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- 0:00So I'm not going to sit here and say DPC is perfect and that
- 0:03there's no problems, but they're my problems and I have the
- 0:06control to fix them. They are.
- 0:09I am the system. I hated the person that I had
- 0:12become in corporate medicine. It was a very frightening
- 0:15condition to be in. No control over my schedule, no
- 0:18control over where to refer my patients or how much time I got
- 0:22to spend with my patients. Welcome to DPC Life, the podcast
- 0:26where independent doctors share real stories.
- 0:29Bold ideas and the freedom of doing medicine on your own
- 0:33terms. I'm your host, Doctor Anne
- 0:36Gonzalez, and together we'll explore the winds, the
- 0:39struggles, and everything in between.
- 0:42Let's dive in. Welcome back to DPC Life, the
- 0:46podcast where we talk about all things DPC and everything beyond
- 0:51the office. Today I'm talking with Doctor
- 0:54Noemi Adame. She's a pediatrician and founder
- 0:57of Culver Pediatric Center. She previously worked in
- 1:00corporate pediatric world but decided to leave when she felt
- 1:06she couldn't practice medicine the way that she felt it should
- 1:09be practiced. And so now she has built her
- 1:12practice around her values, and she left her corporate job when
- 1:17she felt that she could not care for complex children in a system
- 1:22that only gave you 10 to 15 minutes with each patient.
- 1:25So if you're a physician who has felt like you are slowly
- 1:28breaking down within the system, this conversation will show you
- 1:33how. One Doctor Who felt the same way
- 1:36has rebuilt her practice and enjoys practicing medicine
- 1:40again. So let's get into the episode
- 1:43with Doctor Noemi Adame. Today my guest is Doctor Noemi
- 1:47Adame. She is a pediatrician in Culver,
- 1:50IN and her practice is called Culver Pediatric Center and
- 1:55she's also called the Veggies over pills doctor, so she'll get
- 1:58into that later, I'm sure. But welcome to the show I'm.
- 2:02Glad to be here. Absolutely.
- 2:04So glad to have you. So let's start out.
- 2:06You are a pediatrician obviously, and tell us how you
- 2:10found DPC I. Started off my first job
- 2:12straight out of residency. I was a hospitalist in San
- 2:16Antonio for about 10 years, and I thrived in that environment.
- 2:20And then we lived out of the country for two years just
- 2:23simply because my husband and I wanted to show our kids a
- 2:26different life than living in a gated community in the San
- 2:30Antonio suburbs. And when it was time to come
- 2:32back, we decided to live in a small town 'cause we had lived
- 2:34in a small town in Costa Rica. And so we wanted to come back to
- 2:37the States, live in a small town.
- 2:38That's how we ended up in Culver.
- 2:40And obviously there was number hospitalist jobs here.
- 2:43So I went into the corporate medicine world and I just did
- 2:47not thrive in that environment. And it was just that.
- 2:51And it was the hurry up, hurry up, we've got 10 minutes to see
- 2:53a patient. And it didn't matter if it was a
- 2:55suicidal 15 year old or a breastfeeding mom that was
- 2:58crying because she was struggling to get her baby to
- 3:00latch or a sore throat. And I was so morally injured and
- 3:06distressed, I don't even know how I lasted five years, quite
- 3:08honestly. And I think it was just part of
- 3:10that. In medicine, you just, you plug
- 3:12along, you're resilient, you're tough, you make you do it for
- 3:15the patients, right. And somewhere around there,
- 3:18there was a doctor, a local doctor, Joel Schumacher, who had
- 3:21opened up his own DPC practice. So I had reached out to him.
- 3:24I didn't really know what DPC was, but honestly, it was to see
- 3:26if he would hire me. It is why I had reached out.
- 3:28And he, I feel like he was like my Yoda.
- 3:31He showed me the way of DPC and I realized that I didn't just
- 3:37hate the doctor I had become in corporate medicine.
- 3:40I hated the person that I had become in corporate medicine.
- 3:44It was a very frightening condition to be in.
- 3:48So I knew I either had to do this, do DPC and open up my own
- 3:52practice so I could practice medicine the way I wanted to, or
- 3:54leave medicine all together because I just, I could not
- 3:57continue with a moral injury in the corporate world.
- 4:02And so that was how long ago? That was like that was around
- 4:072018 when I 2019 when I sat down with him and learned all this.
- 4:13And then I opened up my practice in August of 2020.
- 4:17Yeah. Wow, great times.
- 4:20Wow, so you are really one of the early Peeds DPCS?
- 4:25Yeah, when we first, I think there were 12 people in the
- 4:28Peeds DPC group, the Facebook group when I joined and now
- 4:32there's 500 or. Something.
