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- 5:08Brandon
- 5:08D.
- 5:09Campbell,
- 5:09author
- 5:10of
- 5:10the
- 5:10book
- 5:10oh
- 5:11Brother,
- 5:11My
- 5:11Brother.
- 5:12Thanks,
- 5:13Brandon,
- 5:13for
- 5:13appearing
- 5:14on
- 5:14the
- 5:14Adventures
- 5:15in
- 5:15the
- 5:15Heart
- 5:15of
- 5:15Children's
- 5:16Book
- 5:16Authors
- 5:17podcast.
- 5:18Brandon
- 5:18has
- 5:19written
- 5:19a
- 5:19children's
- 5:20book
- 5:21with
- 5:21just
- 5:22a
- 5:22little
- 5:22different
- 5:23twist
- 5:24to
- 5:24it
- 5:24than
- 5:25normal.
- 5:25I
- 5:26loved
- 5:26it
- 5:26because
- 5:26it
- 5:27was
- 5:2710
- 5:28chapters
- 5:29and
- 5:29we'll
- 5:30jump
- 5:30more
- 5:30into
- 5:30that
- 5:31because
- 5:31it
- 5:31was
- 5:31very
- 5:32engaging.
- 5:33Brandon,
- 5:34before
- 5:34we
- 5:34get
- 5:35into
- 5:35the
- 5:35details
- 5:36of
- 5:36your
- 5:36book,
- 5:37can
- 5:37you
- 5:37tell
- 5:37us
- 5:38what
- 5:38being
- 5:39a
- 5:39children's
- 5:39book
- 5:40author
- 5:40means
- 5:40to
- 5:41you?
- 5:42Being
- 5:42a
- 5:42children's
- 5:43book
- 5:43author
- 5:44means
- 5:45ownership,
- 5:47ownership
- 5:47of
- 5:48the
- 5:48story,
- 5:50representation
- 5:52and
- 5:53inspiration
- 5:55to
- 5:55children
- 5:56in
- 5:57ways
- 5:57that
- 5:58not
- 5:58only
- 5:59shapes
- 5:59their
- 5:59mind,
- 6:01but
- 6:01could
- 6:01also
- 6:02shape
- 6:02the
- 6:02outcome
- 6:03of
- 6:03who
- 6:03they
- 6:04become
- 6:05as
- 6:05adults.
- 6:06And
- 6:07so
- 6:08I
- 6:08am
- 6:10very
- 6:11blessed
- 6:11to
- 6:12be
- 6:12a
- 6:12children's
- 6:13book
- 6:13author.
- 6:14It's
- 6:14something
- 6:15that
- 6:15I
- 6:15don't
- 6:15take
- 6:16lightly
- 6:16or
- 6:16for
- 6:17granted,
- 6:18and
- 6:19I'm
- 6:19just
- 6:20honored
- 6:20with
- 6:21the
- 6:21response
- 6:21that
- 6:22I've
- 6:22been
- 6:23receiving
- 6:23from
- 6:24children,
- 6:24but
- 6:25most
- 6:25importantly,
- 6:26parents
- 6:27and
- 6:27educators.
- 6:28Fantastic.
- 6:29Tell
- 6:30us
- 6:30about
- 6:30the
- 6:31inspiration
- 6:32behind
- 6:32your
- 6:32book.
- 6:34The
- 6:34inspiration
- 6:35comes
- 6:35from
- 6:37my
- 6:37own
- 6:37childhood
- 6:38growing
- 6:38up
- 6:39in
- 6:40a
- 6:40blended
- 6:40family,
- 6:41being
- 6:42raised
- 6:42by
- 6:42a
- 6:43single
- 6:43mother
- 6:44with
- 6:45four
- 6:45of
- 6:45the
- 6:45siblings.
- 6:46We
- 6:47had
- 6:48three
- 6:49different
- 6:49dads
- 6:50in
- 6:50between,
- 6:51so
- 6:51my
- 6:51mom
- 6:52had
- 6:52previous
- 6:52relationships
- 6:53and
- 6:54for
- 6:55whatever
- 6:55reason
- 6:55they
- 6:55didn't
- 6:56work
- 6:56out.
- 6:57I
- 6:57am
- 6:58the
- 6:58fourth
- 6:59of
- 6:59five.
- 7:01I
- 7:01have
- 7:01a
- 7:02younger
- 7:02brother.
- 7:03We
- 7:03all
- 7:03grew
- 7:03up
- 7:03in
- 7:03the
- 7:04same
- 7:04house.
- 7:04And
- 7:05growing
- 7:05up,
- 7:06you
- 7:06weren't
- 7:07half
- 7:07brothers
- 7:08or
- 7:08half
- 7:09sister,
- 7:09you
- 7:09were
- 7:09just
- 7:10brothers
- 7:10and
- 7:10sisters.
- 7:11I
- 7:11just
- 7:12remember
- 7:12growing
- 7:13up
- 7:14in
- 7:14a
- 7:14household.
- 7:15What
- 7:15I
- 7:15was
- 7:15seeing
- 7:16around
- 7:16me
- 7:18from
- 7:18the
- 7:18outside
- 7:19world
- 7:19was
- 7:20completely
- 7:20different.
- 7:21And
- 7:22so
- 7:22when
- 7:22I
- 7:22would
- 7:22go
- 7:22to
- 7:22school,
- 7:23I
- 7:24felt
- 7:24different
- 7:24because
- 7:25of
- 7:25what
- 7:26I
- 7:26experienced
- 7:26inside
- 7:27of
- 7:27the
- 7:27home
- 7:28looked
- 7:28different
- 7:28for
- 7:28me.
- 7:29And
- 7:30so
- 7:30I
- 7:30wanted
- 7:30to
- 7:30create
- 7:31a
- 7:31story
- 7:33that
- 7:33I
- 7:33wish
- 7:33that
- 7:34I
- 7:34had
- 7:34growing
- 7:35up
- 7:35where
- 7:35I
- 7:35can
- 7:36see
- 7:36characters
- 7:38that
- 7:38I
- 7:38could
- 7:38identify
- 7:39with
- 7:39that
- 7:40had
- 7:40same
- 7:40family
- 7:41structure
- 7:41that
- 7:41I
- 7:42had
- 7:42growing
- 7:43up.
- 7:44But
- 7:44then
- 7:44also
- 7:45I
- 7:45wanted
- 7:45to
- 7:46shape
- 7:47an
- 7:48avenue
- 7:48or
- 7:48a
- 7:49platform
- 7:50that
- 7:50is
- 7:51psychologically
- 7:52safe
- 7:52for
- 7:53children
- 7:54and
- 7:54parents
- 7:55where
- 7:55they
- 7:56could
- 7:57enjoy
- 7:57an
- 7:58experience
- 7:59but
- 7:59also
- 8:01communicate
- 8:03about
- 8:03the
- 8:03experience
- 8:04about
- 8:04the
- 8:04book,
- 8:05which
- 8:05then
- 8:05can
- 8:06lead
- 8:06to
- 8:06more
- 8:07deeper
- 8:08conversations,
- 8:09deepen
- 8:10their
- 8:10relationships.
- 8:11And
- 8:12so
- 8:13overarching
- 8:14goal
- 8:15or
- 8:15inspiration
- 8:16of
- 8:16this
- 8:16book
- 8:16is
- 8:16to
- 8:17alleviate
- 8:19some
- 8:19of
- 8:19the
- 8:19effects
- 8:20of
- 8:20childhood
- 8:21trauma.
- 8:22One
- 8:23of
- 8:23the
- 8:23most
- 8:24significant
- 8:25one
- 8:25that
- 8:25I
- 8:25experienced
- 8:26growing
- 8:26up
- 8:27was
- 8:28neglect
- 8:28and
- 8:28abandonment,
- 8:30which
- 8:30then
- 8:31can
- 8:31lead
- 8:32to
- 8:32many
- 8:33different
- 8:33challenges
- 8:34that
- 8:34more
- 8:35people
- 8:35can
- 8:36have.
- 8:36When
- 8:37we
- 8:37talk
- 8:37about
- 8:37mental
- 8:38health
- 8:38illnesses,
- 8:39it's
- 8:39an
- 8:39emotional
- 8:40illness
- 8:41that
- 8:42most
- 8:42likely
- 8:43will
- 8:43come
- 8:43from
- 8:44a
- 8:45detachment
- 8:45or
- 8:46a
- 8:46defect
- 8:47in
- 8:47the
- 8:47intimacy
- 8:48area
- 8:49that
- 8:49it
- 8:50is
- 8:50developed
- 8:50between
- 8:51caregiver
- 8:51and
- 8:52the
- 8:52child
- 8:52in
- 8:53that
- 8:53relationship.
- 8:54So
- 8:54my
- 8:55inspiration
- 8:56and
- 8:56I
- 8:56can
- 8:56identify
- 8:57with
- 8:57that
- 8:57in
- 8:58some
- 8:58ways
- 8:59because
- 9:00even
- 9:00though
- 9:00I
- 9:00don't
- 9:00come
- 9:01from
- 9:01a
- 9:01blended
- 9:01family.
- 9:02I'm
- 9:03the
- 9:03older
- 9:03brother
- 9:04and
- 9:04I
- 9:04have
- 9:04a
- 9:04younger
- 9:05brother.
- 9:06So
- 9:06you
- 9:06can
- 9:06see
- 9:06how
- 9:07I
- 9:07can
- 9:07identify
- 9:07with
- 9:08your
- 9:08story
- 9:08right
- 9:09away.
- 9:10And
- 9:10then
- 9:10the
- 9:10other
- 9:10thing
- 9:11is
- 9:11that
- 9:12even
- 9:12though
- 9:13I
- 9:13was
- 9:14fortunate
- 9:14that
- 9:15my
- 9:15parents
- 9:16were
- 9:16together
- 9:16for
- 9:1762
- 9:17years,
- 9:19when
- 9:19my
- 9:19children
- 9:20got
- 9:20married,
- 9:21they
- 9:22went
- 9:22through
- 9:23a
- 9:23couple
- 9:24of
- 9:24different
- 9:24relationships
- 9:25and
- 9:25therefore
- 9:27my
- 9:27grandchildren
- 9:28are
- 9:29coming
- 9:29from
- 9:29a
- 9:29blended
- 9:30family
- 9:31in
- 9:31today's
- 9:31society,
- 9:32I
- 9:32think
- 9:32it
- 9:33almost
- 9:33starts
- 9:34to
- 9:34be
- 9:34normal.
- 9:35I
- 9:35know
- 9:35you
- 9:35talked
- 9:36when
- 9:36you
- 9:36went
- 9:36to
- 9:36school,
- 9:37it
- 9:37maybe
- 9:38wasn't
- 9:38that
- 9:38normal,
- 9:39but
- 9:39I,
- 9:39I
- 9:39would
- 9:39say
- 9:40today
- 9:40I'm
- 9:40noticing
- 9:41it's
- 9:41more
- 9:42and
- 9:42more
- 9:42normal
- 9:42that
- 9:43kids
- 9:43can
- 9:44relate
- 9:44to
- 9:44each
- 9:44other
- 9:45because
- 9:45they're
- 9:45coming
- 9:45from
- 9:46blended
- 9:46families.
- 9:47Anyone
- 9:47coming
- 9:48from
- 9:48a
- 9:48blended
- 9:48family
- 9:49can
- 9:49definitely,
- 9:50when
- 9:50they're
- 9:51reading
- 9:51your
- 9:51book.
- 9:52There's
- 9:52lots
- 9:53of
- 9:53great
- 9:53stuff
- 9:54in
- 9:54here
- 9:54and
- 9:54we'll
- 9:55get
- 9:55more
- 9:55into
- 9:55that.
- 9:56And
- 9:56what
- 9:56I
- 9:57found
- 9:57out
- 9:57that
- 9:57was
- 9:57interesting
- 9:58to
- 9:58your
- 9:58point
- 9:58is
- 9:59that
- 9:59although
- 10:00it's
- 10:00being
- 10:00more
- 10:02normalized
- 10:02in
- 10:03the
- 10:03sense,
- 10:03but
- 10:04it's
- 10:04still
- 10:04a
- 10:04subculture.
- 10:05So
- 10:06there's
- 10:06still
- 10:06far
- 10:07and
- 10:07few
- 10:08books
- 10:09out
- 10:10there
- 10:10about
- 10:10blended
- 10:11families
- 10:12or
- 10:12what
- 10:12the
- 10:13blended
- 10:13family
- 10:13may
- 10:14look
- 10:14like
- 10:14to
- 10:15me
- 10:15and
- 10:15so
- 10:15many
- 10:16others
- 10:16who
- 10:17grew
- 10:17up
- 10:17the
- 10:17way
- 10:18I
- 10:18did,
- 10:18that's
- 10:19becoming
- 10:19more
- 10:19normal.
- 10:20And
- 10:20so
- 10:20that's
- 10:21why
- 10:21I
- 10:21wanted
- 10:21to
- 10:22provide.
- 10:23I
- 10:23love
- 10:23what
- 10:23you've
- 10:24done
- 10:24because,
- 10:24you
- 10:24know,
- 10:25when
- 10:25I
- 10:25was
- 10:25thinking
- 10:25about
- 10:26my
- 10:26oldest
- 10:27granddaughter
- 10:28and
- 10:29her
- 10:30mother
- 10:31remarried
- 10:32and
- 10:32so
- 10:32she
- 10:32has
- 10:33a
- 10:33sister
- 10:34or
- 10:34a
- 10:34half
- 10:34sister,
- 10:35but
- 10:35she
- 10:35thinks
- 10:36of
- 10:36her
- 10:36as
- 10:36her
- 10:36sister,
- 10:37but
- 10:37there's
- 10:37a,
- 10:38there's
- 10:38a
- 10:3810
- 10:38year
- 10:39gap
- 10:39between
- 10:40them.
- 10:41And
- 10:41then
- 10:43my
- 10:43oldest
- 10:44granddaughter's
- 10:45father
- 10:46went
- 10:46into
- 10:46another
- 10:47relationship
- 10:48and
- 10:49they
- 10:49just
- 10:50had
- 10:50a
- 10:50daughter.
- 10:51And
- 10:51so
- 10:51now
- 10:51there's
- 10:5220
- 10:52years
- 10:53difference
- 10:54between
- 10:55my
- 10:55granddaughter
- 10:56and
- 10:57her
- 10:57sister.
- 10:58That's
- 10:58a
- 10:58whole
- 10:59generation.
- 11:00It's
- 11:00incredible.
- 11:01Like
- 11:01you
- 11:01said,
- 11:01Brandon,
- 11:02blended
- 11:03families,
- 11:03there's
- 11:04all
- 11:04kinds
- 11:04of
- 11:05stories.
- 11:05When
- 11:05you
- 11:05look
- 11:05at
- 11:06it
- 11:06from
- 11:06that
- 11:06aspect,
- 11:08as
- 11:08you
- 11:09rolled
- 11:10out
- 11:10your
- 11:10book
- 11:11and
- 11:13what
- 11:13were
- 11:13you
- 11:13thinking
- 11:14about
- 11:15in
- 11:15terms
- 11:15of
- 11:16building
- 11:16a
- 11:17children's
- 11:18book
- 11:18business
- 11:19plan
- 11:19or
- 11:20a
- 11:20book
- 11:20business
- 11:21around
- 11:21your
- 11:22children's
- 11:22book?
- 11:23Tell
- 11:23us
- 11:23about
- 11:24that
- 11:24process.
- 11:26Yes,
- 11:26I
- 11:27thought
- 11:27it
- 11:27was
- 11:27very
- 11:27important
- 11:28to
- 11:28have
- 11:29a
- 11:29vision,
- 11:29overarching
- 11:30vision
- 11:32for
- 11:32what
- 11:33this
- 11:33could
- 11:34become.
- 11:35And
- 11:35so
- 11:37one
- 11:37thing
- 11:37that
- 11:37I
- 11:38really
- 11:38decided
- 11:39very
- 11:39early
- 11:40on
- 11:41was
- 11:43to
- 11:43go,
- 11:44to
- 11:44try
- 11:44to
- 11:44go
- 11:45the
- 11:45more
- 11:45traditional
- 11:46route,
- 11:47a
- 11:47book
- 11:48publishing,
- 11:49because
- 11:50as
- 11:51someone
- 11:51who
- 11:51has
- 11:52business
- 11:52experience,
- 11:54as
- 11:54an
- 11:54entrepreneur,
- 11:55but
- 11:55what
- 11:55I've
- 11:56learned
- 11:56over
- 11:56time
- 11:57is
- 11:57the
- 11:57importance
- 11:58of
- 11:58relationships.
- 12:00It's
- 12:01the
- 12:01saying
- 12:01goes,
- 12:02you
- 12:02can
- 12:02go
- 12:02fast
- 12:03by
- 12:03yourself
- 12:04or
- 12:04you
- 12:04can
- 12:04go
- 12:05very
- 12:05far
- 12:06through
- 12:06the
- 12:07help
- 12:07of
- 12:07others.
- 12:08And
- 12:09so
- 12:09I
- 12:09was
- 12:09thinking
- 12:10more
- 12:10big
- 12:10picture
- 12:10and
- 12:11So
- 12:11I
- 12:11went
- 12:11the
- 12:12traditional
- 12:13route,
- 12:14receive
- 12:15over
- 12:15a
- 12:15hundred
- 12:16rejections
- 12:16from
- 12:17agents.
- 12:18And
- 12:19as
- 12:19Tyler
- 12:19Perry
- 12:19said,
- 12:20it's
- 12:20good
- 12:20when
- 12:20you
- 12:21get
- 12:21rejected
- 12:22or
- 12:22you
- 12:22doubt
- 12:22it
- 12:23because
- 12:23you
- 12:24can
- 12:24create
- 12:25ownership.
- 12:26And
- 12:27so
- 12:28by
- 12:28me
- 12:28going
- 12:28that
- 12:29route
- 12:29and
- 12:29getting
- 12:29all
- 12:29the
- 12:30notes,
- 12:30I
- 12:31said,
- 12:31this
- 12:31is
- 12:31my
- 12:31story.
