in which
• 6:03
  Speaker 3: they're ranked in terms of like costs and stuff.
• 6:06
  Speaker 1: Uh but that is a factor, but uh yeah, pretty much.
• 6:10
  Speaker 1: But one of our top ones might be a little
• 6:12
  Speaker 1: out of our price range. So that's the one we're
• 6:13
  Speaker 1: waiting on because if it's in a good price range,
• 6:15
  Speaker 1: that's going to be the winner.
• 6:17
  Speaker 4: But so is Cabo locked.
• 6:19
  Speaker 1: Mexico is locked. It's either going to be Cabo or
• 6:21
  Speaker 1: port of Areta.
• 6:22
  Speaker 3: Okay, are you going to Porto Viarta?
• 6:24
  Speaker 1: We went to that one.
• 6:25
  Speaker 3: Oh, but so that that's the only one that y'all
• 6:28
  Speaker 3: are considering that.
• 6:28
  Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, yeah, it's only one. And like, what's really
• 6:30
  Speaker 1: weird is that a lot seeing a lot of the
• 6:32
  Speaker 1: ones in Cabo made us love the one in Port
• 6:34
  Speaker 1: of Arta even more interesting. Yeah, but I'm so glad
• 6:39
  Speaker 1: we did it because it was just very informative.
• 6:41
  Speaker 3: But it looks like YA had fun too.
• 6:42
  Speaker 1: We had so much fun with it, and like Robbie's
• 6:44
  Speaker 1: so involved and just like it's so cute seeing that
• 6:47
  Speaker 1: side of him, do you know what I mean?
• 6:49
  Speaker 3: He's very.
• 6:51
  Speaker 2: Like he cares a lot about things that you care about.
• 6:54
  Speaker 2: Like I feel like he genuinely cares about things that
• 6:57
  Speaker 2: I think a lot of.
• 7:00
  Speaker 3: I would. I would say, Man, you want I care about?
• 7:02
  Speaker 4: Right?
• 7:03
  Speaker 1: But it's like nice because I don't think I ever
• 7:05
  Speaker 1: have the right questions to ask people when it comes
• 7:08
  Speaker 1: to that kind of stuff, like I don't know, like
• 7:09
  Speaker 1: technically like stuff. And He'll come in and he'll be like, well,
• 7:11
  Speaker 1: where's this going to go? And where does this go?
• 7:13
  Speaker 1: And where do the people flow? And I'm like, yeah, yeah, babe,
• 7:15
  Speaker 1: you ask them. Yeah yeah. But we had really a
• 7:18
  Speaker 1: lot of fun this one. The hotel and Kabba that
• 7:21
  Speaker 1: you liked. They brought out all the stops for us.
• 7:26
  Speaker 1: They like had us drink this at tequila with like
• 7:28
  Speaker 1: a snake in it. They took us into the speakeasy
• 7:31
  Speaker 1: and they had this other little tequila bottle with like
• 7:33
  Speaker 1: it was like a man's Can I say Wiener?
• 7:36
  Speaker 4: Sure?
• 7:36
  Speaker 1: Yeah, Like it was the Weien and then tequila would
• 7:39
  Speaker 1: come out of the Wien when you like first it down.
• 7:41
  Speaker 1: I was like, that's fun for an after party.
• 7:44
  Speaker 3: Yeah, that's also a bachelorette option.
• 7:48
  Speaker 1: True, true, true, true. But they really like they had
• 7:51
  Speaker 1: this little message in a bottle on the beach for us.
• 7:54
  Speaker 1: They had like a little thing for Sonny.
• 7:55
  Speaker 2: Yeah.
• 7:56
  Speaker 1: It was just so so cute and thoughtful. But we
• 7:58
  Speaker 1: really just had like the best time, and we like
• 8:01
  Speaker 1: try to picture ourselves getting married in each of the
• 8:03
  Speaker 1: ceremony spots, you know what I mean, Like where the
• 8:05
  Speaker 1: venue ceremony spaces were. We would like stand there and
• 8:08
  Speaker 1: be like, can we see ourselves getting married here?
• 8:11
  Speaker 2: This is very exciting, it is so do you now
• 8:13
  Speaker 2: that you know Mexico is the destination?
• 8:17
  Speaker 1: Yes?
• 8:18
  Speaker 2: Do you have an idea of what type of dress
• 8:20
  Speaker 2: you you will gravitate towards?
• 8:23
  Speaker 1: I think so, oh wow, yeah, And I have my
• 8:27
  Speaker 1: bridesmaids I think are going to be in like a
• 8:28
  Speaker 1: cream too, not white, a little off white.
• 8:33
  Speaker 3: Yeah okay, okay, yeah that pretty so pretty. Love that
• 8:40
  Speaker 3: well this is these are huge updates.
• 8:43
  Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, you don't even want to get me started.
• 8:44
  Speaker 1: I also thought of a really good idea of as like,
• 8:48
  Speaker 1: you know, people sign like a wedding book, like the
• 8:50
  Speaker 1: best book. So because Rob and I play cards every
• 8:54
  Speaker 1: vacation that we go on, you can make these cards
• 8:57
  Speaker 1: on Etsy that like have the the number and the
• 9:01
  Speaker 1: suit like in the corners and just a bunch of
• 9:03
  Speaker 1: space in the middle, so everybody can leave a note
• 9:06
  Speaker 1: on like a card and we can play with those decks.
• 9:09
  Speaker 3: That is such a genius idea.
• 9:11
  Speaker 1: Yeah, that's so cute. Somebody sent me that on Instagram.
• 9:14
  Speaker 1: I was I loved totally using that.
• 9:16
  Speaker 3: I love that. Right, that's perfect for y'all.
• 9:18
  Speaker 1: I know, wow, thanks are moving.
• 9:22
  Speaker 3: When's our family meeting happening?
• 9:24
  Speaker 1: As soon as we pick the venue.
• 9:27
  Speaker 3: Okay, stay tuned, Stay tuned.
• 9:31
  Speaker 1: A lot of trips to Mexico with Becca.
• 9:34
  Speaker 2: I love Mexico. I know, I'm ready. Great, this is
• 9:38
  Speaker 2: good news because people always wanting updates. That was a
• 9:40
  Speaker 2: big one.
• 9:41
  Speaker 1: That was a big one.
• 9:41
  Speaker 3: That was a big one. So then I went where
• 9:45
  Speaker 3: was I?
• 9:45
  Speaker 2: I went to Florida, I mean I went to Louisiana, Florida. Yeah.
• 9:51
  Speaker 2: I went to Louisiana for my niece's one year old birthday,
• 9:56
  Speaker 2: and it was so fun because it's very rare. There's
• 9:59
  Speaker 2: there's so many of us in my family that it
• 10:02
  Speaker 2: is a very rare occasion that we're all together. Normally
• 10:05
  Speaker 2: it's a Christmas but rarely do we all get together.
• 10:09
  Speaker 2: So everyone was able to fly in and go, and
• 10:11
  Speaker 2: it was so much fun to be with everybody. But
• 10:13
  Speaker 2: my god, Louisiana right now is so hot, and it
• 10:17
  Speaker 2: was like even my sister and brother in law who
• 10:20
  Speaker 2: lived there, they were like, this is unusually hot.
• 10:23
  Speaker 1: I was like, did I stay indoors the whole time?
• 10:26
  Speaker 3: No, I mean the party was outside.