- 4:34Wow. Thing that growth has been.
- 4:36Amazing. That is great.
- 4:37Yeah. My husband's a pediatrician.
- 4:39And so when we opened one time, I was reading him a note from
- 4:42one of our patients, and it was so sweet.
- 4:45We spent so much time, and this is the best place I've ever
- 4:48been. It just tip things that DPC
- 4:51patients say. And he was like, I've never
- 4:54gotten anything like that from my patient.
- 4:59And I've asked him if he wants to join and he's just set in his
- 5:02ways. He's no way.
- 5:07And that's great when it can work.
- 5:09Yes, yeah, yeah. But it's, I hear so many women
- 5:14talking about just like you said, you know, the moral injury
- 5:18and either it's DPC or I'm out, which is terrible right now.
- 5:25Because, you know, it's so funny because people keep saying, oh,
- 5:28the system is broken. The system needs to change.
- 5:32As physicians, we have lost control of the system.
- 5:35We don't have control over the system.
- 5:39We can't tell it to change. So I'm not going to sit here and
- 5:43say the PC is perfect and that there's no problems.
- 5:46But they're my problems and I have the control to fix them,
- 5:49right? They are.
- 5:51I am the system, yes. So I have autonomy and I have
- 5:56the freedom to make those changes.
- 5:58And so so yeah, it just, I felt very powerless and had and felt
- 6:03like I had no autonomy. Again, when you are the most
- 6:06educated person in the room, but somebody else with less training
- 6:08and education is telling you what to do, it is just mind
- 6:10boggling. So no control over my schedule,
- 6:13no control over where to refer my patients or how much time I
- 6:19got to spend with my patients. That was just so distressing for
- 6:22me when I was a hospitalist. You're in this academic bubble
- 6:25and I could round all day with my residents, right?
- 6:28You know, I mean, we and we took care of sick complex kids and
- 6:32we're a tertiary care center and we're an academic center.
- 6:35So but I could round all day if I need, if I had one patient
- 6:39that I needed to sit down and spend an hour with and dive
- 6:42through the chart and generate A differential, I could do that.
- 6:45You can't do that in the corporate world.
- 6:46Like click the billable, encounter the CPT code and move
- 6:50on. Yeah, I couldn't do that.
- 6:51That that just distressed me to know.
- 6:53Yeah. Back to about the system being
- 6:56broken, you see people talking about kind of the DPC naysayers
- 7:00talking about, well, this is hurting the system, But it
- 7:03bothers me when people try to put all of the problems of the
- 7:07system on DPC doctors. Like DPC is supposed to fix
- 7:10everything. Well, we know it's not going to,
- 7:12and that's a ridiculous thing to say to people who are trying to
- 7:17make a change. So that's yeah, that's my gripe
- 7:20today. So anyway, you are the veggies
- 7:26over pills doctor. So tell us how you got that
- 7:29name. So when I was growing up to a
- 7:33little bit, my parents were from Mexico, they were immigrants.
- 7:36I grew up predominantly in the Spanish speaking household and
- 7:39we didn't have access to healthcare.
- 7:41So my mother treated us with home remedies at home.
- 7:46And so I entered medical school, I think with more of an open
- 7:52mind with regards to complementary and alternative.
- 7:55We call it alternative Even so it's been around like much
- 7:57longer right than allopathic medicine.
- 8:00And like I took, I went to school at UTMB in Galveston,
- 8:03which I was actually even back then, I kind of like a crunchy,
- 8:07a little more progressive type of school.
- 8:10And so I took courses on holistic or at that time they
- 8:14called it complementary and alternative medicine.
- 8:16And so I was always very interested in that.
- 8:19But then of course you start residency and then you go into
- 8:21the academic world where it's like it's evidence based or
- 8:24nothing, right? And then the corporate world
- 8:26where maybe it's not as rigid with that regard, but there's no
- 8:30time, right? There's no time to learn or
- 8:33explore all these other things. So when I finally reclaimed my
- 8:38time and my joy and my peace, when I started out my own
- 8:42practice, I, I started taking all these courses that I could
- 8:45finally take that I had always been interested in.
- 8:48So I started taking nutrition classes or nutrition training
- 8:51through the American College of Lifestyle Medicine.
- 8:53I started, I took, I did training on the integrative
- 8:56management of ADHD and autism through the Andrew Well
- 8:59Institute of Integrative Medicine.
- 9:01And, and then all this time like that was in my professional
- 9:04life, in my personal life, I had become a vegan.
- 9:06I've been vegetarian since, since I was in residency like in
- 9:082004 and then became a vegan around 2018.