- 12:32I
- 12:32know
- 12:32at
- 12:33the
- 12:33end
- 12:33of
- 12:33the
- 12:33day
- 12:33I
- 12:33can
- 12:33do
- 12:34self
- 12:34publishing
- 12:34route,
- 12:35but
- 12:35I
- 12:36really
- 12:36wanted
- 12:36to
- 12:36be
- 12:37able
- 12:37to
- 12:37get
- 12:37this
- 12:37out
- 12:37to
- 12:38the
- 12:38masses
- 12:38and
- 12:38utilize
- 12:40the
- 12:40support
- 12:40of
- 12:41a
- 12:41publisher
- 12:42as
- 12:42well.
- 12:43So
- 12:43I
- 12:43ended
- 12:43up
- 12:44going
- 12:44to
- 12:44independent
- 12:45publisher
- 12:46route
- 12:47and
- 12:47got
- 12:48picked
- 12:48up
- 12:48by
- 12:49independent
- 12:50publisher,
- 12:51which
- 12:52then
- 12:53understanding
- 12:54how
- 12:55the
- 12:55hybrid
- 12:55model
- 12:56works.
- 12:57Okay.
- 12:57You're
- 12:58more
- 12:58of
- 12:58a
- 12:58self
- 12:59hybrid
- 13:00published
- 13:01children's
- 13:01book
- 13:02author,
- 13:02is
- 13:02that
- 13:02correct?
- 13:03Yes,
- 13:04I
- 13:04would
- 13:04say
- 13:04that,
- 13:05yes.
- 13:05And
- 13:05your
- 13:06books
- 13:06are
- 13:06available
- 13:07with
- 13:08different
- 13:08formats
- 13:09on
- 13:09Amazon.
- 13:10You
- 13:11have
- 13:11an
- 13:11ebook,
- 13:12you
- 13:12have
- 13:12a
- 13:12soft
- 13:12cover.
- 13:13Are
- 13:14you
- 13:14distributed
- 13:14through
- 13:15Ingram
- 13:15Sparks
- 13:16or
- 13:16any
- 13:17other
- 13:17online
- 13:17retailers?
- 13:19Yes,
- 13:19I
- 13:20am.
- 13:20And
- 13:20that
- 13:20was
- 13:21very
- 13:21important
- 13:21for
- 13:21me
- 13:22as
- 13:22a
- 13:22new
- 13:22author
- 13:23to
- 13:24be
- 13:25able
- 13:25to
- 13:25establish
- 13:26that
- 13:27type
- 13:27of
- 13:27relationship
- 13:28with
- 13:28the
- 13:28ingramspark
- 13:29because
- 13:29I
- 13:30wanted
- 13:30to
- 13:30be
- 13:30able
- 13:30to
- 13:30get
- 13:30my
- 13:30books
- 13:31in
- 13:31libraries.
- 13:32And
- 13:32so
- 13:33through
- 13:33my
- 13:33research
- 13:34I
- 13:34was
- 13:34discovering
- 13:35how
- 13:36much
- 13:36of
- 13:36a
- 13:37challenge
- 13:37it
- 13:37is
- 13:38for
- 13:39libraries
- 13:39to
- 13:40pick
- 13:40up
- 13:40your
- 13:40book
- 13:41or
- 13:41to
- 13:41add
- 13:41you
- 13:41to
- 13:42the
- 13:42collection
- 13:43as
- 13:43a
- 13:43self
- 13:43published
- 13:44author.
- 13:44Not
- 13:45saying
- 13:45you
- 13:45can't
- 13:45do
- 13:45it,
- 13:46but
- 13:47I
- 13:47didn't
- 13:47want
- 13:47to
- 13:48have
- 13:48that
- 13:48barrier.
- 13:49Okay,
- 13:50we'll
- 13:51get
- 13:51more
- 13:51into
- 13:51your
- 13:51book
- 13:52and
- 13:52because
- 13:52I
- 13:52want
- 13:52to
- 13:53just
- 13:53discuss
- 13:54a
- 13:54couple
- 13:54of
- 13:54different
- 13:55techniques
- 13:55that
- 13:56I've
- 13:56seen
- 13:57when
- 13:57it
- 13:57came
- 13:57to
- 13:57the
- 13:58publishing
- 13:58end
- 13:59of
- 13:59it.
- 13:59You
- 13:59use
- 13:59a
- 14:00publisher
- 14:00called
- 14:02Home
- 14:02Press.
- 14:02Yeah.
- 14:03Talk
- 14:03to
- 14:03us
- 14:03a
- 14:04little
- 14:04bit
- 14:04about
- 14:05that
- 14:05journey
- 14:05to
- 14:06find
- 14:06Home
- 14:06Press.
- 14:08Yes.
- 14:08After
- 14:09receiving
- 14:09well
- 14:10over,
- 14:11I
- 14:11still
- 14:11have
- 14:11the
- 14:11spreadsheet.
- 14:12All
- 14:13those
- 14:13no's
- 14:13from
- 14:13agents
- 14:14or
- 14:15they
- 14:15just
- 14:15ghost
- 14:16you.
- 14:16And
- 14:16so
- 14:17after
- 14:17receiving
- 14:18all
- 14:18those
- 14:18no's,
- 14:19my
- 14:19next
- 14:19step
- 14:20was
- 14:20to
- 14:21go
- 14:21to
- 14:21independent
- 14:22press
- 14:22route
- 14:22to
- 14:23query
- 14:24them,
- 14:25submit
- 14:27like
- 14:27a
- 14:27couple
- 14:27chapters
- 14:28of
- 14:28my
- 14:28book.
- 14:29And
- 14:29I
- 14:29started
- 14:30getting
- 14:30some
- 14:30traction
- 14:31there
- 14:32and
- 14:32I
- 14:33landed
- 14:33on
- 14:33Home
- 14:34Press.
- 14:34I
- 14:35looked
- 14:36up
- 14:36Home
- 14:36Press
- 14:36and
- 14:37I
- 14:37saw
- 14:37the
- 14:37website
- 14:38and
- 14:38saw
- 14:38some
- 14:38of
- 14:38the
- 14:38books
- 14:39and
- 14:39I
- 14:40noticed
- 14:40that
- 14:40they
- 14:40did
- 14:40a
- 14:41lot
- 14:41in
- 14:41the
- 14:41areas
- 14:42of
- 14:42parenting,
- 14:43also
- 14:44spiritual
- 14:45and
- 14:46self
- 14:46help.
- 14:47And
- 14:47to
- 14:48me
- 14:48it's
- 14:48like,
- 14:49wow,
- 14:49that
- 14:49is
- 14:49the
- 14:49perfect
- 14:51type
- 14:51of
- 14:52publishing
- 14:52company
- 14:54to
- 14:54align
- 14:55this
- 14:55book
- 14:55with.
- 14:56Because
- 14:56they
- 14:57get
- 14:57right.
- 14:58Yes.
- 14:59And
- 14:59so
- 15:00I
- 15:00queried
- 15:01them
- 15:01and
- 15:01then
- 15:01they
- 15:02got
- 15:02back
- 15:02to
- 15:02me.
- 15:03And
- 15:04this
- 15:04is
- 15:04what
- 15:04I
- 15:04learned
- 15:05about
- 15:05this.
- 15:05I
- 15:06learned
- 15:06about
- 15:06Independent
- 15:07Press
- 15:07that
- 15:09they
- 15:09are
- 15:09more
- 15:10likely
- 15:11going
- 15:12to
- 15:12provide
- 15:12the
- 15:13publishing
- 15:13aspects
- 15:14of
- 15:14it
- 15:14and
- 15:15coaching.
- 15:16As
- 15:16far
- 15:16as
- 15:16the
- 15:16marketing,
- 15:17that's
- 15:18still
- 15:18on
- 15:18you.
- 15:19Absolutely.
- 15:20And
- 15:20it's
- 15:20interesting,
- 15:21I
- 15:21love
- 15:21your
- 15:22insights
- 15:22because
- 15:23I
- 15:23was
- 15:23talking
- 15:24to
- 15:24a
- 15:24children's
- 15:25book
- 15:25author.
- 15:25And
- 15:26she.
- 15:27It
- 15:27took
- 15:28her
- 15:28a
- 15:28while
- 15:28to
- 15:28bring
- 15:29her
- 15:30children's
- 15:30book
- 15:30to
- 15:31market.
- 15:31And
- 15:31I
- 15:31said,
- 15:32what
- 15:32was
- 15:32your
- 15:32biggest
- 15:32challenge?
- 15:33And
- 15:33I'm
- 15:33going
- 15:33to
- 15:33talk
- 15:33to
- 15:34you
- 15:34about
- 15:34that
- 15:34in
- 15:34a
- 15:34second.
- 15:35And
- 15:35she
- 15:35said,
- 15:35you
- 15:36know
- 15:36what,
- 15:36Rick,
- 15:37my
- 15:37problem
- 15:38in
- 15:38the
- 15:38beginning
- 15:39is
- 15:39I
- 15:40didn't
- 15:40recognize
- 15:41that
- 15:42each
- 15:42publisher
- 15:43specialized
- 15:44in
- 15:45in
- 15:45different
- 15:46genres.
- 15:47And
- 15:47if
- 15:47I
- 15:47would
- 15:48have
- 15:48noticed
- 15:48that
- 15:49then
- 15:50I
- 15:50would
- 15:50have
- 15:51drilled
- 15:51it
- 15:52down
- 15:52more
- 15:52and
- 15:52I
- 15:53wouldn't
- 15:53have
- 15:53gotten
- 15:53as
- 15:53many
- 15:54rejections
- 15:55because
- 15:55she
- 15:55said
- 15:56I
- 15:56was
- 15:56sending
- 15:56my
- 15:56books
- 15:57to
- 15:59companies
- 15:59that
- 16:00weren't
- 16:00even
- 16:00in
- 16:00the
- 16:01children's
- 16:01books
- 16:01genre.
- 16:02So
- 16:03what
- 16:03you
- 16:03did
- 16:04was
- 16:04fantastic.
- 16:05What
- 16:05was
- 16:05your
- 16:06biggest
- 16:06publishing
- 16:07challenge
- 16:07or
- 16:08frustration?
- 16:09I
- 16:09think
- 16:10for
- 16:10me
- 16:10it
- 16:10was
- 16:10just
- 16:11life.
- 16:12Life
- 16:13had
- 16:13happened
- 16:14leading
- 16:15up
- 16:15to
- 16:16really
- 16:16me
- 16:16even
- 16:16completing
- 16:17the
- 16:17book.
- 16:17I
- 16:17was
- 16:18in
- 16:18transition
- 16:19far
- 16:19as
- 16:19my
- 16:20career
- 16:20go
- 16:21and
- 16:22at
- 16:23one
- 16:23point
- 16:23got
- 16:24laid
- 16:24off
- 16:24from
- 16:24my
- 16:25job.
- 16:26And
- 16:27after
- 16:29really
- 16:30doing
- 16:30a
- 16:30lot
- 16:30of
- 16:30self
- 16:30discovery,
- 16:32that's
- 16:32what
- 16:32led
- 16:32me
- 16:33to
- 16:33say
- 16:33I'm
- 16:33going
- 16:33to
- 16:33write
- 16:33this
- 16:34book
- 16:34and
- 16:34finish
- 16:34this
- 16:34book
- 16:35that's
- 16:35been
- 16:35on
- 16:35my
- 16:35heart
- 16:36so
- 16:36long.
- 16:37You
- 16:37going
- 16:38through,
- 16:38you're
- 16:38hearing
- 16:39all
- 16:39the
- 16:39no's.
- 16:39I
- 16:40heard
- 16:40like
- 16:40I've
- 16:40heard
- 16:41more
- 16:41no's
- 16:42over
- 16:42the
- 16:42last
- 16:43couple
- 16:43of
- 16:43years
- 16:43than
- 16:43I've
- 16:44ever
- 16:44heard
- 16:44in
- 16:44my
- 16:44entire
- 16:45life.
- 16:46And
- 16:46you're
- 16:46getting
- 16:46the
- 16:46no's
- 16:47from
- 16:47some
- 16:48employers
- 16:49to
- 16:49work
- 16:49with
- 16:50you
- 16:50full
- 16:50time
- 16:51as
- 16:51a
- 16:51leader,
- 16:52economic
- 16:53development
- 16:54and
- 16:54business.
- 16:55Then
- 16:55I'm
- 16:56getting
- 16:56the
- 16:56no's
- 16:57from.
- 16:58Then
- 16:59I'm
- 16:59getting
- 16:59the
- 16:59nos
- 17:00from
- 17:00agents
- 17:01as
- 17:01well
- 17:02too.
- 17:03And
- 17:03it
- 17:03was
- 17:04just
- 17:04so
- 17:04many
- 17:04different
- 17:05adjustments
- 17:06that
- 17:06I
- 17:06was
- 17:06going
- 17:07through.
- 17:07And
- 17:08just
- 17:08from
- 17:08a
- 17:08perspective
- 17:09of
- 17:09just
- 17:10true
- 17:10transparency,
- 17:12I
- 17:12was
- 17:12going
- 17:12through
- 17:13some
- 17:13adjustment,
- 17:15depression
- 17:16and
- 17:16anxieties
- 17:17as
- 17:18well
- 17:18too.
- 17:19Got
- 17:20to
- 17:20a
- 17:20point
- 17:20where
- 17:21I
- 17:21ended
- 17:22up
- 17:22starting
- 17:22my
- 17:22own
- 17:22company.
- 17:23Got
- 17:23a
- 17:24good
- 17:24contract
- 17:24with
- 17:25my
- 17:25four
- 17:25Eye
- 17:25Solutions
- 17:26company.
- 17:27Then
- 17:27on
- 17:27top
- 17:27of
- 17:28that,
- 17:28my
- 17:28family
- 17:29and
- 17:29I,
- 17:29we
- 17:29were
- 17:29relocating.
- 17:31And
- 17:31so
- 17:32it
- 17:32was
- 17:32just
- 17:32a
- 17:32lot
- 17:32of
- 17:33work
- 17:33and
- 17:33a
- 17:33lot
- 17:33of
- 17:33things
- 17:34that
- 17:34were
- 17:34happening
- 17:35at
- 17:35the
- 17:35time.
- 17:35So
- 17:36many
- 17:36ups
- 17:37and
- 17:37downs
- 17:38emotionally,
- 17:39spiritually.
- 17:40And
- 17:40then
- 17:40when
- 17:41you
- 17:41finally
- 17:41get
- 17:41the
- 17:42publishing
- 17:43deal
- 17:43and
- 17:44negotiate
- 17:44it
- 17:44and
- 17:45I
- 17:45made
- 17:45sure
- 17:45to
- 17:45include
- 17:46my
- 17:46imprint,
- 17:47gosh
- 17:48G
- 17:48O
- 17:48S
- 17:49H
- 17:49getting
- 17:49our
- 17:49Stories
- 17:50Heard
- 17:51imprint
- 17:52so
- 17:52that
- 17:53possibly
- 17:53it
- 17:54could
- 17:54become
- 17:54something
- 17:54more
- 17:55and
- 17:55bigger
- 17:55later
- 17:56on.
- 17:56But
- 17:57there
- 17:58was
- 17:58still
- 17:58more
- 17:58work
- 17:59to
- 17:59do.
- 18:00So
- 18:00it
- 18:01wasn't
- 18:01like,
- 18:01okay,
- 18:02you
- 18:02got
- 18:02a
- 18:02publisher,
- 18:03you
- 18:03got
- 18:03a
- 18:04deal,
- 18:04now
- 18:05you
- 18:05have
- 18:06to
- 18:06get
- 18:07an
- 18:07illustrator,
- 18:08then
- 18:09you
- 18:09have
- 18:09to
- 18:09get
- 18:10a
- 18:10marketing
- 18:10plan
- 18:11execute
- 18:11on
- 18:11that
- 18:12marketing
- 18:12plan.
- 18:13What
- 18:13I
- 18:13didn't
- 18:14know,
- 18:15I'm
- 18:16more
- 18:16of
- 18:16a,
- 18:16I
- 18:16have
- 18:17that
- 18:17guerrilla
- 18:17marketing
- 18:18background
- 18:18which
- 18:18I
- 18:19can
- 18:19make
- 18:19things
- 18:19happen
- 18:20in
- 18:20a
- 18:20month
- 18:20or
- 18:20two
- 18:21months.
- 18:21But
- 18:21in
- 18:22the
- 18:22publishing
- 18:22world,
- 18:23I
- 18:24needed
- 18:24to
- 18:25get
- 18:25Runway
- 18:26of
- 18:26about
- 18:28four
- 18:28to
- 18:29six
- 18:29months.
- 18:31And
- 18:31this
- 18:31is
- 18:31specifically
- 18:32focused
- 18:33on
- 18:33the
- 18:33book
- 18:34outside
- 18:34of
- 18:34just
- 18:35the
- 18:35Brandon
- 18:35D.
- 18:35Campbell,
- 18:36which
- 18:36I
- 18:37really
- 18:37started
- 18:37to
- 18:37really
- 18:38focus
- 18:38and
- 18:38build
- 18:39a
- 18:39year
- 18:40prior
- 18:40to
- 18:41getting
- 18:41the
- 18:41publishing
- 18:42deal.
- 18:44So
- 18:44that's
- 18:44what
- 18:44it
- 18:44is.
- 18:45And
- 18:45you
- 18:45realize
- 18:46that
- 18:46you're
- 18:47always
- 18:47working
- 18:48and
- 18:49you.
- 18:49It's
- 18:49like
- 18:49it's
- 18:50something
- 18:50you
- 18:50have
- 18:50to
- 18:51be
- 18:51all
- 18:51in
- 18:53all
- 18:53the
- 18:53time.
- 18:54He
- 18:54is
- 18:54like
- 18:54a
- 18:55baby,
- 18:55a
- 18:55newborn
- 18:56baby.
- 18:56And
- 18:57I
- 18:57know
- 18:57because
- 18:57I
- 18:57have
- 18:58three
- 18:58kids
- 18:58and
- 18:58they're
- 18:59all.
- 18:59They're
- 19:00all
- 19:00pretty
- 19:00young.
