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- 0:01Speaker 1: The Flavor podcast Network.
- 0:03Speaker 2: You're listening to Stacis Zura and Charlie's off the Record.
- 0:09Speaker 1: What's your record?
- 0:11Speaker 3: Welcome to off the Record with staces Zura and Charlie.
- 0:15Speaker 3: This is where, you know, we bring things here that
- 0:19Speaker 3: maybe we don't.
- 0:19Speaker 1: Want all the ears to hear on the radio. This
- 0:22Speaker 1: is so funny though.
- 0:23Speaker 3: So yesterday I went to a Christmas lunch put on
- 0:27Speaker 3: by a program I'm a part of called Age Concern.
- 0:30Speaker 3: It's a nationwide program basically just to support the older
- 0:33Speaker 3: communities where the you know, it's through activities, food, connecting
- 0:39Speaker 3: them with other people. And I have an old person
- 0:42Speaker 3: buddy called Judith. She's my dear friend. We've been friends
- 0:45Speaker 3: for about three years now. So we got the invite,
- 0:49Speaker 3: you know, to go along to a free lunch to
- 0:52Speaker 3: the Pamuel Basin. It's called Wellington's Restaurant's part of all
- 0:55Speaker 3: these big lodges and conference rooms and stuff. Yeah yeah, yeah,
- 1:00Speaker 3: is a buffet. Yeah, yes, that's the one. That's the one.
- 1:03Speaker 1: That's the one.
- 1:04Speaker 3: But you know the thing about Judith, bless her heart,
- 1:08Speaker 3: I love her in a door hers so much, but
- 1:09Speaker 3: she is blind. And the reason I'm saying bliss her
- 1:13Speaker 3: heart is. I think she thinks I'm very large.
- 1:19Speaker 4: What do you mean, girl?
- 1:22Speaker 3: Yeah?
- 1:22Speaker 1: Because she made a comment right.
- 1:24Speaker 3: So when I picked her up from her room, there's
- 1:28Speaker 3: a wheelchair there, and she sat in the wheelchair and
- 1:33Speaker 3: I'm taking her out front and she said, oh my gosh,
- 1:37Speaker 3: you must be getting so tired.
- 1:41Speaker 1: From walking down the hallway. You're going to be so
- 1:42Speaker 1: exhausted enough to pushing me around now. She said different.
- 1:46Speaker 4: Comments like that times. It's her way of saying thank
- 1:49Speaker 4: you for doing this for her. Has she touched you ever?
- 1:52Speaker 3: She holds my arm to go thing, which again I
- 1:58Speaker 3: don't have small arms, and if never, it's never been
- 2:02Speaker 3: a small area for me. Even at my Thinness, my
- 2:05Speaker 3: arms always look and they're very squshy, there's no muscle there,
- 2:10Speaker 3: and I think Judith, Judith, No, she doesn't do that.
- 2:16Speaker 1: Yeah, but watch part of your arms.
- 2:19Speaker 3: She's feeling something though. I think she's feeling my arm
- 2:23Speaker 3: fat because she goes just like it stays. I know
- 2:26Speaker 3: she's been nice, but it's also she goes, oh, you
- 2:29Speaker 3: must be getn so tired, And I'm like, babes, I'm
- 2:32Speaker 3: walking you down a hallway.
- 2:33Speaker 1: It's fine.
- 2:34Speaker 3: And then she said, oh, you're going to have a
- 2:36Speaker 3: good nap after today, having a walk me around everywhere.
- 2:41Speaker 1: And I'm like, she's like, it's not like.
- 2:47Speaker 4: It's one time you missed seeing him because you're having
- 2:50Speaker 4: a nap. So maybe that's the reference. But also she's
- 2:53Speaker 4: a very small person, isn't she.
- 2:55Speaker 1: Yeah she is.
- 2:57Speaker 2: She is probably just you know, she knows that you're
- 3:00Speaker 2: you can tell out of your busy schedule to be
- 3:01Speaker 2: there with her, So that's just her being nice.
