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Insane dating horror story time · Let’s Never Meet Again - Dating Horror

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  Speaker 1: So I had matched with this one nigga on Tinder
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  Speaker 1: and that same night, he was.
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  Speaker 2: Already asking me for a loan i'm sorry i didn't
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  Speaker 2: realize it was in the middle of a mortgage application
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  Speaker 2: i'm gonna talk fast because i know how your attention
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  Speaker 2: spans be but i moved to a new town in
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  Speaker 2: 2020 and i didn't have no friends i wasn't looking
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  Speaker 2: for a hookup i wasn't looking for a date i
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  Speaker 2: just wanted somebody to smoke with i downloaded tinder and
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  Speaker 2: i'm like all right bet i'm gonna go through these
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  Speaker 2: dudes and see who i can match with i guess
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  Speaker 2: 2020 everybody smokes i matched with this one guy and
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  Speaker 2: it just so happens that he lives like literally down
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  Speaker 2: the street from where i'm at so i'm like all
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  Speaker 2: right bet you're talking on tinder for a little bit
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  Speaker 2: then he gives me his number he's like here just
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  Speaker 2: text my number i'm like okay cool don't him judge
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  Speaker 2: me but we linked up that same night but like
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  Speaker 2: i said it was on some smoking weed shit like
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  Speaker 2: we was not trying to do anything else at least
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  Speaker 2: i wasn't so i tell him to meet me in
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  Speaker 2: the middle because i didn't want to give him my
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  Speaker 2: address and i didn't want to walk all the way
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  Speaker 2: to his crib so we walked and met in the
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  Speaker 2: middle getting to know each other more we're about to
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  Speaker 2: start rolling up smoking cool we're like two blunts in
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  Speaker 2: at this point and he goes can i borrow.
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  Speaker 3: Forty dollars.
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  Speaker 2: I'm looking around because i'm like you're talking to me
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  Speaker 2: or you have a phone apparently he was talking to
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  Speaker 2: me So I was like, $ 40 for what?
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  Speaker 1: He was like, oh, my birthday is next week. I
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  Speaker 1: need $ 40 to get a haircut. I'm like, your birthday
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  Speaker 1: is not next week. Show me your ID.
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  Speaker 3: Lo and behold, he.
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  Speaker 4: Shows me his ID and his birthday was next week.
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  Speaker 3: This was October 2020.
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  Speaker 1: So he's a Scorpio. Just putting that out there. So
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  Speaker 1: then I'm like, I guess I'll give you $ 40, but
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  Speaker 1: you got to pay me back. He said he worked
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  Speaker 1: at UPS. I worked at UPS. I know y'all get
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  Speaker 1: paid weekly. So I know you're good for it.
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  Speaker 4: He was like, no, for sure.
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  Speaker 1: I got you.
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  Speaker 3: But can I actually.
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  Speaker 4: Get $ 80?
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  Speaker 3: I was like, what do you need.
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  Speaker 1: $ 80 for? What haircut costs $ 80? He was like, well,
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  Speaker 1: I'm gonna get a haircut and then I'm gonna get
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  Speaker 1: a bottle for my birthday.
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  Speaker 3: I was like, you know what?
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  Speaker 4: I'm a very generous person. If I got it, everybody
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  Speaker 4: around me got it.
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  Speaker 1: And I don't know if that's a toxic trait or
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  Speaker 1: a good thing. My therapist said that's a toxic trait,
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  Speaker 1: but hey, I fully expect people to have me the
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  Speaker 1: way that I have them, even though that's never turned
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  Speaker 1: out to be true.
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  Speaker 3: So I'm like, Yeah, I guess.
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  Speaker 2: I'll cash up you 80. Just pay me back when
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  Speaker 2: you get paid next week. He was like, yeah, I
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  Speaker 2: got you for sure. All right, so boom, we talking,
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  Speaker 2: chopping it up. We still smoking. Then towards the end
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  Speaker 2: of the night, I was like, all right, I'm going
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  Speaker 2: to call it.
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  Speaker 3: I'm going to go home. He was like, yeah, same. Blah, blah, blah.
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  Speaker 2: Next day, we don't talk. I don't think it's weird
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  Speaker 2: because mind you, I don't know you.
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  Speaker 3: I just met you. We just smoked.
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  Speaker 4: That's it.
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  Speaker 1: So I'm not tripping over the fact that we didn't
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  Speaker 1: talk today.
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  Speaker 2: Next day, now it's been 48 hours since he asked
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  Speaker 2: me for $ 80 and I gave it to him.
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  Speaker 4: Crickets.
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  Speaker 3: Crickets.
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  Speaker 4: I'm like, damn.
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  Speaker 3: Well, I kind of want to smoke. Let me get
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  Speaker 3: up my new buddy.
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  Speaker 4: I hit him up. My messages were green.
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  Speaker 5: They were green.
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  Speaker 3: I was like, oh, okay.
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  Speaker 1: I go to look up his social medias. Don't find nothing.
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  Speaker 1: I go to his Tinder profile. Don't see nothing.
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  Speaker 4: I'm like, oh, I'm blocked. That's crazy. Over $ 80. So
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  Speaker 4: you matched with me on Tinder.
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  Speaker 3: We linked up. You asked me for money and you
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  Speaker 3: blocked me.
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  Speaker 5: I got got like that?
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  Speaker 2: That's crazy. My thing is, right, I genuinely needed a friend.
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  Speaker 2: I genuinely wanted someone I could smoke with every day.
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  Speaker 2: Because like I said, I just moved here from Florida.
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  Speaker 2: I didn't have no friends.
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  Speaker 1: All my friends in this town are from middle school.
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  Speaker 3: People I don't speak to no more.
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  Speaker 4: And you just used me?
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  Speaker 2: And like, if it was about the $ 80, I wouldn't
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  Speaker 2: have been mad if you told me you couldn't.
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  Speaker 3: Pay me back next week.
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  Speaker 1: Shit, we could have done an installment plan if you
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  Speaker 1: needed it. I know UPS really don't pay that much
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  Speaker 1: unless you're like high up there.
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  Speaker 3: We could have done 10s, 20s until you pay me back.
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  Speaker 1: Shit, I could have even put you on a $ 5
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  Speaker 1: a week installment plan.
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  Speaker 3: It would have took a minute, but we would have
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  Speaker 3: got there.
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  Speaker 1: I was so confused because I genuinely feel like I
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  Speaker 1: bring a good vibe.
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  Speaker 2: To the function and I thought that he was peeping
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  Speaker 2: my vibe.
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  Speaker 4: Apparently not.
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  Speaker 1: Apparently he was just peeping my pockets.
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  Speaker 2: But that's my fault. My bad, Scorpio King. Flash forward
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  Speaker 2: to now, I don't know anything about this dude. That
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  Speaker 2: was the last time we ever spoke. It's been years
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  Speaker 2: and I've never heard anything from him.
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  Speaker 1: I hope that whoever he's finessing now, I hope he's
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  Speaker 1: finessing them for more than just $ 80 because I feel
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  Speaker 1: like if you wanted more, you could have gotten more
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  Speaker 1: out of me.
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  Speaker 3: I'm just that generous.
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  Speaker 6: This is why I deleted my Tinder and why every
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  Speaker 6: single girl watching this needs to delete her Tinder too.
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  Speaker 4: This happened a few years ago and I honestly.
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  Speaker 6: Consider myself so incredibly lucky to be alive after experiencing this.
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  Speaker 6: I was living in New York City at the time
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  Speaker 6: and I matched with a guy for the entire time.
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  Speaker 3: We were talking.
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  Speaker 6: He was really aggressively trying to get me to go
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  Speaker 6: out with him.
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  Speaker 4: And eventually I was like, okay, you know what?
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  Speaker 6: I'm going to let this guy take me out on
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  Speaker 6: a date.
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  Speaker 4: And maybe I'm just being judgmental. Maybe he's not being desperate.
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  Speaker 6: Maybe he's just putting in an effort. So the day
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  Speaker 6: of the date rolls around and he tells me that
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  Speaker 6: he wants to take me out to a restaurant that
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  Speaker 6: is a bit of a hidden gem and is a
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  Speaker 6: little bit outside of the city in an area of
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  Speaker 6: Westchester called Yonkers. and even though he offered to drive
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  Speaker 6: me i was like no it's all good i actually
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  Speaker 6: had my own car in new york city so i agreed.
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  Speaker 4: To meet up with him i feel like an absolute.
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  Speaker 6: Idiot because i didn't even google this place before i
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  Speaker 6: went so on the night of the day i'm driving
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  Speaker 6: to this place i put it into my gps and
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  Speaker 6: it's really weird because as soon as i see it
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  Speaker 6: in the gps it says that the place is closed
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  Speaker 6: so i text my date and i'm like hey i
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  Speaker 6: just put this place into the gps and it is
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  Speaker 6: telling me that it is actually closed to which he replies,
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  Speaker 6: oh no don't worry they're really bad at updating their hours.
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  Speaker 6: This is the part where I should have just been
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  Speaker 6: like oh hell no and I should have canceled the
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  Speaker 6: date but somehow I decided it would be a good
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  Speaker 6: idea to get in my car and drive 40 minutes
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  Speaker 6: to Yonkers.
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  Speaker 4: For a date with a guy.
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  Speaker 6: So after 40 minutes of driving in traffic, I arrive
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  Speaker 6: at this place in Yonkers. I pull up to the
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  Speaker 6: building and I quickly realize that there is nobody in
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  Speaker 6: the parking lot and that indeed.
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  Speaker 1: This business is really closed.
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  Speaker 4: Not to mention my car is the only car in
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  Speaker 4: the parking lot. So I start to panic.
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  Speaker 6: And as I look behind me to put my car
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  Speaker 6: in reverse, I notice another car pull up. This car
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  Speaker 6: pulls up right beside me. I don't even look at
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  Speaker 6: the person sitting in the car. I just simply back
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  Speaker 6: up out of that parking lot as fast as I can.
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  Speaker 6: And I get the heck out of there. The entire
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  Speaker 6: way home, I am just looking in my rear view
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  Speaker 6: mirror to see if there's anyone behind me.
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  Speaker 4: And thankfully there was not. And the craziest part of all.
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  Speaker 6: Of this is when I got home, I went back
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  Speaker 6: onto that dating app and I could see that the
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  Speaker 6: profile had unmatched with me.
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  Speaker 4: I never got a chance to screenshot that profile.
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  Speaker 6: I never learned the guy's last name, but I can't
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  Speaker 6: tell you guys how many times I've heard this happening
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  Speaker 6: to girls on dating apps.
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  Speaker 4: It's not worth it. Just delete it for your own safety.
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  Speaker 6: And if you are going to be on dating apps,
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  Speaker 6: Please always make sure to get the person's last name
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  Speaker 6: and to meet in a place that you are familiar with.
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  Speaker 7: If you are on these dating apps or if you're considering.
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  Speaker 3: Downloading a dating app, let me stop you on your tracks, bitch. Because, baby,
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  Speaker 3: buckle up for a ride.
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  Speaker 7: So I think enough time has passed for me to
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  Speaker 7: tell this embarrassing ass story. And before I start, I
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  Speaker 7: don't want to hear shit about your judgment.
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  Speaker 3: I don't care. I don't care.
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  Speaker 5: Okay?
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  Speaker 3: So let's get into the story. Download it, be okay.
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  Speaker 3: I'm thinking, okay, that's.
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  Speaker 7: What I want to be, is a black man. But
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  Speaker 7: ever since my dating experience on that app, I think
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  Speaker 7: I'm an equal opportunity lover, baby. Okay, let's start there.
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  Speaker 7: So I match with this guy. I go to his profile.
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  Speaker 3: His profile is Chef's Kiss.
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  Speaker 7: But the first red flag that stuck out to me
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  Speaker 7: was the fact that his daughter was in a lot
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  Speaker 7: of his pictures.
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  Speaker 3: So I'm like, you know... I come from being a
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  Speaker 3: single mom. Like, I come from a single mother, and
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  Speaker 3: I am a single mother. So, like, I can respect
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  Speaker 3: a man that loves his child. You know what I'm saying?
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  Speaker 7: I'm just not sure I would post a picture like
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  Speaker 7: that on a dating app of me and my child. But, like,
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  Speaker 7: you know, thank you for letting me know you got
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  Speaker 7: a kid. A daughter means a lot to you. And
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  Speaker 7: I can tell that, obviously, from her being on your profile.
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  Speaker 3: All right, cool.
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  Speaker 7: So, we get to talking in the DMs or whatever
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  Speaker 7: the case may be. The vibes is bobbing.
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  Speaker 3: Like, he's like, you know what? Like, let me get
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  Speaker 3: your number. All right, cool.
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  Speaker 7: So, we exchange numbers. second red flag and i'm sorry
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  Speaker 7: if this offends anybody but it was a green bubble
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  Speaker 7: and i'm like god damn but i'm looking for love
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  Speaker 7: i'm not looking for a pen pal i'm not looking
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  Speaker 7: for facetime buddies all right cool we found out other
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  Speaker 7: ways to communicate so we talking we vibing we have
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  Speaker 7: so much in common number one we're both tourists our
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  Speaker 7: children are tourists me and my son are 11 days
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  Speaker 7: apart Him and his daughter are 11 days apart.
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  Speaker 3: So we fell in love. Baby, we fell in love, okay?
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  Speaker 3: We eat the same foods. He's a chef. I'm a foodie.
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  Speaker 3: This is going to work. This is going to work.
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  Speaker 3: This is the love of my life, okay? And let's
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  Speaker 3: talk about it. Face card never declined.
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  Speaker 4: He's answer.
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  Speaker 7: You feel me? I'm like, I could see us doing this.
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  Speaker 7: So every day we talking, we talking, we talking, we talking,
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  Speaker 7: we talking. And he's just, we're like finding more synchronicities
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  Speaker 7: with each other. We got tons of siblings. Like it's
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  Speaker 7: just so many similarities. Ladies, please do not fall in
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  Speaker 7: love with potential or please do not fall in love
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  Speaker 7: based on common interests. I promise you it's the strangest
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  Speaker 7: thing in the world that you could ever do because
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  Speaker 7: there's so many layers to a person outside of like
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  Speaker 7: the similarities y'all have that you have to get to know.
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  Speaker 3: And I'm going to get into it. Okay.
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  Speaker 7: I have a hard time with this. So I tend
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  Speaker 7: to fall in love with single fathers. My last relationship
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  Speaker 7: was with a single father. And I respect men who
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  Speaker 7: are able to take their child under their wing and
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  Speaker 7: raise them without a woman in the household, especially if
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  Speaker 7: it's a girl. So that just gave me like a
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  Speaker 7: certain level of respect for him that.
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  Speaker 3: Other men couldn't equate to. You know what I'm saying?
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  Speaker 3: So lesson learned.
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  Speaker 7: Stop falling for these men who are single fathers because
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  Speaker 7: they ain't shit too. Anyway, so back to the story.
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  Speaker 7: Here's red flag number three. He told me he was
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  Speaker 7: a sous chef. And I'm like, all right, cool. But
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  Speaker 7: when we would text, it was constant communication. So here
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  Speaker 7: go my stupid stuff. I got to Google what a
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  Speaker 7: sous chef is. Because I'm like, if you're cooking, it's
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  Speaker 7: unsanitary to always have your phone in your hand. So
• 9:36
  Speaker 7: I'm like, let me Google what a sous chef is.
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  Speaker 7: So I Google what a sous chef is. And basically, like,
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  Speaker 7: they're the executive chef in the kitchen that oversee everybody
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  Speaker 7: else and make sure, like, the food that's plated is
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  Speaker 7: probably done before it goes out to the customer.
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  Speaker 3: All right, cool. So I'm like, OK, OK.
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  Speaker 7: I can see how he's so expressive and able to
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  Speaker 7: answer text messages so fast.
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  Speaker 3: Benefit of the doubt, I've never worked in a kitchen.
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  Speaker 3: Have you? Okay.
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  Speaker 7: So I wasn't thinking that far. But one day, he
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  Speaker 7: tells me he's about to start a new job. It's
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  Speaker 7: better opportunities. The schedule is better. It's closer to home
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  Speaker 7: for him and his daughter. And I'm like, yo, that's perfect.
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  Speaker 7: Because he was traveling like two hours to commute to work.
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  Speaker 3: And I'm like, yo, that's perfect.
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  Speaker 7: I know how it is to pick up a kid
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  Speaker 7: from elementary school and how much of a struggle it
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  Speaker 7: can be for child care. So I'm like, yeah, like,
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  Speaker 7: I'm wishing you the best, you know, praying for you, whatever.
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  Speaker 4: Whoop-de-whoop.
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  Speaker 7: He calls me from the job, and he's like, I
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  Speaker 7: have to do all these trainings and stuff. And I'm like, okay, well,
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  Speaker 7: you know, do what you got to do. He was like,
• 10:33
  Speaker 7: but they playing in my face. They trying to tell
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  Speaker 7: me they going to give me a lower wage than
• 10:36
  Speaker 7: what they was going to give me.
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  Speaker 4: So I ain't feeling it.
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  Speaker 3: So I'm like, all right, you know, let's weigh out
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  Speaker 3: the pros and the cons. I'm at work. Why are
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  Speaker 3: you calling me? But I'm anything for my man, my man,
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  Speaker 3: my man.
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  Speaker 8: Right.
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  Speaker 3: Even though he wasn't my man.
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  Speaker 7: So I'm like, let me help him figure this out.
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  Speaker 7: So we do the pros and the cons. And I'm like, yo, like,
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  Speaker 7: pretty much, what are you going to do? So I'm like,
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  Speaker 7: call me back when you figure out what.
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  Speaker 3: You're going to do. Because regardless, you're employed. Like, that's
• 11:00
  Speaker 3: all that matters. You got a kid.
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  Speaker 7: He calls me back. He ends up at Starbucks. So
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  Speaker 7: I'm like, how did you get to Starbucks like that quick?
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  Speaker 3: So he was like, oh, whatever. You know me. I
• 11:12
  Speaker 3: drink coffee all day. That's how I'm able to stay
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  Speaker 3: up with these long hours at work. So I'm like,
• 11:15
  Speaker 3: all right, whatever. So he calls me back. He's still
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  Speaker 3: at Starbucks. So I'm like, hours later, why are you
• 11:21
  Speaker 3: still at Starbucks? All right, cool.
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  Speaker 8: Whatever.
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  Speaker 3: That's none of my business. So then he calls me
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  Speaker 3: like an hour later. He's like, yo, I'm about to
• 11:28
  Speaker 3: go to a studio. So I'm like, okay, no problem.
• 11:32
  Speaker 3: Where's the studio? In Harlem.
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  Speaker 4: Okay, cool.
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  Speaker 7: Cool, all right, cool, you a rapper, all right, fine,
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  Speaker 7: you know, the hustle is there, I see it, I'm
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  Speaker 7: a hustler too, baby, I'm a hustler, I'm a hustler, homie,
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  Speaker 7: I get it, do your big one, but just don't
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  Speaker 7: let me hear no whack shit, or we gonna have
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  Speaker 7: a problem, so he calls me back that night, I'm asleep, dead.
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  Speaker 3: Sleep to the world, he was like, yo, I think
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  Speaker 3: I'm come see you tomorrow, so I'm like, And my mom,
• 12:00
  Speaker 3: we never met.
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  Speaker 7: So I'm like, you're not coming to see me. We're
• 12:02
  Speaker 7: going out to eat or something. You're not getting my address.
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  Speaker 7: You're not knowing where I live.
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  Speaker 3: Like, all of this is cute. But I use my mata,
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  Speaker 3: you feel me? I use my brain. So I'm like, oh,
• 12:13
  Speaker 3: let's go out for breakfast. Like, you know, whatever. Let's
• 12:15
  Speaker 3: do something cute. Let's go out for breakfast. You love coffee, right?
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  Speaker 7: Let's go have a nice little cute coffee date.
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  Speaker 3: Like I right back.
• 12:21
  Speaker 7: This is where things go awry. I get a strange
• 12:24
  Speaker 7: text message from a number I never saw before. And
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  Speaker 7: it was a YouTube link. I'm like, oh, these skimmers are,
• 12:29
  Speaker 7: they're upgrading their tactics. And I'm like, what the bullshit?
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  Speaker 7: So I didn't open the link.
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  Speaker 3: I didn't touch it. I didn't nothing.
• 12:36
  Speaker 7: I get a phone call an hour later. Babe, you
• 12:38
  Speaker 7: saw that text message I sent you? I said, that
• 12:41
  Speaker 7: was you that texted me from that 646 number? I
• 12:43
  Speaker 7: was like, okay, this is the first time you're hearing
• 12:44
  Speaker 7: of you having two phones.
• 12:46
  Speaker 3: But no, I didn't look at it. So he's like,
• 12:47
  Speaker 3: look at it while we're on the phone. Look at it.
• 12:49
  Speaker 3: Look at it.
• 12:50
  Speaker 4: So I'm like, all right, cool.
• 12:52
  Speaker 7: I look at the video. This man is on the
• 12:55
  Speaker 7: public MTA, New York City bus, harassing a Caucasian man. Like,
• 13:05
  Speaker 7: trolling in real life. Like, on the bus. Camera in
• 13:08
  Speaker 7: the man's face, on the bus. I said, you know
• 13:16
  Speaker 7: you're black, right? And you know he's Caucasian, right? And
• 13:23
  Speaker 7: you know I don't think this is funny. You're harassing
• 13:27
  Speaker 7: this man. He like, babe, I'm.
• 13:33
  Speaker 3: Like, yeah, no, I don't like this. I don't like this.
• 13:36
  Speaker 7: I instantly get scared because now I don't know you.
• 13:39
  Speaker 7: I never knew you, but now I don't know you.
• 13:41
  Speaker 7: So I'm instantly nervous. So now in my mind, oh,
• 13:44
  Speaker 7: I'm never meeting you. I'm never linking you.
• 13:46
  Speaker 3: No breakfast.
• 13:47
  Speaker 7: I don't care if it's daylight saving outside in the
• 13:50
  Speaker 7: The sun is at the highest point in the sky.
• 13:52
  Speaker 7: I don't care if it's golden hour. I'm not meeting
• 13:55
  Speaker 7: you nowhere, no place, anytime. That was red flag. I
• 13:58
  Speaker 7: done ran out of the flags.
• 14:00
  Speaker 3: It's turning into the Olympics at this point, right? I
• 14:02
  Speaker 3: think y'all gonna have to look out for part two.
• 14:04
  Speaker 3: I ran out of time. What's up, y'all?
• 14:08
  Speaker 4: Part two.
• 14:09
  Speaker 7: I'm not leaving y'all hanging. We gonna drop these things
• 14:11
  Speaker 7: back to back like that. But whatever, let's get back
• 14:13
  Speaker 7: into the story.
• 14:13
  Speaker 3: So remember when I said, see, I went to the
• 14:15
  Speaker 3: studio the night before. He was drinking. I had cool.
• 14:19
  Speaker 7: So fast forward the next day. I told y'all he
• 14:21
  Speaker 7: texted me from a weird number.
• 14:22
  Speaker 3: I cool.
• 14:24
  Speaker 7: I watched the YouTube video. Highly disappointed. Had to put
• 14:27
  Speaker 7: him in his place.
• 14:28
  Speaker 3: Told him about himself.
• 14:28
  Speaker 7: Because why are you bothering these people on their way
• 14:31
  Speaker 7: to work, sir? Like, what are you doing? Like, when
• 14:34
  Speaker 7: I tell y'all it was bad, he was telling this
• 14:35
  Speaker 7: man he was going to throw coffee on him. Like,
• 14:37
  Speaker 7: I'm telling y'all, trolling him in real life.
• 14:39
  Speaker 3: He's like, what are you going to do? What are
• 14:40
  Speaker 3: you going to do? Fight me?
• 14:42
  Speaker 1: I'll beat your ass.
• 14:43
  Speaker 3: I'll beat your ass. Like, it was bad. I've got.
• 14:49
  Speaker 7: second-hand embarrassment over the phone from watching it. Mind you,
• 14:52
  Speaker 7: I'm watching it in live time while I'm on the
• 14:54
  Speaker 7: phone with him. And I'm reading him for a fail.
• 14:56
  Speaker 4: Yeah.
• 14:57
  Speaker 7: Because you don't do stuff like that around me. I'm
• 14:59
  Speaker 7: not one of the people that condone bullshit. So I'm
• 15:02
  Speaker 7: just like, why would you do that to that man? Anyway,
• 15:07
  Speaker 7: moving forward. So he hangs up. He's like, all right, cool, whatever.
• 15:10
  Speaker 7: There's too much going on where I'm at right now.
• 15:12
  Speaker 3: I'm going to call you back. I bet it is.
• 15:14
  Speaker 4: I bet it is.
• 15:16
  Speaker 3: So time has passed by.
• 15:18
  Speaker 7: Maybe about 10, 15 minutes, he texts me from his
• 15:20
  Speaker 7: actual number.
• 15:21
  Speaker 3: He's like, my phone was dead, so send me your address.
• 15:26
  Speaker 3: I'm like, I'm not sending you my address. I left
• 15:28
  Speaker 3: him sitting right there. I left him sitting right there,
• 15:31
  Speaker 3: because you're not getting my address. So he calls me
• 15:33
  Speaker 3: an hour later. He calls me an hour later, and
• 15:36
  Speaker 3: he's like, yo.
• 15:37
  Speaker 7: When, why you ain't sending your ad yet, so I'm like, oh, no,
• 15:40
  Speaker 7: because I'm trying to figure out if you're okay, like,
• 15:42
  Speaker 7: you know, just making up excuses, I'm just trying to
• 15:43
  Speaker 7: make sure you're okay, I don't know why I picked up.
• 15:45
  Speaker 3: This man's phone call, I really don't know why, I
• 15:47
  Speaker 3: really don't know why, but I had to, I guess
• 15:50
  Speaker 3: I was doing it for the plot, I don't know,
• 15:51
  Speaker 3: I don't know why I picked up, I don't know
• 15:52
  Speaker 3: why I picked up, so, um, when he called me
• 15:57
  Speaker 3: back to get.
• 15:57
  Speaker 7: My address or whatever the case may be, he starts
• 15:59
  Speaker 7: arguing with somebody in the background, so I'm like, yo,
• 16:01
  Speaker 7: what's up with you, like.
• 16:03
  Speaker 3: You all right, so he hang up, he like, yo.
• 16:06
  Speaker 7: I'm about to Oh, my God, I left out a part.
• 16:08
  Speaker 7: The night before, when he called me, he was saying
• 16:11
  Speaker 7: he was on his way home from the studio. It
• 16:12
  Speaker 7: was like 3 o'clock in the morning. He was arguing
• 16:14
  Speaker 7: with somebody at the bus stop. He was like, yo,
• 16:16
  Speaker 7: my nigga, stop staring at me before I come over
• 16:18
  Speaker 7: here and do you.
• 16:18
  Speaker 3: I'm like, what is going on? So this man pretty
• 16:23
  Speaker 3: much has anger issues, which is to be expected from
• 16:25
  Speaker 3: a Taurus. So I'm peeping this. I'm peeping this. I'm
• 16:32
  Speaker 3: peeping this. Keep in mind. So now he's arguing with
• 16:35
  Speaker 3: somebody in the store. So I'm like, yeah, I don't
• 16:36
  Speaker 3: have time for this. Call me back, whatever we'll do.
• 16:38
  Speaker 3: In my mind, it's still not meeting you. He don't
• 16:39
  Speaker 3: know that though, whatever.
• 16:40
  Speaker 7: So when we hung up, something was in me was
• 16:43
  Speaker 7: just like, go back to that YouTube video. So I
• 16:46
  Speaker 7: go back to the YouTube video and something tells me
• 16:49
  Speaker 7: to click on his picture.
• 16:51
  Speaker 3: I go to his YouTube page.
• 16:54
  Speaker 7: It's like four of them videos of him trolling people
• 16:57
  Speaker 7: all that morning. He gets on the public subway and
• 17:02
  Speaker 7: is putting the phone this close to people's face.
• 17:06
  Speaker 3: And I'm noticing a trend.
• 17:07
  Speaker 7: He's only picking on certain people of a certain community,
• 17:14
  Speaker 7: of a certain race. You know who to play with
• 17:18
  Speaker 7: like that. Because if it was me, I would have
• 17:20
  Speaker 7: called the cops.
• 17:20
  Speaker 3: I would have been a Karen. I would have called
• 17:22
  Speaker 3: the cops. I'm like, yo, what is... So I'm like, yeah,
• 17:26
  Speaker 3: he's off his rocker. He's bonkers. Like, something is wrong. Like,
• 17:28
  Speaker 3: this man.
• 17:29
  Speaker 7: Had some type of mental something going on.
• 17:32
  Speaker 4: Something.
• 17:33
  Speaker 7: Because it's just not making sense.
• 17:36
  Speaker 9: Y'all. Y'all.
• 17:41
  Speaker 7: He calls me back. This time another hour later. I'm
• 17:45
  Speaker 7: on the couch just thinking over my actions and I'm
• 17:47
  Speaker 7: just like, How did you let this happen?
• 17:51
  Speaker 4: How?
• 17:52
  Speaker 3: How did you let this happen?
• 17:53
  Speaker 7: You've been single for 14 months, on your own, doing
• 17:56
  Speaker 7: your big one, minding your business, drinking your water, losing weight.
• 18:01
  Speaker 7: Why did you let somebody like this into your life?
• 18:03
  Speaker 3: Like, you played. You played. You played. So I'm beating
• 18:06
  Speaker 3: myself up on the couch when he called me. He
• 18:08
  Speaker 3: called me. I'm like, yo, what's up?
• 18:10
  Speaker 7: He's like, you still need something to add or whatever.
• 18:12
  Speaker 7: But he's like, babe, I got something to tell you.
• 18:14
  Speaker 7: So I'm like, I got something to tell me. I'm like,
• 18:15
  Speaker 7: you ain't got nothing to tell me, but I, whatever.
• 18:19
  Speaker 7: Next thing you know, I hear, hold on. He clicks
• 18:23
  Speaker 7: back over. I'm hearing a third person. So I'm like,
• 18:26
  Speaker 7: is this thing trying to tell me he's married or something?
• 18:28
  Speaker 7: Because at this point, go back to your wife. I
• 18:31
  Speaker 7: hear a dispatcher say.
• 18:32
  Speaker 3: Are you still there? Are you still there? We're sending
• 18:35
  Speaker 3: the vehicle for you now.
• 18:36
  Speaker 5: Son of a bitch.
• 18:41
  Speaker 3: So he's like, are you going to send me one
• 18:42
  Speaker 3: for my wheelchair? Or why are you sending me a van?
• 18:45
  Speaker 3: Are you sending it for my wheelchair? So I'm like, wheelchair? Yeah.
