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Bible says Help Lord for the godly man ceases to be.
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Help Lord for the godly man ceases to be.
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That was the cry of the psalmist.
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It was the cry of the psalmist because it was the concern of
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the Lord God of Israel. That's why the Lord says in
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Second Chronicles chapter 16 that he had searched to and fro
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throughout the earth to find someone's heart that he could
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strengthen who was totally committed to him.
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That's why through the prophet Ezekiel, in Ezekiel chapter 22,
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he said he searched for a man to stand in the gap, but he could
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find no man. And then he says to the prophet
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Jeremiah that I if you could find one person in Jerusalem,
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just one person who acts justly, who sticks to the truth, who
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honors me, I will spare the city from captivity.
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But there was none. And Jeremiah searched among all
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the poor people, and then he thought, well, I'll search among
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the rich people, because maybe among the wealthy, among the
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popular, there is someone who is committed to the Lord.
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But he found no man there either.
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The Lord said in Isaiah 59, I looked for one man to intercede
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on behalf of my people, Israel, and there was none to intercede.
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So the cry of the psalmist was loud because he knew the concern
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of the Lord concerning godly men.
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The faithful disappear, Psalmist says in the latter half of verse
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one of Psalm 12. The faithful disappear from
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among the sons of men, the godly men of the faithful men, the
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committed men, the dedicated men, the true men.
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Where are those people? Where are those men?
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That's the question we asked last week on Father's Day 2025.
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Are you a godly man? Are you a godly man in your
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family? Are you a godly man in your
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church? Are you a godly man in your
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community? Are you a godly man at work?
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Would you be the person that the Lord would see as his eyes run
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to and fro throughout the country looking for one man
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whose heart is completely sold out to him that he would
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strengthen on a regular basis? Are you that kind of person?
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Are you the godly man, the faithful man that stands in the
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gap that intercedes for the people of God?
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That when push comes to shove, there is the strong man, there
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is the reliable man, there is a stead last man, there is this
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godly man. So important because you see,
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that is the epidemic that kills generation after generation, a
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lack of godly men. So the question comes, are you
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that person? Are you that man?
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And it's so easy to see how the succession of godliness can be
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very easily interrupted in a family term in your Bible, if
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you would, The First Kings chapter 2.
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By way of introduction, First Kings chapter 2, David, King
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David is about to die. David over 50 years earlier was
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anointed king of Israel. He did not begin to reign once
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he was anointed. There was this whole time in
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which he had to run from King Saul before he was ever king
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over Hebron or Judah for seven years and then king over all of
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Israel for 33 years. So for 40 years Israel had a
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king. His name was David.
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He followed King Saul and David is about to die.
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And in Acts chapter 13, there is a a eulogy or an epitaph on on
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David's life. It says that David, he's the
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man, having served God's purposes in his own generation,
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fell asleep among his fathers. That's the New Testaments eulogy
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on King David. The man David had a ministry.
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The ministry was to serve God. He was a servant of God.
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His mission was to serve God, God's purposes.
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So the man David had a ministry as a servant, and that ministry
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was tied to a mission which was to serve God's purposes in one
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moment, his generation. He couldn't serve God's purposes
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before his time, only during his time.
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But that's how the the New Testament sums up the life of
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David. And so when you come to 1st
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Kings chapter 2, you have David's last words to his son
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Solomon. And, and think, if you were to
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gather your son or maybe your sons around you during the time
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of your death, what would you say to your son?
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How would you express to your son the most important thing
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ever? How would you exhort your son or
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your sons? What would you say to them?
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And if you said it, would your life match it?
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Very important, right? Would your son be able to look
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at what you say and say that matches who you are?
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So David gathers his son together, Solomon his beloved
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son, and this is what he says in First Kings 2 verse #1 As
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David's time to die drew near, he charged Solomon his son,
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saying, I am going the way of all the earth.
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Now stop right there for a second.
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He's going the way of all the earth.
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That's how David says I'm going to die.
