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SMNTY Classics: SMNTY Picks Up a Hobby · Stuff Mom Never Told You

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  Speaker 1: Hey, this is Annie and SMITHA welcome stuff I never
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  Speaker 1: told you productive I hearted you, and welcome to twenty
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  Speaker 1: twenty six. As this comes out, this is our first
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  Speaker 1: recording session of twenty twenty six. So we're easing into things.
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  Speaker 1: We're easing into things, and that is why we're bringing
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  Speaker 1: you a classic when one was not anticipated. I had
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  Speaker 1: a really big headache yesterday and things just did not
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  Speaker 1: go well for me.
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  Speaker 2: Life happens twenty twenty six came with a bang.
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  Speaker 1: It did, and you will hear about it in our
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  Speaker 1: happy hour. But we hope all is going well for you.
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  Speaker 1: I know that at this time of year. We've talked
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  Speaker 1: about this before on Sminty. We're not really big resolutions people,
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  Speaker 1: but you're getting kind of bombarded by that type of messaging.
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  Speaker 1: And I do have what I would call goals, and
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  Speaker 1: I I've also got a new habit that where every
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  Speaker 1: New Year, I'm like, my new year is officially going
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  Speaker 1: to begin February, like I give myself deadline.
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  Speaker 3: I feel like I.
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  Speaker 1: Used to be really good at that stuff, but now
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  Speaker 1: I just have so many like birthdays that happen. I
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  Speaker 1: have a lot of stuff that happens in January and
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  Speaker 1: early February.
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  Speaker 3: That's I don't want to make an excuse, but that's
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  Speaker 3: why I started doing it.
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  Speaker 2: You just New Year, It's okay, that's what I tell myself.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, but I wanted to bring this one back because
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  Speaker 1: it is something that people at the beginning of the
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  Speaker 1: New year talk about, is.
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  Speaker 3: Hobbies, new hobbies.
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  Speaker 1: And we did this Monday many on women and hobbies
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  Speaker 1: and picking up things. So I was just I'm wondering, Samantha,
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  Speaker 1: check in, how are your hobbies going.
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  Speaker 2: I got news. Yes, I have stuck with a few.
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  Speaker 3: Yes, because I think this from a year ago exactly.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, my gardening was successful. I've talked about that. I
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  Speaker 2: found a new game that I liked is interesting and haunting.
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  Speaker 2: Oh yes, and I've continued in my Zoomba Slash Cardio
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  Speaker 2: gam journey to the point that I have been. I
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  Speaker 2: have now certified, and I've applied to things nice. I'm
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  Speaker 2: doing better.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, that's great. Yes, well, congratulations, thank you, thank you.
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  Speaker 1: It's exciting. I don't really I I think I'm just
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  Speaker 1: continuing on the path a lot of writing. My goal
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  Speaker 1: is to organize my apartment more and I do really
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  Speaker 1: want to learn asl.
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  Speaker 2: I love.
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  Speaker 3: I knew. I didn't know a lot.
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  Speaker 1: That's a that's misleading, but I knew it pretty well
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  Speaker 1: for a while because we we.
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  Speaker 3: Had to learn it in fifth grade.
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  Speaker 2: I think everybody goes through that, like right, because we did.
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  Speaker 2: Did you learn a whole new song a whole song
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  Speaker 2: with it?
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  Speaker 3: I don't remember a song.
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  Speaker 2: Oh, we did a whole song. We performed a whole
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  Speaker 2: song in asl Oh nice.
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  Speaker 3: Interesting.
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  Speaker 1: Okay, Well, that's one of the things I'm looking into doing.
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  Speaker 1: But we would love to hear from you listeners. If
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  Speaker 1: you have any hobby updates or anything you're looking into,
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  Speaker 1: please let us know. But in the meantime, please enjoy
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  Speaker 1: this classic episode.
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  Speaker 2: Hey, this is Annie and Samantha.
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  Speaker 3: I'm welcome to steff when never told your production of iHeartRadio.