- 9:12And so then so learning about lifestyle medicine very much, I
- 9:16incorporated that not just into my professional life, but in my
- 9:19personal life also. And I realized that the data was
- 9:23just so robust that as a doctor, I would be irresponsible not to
- 9:29share all this information with my patients about the impact of
- 9:32not just nourishment, but social connection, avoiding toxic
- 9:37substances, restorative sleep, mindfulness based stress
- 9:41reduction, all those at pillars of lifestyle medicine and all
- 9:45these integrative medicine principles that I had learned, I
- 9:48could finally integrate them. And ultimately with a lot of my
- 9:51patients, I take care of very complex kids, PANS, PANDAS,
- 9:54autism, very complex kids. And ultimately my goal is
- 9:57actually to unmedicate. And so when I was trying to come
- 10:00up with, OK, how do I attract that type of family that yes,
- 10:06absolutely. And I do prescribe medications
- 10:08and I always tell families I do prescribe medications.
- 10:11But ultimately my goal is to give you the tools that we can
- 10:17unmedicate your child safely and with very close follow up.
- 10:21And with the absolute, the absolute, we will pivot if we
- 10:25need to, But if we cannot medicate, I want to.
- 10:28And so when I was trying to come up with a little slogan of how
- 10:31do I attract families who ultimately want to unmedicate, I
- 10:34came up with Veggies over Pills, which is which was kind of a
- 10:37play on Forks Overnight, which is a magazine that that promotes
- 10:42Whole Foods, plant based recipes and nourish.
- 10:44So that's how Veggies over Pills was born.
- 10:46That's genius. So how did that work?
- 10:49Really Well, I actually, we do attract a very niche.
- 10:53I'm in Indiana, right? And I mean, I'm looking out the
- 10:57window at a cornfield that was just harvested.
- 11:01There's there's hail hay field over on this side, There's cows
- 11:05over on this side. The clinic's at my house.
- 11:09And and yet I have families that travel from Chicago.
- 11:16They drive past Larry Children's, University of
- 11:19Chicago, Brush, Loyola to come to us.
- 11:22I have families from Ohio that drive past Nationwide and Dayton
- 11:27Children's and they come to us. We had a family that flew in
- 11:31from California. My gosh.
- 11:33To see me, and I think it's in part is a reputation, right?
- 11:37But I do think it's that the my ultimate goal is to unmedicate.
- 11:43And I think a lot of families are looking for that.
- 11:46They don't just want pills. They want skills and other
- 11:52resources and other tools and ultimately a Doctor Who listens.
- 11:58And I could not do this in the corporate world.
- 12:01The only way I can do this is because I am in the DPC world.
- 12:05And when I do meet and greets, I tell families I don't have
- 12:08access to secret medicines or secret treatments that other
- 12:13doctors don't have access to. In fact, I would not trust the
- 12:17Doctor Who says, oh, only I can do this test.
- 12:20Only I can do this treatment, right?
- 12:23I don't have. I don't have access.
- 12:25What I have that other doctors don't is time.
- 12:28Yeah, is the time, and that's what DPC has allowed me to do
- 12:31right, Is I have the time to sit down and review your child's
- 12:35records and review their case and review all the labs and then
- 12:39order more labs and review. We do a very detailed intake
- 12:42also, it's not just review of records.
- 12:44I have them fill out a lot of forms so that by the time I see
- 12:46them, I'm not trying to gather history.
- 12:48You know, again, the corporate world is so inefficient.
- 12:52Like the first time I meet the patient, I don't know anything
- 12:54about that. I'm just trying to like piece
- 12:56things together and the way I've, I've my protocols is by
- 13:00the time I do my first intake, I already know a lot about the
- 13:03family. So it really is more about
- 13:05clarifying, OK, well, the chart said, the chart review said
- 13:08this, but your intake said this. And just trying to piece some
- 13:11things together, create an accurate timeline and really go
- 13:14over treatment goals. What does recovery look like for
- 13:16you? And and so I do think that it
- 13:19has worked in the sense that it has it that name the veggies
- 13:23over pills calls to a certain type of patient and it's a type
- 13:27of patient that I want to work, right.
- 13:29It's very direct. It's a direct call to the people
- 13:32that you want. There's no ambiguity about that
- 13:35ambiguity, right? So that's great.
- 13:37And again, then I have had people like, do you prescribe?
- 13:40I'm like, yes, of course I'm a licensed pediatrician.
- 13:43I'm an evidence based doctor. But ultimately those a lot of
- 13:47those medications are band aids and and so ultimately I do want
- 13:52to get to and I know a lot of physicians get triggered with
- 13:54the term root cause, but yes, but the root cause and find out,
- 13:58OK, so OK, what is causing the inflammation?