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We don't say it that way. We don't say, hey, you know
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what? Your father's about to go the
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way of all the earth, or your mother's about to go the way of
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all the earth. We don't say it that way, but
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that's how David saw it. It's like, it's like Paul in
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Second Timothy chapter 4 verse #6 and he said the time of my
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departure is at hand. He didn't say you know what, I'm
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about to die. He says, no, the time of my
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departure is at hand. It's a nautical term that
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describes the loosening of the oars of a ship that allows it to
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set sail into the open sea. That's how David saw the end of
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his life. He was about to set sail.
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He was about to depart from this life and enter into the most
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glorious of all lives, the life and eternity.
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That's how David saw the end of his life.
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I mean, that's how Paul saw the end of his life.
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And David now sees it as he's going the way of of all the
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earth. And so because, because Solomon,
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I'm about to leave you, he says these words.
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Be strong, therefore, and show yourself a man.
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What a statement. Be strong.
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Show yourself a man, keep the charge of the Lord your God to
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walk in his ways, to keep his statutes, his commandments, his
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ordinances, and his testimonies according to what is written in
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the law of Moses, that you may succeed in all that you do and
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wherever you turn. This is David's emphasis towards
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his son. I want you to be strong.
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He's not talking about physical strength, right?
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David was a was a warrior. He was a man of bloodshed.
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That's why God said he couldn't build the temple.
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But his son Solomon was a man of peace, and all during Solomon's
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reign, Israel lived in peace. So he's not talking about
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Solomon's physical stature. He's not talking about his
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physical abilities to be strong physically.
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He's talking about spiritual strength.
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Why is that important? Why listen carefully?
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Because he's not talking about emotional or mental strength.
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He's talking about spiritual strength.
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Because the only way you can be strong mentally and emotionally
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is if you're strong spiritually. Those who are weak mentally,
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those who are weak emotionally are that way because they are
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weak spiritually. Your mental capacity, your
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ability to handle your emotions comes from a spiritual strength,
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that a heart is sound in doctrine and strong in the Lord
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and the power of His might. Your emotional stability, your
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mental stability, all stems from your spiritual stability.
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You must understand this. It's everything strong about you
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comes because of your spiritual stature in the Lord.
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When you are strong spiritually, you can make wise choices, you
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can make sound decisions. You don't get all frazzled.
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You're able to handle and control your emotions because
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you are strong spiritually. That's why Paul says in
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Ephesians chapter 6 be strong in the Lord and in the power of His
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might. In second two verse #1 he says
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be strong in the grace that is in Christ Jesus our Lord.
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Isaiah chapter 30 verse #15 in quietness and in trust shall be
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your strength. David said in Psalm 27 verse #14
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Wait for the Lord. Be strong and let your heart
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take courage. Yes, wait for the Lord.
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And that word wait in Hebrew is the word that talks about
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wrapping yourself around something, something strong.
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When you wrap yourself around the Lord, you can trust in Him,
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you can wait upon Him, you can be strong in Him because you
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derive your strength from the Lord Himself.
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So important. Go back with me if you would to
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the book of Joshua, Joshua chapter 1.
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Listen to what God tells Joshua. This is the this is the key
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verse on how to overcome intimidation.
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Have you ever been intimidated by somebody?
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Does somebody intimidate you at work?
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Does somebody intimidate you at school?
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Does somebody intimidate you in the church?
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Is someone intimidating you somewhere in life?
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Joshua chapter 1 is how you overcome intimidation.
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How do we know that? Because Joshua is about to
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become the leader of Israel, right?
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And Joshua is about to follow the greatest leader Israel ever
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had by the testimony of the Lord God Himself.
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So God says that Moses is Israel's greatest leader.
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There will never be a leader like Moses, but yet, Joshua,
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you're chose. You're chosen now to follow the
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greatest leader, whoever lived. And Israel, by the way, on
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several occasions wanted to kill the greatest leader, whoever
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lived in Israel. So now, Joshua, you're going to
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step into those sandals, and you're now going to become the
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leader of Israel. And if they wanted to kill the
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greatest leader, whoever lived, just think of what they're going
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to want to do to you if you just mess it up.