- 19:01And
- 19:01so
- 19:02this
- 19:02is
- 19:02actually
- 19:03has
- 19:03been
- 19:04our
- 19:04fifth
- 19:05child
- 19:06after
- 19:06our
- 19:07dog.
- 19:08I'm
- 19:08glad
- 19:09you
- 19:09said
- 19:09that,
- 19:09Brandon,
- 19:10because
- 19:10it's
- 19:10like
- 19:11you're
- 19:11talking
- 19:12about
- 19:12when
- 19:12you
- 19:12bring
- 19:13a
- 19:13child,
- 19:13you
- 19:14have
- 19:14this
- 19:14baby
- 19:14and
- 19:15you
- 19:15bring
- 19:15this
- 19:15child
- 19:15into
- 19:16the
- 19:16world.
- 19:16But
- 19:17at
- 19:17the
- 19:17end
- 19:17of
- 19:17the
- 19:17day,
- 19:19it's
- 19:19not
- 19:19like
- 19:20you
- 19:20can
- 19:20say,
- 19:20oh,
- 19:21I've
- 19:21had
- 19:21this
- 19:21baby
- 19:22for
- 19:22a
- 19:22week,
- 19:23I
- 19:23don't
- 19:23want
- 19:23it
- 19:24anymore.
- 19:25Okay,
- 19:26it
- 19:26doesn't
- 19:27work
- 19:27that
- 19:27way.
- 19:27It's
- 19:28like
- 19:28your
- 19:28book.
- 19:28It's
- 19:29a
- 19:29lifetime
- 19:30commitment.
- 19:31And
- 19:32I'm
- 19:32glad
- 19:32you
- 19:32talked
- 19:33about
- 19:33your
- 19:33struggles
- 19:34because
- 19:35any
- 19:35of
- 19:35us,
- 19:36including
- 19:36myself,
- 19:37I've
- 19:37published
- 19:38two
- 19:38independent
- 19:39books
- 19:39with
- 19:39my
- 19:39grandchildren.
- 19:41And
- 19:41you
- 19:42know
- 19:42what?
- 19:42You're
- 19:43constantly
- 19:44having
- 19:44to
- 19:44promote
- 19:45it
- 19:45and
- 19:45find
- 19:46ways
- 19:46to.
- 19:47To
- 19:47build
- 19:47the
- 19:47business.
- 19:48Like
- 19:48you
- 19:48said,
- 19:49it
- 19:49comes
- 19:49back
- 19:49onto
- 19:50your
- 19:50shoulders.
- 19:51It's
- 19:51your
- 19:51responsibility.
- 19:53When
- 19:53you
- 19:53talked
- 19:54earlier,
- 19:55just
- 19:55a
- 19:55couple
- 19:55moments
- 19:56ago,
- 19:56you
- 19:56talked
- 19:57about
- 19:57finding
- 19:57an
- 19:58illustrator.
- 19:59Talk
- 19:59to
- 19:59us
- 19:59about
- 20:00how
- 20:01you
- 20:01went
- 20:01about
- 20:01finding
- 20:02your
- 20:02illustrator.
- 20:03The
- 20:04first
- 20:04step.
- 20:05Did
- 20:05a
- 20:06post
- 20:06in
- 20:06one
- 20:06of
- 20:06those
- 20:07groups
- 20:07on
- 20:08Facebook,
- 20:08say,
- 20:09hey,
- 20:10children's
- 20:10author,
- 20:10looking
- 20:11for
- 20:11an
- 20:11illustrator.
- 20:12And
- 20:13I
- 20:13braced
- 20:13myself
- 20:14first
- 20:14because
- 20:15I
- 20:15knew
- 20:15I
- 20:15was
- 20:15probably
- 20:16going
- 20:16to
- 20:16be
- 20:16inundated
- 20:16with
- 20:17a
- 20:17bunch
- 20:17of
- 20:18illustrators,
- 20:19wannabe
- 20:20illustrators,
- 20:21AI
- 20:22bots
- 20:23as
- 20:23well,
- 20:24to
- 20:25salespeople.
- 20:27That's
- 20:28where
- 20:28I
- 20:28started.
- 20:29Then
- 20:29I
- 20:29reached
- 20:30back
- 20:30into
- 20:30my
- 20:31network
- 20:32at
- 20:32the
- 20:32universities
- 20:34Ole
- 20:34Miss,
- 20:35also
- 20:35University
- 20:36of
- 20:36Iowa,
- 20:37reach
- 20:37out,
- 20:38see
- 20:38if
- 20:38they
- 20:38have
- 20:38any
- 20:38illustrators
- 20:40and
- 20:40local
- 20:41people
- 20:41as
- 20:42well.
- 20:42And
- 20:43so
- 20:43then
- 20:43I
- 20:43just
- 20:44started
- 20:44vetting
- 20:44them,
- 20:45started
- 20:45doing
- 20:46interviews.
- 20:47After
- 20:47interviews,
- 20:48I
- 20:48learned
- 20:49of
- 20:49some
- 20:49programs
- 20:51or
- 20:51organization
- 20:52that
- 20:52could
- 20:52produce,
- 20:53produce
- 20:54for
- 20:54you,
- 20:54very
- 20:55probably
- 20:55cheaply
- 20:56or
- 20:56cost
- 20:57effectively.
- 20:59But
- 20:59what
- 21:00was
- 21:00important
- 21:00to
- 21:00me
- 21:01was
- 21:02that
- 21:02I
- 21:02wanted
- 21:03to
- 21:03have
- 21:03a
- 21:03relationship
- 21:04with
- 21:04my
- 21:04illustrator.
- 21:05This
- 21:05was
- 21:05my
- 21:05bait.
- 21:06This
- 21:06is
- 21:06my
- 21:07baby.
- 21:07Really,
- 21:08outside
- 21:08of
- 21:08the
- 21:08publisher,
- 21:09this
- 21:10is
- 21:10my
- 21:10baby
- 21:10who
- 21:11I
- 21:11am
- 21:11now
- 21:11about
- 21:12to
- 21:12send
- 21:12to
- 21:13a
- 21:13daycare,
- 21:15right?
- 21:15Absolutely.
- 21:16This
- 21:16daycare.
- 21:17This
- 21:17person
- 21:18who's
- 21:18about
- 21:18to
- 21:18experience
- 21:19my
- 21:19baby
- 21:20for
- 21:20the
- 21:20first
- 21:20time,
- 21:21this
- 21:21infant.
- 21:22And
- 21:23so
- 21:23I
- 21:23wanted
- 21:23to
- 21:23make
- 21:23sure
- 21:23this
- 21:24was
- 21:24the
- 21:24one
- 21:24who
- 21:25was
- 21:25aligned
- 21:25with
- 21:25my
- 21:26vision,
- 21:27my.
- 21:27My
- 21:28Passion
- 21:28for
- 21:28the
- 21:28work
- 21:29and
- 21:29didn't
- 21:29just
- 21:30see
- 21:30this
- 21:30as
- 21:31a
- 21:31check.
- 21:32And
- 21:32like
- 21:32I
- 21:33was
- 21:33getting
- 21:33exorbitant
- 21:33amount
- 21:34of
- 21:34prices
- 21:35even
- 21:35to
- 21:35my.
- 21:35You
- 21:36go
- 21:36from
- 21:36$99
- 21:37to
- 21:38$10,000.
- 21:39And
- 21:40I'm
- 21:40like,
- 21:40all
- 21:40I
- 21:40want
- 21:40is
- 21:4110
- 21:41illustrations.
- 21:4210
- 21:42illustrations
- 21:44and.
- 21:45And
- 21:45I'm
- 21:45not
- 21:45complaining,
- 21:46but
- 21:46the
- 21:47calls
- 21:47that
- 21:47I
- 21:48was
- 21:48getting
- 21:48repeatedly,
- 21:49the
- 21:49sales
- 21:50call,
- 21:50the
- 21:50emails.
- 21:51But
- 21:51I
- 21:52landed
- 21:52on
- 21:53Sanjay
- 21:54Sickup
- 21:55who
- 21:55is
- 21:56based
- 21:56in
- 21:57the
- 21:57Middle
- 21:57east
- 21:58and
- 21:59she
- 22:00is
- 22:00someone
- 22:01who
- 22:01actually
- 22:02was
- 22:02the
- 22:02first
- 22:02person
- 22:02who
- 22:03reached
- 22:03out
- 22:03to
- 22:03me
- 22:04and
- 22:06sent
- 22:06me
- 22:06samples
- 22:07because
- 22:07I
- 22:07was
- 22:07very
- 22:07specific.
- 22:08I
- 22:08wanted
- 22:08more
- 22:09realistic
- 22:09type
- 22:10of
- 22:10illustrations.
- 22:11Yes,
- 22:12she
- 22:12was
- 22:12consistent
- 22:13and
- 22:13she
- 22:14stayed
- 22:14in
- 22:14touch
- 22:15while
- 22:15I
- 22:15was
- 22:15interviewing
- 22:16so
- 22:16many
- 22:17other
- 22:17people.
- 22:18I
- 22:18wouldn't
- 22:18do
- 22:18my
- 22:18due
- 22:19diligence,
- 22:19but
- 22:20I
- 22:20knew
- 22:20she
- 22:20was
- 22:20the
- 22:21right
- 22:21person
- 22:21to
- 22:21go
- 22:22with.
- 22:22She
- 22:22was
- 22:22hungry,
- 22:23she
- 22:24was
- 22:24very
- 22:24professional
- 22:26and
- 22:26she
- 22:27believed
- 22:27in
- 22:27the
- 22:27project
- 22:28and
- 22:28she
- 22:28knew
- 22:29that
- 22:29this
- 22:29was
- 22:29not
- 22:29just
- 22:30a
- 22:30gig,
- 22:32it
- 22:32was
- 22:32a
- 22:3290
- 22:32day
- 22:33process
- 22:33of
- 22:33actually
- 22:34finishing.
- 22:35If
- 22:35you
- 22:36listen
- 22:36to
- 22:36our
- 22:36podcast
- 22:37show
- 22:37how
- 22:38people
- 22:38find
- 22:38the
- 22:38realistrators,
- 22:39the
- 22:40dynamics
- 22:40are
- 22:41always
- 22:41so
- 22:41different
- 22:42and
- 22:43so
- 22:43how
- 22:43you
- 22:44describe
- 22:44it.
- 22:44But
- 22:44the
- 22:45important
- 22:45message
- 22:46here
- 22:46too
- 22:46is
- 22:47that
- 22:47even
- 22:48in
- 22:48most
- 22:49cases,
- 22:49whether
- 22:50you
- 22:50go
- 22:50the
- 22:51hybrid
- 22:52publishing
- 22:53route,
- 22:53which
- 22:53you've
- 22:53done,
- 22:54or
- 22:55even
- 22:55as
- 22:55an
- 22:55independent
- 22:56publisher
- 22:57where
- 22:57you
- 22:58are
- 22:58all
- 22:58in
- 22:59on
- 22:59your
- 22:59own,
- 23:00you
- 23:01still
- 23:01have
- 23:01to
- 23:01find
- 23:02the
- 23:02illustrator.
- 23:02And
- 23:03how
- 23:03you
- 23:03find
- 23:03the
- 23:03illustrator
- 23:05definitely
- 23:06takes
- 23:06you
- 23:06down
- 23:06different
- 23:07roads.
- 23:07I
- 23:08know,
- 23:08even
- 23:08for
- 23:08us,
- 23:09I
- 23:09tried
- 23:09to
- 23:09find
- 23:09a
- 23:10local
- 23:10illustrator
- 23:11who
- 23:12knew
- 23:12our
- 23:12area
- 23:13and
- 23:13I
- 23:13couldn't
- 23:14find
- 23:14one.
- 23:15I
- 23:15ended
- 23:15up
- 23:15going
- 23:16on
- 23:16the
- 23:16Internet
- 23:17and
- 23:17I
- 23:18found
- 23:18somebody's
- 23:18style
- 23:19I
- 23:19liked
- 23:20and
- 23:20I
- 23:20sent
- 23:20them
- 23:21a
- 23:21message
- 23:22and
- 23:22they're
- 23:22England
- 23:23and
- 23:24we
- 23:24ended
- 23:24up
- 23:24with
- 23:24an
- 23:25illustrator
- 23:25in
- 23:26England.
- 23:26So
- 23:26I
- 23:27talked
- 23:27to
- 23:28so
- 23:28many
- 23:28children's
- 23:29book
- 23:29authors
- 23:30whose
- 23:31illustrators
- 23:31are
- 23:32in
- 23:32a
- 23:32different
- 23:32country.
- 23:33It's
- 23:33pretty
- 23:33neat
- 23:34though,
- 23:34in
- 23:35today's
- 23:35world
- 23:35that
- 23:36we
- 23:36have
- 23:36this
- 23:36technology
- 23:37that
- 23:38allows
- 23:38us
- 23:38to
- 23:39do
- 23:39that
- 23:39and
- 23:40you
- 23:40went
- 23:40on
- 23:40this
- 23:41journey
- 23:42and
- 23:42at
- 23:42the
- 23:42end
- 23:42of
- 23:43the
- 23:43day
- 23:43you
- 23:43came
- 23:43up
- 23:44with
- 23:44the
- 23:44illustrator
- 23:45that
- 23:45felt
- 23:45right
- 23:45for
- 23:46you.
- 23:46Yes,
- 23:46and
- 23:47I
- 23:47went
- 23:47through
- 23:48Re
- 23:48See
- 23:49Fiverr
- 23:50as
- 23:50well
- 23:51too
- 23:51and
- 23:51found
- 23:51illustrators
- 23:52to
- 23:52interview
- 23:53them.
- 23:54But
- 23:54in
- 23:54business
- 23:55I
- 23:55learned
- 23:55a
- 23:55very
- 23:56valuable
- 23:56lesson,
- 23:57and
- 23:57one
- 23:58is
- 23:58you
- 23:59don't
- 23:59do
- 23:59business
- 23:59with
- 24:00someone
- 24:00that
- 24:01seems
- 24:01desperate.
- 24:02Whether
- 24:03it
- 24:03may
- 24:03be
- 24:04money
- 24:04or
- 24:04they
- 24:05seem
- 24:05anxious
- 24:06about
- 24:06the
- 24:07project
- 24:07or.
- 24:08But
- 24:08in
- 24:08also
- 24:10you
- 24:10watch
- 24:11what
- 24:11you.
- 24:11What
- 24:12they
- 24:12show
- 24:12you,
- 24:12you
- 24:13believe
- 24:13who
- 24:13they
- 24:13are.
- 24:14Right.
- 24:14So
- 24:15if
- 24:15I
- 24:15say
- 24:16provide
- 24:17me
- 24:17with
- 24:17a
- 24:17sample
- 24:18and
- 24:18you
- 24:18say,
- 24:18yes,
- 24:19and
- 24:19they
- 24:19say,
- 24:20I'm
- 24:20going
- 24:20to
- 24:20provide
- 24:20you
- 24:21with
- 24:21a
- 24:21sample
- 24:21on
- 24:21this
- 24:22day,
- 24:23you've
- 24:23set
- 24:23the
- 24:23deadline.
- 24:24But
- 24:25then
- 24:25when
- 24:25it
- 24:26comes
- 24:26the
- 24:26day
- 24:27you
- 24:28don't
- 24:28deliver
- 24:29and
- 24:29I'm
- 24:29asking
- 24:30you
- 24:30questions
- 24:31and
- 24:31you're
- 24:31not
- 24:32communicating
- 24:32or
- 24:32you're
- 24:33not
- 24:33as
- 24:33communicative
- 24:34as
- 24:35you
- 24:35were
- 24:35in
- 24:35the
- 24:35beginning.
- 24:36That's
- 24:36a
- 24:36sign
- 24:36for
- 24:37me
- 24:37not
- 24:37to
- 24:37do
- 24:37business
- 24:38with
- 24:38you.
- 24:39Good
- 24:39point.
- 24:39So
- 24:40that,
- 24:40that's
- 24:40where
- 24:40my
- 24:40entrepreneurship
- 24:41and
- 24:41my
- 24:41business
- 24:42background
- 24:42and
- 24:43acumen
- 24:43really
- 24:43helped
- 24:44me
- 24:44in
- 24:44the
- 24:45process
- 24:45getting
- 24:46illustrator.
- 24:47And
- 24:47to
- 24:47Brandon's
- 24:48point,
- 24:48there
- 24:49are
- 24:49so
- 24:49many
- 24:49illustrators
- 24:50out
- 24:50there
- 24:50that
- 24:52as
- 24:52Brandon
- 24:53saying,
- 24:53if
- 24:54you
- 24:54do
- 24:54the
- 24:54proper
- 24:55interviews
- 24:56and
- 24:57set
- 24:58deadlines,
- 24:59you
- 24:59should
- 25:00be
- 25:00able
- 25:00to
- 25:00end
- 25:00up
- 25:01with
- 25:01an
- 25:01illustrator
- 25:02that
- 25:02works
- 25:02for
- 25:02you.
- 25:03So
- 25:03thank
- 25:03you
- 25:04for
- 25:04sharing
- 25:04that.
- 25:05And
- 25:05I
- 25:06want
- 25:06to
- 25:06talk
- 25:06to
- 25:06you
- 25:06about
- 25:07your
- 25:07website
- 25:08because
- 25:09you're
- 25:09coming
- 25:09at
- 25:10your
- 25:10website
- 25:10a
- 25:10little
- 25:11bit
- 25:11different
- 25:11than
- 25:12most
- 25:13children's
- 25:13book
- 25:13authors
- 25:14that
- 25:14I've
- 25:14talked
- 25:14to.
- 25:15When
- 25:16I
- 25:16visited
- 25:16your
- 25:17website,
- 25:18I
- 25:18noticed
- 25:19that
- 25:19your
- 25:19podcast
- 25:20show
- 25:21and
- 25:21Brandon
- 25:22has
- 25:22a
- 25:23video
- 25:23podcast
- 25:24show,
- 25:24which
- 25:25is
- 25:25fantastic.