• 10:28
  Speaker 2: We were setting up the party, and I'm like, you know,
• 10:30
  Speaker 2: throwing the baseball with my nephews. So it's like I
• 10:32
  Speaker 2: felt like a kid. I was like, your nephew. But
• 10:37
  Speaker 2: everyone loved that. By the way, my family thought that
• 10:39
  Speaker 2: was really funny.
• 10:40
  Speaker 1: I'm so glad everybody thought it was.
• 10:42
  Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, you have to explain it to us.
• 10:46
  Speaker 3: When I was seeing that's.
• 10:48
  Speaker 4: Right, I said, I knew.
• 10:51
  Speaker 2: My second nephew's name, and she's so confidently said Bronx,
• 10:54
  Speaker 2: and it was it's not knocks.
• 10:57
  Speaker 3: There was an X in there though.
• 10:59
  Speaker 2: Yeah, so yeah, I felt like a kid because I
• 11:02
  Speaker 2: was like, you know, they have they live on this.
• 11:05
  Speaker 3: I guess it's a pond. I don't really know what
• 11:07
  Speaker 3: you call it.
• 11:08
  Speaker 2: Cheek Yeah, it's really it's beautiful and they have a
• 11:11
  Speaker 2: paddle boat. So like we'd go out in the paddle boat,
• 11:13
  Speaker 2: do the paddle come back, throw the baseball with my nephew,
• 11:17
  Speaker 2: hold the babies.
• 11:18
  Speaker 3: It was really fun, good family.
• 11:20
  Speaker 1: Did it make you want a baby?
• 11:23
  Speaker 3: No?
• 11:24
  Speaker 1: Okay, I mean I'm.
• 11:25
  Speaker 3: Still as saying yes, yes, I would love to.
• 11:29
  Speaker 2: Live on water at some point, you know, some form,
• 11:34
  Speaker 2: but I'm really scared of like alligators and sharks and stuff,
• 11:36
  Speaker 2: so it'd have to like a Lake Tahoe water.
• 11:38
  Speaker 3: Would probably be ideal. Nice baca cheese, And then I
• 11:42
  Speaker 3: drove back to Louisiana. I rode back with my parents to.
• 11:45
  Speaker 1: Florida, Oh Rida.
• 11:50
  Speaker 3: Yeah, and it was so.
• 11:52
  Speaker 2: Fun because I never get I don't get a lot
• 11:54
  Speaker 2: of uninterrupted time with my parents because when we're all together,
• 11:56
  Speaker 2: it's just absolute chaos. So it was really fun to
• 11:59
  Speaker 2: just went to the beach my mom. We had long days.
• 12:01
  Speaker 3: My mom was like I've just had the best time
• 12:03
  Speaker 3: with you.
• 12:04
  Speaker 1: Well that makes me emotional, I know.
• 12:06
  Speaker 2: So it's just like a reminder, you know, carve out
• 12:09
  Speaker 2: time to do that with your parents because it's like,
• 12:12
  Speaker 2: I just think life is so busy and we're we
• 12:16
  Speaker 2: are always just like go go go, and like have
• 12:19
  Speaker 2: our own lives and stuff.
• 12:20
  Speaker 1: Are you gonna cry?
• 12:21
  Speaker 5: No?
• 12:22
  Speaker 2: Okay no, When you said you got emotional, like my
• 12:25
  Speaker 2: nose got like tingly, But I'm not going to cry.
• 12:29
  Speaker 3: But it was so nice.
• 12:30
  Speaker 2: And then I came back, went to Disneyland just celebrate
• 12:34
  Speaker 2: Jilliana Scuto's bachelorette, and then I hit the road.
• 12:38
  Speaker 1: To Canada, Canada to see Haley and it was so fun.
• 12:44
  Speaker 3: It was so good to see her.
• 12:44
  Speaker 2: She was working like basically Monday to Saturday.
• 12:48
  Speaker 1: Can I tell you something? But I thought, because it
• 12:52
  Speaker 1: was such a big deal that you were there with
• 12:55
  Speaker 1: her family, that like something was going to happen.
• 13:00
  Speaker 3: You felt better. Did the scrubbers get in your head?
• 13:03
  Speaker 1: This was just Tanya in her head.
• 13:06
  Speaker 2: I swear that she was going to propose her Yeah,
• 13:09
  Speaker 2: that's so fuar, Like.
• 13:10
  Speaker 1: You wanted her family to be there when you did
• 13:12
  Speaker 1: it or something. Because now I'm all in a tizzy
• 13:15
  Speaker 1: that you're going to do this and I'm not going
• 13:16
  Speaker 1: to know anything. So that's why I was so chill
• 13:18
  Speaker 1: about you being gone fourth of July. I was like,
• 13:21
  Speaker 1: this is probably a big deal.
• 13:23
  Speaker 3: Shoot, no, so just your usual visit.
• 13:30
  Speaker 2: Yeah, well the whole thing, do you want to know?
• 13:32
  Speaker 2: The really just like irony of this whole thing is
• 13:36
  Speaker 2: that we're supposed to have her whole family day that
• 13:39
  Speaker 2: we were all going to be there for on Saturday,
• 13:42
  Speaker 2: and her work, all her work stuff got pushed so everything.
• 13:45
  Speaker 2: She ended up having to work all day on Saturday,
• 13:47
  Speaker 2: so they moved it to Sunday.
• 13:48
  Speaker 3: But I left on Sunday, so I didn't even Oh
• 13:51
  Speaker 3: I got.
• 13:51
  Speaker 2: To see your parents for a minute, but I didn't
• 13:53
  Speaker 2: get to see like, I didn't get.
• 13:56
  Speaker 1: The family experience.
• 13:57
  Speaker 2: Yeah, but it was great to see Haley, and Canada
• 14:02
  Speaker 2: is beautiful and so beautiful when you go back at
• 14:05
  Speaker 2: the end of the month.
• 14:06
  Speaker 3: Nice.
• 14:07
  Speaker 2: Yeah, So, but man, the Fourth of July stuff was
• 14:10
  Speaker 2: hilarious because the solitarire, there's so much to talk about.
• 14:16
  Speaker 2: We have we have to take a break because I
• 14:18
  Speaker 2: have a lot to talk about and I don't want
• 14:19
  Speaker 2: to break it. Up right, We'll be right back, all right.
• 14:40
  Speaker 2: So I hit Louisiana, I hit Florida, Florida, and I
• 14:47
  Speaker 2: hit Canada in two weeks.
• 14:49
  Speaker 1: That's impressive.
• 14:50
  Speaker 2: Honestly, I was just sitting It is quite the Annaheim.
• 14:55
  Speaker 3: If we're gonna get detailed.
• 14:57
  Speaker 1: Yeah, I thought I went far. I went from Mexico
• 14:59
  Speaker 1: to Yosemite, but that's oh yeah.
• 15:01
  Speaker 2: So yeah, so we get back and I was in
• 15:05
  Speaker 2: Canada for the fourth. I was also in Canada for
• 15:08
  Speaker 2: Canada Day, which I didn't realize was two days before
• 15:10
  Speaker 2: the fourth.
• 15:11
  Speaker 1: So they had a Florida Day, a Florida Day. Yeah,
• 15:15
  Speaker 1: they probably do, and they actually probably do.
• 15:20
  Speaker 2: But yeah, there was a lot of you know, I
• 15:22
  Speaker 2: got a lot of d ms about you being alone on.
