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It's bash a pick-me month! Dadvocate and Emily King are on blast! | Maintaining Frame 147 · Honey Badger Radio

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  Speaker 1: Hello everybody, and welcome to Honey Badger Radio. My name
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  Speaker 1: is Brian. I'm here with Alison and this is maintaining
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  Speaker 1: frame number one forty seven. It's Bash of Pickney Month
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  Speaker 1: Advocate and Emily King are on blast where we're going
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  Speaker 1: to be looking at a couple of videos I have
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  Speaker 1: I have endured the bullshit and found about three clips from.
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  Speaker 2: Each video Golden nuggets.
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  Speaker 1: Means that this is probably going to be like two
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  Speaker 1: hours and require a two parter or so.
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  Speaker 2: I'll try to avoid that.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, so, uh yeah, do you want to do the
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  Speaker 1: things before we get into it?
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  Speaker 2: do that, because you are the reason why we are
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  Speaker 2: able to do this work, And I mean we've been
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  Speaker 2: doing I've been doing some background work in the algorithm,
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  Speaker 2: and I think part of the issue is that there
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  Speaker 2: isn't a huge ecosystem for men's issues, Like so we
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  Speaker 2: don't get actually recommended to other content because the algorithm
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  Speaker 2: is like, what what are you? And we're like, well,
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  Speaker 2: we advocate for men's issues, and the algorithm's like that,
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  Speaker 2: but nobody does that, nobody but you, So where do
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  Speaker 2: I recommend you? So because you guys support us, we
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  Speaker 2: can continue to beat our heads against that brick wall,
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  Speaker 2: but in a good way, you know, in a way
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  Speaker 2: that hopefully one day the brick wall will break and
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  Speaker 2: these issues won't become something that people just shove into
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  Speaker 2: a corner. All right, So why don't we begin?
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, so we're gonna be looking at videos, a video
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  Speaker 1: from We have a couple of videos, but this first
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  Speaker 1: one is from a channel called the Queer Kiwi featuring
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  Speaker 1: a girl, a Kiwi girl, New Zealand or whatever.
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  Speaker 2: Who.
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  Speaker 1: Well, I think you can just we don't like to
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  Speaker 1: judge a book by its cover, but I think it's
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  Speaker 1: patently obvious what's going on here. And she is responding
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  Speaker 1: to Emily King or Emily W. King, who is like
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  Speaker 1: the advocate, kind of like a you know, female men's
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  Speaker 1: issues advocate that's blown up in the past few years.
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  Speaker 1: But yeah, queer kiwi is at about half a million subscribers,
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  Speaker 1: so I want you to take into account how big
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  Speaker 1: this channel is. So anyway, let's go ahead and listen
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  Speaker 1: to this first bit where she's going to listen to
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  Speaker 1: Emily King and was a series called Secrets about Women
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  Speaker 1: where she explains women and a dadvocate has a series
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  Speaker 1: called Woman's Plating to Women, which is not quite the same,
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  Speaker 1: but it's like helping women understand men. But anyway, let's
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  Speaker 1: give this.
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  Speaker 3: A listen, says and we're all keeping under lock and
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  Speaker 3: key to manipulate men, shall we.
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  Speaker 4: A woman will never admit when she's fresh out of
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  Speaker 4: a relationship, whether she broke up with him or he
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  Speaker 4: broke up with her, she is going to check in
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  Speaker 4: with the guys that have been lying in wait. She's
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  Speaker 4: going to let them know that she's single. But here's
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  Speaker 4: the kicker. The only thing that she's going to take
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  Speaker 4: from those guys is a bunch of their time and
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  Speaker 4: attention because she just wants her ego stroke she's not
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  Speaker 4: going to have any relations with any of them because
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  Speaker 4: she knew those men when she picked out her boyfriend.
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  Speaker 4: Her boyfriend was most likely her number one out of
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  Speaker 4: the guys that wanted her. Only exception is the one
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  Speaker 4: guy that she was interested in that.
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  Speaker 2: Um, is she that wrong?
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  Speaker 5: Though?
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  Speaker 1: Uh? No, I don't think so. Well, at least, I
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  Speaker 1: don't think that this is useless information.
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  Speaker 2: No, but no it's not. I mean it is. It
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  Speaker 2: is useful information because you are looking at and you
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  Speaker 2: know what's funny is this information just used to be like, yeah,
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  Speaker 2: it's common knowledge that a woman would be courting or
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  Speaker 2: would be courted by multiple suitors and would be picking
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  Speaker 2: hit her her preferred from the lot.
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  Speaker 1: You know.
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  Speaker 2: One hundred years ago, everybody was like, yeah, that's just
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  Speaker 2: the case, And now it's misogyny. Why is it misogyny
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  Speaker 2: to accept the fact that women are generally the choosers.
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  Speaker 2: I don't know what's going on in the daily market
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  Speaker 2: exactly right now. It seems like it's a bloodbath on
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  Speaker 2: both sides. But generally the women are the ones who
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  Speaker 2: are choosing from a group of men, and men are
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  Speaker 2: the ones who are well and presumably they might be
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  Speaker 2: courting more than one woman. But why has this become
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  Speaker 2: misogyny to point that out?
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  Speaker 1: Oh well, let's let her see if the key we
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  Speaker 1: has anything to say. Well, we got to finish this
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  Speaker 1: clip because she's kind of like she wants to play
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  Speaker 1: the whole thing and then respond to it.
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  Speaker 2: So I'm like, cobspletely out of her league.
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  Speaker 4: But then she realized that he was completely out of
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  Speaker 4: her league, and well he's absolete now because he's probably married.
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  Speaker 2: But she views these.
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  Speaker 4: Other men as lying in wait if they're still single,
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  Speaker 4: and she might get one or two or maybe even
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  Speaker 4: three of them thinking that they have a real chance
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  Speaker 4: with her.
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  Speaker 2: But they don't. They don't.
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  Speaker 4: She's going to stop talking to them when she finds
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  Speaker 4: her new number one or goes back to an X.
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  Speaker 4: This is why men, you never want the woman that
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  Speaker 4: circles back, because she is only going to be a
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  Speaker 4: drain on your time and energy.
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  Speaker 2: Trust me.
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  Speaker 1: All right, I'm just pausing for the banana before we
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  Speaker 1: get her response. All right, let's let's go. Let's see
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  Speaker 1: what she has to say.
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  Speaker 3: The generalization and like just the absurdity of this, right,
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  Speaker 3: this is so just playing into the narrative that men
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  Speaker 3: have completely made up, like.
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  Speaker 2: This is okay the generalizations. We're gonna play the generalizations game.
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  Speaker 2: Men have oppressed women throughout all of human history. Like,
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  Speaker 2: you're not just generalizing about the men you're trying to date.
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  Speaker 2: You're generalizing about men in now. You're generalizing about men
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  Speaker 2: twenty five years ago, one hundred years ago, a thousand
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  Speaker 2: years ago, two thousand years ago. You're generalizing men since
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  Speaker 2: men existed, And you are going to say this is
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  Speaker 2: a problem, and it isn't even that big of a
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  Speaker 2: negative generalization. I mean, it's unfortunate, but you know it's
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  Speaker 2: it's sort of the way it plays out in this
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  Speaker 2: kind of free for all dating market where women are
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  Speaker 2: the sellers and it's a seller's market, right, just acknowledging
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  Speaker 2: this is not misogyny, just recognizing the generalization. Do you
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  Speaker 2: generalize things like, oh, men don't like women who are
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  Speaker 2: as plump as I am, and you say something like, well,
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  Speaker 2: that's not that is lookism, that's a generalization. Everybody thinks
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  Speaker 2: in generalizations, and that what this has become is this
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  Speaker 2: kind of battle between my generalizations are right and your
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  Speaker 2: generalizations are wrong, and you are on the side that
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  Speaker 2: has never had to back up your generalizations. You're not
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  Speaker 2: just generalizing about your experience in the dating landscape, and
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  Speaker 2: I guarantee she does. She generalizes about men. In fact,
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  Speaker 2: I'm guessing that this is forty eight minutes of generalizing
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  Speaker 2: about men. A might, okay, spoilers for anybody who has
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  Speaker 2: never clued in on this content, But it's become this
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  Speaker 2: battle of whose generalizations are right? Except your generalizations are
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  Speaker 2: accepted by institutions, by academia, by government, by NGOs without
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  Speaker 2: any kind of scientific rigor to those generalizations. She's not
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  Speaker 2: saying that women are oppressing men because they choose multiple
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  Speaker 2: men and keep you know, She's just acknowledging a reality,
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  Speaker 2: a patent reality in a dating landscape where women are
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  Speaker 2: sellers and it's a seller's market. Like, I mean, whose
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  Speaker 2: generalizations are more toxic? Maybe is what we should get
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  Speaker 2: down to right here?
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, which ones are? I mean, generalizations are not wrong
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  Speaker 1: in and of themselves. I think that like, how can
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  Speaker 1: we make judgments on things if we don't have some generalizations?
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  Speaker 1: But they should be rooted in some truth. There should
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  Speaker 1: be a kernel of truth to generalizations. And well, anyway,
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  Speaker 1: let's play some more. This is uh, yeah, this is
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  Speaker 1: that she's not great, but somebody wanted us to watch it,
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  Speaker 1: so here we are.
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  Speaker 3: This is such a strong, like red pill narrative. It
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  Speaker 3: is such a massive thing that all these like fresh
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  Speaker 3: and Fit podcasts, aggrewate type men love to push to
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  Speaker 3: be like women are all sluts. They'll all use you,
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  Speaker 3: They're all gonna take advantage of views and just gonna.
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  Speaker 1: I thought I thought we were supposed to I thought
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  Speaker 1: we were supposed to sell celebrate women being sluts. I
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  Speaker 1: thought that was a.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, yeah, okay.
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  Speaker 1: So I lived in a positive like sex positive time.
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  Speaker 1: I guess it's it's only ever wrong if men have
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  Speaker 1: any opinion on it at all, Like even yeah, that's it.
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  Speaker 1: It's just men having an opinion on something. It doesn't
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  Speaker 1: matter what the opinion is. If they say, well I
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  Speaker 1: like it. When a woman is like, you know, slutty,
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  Speaker 1: they'll be like, you're not allowed to do that. You're
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  Speaker 1: not allowed to like even in the positive, even as
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  Speaker 1: an affirmation.
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  Speaker 2: Remember when Men's Rights Edmonton was a thing and Nick
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  Speaker 2: would go out in a sandwich board saying I love
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  Speaker 2: sluts to the slut walk and you would get so
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  Speaker 2: many angry, angry, angry people saying no, you can't do that.
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  Speaker 2: I thought this was a walk celebrating sluts, though.
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  Speaker 1: Jeremy us review says, uh, women are flawed beings. Is
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  Speaker 1: not a red pill talking point, I'm sorry, but it is.
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  Speaker 1: Now it is? Yeah, actually, now it is. Yes, yes,
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  Speaker 1: it is like I'm they they've made it that. This
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  Speaker 1: is where the Overton window has thrunk. It's gone from
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  Speaker 1: a window for women in feminism. It's gone from a
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  Speaker 1: window to one of those little tiny like you know,
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  Speaker 1: those little circles that a little bit of light in
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  Speaker 1: on your front door, you know, like that you maybe
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  Speaker 1: you like that you can like put a it's like
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  Speaker 1: a male slot. That's basically what it is. So yeah,
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  Speaker 1: it is a red pill talking point. Now, sorry to
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  Speaker 1: break it to you. Just having an opinion on that
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  Speaker 1: is red is a red pill talking point. Now, so,
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  Speaker 1: and it's nothing to be ashamed of. Hey, if it
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  Speaker 1: just so happens that the only people that know how
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  Speaker 1: to like address reality as it is and has like normal,
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  Speaker 1: you know, ways of perceiving, if that makes us red pill,
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  Speaker 1: then fuck yeah, I'm like I'm basically like maroon pilled.
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  Speaker 1: I'm basically like the deepest red like, you know, like barnyard,
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  Speaker 1: barn house red. That's that's what I'm at. Yeah, deep
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  Speaker 1: ultra ultrah what is it infrared? I'm infrared pilled because
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  Speaker 1: I like, you know, I observe reality ultra red. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: so anyway, fucking metallic red. Yeah.
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  Speaker 2: It's like you said, men cannot have an opinion. They
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  Speaker 2: will push for something. They will say that all women
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  Speaker 2: should be sluts. Sluts should be accepted, there should be
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  Speaker 2: no slut shaming. But if men have an opinion, even like, well,
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  Speaker 2: the world is now sluts, sluts there, slut's here. This
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  Speaker 2: is how you appeal to sluts. This is how you
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  Speaker 2: live with sluts. This is how you manage sluts. This
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  Speaker 2: is how you try to make your life reasonable when
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  Speaker 2: it's covered in sluts. This is the you know, this
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  Speaker 2: is the slut bait. This is the the slut deterrent device.
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  Speaker 2: This is how you get sluts out of off your cabbages.
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  Speaker 2: This is how you you you gather them up and
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  Speaker 2: turn them into a marketable commodity. This is this is
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  Speaker 2: how you get sluts out of your out of your
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  Speaker 2: heating ducks.
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  Speaker 1: You know.
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  Speaker 2: This is how you eat sluts on on on with
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  Speaker 2: pine nuts and spinach. You know, that's just like if
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  Speaker 2: men have any kind of formula for dealing with the
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  Speaker 2: world as women want it to be, any kind of
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  Speaker 2: way of managing their situation, they call it misogyny. What
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  Speaker 2: what do they expect?
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  Speaker 6: Like, women are like, okay, now, the world is is
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  Speaker 6: is basically a quantum slut topia sluts from the quantum
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  Speaker 6: level all the way to the cosmic level.
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  Speaker 2: And men are just like, well, okay, well how do
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  Speaker 2: I navigate that?
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  Speaker 3: Oh?
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  Speaker 2: Misogyny? And also, at this point in time, I think
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  Speaker 2: just saying something like women poop is misogyny. Women past gas,
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  Speaker 2: that's misogyny.
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  Speaker 1: Yep, okay, women, So let's blame some let's listen to
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  Speaker 1: more of the video to.
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  Speaker 3: Lead you on, and they're all gonna just drain you
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  Speaker 3: of your energy and then toss you aside and then
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  Speaker 3: keep you on the hook and come back to you
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  Speaker 3: like fuck off with that bullshit, all right, Like, that's
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  Speaker 3: not how this works. This is not how a majority
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  Speaker 3: of people work.
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  Speaker 1: I see people meaning people meaning not men.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah yeah, she said people.
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  Speaker 1: She didn't mean men. She didn't. Obviously, men have a
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  Speaker 1: way that they work, and she understands that. You know,
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  Speaker 1: you know the I've watched two of her videos. Thanks
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  Speaker 1: whoever sent this Richard for putting me through that, because
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  Speaker 1: it's completely useless content. That is just her saying yikes
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  Speaker 1: for like forty minutes. That's bab, that's her. That's her
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  Speaker 1: Reactionak god, that's it. Yeah, it's her saying yikes. Ew
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  Speaker 1: you know, give me that. This gives me the ick.
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  Speaker 1: That's her whole stick like four hundred and forty five
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  Speaker 1: thousand subscribers. Like, if we were grifters, I swear I
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  Speaker 1: would just paint my hair pink and just like say
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  Speaker 1: and yikes, and paint my nails and I would probably
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  Speaker 1: make millions. But I'm stuck here. Yeah it would It
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  Speaker 1: would be perfect. It would be perfect if I only
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  Speaker 1: had zero integrity.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah I know that. If you if you were just
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  Speaker 2: willing to just take part in the long sluice of
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  Speaker 2: our society into destruction, you know, just just get yours,
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  Speaker 2: get your bag while everything slides into the chasm that
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  Speaker 2: we do that.
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  Speaker 1: But I would actually like to.
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  Speaker 2: Have lights and electricity and sewer and all that other stuff.
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  Speaker 2: So I want to I want to actually lay the
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  Speaker 2: groundwork to challenging the stuff that's going to destroy all
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  Speaker 2: of that very literally.
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  Speaker 1: All right, let's suh, all right, let's play some more.
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  Speaker 3: A lot of women, and I don't know of a
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  Speaker 3: single woman who does this. I've never known a single
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  Speaker 3: woman who does this.
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  Speaker 2: However, yes, but your your sample sizes probably restricted to
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  Speaker 2: women like yourself who may not have the means to
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  Speaker 2: do this. But I'm guessing that if we reverse the
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  Speaker 2: sexes and say that that be careful women out there
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  Speaker 2: in the dating pool, because there are men who look good,
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  Speaker 2: but they'll drain you of everything and they'll they won't commit.
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  Speaker 2: I'm pretty sure she wouldn't have a problem with that
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  Speaker 2: at all, right, regardless if actually what they're talking about
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  Speaker 2: is like the top five percent that they're all going after.
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  Speaker 2: But again, your sample is you and the women who
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  Speaker 2: are in your circle. Those women may not have the
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  Speaker 2: option to have orbiters. Just saying.
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  Speaker 1: Okay, Brian, no, I'm that's okay. Yeah, let's just say, well, her,
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  Speaker 1: the extent of her data is my friends are like that.
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  Speaker 1: That's like her data. That's her. That's the counter argument.
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  Speaker 1: Here's my presentation. I have friends, many of whom are women,
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  Speaker 1: and they don't agree with this. Therefore, this thing doesn't exist.
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  Speaker 1: And now she's gonna probably say, I also know men
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  Speaker 1: who do do this, therefore this is all me. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: but also I don't like generalizations. All right, let's keep.
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  Speaker 3: Going, Hey, fuck load of men complain about women who
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  Speaker 3: do this, and it just really feels like a validation
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  Speaker 3: for men to hate women and to get mad at
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  Speaker 3: women and to complain about women, Like if you really
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  Speaker 3: are sitting there being inkave with this woman and constantly.
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  Speaker 2: Hate is a strong word. I'm pretty sure men can recognize,
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  Speaker 2: because they have through all of human history that women
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  Speaker 2: are fickle, that they often don't know their mind, they
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  Speaker 2: make stupid choices, there are strangely deeply attracted to obvious
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  Speaker 2: sociopaths like and I think throughout all of human history.