• 18:48
  Speaker 3: So he starts laughing. He's like, no, I'm playing. I'm playing.
• 18:50
  Speaker 3: I'm playing.
• 18:50
  Speaker 7: I said, you've been doing a lot of playing this morning.
• 18:52
  Speaker 7: I really don't have time for it. So I hear
• 18:54
  Speaker 7: the lady say, all right, the vehicle will be there
• 18:57
  Speaker 7: in a couple minutes. I'm going to pick you up.
• 18:58
  Speaker 7: So not only is he trolling me, he's trolling her.
• 19:01
  Speaker 3: He's trolling the people around him. He's yelling at the
• 19:04
  Speaker 3: man at the hot dog stand that he ain't.
• 19:06
  Speaker 7: Giving me his cash. And he's trying to play with him.
• 19:08
  Speaker 7: And where's my change?
• 19:09
  Speaker 3: I'm just like, what? What is happening right now? So
• 19:19
  Speaker 3: he gets in the vehicle and I'm like, are you
• 19:22
  Speaker 3: kidding me right now?
• 19:23
  Speaker 7: I said, did you just call a rehab facility? He like, yeah, babe,
• 19:30
  Speaker 7: I got to go to rehab. I got a drinking problem.
• 19:32
  Speaker 7: I can't keep doing this. I can't keep doing this
• 19:35
  Speaker 7: to myself.
• 19:35
  Speaker 3: I said, kid.
• 19:36
  Speaker 7: I said, so when was you going to tell him
• 19:40
  Speaker 7: you had a drinking problem?
• 19:42
  Speaker 3: This man going to say, I told you. Now the
• 19:46
  Speaker 3: fuck you did it?
• 19:48
  Speaker 4: No, you did not!
• 19:50
  Speaker 7: Like yo i said so you're on your way to
• 19:53
  Speaker 7: rehab right now he's like.
• 19:55
  Speaker 3: Yeah they're coming to get me you heard the lady
• 19:56
  Speaker 3: say the dispatcher.
• 19:57
  Speaker 7: Say that they're coming to get me in 10 minutes
• 20:00
  Speaker 7: so i'm like How can you just make an.
• 20:03
  Speaker 3: Impulsive decision like this?
• 20:04
  Speaker 7: And this is when he told me he had a
• 20:06
  Speaker 7: drinking problem and that he told me. And I'm like,
• 20:08
  Speaker 7: you didn't tell me that because I wouldn't have talked
• 20:10
  Speaker 7: to you. I promise you I wouldn't have. So we
• 20:13
  Speaker 7: have a back and forth, back and forth, back and forth.
• 20:16
  Speaker 7: We just we just talking at this point. They like, babe,
• 20:19
  Speaker 7: I got to do this for us. We're going to
• 20:21
  Speaker 7: get an apartment. Me, you, his daughter name I ain't
• 20:25
  Speaker 7: going to say, my son name. I got to do
• 20:27
  Speaker 7: this for us. I got to get right for us.
• 20:29
  Speaker 3: We're going to get an apartment together. We're going to
• 20:31
  Speaker 3: live in Harlem.
• 20:33
  Speaker 7: He had this weird obsession with Harlem. He's not from Harlem.
• 20:36
  Speaker 7: He's not even from New York. So now I got
• 20:41
  Speaker 7: to play my part. I got to play the distraught
• 20:43
  Speaker 7: girlfriend that never met her boyfriend. He's like, yo, you
• 20:49
  Speaker 7: the love of my life.
• 20:51
  Speaker 3: We're going to do this together. I'm doing this for
• 20:52
  Speaker 3: the kids. I'm doing this for us.
• 20:54
  Speaker 7: If I don't take care of myself, how am I
• 20:56
  Speaker 7: going to be good for y'all? How am I going
• 20:57
  Speaker 7: to be able to pay all the bills? And I'm
• 21:01
  Speaker 7: just like, babe, why?
• 21:09
  Speaker 4: Why?
• 21:09
  Speaker 10: Why?
• 21:10
  Speaker 7: Why?
• 21:10
  Speaker 3: Why didn't you tell me? I could have helped you.
• 21:13
  Speaker 4: Why?
• 21:13
  Speaker 3: Why are you doing this to us? Why are you.
• 21:15
  Speaker 7: Doing this to us? So this man, he gets in
• 21:23
  Speaker 7: the van. He's bothering the driver. They drive him all
• 21:28
  Speaker 7: the way to Coney Island. He gets out the cab
• 21:31
  Speaker 7: multiple times. He's like, I'm about to get me a
• 21:33
  Speaker 7: Four Loko. I'm going to get me a Mangorita. I said,
• 21:36
  Speaker 7: you're still drinking?
• 21:38
  Speaker 3: I confused. So now I'm mad. Now I'm mad. Because
• 21:41
  Speaker 3: you're playing in my face. Now I'm mad. Now I'm mad.
• 21:44
  Speaker 3: So now this is insane for me. Now I'm mad.
• 21:46
  Speaker 3: So I'm like, why would you be drinking?
• 21:48
  Speaker 7: I thought you was trying to get better for us.
• 21:52
  Speaker 3: What happened?
• 21:53
  Speaker 7: He's like, if I'm going to rehab, why, why? If
• 21:57
  Speaker 7: I'm going to rehab, I might as well get it
• 22:00
  Speaker 7: out of my system. So I'm like, your way of
• 22:02
  Speaker 7: thinking is crazy. That's like me saying, let me binge
• 22:04
  Speaker 7: my food before I go on a weight loss journey.
• 22:06
  Speaker 3: That don't make sense. Like, just stop. It's a problem
• 22:09
  Speaker 3: at this point. Just stop. So he's like, I'm like, yo,
• 22:13
  Speaker 3: who else knows about this? I can't be the only
• 22:14
  Speaker 3: one who has this information, this pertinent information. I cannot
• 22:17
  Speaker 3: be the only person with this information. Who else knows
• 22:19
  Speaker 3: about this? I said, where's your mother? Where's your sisters?
• 22:21
  Speaker 3: Where are these 15 sisters you claim you got?
• 22:23
  Speaker 7: Where are these people at? So he died with his mama.
• 22:26
  Speaker 7: Mind you, never met the man, but I'm on the
• 22:28
  Speaker 7: phone with his mama. I'm doing better than I have
• 22:31
  Speaker 7: been in a lot of relationships that I was actually in.
• 22:33
  Speaker 7: I met the nigga mama over the phone before we
• 22:35
  Speaker 7: even met. So in that regard, baby, he was doing something,
• 22:41
  Speaker 7: but whatever.
• 22:42
  Speaker 3: So he calls his mother, and she's like, why? She
• 22:46
  Speaker 3: calls him his nickname.
• 22:47
  Speaker 7: Why do you keep doing this to yourself? I'm like, oh,
• 22:52
  Speaker 7: this nigga really got a problem problem.
• 22:54
  Speaker 3: I bet, too.
• 22:56
  Speaker 7: So I explain the situation to his mother. She starts
• 22:58
  Speaker 7: breaking down a bunch of stuff. The daughter don't live
• 23:01
  Speaker 7: with him, haven't lived with him in the past two years.
• 23:03
  Speaker 7: She all the way in a whole other state.
• 23:05
  Speaker 4: I'm just like, what?
• 23:07
  Speaker 7: Everything is a lie? Everything is a lie. So I'm
• 23:12
  Speaker 7: running out of time again. And when I tell you,
• 23:14
  Speaker 7: the story is not over yet. He turns up.
• 23:18
  Speaker 3: He turns it up 15 more notches. Okay. Yeah. I
• 23:21
  Speaker 3: see y'all in part three. All right, y'all.
• 23:24
  Speaker 7: This is part three of who the F did I
• 23:25
  Speaker 7: almost link? BLK online data app horror story. I told
• 23:29
  Speaker 7: y'all he is going to the facility. He finally gets
• 23:32
  Speaker 7: dropped off. So every time he hangs up with me,
• 23:34
  Speaker 7: I'm just getting an inkling to like look into this man.
• 23:38
  Speaker 7: So I go, I pay like $ 10 to do a
• 23:40
  Speaker 7: background research on him because at this point.
• 23:44
  Speaker 3: I'm hearing too much red flags.
• 23:46
  Speaker 7: And I'm just curious to see what this man's background
• 23:50
  Speaker 7: is like between the things that I've.
• 23:51
  Speaker 3: Heard from his mom, which I'm about to tell.
• 23:53
  Speaker 7: You, and the energy and his actions that he's displaying
• 23:58
  Speaker 7: over the phone. So I can only imagine what FaceTime
• 24:02
  Speaker 7: would have been like if this man would have had
• 24:03
  Speaker 7: an iPhone. But like I told y'all, he got Android.
• 24:05
  Speaker 7: So stick with me. The cab driver drops him off
• 24:08
  Speaker 7: at the facility and now he's having second thoughts. So baby,
• 24:12
  Speaker 7: you're not going to have no second thoughts with me
• 24:13
  Speaker 7: on this phone after I done heard all this foolishness
• 24:15
  Speaker 7: that you've been doing. So no, you're going to the place.
• 24:17
  Speaker 3: You're going.
• 24:18
  Speaker 7: No ifs, ands, or buts about it. So now I'm
• 24:21
  Speaker 7: using the whole family ploy thing to him. Like, oh yeah,
• 24:23
  Speaker 7: you got to do this for us. You got to
• 24:24
  Speaker 7: do this for your family. We love you. We want
• 24:26
  Speaker 7: you to be good. We want you to be safe.
• 24:28
  Speaker 7: We want you to take care of yourself. We don't
• 24:30
  Speaker 7: want you to have any problems. So when we move
• 24:32
  Speaker 7: into this apartment, you'll be okay.
• 24:34
  Speaker 10: All right?
• 24:35
  Speaker 7: So I'm using that. I'm using that to my advantage
• 24:38
  Speaker 7: and it's kind of like working. So he's like, all right, babe,
• 24:41
  Speaker 7: you know what?
• 24:41
  Speaker 9: You're right.
• 24:42
  Speaker 7: I'm just going to sit here for a few minutes.
• 24:43
  Speaker 7: I'm about to go inside now. Let me figure it out.
• 24:46
  Speaker 7: So he hangs up.
• 24:47
  Speaker 3: So I call his mom. I give his mother the update.
• 24:49
  Speaker 3: I'm like, you know what?
• 24:50
  Speaker 7: Let me pick this lady brain because now I need
• 24:53
  Speaker 7: to see. So now she's telling me how he has
• 24:55
  Speaker 7: no custody of his daughter. He hasn't had custody of
• 24:58
  Speaker 7: his daughter in the last two years.
• 24:59
  Speaker 3: And I'm like, Hmm. Okay. So then she also tells
• 25:05
  Speaker 3: me that he just recently got out of the hospital.
• 25:09
  Speaker 5: I'm like, hmm.
• 25:10
  Speaker 3: Strangely enough, he's always telling me he's at work.
• 25:12
  Speaker 7: She's like, oh, no, he doesn't have a job. He's
• 25:15
  Speaker 7: been in the hospital for months. He has cysts on
• 25:19
  Speaker 7: his brain, spots on his liver.
• 25:21
  Speaker 3: It's a whole lot, a whole lot of going on.
• 25:24
  Speaker 7: Eyes was yellow, skin yellow, jaundice kind of thing going on.
• 25:28
  Speaker 3: I'm like, oh. So his liver is fried, is what
• 25:32
  Speaker 3: you're telling me, from this drinking.
• 25:34
  Speaker 7: Because when he was in that car, he told me
• 25:36
  Speaker 7: he had a full bottle of Tito's, a full bottle
• 25:38
  Speaker 7: of Casamigos, and some other stuff in between.
• 25:42
  Speaker 3: And I'm like, you mean you share this with the
• 25:44
  Speaker 3: people at the studio? He's like, no.
• 25:46
  Speaker 7: I drunk this all by myself, which is why I
• 25:48
  Speaker 7: need to check into rehab, because I have a problem.
• 25:51
  Speaker 3: I said, oh, you have a problem? Problem, problem.
• 25:55
  Speaker 1: Hmm, interesting.
• 25:57
  Speaker 3: So let's go back to the conversation I have with mom.
• 26:00
  Speaker 7: So she's like, yeah, I wouldn't be shocked if his
• 26:03
  Speaker 7: time living in Far Rockaway, when he had a friend
• 26:06
  Speaker 7: that passed away, if he didn't try every drug in
• 26:08
  Speaker 7: the book.
• 26:10
  Speaker 3: I'm like, oh.
• 26:12
  Speaker 7: So she was like, yeah, you know, anything. I wouldn't
• 26:18
  Speaker 7: be shocked if he didn't try it. And I'm like, wow, okay.
• 26:22
  Speaker 7: Addictive personality, I see.
• 26:24
  Speaker 1: Okay, cool.
• 26:26
  Speaker 3: So we hang up. I give her the update.
• 26:28
  Speaker 7: Okay, he went into rehab. Hopefully he'll be contacting me
• 26:31
  Speaker 7: soon because I'm done.
• 26:32
  Speaker 3: Have a son.
• 26:33
  Speaker 7: This is too much for me. This is too much
• 26:35
  Speaker 7: for you, apparently, because you done gave up and relinquished
• 26:38
  Speaker 7: your rights a long time ago, baby. So I feel
• 26:40
  Speaker 7: you on that. So he gets to the rehab. I
• 26:45
  Speaker 7: get a phone call from the rehab.
• 26:46
  Speaker 3: I pick up.
• 26:47
  Speaker 7: I don't know why I'm still picking up phone calls
• 26:48
  Speaker 7: at this point, but I pick up. I pick up
• 26:51
  Speaker 7: and I'm hearing a bunch of screaming, commotion, yelling. Why
• 26:55
  Speaker 7: the F would y'all send me all the way to
• 26:56
  Speaker 7: Coney Island if y'all wasn't going to take me, if
• 26:58
  Speaker 7: y'all ain't have no more intakes for the day?
• 27:00
  Speaker 3: Y'all knew what time I called the cab. Why the
• 27:02
  Speaker 3: cab took this.
• 27:03
  Speaker 4: Long to get here, and I get here, and y'all
• 27:04
  Speaker 4: telling me y'all.
• 27:05
  Speaker 3: Can't take me tomorrow.
• 27:05
  Speaker 7: So I'm drunk right now. Like, this is why I'm here,
• 27:08
  Speaker 7: because I got a problem. Y'all sending me away. So
• 27:11
  Speaker 7: I'm trying to calm him down.
• 27:12
  Speaker 3: He's like, you know what? Speak to my wife. Clutching
• 27:17
  Speaker 3: my imaginary purse, because who is your wife? Not me.
• 27:19
  Speaker 3: Not I, sir.
• 27:20
  Speaker 4: So....
• 27:21
  Speaker 7: I get on the phone with the intake nurse. She's like, listen,
• 27:23
  Speaker 7: we cannot take him. It's after hours. You know, he
• 27:25
  Speaker 7: can come back tomorrow. We can send him to a
• 27:28
  Speaker 7: place to detox overnight, and then he can come back tomorrow.
• 27:30
  Speaker 3: But as of right now, we cannot take him. So
• 27:32
  Speaker 3: I'm trying to explain this to him.
• 27:33
  Speaker 7: He don't want to hear nothing. So I'm hearing him
• 27:35
  Speaker 7: yelling at the security guard, like, what are you looking at?
• 27:37
  Speaker 7: You want me to F you up and all of this?
• 27:38
  Speaker 7: So I'm like, oh, my God, now he's about to
• 27:40
  Speaker 7: fight security. So they're trying to calm him down. And
• 27:43
  Speaker 7: I'm like, it's a lot going on. So y'all call
• 27:45
  Speaker 7: me when y'all figure that out. That is not my husband.
• 27:48
  Speaker 7: Stop calling him my husband. And y'all figure that out.
• 27:50
  Speaker 7: But I'm hanging up.
• 27:51
  Speaker 3: So I hung up.
• 27:53
  Speaker 7: About 20 minutes later, I get a call from the person.
• 27:57
  Speaker 3: That oversees the intake nurses, the head nurse.
• 27:59
  Speaker 7: And he's like, oh, we're calling the cops to have
• 28:04
  Speaker 7: him apprehended because he has physically attacked our security guard
• 28:07
  Speaker 7: and has chased him around a parked car.
• 28:13
  Speaker 11: I said, oh.
• 28:16
  Speaker 3: Oh, yeah, this is far beyond my reach.
• 28:19
  Speaker 7: I said, once again, I'm not his wife. I have
• 28:21
  Speaker 7: no affiliation with that man. Stop calling me.
• 28:24
  Speaker 3: I'm done.
• 28:25
  Speaker 12: I'm done.
• 28:26
  Speaker 7: So upon looking this man up, I never got the
• 28:28
  Speaker 7: chance to, like, fully get the full report on him.
• 28:30
  Speaker 7: I paid the whole $ 10, the whole shebang, because I
• 28:32
  Speaker 7: wanted the tea, okay? And with these calls.
• 28:35
  Speaker 3: Going back and forth, like, it was just too much
• 28:37
  Speaker 3: going on that I didn't even care about the report
• 28:38
  Speaker 3: no more.
• 28:39
  Speaker 7: But I'm pretty sure, like, you know, there was some
• 28:41
  Speaker 7: type of, like, violence on there because this man is
• 28:44
  Speaker 7: apparently violent. So they kick him out. I get a
• 28:50
  Speaker 7: phone call a few hours later from a local supermarket
• 28:53
  Speaker 7: in the area. I don't got nowhere to go tonight.
• 28:55
  Speaker 3: They put me out. They call the cops. I had
• 28:57
  Speaker 3: to leave.
• 28:57
  Speaker 7: I'm like, yeah, you're doing a lot. You're doing a lot.
• 28:59
  Speaker 7: So you need to find somewhere to go tonight or whatever.
• 29:02
  Speaker 7: I'm like that hotel you called me from. Go back
• 29:04
  Speaker 7: to that hotel. Go back for the night because you
• 29:06
  Speaker 7: spent your money already. Go find figure out your way there.
• 29:09
  Speaker 7: I get a phone call the next morning. I hit
• 29:12
  Speaker 7: do do do in the back.
• 29:14
  Speaker 3: So I'm like, OK, he's at the hospital. He's safe.
• 29:16
  Speaker 3: All right, cool. So we were calling all the details
• 29:19
  Speaker 3: from the day before. And he's like, I said that.
• 29:20
  Speaker 12: What?
• 29:21
  Speaker 3: Oh, my God. I'm like, yeah, I spoke to your mom.
• 29:23
  Speaker 3: She gave me the tea. He's like, damn, she just
• 29:25
  Speaker 3: bought my business on Front Street.
• 29:26
  Speaker 7: You didn't put all your business on Front Street.
• 29:28
  Speaker 3: So somebody had to do it.
• 29:29
  Speaker 7: So now I'm telling him, like, I'm not even mad,
• 29:31
  Speaker 7: but we can just be, you know, we.
• 29:33
  Speaker 3: Could just go about our separate ways. Like, this is done.
• 29:36
  Speaker 3: This is a lot for me.
• 29:37
  Speaker 7: A person with a kid, like, you know, you should
• 29:39
  Speaker 7: have more respect. for the fact that I have a
• 29:40
  Speaker 7: child than to put me in a situation like this.
• 29:42
  Speaker 7: And now he's like, oh, you're kicking me when I'm down,
• 29:44
  Speaker 7: and everybody always leaves me, and whoop-de-whoop-de-whoop. And I said, oh,
• 29:47
  Speaker 7: you're not going to gaslight me into staying into this situation.
• 29:49
  Speaker 7: You're absolutely out of your mind, and you must still
• 29:52
  Speaker 7: be drunk. I said, I'm not doing this with you.
• 29:54
  Speaker 3: I'm sorry.
• 29:55
  Speaker 7: I really do apologize, but I'm going to be like
• 29:57
  Speaker 7: those other women, and I'm.
• 29:58
  Speaker 5: Going to leave.
• 30:02
  Speaker 3: His mom calls me a few days later. Fast forward.
• 30:04
  Speaker 3: His mom calls me a few days later. And she's like,
• 30:06
  Speaker 3: remember all the things I said about him trying different drugs?
• 30:09
  Speaker 7: Like, I don't know that for sure. That's just things
• 30:10
  Speaker 7: that I've heard. I said, oh, you're not going to
• 30:13
  Speaker 7: gaslight me as well. He must have called you, chewed
• 30:15
  Speaker 7: you up, and spit you out. And now you want
• 30:18
  Speaker 7: to call and do damage control.
• 30:20
  Speaker 3: It's not happening over here, sis. You yourself told me
• 30:21
  Speaker 3: to leave your son alone. And that's exactly what I
• 30:24
  Speaker 3: intend on doing.
• 30:25
  Speaker 7: So why are you calling me? Maybe about two days later,
• 30:28
  Speaker 7: I get a phone call from him.
• 30:30
  Speaker 13: Blocked a voice message alexis i miss you girl pick
• 30:37
  Speaker 13: up the phone call me back i won.
• 30:43
  Speaker 7: This is by far the craziest experience i've ever had
• 30:45
  Speaker 7: with someone that i've never met before.
• 30:49
  Speaker 3: This was a lot this was a lot and if.
• 30:51
  Speaker 7: He sees this video i pray he got the help
• 30:54
  Speaker 7: he needed um but stay far away from me baby
• 30:58
  Speaker 7: i don't want no parts okay.
• 31:03
  Speaker 3: But if y'all want more stories like this, because I've
• 31:04
  Speaker 3: got a few.
• 31:05
  Speaker 7: Of them, and if I'm willing to tell and I'm
• 31:07
  Speaker 7: willing to share, we'll.
• 31:09
  Speaker 3: Probably get into it. But, yeah. Ladies, do not fall
• 31:13
  Speaker 3: in love with potential. Was I in love? Obviously not.
• 31:16
  Speaker 3: I didn't know the man. I never met him. But, yeah.
• 31:23
  Speaker 3: This is my life. And, yes, I deleted the app.
• 31:29
  Speaker 4: And you should, too.
• 31:30
  Speaker 3: Okay?
• 31:31
  Speaker 4: Bye.
• 31:32
  Speaker 7: I messed up when I told y'all the story, y'all.
• 31:34
  Speaker 7: And this is going to act as like a part
• 31:35
  Speaker 7: four real quick. So I'm going to answer your question.
• 31:37
  Speaker 7: I'm going to give some bonus information in this video.
• 31:40
  Speaker 7: And I'm also going to put it inside the playlist.
• 31:42
  Speaker 7: So the daughter did, in fact, not live in New
• 31:45
  Speaker 7: York City at this point, because I do remember him
• 31:47
  Speaker 7: telling me.
• 31:47
  Speaker 3: That she did not like being in New York City.
• 31:49
  Speaker 3: It was too fast paced for her. She was so
• 31:51
  Speaker 3: used to Minnesota.
• 31:52
  Speaker 7: So she went back to move with his sister. So
• 31:55
  Speaker 7: when I spoke to his mom and I'm like, OK,
• 31:56
  Speaker 7: what sister does she live with? She told me he
• 31:59
  Speaker 7: does not live. She does not live with herself. My daughter,
• 32:04
  Speaker 7: which was one of many, she lived with her sister.
• 32:09
  Speaker 3: With an adopted family.
• 32:12
  Speaker 4: So I'm like, wow.
• 32:13
  Speaker 3: So everything was a lie. Even down to where the
• 32:16
  Speaker 3: little girl lived was a lie. I just couldn't believe it.
• 32:21
  Speaker 7: So, yeah, the whole time she lived in Minnesota, the
• 32:24
  Speaker 7: goal was for him to stay back in New York City,
• 32:26
  Speaker 7: stack his bread, stack his money.
• 32:29
  Speaker 3: So that way he can get a bigger apartment.
• 32:31
  Speaker 7: In a better school district for her to go to
• 32:32
  Speaker 7: school and feel more comfortable.
• 32:36
  Speaker 3: And all of that was a lie, as you guys
• 32:38
  Speaker 3: already know.
• 32:39
  Speaker 7: When he was in the hospital and we finally had
• 32:41
  Speaker 7: our conversation and I was able to press him about
• 32:43
  Speaker 7: the information that was provided to me by his mom
• 32:46
  Speaker 7: and that he personally told me out his own mouth
• 32:48
  Speaker 7: when he.
• 32:48
  Speaker 3: Was a drunk, belligerent fool.
• 32:50
  Speaker 7: I asked him for his address because I just felt
• 32:53
  Speaker 7: like everything is a lie at this point.
• 32:55
  Speaker 14: So I'm just.
• 32:56
  Speaker 3: Now, since I'm doing it for the plot, let me
• 32:58
  Speaker 3: get all the information I need. So he gives me
• 33:01
  Speaker 3: this address and I look it up. And it's like
• 33:03
  Speaker 3: in a industrial area in the Bronx.
• 33:08
  Speaker 7: Like it looked like a place where you drop like
• 33:11
  Speaker 7: those shipping containers in Dexter. I'm like, so you're going
• 33:17
  Speaker 7: to keep lying to me, not telling me the truth,
• 33:19
  Speaker 7: because I Googled this address and there's no residential area
• 33:23
  Speaker 7: nowhere near here.
• 33:27
  Speaker 3: Not even a block radius away.
• 33:29
  Speaker 4: He's like, I swear to God.
• 33:31
  Speaker 7: I swear to God that's where I live. I swear
• 33:33
  Speaker 7: to God, you want to see some mail? You want
• 33:34
  Speaker 7: to see some mail when I come out the hospital?
• 33:35
  Speaker 7: You want to see some mail?
• 33:36
  Speaker 3: You want to see my ID?
• 33:37
  Speaker 4: I said, this is not even a shelter.
• 33:41
  Speaker 3: So if you want to lie, lie correctly, baby, make
• 33:44
  Speaker 3: sure you send me an actual address.
• 33:46
  Speaker 7: That someplace, somewhere, somewhere someone can live. This looks like
• 33:51
  Speaker 7: an office or headquarters to a shipping container company.
• 33:57
  Speaker 3: The lies just kept coming and kept coming.
• 33:58
  Speaker 7: And i was like you know what i'm no longer
• 34:00
  Speaker 7: doing this for five i don't even care anymore you're
• 34:03
  Speaker 7: a bozo get your life together and stay away from
• 34:06
  Speaker 7: me at this point because it was just it was
• 34:09
  Speaker 7: just too much it was too much like the plot
• 34:11
  Speaker 7: thickened too much to the point where i couldn't keep
• 34:13
  Speaker 7: up okay baby so i had to go i had
• 34:15
  Speaker 7: to devolve oh my god y'all it is the next
• 34:18
  Speaker 7: morning and i'm remembering more important and pertinent details okay
• 34:22
  Speaker 7: So the reason why I was sticking around on these
• 34:24
  Speaker 7: phone calls every time he was calling me because he
• 34:26
  Speaker 7: did in fact tell me the reason why he got
• 34:28
  Speaker 7: so pissy poor drunk. The reason why he was drinking
• 34:31
  Speaker 7: that particular day and went to the studio is because
• 34:34
  Speaker 7: he was in his feels.
• 34:35
  Speaker 3: And the reason why he was in his.
• 34:37
  Speaker 7: Feels is because remember when I told you about the job,
• 34:40
  Speaker 7: giving him lower wages and him being closer to home?
• 34:44
  Speaker 7: All of that was for the purpose of him being
• 34:46
  Speaker 7: closer to home to be able to take care of
• 34:47
  Speaker 7: his daughter when she comes back to the city.
• 34:50
  Speaker 4: So I said....
• 34:52
  Speaker 7: If you don't want to take lower wages and you're
• 34:53
  Speaker 7: more than comfortable traveling two hours to commute to work,
• 34:56
  Speaker 7: what you need to do is call your daughter and
• 34:57
  Speaker 7: make sure she is really.
• 34:59
  Speaker 3: Dead set on coming back to the city.
• 35:00
  Speaker 7: Because if she doesn't want to be here, you changing
• 35:03
  Speaker 7: jobs is not the problem if she didn't like the school.
• 35:05
  Speaker 7: So he's like, all right, I'm going to call and
• 35:07
  Speaker 7: I'm going to call you back. When he called me back,
• 35:09
  Speaker 7: he mentioned nothing about the daughter. He mentioned nothing about
• 35:12
  Speaker 7: speaking to her. He told me, okay, she gets out
• 35:14
  Speaker 7: of school at a certain time. I think Minnesota is
• 35:16
  Speaker 7: a different time zone.
• 35:16
  Speaker 3: From New York City. He was like, I'm going to
• 35:18
  Speaker 3: call her when she gets out of school. I think
• 35:20
  Speaker 3: the next time he spoke, he told me he hadn't
• 35:21
  Speaker 3: spoken to her yet.
• 35:23
  Speaker 7: So at a point when he did speak to her,
• 35:25
  Speaker 7: I guess when he decided to go to the studio
• 35:28
  Speaker 7: and drink two bottles of Casamigos and Tito's.
• 35:31
  Speaker 9: Right.
• 35:32
  Speaker 7: So when he called me when he was in the
• 35:35
  Speaker 7: Uber that day and I'm like, yo.
• 35:38
  Speaker 3: Why did you do all of this? He was like,
• 35:39
  Speaker 3: to be honest, I'm doing this because she said she
• 35:41
  Speaker 3: didn't want to come back home.
• 35:43
  Speaker 7: And I feel like a bad father. So when his
• 35:45
  Speaker 7: mother said what she said about the daughter, it triggered him. So,
• 35:49
  Speaker 7: that's the reason why, like, I felt kind of, like,
• 35:51
  Speaker 7: emotionally connected a little bit. Because I'm like, dang, like,
• 35:55
  Speaker 7: he feel like he losing in life. And he kept
• 36:00
  Speaker 7: saying that. He was like, oh, don't kick me while
• 36:01
  Speaker 7: I'm down. Don't kick me while I'm down. And I
• 36:02
  Speaker 7: felt bad. Like, you know, I don't know this man. But, like,
• 36:05
  Speaker 7: I felt bad. Like, your daughter saying she don't want
• 36:07
  Speaker 7: to come live with you. And you're her only real parent.
• 36:11
  Speaker 7: It says a lot about you.
• 36:12
  Speaker 3: Because you can easily change your school. You can move.
• 36:16
  Speaker 3: You can do whatever you need to do. So, I'm
• 36:22
  Speaker 3: remembering things, y'all.
• 36:23
  Speaker 7: Because when I say I pushed this all the way
• 36:25
  Speaker 7: out of my frontal lobe, baby.
• 36:27
  Speaker 3: It had to go. It had to go. But I'm
• 36:29
  Speaker 3: remembering now. I should have been remembering before I told
• 36:32
  Speaker 3: the story. I'm sorry. But, you know, you're getting the
• 36:36
  Speaker 3: info nonetheless.
