Latest / Untraditionally Lala / The One About What She Said To Jax Taylor & The Valley Season 2 Trailer

Transcript

The One About What She Said To Jax Taylor & The Valley Season 2 Trailer · Untraditionally Lala

• 0:06
  Speaker 1: Hello, my loves It is La La Kent. Welcome back
• 0:08
  Speaker 1: to the Give Them La La Podcast. We are here
• 0:10
  Speaker 1: recording from my home, our home. So if you hear
• 0:14
  Speaker 1: a lot of hustle and bustle, it is another chaotic
• 0:17
  Speaker 1: day in the Birmingham, Kent household. Whoa, it's like a
• 0:21
  Speaker 1: tornado in here. You're gonna hear dogs, kids, But you
• 0:25
  Speaker 1: know the drill. Before we get the episode on and
• 0:28
  Speaker 1: pop in, we have something really fun that we are doing.
• 0:32
  Speaker 1: Because we are in the madness of March. I thought
• 0:37
  Speaker 1: how fun would it be to bring in some Bravo celebrities.
• 0:41
  Speaker 2: And make our own little bracket.
• 0:43
  Speaker 1: And make our own brackets. So here's how it's gonna work.
• 0:46
  Speaker 1: And we're gonna bump more gums on this. When the
• 0:49
  Speaker 1: bonus comes out on Monday. Easton is going to pick
• 0:52
  Speaker 1: eight housewives. I'm going to pick eight housewives. Those housewives
• 0:58
  Speaker 1: are going to face off and the way that they
• 1:01
  Speaker 1: are going to take it is you guys going to
• 1:05
  Speaker 1: the Give Them La La pod page and you're gonna
• 1:08
  Speaker 1: is there a link there that say so.
• 1:10
  Speaker 3: In the bio, we will put the link that you
• 1:14
  Speaker 3: can click and it will take you to where you
• 1:17
  Speaker 3: can vote and the bracket and just in the bio.
• 1:20
  Speaker 1: And what I love about this is they are gonna
• 1:22
  Speaker 1: be housewives who maybe you secretly love but it's an
• 1:25
  Speaker 1: unpopular opinion. And guess what, here's where you can show
• 1:28
  Speaker 1: them some love and not get mad hate for it,
• 1:30
  Speaker 1: which is like the best freaking part of it all.
• 1:33
  Speaker 1: So I'm really excited about this. I love nothing more
• 1:36
  Speaker 1: than talking housewives. It's a love language for me. So
• 1:40
  Speaker 1: this whole bracket system is going to be so fun.
• 1:44
  Speaker 1: I'm excited on the bonus to tell you who our
• 1:46
  Speaker 1: housewives are. We're going to have the sweet Celebrity sixteen
• 1:53
  Speaker 1: shout out Gig, shout out Gigi. She was like, instead
• 1:56
  Speaker 1: of Brava celebrities, you should call it sweet Liberties and
• 1:59
  Speaker 1: only do housewives. I was like, you're speaking my language, girl, you.
• 2:02
  Speaker 2: Have You're listening, Lisa, You're listening.
• 2:06
  Speaker 1: Even when I feel like you're not. Uh So, we
• 2:09
  Speaker 1: had Ocean's birthday party over the weekend. It was themed Minions.
• 2:13
  Speaker 1: She said she wanted a slime birthday party, Minions themed
• 2:17
  Speaker 1: and the way that you guys know, if you have kids,
• 2:20
  Speaker 1: they are like farts in the wind right. They may
• 2:23
  Speaker 1: want Minions. But by the time the party comes, they're like,
• 2:26
  Speaker 1: and I want Minions. I wanted a wicked party, and
• 2:29
  Speaker 1: I'm like, okay, well no. The way that I shoved
• 2:32
  Speaker 1: Minions down her throat for the past month, I was like,
• 2:35
  Speaker 1: we're watching Minions. We're watching Minions. I need to get
• 2:39
  Speaker 1: keep her excited for the theme with the party.
• 2:41
  Speaker 3: That check and you had to go and she was
• 2:42
  Speaker 3: coming home from school. You were like, hey, were you
• 2:44
  Speaker 3: just put on the Minions.
• 2:45
  Speaker 1: For I was like, yeah, I needed it was absolutely spectacular.
• 2:51
  Speaker 1: We had it at the Slumu Institute, which is where
• 2:54
  Speaker 1: they make a lot of slime. It's all slime. There
• 2:57
  Speaker 1: was so many slimy experiences, including like the Nickelodeon type
• 3:03
  Speaker 1: sla happening where you stood under like a faucet that
• 3:07
  Speaker 1: dumped slime on you. Ocean wouldn't do it, and I
• 3:10
  Speaker 1: was fine with it.
• 3:13
  Speaker 3: No, I saw kids doing it. I saw a video.
• 3:16
  Speaker 3: One of the kids didn't even have like the jacket
• 3:18
  Speaker 3: on it.
• 3:18
  Speaker 1: They did it. Just horrendous.
• 3:22
  Speaker 2: That couldn't be me.
• 3:23
  Speaker 1: The kids had a blast, the parents had anxiety. One
• 3:27
  Speaker 1: little girl ruined her sweatshirt the moment she got in
• 3:29
  Speaker 1: there because she shoved her hands into this pot of
• 3:32
  Speaker 1: slime and got it all over her sleeves. Loom goes,
• 3:35
  Speaker 1: I'm billing you for the sweatshirt. I was like, that's fine,
• 3:38
  Speaker 1: it was she was joking. But the kids had the
• 3:41
  Speaker 1: most amazing time. She she had an actual minion come
• 3:47
  Speaker 1: and that, No.
• 3:48
  Speaker 2: The minion was the best thing. Yeah, the actual minion.
• 3:51
  Speaker 2: The actual minion was frightened kids. The kids who loved
• 3:54
  Speaker 2: the minion, and.
• 3:55
  Speaker 1: Then the kids who were screaming bloody murder every time
• 3:58
  Speaker 1: the minion made its way over.
• 4:00
  Speaker 3: Ah, just looking for their mom. That was my favorite thing.
• 4:03
  Speaker 3: There was one kid and she was the cutest little thing.
• 4:06
  Speaker 3: And she's sitting at the table and the minions to
• 4:08
  Speaker 3: her back, and you would have thought that she just
• 4:12
  Speaker 3: kept looking back to make sure that this minion was
• 4:15
  Speaker 3: nowhere near her. And she looks back and she sees
• 4:19
  Speaker 3: it making its way, and she starts to get closer
• 4:22
  Speaker 3: to the table, and it starts getting closer, and she
• 4:24
  Speaker 3: looks at her mom and goes, wow, and the mom
• 4:29
  Speaker 3: jumps at I was dying holding so Sophia her. I'm
• 4:33
  Speaker 3: laughing my ass off. I'm feeling terrible, But it was
• 4:36
  Speaker 3: the best thing. I've ever seen is that minion.
• 4:38
  Speaker 2: It was like.
• 4:40
  Speaker 1: Great ruger to the party for some of the kids.
• 4:42
  Speaker 1: I actually feel bad that I didn't take that into
• 4:44
  Speaker 1: consideration because Ocean used to be afraid of any character.
• 4:48
  Speaker 3: But that's why you thought it would be okay, because
• 4:49
  Speaker 3: she was afraid afraid, and now that she's not, you're like, eh,
• 4:53
  Speaker 3: nobody else's because everybody.
• 4:55
  Speaker 2: Else was not afraid when she was.
• 4:56
  Speaker 1: There were just a couple kids that were like, fuck
• 4:58
  Speaker 1: the mini I have zeros desire to have that thing
• 5:00
  Speaker 1: next to me. We had what is what food did
• 5:05
  Speaker 1: we have? I ordered with.
• 5:06
  Speaker 2: Panda that I didn't pick up in time Panda Express.
• 5:09
  Speaker 1: I call easton you guys, and I said to him like, hey,
• 5:14
  Speaker 1: we're headed up. We're making slime. We're headed up in
• 5:16
  Speaker 1: like twenty minutes to eat the food. And he goes, perfect,
• 5:21
  Speaker 1: I'm leaving now. And I'm like, oh, great, so you'll
• 5:24
  Speaker 1: be here in like what ten minutes. He goes, I'm leaving,
• 5:27
  Speaker 1: Sherman oaks. The food was forgot to pick up the
• 5:31
  Speaker 1: freaking food. I told him the food has to be
• 5:33
  Speaker 1: picked up at eleven fifteen. It is noon noon. I
• 5:38
  Speaker 1: tell you, he hasn't even left the house in Sherman Oaks.
• 5:40
  Speaker 1: I wanted to murder you. I want to murder you
• 5:45
  Speaker 1: now because I was already stressed. There's something about children's
• 5:49
  Speaker 1: birthday parties that like add just another layer of stress.