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  Speaker 2: In fact, if you read a lot of men's writings,
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  Speaker 2: this has been a thread throughout most of human history.
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  Speaker 2: I guess men were just inventing all this every generation
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  Speaker 2: that had to deal with women, right, But they didn't
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  Speaker 2: hate women. They still buckled down and said, I am
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  Speaker 2: going to pay for the existence of this fickle creature,
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  Speaker 2: and I'm going to find joy, some kind of reverence
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  Speaker 2: in her, uh, her joy of life. This is what
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  Speaker 2: they do. They're like, they turn these flaws. That's what
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  Speaker 2: I've seen. They've turned these massive flaws in women's character,
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  Speaker 2: and it seems to be women because it's not women
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  Speaker 2: building bridges, it's women complaining about men getting money for
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  Speaker 2: building bridges and wanting the same frickin wage. These flaws
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  Speaker 2: and again also studies ten, the show these flaws in
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  Speaker 2: women's character and they turn men, turn them into cute
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  Speaker 2: little quirks like the manic pixie dream girl, which really
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  Speaker 2: is a woman who should be shot out of a cannon.
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  Speaker 2: But they're like, oh, she's so quirky. She gives my
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  Speaker 2: drab life my color. It's color, all of this quirky
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  Speaker 2: bullshit for women. It's color. It's the mysteries of human reproduction.
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  Speaker 2: It's so beautiful in its way. Instead of being like, yeah, no,
• 18:29
  Speaker 2: this is just bullshit. Right, So hate is a strong word.
• 18:34
  Speaker 2: Men love crocodiles, Men love scorpions, men love snakes, They
• 18:44
  Speaker 2: love the creatures that you There probably is a man
• 18:46
  Speaker 2: out there who has a beloved garden, like a beloved
• 18:51
  Speaker 2: soil pot full of beloved worms.
• 18:53
  Speaker 7: Men seem to be.
• 18:54
  Speaker 2: Able to love everything or anything in this world. I
• 18:58
  Speaker 2: think there is even Ann who probably loves this woman
• 19:02
  Speaker 2: if you can believe it, right, and she's here saying, oh,
• 19:07
  Speaker 2: women have flaws, then if we recognize that, men will
• 19:11
  Speaker 2: hate us. No, in fact, probably men would find it
• 19:15
  Speaker 2: easier to love you if you recognize those flaws. Like,
• 19:20
  Speaker 2: it's just what I'm saying. Hate is a strong word here.
• 19:24
  Speaker 1: Yeah, she doesn't care like I mean, her livelihood depends
• 19:30
  Speaker 1: on hate being a word that applies to men's feelings
• 19:33
  Speaker 1: towards women. So she needs it to stick. So she's
• 19:36
  Speaker 1: gonna make it stick. And you know what, four hundred
• 19:38
  Speaker 1: and fifty five thousand subscribers probably all agree. Do you
• 19:43
  Speaker 1: know what I'm saying, right, I do know what you're saying.
• 19:45
  Speaker 1: I do know what you're saying. I'm just explaining that
• 19:49
  Speaker 1: it doesn't matter. Like we're living in a post truth
• 19:52
  Speaker 1: era in that we can't like facts have to move
• 19:57
  Speaker 1: at the speed of women's feelings. That's where we are now,
• 20:01
  Speaker 1: and that's just what it is like. And it doesn't
• 20:03
  Speaker 1: matter if they have anything useful to say or do,
• 20:05
  Speaker 1: if they contribute anything, we just can't make them feel uncomfortable.
• 20:10
  Speaker 1: And it doesn't matter if we have logic on our side.
• 20:13
  Speaker 1: In the moment at least because they're made uncomfortable by that.
• 20:17
  Speaker 1: But what will happen is over time, reality, which is
• 20:23
  Speaker 1: what our logic is coming from, will slam down on
• 20:26
  Speaker 1: them and they will have to either come to terms
• 20:30
  Speaker 1: with the fact that they've been wrong about reality and
• 20:33
  Speaker 1: that their feelings couldn't actually change it, or they will
• 20:39
  Speaker 1: just die alone and childless and sad, and a lot
• 20:43
  Speaker 1: of them. I bet, I bet this girl's on SSR eyes.
• 20:45
  Speaker 1: I'm just guessing. I don't like to judge a book
• 20:47
  Speaker 1: by its cover, but she doesn't look like she's an
• 20:50
  Speaker 1: interesting person. Because if you have to like look like
• 20:53
  Speaker 1: a fucking you know, a bag of M and m's exploded,
• 20:57
  Speaker 1: then you're probably not interesting. Like you probably can't hold
• 21:00
  Speaker 1: up regular conversation with people, which is why the extent
• 21:03
  Speaker 1: of her content is yikes, yike's men. That's her whole.
• 21:07
  Speaker 1: That's four hundred and fifty five thousand subscribers or forty
• 21:12
  Speaker 1: five I'm sorry, I don't mean to over overestimate, but anyway,
• 21:15
  Speaker 1: it's pretty.
• 21:16
  Speaker 2: It's pretty, but there's an ecosystem for this. That's the thing.
• 21:19
  Speaker 2: There's women confirming women confirmation, and the funny thing is
• 21:23
  Speaker 2: is that again, hate is a really strong word. I
• 21:27
  Speaker 2: think men are frustrated, they're concerned. They're probably internalizing a
• 21:34
  Speaker 2: hell of a lot more than what she gives them
• 21:36
  Speaker 2: credit for, considering that the vast majority of men just
• 21:40
  Speaker 2: off themselves when the contradictions I'll do I you know,
• 21:44
  Speaker 2: and when when women become so difficult to deal with,
• 21:47
  Speaker 2: it doesn't it feels like you have no hope?
• 21:49
  Speaker 1: Right?
• 21:50
  Speaker 2: This is this is this is this is the thing
• 21:52
  Speaker 2: like it's mild. Irritation is not hatred. Identifying things that
• 21:58
  Speaker 2: you're dealing with in the dating sphere as a man
• 22:00
  Speaker 2: is not hatred.
• 22:02
  Speaker 1: Right.
• 22:03
  Speaker 2: Hatred is more along the lines of promoting a narrative
• 22:06
  Speaker 2: in which one half of the sex, deliberately and with malice,
• 22:10
  Speaker 2: goes out to oppress the other half. That's a lot
• 22:12
  Speaker 2: more along the lines of hatred, because you see it
• 22:15
  Speaker 2: in all kinds of propaganda throughout history directed at enemy groups.
• 22:21
  Speaker 2: That's what you say when you want to not dehumanize,
• 22:25
  Speaker 2: but render criminal the perceptions, the criminal perceptions of a group.
• 22:30
  Speaker 2: This is the kind of stuff you do. That's true hatred.
• 22:34
  Speaker 2: Just saying women are frustrating to date because of these
• 22:37
  Speaker 2: kinds of habits. At its core, it still is about
• 22:44
  Speaker 2: wanting to be around women. Right, It's like what you
• 22:48
  Speaker 2: said once, Brian, or maybe it was Mike or doctor Randirikam.
• 22:53
  Speaker 1: Why is it?
• 22:54
  Speaker 2: Why do why would Muslim men hate women if their
• 22:57
  Speaker 2: reward is seventy two of them? Yeah? Right, you know
• 23:01
  Speaker 2: it's like and part of the reason why they have
• 23:05
  Speaker 2: these narratives of this nonsense about hatred is because they
• 23:10
  Speaker 2: tie hatred to men's sexual interest in women, which they
• 23:14
  Speaker 2: call objectification, which is actually ablest and absurd. Objectification is
• 23:20
  Speaker 2: people who object truly objectify others, who see other people
• 23:25
  Speaker 2: as objects, have a mental illness or a mental disability
• 23:29
  Speaker 2: that is debilitating. And feminists are saying that men have
• 23:34
  Speaker 2: this mental disability that's debilitating because they have sexual desire
• 23:39
  Speaker 2: for women, and it's absurd and that but that's where
• 23:43
  Speaker 2: they root their men hate women because they're saying that
• 23:47
  Speaker 2: men's sexual desire for women is hatred of women. So
• 23:51
  Speaker 2: objectification comes down to so the fact that men are
• 23:55
  Speaker 2: interested in women, the fact that men want to be
• 23:58
  Speaker 2: around women, regardless of how infuriating women are, the fact
• 24:01
  Speaker 2: that men share information how to attract at a woman
• 24:06
  Speaker 2: and how to you know the proper f Karen, feeding
• 24:09
  Speaker 2: of your crocodile is misogyny, and it's misogyny because this
• 24:13
  Speaker 2: whole narrative about objectification.
• 24:16
  Speaker 1: All right, all right, so this is the next time
• 24:21
  Speaker 1: code in this video.
• 24:22
  Speaker 4: Well, I'm going to tell you another secret about women
• 24:24
  Speaker 4: that I'm going to get into a lot of trouble
• 24:26
  Speaker 4: telling you. And this is something that they will take
• 24:28
  Speaker 4: to the grave. I swear don't even bother asking her,
• 24:31
  Speaker 4: because it does not matter how good of a woman
• 24:33
  Speaker 4: she is, she will not admit this. When a woman
• 24:35
  Speaker 4: is single and she has options, there is only ever
• 24:38
  Speaker 4: one man that she wants the most at one time,
• 24:41
  Speaker 4: and she is not confused about this, no matter what
• 24:44
  Speaker 4: she tells you, sadly. And what's really messed up is
• 24:46
  Speaker 4: that this is not always the man that she is
• 24:48
  Speaker 4: currently with. Even if she's not dating anyone in particular,
• 24:52
  Speaker 4: if she's just in the talking stages with a few
• 24:54
  Speaker 4: different guys, she will typically not be giving her attention
• 24:57
  Speaker 4: to the man that she likes the most. And this
• 25:00
  Speaker 4: is what confuses men because it might feel like she's
• 25:03
  Speaker 4: giving you a lot of attention and energy, but she
• 25:06
  Speaker 4: seems to always have too much going on or she's
• 25:09
  Speaker 4: just not in the right place for a relationship, or
• 25:11
  Speaker 4: she'll say that I'm just not ready for a relationship.
• 25:14
  Speaker 2: She will only.
• 25:15
  Speaker 4: Say that to the man that is not her number
• 25:17
  Speaker 4: one And the reason why she's not giving most of
• 25:19
  Speaker 4: her attention to the guy that's number one is because
• 25:22
  Speaker 4: she wants that number one guy to chase her.
• 25:24
  Speaker 2: But if that man is not chasing.
• 25:26
  Speaker 4: Her and she still likes him the most, she will
• 25:28
  Speaker 4: cope with it by getting attention from guy number two, three, four.
• 25:32
  Speaker 4: Women will essentially use these men for their time and
• 25:35
  Speaker 4: attention in order to feel good about herself until that
• 25:38
  Speaker 4: number one guy gives her what she wants or she
• 25:40
  Speaker 4: finds a new number one guy.
• 25:42
  Speaker 1: I I mean that makes perfect sense. Like if you're
• 25:48
  Speaker 1: accustomed to being surrounded by orbiters, then they're all bringing
• 25:54
  Speaker 1: you something and one thing. I remember. It reminds me
• 25:56
  Speaker 1: of this A while ago. I saw this on Twitter,
• 26:02
  Speaker 1: and there was a woman who was ranting about men
• 26:07
  Speaker 1: like she was angry with them, but she she was
• 26:09
  Speaker 1: angry with them because they were basically checking out and
• 26:14
  Speaker 1: she was basically like, you know, I want men to
• 26:17
  Speaker 1: like see me and and as as a person and
• 26:21
  Speaker 1: you know whatever, like she wants to feel like men
• 26:25
  Speaker 1: love her and they desire her and they want to
• 26:27
  Speaker 1: keep her safe, even if she doesn't want them back,
• 26:29
  Speaker 1: even if she has no interest in reciprocating that. And
• 26:33
  Speaker 1: I think it just shows like maybe she's just speculating.
• 26:37
  Speaker 1: Maybe this is the fundamental difference between the way men
• 26:41
  Speaker 1: view women and the way women view men, and it's
• 26:44
  Speaker 1: something that is not talked about. Like Emily King says,
• 26:48
  Speaker 1: I don't know how true this is, but like it
• 26:50
  Speaker 1: doesn't matter. It could be a useful bit of information.
• 26:53
  Speaker 1: But before I let the uh the skittle explosion answer,
• 26:58
  Speaker 1: I want to know if Elson wants to say anything
• 27:01
  Speaker 1: about Emily's take.
• 27:06
  Speaker 2: So I'm a little no. I was listening. I was.
• 27:10
  Speaker 2: I listened to the whole thing. I promise you. It's
• 27:13
  Speaker 2: just that I'm a little distracted because voidcat destroyed my
• 27:17
  Speaker 2: my camera setup and I don't want to go on
• 27:19
  Speaker 2: the wobbly cam, so I'm trying to fix it all
• 27:21
  Speaker 2: But all right, yes, in a seller's market like this
• 27:30
  Speaker 2: with an artificial perception of an artificial inflation of buyers,
• 27:36
  Speaker 2: because really, uh, the lack of relationship formation suggests that
• 27:40
  Speaker 2: it isn't a true buyer it isn't a true seller's market.
• 27:43
  Speaker 2: There's just an artificial impression and like a larger amount
• 27:47
  Speaker 2: of buyers, So sellers aren't actually selling when they could,
• 27:50
  Speaker 2: so they just stay on the market and then they
• 27:52
  Speaker 2: age out of the market, and that's really what happens
• 27:55
  Speaker 2: to reduce the supply. So okay, so it'd be like
• 27:59
  Speaker 2: if if you were you had a real estate market,
• 28:04
  Speaker 2: but houses after about twenty years are no longer. They don't.
• 28:09
  Speaker 2: They're a depreciating asset. Nobody's interested in them. So people
• 28:13
  Speaker 2: go on to the market with their house and they think, okay,
• 28:16
  Speaker 2: well I got tons and tons of buyers. But for
• 28:19
  Speaker 2: the most part, they're they're putting in bids on all
• 28:22
  Speaker 2: kinds of houses, and they actually never sell their house,
• 28:27
  Speaker 2: but so it feels like a seller's market because they're
• 28:29
  Speaker 2: getting all kinds of bids and then they don't settle
• 28:31
  Speaker 2: with anyone, and then their house ages out of the
• 28:34
  Speaker 2: market and they've got no leverage, and that's what's actually
• 28:38
  Speaker 2: reducing supply. So what I'm getting at is that the
• 28:42
  Speaker 2: sales are not what's reducing supply. The depreciating asset is
• 28:46
  Speaker 2: reducing supply. Okay, that's a little bit too complicated, But
• 28:51
  Speaker 2: my ultimate point is that women are behaving consistent with
• 28:56
  Speaker 2: sellers who think that they're in a buyer's market when
• 28:59
  Speaker 2: it's not a buyer's market. It is, sorry, a seller's market.
• 29:03
  Speaker 2: They are consistent with sellers who act like they're in
• 29:07
  Speaker 2: a seller's market when it isn't exactly a seller's market.
• 29:10
  Speaker 2: There's just the impression of a seller's market. So they
• 29:13
  Speaker 2: do stuff like this. So I mean, everybody's criticisms of
• 29:16
  Speaker 2: this situation is valid. Actually, women's criticisms are valid. It's
• 29:20
  Speaker 2: just their criticisms of the top five percent, their criticisms
• 29:23
  Speaker 2: of the loss of interest when they get older. Yep,
• 29:26
  Speaker 2: they're criticisms of the lack of so called good men.
• 29:32
  Speaker 2: And men's criticisms are also valid because the entire system
• 29:36
  Speaker 2: is broken down. And I would say that men's criticisms
• 29:41
  Speaker 2: are probably a little more objective and a little less
• 29:45
  Speaker 2: Oh my friend group, Oh the men that I'm interested in,
• 29:47
  Speaker 2: and this is my entire population that I'm drawing my
• 29:52
  Speaker 2: data from. I think that women are more prone to that,
• 29:54
  Speaker 2: whereas men are more interested in the systemic kind of
• 29:58
  Speaker 2: look at it. So I think that. But but regardless
• 30:02
  Speaker 2: setting aside blaming men or women, although as I always say,
• 30:07
  Speaker 2: I blame women and nobody can stop me. Setting aside
• 30:11
  Speaker 2: that the system is screwed, like it's just it's just
• 30:16
  Speaker 2: a mess, and trying to trying to lay blame without
• 30:25
  Speaker 2: looking at every part of this, trying to find blame
• 30:27
  Speaker 2: before you look at every part of the system to
• 30:29
  Speaker 2: create an understanding of what went wrong is is not
• 30:34
  Speaker 2: a good way to go. And she's laying blame. I
• 30:38
  Speaker 2: think that advocate is just making an observation, and she's
• 30:43
  Speaker 2: making she's laying blame at a woman who's just making
• 30:46
  Speaker 2: an observation, like advocates criticisms a women in the dating market.
• 30:52
  Speaker 1: Could oh sorry, Emily Emily Kings.
• 30:58
  Speaker 2: I think advocate also criticized and stuff like that, though
• 31:01
  Speaker 2: Emily King's criticism of women's behavior in the dating market
• 31:07
  Speaker 2: can exist alongside women's own criticisms of what's going on
• 31:12
  Speaker 2: in the dating market. Right, So, she's not necessarily laying
• 31:17
  Speaker 2: blame except for women's part in it, or she's not
• 31:22
  Speaker 2: laying overall blame, is what I'm saying, except for women's
• 31:25
  Speaker 2: part in it. And right here the skittle person is
• 31:30
  Speaker 2: saying that no, you can't do that. You can't do that.