• 15:25
  Speaker 3: The fourth and why is it? Why didn't she go
• 15:28
  Speaker 3: with Robbie? The podcast clips hilarious. Did you like my
• 15:33
  Speaker 3: starter kit for the Tanya Toots?
• 15:35
  Speaker 1: It was so freaking funny and it took me. I
• 15:38
  Speaker 1: didn't even realize until the next day that you wrapped
• 15:41
  Speaker 1: the hot dog in lettuce. Yeah was such a nice touch.
• 15:46
  Speaker 3: It was so that.
• 15:49
  Speaker 4: Yeah.
• 15:50
  Speaker 2: Yeah, and people thought it was fine my friends, but
• 15:52
  Speaker 2: it was actually life six.
• 15:54
  Speaker 1: I noticed that Little Touch Too, which was.
• 15:57
  Speaker 2: Very very detailed, thoughtful, thoughtful, starter kids.
• 16:00
  Speaker 1: So it's very funny because it was the morning of
• 16:03
  Speaker 1: the fourth of July and all I had planned for
• 16:06
  Speaker 1: the fourth was I had a workout scheduled with Paulina. Yeah,
• 16:11
  Speaker 1: that's all I had planned. And it was at like
• 16:13
  Speaker 1: ten or something, and I wake up at you know,
• 16:16
  Speaker 1: six thirty or whatever. So I woke up and made
• 16:18
  Speaker 1: my coffee and I was like, you.
• 16:19
  Speaker 3: Know what, I have an idea.
• 16:21
  Speaker 1: I just gotta I gotta just feed the beast. So
• 16:24
  Speaker 1: I sat down started to play Solitaire by myself, and
• 16:29
  Speaker 1: it was so funny because I was actually like enjoying myself.
• 16:31
  Speaker 3: I did so game.
• 16:34
  Speaker 4: We wake fun of it and say it's lame, but
• 16:36
  Speaker 4: when you start playing, you can't stop.
• 16:37
  Speaker 3: You can't know.
• 16:38
  Speaker 1: I played like so many rounds and I actually crushed it,
• 16:40
  Speaker 1: like I want a lot of those. I was like
• 16:42
  Speaker 1: feeling really good about myself. You lose one, You're like,
• 16:46
  Speaker 1: oh I can't, I can't go. Yeah, So then I
• 16:49
  Speaker 1: won one. I was like I'm done. But it was
• 16:52
  Speaker 1: very funny because I really, even though I was posting that,
• 16:55
  Speaker 1: I was like sad, I was really in heaven. Like
• 16:58
  Speaker 1: I really was just like in bed and relaxing, taking
• 17:03
  Speaker 1: my sweet, sweet little time. So I just felt like
• 17:08
  Speaker 1: it was very I had to had to post it.
• 17:11
  Speaker 2: Yeah, And I would like to clarify because people the
• 17:14
  Speaker 2: fourth of July episode came up, but we Oh Tanya
• 17:17
  Speaker 2: about two weeks to make plans because we were like,
• 17:20
  Speaker 2: this is lame of Becca, like this is like, this
• 17:23
  Speaker 2: is not cool.
• 17:24
  Speaker 1: Though when you told me on the podcast that was
• 17:27
  Speaker 1: the first time I had heard about it.
• 17:29
  Speaker 3: Oh, yeah, that was genuine.
• 17:30
  Speaker 1: Yes, that reaction was legit, but that we recorded that.
• 17:34
  Speaker 1: What was it like June? What was it the twentieth Yeah, twentieth.
• 17:39
  Speaker 3: Yeah, so I did have ample time.
• 17:41
  Speaker 1: I did have ample time to make other plans. Yeah.
• 17:43
  Speaker 2: Yeah, could have gone to New York with Robbie, but
• 17:47
  Speaker 2: instead you left wrote you wrote him notes that we
• 17:51
  Speaker 2: unfortunately got a glimpse.
• 17:56
  Speaker 3: I need to hold on.
• 17:58
  Speaker 2: I just have so many questions about this because you
• 18:01
  Speaker 2: do this all the time. So I've never even thought
• 18:03
  Speaker 2: to screenshot and read the note. I'm like, I don't
• 18:06
  Speaker 2: know that I ever wanted to know, and for good reason.
• 18:08
  Speaker 1: I ever think anybody would screenshot the notes.
• 18:12
  Speaker 3: So you were writing that knowing it was on the camera.
• 18:16
  Speaker 1: So I wrote for he was gone for four days,
• 18:18
  Speaker 1: so I wrote him one note for every single day.
• 18:20
  Speaker 1: So I videotaped, videotaped, yeah, recording, No, that's tough, that's tough,
• 18:25
  Speaker 1: recorded myself doing it all right, for like b roll
• 18:29
  Speaker 1: or whatever. And I was like, just chopped it up quickly,
• 18:32
  Speaker 1: Like I just chopped it up. I didn't even think
• 18:34
  Speaker 1: I wrote one dirty line in four cards. I did
• 18:38
  Speaker 1: not think that A that was the happened to be
• 18:41
  Speaker 1: the one card that I like showed me writing like
• 18:43
  Speaker 1: love Tanya, so you could see the whole note.
• 18:46
  Speaker 2: Yeah, well let me For those who didn't see this,
• 18:49
  Speaker 2: let me read what the note read.
• 18:51
  Speaker 1: Mind you you had to screenshot and then turn your
• 18:53
  Speaker 1: phone upside down.
• 18:54
  Speaker 3: It's not hard, not hard, No, no, from Tanya.
• 18:58
  Speaker 5: This is the words cannot wait to squeeze you, love you,
• 19:03
  Speaker 5: kiss you, hug you, and give you the best job
• 19:06
  Speaker 5: of your life.
• 19:11
  Speaker 2: Those are things I really haven't said or plan on
• 19:14
  Speaker 2: saying for ever.
• 19:19
  Speaker 1: It was supposed to get him excited to come home,
• 19:21
  Speaker 1: you know, excited coming. Look what's gonna happen when you
• 19:25
  Speaker 1: get home tonight?
• 19:27
  Speaker 2: I need to know, though, does he have any like,
• 19:29
  Speaker 2: does he give you any reaction to these types of notes?
• 19:32
  Speaker 1: Well, so, the funny thing, yeah, he totally does. But
• 19:35
  Speaker 1: what's funny is that he saw it in the scrubbing
• 19:38
  Speaker 1: and Facebook group. Yeah, so he like facetimes me and
• 19:41
  Speaker 1: he was like, Babe, they screenshot at your letter. I
• 19:45
  Speaker 1: can see what everybody can see what it says. And
• 19:47
  Speaker 1: I was like, I mean whatever, it's not like I said,
• 19:48
  Speaker 1: like what like what I don't know? Yeah, like a job.
• 19:57
  Speaker 1: I give my fiance jobs. Like that's not that weird.
• 20:02
  Speaker 2: Right right, She's saying, what's like if you're like, oh,
• 20:06
  Speaker 2: like it could have been so much.
• 20:09
  Speaker 1: Oh I can't wait to like change you to the
• 20:12
  Speaker 1: to the sentence and like whip you and spank you
• 20:15
  Speaker 1: and like whatever, like.
• 20:18
  Speaker 3: The fence.
• 20:19
  Speaker 1: Yeah, put some whipped cream on it and smack it
• 20:22
  Speaker 1: around town. I mean it could have been like very aggressive.