- 14:01Is it the gut? Is it the immune system?
- 14:03Is it allergies? Is it Celia like the sure
- 14:05Things? Yeah.
- 14:07Well, that's fascinating. So when you opened Culver
- 14:10Pediatrics, did you already know that he wanted to work with
- 14:14Pans, Pandas, all those kind of complicated things?
- 14:18Not at all. It's funny because I, I set out
- 14:24to be like the small town country Dr. right?
- 14:30Like I wanted to be like all creatures great and small, but
- 14:33for Pediatrics instead of animals, instead of a veterinary
- 14:37medicine. I was doing house calls you.
- 14:40Like I said, the clinics at my house initially, all my patients
- 14:44were patients who followed me 'cause I've been in the
- 14:46community for five years at that point.
- 14:47So they followed me and then slowly we started getting some
- 14:50word to mouth patients. And so no, I set out to be like
- 14:54the hometown country, small town country Dr. that clinics at the
- 14:58house and does house calls and sees kids in the parking lot of
- 15:01the grocery store, like that kind of thing.
- 15:03And, and what happened was in late 20, about two, almost three
- 15:09years after opening is we had our first Google family, what I
- 15:14call my, our first Google family.
- 15:16And they found us through Google.
- 15:17They googled holistic pediatrician near me.
- 15:20I was actually an hour away from them, but that just tells you
- 15:23when what of a medicine desert we live in.
- 15:26And we were doing one-on-one meet and greets at the time.
- 15:28I talked to the dad. I actually had no idea that the
- 15:31child had been sick for about a year.
- 15:33And I said, I, I don't know what's going on, but all I can
- 15:36tell you is my background. I'm a digger.
- 15:39I'm a diagnostician and I will do a deep dive and figure out
- 15:43and if I don't figure it out, I will help make sure I find
- 15:47someone who does. And so they joined the practice
- 15:49in January 2023. February 2023, I go to the first
- 15:54pediatric DPC mastermind and Dr. Courtney W Get out of
- 16:00Pennsylvania gave a talk on mental health and behavioral
- 16:02health for the DPC pediatrician and she talked about PANDAS and
- 16:07I was like, Oh my goodness. Now at that point I was seeing a
- 16:13lot of ADHD and depression and mental health because that's
- 16:16usually who gravitates towards Pediatrics DPC.
- 16:18But I hadn't I that at that point.
- 16:22I, it triggered a memory from when I was in medical school
- 16:25because I went to medical school in 98.
- 16:27I was my first year of medical school.
- 16:28That's when the first studies came out and I remember my
- 16:31professor talking about strep pyogenes and the complications
- 16:34that included rheumatic fever post streptococcal
- 16:37glomerulonephritis and PANDAS. That was my training PANDAS.
- 16:40And so I'm sitting here in this conference and I hear about
- 16:45PANDAS again after 20 something years.
- 16:48I literally, I'm at the conference, I open up my
- 16:50computer, I emailed the family and I say I know what your child
- 16:54has. And we started the treatment
- 16:56algorithm from the PANDAS physician network.
- 16:59Dr. West very kindly guided me through my first patient and and
- 17:03she went into remission after her first dose of IVIG.
- 17:05Amazing. I just got chills.
- 17:07Hearing that story, amazing. And and the pandas community is
- 17:11very tight knit. They have Facebook groups, they
- 17:16have parent support groups. And from there they my name
- 17:21started spreading and now we have a little over I and you
- 17:26know, you can take the girl out of academics, but you cannot
- 17:28take the academics out of the girl.
- 17:29So I read a lot. I read a lot and I learned from
- 17:35my patients. Also, I learned something new
- 17:37every day from my patients and kept an open mind and also
- 17:40realized there's a lot of money grabs and predatory certain test
- 17:44panels that are thousands of dollars that ultimately don't
- 17:47really change anything that we do.
- 17:49And so I do feel I'm able to at least guide families.
- 17:53OK, we don't need to spend $2000 on the Cunningham panel.
- 17:56It's not going to tell us anything other than their.
- 18:00Your child has inflammation. And I can tell you that, yeah,
- 18:04right now that there's inflammation, right.
- 18:06So do we really need this very fancy and very impressive report
- 18:10that says yes, cytokine, blah, blah, blah is elevated?
- 18:13We really don't. So.
- 18:14But yeah, that's how it happened.
- 18:16It was serendipitous and. And for me, it's been great
- 18:19because as an academic, I do like that the challenging cases
- 18:24and the diagnostic dilemmas. And so it's filled that void
- 18:28that I was worried about intellectual stagnation.