- 3:04Speaker 4: I think it is because she always worries it tired,
- 3:06Speaker 4: you don't want to do it.
- 3:07Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, you know, so she knows that you're a
- 3:10Speaker 2: young lady and you have a busy life.
- 3:12Speaker 4: Yeah, sorry to interrupt.
- 3:13Speaker 1: How old is she?
- 3:16Speaker 3: I think she's like Sivines, she's in New Sianes.
- 3:20Speaker 1: Maybe I think under seventy five.
- 3:22Speaker 4: I think she's getting close to eighty actually, because just
- 3:24Speaker 4: doing the method on how long you've been hanging out.
- 3:26Speaker 4: But that is like it's generational thing. They say things
- 3:29Speaker 4: like that, like of course you must be getting tired,
- 3:32Speaker 4: which means thank you for pushing me around.
- 3:34Speaker 2: That's still what you're saying today, Not like she's struggling. No, no, no,
- 3:38Speaker 2: you're thinking different.
- 3:39Speaker 1: It's just like, did you do my own insecurities? Yeah?
- 3:42Speaker 2: When I go pick up my mom to take her groceries, like,
- 3:45Speaker 2: I'm sorry, so I know you're you know you're tired
- 3:48Speaker 2: from work. I'm like both, I am tired, but like
- 3:52Speaker 2: I'm here, do you know what I mean.
- 3:53Speaker 3: It's just like yeah, well, okay, well I'm glad I
- 3:57Speaker 3: think that because I don't want to mind.
- 4:00Speaker 1: You know, they do just say pretty pretty honest.
- 4:02Speaker 4: Yeah, my mother in law pops out was awesome, straight
- 4:06Speaker 4: up comments.
- 4:07Speaker 1: You know I love that. What like what, well, yeah,
- 4:12Speaker 1: let me think about one. Well, I know you know
- 4:15Speaker 1: what I mean, like just spit it out.
- 4:19Speaker 2: No, okay, so I'm not going to say it, but
- 4:22Speaker 2: I do get off the record.
- 4:23Speaker 3: Man.
- 4:24Speaker 1: What's it about.
- 4:26Speaker 2: It's about when Stace made her announcement and I was
- 4:28Speaker 2: at the gym and what the lady said to me,
- 4:29Speaker 2: Oh yeah, yeah, she's quite an old lady, all right,
- 4:33Speaker 2: you know.
- 4:34Speaker 3: So it's like, yeah, it's the old people, no filter,
- 4:37Speaker 3: they're no foot dummy, and if.
- 4:39Speaker 2: You put it on wait, especially like the tongue and
- 4:41Speaker 2: aunties and mum bro, they will tell you. They will
- 4:45Speaker 2: tell you like before before they even say hello, they'll
- 4:47Speaker 2: just say you're gone fat.
- 4:48Speaker 4: Yeah, But also they say you've gone fair or you're
- 4:51Speaker 4: too skinny. They never seems to be.
- 4:52Speaker 1: In between, but in between, You're right, Yeah, they do
- 4:55Speaker 1: say that.
- 4:56Speaker 4: And the lady at the gym, by the way, just
- 4:57Speaker 4: that wasn't bad what she said Wow. She didn't need
- 5:01Speaker 4: to add the fact that she goes, oh wow.
- 5:03Speaker 2: I wanted to tell you guys. She goes, oh, she
- 5:06Speaker 2: that Stacey's leaving. I'm like, yeah, yeah, no, She's had
- 5:10Speaker 2: good run. She's like, oh, I'm not gonna listen no more.
- 5:13Speaker 2: I'm like, Okay, Zara and I are still work there. Funny.
- 5:18Speaker 1: I love it.
- 5:19Speaker 3: I love it. I love the honesty, I love the bluntness,
- 5:22Speaker 3: and I love you Jude.
- 5:23Speaker 2: Thanks for listening to stace A, Zarah and Charlie's Off
- 5:26Speaker 2: the record. Catch them live every weekday from six am
- 5:30Speaker 2: on Flavor