• 36:37
  Speaker 7: You're getting the tea nonetheless.
• 36:39
  Speaker 3: Okay? So, let me get ready for the gym. I'll
• 36:42
  Speaker 3: see y'all later.
• 36:43
  Speaker 4: Let me tell you about my dating horror story. I've
• 36:45
  Speaker 4: been sitting on this for months.
• 36:47
  Speaker 3: So.
• 36:48
  Speaker 4: I was telling this story to.
• 36:50
  Speaker 15: My friends last weekend and they were like, you have
• 36:53
  Speaker 15: got to make a TikTok about this. So let me
• 36:57
  Speaker 15: just give you a story time of the last date
• 37:00
  Speaker 15: I went on, which was this past February. I have
• 37:03
  Speaker 15: not been on a date since because I might be
• 37:06
  Speaker 15: slightly traumatized.
• 37:08
  Speaker 4: So I matched with this guy on Hinge.
• 37:11
  Speaker 15: And my friends were actually with me when I matched
• 37:14
  Speaker 15: and they were like, Bailey, just ask him on a date.
• 37:16
  Speaker 4: He seems really cool. And he did.
• 37:18
  Speaker 15: His conversation was great.
• 37:20
  Speaker 4: He was very articulate. I was just like, OK, sure.
• 37:24
  Speaker 15: So I messaged him and I said, hey, do you
• 37:26
  Speaker 15: want to meet at this bar? It's an arcade bar
• 37:29
  Speaker 15: that we have downtown here. And he's like, oh, my God,
• 37:33
  Speaker 15: I love that place.
• 37:33
  Speaker 3: Yes, I would love to.
• 37:34
  Speaker 8: Great.
• 37:35
  Speaker 3: OK, perfect.
• 37:36
  Speaker 4: So then the next day is the date. And like
• 37:40
  Speaker 4: an hour before the date, he texted me. He says,
• 37:42
  Speaker 4: so what are the vibes? What are you wearing?
• 37:44
  Speaker 15: Which I was kind of just like, I've never had
• 37:47
  Speaker 15: a guy ask me that, especially on a date to
• 37:50
  Speaker 15: a bar, but whatever.
• 37:52
  Speaker 4: So I wore all black. And if you guys scroll
• 37:54
  Speaker 4: all the way down to February.
• 37:56
  Speaker 15: You'll see my, it was a first date TikTok where
• 38:01
  Speaker 15: I used the first date sound from Blink-182.
• 38:03
  Speaker 4: So you can see I looked good. Okay. I looked really,
• 38:07
  Speaker 4: really good.
• 38:08
  Speaker 15: And so I just said, oh, I'm wearing all black.
• 38:10
  Speaker 4: I'm wearing a dress and a jacket and combat boots.
• 38:13
  Speaker 3: Okay, cool.
• 38:15
  Speaker 4: So buckle up, okay?
• 38:19
  Speaker 5: Buckle up.
• 38:20
  Speaker 15: So I get to the date. We meet in the
• 38:21
  Speaker 15: parking lot. First thing he does is go, oh. And
• 38:29
  Speaker 15: I'm just standing there all awkwardly, and he goes, hmm,
• 38:32
  Speaker 15: you look like you're going.
• 38:33
  Speaker 4: To start a cult.
• 38:37
  Speaker 5: Ha ha ha.
• 38:38
  Speaker 4: So right off the bat, I didn't like him, but
• 38:40
  Speaker 4: I drove all the way there and I'm going to
• 38:42
  Speaker 4: get a free drink. So sounds good.
• 38:44
  Speaker 15: So we are walking in and I was like, oh,
• 38:46
  Speaker 15: I haven't been here since they changed locations. And he goes, oh, yeah,
• 38:51
  Speaker 15: it's pretty nice in there, except the bartender's a fucking bitch.
• 38:57
  Speaker 4: Try two.
• 39:00
  Speaker 5: So then we're walking in and he is standing in
• 39:03
  Speaker 5: front of me.
• 39:04
  Speaker 15: And he is like going going like this behind him
• 39:08
  Speaker 15: but he's like going like this and i go what
• 39:11
  Speaker 15: and he's like give.
• 39:12
  Speaker 4: Me your id she's gonna ask for it.
• 39:15
  Speaker 15: Okay i said well you could use your words and
• 39:19
  Speaker 15: he like giggled and i was being totally serious so
• 39:22
  Speaker 15: i handed my id we're waiting for our drinks and
• 39:24
  Speaker 15: i was like what are you going to order? And
• 39:26
  Speaker 15: he was like, oh, I don't really drink.
• 39:29
  Speaker 3: And I was like, oh, okay.
• 39:32
  Speaker 15: Well, we could have gone anywhere but a bar. And
• 39:36
  Speaker 15: he's like, no, no, like I do sometimes.
• 39:38
  Speaker 4: And I was like, okay.
• 39:41
  Speaker 5: So we're still waiting.
• 39:43
  Speaker 4: And he goes, yeah, you know, I just used.
• 39:44
  Speaker 5: To be really big into pills.
• 39:46
  Speaker 4: And I'm like, Okay.
• 39:51
  Speaker 15: This is all within the first five minutes, by the way.
• 39:55
  Speaker 15: So then we finally sit down and he immediately just
• 39:57
  Speaker 15: starts talking.
• 39:58
  Speaker 4: Okay. And he's like, yeah, just so you're.
• 40:00
  Speaker 15: Aware, like, I'm not really interested in marriage or anything
• 40:03
  Speaker 15: like that.
• 40:04
  Speaker 5: And I was like, okay.
• 40:06
  Speaker 15: I was like, well, it's probably just not going to
• 40:08
  Speaker 15: work because, um, I'd like that to be an option
• 40:11
  Speaker 15: for me someday. And he's like, well, like, I don't
• 40:13
  Speaker 15: want to get married right now. And I'm like, I
• 40:16
  Speaker 15: was not planning on walking down the aisle with you tonight. So,
• 40:20
  Speaker 15: and he like giggled and I was being serious. And
• 40:23
  Speaker 15: then he goes, yeah, you know, I just, I make
• 40:25
  Speaker 15: so much money, like a lot of money.
• 40:27
  Speaker 4: And, uh, you know, she's going to have to sign
• 40:29
  Speaker 4: a prenup.
• 40:31
  Speaker 3: And I just go, ew. And he's like, what?
• 40:34
  Speaker 4: I was like, it's really fucking gross to say to.
• 40:36
  Speaker 15: Somebody within 10 minutes of meeting them, but okay.
• 40:40
  Speaker 3: Okay.
• 40:41
  Speaker 4: So then he goes, yeah, definitely no kids. Like, no kids.
• 40:46
  Speaker 15: I'm not interested in kids. And I was like, yeah,
• 40:49
  Speaker 15: once again, it's not going to work. By the way,
• 40:51
  Speaker 15: I already knew this wasn't going to work. I didn't
• 40:53
  Speaker 15: like him the second I met him, but I stayed
• 40:55
  Speaker 15: for the plot. Anyway, he was like, yeah, absolutely no kids.
• 40:59
  Speaker 15: And I was like, oh, yeah, this isn't going to
• 41:00
  Speaker 15: work because I'd like that to.
• 41:02
  Speaker 4: Be an option for me too. And he goes, well,
• 41:05
  Speaker 4: just not right now. And I was like, I wasn't
• 41:08
  Speaker 4: planning on getting pregnant by you tonight either.
• 41:11
  Speaker 3: So.
• 41:12
  Speaker 4: And he just giggled again.
• 41:13
  Speaker 3: And I'm just like, okay.
• 41:17
  Speaker 15: Then he goes, yeah, the last time I went on
• 41:20
  Speaker 15: a date here, which, red flag, why are you telling
• 41:24
  Speaker 15: me about your last date you went on?
• 41:25
  Speaker 3: I don't give a fuck.
• 41:27
  Speaker 4: Anyway, the last date I went on here, you know,
• 41:30
  Speaker 4: she got out of her car and she.
• 41:30
  Speaker 3: Was like way fucking fatter than I expected.
• 41:35
  Speaker 4: Sir, I know you're not fucking saying that to a
• 41:37
  Speaker 4: fat person. Anyway, He said, yeah, she was way fatter
• 41:43
  Speaker 4: than I expected.
• 41:44
  Speaker 15: So I, you know, I cut the date pretty short
• 41:47
  Speaker 15: and then I blocked her on my way home.
• 41:52
  Speaker 4: I just go, ew.
• 41:53
  Speaker 15: And he's like, what? I was like, you're just kind
• 41:56
  Speaker 15: of fucking gross. And I swear to God, I was
• 42:00
  Speaker 15: saying all this to him. I don't know if his
• 42:02
  Speaker 15: kink was being like shot down, but like he literally
• 42:08
  Speaker 15: was shot down this whole time. Okay, this is getting
• 42:11
  Speaker 15: way too long. I'm gonna have to do a part two.
• 42:14
  Speaker 15: Welcome back to my dating horror story part two. So
• 42:17
  Speaker 15: at this point, I'm like done.
• 42:19
  Speaker 5: I'm so done.
• 42:20
  Speaker 15: And I texted my friends who happen to be at
• 42:22
  Speaker 15: the bar right next to us. And I said, you
• 42:24
  Speaker 15: need to get me the fuck out of here. Like
• 42:26
  Speaker 15: I need to leave. This man is the worst man
• 42:28
  Speaker 15: I've ever met in my life. So I told him,
• 42:31
  Speaker 15: I said, hey, my friends are next door. They want
• 42:33
  Speaker 15: to come over and chit chat.
• 42:34
  Speaker 4: You cool with that? And he's like, Yeah.
• 42:37
  Speaker 1: Yeah.
• 42:37
  Speaker 3: I'm fine with that.
• 42:38
  Speaker 4: What do they want to like grill me? Do they
• 42:41
  Speaker 4: want to grill me? Do they like want to ask
• 42:42
  Speaker 4: me questions? And I was like, maybe, I don't know, maybe.
• 42:48
  Speaker 15: So my friends get there and he's like, Oh, Hey, like, did.
• 42:52
  Speaker 4: You want to like ask me questions? Like, did you
• 42:55
  Speaker 4: guys want to grill me? And they're like, I mean,
• 42:58
  Speaker 4: we can. So they did.
• 43:01
  Speaker 15: Their first question was, what are your goals for the
• 43:04
  Speaker 15: next five years?
• 43:06
  Speaker 4: And he goes, I don't have any.
• 43:10
  Speaker 15: I go, not one? Not one single goal? And he's like, well,
• 43:15
  Speaker 15: I mean, I have lots of money. I have a
• 43:18
  Speaker 15: nice house. I have a nice car.
• 43:20
  Speaker 5: Him and I have the same.
• 43:22
  Speaker 11: Car, by the way.
• 43:25
  Speaker 4: Mine is just white.
• 43:25
  Speaker 15: His was a burnt orange color, but we have the
• 43:28
  Speaker 15: same car. And I promise you, it's not fancy. Anyway,
• 43:32
  Speaker 15: and so I was icked out way hard by that,
• 43:35
  Speaker 15: but okay.
• 43:36
  Speaker 5: Then they asked like what his favorite kind.
• 43:38
  Speaker 3: Of music is.
• 43:39
  Speaker 4: And he says he likes like house music, like techno.
• 43:41
  Speaker 3: Music, stuff like that.
• 43:43
  Speaker 15: And I was like, oh, I don't really listen to
• 43:44
  Speaker 15: a lot of that. But I have some saved like
• 43:47
  Speaker 15: in my playlist. And I was like, my favorite person
• 43:51
  Speaker 15: of all time.
• 43:52
  Speaker 3: Is Stevie Nicks.
• 43:53
  Speaker 4: And he goes, who's he? Excuse me? How do.
• 44:01
  Speaker 3: You?
• 44:02
  Speaker 5: Anyway.
• 44:02
  Speaker 4: Okay.
• 44:03
  Speaker 3: So I was appalled by that.
• 44:05
  Speaker 4: Then like, he's got tattoos everywhere. He's tattooed all over
• 44:08
  Speaker 4: the place. And one of my friends was like, oh,
• 44:11
  Speaker 4: I like your tattoos on your hand. And he was like, thanks.
• 44:14
  Speaker 4: And then she saw like a scar and she's like,
• 44:16
  Speaker 4: oh gosh, what's that from? He's like, oh yeah. You know,
• 44:20
  Speaker 4: that's just from when I used it myself.
• 44:25
  Speaker 3: Okay.
• 44:25
  Speaker 5: Okay.
• 44:28
  Speaker 4: Then they said, what's the worst thing you've ever done?
• 44:30
  Speaker 15: And he's like, hmm, you know, that'd have to be
• 44:33
  Speaker 15: when I had a whole drawn out plan on how
• 44:37
  Speaker 15: I was going to schmurder my ex-girlfriend's ex-boyfriend with a sledgehammer.
• 44:46
  Speaker 4: We all were just.
• 44:47
  Speaker 3: Like, okay, what?
• 44:52
  Speaker 15: Now, let me say, this date has been three-ish hours.
• 44:56
  Speaker 3: He's gotten me one drink. OK, but he's got all
• 44:59
  Speaker 3: this money.
• 45:00
  Speaker 15: He's got me one drink and he has not asked
• 45:03
  Speaker 15: me one question about myself. Not one, not a single question.
• 45:10
  Speaker 15: There were more questions that were asked, but I can't
• 45:12
  Speaker 15: really think of them right now. We were talking about
• 45:15
  Speaker 15: like where we live or whatever. And he was like, oh,
• 45:19
  Speaker 15: my God, I can't believe you live there. And I
• 45:21
  Speaker 15: was like, weren't you raised here? And he's like, yeah,
• 45:24
  Speaker 15: but I got out of there. okay where'd you go
• 45:29
  Speaker 15: he went 35 minutes away where pretentious assholes live so
• 45:34
  Speaker 15: you know good for you buddy boy so at this
• 45:39
  Speaker 15: point my friends are over it they're like okay bailey
• 45:41
  Speaker 15: we're gonna go like we need to go we'll meet
• 45:43
  Speaker 15: you there and i'm like okay yeah i'll see you
• 45:46
  Speaker 15: soon so they walk out and he pays the tab
• 45:49
  Speaker 15: of our two drinks because he only got me one
• 45:52
  Speaker 15: fucking drink this whole three hours and And as we're
• 45:55
  Speaker 15: walking out, he like starts his car from inside the bar.
• 45:57
  Speaker 4: And I was like, and it was cold out.
• 45:59
  Speaker 15: And I was like, damn, I wish that I had
• 46:01
  Speaker 15: gotten remote.
• 46:04
  Speaker 4: Start in my car. And he goes, if you're broke,
• 46:07
  Speaker 4: just say that. Excuse me?
• 46:12
  Speaker 15: I am fucking broke, but that's so fucking rude.
• 46:18
  Speaker 4: At this point, I'm done.
• 46:19
  Speaker 3: I'm done.
• 46:20
  Speaker 15: So we walk out to the parking lot and he
• 46:22
  Speaker 15: gives me this awkward side hug thing. And my, and
• 46:26
  Speaker 15: he was a very skinny, short, tatted up man, which
• 46:30
  Speaker 15: is like my bread and butter, baby.
• 46:32
  Speaker 4: I love a skinny man.
• 46:33
  Speaker 3: I don't know why.
• 46:35
  Speaker 15: But my first reaction was to literally go, Ooh, God,
• 46:38
  Speaker 15: you are way too fucking bony for me. And he
• 46:41
  Speaker 15: was like, And I was like, yeah, I'm going to
• 46:46
  Speaker 15: have to, this isn't going to work out. So I
• 46:48
  Speaker 15: walk out to my car and he's like, well, have
• 46:50
  Speaker 15: fun talking shit about me to your friends.
• 46:52
  Speaker 4: And I was like, oh, I will.
• 46:55
  Speaker 3: I will.
• 46:56
  Speaker 15: I will. I, as soon as I got in my car,
• 47:00
  Speaker 15: I went to the app because I wanted to screenshot
• 47:03
  Speaker 15: a picture of him because I knew everybody was going to.
• 47:04
  Speaker 4: Ask me what he looked like. And he had blocked
• 47:07
  Speaker 4: me already.
• 47:10
  Speaker 5: Blocked me for that one comment.
• 47:13
  Speaker 15: Baby, you literally said to a fat person that you
• 47:16
  Speaker 15: were disgusted in another fat person. I just had to
• 47:20
  Speaker 15: call you out on your boniness. And then like five
• 47:23
  Speaker 15: months later, I saw him on the Are We Dating
• 47:25
  Speaker 15: the Same Guy Facebook page in our surrounding area. And
• 47:31
  Speaker 15: oh my God, the comments are hilarious. I'm fully aware
• 47:36
  Speaker 15: that I shouldn't have stayed three hours longer. But like
• 47:39
  Speaker 15: I said, I stayed for the plot because what in
• 47:42
  Speaker 15: the fuck?
• 47:43
  Speaker 3: So yeah.
• 47:46
  Speaker 5: Dating's going really, really well for me.
• 47:48
  Speaker 4: I'm bored and I'm in the mood.
• 47:49
  Speaker 12: So I'm going to tell y'all a story time about
• 47:51
  Speaker 12: a Tinder date from hell.
• 47:54
  Speaker 1: All right.
• 47:55
  Speaker 5: So y'all, I was around 19, 20 at the time.
• 47:57
  Speaker 12: I just graduated from high school. 2017 for year context.
• 48:02
  Speaker 12: And I used to get on Tinder just for fun.
• 48:04
  Speaker 12: Like just because I was bored. It was nothing to do.
• 48:06
  Speaker 5: I was on Tinder.
• 48:08
  Speaker 3: Now, I will say, stay off them fucking dating apps.
• 48:12
  Speaker 4: Please save yourself the trouble.
• 48:15
  Speaker 12: I met a lot of nasty ass creeps on there
• 48:17
  Speaker 12: that I didn't have no business running into because I
• 48:20
  Speaker 12: was bored. So this one boy in particular, he went
• 48:23
  Speaker 12: to A & T.
• 48:24
  Speaker 3: I'm an A & J because.
• 48:26
  Speaker 4: Just be y'all, just be y'all. He went to A
• 48:27
  Speaker 4: & T.
• 48:28
  Speaker 5: We matched on Tinder.
• 48:29
  Speaker 3: He was cute.
• 48:30
  Speaker 5: He was a short about chubby guy. um he had.
• 48:33
  Speaker 4: Like a ginger beer he was real cute real.
• 48:35
  Speaker 12: Cute so we was texting on tinder for a while
• 48:38
  Speaker 12: and he asked me for my number which i was
• 48:40
  Speaker 12: kind of hesitant to give to him but like i
• 48:43
  Speaker 12: said i was bored so he gets my number and
• 48:46
  Speaker 12: we were texting for like a week finally he said
• 48:50
  Speaker 12: fuck all that texting i don't want to see you
• 48:52
  Speaker 12: so i'm like okay if you want to see me
• 48:53
  Speaker 12: take me out on a date you know because i'm
• 48:57
  Speaker 12: not no cheap bitch or so the book i thought
• 48:59
  Speaker 12: at that time so he's like okay i'm gonna pick
• 49:02
  Speaker 12: you up um send me your address i'm gonna come
• 49:05
  Speaker 12: get you like around eight the next day so i'm
• 49:07
  Speaker 12: like okay cool so i'm not really excited you know
• 49:11
  Speaker 12: this was not my first date on tinder i was
• 49:13
  Speaker 12: a horrible person too i used to go on the
• 49:16
  Speaker 12: dates for the free food i sure did i did
• 49:18
  Speaker 12: i don't know i'm just know but i was nervous
• 49:21
  Speaker 12: you know i was nervous long story short he picked
• 49:25
  Speaker 12: me up and you know we vibing we get i
• 49:27
  Speaker 12: get in the car he looked like himself he's not.
• 49:29
  Speaker 5: A catfish you know what i'm saying he say i'm cute.
• 49:31
  Speaker 4: Too we bobbing we listening to music now.
• 49:35
  Speaker 12: What should have been the first red flag you is
• 49:38
  Speaker 12: that he kept playing Pimp C.
• 49:40
  Speaker 4: What was that song?
• 49:42
  Speaker 3: Y'all, I went to go look. Excuse me.
• 49:44
  Speaker 5: It's not Big C. It's Big Punisher. It's so hard.
• 49:46
  Speaker 1: To this day, I'm traumatized by that song.
• 49:49
  Speaker 4: He played that.
• 49:50
  Speaker 3: Song over and over and over and over and over until.
• 49:53
  Speaker 4: We got to our destination.
• 49:54
  Speaker 5: That song still haunts.
• 49:55
  Speaker 1: Me to this day.
• 49:57
  Speaker 5: If I hear that song, the saxophones start playing.
• 49:59
  Speaker 4: So we pull up to the destination.
• 50:01
  Speaker 5: I look around.
• 50:03
  Speaker 3: I look to my left.
• 50:05
  Speaker 16: I look to my right.
• 50:07
  Speaker 3: Why are we at Golden Corral?
• 50:09
  Speaker 12: I'm like, we're at Golden Corral.
• 50:12
  Speaker 1: Why?
• 50:12
  Speaker 4: What's going on?
• 50:14
  Speaker 3: He's like, what you mean?
• 50:15
  Speaker 4: We here to eat.
• 50:15
  Speaker 17: Eat?
• 50:16
  Speaker 4: We gonna eat some hot pizza?
• 50:19
  Speaker 5: He's like, what's wrong with Golden Corral?
• 50:21
  Speaker 3: I should have known better.
• 50:23
  Speaker 4: College student. Slightly balding. I should have known better.
• 50:32
  Speaker 5: But you know, we already here.
• 50:34
  Speaker 3: Bug it.
• 50:35
  Speaker 10: Bug it.
• 50:35
  Speaker 5: I'm not gonna lie. Bug it. I'm like, it's whatever.
• 50:38
  Speaker 5: You know, we already here.
• 50:39
  Speaker 1: I might as well eat it.
• 50:40
  Speaker 5: So we go inside. You know what I'm saying?
• 50:43
  Speaker 4: The total comes.
• 50:43
  Speaker 3: Up to $ 20.
• 50:44
  Speaker 4: I can't be, I'm not mad at you, player.
• 50:46
  Speaker 5: I'm not mad at you.
• 50:48
  Speaker 3: I'm not mad. But it's like, you really do got.
• 50:51
  Speaker 12: Me fucked up because Golden Corral, like, I don't like eating.
• 50:54
  Speaker 3: I don't like it. Like, no, you don't do that.
• 50:57
  Speaker 5: At least let me know before.
• 50:59
  Speaker 4: Let me know.
• 50:59
  Speaker 3: Like, you, I'm all dressed up.
• 51:02
  Speaker 1: Come on.
• 51:03
  Speaker 5: Come on, gang.
• 51:04
  Speaker 3: So we sit down and we start eating.
• 51:07
  Speaker 4: And that man starts to pig out.
• 51:09
  Speaker 3: He's getting his money's worth.
• 51:11
  Speaker 5: Money's worth.
• 51:13
  Speaker 4: He eats eight plates.
• 51:14
  Speaker 5: I'm still on my first one. I knew right then
• 51:17
  Speaker 5: and there.
• 51:19
  Speaker 3: I fucked up. I want to be those plates though
• 51:21
  Speaker 3: at the end of the night.
• 51:23
  Speaker 4: I just like.
• 51:23
  Speaker 12: So he eats his food and we finally finish.
• 51:27
  Speaker 5: And we leave. So now I'm like, okay, like, you know,
• 51:29
  Speaker 5: it was nice seeing you, whatever.
• 51:31
  Speaker 3: He's like, what you finna do after this? I'm like,
• 51:33
  Speaker 3: you know, go home.
• 51:35
  Speaker 4: He's like, nah, we can chill for.
• 51:36
  Speaker 3: A little bit.
• 51:37
  Speaker 4: Come on.
• 51:39
  Speaker 3: Like, I like you a lot. I bet you do
• 51:41
  Speaker 3: like me. I bet you do. I bet you do.
• 51:44
  Speaker 3: I bet you do like me.
• 51:46
  Speaker 4: Y'all, and this is where it gets really foolish on
• 51:48
  Speaker 4: my part.
• 51:49
  Speaker 3: Because, yes, I did.
• 51:51
  Speaker 4: I did go back with him.
• 51:52
  Speaker 5: I did hang out with him. Yes, I did.
• 51:54
  Speaker 3: I did that. I own it.
• 51:58
  Speaker 5: I'm 27 now.
• 51:58
  Speaker 3: Y'all can't judge me.
• 51:59
  Speaker 4: That was the past.
• 52:00
  Speaker 3: Let it go.
• 52:01
  Speaker 5: You can't judge me.
• 52:02
  Speaker 3: It was the past.
• 52:03
  Speaker 8: So.
• 52:04
  Speaker 3: We get to his dorm.
• 52:07
  Speaker 12: As soon as I walk in, first of all, your
• 52:09
  Speaker 12: roommate is here. And his room was a fucking pigsty.
• 52:13
  Speaker 3: You hear me?
• 52:14
  Speaker 4: Pigsty. Fritos on the bed.
• 52:17
  Speaker 3: Socks.
• 52:18
  Speaker 5: Krusty ass socks.
• 52:20
  Speaker 12: That you know what he did with them socks.
• 52:22
  Speaker 3: On the floor.
• 52:23
  Speaker 4: Shoes turned over and twisted over.
• 52:26
  Speaker 5: Pillow on the floor.
• 52:28
  Speaker 4: It smelled like BL in there.
• 52:31
  Speaker 3: Yeah. I want to go home. I didn't contest this.
• 52:35
  Speaker 12: Soon as he's trying to convince me to stay, he's like,
• 52:37
  Speaker 12: what you mean? We hear a knock at the door,
• 52:39
  Speaker 12: a hard-ass knock. And it was something like, open this
• 52:44
  Speaker 12: fucking door.
• 52:44
  Speaker 5: I know you in there.
• 52:45
  Speaker 18: I know you in there.
• 52:46
  Speaker 5: The whole room was silent. His roommate was silent. He's silent.
• 52:51
  Speaker 5: I'm silent. And I already know what the fuck's going
• 52:53
  Speaker 5: to go down.
• 52:54
  Speaker 3: She's banging on the door. You took me to go
• 53:00
  Speaker 3: to the crowd. You took me back to your dirty dorm.
• 53:03
  Speaker 4: And now somebody want to fight me over that?
• 53:05
  Speaker 3: Baby, you can have that. You can have it.
• 53:08
  Speaker 4: She beating on that door like she Nick Cannon off
• 53:09
  Speaker 4: the line. Open that fucking door for that lady, for real.
• 53:12
  Speaker 5: For real. So we in there for about a cool
• 53:15
  Speaker 5: 12 minutes.
• 53:16
  Speaker 3: At this point, I want to go home. I go
• 53:19
  Speaker 3: to the door and I open it.
• 53:20
  Speaker 4: I sure did because I'm trying to leave.
• 53:22
  Speaker 3: I really do want to go home.
• 53:24
  Speaker 4: I do.
• 53:24
  Speaker 3: And she like, and what is you?
• 53:27
  Speaker 5: I'm like, I'm the roommate's friend. Y'all, I'm not.
• 53:32
  Speaker 4: I'm not coochie.
• 53:33
  Speaker 3: I promise you I'm not.
• 53:34
  Speaker 5: If anything, I'm the most confrontational person ever.
• 53:37
  Speaker 3: But I choose my battles wisely.
• 53:40
  Speaker 5: I don't want to fight over no golden morale fight.
• 53:42
  Speaker 5: I promise you I don't.
• 53:43
  Speaker 3: I really don't.
• 53:44
  Speaker 5: So she comes inside and she starts talking to him.
• 53:47
  Speaker 5: And I respectfully, I leave.
• 53:50
  Speaker 4: I call my Uber.
• 53:52
  Speaker 5: I'm outside waiting in the hallway. I call my Uber.
• 53:55
  Speaker 4: It's good. You know what I'm saying?
• 53:58
  Speaker 5: I didn't want to be with the big Punisher anyways.
• 54:01
  Speaker 5: and that is why i don't talk about this.
• 54:07
  Speaker 12: I'm fat you fat i'm good i'm straight y'all sneaky
• 54:12
  Speaker 12: sneaky as fuck so yeah i went home he tried
• 54:16
  Speaker 12: to message me again you know that won't happen again
• 54:18
  Speaker 12: first of all it was that wasn't even a reason
• 54:20
  Speaker 12: you took me to go to corral you made me
• 54:22
  Speaker 12: eat hospital food i'm good did i go on another
• 54:26
  Speaker 12: tinder date yes i did thank you Thank you for
• 54:30
  Speaker 12: listening to my story time.
• 54:33
  Speaker 4: Not again, not again.
• 54:36
  Speaker 14: Every single day, without fail, I am presented with a
• 54:38
  Speaker 14: new set of information and new stories about men from
• 54:41
  Speaker 14: dating apps that would make any woman who is still
• 54:44
  Speaker 14: currently using dating apps like Hinge want to delete them
• 54:47
  Speaker 14: faster than the speed of light, join a.
• 54:49
  Speaker 4: Convent, and stay single for all of eternity.
• 54:52
  Speaker 14: What I'm about to share with you guys, a story
• 54:54
  Speaker 14: that I was just sent from a friend of mine,
• 54:56
  Speaker 14: is so diabolical that I just have no words.
• 54:59
  Speaker 1: No words.
• 55:00
  Speaker 14: Before I begin, I just want to say, and I'm
• 55:02
  Speaker 14: sure that you guys are tired of hearing this phrase
• 55:05
  Speaker 14: that's been floating around this app from different creators, dating
• 55:08
  Speaker 14: apps will quite literally have you meeting people that you
• 55:11
  Speaker 14: were never meant to meet, putting you in situations that
• 55:14
  Speaker 14: you were never supposed to be in.
• 55:15
  Speaker 4: And the universe will teach you why every time.
• 55:17
  Speaker 14: I have my laptop here, and I'm just going to
• 55:20
  Speaker 14: summarize this story and the text that was sent to
• 55:23
  Speaker 14: the best of my ability for you guys. Basically, a
• 55:26
  Speaker 14: friend of mine and her friend said that they saw
• 55:28
  Speaker 14: my video that I made last week that went pretty
• 55:30
  Speaker 14: viral about men from dating apps in an account I
• 55:33
  Speaker 14: found about a man who.
• 55:34
  Speaker 4: Shares all of his experiences trying.
• 55:37
  Speaker 14: To sleep with women that he meets on dating apps
• 55:39
  Speaker 14: on the first date. That's diabolical enough, but this is
• 55:43
  Speaker 14: pure psychopath vibes.
• 55:44
  Speaker 4: Like, I have no words.