- 18:30Yes. And, and so it has filled a void
- 18:34just intellectually for me, in addition to how it just, it's a
- 18:38humbling, it is a humbling experience.
- 18:40Well, you can tell that you enjoy it.
- 18:42I mean, your face just lights up when you talk about it, so it's
- 18:45wonderful. I'm so glad for your patience
- 18:46that they find you. So how many kind of pans pandas
- 18:51patients do you have now like percentage wise of your
- 18:54practice? We have about 120 patients and
- 18:59at our last count about 30, although we that, that was a
- 19:03couple months ago when we did a count.
- 19:05So it was probably at this point we probably have like 35 S Most
- 19:08of my, my patients don't have PANDAS, but most of our new
- 19:14patients definitely it's for our PANDAS clinic.
- 19:18So yeah, is your practice. It's not closed.
- 19:22You're still open to new patients.
- 19:24Yes, we are still taking new patients.
- 19:26Yes, we still take new patients. Yeah.
- 19:28And are you advertising or are you just kind of word of mouth?
- 19:31You know, it's interesting and marketing is always something we
- 19:34have these discussions in the DPC world about marketing.
- 19:37None of our paid marketing has ever given us any return on
- 19:42investments. If there's DPC docs listening, I
- 19:45have spent disastrously expensive radio ads, print ads,
- 19:52Google ads, $9000 worth of Google ads we have and no pay.
- 20:00Oh there's a lifestyle magazine that local for our county that
- 20:03people pay like $10,000 to be on the cover.
- 20:06We did not pay that much, but yeah, it was like 3 grand for an
- 20:09article and. Nothing zero.
- 20:12I did a radio show for a while. It just the paid marketing here
- 20:17has left has 00 investment. So the way we market 1st is we
- 20:26provide amazing care absolutely. And so word of mouth is one of
- 20:29our main is our main marketing is the other is we do have a
- 20:32very active social media and web presence because because
- 20:37especially since people from the Facebook groups talk about us
- 20:40and I still consider that word of mouth because even though the
- 20:43word is happening in social media, it is still one person
- 20:46telling another person. About it's organic.
- 20:49But then they go to our website and our social media for the
- 20:51vibe check. And then from there they can
- 20:53we're very digital and very automated.
- 20:56And so they can schedule a meet and greet directly from our
- 21:01website. And then all that process is
- 21:02automated. And so we market in that sense.
- 21:06We still do social media. We're very active.
- 21:08My daughter actually does our social media.
- 21:10And, and so, yeah, it's a post every day on Facebook and
- 21:13Instagram. And then our website is very
- 21:15active. I keep A blog for SEO mainly.
- 21:18I mean, nobody reads it, but but we use it #1 for SEO because
- 21:22Google detects that like how active is the website?
- 21:27When was it last updated? And so, so yeah, those are the
- 21:31kinds of things you have to think of as a DPC doc.
- 21:33Either you have to think about it or somebody else has to be
- 21:35think about it. Because your website isn't
- 21:37active, it's not going to pop up on the search engine reviews.
- 21:42We ask for reviews. So all of our reviews are five
- 21:45star right now. So that's also a marketing in
- 21:47the sense that it's Google, right?
- 21:49It's playing the Google game. But yeah, the reviews have led
- 21:53us to more patience than the disastrously expensive Google
- 21:59Ads. But then I hear dogs from other
- 22:02markets that say that Google Ads have yielded them a lot of our
- 22:05apps. I just, it's it just every
- 22:07market's. Different.
- 22:08I think it is very area specific.
- 22:10Very area specific here in with me with being rural and being
- 22:14such a niche demographic. It's word of mouth.
- 22:18Yeah, yeah, yeah, definitely. Well, I wanted to talk about
- 22:23things that you do outside of your regular practice because
- 22:27that's what we talk about on the podcast, DPC stuff in the office
- 22:30and also outside. So whether it's things like non
- 22:33medical or whatever your passions are.
- 22:36So tell me about your women's retreat.
- 22:40Yeah, So that, wow, that was a passion project.
- 22:45Yeah, that was a passion project.
- 22:47So I'm gonna get a little personal here in 2023, so I had
- 22:51already been open for three years at that point.
- 22:54I got a phone call that that from my sister or one of my
- 22:57sisters that my mom had a stroke and it was a shock because she
- 23:03was 79. She was months from turning 80,
- 23:05but she was healthy. Like she walked three miles
- 23:08every day. She lived independently.
- 23:11She cooked, she baked that the day that she had her stroke, she
- 23:14actually, she went on a walk, power walk for three miles.