• 31:34
  Speaker 2: So she's essentially doing what feminists have done with almost
• 31:37
  Speaker 2: every issue that faced men and women. She's denying women's
• 31:42
  Speaker 2: half of the problem. And even though like I'm here,
• 31:46
  Speaker 2: at least here Emily hasn't said that, oh, it's all women,
• 31:49
  Speaker 2: all of dating problems can be put at women's feet,
• 31:52
  Speaker 2: this woman is already engaged with, well, don't blame women,
• 31:56
  Speaker 2: you see what I'm saying, mm hm. And she's she's
• 32:00
  Speaker 2: pre selecting the information we can look at to fix
• 32:04
  Speaker 2: the problem, which ensures failure. She's once again preloading failure
• 32:09
  Speaker 2: and everybody's going to suffer from that. And she's huge, Yeah,
• 32:17
  Speaker 2: to preload failure.
• 32:20
  Speaker 1: They want they want to affirm their midness, and they
• 32:25
  Speaker 1: get other women to do it for them so that
• 32:27
  Speaker 1: they don't feel alone, and therefore they don't feel like
• 32:30
  Speaker 1: see like, if if a woman can blame something abstract
• 32:35
  Speaker 1: that is outside of their control for their life circumstances,
• 32:40
  Speaker 1: then they don't have to actually do anything to improve.
• 32:43
  Speaker 1: They can just do what women have done all through history,
• 32:46
  Speaker 1: which is essentially, uh, you know, appeal to men to
• 32:49
  Speaker 1: do something for them. And that is what the what
• 32:53
  Speaker 1: this woman the queer Kui and all these other online
• 32:56
  Speaker 1: feminists do is they affirm women's insecurities and their situation
• 33:02
  Speaker 1: like their their victimhood status. And then it it because
• 33:06
  Speaker 1: there are other women that are saying, oh yes, I
• 33:08
  Speaker 1: have also been through this, or oh yes, I agree
• 33:10
  Speaker 1: with you, oh oh yes I've had this life experience,
• 33:13
  Speaker 1: then women can say, oh well, if enough women are
• 33:16
  Speaker 1: also experiencing this, this isn't something that I have done
• 33:19
  Speaker 1: to myself with my life choices. This is something that
• 33:23
  Speaker 1: the system patriarchy has done to me, and therefore I
• 33:27
  Speaker 1: can blame patriarchy and ask that the patriarchy solve my
• 33:32
  Speaker 1: problem while also blaming them for my problems. So it's
• 33:36
  Speaker 1: it's just it's just that, it's it's it's women who
• 33:41
  Speaker 1: haven't figured out that they actually can and do control
• 33:45
  Speaker 1: their fate, that like things are, but that would require
• 33:49
  Speaker 1: them to get off their ass and do something. So anyway,
• 33:52
  Speaker 1: let's hear her. Let's hear her.
• 33:54
  Speaker 3: Her reply really going to need you to stop projecting
• 34:01
  Speaker 3: like this is incredibly similar to the one before, And
• 34:03
  Speaker 3: it's just like astounding to me because either you are
• 34:08
  Speaker 3: projecting massively or you were learning all of your information
• 34:13
  Speaker 3: about women from men who are just like actively trying
• 34:18
  Speaker 3: to hate women, like you are learning your information about
• 34:21
  Speaker 3: women and what women want and how women date through
• 34:24
  Speaker 3: like the Fresh and Fit podcast.
• 34:25
  Speaker 2: Okay, you're so, she's learning her information from the one
• 34:31
  Speaker 2: group of people who has the most experienced with dating women.
• 34:35
  Speaker 2: She's learning her information about dating women from the one
• 34:39
  Speaker 2: group of people who has the most experience in dating women.
• 34:46
  Speaker 1: Except that that's probably that's definitely not where Emily King
• 34:50
  Speaker 1: gets her information. In fact, Emily King I don't know
• 34:54
  Speaker 1: about the Dadvocate, but I know that Emily King does
• 34:58
  Speaker 1: not is not a fan of of these. So the
• 35:01
  Speaker 1: quote unquote Manisphere, red pill, Fresh and Fit, Andrew Tate
• 35:05
  Speaker 1: types at all. So this But but here's the thing
• 35:09
  Speaker 1: that's interesting about this. I think it's funny is that
• 35:12
  Speaker 1: a lot of people in this, in this part of
• 35:15
  Speaker 1: the Internet, they're all trying to like whoever it is,
• 35:19
  Speaker 1: Paul Elam, Tom Golden, Tim Goldich, the Advocate, Roma, Emily King, us,
• 35:26
  Speaker 1: you know whoever, right, rollo. They're all they're all pitching
• 35:30
  Speaker 1: in Andrew Tate, Fresh and Fit, They're all they all
• 35:33
  Speaker 1: have something to say about this. They're all sort of
• 35:35
  Speaker 1: like talking around gender dynamics, which I think is good
• 35:38
  Speaker 1: because I think it's the most crucial conversation to have.
• 35:42
  Speaker 1: All the other stuff doesn't matter if you can't figure
• 35:44
  Speaker 1: out what's going on with men and women, your government, well,
• 35:47
  Speaker 1: whoever's in office irrelevant, because like it's all gonna go away.
• 35:51
  Speaker 1: So if you don't address that, all the other shit
• 35:54
  Speaker 1: that you're concerned with, this foreign war, that the economy
• 35:57
  Speaker 1: over here, none of that matters. If men and women
• 36:00
  Speaker 1: and are not getting together making babies period, Like that's
• 36:02
  Speaker 1: that is a non starter, okay. But everyone who's talking
• 36:06
  Speaker 1: about these things, there's a lot of them that are
• 36:09
  Speaker 1: trying to say, well, I don't associate with those people,
• 36:11
  Speaker 1: and I don't like them for that reason, and I
• 36:13
  Speaker 1: think that those people are terrible, These are misogynists, et cetera.
• 36:17
  Speaker 1: When in the end, at the end of the day,
• 36:19
  Speaker 1: the people were up against don't care. They all put
• 36:21
  Speaker 1: us in the same boat, and we might as well
• 36:23
  Speaker 1: stop trying to like separate ourselves from other people based
• 36:27
  Speaker 1: on what we heard from these people about them. Like
• 36:31
  Speaker 1: these people are the ones that say Andrew Tate really
• 36:34
  Speaker 1: hates women, even though like he literally like you know,
• 36:37
  Speaker 1: he built his brand on his success with women, which
• 36:41
  Speaker 1: I don't think you should hate them to be successful
• 36:43
  Speaker 1: with them, or whoever it is. It could be fresh
• 36:45
  Speaker 1: and fitted, could be even abba and preach like it
• 36:49
  Speaker 1: doesn't matter. Right, These people will say, well, they all
• 36:52
  Speaker 1: hate women, or this person hates women, that's why they
• 36:54
  Speaker 1: name drop. This is the read. This is the extent
• 36:56
  Speaker 1: of her argument. Oh, these people have done this thing,
• 36:59
  Speaker 1: and you, who are just like them, even if you
• 37:02
  Speaker 1: on your own channel, has you know, for whatever reason,
• 37:06
  Speaker 1: condemn them or whatever, it doesn't matter, and no one's
• 37:09
  Speaker 1: gonna look into it, and no one's gonna care what
• 37:12
  Speaker 1: you've said because you are on the wrong side of
• 37:15
  Speaker 1: the issue fundamentally, which is you're on the side of
• 37:18
  Speaker 1: men in some capacity. Be on the side of men
• 37:21
  Speaker 1: in any capacity puts you in the same boat as
• 37:25
  Speaker 1: whoever you can imagine the worst actors are of that
• 37:28
  Speaker 1: particular thing. So there is no point in getting into
• 37:33
  Speaker 1: this like weird, like you know, subdividing like tribalism, and
• 37:37
  Speaker 1: you might as well just ignore it and carry on.
• 37:39
  Speaker 1: If if somebody comes to me and says, oh, you're
• 37:42
  Speaker 1: like you know so, and so I'm gonna be like,
• 37:44
  Speaker 1: I don't give a shit. I don't even know what
• 37:45
  Speaker 1: you mean. This is what I believe. Respond to that,
• 37:48
  Speaker 1: don't put me in a box. Respond to this, and
• 37:51
  Speaker 1: that's what you have to do, you know. So I
• 37:54
  Speaker 1: mean I could be nuanced when dealing with feminists. I mean,
• 37:56
  Speaker 1: I know that, you know, there's a difference between JK. Rowling,
• 38:00
  Speaker 1: Julie Bindle and Judith Butler and Anita Sarkisian and Pel Hooks.
• 38:06
  Speaker 1: But at the end of the day, they all hate men,
• 38:09
  Speaker 1: like it doesn't matter. Like they all have the same
• 38:12
  Speaker 1: root belief system and that's the only thing I have
• 38:14
  Speaker 1: to go after. Is that. That way, if they say, well,
• 38:17
  Speaker 1: I'm not like, I'm not a third wave feminist, I'm
• 38:19
  Speaker 1: a first wave, Well I don't give a shit. You
• 38:22
  Speaker 1: blame patriarchy for your problems, you're in the same camp.
• 38:25
  Speaker 1: It doesn't matter because you won't solve the problem. In fact,
• 38:28
  Speaker 1: you're the reason for the problem that I'm trying to address,
• 38:31
  Speaker 1: which is essentially the growing gap between men and women.
• 38:36
  Speaker 1: So yeah, I mean, like she's gonna name drop that's
• 38:38
  Speaker 1: the again. This shows the extent of her intellectual rigor,
• 38:44
  Speaker 1: which is Yike's. And you're just like, you know, insert
• 38:49
  Speaker 1: right wing head or you know, current cancerous human being
• 38:55
  Speaker 1: that don't I want to associate with you. It doesn't matter.
• 38:57
  Speaker 1: It could be you're just like JD. Van, You're just
• 39:00
  Speaker 1: like Mike Pence, You're just like Nick Foyentz, You're just
• 39:04
  Speaker 1: like It doesn't matter, guys like it's it's time for
• 39:07
  Speaker 1: us to stop listening to their allegations of bigotry because
• 39:12
  Speaker 1: it's all meaningless. It's intended to control you as and
• 39:15
  Speaker 1: if you like, accept it in any capacity. If you
• 39:18
  Speaker 1: try to refute it in any capacity, you lose because
• 39:22
  Speaker 1: that means you're in the the defensive for no reason.
• 39:25
  Speaker 1: When you know what you believe is correct. It doesn't matter.
• 39:28
  Speaker 2: So anyway, Well, it's an idea, it's a it's a
• 39:31
  Speaker 2: perspective that allows nothing outside of itself. Right this, this
• 39:36
  Speaker 2: is what this perspective is. This, this feminist perspective and
• 39:39
  Speaker 2: this occult feminist perspective, it allows nothing outside of itself.
• 39:43
  Speaker 2: It's why fetal Bogan it used to be one of
• 39:45
  Speaker 2: the old the ogs. Ye say that the first thing
• 39:49
  Speaker 2: you need to do is simply say I am non feminist,
• 39:53
  Speaker 2: because you force this this viewpoint to recognize something outside
• 39:57
  Speaker 2: of itself, and that's that's the very first step. And honestly,
• 40:03
  Speaker 2: it's it's bigger than just condemning men at this point,
• 40:07
  Speaker 2: because they also condemn obviously, because that's what the topic
• 40:13
  Speaker 2: of this video is. They condemn women who accept that
• 40:17
  Speaker 2: men have a perspective worth listening to. So it's it's
• 40:23
  Speaker 2: it is. It is the idea that women have nothing
• 40:27
  Speaker 2: to learn from men, nothing at all, and that men
• 40:30
  Speaker 2: have nothing legitimate to bring the world like this, this
• 40:35
  Speaker 2: half of the human race that evolved along alongside women
• 40:39
  Speaker 2: has nothing legitimate about it. They are illegitimate. And how
• 40:46
  Speaker 2: else can you how else can you interpret the allegation
• 40:49
  Speaker 2: that men have oppressed women throughout since there were men,
• 40:53
  Speaker 2: basically since there was human society, which is basically all
• 40:57
  Speaker 2: of the human history, because human history, we humans do society,
• 41:01
  Speaker 2: that's this is what we do. We get together and
• 41:04
  Speaker 2: we cooperate to make things so throughout all the history
• 41:08
  Speaker 2: of human cooperation and incidentally, all of the feminist stuff
• 41:11
  Speaker 2: about like neolithic tribes in in in in Europe prior
• 41:18
  Speaker 2: to like the step nomads coming in and being all
• 41:21
  Speaker 2: violent and stuff, that's all bullshit. They're now finding that
• 41:25
  Speaker 2: those supposed peaceful Neolithic tribes were incredibly violent themselves and
• 41:31
  Speaker 2: probably could have resisted those those warlike step nomads just
• 41:36
  Speaker 2: through their own militaristic nature, But they couldn't resist the
• 41:43
  Speaker 2: step nomads cows, and the fact that they would herd
• 41:47
  Speaker 2: these gigantic masses of bio weapons and then just just
• 41:53
  Speaker 2: basically annihilate the the the the agregrian like neolithic farmers
• 42:00
  Speaker 2: in Europe. So it wasn't. No, there's no point in history.
• 42:05
  Speaker 2: The further back you go, the more violent we are.
• 42:08
  Speaker 2: So there was no peaceful matriarchy at any point in history,
• 42:11
  Speaker 2: and if there was, it wasn't peaceful, right, So, like
• 42:15
  Speaker 2: there's no ideal to look back for. So essentially what
• 42:19
  Speaker 2: they're saying is that men have been a net negative
• 42:23
  Speaker 2: for the human race since men involved. What an astounding proposition, huh, folks.
• 42:32
  Speaker 2: And now now the very idea of taking an identity
• 42:35
  Speaker 2: from being male should be done away with, because that's
• 42:42
  Speaker 2: really what they mean. That's the real dividing line. I
• 42:45
  Speaker 2: don't know if you've noticed. It's between people men and
• 42:48
  Speaker 2: women who believe that male is a legitimate identity, right,
• 42:58
  Speaker 2: that they have seventy two legitimate identities, But mail isn't
• 43:03
  Speaker 2: one of them.
• 43:05
  Speaker 1: Well, the jury's out and how many genders there are,
• 43:08
  Speaker 1: but we know that man is not one of them.
• 43:11
  Speaker 1: That's the only thing we know is not one of them.
• 43:14
  Speaker 1: We just have it. We don't, we don't have the
• 43:16
  Speaker 1: data hasn't come back yet. I'm still waiting on Kintanji
• 43:18
  Speaker 1: Brown chants Jackson's ruling on the number of genders. But
• 43:22
  Speaker 1: we know that men is not one of them.
• 43:24
  Speaker 3: But anyway, fucking fifteen years old, like I am exhausted
• 43:31
  Speaker 3: listening to this shit, Like you, I get so confused
• 43:35
  Speaker 3: because I do see tiktoks and contents stuff like this sometimes,
• 43:38
  Speaker 3: like using from women and from people.
• 43:42
  Speaker 2: It's confusing to listen to somebody who has an identity
• 43:46
  Speaker 2: not your own. This is why these people cannot write
• 43:48
  Speaker 2: worth the damn.
• 43:50
  Speaker 1: Let's go back a little bit again. I want to
• 43:53
  Speaker 1: hear this.
• 43:53
  Speaker 3: Women and from people talking about like games and playing
• 43:56
  Speaker 3: mind games and people.
• 43:57
  Speaker 1: So like women and people. I'm just saying, like the
• 44:01
  Speaker 1: language is right there right, there are no men like
• 44:04
  Speaker 1: the men, and she's terrified of men apparently is terrified
• 44:08
  Speaker 1: of men.
• 44:08
  Speaker 3: But anyway, keeping people on the hook and whatever, Like
• 44:11
  Speaker 3: I don't think it's a majority of people. But like,
• 44:13
  Speaker 3: whenever I see shit like this, I do have to
• 44:15
  Speaker 3: sit here and I'm like, is this what is this?
• 44:17
  Speaker 3: What straight people are doing? This? Is this how you're doing.
• 44:22
  Speaker 1: The Oh my god, you guys with your kids and
• 44:27
  Speaker 1: families and stuff. Okay, wait, go ahead, Yes.
• 44:32
  Speaker 2: Well then why was she commenting on men dating women?
• 44:37
  Speaker 2: She isn't even a woman who dates men, apparently, unless
• 44:40
  Speaker 2: she's by But whatever that means.
• 44:45
  Speaker 1: You know what it means when you say you're queer
• 44:47
  Speaker 1: these days, it means nothing. Don't put me in a box.
• 44:51
  Speaker 1: I am whatever I need to be in the moment. Yes, yeah, exactly,
• 44:57
  Speaker 1: that's what it means. Yeah, it's an identity without an essence.
• 45:00
  Speaker 1: It is not essential for me to tell you what
• 45:02
  Speaker 1: I am about. That's what it means.
• 45:05
  Speaker 2: So I can put you in a box, so I
• 45:08
  Speaker 2: can be the negative space that constrains you to the
• 45:12
  Speaker 2: smallest possible position.
• 45:13
  Speaker 1: She wants to put you in a box and then
• 45:16
  Speaker 1: put that box at another box and mail that box
• 45:18
  Speaker 1: to herself and then smash it with a hammer.
• 45:26
  Speaker 2: I get it. But but but what I'm getting at
• 45:28
  Speaker 2: is' she said, with great self confidence that she knew
• 45:38
  Speaker 2: what was going on with men dating women, and now
• 45:41
  Speaker 2: apparently it's a high probability she isn't even a woman
• 45:45
  Speaker 2: who dates men. So what is her friend group? Presumably
• 45:51
  Speaker 2: other ideologically motivated women of a lesbian persuasion, anyone.
• 46:00
  Speaker 1: Who could tolerate those plushies in that haircut, which is
• 46:03
  Speaker 1: probably a pretty narrow, narrow spectrum.
• 46:07
  Speaker 2: Well, I would imagine. I don't know how many old
• 46:09
  Speaker 2: school lesbians are left, but I'm pretty sure they would
• 46:13
  Speaker 2: look at that and say nope and just move on.