• 55:45
  Speaker 14: I'm just gonna get into it. So, anyways, she matches
• 55:48
  Speaker 14: with this man on Hinge. He's 35 years old. She
• 55:52
  Speaker 14: said that she gave him her number, and... They talked
• 55:55
  Speaker 14: on the phone for an hour, and they had a
• 55:57
  Speaker 14: great conversation. He made her laugh, and she even FaceTimed
• 56:01
  Speaker 14: him for a few minutes and said that he was
• 56:03
  Speaker 14: really good-looking, had a good job, seemed really smart, so
• 56:06
  Speaker 14: she agreed.
• 56:07
  Speaker 4: To go on a dinner date with him that he planned.
• 56:09
  Speaker 14: The night that he planned the dinner date for, she
• 56:11
  Speaker 14: had a work function prior, so she agreed to meet
• 56:14
  Speaker 14: him at the restaurant after her work function, and she
• 56:16
  Speaker 14: said she got to the restaurant.
• 56:17
  Speaker 4: It was like 8.30. They had a great date, great conversation.
• 56:22
  Speaker 14: They had a few glasses of wine and they actually
• 56:23
  Speaker 14: even stayed until the restaurant closed and they were told
• 56:26
  Speaker 14: to leave. So she was like over the moon, had
• 56:29
  Speaker 14: a great, great night with this guy. And he said,
• 56:31
  Speaker 14: let's go for a little walk. And she's like, yeah,
• 56:33
  Speaker 14: of course. But like, it has to be a quick
• 56:34
  Speaker 14: walk because I work the next day. They go on
• 56:37
  Speaker 14: this walk 15 minutes in. She says, listen, I really
• 56:41
  Speaker 14: have to go home.
• 56:41
  Speaker 4: I have work tomorrow.
• 56:43
  Speaker 14: I wish this night didn't have to end. If it
• 56:44
  Speaker 14: were a weekend, it would be another story. He says, no,
• 56:47
  Speaker 14: let's go to a bar and get another drink. And
• 56:48
  Speaker 14: she said, it's a weeknight. I really have to get home.
• 56:51
  Speaker 4: He says, okay. How about I get you an Uber?
• 56:54
  Speaker 14: She said at this point there were no other red flags,
• 56:57
  Speaker 14: no other inklings of misconduct, and he seemed just genuinely
• 57:01
  Speaker 14: interested in her and wanted to spend more time with her.
• 57:03
  Speaker 14: But unfortunately, she had to work the next day, and
• 57:06
  Speaker 14: if it were a weekend, it would be another story.
• 57:08
  Speaker 4: She couldn't go get another.
• 57:08
  Speaker 3: Drink with him.
• 57:10
  Speaker 4: He was normal. He seemed like a gentleman. He paid
• 57:11
  Speaker 4: the bill. He opened the doors. He did all the
• 57:13
  Speaker 4: right things.
• 57:15
  Speaker 14: She said her experience with him up until this point
• 57:18
  Speaker 14: was reason enough to trust him to let him get
• 57:20
  Speaker 14: her an Uber home. What could go wrong? And see,
• 57:23
  Speaker 14: this should be a nice thing that men offer to
• 57:25
  Speaker 14: do to get you home from a date safely via
• 57:28
  Speaker 14: ride share, but I guess not. I guess we have
• 57:30
  Speaker 14: to be more.
• 57:31
  Speaker 4: Careful with doing that now.
• 57:33
  Speaker 14: And she said that she had been away from her
• 57:35
  Speaker 14: office for hours and she hadn't charged her phone in hours.
• 57:39
  Speaker 4: Her phone was on less than 10%.
• 57:41
  Speaker 14: Also, he already knew where she lived because her building
• 57:44
  Speaker 14: came up in a previous conversation that they had. Anyways,
• 57:48
  Speaker 14: he confirmed her place of residence with her and he
• 57:52
  Speaker 14: called the Uber, and he waited for the Uber to
• 57:54
  Speaker 14: get there. He escorted her into the Uber, gave her
• 57:57
  Speaker 14: a kiss on the cheek, didn't even try to kiss
• 57:59
  Speaker 14: her on the lips. She said he was such a gentleman. Anyways,
• 58:02
  Speaker 14: she gets in the Uber.
• 58:04
  Speaker 4: They get on their way. He stays behind. She asks
• 58:08
  Speaker 4: the Uber driver for a charger.
• 58:11
  Speaker 14: She starts looking at her phone until she realizes she
• 58:14
  Speaker 14: is not going in the direction of her home, and
• 58:16
  Speaker 14: she looks at the Uber's navigation that is in the
• 58:21
  Speaker 14: front seat and sees that it is three minutes away
• 58:25
  Speaker 14: from the destination that he's going to she's saying this
• 58:28
  Speaker 14: isn't correct and he never sent her a screenshot or
• 58:32
  Speaker 14: anything saying where he called the uber to so she
• 58:37
  Speaker 14: is trying to call him and he doesn't pick up
• 58:40
  Speaker 14: and then the uber driver gets to the building and
• 58:42
  Speaker 14: she was like wait this is where he lives did
• 58:44
  Speaker 14: he do this on accident so she's calling him again
• 58:48
  Speaker 14: She's standing in front of the building and is about
• 58:49
  Speaker 14: to call an Uber. And he walks up to her
• 58:51
  Speaker 14: and goes, you said you didn't want the night to end.
• 58:56
  Speaker 14: And she's like, what? You called an Uber to your house.
• 58:59
  Speaker 14: You called me an Uber to your house. And he's like, yeah,
• 59:02
  Speaker 14: you said you didn't want the night to end. So
• 59:04
  Speaker 14: the night's not gonna end you can sleep by me
• 59:07
  Speaker 14: we can just go to sleep she said that she
• 59:11
  Speaker 14: was panic stricken her heart was pounding her fingers were
• 59:15
  Speaker 14: shaking as she was trying to call an uber and
• 59:17
  Speaker 14: he was inching closer to her saying let's just go
• 59:19
  Speaker 14: upstairs you could take off your heels i'll.
• 59:22
  Speaker 4: Give you comfortable clothes i'll.
• 59:23
  Speaker 14: Pour you another glass of wine We could watch a
• 59:26
  Speaker 14: movie or just go to sleep and I'll take you
• 59:27
  Speaker 14: home first thing in the morning. Don't you want to
• 59:30
  Speaker 14: do that? You said you didn't want the night to end.
• 59:32
  Speaker 14: I don't want the night to end either. I don't
• 59:34
  Speaker 14: see what the problem is. You think I'm just going
• 59:36
  Speaker 14: to let you go that easily. What he did is
• 59:39
  Speaker 14: super illegal. That is quite literally false imprisonment. So if
• 59:42
  Speaker 14: a man ever tries to do something like that to you,
• 59:44
  Speaker 14: call the police immediately. Anyways, she said she was so
• 59:47
  Speaker 14: terrified about the comment he made about not letting her
• 59:50
  Speaker 14: get away that easily. And she was so frozen in time,
• 59:53
  Speaker 14: couldn't move or speak, but she didn't know if she
• 59:55
  Speaker 14: should scream.
• 59:55
  Speaker 4: Or run and couldn't.
• 59:56
  Speaker 14: Bring herself to do those things. The more silent she was,
• 59:59
  Speaker 14: the angrier he got. He was talking crazy, saying, you
• 1:00:03
  Speaker 14: want to spend more time with me. I'm making it
• 1:00:05
  Speaker 14: a reality. I guess you're just this ungrateful. You're letting
• 1:00:08
  Speaker 14: a great night go to waste. I'm going on vacation,
• 1:00:10
  Speaker 14: so you won't see me for a bit. Unless you
• 1:00:12
  Speaker 14: go upstairs with me right now or just never see
• 1:00:15
  Speaker 14: me again, you probably don't even make a lot of
• 1:00:17
  Speaker 14: money at your stupid job anyways. I could change your
• 1:00:20
  Speaker 14: life tomorrow, but you won't let me. This is why
• 1:00:23
  Speaker 14: you're single and called her a bitch. Her Uber got there.
• 1:00:26
  Speaker 3: She got in.
• 1:00:27
  Speaker 14: She started crying, blocked him, reported him on Hinge, which
• 1:00:30
  Speaker 14: I feel like that's not that I'm like, because apparently
• 1:00:34
  Speaker 14: there's all these ways that you can get around being
• 1:00:36
  Speaker 14: down on Hinge and you could literally just make a
• 1:00:38
  Speaker 14: new account with a new number or new email. This
• 1:00:41
  Speaker 14: is so insane. Like, this is, this, I have, I
• 1:00:45
  Speaker 14: have no words. I've just, I have, like, anxiety for her. Like,
• 1:00:48
  Speaker 14: this sounds so traumatizing. Being banned from him literally is
• 1:00:52
  Speaker 14: not enough. He should be banned from society. He said
• 1:00:54
  Speaker 14: that he was going away for a while. Sounds like
• 1:00:57
  Speaker 14: he should be going to jail. He should be put
• 1:00:59
  Speaker 14: behind bars. Like, you might be a good guy, decent
• 1:01:04
  Speaker 14: guy on a dating app once in a while, but
• 1:01:05
  Speaker 14: what people don't understand is that these Dating apps are
• 1:01:08
  Speaker 14: hunting grounds for narcissists, for predators, for abusers, and you
• 1:01:11
  Speaker 14: need to be so careful. And the best thing to
• 1:01:13
  Speaker 14: do is just delete them. So go and delete your
• 1:01:15
  Speaker 14: dating apps if you are still on them. I don't
• 1:01:18
  Speaker 14: know what's going to convince you guys. Just be so careful.
• 1:01:22
  Speaker 14: This is so crazy. I also want to say God
• 1:01:25
  Speaker 14: was on her side in that situation. She had guardian
• 1:01:27
  Speaker 14: angels right there with her, protecting her, making sure nothing
• 1:01:29
  Speaker 14: happened to her. But most women do not get that
• 1:01:32
  Speaker 14: lucky in situations like that, and that's what I really
• 1:01:34
  Speaker 14: want to stress and emphasize to you guys.
• 1:01:37
  Speaker 19: And if you think your dating life is bad, let
• 1:01:40
  Speaker 19: me tell you a story.
• 1:01:41
  Speaker 4: Okay, let me tell you a story. See that back there?
• 1:01:44
  Speaker 4: That's a suitcase.
• 1:01:45
  Speaker 19: On Monday, I drove three and a half hours to
• 1:01:48
  Speaker 19: go visit a guy. Because he's in the army and
• 1:01:51
  Speaker 19: he just never could come visit me.
• 1:01:53
  Speaker 5: Whatever.
• 1:01:54
  Speaker 19: So I drive out there to go spend time with
• 1:01:57
  Speaker 19: him and be close that I can see him.
• 1:02:00
  Speaker 4: Every day for five days. I come over. He makes
• 1:02:04
  Speaker 4: me dinner the first night.
• 1:02:05
  Speaker 19: Burnt. The dinner to a crisp. Nothing against it. Most
• 1:02:09
  Speaker 19: men can't cook. Not surprised.
• 1:02:11
  Speaker 4: So he's like, you know what? I'm going to make
• 1:02:13
  Speaker 4: dinner tomorrow night.
• 1:02:14
  Speaker 5: So tomorrow, the next day, I just.
• 1:02:17
  Speaker 4: Go drive around and I go grocery shopping and I
• 1:02:19
  Speaker 4: get like.
• 1:02:19
  Speaker 19: $ 30 worth of groceries to make like a chicken garlic
• 1:02:23
  Speaker 19: parm dinner.
• 1:02:25
  Speaker 4: I go back to his place for two hours.
• 1:02:27
  Speaker 5: I am cooking so that the house smells good when
• 1:02:30
  Speaker 5: he gets home and that he has something hot and
• 1:02:32
  Speaker 5: ready to eat.
• 1:02:34
  Speaker 19: So I make this dinner. I prepare it in the oven.
• 1:02:37
  Speaker 19: He doesn't want to eat when he gets home right away,
• 1:02:40
  Speaker 19: which like, whatever. He's like, I'm going to go work out.
• 1:02:42
  Speaker 4: And then I'm going to eat.
• 1:02:42
  Speaker 3: And I was like, cool.
• 1:02:43
  Speaker 19: So he goes and works out. He comes out and
• 1:02:46
  Speaker 19: we eat dinner. Does not say thank you for cooking
• 1:02:49
  Speaker 19: the food. He does not say thank you for buying
• 1:02:51
  Speaker 19: the food. And he doesn't even really compliment. He was
• 1:02:54
  Speaker 19: just like, at the end, it was like, oh, it
• 1:02:56
  Speaker 19: was good. That was it. And so then I do
• 1:02:58
  Speaker 19: the dishes and I clean up. He kind of piddles
• 1:03:01
  Speaker 19: in there a little bit and then like dries and
• 1:03:02
  Speaker 19: puts away the dishes and And I was like, okay, well,
• 1:03:05
  Speaker 19: maybe he had a long day at work.
• 1:03:06
  Speaker 3: You know what?
• 1:03:07
  Speaker 14: I have no idea.
• 1:03:08
  Speaker 4: He's in the army. Who knows? Who knows what kind
• 1:03:09
  Speaker 4: of day he had?
• 1:03:10
  Speaker 19: So I was like, okay, I'll try again tomorrow.
• 1:03:12
  Speaker 4: So the next day I go out and I get
• 1:03:14
  Speaker 4: more groceries.
• 1:03:15
  Speaker 3: I buy the groceries.
• 1:03:15
  Speaker 4: I go back and I make dinner. He comes home
• 1:03:18
  Speaker 4: a little early and he goes straight to his bedroom, straight.
• 1:03:22
  Speaker 20: To his bedroom.
• 1:03:22
  Speaker 4: And I'm like, okay.
• 1:03:25
  Speaker 19: So I wait an hour and a half and I'm like, well,
• 1:03:28
  Speaker 19: he's still not out here. So I'm going to make
• 1:03:30
  Speaker 19: dinner and eat because I'm hungry. And it's like 6, 6.30
• 1:03:33
  Speaker 19: at the time.
• 1:03:34
  Speaker 14: And I was like, okay, I'm making dinner.
• 1:03:35
  Speaker 4: So I make a quesadilla for me.
• 1:03:37
  Speaker 19: I make extra and put it in the microwave for him.
• 1:03:39
  Speaker 4: He comes out like 45 minutes later. After I finish eating,
• 1:03:42
  Speaker 4: I already wash my dish and put it away. And
• 1:03:44
  Speaker 4: I'm just sitting on the couch talking.
• 1:03:46
  Speaker 3: To a friend.
• 1:03:47
  Speaker 4: He literally, I was like, hey, dinner, I made dinner.
• 1:03:50
  Speaker 4: It's in the microwave for you. And he was like, cool.
• 1:03:52
  Speaker 4: Goes in, grabs it.
• 1:03:53
  Speaker 19: Literally walks right back to his bedroom. Right back to
• 1:03:56
  Speaker 19: his bedroom and sits in there and eats the quesadillas
• 1:03:58
  Speaker 19: that I made by himself. And I know I'm really
• 1:04:00
  Speaker 19: worked up about it because right now it is 1030
• 1:04:04
  Speaker 19: at night and I am going home a day early.
• 1:04:08
  Speaker 4: Because I'm not, I'm not doing this. I'm going to
• 1:04:10
  Speaker 4: be home at 1am. I don't care.
• 1:04:12
  Speaker 19: Um, so he comes back out and I was like,
• 1:04:15
  Speaker 19: so what'd you think of it? And he was like,
• 1:04:17
  Speaker 19: it was, it was good. Tasted like an actual quesadilla.
• 1:04:20
  Speaker 19: It tasted like an actual quesadilla because it was an
• 1:04:23
  Speaker 19: actual quesadilla.
• 1:04:24
  Speaker 3: Okay.
• 1:04:24
  Speaker 4: It was an actual quesadilla. I was like, okay, whatever.
• 1:04:28
  Speaker 3: It's fine.
• 1:04:28
  Speaker 19: I'm not making dinner tomorrow night. I'm just not doing it.
• 1:04:31
  Speaker 19: I'm not spending more money on this ungrateful man. So
• 1:04:35
  Speaker 19: he comes back from work, and he's like, hey, what
• 1:04:39
  Speaker 19: you been doing?
• 1:04:39
  Speaker 4: You just been chilling today? I'm like, yep, just been chilling,
• 1:04:43
  Speaker 4: calling people back home. They're checking in on me, whatever.
• 1:04:45
  Speaker 4: And he was like, okay, I didn't know if you
• 1:04:47
  Speaker 4: made dinner or anything. I'm like.
• 1:04:49
  Speaker 3: I made dinner.
• 1:04:50
  Speaker 4: No, no, I did not.
• 1:04:52
  Speaker 19: Um, so he's, I was like, do you want to
• 1:04:54
  Speaker 19: watch a movie tonight? And he was like, well, I
• 1:04:56
  Speaker 19: think I'm going to just work out and make some dinner.
• 1:04:57
  Speaker 4: And I was like, okay, cool. So he works out,
• 1:05:01
  Speaker 4: he burns something in the kitchen for dinner.
• 1:05:02
  Speaker 19: And I'm literally like waiting to see if he's done
• 1:05:08
  Speaker 19: and we can watch a movie.
• 1:05:09
  Speaker 4: Goes back to his bedroom like a troll, like a hermit.
• 1:05:12
  Speaker 4: And so I go and I sit on the couch
• 1:05:14
  Speaker 4: and I'm.
• 1:05:14
  Speaker 5: Like, you know what?
• 1:05:15
  Speaker 4: I'm going to watch a movie.
• 1:05:16
  Speaker 19: So I walk out there to go sit on the
• 1:05:18
  Speaker 19: couch and select a movie. And I hear this man
• 1:05:21
  Speaker 19: in his bedroom talking to another woman. And I literally
• 1:05:27
  Speaker 19: have the receipts on this, but he's literally... in his bedroom,
• 1:05:32
  Speaker 19: playing a game, talking to another woman. And like the
• 1:05:35
  Speaker 19: first night that I came over, he was like, I'm
• 1:05:36
  Speaker 19: going to go back and play my game. And I'm like,
• 1:05:38
  Speaker 19: I wonder if he's just been talking to this chick
• 1:05:40
  Speaker 19: the whole time. So I was like, I was on the.
• 1:05:43
  Speaker 3: Phone with my friend.
• 1:05:43
  Speaker 4: I said, you know what? I'm leaving. I'm going to
• 1:05:46
  Speaker 4: just make up some crappy story and I'm leaving. So
• 1:05:49
  Speaker 4: I packed up all my stuff. I put it by
• 1:05:50
  Speaker 4: the door and I knocked on his door and I
• 1:05:53
  Speaker 4: hear him.
• 1:05:54
  Speaker 19: Oh, hold on a second. Somebody's knocking at my door.
• 1:05:56
  Speaker 19: I'm going to hang up and I'll call you back.
• 1:05:59
  Speaker 19: I'm like, somebody, that somebody is me, that person that
• 1:06:01
  Speaker 19: drove three and a half hours and took time off
• 1:06:04
  Speaker 19: work where she could have been earning money to spend
• 1:06:05
  Speaker 19: time with you. Yeah, that's that someone. So he opens
• 1:06:10
  Speaker 19: the door and I'm like, hey, my mom's having a
• 1:06:11
  Speaker 19: medical emergency.
• 1:06:12
  Speaker 4: She's in the ER.
• 1:06:13
  Speaker 3: I got to go home.
• 1:06:14
  Speaker 4: Total lie. Super fabricated.
• 1:06:16
  Speaker 19: I mean, I really should have just told him straight
• 1:06:18
  Speaker 19: up that I think you're boring. I think you have
• 1:06:20
  Speaker 19: no manners. And why are you talking to another girl
• 1:06:24
  Speaker 19: in your bedroom? Like, well, what is sitting on the couch?
• 1:06:28
  Speaker 19: literally in your own home. So yeah, I am currently
• 1:06:33
  Speaker 19: driving home. I am set to arrive at around 1.30 a.m.
• 1:06:37
  Speaker 19: back in Mississippi. I'm so sick of dating. I'm so
• 1:06:41
  Speaker 19: sick of dating because I don't know what it is
• 1:06:43
  Speaker 19: about me, but I just attract the douchiest men, like
• 1:06:47
  Speaker 19: the douchiest men. And this is terrible. At least I
• 1:06:53
  Speaker 19: have enough self-worth, I think, to leave. I'm not going
• 1:06:56
  Speaker 19: to stick around, but like, at the same time, why
• 1:06:59
  Speaker 19: does this keep.
• 1:07:00
  Speaker 4: Happening, what did I do, what did I do wrong, I.
• 1:07:04
  Speaker 19: Was never messy, I cleaned his house while he was
• 1:07:06
  Speaker 19: at work, I swept the floors, I cleaned the kitchen,
• 1:07:08
  Speaker 19: I cleaned the plastic he burnt off his stove the
• 1:07:10
  Speaker 19: night before, um, I cleaned his bathroom, like, what am
• 1:07:15
  Speaker 19: I doing wrong, and I'm like, I'm not doing, I
• 1:07:17
  Speaker 19: might be doing too much, honestly, I might be doing
• 1:07:19
  Speaker 19: too much, um, it's not that I'm not doing enough, uh,
• 1:07:22
  Speaker 19: but like, I'm a traditional kind of gal, like, you
• 1:07:25
  Speaker 19: open the door for me, you carry my bags, like,
• 1:07:29
  Speaker 19: you say thank you if I cook for you, um,
• 1:07:32
  Speaker 19: you wanna, you should wanna spend time with me, otherwise
• 1:07:34
  Speaker 19: I don't, I don't know why we're even considering dating, like,
• 1:07:37
  Speaker 19: this is just, it's bad, it's bad.
• 1:07:40
  Speaker 4: Anyways, um, that's my rant, so if you think your.
• 1:07:42
  Speaker 19: Dating life sucks, mine's probably worse, um, it's not that bad,
• 1:07:49
  Speaker 19: because I always get out of it, but, like, This
• 1:07:51
  Speaker 19: keeps happening. This keeps happening. And this one is the
• 1:07:53
  Speaker 19: worst because I actually drove here. He would not even
• 1:07:56
  Speaker 19: come to visit me. He would not come to visit
• 1:07:58
  Speaker 19: me first. And I drove here. I spent my gas.
• 1:08:02
  Speaker 19: I spent my money on groceries. I spent my time
• 1:08:03
  Speaker 19: cooking and cleaning. And yeah, this is what it has
• 1:08:07
  Speaker 19: amounted to. So I blocked him. So he's hopefully not
• 1:08:10
  Speaker 19: going to see this video.
• 1:08:11
  Speaker 3: But if he does.
• 1:08:13
  Speaker 4: Dude, you got to step up your game because you suck.
• 1:08:15
  Speaker 4: You are boring. We're so boring. And you need some
• 1:08:19
  Speaker 4: serious manners.
• 1:08:20
  Speaker 19: And I don't think you're ready to date because I
• 1:08:22
  Speaker 19: don't think you know how to treat a woman or
• 1:08:24
  Speaker 19: you're just a player and a cheater. So, yeah, I'm
• 1:08:27
  Speaker 19: disgusted with dating. So the next guy that takes me
• 1:08:30
  Speaker 19: on a date better impress me or... I might be
• 1:08:34
  Speaker 19: an old hag that lives by herself with her farm animal.
• 1:08:39
  Speaker 3: I'm just like, oh!
• 1:08:41
  Speaker 19: I was literally shaking when I knocked on his door
• 1:08:43
  Speaker 19: and I was picking up my bag sleeve because I was, like,
• 1:08:44
  Speaker 19: so upset.
• 1:08:45
  Speaker 4: I was like, this is bad.
• 1:08:47
  Speaker 3: This is bad.
• 1:08:47
  Speaker 5: So, yeah.
• 1:08:49
  Speaker 4: That is my fun story. I wish it was fake,
• 1:08:52
  Speaker 4: but I don't even.
• 1:08:53
  Speaker 19: Think I have the creative juices to create something like
• 1:08:57
  Speaker 19: that in my head.
• 1:08:58
  Speaker 4: Um, but yeah, dating sucks. I almost got murdered today
• 1:09:03
  Speaker 4: and this is what happened.
• 1:09:05
  Speaker 3: Imagine this guy at Bumble.
• 1:09:06
  Speaker 21: Um, we talk, like exchange a few messages back and
• 1:09:10
  Speaker 21: forth and then we switch to WhatsApp.
• 1:09:12
  Speaker 3: We decide to go on a date. So he plans
• 1:09:15
  Speaker 3: one for today.
• 1:09:16
  Speaker 21: When I asked him to send me what bar we're
• 1:09:18
  Speaker 21: going to, he, um, sent me a postcode.
• 1:09:21
  Speaker 4: And he was like, meet here.
• 1:09:22
  Speaker 21: So I Googled the postcode, and I put on maps,
• 1:09:25
  Speaker 21: and it was, like, flat.
• 1:09:28
  Speaker 3: There was, like, a residential street, so I was like,
• 1:09:30
  Speaker 3: what is this? I don't want to meet here. Like,
• 1:09:31
  Speaker 3: can we just meet at the bar?
• 1:09:32
  Speaker 5: And then he was like, no, just meet me here.
• 1:09:34
  Speaker 3: We can walk together. And I was like, can I
• 1:09:37
  Speaker 3: just please meet you at the bar? And, again, he
• 1:09:40
  Speaker 3: was just like, just meet me here. Obviously, I was
• 1:09:42
  Speaker 3: still going to go to the bar. He eventually told
• 1:09:44
  Speaker 3: me the bar's name.
• 1:09:45
  Speaker 21: And I am coming, well, I was supposed to be
• 1:09:48
  Speaker 21: in the office today, so I would have been coming
• 1:09:49
  Speaker 21: from wherever my office is. And he chose a place
• 1:09:55
  Speaker 21: that's like an hour away by two.
• 1:09:58
  Speaker 4: And it's a Tuesday, so I didn't really want to
• 1:10:01
  Speaker 4: do that.
• 1:10:01
  Speaker 3: I was like, that's too far.
• 1:10:02
  Speaker 21: I don't want to be back late and then end
• 1:10:04
  Speaker 21: up having to take like a really expensive Uber back
• 1:10:06
  Speaker 21: to my house.
• 1:10:08
  Speaker 4: And he was like, it's not far at all.
• 1:10:09
  Speaker 21: Like just walk across the bridge and then you can
• 1:10:12
  Speaker 21: tube to one stop, which it wasn't.
• 1:10:15
  Speaker 3: It would still take me about an hour to get there.
• 1:10:17
  Speaker 21: So I was like, no, can we just meet somewhere
• 1:10:19
  Speaker 21: in the middle so that we can both travel?
• 1:10:22
  Speaker 4: It's not just like, I don't know.
• 1:10:24
  Speaker 3: It's because he lived in that area that he wanted
• 1:10:26
  Speaker 3: to do that. I think he chose the bar and
• 1:10:29
  Speaker 3: he was.
• 1:10:29
  Speaker 21: Adamant on not changing location. And he was just like,
• 1:10:35
  Speaker 21: why are you making such a big deal out of it,
• 1:10:37
  Speaker 21: it's not, like, it's not a big deal, um, the
• 1:10:39
  Speaker 21: Uber's not expensive, it's, he, like, looked up the price, um,
• 1:10:42
  Speaker 21: and he was, like, it's only 15 pounds, which it
• 1:10:44
  Speaker 21: would not be, because from the, from my house to that, to, uh, like,
• 1:10:49
  Speaker 21: the bar by Uber would be, like, probably 30 pounds,
• 1:10:52
  Speaker 21: especially midnight, but there was a bit of back and forth,
• 1:10:55
  Speaker 21: and then I was, like, okay, you know what, let's
• 1:10:57
  Speaker 21: just reschedule for a different day, because, This is obviously
• 1:11:01
  Speaker 21: like not working. And now we're just in a bit
• 1:11:02
  Speaker 21: of a fight. So it's just weird and awkward. And
• 1:11:04
  Speaker 21: then maybe we shouldn't even go on a date. I
• 1:11:06
  Speaker 21: didn't say that part.
• 1:11:07
  Speaker 4: But anyways, he was like, well, I can't.
• 1:11:10
  Speaker 21: Now because I've had to put my credit card down
• 1:11:12
  Speaker 21: and they're going to charge me if I cancel the
• 1:11:17
  Speaker 21: reservation because it's less than 24 hours.
• 1:11:18
  Speaker 1: I went onto the website of the bar and I
• 1:11:20
  Speaker 1: clicked reserve table.
• 1:11:23
  Speaker 4: You did not have to put your.
• 1:11:24
  Speaker 3: Credit card down. I could easily fill out, you just
• 1:11:26
  Speaker 3: have to fill out your name and that's it.
• 1:11:29
  Speaker 21: Something told me to reverse image search his pictures, and
• 1:11:33
  Speaker 21: I used this website, it's called facecheck.id.
• 1:11:37
  Speaker 4: And it basically is, like, reverse image search, uh, for
• 1:11:41
  Speaker 4: social profiles and stuff, I put.
• 1:11:42
  Speaker 21: His picture in there, and it comes up with this, like,
• 1:11:47
  Speaker 21: fitness gym model based in Germany, I live in London,
• 1:11:50
  Speaker 21: so I was like, okay, and it had a completely
• 1:11:53
  Speaker 21: different name, uh, and all the pictures that were on
• 1:11:56
  Speaker 21: his profile were taken from that person's profile. So at
• 1:12:00
  Speaker 21: that point, I was like, okay, what the hell? So
• 1:12:04
  Speaker 21: he wanted to meet me at this random postcode, not
• 1:12:07
  Speaker 21: the bar. Random postcode, looked like a residential street. I'm
• 1:12:10
  Speaker 21: assuming it was his place. He was adamant on not
• 1:12:15
  Speaker 21: changing the location. He specifically wanted to meet there, and
• 1:12:19
  Speaker 21: he would not meet me halfway.
• 1:12:20
  Speaker 3: He lied about the credit card, putting it down.
• 1:12:23
  Speaker 21: And then he's not even real, so I don't know
• 1:12:27
  Speaker 21: what the intention was, I don't know what would have
• 1:12:29
  Speaker 21: happened if I went, and it's supposed to.
• 1:12:32
  Speaker 3: Be in a few hours, so I.
• 1:12:35
  Speaker 21: Obviously have not done anything, I screenshotted the profile, the
• 1:12:37
  Speaker 21: fitness model's Instagram, and I sent it to him, but
• 1:12:40
  Speaker 21: now I'm really scared, actually, so I've just, I've reported
• 1:12:44
  Speaker 21: him on Bumble, I'm gonna block him on WhatsApp before
• 1:12:46
  Speaker 21: he even responds, because I'm, I, I, I don't know
• 1:12:49
  Speaker 21: what would have happened, but everything is just, like, alarm bells.