- 25:27So
- 25:27tell
- 25:27us
- 25:28about
- 25:29why
- 25:29you
- 25:30took
- 25:30that
- 25:30approach
- 25:31where
- 25:31the
- 25:31video
- 25:32podcast
- 25:32show
- 25:32takes
- 25:33on
- 25:33the
- 25:33predominant
- 25:35role.
- 25:35When
- 25:35you
- 25:36go
- 25:36to
- 25:36your
- 25:36website,
- 25:37you've
- 25:37got
- 25:37a
- 25:38video
- 25:38podcast
- 25:39show
- 25:40and
- 25:40then
- 25:41give
- 25:41us
- 25:41some
- 25:41insight
- 25:42how
- 25:42you
- 25:43are
- 25:43using
- 25:43your
- 25:44podcast
- 25:44show
- 25:46to
- 25:46build
- 25:46your
- 25:47children's
- 25:47book
- 25:47business.
- 25:49Yeah,
- 25:50so
- 25:51what
- 25:51I'm
- 25:52going
- 25:52all
- 25:52the
- 25:52way
- 25:52back
- 25:53to
- 25:53beginning
- 25:54of
- 25:542024
- 25:55when
- 25:56I
- 25:56said,
- 25:56hey,
- 25:56I'm
- 25:57get
- 25:57this
- 25:57book
- 25:58published.
- 25:59I
- 25:59knew
- 25:59that
- 26:00I
- 26:00needed
- 26:00to
- 26:00start
- 26:01rebranding
- 26:02myself
- 26:04from
- 26:04someone
- 26:04who
- 26:05is
- 26:05just
- 26:06seen
- 26:06as
- 26:06an
- 26:07entrepreneur,
- 26:08economic
- 26:09developer
- 26:11and
- 26:11also
- 26:11in
- 26:11the
- 26:12fashion
- 26:12world.
- 26:12Cause
- 26:13I
- 26:13was
- 26:13in
- 26:13that
- 26:13lane
- 26:13for
- 26:13so
- 26:14many
- 26:14years
- 26:15and
- 26:15be
- 26:15seen
- 26:16as
- 26:16an
- 26:16offer.
- 26:16So
- 26:17I
- 26:17started
- 26:18doing
- 26:18little
- 26:18micro
- 26:19videos
- 26:20around
- 26:21mental
- 26:22health,
- 26:22emotional
- 26:23health,
- 26:23spirituality,
- 26:25providing
- 26:25tips.
- 26:26I
- 26:26started
- 26:26doing
- 26:26it
- 26:26a
- 26:27lot
- 26:27early
- 26:27but
- 26:27really
- 26:28short
- 26:28form
- 26:30to
- 26:30really
- 26:30help
- 26:30with
- 26:30the
- 26:31branding
- 26:31and
- 26:32kind
- 26:32of
- 26:32reintroducing
- 26:33everyone
- 26:33to
- 26:34Brandon
- 26:34D.
- 26:35Campbell.
- 26:36So
- 26:36I
- 26:36did
- 26:37that
- 26:38well
- 26:38over
- 26:38a
- 26:39year
- 26:40and
- 26:40then
- 26:41as
- 26:42we
- 26:42got
- 26:42closer
- 26:43to
- 26:44book
- 26:44where
- 26:44we
- 26:45got
- 26:45like
- 26:45four
- 26:45or
- 26:45five
- 26:46months
- 26:46out,
- 26:47then
- 26:47that's
- 26:47when
- 26:48I
- 26:48launched
- 26:48it
- 26:49officially,
- 26:50Brennan
- 26:50D.
- 26:50Campbell
- 26:51Podcast.
- 26:51And
- 26:52I
- 26:52made
- 26:52a
- 26:52commitment
- 26:53to
- 26:54do
- 26:54it
- 26:55once
- 26:55a
- 26:55week.
- 26:56And
- 26:56the
- 26:57tie
- 26:57in
- 26:57the
- 26:58book,
- 26:58but
- 26:59not
- 26:59always
- 26:59make
- 26:59it
- 27:00about
- 27:00the
- 27:00book.
- 27:00I
- 27:01wanted
- 27:01to
- 27:01add
- 27:02value
- 27:02as
- 27:02much
- 27:03value
- 27:03on
- 27:03the
- 27:03front
- 27:04end
- 27:04using
- 27:04my
- 27:05insight
- 27:05and
- 27:05my
- 27:05experiences
- 27:07as
- 27:07an
- 27:07entrepreneur,
- 27:08as
- 27:08a
- 27:08writer,
- 27:09but
- 27:09most
- 27:10importantly
- 27:10as
- 27:10a
- 27:10father,
- 27:11someone
- 27:11who
- 27:11actually
- 27:11experienced
- 27:12life
- 27:13growing
- 27:13up
- 27:13in
- 27:13a
- 27:13blended
- 27:14family,
- 27:15having
- 27:15a
- 27:16single
- 27:16mom.
- 27:17I
- 27:17wanted
- 27:17people
- 27:18to
- 27:18just
- 27:18to
- 27:19really
- 27:19understand
- 27:19who
- 27:20I
- 27:20am,
- 27:20introduce
- 27:21who
- 27:21I
- 27:21am.
- 27:22And
- 27:22then
- 27:23far
- 27:23as
- 27:24my
- 27:24website,
- 27:24Brandon
- 27:25D.
- 27:25Campbell.com
- 27:27I
- 27:27wanted
- 27:27to
- 27:28have
- 27:28it
- 27:28be
- 27:28a
- 27:29centralized
- 27:29place
- 27:30for
- 27:30all
- 27:30those
- 27:31activity
- 27:32videos,
- 27:33things
- 27:34you
- 27:34need
- 27:34to
- 27:34know
- 27:34about
- 27:35me,
- 27:35my
- 27:35events,
- 27:36even
- 27:36some
- 27:37of
- 27:37my
- 27:37background
- 27:37on
- 27:38some
- 27:38of
- 27:38my
- 27:38Successes
- 27:39and
- 27:39my
- 27:39wins
- 27:40and
- 27:40things
- 27:40like
- 27:41that.
- 27:41Because
- 27:41I
- 27:41wanted
- 27:42people
- 27:42to
- 27:42see
- 27:43me
- 27:43and
- 27:43know
- 27:44that
- 27:44they
- 27:45can
- 27:45connect
- 27:45with
- 27:46me.
- 27:46I'm
- 27:47not
- 27:47just
- 27:47some
- 27:47author
- 27:48or
- 27:48someone
- 27:48above
- 27:49their
- 27:49head,
- 27:49but
- 27:50they
- 27:50can
- 27:50connect
- 27:51and
- 27:51relate
- 27:52and
- 27:52they
- 27:52can
- 27:52communicate
- 27:53with
- 27:53me
- 27:54directly.
- 27:55And
- 27:55it's
- 27:56not
- 27:56owned
- 27:56by
- 27:57the
- 27:57publisher
- 27:58or
- 27:58some
- 27:58other
- 27:58company.
- 27:59No,
- 27:59you're
- 28:00talking
- 28:00to
- 28:00me.
- 28:01So
- 28:01that
- 28:01was
- 28:01important
- 28:02for
- 28:02me
- 28:02then
- 28:02as
- 28:03I
- 28:03launched
- 28:04my
- 28:04clothing
- 28:05line
- 28:05Publist,
- 28:06as
- 28:06you
- 28:06see
- 28:06here,
- 28:07Pub
- 28:07less
- 28:08when
- 28:08I
- 28:08relaunch,
- 28:09when
- 28:09I
- 28:09launch
- 28:10it,
- 28:11then
- 28:12I
- 28:12have
- 28:13a
- 28:13following
- 28:14already
- 28:14engaged
- 28:16and
- 28:16this
- 28:16would
- 28:16be
- 28:16another
- 28:17revenue
- 28:18stream
- 28:18or
- 28:19outlet
- 28:19that
- 28:19they
- 28:19can
- 28:20take
- 28:20ownership
- 28:21and
- 28:21connect
- 28:21with
- 28:22me
- 28:22by
- 28:22through
- 28:23Publist.
- 28:24Okay,
- 28:24when
- 28:25you
- 28:25started
- 28:26your
- 28:26journey
- 28:26and
- 28:26you
- 28:27said
- 28:27you're
- 28:27about
- 28:27four
- 28:27or
- 28:28five
- 28:28months
- 28:28out,
- 28:28you
- 28:29had
- 28:29a
- 28:29specific
- 28:30strategy
- 28:30for
- 28:31a
- 28:32pre
- 28:32launch
- 28:33of
- 28:33your
- 28:33book.
- 28:34And
- 28:34now
- 28:34that
- 28:34you've
- 28:35launched
- 28:35your
- 28:35book,
- 28:36what's
- 28:36changed
- 28:37for
- 28:37you?
- 28:37What
- 28:37are
- 28:38you
- 28:38doing
- 28:38differently
- 28:39through
- 28:40your
- 28:40website
- 28:42from
- 28:42the
- 28:42pre
- 28:42launch
- 28:43to
- 28:43the
- 28:43launch?
- 28:45You
- 28:45know
- 28:45what,
- 28:45the
- 28:46only
- 28:46thing
- 28:46different
- 28:47about
- 28:47the
- 28:47website
- 28:49is
- 28:49that
- 28:50there's
- 28:50a
- 28:50lot
- 28:50more
- 28:51events
- 28:52and
- 28:52I'm
- 28:53sharing
- 28:53those
- 28:53events
- 28:54out
- 28:54with
- 28:55my
- 28:55followers.
- 28:55I
- 28:56have
- 28:56well
- 28:56over
- 28:5613,000
- 28:57subscribers
- 28:59to
- 28:59my
- 28:59sub
- 28:59stack
- 29:00and
- 29:00my
- 29:00website.
- 29:01That's
- 29:01the
- 29:01one
- 29:01thing.
- 29:01I
- 29:02converged
- 29:02the
- 29:02two
- 29:03so
- 29:03I
- 29:03brought
- 29:03them
- 29:03together.
- 29:04So
- 29:04it's
- 29:04not
- 29:04a
- 29:04standalone
- 29:06website.
- 29:07So
- 29:07my
- 29:07website
- 29:08is
- 29:08a
- 29:08substack.
- 29:09I
- 29:09do
- 29:09us
- 29:10and
- 29:10to
- 29:10the
- 29:11audience.
- 29:11What
- 29:11is
- 29:11a
- 29:12substack?
- 29:12What
- 29:12do
- 29:12you
- 29:13mean
- 29:13by
- 29:13that?
- 29:14Yeah,
- 29:14Substack
- 29:15is
- 29:15a
- 29:16platform
- 29:17that
- 29:17allows
- 29:18creators
- 29:18such
- 29:18as
- 29:19myself
- 29:19to
- 29:20develop
- 29:21newsletters
- 29:23as
- 29:23well
- 29:24as
- 29:24where
- 29:24you
- 29:24can
- 29:24get
- 29:25subscribers,
- 29:26people
- 29:26who
- 29:26follow
- 29:27you.
- 29:28And
- 29:28it's
- 29:28a
- 29:28very
- 29:28cost
- 29:29effective
- 29:30way
- 29:30of
- 29:30doing
- 29:30it
- 29:30versus
- 29:31getting
- 29:31a
- 29:32website
- 29:32developer
- 29:33and
- 29:33producing
- 29:35having
- 29:35to
- 29:36promote
- 29:36it.
- 29:37Substack
- 29:38kind
- 29:38of
- 29:38rolls
- 29:38everything
- 29:39all
- 29:39into
- 29:40one
- 29:41where
- 29:41it's
- 29:42a
- 29:42newsletter
- 29:42and
- 29:42it's
- 29:43a
- 29:43website
- 29:43with
- 29:43information.
- 29:44Also
- 29:44my
- 29:45podcast
- 29:45is
- 29:46integrated
- 29:46as
- 29:47well.
- 29:47And
- 29:48when
- 29:48you're
- 29:48a
- 29:48one
- 29:48person
- 29:49shop.
- 29:50Yes
- 29:51Runner,
- 29:52you
- 29:52gotta
- 29:52find
- 29:52ways
- 29:53to
- 29:53be
- 29:53efficient,
- 29:54cost
- 29:54effective.
- 29:55And
- 29:55so
- 29:55Substack
- 29:56allows
- 29:56that
- 29:57it
- 29:57even
- 29:57also
- 29:57have
- 29:58kind
- 29:58of
- 29:58like
- 29:58a
- 29:58social
- 29:59media
- 29:59update
- 30:00type
- 30:00of
- 30:00platform.
- 30:01Is
- 30:01Substack
- 30:02actually
- 30:02your
- 30:04platform
- 30:04that
- 30:05you
- 30:05actually
- 30:06pay
- 30:06a
- 30:06subscription
- 30:07for?
- 30:08Is
- 30:08it
- 30:08a
- 30:09company
- 30:09or
- 30:10how
- 30:10does
- 30:10that
- 30:10work?
- 30:10Substack
- 30:11is
- 30:12a
- 30:12platform.
- 30:12It's
- 30:13a
- 30:13separate
- 30:13company,
- 30:14separate
- 30:14entity
- 30:15and
- 30:15it's
- 30:15really
- 30:16good
- 30:16for
- 30:16creators.
- 30:17Beehive
- 30:17is
- 30:17another
- 30:18one
- 30:18as
- 30:19we
- 30:19go
- 30:19to
- 30:20where
- 30:21you
- 30:21can
- 30:21get
- 30:21subscribers
- 30:22free
- 30:22or
- 30:23paid.
- 30:23I
- 30:23want
- 30:24the
- 30:24free
- 30:24route
- 30:25because
- 30:25I
- 30:25don't
- 30:26want
- 30:26to
- 30:26create
- 30:26that
- 30:26barrier
- 30:27early
- 30:27on
- 30:28for
- 30:28them
- 30:29to
- 30:29connect
- 30:29with
- 30:29me.
- 30:30But
- 30:30then
- 30:30I
- 30:30was
- 30:31able
- 30:31to
- 30:31integrate
- 30:32all
- 30:33my
- 30:33network
- 30:35over
- 30:35the
- 30:35years
- 30:36into
- 30:36one
- 30:37place
- 30:37and
- 30:37I
- 30:38have
- 30:38to
- 30:38send
- 30:38multiple
- 30:39different
- 30:39emails
- 30:40and
- 30:40newsletters
- 30:41out.
- 30:41And
- 30:42so
- 30:42it's
- 30:42been
- 30:42very
- 30:43beneficial
- 30:44for
- 30:44me.
- 30:44And
- 30:45it
- 30:45has
- 30:45streamlined
- 30:46my
- 30:46communication
- 30:46and
- 30:47the
- 30:47selling
- 30:48of
- 30:48my
- 30:48book
- 30:49as
- 30:49well
- 30:49too,
- 30:49because
- 30:49I've
- 30:50connected
- 30:51to
- 30:51the
- 30:51publisher's
- 30:52page,
- 30:52but
- 30:52also
- 30:53pages
- 30:54where
- 30:55you
- 30:55can
- 30:55sign
- 30:56up
- 30:56and
- 30:56register
- 30:56for
- 30:57events
- 30:57and
- 30:57also
- 30:58purchase
- 30:58autograph
- 30:59signed
- 31:00copies
- 31:00of
- 31:00my
- 31:01book
- 31:01directly
- 31:01from
- 31:01me.
- 31:02When
- 31:02you
- 31:02say
- 31:03events,
- 31:03take
- 31:04us
- 31:04through
- 31:04that
- 31:04for
- 31:05a
- 31:05moment.
- 31:05What
- 31:05type
- 31:05of
- 31:06events
- 31:06are
- 31:06you
- 31:07predominantly
- 31:08doing?
- 31:09Events
- 31:09that
- 31:09I
- 31:10am
- 31:10predominantly
- 31:11doing
- 31:11are
- 31:12events
- 31:12where
- 31:13I
- 31:13am
- 31:14speaking.
- 31:15Almost
- 31:16like
- 31:16a
- 31:16hybrid
- 31:17where
- 31:17speaking
- 31:19events
- 31:20in
- 31:20alarm
- 31:21work,
- 31:22education,
- 31:24literacy,
- 31:25but
- 31:26then
- 31:26also
- 31:28bug
- 31:28signings
- 31:29that
- 31:29I've
- 31:29been
- 31:30doing
- 31:30some
- 31:30of
- 31:30those
- 31:30as
- 31:31well,
- 31:31working
- 31:32with
- 31:32libraries,
- 31:33working
- 31:34with
- 31:34bookstores
- 31:36as
- 31:36well.
- 31:36But
- 31:37I'd
- 31:37probably
- 31:38say
- 31:38the
- 31:38most
- 31:38fruitful
- 31:39so
- 31:39far
- 31:39have
- 31:40really
- 31:40been
- 31:40in
- 31:41the
- 31:41education
- 31:41space,
- 31:43speaking
- 31:43at
- 31:44local
- 31:45elementary
- 31:46schools
- 31:46and
- 31:47partnership
- 31:47with
- 31:48school
- 31:48districts
- 31:48as
- 31:49well
- 31:49too,
- 31:50and
- 31:50libraries.
- 31:51Those
- 31:51have
- 31:52worked
- 31:52out
- 31:53very
- 31:53well
- 31:53for
- 31:53me
- 31:53so
- 31:54far.
- 31:54Excellent,
- 31:55excellent.
- 31:56You
- 31:56mentioned
- 31:56earlier,
- 31:58I
- 31:58think
- 31:58you
- 31:58call
- 31:58it
- 31:58Gosh.
- 32:00Yeah,
- 32:00Gosh.
- 32:00Yeah.
- 32:01What's
- 32:01the
- 32:01G
- 32:02stand
- 32:02for
- 32:02again?
- 32:03Getting
- 32:03our
- 32:04stories
- 32:04Heard.
- 32:05Getting
- 32:06our
- 32:08story
- 32:09heard.
- 32:09Okay,
- 32:10so
- 32:10take
- 32:10us
- 32:11a
- 32:11little
- 32:11deeper
- 32:11into
- 32:12that
- 32:12because
- 32:12it
- 32:13sounds
- 32:13very
- 32:14fascinating
- 32:15because
- 32:15we
- 32:15all
- 32:15want
- 32:16to
- 32:16get
- 32:16our
- 32:16stories
- 32:16heard.