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  Speaker 2: So, I don't know if I'm the only one who
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  Speaker 2: did this, but after the results of the elections of
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  Speaker 2: twenty twenty four, putting a timestampessed November twenty twenty four
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  Speaker 2: for y' all to know, and we are well past
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  Speaker 2: the election results and we are not okay. But with
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  Speaker 2: all of that, after getting past the initial sad slash
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  Speaker 2: for me sleepy morning stage, I started digging into like
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  Speaker 2: a type of survival mode, which include for me, breadmaking. Yeah,
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  Speaker 2: bought a breadmaker. By the way, I have made four
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  Speaker 2: different loads of bread successfully. They've been edible. Yes, they've edible. Hey,
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  Speaker 2: that's success. That's success for me. Gardening or at least
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  Speaker 2: plotting to do a garden. I am now invested into
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  Speaker 2: looking and actually participating in gardening, which is a weird
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  Speaker 2: place for me because I've never cared, not cared, but
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  Speaker 2: I just don't feel like I'll be successful because all
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  Speaker 2: my plants die. But at this point, I'm like, I'm
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  Speaker 2: gonna try. Let's at least, you know, plant the potato.
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  Speaker 2: Apparently that's all year long in Georgia, so we're gonna
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  Speaker 2: go completely Irish Scottish and just do potatoes to survive
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  Speaker 2: on those. And then also really digging into my newest
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  Speaker 2: dangerous hobby of punch needling thanks TikTok. Like I saw
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  Speaker 2: them doing it and I was like, oh wait, I
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  Speaker 2: get to stab things. I can do that. I think
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  Speaker 2: I can do that. And for the record, yes, I
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  Speaker 2: have already stabbed myself over fifty times. Yeah, but I've
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  Speaker 2: only bled a couple of times. So a win is
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  Speaker 2: a win. Yes, I've punctured my skin about three times,
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  Speaker 2: but out of fifty, that's not bad.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, that's pretty good. Yeah.
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  Speaker 2: My partner was like, I think we need to send
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  Speaker 2: the tysher needles fair enough.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, fair Probably.
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  Speaker 2: There's a lot of sharp things, but I've really gotten
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  Speaker 2: into them. I needed something to double task. I guess
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  Speaker 2: our multitask as I was doom scrolling and planning my
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  Speaker 2: exit plan just in case I am deported, which has
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  Speaker 2: become real fear, by the way, that I am trying
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  Speaker 2: to plan for just in case if any of our
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  Speaker 2: listeners are like immigration, you know, lawyers and want to
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  Speaker 2: call me about my naturalization that I've had for over
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  Speaker 2: thirty years. But you know, as a feminist, maybe in danger,
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  Speaker 2: especially as an Asian person because apparently Chinese people are
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  Speaker 2: the first one, and we know how well white people
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  Speaker 2: do in differentiating. But anyway, so it just seemed like
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  Speaker 2: a good time to pick up a new hobby. Again.
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  Speaker 2: By the way, I have a lot of coasters that
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  Speaker 2: resemble resemble either a scenic view or mushrooms. I'm still
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  Speaker 2: in the learning process.
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  Speaker 3: Any you've come a long way. You've sent me pictures,
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  Speaker 3: I've sent pictures.
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  Speaker 2: Well's so funny is the way that it works. One
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  Speaker 2: side looks better than the other side, but the one
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  Speaker 2: side that looks better is not the side you're supposed
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  Speaker 2: to display. Yeah, if you are a punchnateler, you know
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  Speaker 2: what I'm talking about, because the way it loves. But
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  Speaker 2: you can do all these different types of designs. And
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  Speaker 2: I'm figuring that out, y'all. I'm figuring this out. I'm
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  Speaker 2: doing I've got a lot of coasters, unnecessarily because we
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  Speaker 2: don't have that much surface space, but hey, my partner
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  Speaker 2: has got fifteen of them on his small desk.
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  Speaker 3: Now we're very prolific.
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  Speaker 2: You'll be getting some dismissions and you'll be getting some
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  Speaker 2: as well. And Katie too, our friend who comes over
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  Speaker 2: and dog says, I'm like, you have to take some
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  Speaker 2: coasters home. They don't look great, but just take them
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  Speaker 2: home anyway. Yes, a lot of us, I think, are
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  Speaker 2: in need of some type of stress relief that comes
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  Speaker 2: from finding hobbies. And of course we have some studies
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  Speaker 2: that back us in this conversation. So here's some information
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  Speaker 2: from connect heealth dot org about it. It actually reduces stress.