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So you got to overcome intimidation, Joshua.
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You got to be able to stand strong.
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So this is what the Lord says to Joshua in verse #5 no man will
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be able to stand before you all the days of your life.
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Just as I have been with Moses, I will be with you.
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I will not fail you or forsake you.
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Be strong and courageous. In other words, be strong and
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show yourself a man. Have the spiritual fortitude
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that you need to lead 2,000,000 disgruntled Jews into the
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promised Land. How you going to do that?
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Joshua tells them, be careful to do according to all the law
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which Moses my servant commanded you, and you're not turned from
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it to the right or to the left, so that you may have success
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wherever you go. This book of the law shall not
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depart from your mouth, but you shall meditate on it day and
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night, so that you may be careful to do according to all
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that is written in it, for then you will make your way
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prosperous, and then you will have success.
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Have I not commanded you? Be strong and courageous?
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Do not tremble or be dismayed, for the Lord your God is with
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you wherever you go. Listen, Joshua, don't be in any
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kind of emotional or mental turmoil because you're about to
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take on a job that goes way beyond your mental and emotional
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capabilities. Know this, you need to be strong
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in the Lord. You need to be courageous in the
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Lord. I will be with you as I was with
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Moses. Just do not let this law depart
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from your mouth. I want you to meditate on a day
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and night. Why?
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Because I want your way to be prosperous.
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I want you to way to be successful.
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And the only way that's going to happen is if my word controls
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every element of your life, your thought, your heart, your
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emotions, and then you will be prosperous and then you will be
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successful. And Joshua was because he obeyed
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the law of God. So here comes King David.
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And David says to his son Solomon, I want you to be
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strong. I want you to show yourself a
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man because menniness and strength go hand in hand.
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I want you to be courageous. I want you to be a man of
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spiritual fortitude. I want you to be a man that is
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able to stand against adversity. I want you to be a man that
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doesn't crumble under pressure. You got to be a man.
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You got to be strong. You're going to be the king of
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Israel. You're going to be the king of
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Israel. And you can't be a weak king.
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You got to be a strong king. You can't be an emotionally
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disturbed king. You got to be a strong king.
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You can't be a depressed king. You have to be a dedicated
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determined king. You have to be strong Solomon
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and you got to show yourself a man how you going to do that?
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He tells them you keep the statutes, you keep the law, you
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follow the word of God. This is what you do and got to
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make your way successful. Listen to the words of Solomon
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in Proverbs chapter 4. If you got your Bible, you can
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turn there. Proverbs chapter 4.
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Now remember, Solomon writes the book of Proverbs to his son,
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right? It's a book designed for
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children, young people. So Solomon's going to write to
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his son. Listen to what he says to
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Raybone here. O sons, the instruction of a
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father, Chapter 4, verse #1 and give attention that you may gain
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understanding, for I give you sound teaching.
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Do not abandon my instruction when I was a son to my father.
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That's a Solomon speaking. When I was a son to my father,
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my father was the king of Israel.
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His name is David. I am now the king of Israel.
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But when I was a son to my father, tender and the only son
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in the sight of my mother, then he taught me and said to me, let
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your heart hold fast my words, keep my commandments and live.
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So Solomon's remembering talking to a talking to his son.
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Son, listen, listen. You need to understand that when
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I was tender and young and I was the the son of my mother, the
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son of my father, my father gave me instruction.
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He would go on to say, talk about acquiring wisdom,
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understanding, knowledge in the whole, the whole chapter is
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about what Solomon's dad, David said to his son about strong
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strength, being courageous, being able to handle the issues
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that come about. And you would think that that
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once he says this to Rehoboam, once he examines his life and
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talks to his son about these things, that now he's going to
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produce a seed and offspring that's going to become the next
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great king of Israel. Didn't go that way, didn't
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happen that way. Because if you're with us for
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our 26 week study on the book of Ecclesiastes, you understand
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Solomon's end of life journey in the summation of his life.