• 20:26
  Speaker 5: This was.
• 20:29
  Speaker 1: As for Robbie, But so he's facetiming me.
• 20:37
  Speaker 4: Was he annoyed by the way because he's like, I'm
• 20:39
  Speaker 4: a lawyer, I got clients, I got family. This is weird.
• 20:42
  Speaker 1: Yeah, like his parents it was on it was in
• 20:45
  Speaker 1: the Facebook group. Oh no, he's first of all, his
• 20:48
  Speaker 1: parents are not reading those little things. They had no idea,
• 20:51
  Speaker 1: and it was on Facebook group.
• 20:53
  Speaker 3: His dad was in our group or something.
• 20:54
  Speaker 2: Wasn't that whole thing or was he just saying that
• 20:57
  Speaker 2: he listens.
• 21:00
  Speaker 1: I was like, right, so there's this here we go. Yeah. No,
• 21:06
  Speaker 1: he didn't seem annoyed, but he was just like It
• 21:08
  Speaker 1: made today's note very lackluster because I was just like,
• 21:12
  Speaker 1: love you, like I have a say, flight, this is you,
• 21:15
  Speaker 1: blah blah blah blah. I told you in high regard,
• 21:22
  Speaker 1: but yeah, I mean good to know, you know, And
• 21:25
  Speaker 1: just a p s A to everybody out there, if
• 21:27
  Speaker 1: you are blogging b roll and posting stuff, make sure
• 21:32
  Speaker 1: you double check, double check the fine print in your
• 21:37
  Speaker 1: knowing it's you.
• 21:39
  Speaker 2: So there wasn't anything. It wasn't like shocking, you know,
• 21:43
  Speaker 2: right like anything. But I think it was just funny
• 21:47
  Speaker 2: that you're like, it's like invisible string playing and you're
• 21:50
  Speaker 2: just like feels like all romantic, and then it's like.
• 21:56
  Speaker 3: We got the we gotta be fair.
• 21:57
  Speaker 1: The second one, the second note was like a really
• 21:59
  Speaker 1: beatiful quote about like being a part physically but never
• 22:02
  Speaker 1: a part at heart or whatever. It's like such a
• 22:04
  Speaker 1: cute little quote I'm like, why couldn't that have been
• 22:06
  Speaker 1: the one that.
• 22:06
  Speaker 3: Like the next time video next time?
• 22:09
  Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, wow, that was good.
• 22:13
  Speaker 3: I really enjoyed that, like little tidbit.
• 22:18
  Speaker 1: Yeah, from I was just more upset that, like it
• 22:21
  Speaker 1: spoiled the note for him, honestly. Yeah yeah, yeah, more
• 22:24
  Speaker 1: than anything else.
• 22:24
  Speaker 3: Yeah yeah, okay, So but I just.
• 22:28
  Speaker 1: So you know, I ended up having like a very
• 22:31
  Speaker 1: blast Fourth of July, tell me about it. I ended
• 22:35
  Speaker 1: up at Bennie Blanco's Fourth of July party.
• 22:37
  Speaker 3: Wow. Yeah, much better than anything with me. Yeah, barbecue.
• 22:44
  Speaker 1: Yeah. So I ended up going to Benny's for like
• 22:49
  Speaker 1: an hour or two maybe, and then I ended up
• 22:52
  Speaker 1: going to my friend's fortieth birthday party. Wow, my friend
• 22:57
  Speaker 1: bo Yeah, and spent the whole day with Raquel and
• 23:01
  Speaker 1: just had a good old time.
• 23:02
  Speaker 3: I'm so happy to hear that.
• 23:03
  Speaker 1: Yeah.
• 23:04
  Speaker 2: I was like really just down in the dumps that
• 23:07
  Speaker 2: I left you alone. Yeah.
• 23:09
  Speaker 1: I can tell that you were hurting you, that you're worried.
• 23:11
  Speaker 1: And I made sure to let Becka know that, like
• 23:13
  Speaker 1: I'm not actually sad.
• 23:14
  Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, she let me know that was like pacing,
• 23:17
  Speaker 2: just stressed, Yeah, just pacing back and forth in Canada. Yeah,
• 23:23
  Speaker 2: I'm so happy I.
• 23:23
  Speaker 1: Had a great fourth Thank you. Let's a blast, Olivia.
• 23:27
  Speaker 3: Bonks so cute, tell me more.
• 23:29
  Speaker 1: He's just so cute. He actually like you have not
• 23:32
  Speaker 1: always had that well, I mean like sweet, like he's
• 23:35
  Speaker 1: so like sweet.
• 23:36
  Speaker 3: Yeah yeah, yeah, yeah, but he's.
• 23:37
  Speaker 1: Just very welcoming and like you can tell that he's
• 23:40
  Speaker 1: like uh like I don't know what the word is,
• 23:43
  Speaker 1: like a guy's guy and he's just like so like
• 23:46
  Speaker 1: down with his friends and just like really warm and
• 23:48
  Speaker 1: welcoming and just so cute.
• 23:50
  Speaker 2: I was gonna say he seems very warm in the
• 23:51
  Speaker 2: interviews I see of him. Yeah, and the way he
• 23:54
  Speaker 2: talks about Selena is just like so sweet, so cute.
• 23:57
  Speaker 3: I know, I'm really happy for them.
• 23:59
  Speaker 1: Yeah, it was a vibe.
• 24:01
  Speaker 3: It sounds yeah. I mean I like your outfit too.
• 24:04
  Speaker 1: Thank you so much.
• 24:05
  Speaker 3: So welcome.
• 24:06
  Speaker 2: Yeah, I was gonna say you were all white.
• 24:09
  Speaker 1: I did.
• 24:11
  Speaker 3: And that brings me to Olivia Colpo getting married. Yes,
• 24:13
  Speaker 3: And there's been a lot of.
• 24:16
  Speaker 2: A lot of suttle scuttle about it, and it's what
• 24:19
  Speaker 2: are your thoughts on it?
• 24:20
  Speaker 3: Because we were talking about it before the podcast.
• 24:22
  Speaker 1: It's quite annoying in what way, like, can the girl
• 24:25
  Speaker 1: live like it's her wedding? Why does everybody have to
• 24:29
  Speaker 1: ooohho her? And also, can you explain this to me?
• 24:33
  Speaker 1: This feels very gen z pick me energy.
• 24:35
  Speaker 3: I'm not gen Z, but you're up with it. I
• 24:38
  Speaker 3: am up with it.
• 24:39
  Speaker 2: I think pick me energy is like you're trying to
• 24:41
  Speaker 2: be you like want to be like pick me like
• 24:44
  Speaker 2: you're like trying to It's almost like teacher's pet energy.
• 24:47
  Speaker 4: I got my girls. Both of my daughters talk endlessly
• 24:50
  Speaker 4: about pick me girls.
• 24:51
  Speaker 1: Wait, okay, hold on, tell I want it because I
• 24:53
  Speaker 1: got a description of it. Okay, in a nutshell, it's
• 24:57
  Speaker 1: like a person who acts different than they actually feel
• 25:00
  Speaker 1: to please others and win favor.
• 25:02
  Speaker 3: Yeah.
• 25:03
  Speaker 1: Yeah, those girls in high school who were like, uh,
• 25:06
  Speaker 1: I'm just too friends with boys. Yes, girls are too
• 25:09
  Speaker 1: much drama.
• 25:09
  Speaker 3: Pick me.