• 1:12:53
  Speaker 21: And there, I'm pretty sure that would have been the
• 1:12:55
  Speaker 21: last day that I was seen alive. So, yeah, that
• 1:12:58
  Speaker 21: is how I almost got killed.
• 1:13:01
  Speaker 10: I just had the worst, most awkward, terrible Tinder date
• 1:13:06
  Speaker 10: of my life. And I just need to, like, talk
• 1:13:10
  Speaker 10: about it real quick because this is insane.
• 1:13:13
  Speaker 4: So....
• 1:13:16
  Speaker 5: I started talking to this guy literally today.
• 1:13:18
  Speaker 10: We matched on Tinder today and he was messaging me
• 1:13:22
  Speaker 10: and like was pretty adamant. Like I didn't answer him
• 1:13:25
  Speaker 10: at first and then like he messaged me again. So
• 1:13:27
  Speaker 10: I was like, whatever, like I'll give him a chance.
• 1:13:30
  Speaker 4: Like, sure.
• 1:13:31
  Speaker 10: So he's messaging me and basically is like, oh, like
• 1:13:37
  Speaker 10: add me on Snapchat.
• 1:13:39
  Speaker 3: I deleted my Snapchat.
• 1:13:41
  Speaker 10: And my Instagram and um, long story, but I basically was, like, oh,
• 1:13:46
  Speaker 10: I don't have Snapchat, like, you can text me, so
• 1:13:49
  Speaker 10: I gave him my number, and he starts texting me,
• 1:13:51
  Speaker 10: and basically, off the bat, he was, like, I really
• 1:13:54
  Speaker 10: want to see you, like, what are you doing later, like,
• 1:13:56
  Speaker 10: let's go to the movies, let's go on a date, and, like,
• 1:14:00
  Speaker 10: he was, he seemed so nice, he was so cute
• 1:14:04
  Speaker 10: on his Tinder bio, said he was in finance, he's
• 1:14:08
  Speaker 10: six feet, he had a real person like I was
• 1:14:12
  Speaker 10: like okay like sure let's go on a date and
• 1:14:18
  Speaker 10: he sent me like the movie and everything and basically
• 1:14:22
  Speaker 10: I was like yeah like I'm down like let's do
• 1:14:26
  Speaker 10: it and he was like awesome like bought the tickets
• 1:14:29
  Speaker 10: like I'll see you tonight blah blah and then we're
• 1:14:32
  Speaker 10: planning out like when we wanted to meet if we
• 1:14:34
  Speaker 10: wanted to meet like.
• 1:14:35
  Speaker 3: Prior all this stuff we talked like all day basically and.
• 1:14:40
  Speaker 10: And so it finally came to like before we were
• 1:14:44
  Speaker 10: going and he tells me that his car is in
• 1:14:48
  Speaker 10: the shop and he has to uber and it'd be
• 1:14:52
  Speaker 10: really nice if i wanted to pick him up instant
• 1:14:57
  Speaker 10: fucking red flag i should have just ran then don't
• 1:15:02
  Speaker 10: know why.
• 1:15:02
  Speaker 3: I didn't i was already in deep enough i was
• 1:15:04
  Speaker 3: just like.
• 1:15:05
  Speaker 10: Um yeah no like we should just meet there like
• 1:15:09
  Speaker 10: just uber so he's like fine with that whatever so
• 1:15:13
  Speaker 10: he ubers there i'm driving and he gets there like
• 1:15:15
  Speaker 10: a few minutes before me so i call him when
• 1:15:18
  Speaker 10: i pull in i'm like hey i just got here
• 1:15:20
  Speaker 10: we got there like an hour early because we wanted
• 1:15:22
  Speaker 10: to meet up and like talk and stuff before i
• 1:15:24
  Speaker 10: wanted to like get to know him because when you're
• 1:15:26
  Speaker 10: at a movie you can't talk and get to know
• 1:15:28
  Speaker 10: the person i'm so i'm so stupid for all of
• 1:15:33
  Speaker 10: this i in hindsight like i see this now anyway
• 1:15:36
  Speaker 10: I call him I'm like oh like do you want
• 1:15:38
  Speaker 10: to like come in my car and like we can
• 1:15:40
  Speaker 10: like hang out in here and like talk before the
• 1:15:42
  Speaker 10: movie or whatever and he's like yeah sure like I'll
• 1:15:44
  Speaker 10: come out just park wherever.
• 1:15:46
  Speaker 3: Thank god I park right literally right front.
• 1:15:49
  Speaker 10: And center like under the lights there's people outside there's
• 1:15:52
  Speaker 10: people in their cars like so I'm parked right front
• 1:15:56
  Speaker 10: and center he gets in my car and like all
• 1:16:00
  Speaker 10: is like fine and we're talking whatever and And I basically.
• 1:16:05
  Speaker 3: Like had to tell him.
• 1:16:06
  Speaker 10: So before I left my house, I realized I had
• 1:16:09
  Speaker 10: a cold sore on my lip, whatever. Like a lot
• 1:16:13
  Speaker 10: of people get them. I've gotten them ever since I
• 1:16:14
  Speaker 10: was a little kid. I don't know, but I know
• 1:16:17
  Speaker 10: they're contagious and I know it's basically herpes or whatever.
• 1:16:20
  Speaker 10: So I had to tell him. It was like the
• 1:16:23
  Speaker 10: worst thing to have to tell someone on a first date.
• 1:16:25
  Speaker 3: And I was so nervous. I was so scared.
• 1:16:27
  Speaker 10: And I'm like, if you want to leave now, like
• 1:16:29
  Speaker 10: if you're all set, like I get it. Like, don't worry.
• 1:16:33
  Speaker 10: I was like, I swear I don't have any other diseases. Like,
• 1:16:36
  Speaker 10: this is it.
• 1:16:36
  Speaker 3: I just, I have a cold sore and I have
• 1:16:38
  Speaker 3: to tell you. Cause like, yeah.
• 1:16:40
  Speaker 10: Like if we kiss, you know, like obviously we can't.
• 1:16:44
  Speaker 10: And he's like laughing. He's like, you're so cute. He's like, no, like,
• 1:16:47
  Speaker 10: I don't care. I actually just got over one myself.
• 1:16:49
  Speaker 5: Like, it's fine.
• 1:16:50
  Speaker 3: Like, I want to kiss you.
• 1:16:51
  Speaker 10: And I was like, oh, like, okay. I was like,
• 1:16:54
  Speaker 10: your choice, you know? And he's like, can I kiss you?
• 1:16:56
  Speaker 10: And I was like, sure.
• 1:16:57
  Speaker 3: I knew we literally were only talking for like five minutes,
• 1:17:01
  Speaker 3: not even.
• 1:17:02
  Speaker 10: Anyways, starts kissing me, keeps kissing me and like grabs
• 1:17:07
  Speaker 10: my leg and I'm like, oh God, like, okay, this is,
• 1:17:09
  Speaker 10: this is not like.
• 1:17:11
  Speaker 3: Not what I imagined.
• 1:17:13
  Speaker 10: So I kind of pull away. I started a different conversation.
• 1:17:17
  Speaker 10: We started talking. He's just acting like really weird. Like
• 1:17:21
  Speaker 10: he was like kind of annoyed that I like pulled
• 1:17:23
  Speaker 10: out of the kiss and And so I asked him like, Oh,
• 1:17:26
  Speaker 10: like what happened to your car? Like, why, why is
• 1:17:29
  Speaker 10: it in the shop? And he starts being so weird
• 1:17:33
  Speaker 10: and like moving around. He's like, yeah, like actually it's
• 1:17:37
  Speaker 10: really embarrassing. I lost my license on the 4th of July.
• 1:17:40
  Speaker 10: I got a DUI. Well, I'm like, Oh, like in
• 1:17:44
  Speaker 10: my head, I'm like, okay, this guy already lied to
• 1:17:46
  Speaker 10: me about something like this. Like, this is just that
• 1:17:50
  Speaker 10: I already have awful vibes about this. Um, Anyways, we
• 1:17:55
  Speaker 10: get over that and he just keeps like wanting to
• 1:17:58
  Speaker 10: make out and like kiss. And I'm like, like, I
• 1:18:01
  Speaker 10: just feel like I have to, like, it was just,
• 1:18:03
  Speaker 10: it was really awkward situation. And then he starts grabbing
• 1:18:06
  Speaker 10: my hand and putting it, I'm sure you can guess where.
• 1:18:11
  Speaker 10: And I basically had to pull away and like tell him, like,
• 1:18:13
  Speaker 10: I just want to like get this out of the
• 1:18:15
  Speaker 10: way now. I'm not, I'm not trying to do all that,
• 1:18:18
  Speaker 10: you know, like no. And his whole demeanor changed. He
• 1:18:23
  Speaker 10: completely changes. And he's basically like, Basically tells me, like,
• 1:18:27
  Speaker 10: that's all he wanted. Like, that's why he came tonight.
• 1:18:30
  Speaker 10: That's why he did all this. Because he was expecting that.
• 1:18:35
  Speaker 10: And I, like, had to tell him no.
• 1:18:37
  Speaker 3: Like, sorry.
• 1:18:39
  Speaker 10: And before this, too, he was telling me that I
• 1:18:41
  Speaker 10: should move parking spots or whatever.
• 1:18:43
  Speaker 3: And I wouldn't.
• 1:18:45
  Speaker 5: And even after me telling him that I'm not I'm.
• 1:18:47
  Speaker 10: Not doing all that, he still kept trying to get
• 1:18:50
  Speaker 10: me to move my car to like the back of
• 1:18:51
  Speaker 10: the theater where it's like completely dark and he's just
• 1:18:55
  Speaker 10: acting really off and really weird. And instantly I'm just
• 1:19:01
  Speaker 10: getting like awful vibes. Like I'm just like, and then
• 1:19:04
  Speaker 10: he starts like gaslighting me, telling me that I let
• 1:19:06
  Speaker 10: him on.
• 1:19:08
  Speaker 19: Huh?
• 1:19:08
  Speaker 5: Like, I'm so sorry for agreeing to go to the
• 1:19:11
  Speaker 5: movies with you and.
• 1:19:12
  Speaker 3: I wouldn't pick you up.
• 1:19:13
  Speaker 10: Like, I just, I didn't even argue with him because
• 1:19:17
  Speaker 10: I'm like, if I get this man angry, like, who
• 1:19:21
  Speaker 10: knows what's.
• 1:19:22
  Speaker 3: Going to happen?
• 1:19:22
  Speaker 10: I mean, thank God I'm right in front of the
• 1:19:24
  Speaker 10: theater under the lights and like, there's people around.
• 1:19:26
  Speaker 3: So, but he was like making jokes too. Cause like,
• 1:19:30
  Speaker 3: I had a nice car.
• 1:19:31
  Speaker 10: He's like, cause I kept saying like, oh, like, I
• 1:19:33
  Speaker 10: hope you don't kill me.
• 1:19:34
  Speaker 4: Like, I hope you're not a murderer.
• 1:19:35
  Speaker 3: And he's like, yeah, I could like literally kill you
• 1:19:37
  Speaker 3: right now. And like, take your car.
• 1:19:38
  Speaker 10: Like you have a nice car, blah, blah. And like,
• 1:19:40
  Speaker 10: I don't know, maybe it was just jokes. Like, cause
• 1:19:44
  Speaker 10: I was joking about it, but felt really off to me.
• 1:19:48
  Speaker 10: And you could tell he was like really pissed off
• 1:19:51
  Speaker 10: that I, and he kept trying to get me to like,
• 1:19:55
  Speaker 10: want to do stuff with him. And like, go he
• 1:19:58
  Speaker 10: was like oh like maybe we can still go see
• 1:20:00
  Speaker 10: the movie mind you i did check before i went
• 1:20:03
  Speaker 10: and we would have been the only two people in
• 1:20:06
  Speaker 10: that movie.
• 1:20:08
  Speaker 3: Like i just i had awful vibes i was like
• 1:20:10
  Speaker 3: no no no no no i'm like i don't want.
• 1:20:12
  Speaker 10: To waste your time like your time is valuable and
• 1:20:15
  Speaker 10: he's like he's like sulking he's like my time's not
• 1:20:18
  Speaker 10: valuable like i'm like okay you clearly are a psychopath
• 1:20:22
  Speaker 10: and you clearly have no self-esteem.
• 1:20:24
  Speaker 3: And you probably will just kill me like i like.
• 1:20:31
  Speaker 4: I don't even know if I can post this because.
• 1:20:34
  Speaker 3: I can't say all this stuff. Whatever, I'm posting it. But, yeah.
• 1:20:41
  Speaker 10: So, basically, I started crying and was just trying to
• 1:20:45
  Speaker 10: make him feel as bad as possible because I'm like,
• 1:20:46
  Speaker 10: I don't want this guy to kill me right now. Like,
• 1:20:49
  Speaker 10: he was being really weird. Like, there's so much I
• 1:20:51
  Speaker 10: could explain.
• 1:20:53
  Speaker 3: But I just, I.
• 1:20:54
  Speaker 10: Had so many red flags. Thank God I had my, like,
• 1:20:57
  Speaker 10: smarts about me and.
• 1:21:01
  Speaker 3: Whatever like this could have ended so much worse.
• 1:21:03
  Speaker 8: He basically was like oh like will you at least
• 1:21:07
  Speaker 8: wait for me like my uber to get here and
• 1:21:10
  Speaker 8: i was like yeah like sure like i'm not gonna
• 1:21:12
  Speaker 8: like put you up anymore like his uber.
• 1:21:17
  Speaker 3: Got there and like whatever he's gone i'm.
• 1:21:19
  Speaker 10: Low-key kind of scared i'm like is there a tracker
• 1:21:21
  Speaker 10: in my car is there something i don't know i'm
• 1:21:25
  Speaker 10: just gonna pray all is fine i'm okay but if
• 1:21:27
  Speaker 10: i wake up dead tomorrow y'all know what happened um but.
• 1:21:33
  Speaker 3: I shouldn't even joke like.
• 1:21:34
  Speaker 10: That but anyway i'm never going on another date again
• 1:21:39
  Speaker 10: and that's that's just that sorry he ruined it for everyone.
• 1:21:42
  Speaker 5: Okay good night bye i'm happy to be alive if.
• 1:21:45
  Speaker 17: You're not already scared of dating apps you might be
• 1:21:48
  Speaker 17: after today's video we're going to be talking about grace
• 1:21:50
  Speaker 17: this was in new zealand in 2018 this was actually
• 1:21:53
  Speaker 17: a request from one of you guys which is crazy.
• 1:21:55
  Speaker 17: I kind of forget that TikTok is like all over
• 1:21:57
  Speaker 17: the world. And I have people commenting from New Zealand,
• 1:22:00
  Speaker 17: from Australia, from the UK, which is so awesome. There's
• 1:22:04
  Speaker 17: a lot of talk of SA and violent abuse throughout this.
• 1:22:07
  Speaker 17: So if you don't think that that is good for
• 1:22:09
  Speaker 17: your mental health, please don't watch it. I'll try and
• 1:22:11
  Speaker 17: make a video one of these days without the mention
• 1:22:13
  Speaker 17: of that. But unfortunately that is mentioned in so many
• 1:22:16
  Speaker 17: of these cases. So this happens in New Zealand, but
• 1:22:19
  Speaker 17: Grace is actually from England. She lived there with her mom, dad,
• 1:22:22
  Speaker 17: and two brothers. She just graduated in 2018 and decided
• 1:22:26
  Speaker 17: she wanted to go off and travel the world. So
• 1:22:28
  Speaker 17: she went off on a backpacking trip from October all
• 1:22:31
  Speaker 17: the way to June. She started off in Peru, I believe.
• 1:22:35
  Speaker 17: And I'm pretty sure New Zealand was the final stop.
• 1:22:37
  Speaker 17: But she would contact her family every single day, sending
• 1:22:40
  Speaker 17: different pictures of things she was doing, things she was seeing.
• 1:22:42
  Speaker 1: They knew everywhere she was going.
• 1:22:44
  Speaker 17: So November 30th, she landed in, I believe it's pronounced Auckland.
• 1:22:49
  Speaker 17: I'm sorry, guys, this might come as a shock to you.
• 1:22:51
  Speaker 17: English is not my first language. Sometimes I do have
• 1:22:54
  Speaker 17: an accent. Sometimes I don't.
• 1:22:56
  Speaker 1: Don't yell at me. I'm trying my best.
• 1:22:58
  Speaker 17: But she arrives in Auckland and she is staying at
• 1:23:00
  Speaker 17: a hostel. Prior to checking into the hostel, she'd been
• 1:23:03
  Speaker 17: island hopping around New Zealand, but she decides to check
• 1:23:06
  Speaker 17: in the hostel. She's going to chill out for a
• 1:23:07
  Speaker 17: few days, decides to download Tinder. And this is when
• 1:23:10
  Speaker 17: she matches with a guy named Jesse Kempson. The next day,
• 1:23:14
  Speaker 17: Jessie asks Grace.
• 1:23:15
  Speaker 1: If she would want to meet up.
• 1:23:16
  Speaker 17: She isn't super into it at first, but then she
• 1:23:18
  Speaker 17: agrees to go and get drinks at a place called
• 1:23:21
  Speaker 17: Sky City. December 1st is the day of their date.
• 1:23:24
  Speaker 17: So they go out to get dinner and drinks. December
• 1:23:26
  Speaker 17: 2nd was her 22nd birthday. So the morning after, her
• 1:23:29
  Speaker 17: family and her friends, everyone's reaching out to her. Happy
• 1:23:32
  Speaker 17: birthday wishes. She's not responding. The time difference between the U.S.
• 1:23:36
  Speaker 17: and New Zealand is a big one. So they're not
• 1:23:38
  Speaker 17: getting very concerned yet. They figured she's out doing something
• 1:23:41
  Speaker 17: fun and she'll respond later. However, December 3rd comes and
• 1:23:44
  Speaker 17: there's still silence. December 4th is when her family officially
• 1:23:47
  Speaker 17: reported her as missing to the city of Auckland.
• 1:23:50
  Speaker 1: So Grace is now officially missing.
• 1:23:51
  Speaker 17: December 7th, her dad flies out to New Zealand and
• 1:23:54
  Speaker 17: he starts helping the police with the investigation.
• 1:23:56
  Speaker 4: They're looking at the cameras from her hostel.
• 1:23:58
  Speaker 17: They see that she left the night of December 1st
• 1:24:01
  Speaker 17: to go out on her date, but she never returned.
• 1:24:03
  Speaker 17: So they start looking into her social media and they
• 1:24:05
  Speaker 17: see that the night she went missing, she posted a selfie.
• 1:24:08
  Speaker 17: A guy commented and said, beautiful, very radiant, which... weird
• 1:24:12
  Speaker 17: timing because then she was never seen again but they
• 1:24:15
  Speaker 17: see his name it's jesse they decide oh he's probably
• 1:24:18
  Speaker 17: friends with hers probably some some guy that she met
• 1:24:20
  Speaker 17: here let's call him up and see if he knows
• 1:24:22
  Speaker 17: anything they leave a voicemail for jesse jesse calls back
• 1:24:25
  Speaker 17: the next day says that he does know her that
• 1:24:27
  Speaker 17: they did go on a date and later that day
• 1:24:28
  Speaker 17: he comes in for questioning he's very helpful very respectful
• 1:24:32
  Speaker 17: doesn't seem panicked at all just sits there and is
• 1:24:34
  Speaker 17: happy to help police and answer any questions they have.
• 1:24:37
  Speaker 17: He's being questioned, he tells police they matched on Tinder,
• 1:24:39
  Speaker 17: they went out on a date, went out to this
• 1:24:41
  Speaker 17: burger place, and he says that he specifically chose that
• 1:24:43
  Speaker 17: place because it's a very public area, and he didn't
• 1:24:46
  Speaker 17: know if he was gonna get catfished or not. Which,
• 1:24:49
  Speaker 17: when you know what he did, and when you know
• 1:24:51
  Speaker 17: what information he was holding and all the things that
• 1:24:54
  Speaker 17: he knew that he did while he's sitting there saying
• 1:24:57
  Speaker 17: that he didn't wanna.
• 1:24:57
  Speaker 3: Get catfished, is gross.
• 1:25:00
  Speaker 17: Anyway, the date was awesome, they were having a lot
• 1:25:02
  Speaker 17: of fun, Grace actually texted one of her friends while
• 1:25:05
  Speaker 17: she was on the date and said, I clicked with
• 1:25:07
  Speaker 17: him so well. And she's very excited about this guy, obviously.
• 1:25:10
  Speaker 17: And the friend texts her back. Grace says, I'll tell
• 1:25:13
  Speaker 17: you how it goes tomorrow. Jesse then tells the police
• 1:25:15
  Speaker 17: that around 9.40 p.m., the date ended. They ended the
• 1:25:18
  Speaker 17: night with a kiss.
• 1:25:20
  Speaker 4: Nice to meet you.
• 1:25:20
  Speaker 1: A kiss on the cheek, not the mouth. Nice to
• 1:25:23
  Speaker 1: meet you.
• 1:25:23
  Speaker 17: And then he ended up going to a different bar,
• 1:25:25
  Speaker 17: getting drinks by himself, and then went back to the hotel.
• 1:25:28
  Speaker 1: Got drinks at the hotel bar and went to bed.
• 1:25:30
  Speaker 17: He says he woke up around 9, 10 in the
• 1:25:32
  Speaker 17: morning the next day, very hungover. And police are like,
• 1:25:35
  Speaker 17: all right, I mean, we don't have anything to disprove
• 1:25:38
  Speaker 17: his story. So I guess he must be telling the truth.
• 1:25:41
  Speaker 17: So up until then, Jesse had been very honest, very
• 1:25:43
  Speaker 17: put together, nothing suspicious until the police asked him if
• 1:25:47
  Speaker 17: he's willing to take a lie detector test. And he says,
• 1:25:50
  Speaker 17: am I being arrested for something I didn't do?
• 1:25:54
  Speaker 4: Kind of a weird.
• 1:25:55
  Speaker 1: Reaction, Mr.
• 1:25:56
  Speaker 3: Jesse.
• 1:25:57
  Speaker 17: I keep saying hotel because he lived at a hotel
• 1:25:59
  Speaker 17: later on closer to the trial. It comes out that
• 1:26:01
  Speaker 17: he was just a big fat liar about random things
• 1:26:04
  Speaker 17: that didn't matter, about his job, about his siblings' jobs,
• 1:26:07
  Speaker 17: about his family, about where he lived. He apparently also
• 1:26:11
  Speaker 17: was obsessed with dating apps. He would meet up with
• 1:26:14
  Speaker 17: girls all the time and lie to them about everything.
• 1:26:16
  Speaker 17: He even told a girl that he had cancer one time.
• 1:26:19
  Speaker 17: Police get the camera footage from the hotel, more specifically
• 1:26:22
  Speaker 17: from the hotel elevator. Where they see the morning after
• 1:26:25
  Speaker 17: their date, Jesse is in the elevator. He makes eye
• 1:26:28
  Speaker 17: contact with the camera at one point at 8 in
• 1:26:31
  Speaker 17: the morning. But he told police that he was asleep
• 1:26:34
  Speaker 17: and hungover until like 9 or 10.
• 1:26:36
  Speaker 4: He's seen leaving at 8 in the morning and then he.
• 1:26:38
  Speaker 1: Comes back with his suitcase. So the cops are like, hey.
• 1:26:42
  Speaker 17: You said you woke up at 10, but actually you
• 1:26:44
  Speaker 17: left at 8 and came back with a suitcase. Why
• 1:26:46
  Speaker 17: did you do that? And he's like, oh, yeah, I
• 1:26:49
  Speaker 17: guess I must have. And it's like, the suitcase is upstairs,
• 1:26:53
  Speaker 17: so you can go look at it.
• 1:26:54
  Speaker 4: There's nothing in there.
• 1:26:55
  Speaker 1: You can go look at the suitcase and the cops.
• 1:26:58
  Speaker 1: Now they're suspicious, of course.
• 1:27:00
  Speaker 17: They get a search warrant to search his hotel. And
• 1:27:02
  Speaker 17: at first sight, it doesn't look like anything is out
• 1:27:05
  Speaker 17: of the ordinary, but they bring in luminol. When they
• 1:27:09
  Speaker 17: do that with the UV light and they see luminol
• 1:27:11
  Speaker 17: is shining all over the room, there is blood and
• 1:27:14
  Speaker 17: footprints all over. december 8th a saturday almost a week
• 1:27:18
  Speaker 17: after grace being missing jesse is now arrested on the
• 1:27:21
  Speaker 17: suspicion of her murder now he thinks i'm gonna confess
• 1:27:26
  Speaker 17: and wait until you hear his confession so jesse talks
• 1:27:29
  Speaker 17: about their date they went to a burger place got
• 1:27:31
  Speaker 17: dinner and drinks they went to a mexican restaurant got
• 1:27:33
  Speaker 17: more drinks than another bar got more drinks and there's
• 1:27:35
  Speaker 17: camera footage of them at every single place and the
• 1:27:38
  Speaker 17: most eerie thing is that in the camera camera footage
• 1:27:43
  Speaker 17: they look Like they're having the best time. I mean,
• 1:27:45
  Speaker 17: Grace is all over him. They're so touchy feely, hugging, kissing,
• 1:27:49
  Speaker 17: which is also so sad because that meant that Grace
• 1:27:52
  Speaker 17: felt so comfortable with him to be having that much
• 1:27:55
  Speaker 17: fun and just enjoying herself the day before her birthday
• 1:27:58
  Speaker 17: to then find out what actually happened is devastating. They're
• 1:28:01
  Speaker 17: seen going back to Jesse's hotel. He has his arm
• 1:28:04
  Speaker 17: around her. They're holding hands. Like it looks like it's
• 1:28:06
  Speaker 17: going great. He says they get back to his hotel
• 1:28:09
  Speaker 17: room and they start kissing smooching grace brings up 50
• 1:28:13
  Speaker 17: shades of gray she mentions how she's into the type
• 1:28:16
  Speaker 17: of actions that are in 50 shades of gray like
• 1:28:19
  Speaker 17: kinky aggressive control that kind of intimate activity and this
• 1:28:25
  Speaker 17: is again jesse's story they are starting to get more
• 1:28:28
  Speaker 17: and more into it grace asks him to bite her
• 1:28:31
  Speaker 17: and then he asks her to choke her and then
• 1:28:34
  Speaker 17: he says that they finished what they're doing he then
• 1:28:37
  Speaker 17: gets up goes to the shower falls asleep in the
• 1:28:40
  Speaker 17: shower and then comes back into bed and just goes
• 1:28:43
  Speaker 17: to bed which i'll just say this now later in
• 1:28:45
  Speaker 17: the trial it comes out that when he went to
• 1:28:48
  Speaker 17: the shower and fell asleep he actually wasn't sleeping he
• 1:28:51
  Speaker 17: was looking up Adult videos, if.
• 1:28:53
  Speaker 3: You know what I'm saying.
• 1:28:54
  Speaker 1: So Jesse wakes up.
• 1:28:55
  Speaker 17: He says that when he woke up, he thought that
• 1:28:57
  Speaker 17: Grace actually left because he didn't see her, but then
• 1:28:59
  Speaker 17: he sees her body on the floor or with blood.
• 1:29:02
  Speaker 4: Coming out of her nose. He says he was in
• 1:29:04
  Speaker 4: complete shock.
• 1:29:05
  Speaker 17: He actually went to go dial 911, but then realized, oh,
• 1:29:08
  Speaker 17: this probably will look bad on me. So he didn't
• 1:29:11
  Speaker 17: dial 911. And once he realized that she was dead,
• 1:29:13
  Speaker 17: he freaked out. He left at eight in the morning,
• 1:29:16
  Speaker 17: which is when he was seeing it in the elevator,
• 1:29:18
  Speaker 17: which he says he was freaking out. But if you
• 1:29:20
  Speaker 17: see the footage, which you should look up, He looks
• 1:29:23
  Speaker 17: so weirdly calm. So he leaves, he comes back, he's
• 1:29:26
  Speaker 17: rented a car and has bought a suitcase. So he's
• 1:29:30
  Speaker 17: seen going back in the elevator with the suitcase. He
• 1:29:32
  Speaker 17: then tells the police that this is when he stuffed
• 1:29:35
  Speaker 17: Grace's body in the suitcase. And he's talking about this
• 1:29:38
  Speaker 17: as if it was really traumatizing for him. He says,
• 1:29:41
  Speaker 17: while he was shoving her body in the suitcase, he
• 1:29:43
  Speaker 17: kept saying, I'm sorry.
• 1:29:45
  Speaker 3: He didn't say this, but.
• 1:29:46
  Speaker 17: We know this now from the camera footage the police
• 1:29:48
  Speaker 17: ended up finding, but He also went to go buy
• 1:29:51
  Speaker 17: a carpet cleaning machine. He stayed in his hotel room
• 1:29:54
  Speaker 17: until around 6 in the morning, then left with two suitcases.
• 1:29:57
  Speaker 1: He loaded the suitcases to his car.
• 1:29:59
  Speaker 17: He went to go buy a shovel, then went to
• 1:30:02
  Speaker 17: a car cleaning place, cleaned his car, then went to
• 1:30:04
  Speaker 17: a dry cleaning place, got his clothes cleaned, and he
• 1:30:08
  Speaker 17: was gone for around three hours. And then he was
• 1:30:10
  Speaker 17: seen returning with a whole different outfit and no shoes.
• 1:30:14
  Speaker 17: After he did his whole cleanup job, he was seen
• 1:30:16
  Speaker 17: returning with two suitcases, which the They now know that
• 1:30:21
  Speaker 17: in one of the suitcases.
• 1:30:22
  Speaker 1: He left with was Grace's body.
• 1:30:24
  Speaker 17: So how come he's coming back with two suitcases? They
• 1:30:27
  Speaker 17: ask him and he says he actually bought another suitcase.
• 1:30:30
  Speaker 17: So that's why he was offering to the cops.
• 1:30:32
  Speaker 1: Oh yeah, my suitcase is upstairs. You guys can look
• 1:30:34
  Speaker 1: at it because it was a.
• 1:30:35
  Speaker 17: Brand new suitcase because he had already hidden the one
• 1:30:37
  Speaker 17: with Grace's body. After confessing the real story, which who
• 1:30:42
  Speaker 17: knows because this guy is just such a liar.
• 1:30:44
  Speaker 1: He lies about everything.
• 1:30:45
  Speaker 17: But after saying that, he took the police to where
• 1:30:48
  Speaker 17: he hid Grace's body, which was a wooded area around
• 1:30:50
  Speaker 17: 20 miles out. And then he was finally arrested. In
• 1:30:53
  Speaker 17: the trial, Jesse pleads not guilty. He's holding on to
• 1:30:57
  Speaker 17: a story that it was a tragic accident. He's blaming Grace, saying,
• 1:31:01
  Speaker 17: he's the one who wanted it. She asked me to
• 1:31:03
  Speaker 17: bite her. She asked me to choke her.