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What happened to Solomon? What happened to this influence
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over his son Raybone? What happened to this man?
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Well, the Bible tells you way back in the book of Deuteronomy,
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chapter 17, it says verse #16 Moreover, he, the king, shall
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not multiply horses for himself. But Solomon did that.
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Why didn't God want Solomon to multiply horses for himself?
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Because horses were a symbol of strength, a symbol of military
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prowess. And God says, I want you to
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trust me, not your, not your own military ingenuity, not your own
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army. I want you to trust me.
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So I don't want you as the king to gather horses for yourself,
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he says. Nor shall he cause the people to
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return to Egypt to multiply horses.
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Since the Lord has said to you, you shall never again return
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that way. He shall not multiply wives for
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himself. What did Solomon do?
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He multiplied wives for himself. God says don't do this.
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Keep his statutes, keep the laws, observe them.
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Don't turn to the left, don't turn to the right.
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Same thing he told Joshua, same thing he told King David.
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Now he's telling King Solomon, keep the law of God, do not turn
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to the left, do not turn to the right.
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Do everything that's written in the law of Moses, but he
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multiplied wives for himself 700.
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Wives for himself. He should not multiply wives for
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himself, or else his heart will turn away.
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Nor shall he greatly increase silver and gold for himself.
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And he did that too. Read Accusations, chapter 2.
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He accumulated all kinds of gold for himself, not not for the
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temple, but for himself. He went against what the law of
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God explicitly said, Do not do, do not do this.
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But Solomon did so, it says in verse #18 Now it shall come
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about, that when he sits on the throne of his Kingdom, he shall
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write for himself a copy of this law on the scroll in the
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presence of the Levitical priests.
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It shall be with him, and he shall read it all the days of
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his life, that he may learn to fear the Lord is God by
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carefully observing all the words of His law and His
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statutes. That his heart may not be lifted
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up above his countrymen, and that he may not turn aside from
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the commandment, or to the right, or to the left, so that
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he and his sons may continue long in His Kingdom in the midst
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of Israel. This is the plan for the king.
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It it's not like you got a whole bunch of things you got to do is
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just simply don't multiply for yourself.
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Horses don't multiply for yourself, wives, and do not
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multiply silver and gold for yourself.
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That is it. No big deal, right?
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Wrong. Big deal for Solomon.
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He did all that, all of that. So when you read the book of
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Ecclesiastes, you had this long journal that describes Solomon's
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end of life. So when he comes to the very
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end, what's he say? Same thing.
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Deuteronomy 17 says the sum of all things is just to fear God
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and keep his commandments. It's almost as if he's telling
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Raya Baum, this is it. This is how you sum up life,
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Fear God, keep his commandments. It's almost as if he says and I
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and I didn't. I should have, but I but I
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didn't. But this is the end of
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everything. This is a summation of life.
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Fear God, keep his commandments. Why?
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Because then you will show yourself a man.
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Then you'll be strong and courageous.
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Then you will be able to stand against the Wiles of the devil.
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Then you'll be able to stand against the the the the lure of
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the woman in the lure of riches and power.
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But he didn't the cost where the Bible says these words in the
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book of Second Chronicles 12 verse #14 about Raybum.
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He did evil because he did not set his heart to seek the Lord.
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He did evil because he did not set his heart to seek the Lord.
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As you recall in the book of Ecclesiastes.
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What does Solomon do? He sought for meaning under the
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sun outside of God. He sought for meaning, for
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meaning in life, for satisfaction in life, for
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royalty in life, for for for greatness in life outside of
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God. And it cost him greatly.
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So he raises a son that doesn't want to seek the Lord at all,
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because what you do in moderation, your children will
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do in excess. That's the theme of Scripture.
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So that's how it works. And that's why Isaiah says these
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words. Isaiah 38 verse #17 mark it
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down. A father tells his Son about
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your faithfulness, Oh Lord. A father tells his son about
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your faithfulness, Oh Lord, He continues to tell his son about
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how faithful God is to him, his family, his ministry, his life,
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and continues to pour that into the life of his son.