• 25:10
  Speaker 1: You also loved Taylor Swift, but in front of guys
• 25:12
  Speaker 1: are like, ugh, I just don't get her pick me?
• 25:15
  Speaker 3: Yes.
• 25:17
  Speaker 1: The one about how was Olivia Coppo pick me?
• 25:20
  Speaker 3: I think that they because I think she was.
• 25:23
  Speaker 2: I What I saw about it was that she talked
• 25:26
  Speaker 2: about how she didn't want to exude sex on her
• 25:28
  Speaker 2: in her wedding dress.
• 25:29
  Speaker 1: But her like entire persona is like.
• 25:33
  Speaker 3: Kind of sexual.
• 25:34
  Speaker 2: I mean, she's so beautiful, so like everything she she's
• 25:37
  Speaker 2: just that's kind of her. I don't really think of
• 25:40
  Speaker 2: her as like a sexual figure, but I think she
• 25:42
  Speaker 2: wears things that I wouldn't say are like always modest, right, right,
• 25:46
  Speaker 2: And so I think she was saying that Christian likes
• 25:48
  Speaker 2: when she's covered up. So I think that's what they were,
• 25:52
  Speaker 2: that's what they're insinuating.
• 25:54
  Speaker 1: I didn't get the pick me energy, but here's what
• 25:56
  Speaker 1: that makes sense.
• 25:57
  Speaker 4: I don't know if it makes sense for Livia necessarily, but.
• 25:59
  Speaker 2: Maybe be Yeah, I just saw, here's my thing. When
• 26:04
  Speaker 2: you're a public figure and you have a wedding that's
• 26:06
  Speaker 2: like that anticipated and like there's a build up to it,
• 26:09
  Speaker 2: whatever you wear, and like whatever you do, there's gonna
• 26:13
  Speaker 2: be critics that make videos about their criticisms or their praise.
• 26:17
  Speaker 2: Like there's praise for her as well, but what's obviously
• 26:20
  Speaker 2: gotten attention is like the negatives, the critiques. Yeah, and
• 26:24
  Speaker 2: it's like there's always gonna be people who love your
• 26:27
  Speaker 2: dress and love that she did a long sleeve, modest,
• 26:31
  Speaker 2: classic dress, and there's gonna be people that were like
• 26:33
  Speaker 2: I was expecting more and it was boring and I
• 26:36
  Speaker 2: didn't like it and have an opinion on it. I
• 26:38
  Speaker 2: thought it was so cool, But I'm saying that's what
• 26:40
  Speaker 2: I'm so unexpected, That's what I'm saying. And I think
• 26:42
  Speaker 2: that that's kind of what you have to expect, that
• 26:45
  Speaker 2: not everyone's gonna be obsessed and not every and then
• 26:48
  Speaker 2: there's gonna people that are obsessed. But I guess they
• 26:52
  Speaker 2: responded saying that, like there was like a critique and
• 26:55
  Speaker 2: they got upset and said it was like evil to
• 26:57
  Speaker 2: talk about that or something this.
• 26:59
  Speaker 1: Uh, I don't even know blogger.
• 27:02
  Speaker 3: Yeah, she does like wedding gumblow.
• 27:04
  Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, yeah, she did like a whole thing about
• 27:06
  Speaker 1: it and just like went off and was going off
• 27:09
  Speaker 1: about Dulcha and Gabana the designer and just like there
• 27:12
  Speaker 1: like known to be like homophobia and yeah, so it
• 27:17
  Speaker 1: was just a lot. I just feel like she's just
• 27:19
  Speaker 1: been getting a lot. But I also feel like she's
• 27:20
  Speaker 1: commenting on the haters, which is like making it more news.
• 27:23
  Speaker 1: So I'm like, just stop.
• 27:25
  Speaker 3: I know.
• 27:25
  Speaker 2: That's the thing is like you just if you just
• 27:28
  Speaker 2: let people have their opinions, everyone moves on. Yeah, And
• 27:32
  Speaker 2: like you had your beautiful wedding. It's like, just enjoy
• 27:35
  Speaker 2: being married.
• 27:36
  Speaker 3: And it looked like a blast.
• 27:37
  Speaker 1: And you know, the photos really threw me for a
• 27:40
  Speaker 1: loop because I was like, oh, that's what I want.
• 27:44
  Speaker 1: Hydranges everywhere, like that's not the Mexico.
• 27:47
  Speaker 2: But I know hers is so bet I mean, it
• 27:49
  Speaker 2: was very East Coast, like, it was so beautiful, and she,
• 27:52
  Speaker 2: to me, I've always like, to me, Olivia Colpo has
• 27:55
  Speaker 2: always been like this, like the standard, Like we send
• 27:58
  Speaker 2: her photos back and forth and we're it was like
• 28:00
  Speaker 2: it's insane.
• 28:01
  Speaker 1: Yeah.
• 28:01
  Speaker 2: So what I will leave it at is that I'm
• 28:04
  Speaker 2: so happy for them, and I hope that they enjoy
• 28:08
  Speaker 2: and can look, you know, move on past the scuttle.
• 28:11
  Speaker 1: I think they're moving on just fine. You think I think,
• 28:13
  Speaker 1: so okay. But I do wish that she stopped commenting
• 28:16
  Speaker 1: on the haters, because that's what's making the headlines. It's
• 28:21
  Speaker 1: her commenting on it, not the haters. The haters are
• 28:23
  Speaker 1: going to hate and they're not going to get picked up,
• 28:25
  Speaker 1: but it's her commenting on everything.
• 28:27
  Speaker 4: By the way, there's a name for that that I
• 28:29
  Speaker 4: find fascinating. It's called the streisand effect. It's named after
• 28:32
  Speaker 4: Barbara Streisand. And the story goes that there was a
• 28:35
  Speaker 4: picture taken of her Malibu home on the ocean, and
• 28:40
  Speaker 4: it was taken as part of a California Coastal Records
• 28:42
  Speaker 4: project with twelve thousand coastline photographs, but it was going
• 28:46
  Speaker 4: to be posted and published and she didn't want that,
• 28:49
  Speaker 4: so before she sued them, that picture was downloaded six times.
• 28:54
  Speaker 4: Because she sued them, and because there's so much publicity
• 28:57
  Speaker 4: around her suing them, it was downloaded for one hundred
• 29:00
  Speaker 4: and twenty thousand times.
• 29:01
  Speaker 1: Oh my god, Oh my god.
• 29:03
  Speaker 4: So you're right, just let it go. Yeah, and nobody
• 29:05
  Speaker 4: cares and you move on. But that happens all kin,
• 29:07
  Speaker 4: all over the place. People make this mistake. Yeah, it's
• 29:10
  Speaker 4: called the strikes had effect.
• 29:11
  Speaker 1: Well, I loved it. I loved everything about her wedding.
• 29:15
  Speaker 1: I'm obsessed with Livia Colpo, Olivia Colpa McCaffrey.
• 29:19
  Speaker 2: Well, so her sister Aurora, who we love, had a
• 29:24
  Speaker 2: plus one.
• 29:25
  Speaker 1: No, didn't have a plus one, did it?
• 29:26
  Speaker 2: Yeah?
• 29:26
  Speaker 3: There was rumors, right.
• 29:28
  Speaker 1: No, she wanted to bring her new boyfriend.
• 29:31
  Speaker 3: Are they official?