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  Speaker 2: And here's a quote. Hobbies are a perfect way to
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  Speaker 2: distract yourself after a busy day. It provides you with
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  Speaker 2: the opportunity to have some me time and gives you
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  Speaker 2: an outlet for releasing stress built up from the day
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  Speaker 2: and is a recent survey on stress and well being
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  Speaker 2: conducted by the Austria in Psychological Society four and five.
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  Speaker 2: Participants found activities like listening to music and spending time
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  Speaker 2: on a hobby was an effective way of managing stress.
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  Speaker 2: So take time out of your busy day to start
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  Speaker 2: painting or go outside and take some photos. You don't
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  Speaker 2: have to. This is a suggestions and from WebMD dot com.
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  Speaker 2: Keeping yourself engaged during your leisure time lowers or stress levels.
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  Speaker 2: Research found that adults who take out time to practice
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  Speaker 2: art found the time they spent to be relaxing, enjoyable,
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  Speaker 2: and helpful. They also shared that the sessions led to
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  Speaker 2: an increased desire to continue improving their skills. More importantly,
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  Speaker 2: the cortisol levels of the participants who took part in
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  Speaker 2: this study was measured before and after these sessions. The
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  Speaker 2: study found that there was a noticeable decrease in cortisol
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  Speaker 2: levels after the sessions. Cortisol is the human stress hormone
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  Speaker 2: and your body's stress level is linked to a spike
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  Speaker 2: in cortisol levels. So hey, there's proof. Do your activities
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  Speaker 2: it improves your mental health. Also so again from connectealth
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  Speaker 2: dot org. Engaging in creative activities such as songwriting, knitting,
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  Speaker 2: visual art, and musical performance have all been shown to
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  Speaker 2: increase positive moods. Particularly, engaging in such activities has resulted
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  Speaker 2: in an upward spiral of increased well being in many
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  Speaker 2: young adults. Young adults y'all hear me. Students found that
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  Speaker 2: more time spent towards creative activities produce more positive emotions. Additionally,
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  Speaker 2: creative activities allow you to expand neural connections in your brain.
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  Speaker 2: This has been linked to the release of feel good
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  Speaker 2: hormones such as dopamine. Spending as little as two hours
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  Speaker 2: per week on a task you enjoy, such as music
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  Speaker 2: or photography, can help you lead a more positive life.
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  Speaker 2: And again back to the WebMD article, having a hobby
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  Speaker 2: leads to improved mental health. If your hobby involves physical activity,
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  Speaker 2: it'll lead to reduced stress and a lower blood pressure
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  Speaker 2: and heart rate. That measured both positive and negative psychological
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  Speaker 2: stress found that those who took time frequently to do
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  Speaker 2: leisure activities that they enjoyed, had lower blood pressure, waste circumference,
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  Speaker 2: and b am. Taking your physical activity outdoors are better. Still,
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  Speaker 2: closer to nature has many benefits such as improved mood
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  Speaker 2: and better focus. You can achieve this by spending just
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  Speaker 2: ten minutes outdoors. Another study found that those who took
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  Speaker 2: part in physical activities went through fewer days of poor
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  Speaker 2: mental health compared to those who did not exercise. Meanwhile,
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  Speaker 2: challenging your brain by taking up intellectually rewarding activities not
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  Speaker 2: only helps improve your brain activity, but also increases your confidence.
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  Speaker 2: Learning new skills, such as withcrafting or quilting, also helps
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  Speaker 2: you contribute to people's lives by sharing your expertise with others.
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  Speaker 2: So so many to get great things. I did look
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  Speaker 2: at quilting. I wondered if I could do that, but
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  Speaker 2: that just felt like too much investing.
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  Speaker 1: I have a friend who you know, it's Katie but
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  Speaker 1: not the other Katie that we're talking about, who quilts.
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  Speaker 1: And she's shown me like designs and then told me
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  Speaker 1: how long it's going to take her to do it.
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  Speaker 2: And I'm like wow, yeah, wow, yeah, intense.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, but she's given me She made me a scarf
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  Speaker 1: which was not quilting, and I love it.
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  Speaker 3: So it is true.
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  Speaker 1: It's a nice thing when your friend gets a hobby,
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  Speaker 1: if you get a little I love your coasters.