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So I wonder the psalmist said help Lord, the godly man ceases
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to be in the faithful, disappear from the sons of men on this
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earth. Doesn't have to be that way, not
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at all. You can be that godly man.
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You can be that man that stands strong and turns the course of a
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generation. You can be that man that invests
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into the lives of your children. You can be that man that models
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the way to your children. You can be the kind of man
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that's strong and courageous so you can invest into the lives of
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your children. King David was not a perfect
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man, but David was a man after God's own heart and every king
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that followed David. David was the quintessential
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king that all the other kings were measured by because he had
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a heart of great repentance, but he sinned.
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He turned from his sin and he repented to the Lord and he
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never sought revenge on any of his enemies.
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That's what it means to be a man after God's own heart.
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You never seek revenge on your enemies and you always repent
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when you sin. That's a man after God's own
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heart. That was King David.
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He wants to pass that down to a son, Solomon.
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Solomon began great read the book of Song of Solomon read the
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book of Proverbs. He he began great, but over time
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he didn't even heed his own words.
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Proverbs 423 Guard your heart, for out of it flow all the
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issues of life. Everything about your emotions,
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everything about your mentality, everything about your
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relationships, everything about who you are flows from your
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heart. Therefore, be strong and
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courageous. Be strong spiritually in your
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heart. That's the cry.
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That's the godly man. So we began our outline last
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week and we won't finish it this week either.
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And that's OK because I'm in no hurry.
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I'm never in a hurry. I used to be when I was younger,
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but now that I'm old, I, I've kind of slowed down a little
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bit. But who is the godly man #1 He
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goes to God incessantly in prayer, talked about this last
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week, right? He's a man of prayer.
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Read Psalm 32, read Psalm 4. He's a man who seeks the Lord,
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who goes to the Lord. And we use Job at the
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illustration last week. Remember Job chapter 1 when he
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offered up burnt offerings for his children?
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He continually did this. And the question comes, how did
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Job know this? The book of Leviticus had not
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been written yet. So how do you know about burnt
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offerings? How does Job know this?
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Because of Noah, because of Abraham.
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Noah in Genesis 8, Abraham in Genesis chapter 22.
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And most believe that that, that that Job was a contemporary of
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Abraham. So it would've been passed down
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from from Noah to to to Abraham to Job to OfferUp burnt
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offering. You see, Job didn't have a
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church to go to, didn't have a men's ministry to go to, didn't
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have any books to read on family and family worship and and
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family prayer time. He didn't have a book to read
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about the disciplines of a godly man.
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He didn't have a support group. And I'm glad this is in the
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Bible because so many times today men want to use an excuse.
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I just need to be held accountable.
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No, you don't. You need to be held accountable
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to God. He's your accountability.
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But we use it as an excuse. Someone needs to hold me
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accountable. Someone needs to hold my hand.
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You're not a man if somebody's got to hold your hand, right?
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You hold your children's hands. You don't hold a man's hand.
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And Job is a quintessential example of this.
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He had no church, no small group, no men's ministry, no
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Sunday school, nothing but Job and what was passed down from
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generation to generation. And he was a man who was
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upright, blameless, fearing God and turning away from evil.
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And he was the greatest man on the planet.
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He did it all because he was committed to his God.
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See, we, we, we have developed such a weak mentality in today's
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culture that man needs so many people to hold him up and hold
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his hand. And we have produced a weaker
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and weaker and weaker generation of men over the generations that
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have preceded us and are continuing on after us because
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we don't encourage men to be strong.
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Show yourself a man and do what God says Joe did.
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He's your biblical example. He's the one you follow.
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If he's the greatest man on the planet, follow that guy, right?
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Because he was upright, God fearing, turning away from evil,
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and he was a man who truly, truly was a blameless man.
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So he goes to God incessantly in prayer because he knows that he
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can't do anything of himself. He needs the Lord.