- 23:17She LED a Bible study. She had lunch with her friends,
- 23:20She baked cookies and she worked in the backyard.
- 23:23We were able to piece all of that from the Ring camera.
- 23:27And so she'd had a stroke. And so I flew down to Texas.
- 23:30And six days later, she succumbed.
- 23:33And during that time, while I was literally in the ICU
- 23:37watching her die, I was sending refills, answering texts, doing
- 23:42telehealth from the bathroom in the hospital.
- 23:46And in the aftermath of processing all that trauma, I
- 23:51realized that what had led me to that point was some internal
- 23:57pressures, right? The people pleasing.
- 24:00I'm the first born daughter of immigrants.
- 24:01People pleasing is my drug of choice.
- 24:04So saying no is really hard for me.
- 24:07I've gotten better about saying no, and I actually can say no,
- 24:10but I still feel really bad about it and still working with
- 24:13a mindset coach about that. But I realized that I had to
- 24:18overhaul both my personal and my professional life.
- 24:22Around that time. I came across 2 studies, 1 from
- 24:262022, that showed that patients and staff send female doctors
- 24:31more messages through the portals, 25% each.
- 24:34So depending on the size of the panel, that can be 60 messages
- 24:38or more. A 2025 study that patients are
- 24:41more likely to send female doctors demeaning or negative
- 24:44messages. And then another study that was
- 24:48very eye opening, while in the general population women outlive
- 24:52men and not for female physicians, we don't have that
- 24:57longevity benefit with our male doctors.
- 24:59And so learning all of that, learning what I'd learned from
- 25:07being in practice at that point for about 3 years and trying to
- 25:12heal from the trauma of not just losing my mother, but what had
- 25:16led to me being in the ICU. And instead of being fully
- 25:19present during the last, her last days, doing these things,
- 25:23right? Like answering, like still
- 25:24working even though I was the boss.
- 25:26Like literally it was, this was me, right?
- 25:29This was me. I came up with the idea of a
- 25:31retreat. Actually I was in the
- 25:33mastermind, in the second DPC mastermind, and I mentioned
- 25:36something about how we would do retreats for moms of children.
- 25:40And one of my colleagues, Deanna Berry, who she was one of the
- 25:43participants and she coordinated the DPC mastermind.
- 25:46She said you should do this for us.
- 25:48And I went, girl, we'll do it. So we had our first retweet
- 25:52September of this, last of this year, September 2025.
- 25:56It was such a powerful experience to have a group of
- 26:01all DPC women talk about things that nobody else in the world
- 26:07understands and not even our male colleagues, right?
- 26:11Because again, patients treat us differently than they treat male
- 26:16DPC doctors, right? They have different
- 26:19expectations. And, and so it is more important
- 26:23for us as female doctors to establish boundaries, to
- 26:28establish processes and protocols that protect us.
- 26:32That one of the things that I talked about in the retreat was
- 26:35dare to Click to click less and care more, which is delegate,
- 26:38automate, renovate or eliminate so that you're protecting your
- 26:43energy and your bandwidth as a female DPC dog.
- 26:46And the retreat had all the fingerprints of a noemi thing,
- 26:49right? So all the food was whole, was
- 26:51plant based. We did yoga every morning.
- 26:54We had meditations at night. So it was just really fun for me
- 26:59to do something that was non medical, healing, empowering and
- 27:07just brought together this community of women that really
- 27:11there's no one else in the world that understands what it's like
- 27:14to be a female DPC dog than other female DPC dogs.
- 27:18Yeah, yeah, I hear what you're saying.
- 27:20I think that's it's wonderful and I think a lot of people are
- 27:24feeling that. And that's one reason why I love
- 27:27the DPC women's Facebook group. It is a safe space and everyone
- 27:32understands what each other is going through, even if you have
- 27:35a different kind of practice, a different style, different size,
- 27:38all of that. But there are still some things
- 27:39that are very universal for women DPC doctors.
- 27:44Right. And I do think that there's some
- 27:46things that I would not feel comfortable discussing in the
- 27:51general group, for example, pricing, right?
- 27:53You know, as female doctors, we do have to think about pricing
- 27:59differently because the we do have to keep smaller practice
- 28:04sizes I think than our male doctors.
- 28:06There's just a different expectation.
- 28:09There's just a different we, I think we attract a different
- 28:12population. I do think patients that make
- 28:14more demands of us and, and so we, and then so those are the
- 28:18external pressures, but the internal pressures female.