- 32:17Yes.
- 32:18Anyone
- 32:18knows
- 32:18me,
- 32:19one
- 32:20of
- 32:20my
- 32:20skill
- 32:21sets
- 32:21and
- 32:22talents
- 32:23is
- 32:24developing
- 32:25businesses,
- 32:26but
- 32:26developing
- 32:27programs
- 32:28and
- 32:28ideas.
- 32:29And
- 32:29I'm
- 32:30really
- 32:30good
- 32:30with
- 32:30acronyms.
- 32:31It's
- 32:31just
- 32:32something
- 32:32that
- 32:32naturally
- 32:33comes
- 32:33to
- 32:33me.
- 32:34But
- 32:34God
- 32:35is
- 32:35something
- 32:35that
- 32:36came
- 32:36to
- 32:36me
- 32:37when
- 32:37I
- 32:38was
- 32:39probably
- 32:3920
- 32:39years
- 32:40ago
- 32:40working
- 32:40in
- 32:41the
- 32:41entertainment
- 32:41industry
- 32:42in
- 32:42LA.
- 32:43And
- 32:44I
- 32:44said
- 32:44that
- 32:44I'm
- 32:45going
- 32:45to
- 32:45create
- 32:45a
- 32:46media
- 32:46company
- 32:46called
- 32:47Gosh,
- 32:48Getting
- 32:48Our
- 32:48Stories
- 32:49Heard.
- 32:49That's
- 32:50going
- 32:50to
- 32:50be
- 32:50the
- 32:50umbrella
- 32:51company
- 32:51for
- 32:52all
- 32:52my
- 32:52creative
- 32:53projects.
- 32:54As
- 32:54you
- 32:54see,
- 32:54I
- 32:55put
- 32:55a
- 32:55lot
- 32:55of
- 32:55those
- 32:56creative
- 32:57art
- 32:57and
- 32:57publishing
- 32:58projects
- 32:58on
- 32:59hold
- 32:59until
- 32:59now.
- 33:00And
- 33:00Gosh
- 33:01is
- 33:01a
- 33:02platform
- 33:03that's
- 33:03going
- 33:03to
- 33:03be
- 33:03utilized
- 33:04for
- 33:04me
- 33:05and
- 33:05my
- 33:05project.
- 33:06But
- 33:06also
- 33:06I
- 33:07have
- 33:07children
- 33:07who
- 33:08are
- 33:08creative.
- 33:09They've
- 33:09already
- 33:10written
- 33:10books,
- 33:11they
- 33:11have
- 33:11ideas,
- 33:12but
- 33:12also
- 33:12for
- 33:13other
- 33:14individuals
- 33:15from
- 33:15historically
- 33:16underserved
- 33:17communities
- 33:18to
- 33:18get
- 33:19their
- 33:19stories
- 33:19heard,
- 33:20whether
- 33:21it's
- 33:21through
- 33:21book
- 33:21publishing,
- 33:22whether
- 33:22it's
- 33:23through
- 33:23podcasting,
- 33:24or
- 33:25even
- 33:25films
- 33:25and
- 33:26tv.
- 33:27The
- 33:27word
- 33:27is
- 33:27can
- 33:28go
- 33:28is
- 33:28endless.
- 33:29And
- 33:29it's
- 33:29open
- 33:29ended
- 33:30right
- 33:30now.
- 33:31But
- 33:31that's
- 33:31where
- 33:31Gosh
- 33:32originated.
- 33:33I
- 33:34always
- 33:34think
- 33:34about
- 33:34people
- 33:35saying,
- 33:35oh
- 33:35my
- 33:35gosh.
- 33:36Yeah,
- 33:36it's
- 33:37a.
- 33:37Yeah,
- 33:37it's
- 33:38a
- 33:38lot
- 33:38of
- 33:38fun.
- 33:38It's
- 33:38a
- 33:38fun
- 33:39word.
- 33:39Good
- 33:39for
- 33:39you.
- 33:40Motivation.
- 33:41Tell
- 33:41us
- 33:42a
- 33:42bit
- 33:42about
- 33:43the
- 33:43motivation
- 33:44behind
- 33:45your
- 33:45book
- 33:46to
- 33:46write
- 33:47it.
- 33:48The
- 33:48motivation
- 33:49behind
- 33:49the
- 33:49book
- 33:49is
- 33:51it
- 33:51was
- 33:52nothing
- 33:52out
- 33:52there
- 33:53like
- 33:53this.
- 33:54I
- 33:54felt
- 33:54like
- 33:54there
- 33:54was
- 33:55a
- 33:55hole
- 33:55in
- 33:56the
- 33:56marketplace
- 33:57and
- 33:58a
- 33:58group
- 33:58that
- 33:59is
- 34:00being
- 34:00underserved
- 34:01again.
- 34:02Right.
- 34:03Historically
- 34:04or
- 34:04even
- 34:05data
- 34:06shows
- 34:06that
- 34:07for
- 34:07the
- 34:07most
- 34:08part,
- 34:08those
- 34:09who
- 34:10who
- 34:10are
- 34:10coming
- 34:11from
- 34:11blended
- 34:11families
- 34:12or
- 34:13single
- 34:14family
- 34:14household
- 34:15are
- 34:16going
- 34:16to
- 34:16be
- 34:16challenged
- 34:17from
- 34:17a
- 34:17financial
- 34:18and
- 34:18societal
- 34:19standpoint,
- 34:19social,
- 34:20economic
- 34:20standpoint.
- 34:22To
- 34:22me,
- 34:23this
- 34:23is
- 34:24a
- 34:24way
- 34:24for
- 34:25me
- 34:25to
- 34:25help
- 34:26them,
- 34:27have
- 34:27them
- 34:27see
- 34:27themselves
- 34:28in
- 34:28stories
- 34:29and
- 34:30to
- 34:30inspire
- 34:30and
- 34:30motivate
- 34:31them
- 34:32through
- 34:32storytelling.
- 34:34Because
- 34:34unfortunately
- 34:35for
- 34:35me,
- 34:36there
- 34:36were
- 34:36no
- 34:36books
- 34:37like
- 34:37this
- 34:38for
- 34:38me
- 34:38growing
- 34:38up,
- 34:39which
- 34:39then
- 34:40made
- 34:40me
- 34:41less
- 34:42inspired
- 34:42and
- 34:43lacked
- 34:43the
- 34:43motivation
- 34:45to
- 34:45want
- 34:45to
- 34:45read
- 34:46some
- 34:46of
- 34:46the
- 34:46stories.
- 34:47I'm
- 34:47sorry,
- 34:48I
- 34:48cannot
- 34:49relate
- 34:49to
- 34:50Shakespeare.
- 34:52Why?
- 34:52Because
- 34:52where
- 34:53I
- 34:53come
- 34:53from,
- 34:54nothing
- 34:54Shakespearean,
- 34:56nothing
- 34:56was
- 34:56out.
- 34:57Life
- 34:58was
- 34:58real.
- 34:58Life
- 34:59was
- 34:59serious.
- 35:00You
- 35:01dream
- 35:01when
- 35:01you
- 35:01close
- 35:02your
- 35:02eyes,
- 35:03you
- 35:03know,
- 35:03and
- 35:04if
- 35:04you
- 35:04do
- 35:04that,
- 35:04you
- 35:04better
- 35:05keep
- 35:05one
- 35:05of
- 35:05them
- 35:06a
- 35:06little
- 35:06halfway
- 35:07open
- 35:07because
- 35:07you
- 35:07never
- 35:08know
- 35:08what
- 35:09may
- 35:09happen
- 35:09to
- 35:09you.
- 35:10So
- 35:10that
- 35:10was
- 35:10my
- 35:11upbringing.
- 35:11And
- 35:12so
- 35:12I
- 35:12wanted
- 35:12to
- 35:12provide
- 35:13something
- 35:13that
- 35:13was
- 35:13real
- 35:14and
- 35:14authentic.
- 35:15That's
- 35:15what
- 35:15motivated
- 35:16me.
- 35:16But
- 35:17even
- 35:17more
- 35:17so,
- 35:18I
- 35:19want
- 35:19to
- 35:19bond
- 35:20families
- 35:21and
- 35:21keep
- 35:21them
- 35:21bonded
- 35:22positively
- 35:24and
- 35:24alleviate
- 35:25some
- 35:26of
- 35:26this
- 35:26mental
- 35:26health
- 35:27crisis
- 35:27that
- 35:27we
- 35:28have
- 35:28in
- 35:28this
- 35:28world.
- 35:29That
- 35:30I
- 35:30believe
- 35:30is
- 35:31more
- 35:31likely
- 35:31it's
- 35:32going
- 35:32to
- 35:32continue
- 35:33if
- 35:33we
- 35:33don't
- 35:33provide
- 35:34the
- 35:34tools
- 35:35and
- 35:35the
- 35:35resources
- 35:36such
- 35:36as
- 35:36a
- 35:37book
- 35:37like
- 35:37Old
- 35:38Brother,
- 35:38My
- 35:38Brother
- 35:39that
- 35:39can
- 35:39really
- 35:39tap
- 35:40into
- 35:40some
- 35:40of
- 35:40this
- 35:41early
- 35:41on
- 35:42in
- 35:42a
- 35:43person's
- 35:43life
- 35:44versus
- 35:44trying
- 35:44to
- 35:45save
- 35:45them
- 35:45when
- 35:45they
- 35:46become
- 35:46a
- 35:47fully
- 35:47grown
- 35:48woman
- 35:49or
- 35:49man.
- 35:49I
- 35:50couldn't
- 35:50agree
- 35:50with
- 35:50you
- 35:50more.
- 35:51Let's
- 35:51talk
- 35:51a
- 35:52little
- 35:52bit
- 35:52about
- 35:52the
- 35:53character
- 35:53development
- 35:54in
- 35:54your
- 35:54book
- 35:55because
- 35:55you
- 35:55have
- 35:55two
- 35:56main
- 35:56characters.
- 35:57Talk
- 35:57to
- 35:57us
- 35:57about
- 35:58your
- 35:58characters
- 35:58and
- 35:59talk
- 35:59about
- 36:00their
- 36:00unique
- 36:00relationship.
- 36:02Yes.
- 36:03And
- 36:04so
- 36:04the
- 36:04characters
- 36:05are
- 36:05Omar
- 36:06and
- 36:07Michael.
- 36:08The
- 36:08name
- 36:08of
- 36:08the
- 36:08book
- 36:09O
- 36:09Brother
- 36:09My
- 36:09Brother
- 36:10comes
- 36:10stems
- 36:10from
- 36:11their
- 36:11nicknames.
- 36:11Omar.
- 36:12His
- 36:12nickname
- 36:13is
- 36:13Michael,
- 36:14the
- 36:14younger
- 36:15brother,
- 36:15who
- 36:16in
- 36:17the
- 36:17story,
- 36:17it's
- 36:18his
- 36:18birthday,
- 36:18so
- 36:19he
- 36:19just
- 36:19turned
- 36:19seven.
- 36:20His
- 36:20nickname
- 36:21is
- 36:21mine
- 36:22own
- 36:23is
- 36:2310
- 36:24years
- 36:24old.
- 36:25And
- 36:25how
- 36:25I
- 36:26develop
- 36:26the
- 36:26characters
- 36:27and
- 36:28their
- 36:28personalities
- 36:29really
- 36:29just
- 36:29come
- 36:29from
- 36:30my
- 36:31own
- 36:31experience.
- 36:32I
- 36:32see
- 36:32a
- 36:32lot
- 36:32of
- 36:33myself
- 36:34in
- 36:34Omar,
- 36:35the
- 36:35older
- 36:36brother.
- 36:36Yes,
- 36:37the
- 36:37younger
- 36:38brother.
- 36:39My
- 36:39is
- 36:40inspired
- 36:40from
- 36:40my
- 36:41relationship
- 36:41with
- 36:41my
- 36:41own
- 36:42brother
- 36:42Chris
- 36:43growing
- 36:43up
- 36:44and
- 36:44what
- 36:44our
- 36:45relationship
- 36:45was
- 36:45like
- 36:46as
- 36:47we
- 36:47grew
- 36:48and
- 36:48we
- 36:48developed
- 36:49Omar
- 36:50someone
- 36:50just
- 36:51like
- 36:51I
- 36:51was.
- 36:52When
- 36:52I
- 36:52got
- 36:52to
- 36:52a
- 36:52certain
- 36:53age,
- 36:53it
- 36:53was
- 36:53all
- 36:53about
- 36:54sports.
- 36:55It
- 36:55was
- 36:55about
- 36:55finding
- 36:56those
- 36:56heroes
- 36:57that
- 36:57were
- 36:57out
- 36:57there,
- 36:58such
- 36:59as
- 36:59the
- 36:59Michael
- 37:00Jordan
- 37:00and
- 37:00Bo
- 37:01Jackson
- 37:01and
- 37:01the
- 37:02Barry
- 37:02Sanders
- 37:03that
- 37:03I
- 37:03can
- 37:04relate
- 37:04to,
- 37:04that
- 37:05I
- 37:05can
- 37:05look
- 37:05up
- 37:05to.
- 37:06Because
- 37:06unfortunately,
- 37:07I
- 37:07didn't
- 37:08have
- 37:09as
- 37:09many
- 37:09role
- 37:10models
- 37:10growing
- 37:11up
- 37:11that
- 37:12can
- 37:12identify
- 37:13relate
- 37:13to.
- 37:14And
- 37:14so
- 37:15that's
- 37:15Omar
- 37:16and
- 37:17he's
- 37:17a
- 37:17little
- 37:18bit
- 37:18more
- 37:18self
- 37:18reflective.
- 37:19And
- 37:20I
- 37:20was
- 37:20a
- 37:20very
- 37:21thoughtful
- 37:21person
- 37:22growing
- 37:22up
- 37:22as
- 37:23a
- 37:23young
- 37:23age,
- 37:23had
- 37:24questions
- 37:24and
- 37:24ideas
- 37:26and
- 37:26my
- 37:26mind
- 37:26was
- 37:27always
- 37:27racing
- 37:27on
- 37:27something.
- 37:28But
- 37:29I
- 37:29would
- 37:29keep
- 37:29things
- 37:30in
- 37:31because
- 37:31there
- 37:31was
- 37:32no
- 37:32avenue
- 37:33for
- 37:33me
- 37:33to
- 37:33express
- 37:34myself
- 37:35or
- 37:36my
- 37:36mom.
- 37:37Her
- 37:37work
- 37:37schedule
- 37:38was
- 37:38one
- 37:38in
- 37:38which
- 37:39there
- 37:39was
- 37:40not
- 37:40a
- 37:40lot
- 37:40of
- 37:41connecting.
- 37:42That
- 37:42took
- 37:42place
- 37:43between
- 37:43Monday
- 37:43and
- 37:44Friday.
- 37:44Okay,
- 37:46then
- 37:46my
- 37:46brother
- 37:47mine,
- 37:48he's
- 37:48more
- 37:48outgoing.
- 37:49He's
- 37:49the
- 37:49cute
- 37:50one.
- 37:50His
- 37:50dad
- 37:51is
- 37:51a
- 37:51dad
- 37:52that's
- 37:52more
- 37:52present
- 37:54in
- 37:54their
- 37:54lives.
- 37:55It's
- 37:56more
- 37:56likely
- 37:57when
- 37:57you
- 37:57have,
- 37:58when
- 37:58you're
- 37:58in
- 37:58a
- 37:58blended
- 37:58family,
- 37:59the
- 38:00dad
- 38:00that
- 38:00shows
- 38:01up
- 38:01the
- 38:01most
- 38:01and
- 38:02who
- 38:02can
- 38:02provide
- 38:03extra
- 38:03value
- 38:04or
- 38:04benefit
- 38:05to
- 38:05the
- 38:05family,
- 38:06unfortunately,
- 38:07that
- 38:07child
- 38:08gets
- 38:08elevated
- 38:09more
- 38:10so
- 38:10as
- 38:11a
- 38:11child
- 38:11that
- 38:12is
- 38:12more
- 38:12likable,
- 38:13or
- 38:13at
- 38:13least
- 38:13that's
- 38:14what
- 38:14the
- 38:14perception
- 38:15is
- 38:15to
- 38:16the
- 38:16other
- 38:16siblings
- 38:17in
- 38:17this
- 38:17blended
- 38:18family
- 38:18structure.
- 38:19And
- 38:19so
- 38:20he's
- 38:20the
- 38:20cute
- 38:21one,
- 38:21right?
- 38:21He
- 38:22has
- 38:22the
- 38:22dimples,
- 38:23he's
- 38:23the
- 38:23youngest.
- 38:24Right.
- 38:24He's
- 38:25all
- 38:25the
- 38:25things
- 38:25that
- 38:26you're
- 38:26not.
- 38:27And
- 38:27so
- 38:27we're
- 38:28very
- 38:28different
- 38:29in
- 38:30our
- 38:31personal
- 38:31life.
- 38:31He's
- 38:32a
- 38:32little
- 38:32bit
- 38:32more
- 38:32outgoing.
- 38:33He
- 38:34doesn't
- 38:34take
- 38:35himself
- 38:35as
- 38:35seriously
- 38:36as
- 38:36Omar
- 38:37does
- 38:38of
- 38:38the
- 38:38story,
- 38:38even
- 38:38at
- 38:39that
- 38:39young
- 38:39age.
- 38:40But
- 38:41throughout
- 38:41the
- 38:42story,
- 38:42he
- 38:42takes
- 38:42them
- 38:43from
- 38:43this
- 38:43place
- 38:43where
- 38:44Omar
- 38:44really
- 38:44can't
- 38:45stand
- 38:46the
- 38:46younger
- 38:46brother
- 38:47because
- 38:47he's
- 38:47just
- 38:48a
- 38:48younger
- 38:48brother.
- 38:48And
- 38:49he
- 38:49gets
- 38:49all
- 38:49the
- 38:49attention
- 38:50and
- 38:50the
- 38:50affection,
- 38:51something
- 38:51that
- 38:52Omar
- 38:52really
- 38:53craves
- 38:53but
- 38:53doesn't
- 38:54know
- 38:54how
- 38:54to
- 38:54get
- 38:54it,
- 38:55to
- 38:56the
- 38:56mischievousness
- 38:57of
- 38:58my.