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Like the psalmist, he cries out to the Lord.
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He goes to the Lord and bathes his family in prayer.
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He bathes his wife in prayer. He knows he can't change his
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wife. He know he can't change his
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children. So he knows that God can do
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that. So he goes to the Lord and prays
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consistently to his God, and asks God to do a great and
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mighty work #2 Now he said, go to God incessantly, but he obeys
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God instantly. He obeys God instantly.
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Listen to the psalmist. Psalm 119.
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Psalm 119, verse #32 Psalmist said this, I shall run the way
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of Your commandments for you with enlarge my heart, I'm going
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to run the way of your commandments.
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And then he says over in verse #60 I love this.
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Listen to this. Psalm 119, verse #60 I hastened
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and did not delay to keep your commandments.
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That's the godly man. I hastened and did not delay.
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Why? Because delayed obedience is
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disobedience. And so he says, I hasten and did
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not to delay, did not delay to obey all your commandments.
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This is the man of God. He hastens to obey.
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He can't wait to do what God says.
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That's the godly man Thomas Watson has written a book called
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The Godly Man's Picture. It's just a great book on what a
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godly man looks like and in there he just is is all
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throughout the book talks about how the godly man just can't
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wait to do what God says. So many times our godliness is
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hindered because we will not obey what God says in His word.
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There's something about what he says that rubs us the wrong way.
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Could be forgiveness, it could be leading your wife, it could
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be loving your wife, it could be disciplining your children over
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the years. And, and 40 years is a lot of
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years of, of, of, of church ministry.
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Over the years there have been people that I've counseled that
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say, look, this is what you, this is what God's word says.
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Yeah, I can't do that. What I mean you said you mean
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you won't do it because you can't do it, but you just won't
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do it. I, I can't, What do you mean you
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can't do it? If God says and gives you
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command, he gives you the ability and the grace to obey
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the command because his commands are not burdensome.
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First John chapter 5 says so because his commands are not
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burdensome. If he says this is what you got
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to do. This is what you do.
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And you know what they say? Well, let me pray about it.
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You know, there are certain things you don't ever have to
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pray about. You don't have to pray about
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loving your life. You just got to obey the
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command, right? You have to pray about it.
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Just do it. Just do it.
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You have to pray about forgiving someone.
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Just forgive them. It's a command.
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Forgive to pray about it. Well, what's God going to do?
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Just obey the command. The obedience is followed by
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great delight, but you got to obey and the man of God just he,
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he obeys God instantly. He hears the word of God, he
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listens and then man he he just runs to obey.
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So many times we we meander on our way to obedience and we get
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sidetracked and we do that and the obedience then comes comes
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later. Not good over in first John
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chapter chapter 2, John says these words.
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First John chapter 2, verse #3 By this we know that we have
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come to know Him. How?
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If we keep his commandments, how do we know that you know God,
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you keep his commandments? The one who says I've come to
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know Him and does not keep his commandments is a liar.
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And those are strong words. John says, if you say, you say
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you come to know Christ and you don't obey, you're a liar.
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He didn't say, you know, let me pray for you.
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He says you're just a liar. And then he says this.
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The truth is not in him, but whoever keeps his word in him.
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The love of God has truly been perfected.
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And by this we know that we are in him, the one who says he
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abides in him on himself to walk in the same manner as he walked,
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so crystal clear, so precise. It's not hard.
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He obeys God instantly. He goes to God incessantly and
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#3 he disciplines himself intently.
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He disciplines himself. I'm sorry, implicitly,
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implicitly, absolutely, without a doubt.
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Have you ever watched somebody come out of a out of a gym like
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24 Hour Fitness or, or all different gym?
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There's so many different gyms that you ever watched somebody
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come out of the gym, man, and they just got done working out.
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Hey, if you go down to Victoria Gardens, you know, they, they
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have Gold's Gym down there by it's right by The Cheesecake
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Factory. I don't know why that is, but
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it's right by The Cheesecake Factory.