• 1:31:06
  Speaker 1: It was an accident.
• 1:31:06
  Speaker 17: It's not my fault that the choking led to that.
• 1:31:09
  Speaker 17: And his lawyers are obviously backing him up, saying she
• 1:31:12
  Speaker 17: wanted it.
• 1:31:13
  Speaker 5: It's not his fault.
• 1:31:14
  Speaker 17: Which, let me just say, the autopsy, her official cause
• 1:31:17
  Speaker 17: of death was strangulation. And it takes between 5 to
• 1:31:20
  Speaker 17: 10 minutes of constant strangulation to lead to death.
• 1:31:25
  Speaker 4: It's not an accident.
• 1:31:27
  Speaker 17: It's 5 to 10 minutes of, obviously, a lot of
• 1:31:29
  Speaker 17: pressure to the neck for that to happen.
• 1:31:32
  Speaker 3: That just, no.
• 1:31:34
  Speaker 17: It later also comes out that he took pictures of
• 1:31:36
  Speaker 17: Grace after she was dead.
• 1:31:38
  Speaker 3: He took those pictures of.
• 1:31:39
  Speaker 17: Her and then he started Googling while he was in
• 1:31:42
  Speaker 17: the shower falling asleep. He started Googling where he could
• 1:31:45
  Speaker 17: hide her body. And then he also got on Tinder,
• 1:31:48
  Speaker 17: scheduled another date to go the day after Grace died.
• 1:31:52
  Speaker 17: So as Grace's body is in his hotel room, he
• 1:31:55
  Speaker 17: goes on a date. The girl ends up saying that
• 1:31:57
  Speaker 17: he was really weird, really creepy. And said very uncomfortable,
• 1:32:00
  Speaker 17: weird things about how all day he was looking for
• 1:32:02
  Speaker 17: a suitcase to put his sports gear in, telling her
• 1:32:06
  Speaker 17: that his friends are police and the police are having
• 1:32:09
  Speaker 17: a hard time finding missing people. But that you can't
• 1:32:12
  Speaker 17: find someone's dead body if it's four feet underneath the ground,
• 1:32:17
  Speaker 17: like just weird things like that. On the first date,
• 1:32:20
  Speaker 17: the girl is like, you were literally a weirdo.
• 1:32:23
  Speaker 3: What are you doing?
• 1:32:24
  Speaker 17: And so creepy to think that I'm sure many of
• 1:32:26
  Speaker 17: us have gone on dates and been like, this guy's
• 1:32:28
  Speaker 17: really weird and then not thought about it. But like
• 1:32:30
  Speaker 17: this girl went on a Tinder date, thought this guy's
• 1:32:34
  Speaker 17: really weird.
• 1:32:34
  Speaker 1: I'm not going to talk to him again.
• 1:32:35
  Speaker 17: And then found out that actually during that date, he
• 1:32:38
  Speaker 17: had a dead body of a girl that he took
• 1:32:40
  Speaker 17: on a date in his hotel room.
• 1:32:43
  Speaker 1: Like, just crazy.
• 1:32:44
  Speaker 17: Anyway, he was found guilty and got life in prison
• 1:32:47
  Speaker 17: with a minimum of 17 years. That is the heartbreaking
• 1:32:51
  Speaker 17: story of Grace Malame. So sad, so scary, and also
• 1:32:57
  Speaker 17: just traumatic.
• 1:32:58
  Speaker 3: I don't know.
• 1:33:00
  Speaker 1: Be safe out there, my girls. I love you all.
• 1:33:05
  Speaker 1: Let me know what you think.
• 1:33:06
  Speaker 17: And if you have any other suggestions.
• 1:33:08
  Speaker 1: I have debated telling this story for a few days,
• 1:33:11
  Speaker 1: but all of my friends are literally like, this story
• 1:33:13
  Speaker 1: is so wild. You need to put this on TikTok.
• 1:33:17
  Speaker 1: This also like just happened this past weekend. So I'm
• 1:33:19
  Speaker 1: still processing what exactly happened. This isn't really a dating
• 1:33:24
  Speaker 1: horror story in the sense that something bad happened. It's
• 1:33:26
  Speaker 1: just the weirdest thing that's ever happened to me.
• 1:33:29
  Speaker 4: So a little bit of backstory.
• 1:33:30
  Speaker 1: About three-ish weeks ago, maybe a month ago, This guy
• 1:33:34
  Speaker 1: and I met on Hinge. This guy and I start
• 1:33:36
  Speaker 1: talking and we just initially clicked. Like, I don't know
• 1:33:38
  Speaker 1: what it was, but we just started talking. It was
• 1:33:40
  Speaker 1: definitely like an instant connection, right?
• 1:33:42
  Speaker 4: Okay, so I live in Las Vegas.
• 1:33:43
  Speaker 1: So he tells me that he is going through the
• 1:33:45
  Speaker 1: process of getting into the Firefighter Academy.
• 1:33:47
  Speaker 4: Out here in Vegas.
• 1:33:48
  Speaker 1: And before you say anything, before you say anything, I
• 1:33:51
  Speaker 1: know this was my first red flag. And he actually
• 1:33:53
  Speaker 1: lives in the Los Angeles area, but he's.
• 1:33:55
  Speaker 4: Coming out here. His dad lives out here. That's a
• 1:33:57
  Speaker 4: key part of the story.
• 1:33:58
  Speaker 1: He's coming out here to do like the last final
• 1:34:00
  Speaker 1: things that you do before you go.
• 1:34:01
  Speaker 4: Into the academy.
• 1:34:01
  Speaker 1: And so he is out here this upcoming weekend for
• 1:34:04
  Speaker 1: that reason. And so we agreed to link up and
• 1:34:06
  Speaker 1: meet for a drink on Sunday night. And it was
• 1:34:08
  Speaker 1: one of those first dates that you kind of leave
• 1:34:10
  Speaker 1: and you're like on a high. Like everything was so good.
• 1:34:13
  Speaker 1: We had like an immediate connection, an immediate spark. And sincerely,
• 1:34:16
  Speaker 1: that does not happen to me often. I don't date
• 1:34:18
  Speaker 1: a lot in general. So I leave this first date,
• 1:34:21
  Speaker 1: like I said, on a high. He kisses me goodnight.
• 1:34:23
  Speaker 1: He's a great kisser. I'm like, this is fantastic. So
• 1:34:26
  Speaker 1: he's driving back to LA the next day. And before
• 1:34:28
  Speaker 1: he leaves, he stops by my house. He gives me
• 1:34:30
  Speaker 1: a kiss and a hug goodbye.
• 1:34:31
  Speaker 14: And he's like, I can't wait to see you again.
• 1:34:32
  Speaker 4: Like, I'm so excited about you.
• 1:34:33
  Speaker 1: And for the next two weeks when he was supposed
• 1:34:35
  Speaker 1: to come out here, we are talking, texting on the
• 1:34:38
  Speaker 1: phone every single day, every single night.
• 1:34:41
  Speaker 4: But like a week before he's supposed to come out
• 1:34:42
  Speaker 4: here again and.
• 1:34:43
  Speaker 1: Do like his last exam or whatever it is, I
• 1:34:45
  Speaker 1: asked him, I said, you know, instead of staying at
• 1:34:47
  Speaker 1: your dad's house, like, why don't you just stay with
• 1:34:49
  Speaker 1: me that weekend?
• 1:34:51
  Speaker 5: I know. I know.
• 1:34:52
  Speaker 17: Okay.
• 1:34:52
  Speaker 1: He's like, that would be great. So, you know, we
• 1:34:54
  Speaker 1: can spend a lot more time together, get to know
• 1:34:55
  Speaker 1: each other that whole weekend, whatever. So we're talking about
• 1:34:58
  Speaker 1: him coming out here this weekend and he's very much
• 1:34:59
  Speaker 1: into sports.
• 1:35:00
  Speaker 4: And so he's like, yeah, you know, like I want
• 1:35:01
  Speaker 4: to watch the game this weekend.
• 1:35:02
  Speaker 1: And I said, Well, I don't have a TV. Like
• 1:35:05
  Speaker 1: I still have a TV in my house. And he
• 1:35:06
  Speaker 1: like makes a joke that he's going to have to
• 1:35:08
  Speaker 1: buy a TV in order for him to watch the
• 1:35:10
  Speaker 1: game this weekend.
• 1:35:11
  Speaker 3: And I think it's.
• 1:35:11
  Speaker 4: Like a hee hee ha ha joke. I'm like, oh yeah, whatever.
• 1:35:14
  Speaker 3: Okay, so Saturday comes.
• 1:35:15
  Speaker 4: He's flying out here this time.
• 1:35:16
  Speaker 1: And the flight's only like 45 minutes to an hour
• 1:35:18
  Speaker 1: from Vegas. One hour before he boards his plane, this
• 1:35:22
  Speaker 1: man literally texts me out of nowhere.
• 1:35:24
  Speaker 4: And he's like, okay, I bought the TV from Target.
• 1:35:26
  Speaker 4: It's ready for pickup.
• 1:35:27
  Speaker 5: What?
• 1:35:28
  Speaker 8: Wait!
• 1:35:30
  Speaker 3: Said, what?
• 1:35:31
  Speaker 4: What? He was like, yeah, you know, I told you
• 1:35:33
  Speaker 4: like sports are really important to me.
• 1:35:34
  Speaker 1: It's like how I relax. I watch the games like
• 1:35:36
  Speaker 1: every weekend. And I was like, you bought a TV
• 1:35:39
  Speaker 1: to put in my house.
• 1:35:40
  Speaker 4: So I'm kind of just like, okay.
• 1:35:42
  Speaker 1: Um, all right, I guess. I sent him a picture
• 1:35:45
  Speaker 1: of my living room and I'm like, where are you
• 1:35:47
  Speaker 1: going to put it? You either need to buy a
• 1:35:49
  Speaker 1: TV stand or like mount it on the wall or something.
• 1:35:52
  Speaker 1: And we go back and forth and he's like, I
• 1:35:53
  Speaker 1: don't really want to spend the money on a TV stand.
• 1:35:55
  Speaker 4: Like we're just going to mount it to the wall.
• 1:35:56
  Speaker 4: And I'm like, Okay, so I'm getting a little weirded
• 1:35:59
  Speaker 4: out because that's, you.
• 1:36:00
  Speaker 3: Know, a little odd.
• 1:36:01
  Speaker 4: I don't know how the topic of finances got brought up.
• 1:36:04
  Speaker 1: Oh, I think it had to do with the TBC.
• 1:36:05
  Speaker 1: I just didn't want to spend the money on a TBC.
• 1:36:06
  Speaker 4: So somehow now.
• 1:36:07
  Speaker 1: We're talking about money and how we're going to have like,
• 1:36:09
  Speaker 1: you know, kind of a relaxing, like more chill weekend.
• 1:36:12
  Speaker 4: And then he drops the bomb on me that we're going.
• 1:36:13
  Speaker 1: To split everything this weekend, including dinner tonight.
• 1:36:17
  Speaker 4: We're not going anywhere fancy. Okay, we're going out for.
• 1:36:20
  Speaker 1: All you can eat $ 30 sushi. This man just bought
• 1:36:22
  Speaker 1: a TV to put on my wall. And now he's
• 1:36:23
  Speaker 1: telling me he can't afford to.
• 1:36:24
  Speaker 4: Buy me sushi.
• 1:36:26
  Speaker 1: So now I'm going for being a little bit weirded
• 1:36:28
  Speaker 1: out by the TV to like full on panicking, like
• 1:36:30
  Speaker 1: halt the brakes, hold on. Now he's on the plane,
• 1:36:34
  Speaker 1: on his way here, okay? As this is all going down,
• 1:36:37
  Speaker 1: he says to me, he says, the TV's ready for.
• 1:36:39
  Speaker 4: Pickup if you want to go get it. What the fuck?
• 1:36:42
  Speaker 5: Dude.
• 1:36:44
  Speaker 3: Huh?
• 1:36:44
  Speaker 4: I am panicking, okay? I live with a roommate.
• 1:36:47
  Speaker 1: She's also my best friend and I'm texting her full
• 1:36:49
  Speaker 1: panic mode. I'm like, I don't know what the fuck
• 1:36:51
  Speaker 1: is going on. I don't know what to do. And
• 1:36:53
  Speaker 1: honest to God, God loved my best friend because she
• 1:36:56
  Speaker 1: was my rock and my calm in this situation. She
• 1:36:59
  Speaker 1: was like, don't panic. Like just pick him up and
• 1:37:02
  Speaker 1: let's figure it out when you get back to the house.
• 1:37:04
  Speaker 1: So I picked this man up from the airport, right?
• 1:37:06
  Speaker 1: And obviously like my energy has shifted a little bit
• 1:37:08
  Speaker 1: at this point, but I'm trying to like stay positive in.
• 1:37:10
  Speaker 4: This weird situation.
• 1:37:12
  Speaker 1: He wants to stop by his dad's house before we
• 1:37:14
  Speaker 1: go pick up the TV at Target. Not only was
• 1:37:17
  Speaker 1: I this man's Airbnb this week, and I was also
• 1:37:19
  Speaker 1: apparently his Uber now, and on the way to Target,
• 1:37:21
  Speaker 1: I'm driving there, and.
• 1:37:22
  Speaker 4: I'm just like, help me!
• 1:37:23
  Speaker 1: This happened so fast, I didn't even have time to
• 1:37:26
  Speaker 1: freak out and be like, whoa, hold on! So we
• 1:37:28
  Speaker 1: get back to my house, okay? He meets my roommate,
• 1:37:31
  Speaker 1: unloads a TV. For the next three hours, this man
• 1:37:34
  Speaker 1: is mounting a TV on my wall. His TV on
• 1:37:37
  Speaker 1: my wall.
• 1:37:38
  Speaker 4: Sitting there on the couch drinking wine. watching him mount
• 1:37:41
  Speaker 4: his TV to my wall.
• 1:37:43
  Speaker 11: Oh, hell no, man. What the fuck, man?
• 1:37:45
  Speaker 1: And we did not go get dinner, by the way,
• 1:37:47
  Speaker 1: because I'm not about to split the bill with you, bud.
• 1:37:50
  Speaker 1: We did get Chick-fil-A and he did pay for that. So,
• 1:37:52
  Speaker 1: you know, at this point for my roommate, this is comedy.
• 1:37:55
  Speaker 4: You know what I mean? She's got like a front
• 1:37:57
  Speaker 4: row seat to a shit show and she's enjoying it.
• 1:37:59
  Speaker 4: So after, you know, three hours.
• 1:38:01
  Speaker 1: Goes by and he's mounting the TV on my fucking wall,
• 1:38:03
  Speaker 1: I'm a little wine drunk and now I'm pissed off.
• 1:38:05
  Speaker 4: And I'm kind of like, let's just go to bed.
• 1:38:07
  Speaker 3: Like I'm tired.
• 1:38:08
  Speaker 1: So it is Sunday morning. Okay, bright and early. I'm
• 1:38:11
  Speaker 1: not a morning person. All right, let me just say that.
• 1:38:13
  Speaker 1: Bright and early at 6.30 a.m., this man wakes up
• 1:38:17
  Speaker 1: to come downstairs to watch the game at 6.30 a.m.
• 1:38:21
  Speaker 4: In my house. The whole morning, I am just pissed.
• 1:38:24
  Speaker 4: The whole time, he's on my couch watching the game.
• 1:38:28
  Speaker 4: This man has barely paid attention.
• 1:38:30
  Speaker 1: To me the whole i can't wait to spend time
• 1:38:32
  Speaker 1: with you get to know you has gone out the
• 1:38:34
  Speaker 1: window now it's like 10 a.m okay i'm downstairs in
• 1:38:37
  Speaker 1: the kitchen my roommate's down there he's on the couch
• 1:38:40
  Speaker 1: and i made breakfast for all of us.
• 1:38:41
  Speaker 4: Because i'm.
• 1:38:44
  Speaker 1: A nice person My roommate goes to a workout class,
• 1:38:47
  Speaker 1: all right, after breakfast. And I kind of take this
• 1:38:49
  Speaker 1: as my opportunity to like sit down with him on
• 1:38:51
  Speaker 1: the couch. And I'm like, look, this is not how
• 1:38:53
  Speaker 1: I thought this weekend was going to go. And the
• 1:38:55
  Speaker 1: only thing you seem to be concerned with is this
• 1:38:57
  Speaker 1: TV and sports. You've barely looked at me. I will
• 1:39:01
  Speaker 1: say during this conversation, he was very nice.
• 1:39:02
  Speaker 4: He's very polite. He's like, I'm sorry.
• 1:39:04
  Speaker 1: He's like, I've just been so stressed out lately. And
• 1:39:06
  Speaker 1: like sports is how I wind down. So I just
• 1:39:08
  Speaker 1: wanted to watch it this week, whatever. And so, you know,
• 1:39:10
  Speaker 1: I very kindly and gently was like, you know, you
• 1:39:13
  Speaker 1: got to, Pack up your shit and go to your dad's.
• 1:39:16
  Speaker 4: He's like, I understand.
• 1:39:17
  Speaker 11: All good.
• 1:39:18
  Speaker 1: I took him to his dad's. Dropped him off, you know,
• 1:39:20
  Speaker 1: because I'm the Uber. TV's still on my wall. So,
• 1:39:25
  Speaker 1: he's got to come get that. I've officially given up dating.
• 1:39:28
  Speaker 4: All right? This is my white flag in surrender.
• 1:39:31
  Speaker 3: I'm good. No more.
• 1:39:32
  Speaker 18: A long time ago, I had matched with this guy
• 1:39:34
  Speaker 18: on Tinder. And he seemed really normal and really nice.
• 1:39:36
  Speaker 18: And he asked me on a date after talking for
• 1:39:37
  Speaker 18: a few days. And we had decided that we would
• 1:39:40
  Speaker 18: meet up halfway between our houses. And the way that
• 1:39:42
  Speaker 18: we decided this was that he asked me where I lived.
• 1:39:44
  Speaker 18: And I gave him the general neighborhood that I lived in,
• 1:39:46
  Speaker 18: and he just found a place that was approximately halfway
• 1:39:48
  Speaker 18: between our neighborhoods. And so when I get there, I
• 1:39:50
  Speaker 18: realized when I was mapping it out that it was
• 1:39:52
  Speaker 18: a lot closer to his house than to my house.
• 1:39:54
  Speaker 18: It was like a 40-minute drive for me, and it
• 1:39:55
  Speaker 18: was like 20 minutes for him, if that.
• 1:39:57
  Speaker 4: And so I was giving him shit about it when
• 1:39:58
  Speaker 4: I got there, of course.
• 1:39:59
  Speaker 18: I was like, wow, nice of you to pick a
• 1:40:00
  Speaker 18: place that's closer to you.
• 1:40:02
  Speaker 4: I thought we were doing halfway. And he was like, no, no,
• 1:40:04
  Speaker 4: it's definitely halfway. I'm sure of it. And I was like, well,
• 1:40:06
  Speaker 4: it's not, but whatever. He's like, no, I'm so sure
• 1:40:08
  Speaker 4: of it. And he wouldn't let it go.
• 1:40:09
  Speaker 18: So he was like, watch, give me your address. I
• 1:40:10
  Speaker 18: will prove it to you right now because I would
• 1:40:12
  Speaker 18: never set you up like that. And so I give
• 1:40:13
  Speaker 18: him my address.
• 1:40:14
  Speaker 4: He puts it in.
• 1:40:15
  Speaker 18: And he's like, oh, yeah, it's a lot closer to
• 1:40:18
  Speaker 18: my house. I didn't realize it was 40 minutes from you.
• 1:40:20
  Speaker 4: I'm so sorry. Let me go get you a drink.
• 1:40:21
  Speaker 4: He's like, it's me a drink. And we have a
• 1:40:22
  Speaker 4: really good night, actually. We really hit it off. I
• 1:40:24
  Speaker 4: really liked the guy.
• 1:40:25
  Speaker 18: And at the end of the night, he was being
• 1:40:26
  Speaker 18: a little bit pushy about coming over to my house.
• 1:40:28
  Speaker 18: And I was like, not really vibing with that. It's
• 1:40:31
  Speaker 18: not something that I want to do on a first date.
• 1:40:34
  Speaker 18: And obviously, like, I'm thinking he want to, you know,
• 1:40:36
  Speaker 18: I know what you want to do if you want
• 1:40:37
  Speaker 18: to come over.
• 1:40:37
  Speaker 4: That was stupid.
• 1:40:38
  Speaker 18: So I was like, no, I'm OK. But he was
• 1:40:41
  Speaker 18: very pushy about it. And so I was like, OK,
• 1:40:42
  Speaker 18: you can come over, but we're only watching a movie.
• 1:40:44
  Speaker 18: And I'm very serious about that. Like, if we're if
• 1:40:46
  Speaker 18: you're coming over, we're hanging out and that's literally it.
• 1:40:49
  Speaker 18: And so he was like, OK, no problem. And so
• 1:40:50
  Speaker 18: he comes over and that's genuinely what we do. We
• 1:40:53
  Speaker 18: watch a movie and we hang out. And at the
• 1:40:55
  Speaker 18: end of the night, he's.
• 1:40:56
  Speaker 4: Getting ready to go. And he's looking at me while
• 1:40:58
  Speaker 4: I'm sitting on the couch. He's like, you know, I'm
• 1:40:59
  Speaker 4: really glad that you allowed me to come over tonight.
• 1:41:01
  Speaker 4: And I was like, me too, actually. It's been a
• 1:41:04
  Speaker 4: really good night. I really enjoyed hanging out with you.
• 1:41:06
  Speaker 4: He was like, yeah, I was going to come over
• 1:41:08
  Speaker 4: either way. And I was like, what? Because he was
• 1:41:11
  Speaker 4: straight-facing it. He wasn't, like, it didn't sound like a joke.
• 1:41:13
  Speaker 4: I was like, what do you mean by that? And
• 1:41:15
  Speaker 4: he said, well, I mean, if you had said no,
• 1:41:17
  Speaker 4: I was probably still going to show up. And I
• 1:41:21
  Speaker 4: was like, that's... but you didn't have my address. You're
• 1:41:24
  Speaker 4: not going to show up. And he was like, I
• 1:41:25
  Speaker 4: do have your address.
• 1:41:26
  Speaker 1: I was like, no, you haven't.
• 1:41:28
  Speaker 4: I told you my neighborhood.
• 1:41:29
  Speaker 18: And I'm thinking back, like when we were first texting
• 1:41:31
  Speaker 18: and he asked my neighborhood, I was like, no, I
• 1:41:33
  Speaker 18: told you the neighborhood that I lived in.
• 1:41:34
  Speaker 4: And like, it'd been a long night. It'd been like
• 1:41:36
  Speaker 4: five hours since the beginning of the date at this point.
• 1:41:37
  Speaker 4: And he was like, no, at the beginning of the date,
• 1:41:39
  Speaker 4: I asked for your address.
• 1:41:39
  Speaker 3: Remember?
• 1:41:41
  Speaker 18: And like my heart stopped and I realized this man's
• 1:41:43
  Speaker 18: a predator. And he was like, yeah, I got your
• 1:41:46
  Speaker 18: address right off the bat. I was coming either way.
• 1:41:52
  Speaker 18: I never spoke to that man again. Stay safe out
• 1:41:54
  Speaker 18: there because there are some real-life predators on these dating apps.
• 1:41:57
  Speaker 4: And, like, God, I don't know. If I hadn't done
• 1:42:00
  Speaker 4: what he wanted, God forbid. And, like, I don't even know.
• 1:42:03
  Speaker 18: I think it would have been a power thing if
• 1:42:05
  Speaker 18: he came to my house because, like, we genuinely just
• 1:42:07
  Speaker 18: hung out.
• 1:42:07
  Speaker 4: So it's not like he was, I don't know, scared.
• 1:42:10
  Speaker 18: Genuinely can't believe I almost forgot to tell you guys
• 1:42:12
  Speaker 18: the craziest part about that. A couple days later, after
• 1:42:14
  Speaker 18: deciding not to talk to him anymore, I found an
• 1:42:16
  Speaker 18: account of his on TikTok. And when I looked up
• 1:42:18
  Speaker 18: his handle in the search bar, it like popped up
• 1:42:21
  Speaker 18: with a bunch of videos that people had made about him.
• 1:42:22
  Speaker 4: Like he had gone a little bit viral because he
• 1:42:25
  Speaker 4: had assaulted a girl. So crazy.
• 1:42:31
  Speaker 9: Story time of how my Tinder date love bombed me
• 1:42:33
  Speaker 9: and then accused me of having herpes.
• 1:42:35
  Speaker 16: And no, this is not clickbait, although I literally wish.
• 1:42:37
  Speaker 4: It was because I would do anything for this to
• 1:42:39
  Speaker 4: not be my life.
• 1:42:40
  Speaker 8: But here we are.
• 1:42:41
  Speaker 7: Okay.
• 1:42:41
  Speaker 4: If you are like my mom or my sisters.
• 1:42:44
  Speaker 9: Or Literally anyone I know for that matter.
• 1:42:47
  Speaker 4: Just go ahead and keep scrolling.
• 1:42:48
  Speaker 9: This girl and I, we matched on Tinder and we
• 1:42:51
  Speaker 9: like hit it.
• 1:42:52
  Speaker 4: Off almost immediately.
• 1:42:53
  Speaker 9: Like, I just feel like we clicked really, really fast,
• 1:42:56
  Speaker 9: which if you're on the dating apps.
• 1:42:58
  Speaker 4: Or anything like that, that usually doesn't happen.
• 1:43:00
  Speaker 9: Like you usually don't see many normal people on there.
• 1:43:03
  Speaker 9: So when you finally see someone that's like normal and
• 1:43:07
  Speaker 9: not totally weird or wanting something really weird, you know,
• 1:43:10
  Speaker 9: you know, um, you like gravitate towards them which is
• 1:43:13
  Speaker 9: kind of what happened so she was like really fun
• 1:43:16
  Speaker 9: to talk to and everything we didn't talk very long
• 1:43:18
  Speaker 9: and she was like okay i'm gonna go to bed
• 1:43:20
  Speaker 9: like night whatever and i was like okay i'll message
• 1:43:22
  Speaker 9: you tomorrow i messaged her the next day and she
• 1:43:26
  Speaker 9: replied in the afternoon and was just like hey just
• 1:43:29
  Speaker 9: so you know i'm not on my phone like literally
• 1:43:32
  Speaker 9: at all during the day and i know like if
• 1:43:35
  Speaker 9: you're gay if you're um a girl or i don't
• 1:43:38
  Speaker 9: know anyone for that matter You know that that's probably
• 1:43:40
  Speaker 9: a really big red flag. Me, I was like, I
• 1:43:43
  Speaker 9: was like, okay, she's not on her phone until eight,
• 1:43:46
  Speaker 9: nine o'clock at night.
• 1:43:46
  Speaker 4: That's normal.
• 1:43:47
  Speaker 9: So we would only talk in the evening times. And
• 1:43:51
  Speaker 9: we would talk for a few hours each evening. And
• 1:43:54
  Speaker 9: she was so funny and so sweet to me.
• 1:43:57
  Speaker 16: Like, she was like, you're so funny. You're so cute.
• 1:44:00
  Speaker 4: You're like the prettiest girl ever. And I was just like, oh,
• 1:44:03
  Speaker 4: that's so nice.
• 1:44:04
  Speaker 9: Because I'm so stupid and gullible. So we talked pretty
• 1:44:07
  Speaker 9: consistently for like a week. with the exception of like
• 1:44:10
  Speaker 9: one or two nights. And then finally, one of us
• 1:44:13
  Speaker 9: was like, okay, like we should meet up.
• 1:44:14
  Speaker 4: We should hang out.
• 1:44:15
  Speaker 9: And she was like, okay, it has to be like
• 1:44:17
  Speaker 9: this day. I was just like, okay, whatever, you know,
• 1:44:21
  Speaker 9: another red flag. But once again, I was like, perfect.
• 1:44:26
  Speaker 9: So we meet up at a bar, and we hit
• 1:44:29
  Speaker 9: it off. At least I felt like we did.
• 1:44:32
  Speaker 4: Pretty quick.
• 1:44:34
  Speaker 9: And she was just like, Oh my god, everything I said,
• 1:44:37
  Speaker 9: she was like, you are the greatest human to ever exist.
• 1:44:40
  Speaker 16: You are so pretty. You are so kind. You are
• 1:44:43
  Speaker 16: everything I want.
• 1:44:45
  Speaker 4: And I was just like, eating it up.
• 1:44:48
  Speaker 9: Like I was just like, Oh my god, I'm obsessed
• 1:44:51
  Speaker 9: with this girl. Now mind you, when we first started talking,
• 1:44:55
  Speaker 9: we both were like, we're not looking for like anything like.
• 1:44:57
  Speaker 4: We're not specifically looking for anything serious.
• 1:44:59
  Speaker 9: But if something comes from you know, someone that we
• 1:45:01
  Speaker 9: meet or whatever, then we're.
• 1:45:03
  Speaker 4: Okay with that. And I meant that, but there.
• 1:45:07
  Speaker 9: Were a couple of times throughout us talking that she
• 1:45:09
  Speaker 9: would make comments that was like, I don't really want
• 1:45:12
  Speaker 9: anything serious. Like I'm worried you're going to want something serious.
• 1:45:15
  Speaker 9: And I was just like, no, like, I understand. Like,
• 1:45:17
  Speaker 9: if that's not what you're wanting, then, you know, whatever.
• 1:45:20
  Speaker 9: We still ended up hanging out, meeting up, whatever. So
• 1:45:23
  Speaker 9: we have a couple of drinks and after like a
• 1:45:26
  Speaker 9: couple hours of hanging out, she's like, oh my God,
• 1:45:28
  Speaker 9: the time's gone by so fast. I'm like having the
• 1:45:30
  Speaker 9: greatest time ever. Like I want to keep hanging out.
• 1:45:33
  Speaker 16: And I was like, oh, like, well, we can go
• 1:45:35
  Speaker 16: to like a different bar or whatever.
• 1:45:37
  Speaker 4: And she's like, no, I don't really want to keep drinking,
• 1:45:39
  Speaker 4: like blah, blah, blah.
• 1:45:39
  Speaker 9: And so she was like, but I really, I really
• 1:45:42
  Speaker 9: want to keep hanging out. And I was like, okay, well,
• 1:45:44
  Speaker 9: like you can come over to my house.
• 1:45:46
  Speaker 4: And she was like, perfect.
• 1:45:49
  Speaker 9: We get back to my house and she's pretty forward
• 1:45:51
  Speaker 9: when we get back to my house about what she's wanting.