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  Speaker 2: I was gonna say it could be a nice thing
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  Speaker 2: if they're good at it.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, but I feel like if you're really good friends
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  Speaker 1: with someone and you already know I'm really sentimental, I'll
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  Speaker 1: just be like Samad that loves me, even if it's
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  Speaker 1: you just being like, please take this.
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  Speaker 2: You have mush runs now for a coaster. It's not
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  Speaker 2: very steady, don't use it.
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  Speaker 3: I love it.
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  Speaker 2: I love it.
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  Speaker 1: If it's not functional, that's even better, soudo functional.
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  Speaker 2: I've been testing it out. With all these good things
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  Speaker 2: and why we need these things. There's also that small
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  Speaker 2: caveat it seems women are less likely to have as
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  Speaker 2: many hobbies as men. In fact, some even argue some
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  Speaker 2: men that women shouldn't have hobbies. I guess women too,
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  Speaker 2: because you know people, women sometimes just fall into that, Yeah,
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  Speaker 2: we need to be taken care of our husbands not
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  Speaker 2: having hobbies type of conversation. And I say that very
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  Speaker 2: pointedly at a specific group of women. In spoiler alert.
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  Speaker 2: Is also because women don't have as much free time.
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  Speaker 2: Here's a bit from an article written in Fashion journal
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  Speaker 2: dot com dot au by Mattie McCown. She says, according
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  Speaker 2: to the ABS's latest Time You survey, we girly pops
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  Speaker 2: don't get afforded the same amount of luxurious leisure time.
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  Speaker 2: We're spending an extra hour per day on unpaid domestic
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  Speaker 2: work than our male counterparts, and it takes an unfair
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  Speaker 2: piece of our free time. Pie. So as the pink
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  Speaker 2: tax stabs us in the back yet again and bites
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  Speaker 2: into our free time, the pastime divide starts to make
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  Speaker 2: itself clear. So here's some more information from a twenty
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  Speaker 2: seventeen article from Telegraph dot co dot uk. So the
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  Speaker 2: Telegraph women spend less time on hobbies because their hours
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  Speaker 2: are taken up by housework and childcare. Analysis of oens's
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  Speaker 2: data suggests the first ever analysis of leisure time carried
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  Speaker 2: out by the Office for National Statistics has found that
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  Speaker 2: men spend around half an hour every week more than
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  Speaker 2: women enjoying themselves, and the gap is even larger when
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  Speaker 2: it comes to hobbies. Men spend an average of four
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  Speaker 2: hours and thirty nine minutes every week on hobbies computing
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  Speaker 2: and games, while women spend just two hours and thirty
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  Speaker 2: eight minutes on the same activities. Overall, men spent six
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  Speaker 2: hours and nine minutes per day on leisure pursuits compared
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  Speaker 2: to five hours and twenty nine minutes spent by women.
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  Speaker 2: But of course there are those who are saying women
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  Speaker 2: don't have hobbies or their hobbies aren't hobbies, which is
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  Speaker 2: odd in general. So again from that fashion journal dot com.
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  Speaker 2: The topic for discussion as we entered part two of
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  Speaker 2: this gender hobby dissection is drum roll please value. As
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  Speaker 2: the writer mentioned, there are few fun activities she considers
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  Speaker 2: to be her hobbies, but their merit has often been
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  Speaker 2: questioned if she talks about some of the things that
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  Speaker 2: she does. But it's the activities that tend to be
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  Speaker 2: met with that's not a hobby from the men in
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  Speaker 2: her life. As female hobbies are devalued, the consequence is
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  Speaker 2: women and girls are less likely to talk about them.
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  Speaker 2: But you know, let's keep it optimistic, she says, Just
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  Speaker 2: because our hobbies can be criticized and dismiss it's not
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  Speaker 2: like we don't have them. It's true. And another article
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  Speaker 2: from the Virago charity Turcula writes about the fact that
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  Speaker 2: not only do women not have quote real hobbies, but
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  Speaker 2: if they do, they're ruining it. Yes, here's being sarcastic.