- 38:59And
- 38:59how
- 38:59they're
- 39:00so
- 39:00different
- 39:01where
- 39:02Omar
- 39:03is
- 39:03a
- 39:03little
- 39:03bit
- 39:03more
- 39:03cautious.
- 39:05But
- 39:05in
- 39:06the
- 39:06end,
- 39:06through
- 39:07conflict
- 39:07with
- 39:07the
- 39:08neighborhood
- 39:08dog,
- 39:09bully
- 39:09dog
- 39:10named
- 39:10Nebo,
- 39:11they
- 39:12come
- 39:12together
- 39:12and
- 39:13they
- 39:13just
- 39:13really
- 39:14understand
- 39:15that
- 39:15they're
- 39:15different.
- 39:15But
- 39:16at
- 39:16the
- 39:16end
- 39:16of
- 39:16the
- 39:16day,
- 39:16they
- 39:17love
- 39:17each
- 39:17other
- 39:17and
- 39:18they're
- 39:18going
- 39:18to
- 39:18take
- 39:18care
- 39:18of
- 39:18each
- 39:19other
- 39:19and
- 39:19look
- 39:20out
- 39:20for
- 39:20each
- 39:20other
- 39:20and
- 39:21that's
- 39:21how
- 39:21they
- 39:21understand
- 39:22their
- 39:22brother.
- 39:23I
- 39:23want
- 39:23to
- 39:23get
- 39:23into
- 39:24your
- 39:24central
- 39:24teaching
- 39:25because
- 39:25I
- 39:25love
- 39:25what
- 39:26you've
- 39:26done
- 39:27in
- 39:27Brandon's
- 39:28book.
- 39:29There's
- 39:2910
- 39:30chapters.
- 39:30And
- 39:31the
- 39:32beautiful
- 39:32thing
- 39:32about
- 39:32what
- 39:33Brandon's
- 39:34done
- 39:34is
- 39:34there's
- 39:35some
- 39:35reflective
- 39:36questions.
- 39:37I'm
- 39:38going
- 39:38to
- 39:38say
- 39:38reflective
- 39:39at
- 39:39the
- 39:39end
- 39:39of
- 39:40each
- 39:40chapter.
- 39:41I'm
- 39:41curious
- 39:42why
- 39:42you
- 39:42use
- 39:43that
- 39:43technique.
- 39:43And
- 39:44then
- 39:44how
- 39:45did
- 39:45you
- 39:45develop
- 39:46the
- 39:46central
- 39:47lessons
- 39:48when
- 39:48you
- 39:48started
- 39:49writing
- 39:49the
- 39:49book?
- 39:49And
- 39:49did
- 39:50you
- 39:50come
- 39:50up
- 39:50with
- 39:50those
- 39:50central
- 39:51questions
- 39:53first
- 39:53and
- 39:53then
- 39:53write
- 39:54the
- 39:54chapters
- 39:54or
- 39:55did
- 39:55you
- 39:55write
- 39:55the
- 39:55chapters
- 39:56and
- 39:56then
- 39:57figure
- 39:57out
- 39:58how
- 39:58to
- 39:58support
- 39:59it?
- 39:59That's
- 40:00an
- 40:00interesting
- 40:00question
- 40:01because
- 40:02part
- 40:02of
- 40:02it
- 40:03came
- 40:03from
- 40:05the
- 40:05questions
- 40:06that
- 40:06I
- 40:06had
- 40:06growing
- 40:07up.
- 40:07So
- 40:08these
- 40:08Questions
- 40:08have
- 40:09stuck
- 40:09with
- 40:09me.
- 40:10So
- 40:10these
- 40:11were
- 40:11questions
- 40:11you
- 40:12had
- 40:12as
- 40:12a
- 40:12young
- 40:12child.
- 40:13As
- 40:13a
- 40:13young
- 40:14child.
- 40:14As
- 40:15far
- 40:15as
- 40:15the
- 40:15process,
- 40:16I
- 40:16wrote
- 40:17the
- 40:17story
- 40:17first,
- 40:19then
- 40:19I
- 40:19included
- 40:20the
- 40:20questions
- 40:21after
- 40:22each
- 40:22chapter.
- 40:22But
- 40:22I
- 40:23wanted
- 40:23to
- 40:24be
- 40:24sure
- 40:24that
- 40:25I
- 40:25was
- 40:25being
- 40:25empathetic
- 40:27to
- 40:28what
- 40:28the
- 40:28relationship
- 40:29dynamic
- 40:30may
- 40:30or
- 40:30may
- 40:31not
- 40:31be
- 40:31like
- 40:33for
- 40:33a
- 40:33child
- 40:33and
- 40:34a
- 40:34parent.
- 40:35Using
- 40:35my
- 40:35journalism
- 40:36ability.
- 40:36I
- 40:37have
- 40:37a
- 40:37journalism
- 40:38background
- 40:39and
- 40:39I've
- 40:39done
- 40:39that
- 40:39type
- 40:40of
- 40:40work.
- 40:41You
- 40:41want
- 40:41to
- 40:41start
- 40:41off
- 40:42with
- 40:42something
- 40:42a
- 40:42little
- 40:42bit
- 40:43lighter
- 40:43in
- 40:44the
- 40:44beginning.
- 40:45And
- 40:45so
- 40:46I
- 40:46wanted
- 40:46to
- 40:46just
- 40:47start
- 40:47creating
- 40:48the
- 40:48basic
- 40:48dialogue
- 40:49between
- 40:50parent
- 40:50and
- 40:51child
- 40:51and
- 40:51as
- 40:52it
- 40:52relates
- 40:52to
- 40:52the
- 40:53story,
- 40:53what
- 40:54they're
- 40:54seeing
- 40:54in
- 40:54the
- 40:55book.
- 40:55But
- 40:56gradually,
- 40:56as
- 40:57the
- 40:57story
- 40:58gets
- 40:58a
- 40:59little
- 40:59bit
- 40:59more
- 40:59riveting
- 41:00and
- 41:01you
- 41:01get
- 41:01to
- 41:01the
- 41:02climax
- 41:02of
- 41:02the
- 41:03story,
- 41:03then
- 41:03there's
- 41:04a
- 41:04little
- 41:04bit
- 41:04more
- 41:04heavier
- 41:05question.
- 41:06But
- 41:06now
- 41:07by
- 41:07that
- 41:07time,
- 41:09they've
- 41:09already
- 41:10connected
- 41:11the
- 41:12child
- 41:12and
- 41:12the
- 41:12mother.
- 41:13But
- 41:13also
- 41:13they're
- 41:14also
- 41:14invested
- 41:15into
- 41:15the
- 41:15story
- 41:16now.
- 41:17So
- 41:17can't
- 41:18just
- 41:18get
- 41:18up
- 41:18and
- 41:18walk
- 41:18away.
- 41:19I
- 41:19don't
- 41:19want
- 41:19to
- 41:20answer
- 41:20that
- 41:20question
- 41:21right
- 41:21now.
- 41:22But
- 41:22the
- 41:23goal
- 41:23of
- 41:23it
- 41:24all
- 41:24is
- 41:24to
- 41:25bond
- 41:26parent
- 41:26and
- 41:26child
- 41:27and
- 41:27also
- 41:29start
- 41:29the
- 41:29healing
- 41:30process
- 41:30not
- 41:30only
- 41:30with
- 41:31the
- 41:31child,
- 41:31but
- 41:31with
- 41:31the
- 41:31parent
- 41:32as
- 41:32well,
- 41:33too.
- 41:33Because
- 41:34oftentimes
- 41:34our
- 41:34children
- 41:35are
- 41:35mirror
- 41:35reflections
- 41:36of
- 41:36ourselves.
- 41:37And
- 41:38oftentimes
- 41:39these
- 41:39are
- 41:39generational
- 41:40behaviors
- 41:41or
- 41:41challenges
- 41:42that
- 41:43just
- 41:43didn't
- 41:43start
- 41:44with
- 41:44the
- 41:44parent
- 41:45or
- 41:45with
- 41:45the
- 41:46child.
- 41:46I
- 41:47believe
- 41:47they'll
- 41:47start
- 41:47seeing
- 41:48how
- 41:50their
- 41:50upbringings
- 41:51are
- 41:51very
- 41:52similar.
- 41:53The
- 41:53questions
- 41:54that
- 41:54are
- 41:54in
- 41:54the
- 41:54book
- 41:55that
- 41:55the
- 41:55child
- 41:56may
- 41:56be
- 41:56asking
- 41:56the
- 41:56parent
- 41:57or
- 41:58the
- 41:58parent
- 41:58asking
- 41:58the
- 41:59child
- 41:59are
- 41:59questions
- 42:00they
- 42:00would
- 42:00have
- 42:00loved
- 42:01to
- 42:01ask
- 42:02their
- 42:02pick.
- 42:03Have
- 42:03you
- 42:03taken
- 42:03your
- 42:04questions
- 42:05and
- 42:05are
- 42:05you
- 42:05looking
- 42:06at.
- 42:06Because
- 42:06you
- 42:07talked
- 42:07about
- 42:07going
- 42:07to
- 42:08educational
- 42:09institutions,
- 42:10are
- 42:10you
- 42:11developing
- 42:12your
- 42:12questions
- 42:13into
- 42:13a
- 42:13curriculum?
- 42:15Yes,
- 42:15I
- 42:15am.
- 42:15Thank
- 42:16you
- 42:16for
- 42:16bringing
- 42:16that
- 42:16up.
- 42:17And
- 42:17so
- 42:18curriculum
- 42:19workshops
- 42:20as
- 42:20well,
- 42:20too.
- 42:21What
- 42:21about
- 42:21a
- 42:22supporting
- 42:22workbook?
- 42:23That's
- 42:24something
- 42:24that's
- 42:24in
- 42:24the
- 42:25works
- 42:25as
- 42:25well,
- 42:25too.
- 42:26That's
- 42:26something
- 42:26that's
- 42:27in
- 42:27the
- 42:27work.
- 42:27What
- 42:28I
- 42:28want
- 42:28to
- 42:28do
- 42:28is
- 42:28allow
- 42:29for
- 42:29the
- 42:29demand
- 42:30and
- 42:30to
- 42:30tell
- 42:30me
- 42:31that's
- 42:31really
- 42:31what
- 42:32they
- 42:32want.
- 42:32But
- 42:33right
- 42:33now,
- 42:33it's
- 42:34been
- 42:34developing
- 42:34that
- 42:34curriculum
- 42:35from
- 42:35a
- 42:36standpoint.
- 42:37When
- 42:37I'm
- 42:37doing
- 42:38in
- 42:38person
- 42:38events,
- 42:39it's
- 42:40my
- 42:40events.
- 42:41It's
- 42:41not
- 42:41just
- 42:41a
- 42:42regular.
- 42:42I'm
- 42:43just
- 42:43going
- 42:43to
- 42:43read
- 42:43the
- 42:43story
- 42:44to
- 42:44you.
- 42:45And
- 42:45we
- 42:45sing
- 42:46Kumbaya
- 42:46at
- 42:47the
- 42:47end
- 42:47of
- 42:47the
- 42:47day.
- 42:48But
- 42:48for
- 42:49us,
- 42:49I
- 42:49had
- 42:49an
- 42:49event
- 42:50at
- 42:50the
- 42:50public
- 42:51children's
- 42:51library
- 42:53and
- 42:53was
- 42:53unbelievable
- 42:54for
- 42:54me,
- 42:55but
- 42:55it
- 42:55was
- 42:56just
- 42:56a
- 42:56great
- 42:57experience
- 42:58where
- 42:58we're
- 42:59reading
- 42:59the
- 42:59story.
- 43:00Then
- 43:01at
- 43:02the
- 43:02end
- 43:02of
- 43:02each
- 43:02chapter,
- 43:03I'm
- 43:03Asking
- 43:03questions.
- 43:04Mom,
- 43:05dad,
- 43:06and
- 43:06their
- 43:06kids
- 43:08asking
- 43:08questions,
- 43:09but
- 43:09having
- 43:09these
- 43:10conversations
- 43:11that
- 43:11they
- 43:11had
- 43:12never
- 43:12had
- 43:12before
- 43:13about
- 43:14the
- 43:14structure
- 43:15of
- 43:15their
- 43:15blended
- 43:16family.
- 43:16Asking
- 43:17questions
- 43:17about,
- 43:18how
- 43:18do
- 43:18you
- 43:19show
- 43:19love?
- 43:20How
- 43:20would
- 43:20you
- 43:20like
- 43:20to
- 43:21receive
- 43:21love?
- 43:22What
- 43:22does
- 43:23this
- 43:23mean
- 43:24when
- 43:25certain
- 43:25things
- 43:25happen
- 43:26to
- 43:26you,
- 43:27mom
- 43:28or
- 43:28dad?
- 43:29What
- 43:29was
- 43:29your
- 43:30dreams
- 43:30growing
- 43:30up?
- 43:31What
- 43:31did
- 43:31you
- 43:31dream
- 43:31about
- 43:32the
- 43:32most?
- 43:33What
- 43:34was
- 43:34your
- 43:34aspiration?
- 43:35My
- 43:36old
- 43:36daughter
- 43:36asked
- 43:37me
- 43:37that
- 43:37one
- 43:37time
- 43:38while
- 43:38we
- 43:38were
- 43:38doing
- 43:39a
- 43:39nature
- 43:39walk,
- 43:40and
- 43:40it
- 43:40stopped
- 43:41me
- 43:41in
- 43:41my
- 43:41tracks.
- 43:41I
- 43:41didn't
- 43:42know
- 43:42how
- 43:42to
- 43:43respond
- 43:43at
- 43:43first
- 43:44because
- 43:44here
- 43:44I
- 43:45am,
- 43:45a
- 43:45grown
- 43:45man,
- 43:46and
- 43:47no
- 43:47one
- 43:47has
- 43:47asked
- 43:48me
- 43:48that
- 43:48question
- 43:49since
- 43:49I
- 43:49was
- 43:49a
- 43:49child.
- 43:50What
- 43:50did
- 43:50I
- 43:51want
- 43:51to
- 43:51be
- 43:51when
- 43:51I
- 43:51grew
- 43:52up?
- 43:52I
- 43:52love
- 43:52how
- 43:52you
- 43:53have
- 43:53approached
- 43:54it
- 43:54from
- 43:54a
- 43:54child's
- 43:55mind
- 43:55and
- 43:56developed
- 43:56the
- 43:56questions.
- 43:57And
- 43:58that
- 43:58really
- 43:59lays
- 43:59the
- 43:59foundation
- 44:00for
- 44:01children
- 44:01to
- 44:02get
- 44:02engaged
- 44:03because
- 44:04you
- 44:04put
- 44:04yourself
- 44:05back
- 44:05in
- 44:05that
- 44:05childhood
- 44:06experience
- 44:07and
- 44:07developed
- 44:08your
- 44:08questions.
- 44:08So
- 44:09that's
- 44:09fantastic.
- 44:11Now,
- 44:11your
- 44:11writing
- 44:12process,
- 44:13and
- 44:13you
- 44:14talked
- 44:14about.
- 44:14You
- 44:14also
- 44:15do
- 44:15a
- 44:15newsletter
- 44:17and
- 44:17share
- 44:17some
- 44:18insights
- 44:18into
- 44:18your
- 44:19own
- 44:20writing
- 44:20development.
- 44:21Your
- 44:21writing
- 44:22process.
- 44:23I'm
- 44:23not
- 44:23sure
- 44:23if
- 44:23you're
- 44:23going
- 44:24to
- 44:24write
- 44:24another
- 44:24children's
- 44:25book,
- 44:25but
- 44:26just
- 44:26your
- 44:27overall
- 44:28writing
- 44:29process.
- 44:30Talk
- 44:30to
- 44:30us
- 44:30about
- 44:30that.
- 44:31The
- 44:32first
- 44:32step
- 44:32for
- 44:32me
- 44:33is
- 44:33to
- 44:33just
- 44:33get
- 44:33all
- 44:33my
- 44:34ideas
- 44:34out.
- 44:35When
- 44:35this
- 44:35idea
- 44:36came
- 44:36to
- 44:36me,
- 44:37this
- 44:37was
- 44:37right
- 44:38at
- 44:38the
- 44:38height
- 44:38of
- 44:38the
- 44:39COVID
- 44:3919
- 44:39pandemic.
- 44:41First
- 44:41thing
- 44:41I
- 44:42needed
- 44:42to
- 44:42do
- 44:42was
- 44:42just
- 44:43get
- 44:43a
- 44:43piece
- 44:43of
- 44:43paper.
- 44:44I
- 44:44journal
- 44:44often
- 44:44as
- 44:45well,
- 44:45and
- 44:46just
- 44:46get
- 44:46the
- 44:46story
- 44:47idea
- 44:47out.
- 44:47And
- 44:47it
- 44:48came
- 44:48to
- 44:48me
- 44:48organically.
- 44:49It
- 44:50wasn't
- 44:50something
- 44:50I
- 44:50was
- 44:50thinking
- 44:51about
- 44:51doing.
- 44:52So
- 44:52I
- 44:52get
- 44:52the
- 44:53story
- 44:53out
- 44:54after
- 44:54getting
- 44:54the
- 44:54story
- 44:55out.
- 44:56Okay,
- 44:56now
- 44:56what
- 44:57I
- 44:57need
- 44:57to
- 44:57do
- 44:58in
- 44:58this
- 44:59case,
- 44:59because
- 44:59it
- 45:00was
- 45:00something
- 45:00that.
- 45:01It
- 45:01was
- 45:01centered
- 45:01on
- 45:02family
- 45:02and
- 45:02a
- 45:02relationship
- 45:03between
- 45:03the
- 45:03brothers.
- 45:04I
- 45:04went
- 45:05to
- 45:05the
- 45:05source.
- 45:05I
- 45:05had
- 45:06a
- 45:06conversation
- 45:06with
- 45:06my
- 45:07own
- 45:07brother.