• 46:17
  Speaker 2: It's like, Okay, that is a red flag for late
• 46:22
  Speaker 2: night beatings. Okay, but yeah, this is so. But my
• 46:27
  Speaker 2: overall point is she is opining about something which she
• 46:31
  Speaker 2: doesn't even have secondhand knowledge of. I mean, at least
• 46:35
  Speaker 2: Emily probably has experienced dating men. I don't know if she.
• 46:42
  Speaker 2: The thing is that, if she's a reasonable woman, maybe
• 46:45
  Speaker 2: she did have more men that she was interested in
• 46:50
  Speaker 2: at a time, but she chose a man who was
• 46:53
  Speaker 2: within her reach and then he chose her, and that
• 46:58
  Speaker 2: was it, right. I mean, if two people are dating
• 47:02
  Speaker 2: casually and then they're dating more than one person at
• 47:05
  Speaker 2: a time, you know what, you just it's just something
• 47:09
  Speaker 2: that sort of has to be at this point, right,
• 47:12
  Speaker 2: But if she's reasonable and sounds like she is because
• 47:14
  Speaker 2: she's married, then she found her guy, she locked her
• 47:18
  Speaker 2: locked him in, and then moved on, So that doesn't
• 47:21
  Speaker 2: necessarily mean that she's projecting. In fact, the fact that
• 47:25
  Speaker 2: she managed to lock in a guy would suggest she isn't.
• 47:29
  Speaker 2: That she's actually remarking on the behavior of women that
• 47:32
  Speaker 2: she's observed, because this kind of behavior, it is horrible
• 47:36
  Speaker 2: for men to be on the receiving side, but the
• 47:41
  Speaker 2: end of the day, women are alone too. This kind
• 47:45
  Speaker 2: of behavior leaves them alone too. All right, let's keep going.
• 47:49
  Speaker 3: Yeah, all right, Like I'm so exhausted just watching these
• 47:54
  Speaker 3: people talk about mind games because like, we're adults, right
• 48:00
  Speaker 3: like this.
• 48:01
  Speaker 1: You're like what, let's look at her for a moment.
• 48:04
  Speaker 1: She just said, we're adults.
• 48:08
  Speaker 3: Okay, all right, your fucking thirties grow up please, oh
• 48:14
  Speaker 3: my god, Like this is.
• 48:15
  Speaker 1: The behavior said the woman with rainbow hair, grow up?
• 48:21
  Speaker 2: Okay wait wait.
• 48:22
  Speaker 1: And plus she's okay and balloon animal earrings. I'm sorry,
• 48:28
  Speaker 1: I'm gonna be I'm gonna judge. It's ridiculous, like you
• 48:32
  Speaker 1: need to grow up, and she's she's got rainbow eyeshadow, like,
• 48:39
  Speaker 1: I'm sorry, that's you must have. Like, I don't know
• 48:43
  Speaker 1: what your job is. I guess it's to make videos
• 48:45
  Speaker 1: for the government. Yeah, probably, yeah, no, probably, yeah, four
• 48:50
  Speaker 1: hundred subscribers.
• 48:53
  Speaker 2: The ecosystem and then this content just like the honest
• 48:57
  Speaker 2: to god truth is, this is what I think is happening.
• 48:59
  Speaker 2: The government is part is astroturfing and ecosystem, and then
• 49:02
  Speaker 2: any new random content that goes along the same line
• 49:05
  Speaker 2: just blows up because it has things to be to
• 49:08
  Speaker 2: be suggested beside. But going back to her maturity, you
• 49:15
  Speaker 2: know that people can talk about the behavior of toddlers
• 49:19
  Speaker 2: and how to deal with the behavior of toddlers without
• 49:22
  Speaker 2: being toddlers, right, Like this is some weird cargo cult thinking.
• 49:30
  Speaker 2: She's like, this woman is talking about the bad behavior
• 49:32
  Speaker 2: of women, and oh, that's mind games. Is it's childish.
• 49:35
  Speaker 2: She's talking about childish behavior and women. She must be
• 49:38
  Speaker 2: a child. It's like, no, it doesn't really work that way.
• 49:41
  Speaker 2: That's not really there's no transitive property happening here, lady.
• 49:45
  Speaker 2: You're just forcing it. I guess that's part of the
• 49:48
  Speaker 2: vagueness that you want to maintain to box everyone else.
• 49:51
  Speaker 1: All right, all right, let's listen to some more of
• 49:54
  Speaker 1: this a little bit, like a few more second.
• 49:57
  Speaker 2: We're just talking.
• 49:57
  Speaker 3: I want from sixteen year old. It's in the group chat,
• 50:01
  Speaker 3: you know. You know, it's like I'm talking to these
• 50:04
  Speaker 3: guys and I'm trying to get attention from this other
• 50:06
  Speaker 3: guy by like playing hot toget like that is what
• 50:08
  Speaker 3: teenagers do. That is the energy of a high school.
• 50:12
  Speaker 3: You're an adult.
• 50:13
  Speaker 1: Oh so congratulations, you've just identified that this is the
• 50:16
  Speaker 1: way women act today. Yes, and you can find like
• 50:19
  Speaker 1: videos of grown ass women on TikTok literally saying I
• 50:23
  Speaker 1: did all of the I played all these games, and
• 50:25
  Speaker 1: for some reason, I'm not getting a payoff. So yeah,
• 50:28
  Speaker 1: maybe you should tell women to act like adults. That's
• 50:31
  Speaker 1: a good idea. I applaud you, queer Kiwi. You're onto something.
• 50:35
  Speaker 1: Although no, that means actually holding women accountable. Never mind,
• 50:39
  Speaker 1: and that's.
• 50:39
  Speaker 2: Why they don't act like adults. Because you have a
• 50:42
  Speaker 2: problem with this woman calling out women's behavior. Why because
• 50:47
  Speaker 2: you don't think women should be held to a standard
• 50:49
  Speaker 2: of behavior. Because in order to be held to a
• 50:51
  Speaker 2: standard of behavior, they have to be criticized, and that's misogyny.
• 50:55
  Speaker 2: So because of that, you are constructing the very lens
• 51:00
  Speaker 2: that makes that does not produce mature women because women
• 51:06
  Speaker 2: are only going to grow up to the standard they're
• 51:09
  Speaker 2: held to.
• 51:10
  Speaker 1: That's it, okay, all right, next time code, So since
• 51:18
  Speaker 1: seventeen thirty, right here.
• 51:23
  Speaker 2: I'm gonna try to get rid of wobbly cam.
• 51:25
  Speaker 1: So, all right, can we talk.
• 51:28
  Speaker 4: About the man that works hard every day, fixes everything
• 51:31
  Speaker 4: around the house, and is involved with his children's lives.
• 51:34
  Speaker 4: And yet he's belittled, told he doesn't do enough, told
• 51:38
  Speaker 4: he doesn't earn enough money, and isn't even touched. That
• 51:41
  Speaker 4: man keeps pushing forward, He keeps going to work every
• 51:44
  Speaker 4: single day, he keeps fixing things around the house, and
• 51:47
  Speaker 4: he continues to play with his children. That man just
• 51:49
  Speaker 4: keeps on giving, and all he wants is a little
• 51:52
  Speaker 4: bit of respect and appreciation.
• 51:54
  Speaker 3: So that man does the bare minimum and what is
• 51:59
  Speaker 3: expected of him, Like he's literally doing what is required
• 52:04
  Speaker 3: of it, helping out around the house, he's looking after
• 52:06
  Speaker 3: his kids, and he's going to work. I'm going to
• 52:09
  Speaker 3: assume that the woman in that relationship is also doing
• 52:14
  Speaker 3: those things. Does she get praise and gratitude from her husband?
• 52:19
  Speaker 3: Or is it only expect to go one way. This
• 52:21
  Speaker 3: man needs to be thanked. He needs to be given gratitude.
• 52:24
  Speaker 3: He needs to be given like he needs.
• 52:26
  Speaker 2: To be The context is he isn't being given any gratitude.
• 52:31
  Speaker 2: He isn't getting any recognition for what he does because
• 52:34
  Speaker 2: it's the bare minimum. And yet I'm pretty sure that
• 52:38
  Speaker 2: if a woman was doing the same amount and wasn't
• 52:41
  Speaker 2: getting praised for it, you would say it's like unrecognized labor.
• 52:46
  Speaker 2: Probably unrecognized labor that should be subsidized by taxpayers. I
• 52:51
  Speaker 2: imusional labor.
• 52:56
  Speaker 1: Yeah, but of course, you know, feminists, they want to
• 53:01
  Speaker 1: make up new holidays just to like, you know, recognize
• 53:04
  Speaker 1: women's hard work. Like women get Mother's Day, they get
• 53:08
  Speaker 1: Father's Day, they get a single Mother's Day. I think
• 53:12
  Speaker 1: is coming out like they're gonna be dropping that. I
• 53:14
  Speaker 1: think it's in beta right now. They're catching up to
• 53:18
  Speaker 1: the number of trans visibility holidays that are showing up,
• 53:22
  Speaker 1: which also women get to just you know have so Yeah,
• 53:28
  Speaker 1: but no, I mean a man who busts his ass
• 53:30
  Speaker 1: all day and comes home to a thankless wife, well,
• 53:35
  Speaker 1: he's not allowed to anything. He's not entitled to anything
• 53:38
  Speaker 1: because of he's doing the bare minimum. I guess so, Yeah,
• 53:43
  Speaker 1: this is like not a new concept. We've seen this.
• 53:46
  Speaker 1: For whatever reason, women think, these women anyway, they think
• 53:49
  Speaker 1: it's kryptonite to say thank you to men. I don't
• 53:52
  Speaker 1: know why, but it's insane to me. But uh yeah,
• 53:57
  Speaker 1: there's a lot of rage.
• 54:00
  Speaker 3: Much to be like, thank you so much for doing
• 54:01
  Speaker 3: all of this. I don't know what I would do
• 54:02
  Speaker 3: without you. You're incredible, You're amazing. I love you. Thank you,
• 54:05
  Speaker 3: thank you, thank you. But does he do the same
• 54:08
  Speaker 3: for her, thanking her over and over again?
• 54:13
  Speaker 2: I mean yeah, Like, okay, men are still providing the
• 54:19
  Speaker 2: majority of the income, and they are doing according to
• 54:25
  Speaker 2: the Pew research, they do four hours of work plus commute,
• 54:31
  Speaker 2: plus household chores plus childcares. They do four hours more
• 54:36
  Speaker 2: than women. What they don't do is complain about it, right,
• 54:41
  Speaker 2: Like that does it really kill you to just thank
• 54:46
  Speaker 2: the man.
• 54:46
  Speaker 5: In your life?
• 54:48
  Speaker 2: Like?
• 54:48
  Speaker 7: Is it really?
• 54:49
  Speaker 1: Is it?
• 54:49
  Speaker 3: Like?
• 54:50
  Speaker 2: Are they going to implode? Is this like throwing water
• 54:53
  Speaker 2: on the wicked witch of the West. It's like gratitude
• 54:56
  Speaker 2: is the one thing that it's the universal solvent of
• 54:59
  Speaker 2: the female mind. Apparently, you're right, Brian, It's like it's impossible,
• 55:05
  Speaker 2: it's impossible. What would happen if this woman thanked her husband,
• 55:11
  Speaker 2: she would obviously implode on the quantity.
• 55:13
  Speaker 1: She would she would spontaneously combust like every drummer for
• 55:18
  Speaker 1: you know, you know.
• 55:20
  Speaker 2: I when I was a kid, that terrified me.
• 55:24
  Speaker 1: Spont combustion, Yes, yeah, scary. I don't know if I
• 55:29
  Speaker 1: was terrified that.
• 55:29
  Speaker 2: It would happen to me, that I would turn into
• 55:31
  Speaker 2: a little green blob. My father didn't help because he's like, yeah,
• 55:35
  Speaker 2: that happens all the time. Oh god, yep, all right,
• 55:41
  Speaker 2: all right.
• 55:41
  Speaker 1: So that's basically those are the main three for this video.
• 55:45
  Speaker 1: So we'll go to the next one where she responds
• 55:48
  Speaker 1: to That was Emily King. Now she's gonna be responding
• 55:52
  Speaker 1: to the DA advocates, which is a bit different. So
• 55:59
  Speaker 1: let me just share this and uh, here we go.
• 56:02
  Speaker 8: Joey, Okay, I need to woman explain the friend zone
• 56:05
  Speaker 8: because I just watched a video where a woman said
• 56:07
  Speaker 8: that the friend zone doesn't exist, and I've seen tons
• 56:10
  Speaker 8: of videos from women who criticize any men who use
• 56:12
  Speaker 8: the term as just being misogynistic pigs who only want
• 56:15
  Speaker 8: one thing out of women.
• 56:17
  Speaker 3: Interrupting you right there to say yep, yep, friend zone
• 56:21
  Speaker 3: does not exist, and when men use it, that is
• 56:24
  Speaker 3: what they're implying. So I'm excited to hear how you're
• 56:27
  Speaker 3: going to explain this in any other way, because that's
• 56:31
  Speaker 3: literally the definition, and.
• 56:33
  Speaker 1: These are all right. I'm pausing it there, so shout
• 56:37
  Speaker 1: out to the Davocate and Emily King, by the way,
• 56:40
  Speaker 1: And I think I did that at the beginning, but
• 56:42
  Speaker 1: in case I didn't, if in case it wasn't clear,
• 56:45
  Speaker 1: I like these two content creators, Emily King and the Dadocate,
• 56:49
  Speaker 1: even if I'm sure that there are places where we
• 56:52
  Speaker 1: differ on certain things. But it's okay. It's okay because
• 56:55
  Speaker 1: at the end of the day, we're all trying to
• 56:57
  Speaker 1: get to the same place, I think, and we just
• 57:00
  Speaker 1: have different paths that we're on, let's say. But anyway,
• 57:05
  Speaker 1: so the friend zone, there are like animals in the
• 57:11
  Speaker 1: animal Kingdom that FriendZone other animals and use them make
• 57:18
  Speaker 1: them think that you know that they're exclusive or that
• 57:23
  Speaker 1: they have a chance or a shot, and then they
• 57:25
  Speaker 1: go to somebody else. Maybe they use them as an
• 57:27
  Speaker 1: emotional tampon, as we like to call it. That is real.
• 57:31
  Speaker 1: I've seen it happen, I've had it happen to me.
• 57:35
  Speaker 1: We know that happens so like, and it doesn't mean
• 57:38
  Speaker 1: that because of course, what you know, the problem with
• 57:41
  Speaker 1: the existence of the friend zone is not that it exists.
• 57:44
  Speaker 1: The problem with it is that there, Well, it's a
• 57:49
  Speaker 1: couple of things. Like men that are in the friend
• 57:52
  Speaker 1: zone there they need the strength and courage to leave
• 57:57
  Speaker 1: and like stop essentially beat because that's what an orbiter is, right,
• 58:02
  Speaker 1: It's a guy that's hanging around a woman in the
• 58:03
  Speaker 1: hopes that she'll notice him, and if it doesn't, like
• 58:05
  Speaker 1: it's going to happen, he should move on. I think
• 58:07
  Speaker 1: it's it's hard for guys to do because they get
• 58:09
  Speaker 1: attached and maybe those women make them think that they
• 58:12
  Speaker 1: have a chance and so they stick around for that.
• 58:15
  Speaker 1: But they have to know when to cut that off.
• 58:18
  Speaker 1: But women have to know they have an effect on
• 58:21
  Speaker 1: men and that they should use that responsibly, you know,
• 58:25
  Speaker 1: Like I mean, I think that a lot of women
• 58:27
  Speaker 1: do know that they have that. But I'm just saying, like,
• 58:29
  Speaker 1: if you're aware of it, and you're emotionally exploiting somebody
• 58:32
  Speaker 1: because you want to, you know, you need to feel
• 58:35
  Speaker 1: comfortable once in a while, or you want to like
• 58:39
  Speaker 1: get something out of it. Maybe they'll use them for
• 58:42
  Speaker 1: free meals or for gifts or something, and they'll call
• 58:45
  Speaker 1: it friendship, which is what you know. A queer Kiwi
• 58:49
  Speaker 1: will say, well, you know, there's no such thing as
• 58:51
  Speaker 1: a friend zone, like men should just want to be
• 58:54
  Speaker 1: friends with women, And it's like, I think that. Then
• 58:56
  Speaker 1: we got to have a conversation on whether or not
• 58:59
  Speaker 1: that's possible, because I think there's a fair there's a
• 59:05
  Speaker 1: fair way to say that in a lot of cases
• 59:08
  Speaker 1: men and women, especially if they're young and sexually active
• 59:13
  Speaker 1: post pubescent, they're probably not seeing the opposite sex as
• 59:18
  Speaker 1: friendship material first, and that's just a complication that we
• 59:23
  Speaker 1: have to wrestle with. So maybe it's not that easy.
• 59:28
  Speaker 1: And uh, that's okay, So like I don't know, like anyway,
• 59:33
  Speaker 1: I'm sorry, alson, did you want to say anything?
• 59:36
  Speaker 2: You know, I think that in the interests of time
• 59:41
  Speaker 2: and also fixing the jigli camp, I might zip my
• 59:45
  Speaker 2: beak for a little bit, if that's all right.
• 59:46
  Speaker 1: Well, let me play the response here to this people
• 59:50
  Speaker 1: who just.
• 59:50
  Speaker 8: Don't understand what the term friend zone was supposed to me.
• 59:53
  Speaker 8: So again, a woman's blamed. Yes, there are some men
• 59:56
  Speaker 8: who honestly believe that if they insert enough friendship coins
• 59:59
  Speaker 8: into a woman and they are eventually entitled a girlfriend.
• 1:00:03
  Speaker 8: Those are called nice guys, but it is not the
• 1:00:05
  Speaker 8: same as being friend zoned. Getting friend zoned is when
• 1:00:08
  Speaker 8: a woman is not interested in a guy or attracted
• 1:00:10
  Speaker 8: to a guy, but she leads him on to believe
• 1:00:13
  Speaker 8: that she is so that she can attempt to manipulate
• 1:00:16
  Speaker 8: as much as she possibly can out of him. She
• 1:00:18
  Speaker 8: will use these men for emotional labor to validate the
• 1:00:20
  Speaker 8: shit out of her whenever she's dealing with an a
• 1:00:22
  Speaker 8: hole guy, but then disappear on him entirely when that
• 1:00:25
  Speaker 8: a whole guy starts talking to her again.