• 1:45:55
  Speaker 4: Um, when she gets, like, when she got there, like, after.
• 1:45:58
  Speaker 16: We, like, put on a movie and stuff like that, which, whatever, fine, so, you.
• 1:46:02
  Speaker 9: Know, one thing led to another, I'm sure you could
• 1:46:06
  Speaker 9: assume by now what happened, we kind of hooked up
• 1:46:08
  Speaker 9: a little bit, um, and then she, right after that,
• 1:46:11
  Speaker 9: she was like, it's getting really late, like, I need
• 1:46:13
  Speaker 9: to go, and I was like, okay, fine, whatever, took
• 1:46:15
  Speaker 9: her back to her car, whatever, The next day, she
• 1:46:19
  Speaker 9: texts me in the morning, mind you, and is like,
• 1:46:22
  Speaker 9: I had the best time ever. Like, when is too
• 1:46:24
  Speaker 9: soon to see you again?
• 1:46:26
  Speaker 14: And I was like, oh, my God, she wants to
• 1:46:28
  Speaker 14: see me again.
• 1:46:29
  Speaker 9: Like, I'm just so naive. So it's a Sunday morning
• 1:46:34
  Speaker 9: when she sends this. We hung out Saturday night. We
• 1:46:37
  Speaker 9: end up agreeing to hang out the next day as
• 1:46:39
  Speaker 9: in Monday.
• 1:46:40
  Speaker 4: So this is where things get interesting.
• 1:46:44
  Speaker 16: She comes over and she's pretty.
• 1:46:46
  Speaker 9: Forward again about what exactly like she's wanting, which is fine.
• 1:46:53
  Speaker 9: But I didn't think that I guess that's maybe all
• 1:46:55
  Speaker 9: that she was going to want coming over that second night.
• 1:46:59
  Speaker 4: But I was like, whatever.
• 1:47:01
  Speaker 16: So we end up hooking up again and.
• 1:47:06
  Speaker 9: She, at the end of it, got really, really weird,
• 1:47:09
  Speaker 9: like was super like standoffish and like then verbally was like,
• 1:47:14
  Speaker 9: just so you know, like I'm feeling very, very anxious
• 1:47:16
  Speaker 9: right now. And like we had both kind of expressed
• 1:47:18
  Speaker 9: to each other that like we both had anxiety.
• 1:47:20
  Speaker 4: So I was trying to be like, you know, understanding
• 1:47:23
  Speaker 4: and I was like, it's okay. Like if you need
• 1:47:24
  Speaker 4: to leave, I understand. Like I totally understand like.
• 1:47:27
  Speaker 9: What it's like to be anxious in a place that
• 1:47:29
  Speaker 9: you're like not comfortable in and everything like that.
• 1:47:32
  Speaker 4: She was like, no, it's fine. I'm having fun.
• 1:47:34
  Speaker 9: But like, I just want to tell you like nothing
• 1:47:37
  Speaker 9: is ever going to come from this. Like literally nothing
• 1:47:39
  Speaker 9: is going to come from this.
• 1:47:41
  Speaker 4: And I was like, okay, you know, whatever.
• 1:47:44
  Speaker 9: For whatever reason, she was still like freaking out, I
• 1:47:47
  Speaker 9: guess maybe that we had hooked up and like that
• 1:47:49
  Speaker 9: I was going to maybe be wanting more or something.
• 1:47:52
  Speaker 4: I don't really know.
• 1:47:54
  Speaker 16: But I was trying to like make her feel better
• 1:47:56
  Speaker 16: despite everything.
• 1:47:57
  Speaker 9: How much she, like, love-bombed me, like, I'm not gonna lie,
• 1:47:59
  Speaker 9: I was genuinely confused, but I was.
• 1:48:01
  Speaker 4: Like, whatever, like, she had told me a few times, like,
• 1:48:04
  Speaker 4: she wasn't really wanting anything.
• 1:48:05
  Speaker 9: Serious, whatever, so it was at that point that my
• 1:48:09
  Speaker 9: dumb ass thought, like, to make her feel better about, like,
• 1:48:12
  Speaker 9: why ever reason she was feeling like that, I was, like, look, like,
• 1:48:15
  Speaker 9: I'm not in any place, really, to be in a
• 1:48:17
  Speaker 9: relationship either, like, I had been honest and open with
• 1:48:19
  Speaker 9: her about my divorce.
• 1:48:21
  Speaker 4: Um, the only thing that I.
• 1:48:23
  Speaker 9: Wasn't honest with her about was the fact that I
• 1:48:25
  Speaker 9: was living with my ex, not my ex wife. An
• 1:48:28
  Speaker 9: ex from a really long time ago who I'm now
• 1:48:30
  Speaker 9: friends with, whatever. But I justified me not telling her
• 1:48:34
  Speaker 9: because I was like, she just told me she wanted casual.
• 1:48:37
  Speaker 9: So I didn't feel like it was important to tell her.
• 1:48:39
  Speaker 9: Mind you, any other person that I had talked to on...
• 1:48:43
  Speaker 9: Any of the apps I have been open and honest
• 1:48:45
  Speaker 9: about really like early on about.
• 1:48:48
  Speaker 4: My divorce and my living.
• 1:48:49
  Speaker 9: Situation out of respect for other people's boundaries and maybe
• 1:48:52
  Speaker 9: what they're wanting in life. I didn't want to just
• 1:48:54
  Speaker 9: like bombard them one day because she just kept telling
• 1:48:56
  Speaker 9: me she didn't really want anything.
• 1:48:58
  Speaker 5: She wasn't sure what she wanted, blah, blah, blah.
• 1:49:01
  Speaker 4: I didn't feel like it was necessary to disclose that
• 1:49:03
  Speaker 4: right at the beginning.
• 1:49:04
  Speaker 9: So anyways, I was like, hey, don't even worry. Like
• 1:49:07
  Speaker 9: I'm literally like divorce living with my ex. Like it's
• 1:49:11
  Speaker 9: not a big deal. Like you're good. And it was
• 1:49:13
  Speaker 9: in this point that literally like something completely flipped on her.
• 1:49:18
  Speaker 9: She was like, are you serious? You're literally living with
• 1:49:21
  Speaker 9: your ex. And like, we just hooked up and blah, blah, blah.
• 1:49:24
  Speaker 9: And your ex is here. And I was like, it's
• 1:49:26
  Speaker 9: not my ex wife. And she was like, I don't care.
• 1:49:29
  Speaker 9: Like she got very hostile. Like she wasn't really being
• 1:49:34
  Speaker 9: like mean or like yelling, but I could tell she
• 1:49:37
  Speaker 9: was like, she was pissed. And I was like, I'm sorry. Like,
• 1:49:41
  Speaker 9: I didn't, I just thought like you told me you
• 1:49:43
  Speaker 9: wanted casual. Like I was, I don't like, I didn't
• 1:49:45
  Speaker 9: mean to make you uncomfortable. Like I felt really, really bad.
• 1:49:48
  Speaker 9: And then she literally looked at me and was like,
• 1:49:51
  Speaker 9: if you're lying about living with your ex, how do
• 1:49:53
  Speaker 9: I know that you're not lying about having herpes?
• 1:49:56
  Speaker 4: I was like, pause, simmered the fuck down.
• 1:50:04
  Speaker 16: So she was pretty worked up and I was pretty offended.
• 1:50:09
  Speaker 4: Um, and I was like, look, I don't have hernias
• 1:50:13
  Speaker 4: and I'm a.
• 1:50:14
  Speaker 9: Nurse and I understand how important it is to disclose
• 1:50:16
  Speaker 9: that type of stuff before you do things with people. Um,
• 1:50:19
  Speaker 9: but I was like, you know, you told me you
• 1:50:22
  Speaker 9: didn't really want anything. Like we had never really talked
• 1:50:25
  Speaker 9: about our lives much or.
• 1:50:26
  Speaker 4: Anything like that. So I was like, I'm sorry.
• 1:50:28
  Speaker 9: Like, I just didn't think I needed to like disclose
• 1:50:30
  Speaker 9: that part of my life. Like I never lied about it.
• 1:50:33
  Speaker 9: I just never said, Hey, I'm living with my ex
• 1:50:36
  Speaker 9: from high school. Like I, that, was never said. So yeah,
• 1:50:41
  Speaker 9: she was pretty upset and ended up leaving and it
• 1:50:44
  Speaker 9: was really awkward when she left, but I was just like, whatever.
• 1:50:47
  Speaker 4: And I was a little upset.
• 1:50:49
  Speaker 9: Like I was just embarrassed that she said those things
• 1:50:52
  Speaker 9: and you know, like just with the divorce and everything,
• 1:50:55
  Speaker 9: I do carry like a lot of embarrassment and everything
• 1:50:57
  Speaker 9: that happened and.
• 1:50:58
  Speaker 4: Like my living situation. So I was just feeling a.
• 1:51:00
  Speaker 5: Type of way about it.
• 1:51:01
  Speaker 4: She ended up messaging me that night and.
• 1:51:04
  Speaker 9: Being like hey um I know I acted a little
• 1:51:07
  Speaker 9: immaturely and was like wanting to apologize and.
• 1:51:10
  Speaker 4: I didn't end up messaging her till the next.
• 1:51:11
  Speaker 9: Day we kind of talked about things and she understood
• 1:51:15
  Speaker 9: that like like where I was coming from and like
• 1:51:17
  Speaker 9: apologized and everything and I was like saying sorry too
• 1:51:20
  Speaker 9: and like you know whatever and that was that that
• 1:51:23
  Speaker 9: was the end of it so long story short stay
• 1:51:26
  Speaker 9: off the dating apps because.
• 1:51:28
  Speaker 16: Most people on there are off their fucking rocker.
• 1:51:30
  Speaker 5: So y'all let me tell you about this horror story
• 1:51:33
  Speaker 5: date that I went on right so I was talking
• 1:51:36
  Speaker 5: to this guy and it was a Tuesday I was
• 1:51:38
  Speaker 5: off that day he was off that day so I'm
• 1:51:39
  Speaker 5: like okay like what you doing today what you got
• 1:51:41
  Speaker 5: plans for tonight he's like oh I'm probably gonna go
• 1:51:44
  Speaker 5: to the movies I'm like oh okay that's cool he
• 1:51:46
  Speaker 5: was like yeah do you want to come with me
• 1:51:47
  Speaker 5: and I'm like not really because I don't really like
• 1:51:49
  Speaker 5: to go to movies on the first day because hello
• 1:51:52
  Speaker 5: it's a movie what are we gonna talk about right
• 1:51:55
  Speaker 5: but then um i ended up talking to my friend
• 1:51:57
  Speaker 5: on the phone and i'm like oh like i'm gonna
• 1:51:59
  Speaker 5: go out to get something to eat but this guy
• 1:52:00
  Speaker 5: asked me some movies like should i go she was
• 1:52:02
  Speaker 5: like yeah you should go like why not so i
• 1:52:04
  Speaker 5: would start calling back and i'm like hey like you
• 1:52:06
  Speaker 5: know what i don't mind going to the movies but
• 1:52:07
  Speaker 5: can we change the movie theater to somewhere that's a
• 1:52:10
  Speaker 5: little bit like in the middle of the both of
• 1:52:11
  Speaker 5: us so he's.
• 1:52:12
  Speaker 4: Like yeah sure no problem okay cool so.
• 1:52:15
  Speaker 5: I'm getting ready for the movies or whatever and then
• 1:52:17
  Speaker 5: i think he had texted me he was like oh
• 1:52:20
  Speaker 5: do you think this movie theater checks bags? And I'm like, um,
• 1:52:23
  Speaker 5: probably not because as far as I know, movie theaters
• 1:52:27
  Speaker 5: don't check bags unless you know the Sunrise movie theater
• 1:52:31
  Speaker 5: in Valley Stream that used to be lit back in
• 1:52:33
  Speaker 5: the day. They check bags for whatever ghetto ass reason,
• 1:52:36
  Speaker 5: but movie theaters usually do not check bags. So he's like, oh, okay, cool.
• 1:52:40
  Speaker 5: Because I'm gonna bring some food. And I'm like, oh shit,
• 1:52:43
  Speaker 5: you lit.
• 1:52:43
  Speaker 3: Okay, cool. Right.
• 1:52:45
  Speaker 5: So now I'm in my car I'm on my way
• 1:52:47
  Speaker 5: to the movie theater and then he calls me he's
• 1:52:50
  Speaker 5: like hey how far are you I'm like oh I'm
• 1:52:52
  Speaker 5: like 10 minutes away he's like okay um do you
• 1:52:55
  Speaker 5: need me to get your movie ticket I'm like yes
• 1:53:00
  Speaker 5: I need you to get my movie ticket why wouldn't
• 1:53:03
  Speaker 5: I need you to get my movie ticket so then
• 1:53:06
  Speaker 5: he's like okay cool so I get to the movie
• 1:53:09
  Speaker 5: theater and I'm like okay I'm here where you at
• 1:53:13
  Speaker 5: he was like oh i'm inside and i had a
• 1:53:15
  Speaker 5: long moment for a second i'm like you inside the
• 1:53:17
  Speaker 5: movie theater he's like yeah i'm inside i'm like so
• 1:53:21
  Speaker 5: you like about to watch the movie he's like nah
• 1:53:24
  Speaker 5: like i'm at the concession stand so i'm like okay
• 1:53:26
  Speaker 5: cool so i come in his back is turned to
• 1:53:29
  Speaker 5: the door they're like bro you know i'm coming like
• 1:53:32
  Speaker 5: turn around come in between like you know how movie
• 1:53:35
  Speaker 5: theaters they have the first door the second door like
• 1:53:37
  Speaker 5: come out there like something he didn't do that right
• 1:53:40
  Speaker 5: So I come over to him, and I'm like, hey,
• 1:53:41
  Speaker 5: what's up? He's like, hey, give me a little side
• 1:53:43
  Speaker 5: hug or whatever. Then he starts telling me, like, oh,
• 1:53:46
  Speaker 5: his app is acting funny, like he can't log in.
• 1:53:48
  Speaker 5: I'm like, oh, damn, like, you didn't.
• 1:53:50
  Speaker 7: Do, um.
• 1:53:53
  Speaker 5: Like a password recovery password reset he's like nah it's
• 1:53:56
  Speaker 5: not letting me you don't gotta ask like email blah
• 1:54:00
  Speaker 5: blah i'm like damn that's crazy so he's like oh
• 1:54:02
  Speaker 5: do you want anything to eat and i'm like yeah
• 1:54:04
  Speaker 5: i'll take chips and a drink so he's like okay
• 1:54:07
  Speaker 5: cool so i see one of the tickets and the
• 1:54:09
  Speaker 5: tickets is like 44 for the both of us and
• 1:54:12
  Speaker 5: in my head i'm like damn that's kind of crazy
• 1:54:16
  Speaker 5: especially when you know like on a tuesday the tickets
• 1:54:18
  Speaker 5: cost like what seven dollars or something seven to 22
• 1:54:22
  Speaker 5: like that's a big jump anyways So he orders the
• 1:54:24
  Speaker 5: tickets and he's kind of like upset because like it's expensive, right?
• 1:54:29
  Speaker 5: Or it's not the price that he was expecting it
• 1:54:30
  Speaker 5: to be.
• 1:54:31
  Speaker 3: His app was not working.
• 1:54:32
  Speaker 5: It wasn't expected, whatever. Okay, cool. So I get my
• 1:54:35
  Speaker 5: food and now we're walking to the movie theater. And
• 1:54:39
  Speaker 5: he is walking. Mind you, this man is like 6'2, 6'3.
• 1:54:43
  Speaker 4: So he's walking.
• 1:54:44
  Speaker 5: And when he's walking, he's taking donkey strides, horse strides,
• 1:54:48
  Speaker 5: mad big steps.
• 1:54:50
  Speaker 4: I'm shorter.
• 1:54:52
  Speaker 3: I'm 5'4.
• 1:54:53
  Speaker 5: I'm average height. I'm not about to run to keep
• 1:54:55
  Speaker 5: up with you, right? So I'm walking my regular pace.
• 1:54:58
  Speaker 5: And then he... What did he do? I'm walking my
• 1:55:02
  Speaker 5: regular pace. So then he peeps like, oh... she's not
• 1:55:05
  Speaker 5: walking next to me so he stops and like he
• 1:55:07
  Speaker 5: waits for me or whatever right so we get to
• 1:55:09
  Speaker 5: the movie theater and then he's like okay i'm gonna
• 1:55:10
  Speaker 5: be right back like text me when the movie starts
• 1:55:12
  Speaker 5: so i'm like okay like is he going to that
• 1:55:14
  Speaker 5: bathroom like what's going on so he goes he comes
• 1:55:18
  Speaker 5: back he's like okay i gotta figure it out i'm
• 1:55:20
  Speaker 5: getting my money back okay cool so we're watching a
• 1:55:23
  Speaker 5: movie i'm eating my chips i'm dipping it in my
• 1:55:25
  Speaker 5: cheese like you know then i'm like okay do you
• 1:55:27
  Speaker 5: want some he's like no i don't want any i
• 1:55:29
  Speaker 5: got my own chips can i just have some cheese
• 1:55:31
  Speaker 5: so i'm like okay cool so he takes out a
• 1:55:33
  Speaker 5: bag of purple doritos and he act like you know
• 1:55:38
  Speaker 5: he get his the cheese or whatever so i'm like
• 1:55:40
  Speaker 5: okay cool so then the man takes the cheese holding
• 1:55:43
  Speaker 5: the cheese that i need for my dry ass chips
• 1:55:47
  Speaker 5: right and eat some and it puts it under like
• 1:55:51
  Speaker 5: not in the middle of us on the side that
• 1:55:52
  Speaker 5: he's sitting on so on his right side because i'm
• 1:55:54
  Speaker 5: sitting on his left side so i'm like okay so
• 1:55:56
  Speaker 5: i'm kind of just sitting there i'm not eating my
• 1:55:58
  Speaker 5: chips anymore right but i'm not about to say nothing
• 1:56:00
  Speaker 5: to you because like i need my cheese back so
• 1:56:04
  Speaker 5: then i'm like um he's like oh you need that
• 1:56:08
  Speaker 5: i'm like yeah yeah So he gives me my cheese bar.
• 1:56:13
  Speaker 5: I proceed to eat my shit. And I'm not about
• 1:56:15
  Speaker 5: to ask him if he wants cheese again because I
• 1:56:17
  Speaker 5: already know what this nigga about to do. He about
• 1:56:19
  Speaker 5: to take the fucking cheese and not give it back.
• 1:56:21
  Speaker 5: And I'm about to have some dry-ass chips, right? So
• 1:56:25
  Speaker 5: we're sitting there watching a movie. Then this nigga pull
• 1:56:27
  Speaker 5: out a fucking box of chicken wings. Okay? I'm not
• 1:56:32
  Speaker 5: going to lie. Them chicken wings look good, right? He
• 1:56:34
  Speaker 5: pull out his box of chicken wings. Did this man
• 1:56:37
  Speaker 5: ask me.
• 1:56:38
  Speaker 1: If I wanted a fucking chicken wing?
• 1:56:40
  Speaker 10: No.
• 1:56:42
  Speaker 5: So he's chowing down like he's going to town on
• 1:56:46
  Speaker 5: these chicken wings.
• 1:56:47
  Speaker 3: I'm like, wow, that's crazy.
• 1:56:49
  Speaker 4: Peeped, peeped.
• 1:56:50
  Speaker 5: I didn't ask for none. That's your business.
• 1:56:52
  Speaker 3: Peep.
• 1:56:53
  Speaker 5: But I peep, I peep. So then we're watching the
• 1:56:56
  Speaker 5: movie and then he's like, oh, that's a Porsche. That's
• 1:56:59
  Speaker 5: a Porsche rocket ship.
• 1:57:00
  Speaker 3: That's a Porsche.
• 1:57:01
  Speaker 5: In my head, I'm like, bro, do you know that
• 1:57:03
  Speaker 5: I'm just a girl? Like, I don't know nothing about cars.
• 1:57:05
  Speaker 5: I don't know nothing about supercars, fancy cars. I don't
• 1:57:08
  Speaker 5: know nothing. I don't care either. Like, all I see
• 1:57:11
  Speaker 5: is a Porsche. I don't know what kind of Porsche
• 1:57:12
  Speaker 5: it is, nor do I care. Anyways, so the movie continues,
• 1:57:18
  Speaker 5: and then he, like, puts his hands like this, like,
• 1:57:20
  Speaker 5: behind his head. And I guess he was about to, like,
• 1:57:23
  Speaker 5: put his arm, like, like, you know, you know, like, oh,
• 1:57:28
  Speaker 5: I'm tired. Put my arm around his head. I was like,
• 1:57:31
  Speaker 5: Mind you, I told you he was sitting next to
• 1:57:33
  Speaker 5: me on this. I said, okay, we can continue watching
• 1:57:36
  Speaker 5: the movie. Um, yeah, so the movie comes to an end. So,
• 1:57:41
  Speaker 5: we're getting up or whatever. Mind you, my mother-in-law's just
• 1:57:44
  Speaker 5: think I had Doritos. He had chicken wings. He had fucking,
• 1:57:47
  Speaker 5: I don't know, french fries.
• 1:57:48
  Speaker 3: All that other.
• 1:57:49
  Speaker 5: Shit that he had to pick the fuck up. Oh,
• 1:57:52
  Speaker 5: did I mention that he ordered popcorn too? I want
• 1:57:57
  Speaker 5: to say he ordered popcorn too, but Maybe he didn't.
• 1:58:00
  Speaker 5: So we're just going to leave that out.
• 1:58:01
  Speaker 8: Right.
• 1:58:02
  Speaker 3: So the movie is over.
• 1:58:03
  Speaker 4: So I get up.
• 1:58:04
  Speaker 5: I got my little trail, whatever. And he's taking his
• 1:58:07
  Speaker 5: sweet eyes. So in my head, I'm like, yo, I'm
• 1:58:09
  Speaker 5: gonna just walk to like the exit of the movie
• 1:58:12
  Speaker 5: theater because this is awkward. Like me just standing here.
• 1:58:15
  Speaker 20: Right.
• 1:58:16
  Speaker 5: So the movie's done. and he yeah obviously the movie's
• 1:58:20
  Speaker 5: done so anyway so he he gets up he meets
• 1:58:23
  Speaker 5: me at the door does he have his trash i
• 1:58:25
  Speaker 5: don't even know because i think i waited for him
• 1:58:27
  Speaker 5: like outside the movie theater and not just by like
• 1:58:29
  Speaker 5: the trash cans so i get outside i'm waiting for
• 1:58:31
  Speaker 5: him or whatever and he's like okay like i gotta
• 1:58:34
  Speaker 5: go use the bathroom i'm like okay cool i'm away
• 1:58:36
  Speaker 5: right here.
• 1:58:37
  Speaker 16: Um negative as soon as he went into.
• 1:58:40
  Speaker 5: That bathroom doors i booked it i ran ran ran
• 1:58:44
  Speaker 5: and i think one of the guys that was in
• 1:58:46
  Speaker 5: the movie with us he like saw me and he
• 1:58:48
  Speaker 5: was coming out like he was walking to his car
• 1:58:50
  Speaker 5: too so like he look he starts laughing because he's
• 1:58:53
  Speaker 5: like like you're leaving like that's funny anyways i booked
• 1:58:59
  Speaker 5: it to my car i blocked his number and yeah
• 1:59:02
  Speaker 5: i haven't heard from that man since because how dare
• 1:59:05
  Speaker 5: you Ask me to come to the movies with you,
• 1:59:07
  Speaker 5: then ask me if I need you to buy my ticket.
• 1:59:09
  Speaker 5: I don't need you to buy my ticket, but you
• 1:59:10
  Speaker 5: will buy my ticket because you asked me to come
• 1:59:13
  Speaker 5: to the movies. Furthermore, you're a man and I'm just
• 1:59:15
  Speaker 5: a girl. And as far as I know, the movie
• 1:59:19
  Speaker 5: tickets are $ 7 today. How dare you take my cheese
• 1:59:23
  Speaker 5: and not give it the fuck back?
• 1:59:25
  Speaker 4: How dare you get chicken wings?
• 1:59:27
  Speaker 5: And if you knew you didn't want to share your
• 1:59:29
  Speaker 5: chicken wings, dude, you could have asked me when you
• 1:59:31
  Speaker 5: was at the chicken wing spot and be like, yo,
• 1:59:33
  Speaker 5: do you want some chicken wings? This is what I'm
• 1:59:35
  Speaker 5: about to eat at the movie theater. How dare you
• 1:59:39
  Speaker 5: try to touch me? i can't even say that definitive
• 1:59:43
  Speaker 5: if he was really trying to put his arm around
• 1:59:45
  Speaker 5: me but how dare you even like why would you
• 1:59:47
  Speaker 5: even do that in a movie theater and who the
• 1:59:49
  Speaker 5: fuck gives a fuck if they're driving a porsche rocket
• 1:59:52
  Speaker 5: ship obviously that's not the name of the car but
• 1:59:55
  Speaker 5: you know i'm just saying like it's a supercar who
• 1:59:58
  Speaker 5: cares i can't afford it you can't afford it why
• 2:00:02
  Speaker 5: do we care anyways that was a day horror story
• 2:00:05
  Speaker 5: that i went.
• 2:00:06
  Speaker 4: On And that was the first time I did somebody
• 2:00:09
  Speaker 4: on a date.
• 2:00:10
  Speaker 5: And I'm actually really proud of myself because all me
• 2:00:13
  Speaker 5: would have sit there and endured it. And I'm leaving, baby.
• 2:00:18
  Speaker 3: I'm out of here.
• 2:00:19
  Speaker 1: A couple of weeks ago, I was supposed to go
• 2:00:21
  Speaker 1: on this first date with a guy from Hinge. And
• 2:00:23
  Speaker 1: he was texting me a lot leading up to it.
• 2:00:25
  Speaker 1: It got to the point where if he would text
• 2:00:27
  Speaker 1: me and I wouldn't respond for like a.
• 2:00:28
  Speaker 4: Couple hours, he would be like, damn, somebody forgot about me.
• 2:00:31
  Speaker 4: Happened several times to the point where I'd be like, okay,
• 2:00:34
  Speaker 4: I know you're kidding and you're joking around, but this
• 2:00:36
  Speaker 4: is a.
• 2:00:36
  Speaker 3: Little bit much.
• 2:00:37
  Speaker 1: Like we haven't even been on a first date and
• 2:00:39
  Speaker 1: I work and stuff, so I'm not going to respond
• 2:00:41
  Speaker 1: right away. His first response was, all righty. And then
• 2:00:43
  Speaker 1: he followed that up with, why don't you let me
• 2:00:45
  Speaker 1: know what times you work so I know when to
• 2:00:47
  Speaker 1: text you. And I was like, I already told you
• 2:00:49
  Speaker 1: I work a nine to five, but also I can
• 2:00:50
  Speaker 1: chat sometimes with like.
• 2:00:52
  Speaker 3: Why, why is this a thing?
• 2:00:54
  Speaker 4: Like we haven't even met. But we had a date
• 2:00:56
  Speaker 4: planned and he seemed like a nice guy besides that.
• 2:00:58
  Speaker 1: So I was willing to just go on his first
• 2:01:00
  Speaker 1: date and see how five was in person. Gets to
• 2:01:02
  Speaker 1: the day of the date and he texts me good
• 2:01:04
  Speaker 1: morning and he texts me, hey, confirming that we're still
• 2:01:08
  Speaker 1: on for seven o'clock tonight.
• 2:01:09
  Speaker 4: With the place that we were supposed to go. And
• 2:01:11
  Speaker 4: I was like, yep, sounds good. I'll see you there.
• 2:01:14
  Speaker 1: The evening rolls around and I fully get ready for
• 2:01:17
  Speaker 1: his date. And I text him before it is supposed
• 2:01:19
  Speaker 1: to start. And I'm like, hey, I'm leaving now.
• 2:01:21
  Speaker 4: I'm on my way.
• 2:01:21
  Speaker 1: And my text goes to green and it hadn't been
• 2:01:24
  Speaker 1: green before. I text him again after he doesn't respond.
• 2:01:27
  Speaker 1: And it's supposed to be the time of our date.
• 2:01:28
  Speaker 1: And I was like, hey, we still on?
• 2:01:31
  Speaker 3: Like what's going on?
• 2:01:32
  Speaker 4: Same thing, green text. He doesn't respond. And then I
• 2:01:35
  Speaker 4: tried calling.
• 2:01:36
  Speaker 3: Him, which I shouldn't have.
• 2:01:37
  Speaker 1: I should have just left it at the unanswered text, right?
• 2:01:39
  Speaker 1: But I called him trying to see like, What was happening?
• 2:01:42
  Speaker 1: Like maybe his phone died. Like who lets their phone
• 2:01:44
  Speaker 1: die before first date?
• 2:01:45
  Speaker 3: I don't know.
• 2:01:46
  Speaker 4: Phone goes straight to voicemail. I literally think this man
• 2:01:49
  Speaker 4: blocked me. This man who would not leave me alone
• 2:01:51
  Speaker 4: for days and desperately wanted to go on a date
• 2:01:54
  Speaker 4: with me. Like he was so excited about me.
• 2:01:56
  Speaker 3: It was pretty obvious. And I mean, who wouldn't?
• 2:01:59
  Speaker 4: Like look at me.
• 2:02:00
  Speaker 1: Anyhow, he blocked me before our date and he had
• 2:02:04
  Speaker 1: confirmed our date. what kind of psycho ass behavior is
• 2:02:11
  Speaker 1: that that genuinely is probably one of the weirdest things
• 2:02:14
  Speaker 1: that has happened to me while dating and weird things have.
• 2:02:16
  Speaker 3: Happened to me like weird things.
• 2:02:18
  Speaker 4: I'll be retiring from the dating scene until further notice.
• 2:02:21
  Speaker 4: I give up.
• 2:02:22
  Speaker 22: I don't think that my soulmate is in Indiana and
• 2:02:25
  Speaker 22: I don't even know why I'm even trying. And these
• 2:02:28
  Speaker 22: men on dating apps are absolutely crazy. If you watched
• 2:02:32
  Speaker 22: my dating horror stories that I posted on Valentine's Day,
• 2:02:35
  Speaker 22: remember the guy who tried to blame being racist on
• 2:02:38
  Speaker 22: his cat? That guy also vaped at the dinner table on.
• 2:02:41
  Speaker 4: Our first date. And I just overlooked that.
• 2:02:46
  Speaker 17: Yeah.
• 2:02:47
  Speaker 1: A grown ass man vaping at the dinner table on
• 2:02:50
  Speaker 1: our first date. And I was like, yeah, let's definitely
• 2:02:53
  Speaker 1: have a second date. An opening line I got the
• 2:02:58
  Speaker 1: other day on a dating app was, I hope you
• 2:03:00
  Speaker 1: like neck kisses.