• 5:52
  Speaker 1: And so I started venting to the moms and I
• 5:54
  Speaker 1: was like, so what if he doesn't get here, she goes,
• 5:56
  Speaker 1: then the kids don't eat. It's fine. Whatever there's I
• 6:00
  Speaker 1: was like, wow, okay, if I mean, if you're fine
• 6:04
  Speaker 1: with it, I'm fine with it, like there is a possibility.
• 6:06
  Speaker 1: Thank god we had Nick and Joe.
• 6:09
  Speaker 2: Well I did.
• 6:10
  Speaker 3: But if you look through our text, I will say,
• 6:12
  Speaker 3: because I thought you sent it to me. And so
• 6:14
  Speaker 3: I looked at it and I saw the Chipultley text.
• 6:18
  Speaker 1: That's not my fault.
• 6:19
  Speaker 3: No, I know, I'm saying that was on me. So
• 6:21
  Speaker 3: I saw the text and I thought that, okay.
• 6:23
  Speaker 1: There it is from a different day, from.
• 6:25
  Speaker 2: A different day, and it was like twelve something.
• 6:28
  Speaker 1: It doesn't matter. You have to drop the ball heavily.
• 6:31
  Speaker 1: And had I not had Nick and Joe, I would
• 6:34
  Speaker 1: have been screwed. I'm really not happy with you.
• 6:38
  Speaker 3: It's fine because we have Panda coming out of our ears,
• 6:41
  Speaker 3: and I don't.
• 6:43
  Speaker 2: I wish.
• 6:44
  Speaker 3: I wish I didn't pick it up. At this point,
• 6:47
  Speaker 3: I have bowel issues. I can't sit down without.
• 6:52
  Speaker 1: We've had it for every meal Panda Express.
• 6:55
  Speaker 3: Just to let you guys know, this party was on Saturday.
• 6:57
  Speaker 3: I've had it Saturday night.
• 7:00
  Speaker 2: Sunday.
• 7:01
  Speaker 3: Yeah, I had mudles and chicken for breakfast, lunch, and dinner.
• 7:06
  Speaker 3: Yesterday I felt like there was concrete in my body.
• 7:10
  Speaker 1: We still haven't made a dent.
• 7:12
  Speaker 2: No, So actually I wish I didn't pick it up.
• 7:15
  Speaker 1: Well, it was a spectacular party and all the kids
• 7:18
  Speaker 1: had so much fun. I used this party planner, Adri
• 7:22
  Speaker 1: She has a company called Picnic and Pedal, and I
• 7:26
  Speaker 1: just want to put it out there you guys, I
• 7:29
  Speaker 1: paid for this party. I'm only mentioning her, not for
• 7:34
  Speaker 1: any other reason. This isn't a spawn Con sponsored shout out.
• 7:38
  Speaker 1: She has done every single birthday party of Ocean, so
• 7:42
  Speaker 1: that's four years, and has made each birthday so spectacular.
• 7:48
  Speaker 1: If you are planning any type of party, I highly
• 7:52
  Speaker 1: recommend Picnic and Pedal. They always kill it. The detail
• 7:56
  Speaker 1: is insane. I just find myself, well, there's just so
• 8:01
  Speaker 1: much pressure taken off by using her.
• 8:03
  Speaker 2: We have the because she does the cookies. She does
• 8:06
  Speaker 2: it all.
• 8:07
  Speaker 1: I don't have to think about a thing. I am
• 8:10
  Speaker 1: not a creative person. So I'm like, you just said, like,
• 8:13
  Speaker 1: I trust you, send me it. I know what I
• 8:15
  Speaker 1: like and what I don't like, but I can't start
• 8:16
  Speaker 1: from scratch. It was so fabulous and all of the
• 8:21
  Speaker 1: kids had the best time. The party favors. I just
• 8:23
  Speaker 1: did these, like Little Minion, I like sippy not sippy cups. Yeah,
• 8:28
  Speaker 1: it's because I hate junkie party favors.
• 8:32
  Speaker 2: Yeah, it's not real.
• 8:33
  Speaker 3: It's like a metal They can refill it, put whatever
• 8:37
  Speaker 3: they want, they can take it to school.
• 8:38
  Speaker 2: Yeah, it's a It's a usable.
• 8:40
  Speaker 1: Usable party favor. And I have to tell you. So
• 8:43
  Speaker 1: I was talking to Ocean after the party and I
• 8:46
  Speaker 1: was like, Hey, we'll call him Henry. We'll just make
• 8:48
  Speaker 1: up a name. I was like, do you want to
• 8:50
  Speaker 1: have a playdate with Henry? I really love his mom.
• 8:54
  Speaker 1: His mom is really fun. Let's have a play date
• 8:56
  Speaker 1: with him. So then last night I get a a
• 9:00
  Speaker 1: text from a different kid. We'll call him Hank. Hank's
• 9:04
  Speaker 1: mom sends me a message and is like, hey, can
• 9:07
  Speaker 1: Hank FaceTime Ocean. He's talked about her all day. So
• 9:11
  Speaker 1: I say to her to ocean we're in bed, I said,
• 9:14
  Speaker 1: would you like to have a play date with Hank?
• 9:16
  Speaker 1: And she goes, I like, Hank, do you like Hank's mom?
• 9:22
  Speaker 1: I said, I love Hank's mom. She was, Okay, I'll
• 9:24
  Speaker 1: have a play date with him. Like she now knows
• 9:27
  Speaker 1: that it's stuck.
• 9:28
  Speaker 2: With me like them as well. But do you like it?
• 9:33
  Speaker 1: Because if you do, then like, for sure, I'll do
• 9:34
  Speaker 1: a play date.
• 9:35
  Speaker 2: But if you don't, I don't need to play them, right.
• 9:38
  Speaker 1: I'm like, yes, you figured out the rules of the game,
• 9:41
  Speaker 1: of the play date game.
• 9:42
  Speaker 2: She's quick to it.
• 9:48
  Speaker 1: You guys have heard me talk, Oh maybe you haven't.
• 9:51
  Speaker 1: I spoke about it briefly on Amazon Live that the
• 9:57
  Speaker 1: custody battle is fine over. Yeah, after three years and
• 10:03
  Speaker 1: some change. And I won't go into detail about what
• 10:07
  Speaker 1: that looked like. It was an insanely long day, hours
• 10:13
  Speaker 1: upon hours. I was dead and emotionally drained once it
• 10:17
  Speaker 1: was finished, just because when it's been such a long
• 10:21
  Speaker 1: road and such a long battle and just the unknown
• 10:25
  Speaker 1: and change freaks me out. And to say that, like
• 10:29
  Speaker 1: that chapter of my life is closed is such an
• 10:34
  Speaker 1: incredible feeling. I know that the agreement that we came
• 10:40
  Speaker 1: up with is going to benefit Ocean to the highest level.
• 10:46
  Speaker 1: And that's what you know, it's all about, is keeping
• 10:50
  Speaker 1: her in good spirits, her having consistency, which was my
• 10:54
  Speaker 1: biggest thing. I don't do well with chaos. And I
• 10:58
  Speaker 1: feel really, really grateful that it's over now. My eyes
• 11:01
  Speaker 1: are still open, my ears are open, like mom is
• 11:04
  Speaker 1: still mama bearing her ass off. But uh, like my
• 11:09
  Speaker 1: lawyer said, it'll never be fully over. But at least
• 11:13
  Speaker 1: we have a signed agreement that is not temporary, if
• 11:17
  Speaker 1: that makes sense.
• 11:18
  Speaker 2: Yes, So the questions have been answered in a way.
• 11:22
  Speaker 1: We have a roadmap now to follow. Whereas for the
• 11:25
  Speaker 1: past three years we had some like my old lawyer
• 11:29
  Speaker 1: was such a buffoon who like bled me dry. And
• 11:33
  Speaker 1: thank god that I was introduced to a new family
• 11:36
  Speaker 1: lawyer that really had uh, your interest, my best interest,
• 11:40
  Speaker 1: but most importantly Ocean's best interest at heart, and has
• 11:44
  Speaker 1: walked me through the family court system. He's just like
• 11:47
  Speaker 1: a really good, a good solid lawyer. And Tina Swiften,
• 11:52
  Speaker 1: who you guys know, she's a narcissistic abuse specialist. She
• 11:56
  Speaker 1: went through a ten year custody battle over her girls
• 11:59
  Speaker 1: and even she loves my lawyer. So I was like,
• 12:03
  Speaker 1: all right, this is a good man.
• 12:05
  Speaker 2: Oh I love your lawyer.
• 12:07
  Speaker 3: Like just when he's on the phone, even good days,
• 12:10
  Speaker 3: bad days, I feel like he's always digging Yeah, us
• 12:14
  Speaker 3: out of a trench.