• 29:32
  Speaker 1: Well, I don't know, because as of like this morning,
• 29:35
  Speaker 1: two hours ago, they have broken up according to page six.
• 29:38
  Speaker 1: So I don't know what ways up. But I'm like,
• 29:40
  Speaker 1: good on Olivia for saying no, you can't bring them
• 29:43
  Speaker 1: to my wedding, because really it was not so serious.
• 29:45
  Speaker 1: But they'd met each other's kids, which to me sounds
• 29:47
  Speaker 1: more serious. So I don't know.
• 29:48
  Speaker 2: I think that's just different strokes for different folks, Like
• 29:51
  Speaker 2: some people are more like open to people meeting their
• 29:54
  Speaker 2: kids and some people take more time, you know, right.
• 29:57
  Speaker 1: I guess in my mind my experience was like I
• 29:59
  Speaker 1: didn't meet the kids for a year, So when I
• 30:01
  Speaker 1: hear people meet kids, I'm like, that's sorry, that's serious,
• 30:06
  Speaker 1: you know, But you're right, it could just be like,
• 30:09
  Speaker 1: you know, not.
• 30:10
  Speaker 3: That Yeah, did you ever feel? Have you seen the thing?
• 30:14
  Speaker 1: But you'll get a plus one at my wedding, God,
• 30:17
  Speaker 1: thank you so much.
• 30:18
  Speaker 4: So what if will you give up plus ones and
• 30:20
  Speaker 4: then judge who the plus ones are? You've only been
• 30:23
  Speaker 4: dated that guy two months? You can't come.
• 30:25
  Speaker 1: There are my bridesmaids? Like I'm trying to think of
• 30:27
  Speaker 1: my single if like Raquel, Let's say Raquel wanted to
• 30:31
  Speaker 1: bring a date to my wedding.
• 30:33
  Speaker 4: There's some guy off hinge.
• 30:35
  Speaker 1: I'd have to sess it out. But in my opinion,
• 30:37
  Speaker 1: I trust Raquel if she if it's somebody that she
• 30:39
  Speaker 1: wants to bring to my wedding, I think that they
• 30:40
  Speaker 1: would be legit sure, right, Like she's not just bringing
• 30:43
  Speaker 1: like Joshmo just to.
• 30:46
  Speaker 4: Because they don't want to go alone and correct.
• 30:47
  Speaker 1: Correct, those people are not invited.
• 30:52
  Speaker 2: What's it called when you people only invite people that
• 30:54
  Speaker 2: have like a spouse or like a long term partner.
• 30:58
  Speaker 2: It's called there's a term for it, and it's something
• 31:01
  Speaker 2: like no no ring, no.
• 31:03
  Speaker 1: No ring, no bling, no ring. Oh no what you're saying. Yeah,
• 31:07
  Speaker 1: it's like a saying it's like, yeah, no, bring.
• 31:10
  Speaker 2: We almost got there, just a couple more letters we needed.
• 31:14
  Speaker 2: Yeah no ring, no bring.
• 31:15
  Speaker 1: But I don't I don't abide by that because you
• 31:17
  Speaker 1: can be in a serious relationship and not be engaged.
• 31:20
  Speaker 5: Right.
• 31:20
  Speaker 2: No, But I I think like the just like long term,
• 31:23
  Speaker 2: have a long term correct. Yeah, Okay, So have you
• 31:28
  Speaker 2: heard of eyebrow blindness?
• 31:31
  Speaker 1: I've heard of it, but I don't really know what.
• 31:33
  Speaker 4: What I had that with you when you first started
• 31:35
  Speaker 4: working here, because you bleached them.
• 31:36
  Speaker 1: That is so rude.
• 31:39
  Speaker 3: Okay, well, do you know what it is?
• 31:41
  Speaker 1: No.
• 31:42
  Speaker 2: So basically it's called it's like showing old photos of
• 31:45
  Speaker 2: themselves on their eyebrows looked insane and they had no
• 31:48
  Speaker 2: idea just how crazy they looked until they like were
• 31:50
  Speaker 2: looking back at photos.
• 31:52
  Speaker 1: I mean, let me just find But for instance.
• 31:55
  Speaker 2: In the early two thousands, I tweezed my brows so thin, yeah,
• 32:02
  Speaker 2: that like they were barely existing. It looked like just
• 32:06
  Speaker 2: like a little sperm sperm, yeah and so and then
• 32:13
  Speaker 2: I'll never forget seeing your photo with your bleached brows.
• 32:17
  Speaker 2: And I wonder if you felt like you have if
• 32:21
  Speaker 2: you look back and feel like you had brow blindness.
• 32:23
  Speaker 1: This is why I appreciate Tawny Dawson the way that
• 32:27
  Speaker 1: I do, because I always have these crazy ideas of things,
• 32:32
  Speaker 1: And before I met Tawny, my old hairdresser would just
• 32:37
  Speaker 1: listen to me and she would just do whatever I wish.
• 32:39
  Speaker 1: Somebody would have said, do not bleach your eyebrows. You're
• 32:42
  Speaker 1: gonna look insane, And in fact I did look insane.
• 32:47
  Speaker 2: It's so crazy that that is the person sitting next
• 32:51
  Speaker 2: to me.
• 32:53
  Speaker 3: Odd, it is.
• 32:59
  Speaker 1: So oh wild.
• 33:02
  Speaker 2: Never again, Yeah, no, I think that that needs to
• 33:05
  Speaker 2: live wherever whenever that was.
• 33:07
  Speaker 1: But I could see myself getting back into this like
• 33:09
  Speaker 1: mentality of like trying to do all the things before
• 33:11
  Speaker 1: my wedding, you know what I mean. Laminate my eyebrows,
• 33:14
  Speaker 1: do this, do that.
• 33:16
  Speaker 3: No, I don't think you need to do that before
• 33:18
  Speaker 3: the wedding.
• 33:18
  Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't know.
• 33:20
  Speaker 3: No, I don't think. Say something comes over you speaking
• 33:23
  Speaker 3: of Tawny. So we're sitting here and is your hair
• 33:26
  Speaker 3: appointment today?
• 33:27
  Speaker 1: It sure is two thirty, and Tony.
• 33:29
  Speaker 2: Goes, you don't buy any chance to be have a
• 33:32
  Speaker 2: hair appointment today, do you? And I'm like, no, why
• 33:36
  Speaker 2: do you? And She's like, yo, why don't we ever
• 33:38
  Speaker 2: sync up?
• 33:39
  Speaker 3: And I was like, because we go to the same person.
• 33:43
  Speaker 3: There's one person to do her hair.
• 33:46
  Speaker 1: Sometimes she double books and like if I'm processing, she'll
• 33:51
  Speaker 1: start doing somebody else. I've had other clients of hers
• 33:55
  Speaker 1: at the same time as I.
• 33:56
  Speaker 3: I see, I see.
• 33:57
  Speaker 1: So I would think as two best friends, we maybe
• 34:00
  Speaker 1: sync up at some point or try to.
• 34:02
  Speaker 3: I actually I sometimes sync up with Ali, but it's.
• 34:06
  Speaker 1: Never notice that you and Ali sink up all the time.
• 34:09
  Speaker 3: No, no, no, no, we don't.
• 34:11
  Speaker 2: We're always not at the same time, but we're on
• 34:13
  Speaker 2: the same day in the contrary.
• 34:15
  Speaker 1: Huh, you're always there together.