- 45:08Good
- 45:08for
- 45:09you.
- 45:09Talk
- 45:09to
- 45:09him
- 45:10and
- 45:10learn
- 45:10about
- 45:11his
- 45:11perspective.
- 45:12And
- 45:12it
- 45:12was
- 45:12a
- 45:13healing
- 45:13process
- 45:13for
- 45:14me
- 45:14because
- 45:14I
- 45:15learned
- 45:15his
- 45:15perspective
- 45:17on
- 45:17what
- 45:18life
- 45:18was
- 45:18like
- 45:18growing
- 45:19up.
- 45:19And
- 45:20I
- 45:20learned
- 45:20that
- 45:20we
- 45:20had
- 45:21a
- 45:21lot
- 45:21of
- 45:21the
- 45:21same
- 45:22perspectives.
- 45:23But
- 45:23then
- 45:24I
- 45:24learned.
- 45:24But
- 45:24you
- 45:24never
- 45:25had
- 45:25those
- 45:25conversations.
- 45:27Conversations
- 45:28before.
- 45:28Wow.
- 45:29Wow.
- 45:29And
- 45:30these
- 45:30were.
- 45:30And
- 45:30it's
- 45:31interesting,
- 45:31you
- 45:31can
- 45:31have
- 45:32five
- 45:32people,
- 45:33in
- 45:33our
- 45:33case,
- 45:34siblings,
- 45:35living
- 45:35in
- 45:35a
- 45:35house,
- 45:36sharing
- 45:37the
- 45:37same
- 45:37exact
- 45:38experience,
- 45:39but
- 45:39filtering
- 45:40it
- 45:40completely
- 45:41different.
- 45:43And
- 45:43so
- 45:43that
- 45:43was
- 45:44very
- 45:44helpful
- 45:44for
- 45:45me
- 45:45from
- 45:45a
- 45:46consulting
- 45:46standpoint,
- 45:47to
- 45:47get
- 45:47his
- 45:48ideals
- 45:49on
- 45:49some
- 45:50things
- 45:50that
- 45:50took
- 45:51place.
- 45:52And
- 45:52what
- 45:53a
- 45:53nice
- 45:53touch,
- 45:54because
- 45:54I'm
- 45:54not
- 45:54sure
- 45:54if
- 45:54I
- 45:54would
- 45:55have
- 45:55thought
- 45:55about
- 45:55that.
- 45:56And
- 45:56like
- 45:56you
- 45:56said,
- 45:57it
- 45:57didn't
- 45:58happen
- 45:58through
- 45:59your
- 45:59childhood.
- 46:00You
- 46:00had
- 46:00to
- 46:01become
- 46:01adults.
- 46:02And
- 46:02then
- 46:02all
- 46:02of
- 46:02a
- 46:02sudden,
- 46:03you
- 46:03have
- 46:03this
- 46:03spark
- 46:04of
- 46:04an
- 46:04idea
- 46:05in
- 46:05terms
- 46:05of
- 46:06writing
- 46:06a
- 46:06children's
- 46:06book
- 46:07and
- 46:07it
- 46:07creates
- 46:08this
- 46:08dialogue
- 46:09and
- 46:09it
- 46:09also
- 46:10proves
- 46:10that
- 46:11it's
- 46:11never
- 46:12too
- 46:12late
- 46:12in
- 46:13life
- 46:13to
- 46:14have
- 46:14the
- 46:14dialogue.
- 46:15That's
- 46:15true
- 46:15and
- 46:16that's
- 46:16a
- 46:16good
- 46:16point.
- 46:17And
- 46:17what
- 46:18I've
- 46:18learned
- 46:18about
- 46:18being
- 46:19in
- 46:19a
- 46:19blended
- 46:19family
- 46:20is
- 46:20this
- 46:20is
- 46:20one
- 46:20of
- 46:20the
- 46:21tips
- 46:21that
- 46:21I
- 46:21give
- 46:21people
- 46:22in
- 46:22a
- 46:22blended
- 46:23family,
- 46:23especially
- 46:23if
- 46:24you're
- 46:24planning
- 46:24something,
- 46:25be
- 46:26inclusive.
- 46:27Just
- 46:27be
- 46:28inclusive
- 46:28as
- 46:28much
- 46:28as
- 46:29possible
- 46:29so
- 46:30there's
- 46:30no
- 46:30surprises.
- 46:31And
- 46:32so
- 46:32in
- 46:32this
- 46:32way,
- 46:32part
- 46:33of
- 46:33my
- 46:33process,
- 46:33being
- 46:34inclusive
- 46:34by
- 46:35talking
- 46:35to
- 46:36my
- 46:36brother
- 46:36and
- 46:37letting
- 46:37him
- 46:37know
- 46:37this
- 46:37is
- 46:38what
- 46:38my
- 46:38idea
- 46:38is
- 46:39and
- 46:40leaving
- 46:41it
- 46:41open
- 46:41ended,
- 46:42how
- 46:42if
- 46:42he
- 46:42wanted
- 46:43to
- 46:43participate
- 46:44in
- 46:44any
- 46:44kind
- 46:45of
- 46:45way,
- 46:46he
- 46:46provided
- 46:46me
- 46:47with
- 46:47some
- 46:47his
- 46:48insight
- 46:48and
- 46:48his
- 46:49perspective,
- 46:49which
- 46:50really
- 46:50helped
- 46:50me
- 46:50with
- 46:51developing
- 46:51the
- 46:51voice
- 46:52of
- 46:52Michael,
- 46:53the
- 46:53younger
- 46:54brother.
- 46:54Getting
- 46:55the
- 46:55idea,
- 46:56doing
- 46:56the
- 46:56research
- 46:57as
- 46:57well.
- 46:58Then
- 46:59from
- 46:59there,
- 47:00when
- 47:00you
- 47:00say
- 47:01research,
- 47:01were
- 47:02you
- 47:02going
- 47:02to
- 47:02external
- 47:03sources
- 47:04to
- 47:04get
- 47:04more
- 47:05research
- 47:05or
- 47:06how
- 47:06were
- 47:06you
- 47:06doing
- 47:07your
- 47:07research?
- 47:08Yeah,
- 47:08so
- 47:09I
- 47:09was
- 47:09doing
- 47:09my
- 47:09research
- 47:10one
- 47:10by
- 47:11figuring
- 47:12out
- 47:12if
- 47:12this
- 47:12was
- 47:12something
- 47:13that
- 47:13already
- 47:13exists.
- 47:15And
- 47:15I
- 47:15found
- 47:15out
- 47:16that
- 47:16there
- 47:16were
- 47:16not
- 47:16stories
- 47:17that
- 47:18focus
- 47:18on
- 47:18blended
- 47:19families
- 47:20from
- 47:20this
- 47:20type
- 47:21of
- 47:21perspective
- 47:21of
- 47:22brotherhood,
- 47:23but
- 47:23also
- 47:24being
- 47:25raised
- 47:25by
- 47:25a
- 47:25single
- 47:26parent
- 47:26household
- 47:27as
- 47:27well.
- 47:28But
- 47:29then
- 47:29also
- 47:29too
- 47:29doing
- 47:30some
- 47:30self
- 47:30reflection,
- 47:32visiting
- 47:33some
- 47:33events
- 47:33in
- 47:34my
- 47:34own
- 47:34childhood
- 47:35as
- 47:35well
- 47:36too,
- 47:36and
- 47:37having
- 47:37some
- 47:38heavy
- 47:38conversations
- 47:38with
- 47:39my
- 47:39own
- 47:39parents
- 47:40we
- 47:40had
- 47:41never
- 47:41had
- 47:42growing
- 47:42up.
- 47:43And
- 47:44so
- 47:45that
- 47:45was
- 47:45the
- 47:45type
- 47:46of
- 47:46research
- 47:46that
- 47:46I
- 47:46was
- 47:47doing.
- 47:47And
- 47:48then
- 47:48from
- 47:48there
- 47:49just
- 47:50getting
- 47:50the
- 47:50story
- 47:50out,
- 47:51doing
- 47:51the
- 47:52research,
- 47:52talking
- 47:52to
- 47:53my
- 47:53brother,
- 47:54now
- 47:55developing
- 47:55an
- 47:55outline.
- 47:56So
- 47:56then
- 47:57I
- 47:57develop,
- 47:57I
- 47:58wrote
- 47:58out
- 47:58an
- 47:58outline
- 47:59on
- 48:00what
- 48:00the
- 48:00story
- 48:00are,
- 48:01what
- 48:02the
- 48:02ending's
- 48:02going
- 48:02to
- 48:02be.
- 48:03And
- 48:03then
- 48:04unfortunately,
- 48:05but
- 48:05fortunately
- 48:06I
- 48:06ended
- 48:06up
- 48:07losing
- 48:07my
- 48:07job,
- 48:08getting
- 48:08terminated
- 48:09due
- 48:10to
- 48:10downsizing.
- 48:11Now
- 48:12I
- 48:12had
- 48:12time
- 48:13and
- 48:13I
- 48:13told
- 48:14myself,
- 48:14I'm
- 48:15going
- 48:15to
- 48:15write
- 48:15this
- 48:16story.
- 48:16So
- 48:16I
- 48:16then
- 48:17devoted
- 48:18time
- 48:18to
- 48:19every
- 48:19day,
- 48:19every
- 48:20morning
- 48:20for
- 48:20about
- 48:21a
- 48:21month,
- 48:22writing
- 48:22the
- 48:23story,
- 48:23using
- 48:24my
- 48:24outline,
- 48:25changing
- 48:25things
- 48:26up
- 48:26as
- 48:26well.
- 48:27Then
- 48:28going
- 48:28to
- 48:29my
- 48:29trusted
- 48:30advisors,
- 48:31my
- 48:32wife
- 48:32and
- 48:32my
- 48:33daughters,
- 48:34my
- 48:34oldest
- 48:35more
- 48:35specifically,
- 48:36who
- 48:37is
- 48:37an
- 48:37avid
- 48:38reader
- 48:39and
- 48:39she
- 48:39reads
- 48:40books
- 48:40such
- 48:40as
- 48:41Diary
- 48:41of
- 48:41a
- 48:42Wimpy
- 48:42Kid.
- 48:43I
- 48:44had
- 48:44her
- 48:44read
- 48:44it
- 48:45and
- 48:45she
- 48:46was
- 48:46giggling
- 48:46and
- 48:47laughing
- 48:47the
- 48:47whole
- 48:48time.
- 48:48And
- 48:49then
- 48:49she
- 48:49wrote
- 48:49me
- 48:50out
- 48:50a
- 48:50note
- 48:50and
- 48:50she
- 48:51said
- 48:51that
- 48:51great
- 48:52book,
- 48:52dad,
- 48:52you're
- 48:53going
- 48:53to
- 48:53be
- 48:53a
- 48:53published
- 48:55author.
- 48:57She
- 48:58was
- 48:588,
- 48:589
- 48:58years
- 48:59old
- 48:59at
- 48:59the
- 48:59time,
- 48:59misspelled
- 49:00published.
- 49:01I
- 49:01don't
- 49:01know
- 49:01if.
- 49:02But
- 49:02she's
- 49:02so
- 49:02creative
- 49:03she
- 49:03might
- 49:03have
- 49:03did
- 49:03it
- 49:04on
- 49:04purpose.
- 49:05And
- 49:05she
- 49:05spelled
- 49:05it
- 49:06published.
- 49:07And
- 49:07so
- 49:08that's
- 49:08how
- 49:08I
- 49:08came
- 49:08up
- 49:08with
- 49:09the
- 49:09line
- 49:09Publix.
- 49:10I
- 49:10love
- 49:10it.
- 49:11I
- 49:11love
- 49:11it.
- 49:12I
- 49:12want
- 49:12you
- 49:12to
- 49:13think
- 49:13about
- 49:14success
- 49:15in
- 49:16a
- 49:16couple
- 49:16of
- 49:16ways.
- 49:17So
- 49:17I'd
- 49:17like
- 49:18you
- 49:18to
- 49:18think
- 49:18about
- 49:19how
- 49:19did
- 49:19you
- 49:20envision
- 49:21your
- 49:21children's
- 49:22book
- 49:22writing
- 49:22success
- 49:23prior
- 49:24to
- 49:24publishing
- 49:25your
- 49:25book
- 49:26and
- 49:26then
- 49:26once
- 49:27you
- 49:27published
- 49:27your
- 49:28book,
- 49:28what
- 49:29was
- 49:29the
- 49:29biggest
- 49:30difference
- 49:30in
- 49:32what
- 49:32success
- 49:32turned
- 49:33out
- 49:33to
- 49:33be
- 49:34or
- 49:34is
- 49:35turning
- 49:35out
- 49:35to
- 49:35be?
- 49:36Yes,
- 49:37this
- 49:37is
- 49:38interesting
- 49:38because
- 49:38I
- 49:39tend
- 49:39to
- 49:39underestimate
- 49:41what
- 49:41I'm
- 49:41doing
- 49:41and
- 49:42how
- 49:42I'm
- 49:42going
- 49:42to
- 49:42do
- 49:42it.
- 49:43So
- 49:43initially
- 49:44it
- 49:44was
- 49:45success
- 49:45was,
- 49:46hey,
- 49:47I
- 49:47put
- 49:47out
- 49:47a
- 49:48book.
- 49:50Yeah,
- 49:50I
- 49:51wrote
- 49:51it.
- 49:51I
- 49:52didn't
- 49:52know
- 49:52how
- 49:52I
- 49:52was
- 49:52going
- 49:53to
- 49:53put
- 49:53it
- 49:53out,
- 49:53but
- 49:54I'll
- 49:54just
- 49:55make
- 49:55it
- 49:55available
- 49:56on
- 49:56Amazon
- 49:57or
- 49:57something.
- 49:57That's
- 49:58part.
- 49:58That
- 49:58was
- 49:58part
- 49:58of
- 49:58my
- 49:58research
- 49:59process
- 49:59as
- 50:00well,
- 50:00too.
- 50:00Understanding
- 50:01those
- 50:01different.
- 50:03The
- 50:03different
- 50:03journeys.
- 50:04But
- 50:05put
- 50:05it
- 50:06out
- 50:06there
- 50:06whether
- 50:06I
- 50:07sell
- 50:07one
- 50:07or
- 50:07two.
- 50:07Oh,
- 50:08I'm
- 50:08a
- 50:08published
- 50:08author.
- 50:10But
- 50:10then
- 50:11throughout
- 50:11the
- 50:11process,
- 50:13understanding
- 50:14that
- 50:15the
- 50:16vehicle
- 50:19really
- 50:20meant
- 50:20to
- 50:21be
- 50:22larger
- 50:22than
- 50:23I
- 50:24anticipated,
- 50:25than
- 50:25just
- 50:25writing
- 50:26the
- 50:26book.
- 50:27Right.
- 50:28Because
- 50:28of
- 50:29who
- 50:29it
- 50:29serves,
- 50:30the
- 50:30mission,
- 50:30and
- 50:31the
- 50:31purpose
- 50:31behind
- 50:32the
- 50:32book,
- 50:33I
- 50:33have
- 50:34to
- 50:34be
- 50:34open
- 50:34to
- 50:35doing
- 50:35more
- 50:35with
- 50:36it.
- 50:37And
- 50:37so
- 50:37now
- 50:37it's
- 50:38been
- 50:38really
- 50:38driving
- 50:39itself
- 50:39from
- 50:40a
- 50:40standpoint,
- 50:40from
- 50:41a
- 50:41business
- 50:41perspective,
- 50:42being
- 50:43paid
- 50:43to
- 50:43do
- 50:44speaking
- 50:44engagements,
- 50:45readings
- 50:46and
- 50:47workshops,
- 50:48and
- 50:49just
- 50:49showing
- 50:50up
- 50:51as
- 50:51someone
- 50:52who
- 50:53authentically
- 50:53cares
- 50:54about
- 50:54blended
- 50:55family.
- 50:55I'm
- 50:56glad
- 50:56you're
- 50:56sharing
- 50:57that,
- 50:57Brandon,
- 50:57because
- 50:58the
- 50:58biggest
- 50:58thing
- 50:58is
- 50:59you're
- 51:00my
- 51:0085th
- 51:02children's
- 51:02book
- 51:02author
- 51:03that
- 51:03I've
- 51:03interviewed.
- 51:04And
- 51:04the
- 51:05thing
- 51:05that
- 51:05I'm
- 51:05finding
- 51:06is
- 51:06your
- 51:07book
- 51:07cannot
- 51:07be
- 51:07a
- 51:08standalone
- 51:08on
- 51:09its
- 51:09own.
- 51:09You
- 51:10need
- 51:10to
- 51:10support
- 51:10it
- 51:11through
- 51:11ideas
- 51:12like
- 51:12you're
- 51:13sharing
- 51:13with
- 51:13us.
- 51:13And
- 51:14that's
- 51:14what
- 51:14I'm
- 51:14hoping
- 51:15aspiring
- 51:16children's
- 51:16book
- 51:17authors
- 51:17understand,
- 51:18like
- 51:18Brandon
- 51:19said.
- 51:19And
- 51:19listen,
- 51:20we
- 51:20went
- 51:20through
- 51:20the
- 51:20same
- 51:21thing.
- 51:21You
- 51:21get
- 51:21on
- 51:22Amazon,
- 51:22you
- 51:23say,
- 51:23I'm
- 51:24a
- 51:24published
- 51:24children's
- 51:25book
- 51:25authority,
- 51:26and
- 51:26then
- 51:27you
- 51:27go,
- 51:28okay,
- 51:28but
- 51:28now
- 51:29what?
- 51:29No.
- 51:29So,
- 51:30yeah,
- 51:31and
- 51:31I'm
- 51:31glad
- 51:31you're
- 51:32sharing
- 51:32that
- 51:32with
- 51:32us
- 51:33and
- 51:33how
- 51:33you're
- 51:33building
- 51:34out
- 51:34your
- 51:35children's
- 51:35book
- 51:35business
- 51:36from
- 51:37the
- 51:37one
- 51:37book
- 51:38that
- 51:38can
- 51:38grow
- 51:39into
- 51:39speaking
- 51:40events
- 51:41and
- 51:42curriculum
- 51:43and
- 51:43all
- 51:44the
- 51:44stuff
- 51:44that
- 51:44you're
- 51:44talking
- 51:45about,
- 51:45it's
- 51:45just
- 51:45fantastic.