• 1:00:27
  Speaker 2: She keeps saying she's not ready to date you.
• 1:00:28
  Speaker 8: But then guilt trips the hell out of you if
• 1:00:30
  Speaker 8: you even so much to start talking to another girl.
• 1:00:32
  Speaker 8: Being friend zoned is when someone puts you into an
• 1:00:34
  Speaker 8: emotional freezer bag and stuffs you into the way back
• 1:00:37
  Speaker 8: of the freezer, thinking they can just take you out
• 1:00:40
  Speaker 8: to thaw and have no other existence anytime they need you.
• 1:00:43
  Speaker 8: A lot of men who have been friend zoned have
• 1:00:44
  Speaker 8: straight up told the girl, please tell me if you
• 1:00:47
  Speaker 8: don't like me, so I can move on, and they
• 1:00:49
  Speaker 8: get these bs answers.
• 1:00:50
  Speaker 2: Like no, I do like you, I'm just not ready
• 1:00:53
  Speaker 2: right now.
• 1:00:55
  Speaker 8: Trust me, the friend zone is very painfully real. And
• 1:00:59
  Speaker 8: if you have no idea what it's like, go take
• 1:01:02
  Speaker 8: a victory lap, enjoy good job.
• 1:01:05
  Speaker 3: I have many thoughts, So, for one, that's not what
• 1:01:09
  Speaker 3: friendship is, right. So I don't know why it would
• 1:01:13
  Speaker 3: be called the friend zone, because if your friendship is
• 1:01:18
  Speaker 3: based purely off of I will talk to you when
• 1:01:21
  Speaker 3: I need emotional labor and then neglect you entirely when
• 1:01:24
  Speaker 3: I'm in a relationship, and then come back once I
• 1:01:26
  Speaker 3: break up, That's not what a friendship is. That's not
• 1:01:29
  Speaker 3: what a friendship is. So I feel like friend zone
• 1:01:32
  Speaker 3: is not the correct way to describe that.
• 1:01:38
  Speaker 2: Yes, it's not a friendship because a friend would say, no,
• 1:01:43
  Speaker 2: I'm actually not interested in you in that way. I
• 1:01:45
  Speaker 2: appreciate the time we hang out, but you know, you
• 1:01:48
  Speaker 2: got to move on with that your romantic life, because
• 1:01:50
  Speaker 2: I'm not I'm not an option and genuinely mean it
• 1:01:55
  Speaker 2: not just try to reel them back in when you
• 1:01:57
  Speaker 2: when you I don't know, pook, he doesn't call you back, right,
• 1:02:02
  Speaker 2: That's that's the point. These women aren't being friends, they're
• 1:02:07
  Speaker 2: being exploiters.
• 1:02:12
  Speaker 1: Yeah, and it goes both ways, right, like women get
• 1:02:15
  Speaker 1: friend zoned too and when when you So essentially what
• 1:02:20
  Speaker 1: we're discussing really is not anything to do with friendship.
• 1:02:24
  Speaker 1: It's unrequitted love, right.
• 1:02:28
  Speaker 2: He just spam the crap out of the special.
• 1:02:30
  Speaker 1: Yeah, I put him in time out. It was just
• 1:02:32
  Speaker 1: it was just for attention, Alison, don't give in all
• 1:02:37
  Speaker 1: right or something. No, but it doesn't matter. They spam
• 1:02:42
  Speaker 1: the chat with a bunch of blather because they wanted
• 1:02:44
  Speaker 1: a reaction, and you give them a reaction, they win.
• 1:02:50
  Speaker 1: So let's not let them win, and let's just talk
• 1:02:53
  Speaker 1: about the video. So we actually they weren't. They weren't
• 1:03:00
  Speaker 1: addressing you. They were just.
• 1:03:03
  Speaker 2: So they weren't actually offering an argument. I mean, if
• 1:03:06
  Speaker 2: you are listening while you weren't offering anything the shorts chat,
• 1:03:11
  Speaker 2: we do respond to you, guys if you offer anything substantive,
• 1:03:14
  Speaker 2: So feel free to go into our chat and actually
• 1:03:17
  Speaker 2: make an argument for once.
• 1:03:18
  Speaker 1: Yeah, they're only in time out for like five minutes,
• 1:03:20
  Speaker 1: so they'll be back talking about ditty parties as soon
• 1:03:23
  Speaker 1: as it's back up. If you want to respond to that.
• 1:03:26
  Speaker 1: But anyway, so unrequited love is what we're talking about,
• 1:03:30
  Speaker 1: and yees. The truth is the dating as a method
• 1:03:36
  Speaker 1: of people pairing up is actually a relatively new phenomenon
• 1:03:40
  Speaker 1: when you look at the you know, most of human
• 1:03:42
  Speaker 1: history wasn't like that, especially at the scale that it
• 1:03:45
  Speaker 1: is now where people can meet online through dating apps.
• 1:03:48
  Speaker 1: Anybody in the world can reach out to somebody else
• 1:03:51
  Speaker 1: in the world. So this is like a difficult thing
• 1:03:54
  Speaker 1: to wrestle with. But what this ends up with are
• 1:03:58
  Speaker 1: very unfortun but facts of life, which is that sometimes
• 1:04:03
  Speaker 1: a man you know, becomes interested in a woman that
• 1:04:06
  Speaker 1: is not interested in him, and vice versa woman becomes
• 1:04:09
  Speaker 1: interested in a man that's not interested in them. And
• 1:04:11
  Speaker 1: one of the ways they try, you know, because like
• 1:04:14
  Speaker 1: anybody they're interested in, like say romantically or sexually, you
• 1:04:18
  Speaker 1: are first going to like want to get to know, right,
• 1:04:22
  Speaker 1: because you don't want to just be like, I think
• 1:04:23
  Speaker 1: you're hot, let's make babies, right, You just you're just like, okay,
• 1:04:27
  Speaker 1: this they're this woman's attractive, Who are they? What kind
• 1:04:31
  Speaker 1: of person is this person? Right? Can I be friends
• 1:04:34
  Speaker 1: with them? Because like if you marry someone for their
• 1:04:37
  Speaker 1: looks when you're both eighty, you are still with that
• 1:04:40
  Speaker 1: person unless you get divorced, so you might as well
• 1:04:43
  Speaker 1: like make sure that they're a person you can put
• 1:04:45
  Speaker 1: up with until you're eighty. So that's like you got
• 1:04:50
  Speaker 1: to make friends with people you will like end up
• 1:04:54
  Speaker 1: in a relationship with, and these things can't really be separated.
• 1:04:59
  Speaker 1: And I think think that in most cases that's what
• 1:05:01
  Speaker 1: men are looking for, because they want a woman that
• 1:05:04
  Speaker 1: is not just physically attractive, which I think it's overstated
• 1:05:08
  Speaker 1: when it comes to men's desires in women. I think
• 1:05:10
  Speaker 1: that's really overstated because it makes it sound like that's
• 1:05:12
  Speaker 1: almost like the only thing when men want, and it's
• 1:05:15
  Speaker 1: just not true. I think that the average man wants
• 1:05:20
  Speaker 1: a woman that is going to be fun to be around.
• 1:05:23
  Speaker 1: They're going to have things in common, they share similar
• 1:05:26
  Speaker 1: you know, values. They're going that she's gonna be a
• 1:05:29
  Speaker 1: woman of some kind of you know, integrity and honor,
• 1:05:34
  Speaker 1: and that she's not like a hot mess like the end,
• 1:05:38
  Speaker 1: that she will bring peace into his world. Like that's
• 1:05:42
  Speaker 1: the kind of stuff that people want in their partners. Okay,
• 1:05:45
  Speaker 1: and sometimes that's just not the way it goes. But
• 1:05:49
  Speaker 1: you make friends in the meantime till you figure it out.
• 1:05:52
  Speaker 1: And where the friend zone comes in is when you
• 1:05:55
  Speaker 1: get into this area where it's really murky and you
• 1:05:57
  Speaker 1: can't tell if she's into you or not, and you know,
• 1:06:01
  Speaker 1: and you have tried to, like, you know, get to
• 1:06:04
  Speaker 1: know her in that way or whatever, or she strings
• 1:06:07
  Speaker 1: you along, which is totally something that happens, but I
• 1:06:09
  Speaker 1: mean it's happened the other way. I remember this girl
• 1:06:11
  Speaker 1: that I knew. She was really unattractive, unfortunately, but more
• 1:06:16
  Speaker 1: than that she was she was she had an ugly personality,
• 1:06:20
  Speaker 1: like she was like a friend of a friend, like
• 1:06:21
  Speaker 1: I would never hang out with her, but she was
• 1:06:24
  Speaker 1: a friend of a friend of mine, and she was
• 1:06:28
  Speaker 1: really angry and butt hurt and cut off this guy
• 1:06:32
  Speaker 1: she knew who she had a crush on but did
• 1:06:36
  Speaker 1: not reciprocate. And when I and I was like, well
• 1:06:39
  Speaker 1: who is this guy? And he was like he was
• 1:06:40
  Speaker 1: like in a fucking like rock band and he was
• 1:06:44
  Speaker 1: obviously like a you know, like a pussy killer, like
• 1:06:47
  Speaker 1: a like an absolute you know, chad of a guy.
• 1:06:51
  Speaker 1: And he was in a band and he played instruments
• 1:06:54
  Speaker 1: and he made good money, and she was so mad
• 1:06:56
  Speaker 1: that he would didn't want her, and she looked I mean,
• 1:07:00
  Speaker 1: I don't want to be mean, but she she was
• 1:07:02
  Speaker 1: like something out of like mor door, like, she was
• 1:07:04
  Speaker 1: not a good looking woman, and she was not a
• 1:07:06
  Speaker 1: nice person either, and so when he rejected her, she
• 1:07:12
  Speaker 1: she got like, you know, uh a be in her
• 1:07:16
  Speaker 1: bonnet about all men and essentially blamed that experience on
• 1:07:21
  Speaker 1: all men. And and I think that even when men
• 1:07:24
  Speaker 1: have negative experiences with women, they don't usually go on
• 1:07:30
  Speaker 1: like this whole like, well, all women are terrible. Now.
• 1:07:33
  Speaker 1: I think that generally most men are willing to give
• 1:07:37
  Speaker 1: the yeah, well yeah, there they they want more data
• 1:07:40
  Speaker 1: to back up their thesis at least. But what I'm
• 1:07:45
  Speaker 1: saying is ultimately, like unrequited love happens, and sometimes, you know,
• 1:07:50
  Speaker 1: it's a bit of a mixed bag, right, because she's
• 1:07:52
  Speaker 1: saying men are not entitled to anything for a woman
• 1:07:56
  Speaker 1: outside of friendship if they don't want it, and that men,
• 1:07:59
  Speaker 1: you know, being upset that they were put in the
• 1:08:02
  Speaker 1: friend zone is wrong for them, and that they should
• 1:08:06
  Speaker 1: remain her friend anyway, because you know, it's wrong not
• 1:08:12
  Speaker 1: to It means you're a bad person or whatever. They
• 1:08:14
  Speaker 1: try to shame men into staying friends with somebody that
• 1:08:17
  Speaker 1: they don't want to be friends with if there's not
• 1:08:20
  Speaker 1: going to be, you know, a romantic outcome, And I
• 1:08:25
  Speaker 1: think that that's stupid. I think that if you if
• 1:08:28
  Speaker 1: men aren't interested, or if a man becomes interested in
• 1:08:31
  Speaker 1: a woman and it turns out she's not interested in
• 1:08:32
  Speaker 1: him and he she strings them along and uses them
• 1:08:35
  Speaker 1: as an emotional tampon, then yeah, he has I think
• 1:08:40
  Speaker 1: it's okay for him to be unhappy with her and
• 1:08:43
  Speaker 1: not want to talk to her anymore. I don't think
• 1:08:45
  Speaker 1: that makes him a bad person. I think that it's
• 1:08:47
  Speaker 1: just him protecting his feelings because she may go and
• 1:08:51
  Speaker 1: just make disastrous relationship decisions in the future and he'll
• 1:08:57
  Speaker 1: have moved on and that's probably for the best. But
• 1:09:01
  Speaker 1: you know, I think it goes the other way. If
• 1:09:03
  Speaker 1: you're a person and somebody gets angry with you because
• 1:09:07
  Speaker 1: you like weren't interested in a relationship with them, then
• 1:09:12
  Speaker 1: that's well, you know, like you ultimately it's your call.
• 1:09:15
  Speaker 1: So I don't see where the problem. It's almost like
• 1:09:18
  Speaker 1: people don't want discomfort to exist, Like they don't want
• 1:09:21
  Speaker 1: there to be such a thing as having your you know,
• 1:09:24
  Speaker 1: feelings hurt because of one thing or the other. I mean,
• 1:09:28
  Speaker 1: it's gonna happen, it's but it's okay to be upset
• 1:09:30
  Speaker 1: about it.
• 1:09:32
  Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, I mean. Also, what I found is that
• 1:09:37
  Speaker 2: when men have trouble with dating, they try to systematize
• 1:09:42
  Speaker 2: it to figure out what they can do to improve
• 1:09:46
  Speaker 2: their odds. They actually don't go to women aren't worth
• 1:09:51
  Speaker 2: it or women are awful like you were talking about, Brian.
• 1:09:54
  Speaker 2: They usually go more to Okay, how do I improve my
• 1:09:59
  Speaker 2: filter so I can find the good woman? How do
• 1:10:02
  Speaker 2: I manage women's emotional needs in such a way that
• 1:10:06
  Speaker 2: I can maintain a relationship with them? How do I
• 1:10:09
  Speaker 2: become attractive to women? This is what I've seen over
• 1:10:12
  Speaker 2: and over again. It's not blanket moral rejection of women.
• 1:10:17
  Speaker 2: It's okay, this is an obstacle. Now how do I
• 1:10:21
  Speaker 2: overcome it? And of course, like I was saying with
• 1:10:23
  Speaker 2: the sluts and the pines brandt, if women are like now,
• 1:10:28
  Speaker 2: we're all flats. So you've got to deal with that.
• 1:10:31
  Speaker 2: And then men deal with it, and then they talk
• 1:10:33
  Speaker 2: to each other about dealing with it. Women turn around
• 1:10:36
  Speaker 2: and say, how dare you deal with what we asked
• 1:10:41
  Speaker 2: of you, are demanded from you? And it's like, well,
• 1:10:45
  Speaker 2: but they're just trying to deal with the reality that
• 1:10:48
  Speaker 2: you've constructed. We got rid of all of the controls
• 1:10:51
  Speaker 2: on dating and courtship, so now women can sleep with
• 1:10:56
  Speaker 2: multiple guys at once. They can hold on to this
• 1:10:59
  Speaker 2: dude you know that they enjoy in bed, but maybe
• 1:11:02
  Speaker 2: don't want a relationship with They can date these other
• 1:11:05
  Speaker 2: guys and it's a free for all. And men are
• 1:11:09
  Speaker 2: trying to deal with that because you sort of requested it,
• 1:11:12
  Speaker 2: and now their misogynists for saying that's that's a problem
• 1:11:16
  Speaker 2: they have to deal with. And it's like women think
• 1:11:20
  Speaker 2: that when men identify problems that women create, that means
• 1:11:26
  Speaker 2: that men are saying women are evil and not worth it.
• 1:11:30
  Speaker 2: And I'm watching men identify these problems women create so
• 1:11:34
  Speaker 2: that they can overcome them to continue to be in
• 1:11:36
  Speaker 2: relationships with women and form relationships with women. You see
• 1:11:39
  Speaker 2: what I'm saying. And it's like women are like, oh
• 1:11:41
  Speaker 2: my god, you hate us, you hate us, And men
• 1:11:45
  Speaker 2: are like, no, I'm just trying to figure out the
• 1:11:47
  Speaker 2: gigantic thorn maze that you've constructed between me and having
• 1:11:51
  Speaker 2: a relationship with you. I don't obviously, I don't hate you.
• 1:11:55
  Speaker 2: I'm still trying to get through the thorn maze, you know,
• 1:11:58
  Speaker 2: I'm just recognizing that you've constructed this for some reason,
• 1:12:03
  Speaker 2: possibly related to the mysteries of human reproduction. This is
• 1:12:07
  Speaker 2: the thing, although I hope guys are cluing into that
• 1:12:10
  Speaker 2: that because I think in the past men would be like, oh,
• 1:12:14
  Speaker 2: all of women's strange behaviors because they're they're the chaos,
• 1:12:19
  Speaker 2: you know, they're the the mysteries at the heart of
• 1:12:23
  Speaker 2: being human, creating new human life and all of this
• 1:12:27
  Speaker 2: mystical crap. But now women are still behaving in this
• 1:12:30
  Speaker 2: way and they're not giving birth, so it's it's actually
• 1:12:33
  Speaker 2: just bullshit.
• 1:12:35
  Speaker 1: It's actually That's another thing too, is I was gonna
• 1:12:37
  Speaker 1: mention this before. I think women really a lot of
• 1:12:41
  Speaker 1: them really don't like men talking about the situation because
• 1:12:46
  Speaker 1: they don't want men to figure them out, and they
• 1:12:49
  Speaker 1: and they are there is some pleasure in remaining that
• 1:12:55
  Speaker 1: mysterious mystery. Yeah, I think they get a lot of
• 1:12:59
  Speaker 1: power out of that because if men are going men
• 1:13:01
  Speaker 1: I just don't get women like. Women just love that.
• 1:13:04
  Speaker 1: And now men are just like, you know, sipping their
• 1:13:07
  Speaker 1: coffee like women. M well, and women get there get
• 1:13:12
  Speaker 1: better out of shape because they don't want men to
• 1:13:14
  Speaker 1: understand them. They don't want to be understood. It's like
• 1:13:17
  Speaker 1: they just like being like this force of nature. That's
• 1:13:20
  Speaker 1: why they like dance the woods naked and worship the
• 1:13:23
  Speaker 1: moon cycles like they love that. It's is it is
• 1:13:28
  Speaker 1: like another kind of control. It's basically like keeping them guessing.
