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Rejecting Parents · Let's Ask the Mamas!

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  Speaker 1: We got a question for American mama's. Dear mama's, what's
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  Speaker 1: something that you do that you would never tell your
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  Speaker 1: spouse about?
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  Speaker 2: Well, let's ask our American mama's.
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  Speaker 3: Mama Mama and joining us now are American Mama's train
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  Speaker 3: Ediville and Kimberly Burlison.
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  Speaker 1: This is the perfect place to discuss this, since there's
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  Speaker 1: no way either one of your husbands could ever hear
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  Speaker 1: it is that you never would tell your husband about.
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  Speaker 1: Since it's going out on a podcast, it's going out
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  Speaker 1: on streaming, it's going out live over the air on radio.
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  Speaker 1: So yes, Terry, Kimberly, what is something that you would
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  Speaker 1: never tell your spouse?
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  Speaker 3: Ale?
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  Speaker 4: Oh, nothing, absolutely nothing. I saw this one lady. I
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  Speaker 4: saw this question asked, and I remember this lady telling
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  Speaker 4: the story that every time she goes to the grocery
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  Speaker 4: store she would buy gift cards to her favorite restaurants.
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  Speaker 4: So whenever her husband, whenever she wanted to go out
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  Speaker 4: to eat, her husband would say we need to save money.
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  Speaker 4: She'll go, wait a minute, I think I have a
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  Speaker 4: gift card from last Christmas, he said. I even pretend
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  Speaker 4: that I'm searching for it, and I'm like, oh, Texas
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  Speaker 4: Roadhouse Care we come. It made me laugh so hard better, Yeah,
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  Speaker 4: because I know that my secret and Mike will not
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  Speaker 4: be hearing this is he does not like me spending
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  Speaker 4: money on the yard. Okay, he just thinks it's a
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  Speaker 4: waste of money. He can get to it when he
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  Speaker 4: can get to it, but somehow, magically it just keeps
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  Speaker 4: getting done. But I wait till he goes to work.
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  Speaker 4: He works a week and then awful week. So during
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  Speaker 4: his work week is when the yard. I just been
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  Speaker 4: working so hard in that yard because he's gone. But
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  Speaker 4: that's when I'm bringing in exactly.
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  Speaker 1: I see. So it's about a spending money thing.
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  Speaker 5: Yes, I think that's probably the majority of the women's secret.
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  Speaker 5: It has to do with money, because you know, man,
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  Speaker 5: are you use a little tight or they're a little
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  Speaker 5: more controlling about it, you know most of the time.
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  Speaker 5: And so I guess mine goes back to that too.
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  Speaker 5: I was just trying to think, and well, there's a
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  Speaker 5: couple of things. Actually, whenever there is like whenever we
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  Speaker 5: put together some sort of auction and we're supposed to
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  Speaker 5: go to the place to you know, ask people to
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  Speaker 5: donate an item.
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  Speaker 2: Yes, I hate that.
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  Speaker 5: I hate asking people for money. I hate asking companies.
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  Speaker 5: I know they're asked this all year long about all
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  Speaker 5: the different schools. I go buy it, I go buy
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  Speaker 5: them item and just donate it myself.
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  Speaker 1: So you buy it from whatever store. You say, Oh,
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  Speaker 1: look this store donating. Yeah, the store has no idea
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  Speaker 1: that they quote unquote donated the right.
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  Speaker 2: Yes, so he'll probably hear this and I'm in trouble.
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  Speaker 4: Well, just yesterday you brought in a lot of packages
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  Speaker 4: that you that you were to go. Yes.
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  Speaker 5: In fact, my daughter in law will say if I
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  Speaker 5: get something comes in, because do you want me to
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  Speaker 5: go put this in your room?
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  Speaker 2: Or do you want is it care? If you're do
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  Speaker 2: you care if it's out? And you know, Kevin sees
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  Speaker 2: it and it's not even that he's like what you
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  Speaker 2: can't have that? He wants to know about each one? Okay,
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  Speaker 2: like what did you need? How much was this one?