- 51:46So
- 51:47thank
- 51:47you
- 51:47for
- 51:47sharing
- 51:48that
- 51:49advice
- 51:50for
- 51:52aspiring
- 51:53authors.
- 51:54What
- 51:54would
- 51:54you
- 51:55say
- 51:55to
- 51:56someone
- 51:56who's
- 51:56got
- 51:57this
- 51:57nugget
- 51:58of
- 51:58an
- 51:58idea,
- 51:59but
- 51:59they
- 52:00just
- 52:00don't
- 52:00know
- 52:00how
- 52:01to
- 52:01go
- 52:01about
- 52:02getting
- 52:02their
- 52:03book
- 52:03published?
- 52:05My
- 52:05slogan,
- 52:05do.
- 52:06If
- 52:06you're
- 52:06going
- 52:06to
- 52:07write,
- 52:07you
- 52:07want
- 52:07to
- 52:07be
- 52:07an
- 52:08author,
- 52:08what
- 52:09do
- 52:09you
- 52:09have
- 52:09to
- 52:09do
- 52:09to
- 52:09be
- 52:10an
- 52:10author?
- 52:10You
- 52:11have
- 52:11to
- 52:11write.
- 52:12And
- 52:13so
- 52:13that's
- 52:13the
- 52:13first
- 52:13Process,
- 52:14whether
- 52:15you're
- 52:15jotting
- 52:16down
- 52:16your
- 52:16creative
- 52:17idea
- 52:17and
- 52:18just
- 52:18getting
- 52:18it
- 52:18out
- 52:18of
- 52:19you,
- 52:20then
- 52:20I
- 52:20would
- 52:20say
- 52:22be
- 52:22consistent,
- 52:24give
- 52:24yourself
- 52:25a
- 52:25schedule,
- 52:26promise
- 52:26yourself
- 52:27and
- 52:27commit
- 52:27to
- 52:27it.
- 52:28And
- 52:28say,
- 52:28like
- 52:29I
- 52:29did,
- 52:29I'm
- 52:30going
- 52:30to
- 52:32be
- 52:32a
- 52:32published
- 52:33author.
- 52:33I'm
- 52:33going
- 52:34to
- 52:34finish
- 52:34this
- 52:35book.
- 52:36And
- 52:36Brandon,
- 52:37how
- 52:37are
- 52:37you
- 52:37going
- 52:37to
- 52:37finish
- 52:38this
- 52:38book?
- 52:39You
- 52:39know,
- 52:39by
- 52:39setting
- 52:40specific
- 52:40goals,
- 52:41by
- 52:41creating
- 52:42smart
- 52:42goals.
- 52:42I
- 52:43have
- 52:43a
- 52:43project
- 52:43management
- 52:44background
- 52:44too.
- 52:45Smart
- 52:45dogs
- 52:46behavior,
- 52:46being
- 52:46specific,
- 52:47being
- 52:48measurable,
- 52:48is
- 52:49it
- 52:49attainable?
- 52:50How
- 52:50relevant
- 52:51is
- 52:51it
- 52:52putting
- 52:52the
- 52:52time
- 52:53step
- 52:53as
- 52:53to
- 52:53when
- 52:54this
- 52:54is
- 52:54going
- 52:54to
- 52:54happen?
- 52:55Of
- 52:55course,
- 52:56it
- 52:56didn't
- 52:56happen
- 52:56when
- 52:57I
- 52:57had
- 52:57as
- 52:57far
- 52:57as
- 52:58being
- 52:58published,
- 52:58didn't
- 52:59happen
- 52:59when
- 52:59I
- 53:00wanted
- 53:00it
- 53:00to
- 53:00happen.
- 53:01Right.
- 53:01But
- 53:02I
- 53:02set
- 53:02a
- 53:02goal
- 53:03and
- 53:03I
- 53:04stayed
- 53:04consistent
- 53:05with
- 53:05it
- 53:06and
- 53:06kept
- 53:06feeding
- 53:07that
- 53:07goal.
- 53:08And
- 53:08as
- 53:09you
- 53:09go
- 53:09along
- 53:09the
- 53:10way,
- 53:10the
- 53:10hunger,
- 53:12the
- 53:12homework
- 53:12continues
- 53:13to
- 53:13grow
- 53:13in
- 53:14you.
- 53:14But
- 53:14now
- 53:15you're
- 53:15finding
- 53:15and
- 53:16you're
- 53:16learning
- 53:16about
- 53:17different
- 53:17things.
- 53:18It
- 53:18goes
- 53:18from
- 53:18I
- 53:19just
- 53:19want
- 53:19to
- 53:19publish
- 53:19a
- 53:20book
- 53:20to
- 53:20now,
- 53:20oh,
- 53:21I
- 53:21can
- 53:21actually
- 53:22become
- 53:22maybe
- 53:23a
- 53:23traditional
- 53:23published
- 53:24author
- 53:25and
- 53:25maybe
- 53:25I
- 53:26can
- 53:26create
- 53:26a
- 53:26merchandising
- 53:28brand
- 53:29out
- 53:29of.
- 53:29Oh,
- 53:30I
- 53:30can
- 53:30really
- 53:31speak
- 53:31and
- 53:31do
- 53:32these
- 53:32other
- 53:32things
- 53:32as
- 53:33well
- 53:33too
- 53:34because
- 53:34of
- 53:35consistency
- 53:36and
- 53:36continue.
- 53:37And
- 53:37to
- 53:37your
- 53:37point,
- 53:37your
- 53:38book
- 53:38definitely
- 53:39fills
- 53:40a
- 53:40void
- 53:40that
- 53:41more
- 53:41and
- 53:41more
- 53:41people
- 53:42are
- 53:42looking
- 53:42for
- 53:43someone
- 53:43to
- 53:44come
- 53:44in
- 53:44and
- 53:44speak
- 53:44to
- 53:45them.
- 53:45What
- 53:45keeps
- 53:46you
- 53:46going,
- 53:47Brandon,
- 53:48as
- 53:48a
- 53:48children's
- 53:49book
- 53:49author?
- 53:50What
- 53:51keeps
- 53:51me
- 53:51going
- 53:51as
- 53:52a
- 53:52children's
- 53:52book
- 53:52author
- 53:53is
- 53:55the
- 53:55purpose
- 53:55and
- 53:55the
- 53:55mission
- 53:56of
- 53:56the
- 53:56book.
- 53:57Also
- 53:59being
- 53:59self
- 54:00aware
- 54:01of
- 54:01who
- 54:01I
- 54:02am
- 54:03and
- 54:03what
- 54:03brings
- 54:03me
- 54:04joy
- 54:05and
- 54:05that
- 54:05is
- 54:06creating
- 54:08that
- 54:08is
- 54:08family.
- 54:10And
- 54:11at
- 54:11the
- 54:11end
- 54:11of
- 54:11the
- 54:11day,
- 54:11I
- 54:12believe
- 54:12that
- 54:14time
- 54:14is
- 54:14of
- 54:14the
- 54:14essence.
- 54:15We're
- 54:15all
- 54:15on
- 54:15borrowing
- 54:16time
- 54:17and
- 54:19having
- 54:19the
- 54:19vision
- 54:20to
- 54:20be
- 54:20what
- 54:20you
- 54:21want
- 54:21to
- 54:21be
- 54:22is
- 54:22one
- 54:22thing,
- 54:23but
- 54:23actually
- 54:24doing
- 54:24something
- 54:24about
- 54:24it
- 54:25is
- 54:25another.
- 54:26So
- 54:26that's
- 54:26what
- 54:27keeps
- 54:27me
- 54:27going.
- 54:27Also
- 54:28knowing
- 54:28that
- 54:29I
- 54:29have
- 54:29children
- 54:30who
- 54:30look
- 54:30up
- 54:31at
- 54:31me
- 54:31as
- 54:31a
- 54:31leader
- 54:32and
- 54:32they
- 54:33may
- 54:33have
- 54:34similar
- 54:34aspirations,
- 54:35but
- 54:36knowing
- 54:36that
- 54:36they
- 54:36can
- 54:36go
- 54:37through
- 54:37this
- 54:37journey
- 54:37with
- 54:38me
- 54:38when
- 54:39I'm
- 54:39doing
- 54:39a
- 54:39book
- 54:39signing,
- 54:40they're
- 54:40right
- 54:40there.
- 54:41Terrific.
- 54:42I
- 54:42know
- 54:43you
- 54:43talked
- 54:43about
- 54:43your
- 54:44brother
- 54:44Chris
- 54:44being
- 54:45part
- 54:45of
- 54:45your
- 54:45inspiration,
- 54:46but
- 54:46I
- 54:46forgot
- 54:47to
- 54:47ask
- 54:47you.
- 54:47So
- 54:48when
- 54:48you
- 54:48gave
- 54:49him
- 54:49a
- 54:49copy
- 54:50of
- 54:50the
- 54:50book,
- 54:51what
- 54:51was
- 54:52his
- 54:52reaction?
- 54:54You
- 54:54know
- 54:54what?
- 54:54He
- 54:55actually
- 54:56gave
- 54:56me
- 54:56some
- 54:57good
- 54:57feedback
- 54:58early
- 54:58on
- 54:59about
- 54:59the
- 55:00book.
- 55:00He
- 55:00wanted
- 55:00to
- 55:01make
- 55:01sure
- 55:01that
- 55:02I'm
- 55:02thinking
- 55:02about
- 55:03the
- 55:03impact
- 55:03of
- 55:04the
- 55:04book
- 55:05and
- 55:05who
- 55:05is
- 55:05going
- 55:06to
- 55:06serve.
- 55:07I
- 55:08think
- 55:08he
- 55:08probably
- 55:08wanted
- 55:09it
- 55:10to
- 55:10be
- 55:10a
- 55:10little
- 55:11bit
- 55:11more
- 55:11older,
- 55:12skewed,
- 55:13but
- 55:13I
- 55:14told
- 55:14him
- 55:14more
- 55:14so
- 55:14about
- 55:15the
- 55:15vision.
- 55:16But
- 55:16afterwards
- 55:17he
- 55:17liked
- 55:18it
- 55:18he
- 55:18liked
- 55:19the
- 55:19illustration
- 55:19and
- 55:20that's
- 55:20the
- 55:20thing
- 55:20too
- 55:20my
- 55:20role
- 55:21that
- 55:21he's
- 55:21an
- 55:21artist.
- 55:22He
- 55:22knows
- 55:22how
- 55:23to
- 55:23draw
- 55:23and
- 55:23he
- 55:24been
- 55:24one
- 55:24of
- 55:24the
- 55:25best
- 55:25artists
- 55:26that
- 55:26I've
- 55:26ever
- 55:26experienced
- 55:27or
- 55:27known.
- 55:28But
- 55:28he's
- 55:29not
- 55:29an
- 55:29illustrator.
- 55:30But
- 55:31he
- 55:31gave
- 55:32me
- 55:32some
- 55:32positive
- 55:33feedback
- 55:34and
- 55:34also
- 55:35some
- 55:35great
- 55:36pointers
- 55:36as
- 55:36well
- 55:37too
- 55:37along
- 55:38the
- 55:38journey.
- 55:38That's
- 55:39terrific
- 55:40encouragement
- 55:41for
- 55:41readers.
- 55:43Why
- 55:43should
- 55:44children's
- 55:45book
- 55:45readers
- 55:45purchase
- 55:46your
- 55:46book?
- 55:47Children
- 55:48book
- 55:48readers
- 55:49should
- 55:49purchase
- 55:49my
- 55:50book
- 55:50because
- 55:51it's
- 55:52a
- 55:52story
- 55:52that
- 55:53has
- 55:53characters
- 55:54that
- 55:55I
- 55:56believe
- 55:56resonates
- 55:57with
- 55:57them.
- 55:59It's
- 55:59a
- 55:59story
- 56:00that
- 56:01is
- 56:02essential
- 56:02to
- 56:03their
- 56:04own
- 56:04childhood
- 56:05development.
- 56:06Understanding
- 56:07what
- 56:07love
- 56:07looks
- 56:08like,
- 56:09the
- 56:09different
- 56:09forms.
- 56:10Also
- 56:11understanding
- 56:12of
- 56:13healing
- 56:14and
- 56:14connection
- 56:16and
- 56:16emotional
- 56:17attachment
- 56:17and
- 56:18the
- 56:18benefits
- 56:18of
- 56:19that.
- 56:20You
- 56:20buy
- 56:20my
- 56:21book
- 56:22for
- 56:23what
- 56:23the
- 56:23child
- 56:25could
- 56:25become,
- 56:26for
- 56:26what
- 56:26you
- 56:27want
- 56:27him
- 56:27or
- 56:27her
- 56:28to
- 56:28become.
- 56:29It's
- 56:29more
- 56:30than
- 56:30just
- 56:30a
- 56:30story
- 56:30to
- 56:31entertain.
- 56:32It's
- 56:32a
- 56:32story
- 56:33to
- 56:33grow
- 56:34our
- 56:35boys
- 56:35and
- 56:35our
- 56:36girls
- 56:37to
- 56:38healthy
- 56:38leaders
- 56:40tomorrow,
- 56:41which
- 56:41equates
- 56:42to
- 56:44healthy
- 56:44families.
- 56:45We
- 56:45was
- 56:45Danny
- 56:46qua
- 56:46to
- 56:47better
- 56:47communities.
- 56:49Final
- 56:49Thoughts
- 56:50Brandon,
- 56:51is
- 56:51there
- 56:52anything
- 56:52that
- 56:52you
- 56:52say?
- 56:53Geez,
- 56:53I
- 56:53wish
- 56:53Rick
- 56:54would
- 56:54have
- 56:54asked
- 56:54me
- 56:55that.
- 56:56Final
- 56:56Thoughts
- 56:58I
- 56:58wish
- 57:00that
- 57:02you
- 57:02would
- 57:02have
- 57:02asked
- 57:03me
- 57:04about
- 57:04the
- 57:05psychology
- 57:07of
- 57:07the
- 57:07writing
- 57:08process,
- 57:11the
- 57:11roller
- 57:11coaster
- 57:13that
- 57:14you
- 57:14can
- 57:14go
- 57:15throughout
- 57:15the
- 57:15journey.
- 57:17From
- 57:17a
- 57:17mental
- 57:18standpoint,
- 57:20writing
- 57:21is
- 57:21something
- 57:22that
- 57:22is
- 57:22very
- 57:22scary
- 57:23to
- 57:23some
- 57:23people
- 57:25because
- 57:25it
- 57:25reveals
- 57:26a
- 57:26lot
- 57:26of
- 57:27your
- 57:27internal
- 57:28rather
- 57:29it's
- 57:29some
- 57:29brokenness.
- 57:30Would
- 57:30you
- 57:30say
- 57:31it
- 57:31helped
- 57:31your
- 57:32mental
- 57:32health?
- 57:33Most
- 57:33definitely
- 57:34it
- 57:34did.
- 57:34Yeah.
- 57:35I
- 57:35was
- 57:35healing
- 57:36in
- 57:36the
- 57:36process
- 57:37during
- 57:38really
- 57:38going
- 57:38through
- 57:39all
- 57:39those
- 57:40adjustments
- 57:41in
- 57:41life.
- 57:41I
- 57:42had
- 57:42author
- 57:42on
- 57:43who
- 57:43wrote
- 57:43a
- 57:43book
- 57:43on
- 57:43a
- 57:44Chickadee
- 57:45and
- 57:45amber
- 57:46Mitchell
- 57:46episode
- 57:4732.
- 57:47Said
- 57:48writing
- 57:48that
- 57:49children's
- 57:49book
- 57:50helped
- 57:50her
- 57:50mental
- 57:50health
- 57:51immensely.
- 57:52Thank
- 57:52you
- 57:52for
- 57:53sharing
- 57:53that.
- 57:54Brandon.
- 57:55Thank
- 57:55you
- 57:55for
- 57:55being
- 57:56a
- 57:56guest
- 57:56on
- 57:56the
- 57:56Adventures
- 57:57in
- 57:57the
- 57:57Heart
- 57:57of
- 57:58Children's
- 57:58Book
- 57:58Authors
- 57:59podcast.
- 57:59Your
- 58:00generosity
- 58:00of
- 58:01time
- 58:01and
- 58:02your
- 58:02insights.
- 58:03You
- 58:03certainly
- 58:04gave
- 58:05us
- 58:05a
- 58:05lot
- 58:05of
- 58:05insights
- 58:06into
- 58:06the
- 58:06whole
- 58:07children's
- 58:08book
- 58:08writing
- 58:09process
- 58:09and
- 58:10publishing
- 58:11and
- 58:11it'll
- 58:11significantly
- 58:12benefit
- 58:13not
- 58:13only
- 58:14aspiring
- 58:14authors,
- 58:15but
- 58:15readers.
- 58:16And
- 58:16we
- 58:16promise
- 58:17to
- 58:18provide
- 58:18our
- 58:18audience
- 58:19with
- 58:20links
- 58:20to
- 58:20Brandon's
- 58:21social
- 58:21media,
- 58:22his
- 58:22website
- 58:23and
- 58:23his
- 58:23book.
- 58:24And
- 58:24if
- 58:24you've
- 58:25enjoyed
- 58:25this
- 58:25episode,
- 58:26please
- 58:26hit
- 58:26the
- 58:26subscribe
- 58:27button
- 58:28to
- 58:28listen
- 58:29to
- 58:29our
- 58:29future
- 58:29episodes
- 58:30and
- 58:30and
- 58:31feel
- 58:31free
- 58:32to
- 58:32share
- 58:33this
- 58:33episode
- 58:33with
- 58:34anyone
- 58:35inspired
- 58:35by
- 58:36or
- 58:36who
- 58:36enjoys
- 58:37hearing
- 58:37about
- 58:38Brandon
- 58:39and
- 58:39his
- 58:40children's
- 58:41book.
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