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And and they always come walking out there with those ripped
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shirts, you know, so you can see all their muscles.
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You know, they walk out of the gym.
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You know, they walk out there like this so you can see that
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he's got done working out, right?
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That's how that's how they walk because they want you to know
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they're working out. And when you look at things, say
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what? That guy's discipline.
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Look. Look at, look at those muscles
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bulging from his neck. Look at those triceps.
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Look at those biceps. Look at those veins just just
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bulging out of his calves. See, man, that guy is
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disciplined. Boy, that guy wants to work out.
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Why? Because he disciplines himself
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implicitly. There's no doubt that he works
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himself out. That's the way it should be for
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you spiritually. That's what my boss says.
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Discipline yourself unto godliness.
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Why body bodily exercise profits a little, but godliness has
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profit for all things. First Timothy 4-7 and eight
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discipline yourself under godliness.
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But so so look at this way. Somebody who is disciplined in
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their life, you know it. You see it in in their children,
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right? Their children are obedient to
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their father and their mother. You see it lived out in their
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children. You see it lived out in in the
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wife's love for her husband and a way to follow his leadership.
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You see it manifest in itself. But this man has disciplined
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himself implicitly to love his wife, to love his children
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because he loves God. And you see it in the eyes of
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his wife. You see it in the obedience of
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his children. You see this commitment to his
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church. He's deeply committed to his
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church. He serves in his church.
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He prays for his church. He loves his church.
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You see it. You wonder whether or not they
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went to the gym to work out. They're working out daily.
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They're discipline in their prayer life.
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They're discipline in their study life.
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They're discipline in their church life.
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They're discipline in their family life.
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They're discipline in all of their life.
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That's how they are. And you don't have to wonder
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whether you see it. Why?
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Because their spiritual veins are bulging, their spiritual
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muscles are ripping the shreds, their suits, because that's how
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they are. Because you see it in their
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lives. People who love the Lord, the
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godly men, it's so important. They discipline themselves
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implicitly. Have you ever noticed that the
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most men, the toys of the world mean more than the truth of
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God's Word? The toys of the world are more
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important than the truth of God's Word.
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How many times over the years wives have said to me, I come
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home from from where I was and my, my, my, my husband's playing
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video games. I asked him to do something.
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I'll just play video games all day.
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And so I sit down with the husband and talk to him about,
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dude, you playing video games all day.
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You have a job, don't you work? 1st 75 says if a man does not
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provide for his house, he's worse than what an unbeliever.
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You're not going to work. You're worse than an unbeliever.
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You got to go to work. You got to provide for your
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family. That's what men do.
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You got to be a godly man. So many times the men of this
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culture just want to hide themselves in video games or
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games on the Internet or pornography on the Internet.
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They want to escape the realities of life instead of
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handle the truth that's before them.
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And the godly man, he disciplines himself implicitly.
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He knows that to make it through life, it requires strength and
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manliness. And the only way that's
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developed is through constant. Discipline.
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So he goes to God incessantly in prayer.
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He obeys God instantly, without reservation and without
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hesitation. That's the godly man.
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He runs the way of God's commandments.
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He disciplines himself implicitly when it comes to the
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the discipline of, of, of suffocation and, and, and, and
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scripture and, and self denial and and surrender.
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That's what he does #4 he loathes his sin intensely.
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He loathes his sin intensely. A godly man hates his sin.
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An ungodly man loves his sin, but a godly man hates his sin.
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Psalm 95, first number 10, says hate evil.
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You who love the Lord not, not not rocket science, hate, evil,
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those of you who love the Lord, and then you.
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Then you have the prophet Ezekiel who says these words in
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Ezekiel chapter 20 verse #43 God speaking Israel.
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There you remember your ways and all your deeds with which you
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have defiled yourselves. And you will loathe yourselves
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in your own sight for all the evil things that you have done.
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You will loathe yourself, you will hate what you have done.
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You will despise yourself for all the evil that you have done.