- 28:20And this is studies, studies show female doctors have better
- 28:24outcomes and this is across multiple specialties, surgical,
- 28:29inpatient and primary care. Female doctors have better
- 28:32outcomes for patients that are treated by female doctors
- 28:35amongst all these specialties or all these fields have better
- 28:38outcomes. And but what it takes to have
- 28:42those better outcomes is we spend more time with patients,
- 28:45we interrupt less, we are more likely to adhere to evidence
- 28:49based guidelines. We spend less time, we don't
- 28:52interrupt as much. So, but all those things take
- 28:55time. And the system, I mean talk
- 28:57about why a lot of us are burning out in the system.
- 28:59The system does not reward that type of practice, right?
- 29:03The system rewards the way males doctors practice, which is
- 29:07quick, right quick, quick, quick and And please no disrespect, I
- 29:12have. Great general relations please.
- 29:14Yes. Right.
- 29:16But you know, this is what the studies show.
- 29:18I just felt as female doctors, specifically female DPC doctors.
- 29:22And yeah, I love the Facebook group to be able to have these
- 29:25discussions without fearing judgement or from other people
- 29:30who feel the same way or have experienced that same have that
- 29:34level of experience is just such a powerful thing.
- 29:37So we are going to have the another retreat, same thing.
- 29:40This is going to be September 24th through the 27th in Culver,
- 29:43IN. So if you're a female
- 29:46identifying DPC doc, I hope you can.
- 29:48Join 2026, so a little less than 8.
- 29:50No, no, yes, yeah, 30. Less 2020.
- 29:52Yeah, I know. What year is it anymore?
- 29:55Yep. So yes, we actually, and I don't
- 29:58know if other states have this, but in North Carolina, actually,
- 30:02the woman I interviewed for my episode last week, Doctor
- 30:04Catherine Locke, she's in Asheville.
- 30:06She started a women's monthly DPC group on Zoom and it's been
- 30:13really good. Really good.
- 30:14I'd be interested in that. It's yeah, you can do this too.
- 30:17Community is so important. So yes, she start, it's just
- 30:21very simple. It's a Zoom call, you send out
- 30:24the invitation, it's the first Friday of every month you drop
- 30:27in if you can, if you can't next time.
- 30:29And she will have a topic every month moderates and kind of
- 30:35facilitates the topic, facilitates the talk.
- 30:38And it's just really nice because it's a great mix.
- 30:39It's established a new practices, people who are
- 30:42thinking of joining or opening ADPC.
- 30:45It's so it's a great experience for everyone.
- 30:47So yeah, if anyone else is listening and thinking about it,
- 30:50it's really easy. You just need a Zoom account and
- 30:53just reach out to your, you know, kind of statewide doctors
- 30:57and it's very easy to start. I think most states have some
- 31:00sort of Facebook group for the state.
- 31:03Yeah, I am part of like the Indiana State Medical
- 31:06Association, so and we actually just got approved for CME
- 31:11through them for the retreat. Fantastic.
- 31:13Yeah. So we will be offering CME for
- 31:15the retreat and, and I had actually been thinking about
- 31:18having like a DPC women's Cafe basically like getting together
- 31:23and talking about and yes, I think doing it state specific is
- 31:26a great idea. Yeah, I think it's also good
- 31:29there. Are a lot of state specific
- 31:30issues when you're opening up a business.
- 31:31Yes, true, Very true. And I know some people, I think
- 31:35Doctor Adriana Rouse tried, I don't know if she's still doing
- 31:38it, but she was having kind of coffee chats, except it was,
- 31:41she's in Michigan and it was kind of a nationwide thing.
- 31:45And so the time difference makes a difference too.
- 31:47A lot of people couldn't make certain times because of course
- 31:50the differences. Yes, No, that's a great idea.
- 31:53Yeah, Indiana, we're either eastern or central.
- 31:55But you know, I mean, there's not that much of a difference
- 31:57between you could make it early in the morning, for example.
- 32:00And yeah, that's a good. Idea.
- 32:02Yeah, no, that's a great idea. Well, I appreciate you coming
- 32:06on. Is there anything that you would
- 32:07like to tell the listeners in particular that you haven't
- 32:10already? Let's see if you are interested
- 32:16in opening up your own DPC practice.
- 32:19I will say the one thing I wish I had known before is I wish I
- 32:25had set up my practice when I had five patients and the same
- 32:29systems and set the same expectations for my patients as
- 32:33if I had 100, yes, 205 hundred patients.
- 32:39So once again, though, that internalization of wanting to
- 32:42please first, I was answering text messages within seconds and
- 32:46sending refills within minutes. And that is not sustainable.
- 32:49So as you get busier, you're not able to do that.
- 32:52So your patients can be disappointed, right?
- 32:55Dismayed that well, wait a minute, you used to answer right
- 32:58away and now you're now I'm talking like I used to answer
- 33:02within minutes and now it takes me like a few hours right.