• 1:13:32
  Speaker 1: You know, yeah, and men don't work that way.
• 1:13:36
  Speaker 2: I was just thinking, like you're yes, they like that
• 1:13:40
  Speaker 2: mystique and maintaining that mystique. I think men also like
• 1:13:45
  Speaker 2: that mystique. There's a lot of men who like that
• 1:13:47
  Speaker 2: kind of I have to be the most strongest and
• 1:13:54
  Speaker 2: swiftest and fastest and smartest to win the heart of
• 1:13:57
  Speaker 2: the mysterious forest maiden or whatever.
• 1:14:01
  Speaker 1: But the nymph in the in the lake right in
• 1:14:08
  Speaker 1: the lake like that mythology. I mean it's it's not
• 1:14:13
  Speaker 1: like basically if men just don't care about getting to
• 1:14:17
  Speaker 1: that yeah, which that it is happening. I mean, women
• 1:14:21
  Speaker 1: are getting mad about that. Why aren't you figuring out
• 1:14:24
  Speaker 1: this Rubik's cube? And men are like, no, it's okay,
• 1:14:26
  Speaker 1: I'm just gonna play some video games and watching mph
• 1:14:29
  Speaker 1: in the lake.
• 1:14:31
  Speaker 2: Why aren't you figuring.
• 1:14:32
  Speaker 1: Out you want, don't you want the sword? Yeah?
• 1:14:38
  Speaker 2: But yeah, that's uh. But I was just thinking as
• 1:14:41
  Speaker 2: you were saying that, like I struggle to try to
• 1:14:43
  Speaker 2: get people to understand what the hell I'm talking about.
• 1:14:46
  Speaker 2: I can't imagine reversing that and creating artificial complexity. It's like,
• 1:14:53
  Speaker 2: I maybe that's maybe that's why women on the spectrum.
• 1:14:57
  Speaker 2: Like there was somebody I said, I'm I'm probably on
• 1:15:01
  Speaker 2: the spectrum and they said, oh, I like you fourteen
• 1:15:03
  Speaker 2: percent more And I'm like fourteen percent. Where did that
• 1:15:07
  Speaker 2: come from? How did you come to that calculation of
• 1:15:11
  Speaker 2: fourteen percent? And I'm like, okay, no, it's just it's
• 1:15:13
  Speaker 2: just like you know how you if you want to
• 1:15:15
  Speaker 2: get rid of a vampire, you throw a bunch of
• 1:15:17
  Speaker 2: rice on the ground and they have to count every grain.
• 1:15:20
  Speaker 2: I think that they were they were triggering my autism.
• 1:15:24
  Speaker 2: But regardless, my point is that maybe the reason why
• 1:15:27
  Speaker 2: women on the spectrum are less like this is because
• 1:15:32
  Speaker 2: they struggle to be understood to begin with. You don't
• 1:15:37
  Speaker 2: need to be more mysterious when I don't know, you
• 1:15:41
  Speaker 2: think in you think in tactile metaphors or something. You're
• 1:15:46
  Speaker 2: already pretty miss. You're already struggling to be understood. You
• 1:15:51
  Speaker 2: don't need you don't need to make it worse.
• 1:15:54
  Speaker 1: All right, all right, let's just slay a little bit
• 1:15:57
  Speaker 1: more of this.
• 1:15:57
  Speaker 2: Maybe we should get to the end.
• 1:15:58
  Speaker 3: That is why, you know, when we talk about the
• 1:16:00
  Speaker 3: friend zone, it's kind of saying like, if I'm not
• 1:16:03
  Speaker 3: interested in you romantically and just want to be your friend,
• 1:16:07
  Speaker 3: then we have a friendship. And I think that friendship
• 1:16:10
  Speaker 3: should be valued. Friendship deserves more value than it has.
• 1:16:15
  Speaker 3: Sometimes you aren't romantically or sexually interested in someone, and
• 1:16:18
  Speaker 3: you should value that relationship that you have without that
• 1:16:21
  Speaker 3: Platonic relationships are incredibly important. I would say more important
• 1:16:25
  Speaker 3: than romantic and sexual relationships to be honest.
• 1:16:28
  Speaker 1: And uh no, I don't think so. And I have
• 1:16:31
  Speaker 1: lots of really close friends. But like, of course, if
• 1:16:34
  Speaker 1: you don't think that families are important, then maybe you
• 1:16:37
  Speaker 1: would think that friendships are more important than romantic relationships
• 1:16:42
  Speaker 1: or serious relationships. But I'm gonna say no. But maybe
• 1:16:47
  Speaker 1: this is because you want to live as a child
• 1:16:49
  Speaker 1: forever and some people don't. Okay, let me jump to
• 1:16:52
  Speaker 1: the next time code here, because I know that we're
• 1:16:55
  Speaker 1: running out of time. I don't want to let me
• 1:17:00
  Speaker 1: see it.
• 1:17:02
  Speaker 3: Here we go, it's right here, and let's get back
• 1:17:10
  Speaker 3: into some advocate.
• 1:17:14
  Speaker 8: We talk a lot about how guys don't pick up
• 1:17:16
  Speaker 8: on hints, and that's absolutely true, but I'm gonna let
• 1:17:19
  Speaker 8: you in on a little secret. A lot of them
• 1:17:21
  Speaker 8: absolutely do. You'll just never know because it has the
• 1:17:25
  Speaker 8: same results anyway. Because even if a guy does pick
• 1:17:27
  Speaker 8: up on your subtle hint, even if he has not
• 1:17:30
  Speaker 8: only picked up on it, but has analyzed it from
• 1:17:32
  Speaker 8: a thousand different angles, has seen three thousand different doghouses
• 1:17:37
  Speaker 8: from this hint, he's still not going to do anything
• 1:17:40
  Speaker 8: about it. Even if he gets it, he is going
• 1:17:42
  Speaker 8: to pretend that he has no idea what you're hinting
• 1:17:44
  Speaker 8: at why, because he is not going to reward this
• 1:17:48
  Speaker 8: behavior because he might get it this time. But if
• 1:17:51
  Speaker 8: he lets you know that, he's screwing over his future self,
• 1:17:54
  Speaker 8: that is not getting the future hints because you're gonna
• 1:17:56
  Speaker 8: come to expect it.
• 1:17:57
  Speaker 2: He can't let you think.
• 1:17:58
  Speaker 8: Hints work because he relies on proper communication skills to
• 1:18:03
  Speaker 8: keep the whole relationship afloat. If you can't put in
• 1:18:06
  Speaker 8: the effort to turn your hint into respectable verbal communication,
• 1:18:09
  Speaker 8: he's not going to put in three times that effort
• 1:18:12
  Speaker 8: trying to unscramble your unnecessary puzzle.
• 1:18:15
  Speaker 2: So you have two options.
• 1:18:16
  Speaker 8: Either keep dropping hints and enter a psychological stalemate, or
• 1:18:20
  Speaker 8: use your words and build a healthy relationship.
• 1:18:24
  Speaker 2: Choice is yours.
• 1:18:25
  Speaker 3: This bothers me a lot, because yes, communication is obviously important,
• 1:18:30
  Speaker 3: but like.
• 1:18:37
  Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, I mean no, it just reminds you that
• 1:18:41
  Speaker 1: scene from the notebook, what do you want? It's not
• 1:18:44
  Speaker 1: that simple, Okay, but let's play the rest of this
• 1:18:48
  Speaker 1: because of course she has to like contradict this, right,
• 1:18:52
  Speaker 1: and well, let's just listen to.
• 1:18:54
  Speaker 3: Her facial expressions and things like that is also a
• 1:18:59
  Speaker 3: form of communication. I think a part of relationships is
• 1:19:04
  Speaker 3: obviously getting to know each other really well, so you can.
• 1:19:08
  Speaker 1: Yeah, but how do you do that without being friends? First?
• 1:19:11
  Speaker 3: Uh, get hints from one another, Like, that's an important
• 1:19:16
  Speaker 3: part of any relationship. You should be able to pick
• 1:19:18
  Speaker 3: up on things that I'm hinting at. You should have
• 1:19:22
  Speaker 3: a somewhat like general understanding of what I'm thinking and
• 1:19:25
  Speaker 3: what I'm wanting, Like, you shouldn't always have to explicitly
• 1:19:29
  Speaker 3: say what you want. If you are picking up on
• 1:19:33
  Speaker 3: what I am hinting, then I have effectively communicated with you.
• 1:19:40
  Speaker 1: Okay, no you haven't.
• 1:19:45
  Speaker 2: Nope. I'm just fascinated by women who are so fixated
• 1:19:51
  Speaker 2: on their own internal processes, you know, and want to
• 1:19:56
  Speaker 2: like like that, want to be that mystery that's solved, right,
• 1:20:02
  Speaker 2: Like are you really that complex? Is there really that
• 1:20:05
  Speaker 2: much going on? Or is it just the mystery itself
• 1:20:08
  Speaker 2: is the only thing, the ability to remain mysterious and unknowable,
• 1:20:15
  Speaker 2: and once you actually know, there's not much there at all, Yeah,
• 1:20:21
  Speaker 2: you know.
• 1:20:21
  Speaker 1: And no, it's all it's I think it's also kind
• 1:20:25
  Speaker 1: of dangerous for men to act on women's hints these
• 1:20:29
  Speaker 1: days movements, so like why would they why would they
• 1:20:34
  Speaker 1: do that? Why would men put themselves at that at
• 1:20:37
  Speaker 1: risk by Like I wouldn't if I was in the
• 1:20:39
  Speaker 1: dating world, I wouldn't. I wouldn't respond to any hints.
• 1:20:42
  Speaker 1: I would only respond to direct, direct statements, right, Like
• 1:20:47
  Speaker 1: I would say, you got to tell me, because I'm
• 1:20:49
  Speaker 1: not putting myself in danger. And women created that climate.
• 1:20:54
  Speaker 1: So thanks, ladies, you did this.
• 1:20:57
  Speaker 2: Yeah, no, there's really really they're there's absolutely no reason
• 1:21:01
  Speaker 2: for this communication. I hope that she enjoys doing this
• 1:21:06
  Speaker 2: to her female sexual partners and friends. I suppose that
• 1:21:12
  Speaker 2: they really appreciate that, although really what seems to end
• 1:21:15
  Speaker 2: up happening is that when you have a group of women,
• 1:21:20
  Speaker 2: one woman is the one whose hints need to be
• 1:21:24
  Speaker 2: picked up on, and everyone else is a handmaiden to
• 1:21:27
  Speaker 2: her emotions. So yeah, they do this too in with themselves.
• 1:21:33
  Speaker 2: One only one can be the nymph of the lake.
• 1:21:38
  Speaker 2: Everyone else wants to bead on the shore, guessing what she's.
• 1:21:43
  Speaker 1: Not to speak. Fay, then you can't know what you
• 1:21:50
  Speaker 1: can't understand me, I'm such a woman. Let me frolic.
• 1:21:56
  Speaker 1: I will frolic in the woods now.
• 1:22:00
  Speaker 2: Yeah, but there's nothing really behind that, Like there's just
• 1:22:04
  Speaker 2: just a desire, Like it's like a thirteen year old's
• 1:22:07
  Speaker 2: desire to be like, Ah, you can't understand me. No,
• 1:22:10
  Speaker 2: you're pretty understandable. You're pretty understandable. You're fascinated with yourself,
• 1:22:17
  Speaker 2: and you want It's like that shit fuck shit stack,
• 1:22:25
  Speaker 2: except he directed it to war at men. I am
• 1:22:29
  Speaker 2: a cartoon character. I want to create a haze of
• 1:22:33
  Speaker 2: incredulity so you'll never be able to be like me.
• 1:22:37
  Speaker 2: It's like that, you just want to fart out a
• 1:22:39
  Speaker 2: haze and then disappear in the mist. Fart, fart, fart,
• 1:22:44
  Speaker 2: I am the nymph of the Hayes.
• 1:22:47
  Speaker 1: All right. Third one, which she thinks is a gotcha,
• 1:22:50
  Speaker 1: But like this.
• 1:22:52
  Speaker 8: Men say so much with their faces. Here are a
• 1:22:54
  Speaker 8: few of them and what they mean.
• 1:22:56
  Speaker 3: And she's pulling facial expressions with the text on screen
• 1:22:59
  Speaker 3: that says, don't do that. You're really doing that? Actually
• 1:23:03
  Speaker 3: not bad, that was wildly inappropriate. But I don't feel
• 1:23:06
  Speaker 3: comfortable enough to say anything beyond this expression. I tried
• 1:23:09
  Speaker 3: to warn you. I'm slowly spilling into the crippling loneliness
• 1:23:12
  Speaker 3: of a lifetime of being misunderstood, abandoned, and forgotten, and
• 1:23:15
  Speaker 3: I near an end of collapsing into myself like a
• 1:23:17
  Speaker 3: dying star. Obviously, that lost one's a bit of a joke,
• 1:23:20
  Speaker 3: But like this bothers me?
• 1:23:22
  Speaker 2: No, it's not, lady, Why does it bother you? You
• 1:23:26
  Speaker 2: know what's bothering her? Because she I swear to God,
• 1:23:30
  Speaker 2: these women identify with being a mystery. It's why she's
• 1:23:33
  Speaker 2: rainbow right. She wants to be as ethereal.
• 1:23:38
  Speaker 1: She thinks she's mythological or something right, Yeah.
• 1:23:42
  Speaker 2: Like ethereal and unobtainable, like an atmospheric phenomenon. I swear
• 1:23:47
  Speaker 2: what she has a problem with is that she's looking
• 1:23:50
  Speaker 2: at it and she's like, is there a mystery that
• 1:23:52
  Speaker 2: I am not? Ah, you can't. Men can't have their
• 1:23:55
  Speaker 2: own mysteries.
• 1:23:57
  Speaker 8: Men.
• 1:23:57
  Speaker 2: I can't be asked to understand men. Well, I mean,
• 1:24:00
  Speaker 2: you don't have to be. I don't even know why
• 1:24:02
  Speaker 2: you're talking about this. If you're a lesbian, go lesbian,
• 1:24:06
  Speaker 2: you know, like, go I enjoy your crazy ass fricking
• 1:24:10
  Speaker 2: community with its highest rate of divorce and probably domestic violence.
• 1:24:16
  Speaker 2: You know, go enjoy that. You know, it's really funny.
• 1:24:21
  Speaker 2: I remember, and this was in this was years ago
• 1:24:25
  Speaker 2: when I was in student government. We went on this
• 1:24:28
  Speaker 2: retreat and I shared a room with a woman who
• 1:24:34
  Speaker 2: was a lesbian. And you know, it's late night, and
• 1:24:38
  Speaker 2: for whatever reason, people like to spill their guts to me,
• 1:24:41
  Speaker 2: probably because I don't know why. You'd think that my
• 1:24:46
  Speaker 2: autism would probably prevent them, but for whatever reason, they
• 1:24:49
  Speaker 2: think I'm trustworthy. Huh. But anyway, so she's talking about
• 1:24:55
  Speaker 2: how everyone in the lesbian community is nutcase, and she's
• 1:25:02
  Speaker 2: she's just talking about that, and when I'm listening to it,
• 1:25:06
  Speaker 2: I'm not saying anything. I'm just like, Okay, that's unfortunate.
• 1:25:12
  Speaker 2: But it's like, even lesbians say this if they're if
• 1:25:16
  Speaker 2: they're being honest. I mean, what was different about this
• 1:25:18
  Speaker 2: particular lesbian was that she was very honest, more straightforward, and.
• 1:25:24
  Speaker 7: That this community is full of psychopaths, crazy making people
• 1:25:31
  Speaker 7: because they engage in this and there's no buffer, there's
• 1:25:35
  Speaker 7: no buffer, there's nobody.
• 1:25:37
  Speaker 2: To blame when you're in the community. Of course, they
• 1:25:39
  Speaker 2: blame men outside of the community for a lot of
• 1:25:41
  Speaker 2: the stuff that happens in it, but they really it's
• 1:25:44
  Speaker 2: really difficult to blame them for everything, so they end
• 1:25:48
  Speaker 2: up just feeding on each other and and getting into
• 1:25:53
  Speaker 2: this kind of idea that if you don't guess the
• 1:25:57
  Speaker 2: intentions of the lady of the lake, you're an immoral person,
• 1:26:00
  Speaker 2: you know. And it's just it's unfortunate. Women. Women with
• 1:26:08
  Speaker 2: women can produce a lot of toxicity.
• 1:26:11
  Speaker 1: Let me tell you, all right, yep, okay, uh so,
• 1:26:17
  Speaker 1: oh yeah, she's about to do her gotcha now, So okay,
• 1:26:19
  Speaker 1: it's time.
• 1:26:20
  Speaker 2: For a squish.
• 1:26:23
  Speaker 1: All right, here we go playing the video.
• 1:26:26
  Speaker 3: You cannot These were posted one after another two by
• 1:26:29
  Speaker 3: the way, you cannot sit here and make a whole
• 1:26:33
  Speaker 3: video about how women need to communicate exactly what they're
• 1:26:37
  Speaker 3: feeling all of the time, and that body language and
• 1:26:41
  Speaker 3: facial by.
• 1:26:42
  Speaker 1: The way, that's a straw man. She didn't say exactly
• 1:26:44
  Speaker 1: what they're feeling all the time. She said, just use
• 1:26:47
  Speaker 1: your words, that's that's all.
• 1:26:50
  Speaker 3: But anyway expressions and anything like that, that's not enough.
• 1:26:53
  Speaker 3: You have to use your words to communicate exactly what
• 1:26:56
  Speaker 3: you're thinking all the time, or men just aren't going
• 1:26:58
  Speaker 3: to understand, but then going and immediately being like, but
• 1:27:02
  Speaker 3: men don't have to you have to read about.
• 1:27:04
  Speaker 2: No, no, no, no, no, no, no, you don't understand.