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  Speaker 4: Yeah?
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  Speaker 2: You know, I'm like, you know, you know where I was?
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  Speaker 2: Well you said that.
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  Speaker 4: You usually will just say it's for Ridge, like if
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  Speaker 4: there's a.
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  Speaker 5: Package and then anything goes, anything goes. But like we
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  Speaker 5: had a why did why did Ridge these? Yeah? Yeah, exactly,
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  Speaker 5: Well we had a party for Ridge over the weekend
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  Speaker 5: and we had way more. You know, all of a sudden,
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  Speaker 5: the jumpy thing comes to the front yard and Kevin's like, well,
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  Speaker 5: I didn't I didn't know we were ordering that.
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  Speaker 2: I said, yes, yeah, for sure. Remember He's like I can't.
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  Speaker 5: I was like, you know, then all the stuff comes
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  Speaker 5: in for the party and he's like, okay, Jerry.
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  Speaker 2: Remember we were like, it's for ridge, and you know,
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  Speaker 2: he's like okay.
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  Speaker 5: Yeah.
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  Speaker 4: We also usually get around certain things that we want
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  Speaker 4: to do by telling our husbands we're splitting it. Like
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  Speaker 4: we'll say we're splitting everything. She's going to Venmo. Me, well,
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  Speaker 4: my husband has no access to my Venmo, you know,
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  Speaker 4: so we'll do the whole Venmo thing like, oh, we're
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  Speaker 4: splitting everything. Yeah, well this was literally nothing. This was
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  Speaker 4: literally nothing.
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  Speaker 1: So basically the things that you won't tell your husband about,
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  Speaker 1: that you would never ever tell your spouse about, it's
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  Speaker 1: all related to money.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, don't you think that's like?
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  Speaker 2: But you know what, here's the deal. They ask us questions.
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  Speaker 5: I guarantee you that now I'm getting mad because you know,
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  Speaker 5: these guys who will be hunting, they got you know,
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  Speaker 5: they order these hundreds and thousands of dollars worth of
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  Speaker 5: hunting stuff, equipment, waiters, all the stuff, and then they.
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  Speaker 2: Want to know millions million, and then they want.
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  Speaker 1: To know like I had a waiter.
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  Speaker 5: So and then they'll look at the you know, Kevin
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  Speaker 5: goes through our bank stuff at each shine and go, wait,
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  Speaker 5: what does the skin? Why does the skincare stuff cost
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  Speaker 5: so much? Well, then I'll blow up. Then I'll say
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  Speaker 5: I don't say anything about you. I don't say anything
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  Speaker 5: about drawer boxes that come in from waterfowl or you know,
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  Speaker 5: all these all these all the duck fake ducks we have,
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  Speaker 5: like he just cleaned like hundreds of them. So then
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  Speaker 5: I'll say I don't do that to you. I don't say, hey,
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  Speaker 5: what are you spending this own? I could be wrong.
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  Speaker 5: Maybe some wives do that.
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  Speaker 4: That's how we justify keeping certain things to ourselves. Yeah,
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  Speaker 4: we don't want the argument. That's what it's all.
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  Speaker 1: About, avoiding the argument.
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  Speaker 4: Avoid the argument.
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  Speaker 2: Well, my argument is I don't ask you about your purchases.
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  Speaker 2: So uh huh, you know, fare is fair? Okay about that?
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  Speaker 2: You don't have anything that y'all. There's no secret.
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  Speaker 1: Really, unless my wife is ordering a whole bunch of
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  Speaker 1: stuff that I have absolutely no idea.
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  Speaker 4: You shaking her head.
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  Speaker 2: She does. I knew it.
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  Speaker 1: I knew it, She's pointed. Okay, if you like s
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  Speaker 1: thank you so much, thank you,