• 12:15
  Speaker 1: I think so too. So that part of my life is,
• 12:19
  Speaker 1: you know, somewhat, it's somewhat come to a close. Also,
• 12:23
  Speaker 1: on that Amazon Live it had come out that Jack's
• 12:27
  Speaker 1: the Hot mic with Alex Baskin that podcast it came out,
• 12:30
  Speaker 1: it came out where he admitted to a twenty year
• 12:33
  Speaker 1: cocaine addiction and I don't do well live like it
• 12:42
  Speaker 1: kind of freaks me out because sometimes I misspeak or
• 12:46
  Speaker 1: I use words that maybe I shouldn't have used. And
• 12:50
  Speaker 1: I said on it, I'm extremely proud of him, and
• 12:53
  Speaker 1: of course that's what everyone picked up, right, Lala Kent
• 12:56
  Speaker 1: is extremely proud of jaxs Taylor and I I just
• 13:01
  Speaker 1: you know, And it did throw Brittany off. I got
• 13:03
  Speaker 1: a phone call shortly after and we got on the phone,
• 13:06
  Speaker 1: and you know, she was not happy with me, and
• 13:10
  Speaker 1: I did take myself and put myself in her shoes.
• 13:15
  Speaker 1: I was like, if back in the day she said
• 13:19
  Speaker 1: that about my ex, I would feel nothing but rage,
• 13:22
  Speaker 1: and like, how could you use that word when you
• 13:24
  Speaker 1: know what he's done to me? So I just want
• 13:26
  Speaker 1: to like somewhat try to explain myself a bit. And
• 13:29
  Speaker 1: this is not an excuse, because she very valid point.
• 13:32
  Speaker 1: I would have had someone's head on a platter if
• 13:34
  Speaker 1: the roles were reversed. I'm now somewhat on the other
• 13:37
  Speaker 1: side of this experience, and I try to tell people
• 13:40
  Speaker 1: when they're in it, you know this is not your forever,
• 13:43
  Speaker 1: This too shall pass. You will be okay to say
• 13:46
  Speaker 1: it doesn't shape who you are. I would be lying.
• 13:50
  Speaker 1: You come out of a situation like this a completely
• 13:53
  Speaker 1: different person, but you do come out of it much
• 13:57
  Speaker 1: stronger and the bad stuff doesn't affect you as as
• 14:02
  Speaker 1: much as it did in the moment. If I could
• 14:03
  Speaker 1: go back and tell myself when I was in that situation,
• 14:07
  Speaker 1: one thing, I would have told myself to handle situations
• 14:10
  Speaker 1: a little bit differently than I did. But that's, you know,
• 14:13
  Speaker 1: hindsight's twenty twenty and you can't deny emotions that you're
• 14:18
  Speaker 1: feeling in a moment.
• 14:19
  Speaker 2: No, but I also do. And that's the other thing,
• 14:22
  Speaker 2: is you were an addict. You're an addict. I'm an addict.
• 14:27
  Speaker 3: I were doing things and I feel like you came
• 14:31
  Speaker 3: and said, you're proud. I may not even know somebody
• 14:36
  Speaker 3: that is going through something, and I'm taking out the
• 14:38
  Speaker 3: person just who they are. Anybody who is an addict
• 14:43
  Speaker 3: who hears another addict is finding help, I'm always going
• 14:47
  Speaker 3: to be proud because I'm not looking at who that
• 14:51
  Speaker 3: person is or what they did to even people I
• 14:53
  Speaker 3: know around me.
• 14:54
  Speaker 2: I'm proud of them for finding help.
• 14:56
  Speaker 1: Okay.
• 14:57
  Speaker 3: That's how I also look at it, because it is
• 15:00
  Speaker 3: now he's being honest. If you're bringing that up, you're
• 15:03
  Speaker 3: now you've said you're an addict.
• 15:06
  Speaker 2: That's number one.
• 15:07
  Speaker 1: Well that is quite literally Step one, yeah.
• 15:10
  Speaker 2: Is Step one is saying that I am an addict.
• 15:13
  Speaker 3: And if he now just said that on a podcast,
• 15:16
  Speaker 3: I am outside of Jax Taylor's name, I am proud
• 15:20
  Speaker 3: of that addict finding help.
• 15:22
  Speaker 1: Okay.
• 15:23
  Speaker 2: And that's why I believe you said it.
• 15:26
  Speaker 1: Yes, And I was trying to explain to to Brittany
• 15:29
  Speaker 1: and we're all We're all good. The thing that I
• 15:31
  Speaker 1: love about my friendship with Brittany is that it is
• 15:34
  Speaker 1: nothing but honesty. Right, we have had it out with
• 15:37
  Speaker 1: each other, but we always come back around. And at
• 15:40
  Speaker 1: the end of our conversation, she said, I'm sorry that
• 15:43
  Speaker 1: I called and reacted this way. I just had to
• 15:45
  Speaker 1: say something, and I said, we do not have a
• 15:47
  Speaker 1: true friendship if you cannot call me and talk about
• 15:51
  Speaker 1: how you're feeling, even if it's explosive.
• 15:53
  Speaker 4: I i'd right, I call me and explode and talk
• 15:59
  Speaker 4: to me about the problem, and don't call somebody else
• 16:01
  Speaker 4: and start talking behind my back.
• 16:04
  Speaker 1: Right, And by the way, if you got a vent
• 16:05
  Speaker 1: about me, like by me, but but beind my back.
• 16:09
  Speaker 2: About me though I don't care. That's a true friend.
• 16:12
  Speaker 1: That is a true friend, but you she should also
• 16:15
  Speaker 1: be able to go invent about me to someone. Everyone
• 16:18
  Speaker 1: needs another person to you know. Not everything is for
• 16:21
  Speaker 1: our years. And I stand by that. There's been so
• 16:24
  Speaker 1: many times where I'm like, you know what. I apologize
• 16:26
  Speaker 1: that I said that, but I wasn't meant for you
• 16:28
  Speaker 1: to hear. So I'm like a little annoyed that like.
• 16:30
  Speaker 3: They told you, and because me telling them made me
• 16:33
  Speaker 3: feel really good and I forgot everything and.
• 16:37
  Speaker 1: Now I have living a little unproductive of them telling you.
• 16:41
  Speaker 1: But it's fine. I've also been a rat. So my
• 16:46
  Speaker 1: biggest thing with that was letting I know what JAXX
• 16:52
  Speaker 1: has done to Brittany. I know firsthand it is not
• 16:55
  Speaker 1: my story to share. That is Britney's story to share.
• 16:58
  Speaker 1: I blocked that man for a reason. I know that
• 17:01
  Speaker 1: a lot of things will come out on the valley.
• 17:04
  Speaker 1: The trailer just dropped. The trailer looks great. I love
• 17:09
  Speaker 1: what they did with Brittany as far as she's going
• 17:12
  Speaker 1: through the hardest time of her life, but they still
• 17:15
  Speaker 1: showed moments of who Brittany really is. Of like, she
• 17:19
  Speaker 1: has fun, She's got a laugh that is the most fun,
• 17:24
  Speaker 1: you know, And I love that they showed that because
• 17:26
  Speaker 1: I think it's going to be a pretty heavy season. Again,
• 17:29
  Speaker 1: I was like four hundred months pregnant, so I bop in.
• 17:33
  Speaker 1: But my biggest thing to her was like in sobriety.
• 17:37
  Speaker 1: And I don't think anyone who is not in the
• 17:40
  Speaker 1: program will ever understand this. I when I venture back
• 17:45
  Speaker 1: into the Bravo world of filming a show, it is
• 17:50
  Speaker 1: constant internal conflict because what I am learning in my
• 17:54
  Speaker 1: program at times, what I do in my professional life
• 18:01
  Speaker 1: it goes against everything I learned in my program. Quite literally,
• 18:05
  Speaker 1: and I'm like, how do I become okay with this?
• 18:09
  Speaker 1: Because this is my job, right, this is how I
• 18:13
  Speaker 1: pay my bills, bills, this is how I pay my bills,
• 18:16
  Speaker 1: this is how I feed my kids. So I can't
• 18:19
  Speaker 1: just give it up, right, It's a very fine line
• 18:22
  Speaker 1: that I'm walking. And I was trying to explain this
• 18:24
  Speaker 1: to Brittany. I'm in the rooms, okay, and we are
• 18:28
  Speaker 1: on a very public platform where if I'm the one
• 18:32
  Speaker 1: who goes in and says about someone like Jack's or
• 18:36
  Speaker 1: anybody for that matter, who comes out as an addict,
• 18:39
  Speaker 1: take away, you have to separate the person from the disease. Right,
• 18:45
  Speaker 1: That's what I had to do. Although I know what
• 18:47
  Speaker 1: Jacks is capable of and how he's treated my friend
• 18:51
  Speaker 1: strictly talking about him admitting his twenty year cocaine addiction,
• 18:55
  Speaker 1: I cannot be someone in the program that says bullshit
• 19:00
  Speaker 1: and here's a laundry list of all of the things
• 19:02
  Speaker 1: that you've done. I then become an unsafe person in
• 19:05
  Speaker 1: the room that I go to with my meetings. I
• 19:10
  Speaker 1: have to say, that is incredible that you are admitting that.
• 19:14
  Speaker 1: I wish you all the best and I will be
• 19:16
  Speaker 1: service to you in this program.
• 19:18
  Speaker 2: And there it is.