- 33:04I still it's still beating any metric any other doctor in the
- 33:08area. But when your patients did have
- 33:10a certain expectation, we have had to retrain.
- 33:13We have had to retrain our patients and fortunately most of
- 33:16them love us. They they are absolutely
- 33:19understanding and it's not a problem at all right.
- 33:21But it was hard to have to retrain our patients, right?
- 33:24No. So I tell all new doctors is OK,
- 33:29get an EMR that you can pre schedule responses for later.
- 33:33Even if it's just a few hours later, but you're not answering
- 33:36right away. That way you're still addressing
- 33:37it, right? And so it's out of your
- 33:39headspace, but the patient doesn't actually get it until a
- 33:42few hours. Sure.
- 33:43Or set expectations that even though yes, you can send that
- 33:46refill at that moment, don't send it for another 244872
- 33:50hours. Set the expectations and the
- 33:52processes early on, not just for when you have 10 patients, but
- 33:56when you have a full panel. I think I do wish I had done
- 33:59that. Yeah, that's wonderful advice
- 34:01because that does protect your time, protects your boundaries,
- 34:04protects your time with your family.
- 34:07And so I do the same thing. I tell people to think about if
- 34:10you only have 5 now, what about when you have 100 or 200 and
- 34:12it's winter and and a sick and they want to see you?
- 34:15What do you do then? So you have to start the way you
- 34:19want to finish. So yeah, it's really important.
- 34:21And you have a lot of automations and things in place
- 34:24now, yeah. Yeah, and I wish I had, but you
- 34:27know what, honestly, when I first started five years ago,
- 34:30like a lot of these. Things didn't exist.
- 34:32They didn't. Exist.
- 34:33So you kind of hodgepodge Calendly and MailChimp, and then
- 34:37you realize, OK, this isn't doing what I need it to do and
- 34:40Oh my goodness, now they're like all these options, but they're
- 34:44beasts. They're beasts trying to manage.
- 34:46But yeah, the other thing I'm a big fan of besides automation is
- 34:50group meet and greets. We do group meet and greets.
- 34:53We don't do one on ones. That's something I had not
- 34:56heard. Yeah, yeah.
- 34:58Oh my goodness. I encourage people to do that
- 35:01because meet and greets, first of all, it does create this
- 35:06opportunity that a lot of people will just want to and tell you
- 35:09everything, right, their entire medical history.
- 35:11So it does prevent that, but it also prevents you from repeating
- 35:14the same thing over and over. We don't take insurance and this
- 35:17is my background or whatever, and it doesn't take your time
- 35:20away from your patients. So, but yeah, we've been doing
- 35:23group meet and greets for my goodness over a year now and
- 35:27it's worked very well. How often do you do?
- 35:28That once a week, once a week, Monday's at 5.
- 35:31And that's the other thing. It also sets the expectation
- 35:33from the beginning of if you want to talk to me, if you want
- 35:37to meet with me, you need to adjust your schedule or so yeah,
- 35:41Monday's at 5:00 and the link is on our website.
- 35:45And we tell people this is Doctor Alan's availability.
- 35:48And so I do think that also sets a an expectation from the
- 35:52beginning. So they schedule for that time.
- 35:54Is that how it works? OK.
- 35:56Yeah, we up to 10 people can schedule for one meet and greet
- 35:59and the link is all over our website.
- 36:01And if they they go to our website.
- 36:04And so that's the other is we're Pediatrics.
- 36:06So our families do tend to be younger.
- 36:08But yeah, we our families need to be pretty digitally savvy.
- 36:12And the way we filter that is you want to schedule your first
- 36:17meet and greet or consult, go to our website and schedule it
- 36:20there. So that kind of helps weed out
- 36:23the people that are. Right, right.
- 36:26Well, that's great. That's a wonderful idea.
- 36:28I appreciate you coming on. It's been so nice talking to you
- 36:33and hearing about your practice. Thank you for listening to my
- 36:37episode with Doctor Noemi Adame. I hope that if you are a
- 36:41physician who's been feeling rushed and morally injured by
- 36:46corporate medicine, you realize that other people have felt the
- 36:50same way and that you are not stuck.
- 36:53O if you are a woman physician who is thinking about moving
- 36:58into the DPC world and you want to talk about this with other
- 37:03physicians who've done the same thing and discuss boundaries,
- 37:07systems, money, and your identity as a physician and an
- 37:11entrepreneur, that is exactly what the DPC Women Connect event
- 37:16is for. It is happening this February in
- 37:19North Carolina. If you want details DM me.
- 37:22Connect on Instagram and I will send you the link.
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