• 2:03:01
  Speaker 3: I was like, whoa, what the heck?
• 2:03:03
  Speaker 4: Like, you're really going to open with that?
• 2:03:04
  Speaker 1: And then he got really mad that I was like,
• 2:03:08
  Speaker 1: not into him opening with, hope you like neck kisses.
• 2:03:11
  Speaker 4: I legitimately bought a.
• 2:03:12
  Speaker 1: Book the other day called How to Date Men When
• 2:03:15
  Speaker 1: You Hate Men.
• 2:03:18
  Speaker 5: It's gotten to that point.
• 2:03:19
  Speaker 1: As excruciating as it is to date in this day
• 2:03:22
  Speaker 1: and age, it.
• 2:03:22
  Speaker 4: Also makes for a great story time. So at least
• 2:03:25
  Speaker 4: there's that. If there's one thing men have, it's the audacity.
• 2:03:30
  Speaker 10: And I'm done.
• 2:03:30
  Speaker 3: I'm done.
• 2:03:31
  Speaker 23: So my Tinder match ended up committing fraud against me,
• 2:03:34
  Speaker 23: stealing all my cards out.
• 2:03:36
  Speaker 3: Of my wallet. You know, no big deal. No big deal, right?
• 2:03:39
  Speaker 3: This is Atlanta, am I right?
• 2:03:41
  Speaker 4: This is old.
• 2:03:42
  Speaker 3: This happened a while ago.
• 2:03:43
  Speaker 23: So, this might not even be the man's Instagram.
• 2:03:46
  Speaker 4: But his name is Zion Diggs.
• 2:03:48
  Speaker 23: He lives in Ellenwood. And we went on, like, a
• 2:03:51
  Speaker 23: few dates. You know, we matched on Tinder. And he
• 2:03:54
  Speaker 23: paid for the dates, right? So, I'm not thinking, like,
• 2:03:57
  Speaker 23: this guy would rob me.
• 2:03:58
  Speaker 3: I'm like, okay.
• 2:03:59
  Speaker 23: He paid for the dates. Like, obviously, he got some money. So,
• 2:04:04
  Speaker 23: this was when I was still living in the dorm.
• 2:04:05
  Speaker 4: We.
• 2:04:07
  Speaker 23: We're on a date, and then after the date, we're like, oh,
• 2:04:09
  Speaker 23: let's go back to my dorm room and play some
• 2:04:11
  Speaker 23: games or, like, whatever. So while he's in my dorm room,
• 2:04:15
  Speaker 23: I'm like, okay, I'm hungry. I want to go to
• 2:04:17
  Speaker 23: the cafe and grab food. People who stayed in the
• 2:04:19
  Speaker 23: dorm know about the cafe. And, like, that was 2020,
• 2:04:22
  Speaker 23: and it was, like, lots of COVID restrictions, right?
• 2:04:24
  Speaker 7: So I had to like give him my student ID
• 2:04:27
  Speaker 7: and he had to like sneak.
• 2:04:28
  Speaker 3: In the dorm. So it's not like we could just
• 2:04:30
  Speaker 3: go in and out the dorm as we please. So
• 2:04:33
  Speaker 3: I left him in my dorm.
• 2:04:34
  Speaker 23: Room to go to the cafe. Little did I know
• 2:04:36
  Speaker 23: as I left him in my dorm room, he was
• 2:04:37
  Speaker 23: stealing all of my debit cards, all of my credit cards,
• 2:04:41
  Speaker 23: stealing everything on my wallet out of my dorm room.
• 2:04:44
  Speaker 23: The next day, I started getting charges on my stuff.
• 2:04:49
  Speaker 23: While he was still in my room when I went
• 2:04:50
  Speaker 23: to the cafe, I didn't realize until afterwards that He
• 2:04:53
  Speaker 23: sent himself two payments of $ 140 on Cash App and
• 2:04:57
  Speaker 23: made all these attempted charges on my card. Then, after
• 2:05:03
  Speaker 23: everything was all said and done, this man went to
• 2:05:06
  Speaker 23: go and write, scam the Nigerian scammer on his Instagram
• 2:05:08
  Speaker 23: story because I'm Nigerian.
• 2:05:12
  Speaker 3: He went to go and write, scam the Nigerian scammer.
• 2:05:15
  Speaker 5: What?
• 2:05:16
  Speaker 23: And if this is not bad enough, I want to
• 2:05:19
  Speaker 23: say a year or two later, This man starts talking
• 2:05:22
  Speaker 23: to my friend, like my close friend. And the way
• 2:05:25
  Speaker 23: we figured it out is because her and I went
• 2:05:27
  Speaker 23: out for dinner and she posted a selfie of us together.
• 2:05:30
  Speaker 23: Why did he swipe up on that selfie? And it's like, oh,
• 2:05:32
  Speaker 23: how you know her? So my friend is like, why
• 2:05:35
  Speaker 23: is my man asking how I know you? Like, so
• 2:05:37
  Speaker 23: I see the man and I'm like, ain't this the
• 2:05:39
  Speaker 23: man who robbed me? So yeah, like just, just be careful.
• 2:05:44
  Speaker 3: That's it.
• 2:05:46
  Speaker 20: When I was 20, I had this Tinder date with
• 2:05:48
  Speaker 20: this girl. Who said, hey, we should get pizza from
• 2:05:52
  Speaker 20: this place called XYZ. It's a local place, so I'm
• 2:05:55
  Speaker 20: not naming it.
• 2:05:56
  Speaker 11: And I said, oh, sure. Should I go pick it up?
• 2:05:59
  Speaker 11: And she said yes. So I was like, oh, okay.
• 2:06:02
  Speaker 20: So I assumed she had already ordered it because it
• 2:06:04
  Speaker 20: was her idea and she was the one who brought
• 2:06:07
  Speaker 20: it up.
• 2:06:07
  Speaker 11: So I was like, oh, she probably wants me to
• 2:06:08
  Speaker 11: pick up the order.
• 2:06:10
  Speaker 3: So I get to the pizza place and.
• 2:06:13
  Speaker 20: I'm like, hey, I have an order to pick up
• 2:06:16
  Speaker 20: for her name. And they look in the back and
• 2:06:18
  Speaker 20: they're like, oh, we can't find anything. And I'm like, oh, OK,
• 2:06:21
  Speaker 20: give me just one second. So I call the girl.
• 2:06:23
  Speaker 20: I'm like, hey, did you put the order in for
• 2:06:25
  Speaker 20: the pizza? And she goes, no, you were supposed to
• 2:06:30
  Speaker 20: buy it. And I said, oh, well, I had no idea.
• 2:06:36
  Speaker 11: I didn't.
• 2:06:37
  Speaker 20: So it's not going to be ready yet. And she's like, okay,
• 2:06:41
  Speaker 20: well just come over then.
• 2:06:42
  Speaker 11: So I was like, okay.
• 2:06:44
  Speaker 20: So I told the lady, I was like, can you
• 2:06:46
  Speaker 20: put in an order for like a large cheese pizza
• 2:06:50
  Speaker 20: for like takeout? And she's like, yeah, it's going to
• 2:06:52
  Speaker 20: be like 20 minutes. I won't charge you until it's done.
• 2:06:55
  Speaker 20: You just want to put it, like put in for
• 2:06:56
  Speaker 20: it and then come back when it's done and pay.
• 2:06:58
  Speaker 11: And I was like, yes. So then I drove to
• 2:07:00
  Speaker 11: this girl's house and she had this.
• 2:07:04
  Speaker 3: Okay.
• 2:07:05
  Speaker 11: So I drove to this girl's house and she was
• 2:07:06
  Speaker 11: in a two story apartment.
• 2:07:07
  Speaker 4: Okay.
• 2:07:08
  Speaker 20: And so I get up there and knock on her door.
• 2:07:10
  Speaker 20: She lets me in. She says, take your shoes off
• 2:07:12
  Speaker 20: immediately when.
• 2:07:13
  Speaker 11: I get into the room.
• 2:07:14
  Speaker 3: So I was like, okay.
• 2:07:15
  Speaker 20: And then she's like, do you mind if we take
• 2:07:17
  Speaker 20: my dog on a walk? And it was like this little,
• 2:07:20
  Speaker 20: like this big, it was a cute dog. It was
• 2:07:23
  Speaker 20: a very small dog. But she's like, do you mind
• 2:07:25
  Speaker 20: if we take it on a walk?
• 2:07:26
  Speaker 11: And I was like, sure.
• 2:07:27
  Speaker 20: And it had been raining that day and the day before.
• 2:07:33
  Speaker 11: So we go out.
• 2:07:34
  Speaker 20: To the stairs and she has the dog on a
• 2:07:36
  Speaker 20: leash and she says can you pick my dog up
• 2:07:39
  Speaker 20: down the stairs for me and i kind of was
• 2:07:43
  Speaker 20: like yeah but i didn't question it and i said
• 2:07:45
  Speaker 20: yeah sure so i picked the dog up brought it
• 2:07:47
  Speaker 20: down the stairs and then we're walking and we're walking
• 2:07:51
  Speaker 20: and we get to a crosswalk and there's this little
• 2:07:53
  Speaker 20: shallow puddle no more than an inch to two inches
• 2:07:57
  Speaker 20: deep on the ground and Probably like this big.
• 2:08:01
  Speaker 11: Okay. Like this big. Like I could probably fit two
• 2:08:05
  Speaker 11: shoes in it. And she goes, stops and says, can.
• 2:08:10
  Speaker 3: You please pick him up over this?
• 2:08:12
  Speaker 11: I don't want him to get hurt. I looked at
• 2:08:16
  Speaker 11: her and I said, why?
• 2:08:18
  Speaker 5: Why?
• 2:08:20
  Speaker 11: He's fine. It's a dog.
• 2:08:23
  Speaker 20: And a car was coming, so we just crossed, and
• 2:08:25
  Speaker 20: I didn't even pick him up, and we just ignored
• 2:08:27
  Speaker 20: it after that. And we keep walking her dog, and
• 2:08:34
  Speaker 20: as we get to this park, she's like, I hate
• 2:08:37
  Speaker 20: living down here because I'm just always so scared that
• 2:08:39
  Speaker 20: guys are going to assault me because I'm just so pretty,
• 2:08:42
  Speaker 20: and guys probably want to assault me right when they
• 2:08:44
  Speaker 20: see me. I was like, what the fuck? Right when
• 2:08:47
  Speaker 20: I heard that, I made a plan to leave. So
• 2:08:50
  Speaker 20: my plan was to say that I left my wallet
• 2:08:53
  Speaker 20: at that park and that I had to go look
• 2:08:55
  Speaker 20: for it. So we walked back to her house and
• 2:08:58
  Speaker 20: once we got inside, I went to the bathroom and
• 2:09:00
  Speaker 20: I was like, oh my.
• 2:09:01
  Speaker 11: God, I can't find my wallet. She's like, you didn't
• 2:09:04
  Speaker 11: leave it here? And I was like, no.
• 2:09:05
  Speaker 20: I was like, maybe it's in my car.
• 2:09:09
  Speaker 11: So she's like, okay, let's go check.
• 2:09:10
  Speaker 20: So she walks down with me and we go down
• 2:09:12
  Speaker 20: her stairs and I'm walking in front of her, okay?
• 2:09:15
  Speaker 20: Keep in mind, I'm like, I'm here she's here behind
• 2:09:18
  Speaker 20: me okay I'm walking walking and she goes why do
• 2:09:21
  Speaker 20: you get do you like being in France it makes
• 2:09:23
  Speaker 20: you feel like the leader or something and I said
• 2:09:26
  Speaker 20: no I'm just walking and that was it and then
• 2:09:32
  Speaker 20: she I got to my car and she's like can
• 2:09:35
  Speaker 20: you guess which one's mine and I didn't even guess
• 2:09:37
  Speaker 20: it she's like okay go look for your wallet so
• 2:09:39
  Speaker 20: I went in my car and And my wallet was
• 2:09:42
  Speaker 20: in my back pocket this whole time.
• 2:09:44
  Speaker 4: Okay.
• 2:09:44
  Speaker 20: So I like pretended like I was rummaging around in
• 2:09:48
  Speaker 20: my car for my wallet. And I don't know, like
• 2:09:53
  Speaker 20: 30 seconds into that, just all of a sudden my
• 2:09:55
  Speaker 20: door opens and she goes, did you find it? And
• 2:09:59
  Speaker 20: I was like, no, I'm still looking. I think I
• 2:10:01
  Speaker 20: left it at the park. And she goes, she like
• 2:10:04
  Speaker 20: looked at me like this.
• 2:10:08
  Speaker 11: Are you sure?
• 2:10:09
  Speaker 20: And fucking padded my pockets down. patted me down on
• 2:10:13
  Speaker 20: my front pockets. And luckily it wasn't there. And I
• 2:10:16
  Speaker 20: just said, no, I think I left it at the park.
• 2:10:18
  Speaker 20: Go get the pizza because we have to go get
• 2:10:21
  Speaker 20: it soon. And I'll go back there and check and
• 2:10:23
  Speaker 20: I'll meet you there. And she just stared at me
• 2:10:26
  Speaker 20: like this.
• 2:10:28
  Speaker 11: And said, fine.
• 2:10:31
  Speaker 20: And closed the door and got in her car and
• 2:10:35
  Speaker 20: drove off. And I fucking dipped. I didn't go to
• 2:10:37
  Speaker 20: the park. I went home, never talked.
• 2:10:40
  Speaker 11: To her again. Don't go on Tinder dates. Seriously.
• 2:10:45
  Speaker 3: It's well, okay.
• 2:10:46
  Speaker 11: I'm sorry.
• 2:10:48
  Speaker 20: That's not what I meant. Be careful with who you
• 2:10:51
  Speaker 20: go on Tinder dates with.
• 2:10:55
  Speaker 4: Crazy dating horror stories.
• 2:10:57
  Speaker 14: I have to tell you guys this one. This is
• 2:10:58
  Speaker 14: very scary. So went on three dates with this guy.
• 2:11:02
  Speaker 4: First two dates, totally normal. No red flags.
• 2:11:04
  Speaker 14: First date was a coffee date. And then we ended
• 2:11:06
  Speaker 14: up having lunch later that day. And then the next
• 2:11:08
  Speaker 14: time was dinner. Both totally normal. Third date, he said, hey,
• 2:11:12
  Speaker 14: let's get some Mexican food.
• 2:11:15
  Speaker 3: I was like, cool.
• 2:11:15
  Speaker 14: Don't have to tell me twice about some chips and
• 2:11:17
  Speaker 14: queso and a margarita.
• 2:11:18
  Speaker 4: Let's do it.
• 2:11:19
  Speaker 14: So we went, had a great evening. The whole time
• 2:11:21
  Speaker 14: he was talking about his car, how his car is
• 2:11:23
  Speaker 14: like his baby. I don't know anything about cars. So
• 2:11:25
  Speaker 14: he was saying what kind of car it was. I
• 2:11:27
  Speaker 14: had zero idea what that meant.
• 2:11:28
  Speaker 3: Whatever.
• 2:11:29
  Speaker 14: It was a flex apparently for him.
• 2:11:30
  Speaker 4: It was a convertible. That's all that I knew.
• 2:11:32
  Speaker 14: He talked about it the entire time, how he like
• 2:11:33
  Speaker 14: built it himself, all those things. So after dinner, he says, hey,
• 2:11:37
  Speaker 14: would you want to like ride around in my car?
• 2:11:39
  Speaker 14: He's like, it's a really nice night.
• 2:11:41
  Speaker 3: It's a convertible.
• 2:11:41
  Speaker 4: Would love to turn the music up and just.
• 2:11:43
  Speaker 3: Have a great time.
• 2:11:44
  Speaker 14: Now riding around with music and the windows down was
• 2:11:46
  Speaker 14: like one of my favorite things to do in the world.
• 2:11:48
  Speaker 4: So I was like, yeah, we can do that. That's
• 2:11:49
  Speaker 4: my third date with this guy.
• 2:11:50
  Speaker 23: It should be fine.
• 2:11:51
  Speaker 14: Now my friends knew that I was on a date
• 2:11:53
  Speaker 14: with this guy, but did not know like that I
• 2:11:55
  Speaker 14: would be going anywhere with him, obviously. So I wasn't
• 2:11:58
  Speaker 14: anticipating like going to a house or anything like that.
• 2:12:01
  Speaker 14: We get in the car, we're listening to music, all
• 2:12:02
  Speaker 14: is well. It's been a great evening. Then he pulls
• 2:12:05
  Speaker 14: into a neighborhood. I was like, where are we going?
• 2:12:08
  Speaker 14: He said, oh, this is my house. He's like, I
• 2:12:10
  Speaker 14: have leftover food in the back. I just really want
• 2:12:11
  Speaker 14: to run into the refrigerator real quick. I was so
• 2:12:15
  Speaker 14: uncomfortable because I'm like, no one knows where I'm at.
• 2:12:17
  Speaker 14: I did not tell them that I was going to
• 2:12:18
  Speaker 14: somebody's house. So I was like, I would prefer us not.
• 2:12:21
  Speaker 3: Like, can we just go back?
• 2:12:22
  Speaker 14: And you can just drop me off and then come
• 2:12:23
  Speaker 14: right back. He's like, no, I'm already here. Like, I
• 2:12:25
  Speaker 14: live 15 minutes away from the restaurant. I don't want
• 2:12:27
  Speaker 14: to drive all the way back.
• 2:12:28
  Speaker 4: We're already here. Let me run in. You don't need
• 2:12:29
  Speaker 4: to come in.
• 2:12:29
  Speaker 3: Like, okay.
• 2:12:31
  Speaker 14: So he runs in. I sit in the car. 10,
• 2:12:33
  Speaker 14: 15 minutes later, this man is still not out. I'm
• 2:12:35
  Speaker 14: texting him from outside in the car like, hey, is
• 2:12:37
  Speaker 14: everything okay? He finally calls me and he's like, hey,
• 2:12:40
  Speaker 14: you should just come in. My dog is having some trouble.
• 2:12:42
  Speaker 14: I think she ate something bad. Come in and just
• 2:12:44
  Speaker 14: like stay with me for a few minutes and then
• 2:12:46
  Speaker 14: we'll go.
• 2:12:47
  Speaker 4: I'm like, okay. If I could go back and shake
• 2:12:50
  Speaker 4: myself and tell myself absolutely not run, I would, but
• 2:12:53
  Speaker 4: I did not. At the time, I was too much
• 2:12:54
  Speaker 4: of a.
• 2:12:55
  Speaker 14: People pleaser and I was afraid to say, hey, I
• 2:12:58
  Speaker 14: just don't feel comfortable with this.
• 2:12:59
  Speaker 4: So I went along with it to be nice.
• 2:13:02
  Speaker 14: I go inside and there is two wine glasses full
• 2:13:05
  Speaker 14: of wine.
• 2:13:06
  Speaker 4: And this was like the fourth red flag.
• 2:13:08
  Speaker 14: I was like, hey, I don't really feel comfortable getting
• 2:13:10
  Speaker 14: drunk or like drinking a lot. Thank you so much, though.
• 2:13:14
  Speaker 14: He gets so mad.
• 2:13:16
  Speaker 4: What do you mean?
• 2:13:16
  Speaker 14: Do you think I'm going to like do something to
• 2:13:18
  Speaker 14: you just because you're drunk? Sir, why is that your
• 2:13:20
  Speaker 14: first thing to say?
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  Speaker 3: That's strange.
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  Speaker 4: So I just said, no, thank you. I'm good.
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  Speaker 14: Guys, the state gets scary and weird and awful and.
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  Speaker 3: All the things.
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  Speaker 14: So but it's getting long. We're going to make a
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  Speaker 14: part two. So follow on for part two. crazy dating story,
• 2:13:34
  Speaker 14: convertible guy, part two. If you haven't watched part one,
• 2:13:37
  Speaker 14: you can go watch it so you're not lost. And
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  Speaker 14: also trigger warning to those of you who have maybe
• 2:13:41
  Speaker 14: experienced SA or grape, you may not want to watch this.
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  Speaker 14: Just wanted to say that first.
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  Speaker 8: Okay.
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  Speaker 14: So at this point I have to, like, I have
• 2:13:50
  Speaker 14: already said no to the drinks, right?
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  Speaker 4: He says, okay, fine, whatever.
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  Speaker 14: You could tell he's irritated, but he lets it go.
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  Speaker 4: He says, let's play some board games.
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  Speaker 3: I'm like, cool, let's do it.
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  Speaker 14: So we play some board games. The whole time I'm
• 2:14:01
  Speaker 14: like sitting there in my head, like no one knows
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  Speaker 14: where I'm at. Like I have to do something. So
• 2:14:05
  Speaker 14: I share my location with a friend, but like didn't
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  Speaker 14: tell her where I was and tell her like what
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  Speaker 14: was happening. I just shared the location.
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  Speaker 4: And the whole time I'm like beating myself up. Like,
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  Speaker 4: why am I here? I don't want to be here.
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  Speaker 4: He makes me uncomfortable. I'm not sure what to do.
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  Speaker 14: So in the middle of the game, he says something
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  Speaker 14: so sweet, whatever your eyes are glistening, your skin is beautiful,
• 2:14:23
  Speaker 14: whatever they say.
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  Speaker 4: And he kisses me. I tried to let it go
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  Speaker 4: and tried to.
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  Speaker 14: Just like get out of my own head and just
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  Speaker 14: enjoy the moment. But the whole time I was like,
• 2:14:30
  Speaker 14: I don't know what he's expecting here. And he's already
• 2:14:32
  Speaker 14: irritated at me. So after we kiss for a minute,
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  Speaker 14: I push him away.
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  Speaker 4: And I was like, I'm good.
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  Speaker 14: He keeps trying. I push him away again. I was like, no, no,
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  Speaker 14: I'm really, I'm good. And this is where it gets scary.
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  Speaker 14: He whips me up off the couch, pushes me up
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  Speaker 14: against the wall. And he says, I love it when
• 2:14:51
  Speaker 14: a woman says no. It just makes me push harder.
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  Speaker 14: My eyes got real big. My heart starts beating really fast.
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  Speaker 4: Like, okay, what is my game plan here? And then
• 2:15:01
  Speaker 4: he says, no, really say no again.
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  Speaker 15: I love it.
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  Speaker 4: And he gets so excited on his face.
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  Speaker 14: Now I have worked with predators for years as a
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  Speaker 14: mental health therapist. I understand their mindset and I understand
• 2:15:13
  Speaker 14: that it is a control issue. They get off on fear.
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  Speaker 14: I was not about to give this man any fear.
• 2:15:19
  Speaker 14: So in that quick, quick thinking, I just kind of,
• 2:15:22
  Speaker 14: I didn't want to give him any fear. So what
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  Speaker 14: I did was I played very like cool.
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  Speaker 4: Very neutral. I just said, oh, okay. He's like, no,
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  Speaker 4: I mean it. Say no again. I was like, no,
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  Speaker 4: I already did once.
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  Speaker 14: And you could tell he was not sure what to
• 2:15:34
  Speaker 14: do because he'd never experienced that. So I was like, okay,
• 2:15:37
  Speaker 14: thank you so much for such a great night. Like,
• 2:15:39
  Speaker 14: I really appreciate the fact that you bought me dinner.
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  Speaker 4: Like what? That was incredible. I said, plus like the games.
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  Speaker 3: Thank you.
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  Speaker 14: And of course in my head, I'm freaking the F out,
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  Speaker 14: but out loud, I was like, I'm not giving this
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  Speaker 14: man the like justification or the, you know, the satisfaction.
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  Speaker 3: That's the word.
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  Speaker 14: I'm not giving him the satisfaction of seeing me scared.
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  Speaker 14: So again, I just said, thank you so much. I'm
• 2:15:57
  Speaker 14: going to go ahead and call an Uber because you're drunk,
• 2:15:59
  Speaker 14: but like, feel free to just wait around with me
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  Speaker 14: if you want, or like wait in the house.
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  Speaker 3: I'm going to go outside.
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  Speaker 14: And this threw him so off that he did not
• 2:16:07
  Speaker 14: know what to do. He was like, Oh, okay.
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  Speaker 4: Well, thanks. Thanks so much. I get to see you again.
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  Speaker 3: I was like, absolutely.
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  Speaker 14: Because again, I was not going to tip this man
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  Speaker 14: off that I was scared or freaking out.
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  Speaker 3: He ended up.
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  Speaker 14: Waiting outside with me for the 15 minutes it took
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  Speaker 14: for the Uber to come. he kissed me on the
• 2:16:22
  Speaker 14: cheek goodbye i got in the car and left now
• 2:16:24
  Speaker 14: i know there's gonna be people who pick me apart
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  Speaker 14: for this response but it got me out of life
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  Speaker 14: and i'm i would do it again in a heartbeat
• 2:16:30
  Speaker 14: other than i would have just never gone in the
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  Speaker 14: first place and for those of you who ask if
• 2:16:34
  Speaker 14: i turned him in to the police no i did
• 2:16:35
  Speaker 14: not i have had a lot of experience with this
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  Speaker 14: type of thing as a therapist and i see that
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  Speaker 14: unless there's actual like crazy violence they just don't take
• 2:16:44
  Speaker 14: it seriously a threat is like he said she said
• 2:16:46
  Speaker 14: it's not going to be taken seriously I did report
• 2:16:49
  Speaker 14: him to the app that I matched with him on.
• 2:16:51
  Speaker 14: I was like a dangerous person, but that's the extent
• 2:16:53
  Speaker 14: of it. I obviously blocked him right away, which you
• 2:16:55
  Speaker 14: guys know, if you follow.
• 2:16:56
  Speaker 4: Me, I don't block people up easily, but that was terrifying.
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  Speaker 14: And I did go to therapy after that and really
• 2:17:01
  Speaker 14: dug into why I was such a people pleaser and
• 2:17:03
  Speaker 14: struggled so much with just saying I'm uncomfortable. And I
• 2:17:06
  Speaker 14: did a lot of work around that, but I could
• 2:17:09
  Speaker 14: do a whole series on this and the importance of
• 2:17:10
  Speaker 14: boundaries and being able to communicate.
• 2:17:12
  Speaker 4: No means no, but it was a pretty terrifying situation.
• 2:17:16
  Speaker 3: Crazy, right?
• 2:17:17
  Speaker 24: Okay, I saw a girl on TikTok do her hench
• 2:17:19
  Speaker 24: horse story and it triggered some of my PTSD.
• 2:17:22
  Speaker 1: So I'm going to be doing one of mine for y'all.
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  Speaker 1: So this was my freshman year.
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  Speaker 24: I decided to download every single dating app that there
• 2:17:29
  Speaker 24: was because college men just were not it.
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  Speaker 4: And look, let me be your big sister and tell
• 2:17:34
  Speaker 4: you this.
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  Speaker 24: If you're in college, about to go to college, about
• 2:17:37
  Speaker 24: to grab, do not get on no dating app. It
• 2:17:39
  Speaker 24: is literally a canon event to download a dating app
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  Speaker 24: and meet like literally the man of your nightmares.
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  Speaker 3: Because I met mine.
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  Speaker 1: And it just so happened he was a part of
• 2:17:47
  Speaker 1: the army.
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  Speaker 4: So we matched.
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  Speaker 1: And we you know started doing a little small talk
• 2:17:52
  Speaker 1: on hinge like i was texting but i wasn't really
• 2:17:55
  Speaker 1: texting for real because like the app When you first
• 2:17:58
  Speaker 1: download dating apps, it's like they just throw anybody at you.
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  Speaker 3: So it took a lot of like.
• 2:18:02
  Speaker 24: Swipe, swipe, swipe, swipe, swipe to finally come across it.
• 2:18:05
  Speaker 4: And once I did, like, you know, we had small
• 2:18:06
  Speaker 4: talk here and there, whatever.
• 2:18:08
  Speaker 1: And then we decided to move it to iMessage and
• 2:18:10
  Speaker 1: we started talking to Maura.
• 2:18:11
  Speaker 4: And then he was like, oh, I want to take
• 2:18:12
  Speaker 4: you out to eat. Cool. We got to eat and everything.
• 2:18:15
  Speaker 4: Everything's great.
• 2:18:15
  Speaker 24: And then he takes me back to his apartment, whatever.
• 2:18:19
  Speaker 24: We go in there, meet his dog and whatever.
• 2:18:22
  Speaker 4: Dog's really cute. Cool.
• 2:18:23
  Speaker 3: Go to the room and we just go to sleep.
• 2:18:25
  Speaker 3: Nothing happened. So this continues.
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  Speaker 24: Like we would go on a date. We would like
• 2:18:28
  Speaker 24: go out. We would just do things, always spending time together.
• 2:18:31
  Speaker 24: And I was really thinking that this was the.
• 2:18:32
  Speaker 10: One, y'all.
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  Speaker 4: He would get me flowers.
• 2:18:34
  Speaker 3: He would get me gifts.
• 2:18:34
  Speaker 24: He would show up to my dorm and stuff. Like
• 2:18:36
  Speaker 24: super duper sweet. I was thinking nothing was wrong with
• 2:18:38
  Speaker 24: this man. Or so I thought. One fateful day. I
• 2:18:42
  Speaker 24: don't know why he decided to do this, but he
• 2:18:44
  Speaker 24: asked me if I had Snapchat. And I had Snapchat,
• 2:18:46
  Speaker 24: but it was when I was like in middle school,
• 2:18:48
  Speaker 24: high school-ish. I really only keep it just for like memories.
• 2:18:51
  Speaker 24: I don't use it that much. I was like, yeah,
• 2:18:53
  Speaker 24: but I'll use this. He said, add me on there.
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  Speaker 4: Cool.
• 2:18:55
  Speaker 24: I had him on Snapchat and he sends me a
• 2:18:58
  Speaker 24: video and the video is him engaging in sexual intercourse
• 2:19:02
  Speaker 24: with some other girl. And I can clearly see it's
• 2:19:04
  Speaker 24: him and I can clearly see it's another girl. And
• 2:19:07
  Speaker 24: he's like, can I do this to you whenever we, yeah.
• 2:19:10
  Speaker 24: So obviously I am confuzzled.
• 2:19:12
  Speaker 3: I'm being boozled.
• 2:19:13
  Speaker 24: I'm just sitting there livid looking at my phone. Like,
• 2:19:16
  Speaker 24: why would you send me this? Even if it's not recent,
• 2:19:19
  Speaker 24: why would you send me your tape with another girl?
• 2:19:23
  Speaker 24: It wasn't making no type of sense, y'all. So I
• 2:19:24
  Speaker 24: did not even give him the time of day. I
• 2:19:27
  Speaker 24: blocked him his number. I blocked him on Snapchat. I
• 2:19:29
  Speaker 24: blocked him on Instagram.
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  Speaker 3: Blocked him.