• 19:19
  Speaker 3: And that's the thing you don't Once somebody can admit
• 19:23
  Speaker 3: that they're powerless, their.
• 19:27
  Speaker 2: Name who they are, that's out the window.
• 19:31
  Speaker 3: You are now on a new path of becoming the
• 19:34
  Speaker 3: human that you want to be. So I am of service,
• 19:37
  Speaker 3: right that one thing is why you dismiss the name
• 19:42
  Speaker 3: the person, because they just did the hardest thing effort.
• 19:45
  Speaker 1: Well. By the way, though, in those rooms, I don't
• 19:47
  Speaker 1: know any of those people. All I know is you're
• 19:51
  Speaker 1: an addict because you're in this room with me. I
• 19:53
  Speaker 1: don't know how you treated your ex girlfriend, how you
• 19:55
  Speaker 1: treated your ex boyfriend, your wife, your children. I have
• 19:58
  Speaker 1: no freaking clue unless you get up and share that.
• 20:01
  Speaker 1: But even that is just such a small piece of
• 20:03
  Speaker 1: your story, right, There's always another side. So when I
• 20:07
  Speaker 1: was asked about Jack's in that video, you know, the
• 20:10
  Speaker 1: Amazon life, that's a place that I was coming from,
• 20:13
  Speaker 1: is I'm like, I got to shove everything that I
• 20:15
  Speaker 1: personally know about this man and only focus on the
• 20:18
  Speaker 1: sobriety part. And I did reach out to him over
• 20:21
  Speaker 1: a text message. I unblocked him and I told him
• 20:25
  Speaker 1: like I would take a bullet for Brittany like, that's
• 20:29
  Speaker 1: my girl. I will always pick her when it comes
• 20:31
  Speaker 1: to your sobriety. If you need anything, please reach out.
• 20:34
  Speaker 1: He reached out yesterday asking me for some meetings. Easton
• 20:38
  Speaker 1: helped me put a list together of meetings that and
• 20:41
  Speaker 1: he's spoken about going to these meetings. I'm not outing him.
• 20:44
  Speaker 1: I've made sure of that, and I told him I'll
• 20:47
  Speaker 1: always be here when it comes to your sobriety. But
• 20:50
  Speaker 1: when it comes down to it, Brittany is my friend.
• 20:53
  Speaker 1: I am in full support of her, and I pray
• 20:56
  Speaker 1: for his sobriety because he has Cruise and it is
• 21:00
  Speaker 1: detrimental that he stays clean. Yeah, so that Cruise has it.
• 21:04
  Speaker 3: At Yeah, and that's you know, those meetings are steps
• 21:08
  Speaker 3: to become a better father and all of those things.
• 21:12
  Speaker 2: So that's why you're being of service, you know.
• 21:14
  Speaker 3: Yeah, So it's good that you are doing that, because
• 21:16
  Speaker 3: if you were in this program and he had these
• 21:19
  Speaker 3: questions for you, and maybe you had you know, were
• 21:22
  Speaker 3: callous and didn't want to do it because of Brittany,
• 21:26
  Speaker 3: you may do a disservice to Brittany and Cruz and
• 21:28
  Speaker 3: now he doesn't feel safe of anything beyond.
• 21:32
  Speaker 1: That, I do a disservice to my own sobriety.
• 21:36
  Speaker 2: And that's the thing.
• 21:37
  Speaker 3: It's what he did is very hard to do. I've
• 21:40
  Speaker 3: done it on this podcast, and I promise you I'm
• 21:43
  Speaker 3: nowhere near Jax Taylor's name. So for him to go
• 21:46
  Speaker 3: and do that, he, I'm hoping, is really taking what
• 21:49
  Speaker 3: he has seriously, because you don't come out and just
• 21:52
  Speaker 3: say that two millions of people, because he has now
• 21:56
  Speaker 3: just put a target on his back that you really
• 21:58
  Speaker 3: can't go and do anything secretly.
• 22:00
  Speaker 2: People will find out. And that's how I know he
• 22:02
  Speaker 2: is taking this serious.
• 22:04
  Speaker 1: That is my hope, and his sobriety is a priority.
• 22:08
  Speaker 1: Brittany is my friend and she is my number one priority,
• 22:11
  Speaker 1: keeping her safe, keeping her in a good space, listening
• 22:14
  Speaker 1: to her, and letting her know that I am your teammate.
• 22:18
  Speaker 1: Although he x reaches out to me about certain things,
• 22:23
  Speaker 1: he will not manipulate me. I know this song and dance.
• 22:27
  Speaker 1: I will talk to him about sobriety it is, But Brittany,
• 22:30
  Speaker 1: you are my fucking team.
• 22:33
  Speaker 2: When it comes to Jack's.
• 22:35
  Speaker 3: When you guys are talking, it is about the program.
• 22:40
  Speaker 2: That's it.
• 22:40
  Speaker 1: Yes, I really liked the Valley trailer. I was shocked.
• 22:45
  Speaker 2: I made it.
• 22:46
  Speaker 1: See it everyone, it's ready, it's ready for viewing it.
• 22:52
  Speaker 2: So tell me you made it.
• 22:54
  Speaker 1: She was shocking. I was like, I barely was even
• 22:57
  Speaker 1: in this.
• 22:58
  Speaker 2: I remember you filmed five times at most, and.
• 23:02
  Speaker 1: It was very quick, quick little things.
• 23:06
  Speaker 3: Yeah, you were about you four hundred months pregnant, So
• 23:10
  Speaker 3: it was a very quick.
• 23:12
  Speaker 1: Longest pregnancy the doctor's ever seen in all his lifetimes.
• 23:15
  Speaker 3: And his dad, right, and his dad, well, you saw
• 23:18
  Speaker 3: his grandfather first pregnant and then he had to get
• 23:21
  Speaker 3: he retired, and then your husband.
• 23:23
  Speaker 2: And then he was I've ever seen.
• 23:25
  Speaker 1: I gotta put you to my son. I'm retiring.
• 23:27
  Speaker 2: I'm retiring. Here's my son, and he just had a son,
• 23:29
  Speaker 2: and you may be able to see him.
• 23:31
  Speaker 1: No, So the fact that I made the trailer, I
• 23:33
  Speaker 1: was like, wow, this is weird seeing myself pregnant. No,
• 23:38
  Speaker 1: I didn't see myself pregnant. It was just like I
• 23:40
  Speaker 1: haven't been. It's weird because although I was on a
• 23:44
  Speaker 1: show for a really long time, I've kind of sunk
• 23:48
  Speaker 1: into like not being in that world like that, like
• 23:51
  Speaker 1: I've kind of been okay with it. And to see
• 23:54
  Speaker 1: myself I felt very exposed.
• 23:56
  Speaker 2: Oh my gosh, my anxiety is it's coming back? Like yes,
• 24:01
  Speaker 2: like what, You're right? I never thought of.
• 24:03
  Speaker 3: It that way, Like you saw yourself and you just
• 24:06
  Speaker 3: thought everything that you were on TV previously doing is
• 24:11
  Speaker 3: now going to come back.
• 24:13
  Speaker 2: Yeah.
• 24:13
  Speaker 1: I was like, what I do?
• 24:14
  Speaker 2: You can now judge me?
• 24:16
  Speaker 1: Right, And they're already doing that, and I'm like TV,
• 24:20
  Speaker 1: So I thought that they did a really good job.
• 24:23
  Speaker 1: I will say that Alex Baskin said, this is probably
• 24:26
  Speaker 1: one of his most iconic, the best shows, the best
• 24:34
  Speaker 1: season that he's put together, not of the Valley in general,
• 24:38
  Speaker 1: of all the projects, and that makes.
• 24:40
  Speaker 3: Me really excited because he's put together some iconic seasons.
• 24:43
  Speaker 1: Let me tell you, I didn't watch the first season.
• 24:45
  Speaker 3: Well, no, no, I don't because you were going through
• 24:48
  Speaker 3: your own thing and away from like you just said,
• 24:52
  Speaker 3: you got away from it, and now you go back
• 24:54
  Speaker 3: and you see yourself on TV.
• 24:56
  Speaker 1: Could be watching season two and not because I'm I
• 24:59
  Speaker 1: just all probably fast forwarding through my parts because I'm
• 25:02
  Speaker 1: just not quite or muting it because I do want
• 25:04
  Speaker 1: to see myself.
• 25:04
  Speaker 3: That's why I I'm very excited for it because I
• 25:09
  Speaker 3: have obviously the little insider dates of everything going on. Right,
• 25:13
  Speaker 3: But I am excited to see how it's all put together,
• 25:18
  Speaker 3: because they really did have a crazy ass season.
• 25:21
  Speaker 1: It was like never ending.
• 25:22
  Speaker 2: Oh you weren't even a part of it, and you
• 25:24
  Speaker 2: were getting phone calls just from people just to get
• 25:27
  Speaker 2: it off their chest.