• 1:27:08
  Speaker 2: These are situations where men aren't wanting to directly communicate something,
• 1:27:13
  Speaker 2: and she's interpreting it like they they are experiencing something,
• 1:27:18
  Speaker 2: they are expressing an emotion, and they're not actually going
• 1:27:21
  Speaker 2: to tell you because if they told you, you would
• 1:27:25
  Speaker 2: go full nuclear.
• 1:27:29
  Speaker 1: I don't know, nymph on them.
• 1:27:32
  Speaker 2: Oh yeah, hold of them, Yeah yeah yeah, they're just good.
• 1:27:36
  Speaker 2: You just be you, just so they don't. And she's
• 1:27:39
  Speaker 2: also inviting women to consider that men have their own
• 1:27:45
  Speaker 2: process and their own language. That's perfectly legitimate. Nobody has
• 1:27:50
  Speaker 2: ever really clear like there's a huge social idea that
• 1:27:57
  Speaker 2: women are the ways we are supposed to communicate. Women
• 1:28:00
  Speaker 2: are the ways that we spoke, The way that women
• 1:28:02
  Speaker 2: communicate is the way that should be communicated, That women
• 1:28:04
  Speaker 2: are good communicators, that women's are emotions or how they
• 1:28:07
  Speaker 2: process emotions is the way to process emulptions. So she's
• 1:28:11
  Speaker 2: fighting back against that and saying, hey, there's actually a
• 1:28:14
  Speaker 2: whole realm of communication that is inaccessible to you, ladies.
• 1:28:19
  Speaker 2: But these men are expressing this, but they're not going
• 1:28:23
  Speaker 2: to necessarily hold that against you or remind you of
• 1:28:29
  Speaker 2: it in forty years when you piss them off. They're
• 1:28:31
  Speaker 2: just expressing something and then they'll move on. This isn't
• 1:28:34
  Speaker 2: a situation where they're not communicating, so they're failing to
• 1:28:38
  Speaker 2: communicate something that's important to the relationship or their beliefs
• 1:28:42
  Speaker 2: about you. Right, there's a difference there. One is just
• 1:28:46
  Speaker 2: an an expression in the moment of a feeling, and
• 1:28:49
  Speaker 2: then the other is something that you're going to hold
• 1:28:52
  Speaker 2: on to and resent and implode a relationship over sort
• 1:28:55
  Speaker 2: of a different amount of stakes between what the man
• 1:28:58
  Speaker 2: is doing versus what the woman is doing. But also
• 1:29:01
  Speaker 2: this idea that like again that men communicate things in
• 1:29:06
  Speaker 2: ways that maybe women should extend themselves to understand. That's novel, Like,
• 1:29:12
  Speaker 2: that's not something that's often talked about. So I don't
• 1:29:16
  Speaker 2: think like Brian was saying, I don't think she's saying
• 1:29:18
  Speaker 2: that nothing should ever be communicated nonverbally, but that it
• 1:29:22
  Speaker 2: shouldn't always be on men, right.
• 1:29:26
  Speaker 1: Yeah. You also if a man makes if a man
• 1:29:30
  Speaker 1: makes a facial expression, you can ask him what did
• 1:29:34
  Speaker 1: you mean by that, and he'll probably just tell him,
• 1:29:37
  Speaker 1: probably tell you. He won't be angry that you're that
• 1:29:40
  Speaker 1: you're disenchanting his face, you know, by like getting the truth.
• 1:29:45
  Speaker 1: He'll be like, yeah, I don't think men give a
• 1:29:50
  Speaker 1: shit about that, Like.
• 1:29:52
  Speaker 2: Yeah, like yeah, if you ask him, he'll probably tell you.
• 1:29:55
  Speaker 2: He won't say something like well if.
• 1:29:58
  Speaker 1: I have I mean like when men make those a expressions,
• 1:30:00
  Speaker 1: it's kind of like involuntary right there. It's just like
• 1:30:03
  Speaker 1: a reaction. So it's like, yeah, yeah, but.
• 1:30:07
  Speaker 2: If you probably appreciate you asking, you know, or you know,
• 1:30:12
  Speaker 2: but he's not going to say something like well, if
• 1:30:15
  Speaker 2: I have to tell you, then it means that it's
• 1:30:20
  Speaker 2: it's not worth telling you, Like how do the women
• 1:30:23
  Speaker 2: phrase it? If I have to tell you, then that
• 1:30:27
  Speaker 2: is the problem.
• 1:30:28
  Speaker 1: Yeah, if I have to tell you, that's the problem.
• 1:30:31
  Speaker 1: It's not about the name problem, you know.
• 1:30:33
  Speaker 2: So it's like that that is the issue. It's not
• 1:30:36
  Speaker 2: the issue that men are communicating. Like this is the
• 1:30:39
  Speaker 2: strange kind of childish thinking. If she talks about men
• 1:30:44
  Speaker 2: community communicating non verbally, she immediately runs to, oh, well
• 1:30:49
  Speaker 2: that's uh, that's exactly the same as saying that women
• 1:30:53
  Speaker 2: should never communicate non verbally. Okay, let me let me
• 1:30:58
  Speaker 2: try to unravel this in my head. Excuse my autism, everyone,
• 1:31:04
  Speaker 2: excuse it for a moment, all right. She wants women
• 1:31:10
  Speaker 2: to play these games where men have to guess. And
• 1:31:13
  Speaker 2: then when dadvocate says that men sometimes communicate nonverbally, which
• 1:31:18
  Speaker 2: women miss, she's basically saying that's equivalent. So any nonverbal communication,
• 1:31:24
  Speaker 2: like recognition that maybe men should be their nonverbal communication
• 1:31:29
  Speaker 2: should also be recognized, is equivalent to Dad the kid
• 1:31:34
  Speaker 2: calling out women for making these mysteries that men have
• 1:31:38
  Speaker 2: to navigate and when they fail to, thinking lesser of them.
• 1:31:41
  Speaker 2: Do you see what I'm saying? This is non equivalent.
• 1:31:44
  Speaker 2: There's a false equivalency here saying that you know, nonverbal
• 1:31:49
  Speaker 2: communication exists and is a form of communication. Is different
• 1:31:53
  Speaker 2: than judging men for not being able to interpret your
• 1:31:57
  Speaker 2: mysterious nonverbal communication. I think, I think, I think Have
• 1:32:02
  Speaker 2: I communicated?
• 1:32:04
  Speaker 1: Yeah?
• 1:32:04
  Speaker 2: I think? So, Okay, please tell me in the chat
• 1:32:08
  Speaker 2: has has something? Has something been conveyed? Or do I
• 1:32:11
  Speaker 2: need to do more non verbal stuff? No?
• 1:32:14
  Speaker 1: Please don't. So I think that's it for that timeline.
• 1:32:20
  Speaker 1: But we're getting close to three, and there is like
• 1:32:23
  Speaker 1: this last video is not related to the other two?
• 1:32:26
  Speaker 1: So should we because I got to go pick up
• 1:32:29
  Speaker 1: Lindsay soon, So should we? Should we? Like maybe postpone
• 1:32:34
  Speaker 1: that one for another day?
• 1:32:35
  Speaker 3: Like?
• 1:32:36
  Speaker 2: What is this?
• 1:32:36
  Speaker 1: What is it?
• 1:32:37
  Speaker 2: What is it about?
• 1:32:38
  Speaker 1: It's called why Men? What you don't know? Why all
• 1:32:42
  Speaker 1: men suck ass? Why all men suck ass? And what
• 1:32:45
  Speaker 1: I've learned from that? And it's made by somebody name
• 1:32:48
  Speaker 1: not so Hot. Yeah yeah, okay, So it's just a
• 1:32:52
  Speaker 1: woman saying I hate men now and it's their fault
• 1:32:56
  Speaker 1: and and I've learned something from this.
• 1:32:59
  Speaker 2: So well, what is the most egregious time code that
• 1:33:03
  Speaker 2: she has?
• 1:33:07
  Speaker 1: I mean, it's in the title, I think, but let
• 1:33:11
  Speaker 1: me see, uh.
• 1:33:13
  Speaker 2: What entapsulates her thesis? Because I feel like I.
• 1:33:16
  Speaker 1: Feel like I think, yeah, no, I mean.
• 1:33:20
  Speaker 2: Just do one time code.
• 1:33:22
  Speaker 1: I've had.
• 1:33:24
  Speaker 5: I person with a very rough and you know, tough humor.
• 1:33:28
  Speaker 5: And the thing is when it's when you joke between
• 1:33:30
  Speaker 5: two different genders, you can go as rough as possible.
• 1:33:33
  Speaker 5: It's not gonna hurt, right, Like I can say the
• 1:33:35
  Speaker 5: meanest ship to a guy and he's not going to
• 1:33:37
  Speaker 5: punch me in the face hopefully most of the times.
• 1:33:39
  Speaker 5: But if I say it to a girl, you know,
• 1:33:41
  Speaker 5: to my girlfriends, most of them they're like, girl, that
• 1:33:43
  Speaker 5: was me, And I'm like, yeah, So that's why I like,
• 1:33:47
  Speaker 5: with my girlfriends are much more gentle, and with the
• 1:33:49
  Speaker 5: guy friends were just gross each other and generally.
• 1:33:51
  Speaker 1: I do not like to that doesn't say anything about
• 1:33:54
  Speaker 1: men and women that men can take a joke where
• 1:33:56
  Speaker 1: women can't. I mean, but that's not that it's not
• 1:34:00
  Speaker 1: the bit I'm looking for.
• 1:34:01
  Speaker 2: Hold on, okay, don't worry about it. You got plenty
• 1:34:05
  Speaker 2: of time.
• 1:34:05
  Speaker 5: Everybody's waiting, right, men and women into different different baskets.
• 1:34:09
  Speaker 5: Like I'm very like progressive about that. I just feel like, like,
• 1:34:12
  Speaker 5: especially like with this all political, technological, medical, like everything
• 1:34:17
  Speaker 5: advancements that we have in twenty first century. I thought
• 1:34:19
  Speaker 5: we're kind of like equal to each other. Of course,
• 1:34:21
  Speaker 5: we have our like biological differences, you know, our cycles
• 1:34:24
  Speaker 5: and the way we think, you know, like men post
• 1:34:26
  Speaker 5: of clarity and shit like that, but generally we were like,
• 1:34:28
  Speaker 5: you know, similar, and I think in I thought men
• 1:34:31
  Speaker 5: are capable of like basic understanding of feelings, emotions and friendship.
• 1:34:37
  Speaker 2: Boy oble Okay, it sounds like she's she's moving into
• 1:34:39
  Speaker 2: something interesting.
• 1:34:40
  Speaker 1: Men. Yeah, men don't have feelings?
• 1:34:42
  Speaker 2: Uh?
• 1:34:43
  Speaker 1: Okay, was that wrong? So like when so when you
• 1:34:47
  Speaker 1: tell jokes about women to women, they say, girl, that
• 1:34:52
  Speaker 1: hurt my feelings. And when you're telling the men, they
• 1:34:54
  Speaker 1: kind of laugh it off, or at least they don't
• 1:34:57
  Speaker 1: appear to be hurt. And then later you say, men,
• 1:35:00
  Speaker 1: I don't have feelings. So should men get offended at
• 1:35:02
  Speaker 1: you when you joke about them? Or does that expose
• 1:35:05
  Speaker 1: them as weak and therefore still worthy of scorn? Good
• 1:35:10
  Speaker 1: question to think about.
• 1:35:12
  Speaker 2: Yeah, didn't work out.
• 1:35:14
  Speaker 5: No, No, I've been served with this lesson than men
• 1:35:19
  Speaker 5: are trashed.
• 1:35:20
  Speaker 1: Do you think she's a comedian? By the way, this
• 1:35:22
  Speaker 1: is a small channel. It's like one thousand and sub
• 1:35:24
  Speaker 1: so not really, you know, punching down a little bit. Yes,
• 1:35:30
  Speaker 1: they could blow up overnight. I mean, we got our
• 1:35:32
  Speaker 1: pink lighting. She might know. Maybe there's certain colors the
• 1:35:36
  Speaker 1: algorithm grabs, and I think like the pinks and purples
• 1:35:39
  Speaker 1: they get picked up, whereas like you know, red and
• 1:35:43
  Speaker 1: black don't.
• 1:35:44
  Speaker 9: So since I was fifteen years old, So men have
• 1:35:52
  Speaker 9: been trashed since she was fifteen years old, is what
• 1:35:54
  Speaker 9: she's saying.
• 1:35:55
  Speaker 1: Since she was fifteen, men have been trash because a
• 1:35:57
  Speaker 1: fifteen year old man. Wait a minute, that's not a man,
• 1:36:00
  Speaker 1: that's a boy.
• 1:36:01
  Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, annoying, like teenage kids can be quite annoying.
• 1:36:09
  Speaker 1: Yes, I did some substitute teaching in a high school
• 1:36:13
  Speaker 1: and the girls were worse, though I'm not saying they
• 1:36:18
  Speaker 1: were glued to take. They were glued to TikTok and
• 1:36:20
  Speaker 1: social media. And I was like, do you guys have
• 1:36:23
  Speaker 1: like rules against this, like you know, no, apparently not.
• 1:36:28
  Speaker 1: Apparently not. Now the kids have phones in their pockets. Uh,
• 1:36:33
  Speaker 1: there there are no rules for that. Yes, I know,
• 1:36:36
  Speaker 1: antisocial contracts. It's called bisexual lighting. Yes, yes, I'm glad
• 1:36:40
  Speaker 1: that you know about I know about that. Yes, yeah,
• 1:36:46
  Speaker 1: bisexual lighting is like a certain it's it's literally a
• 1:36:49
  Speaker 1: dog whistle. I think, I don't know, it's everywhere though,
• 1:36:53
  Speaker 1: maybe actually in video games and movies. So well, that's
• 1:36:57
  Speaker 1: that that badger in the background is getting it's a
• 1:37:00
  Speaker 1: little it's a little magenda, but it's not on my face.
• 1:37:03
  Speaker 2: My face, I got no little too cyam my face
• 1:37:07
  Speaker 2: I think are yellow. Oh sallow, I'm a little too sallow,
• 1:37:11
  Speaker 2: but not sallow enough, you know.
• 1:37:14
  Speaker 1: Yeah, all right, okay, so listen.
• 1:37:16
  Speaker 5: More my face every time, just like, no, but this
• 1:37:20
  Speaker 5: guy's different. No, but he's actually being a good friend.
• 1:37:23
  Speaker 5: Oh no, he actually cared for me. I used to
• 1:37:30
  Speaker 5: judge the cynical hatement, you know, especially when they're like
• 1:37:33
  Speaker 5: in their forties and fifteen certainly doesn't matter.
• 1:37:36
  Speaker 1: I just yeah, she basically goes and talks about some
• 1:37:39
  Speaker 1: bad relationships. I don't know if there's like a specific
• 1:37:43
  Speaker 1: because like, look, you know, people get their heartbroken. It happens.
• 1:37:48
  Speaker 1: Some of them. They suck it up. They try to think, Okay,
• 1:37:52
  Speaker 1: I'll you know, what, what what can I learn from this?
• 1:37:55
  Speaker 1: Like that's kind of a big thing, you know. What
• 1:37:57
  Speaker 1: do you learn from your mistakes? What do you learn
• 1:37:59
  Speaker 1: from your bad experiences? What do you learn from like
• 1:38:02
  Speaker 1: terrible things even if it's shit that happened to you
• 1:38:04
  Speaker 1: that you didn't contribute to in any way, there's still
• 1:38:07
  Speaker 1: always something to learn from that. It isn't in its
• 1:38:11
  Speaker 1: own way a blessing. But some people put that on
• 1:38:15
  Speaker 1: the internet. I don't think I would never do that.
• 1:38:18
  Speaker 1: I try not to do that. I think the last
• 1:38:20
  Speaker 1: thing was like when I had cancer, But I think
• 1:38:22
  Speaker 1: everybody had to learn that I had cancer so they
• 1:38:24
  Speaker 1: could understand why I wasn't around for a while. But uh,
• 1:38:29
  Speaker 1: but yeah, like if I don't know, I.
• 1:38:32
  Speaker 2: Think that's reasonable if you have like an ongoing audience,
• 1:38:36
  Speaker 2: you know, like it's not drama, it's just if you know,
• 1:38:41
  Speaker 2: getting people want to know if you're okay, right, yeah.
• 1:38:45
  Speaker 1: I guess, well yeah yeah, sure, sure, sure, yeah sure.
• 1:38:49
  Speaker 1: But like in her case, I think it's just like,
• 1:38:51
  Speaker 1: you know, all men are trash, and here's why, and
• 1:38:53
  Speaker 1: here's two stories of I think it's like two stories
• 1:38:57
  Speaker 1: she tells about like some you know, bad spence she had.
• 1:39:02
  Speaker 1: And yet I have to wonder, like what if you
• 1:39:09
  Speaker 1: contributed to those problems and you didn't, you don't think
• 1:39:12
  Speaker 1: that there's anything that you could learn from that that
• 1:39:15
  Speaker 1: you could use to make you a better person. And
• 1:39:17
  Speaker 1: if you if let's say the first and I mean
• 1:39:20
  Speaker 1: I would say that most people don't get it right
• 1:39:21
  Speaker 1: the first time anyway. So if your first relationship was
• 1:39:24
  Speaker 1: a disaster, maybe you got involved for the wrong reasons,
• 1:39:29
  Speaker 1: you know whatever.
• 1:39:30
  Speaker 2: So how long are these how long are these stories?
• 1:39:34
  Speaker 2: You do one?
• 1:39:34
  Speaker 1: Well, this video is like half an hour, So.
• 1:39:37
  Speaker 2: Oh my god, she does these stories take a half
• 1:39:39
  Speaker 2: an hour to tell?
• 1:39:40
  Speaker 1: Well? Yeah, it's like the whole video is like her
• 1:39:43
  Speaker 1: two examples of like what you know? She Yeah, those
• 1:39:51
  Speaker 1: are two examples of why men suck? Right, that's the video.