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  Speaker 2: So like many others, my eyes at first opened with
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  Speaker 2: a clip from the Good Grow, Bad Bro podcast, which
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  Speaker 2: went viral in twenty twenty two. I can remember the
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  Speaker 2: exact moment I heard him under the words how many
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  Speaker 2: girls do you know who actually have hobbies? A horrify
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  Speaker 2: I gasp escaped my mouth, my crochet hook plummeted to
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  Speaker 2: the floor. Dread washed over me. It was true, I
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  Speaker 2: never had a hobby. However, the sentiment is neither new
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  Speaker 2: nor novel. Whistleblowers have been trying to get through to
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  Speaker 2: the masses for years, but no one was ready to listen.
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  Speaker 2: No one was ready to learn that the female race
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  Speaker 2: is void of any personal interests, at least a substance,
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  Speaker 2: and she continues. Unlike women, men actually have real hobbies.
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  Speaker 2: These superior pastimes include watching movies, buying smartphones, and looking
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  Speaker 2: at cars. I have never ever seen a car. Maybe
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  Speaker 2: that's why I keep getting into accidents. But this can't
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  Speaker 2: really be true, can't it? Because it is in fact
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  Speaker 2: well documented that women like to charge their phone. Twirk
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  Speaker 2: be bisexual eat hot chips and lie. So why can't
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  Speaker 2: my girl math make sense of this equation? Great, So
• 15:52
  Speaker 2: obviously all of these are very sarcastic in nature, and
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  Speaker 2: talking about the fact that men just don't believe women
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  Speaker 2: have hobbies be fair. I fell into that my own
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  Speaker 2: self because I'm like, I need to find a hobby
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  Speaker 2: because I don't do enough stuff. I just sit here.
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  Speaker 1: Well, we talked about this too, because I also have
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  Speaker 1: a strangeness around saying I have a hobby.
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  Speaker 3: But it's less that they don't feel like hobbies to
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  Speaker 3: be and it is. It is this though, because to me,
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  Speaker 3: like when I think of hobby, I think of.
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  Speaker 1: Like, oh, you made like a lego, like you do legos'.
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  Speaker 3: I don't know, Like I.
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  Speaker 1: Just have a very specific thing that comes to my head.
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  Speaker 1: I would put like crocheting and stuff in there, absolutely right,
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  Speaker 1: But the stuff I do should also be in there too,
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  Speaker 1: So I think there really there is a strangeness around
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  Speaker 1: what we're allowing to be a hobby.
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  Speaker 2: Right, yeah, right, And that's such a hilarious conversation. But again,
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  Speaker 2: so the same author addresses the fact that when women
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  Speaker 2: cut start to become interested in quote unquote real hobbies,
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  Speaker 2: they aren't doing it right, or they're just plain ruin,
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  Speaker 2: including the sacred of all sacred hobbies gaming. When we've
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  Speaker 2: talked about this, so she writes, not many people know this,
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  Speaker 2: but the problem in Genesis was it that Eve took
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  Speaker 2: an apple from the tree of knowledge. It's the fact
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  Speaker 2: that she had the audacity to turn the MacBook on,
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  Speaker 2: download Tetris and crush Adam every time he reached a
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  Speaker 2: new high score.
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  Speaker 1: For this.
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  Speaker 2: For this, women received the curse of painful childbirth and
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  Speaker 2: the duty of homemaking, so that they would be too
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  Speaker 2: busy to even think about video games. Men, on the
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  Speaker 2: other hand, would have to compensate for Adam's embarrassment with
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  Speaker 2: manual labor to prove their masculinity and motivate them to
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  Speaker 2: get good once they return to the man cave. But
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  Speaker 2: this vital lesson has long been forgotten, and modern gaming
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  Speaker 2: has been flooded with women once again. Yes, she's talking
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  Speaker 2: about the pavot. Women ruin gaming. Yes, we've talked about
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  Speaker 2: this many times. Of course you already know our opinion
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  Speaker 2: in that specific manner. I think it's hilarious. This is
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  Speaker 2: that conversation either that women's hobbies are not real hobbies.
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  Speaker 2: But once they do things that men are interested in,
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  Speaker 2: they're bad at it, or they're ruining it, or they're
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  Speaker 2: making sure. They don't really know about it. Yeah, they
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  Speaker 2: don't really know about this. They're faking it.
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  Speaker 3: Especially if you're good.
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  Speaker 1: Right, they're all fine to be like, Oh, she knows
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  Speaker 1: how to play a Halo and then you kick it Halo.
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  Speaker 3: Suddenly she is the worst person. She needs to I
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