• 25:28
  Speaker 1: And I loved it. I was like, so big, just
• 25:30
  Speaker 1: being like being an outsider to the drums is actually
• 25:33
  Speaker 1: five stars. Oh right, Yeah, it was great. Tama Judge
• 25:40
  Speaker 1: posted something on her story and it was she said
• 25:44
  Speaker 1: it was a long run when life gives you real problems.
• 25:47
  Speaker 1: This reality shit doesn't make sense. Peace, I'm out. So
• 25:50
  Speaker 1: they're filming right now, and Andy Quinquen Andy Cohen was
• 25:57
  Speaker 1: on his radio show and he was like, I obviously
• 26:00
  Speaker 1: you know, can't comment while they're still filming. But apparently
• 26:05
  Speaker 1: on their trip, she like quit the show. In this article,
• 26:11
  Speaker 1: it's saying that she posted this selfie from the airport
• 26:14
  Speaker 1: and that mental health is health, and I fully agree.
• 26:17
  Speaker 1: I think when a show starts taking a mental toll
• 26:20
  Speaker 1: on you, it is totally okay to tap out. But
• 26:25
  Speaker 1: she's going through a lot right now. Her co host
• 26:29
  Speaker 1: to two Tease, Teddy Mellencamp, has just you know, come
• 26:33
  Speaker 1: out with having cancer.
• 26:36
  Speaker 2: And that I.
• 26:38
  Speaker 3: Mean that there for like, if you're that close and
• 26:42
  Speaker 3: have that, I could see her that being enough to
• 26:45
  Speaker 3: tap out.
• 26:46
  Speaker 1: Yeah, and you know that's her best friend. And I
• 26:49
  Speaker 1: think when you you've done it well, start realizing real
• 26:52
  Speaker 1: life and you start having conversations that you find to
• 26:57
  Speaker 1: be fucking stupid when now.
• 27:00
  Speaker 2: Your best friend has cancer in real life gets real.
• 27:03
  Speaker 2: I mean that's enough.
• 27:04
  Speaker 3: Yeah, that's enough for me to look at like, hey,
• 27:07
  Speaker 3: I'm taking time and getting I'm making sure that my
• 27:10
  Speaker 3: best friend has somebody next to them if they need.
• 27:13
  Speaker 1: Yeah, and you do get angry. I always go back
• 27:16
  Speaker 1: to the season I filmed after dad passed away, and
• 27:20
  Speaker 1: I was like, how are we talking about anything other
• 27:22
  Speaker 1: than that?
• 27:23
  Speaker 2: You know?
• 27:24
  Speaker 1: And because other because life is happening. But I was
• 27:28
  Speaker 1: so angry because I'm like, the world is supposed to stop.
• 27:31
  Speaker 1: How is everyone?
• 27:33
  Speaker 3: Like?
• 27:33
  Speaker 1: How are people?
• 27:34
  Speaker 3: I was selfish and like I what made me feel
• 27:38
  Speaker 3: better and I was selfishly doing this is I needed
• 27:40
  Speaker 3: other people to be sad with me. They didn't need
• 27:42
  Speaker 3: to be sad for my dad, but they needed to
• 27:44
  Speaker 3: find and dig something that they were sad about because
• 27:47
  Speaker 3: you were missing because I was miserable.
• 27:49
  Speaker 2: So I needed misery. Yeah, I that is a totally
• 27:53
  Speaker 2: never And that was the thing.
• 27:54
  Speaker 3: Like it you didn't need to be sad for me
• 27:56
  Speaker 3: and my dad, but you needed to be sad with me.
• 27:58
  Speaker 1: Yeah, totally get that. Yeah, there's something that happens where
• 28:04
  Speaker 1: it's although you know Teddy is quite literally you know,
• 28:09
  Speaker 1: putting on the fight of her life, there's something there's
• 28:12
  Speaker 1: there's mourning that still happens. You know, the unknown, Well.
• 28:17
  Speaker 2: There it is, and you never know if cancer, Like.
• 28:19
  Speaker 1: What is this going to look?
• 28:20
  Speaker 2: Like?
• 28:20
  Speaker 1: How is this going to change my life? And then
• 28:23
  Speaker 1: the people around you do go through these stages of
• 28:29
  Speaker 1: oh my gosh, I'm devastated, Oh my gosh, I'm so
• 28:33
  Speaker 1: fucking angry. Yeah, and that is clearly going to impact
• 28:40
  Speaker 1: how you handle filming a show like Real Housewives mm hmm.
• 28:45
  Speaker 3: And then the repercussions of people talking about how you're acting,
• 28:49
  Speaker 3: you just don't need.
• 28:50
  Speaker 1: Right because then I know exactly what they're gonna say.
• 28:53
  Speaker 1: If she comes out of pocket this season, she's going
• 28:55
  Speaker 1: to go back. The audience will say, well, what was
• 28:59
  Speaker 1: your excuse for last?
• 29:00
  Speaker 2: Yeah, Like they're.
• 29:01
  Speaker 3: They'll always reach into the bag and things like that,
• 29:04
  Speaker 3: and it's like you know what, last season, maybe there
• 29:06
  Speaker 3: were things.
• 29:06
  Speaker 2: Going on like this that we didn't bring out there.
• 29:10
  Speaker 1: Maybe I'm just a bitch who calls out yea And
• 29:13
  Speaker 1: you may not like hurt, but I'm telling you it
• 29:16
  Speaker 1: is great television.
• 29:18
  Speaker 3: Well, I mean, there's a reason why she's been on
• 29:20
  Speaker 3: it for as long as she has, and she does
• 29:23
  Speaker 3: deserve to take a break if if that is for
• 29:25
  Speaker 3: mental mental reasons, and I don't think you need to.
• 29:28
  Speaker 2: Have a like can you hear that?
• 29:31
  Speaker 1: Is that your stomach?
• 29:32
  Speaker 2: Yeah?
• 29:32
  Speaker 3: That's Panda Express trying to make its way out something,
• 29:38
  Speaker 3: making it concrete.
• 29:42
  Speaker 1: I can't roy producers are looking for new ladies to
• 29:46
  Speaker 1: come in for season six. Oh yeah, if you could
• 29:52
  Speaker 1: pick two of them, who would you choose.
• 29:55
  Speaker 2: To stay stay on the news? So is that what
• 29:58
  Speaker 2: it's up to? Just two of them? Are?
• 30:01
  Speaker 1: I mean? I think it? They never Bravo was very
• 30:04
  Speaker 1: good at keeping a tight lid on things until it's
• 30:10
  Speaker 1: like out and ready to go, because I don't think
• 30:12
  Speaker 1: that they want a lot of people's opinions, you know,
• 30:16
  Speaker 1: and I understand that because you're never going to have
• 30:21
  Speaker 1: a solid, one way answer. All we know is people
• 30:25
  Speaker 1: did not like the They didn't like last season for me,
• 30:29
  Speaker 1: I call it season two with this new cast, they
• 30:32
  Speaker 1: were over it. I did not watch literally any of it.
• 30:37
  Speaker 1: I even tried to watch the reunions coming off of
• 30:40
  Speaker 1: like a pretty insane finale for them, and even that
• 30:44
  Speaker 1: was like pretty snoozy. So something's gotta change. If I
• 30:48
  Speaker 1: could keep let me go first, Okay, you go first,
• 30:51
  Speaker 1: so that I honestly.
• 30:54
  Speaker 2: Airing, okay, and then Geno, Lions, Generalians has to stay.
• 31:00
  Speaker 1: In my opinion, Wow, I did not think that that
• 31:03
  Speaker 1: was the direction you were going to get.
• 31:05
  Speaker 2: Really not at all.
• 31:06
  Speaker 3: I think I also Uba, but you said too. Uba
• 31:12
  Speaker 3: could take either of their spots. I do love her, Okay,
• 31:15
  Speaker 3: but let's.
• 31:16
  Speaker 2: Say Jenna Lions and Uba.
• 31:19
  Speaker 3: Maybe I don't think and Aaron brings a storyline like
• 31:22
  Speaker 3: Uba does. But Jenna Lyons is just iconic with everything
• 31:26
  Speaker 3: she does, so I feel like she has to stay.
• 31:28
  Speaker 1: Okay, you want to hear mine? Yeah, I would either
• 31:30
  Speaker 1: go Jessel oh.
• 31:33
  Speaker 2: I do love Jet. Yeah.
• 31:34
  Speaker 3: Maybe I just need another season with all of them
• 31:37
  Speaker 3: one more time. Let's just see what they can do.
• 31:40
  Speaker 1: Let's give him Al Aaron or I would do?
• 31:43
  Speaker 2: Is this their second season? Yes? See, I feel like
• 31:49
  Speaker 2: you got to give them one more run. Not it isn't,
• 31:53
  Speaker 2: but I don't ford it is.
• 31:56
  Speaker 3: But like that's the other thing is like I don't
• 31:58
  Speaker 3: dislike any of the cares, like the the women on.
• 32:00
  Speaker 1: It, they're not meshing.
• 32:02
  Speaker 3: Well no, but obviously there can be something that you
• 32:05
  Speaker 3: can do to make that television.