• 34:18
  Speaker 3: Sometimes she'll just come and say, hey.
• 34:21
  Speaker 1: Well that's weird.
• 34:21
  Speaker 3: Well she lives like down the street.
• 34:23
  Speaker 1: Okay, yeah, it's.
• 34:25
  Speaker 2: Like a girl's hanging at the salon like the old days,
• 34:27
  Speaker 2: you know, yeah yeah, yeah yeah.
• 34:28
  Speaker 4: But this is why I don't like them talking when
• 34:30
  Speaker 4: they first come in the room to do the podcast,
• 34:31
  Speaker 4: because they chit chat and that's gold. That's a hilarious
• 34:34
  Speaker 4: moment that happened, and like, please stop, let's go start, start, start,
• 34:38
  Speaker 4: because otherwise we missed the moment.
• 34:39
  Speaker 3: We don't mean to, we don't mean to.
• 34:42
  Speaker 2: Yeah, we just chitchat, like just like how the gold flows,
• 34:45
  Speaker 2: and we're like miners at this point.
• 34:47
  Speaker 1: Gold miners.
• 34:49
  Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, I want to talk about this day of
• 34:52
  Speaker 2: the week theory of like which day of the week
• 34:55
  Speaker 2: you identify with?
• 34:56
  Speaker 3: Have you heard of this.
• 34:58
  Speaker 1: Yea yah yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah.
• 35:00
  Speaker 3: Do you look at anything than Love Island.
• 35:04
  Speaker 1: I've been waiting for you to bring up Love Island,
• 35:06
  Speaker 1: but I guess it's not happening, not really, Okay.
• 35:09
  Speaker 2: I do feel like people there are so many people watching,
• 35:12
  Speaker 2: and like I even tried to watch in Canada because
• 35:15
  Speaker 2: I was like bored and I was like, maybe this
• 35:17
  Speaker 2: could be the season I get into. And I didn't
• 35:21
  Speaker 2: have a VPN, so I can't watch.
• 35:23
  Speaker 1: Oh yeah, oh yeah in Canada, that's okay, you can
• 35:27
  Speaker 1: get one.
• 35:27
  Speaker 3: Yeah.
• 35:28
  Speaker 2: But and then Paulina told me she goes because I
• 35:32
  Speaker 2: posted like, is this the season I should get into?
• 35:34
  Speaker 2: And she was like no, she was like, there's it's
• 35:38
  Speaker 2: an hour long and like it's in live time, so
• 35:40
  Speaker 2: like nothing like one thing might happen.
• 35:43
  Speaker 1: Okay, Paulina is wrong. And when I tell you that
• 35:47
  Speaker 1: what night was it? Saturday night was quite hot Friday
• 35:52
  Speaker 1: Friday or Saturday. No, No, Saturday was after sunny. Friday night.
• 35:55
  Speaker 1: Friday Night was one of the best pieces of television
• 36:00
  Speaker 1: I have ever seen in my life. Like truly, these producers,
• 36:06
  Speaker 1: hats off to them. They it was riveting television. I'm
• 36:12
  Speaker 1: not joking. Best piece of television reality TV, okay, real
• 36:19
  Speaker 1: because it's like to get all the right fires burning
• 36:24
  Speaker 1: at the exact same time they did it like they
• 36:27
  Speaker 1: did it. Yeah, I don't even want to peel back
• 36:29
  Speaker 1: the curtain because it's just so crazy how they did it.
• 36:33
  Speaker 3: It is kind of dark though, thinking.
• 36:34
  Speaker 1: About like it's so dark that we're like enjoying this
• 36:37
  Speaker 1: whole trauma. Yeah, but Susie Evans is really enjoying it.
• 36:41
  Speaker 1: So maybe we could get her on the podcast and
• 36:43
  Speaker 1: she and I can just chitch out.
• 36:44
  Speaker 2: Yeah, we should maybe have her come in like while
• 36:46
  Speaker 2: it's airing so that it's relevant.
• 36:48
  Speaker 3: But right, so y'all can maybe a Thursday.
• 36:52
  Speaker 1: Yeah, we would probably do it like on a Thursday,
• 36:54
  Speaker 1: and we would record it live that day, so it's
• 36:56
  Speaker 1: like up to date. Wow, But the season is gearing
• 36:59
  Speaker 1: up to the end soon, so yeah, so maybe times a.
• 37:01
  Speaker 3: Ticket, times there a ticket.
• 37:03
  Speaker 2: Yeah, Okay, we're gonna take a break and then we're
• 37:05
  Speaker 2: gonna talk about days of the week.
• 37:26
  Speaker 3: All right, we are back.
• 37:27
  Speaker 2: So there's a TikTok posted by Felicia for the Win
• 37:31
  Speaker 2: and it has people discussing the question what day of
• 37:34
  Speaker 2: the week are you?
• 37:35
  Speaker 1: Okay, so I think so should do this in reverse,
• 37:37
  Speaker 1: like we should ask each one of us what our
• 37:38
  Speaker 1: favorite day of the week is.
• 37:39
  Speaker 2: It's not your favorite day of the week, it's how
• 37:42
  Speaker 2: do you what do you What day of the week
• 37:44
  Speaker 2: do you feel like you are as a person?
• 37:45
  Speaker 3: There's like different descriptions.
• 37:47
  Speaker 1: I know, but I think what your favorite day of
• 37:49
  Speaker 1: the week? Could be Oh, I see what you're saying.
• 37:52
  Speaker 1: I'm saying, yeah, okay, let's start with Mark.
• 37:56
  Speaker 4: I really like a Thursday.
• 37:59
  Speaker 3: Okay, interesting, can you wait? Can we eborate? Can we
• 38:03
  Speaker 3: deep dive into that?
• 38:04
  Speaker 4: I like it because there's a lot of runway ahead, Like, yes,
• 38:07
  Speaker 4: there is some work to be done on Fridays, but
• 38:09
  Speaker 4: it's usually a lighter day, okay, and so the weekend
• 38:12
  Speaker 4: is almost kind of starting. I also, for some reason,
• 38:15
  Speaker 4: associate days of the week with television, even though that's
• 38:18
  Speaker 4: not really a thing anymore, but my whole life it
• 38:20
  Speaker 4: was a thing. And Thursday, I know, Thursday was always
• 38:24
  Speaker 4: really good television.
• 38:25
  Speaker 3: Wasn't Thursday when Fridays aired.
• 38:28
  Speaker 4: Days was on Thursdays all the best shows. And there's
• 38:31
  Speaker 4: a reason for that. It's because all the movie studios
• 38:33
  Speaker 4: want to promote their movies that come out on Friday,
• 38:37
  Speaker 4: so the big money goes to Thursdays. So the highest
• 38:39
  Speaker 4: ratings they want on Thursdays, so they want all their
• 38:41
  Speaker 4: best shows on Thursdays. Anyway, even when I was a kid,
• 38:43
  Speaker 4: it was like, you know, Cheers was on Thursdays. You know,
• 38:46
  Speaker 4: Thursdays has always been night for the best shows. So
• 38:48
  Speaker 4: I like Thursdays.
• 38:49
  Speaker 1: Okay, let's see this is you all right. Thursdays are
• 38:52
  Speaker 1: described as individuals who aspire to the weekend but maintain
• 38:56
  Speaker 1: a humble demeanor. They often carry stress visibly true, Oh,
• 39:00
  Speaker 1: but use it to their advantage by keeping interactions concise
• 39:03
  Speaker 1: and impactful. While they enjoy socializing and lifting the mood
• 39:07
  Speaker 1: at gatherings. True. They prefer early nights true, and are
• 39:11
  Speaker 1: known for their power prowess in small talk.