• 1:39:55
  Speaker 1: I think unless Richard Beierre knows something that I don't know,
• 1:39:59
  Speaker 1: I'm unfortunately get to watch this whole thing because I
• 1:40:02
  Speaker 1: value my own sanity.
• 1:40:04
  Speaker 2: Yeah, at this point, like, uh, let's just let me
• 1:40:08
  Speaker 2: just take a look. Let me take a look really quick.
• 1:40:11
  Speaker 2: I know that you got to go soon here.
• 1:40:12
  Speaker 1: This doesn't have to be up, so I can't, like,
• 1:40:15
  Speaker 1: but I do have three main top top time codes
• 1:40:20
  Speaker 1: where she talks about stuff. So all right, let me
• 1:40:25
  Speaker 1: just jump ahead to like eight minutes in almost like
• 1:40:30
  Speaker 1: and again, she's a comedian, so she's like using this
• 1:40:33
  Speaker 1: to like I think that what she's really doing is
• 1:40:36
  Speaker 1: doing like a Janine Garoffalo bit, who is a If
• 1:40:40
  Speaker 1: you don't know, Jenny Garoffalo is a very very popular,
• 1:40:44
  Speaker 1: famous feminist comedian that did some movies and stuff, and
• 1:40:49
  Speaker 1: she also hates men. She dated Ben Siller for a
• 1:40:52
  Speaker 1: while and I don't know how to feel about that,
• 1:40:54
  Speaker 1: but but he they did break up. I think Ben
• 1:40:58
  Speaker 1: Siller got out of there, which says something thing about But.
• 1:41:02
  Speaker 5: Anyway, because I'm a wise woman, you know, am I?
• 1:41:13
  Speaker 5: So there's a three levels of betrayal.
• 1:41:15
  Speaker 1: So well, she's sitting on the floor, eating chocolates and
• 1:41:18
  Speaker 1: drinking tea. She's in between This is like the female
• 1:41:23
  Speaker 1: equivalent of being in between jobs for unemployed people. She's
• 1:41:28
  Speaker 1: in between boyfriends. I think. So that's yeah, But women
• 1:41:33
  Speaker 1: in between boyfriends can they collect unemployment? Yes, it's called
• 1:41:37
  Speaker 1: simps and orbiters. That's basically what it is. That's what
• 1:41:40
  Speaker 1: a simp is. He's unemployment for women who don't have boyfriends. Anyway,
• 1:41:48
  Speaker 1: let's start.
• 1:41:49
  Speaker 5: But the closest one lover, you know, I'm a relationship
• 1:41:52
  Speaker 5: a long long time still together. Will not disclose who
• 1:41:55
  Speaker 5: he is. I respect his privacy. He's a private person.
• 1:41:57
  Speaker 5: I will not tell you what he's done. But let's
• 1:41:59
  Speaker 5: just say he off. So what I would do, I
• 1:42:03
  Speaker 5: would try to control him because I want the best
• 1:42:07
  Speaker 5: for him, right, I want him to succeed in life.
• 1:42:09
  Speaker 5: I like, I know what he needs to do or
• 1:42:11
  Speaker 5: what needs to be done for him to be good,
• 1:42:13
  Speaker 5: because like he has so much potential.
• 1:42:15
  Speaker 2: Okay, I'm trying to I don't think I need to.
• 1:42:18
  Speaker 1: Say anything, So there you go. She she tries to
• 1:42:21
  Speaker 1: control her boyfriends because she thinks she knows what's best
• 1:42:24
  Speaker 1: for them.
• 1:42:26
  Speaker 2: Brian, Yes, I don't think I need to say anything.
• 1:42:30
  Speaker 2: She's just I think she's just she She is both
• 1:42:34
  Speaker 2: her own example and her own counter argument, So I
• 1:42:40
  Speaker 2: just let her roll.
• 1:42:42
  Speaker 1: Yeah, Yeah, that's really that's it's true. There's nothing to say.
• 1:42:46
  Speaker 2: It's like, I'll use my I'll use my body language, No,
• 1:42:52
  Speaker 2: my expressions. Now we're going to respond in expressions.
• 1:42:58
  Speaker 5: Yea, with my he can become a huge, huge thing.
• 1:43:03
  Speaker 5: Right after wasting a lot of my nerves, I've realized you.
• 1:43:09
  Speaker 1: Can barely change yourself. You have you.
• 1:43:11
  Speaker 2: Ever tried changed yourself? Like?
• 1:43:12
  Speaker 5: Have you ever tried to become a morning person? Have
• 1:43:14
  Speaker 5: you ever tried to become a productive person? Have you
• 1:43:16
  Speaker 5: ever tried to like not talk shit about other people.
• 1:43:19
  Speaker 5: Imagine that, Like, imagine how hard it's.
• 1:43:21
  Speaker 9: Doing for yourself.
• 1:43:22
  Speaker 2: You know what you need to try?
• 1:43:23
  Speaker 1: Girls?
• 1:43:25
  Speaker 2: Okay, because she's just told on herself. She's not a
• 1:43:28
  Speaker 2: morning person, she's not a productive person, she's probably not
• 1:43:31
  Speaker 2: a particularly good person, and yet she thinks she's in
• 1:43:35
  Speaker 2: a position to change someone else for the better. I
• 1:43:38
  Speaker 2: think what she needs to change about herself is being
• 1:43:42
  Speaker 2: a bit more humble.
• 1:43:48
  Speaker 1: Okay, right you are yep? Okay, show so okay, we'll
• 1:43:59
  Speaker 1: play more this. But like I mean, she's basically giving
• 1:44:02
  Speaker 1: up the goat here.
• 1:44:03
  Speaker 5: So never change a man. You can never change him.
• 1:44:08
  Speaker 5: Do not be Barbara or the builder. And even if
• 1:44:09
  Speaker 5: you manage Barbara the builder, and even if you manage
• 1:44:13
  Speaker 5: to build a guy, most of the times he will
• 1:44:16
  Speaker 5: leave you once he becomes something else. In a lot
• 1:44:19
  Speaker 5: of cases, if a guy's an alcoholic or a bum
• 1:44:22
  Speaker 5: and you just like shape him into a guy like
• 1:44:26
  Speaker 5: his best self, he will leave you because he doesn't
• 1:44:28
  Speaker 5: want to be reminded what he was with you before.
• 1:44:31
  Speaker 2: He wants to have a clean slate and meet a
• 1:44:33
  Speaker 2: girl wants to be this once the man has once
• 1:44:38
  Speaker 2: the man has got your sword. He's got the sword
• 1:44:43
  Speaker 2: from the lake. He leaves you.
• 1:44:46
  Speaker 1: On the opposite is what happens? Well, first of all,
• 1:44:50
  Speaker 1: a woman, you should be asking yourself, if you feel
• 1:44:54
  Speaker 1: the need to change a man completely, what did you
• 1:44:58
  Speaker 1: like about him in the place? Like, if you feel
• 1:45:02
  Speaker 1: the need to change him completely, what did you ever
• 1:45:05
  Speaker 1: like about him? And if you change him enough to
• 1:45:08
  Speaker 1: the point where nothing that he was is you know,
• 1:45:12
  Speaker 1: like if you you basically like separated him from his
• 1:45:14
  Speaker 1: entire identity and you left him as a shell of
• 1:45:16
  Speaker 1: his former self because everything that he did you criticized
• 1:45:20
  Speaker 1: into oblivion, you may not be interested in him anymore
• 1:45:24
  Speaker 1: because the man that you liked you killed. But like
• 1:45:29
  Speaker 1: what what? What? Like why are we even having this conversation?
• 1:45:34
  Speaker 1: Like you know, it's it's okay to have standards, but like,
• 1:45:40
  Speaker 1: and I get that where all works in progress, but
• 1:45:43
  Speaker 1: it depends on like, if you want to fundamentally change
• 1:45:46
  Speaker 1: who this person is, then who the hell did you
• 1:45:49
  Speaker 1: like begin to like to begin with? And yeah, what
• 1:45:52
  Speaker 1: are you making this person into? Like or you know,
• 1:45:56
  Speaker 1: and and once you do, first of all, what what
• 1:45:59
  Speaker 1: is left of that person after you've done all that?
• 1:46:03
  Speaker 1: And also do you like what's left because the person
• 1:46:06
  Speaker 1: that you liked was there like whatever he had right whatever,
• 1:46:10
  Speaker 1: you know, if it was like, man, you just don't
• 1:46:12
  Speaker 1: have that like spark in you anymore that I fell
• 1:46:15
  Speaker 1: in love with? What happened to that? You were smiling
• 1:46:17
  Speaker 1: and like high energy and so much fun And now
• 1:46:20
  Speaker 1: you're not, now that I've taken everything out of you
• 1:46:23
  Speaker 1: like that that I didn't that I nitpicked or my
• 1:46:25
  Speaker 1: girlfriends told me to nitpick or whatever, and now there's
• 1:46:27
  Speaker 1: nothing left but a shell. And I don't like the shell.
• 1:46:30
  Speaker 1: What happened to the thing I was making?
• 1:46:34
  Speaker 2: You?
• 1:46:34
  Speaker 1: Overworked? The clay lady.
• 1:46:37
  Speaker 2: No, it's just now it's just a slurry. Now it's
• 1:46:40
  Speaker 2: just slip. All you you clay nerds, will understand what
• 1:46:44
  Speaker 2: that meant. I just wanted to add when did it's okay?
• 1:46:51
  Speaker 2: So somebody said, well, maybe she's the problem. No, she
• 1:46:54
  Speaker 2: she says that she's the problem. She acknowledges it. But
• 1:46:58
  Speaker 2: you know, it's this new We're in this ironic post
• 1:47:02
  Speaker 2: man eater world where you acknowledge as a woman all
• 1:47:06
  Speaker 2: of the awful shit that you are. And that's cool.
• 1:47:10
  Speaker 5: You know that just.
• 1:47:11
  Speaker 2: Makes you edgy.
• 1:47:13
  Speaker 1: It's not even that it's like, it's I think it's
• 1:47:16
  Speaker 1: you know, I think there are women going that, Oh,
• 1:47:19
  Speaker 1: I'm so glad you said that, because that's exactly me.
• 1:47:21
  Speaker 1: I mean, I didn't I don't want to look in
• 1:47:23
  Speaker 1: the comments, but yeah, I mean they're just admitting it.
• 1:47:26
  Speaker 1: Because when you feel like you are so righteous about
• 1:47:31
  Speaker 1: your opinions on things, no matter how abhorrent they are,
• 1:47:34
  Speaker 1: then you just put them out there because like, why
• 1:47:36
  Speaker 1: would anyone shame you for having the right opinions.
• 1:47:40
  Speaker 2: I'm just saying that there's this kind of it's kind
• 1:47:44
  Speaker 2: of dirty girl chic going on, like she's she's she
• 1:47:49
  Speaker 2: knows that she's a hot mess, and she's proud of
• 1:47:53
  Speaker 2: it almost, you know, and it's it's it's a little
• 1:47:57
  Speaker 2: bit weird, to be honest, I'm trying to think of
• 1:48:02
  Speaker 2: this weird. Yeah, Okay, let's is there? Does she go
• 1:48:06
  Speaker 2: any further with I mean, Harry Cavell, is that is? That?
• 1:48:09
  Speaker 1: Isn't that Harry Cavill, Henry Cavill.
• 1:48:11
  Speaker 2: Henry Cavill. Sorry, I'm not really good with names or celebrities.
• 1:48:16
  Speaker 2: I wasn't. I was like a toss up that that
• 1:48:18
  Speaker 2: was that guy? Well, the definition of a perfect guy.
• 1:48:21
  Speaker 2: I'm pretty sure you disagree with him politically though, so
• 1:48:23
  Speaker 2: not really. I guess he's a work in progress.
• 1:48:26
  Speaker 1: He is. Yes, she'll probably make him into something unrecognizable
• 1:48:31
  Speaker 1: and then like break up with him.
• 1:48:32
  Speaker 2: Sorry, my pain is coming back. That's why I have
• 1:48:34
  Speaker 2: to put my eyeglasses back on. For all of you,
• 1:48:38
  Speaker 2: you were like, oh, what's with that? What's with the
• 1:48:40
  Speaker 2: safety glasses? I can I can either do a stream
• 1:48:45
  Speaker 2: that's lit, or I can do a stream in the
• 1:48:47
  Speaker 2: dark and you can just see me just like with
• 1:48:50
  Speaker 2: you know, a little shade creature coming to you from
• 1:48:54
  Speaker 2: the dark. Very mysterious. Though maybe I should do that
• 1:48:57
  Speaker 2: be very feminine. Okay, let's not.
• 1:49:00
  Speaker 1: It's I mean, it's it's we should be wrapping it
• 1:49:03
  Speaker 1: up because I.
• 1:49:04
  Speaker 2: Gotta go yeah, yeah, okay, all right, right are we.
• 1:49:08
  Speaker 1: That's basically yeah, I mean there's not much. I mean,
• 1:49:11
  Speaker 1: she's kind of pathetic and she thinks it's funny. But
• 1:49:13
  Speaker 1: it's just cope. It's it's cope. It's all cope. All
• 1:49:17
  Speaker 1: these women are just coping because men are like starting
• 1:49:20
  Speaker 1: to like, you know, really wake up and and act
• 1:49:23
  Speaker 1: on that. And uh, some women are are understanding and
• 1:49:28
  Speaker 1: they're getting on board and supporting men, and these women
• 1:49:31
  Speaker 1: are just coping about it.
• 1:49:33
  Speaker 2: So yeah, all right, so I think I think we
• 1:49:39
  Speaker 2: have a super chow. And I got to thank you,
• 1:49:42
  Speaker 2: thank you to Richard Beer, completely unrelated to the content
• 1:49:45
  Speaker 2: of the video. He supported us for the tune of
• 1:49:47
  Speaker 2: one thousand bucks, So thank you Richard Beer.
• 1:49:50
  Speaker 1: All right, all right, all right, And.
• 1:49:54
  Speaker 2: Yeah, I just also, she's sort of grading to watch
• 1:49:58
  Speaker 2: that last one. I mean, Skittle's is also grading to watch.
• 1:50:01
  Speaker 2: But I think Skittles is just trying to cope with
• 1:50:05
  Speaker 2: I see the pain in her eyes. She just kind
• 1:50:08
  Speaker 2: of cope with being a lesbian.
• 1:50:09
  Speaker 1: It's like that being a mid.
• 1:50:15
  Speaker 2: She probably isn't that bad looking if you scrape the
• 1:50:18
  Speaker 2: makeup off, but I don't know how much filter she
• 1:50:24
  Speaker 2: puts on. But my point is that do you remember
• 1:50:27
  Speaker 2: that Bill Barr. It's not even my point. The thing
• 1:50:30
  Speaker 2: I wanted to bring up with that Bill Burr sketch
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  Speaker 2: about the lesbians, you.
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  Speaker 1: Know, oh yeah, sure, yeah, vaguely about like the lesbian
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  Speaker 1: domestic violence stats.
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  Speaker 2: Right, well, no, no, I think it was Bill Burr,
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  Speaker 2: but he's like you ever see a lesbian? Correct me
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  Speaker 2: if I'm wrong, It might not be Bill Burr. You
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  Speaker 2: ever go to like a lesbian bar and you don't
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  Speaker 2: don't look at the young lesbians who are just new
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  Speaker 2: and excited. Look at the ones who've been dating other
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  Speaker 2: women for like five years, and how they're just like
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  Speaker 2: grizzled and they're just at the bar and they're knocking
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  Speaker 2: back shots and they're just like, I've seen some stuff, man. Yeah, yeah, yeah,
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  Speaker 2: having flashbacks after having dated women for five years. And
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  Speaker 2: then you compare that to gay men who are so
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  Speaker 2: so happy it's almost illegal, just floating high.
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  Speaker 1: You know.
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  Speaker 2: Oh but yeah, that was pretty funny. So she's probably
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  Speaker 2: doing some serious cope because she has to date women,
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  Speaker 2: and I feel sorry for her.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, she doesn't have to make a political statement, just
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  Speaker 1: like humble yourself and maybe you'll you'll date a man.
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  Speaker 2: But the thing is that I don't know. I think
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  Speaker 2: if lesbian's ever like the political lesbian community, if you
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  Speaker 2: banned the word men from their lexicon, they would probably
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  Speaker 2: implode in thirty minutes. They have to have escapegoat in
• 1:51:59
  Speaker 2: order to keep themselves alive, because then they'd have to
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  Speaker 2: address all of the aggression and violence that they engage in.
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  Speaker 2: And I don't mean just physical, I mean verbal and passive, aggressive,
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  Speaker 2: and all of the dysfunction that comes out of two
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  Speaker 2: people doing things like.
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  Speaker 7: You should just know, well, you should just know well,
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  Speaker 7: you should just know.
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  Speaker 2: If you don't know what you did wrong, then that
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  Speaker 2: is the problem. Well, that's the very problem that you
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  Speaker 2: don't know what you did wrong because you should just know, well,
• 1:52:38
  Speaker 2: you should just know well. And it's like, okay, just
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  Speaker 2: how do you have a relationship like that with two
• 1:52:45
  Speaker 2: people saying you should just know? Of course, what ends
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  Speaker 2: up happening is one woman establishes herself as emotionally dominant,
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  Speaker 2: and it's the other woman who has to end up
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  Speaker 2: just knowing. And this is and this is not about
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  Speaker 2: like being common. This is not about being compassionate. It's
• 1:53:07
  Speaker 2: not about being cooperative. It's not about being kind or
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  Speaker 2: having greater emotional EQ. It's about using emotions as a weapon.
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  Speaker 2: Nobody should have to guess right, right. They shouldn't have
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  Speaker 2: to guess what you're feeling. And furthermore, they shouldn't have
• 1:53:25
  Speaker 2: You shouldn't be holding it against them if they don't
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  Speaker 2: guess right. That makes you a tyrant. It makes you
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  Speaker 2: a tyrant with a new tool to enact tyranny. Tyranny
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  Speaker 2: doesn't make you a good person. Ugh, all right, so
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