• 32:08
  Speaker 1: No, you got to you gotta switch it up.
• 32:10
  Speaker 2: I think third times a charm in my opinion.
• 32:15
  Speaker 1: Really yeah, I thought that having Rebecca min Cough was
• 32:20
  Speaker 1: like I think they thought it could be iconic, but
• 32:22
  Speaker 1: it just wasn't. That didn't slap Brynn. I don't think
• 32:26
  Speaker 1: mentally can handle it right now. I think she needs
• 32:28
  Speaker 1: to take such I I.
• 32:31
  Speaker 2: Love obviously Brinn on my television.
• 32:32
  Speaker 3: No, I think she's in that boat of she needs
• 32:34
  Speaker 3: to find her and I don't think she was built
• 32:38
  Speaker 3: for reality TV.
• 32:39
  Speaker 1: You know what, then let's get rid of two people.
• 32:41
  Speaker 1: I think Jen Rebecca Minkoff she was. I don't think
• 32:44
  Speaker 1: she was main I can't remember.
• 32:46
  Speaker 2: But let's get but let's do and Brent and I
• 32:49
  Speaker 2: is there one more because Brn, I think is uh
• 32:52
  Speaker 2: is not even a pick.
• 32:53
  Speaker 3: I think she needs to be off for mental reasons
• 32:56
  Speaker 3: to find her to do things to others.
• 33:00
  Speaker 1: Yes, I could do without Gena Allons.
• 33:03
  Speaker 2: Really.
• 33:03
  Speaker 1: Yeah, I think she's totally iconic but boring, but doesn't
• 33:07
  Speaker 1: Reality TV is such a specific type of iconic that
• 33:11
  Speaker 1: you have to.
• 33:12
  Speaker 2: Be and see, you know, more than me. I just
• 33:14
  Speaker 2: enjoyed watching her, but maybe I see, but I'm.
• 33:16
  Speaker 1: Like the boring, Like I didn't find her to be
• 33:21
  Speaker 1: someone that I was like looking forward to her scenes.
• 33:23
  Speaker 1: I think ci Uba Jessel and Aaron Steer the ship
• 33:30
  Speaker 1: and then you you know, work around that cast.
• 33:33
  Speaker 2: Yeah, I like that.
• 33:35
  Speaker 1: Yeah, I do too, you know. Okay, I wanted to
• 33:39
  Speaker 1: talk about Neo for a second. Did you read this.
• 33:42
  Speaker 2: Neo the singer.
• 33:43
  Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm so sick of love songs, so sad and slow,
• 33:50
  Speaker 1: you know what I'm talking about?
• 33:51
  Speaker 2: Yes?
• 33:52
  Speaker 1: Icon kind of a dick though.
• 33:54
  Speaker 2: Did he do something that I'm not gonna like him? For?
• 33:57
  Speaker 1: His ex came forward talking about how he's an narcissist.
• 34:00
  Speaker 1: This was a few years ago, and like, really.
• 34:02
  Speaker 3: Doesn't Sometimes I feel like a lot of people just
• 34:04
  Speaker 3: throw that word around.
• 34:05
  Speaker 1: It's not true. Wrong, wrong, art audience member. Okay, it
• 34:11
  Speaker 1: is an epidemic. They're everywhere and people you want to
• 34:15
  Speaker 1: know why it's everywhere, and you want to know why.
• 34:21
  Speaker 1: You want to know why it's being thrown around now
• 34:23
  Speaker 1: because everyone is because people are finally learning that narcissism
• 34:27
  Speaker 1: doesn't equal big egos themselves. It is such a specific
• 34:34
  Speaker 1: and once you see one, you cannot un see it.
• 34:36
  Speaker 1: You're like, oh my god, they are everywhere. No, truly,
• 34:40
  Speaker 1: I am I one, not in the slightest.
• 34:43
  Speaker 2: I don't know who I am.
• 34:44
  Speaker 1: People say that I'm one.
• 34:46
  Speaker 2: Maybe I'll try to be one, Please don't.
• 34:48
  Speaker 1: That's not even funny.
• 34:50
  Speaker 2: I don't even know how to be one.
• 34:52
  Speaker 1: Neo has introduced the world to his four girlfriends the
• 34:56
  Speaker 1: polyamorous relationship. He says, say something nice or move on.
• 35:01
  Speaker 1: I'm okay with this. How do you feel about it?
• 35:04
  Speaker 1: I could never be in a relationship like that because
• 35:07
  Speaker 1: I'm selfish.
• 35:08
  Speaker 3: I like, I'm possessive, really mine and only mine.
• 35:13
  Speaker 1: I don't find you. I've seen you with girlfriends, and
• 35:15
  Speaker 1: you're not possessive in the least.
• 35:17
  Speaker 3: I'm not going to say, like, I'm actually possessive, but like,
• 35:20
  Speaker 3: if I'm dating you, you're not dating anyone else, neither.
• 35:22
  Speaker 1: Am I I think that that's yeah, yeah, I think
• 35:25
  Speaker 1: that that's totally fine. Yeah, but someone who has a
• 35:29
  Speaker 1: hard time staying faithful to one person, I think it
• 35:34
  Speaker 1: is one hundred percent okay to be like, you know what,
• 35:37
  Speaker 1: I find it to be a struggle to commit to
• 35:39
  Speaker 1: just one.
• 35:40
  Speaker 2: Yeah, but I stopping it four.
• 35:42
  Speaker 1: Well, guess what I think now that it's out there,
• 35:45
  Speaker 1: he could have a conversation with all four of them
• 35:48
  Speaker 1: and be like, are you cool with bringing in someone
• 35:50
  Speaker 1: else to the mix?
• 35:52
  Speaker 2: Hi?
• 35:53
  Speaker 1: Yah?
• 35:53
  Speaker 3: It sounds like a lot of visits to the old
• 35:55
  Speaker 3: STV doctor.
• 35:57
  Speaker 1: No, I don't think so. And here's I say that.
• 36:01
  Speaker 1: I think once you can be out there as being
• 36:05
  Speaker 1: your truest self and you're honest, that opens a line
• 36:10
  Speaker 1: of communication, and with communication, I believe comes safety, security,
• 36:17
  Speaker 1: hearts don't get hurt, you know, like they are all
• 36:20
  Speaker 1: aware that this is how they've all signed up for
• 36:24
  Speaker 1: this type of life now with him?
• 36:26
  Speaker 2: Yeah, good, honor couldn't It's kind.
• 36:29
  Speaker 1: Of fun because if it's like, Ugh, Neil really wants
• 36:32
  Speaker 1: a blowy tonight and you can talk to the rest
• 36:34
  Speaker 1: of the girls and you're like, I'm tired and like
• 36:38
  Speaker 1: Susie's had a little too much to drink.
• 36:39
  Speaker 2: The blow yourself.
• 36:41
  Speaker 1: But Savannah is down for the cause, so you like,
• 36:44
  Speaker 1: punt the heavy lifting off to Savannah for the night.
• 36:47
  Speaker 2: But what if he doesn't want Savannah? What if it's
• 36:51
  Speaker 2: Jenny's night. No, she's not down for the blowing.
• 36:54
  Speaker 1: But you have four?
• 36:56
  Speaker 2: Yeah, but Neo is Neo going to go tonight and.
• 37:00
  Speaker 1: Schedule things? Now it's becoming complicated. Now I'm thinking maybe
• 37:03
  Speaker 1: it's a really bad idea. See, he says, since the
• 37:07
  Speaker 1: world is so intrigued, I guess I should introduce my
• 37:10
  Speaker 1: lovers properly. Ladies and gents, I present my pyramid.
• 37:15
  Speaker 2: Oh, my god, god, my pyramid.
• 37:18
  Speaker 1: Here they are and quite literally a triangle pyramid looking
• 37:23
  Speaker 1: thing sitting next to each other.
• 37:26
  Speaker 2: Looks like they could all do better. It kind of.
• 37:30
  Speaker 1: Looks fun does. Ladies are ri l Hill, Breonna Williams,
• 37:35
  Speaker 1: Christina and Monete. I think that's how you say it.
• 37:41
  Speaker 1: They all look beautiful. They're all eating lobster, having the
• 37:45
  Speaker 1: best time ever, just getting laid left and right. It
• 37:49
  Speaker 1: looks exhausting. To be quite honest, I'd be happy if
• 37:52
  Speaker 1: Neo left. I'd be like, Oh, this.
• 37:53
  Speaker 2: Is my type of that's I'm thinking Neo in that boat.
• 37:57
  Speaker 3: It is like, oh, that's a lot of conversations, all
• 38:00
  Speaker 3: very beautiful, very tired.
• 38:02
  Speaker 1: Oh, it looks like they have fun. You guys, look
• 38:04
  Speaker 1: it up. I'm on page six. You guys have probably
• 38:07
  Speaker 1: seen it already. I live under a rock, but I
• 38:09
  Speaker 1: don't know one. R and b artists four bad bitches.
