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Season 5 - Episode 133 - What is this been holding me back from? · Good Morning From The Chicken Coop!

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  Hey everybody, welcome to the Good Morning from the Chicken
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  Coop podcast. My name is Kim Johnson and I am
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  a mastermindset coach, creative strategist, and also happen to
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  be a farmer. This is my chicken coop and I
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  come out here every day to record a podcast to teach
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  distinctions, possibilities, new ways of thinking, and just bring
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  some joy into the world. So welcome to the coop, and
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  let's start your day off in a fantastic way, everybody.
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  Good morning from the Chicken Coop.
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  Yeah. You know, I coach lots of
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  different types of people and lots of different types of
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  situations. And that's the bonus of being in
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  the business that I'm in. You get to have a variety of
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  people that you work with. There's one thing that's it's
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  incredibly common across the board, and it doesn't matter how
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  old you are. It doesn't matter what you do
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  for a living, but it's definitely prevalent.
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  So can you guess what it might be?
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  What is it that all these people, including myself,
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  sometimes suffer from? Got you thinking, don't I?
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  But here's the thing, it's you're probably not going to
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  believe it when I tell you, but it's always the same thing of
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  wondering what are other people going to think?
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  And it never ceases to amaze me how that shows up.
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  Now, most of the time in my life, I do not suffer from this.
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  I just generally don't have a, a situation where that comes up
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  from me. I kind of am like, I don't
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  really care. Like when it comes to what I'm
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  doing here in the chicken coop or in the garden or anything
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  else. Sometimes I just don't care what
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  other people think. But when there are things, there
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  are sensitivities that I say, huh, I wonder what other people
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  are going to think about that or if they're going to say
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  something about that. And a lot of these things link
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  back to childhood, but a lot of them don't.
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  A lot of them are just like our own insecurities.
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  So for me, I can tell you one of those insecurities has often
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  come in about clothes. I, I know everybody thinks most
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  women are just so into clothes and I'm not into clothes.
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  I just like to wear loose comfortable clothes.
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  I like to hang out. I, I just am not someone who is
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  really into it. When I was younger, I used to
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  try, I would go and get things and then I just never felt
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  comfortable in them. I, I actually felt goofy in
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  them. And I remember when I was very
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  little, my mother would always want to put me in a dress and
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  I'd be like, I don't want to wear a dress.
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  I'm more comfortable in jeans, shorts like Jean shorts on tank
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  tops, flip flops, sneakers, hiking boots, you name it.
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  Something like that, but not fancy clothes.
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  I'm just not into it. It's just not my jam.
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  Even when I worked on the road for years for Tony Robbins, it
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  was always just simple black pants and a black long sleeve
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  shirt. Black tank tops, black
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  sleeveless shirts. But but I just never got into
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  it, never got into the jewelry, never got into doing all these
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  crazy things. I mean, other than the 80s with
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  hair that was like ridiculous. But besides that, and I just
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  didn't do it. And I feel like there's a
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  sensitivity around that because people will say something about
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  my clothes. And I've heard it many times
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  from people. They've made comments about my
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  clothes. I even had a speaker once from
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  stage say he was saying thank you to me, which was what's so
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  funny for running a room and making him, you know, have a
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  successful room at the back with the sales table.
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  And he said he that he wanted to thank Kim Baggy Pants Johnson,
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  which I was appalled by that he would say something like that
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  because it was sensitivity for me.
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  And we all have them. Recently had someone say to me
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  that they didn't want to go out with somebody because they were
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  afraid of what other people might think.
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  And that's so sad because the person that they were talking
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  about is a good person. So what are we going to wonder
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  about that? Why would we do that to
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  ourselves? I had somebody else recently
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  say, well, I don't want to start a business like that because I
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  feel like if I do, people are going to think I'm being foolish
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  and petty. And this list could go on and on
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  and on. And that's why we have to look
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  at it within ourselves. So I truly don't care.
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  That's why I am putting videos up the way I'm putting videos
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  up. You see me just as I am.
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  I don't run around with makeup on.
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  I don't run around with my hair done.
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  I don't run around in fancy clothes.
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  I'm on a farm for crying out loud.
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  So you have to ask yourself, where does this show up in my
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  life and what is it holding me back from?
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  That's the most important thing. What is this belief holding me
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  back from and what is it allowing me to believe?
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  That's just ridiculous. So you know, somebody says to
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  me, well, I it's so cool you have a green thumb.
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  I don't have a green thumb. But maybe you're just trying to
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  grow the wrong plants. Maybe you just need to see
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  something else in yourself. Maybe you need to try something
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  different. Whatever it may be, whatever it
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  is, my friends challenge that. What is this belief holding me
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  back from? Because I promise you, you will
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  find something good on the other side.
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  All right, everybody, I am off to water some plants and I will
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  see you all tomorrow. Have a blessed day.
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  Bye.