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There's something about the godly man that despises
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iniquity, that despises idolatry, that runs to run away
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from all iniquity and pursue righteousness and godliness.
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Hate evil. You who love the Lord God tells
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Timothy in first Timothy 6 verse #10 You, O man of God, flee the
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love of money. You flee these things.
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Timothy, you're a man of God. And by the way, Timothy is the
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only man in the New Testament called a man of God.
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The only man. No other man is Paul's not
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called a man of God, but Paul was a man of God.
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Peter was not called a man of God, but Peter was a man of God.
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John was not called a man of God, but John was a man of God.
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But Timothy is the only one in the New Testament called a man
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of God. If Paul says Timothy, you man of
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God, you flee these things, you flee immorality, you flee
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idolatry, you flee the love of money, and you pursue.
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You run after, you Sprint toward godliness, you Sprint toward
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faith, you Sprint toward perseverance, you Sprint towards
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love, you Sprint to those spiritual virtues that make a
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man a man. That's what you got to do.
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Timothy. Timothy was a young man, 3536
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years of age, passing the Church of Ephesus, and Paul says hate
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sins so much you run from it. That's the man of God.
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He goes to God incessantly in prayer.
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He obeys God instantly, without reservation, without hesitation.
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He's the kind of man who who disciplines himself implicitly
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when it comes to spiritual virtues.
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He's the man who loathes his sin intensely.
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That's why Job was called the man who turned away from evil.
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That's why Job said, I've made a covenant with my eyes not to
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look lustfully upon a woman. And Job didn't.
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He had the Bible or the book of Proverbs to tell him about the
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lure of the adulterous woman, but he knew well enough as a man
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of God to make a covenant with his eyes not to look lusty upon
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a woman, that that's a man of God, that's a godly man.
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That was Job, and the godly man loves his sin intensely.
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And let's let me give you this one.
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He yields to the Spirit intently.
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He can't do it without the Spirit of God.
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Nothing. He can't do anything with that
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spirit of God. So he yields to the Spirit
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intently. He walks in the spirit.
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So he didn't fulfill the lust of the flesh, right?
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He's filled with the Spirit of God.
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He's controlled by the Spirit of God.
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Ephesians 518. Why?
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Why? Because he understands that he
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doesn't want to grieve the Spirit of God, he he doesn't
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want to hinder the spirits work in his life.
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As Galatians 5 says, he doesn't want to lust after the spirit.
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He doesn't want to quench the spirit.
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He wants to be filled with the spirit.
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So he saturates himself with the Scriptures and submits himself
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to a Savior at all costs. So God directs him and leads him
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every step of the way. That's the godly man.
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But what about the MAN part? We got the godly part.
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What about the MAN part? The godly man part?
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That's next week. Let's pray.
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Father, we thank you for today, and I do pray for all the men in
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our assembly that Lord, we truly honor you and glorify your name.
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Lord, forgive us for excuses. There are no excuses not to live
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the way you've called us to live.
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You've commended us to live. We just need to obey your word,
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submit to you as our ultimate authority, and follow what you
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say explicitly. So I pray for the men of our
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church that that's the way we would be.
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Our wives would see our uncompromising commitment to the
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truth. Our children would see our
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uncompromising commitment to God and their mother.
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Their children would want to follow in the footsteps of their
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father's love for God and his wife.
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We pray Lord, for the generation of children that are in our
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auditorium today, The 40 kids that were on stage and the
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others who didn't come up for one reason or another.
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That next generation that we are to raise up to follow you.
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I pray for our fathers that you give them strength and wisdom to
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discipline, to nurture their children in the ways of God.
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Lord, go before us. I pray as a church that we would
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be and raise the kind of men that truly love the Lord and our
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godly men. So the psalmist would never say
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about us help Lord, the godly man ceases to be.
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May that not happen in our assembly.
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May we be a a model of of spiritual virtue for the glory
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of your Kingdom. So we ask you to go before us on
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this day, that we might live for you this week and for the rest
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of our lives until you come again, as you most surely will,
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in Jesus name, Amen.