• 38:14
  Speaker 1: That's what it is. Real Housewives of Atlanta return on
• 38:18
  Speaker 1: Sunday night. Are you excited for it? Rorcia Williams is back,
• 38:23
  Speaker 1: Drusidora is going to be back as well. And then
• 38:26
  Speaker 1: it looks like Kenya may make a brief appearance. But
• 38:29
  Speaker 1: she left the show after that whole thing where she
• 38:33
  Speaker 1: put photos up of like one of her cast members
• 38:35
  Speaker 1: giving a blowjob. It was like revenge porn and kind
• 38:38
  Speaker 1: of backfired. She did do the tamer and Hall show
• 38:43
  Speaker 1: and was very remorseful. I I know that Kenya is
• 38:49
  Speaker 1: an acquired taste. I think that she's made decisions that
• 38:52
  Speaker 1: not everyone loves. She has always been so friendly to
• 38:55
  Speaker 1: me and kind. I like her. Cynthia Baileyison as a friend.
• 39:00
  Speaker 2: Of Okay, yeah, it'll be a good season.
• 39:04
  Speaker 1: And then uh, Shemiah Morton, She's been on for so long,
• 39:09
  Speaker 1: but she upgraded. They threw her a peach.
• 39:11
  Speaker 2: Oh, she's got the peach.
• 39:13
  Speaker 1: She got the peach. She's going to be turning around
• 39:15
  Speaker 1: like this with maybe a hair wab.
• 39:18
  Speaker 2: Oh do you think they do it with two hints? Yeah?
• 39:20
  Speaker 1: And I bet she's going to have a legout.
• 39:22
  Speaker 2: You better have to wait.
• 39:24
  Speaker 1: Really, how does that work? The Bravo fan favorite Phaedra
• 39:29
  Speaker 1: Parks is slated to return to the Real Housewives later
• 39:32
  Speaker 1: in the season. Thank God. When she went on to
• 39:35
  Speaker 1: Married to Medicine, I was like, Okay, great for Married
• 39:39
  Speaker 1: to Medicine. That's a great show. It didn't seem like
• 39:43
  Speaker 1: the right fit.
• 39:45
  Speaker 2: Could tell you.
• 39:46
  Speaker 1: She is an Atlanta housewife through and through. I love Phaedra.
• 39:52
  Speaker 1: If you guys remember I had kind of said that,
• 39:55
  Speaker 1: like I heard she was like kind of a nightmare.
• 39:59
  Speaker 1: We all hear when I met her at Bravocon a
• 40:03
  Speaker 1: couple of years ago. She could not have been kinder,
• 40:07
  Speaker 1: more gracious. She was so friendly. I'm like, you know what,
• 40:11
  Speaker 1: this just goes to show that you cannot have one
• 40:14
  Speaker 1: off day no, because people remember, and that's a sad
• 40:21
  Speaker 1: thing that you have to be on at all times, friendly,
• 40:24
  Speaker 1: smiling at because there are times where it's like I
• 40:27
  Speaker 1: don't freaking want to be on today. I'm pissed. I
• 40:30
  Speaker 1: woke up on the wrong side of the bed.
• 40:32
  Speaker 2: Don't talk to me, don't talk to me.
• 40:35
  Speaker 1: And someone probably took that one moment and spread these
• 40:40
  Speaker 1: lies about Phaedra Parks. I like her, and I love
• 40:43
  Speaker 1: the fact that her tell is the eye twitch.
• 40:46
  Speaker 2: Shet away with shit.
• 40:48
  Speaker 1: On Atlanta anymore after traders think about it now anytime
• 40:54
  Speaker 1: someone calls her out on Atlanta because of wes On,
• 41:00
  Speaker 1: traders called out the eye twitch said your eye twitches,
• 41:04
  Speaker 1: and then it was like they're gonna know, They're gonna
• 41:07
  Speaker 1: be like this bullshit, Padri, your eye is twitching, you know.
• 41:11
  Speaker 2: No, it ain't. It is not.
• 41:14
  Speaker 1: It's like it's my fake eyelash.
• 41:16
  Speaker 2: I just got some scaring my eye.
• 41:19
  Speaker 1: Did you watch I think it would be hard. There's
• 41:24
  Speaker 1: just something about like a tell that you cannot get
• 41:27
  Speaker 1: rid of. It doesn't matter how hard you try. Otherwise
• 41:30
  Speaker 1: we would all conquer our tells and we'd all just
• 41:32
  Speaker 1: be out in these streets. Narcissistic liars, right the devil
• 41:36
  Speaker 1: in the family. The fallout of Ruby Frankie that it
• 41:40
  Speaker 1: is crazy, you guys, She's the influencer that was like
• 41:44
  Speaker 1: a mom blogger and she started out very normal. This
• 41:47
  Speaker 1: new docu series. Finally the husband is interviewed, the oldest daughter,
• 41:56
  Speaker 1: and the oldest son, and and one hundred or a thing.
• 42:00
  Speaker 3: It's over a thousand hours, over one thousand hours of
• 42:03
  Speaker 3: unreleased footage.
• 42:04
  Speaker 1: Yeah, like the archives, and she's like talking about pens.
• 42:06
  Speaker 1: She's like the scheduling, and she sounds why can I
• 42:10
  Speaker 1: hear you?
• 42:12
  Speaker 2: I was just about to say that to the dogs.
• 42:14
  Speaker 1: It was wild. I'm like, this is where you take
• 42:17
  Speaker 1: the opportunity to the moms to be like if you
• 42:20
  Speaker 1: hear the noise in the back, this.
• 42:22
  Speaker 3: Is the little time I have to get this situated
• 42:24
  Speaker 3: and then we're off to church instead.
• 42:27
  Speaker 2: That's the thing I loved. How why am I hear
• 42:29
  Speaker 2: it in the dad? You're getting ready.
• 42:31
  Speaker 1: For church, so it's twelve thirty five, that's why there's noise.
• 42:37
  Speaker 1: It was the most insane culty. Let me tell you
• 42:41
  Speaker 1: guys something, and I've talked about this before. There are
• 42:44
  Speaker 1: parts of the Mormon Church that I look at and
• 42:46
  Speaker 1: I go, those are amazing values. If you can just
• 42:49
  Speaker 1: pluck those values out and implement them into your life,
• 42:55
  Speaker 1: you are going to be in great shape. They interview
• 43:00
  Speaker 1: a guy and he talks about Happy Valley. Now, when
• 43:02
  Speaker 1: I lived there, I was aware of Happy Valley. However,
• 43:06
  Speaker 1: I was told, allegedly, allegedly it was called Happy Valley
• 43:12
  Speaker 1: because a majority of the residents were addicted to anti drugs.
• 43:18
  Speaker 2: Anti yes, And that's why I'm.
• 43:21
  Speaker 1: Pretty sure that's that's literally why I was told they
• 43:26
  Speaker 1: call it Happy Valley because they're all on happy drugs.
• 43:30
  Speaker 3: Utah just stand if you wikipedia, Utah just will put addiction.
• 43:36
  Speaker 1: There's there's a high level of pill popping happening. The
• 43:43
  Speaker 1: amount of pressure that the Mormon Church puts on men
• 43:48
  Speaker 1: and women is so unhealthy and destructive. I cannot get
• 43:54
  Speaker 1: behind that church to save my fucking life.
• 43:57
  Speaker 2: Just the uh the view of perfect that part.
• 44:01
  Speaker 1: And you know what, there are some people that may
• 44:03
  Speaker 1: conquer it and say this is my religion, and I
• 44:05
  Speaker 1: practice it to the best of my ability, But I'm
• 44:07
  Speaker 1: only human. For those people, that is amazing. I think
• 44:11
  Speaker 1: that's great. I've always been transparent and organized. Religion freaks
• 44:15
  Speaker 1: me out and I sometimes will go to the Utah Airport.
• 44:20
  Speaker 1: I haven't been back in a while, but when I've
• 44:22
  Speaker 1: been and there's missionaries coming or going, I cannot help.
• 44:26
  Speaker 1: But feel deep, deep sorrow.
• 44:29
  Speaker 3: Oh, when I would fly to LA, like when I've
• 44:32
  Speaker 3: lived in Utah and I'd come out to see you guys.
• 44:35
  Speaker 2: Yeah, there would always be.
• 44:38
  Speaker 3: Like missionaries going out and going to LA to go
• 44:41
  Speaker 3: to wherever they were going.
• 44:43
  Speaker 2: And every time I.
• 44:45
  Speaker 3: Would look at them, I would just like lose life
• 44:50
  Speaker 3: because I felt so bad.
• 44:52
  Speaker 1: And you know what, they may like read me into
• 44:55
  Speaker 1: it and love it, and for that I've just seen
• 44:58
  Speaker 1: more times than not.
• 45:00
  Speaker 3: I've been closer to the people who hate it more
• 45:03
  Speaker 3: than closer to the people who love it.
• 45:05
  Speaker 1: Yeah, And this is just like another I mean, there's
• 45:07
  Speaker 1: a whole reality show, the Mormon Wives Show, where it's.