• 39:15
  Speaker 4: I am pretty good at small talk.
• 39:16
  Speaker 1: Great, I don't know what prowess threw me off. Thursdays
• 39:19
  Speaker 1: appreciate creativity and have a knack for recognized and cultivating
• 39:23
  Speaker 1: good ideas. Recognizing and cultivating good ideas, that's your job, job.
• 39:27
  Speaker 3: Wow, that's interesting. Wow, what's your favorite day?
• 39:31
  Speaker 4: Well, what's yours?
• 39:32
  Speaker 1: My Monday?
• 39:34
  Speaker 3: Okay, we but you said that before Monday.
• 39:38
  Speaker 1: That's the tone, it's the beginning. It's like January to.
• 39:41
  Speaker 3: Me, okay.
• 39:42
  Speaker 2: People who identify with Monday are smart, structured, and organized,
• 39:46
  Speaker 2: often serving as the planner in their excuse me, often
• 39:49
  Speaker 2: serving as the planner in their household. They meticulously plan events,
• 39:53
  Speaker 2: organized group activities, and prefer strict schedules. They are reliable
• 39:57
  Speaker 2: friends who rarely cancel plans and feel terar if they do.
• 40:01
  Speaker 1: That's pretty much me. Yeah, except for I would say
• 40:04
  Speaker 1: I'm like my household planner, although I.
• 40:06
  Speaker 3: Try to be family me.
• 40:10
  Speaker 1: Okay, okay, what.
• 40:12
  Speaker 2: Do you think of a planner scheduled my family meeting
• 40:16
  Speaker 2: plan such a Monday?
• 40:18
  Speaker 3: So much?
• 40:19
  Speaker 4: This is one of those things where all of the
• 40:21
  Speaker 4: we can all identify with all of these.
• 40:22
  Speaker 3: Like I feel like I don't identify with Monday.
• 40:27
  Speaker 1: Okay, fine, okay, what's yours?
• 40:29
  Speaker 3: I think Saturday? Okay?
• 40:31
  Speaker 1: Oh good one? Actually, great one? Okay. Saturday's prioritize leisure
• 40:35
  Speaker 1: and relaxation, eagerly anticipating their next vacation. They are passionate
• 40:40
  Speaker 1: about their hobbies, treating them with dedication. Act into a
• 40:44
  Speaker 1: jump a kid.
• 40:47
  Speaker 4: I love how you read.
• 40:53
  Speaker 3: Through it.
• 40:56
  Speaker 1: Don't even get me started, honest. De Ramone Brad Pitt's
• 41:00
  Speaker 1: girl run. I can never say I is a girlfriend.
• 41:04
  Speaker 3: Yes, it's twenty twenty two, they moved in together.
• 41:09
  Speaker 1: I say it's I'm sure.
• 41:10
  Speaker 6: I think it's yez demon And I've always say I
• 41:18
  Speaker 6: can akin to a job, whether it's knitting, driving aimlessly,
• 41:22
  Speaker 6: or cooking elaborate meals.
• 41:23
  Speaker 1: Saturday's cherish their personal time, often waking up early even
• 41:29
  Speaker 1: on days off to make the most of their day.
• 41:31
  Speaker 1: They excel at unwinding, adaptly, taking long naps, taking maps,
• 41:40
  Speaker 1: watching sitcom reruns, or scrolling through parks strolling sorry, wow,
• 41:46
  Speaker 1: strolling through parks. They value quality time with others, striving
• 41:49
  Speaker 1: to offer their best selves and make their company feel appreciated.
• 41:53
  Speaker 1: That's so you earning them the reputation of being a
• 41:56
  Speaker 1: ray of sunshine.
• 41:57
  Speaker 3: Wow, there were some the only think early.
• 42:02
  Speaker 2: Elaborate meals so much ordering elaborate meals.
• 42:05
  Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, same thing.
• 42:08
  Speaker 3: That's so fascinating.
• 42:10
  Speaker 1: Wow, I mean I think it's pretty on the money.
• 42:13
  Speaker 3: Oh, I quite enjoyed that.
• 42:14
  Speaker 1: I quite enjoyed that too. Let's say our least favorite day,
• 42:18
  Speaker 1: or maybe we're done with this.
• 42:20
  Speaker 2: After you were trying to read that, I think actually
• 42:26
  Speaker 2: it's time to go.
• 42:27
  Speaker 3: It is time to go to an.
• 42:29
  Speaker 1: Email because we have so many coming to you soon.
• 42:32
  Speaker 3: That's right.
• 42:33
  Speaker 2: On Thursday, we have a Dear Bonia episode, which you know,
• 42:36
  Speaker 2: this is different than ask Bonia.
• 42:38
  Speaker 3: This is dear Bonia.
• 42:40
  Speaker 2: Yes, so these are more insightful, deeper question.
• 42:46
  Speaker 3: Long form questions.
• 42:47
  Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, you know we didn't get to what
• 42:50
  Speaker 1: we'll save it?
• 42:51
  Speaker 3: What is it?
• 42:52
  Speaker 5: Sam?
• 42:52
  Speaker 1: Put the Love Island questionnaire that they ask the people
• 42:56
  Speaker 1: who are applying for the show. Okay, actually, don't even
• 43:00
  Speaker 1: to put it in here.
• 43:01
  Speaker 3: I see it.
• 43:01
  Speaker 1: Yeah, and I thought it would be so fun for
• 43:05
  Speaker 1: us to ask each other those questions. Maybe no, no, no,
• 43:09
  Speaker 1: it's time to wrap.
• 43:11
  Speaker 3: I'll ask you one.
• 43:14
  Speaker 1: It's not a quick thing to shove at the end
• 43:16
  Speaker 1: of a podcast.
• 43:16
  Speaker 2: This is like, what is one thing your ex wanted
• 43:19
  Speaker 2: to miss about you?
• 43:21
  Speaker 1: Mhmm, wow, by my gorgeousness?
• 43:28
  Speaker 3: He wouldn't miss it.
• 43:30
  Speaker 1: Yeah, it's like I'm so gorgeous it like hurt his eyes?
• 43:32
  Speaker 3: Oh he like would he would? He? He wouldn't missing
• 43:37
  Speaker 3: your beauty?
• 43:38
  Speaker 4: Correct, because it's like blind It's like distracting my friend.
• 43:46
  Speaker 3: I'm not expecting that about you.
• 43:49
  Speaker 2: Probably just like me not answering my phone and stuff
• 43:52
  Speaker 2: being neglectible.
• 43:54
  Speaker 3: Yeah, Robert, Robert was a good man.
• 43:59
  Speaker 1: He is a great man. He is a great man.
• 44:02
  Speaker 3: Yes, all right, well that'll do it, but we will
• 44:05
  Speaker 3: be back Thursday. So tighten your breeches and stay stay
• 44:10
  Speaker 3: on the ride.
• 44:12
  Speaker 4: What does that mean expression you're picked up? When you
• 44:15
  Speaker 4: were down there?
• 44:16
  Speaker 1: Was it? In Louisiana Or was it
• 44:22
  Speaker 2: Okay we love you so much topic, good week, Bye bye,