• 45:10
  Speaker 2: Like secret lives of Mormon lives.
• 45:12
  Speaker 1: Addicted to that show because it it's a cult wild.
• 45:16
  Speaker 5: It's a culty feel that nobody unless you go to
• 45:21
  Speaker 5: Utah and you live in it, you can't explain it,
• 45:25
  Speaker 5: explain it, and it is the weirdest feeling.
• 45:28
  Speaker 2: But when you leave it and then you're the outsider
• 45:30
  Speaker 2: looking in on it, you are very intrigued. This is
• 45:33
  Speaker 2: fucking weird. Yeah.
• 45:35
  Speaker 1: So this Ruby Frankie though, was like a very normal
• 45:38
  Speaker 1: mom at first. Yeah, and then she got addicted to
• 45:41
  Speaker 1: the paycheck. She got addicted to the fame and the fame.
• 45:45
  Speaker 1: It was the one thing that she wanted.
• 45:46
  Speaker 3: She didn't get addicted to the paycheck. Even the dad
• 45:49
  Speaker 3: said that she never cared about money.
• 45:52
  Speaker 1: She wanted the validation.
• 45:53
  Speaker 2: She wanted the validation and the fame.
• 45:55
  Speaker 1: He was saying that the one thing she always wanted
• 45:58
  Speaker 1: to be was a great mom, but she was never
• 46:01
  Speaker 1: praised for it. And the moment she posted her first
• 46:04
  Speaker 1: video that went viral, she for the first time was
• 46:07
  Speaker 1: validated for her job as a mom. Yeah, and she
• 46:12
  Speaker 1: was like a really cute mom. However, there's a scene
• 46:15
  Speaker 1: of her showing those pens Easton And even if I
• 46:18
  Speaker 1: didn't know she was insane and like the devil reincarnated,
• 46:23
  Speaker 1: I would be terrified of her.
• 46:24
  Speaker 3: Oh, Like if you didn't know who she was or
• 46:26
  Speaker 3: and you were like, hey, just watch this like ten
• 46:28
  Speaker 3: seconds of this video, I'd.
• 46:30
  Speaker 1: Depends if she does it like four different ways she
• 46:32
  Speaker 1: holds in this.
• 46:35
  Speaker 2: So excy.
• 46:36
  Speaker 3: I know, I'd be looking at it like is she
• 46:39
  Speaker 3: doing magic, gonna make one disappear or something?
• 46:41
  Speaker 2: Who is this woman?
• 46:42
  Speaker 1: Favorite favorite part of the entire documentary, the cops roll
• 46:49
  Speaker 1: up on the house banging on the door and Jody
• 46:51
  Speaker 1: Hilda Brands in their Bang Baby the line she was,
• 46:55
  Speaker 1: I'm on the phone with my lawyer. That's great, get
• 46:57
  Speaker 1: out of the house.
• 46:58
  Speaker 2: Oh my favorite.
• 47:00
  Speaker 1: Do you need a warrant?
• 47:01
  Speaker 2: Not in this situation, not at this moment or not
• 47:03
  Speaker 2: at this time? We do not.
• 47:05
  Speaker 1: So that was my most favorite part. You want to
• 47:07
  Speaker 1: know what was the most wild though, was at the
• 47:09
  Speaker 1: very end. The husband is asked by a producer do
• 47:12
  Speaker 1: you still love her? And he says, yes, I still
• 47:15
  Speaker 1: love her. No, that's he's still brainwashed.
• 47:19
  Speaker 3: Yeah, because how you could look at your children and then.
• 47:25
  Speaker 1: I love for someone that did that to them?
• 47:27
  Speaker 3: Yeah, Like I my hatred for that human would go
• 47:34
  Speaker 3: to length of how can I hurt her in prison?
• 47:38
  Speaker 2: Yeah?
• 47:39
  Speaker 3: Like I would look at my kids every day and
• 47:41
  Speaker 3: just only that thought would hit and just I would
• 47:44
  Speaker 3: have demonic thoughts of it, saying what this woman did
• 47:48
  Speaker 3: to these kids?
• 47:49
  Speaker 2: I she needs to feel because.
• 47:52
  Speaker 1: Prison is and I don't think that thirty years was enough.
• 47:55
  Speaker 1: You're rotting in here for like end of your days.
• 47:58
  Speaker 3: I want her out side in hot sand with black clothes,
• 48:04
  Speaker 3: no socks, and I want so to.
• 48:06
  Speaker 1: Say it like an eye for an eye type.
• 48:07
  Speaker 3: Mentality and I want you handcuffed to waits. Oh wow, yes,
• 48:12
  Speaker 3: I like That's how I feel. I would love if
• 48:16
  Speaker 3: you know.
• 48:16
  Speaker 1: That's a contentsial topic.
• 48:17
  Speaker 2: It is, and I really do like it. What you
• 48:20
  Speaker 2: do is how you get done. So if you do
• 48:23
  Speaker 2: that and you get caught, you get done that certain way,
• 48:25
  Speaker 2: and I guarantee a lot of crime would stop and
• 48:27
  Speaker 2: a lot of things because if you get caught for
• 48:29
  Speaker 2: doing that, I get I have to do this. Yeah.
• 48:33
  Speaker 1: No, hey, I mean, I hate to say it. I
• 48:36
  Speaker 1: agree with you. I mean, we have there is nothing
• 48:39
  Speaker 1: more innocent than children and animals. So I highly recommend
• 48:44
  Speaker 1: watching that docuseries because I loved how many hours of
• 48:48
  Speaker 1: footage they showed. It was just like the documentaries that
• 48:52
  Speaker 1: I've seen and like the twenty twenty version also very good.
• 48:57
  Speaker 1: But when they're interviewing the kids and the husband mm hmm.
• 49:00
  Speaker 1: By the way, the husband got hot.
• 49:03
  Speaker 5: Yeah, he got good with a beard, a great beard.
• 49:06
  Speaker 2: Yeah yeah, he just needs to hate that.
• 49:08
  Speaker 1: Woman, right, and he lost all hotness when he was
• 49:11
  Speaker 1: like her, I just want my family back, bro, Where
• 49:16
  Speaker 1: are you watching what we're wanting?
• 49:18
  Speaker 2: He got kicked out of your family, buddy, And.
• 49:20
  Speaker 1: Then your wife turned into the devil. However, the oldest
• 49:24
  Speaker 1: daughter did say, I don't believe that Jody turned her
• 49:28
  Speaker 1: into this person. I believe she had abuse in her
• 49:30
  Speaker 1: all along.
• 49:31
  Speaker 3: I well, they were kind of getting like abused in
• 49:35
  Speaker 3: a way before she even met her.
• 49:37
  Speaker 1: Mm hmmm.
• 49:38
  Speaker 3: He was getting expelled from school because his mom. He
• 49:41
  Speaker 3: didn't want to listen to adults because his mom was
• 49:43
  Speaker 3: so terrible.
• 49:44
  Speaker 1: Well, yeah, that's what making him do all of these.
• 49:46
  Speaker 2: Things for seven months. Well that's abuse.
• 49:49
  Speaker 1: That's why she got canceled.
• 49:50
  Speaker 3: Well that's where she liked to find and that was
• 49:53
  Speaker 3: without Jody. So this was in her before Jody, of course.
• 49:57
  Speaker 2: So and that was the other thing that I love
• 50:00
  Speaker 2: that she said.
• 50:00
  Speaker 3: When she was crying, like locked up with like chains
• 50:03
  Speaker 3: and she was saying like how she felt bad, she
• 50:05
  Speaker 3: was like I've heard too many like crocodile tears from
• 50:08
  Speaker 3: her to believe anything.
• 50:09
  Speaker 1: That's so true.
• 50:12
  Speaker 2: And they both didn't.
• 50:13
  Speaker 3: I liked how she goes and I didn't even want
• 50:14
  Speaker 3: to look at her, so I just stared at the
• 50:16
  Speaker 3: judge the whole time.
• 50:17
  Speaker 1: I couldn't look at her either. How could you, I
• 50:20
  Speaker 1: don't think you could. I mean, she's truly the devil. Yeah, Like,
• 50:24
  Speaker 1: I can't imagine doing that to my children. Well no
• 50:27
  Speaker 1: one could, obviously.
• 50:28
  Speaker 3: No looking at them and thinking that the devil was
• 50:31
  Speaker 3: in them.
• 50:32
  Speaker 2: It's like, who do you look?
• 50:34
  Speaker 3: Who do you think you are that you would have
• 50:37
  Speaker 3: spawned right look in the mirror.
• 50:40
  Speaker 1: I want to thank you guys for tuning in to
• 50:42
  Speaker 1: another episode of the Give Them La La podcasts, and
• 50:45
  Speaker 1: I'm going to catch you guys on Monday for the
• 50:47
  Speaker 1: bonus and then again next week on Wednesday. I love
• 50:52
  Speaker 1: you guys, have a great rest of the week. Back